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Speaker 1: The Nikki Glaser podcast Nis Nikki, Thank You Noah producer

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Speaker 1: Noah Over in Arizona episode three, Guys Listen Between You

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Speaker 1: and Me, Episode two. I was not feeling great. But

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Speaker 1: the thing is, it was almost like yesterday. Recording UM

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Speaker 1: was a respite from how terrible I felt, because as

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Speaker 1: soon as we were done, all of the sickness came

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Speaker 1: flooding in. I mean, I think I referenced it on

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Speaker 1: the show that I wasn't feeling great, but I went

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Speaker 1: upstairs to go take a show show and UM, to

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Speaker 1: get ready for my day and got out of the

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Speaker 1: shower like you know, one of those. I usually take

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Speaker 1: a about a two minute showers for the longest show

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Speaker 1: or if i'm if i'm not washing well, even if

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Speaker 1: i'm washing my hair, well, We'll add on five minutes

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Speaker 1: because I like the condition or soaking. But I'm bored

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Speaker 1: during those five minutes. I'm not doing shit. I'm just

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Speaker 1: like kind of waiting and I hate not having anything

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Speaker 1: to do. I want to like check my phone. Because

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Speaker 1: I take fast showers. I've always said this, I'll get

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Speaker 1: back to what happened after the shower. But people that

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Speaker 1: take long showers, I'm trying to approach things I don't

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Speaker 1: understand with more curiosity than UM being angry about it

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Speaker 1: because I grew up in a house that I learned

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Speaker 1: like we try to conserve energy and water. My dad

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Speaker 1: is an environmentalist, and so I al was took short

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Speaker 1: showers because my dad was always like worried about the water,

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Speaker 1: and also he used to watch us. That's a joke

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Speaker 1: that I wrote a really long time ago, but I

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Speaker 1: think it's very funny. But like, you know, my dad

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Speaker 1: was concerned about water, and also he would watch us

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Speaker 1: um shower, so I would get in and out as

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Speaker 1: quick as I got No, UM, I just take fast

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Speaker 1: showers now. And it's and I don't know if it's

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Speaker 1: because of that, but I honestly I don't know what

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Speaker 1: else to do in there. I want to talk to

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Speaker 1: Andrew about it, because the other day we got into

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Speaker 1: um you know what, there was some tweet many moons

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Speaker 1: ago about washing your legs if you wash your legs

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Speaker 1: or not, And I am not a leg washer unless

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Speaker 1: I'm shaving them or unless they have like physical dirt

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Speaker 1: upon them. Um. Otherwise I just think the water washes

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Speaker 1: it away or if Yeah, I've never washed my back

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Speaker 1: before intentionally like with a scrub, unless there's like I

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Speaker 1: which I did get on my back Las two summers ago. Um,

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Speaker 1: that was the only time I think I've scrubbed my

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Speaker 1: back ever. But what I do. I get the shower,

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Speaker 1: I soap up, I get my pits, I get my badge,

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Speaker 1: I get my back behind my but I like get

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Speaker 1: that area and I don't need to scrub for like

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Speaker 1: I'm just like like I give it a good scrub,

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Speaker 1: so like there's just no way, you know, I'm not

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Speaker 1: a general like a day's worth of build up and

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Speaker 1: then I get out. If that's if I'm not washing

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Speaker 1: my hair, I literally can take a fifteen I would say,

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Speaker 1: and totally refreshed. If I'm not washing my hair ing,

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Speaker 1: I'm washing my hair. We had a five minutes, but

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Speaker 1: I'm not doing anything else in those five minutes. You

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Speaker 1: have to tell people about the squeeze technique. Oh that

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Speaker 1: I learned the squeeze technique is a great drying method

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Speaker 1: that I learned from a w T F F episode

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Speaker 1: from Mark Maron ages ago. I mean like probably ten

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Speaker 1: how in relationships, when you break up with someone, you

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Speaker 1: can always look at something of like, I'm glad that

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Speaker 1: happened because I got this thing from them. This girl

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Speaker 1: he was, I think his ex wife taught him that

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Speaker 1: washing your window at the gas station, like your windshield,

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Speaker 1: and you use your hand and flick the water down

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Speaker 1: just gets all this water off that would have soaked

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Speaker 1: and you create like a lazy river situation. And you know,

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Speaker 1: It looks. Yeah, it's there's like a flood situation that

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Speaker 1: when you come back out, you're like, how did this

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Speaker 1: like a lazy river of like your steps. So, yes,

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Speaker 1: squeegee before you go grab something. So what happened on

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Speaker 1: wait for it. I was just like and there was

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Speaker 1: the oat meal I talked about yesterday that I loved.

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Speaker 1: So I haven't you did so long and as someone

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Speaker 1: who like as a history with eating disorders, and I did.

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Speaker 1: I was bullieve, like like, you know, I think it's

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Speaker 1: been linked twelve years at this, no, probably ten years

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Speaker 1: oh man, am is am I just doing like there's

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Speaker 1: not hard for me to do that if I want to,

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Speaker 1: because I did it so much as someone with an

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Speaker 1: eating disorder. But yesterday it was just like my head

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Speaker 1: then but then we go to set, so I puked

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Speaker 1: and I felt terrible. Still, you know, I get dressed

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Speaker 1: usually like hey everyone, like I'm so excited to be

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Speaker 1: I didn't want people to be like tiptoing around my feelings.

