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Speaker 1: This is How Men Think with Brooks like and Gavin

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Speaker 1: to grab and I heard radio podcast what's up everyone

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Speaker 1: with the How Men Think Podcast? I'm Craig and I'm

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Speaker 1: Austin and we're here to fill in for Brooks and

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Speaker 1: Gavin on this week's episode of How Men Think. So

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Speaker 1: as in we just said, I'm Craig Rawston. We're here

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Speaker 1: from Bravo TV's Southern Charm. We're in our seventh season now.

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Speaker 1: Austin is on his fourth season with us and he's

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Speaker 1: doing great. But our show airs on Thursdays at nine pm.

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Speaker 1: And uh yeah, catch us there. But we're Craig in

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Speaker 1: Austin from Bravo TV Southern Charm. We have a lot

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Speaker 1: to talk about. I mean, this is you. We we

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Speaker 1: are the best test subjects or the worst to hear from.

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Speaker 1: Right now, I am I am late to this this

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Speaker 1: taping because of issues with my girlfriend. And Austin has

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Speaker 1: now had his entire mood killed because of his girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: So how do we feel about letting girls kind of

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Speaker 1: affect our daily outlook on life? Because you were so

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Speaker 1: happy all day? Well, Craig, uh, well, okay, yes, this

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Speaker 1: is amazing, this's amazing you and I are kind of

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Speaker 1: similar beings in this right. So we're so Austin and

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Speaker 1: I are both very emotional people. Uh, we love languages.

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Speaker 1: We definitely have love languages and and we need our

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Speaker 1: significant others to hit those lovely But and I know

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Speaker 1: you're used to Brooks and Gavin, which is great and

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Speaker 1: as I don't know if we appear that we have

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Speaker 1: hard shells, um, but we're so soft underneath that shell.

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Speaker 1: And that's where a lot of girls don't realize that

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Speaker 1: a lot of guys out there is that soft shell

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Speaker 1: crap and no matter. And we're sensitive and you know,

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Speaker 1: like I just deelt with something with my girlfriend. Is

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Speaker 1: she went on the offensive because she she was worried

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Speaker 1: that I was gonna hurt her when really, you know,

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying that, you know, we might be intimidating,

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Speaker 1: but we're just as intimidated of you at times. And

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Speaker 1: I don't know, there's no matter how tough you look

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Speaker 1: on the outside, is this what we're supposed to be doing?

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Speaker 1: I think so we're just giving a rundown. So we're

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Speaker 1: both softies, um plenty plenty, plenty of things to say,

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Speaker 1: and just as you said, Craig, I mean, god, I'll

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Speaker 1: tell you my best days ever are when you know,

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Speaker 1: h but when what Hey, we're already in relationships, but

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Speaker 1: we'll tell you how we got there. And um, our

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Speaker 1: dating lives. I mean I went to school in college

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Speaker 1: am okay, and we enjoy sharing our experiences with you

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Speaker 1: all hit and um, yeah, we want to know what

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Speaker 1: you were curious to know what you guys want to know? Okay,

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Speaker 1: Austin Craig, thanks so much for being here on Holme

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Speaker 1: and think our listeners submitted questions for you guys. So

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Speaker 1: we'll just get into it. First off, what is a

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Speaker 1: good date idea during COVID? Okay, Craig is the worst

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Speaker 1: say I'm gonna during yeah, yeah, and maybe I am too,

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Speaker 1: like Okay, so we're assuming that everyone's quarantine and that

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Speaker 1: Casper and live text? And I would lie. I like

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Speaker 1: Craig has twelve, but go Craig. I hate bathroom humor.

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Speaker 1: This is one of those questions that we're gonna think

423
00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:42,840
Speaker 1: of in like six hours and be like wait and

424
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 1: be like, oh wait, call him back. Called back. What's

425
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:56,159
Speaker 1: the worst date you've ever been on? I've never been

426
00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:58,880
Speaker 1: on a date this day with Craig Right. I've never

427
00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:01,119
Speaker 1: been on a date with someone that I was not dating.

