1 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:05,200 Speaker 1: Hey there, folks, it is Saturday, August sixteenth, and what 2 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 1: did you do this week to give yourself a beat, 3 00:00:08,400 --> 00:00:11,959 Speaker 1: give yourself a break, give yourself a little time to recover. Well, 4 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:15,200 Speaker 1: you know what we did. We ran out to see 5 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:18,760 Speaker 1: a horror movie. We also took morning walks. We watched 6 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:21,880 Speaker 1: an amazing thunderstorm. We continued supporting the arts and saw 7 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:25,599 Speaker 1: a show that was way off Broadway. We found chicken 8 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 1: wings in a basement, and we got two kids out 9 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:33,480 Speaker 1: of the house. As of today, welcome to this recovery 10 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:37,519 Speaker 1: run addition of Amy TJ. Robes. As of today, you 11 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 1: are once again officially an empty nester once again. Congratulations, 12 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 1: everybody are in order for it is Amy Robaka. 13 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 2: Yes, and one one girl is done tuition all paid. 14 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:53,520 Speaker 2: That is a huge, huge, big deal. But yes, she moved. 15 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 2: My oldest Eva moved back in for three months, and 16 00:00:57,600 --> 00:01:00,279 Speaker 2: then my youngest was back home from college and so 17 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 2: the three of us girls were in one apartment for 18 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:06,000 Speaker 2: the first time in four years. 19 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:11,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it went well. I think it was like, uh. 20 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 2: You had a front row seat to all the dynamics 21 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 2: and drama. 22 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:17,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I wish I had nosebleed seats. I didn't want 23 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:22,320 Speaker 1: to close, Yes, but it was it was really rose. 24 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 1: This was a hell of a summer. We made it 25 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 1: through the summer. Today really is the day because uh 26 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:32,959 Speaker 1: and at last left early this week on what Friday, yep, Friday, 27 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:36,479 Speaker 1: and then the other one moved out today on Saturday, 28 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 1: and so that's it. 29 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 2: She's spending her first night in her first big girl 30 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 2: apartment that big girls paying for all by herself. It's 31 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 2: very exciting. She's in Brooklyn and we can visit, she 32 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 2: can visit. It's healthier that way. 33 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 1: You know. I think a lot of us said as 34 00:01:55,480 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 1: we became adults, like how far you want to be 35 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 1: from your parents? Right? You want to be far enough 36 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 1: that they can't just hop in the car and run over, 37 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 1: but they need to be close enough that you still 38 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 1: have access to them if you need their help to 39 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 1: cover the kids. That kind of a thing, right. I 40 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:12,639 Speaker 1: think A was now at a healthy distance from us, 41 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:13,760 Speaker 1: given where we're living. 42 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 2: Yes, we're and for two people, or for I guess 43 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:22,399 Speaker 2: the two groups of people living in the city, we're 44 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:24,639 Speaker 2: about as far away from each other as we can 45 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 2: get while still being in New York sitting. 46 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 1: It's a very good but it was. It was a 47 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 1: fun summer. And yes, you'll have a moment your mom 48 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 1: was telling you you'll have a moment where you get 49 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 1: sad the girls are gone. But I haven't seen no 50 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:37,919 Speaker 1: signs of that. 51 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:40,919 Speaker 2: Well when I walk by underneath the bench, when you 52 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 2: first walk in and see, I won't see like two 53 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 2: hundred pairs of shoes scattered all over the place, little 54 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 2: droppings of just makeup in boxes and empty glasses and 55 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 2: half eaten bowls of whatever. I'm not going to miss that. 56 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 1: I'm trying to think what I you know, I miss 57 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:01,040 Speaker 1: you know as much as I complain about it. And 58 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 1: I do a lot of cooking. Most of the cooking. 