WEBVTT - How Southern Charm Men Think

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<v Speaker 1>This is How Men Think with Brooks like and Gavin

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<v Speaker 1>to grab and I heard radio podcast what's up everyone

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<v Speaker 1>with the How Men Think Podcast? I'm Craig and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>Austin and we're here to fill in for Brooks and

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<v Speaker 1>Gavin on this week's episode of How Men Think. So

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<v Speaker 1>as in we just said, I'm Craig Rawston. We're here

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<v Speaker 1>from Bravo TV's Southern Charm. We're in our seventh season now.

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<v Speaker 1>Austin is on his fourth season with us and he's

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<v Speaker 1>doing great. But our show airs on Thursdays at nine pm.

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<v Speaker 1>And uh yeah, catch us there. But we're Craig in

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<v Speaker 1>Austin from Bravo TV Southern Charm. We have a lot

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about. I mean, this is you. We we

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<v Speaker 1>are the best test subjects or the worst to hear from.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now, I am I am late to this this

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<v Speaker 1>taping because of issues with my girlfriend. And Austin has

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<v Speaker 1>now had his entire mood killed because of his girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>So how do we feel about letting girls kind of

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<v Speaker 1>affect our daily outlook on life? Because you were so

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<v Speaker 1>happy all day? Well, Craig, uh, well, okay, yes, this

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<v Speaker 1>is amazing, this's amazing you and I are kind of

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<v Speaker 1>similar beings in this right. So we're so Austin and

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<v Speaker 1>I are both very emotional people. Uh, we love languages.

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<v Speaker 1>We definitely have love languages and and we need our

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<v Speaker 1>significant others to hit those lovely But and I know

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<v Speaker 1>you're used to Brooks and Gavin, which is great and

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<v Speaker 1>as I don't know if we appear that we have

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<v Speaker 1>hard shells, um, but we're so soft underneath that shell.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's where a lot of girls don't realize that

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of guys out there is that soft shell

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<v Speaker 1>crap and no matter. And we're sensitive and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like I just deelt with something with my girlfriend. Is

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<v Speaker 1>she went on the offensive because she she was worried

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<v Speaker 1>that I was gonna hurt her when really, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>she's I don't know anyway, she's great and loving and awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying that, you know, we might be intimidating,

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<v Speaker 1>but we're just as intimidated of you at times. And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, there's no matter how tough you look

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<v Speaker 1>on the outside, is this what we're supposed to be doing?

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<v Speaker 1>I think so we're just giving a rundown. So we're

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<v Speaker 1>both softies, um plenty plenty, plenty of things to say,

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<v Speaker 1>and just as you said, Craig, I mean, god, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>tell you my best days ever are when you know,

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<v Speaker 1>h but when what Hey, we're already in relationships, but

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<v Speaker 1>we'll tell you how we got there. And um, our

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<v Speaker 1>dating lives. I mean I went to school in college

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<v Speaker 1>at Charleston which was five girls to every one guy,

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<v Speaker 1>which was an incredible experience. But it was definitely I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it had an effect on the dating world. And

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<v Speaker 1>also went to Alabama and uh so we have a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of experience and um already for for questions, I

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<v Speaker 1>am okay, and we enjoy sharing our experiences with you

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<v Speaker 1>all hit and um, yeah, we want to know what

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<v Speaker 1>you were curious to know what you guys want to know? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Austin Craig, thanks so much for being here on Holme

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<v Speaker 1>and think our listeners submitted questions for you guys. So

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<v Speaker 1>we'll just get into it. First off, what is a

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<v Speaker 1>good date idea during COVID? Okay, Craig is the worst

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<v Speaker 1>person to ask about this, Okay, but so I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>say I'm gonna during yeah, yeah, and maybe I am too,

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<v Speaker 1>like Okay, so we're assuming that everyone's quarantine and that

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<v Speaker 1>no one wants to see each other. Geez, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>what okay, okay, fine. The reason where stumbling is because

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't follow any rules down here, And the reason

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm stumbling is because I'm like, hey, are you

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<v Speaker 1>feel confident? And I feel often we've both been tested,

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<v Speaker 1>then please please like, let's hang out and do the

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<v Speaker 1>things that we normally do. But okay, A good date

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<v Speaker 1>idea over zoom for COVID, I think would be a

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<v Speaker 1>live text and movie. That's me. I'm gonna say the

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<v Speaker 1>live text to movie, and i want the movie to

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<v Speaker 1>be very lighthearted. I'm like, hey, you want to watch

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<v Speaker 1>Casper and live text? And I would lie. I like

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<v Speaker 1>that idea, but I wouldn't text. I would just have

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<v Speaker 1>it open like this and just be talking, and before

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<v Speaker 1>you know it, you would be in an entirely different

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<v Speaker 1>conversation with your date and forget the movies playing, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, all right, things are going before you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>you're making out with your camera. But I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>a great idea to watch a movie together over zoom

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever. That is such a nice breaker. And it

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<v Speaker 1>has to be an ask to be a lighthearted movie

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<v Speaker 1>in my opinion, because you know that's be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>because what else are you gonna do? You're gonna stare

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<v Speaker 1>at each other on the computer screen. I think, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I think bringing the third party of a movie in

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<v Speaker 1>is a great idea. I do too crazy. Next question,

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<v Speaker 1>do you miss the girls who aren't on the season,

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<v Speaker 1>like Cam, Chelsea and Naomi. Uh. Craig and I spent so, so,

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<v Speaker 1>so much time together. And when we finished filming the

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<v Speaker 1>first month or so of our show, I just remember

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<v Speaker 1>that Craig and I were like, Wow, Wow, there's so

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<v Speaker 1>much going on, and there are so many things and

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<v Speaker 1>and and we were legitimately very excited. We were excited, Craig.

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<v Speaker 1>We were like, I think we did such a good job.

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<v Speaker 1>And not just us, but you know, we knew that

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<v Speaker 1>everyone else was as well. And we were like, this

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<v Speaker 1>show is going to be better than it ever has been.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's the mentality that we had. In my opinion,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a very important mentality. So the girls weren't transparent,

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<v Speaker 1>So the girls hit a lot of their lives and

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<v Speaker 1>they relied on the boys sharing everything. And it's not

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<v Speaker 1>fair when you do that, and it doesn't work. The

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<v Speaker 1>synergy wasn't there, and so Austin and I were both

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<v Speaker 1>very excited to get a new crop of people in

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<v Speaker 1>this season. And the girls that came on did an

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<v Speaker 1>excellent job. So I actually transparent and shared their lives

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<v Speaker 1>to everyone. So, um, no, we we didn't miss them.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I miss Cam, but um, I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>just moving a good directed direction, is what I want

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<v Speaker 1>to say. Which no one's ever like, no one hears that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not in the media, that's not in the press.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll never hear that. But that's the truth, is that

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<v Speaker 1>they were not good at their jobs, and we are

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<v Speaker 1>happy the boom. When I talked to Cameron, Okay, last

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<v Speaker 1>thing on this last thing on this I'm gonna say it.