428
00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:05,960
Speaker 1: You haven't. I definitely have. I've been on it. I've

429
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:08,399
Speaker 1: never gone to dinner with a girl before looking up

430
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:17,560
Speaker 1: with them. Why? Why is that so? I can't think

431
00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:20,800
Speaker 1: of anything worse than the thought of sitting at a

432
00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:24,840
Speaker 1: dinner table with someone and knowing within thirty seconds if

433
00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:26,440
Speaker 1: you like them or not and just being trapped. I

434
00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:28,440
Speaker 1: don't know. I'm I'm a bar date person. I think

435
00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:30,800
Speaker 1: going and sitting at the bar would be awesome. Charleston

436
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:35,080
Speaker 1: was a very When I was dating, it was a

437
00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 1: you met the person in the bar, uh out, and

438
00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:43,880
Speaker 1: then you started to text, and then you would meet them.

439
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:45,879
Speaker 1: You know, you want to be too anxious or like

440
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 1: too obvious that you wanted to meet up and maybe

441
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:49,640
Speaker 1: the second or third bar of the night, and you'd

442
00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:51,560
Speaker 1: meet up at like eleven o'clock and she'd come with

443
00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:54,440
Speaker 1: her friends or you were with your friends, and you

444
00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:56,239
Speaker 1: would just have a good time at the bar. And

445
00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:59,880
Speaker 1: for me, I never got to that phase of asking

446
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:03,200
Speaker 1: someone to dinner until we had already been hanging out

447
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 1: for like a month. And I know that can be

448
00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:08,119
Speaker 1: translated into a bad thing, but it wasn't like that.

449
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:11,160
Speaker 1: It was just like, I'm more of an activity date person,

450
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:13,119
Speaker 1: Like I didn't invite you out on the boat, or

451
00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:15,679
Speaker 1: we could go jet skiing, or or like go to

452
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:17,919
Speaker 1: a pumpkin patch and do something silly or like a

453
00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:20,240
Speaker 1: haunted try. I don't know jet skiing. I just like

454
00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:23,000
Speaker 1: doing active. Its lay the other side of this, but

455
00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:25,200
Speaker 1: going to a sit down dinner and I've never done

456
00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 1: with someone that I was not dating. Okay, so I'm

457
00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:30,359
Speaker 1: gonna play the other side of this purely for playing

458
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 1: the other side of this. Uh. I do agree with

459
00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 1: Craig where um, the traditional date idea for me is

460
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:44,360
Speaker 1: like not my idea of fun or a date. I'm

461
00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:46,240
Speaker 1: not like, Hi, Sally, would you like to go to

462
00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:48,720
Speaker 1: dinner with me tonight? I don't like that. It would

463
00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:51,120
Speaker 1: much rather do like, Hey, let's go out and your

464
00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:52,920
Speaker 1: friends made up with my friends and let's have fun.

465
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:56,159
Speaker 1: But for sake of playing the other side, it is

466
00:25:56,359 --> 00:26:00,400
Speaker 1: fun potentially to go which I have done a couple

467
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:04,680
Speaker 1: of times in the past and five years a month, uh,

468
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:08,880
Speaker 1: to like bring a girl out and like bring them

469
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 1: to dinner and have like a true blue, honest to god,

470
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:14,440
Speaker 1: you know conversation when I don't do much, I don't

471
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 1: ever do that, but I have done it and it's

472
00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:19,199
Speaker 1: a lot of okay. But see, what do you do

473
00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:21,560
Speaker 1: with the dinner if you don't have something planned after?