59 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:06,840 Speaker 1: All of the cooking, there is something fun and it 60 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 1: makes you feel good when people run in and they 61 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:12,920 Speaker 1: just tear through your food, right right. They don't hop 62 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:15,080 Speaker 1: on my plate, but I make you this full meal 63 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 1: and they come in and just rip through it. Like 64 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 1: that's so annoying when you tell me you wanted food. 65 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:22,360 Speaker 1: But it's cool to have people I don't know to 66 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 1: be parenting in that way. It's because we feel like 67 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 1: our parents that always every time you go home, right, 68 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 1: they want to cook for you. 69 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 2: I think it'll be really nice to have that balance again. 70 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:31,839 Speaker 1: Though. 71 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 2: Anna Lise will come back for Christmas, Thanksgiving all that stuff, 72 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 2: Ababile visit here and there. But yeah, we're gonna get 73 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 2: used to a very different way of life starting now. 74 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 1: Yeah we just got to Oh so being's about to 75 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 1: be thirteen, so we're gonna have to deal with that. 76 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, we got two kind of just moving up 77 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 2: and out, and then we've got one coming up that 78 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 2: is a whole other can of worms that I have 79 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 2: already lived through. But don't worry, babe, I got you, 80 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 2: been there, done that twice. 81 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 1: The other thing, of course, anybody listened to us for 82 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 1: any period of time knows we are horror not just 83 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 1: horror movie fans. It goes a little farther to a 84 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 1: little bit of an obsession. We are horror movie buffs 85 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:17,920 Speaker 1: for sure. This is one Robes, one of the one 86 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 1: of those rare original horror movies that it's being so 87 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:25,040 Speaker 1: well reviewed. But we couldn't wait to get out and 88 00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:25,679 Speaker 1: see weapons. 89 00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, we saw weapons. The movie we saw with all 90 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 2: the girls actually was kind of a nice final that's 91 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 2: actually the final time the three girls were together. We 92 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:36,840 Speaker 2: didn't even realize it was kind of a moment, but yeah, 93 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:39,479 Speaker 2: we had to beIN Ava and Analyse and the two 94 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:44,280 Speaker 2: of us. And the movie was as promised it delivered. 95 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 2: It was so well written. The ending I wasn't a 96 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:52,599 Speaker 2: huge fan of, but throughout it I laughed, I jumped. 97 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:58,480 Speaker 2: I was very much leaning forward and waiting for the 98 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 2: next storyline or twist. 99 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:01,839 Speaker 1: The movie was fun. 100 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 2: Kept me on my toes. 101 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 1: That movie was done so well. Everybody knows the premise 102 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:09,160 Speaker 1: at this point, but it starts right off there. All 103 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 1: these kids walked out of the house at the same 104 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 1: time one night. Where did they go? And that is 105 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 1: the mystery. The whole time, they're piecing together and I 106 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 1: didn't know ro if they told the story. And it's 107 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:23,840 Speaker 1: not necessarily episodic, but through different perspectives, So it started 108 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:26,080 Speaker 1: with the vantage point of this person, than that person, 109 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 1: then that person. It was great. 