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<v Speaker 1>When I talked to Cameron, she said to me, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's very transparent. She said, I feel like a hypocrite

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<v Speaker 1>because I do not want to show my child, I

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<v Speaker 1>do not want to show my husband, and for that reason,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't any longer serve the purpose that I used

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<v Speaker 1>to on this show. And I was like, wow, that

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<v Speaker 1>was very honest with you, and and and she knew that,

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<v Speaker 1>and so she moved on. And I would guarantee that

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<v Speaker 1>there's three and there's credits X that was probably like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I don't want to do with you know,

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<v Speaker 1>this ship any longer. And then there was you know

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<v Speaker 1>Chelsea that doesn't want to deal with it any longer either,

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<v Speaker 1>and and and basically if Camp said quit and didn't,

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<v Speaker 1>she would, Yeah, Okay, our Southern men attracted to West

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<v Speaker 1>Coast ladies or just Southern bells. So I'm originally from

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<v Speaker 1>the Eastern Shore, um up in the northeast of Delaware.

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<v Speaker 1>So I my type, well, I was always attracted to

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<v Speaker 1>Jersey girls like dark hair. Um, I don't know, just

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<v Speaker 1>that attitude. I love that. And then when I moved

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<v Speaker 1>to the South, I fell in love with sun dresses

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<v Speaker 1>and accents in a very like proper I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I fell in love with the Southern bell And then

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<v Speaker 1>I went and spend time out west and fell for

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<v Speaker 1>the l A type girl. Um. And so I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if I have a type. I kind of adapt

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<v Speaker 1>wherever I am. Um, I haven't met an l A

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<v Speaker 1>girl that I wanted to spend a lot of time with.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'll say this just to just to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>crass getting at the end of his point. But I'll

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<v Speaker 1>say this, Um, I'm definitely attracted to more of the

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<v Speaker 1>more of the some type. You go out West, they're

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<v Speaker 1>way more superfluous than than I want to deal with. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, anyone can make the point like, well, the

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<v Speaker 1>girl that you know you've been dating is you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just that way. But but the people in

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<v Speaker 1>l a Are was looking for the bigger and better thing,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't want to deal with that. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to deal with that whatsoever. You come down South,

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<v Speaker 1>the women are beautiful and uh, they accept like they

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<v Speaker 1>want to have fun, they accept us for who we are. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>of course I'd like a pretty person we everyone likes.

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<v Speaker 1>I think if you're gonna go like out west and

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<v Speaker 1>be like you're not pretty, yeah, I'm sure there are

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of them, But like, I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>deal with some girl who's uh, who's like, oh, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like a print model and I was on someone so

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<v Speaker 1>was yacht last week and no, no thank you. I

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<v Speaker 1>think if you're actually from California, you're fine. Like there's

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<v Speaker 1>people like that's true, they're like turtle from Aspen. The

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<v Speaker 1>girl that I'm currently dating grew up in San Diego.

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<v Speaker 1>All staying like you've, you're you've, you're friends with people

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<v Speaker 1>from like so if you were born there, you're great. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think the transplants. But if you move there

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<v Speaker 1>then then kick rock and some you're just ladder climbing,

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<v Speaker 1>just like in New York City, Hot take. What are

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<v Speaker 1>your favorite or most successful pickup lines? This is greaty see,

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<v Speaker 1>that's funny. So I never had a pickup line. I

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<v Speaker 1>used to throw ice at girls in the bar, which

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<v Speaker 1>Craig's pickup lines are wanting. For sure, I think that

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<v Speaker 1>my favorite pickup line. Honestly is it? Since sounds so lame,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds so pre fabricated, but it's not. It's high.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Austin, what is your name? Would you like a shot?

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<v Speaker 1>You do do really well with that, Like you actually

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<v Speaker 1>just blatantly, straight up introduce yourself to a girl. And

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<v Speaker 1>she comes and stands next to us at the bar,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, she is hot because I'm very yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm very shy, so I'm never the first person

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to a group of friends. But Austin's he

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<v Speaker 1>like easily introduces us, which is great, and then as

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<v Speaker 1>soon as he breaks the ice, then I'm fine. Then

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<v Speaker 1>and that's then it's off for the racist. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, I used to throw it. But I just

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<v Speaker 1>think that to answer that full question the easiest thing

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<v Speaker 1>to do in the and and you can't be called

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<v Speaker 1>like a douche or like oh cheesy pickup line if

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<v Speaker 1>you straight up say hi, my name is and nobody

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<v Speaker 1>can follow you for that. What is your biggest pet? Peeve?

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<v Speaker 1>Craig has twelve, but go Craig. I hate bathroom humor.

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<v Speaker 1>If you if you make any jokes about bathroom I

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<v Speaker 1>would just leave pet peeve. I must not even be

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<v Speaker 1>friends with so. Um. And that's just what popped into

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<v Speaker 1>my head. Yeah, mine is um. I just read this

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<v Speaker 1>thing the other day and it said, uh, it said, look,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're busy, then tell me so. If you're not interested,

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<v Speaker 1>then tell me so. But being ignored I cannot stand

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<v Speaker 1>all good. Tell me hey, look I'm that dinner with

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<v Speaker 1>my folks. Hey, look, I can't Being ignored is my

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<v Speaker 1>number one pet peeve. It will drive me crazy, And

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<v Speaker 1>I know it drives you crazy too. Yeah, that's a

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<v Speaker 1>good one. That in yea silence like and I know

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<v Speaker 1>that that's easy to say, like, oh hey girls, you

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<v Speaker 1>know listen up, ignore the man, and then want you

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<v Speaker 1>even more. No, no, no, no, I'm not saying that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying that will hate you. If you ignore me,

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<v Speaker 1>I will hate you because you I'm not playing that

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<v Speaker 1>game with you. I'm trying to think, what what does

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<v Speaker 1>someone do? What's a girl do that pisces me off?

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<v Speaker 1>Like what's the last girl like that? I can't stand well?

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<v Speaker 1>Ignoring is definitely no, I know. But over like I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>like in person, like if we're all handing up like

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<v Speaker 1>hanging out of the bar, I hate fake people. Like

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<v Speaker 1>if you we all have just told me that you

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<v Speaker 1>hated this girl and I see you walk up and

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<v Speaker 1>say hi to her and compliment her dress, I will

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<v Speaker 1>not talk to you again. But sorry. All of y'all

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<v Speaker 1>are like that, is that not true? It's not generally

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<v Speaker 1>Jane good at that. They're like, oh my god, this sweater,

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<v Speaker 1>which by the way, it is mine. Oh my god,

0:12:42.600 --> 0:12:47.240
<v Speaker 1>your sweater is so beautiful. Like anyway, yes, I say,

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<v Speaker 1>just like stick to your guns. And also, if you're

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<v Speaker 1>into me, I guess we're at an age now that's

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<v Speaker 1>true that if you're into me, just be with me

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<v Speaker 1>and to like find like a buddy where we can

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<v Speaker 1>people watch together. Is such a good feeling, like the game.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's necessary, which sucks so much, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>just I just would I wanted you for the first month,

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<v Speaker 1>the first month, then trust each other and take take

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<v Speaker 1>a chance and move forward. What are funny phrases only

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<v Speaker 1>Southerner to use? Y'all? Y'all is something that I use consistently,

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<v Speaker 1>But that's an obvious one. Um, what what about? What

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<v Speaker 1>is it? What's I I mean thinking? I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>think about this stuff. Cam used to say, I know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to think of the things that Chelsea. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I used to say. Chelsea used to if something was

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<v Speaker 1>in your teeth, she used to say to the how's

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<v Speaker 1>her mom and them? Like? How's her on them? So

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<v Speaker 1>like you have to open your mouth and then and

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<v Speaker 1>then you'd be like, Hey, you've got something here that's

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<v Speaker 1>really Southern. How's your mom and them? I swear she

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<v Speaker 1>used to say, it's me. Um, I do you know

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<v Speaker 1>where the word hush puppy comes from? No? So enlightened.