474
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:23,360
Speaker 1: So do you just like get up? And then it's

475
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:25,720
Speaker 1: awkward for everyone? It's like, are we like what is

476
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:27,439
Speaker 1: for everyone? What if everyone? What do you do one

477
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:29,080
Speaker 1: on one? What do you do when you walk? Do

478
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:32,719
Speaker 1: you get in your car? You like walk? See if

479
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:35,800
Speaker 1: you have a plan, and you you finished dinner and

480
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:37,640
Speaker 1: you say, hey, would you like to go to UM?

481
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 1: And then you go get like an after dinner drink

482
00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:43,960
Speaker 1: and then you have that after your drink. And then

483
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:46,720
Speaker 1: if if, and this is the thing, this is what

484
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:49,440
Speaker 1: I'm trying to say. If you really like the girl,

485
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:51,960
Speaker 1: then you don't want to rush it because if you

486
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:55,040
Speaker 1: rush it, then all the excitement is gone. Right, So

487
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 1: you go to dinner and they're like, so back to

488
00:26:56,840 --> 00:27:00,040
Speaker 1: your place. I'm like, and this is done if what

489
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:02,879
Speaker 1: even begins. But if you really like a girl and

490
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:05,360
Speaker 1: you're like, oh man, this girl is like something, then

491
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 1: you take them somewhere else, you send them home, and

492
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 1: then the whole next day, all next week you're like,

493
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:12,840
Speaker 1: oh my god, this girl getting when you see their

494
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 1: name up, you getting with that. And if you're dating

495
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:20,479
Speaker 1: a girl when her name does not pop up on

496
00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:23,720
Speaker 1: your phone, then you're dating the wrong girl. Sorry, when

497
00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:26,119
Speaker 1: you don't get you know, butterflies when her name pops up,

498
00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:28,119
Speaker 1: and you're dating the wrong girl if you don't open

499
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 1: because my name, because this girl's name still gives me

500
00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 1: butterflies when it pops up. And that will always be

501
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:36,920
Speaker 1: the case probably Anyways, next question, do you believe chivalry

502
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 1: is dead? No? No, hell no, There's a lot to

503
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 1: be said. There's a lot to be said about opening

504
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:46,679
Speaker 1: the door, you know, the car door thing, home indecency,

505
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:49,200
Speaker 1: the car door thing. Do I, like, you know, really

506
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:52,360
Speaker 1: care about. No, But like pulling the a girl's chair

507
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:54,959
Speaker 1: out when she gets into the table, Hugh, Well, it's

508
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:59,119
Speaker 1: funny at the restaurant. So here there's a balance between

509
00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:02,920
Speaker 1: chivalry and the girl feeling like you respect that they're

510
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:05,399
Speaker 1: capable of doing a thing on their own. So like

511
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:07,359
Speaker 1: pulling a chair out, Like some girls will be like

512
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:10,119
Speaker 1: I know how to pull my chair out, but you

513
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:12,080
Speaker 1: kind of have to feel it out, or like ordering

514
00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:14,120
Speaker 1: for them. It's like I can order my own meal.

515
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:18,280
Speaker 1: Like like the submissiveness level is nuts. But then if

516
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:21,159
Speaker 1: some creeper at the bar comes up to them and

517
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:23,480
Speaker 1: it's kind of like pushing into them or something, trying

518
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 1: to order a drink, and you come up and stand

519
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:27,600
Speaker 1: between them and like place your hand on their back

520
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:31,320
Speaker 1: or something, that to me is like that says jealousy

521
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:33,800
Speaker 1: to me, No, it shows that you have their back

522
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:36,440
Speaker 1: and you're like protect. I don't know, there's a there's

523
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 1: a balance, but I think coming. I think manners, manners

524
00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:44,680
Speaker 1: are very important. Is not dead and if anyone says

525
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:48,000
Speaker 1: that that is so l a, I had vomitance, very

526
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:52,600
Speaker 1: very like like I just think like or if a

527
00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 1: fight breaks out in the bar and all of a

528
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:56,800
Speaker 1: sudden she feels you like grab her like this and