110 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:32,039 Speaker 2: Yeah, so you're piecing it together through the lens of 111 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 2: each character and it's pretty cool and eventually the big 112 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 2: reveal happens and it was great. So it was It 113 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 2: was just gory enough, it was just suspenseful enough. It 114 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:46,360 Speaker 2: had you thinking what could be going on, what could 115 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:49,280 Speaker 2: be happening? You were invested in the characters. The acting 116 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:52,160 Speaker 2: was phenomenal. I thought the script was so good. It 117 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:54,280 Speaker 2: was comedic in just the right ways. 118 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:58,479 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, the final Oh oh, it's great. So 119 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 1: we don't want it because it's so cute to make 120 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:02,479 Speaker 1: sure and please don't tell anybody if you know what 121 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:05,360 Speaker 1: happens and what the whole storyline is, because it is 122 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 1: worth it. It is incredible. Highly recommend this and Cinners. 123 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 1: That is wonderful to see original stories, not another like 124 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:16,280 Speaker 1: Halloween twenty. This is an original. These are original horror 125 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 1: movies that are doing well. I would love to see 126 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 1: more of this. 127 00:06:19,600 --> 00:06:22,359 Speaker 2: It is so fun to see genre that we have 128 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:25,560 Speaker 2: loved for decades, Like I as long as I've been 129 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 2: watching movies, I believe, really truly since second grade, I 130 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 2: have been somewhat and very much so obsessed with horror 131 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:34,480 Speaker 2: movies and to see other people get on board it 132 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:38,719 Speaker 2: becoming more of a mainstream experience and having the creative 133 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 2: folks take that genre to another level. It really has 134 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 2: been elevated significantly since we started watching in the eighties, 135 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 2: the early eighties. So yes, I'm so excited more. Please, 136 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 2: and just it's a fun way. People always think and 137 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 2: how would that be relaxing or how would that be 138 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:56,640 Speaker 2: a recovery to go see a horror movie. But I 139 00:06:56,680 --> 00:07:00,160 Speaker 2: feel like I've always described going to horror movie and 140 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 2: enjoying horror movies as safe fear. It's an adrenaline rush, 141 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 2: but you know you're perfectly safe. You're in a movie theater, 142 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:08,760 Speaker 2: you're on your couch, whatever, and yet you're experiencing these 143 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:10,560 Speaker 2: thrills without actually being in danger. 144 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 1: I want to have Conjuring five is coming up, right. 145 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 2: Yes, September fifth. We cannot wait for that. 146 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 1: I am big on that. I don't know. I don't 147 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 1: think this happened until I came to New York. I 148 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 1: am really big on morning walks. And I have dragged you. No, 149 00:07:26,360 --> 00:07:28,080 Speaker 1: that's not fair. I didn't drag you with me. You 150 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:31,320 Speaker 1: were a willing participant. But I love getting up in 151 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 1: the morning. And we have done this, really has it 152 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 1: almost been every morning taken a walk. 153 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 2: And this has been the first week. We've done this. 154 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 2: Every now and then on a Sunday morning or a 155 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:44,080 Speaker 2: Saturday morning, you have said to me, Hey, you want 156 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:45,400 Speaker 2: to go take a walk. We don't even have to 157 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:47,720 Speaker 2: have a destination. Let's just get up so we've done 158 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 2: it periodically, but we've never consistently done it. And this week, 159 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 2: for whatever reason, You've just said to me, hey, let's 160 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:57,400 Speaker 2: go for our walk. And so we've kind of become 161 00:07:57,440 --> 00:07:59,760 Speaker 2: this old retired couple who gets up in the morning 162 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 2: and walks together. In fact, he actually been We took 163 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 2: a couple of evening walks too, and Annalie's just a 164 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 2: final last little jab in jeer before she left for college, 165 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 2: was actually laughing at us and she was making fun Yes, 166 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 2: She's like, are you eighty? And I was like, whatever, 167 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 2: you wish you could had a best friend to take care. 168 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 1: I didn't know you're not supposed to walk. 169 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:23,120 Speaker 2: Well, it's kind of what older people do because they 170 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:27,200 Speaker 2: can't do a lot of other highly exertive activities, so 171 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 2: they would walk, which is great for you. 172 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:33,720 Speaker 1: It's amazing. In the summer, the best time to be 173 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:35,800 Speaker 1: out in the city, very early in the morning or 174 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:38,240 Speaker 1: in the evening. There's a nice, little cool breeze, it's 175 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 1: still muggy enough. It feels great. Great, it's being a 176 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:44,520 Speaker 1: T shirt and it's quiet on the street. Oh. I 177 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 1: love the way. I didn't know I was doing an 178 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:47,560 Speaker 1: old person thing. 