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<v Speaker 1>When the kitchen staff would be working in the back

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<v Speaker 1>um and all the dogs would come around barking, trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get scraps. They would roll up dough balls and

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<v Speaker 1>fry them real quick and toss them to the dogs

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<v Speaker 1>and say, hush puppy, hushpuppy. That's where hush puppy comes from. That.

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<v Speaker 1>I love hushpuppies. Really, it's it's a boring bland. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, No, it's not. They serve it. They serve

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<v Speaker 1>it with like butter. It's it's amazing. It's literally to

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<v Speaker 1>fill you up so you don't need any more crap. Well,

0:14:30.360 --> 0:14:32.920
<v Speaker 1>why would a restaurant ever do that? Because it's an

0:14:32.920 --> 0:14:35.760
<v Speaker 1>all you can eat crappers, I want you to eat more.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't want you to eat more because it's all

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<v Speaker 1>you can eat. Why would you well to place a

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<v Speaker 1>leon certain hush puppies and they want you to order

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<v Speaker 1>their whole menu. I don't know. It's just a restaurant.

0:14:44.840 --> 0:14:50.400
<v Speaker 1>A restaurant give you bread, different conversations. So sorry, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>pet Peeve Craig being stupid. Is it easier or harder

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<v Speaker 1>to date once being on TV? Harder harder? Definitely? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna start and then you finished, so uh, definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>I've dated three three girls now on the show since

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<v Speaker 1>my tenure and you know, everyone just loves to be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>she's using it for the show, And in my opinion,

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<v Speaker 1>that's so so sad, Like it's so sad and and

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<v Speaker 1>you have to like, you know, think about it and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, but at the same time, it's time. It's easier,

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<v Speaker 1>right because like you know, walking somewhere and people are

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<v Speaker 1>looking and you don't know. But so there are definitely different,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, aspects, but I think that the hardest aspect

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<v Speaker 1>is for someone to be like and he And when

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<v Speaker 1>someone tells me, like, you know, they just dated you

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<v Speaker 1>for the show, I'm like, what are you saying? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you saying that I'm not good enough to get this girl?

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<v Speaker 1>Or does that you doubt? Have you ever doubted, like

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<v Speaker 1>you've asked yourself the girls just with you because of

0:15:48.360 --> 0:15:53.120
<v Speaker 1>the show. I've never doubted until just recently because y'all

0:15:53.160 --> 0:15:57.080
<v Speaker 1>fucking put that doubt in my mind like crazy. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's it's weird, you know, because the show

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<v Speaker 1>brings you so many opportunities and it just opened so

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<v Speaker 1>many doors and people would think that it's like shut up, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>like are you kidding me? You're on TV? Like you

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<v Speaker 1>can go meet a lot of you know, well most

0:16:14.240 --> 0:16:17.720
<v Speaker 1>girls that you wanted to meet, Um, but I want

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<v Speaker 1>to be a girl that's like, what's your show? I

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<v Speaker 1>also never dated us, says If she says what's your

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<v Speaker 1>show that I'm wearried over, I'm like, yeah, I like

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<v Speaker 1>there's a there's a healthy balance of being like, yes,

0:16:29.200 --> 0:16:31.040
<v Speaker 1>I know who you guys are, but I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm not saying that we're like, you know, Jersey

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<v Speaker 1>Shore for context and only saying that because it's in

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<v Speaker 1>the background. Look I'm looking in the mirror, but like

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<v Speaker 1>just saying so much. Rather meet a girl, marry a

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<v Speaker 1>girl that is like I have never watched here. So

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<v Speaker 1>here's the challenge, and this is what I ran into

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<v Speaker 1>this year. Well, was you want to meet a girl

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<v Speaker 1>that's not dating you for TV? The problem is is

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<v Speaker 1>that's our lives and it's our job, and we have

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<v Speaker 1>to be transparent with the show. And so if we

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<v Speaker 1>start to date that girl that is not dating us

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<v Speaker 1>because the TV, we have to bring her onto the show,

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<v Speaker 1>which a lot of people that that aren't into the

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<v Speaker 1>TV world don't want to do. And so you have

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<v Speaker 1>to risk and knowing in your healthy relationship has never

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<v Speaker 1>given them everything before. True, yeah, true, And Madison and

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just say it, Madison said it always she and

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<v Speaker 1>and she'll probably you know, burming with it because she

0:17:24.880 --> 0:17:27.959
<v Speaker 1>brings with everything, but she goes, she goes. You told

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<v Speaker 1>me that if you wanted to keep dating that I

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<v Speaker 1>had to be on the show. And I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's true, I have to show my No, this is

0:17:36.280 --> 0:17:38.840
<v Speaker 1>before she came on. But she was like she filmed

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<v Speaker 1>with me like second season. Okay, correct, she wasn't on

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<v Speaker 1>until I brought her on, Like as I'm full timer. Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>as a person that anyone care about. But she was

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<v Speaker 1>comfortable being on TV. A lot of people aren't. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and so it's a challenge. Let's get started. We love

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<v Speaker 1>our lives. But I feel like mentally, Austin then at

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<v Speaker 1>least would be a lot better without the show in

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<v Speaker 1>his life. Mentally, well maybe not if these girls I

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<v Speaker 1>just love me for me? You know. Okay, what is

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<v Speaker 1>you guys talked about this one again? What is your

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<v Speaker 1>love language? So my love language is words of affirmation

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<v Speaker 1>and that's mine too. I was just gonna say that, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I was being honest. And it's interesting because until my

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<v Speaker 1>rich touch, I likely touched. Craig does not, sorry, but

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<v Speaker 1>I do like you know, words of affirmation. It doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>have to be like you the best human of all time,

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<v Speaker 1>but it has to be like, oh my god, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so proud of you, or oh my god, like like

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<v Speaker 1>a handsome today, or I do like you know, words

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<v Speaker 1>of affirmation. And I do enjoy touch. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what what the official word for that is, but probably

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<v Speaker 1>just touched. No, it's physic yeah, But it's interesting because

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<v Speaker 1>I would have said that love languages are bullshit until

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<v Speaker 1>my relationship with Naomi, and it was like we weren't

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<v Speaker 1>speaking the same language because example, I would go out

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning and the start her car on like

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<v Speaker 1>a cold day and warm her car up, and like

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<v Speaker 1>I give so my love language that I give is

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<v Speaker 1>acts of service, so I would do acts of service.

