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Speaker 1: Arlow on the phone for a second date update and Arlow,

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Speaker 1: I saw your email and I read all about your date,

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Speaker 1: about that. But first tell me what's the girl's name?

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Speaker 1: Dina Dinah? Okay, Arlow, before we get too far into this,

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Speaker 1: do you know why she's not calling you back? Or

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Speaker 1: are you totally mystified? Um? I think there could be

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Speaker 1: When she arrived early for the date. How early is early? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: She was at least fifteen minutes early. Okay, so that's

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Speaker 1: little bit, coming back, Why don't you just say I'll

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Speaker 1: be right down, give me five. Honestly, I wasn't really

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Speaker 1: thinking it, just it just came out of my mouth. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Do you have an appointment? Yeah? Wait? What did she

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Speaker 1: this is an interesting strategy. Keep the girl waiting before

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Speaker 1: go then started your date or what? Yeah? She came

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Speaker 1: Can you just hold please? Okay, Jeffrey, we don't we

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Speaker 1: second date update. Hello. Hi, I'm looking for Dina. This

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Speaker 1: and there was so much silence, Like, I didn't know

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Speaker 1: what to say after that. It's a hard jumping off

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Speaker 1: point for the conversation. What do you turn it too?

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Speaker 1: So you like bacon for dinner? Yeah? Wow? So are

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Speaker 1: you saying? From that moment on it just ruined it

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Speaker 1: for you? And the day never got better. Um. At

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Speaker 1: the end, it got a little better. We started having

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Speaker 1: fun talking about a bad date path Okay, like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I went out what this guy named Arlo one? Yeah awkward.

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Speaker 1: Well I mean at least that's a good sign and

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Speaker 1: maybe things were getting back on track. Um. Yeah, But

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Speaker 1: then it came time to pay the bill and he

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Speaker 1: asked if I wanted to go back to his place,

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Speaker 1: which I think personally it's just kind of creepy on

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Speaker 1: a first date period, but it's the way he did it.

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Speaker 1: He said, So I think I'm recovered from earlier. You

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Speaker 1: want to go back to my place? No anything? But

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Speaker 1: what a charmer? Oh no, wonder you said no? I

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Speaker 1: mean I didn't even say no. I just knew I

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Speaker 1: was never going to see him again. Yeah don't. I mean, honestly,

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Speaker 1: I don't even know why he called us if it

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Speaker 1: sounds like he was just looking for a hook up

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Speaker 1: that night, I don't know. I mean, look, Dina, maybe

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Speaker 1: you'll never see him again, but you will have to

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Speaker 1: hear him again because I need to tell you. He's

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Speaker 1: been on the other line listening and he wants to

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Speaker 1: talk to you. He heard this. Yeah, he needed to

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Speaker 1: hear it. This is a good lesson. Okay, Harlow, you there,

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Speaker 1: I'm here. I love What are you doing? Don't on

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Speaker 1: the phone. I just mean, like Harlo, explain yourself, is

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Speaker 1: what we're trying to say. So no one in the studio.

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Speaker 1: So you really did you actually told her or at

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Speaker 1: least hinted at her what you were doing. I mean

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Speaker 1: she asked. You know, I wasn't gonna lie to her.

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Speaker 1: You know, you don't have to lie. You just don't

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Speaker 1: bring up that specific activity. Could have just said I

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Speaker 1: was busy. I was though, I was really busy. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we get it, man, Dina. Are you even still there? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm here, and he's not making it better. So, I mean, Harlow,

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Speaker 1: I think you need to try saying something to Dina

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Speaker 1: to get her to see you're not a horrible person. Well,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like, you're not some weirdo

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Speaker 1: that that's telling girls what you're doing all the time. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, listen, I'm a normal guy that does normal

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Speaker 1: kind things and I do normal guy things often. But okay,

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Speaker 1: stop stop saying normal guy things a million times. I'm

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Speaker 1: also a normal guy bro, just so you know. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: thank you. I appreciate that. I know too much. It's

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Speaker 1: not just the beginning of the day, it's how you

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Speaker 1: ended it too, telling her you recovered, Like, what is that?

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Speaker 1: In my defense, she already knew what I did before

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Speaker 1: I already told her. Yeah. Yeah, so she's probably wondering

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Speaker 1: if I'm ready to go, and yeah I was. I

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Speaker 1: don't know, Dina, were you wondering that? Is that the

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Speaker 1: thought you had is that what was going through your

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Speaker 1: mind wasn't what was on my mind at all? Oh?

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Speaker 1: What was on your mind, Dina? Not that? Yeah? Shocking that.

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Speaker 1: It really feels like you guys are all piling on

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Speaker 1: me right now, and it doesn't feel fair at all.

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is what guys do. It's normal. It's

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Speaker 1: I was just answering her question and trying to just

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Speaker 1: be cool. We're not saying we're not saying the action

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Speaker 1: wasn't normal. Okay, we're saying that the discussion was too much.

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Speaker 1: Here it is and now I have images of things

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Speaker 1: piling on top of each other. This is not good.

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Speaker 1: We need to end this stuff. Yeah, and let me

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Speaker 1: just ask Dina, would you like to go out on

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Speaker 1: another date with Arlo? Will pay for it? Yes? No? Yeah, Arla, man,

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Speaker 1: you just go hang up, go do what guys do.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you feel a little bit better think about us. No,

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Speaker 1: please don't, no, no, please don't. Brooke and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: the morning