179 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:51,760 Speaker 2: I have enthusiastically jumped up and said yes to each 180 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 2: one of your offers for a walk, and I am 181 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:56,679 Speaker 2: now kind of excited about having that become a thing. 182 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:59,200 Speaker 2: We really is, it's become a thing. And we also 183 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:01,959 Speaker 2: go on our morning runs later when we because we're 184 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:04,520 Speaker 2: still training for a half marathon here in a couple 185 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:06,720 Speaker 2: of weeks, but it's nice to have the walk before 186 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:07,080 Speaker 2: the run. 187 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 1: Actually, you know, speaking of old people and walks, this 188 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:15,080 Speaker 1: isn't gonna help. One of those evening walks we went 189 00:09:15,120 --> 00:09:17,199 Speaker 1: on was specifically to go get pecans. 190 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 2: So that's when Anna was really making fun of us. 191 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 1: At least. 192 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 2: It's like, wait, what are you doing? And I said, 193 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 2: we're going on a walks, Like why are you going 194 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:26,160 Speaker 2: on a walk to get pecans? And she burst into laughter, 195 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:28,240 Speaker 2: so she was she was like, I said, we're going 196 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 2: to seven eleven to get pecans. And that's when she 197 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 2: started laughing because usually if you go to a seven 198 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:34,400 Speaker 2: eleven run, you're going to get funions, or you're going 199 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 2: to get some terrible ice cream or some bad thing. 200 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:40,120 Speaker 2: We're like, we're getting pecans, which she just thought the 201 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 2: whole thing was hilarious to her. 202 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:45,199 Speaker 1: But folks, we talked about this as well. We're both 203 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:49,200 Speaker 1: keto went back to its three plus months ago now, 204 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:52,079 Speaker 1: but can't have any sugar. I used to be very 205 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:54,680 Speaker 1: big twizzler person, need candy sweets of some kind, So 206 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 1: no sugars. But a pecan is a low car but 207 00:09:59,400 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 1: kind of a sweet little snack for me, and those 208 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 1: little bites I love. And I had to have pecans. 209 00:10:05,320 --> 00:10:08,160 Speaker 2: It's amazing because once you cut sugar out, you start 210 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 2: tasting things that you never considered to be sweet as sweet, 211 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 2: and pecans are among them. Why does this taste like candy? 212 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 1: Now? Pecan says like jolly ranchers. 213 00:10:17,559 --> 00:10:21,080 Speaker 2: Anyway, seven to eleven and two other badegas. Somehow we're 214 00:10:21,160 --> 00:10:23,720 Speaker 2: all out of pecans, And so we were walking back 215 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:26,120 Speaker 2: and all of a sudden we see this scary basement 216 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:29,559 Speaker 2: establishment but it says atomic Wings. 217 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 1: We see the sign all the time. We've never gone 218 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:33,720 Speaker 1: in there, and if you look at it, it doesn't 219 00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:35,360 Speaker 1: look like a real establishment is there. 220 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:37,560 Speaker 2: It actually looks like something out of a movie set 221 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 2: in Chinatown. Like it just you're like, wait, this is 222 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:43,400 Speaker 2: this really an okay place to go down into? 223 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:46,720 Speaker 1: And sure enough, because there's no storefront. If you look 224 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 1: at you just see atomic wings. But you look and 225 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 1: there's just a wall. You actually have to walk down stairs. 