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Speaker 2: My wedding or should you marry her?

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Speaker 1: So I thirty two female, am engaged to the man

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Speaker 1: of my dreams thirty four male, and have been since

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Speaker 1: December of twenty twenty. We first met when we were

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Speaker 1: teenagers through a mutual friend and always had a draw

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Speaker 1: to one another, but we're both too shy to act

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Speaker 1: on it in our youth. We remain just friends despite

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Speaker 1: our feelings for several years, not speaking often, but always

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Speaker 1: an ear. Oh this comes from Lanky Change twenty twenty

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Speaker 1: one or on the other side. Okay, So my relationship

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Speaker 1: time he and I have been together was great. Oh yeah, Dutch,

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Speaker 1: Cassanda says cross section Sam, That's the word I was

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Speaker 1: looking for. But when he and I moved an hour

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Speaker 1: away two years ago, that all changed drastically and immediately.

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Speaker 1: In fact, instead of being happy or excited for us

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Speaker 1: to be starting our own lives in a beautiful new place,

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Speaker 1: she elected to shed both myself and her son out

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Speaker 1: of her life for the most part, never texting or

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Speaker 1: videoing as she usually did, and barely calling calls or

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Speaker 1: confined to her complaining about how she will never come

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Speaker 1: to where we live because it's over a bridge and

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Speaker 1: to really see us, and her racking to us about

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Speaker 1: how much time she now spends with her daughter and

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Speaker 1: other grandchildren weird. When we started making solid wedding plans,

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Speaker 1: she would always make a point to say, we'll take

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Speaker 1: like me will be able to be there to see it.

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Speaker 1: Your little old mom, would you okay? Pick me mom?

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Speaker 1: Right here, bro, it's a pick me mom.

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Speaker 2: Tell me there is not a way. Most places with

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Speaker 2: bridges have a long way.

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Speaker 1: Around many many places a long way, some places the

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Speaker 3: Take the long way, which hey, listen, if she had

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Speaker 3: like a phobia bridges, all right, fair enough.

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Speaker 1: Nor phobia?

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Speaker 2: Go around?

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Speaker 1: No, no, go over the bridge, gonna push you off

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Speaker 1: if you you sha't go through it.

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Speaker 3: You know you have to zip line or what's.

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Speaker 1: Over the bridge? You know? White water raft down the.

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Speaker 3: River, grappling, hook grappling, you know, like like batman style,

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Speaker 1: Like cannon style. Just shoot yourself across.

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Speaker 2: There is a way, there's a way, if.

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Speaker 1: There's a will, If there's a will, there's Kimberly find

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Speaker 1: says guests. She'll never get over it, but we're gonna

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Speaker 1: get over to this next part of this nice so

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Speaker 1: we'll take picture because like me anyway, a reminder, we

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Speaker 1: only moved an hour away, two hours at the absolute most.

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Speaker 1: She just refuses to go over that bridge. But I

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Speaker 1: guess we'll cross that bridge when we come to it.

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Speaker 1: So not if she's driving, not even if anyone else

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Speaker 1: particular bridge. Wow, maybe it is a breaking weird bridge.

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Speaker 1: This wounded my fiance. He and his mother were very

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Speaker 1: close up until these changes. It really threw us for

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Speaker 1: a loop when she went from adoring and doting and

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Speaker 1: supportive to passive, aggressive and negligent. Although, like, is this

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Speaker 1: it might be the Shrek bridge. Yeah, pull that up,

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Speaker 1: Shrek bridge, bridge, Pull up Shrek bridge, but don't put

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Speaker 1: on this sound. Pull up Shrek bridge. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what's about or is the you know

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Speaker 1: I mean, our our entire entire US has crumbling infrastructure.

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Speaker 1: Over the next twenty years, our bridges will fail and

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Speaker 2: You know what, you might you might not be wrong.

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Speaker 1: Bridge. Yeah, go go go, Yeah, dude, I don't know,

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Speaker 3: Starts like yeah, the one who's like okay, yeah.

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Speaker 1: So my fianza and his mother uh and I wound

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Speaker 1: wedding planning. We set a date and informed the people

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Speaker 1: my surprise, my mother in law was thrilled. Chip are

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Speaker 3: There we go over here, trying to get him over here,

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Speaker 3: but here we go. Let's see it, dude, you guys

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Speaker 3: just man handle this dog. Oh there we go.

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Speaker 2: Nice work. That was actually kind of impressive. I'm not

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Speaker 1: There we go, good boy, good boy.

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Speaker 2: Here we go. Now we can keep reading.

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Speaker 1: Now we can keep reading.