529
00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 1: like away from a fight, I feel like that would

530
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 1: be of course, but like if you were, I don't know,

531
00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:04,280
Speaker 1: I've seen some bad stuff out. I'm sure you felt

532
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:08,720
Speaker 1: for Craig right now. But what I'm saying is that chivalry,

533
00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 1: of course dead. Then you're a tea bag. Then you're

534
00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 1: a douche bag. And if you're dating someone that's like that,

535
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 1: then you should leave a true story. And uh, it

536
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:21,719
Speaker 1: only takes a couple of gestures to make somebody feel

537
00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:25,680
Speaker 1: that you are, you know, considering them at all points

538
00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 1: in time. And one of those gestures. Men, I'm telling you,

539
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:33,720
Speaker 1: do not miss out on pulling a chair out for

540
00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 1: your date. Do not miss out on it. You are wrong,

541
00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:41,480
Speaker 1: You're just wrong. They will end and they will tell

542
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:43,880
Speaker 1: their friends about it for the next two weeks. I

543
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 1: promise you that. Just be smooth about it. Smooth move. Yeah,

544
00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 1: it just don't announced everyone you're doing it, you know.

545
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 1: Of course, Hey, did you see I hold the chair

546
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 1: for you or put it out and they'd be like,

547
00:29:56,640 --> 00:30:00,840
Speaker 1: you sit down, extend the chair out for her. How

548
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:03,240
Speaker 1: do you scoot it in once they're sitting now, dude,

549
00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:08,840
Speaker 1: never figured that out. I'll tell you. They stand like

550
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:10,760
Speaker 1: one ft in front of it, and then you move

551
00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 1: the chip, you pull the shout, you know, two ft away.

552
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 1: They move in and hold the chair and you know,

553
00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:18,720
Speaker 1: one foot enough so that it hits their the back

554
00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:20,320
Speaker 1: of their knees. When it hits the back of their knees,

555
00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 1: and they noticed that, that's what you're done. Done. If

556
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:26,000
Speaker 1: you don't do that, then good luck and they can

557
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:28,000
Speaker 1: hurt your wife. I have to go on to dinner first.

558
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:31,760
Speaker 1: Good luck. Until then, I'm just protecting him from our fight.

559
00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:35,840
Speaker 1: Why do you men chase girls while supposedly in a

560
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 1: monogamous relationship because they're douchebags? Okay, because from men, you know,

561
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:45,520
Speaker 1: grass is greener on the other side. But Craig is right,

562
00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:47,520
Speaker 1: because they're douchebags if you're with someone you really want

563
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 1: to be with, and of course because they settle anyone

564
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:53,240
Speaker 1: because they settled. If you're checking, if you're chasing other

565
00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:56,320
Speaker 1: people when you're in a relationship, it's because you settled.

566
00:30:57,320 --> 00:31:01,680
Speaker 1: Chasing is the key word here, you know, if you're

567
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:07,000
Speaker 1: chasing somebody else, Yeah, yeah, that's like you settled, And

568
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 1: that's because you are with the wrong and you're and

569
00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:12,760
Speaker 1: you know why you settled because you're insecure, and you're

570
00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 1: insecure because you're like, well, I kind of like this person,

571
00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 1: but if I leave them to chase what I really want,

572
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:22,640
Speaker 1: maybe I'll never find someone like them again, and so like,

573
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:25,120
Speaker 1: but I'll keep them around just in case. Like you

574
00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:27,920
Speaker 1: are a selfish piece of story. Also, if you stay

575
00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:31,120
Speaker 1: with anyone past thirty days that you don't see yourself marrying,

576
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:35,080
Speaker 1: you also are a selfish piece and you're insecure and

577
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:37,280
Speaker 1: you're too scared to be out on your own, so

578
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 1: you keep someone around for comfort and all you're doing

579
00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 1: is mind fund them, and you're gonna break their heart

580
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 1: when you move on. Thirty days is the limit. If

581
00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 1: you don't think this hits home for Craig right now, No,

582
00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 1: I'm just saying that's okay. That's if you stay with

583
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:53,560
Speaker 1: someone more than thirty days, And god, the guys that

584
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:58,440
Speaker 1: limit because you know, you know what that not everybody

585
00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:02,480
Speaker 1: knows in thirty don't here. I do not agree with that.