226 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:56,000 Speaker 2: What too make scary lighting. And I'm telling you, there's 227 00:10:56,040 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 2: no way I would have gone if I hadn't been 228 00:10:57,840 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 2: with you. 229 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 1: I love this. It reminded me. I TOLDE this was 230 00:11:00,720 --> 00:11:03,800 Speaker 1: reminded me of someplace in the South, some places, some 231 00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:07,240 Speaker 1: neighborhood joined some restaurants that were set up in people's 232 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 1: kitchen and out back. 233 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 2: It had like cafeteria chairs down there, and it had. 234 00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:15,440 Speaker 1: The smell, the look, the feet. It all felt like 235 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 1: the South to me, not just the South, but the country. 236 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 2: It was almost like like outdoor furniture was downstairs and 237 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 2: no one was there except for people coming in to 238 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 2: pick up deliveries. 239 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:26,880 Speaker 1: And they were great. 240 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:29,680 Speaker 2: The wings were amazing. It sounds funny, but some one 241 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 2: of the things you can eat, and I got the 242 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:33,920 Speaker 2: boneless wings, which I love and what I ended up 243 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 2: getting hot, But I was afraid to get They had 244 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:39,240 Speaker 2: atomic what were they they had suicidal? 245 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 1: What was the other nuclear? 246 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 2: Nuclear going? But that scared me. That scared me, so 247 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:46,040 Speaker 2: I went with hot. It was really really good, but 248 00:11:46,080 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 2: that was unexpected. So yeah, we came back home. With 249 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:51,559 Speaker 2: wings instead of a cons And then Annalice wasn't laughing, 250 00:11:51,559 --> 00:11:52,199 Speaker 2: she was excited. 251 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:54,800 Speaker 1: She joined in, which night was a thunderstorm? 252 00:11:55,280 --> 00:11:57,280 Speaker 2: I think that might have all been the same night. 253 00:11:57,760 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 1: Was it that thunderstorm? Was it? It was? We love 254 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:04,160 Speaker 1: a good thunderstorm. We're from the South, we get them regularly, 255 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:07,160 Speaker 1: but up here not as much, and certainly right over 256 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:08,880 Speaker 1: the city we had and that we were excited about it. 257 00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 1: But then again a little scary. 258 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:12,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean, we have a kind of a small 259 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 2: balcony that overlooks Broadway. But the lightning. I have never 260 00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:20,120 Speaker 2: seen a lightning storm like this in my twenty plus 261 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:23,320 Speaker 2: years in Manhattan. And it went on for I mean 262 00:12:23,440 --> 00:12:26,000 Speaker 2: over an hour, and the sky was just lit up 263 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:29,720 Speaker 2: and the booming of the thunder and then watching people 264 00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:33,200 Speaker 2: running with torrential rain, I mean, is it is a 265 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:35,760 Speaker 2: Manhattan moment. It's a New York moment. Because honestly, none 266 00:12:35,760 --> 00:12:37,520 Speaker 2: of us were expecting it, so a lot of folks 267 00:12:37,559 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 2: didn't have umbrellas. We were watching people try to hide 268 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:43,839 Speaker 2: in alcoves from the rain. It was. It was just 269 00:12:43,920 --> 00:12:46,960 Speaker 2: beautiful to see and people laughing and running. It was 270 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:50,319 Speaker 2: you know, people, It was a kind of a joyful oddly, 271 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:51,440 Speaker 2: if that makes any sense. 272 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:53,840 Speaker 1: But you always have to stop and enjoy the rain 273 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:56,040 Speaker 1: a thunderstorm, it always feels like a cleansing to me. 274 00:12:56,120 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 1: But they was putting on a show and we had 275 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 1: this front row seat to it at the time here, 276 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:04,880 Speaker 1: but there was crackling to the point that I say, hey, 277 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:06,400 Speaker 1: we should probably get off the balcony. 278 00:13:06,480 --> 00:13:10,320 Speaker 2: Well. Also a fun fact here, Yes, I am the 279 00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 2: child of two parents who've been struck by lightning. And seriously, 280 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:17,120 Speaker 2: my uncle actually died in this fourth of July lightning storm, 281 00:13:17,200 --> 00:13:19,120 Speaker 2: so I have all people should be aware. I was 282 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 2: there at the time when it all happened, so yes, 283 00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:23,840 Speaker 2: lightning is nothing to mess with. So we did back 284 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:25,760 Speaker 2: off the balcony. Even though we had an overhang, it 285 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:29,720 Speaker 2: felt mostly protected. But you can never be too careful. 