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Speaker 1: Hello everyone, it's your big sister Cheeky's and you've reached

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Speaker 1: help with. Whether you're going through a breakup or having

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Speaker 1: about my personal life. Whatever the case is, I want

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Speaker 1: the sound of the beeB, Hi.

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Speaker 2: Cheeky's, I hope that you're doing well, kerporal podcast person,

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Speaker 2: so keep it up. Midas. I love him, he loves

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Speaker 2: me Backjos. He has good qualities. He also has an ego.

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Speaker 2: Of course, it with ups and downs. The nemos ya

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Speaker 2: it was yours helps.

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Speaker 2: He's given me the run around, and I need to

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Speaker 2: give him an ultimatum because as a woman I need that.

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Speaker 2: Influen sayss. I don't know how to bring it up

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Speaker 2: say that as a woman, I need that and plus

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Speaker 2: my daughter has asked me about it too. We're all

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Speaker 2: growing up and have different needs, so it's gonna be

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Speaker 2: a hard thing to have to make decisions. But I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm muge. Well, first of all, thank you, thank you

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Speaker 1: want to become the best versions of yourself, So thank

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Speaker 1: you so much for that. Look, there is absolutely nothing

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Speaker 1: wrong with you wanting to get married. Quite frankly, there

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Speaker 1: isn't anything wrong with him not wanting to get married.

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Speaker 1: It all depends on what you're willing to do and

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Speaker 1: not willing to do. That makes sense. If you are

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Speaker 1: willing to stay with him because you want to have

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Speaker 1: whatever the case may be, stay with him but not

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Speaker 1: get married, then that's okay. And if not, that's okay too.

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Speaker 1: What I'm saying, basically is that you need to make

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Speaker 1: and I think it's a beautiful thing. Marriage is definitely

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Speaker 1: a beautiful thing, and I'm not saying it's going to

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Speaker 1: be better or worse than it is now because in

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Speaker 1: reality relationships, I've learned that it's just like you said,

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Speaker 1: ups and downs. So don't do it because you feel

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Speaker 1: I want to set an example for my children, especially

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Speaker 1: my daughter, and as a woman, as your partner, I

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Speaker 1: I definitely think that it's worth bringing up and asking

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Speaker 1: Casa Rosa, am I not worthy? Of marriage? Are you afraid? Like,

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Speaker 1: But if that's what you want, girl, like you deserve

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Speaker 1: How do you overcome those days? Oh my goodness, Debbie,

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Speaker 1: The other day was tough, so I hope it gets better.

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Speaker 1: DEBI but that that's what I do, so hopefully it

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Speaker 4: to you girl. Keep it up. You are an inspiration

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Speaker 1: appreciate you. Okay, So one of my shows, I'm assuming

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Speaker 5: I've been going through a certain situation going on with

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Speaker 4: And what do I need to do? Should I stay?

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Speaker 1: Ooh, I need more details, girl, I don't need to

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Speaker 1: but I don't need to know your name. I just

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Speaker 1: need more details. I need to know what your friends

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Speaker 1: I mean? Like, those little details are very important. But

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Speaker 1: your man. You guys could be friends outside of your relationship,

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Speaker 1: let's hear it hi tikis.

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Speaker 6: I am a huge fan of yours. I love the

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Speaker 6: way you sing me problema and sint.

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Speaker 1: You get down.

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Speaker 6: I love when you sing with Banna. You're Holadaan daviantas As.

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Speaker 6: I've been a fan of your since Chiki's and Roxy

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Speaker 6: and I don't know if you remember me from the

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Speaker 6: last question, but I asked on how to become a singer.

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Speaker 6: I want to give you feedback because your advice really helped.

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Speaker 6: You told me to look into an entertainment publicist. You

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Speaker 6: I actually came into contact with Jane. I'm sure that

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Speaker 6: music career. But I have everything on pause, nothing set

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Speaker 6: in Stoniet. I just wanted to share it with you

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Speaker 6: that through your podcast, you're actually helping me with your advice.

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Speaker 6: I'm me and Mayula, so thank you. Thank you from

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Speaker 6: the bottom of my heart for that cheeky's and I'm

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Speaker 6: me become somebody through your podcast. Thank you, Thank you

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Speaker 6: Chiki's you got your number one fan here and supporter.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, my heart. I love this. I love

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Speaker 1: updates you guys, Omar, you are somebody. Okay, first of all,

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Speaker 1: And thank you so much again for your update. Thank

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Speaker 1: I absolutely remember Janete and Walter. I haven't seen them

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Speaker 1: I'm proud of you. See, those are the things that

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Speaker 1: and I appreciate you very very much. I appreciate you all.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate all of you very very much, and thank

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