586
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 1: You not know, you go and then I'll go, Okay,

587
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:10,280
Speaker 1: if you do not see a future with this person,

588
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 1: as in like a plausible outcome, like there's a chance

589
00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 1: of that. If you know for a fact that you

590
00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 1: will never marry this person and you meet their parents,

591
00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:23,200
Speaker 1: fuck you. Okay, Cinderella, are you finished with your fairy tale?

592
00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 1: It's not always that way, Okay, thirty days, congratulations, Craig.

593
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 1: You know that you want to marry someone and knows

594
00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 1: that that's like that you could marry. I don't agree

595
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 1: with that. I think that you meet somebody you might

596
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:39,440
Speaker 1: have this great thing with, you date them for a bit,

597
00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 1: and then you might find out that they're not for you.

598
00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:45,600
Speaker 1: So fucking what, Craig, thirty days after thirty days that

599
00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:48,200
Speaker 1: they're not for you? I don't know. It's a comfort. Yes,

600
00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:51,720
Speaker 1: you're just bored, Yes, board, Yes I have. I have

601
00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 1: dated people before that I really really really like, but

602
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:57,480
Speaker 1: that I did not see as my But I was like,

603
00:32:57,600 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 1: maybe they will be that person, you know, Craig, maybe

604
00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:04,200
Speaker 1: you said maybe they'll be that person you know that.

605
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:09,200
Speaker 1: Nowadays I think that way if I meet somebody I'm

606
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:15,040
Speaker 1: not dating casually any longer. But previously, no way was

607
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 1: I like thirty days and then um, if I'm not

608
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:20,840
Speaker 1: gonna marry them and I'm in dump on, No way.

609
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 1: I have experimented, and I've had fun with girls, and

610
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:25,400
Speaker 1: I've done lots of things. And another like, you know

611
00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 1: the chef way. So I dated Agron. You haven't dated

612
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:31,280
Speaker 1: a girl Chef. You just banged so like I'm talking

613
00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:34,960
Speaker 1: about now though, now, so take away the thirty days

614
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 1: and meet the parents? Said, are you meeting the parents

615
00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 1: of a girl that you know? You know if she

616
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 1: thinks there's a future, and you know that you're not

617
00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 1: gonna end up with that girl. I have just to

618
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:45,920
Speaker 1: keep it around her sex, just to keep it around person.

619
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:49,440
Speaker 1: And now I can agree with you that right now

620
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 1: in my life, the next person that I date, there's

621
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:57,000
Speaker 1: no longer like a looking out. Look. Now, the next

622
00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 1: person that I date meet my parents is my wife.

623
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:03,480
Speaker 1: But some people do keep people around out in a

624
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 1: selfish way. Sure, and I've done that before, and I

625
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:10,800
Speaker 1: have done it before. What was it like watching yourself

626
00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:14,800
Speaker 1: on TV for the first time? No? You you go first?

627
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 1: You're all right? So I first season loved it. The

628
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:21,239
Speaker 1: mail so we used to get a hard copy and

629
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:25,640
Speaker 1: DVD delivered to our doorstep a week before the episode aired.