286 00:13:29,760 --> 00:13:31,800 Speaker 2: So yes, we watched it safely from indoors, but we 287 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 2: left the door open so we could hear the thunder. Oh, 288 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:35,000 Speaker 2: it was sold the. 289 00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:40,439 Speaker 1: Hell of a show. But really two highlights of the 290 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:45,800 Speaker 1: week both had to do with your kids. One and 291 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:49,760 Speaker 1: off Broadway show that one of your kids produced, and 292 00:13:49,800 --> 00:13:54,440 Speaker 1: the other thing had to do with them both leaving. 293 00:14:03,559 --> 00:14:07,640 Speaker 2: Welcome back to your Recovery run on this Saturday morning 294 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:11,600 Speaker 2: run where we're talking about the moments this week that 295 00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:16,560 Speaker 2: we took to intentionally recover, relax, enjoy our lives in 296 00:14:16,600 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 2: the hopes that you'll reflect on your week as well 297 00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 2: and maybe intentionally make sure that you make time for 298 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:26,160 Speaker 2: you and for your relationships that matter and put all 299 00:14:26,160 --> 00:14:31,480 Speaker 2: that work and stress aside and really focus on marking 300 00:14:31,640 --> 00:14:33,520 Speaker 2: these moments. I think it's important to do so. But 301 00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:36,000 Speaker 2: one of those moments came. It was the fourth time 302 00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 2: we have seen each and every show that Ava has produced. 303 00:14:40,600 --> 00:14:45,000 Speaker 2: It's called Wigs and Wigs. The play is what it's called. 304 00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 2: It's an improv comedic show and they have different genres 305 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 2: each performance they put on. It could be a rom com, 306 00:14:52,640 --> 00:14:55,080 Speaker 2: it could be a Western, or it could be a 307 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 2: Who Done It? But Ava came up with the concept 308 00:14:58,160 --> 00:15:01,000 Speaker 2: and these actors are all phenomenal and it's just been 309 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:03,880 Speaker 2: a joy to watch each time because every show is different. 310 00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:07,640 Speaker 2: And she got some amazing news following her fourth performance, 311 00:15:07,680 --> 00:15:10,480 Speaker 2: and I'm just I'm so proud and also at the 312 00:15:10,480 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 2: same time just actually as a spectator enjoying the hell 313 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:16,160 Speaker 2: of it. So Bean has said, yes, I'll come to 314 00:15:16,200 --> 00:15:18,880 Speaker 2: everyone she's been able to make we don't. 315 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 1: Even have to invite her. She's like, oh, yeah, what 316 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:22,320 Speaker 1: tell me to day at the time we have her 317 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:24,040 Speaker 1: at the first show is nine thirty at night. She 318 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 1: was like, yeah, let's do this, but it really look 319 00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:32,640 Speaker 1: we wouldn't. We wouldn't. We were enthusiastic about going each time. 320 00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 1: And it's again, we were there from concept that we 321 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:40,080 Speaker 1: didn't understand when she said it out loud, and I 322 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:42,920 Speaker 1: hear that so often in the arts in Hollywood when 323 00:15:42,920 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 1: you talk to a producer from hit shows or whatever, 324 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 1: said yeah, I was turned down seven to four times 325 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:51,920 Speaker 1: because somebody didn't understand how stranger things might work, right, right, 326 00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 1: those guys got turned down a ton of times before 327 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 1: they have now this mega hit. And I see what 328 00:15:56,320 --> 00:15:59,640 Speaker 1: she's doing now to where we heard a concept. 329 00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 2: Like okay, I mean okay, you're getting wigs on actors 330 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:05,000 Speaker 2: and they become different people and it's all improv and 331 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:08,520 Speaker 2: there's no script and that could be huge bust or 332 00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:09,640 Speaker 2: it could be a huge blast. 333 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:11,960 Speaker 1: And now we're like, when's your next show exactly? 334 00:16:12,000 --> 00:16:14,520 Speaker 2: And the cool thing is someone else thought that too, 335 00:16:14,560 --> 00:16:17,080 Speaker 2: And so she just got word that they are now 336 00:16:17,400 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 2: getting a residency a weekly show off Broadway at the Pit. 337 00:16:21,520 --> 00:16:28,360 Speaker 2: It's an iconic comedic improv theater and it's perfect, it's intimate, 338 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:31,040 Speaker 2: it's cool. They're not making hardly any money, but they're 339 00:16:31,080 --> 00:16:33,320 Speaker 2: making something. And to get a residency, to get a 340 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:37,800 Speaker 2: permanent gig or at least a fall run is really cool. 341 00:16:37,880 --> 00:16:40,080 Speaker 2: So I'm really proud of her and really excited to 342 00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:40,800 Speaker 2: go to the next show. 343 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:43,240 Speaker 1: Well, you should be proud of her. She's got a 344 00:16:43,240 --> 00:16:44,720 Speaker 1: big girl pants on these days. 345 00:16:44,800 --> 00:16:46,440 Speaker 2: Right at a big girl apartment. 