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Speaker 1: And at one point I was in the makeup chair

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Speaker 1: didn't want to go into the bed. It's in a bedroom,

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Speaker 1: shooting in. I didn't want to go to bed because

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Speaker 1: This just feels really good. And they were all like

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Speaker 1: It almost seems like I was faking. And the rest

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Speaker 1: of the day I had the greatest day of my life. Also,

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Speaker 1: anything for me. But I will say that and Andrew

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Speaker 1: do the news. We got a lot of good news

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Speaker 1: stories today. Know, how are you feeling today about the show?

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Speaker 1: Look up a thing called the sick role. It's a

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Speaker 1: psychology psychology term. Um and shout out to anyone who

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Speaker 1: because I know what torture that is. And how real

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Speaker 1: and because I have O c D in other ways.

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Speaker 1: So I am not belittling you. I am grateful I

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Speaker 1: hope it doesn't ever get to that for me. Um,

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Speaker 1: Andrew's coming in right after this. Andrew Colin, Welcome to

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Speaker 1: the third episode. How did you sleep last night? Like

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Speaker 1: a baby? I didn't ask you this morning when we

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Speaker 1: don't want to know. We try not to talk that

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Speaker 1: much off air because I do think though that us

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Speaker 1: living together makes for a better show than if we didn't.

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Speaker 1: We are working together on a separate thing and being

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Speaker 1: it makes for a better show. When we do this, well,

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Speaker 1: we become one human, Like we're meeting in the middle

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Speaker 1: of your feminism and me my masculinity, and I think

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Speaker 1: we're just turning into one. I think we're meeting with

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Speaker 1: my masculinity and your feminism. Yeah, we're realizing that. Well,

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Speaker 1: we have so much to discovery on the show. But

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Speaker 1: bad idea that I'm creating a podcast that I do daily,

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Speaker 1: Like I always think about the listener experience, like do

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Speaker 1: you want to hear people that live together, socialized together,

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Speaker 1: all the time. Uh. And I'm not saying that's the

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Speaker 1: right thing to do, but I think women do it.

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Speaker 1: Men probably do it too. Um, so maybe they don't

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Speaker 1: remember it, or maybe they're just like, it's just so

429
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Speaker 1: the sex is so blurh that they're not even like

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Speaker 1: thinking that they're having more of it. You know, Yes,

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Speaker 1: sex could be forgettable without blacking it. Like you could

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Speaker 1: just be like, oh, we fuck Tuesday. I don't remember

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Speaker 1: I was still watching Netflix while you're going down on me.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's kind of ideal I was going down

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Speaker 1: on you while you're watching Veep, Would you lose your mind?

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Speaker 1: I couldn't focus because it was if I was watching Veep,

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Speaker 1: like a scene with Dan from VIP, which for those

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Speaker 1: of you who want to know the character Dan and Veep,

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Speaker 1: who is a wretched human being who's Noah's boyfriend or

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Speaker 1: Noah's fiance producer Noa's fiance was in a scene with

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Speaker 1: Dan from the first season a VP. He is in

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Speaker 1: a heavy metal band that got hired to play for

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Speaker 1: one of the scenes. I think it's a season one.

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Speaker 1: Dan and Jonah go to a concert and av your

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Speaker 1: fiance is in a scene with Dan, who's in the audience.

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Speaker 1: But Dan's character if Yeah, I've watched those scenes where

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Speaker 1: he's like sweet to Amy to like get into mean

448
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Speaker 1: for three seconds. No I watched that scene. I watch

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Speaker 1: because I've been trying to get into more like porn

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Speaker 1: that isn't like you know porn porn. And the scene

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Speaker 1: from The Departed when Leonardo DiCaprio comes and visited, visits

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Speaker 1: the woman that he's not supposed to be dating because

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Speaker 1: she's a therapist, and he kind of like crashes on her.

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Speaker 1: She's about to move in with her a friend kitchen.

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Speaker 1: They don't fink the kitchen. They started making out in

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Speaker 1: the kitchen. I haven't memorized if you want to hear it.

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Speaker 1: He shows up and he's like, um, it's raining, and

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Speaker 1: he goes, I'm sorry, and she goes, no, it's fine,

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Speaker 1: you're not You're not a client anymore. And she kind

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Speaker 1: of like poses in a sexual way. And there's already

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Speaker 1: sexual attention before with them, like during sessions. And then

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Speaker 1: he goes to the shoe and there's a picture and

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Speaker 1: she goes, that's me, and he goes, I can tell

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Speaker 1: and he puts a picture on the wall of her

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Speaker 1: as a child, and then he um, he goes, you

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Speaker 1: don't have any cats or don't know. Then then the

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Speaker 1: teapot starts like screaming, and then it cuts to them

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Speaker 1: in the kitchen. It's such a great cut. Cuts to

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Speaker 1: them in the kitchen with a sexual tension, and then

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Speaker 1: he's like, um, so you're moving in with your boyfriend

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Speaker 1: or something like that, and she's like yeah, I mean

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Speaker 1: it just gets to a point where you just you know,

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Speaker 1: you you gotta do it or you just he just

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Speaker 1: and he goes, you just what like he's just calling

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Speaker 1: her on it. I'm kind of sucking it up. But

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Speaker 1: then he goes, it's so good. She goes, your vulnerability

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Speaker 1: is really freaking me out right now, and he and

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Speaker 1: he looks at her and he's across the kitchen and

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Speaker 1: he's like holding the sides of the door like the

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Speaker 1: pain and she's like a good seven feet away, like

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Speaker 1: on the other side of the kitchen, and she goes,

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Speaker 1: is it real? And he just like looks at Florid.