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<v Speaker 1>The problem is is that she was used to that life.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, someone started her car for her her whole life,

0:19:20.800 --> 0:19:23.200
<v Speaker 1>and so she didn't receive what I was giving. Her

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<v Speaker 1>love language was gifts. But I don't know how to

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<v Speaker 1>give gifts because in my life I just buy you

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<v Speaker 1>every day. But I would miss like big occasions, like

0:19:31.200 --> 0:19:34.040
<v Speaker 1>I would miss Christmas birthdays stuff like that, which sounds crazy,

0:19:34.119 --> 0:19:36.000
<v Speaker 1>but I was like, I give you so much during

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<v Speaker 1>the day's about to get so much. I just give

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<v Speaker 1>you every single day, and girls every day. But so

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<v Speaker 1>if you can't figure out how to like your you know,

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<v Speaker 1>correlate your languages, it actually does affection because then I

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<v Speaker 1>was words of affirmation, and like in my current relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>she would probably tell people like for me, she'd be like,

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<v Speaker 1>of course I think you're good enough. Of course I

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<v Speaker 1>think you're attractive. Of course. Like I remember getting like

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<v Speaker 1>a little insecure. We were watching a movie and she

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<v Speaker 1>said someone was wanted to answer me, and I'm saying, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I've never I don't really get into cure of people,

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<v Speaker 1>but shut up, so shut up. So I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't you tell me I'm attractive? And she's like,

0:20:24.760 --> 0:20:26.399
<v Speaker 1>is that a real question? Like, of course I think

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<v Speaker 1>you're attractive. And so the example is is that we

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<v Speaker 1>actually need to be told stuff words of information. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so love languages are real. So to answer your question,

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<v Speaker 1>are you just crack like words of affirmation? Austin has faded. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not. Don't be mad at me just because you

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<v Speaker 1>interrupt me. Kidding Alston and I also are dating. Have

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<v Speaker 1>been filming for six hours today. It's been hilarious and

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<v Speaker 1>great and we're happy to be here. No, I am,

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<v Speaker 1>but I am too, dude. I don't know how to

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<v Speaker 1>do things other than being okay, Craig, you are being

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<v Speaker 1>so what. I love language do you give? And I

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<v Speaker 1>love it and I love it. I love language that

0:21:06.320 --> 0:21:13.080
<v Speaker 1>I give. Uh, definitely. Obviously, if we receive words of information,

0:21:13.200 --> 0:21:16.080
<v Speaker 1>then I make sure to give words of affirmation. And

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely that and and and touch. And I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>the best at gift. I'm not either. I'm not you

0:21:23.640 --> 0:21:25.439
<v Speaker 1>just you give people give us every day. You know,

0:21:25.720 --> 0:21:28.680
<v Speaker 1>that's acts of service. I have a lot of great

0:21:28.720 --> 0:21:31.720
<v Speaker 1>ideas and I don't follow through on them. I'm definitely

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<v Speaker 1>not the best in access service because I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>about it as much as I shoot right. But then

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<v Speaker 1>when I do, when I do, I'm like, oh my god,

0:21:39.119 --> 0:21:41.280
<v Speaker 1>she's gonna fled a million dollars because I give her.

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<v Speaker 1>And then they don't, and You're like, oh, girls so difficult.

0:21:44.560 --> 0:21:46.040
<v Speaker 1>They're like, why did you just give this to me?

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, I put so much thought into this.

0:21:48.440 --> 0:21:51.400
<v Speaker 1>She was understand that this finger pupply everythink of you.

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<v Speaker 1>What has been your favorite memory so far of Southern

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<v Speaker 1>Trump I had this answer for so, Okay, okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>have to first one season four, my first season, we're

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<v Speaker 1>all on a banana boat, okay, And I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to say this one because of a couple of reasons,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't. I can't say that because they didn't show it.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're in Key West right before Chelsea and I

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<v Speaker 1>went up on a on a what's it called George parasailing,

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<v Speaker 1>So we're parasailing and before that me, Craig Chep, J D. Thomas,

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<v Speaker 1>We're all on a banana boat. And it wasn't about

0:22:37.920 --> 0:22:41.880
<v Speaker 1>anything but like like we're all pure fun. We're all

0:22:41.920 --> 0:22:44.919
<v Speaker 1>like flying off, We're like grabbing each other, We're like, god,

0:22:45.080 --> 0:22:47.240
<v Speaker 1>get on, you know, we're like about to fly off,

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<v Speaker 1>like and it was like pure camaraderie, not like filming bullshit.

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<v Speaker 1>And that was amazing negative And that's my first one.

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<v Speaker 1>Craig can go with one of my second. I'd say

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<v Speaker 1>something that came from the show is meeting Danny McBride

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<v Speaker 1>was my favorite thing that came from it because he

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<v Speaker 1>was filming my note. I'm trying to think filming. I

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<v Speaker 1>had some good times to Cameron, had some really good

0:23:13.000 --> 0:23:19.000
<v Speaker 1>times with her throughout the years. Um snowboarding with you

0:23:19.160 --> 0:23:23.600
<v Speaker 1>was fun. Um snobording was fun. And going out to

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<v Speaker 1>Colorado because because they rejected us going to Colorado or

0:23:27.240 --> 0:23:28.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, going out west for so long because they

0:23:29.280 --> 0:23:32.560
<v Speaker 1>because they want us to like s I like driving

0:23:32.640 --> 0:23:35.160
<v Speaker 1>mo Pets around Key West with you guys. That was fun.

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<v Speaker 1>That was fun until we found out that Danny passed out.

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<v Speaker 1>This is one of those questions that we're gonna think

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<v Speaker 1>of in like six hours and be like wait and

0:23:43.000 --> 0:23:52.520
<v Speaker 1>be like, oh wait, call him back. Called back. What's

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<v Speaker 1>the worst date you've ever been on? I've never been

0:23:56.240 --> 0:23:58.880
<v Speaker 1>on a date this day with Craig Right. I've never

0:23:58.920 --> 0:24:01.119
<v Speaker 1>been on a date with someone that I was not dating.

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<v Speaker 1>You haven't. I definitely have. I've been on it. I've

0:24:05.960 --> 0:24:08.399
<v Speaker 1>never gone to dinner with a girl before looking up

0:24:08.400 --> 0:24:17.560
<v Speaker 1>with them. Why? Why is that so? I can't think

0:24:17.560 --> 0:24:20.800
<v Speaker 1>of anything worse than the thought of sitting at a

0:24:20.880 --> 0:24:24.840
<v Speaker 1>dinner table with someone and knowing within thirty seconds if

0:24:24.880 --> 0:24:26.440
<v Speaker 1>you like them or not and just being trapped. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I'm I'm a bar date person. I think

0:24:28.440 --> 0:24:30.800
<v Speaker 1>going and sitting at the bar would be awesome. Charleston

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<v Speaker 1>was a very When I was dating, it was a

0:24:35.359 --> 0:24:40.080
<v Speaker 1>you met the person in the bar, uh out, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you started to text, and then you would meet them.

0:24:43.920 --> 0:24:45.879
<v Speaker 1>You know, you want to be too anxious or like

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<v Speaker 1>too obvious that you wanted to meet up and maybe

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<v Speaker 1>the second or third bar of the night, and you'd

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<v Speaker 1>meet up at like eleven o'clock and she'd come with

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<v Speaker 1>her friends or you were with your friends, and you

0:24:54.480 --> 0:24:56.239
<v Speaker 1>would just have a good time at the bar. And

0:24:56.280 --> 0:24:59.880
<v Speaker 1>for me, I never got to that phase of asking

0:25:00.000 --> 0:25:03.200
<v Speaker 1>someone to dinner until we had already been hanging out

0:25:03.280 --> 0:25:05.320
<v Speaker 1>for like a month. And I know that can be

0:25:05.359 --> 0:25:08.119
<v Speaker 1>translated into a bad thing, but it wasn't like that.