346 00:16:47,480 --> 00:16:50,720 Speaker 1: Again, we mentioned that the at the top here this 347 00:16:50,920 --> 00:16:54,480 Speaker 1: was the day officially that you are empty nesting again. 348 00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:57,200 Speaker 1: Does it as you sit here now, does it feel 349 00:16:57,240 --> 00:16:59,320 Speaker 1: like recovery? 350 00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:06,160 Speaker 2: I think yes. It's a shift in energy and focus. 351 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:08,399 Speaker 2: You know, when your kids are around you, you're always 352 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:11,119 Speaker 2: thinking about what they're doing, how they're doing, where they 353 00:17:11,160 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 2: are when you can spend time with them, even from 354 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:17,680 Speaker 2: will they be here for dinner or all? To know 355 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:20,000 Speaker 2: now that they have their own schedules and their own 356 00:17:20,040 --> 00:17:22,239 Speaker 2: lives and it really has nothing to do with me, 357 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:24,960 Speaker 2: at least for the next couple of months. At first, 358 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:27,280 Speaker 2: it feels a little scary, like, Okay, I just got 359 00:17:27,320 --> 00:17:30,359 Speaker 2: to let them do their thing, but I can also 360 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:35,440 Speaker 2: relax and release and be proud of where they are 361 00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:37,679 Speaker 2: and give myself a little bit of a break that 362 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:40,159 Speaker 2: I get to take a step back and kind of 363 00:17:40,160 --> 00:17:41,919 Speaker 2: look at it like that, How lucky am I to 364 00:17:41,920 --> 00:17:44,920 Speaker 2: be able to take a step back that they're taking 365 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:47,359 Speaker 2: their own step forward into the world, and instead of 366 00:17:47,400 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 2: it being a sad thing or something I'm missing out on, 367 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:53,359 Speaker 2: I can actually just cheer them on and lean into us. Actually, 368 00:17:53,440 --> 00:17:56,000 Speaker 2: I love that I'm with someone who I really like 369 00:17:56,160 --> 00:17:58,240 Speaker 2: being with and want to be around. I think, sadly, 370 00:17:58,280 --> 00:18:01,480 Speaker 2: a lot of folks you find out what your relationships 371 00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:04,320 Speaker 2: really like or worth once your kids are gone, because 372 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:06,600 Speaker 2: there's such a focus in such a distraction when they're gone. 373 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:09,639 Speaker 2: If you don't really like the person that you're sharing 374 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 2: your life with, it'll become really evident really soon. Unfortunately, 375 00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:14,000 Speaker 2: I think we. 376 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:17,119 Speaker 1: Had the opposite problem. Yeah, because they were there, it 377 00:18:17,200 --> 00:18:21,800 Speaker 1: was causing relationship strength. Love you girls kidding, But it's. 378 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:24,000 Speaker 2: A shift, you know, especially when it's someone else's kids 379 00:18:24,280 --> 00:18:27,679 Speaker 2: and they're older, they're assertive, and they have you know, 380 00:18:27,720 --> 00:18:30,600 Speaker 2: they're not as compliance perhaps even as younger kids are. 381 00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:33,240 Speaker 2: So yeah, it's it's a it's a dance. 382 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 1: It was every time I told them to go in 383 00:18:36,080 --> 00:18:37,120 Speaker 1: time out, it didn't work. 384 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:42,119 Speaker 2: I know they they they love you. They are always 385 00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:45,280 Speaker 2: like as TEJ, there is TJ coming, What about me? 386 00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:46,960 Speaker 2: You care if I'm there? You care if I'm coming. 387 00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:49,919 Speaker 2: But no, I'm looking forward to this. It will be 388 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:53,000 Speaker 2: more peaceful, and I think having some privacy we haven't 389 00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:55,160 Speaker 2: had a lot of that is going to be wonderful. 390 00:18:55,720 --> 00:18:59,640 Speaker 1: Well, folks, whatever you did this week, we certainly hope 391 00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:01,800 Speaker 1: you took time to take care of yourself a little bit. 392 00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:04,480 Speaker 1: Hope you're having a good weekend. But we always appreciate 393 00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:07,040 Speaker 1: you running with us, whether that's Monday through Friday on 394 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 1: the morning run or on Saturday as we get a 395 00:19:10,080 --> 00:19:12,960 Speaker 1: quick little recovery run in here. But I always appreciate 396 00:19:13,080 --> 00:19:14,359 Speaker 1: you hanging with us. I'm TJ. 397 00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:22,880 Speaker 2: Holmes and I'm Amy Robock. Have a great weekend, everybody,