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Speaker 1: He goes and he nods like yeah, and she's just

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Speaker 1: like and then he goes, you don't have any cats,

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Speaker 1: and she's like she kind of was like yeah no,

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Speaker 1: and he's like, I like that, and then it goes

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Speaker 1: to and then it just cuts. Then there's like such

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Speaker 1: a attraction and then it cuts to her on like

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Speaker 1: sitting you can see she's sitting up on the counter,

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Speaker 1: and then he just goes in to kiss her and

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Speaker 1: then she grabs it and they like almost hit the cabinets,

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Speaker 1: and then it goes to the bat. It's the hottest

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Speaker 1: scene and it's literally one minute and forty seconds long,

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Speaker 1: and it's overdubbed in like Spanish and Van Morris. There's

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Speaker 1: like a cover of you Wantn't Don't Don't that that

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Speaker 1: pink floid song Oh yeah on the horaz It comfortably

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Speaker 1: numb and it's been Morrison, I think it's And it's

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Speaker 1: so fucking hot and I've been watching that and I

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Speaker 1: also watched the scene from the office where Jim confesses

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Speaker 1: his love to pay them and then they kissed in

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Speaker 1: the office. It's so hot. Do you want a bad

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Speaker 1: boy or at least I'm equivalent to a bad boy?

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Speaker 1: Finally to go Now, Jim wasn't a bad boy. I

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Speaker 1: want what I love and please send me clips because

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Speaker 1: I was looking for some more clips. I'm out of

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Speaker 1: them because I don't watch enough things. I want clips

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Speaker 1: of um shows where there's like sexual tension and they

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Speaker 1: shouldn't be together and then they finally like can't they

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Speaker 1: have to give into it? Also Leano Cocaprio and catch

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Speaker 1: me if you can when the girl gets braces and

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Speaker 1: then she's like they finally kiss. That stuff is so

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Speaker 1: hot to me. I love it, so please send that

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Speaker 1: into the Nicki Glazer podcast at gmail dot com. You

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Speaker 1: can email us now if you have any suggestions for

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Speaker 1: new porn for me to watch. I mean, what is

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Speaker 1: it that's so attractive And I know Jim doesn't fall

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Speaker 1: into that category, but the other ones do fall into

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Speaker 1: kind of like they're little mean, and then they showed

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Speaker 1: his vulnerability. It was wasn't about mean For me that

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00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:10,240
Speaker 1: it wasn't and was kind of edgy in that movie.

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Speaker 1: I mean, he wasn't clean cut. My point is is, though,

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Speaker 1: like you know, we see it where a guy will

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Speaker 1: be like, I'm finally letting down my walls and man,

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Speaker 1: you know, it's so hard for me to share, but

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00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:27,879
Speaker 1: because you think you're special, because it's sometimes it's not.

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Speaker 1: In that Departed scene, it wasn't bullshit in um in

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Speaker 1: the scene with Dan and you know what's her name

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Speaker 1: and Amy and feet, that was bullshit. But like a

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Speaker 1: lot of times it is bullshit. But when it's not,

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Speaker 1: it's like a very intoxicating feeling to be so special.

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Speaker 1: And so women want to feel like they are different

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Speaker 1: than other women, that the man is into them and

533
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Speaker 1: so into them they can't help themselves. We want to

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00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:57,440
Speaker 1: feel so overwhelmingly desired and special. If you are able

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Speaker 1: to make a woman feel that way, you're golden. My

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Speaker 1: point is, though, if you don't make a woman feel

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Speaker 1: special for the first in a relationship, and then all

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00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:12,119
Speaker 1: of a sudden because she's so amazing. Oh, I could

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00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:16,960
Speaker 1: finally be a nice guy, get it nice the whole time,

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00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 1: treating you special, and you don't realize that work. That

541
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:22,640
Speaker 1: can also work. But I'm saying, I can't. You can't

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00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 1: help the you like people that are hard to get to.

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00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:28,040
Speaker 1: I know, I'm just asking. I'm just asking because I

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00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:30,199
Speaker 1: think it happens a lot. Yeah. No, I I know

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00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:32,639
Speaker 1: women shouldn't put up with a guy who is abusive

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00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 1: to them ever. But if a guy has closed off

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00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:38,440
Speaker 1: and scared to get emotionally connected and you somehow break

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00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:40,800
Speaker 1: down those walls and start the process with him where

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00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:42,919
Speaker 1: he's not going to change overnight, but where he's willing

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Speaker 1: to start going to therapy, talking about his feelings and

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00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:49,679
Speaker 1: like wants shows effort to change because he wants to

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Speaker 1: be with you, and he realizes that's something that he's

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00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:54,240
Speaker 1: going to need to do to be with you. That's great.

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00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:56,720
Speaker 1: If you're dealing with a guy who has no intention

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00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:59,879
Speaker 1: and puts no effort towards changing, and you need him

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Speaker 1: to change, get the funk out of there now, ladies.