630
00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:28,560
Speaker 1: And I lived two blocks away from Chef, and the

631
00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:31,960
Speaker 1: mailman came to my house first, like and his weird

632
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 1: route would take hours to get to his house. So

633
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,480
Speaker 1: ship would run down to my house and we would

634
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:39,719
Speaker 1: watch standing up in my living room. Um, and we

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00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:42,240
Speaker 1: couldn't sit down. It was nuts. And then I also,

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00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:46,319
Speaker 1: embarrassingly enough, would play it at like after parties and

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00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:48,840
Speaker 1: stuff because it was all I do. Hold on for

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00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 1: all those in the back listen up, turn your volume up.

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00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:57,360
Speaker 1: Craig Conover used to play hard copy DVDs at after

640
00:34:57,480 --> 00:35:01,920
Speaker 1: parties for chicks to Square because no, there was never

641
00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:04,160
Speaker 1: a show in Charleston. It was nuts, it was all new.

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00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 1: It was crazy. Here's when it changes when you date

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00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:10,080
Speaker 1: on television. And as soon as I had a girlfriend

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00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:12,560
Speaker 1: on the show, and as soon as I saw for

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00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:15,279
Speaker 1: the first time her betray me and what I thought

646
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:19,000
Speaker 1: was a betrayal and did like, you will never watch

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00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:21,759
Speaker 1: the show again. And after Naomi and I started to

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00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 1: have disagreements on the show, I stopped watching that day

649
00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:29,080
Speaker 1: and didn't watch for three years. Now I watched because

650
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 1: it's all about him and I can just laugh at it.

651
00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:35,200
Speaker 1: So then yes, the segue into mind season four and five,

652
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 1: I was like, they love me, they really loved me.

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00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 1: And then I started to date someone really really seriously

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00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:45,640
Speaker 1: and emotions and you know, heartache gets involved and like

655
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:49,640
Speaker 1: real heartache, and then I haven't watched. I didn't watch,

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00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:51,759
Speaker 1: you know, much of last season except if someone was like,

657
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:54,279
Speaker 1: you know, you gotta watch. I made him watch with

658
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:56,799
Speaker 1: me in Bermuda like two weeks ago or three weeks ago,

659
00:35:56,920 --> 00:36:00,440
Speaker 1: and finished the episode ended with us getting very drunk

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00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:03,040
Speaker 1: and him yelling at us. Well, I yelled at Chef

661
00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 1: yees Chef, I like, you know, I like lost it

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00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 1: on with with like six minutes left from the episode

663
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:12,800
Speaker 1: of episode one of season seven, I was like, fuck

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00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:15,399
Speaker 1: you and the horse you rode in on and and

665
00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 1: we screamed at each other, and I go, chet, let's

666
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:20,480
Speaker 1: say it for the reunion. I love you for now,

667
00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:26,320
Speaker 1: but I hate you. Last question, what kind of pressures

668
00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:31,520
Speaker 1: do you get from your family? So uh, kind of pressures,

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00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:32,759
Speaker 1: but kind of pressure is like you know, with the

670
00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:35,880
Speaker 1: show specifically or or with like you know, the pressure.

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00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:38,880
Speaker 1: So just like dating, like, does your family pressure you

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00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:45,000
Speaker 1: to like family? Yeah, so, uh, my family that as

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00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:47,920
Speaker 1: you know, I'm sure that Craig isn't. You're gonna say

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00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:49,880
Speaker 1: something different, but of course, you know, my family is

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00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:54,279
Speaker 1: very supportive. They've never been that kind of family to

676
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:57,160
Speaker 1: be like, she's a good girl, Austin, you should go

677
00:36:57,239 --> 00:37:00,120
Speaker 1: and marry her, like she is like sorry she of

678
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 1: course I say she because my mother is in the

679
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:04,160
Speaker 1: major arch of the family. But my folks have always

680
00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 1: been like, take your time, do not rush into anything.