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Speaker 2: That's about to say that Michael, he's stabbing him.

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Speaker 1: He's fine, Okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 2: Oh he's are sniffing.

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Speaker 3: He's sniffing like hyper ventilator that he was freaking out.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, none for you.

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Speaker 1: None for you, little doggy. All right, anyways, it's now, uh.

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Speaker 2: Dude, we need we need chip cam. There we go. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's cute. I can't quite see, but he's adorable. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I'm absolutely dude, shot out to Keon.

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Speaker 1: Man. We almost we did expose those dogs, and we.

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Speaker 3: Did, but you know, it could have been prolonged the

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Speaker 3: dog and we got the dog.

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Speaker 2: The dogs today?

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Speaker 1: Whoof anyway, All right, let's get back to the story. So,

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Speaker 3: That's a great point that I can't comprehend because I'm

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Speaker 3: reading all the feet comments right now. A lot of

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Speaker 3: FEAT comments going on, whole lot of FEAT comments.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, Yeah, it's like that's gonna end up on

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Speaker 2: Oh no, there we go. We really should just just

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Speaker 2: to complete the lore. We should just like John, should

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Speaker 2: we see your feet?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 2: Brother, I just did a foot peel like a day

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Speaker 3: Rather, it's probably it's not at the at the point

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Speaker 2: Basically it looks crazy. I see, Oh yeah, cool, it's

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Speaker 2: probably today. It's not so bad. That's just starting.

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Speaker 3: because that's when it really that's when it really starts

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Speaker 1: Dude, your feet look regular.

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Speaker 2: It hasn't. It takes a week.

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Speaker 1: Literally, you can't see anything.

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Speaker 2: It just looks like you have a dry feet.

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Speaker 1: Dry feet, bro. But I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if it's not. I already said chat

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Speaker 1: Anyway, to my surprise, my mother in law was thrilled

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Speaker 1: for weeks. Whenever it was brought up. She cried tears

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Speaker 1: be included in every detail. It was very heartwarming right

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Speaker 1: up until it wasn't so fast forward to the beginning

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Speaker 1: of April, I have my dress, my mother's all set,

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Speaker 1: groomsmen and bridesmaids are almost fully ready for the big day.

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Speaker 1: Since my mother and I will be having special mother

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Speaker 1: tell both my fiance and I just how unprepared she is.

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Speaker 1: She has not ordered her dress, she doesn't have any shoes,

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Speaker 1: she hasn't even looked for any jewelry she could wear

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Speaker 1: makeup she needs is twenty to twenty five bucks.

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Speaker 3: Hey, dollar store, dollar store makeup, you can do a lot,

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Speaker 3: Thank hot it.

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Speaker 1: You can do a lot with some dirt. As contort

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Speaker 1: and literally, we were both stunned and frustrated. I've been

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Speaker 1: we hung up. The next day, I pull out every

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Speaker 1: flattering her to her complexion and put it on display

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Speaker 1: for her to choose from. One forty five rolls around,

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Speaker 1: we haven't heard a word from her. Two PM comes

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Speaker 1: and she's not answered our text, nor is she here.

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Speaker 1: He calls her, no answer. She calls back five minutes later,

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Speaker 1: and apparently his call look her up. I immediately see

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Speaker 1: his face go red. And I am so stunned. Yeah, dude, Ship,

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Speaker 1: I'm right there with you. Chip goes, I say nothing.

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Speaker 1: She's sort of apologized. She sort of apologizes and ends

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Speaker 1: it with sorry to disappoint you. Seems like I'm always

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Speaker 1: disappointing to someone. All get ready to head over, dude,

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Speaker 1: such pick me energy three pm or pm? No, mother

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Speaker 1: he is both furious and heartbroken. This is BS. We

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Speaker 1: She eventually does show up at almost six o'clock, gives

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Speaker 2: I guess you won't really want to get with me.

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Speaker 1: I guess nice guys like me don't have a chance.

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Speaker 1: I'm okay with the idea she may not be here, Chip,

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Speaker 1: ida hole for wanting to uninvite my mother in law.

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Speaker 1: Hey? Chip?

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Speaker 2: Uh blink twice?

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Speaker 1: If for this story's got that goal, he's got the glow.

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Speaker 2: Dude, look, I mean, oh my god, Holy, how's your

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Speaker 2: Hey girl? Hey, hey girl, you're the one from me

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Speaker 1: Oh dude, don't give Stella. Don't give her anything.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, yeah, three thousand miles.

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Speaker 3: Chip, But yeah, I think in all seriousness, probably just

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that that should that should probably be good.

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