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00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,119
Speaker 1: He has to show effort to change. He doesn't have

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00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:07,479
Speaker 1: to change, but he has to show effort, and if

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Speaker 1: he doesn't, you need to give him an ultimatum and say,

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00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:11,760
Speaker 1: if you don't show effort, I'm leaving. And that is

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00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 1: a shout out to like so many of my friends.

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00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 1: So I guess what I guess. What I guess The

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00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:19,879
Speaker 1: realization that I'm getting from you is that don't just

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Speaker 1: go off a guy that goes, oh, you broke down

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00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 1: my walls and then the next day he's the same

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Speaker 1: piece of ship. There has to be more effort than

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00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:31,840
Speaker 1: yeah there for him to get his stuff together and

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Speaker 1: not just break down. As well as one time when

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Speaker 1: he got a little too drunk with you he told

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Speaker 1: you about the time that is, you know, he was molested.

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Speaker 1: And I'm not making I'm not doing a joke. If

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Speaker 1: a guy confesses to you something like that, go oh

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Speaker 1: my god, thank you so much for sharing that with me.

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00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:46,400
Speaker 1: I'm so glad you're talking about it. But go talk

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Speaker 1: to a professional without me, because you know that this

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00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:50,760
Speaker 1: is something that in order for us to work and

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00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 1: for you to be happy, you need to deal with

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00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 1: on your own right. Yes, beautiful. Uh. Also, at the

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Speaker 1: end of this story. Before we get to the next

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Speaker 1: one of the people report that their relationship grew stronger

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Speaker 1: in the wake up virus. So spending more time with

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Speaker 1: your loved one in a where you have to quarantine

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Speaker 1: and being in each other's fate. I would assume the

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Speaker 1: other live in a smaller apartment of you have a

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Speaker 1: three bedroom. That's hilarious. I mean, I don't know about that.

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00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:26,280
Speaker 1: Do you think I know? No, I'm just sucking around,

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Speaker 1: But I do think that that's great to hear that

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Speaker 1: you said, no, no, no, no, relationship grew stronger. Well,

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00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 1: maybe that tells us something about the fact that we

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00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 1: aren't spending enough, Like maybe more time together is something

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00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 1: that will help a relationship that is that is strained. Um,

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00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:48,920
Speaker 1: so that could be. I don't know. That's interesting, but

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00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 1: I mean all of those stats are fascinating to me

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00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 1: that men report better sex lives and women. You know,

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Speaker 1: we learned a lot in this little segment. I think already,

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Speaker 1: let's get to the next story. Next news story, folks,

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Speaker 1: I hope you're still having a great time. Casual sex

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Speaker 1: is on the decline for both young men and women,

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Speaker 1: as study finds alcohol, video games, and living with parents.

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00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 1: The contributing factors. Also, the pandemic, of course is alcoholic

601
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:17,000
Speaker 1: contributing factor to drinking. And they're like twenties, so they're

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00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 1: not well. We just heard the other day from yesterday

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Speaker 1: that women are drinking more, and I think that's women

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Speaker 1: that are already in relationships and they're miserable or they're

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Speaker 1: single and they're just like, I can't go out and

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Speaker 1: meet someone new. But yeah, young people are understanding, are

607
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 1: smarter than us, and they're realizing that drinking isn't that

608
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,920
Speaker 1: great and can lead to terrible stuff down the road

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00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:38,680
Speaker 1: and with your relationships and with your children and everything,

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Speaker 1: even if it's casual. So I think that, yeah, young

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Speaker 1: people are cutting down on those things. Even though young

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00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:47,840
Speaker 1: people are supposed to be stupider, they're not. Um, a

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00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:50,400
Speaker 1: lot of times they're not. And um, so they're drinking less,

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00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:54,760
Speaker 1: less sex, Yeah, less sex. They're playing more video games, which,

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Speaker 1: you know, video games. We're kind of in denial about it,

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Speaker 1: but it's bigger than sports. Huge games is Fortnite, Call

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00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:08,800
Speaker 1: of Duty, you know, it's almost become every video I

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00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:10,920
Speaker 1: see on TikTok of a girl just waiting in a

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Speaker 1: living room, like sad waiting for their boyfriend to get

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00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:17,040
Speaker 1: off call of duty where he's just talking ship to

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Speaker 1: his friends, just to spend five minutes with her. Like

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00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:21,959
Speaker 1: they'll be like videos where the girl will get on

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Speaker 1: the guy's lap and hope played a video game over her. Right, Well,

624
00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:28,080
Speaker 1: that's not the guy's fault. That is the girl's fault. Sorry,

625
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:30,520
Speaker 1: girls out there who have had boyfriend's like that, you

626
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:32,280
Speaker 1: have a choice to not put up with that and

627
00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 1: to not do that and to not be with someone

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00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:37,320
Speaker 1: that does that. I mean honestly, and I'm not saying

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Speaker 1: like this does not go to you know, guys that

630
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Speaker 1: hit you, that's your choice to stay with them. That's

631
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 1: a different complexity. But like if you're with a guy

632
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 1: who plays Fortnite and you're like, he ignores me, get

633
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:48,920
Speaker 1: the funk out of that relationship or tell him if

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Speaker 1: you don't start making time for me, I'm going to

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Speaker 1: leave you. I'm trying not to turn this into a

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Speaker 1: relationship podcast because I don't know what the fuck. I'm

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Speaker 1: not in a relationship. Um so I shouldn't be giving