0:25:08.200 --> 0:25:11.160
<v Speaker 1>It was just like, I'm more of an activity date person,

0:25:11.240 --> 0:25:13.119
<v Speaker 1>Like I didn't invite you out on the boat, or

0:25:13.160 --> 0:25:15.679
<v Speaker 1>we could go jet skiing, or or like go to

0:25:15.720 --> 0:25:17.919
<v Speaker 1>a pumpkin patch and do something silly or like a

0:25:17.920 --> 0:25:20.240
<v Speaker 1>haunted try. I don't know jet skiing. I just like

0:25:20.400 --> 0:25:23.000
<v Speaker 1>doing active. Its lay the other side of this, but

0:25:23.119 --> 0:25:25.200
<v Speaker 1>going to a sit down dinner and I've never done

0:25:25.200 --> 0:25:27.520
<v Speaker 1>with someone that I was not dating. Okay, so I'm

0:25:27.560 --> 0:25:30.359
<v Speaker 1>gonna play the other side of this purely for playing

0:25:30.400 --> 0:25:33.000
<v Speaker 1>the other side of this. Uh. I do agree with

0:25:33.119 --> 0:25:40.080
<v Speaker 1>Craig where um, the traditional date idea for me is

0:25:40.200 --> 0:25:44.360
<v Speaker 1>like not my idea of fun or a date. I'm

0:25:44.359 --> 0:25:46.240
<v Speaker 1>not like, Hi, Sally, would you like to go to

0:25:46.240 --> 0:25:48.720
<v Speaker 1>dinner with me tonight? I don't like that. It would

0:25:48.800 --> 0:25:51.120
<v Speaker 1>much rather do like, Hey, let's go out and your

0:25:51.160 --> 0:25:52.920
<v Speaker 1>friends made up with my friends and let's have fun.

0:25:53.040 --> 0:25:56.159
<v Speaker 1>But for sake of playing the other side, it is

0:25:56.359 --> 0:26:00.400
<v Speaker 1>fun potentially to go which I have done a couple

0:26:00.400 --> 0:26:04.680
<v Speaker 1>of times in the past and five years a month, uh,

0:26:04.840 --> 0:26:08.880
<v Speaker 1>to like bring a girl out and like bring them

0:26:08.880 --> 0:26:11.760
<v Speaker 1>to dinner and have like a true blue, honest to god,

0:26:11.760 --> 0:26:14.440
<v Speaker 1>you know conversation when I don't do much, I don't

0:26:14.480 --> 0:26:17.200
<v Speaker 1>ever do that, but I have done it and it's

0:26:17.240 --> 0:26:19.199
<v Speaker 1>a lot of okay. But see, what do you do

0:26:19.240 --> 0:26:21.560
<v Speaker 1>with the dinner if you don't have something planned after?

0:26:21.800 --> 0:26:23.360
<v Speaker 1>So do you just like get up? And then it's

0:26:23.400 --> 0:26:25.720
<v Speaker 1>awkward for everyone? It's like, are we like what is

0:26:25.720 --> 0:26:27.439
<v Speaker 1>for everyone? What if everyone? What do you do one

0:26:27.480 --> 0:26:29.080
<v Speaker 1>on one? What do you do when you walk? Do

0:26:29.600 --> 0:26:32.719
<v Speaker 1>you get in your car? You like walk? See if

0:26:32.760 --> 0:26:35.800
<v Speaker 1>you have a plan, and you you finished dinner and

0:26:35.840 --> 0:26:37.640
<v Speaker 1>you say, hey, would you like to go to UM?

0:26:40.040 --> 0:26:41.840
<v Speaker 1>And then you go get like an after dinner drink

0:26:42.080 --> 0:26:43.960
<v Speaker 1>and then you have that after your drink. And then

0:26:44.359 --> 0:26:46.720
<v Speaker 1>if if, and this is the thing, this is what

0:26:46.760 --> 0:26:49.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to say. If you really like the girl,

0:26:49.920 --> 0:26:51.960
<v Speaker 1>then you don't want to rush it because if you

0:26:52.080 --> 0:26:55.040
<v Speaker 1>rush it, then all the excitement is gone. Right, So

0:26:55.320 --> 0:26:56.800
<v Speaker 1>you go to dinner and they're like, so back to

0:26:56.840 --> 0:27:00.040
<v Speaker 1>your place. I'm like, and this is done if what

0:27:00.160 --> 0:27:02.879
<v Speaker 1>even begins. But if you really like a girl and

0:27:02.920 --> 0:27:05.360
<v Speaker 1>you're like, oh man, this girl is like something, then

0:27:05.400 --> 0:27:08.040
<v Speaker 1>you take them somewhere else, you send them home, and

0:27:08.040 --> 0:27:09.800
<v Speaker 1>then the whole next day, all next week you're like,

0:27:09.800 --> 0:27:12.840
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, this girl getting when you see their

0:27:12.880 --> 0:27:17.960
<v Speaker 1>name up, you getting with that. And if you're dating

0:27:18.000 --> 0:27:20.479
<v Speaker 1>a girl when her name does not pop up on

0:27:20.520 --> 0:27:23.720
<v Speaker 1>your phone, then you're dating the wrong girl. Sorry, when

0:27:23.760 --> 0:27:26.119
<v Speaker 1>you don't get you know, butterflies when her name pops up,

0:27:26.119 --> 0:27:28.119
<v Speaker 1>and you're dating the wrong girl if you don't open

0:27:28.280 --> 0:27:31.000
<v Speaker 1>because my name, because this girl's name still gives me

0:27:31.040 --> 0:27:33.080
<v Speaker 1>butterflies when it pops up. And that will always be

0:27:33.119 --> 0:27:36.920
<v Speaker 1>the case probably Anyways, next question, do you believe chivalry

0:27:37.000 --> 0:27:41.280
<v Speaker 1>is dead? No? No, hell no, There's a lot to

0:27:41.359 --> 0:27:43.720
<v Speaker 1>be said. There's a lot to be said about opening

0:27:43.720 --> 0:27:46.679
<v Speaker 1>the door, you know, the car door thing, home indecency,

0:27:47.000 --> 0:27:49.200
<v Speaker 1>the car door thing. Do I, like, you know, really

0:27:49.240 --> 0:27:52.360
<v Speaker 1>care about. No, But like pulling the a girl's chair

0:27:52.400 --> 0:27:54.959
<v Speaker 1>out when she gets into the table, Hugh, Well, it's

0:27:55.000 --> 0:27:59.119
<v Speaker 1>funny at the restaurant. So here there's a balance between

0:27:59.160 --> 0:28:02.920
<v Speaker 1>chivalry and the girl feeling like you respect that they're

0:28:02.960 --> 0:28:05.399
<v Speaker 1>capable of doing a thing on their own. So like

0:28:05.520 --> 0:28:07.359
<v Speaker 1>pulling a chair out, Like some girls will be like

0:28:07.400 --> 0:28:10.119
<v Speaker 1>I know how to pull my chair out, but you

0:28:10.200 --> 0:28:12.080
<v Speaker 1>kind of have to feel it out, or like ordering

0:28:12.119 --> 0:28:14.120
<v Speaker 1>for them. It's like I can order my own meal.