681
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:12,480
Speaker 1: And especially with my businesses now or with my business,

682
00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:17,399
Speaker 1: they're like as supportive as could possibly be. And being

683
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:20,200
Speaker 1: on this show, they're like, Austin, we we think it's funny,

684
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:23,560
Speaker 1: we think it's great. We've met Craig, we've met Chef,

685
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:26,319
Speaker 1: we've met Whitney. We think that they're wonderful. We think

686
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:28,320
Speaker 1: that you have great, you know, friendships with them. So

687
00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:31,680
Speaker 1: so they could not be more you know, supportive, whereas

688
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:34,239
Speaker 1: more people in the South could be like, when are

689
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 1: you gonna get on in Austin, it's time to you know,

690
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:38,880
Speaker 1: meet a wife. They are not that way. They're like,

691
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:41,480
Speaker 1: we want you to find the right person. And the

692
00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:47,000
Speaker 1: right time in your life. And my pressure for my

693
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:50,560
Speaker 1: family is to finish what I start. So that's pretty

694
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:52,560
Speaker 1: much the only pressure I've ever had from there is

695
00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:54,960
Speaker 1: to finish what I start. So I chose to go

696
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:57,360
Speaker 1: to law school. Finish it. I wanted to be an attorney.

697
00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 1: Finish it. Um. They love of all, they trust my

698
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 1: intuition with stuff where I wanted to start a pillow company,

699
00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:08,480
Speaker 1: as bizarre as that was, They're like, fine, just do it.

700
00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 1: A don't fall into this pattern of like having a

701
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:15,680
Speaker 1: great idea and then not doing anything about it. And

702
00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 1: procrastination is something that I struggle with. Um. Charleston is

703
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 1: a very easy place to distract herself, UM and not

704
00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:25,680
Speaker 1: do what you're supposed to do. So for me, it's

705
00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:29,440
Speaker 1: finished when I start. UM. But yeah, unfortunately it's not

706
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:31,440
Speaker 1: the dating stuff because my mom doesn't want to fall

707
00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:35,640
Speaker 1: in love with another potential daughter and it break her

708
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 1: heart again. So and I'm such a sucker for that.

709
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:41,760
Speaker 1: She's met like three girls in the past five years,

710
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:45,200
Speaker 1: and I just assumed that they, you know, love you know,

711
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:46,520
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, you know, you're a great and

712
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:50,399
Speaker 1: they're like not, It's just I promised I promised her

713
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:52,799
Speaker 1: with the last one because she was like, I can't

714
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:55,279
Speaker 1: deal with another heartbreak after something that happened with my brother.

715
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:57,720
Speaker 1: And I was like, Mom, don't worry, We're gonna get married.

716
00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:00,799
Speaker 1: And then I remember we were breaking up. I was

717
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:03,520
Speaker 1: like scared to tell her, like the most. Yeah, I

718
00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:05,560
Speaker 1: was like, my mom, only staying with this person right

719
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 1: now because I'm scared at your feelings. And of course

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00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:09,960
Speaker 1: she was like, Craig, you're my son. At the end

721
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:11,759
Speaker 1: of the day, I love you. I want you to

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00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:14,000
Speaker 1: be happy. Don't ever do anything. I know, but I've

723
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:16,799
Speaker 1: done the same thing. Moms are the greatest. Well, we're

724
00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 1: fortunate of awesome. Yes, we're fortunate of that's the thing

725
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 1: that everyone on the show does. But you know, like

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00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:27,919
Speaker 1: we we definitely you know, we're kind of MoMA's boy.

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Speaker 1: I'm a MoMA's girl, all right, y'all. Thank you for

728
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:41,879
Speaker 1: watching me and Craig on How Men Think. We had

729
00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 1: an absolute blast. It was fun crashing this show this week.

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Speaker 1: Hope to be back soon. Until then, you can catch

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Speaker 1: us on Robo TV Thursday nights at nine pm Southern Charm.

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00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:56,719
Speaker 1: Then you can find me on Instagram at c A

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Speaker 1: Conover or someone down south, and and me at Croll,

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Speaker 1: the Warrior King, not Princess Sophia. Cheers, y'all, cheers,