638
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Speaker 1: out advice. But these these things of like these or

639
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Speaker 1: women the guys play video games like it's it's about

640
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:05,600
Speaker 1: us having enough self esteem and that's you know, not

641
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 1: not something that always you can I'm not making no

642
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:13,240
Speaker 1: one's a victim here. Everyone has has a chance to anyway,

643
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Speaker 1: women they don't. June Rafael June Diane Rafael, who is

644
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Speaker 1: uh Paul Shear's wife. She's also on How Did This

645
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Speaker 1: Get made? She's a great comic actor. She put out

646
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 1: a Instagram the other day, like one of those reels

647
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 1: on Instagram that was like, um, it was just a

648
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Speaker 1: bunch of moments of her cringing, going like oh like

649
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:34,960
Speaker 1: different scenes of her just like looking and then going

650
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 1: like ah, like memorying something and it said all the

651
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Speaker 1: times I remember I used to watch boys play video

652
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Speaker 1: games and it was like her as an adult looking

653
00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:44,720
Speaker 1: back on her life of like, it was so funny.

654
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:46,880
Speaker 1: I think Schumer reposted it and that's how I saw it.

655
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:49,440
Speaker 1: But it was a great thing. So yeah, I mean,

656
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:53,800
Speaker 1: and I read this book called um uh what was it?

657
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 1: It was the something that Joe Rogan recommended on his

658
00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:58,719
Speaker 1: thing and I actually picked it up because it was

659
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 1: it was like about screen time. Let me just look

660
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:04,360
Speaker 1: at my books real quick, but it was about addictions

661
00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:07,520
Speaker 1: and man video game addiction. Because I'm not privy to

662
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:10,680
Speaker 1: that world. I had no idea it is. There's I

663
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:13,680
Speaker 1: think it's a way to like deal with your anxiety

664
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Speaker 1: or depression. You get lost in the game of present,

665
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:21,080
Speaker 1: you get through today. Yes, you know when you play

666
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 1: video game, time goes extremely fast. Um. But yeah, also

667
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:30,680
Speaker 1: living at home, I mean obviously it's hard. Yeah that

668
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:32,640
Speaker 1: I learned that as well. Not that I don't think.

669
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Speaker 1: I don't think it would have like changed my life

670
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 1: that much to have not been with my parents in

671
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:39,320
Speaker 1: terms of my sex life, but it definitely didn't help

672
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 1: things along that. Um, I was living with them. That

673
00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:43,960
Speaker 1: makes it. Oh, it's called Irresistible as the book and

674
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:47,280
Speaker 1: it's by Adam Alter, and it's about addiction, and they

675
00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:51,800
Speaker 1: do a whole chapter on um these world of warcraft.

676
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:56,240
Speaker 1: They have treatment centers where guys go and to get

677
00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:58,400
Speaker 1: off that game and to get away from that game,

678
00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:02,240
Speaker 1: because they they mean, it is like worse than heroin

679
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 1: men games. You're murdering people for three hours, and then

680
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:08,120
Speaker 1: that has to get in your brain, like people are,

681
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:12,800
Speaker 1: like video games don't fun with you. If you're killing

682
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:16,120
Speaker 1: someone for three hours, it's gotta I watched this porn

683
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:18,799
Speaker 1: for an hour a night that's pretty brutal, and like

684
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:20,799
Speaker 1: it's changed the way I look at the world. Like,

685
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:26,359
Speaker 1: I like, I'm more desensitized to nudity. I'm more desensitized

686
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:30,440
Speaker 1: to saying disgusting things. I'm more desensitsized to just, you know,

687
00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 1: just this kind of graphic imagery. I can't separate that

688
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:36,440
Speaker 1: and just keep that in my bedroom at night, that

689
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:38,960
Speaker 1: that comes out into my day because I'm I'm watching

690
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:41,480
Speaker 1: it for so long. So that's why I'm please send

691
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:43,840
Speaker 1: your clips to the Nikki Lazer podcast at gmail dot

692
00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:47,799
Speaker 1: com of g rated um sexual tension moments that are

693
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:49,799
Speaker 1: relieved by a first kiss. That is what I'm looking

694
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:53,319
Speaker 1: for right now for my porn consumption. Next story, this one,

695
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:55,560
Speaker 1: we're switching it up from sex folks. I just hope

696
00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:58,600
Speaker 1: you're still having a great time. Sinnamon toast crunch goes

697
00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:02,759
Speaker 1: viral after comedians. It's a Twitter so in case you

698
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:06,680
Speaker 1: was wait, wait, let me finish. Yes, this guy found

699
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Speaker 1: too shrimp tales in his cereal. Yeah. I saw a

700
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:12,080
Speaker 1: bunch of things about this on Twitter yesterday and I go,

701
00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:14,400
Speaker 1: I don't even know everyone's making memes about it. I

702
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:16,839
Speaker 1: was like, what the hell is going on? Jensen carp

703
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:20,680
Speaker 1: who is a comedian who've worked with on He was

704
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:24,920
Speaker 1: the head writer on the show I did where You

705
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:27,399
Speaker 1: Dropped the Mic. It was a rap battle show. He's

706
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Speaker 1: a rapper comedian. He's married to Daniel Fishel, who was

707
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:34,439
Speaker 1: Topanga on Now. He was married to Daniel Fishel, who's