0:28:14.200 --> 0:28:18.280
<v Speaker 1>Like like the submissiveness level is nuts. But then if

0:28:18.320 --> 0:28:21.159
<v Speaker 1>some creeper at the bar comes up to them and

0:28:21.200 --> 0:28:23.480
<v Speaker 1>it's kind of like pushing into them or something, trying

0:28:23.480 --> 0:28:25.240
<v Speaker 1>to order a drink, and you come up and stand

0:28:25.280 --> 0:28:27.600
<v Speaker 1>between them and like place your hand on their back

0:28:27.720 --> 0:28:31.320
<v Speaker 1>or something, that to me is like that says jealousy

0:28:31.359 --> 0:28:33.800
<v Speaker 1>to me, No, it shows that you have their back

0:28:34.000 --> 0:28:36.440
<v Speaker 1>and you're like protect. I don't know, there's a there's

0:28:36.440 --> 0:28:41.080
<v Speaker 1>a balance, but I think coming. I think manners, manners

0:28:41.080 --> 0:28:44.680
<v Speaker 1>are very important. Is not dead and if anyone says

0:28:44.720 --> 0:28:48.000
<v Speaker 1>that that is so l a, I had vomitance, very

0:28:48.160 --> 0:28:52.600
<v Speaker 1>very like like I just think like or if a

0:28:52.640 --> 0:28:54.280
<v Speaker 1>fight breaks out in the bar and all of a

0:28:54.320 --> 0:28:56.800
<v Speaker 1>sudden she feels you like grab her like this and

0:28:56.840 --> 0:28:59.600
<v Speaker 1>like away from a fight, I feel like that would

0:28:59.600 --> 0:29:02.120
<v Speaker 1>be of course, but like if you were, I don't know,

0:29:02.240 --> 0:29:04.280
<v Speaker 1>I've seen some bad stuff out. I'm sure you felt

0:29:04.320 --> 0:29:08.720
<v Speaker 1>for Craig right now. But what I'm saying is that chivalry,

0:29:08.800 --> 0:29:11.880
<v Speaker 1>of course dead. Then you're a tea bag. Then you're

0:29:11.920 --> 0:29:14.320
<v Speaker 1>a douche bag. And if you're dating someone that's like that,

0:29:14.400 --> 0:29:17.720
<v Speaker 1>then you should leave a true story. And uh, it

0:29:17.880 --> 0:29:21.719
<v Speaker 1>only takes a couple of gestures to make somebody feel

0:29:21.840 --> 0:29:25.680
<v Speaker 1>that you are, you know, considering them at all points

0:29:25.680 --> 0:29:30.040
<v Speaker 1>in time. And one of those gestures. Men, I'm telling you,

0:29:30.080 --> 0:29:33.720
<v Speaker 1>do not miss out on pulling a chair out for

0:29:33.840 --> 0:29:37.640
<v Speaker 1>your date. Do not miss out on it. You are wrong,

0:29:38.040 --> 0:29:41.480
<v Speaker 1>You're just wrong. They will end and they will tell

0:29:41.520 --> 0:29:43.880
<v Speaker 1>their friends about it for the next two weeks. I

0:29:44.040 --> 0:29:49.320
<v Speaker 1>promise you that. Just be smooth about it. Smooth move. Yeah,

0:29:49.360 --> 0:29:51.880
<v Speaker 1>it just don't announced everyone you're doing it, you know.

0:29:51.960 --> 0:29:54.280
<v Speaker 1>Of course, Hey, did you see I hold the chair

0:29:54.360 --> 0:29:55.920
<v Speaker 1>for you or put it out and they'd be like,

0:29:56.640 --> 0:30:00.840
<v Speaker 1>you sit down, extend the chair out for her. How

0:30:00.840 --> 0:30:03.240
<v Speaker 1>do you scoot it in once they're sitting now, dude,

0:30:03.280 --> 0:30:08.840
<v Speaker 1>never figured that out. I'll tell you. They stand like

0:30:09.000 --> 0:30:10.760
<v Speaker 1>one ft in front of it, and then you move

0:30:10.840 --> 0:30:13.360
<v Speaker 1>the chip, you pull the shout, you know, two ft away.

0:30:13.720 --> 0:30:16.200
<v Speaker 1>They move in and hold the chair and you know,

0:30:16.240 --> 0:30:18.720
<v Speaker 1>one foot enough so that it hits their the back

0:30:18.720 --> 0:30:20.320
<v Speaker 1>of their knees. When it hits the back of their knees,

0:30:20.320 --> 0:30:23.280
<v Speaker 1>and they noticed that, that's what you're done. Done. If

0:30:23.320 --> 0:30:26.000
<v Speaker 1>you don't do that, then good luck and they can

0:30:26.040 --> 0:30:28.000
<v Speaker 1>hurt your wife. I have to go on to dinner first.

0:30:29.160 --> 0:30:31.760
<v Speaker 1>Good luck. Until then, I'm just protecting him from our fight.

0:30:33.320 --> 0:30:35.840
<v Speaker 1>Why do you men chase girls while supposedly in a

0:30:35.920 --> 0:30:43.400
<v Speaker 1>monogamous relationship because they're douchebags? Okay, because from men, you know,

0:30:43.440 --> 0:30:45.520
<v Speaker 1>grass is greener on the other side. But Craig is right,

0:30:45.520 --> 0:30:47.520
<v Speaker 1>because they're douchebags if you're with someone you really want

0:30:47.520 --> 0:30:50.360
<v Speaker 1>to be with, and of course because they settle anyone

0:30:50.440 --> 0:30:53.240
<v Speaker 1>because they settled. If you're checking, if you're chasing other

0:30:53.320 --> 0:30:56.320
<v Speaker 1>people when you're in a relationship, it's because you settled.

0:30:57.320 --> 0:31:01.680
<v Speaker 1>Chasing is the key word here, you know, if you're

0:31:02.080 --> 0:31:07.000
<v Speaker 1>chasing somebody else, Yeah, yeah, that's like you settled, And

0:31:07.040 --> 0:31:09.760
<v Speaker 1>that's because you are with the wrong and you're and

0:31:09.840 --> 0:31:12.760
<v Speaker 1>you know why you settled because you're insecure, and you're

0:31:12.760 --> 0:31:16.320
<v Speaker 1>insecure because you're like, well, I kind of like this person,

0:31:16.840 --> 0:31:19.320
<v Speaker 1>but if I leave them to chase what I really want,

0:31:19.560 --> 0:31:22.640
<v Speaker 1>maybe I'll never find someone like them again, and so like,

0:31:22.920 --> 0:31:25.120
<v Speaker 1>but I'll keep them around just in case. Like you

0:31:25.160 --> 0:31:27.920
<v Speaker 1>are a selfish piece of story. Also, if you stay

0:31:27.960 --> 0:31:31.120
<v Speaker 1>with anyone past thirty days that you don't see yourself marrying,

0:31:31.560 --> 0:31:35.080
<v Speaker 1>you also are a selfish piece and you're insecure and

0:31:35.120 --> 0:31:37.280
<v Speaker 1>you're too scared to be out on your own, so

0:31:37.320 --> 0:31:39.760
<v Speaker 1>you keep someone around for comfort and all you're doing

0:31:39.840 --> 0:31:42.840
<v Speaker 1>is mind fund them, and you're gonna break their heart

0:31:42.880 --> 0:31:45.520
<v Speaker 1>when you move on. Thirty days is the limit. If

0:31:45.560 --> 0:31:48.440
<v Speaker 1>you don't think this hits home for Craig right now, No,

0:31:48.480 --> 0:31:50.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying that's okay. That's if you stay with

0:31:50.360 --> 0:31:53.560
<v Speaker 1>someone more than thirty days, And god, the guys that

0:31:54.480 --> 0:31:58.440
<v Speaker 1>limit because you know, you know what that not everybody

0:31:58.720 --> 0:32:02.480
<v Speaker 1>knows in thirty don't here. I do not agree with that.