708
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:38,920
Speaker 1: Topanga on World Now and UM and they're a hilarious

709
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 1: couple that have a lot of content online. But yeah,

710
00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 1: he found shrimp tales in his cinnamon toast crutch and

711
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:44,840
Speaker 1: it's his favorite cereal and he tweeted at them just

712
00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:47,719
Speaker 1: to be like, what's up and they claimed it was

713
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 1: clumps of cinnamon sugar and he goes, I'm sorry, these

714
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 1: are shrimp tales and did more close up it's clearly

715
00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:58,759
Speaker 1: shrimp tails and he goes, don't gas like me. It

716
00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:02,600
Speaker 1: was a perfect example of gas lighting. I thought, like, no, honey,

717
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:05,959
Speaker 1: that's you think that shrimp tails. That's cinnamon sugar. So

718
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:08,439
Speaker 1: sweet of you, but don't worry. And he's like, don't

719
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 1: tell me what I'm seeing. It's so funny. And now

720
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 1: he's like enemies with his favorite cereal who he has

721
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:16,759
Speaker 1: like shoes that have cinnamon toast crutch on them. That's

722
00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:19,399
Speaker 1: how much he loves cinnamon toastcrutch. Also, they like got

723
00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 1: like the last thing a company wants is like a

724
00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:25,240
Speaker 1: clever writer that always writes on Twitter anyways to find

725
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:27,759
Speaker 1: shrimp tails. Like if I found shrimp tails, I would

726
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:30,040
Speaker 1: eat around him, you know what I mean. I would

727
00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:32,160
Speaker 1: be like, oh wow, this is a cool addition. And

728
00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 1: he's a hypochondriac, so he's constantly worried at things he's consuming,

729
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:37,040
Speaker 1: so he's actually scared he's getting sick. Then he found

730
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 1: rat poop or what he suspects to be rat poop.

731
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:42,840
Speaker 1: He took this cinnamon to Scrutch to Quest Diagnostics to

732
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:45,080
Speaker 1: have it tested, So he's going to actually find out

733
00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:47,840
Speaker 1: and confirm that they are shrimp tails and that possibly

734
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:51,439
Speaker 1: rat poop. I just I just love seeing the guy

735
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:54,759
Speaker 1: that's pack and he's eating shrimp. Well, you tell me

736
00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:57,719
Speaker 1: one of the things that factory though, Like you eat

737
00:36:57,719 --> 00:37:00,879
Speaker 1: a sandwich. This guy's eating shrimp cock and just threw

738
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:08,839
Speaker 1: the tail, Like what does he having lobster the next day?

739
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:12,799
Speaker 1: Fucking shrimp tails? Do They're gonna find s cargo in

740
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:18,400
Speaker 1: the next one? Patte Um, All right, when was the

741
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:21,279
Speaker 1: thing he said that we laughed when he wrote back

742
00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:25,279
Speaker 1: at them, oh ship, oh fuck, well you sent me up.

743
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:27,759
Speaker 1: There is not in the words here. When I tell

744
00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 1: you to write things down, I apologize. I apologize, we

745
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:35,280
Speaker 1: can pull. Who cares, It doesn't matter. He was hilarious

746
00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:37,320
Speaker 1: back at them. You should go and read the conversation

747
00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 1: between him and Cinnamon Toast Crunch on Twitter to to

748
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:43,160
Speaker 1: go see it. Um. Okay, so let's get to why

749
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:46,640
Speaker 1: do I care? Yeah? Why do we care? What do

750
00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:49,120
Speaker 1: you have for why I should care? So Justin Bieber

751
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:55,320
Speaker 1: says he won't tattoo his hands. Okay, why do we care? Um?

752
00:37:55,360 --> 00:38:02,040
Speaker 1: Because a person that has formally shown no constraint of

753
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:05,360
Speaker 1: what he could do in terms of body modification. Um,

754
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:07,759
Speaker 1: I guess he hasn't done his face though either. No,

755
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 1: he has had a tattoo on his face with a

756
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:13,040
Speaker 1: very small like kind of like a teardrop thing underneath

757
00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:14,840
Speaker 1: his eye. Wow, But he won't do his hands. He

758
00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:17,200
Speaker 1: won't do his hands. That's where he draws the line,

759
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:20,400
Speaker 1: something about it just being able to wear a suit

760
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:23,279
Speaker 1: and not having tattoos on my Okay, so he wants

761
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 1: to wear a suit and not having anybody still has

762
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:27,359
Speaker 1: got that face. Things so I don't know, I get

763
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:32,360
Speaker 1: the hand thing because it's something that it just annoys me.

764
00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:36,640
Speaker 1: When Haley doesn't want any tattoos inside her, Yeah we

765
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:40,520
Speaker 1: get tattoos. Oliver his penis, he doesn't. Yeah. Yeah, he

766
00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 1: has believed and then it becomes believer when he gets hard.

767
00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:52,080
Speaker 1: Actually like no, but I just I can't stand celebrities

768
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:56,520
Speaker 1: that get to such a high fame where any little

769
00:38:56,560 --> 00:39:00,360
Speaker 1: bit of statement of vulnerability or gets like oh whoa,

770
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:06,800
Speaker 1: he's so brave, Like who cares that he doesn't get tattooed?

771
00:39:06,960 --> 00:39:09,480
Speaker 1: That's why thank you? Justin Bieber first, I mean like

772
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:12,279
Speaker 1: it's just it's just it's it's you know, who cares?

773
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:14,279
Speaker 1: We do because we're talking about it's an interesting thing.

774
00:39:14,360 --> 00:39:18,640
Speaker 1: But like you get so mad about like guys who

775
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:22,839
Speaker 1: show that there's something in you that gets really irritated

776
00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:26,759
Speaker 1: when a guy like I don't know what it is

777
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 1: what makes you so mad about that. It's like the

778
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:30,759
Speaker 1: other day when Jonah Hill came out with the thing

779
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 1: where his shirt was off. Great for him, but we

780
00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:37,320
Speaker 1: were just like, oh my god, he was like we

781
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 1: just like that was different. He was t shirts at

782
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:43,960
Speaker 1: the pool feeling better about their bodies which I was

783
00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:46,719
Speaker 1: one of those kids. Yeah, so you were at the

784
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:49,120
Speaker 1: pool yesterday and you didn't want to go swimming because

785
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:50,560
Speaker 1: there were hot guys around, and you were like, I

786
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:52,440
Speaker 1: might go in my shirt and I was like the

787
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:55,279
Speaker 1: shout out to insane amount of hot guys. We can't

788
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:57,799
Speaker 1: talk about it. I know there were lots of hot guys.

789
00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:00,919
Speaker 1: You wanted to go swimming, but you to insecure. God,

790
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:02,279
Speaker 1: I want to get into that so bad, but maybe

791
00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:07,920
Speaker 1: we'll save it for the final plot. What thing up here?

792
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:11,400
Speaker 1: All right? So now it's time for a new segment

793
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:15,360
Speaker 1: we'd like to introduce called is It Textual? This is

794
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:19,320
Speaker 1: where we take a text message or some kind of

795
00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:22,880
Speaker 1: form of text communication that either you or I have

796
00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:26,320
Speaker 1: been having with someone that might it might be sexual,

797
00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 1: but we can't get a read on it. And this

798
00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:31,600
Speaker 1: is where I would like to ask you, as our listener,

799
00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:34,239
Speaker 1: if you ever want us to decipher your text in

800
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:36,320
Speaker 1: an anonymous way and tell you whether or not the

801
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:38,839
Speaker 1: persons into you or what's going on. Please send us

802
00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:41,920
Speaker 1: your screenshots to the Nikki Glazer Podcast at gmail dot

803
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:44,400
Speaker 1: com and we will tell you whether or not. Um

804
00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:46,880
Speaker 1: we think there's a future there for you guys. So

805
00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:49,840
Speaker 1: to start out for this segment of is This Textual,

806
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:53,320
Speaker 1: I wanted to share one of my own story of

807
00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:55,719
Speaker 1: sliding into d m s because it's something that I

808
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:58,680
Speaker 1: have always been hesitant to do because of fear of

809
00:40:58,800 --> 00:41:02,000
Speaker 1: being rejected and just a lot of things. But I

810
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 1: will say that in watching this season of The Bachelor,

811
00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:09,319
Speaker 1: this past season that just wrapped up last Monday, UM,

812
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:14,600
Speaker 1: I developed an attraction to Matt James the Bachelor that

813
00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:19,120
Speaker 1: I didn't have. I mean, he's definitely hot and was

814
00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:22,640
Speaker 1: like just gorgeous upon just looking at him, and would

815
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:24,800
Speaker 1: be someone I would be into. But you know, in

816
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:27,120
Speaker 1: the beginning of the show, I wasn't that into him,

817
00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:31,279
Speaker 1: like just like in terms of his conversations with women,

818
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:32,279
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know that we'd have a

819
00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:35,399
Speaker 1: lot to talk about, Like you know, I these shows. Yeah,

820
00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:36,920
Speaker 1: he's there looking for love and he's gonna end up

821
00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 1: with someone at the end, when there's only in the

822
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:41,879
Speaker 1: history of Bachelor, there's only in Bachelor, there's only two

823
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:44,279
Speaker 1: people that are like still with the person. So I'm

824
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:46,880
Speaker 1: always looking at these people as someone who has a

825
00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:49,600
Speaker 1: blue check mark can probably meet them at some point

826
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:51,920
Speaker 1: if I slide into their d M, A blue check

827
00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 1: mark stands out. And I'm not saying that as a

828
00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:55,200
Speaker 1: braggy way. I just want to explain to you guys

829
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:57,120
Speaker 1: that like that just means they're first of all verified

830
00:41:57,640 --> 00:41:59,560
Speaker 1: that they're a real person, and it means they might

831
00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 1: be in the business. And I like people in the

832
00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:04,000
Speaker 1: business because that means that they're not gonna be that

833
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:05,960
Speaker 1: impressed by what I do. It's not gonna be They're

834
00:42:05,960 --> 00:42:08,239
Speaker 1: not gonna put me on this pedestal, and they might

835
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:10,960
Speaker 1: be someone I'm able to research before meeting up with

836
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:12,399
Speaker 1: them so that I can get to know them, because

837
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:14,319
Speaker 1: I'm scared of intimacy and I don't like first dates

838
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:16,600
Speaker 1: and I liked already like someone before I engage in

839
00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 1: a first date. Things to know about me. So Matt

840
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 1: James Bachelor I'm watching. When I watched the show, I

841
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:26,759
Speaker 1: oftentimes I'm like, I could possibly date this person down

842
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:31,480
Speaker 1: the road. Who knows. So guy, I interjec for one second,

843
00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:33,840
Speaker 1: I feel like you really started to get turned on

844
00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:36,160
Speaker 1: by him when we saw him on Andy Cohen Show

845
00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:39,239
Speaker 1: and he showed how personable he actually is outside of

846
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:43,400
Speaker 1: the show. Yeah, we were watching Watch What Happens Live

847
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:46,240
Speaker 1: one night and he was on with this big beard

848
00:42:46,360 --> 00:42:49,120
Speaker 1: and I remember the TV was muted, so I was like,

849
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:53,439
Speaker 1: whatever he's exuding right now, it's some fucking sexy ship.