0:32:02.680 --> 0:32:07.960
<v Speaker 1>You not know, you go and then I'll go, Okay,

0:32:08.040 --> 0:32:10.280
<v Speaker 1>if you do not see a future with this person,

0:32:10.440 --> 0:32:13.760
<v Speaker 1>as in like a plausible outcome, like there's a chance

0:32:13.760 --> 0:32:16.280
<v Speaker 1>of that. If you know for a fact that you

0:32:16.320 --> 0:32:19.120
<v Speaker 1>will never marry this person and you meet their parents,

0:32:19.560 --> 0:32:23.200
<v Speaker 1>fuck you. Okay, Cinderella, are you finished with your fairy tale?

0:32:23.560 --> 0:32:28.480
<v Speaker 1>It's not always that way, Okay, thirty days, congratulations, Craig.

0:32:28.520 --> 0:32:30.160
<v Speaker 1>You know that you want to marry someone and knows

0:32:30.360 --> 0:32:33.520
<v Speaker 1>that that's like that you could marry. I don't agree

0:32:33.520 --> 0:32:36.760
<v Speaker 1>with that. I think that you meet somebody you might

0:32:36.880 --> 0:32:39.440
<v Speaker 1>have this great thing with, you date them for a bit,

0:32:39.520 --> 0:32:41.680
<v Speaker 1>and then you might find out that they're not for you.

0:32:41.840 --> 0:32:45.600
<v Speaker 1>So fucking what, Craig, thirty days after thirty days that

0:32:45.640 --> 0:32:48.200
<v Speaker 1>they're not for you? I don't know. It's a comfort. Yes,

0:32:48.240 --> 0:32:51.720
<v Speaker 1>you're just bored, Yes, board, Yes I have. I have

0:32:51.960 --> 0:32:54.640
<v Speaker 1>dated people before that I really really really like, but

0:32:54.840 --> 0:32:57.480
<v Speaker 1>that I did not see as my But I was like,

0:32:57.600 --> 0:33:00.920
<v Speaker 1>maybe they will be that person, you know, Craig, maybe

0:33:01.120 --> 0:33:04.200
<v Speaker 1>you said maybe they'll be that person you know that.

0:33:04.320 --> 0:33:09.200
<v Speaker 1>Nowadays I think that way if I meet somebody I'm

0:33:09.320 --> 0:33:15.040
<v Speaker 1>not dating casually any longer. But previously, no way was

0:33:15.080 --> 0:33:18.920
<v Speaker 1>I like thirty days and then um, if I'm not

0:33:18.920 --> 0:33:20.840
<v Speaker 1>gonna marry them and I'm in dump on, No way.

0:33:21.040 --> 0:33:23.400
<v Speaker 1>I have experimented, and I've had fun with girls, and

0:33:23.440 --> 0:33:25.400
<v Speaker 1>I've done lots of things. And another like, you know

0:33:25.440 --> 0:33:28.520
<v Speaker 1>the chef way. So I dated Agron. You haven't dated

0:33:28.520 --> 0:33:31.280
<v Speaker 1>a girl Chef. You just banged so like I'm talking

0:33:31.280 --> 0:33:34.960
<v Speaker 1>about now though, now, so take away the thirty days

0:33:34.960 --> 0:33:37.760
<v Speaker 1>and meet the parents? Said, are you meeting the parents

0:33:37.760 --> 0:33:39.360
<v Speaker 1>of a girl that you know? You know if she

0:33:39.440 --> 0:33:41.480
<v Speaker 1>thinks there's a future, and you know that you're not

0:33:41.480 --> 0:33:43.560
<v Speaker 1>gonna end up with that girl. I have just to

0:33:43.640 --> 0:33:45.920
<v Speaker 1>keep it around her sex, just to keep it around person.

0:33:46.840 --> 0:33:49.440
<v Speaker 1>And now I can agree with you that right now

0:33:49.920 --> 0:33:53.560
<v Speaker 1>in my life, the next person that I date, there's

0:33:53.720 --> 0:33:57.000
<v Speaker 1>no longer like a looking out. Look. Now, the next

0:33:57.000 --> 0:33:59.320
<v Speaker 1>person that I date meet my parents is my wife.

0:33:59.640 --> 0:34:03.480
<v Speaker 1>But some people do keep people around out in a

0:34:03.600 --> 0:34:07.560
<v Speaker 1>selfish way. Sure, and I've done that before, and I

0:34:07.600 --> 0:34:10.800
<v Speaker 1>have done it before. What was it like watching yourself

0:34:10.800 --> 0:34:14.800
<v Speaker 1>on TV for the first time? No? You you go first?

0:34:15.160 --> 0:34:18.759
<v Speaker 1>You're all right? So I first season loved it. The

0:34:18.840 --> 0:34:21.239
<v Speaker 1>mail so we used to get a hard copy and

0:34:21.440 --> 0:34:25.640
<v Speaker 1>DVD delivered to our doorstep a week before the episode aired.

0:34:25.960 --> 0:34:28.560
<v Speaker 1>And I lived two blocks away from Chef, and the

0:34:28.600 --> 0:34:31.960
<v Speaker 1>mailman came to my house first, like and his weird

0:34:32.040 --> 0:34:33.719
<v Speaker 1>route would take hours to get to his house. So

0:34:33.800 --> 0:34:36.480
<v Speaker 1>ship would run down to my house and we would

0:34:36.480 --> 0:34:39.719
<v Speaker 1>watch standing up in my living room. Um, and we

0:34:39.719 --> 0:34:42.240
<v Speaker 1>couldn't sit down. It was nuts. And then I also,

0:34:42.440 --> 0:34:46.319
<v Speaker 1>embarrassingly enough, would play it at like after parties and

0:34:46.320 --> 0:34:48.840
<v Speaker 1>stuff because it was all I do. Hold on for

0:34:48.880 --> 0:34:52.239
<v Speaker 1>all those in the back listen up, turn your volume up.

0:34:52.680 --> 0:34:57.360
<v Speaker 1>Craig Conover used to play hard copy DVDs at after

0:34:57.480 --> 0:35:01.920
<v Speaker 1>parties for chicks to Square because no, there was never

0:35:01.960 --> 0:35:04.160
<v Speaker 1>a show in Charleston. It was nuts, it was all new.

0:35:04.200 --> 0:35:07.120
<v Speaker 1>It was crazy. Here's when it changes when you date

0:35:07.200 --> 0:35:10.080
<v Speaker 1>on television. And as soon as I had a girlfriend

0:35:10.280 --> 0:35:12.560
<v Speaker 1>on the show, and as soon as I saw for

0:35:12.600 --> 0:35:15.279
<v Speaker 1>the first time her betray me and what I thought

0:35:15.320 --> 0:35:19.000
<v Speaker 1>was a betrayal and did like, you will never watch

0:35:19.080 --> 0:35:21.759
<v Speaker 1>the show again. And after Naomi and I started to

0:35:21.840 --> 0:35:25.960
<v Speaker 1>have disagreements on the show, I stopped watching that day

0:35:26.120 --> 0:35:29.080
<v Speaker 1>and didn't watch for three years. Now I watched because

0:35:29.080 --> 0:35:31.080
<v Speaker 1>it's all about him and I can just laugh at it.

0:35:31.320 --> 0:35:35.200
<v Speaker 1>So then yes, the segue into mind season four and five,

0:35:35.320 --> 0:35:37.680
<v Speaker 1>I was like, they love me, they really loved me.

0:35:37.800 --> 0:35:41.040
<v Speaker 1>And then I started to date someone really really seriously

0:35:41.160 --> 0:35:45.640
<v Speaker 1>and emotions and you know, heartache gets involved and like

0:35:45.760 --> 0:35:49.640
<v Speaker 1>real heartache, and then I haven't watched. I didn't watch,

0:35:49.800 --> 0:35:51.759
<v Speaker 1>you know, much of last season except if someone was like,

0:35:51.800 --> 0:35:54.279
<v Speaker 1>you know, you gotta watch. I made him watch with

0:35:54.320 --> 0:35:56.799
<v Speaker 1>me in Bermuda like two weeks ago or three weeks ago,

0:35:56.920 --> 0:36:00.440
<v Speaker 1>and finished the episode ended with us getting very drunk

0:36:00.520 --> 0:36:03.040
<v Speaker 1>and him yelling at us. Well, I yelled at Chef

0:36:03.160 --> 0:36:06.040
<v Speaker 1>yees Chef, I like, you know, I like lost it

0:36:06.080 --> 0:36:09.080
<v Speaker 1>on with with like six minutes left from the episode

0:36:09.360 --> 0:36:12.800
<v Speaker 1>of episode one of season seven, I was like, fuck

0:36:12.880 --> 0:36:15.399
<v Speaker 1>you and the horse you rode in on and and

0:36:15.560 --> 0:36:18.080
<v Speaker 1>we screamed at each other, and I go, chet, let's

0:36:18.120 --> 0:36:20.480
<v Speaker 1>say it for the reunion. I love you for now,

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<v Speaker 1>but I hate you. Last question, what kind of pressures

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<v Speaker 1>do you get from your family? So uh, kind of pressures,

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<v Speaker 1>but kind of pressure is like you know, with the

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<v Speaker 1>show specifically or or with like you know, the pressure.

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<v Speaker 1>So just like dating, like, does your family pressure you

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<v Speaker 1>to like family? Yeah, so, uh, my family that as

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm sure that Craig isn't. You're gonna say

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<v Speaker 1>something different, but of course, you know, my family is

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<v Speaker 1>very supportive. They've never been that kind of family to

0:36:54.400 --> 0:36:57.160
<v Speaker 1>be like, she's a good girl, Austin, you should go

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<v Speaker 1>and marry her, like she is like sorry she of

0:37:00.120 --> 0:37:02.000
<v Speaker 1>course I say she because my mother is in the

0:37:02.000 --> 0:37:04.160
<v Speaker 1>major arch of the family. But my folks have always

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<v Speaker 1>been like, take your time, do not rush into anything.

0:37:09.040 --> 0:37:12.480
<v Speaker 1>And especially with my businesses now or with my business,

0:37:12.680 --> 0:37:17.399
<v Speaker 1>they're like as supportive as could possibly be. And being

0:37:17.440 --> 0:37:20.200
<v Speaker 1>on this show, they're like, Austin, we we think it's funny,

0:37:20.560 --> 0:37:23.560
<v Speaker 1>we think it's great. We've met Craig, we've met Chef,

0:37:23.640 --> 0:37:26.319
<v Speaker 1>we've met Whitney. We think that they're wonderful. We think

0:37:26.320 --> 0:37:28.320
<v Speaker 1>that you have great, you know, friendships with them. So

0:37:28.320 --> 0:37:31.680
<v Speaker 1>so they could not be more you know, supportive, whereas

0:37:31.880 --> 0:37:34.239
<v Speaker 1>more people in the South could be like, when are

0:37:34.239 --> 0:37:36.560
<v Speaker 1>you gonna get on in Austin, it's time to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>meet a wife. They are not that way. They're like,

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<v Speaker 1>we want you to find the right person. And the

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<v Speaker 1>right time in your life. And my pressure for my

0:37:47.120 --> 0:37:50.560
<v Speaker 1>family is to finish what I start. So that's pretty

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<v Speaker 1>much the only pressure I've ever had from there is

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<v Speaker 1>to finish what I start. So I chose to go

0:37:55.000 --> 0:37:57.360
<v Speaker 1>to law school. Finish it. I wanted to be an attorney.

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<v Speaker 1>Finish it. Um. They love of all, they trust my

0:38:01.920 --> 0:38:05.480
<v Speaker 1>intuition with stuff where I wanted to start a pillow company,

0:38:05.880 --> 0:38:08.480
<v Speaker 1>as bizarre as that was, They're like, fine, just do it.

0:38:08.600 --> 0:38:12.520
<v Speaker 1>A don't fall into this pattern of like having a

0:38:12.600 --> 0:38:15.680
<v Speaker 1>great idea and then not doing anything about it. And

0:38:15.800 --> 0:38:19.719
<v Speaker 1>procrastination is something that I struggle with. Um. Charleston is

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<v Speaker 1>a very easy place to distract herself, UM and not

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<v Speaker 1>do what you're supposed to do. So for me, it's

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<v Speaker 1>finished when I start. UM. But yeah, unfortunately it's not

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<v Speaker 1>the dating stuff because my mom doesn't want to fall

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<v Speaker 1>in love with another potential daughter and it break her

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<v Speaker 1>heart again. So and I'm such a sucker for that.

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<v Speaker 1>She's met like three girls in the past five years,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just assumed that they, you know, love you know,

0:38:45.160 --> 0:38:46.520
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, oh, you know, you're a great and

0:38:46.560 --> 0:38:50.399
<v Speaker 1>they're like not, It's just I promised I promised her

0:38:50.440 --> 0:38:52.799
<v Speaker 1>with the last one because she was like, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>deal with another heartbreak after something that happened with my brother.

0:38:55.320 --> 0:38:57.720
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, Mom, don't worry, We're gonna get married.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I remember we were breaking up. I was

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<v Speaker 1>like scared to tell her, like the most. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, my mom, only staying with this person right

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<v Speaker 1>now because I'm scared at your feelings. And of course

0:39:07.520 --> 0:39:09.960
<v Speaker 1>she was like, Craig, you're my son. At the end

0:39:09.960 --> 0:39:11.759
<v Speaker 1>of the day, I love you. I want you to

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<v Speaker 1>be happy. Don't ever do anything. I know, but I've

0:39:14.040 --> 0:39:16.799
<v Speaker 1>done the same thing. Moms are the greatest. Well, we're

0:39:16.840 --> 0:39:21.560
<v Speaker 1>fortunate of awesome. Yes, we're fortunate of that's the thing

0:39:21.600 --> 0:39:23.680
<v Speaker 1>that everyone on the show does. But you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>we we definitely you know, we're kind of MoMA's boy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a MoMA's girl, all right, y'all. Thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>watching me and Craig on How Men Think. We had

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<v Speaker 1>an absolute blast. It was fun crashing this show this week.

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<v Speaker 1>Hope to be back soon. Until then, you can catch

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<v Speaker 1>us on Robo TV Thursday nights at nine pm Southern Charm.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you can find me on Instagram at c A

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<v Speaker 1>Conover or someone down south, and and me at Croll,

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<v Speaker 1>the Warrior King, not Princess Sophia. Cheers, y'all, cheers,