850
00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:55,560
Speaker 1: And then we turned it on. He was really funny

851
00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:57,440
Speaker 1: and like just having a good time and taking all

852
00:42:57,480 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 1: these weird questions, and he asked him if he and

853
00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:02,640
Speaker 1: his and Tyler Cameron Blue blow each other. And Matt

854
00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 1: took it in stride and was like playful with it

855
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:07,000
Speaker 1: instead of being like I just liked his demeanor on

856
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 1: that show. It was just real. Anyway, I d M

857
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:14,480
Speaker 1: Matt James. Um, I want to admit it. I slid

858
00:43:14,520 --> 00:43:16,920
Speaker 1: into Matt James's DAMS. I have only done that once

859
00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:20,960
Speaker 1: before with Eminem, I think. So what made me slide

860
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:23,399
Speaker 1: into Matt James's d MS was the episode a couple

861
00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:25,319
Speaker 1: of weeks ago where his dad, who he had been

862
00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:27,880
Speaker 1: estranged from and whose dad his dad like kind of

863
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:30,560
Speaker 1: left his family very young, came back on the show

864
00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 1: and they had like a heart to heart and the

865
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:34,839
Speaker 1: way he handled it and what he had went through

866
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:37,719
Speaker 1: on camera, it was awesome, and I thought it was

867
00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:41,759
Speaker 1: really brave and just sweet and he he was really

868
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:44,920
Speaker 1: vulnerable and it was fucking hot to me. But I

869
00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:51,719
Speaker 1: also came from a point of dthing. Matt James notoriously

870
00:43:51,800 --> 00:43:53,680
Speaker 1: kisses with his eyes open, you guys, which I don't

871
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 1: mind because my eyes are shut. So what, I don't

872
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:58,680
Speaker 1: care what you looking at my closed eyes? Um. So

873
00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:01,560
Speaker 1: I wrote to him, I am so happy for you

874
00:44:01,680 --> 00:44:04,040
Speaker 1: about your dad. Congrats. That was beautiful. And that was

875
00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:07,480
Speaker 1: on March eighth, and he did not And then so

876
00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:08,920
Speaker 1: I was telling someone this and I go, but he

877
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:12,239
Speaker 1: didn't read it, and someone goes, Nikki, Yes he did.

878
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:14,759
Speaker 1: He just didn't accept it. And I was like, oh

879
00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:20,479
Speaker 1: my god, right, because I go. Then then you said,

880
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:23,880
Speaker 1: but this guy is getting flooded with d M S nicky.

881
00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 1: I mean he's on the batchel Yeah, and especially that

882
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:28,239
Speaker 1: night when he reunited with his dad. He's getting so

883
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:31,279
Speaker 1: many And I go, Andrew, how many followers does Matt

884
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:36,440
Speaker 1: James have. I'm close to one million. I'm not too

885
00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:39,759
Speaker 1: far away from one million. It doesn't matter when I'm

886
00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:41,920
Speaker 1: on something huge where I'm getting flooded with stuff, but

887
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:44,480
Speaker 1: which it's never been on the level of Bachelor. But

888
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 1: blue checkmark. You see a blue checkmark even when you're

889
00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:51,000
Speaker 1: getting flooded. You see them and you go to them first.

890
00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:53,920
Speaker 1: They they stand out to you, like your own name

891
00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:57,680
Speaker 1: being shouted in a crowd, Like they just catch your eye.

892
00:44:57,880 --> 00:45:00,680
Speaker 1: He definitely saw it. He definitely word it. And that's

893
00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:03,800
Speaker 1: okay because I put nothing on the line flirtatiously, And

894
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:05,560
Speaker 1: that is the scariest thing for me to do, is

895
00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:07,520
Speaker 1: to slide into a d M with something that isn't

896
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 1: that is sexual, That wasn't a lie, that wasn't me

897
00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:12,560
Speaker 1: trying to like sneakily flirt I mean a little bit.

898
00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 1: But I would have sent it even if I knew

899
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:18,279
Speaker 1: he was married. No, I wouldn't have done it then

900
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:20,520
Speaker 1: because well maybe it would have been appropriate even if

901
00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 1: he was married. There could have been like you know,

902
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:25,799
Speaker 1: I mean, me getting slid into on a Tuesday night

903
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 1: as nothing on Matt James obviously, like she could have

904
00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:33,680
Speaker 1: had diarrhea sliding. You don't want to beat overly sexual

905
00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:37,239
Speaker 1: like some men. Yes, but I'm just saying, like you're competing,

906
00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 1: You're you're a very good looking woman, You're you're famous.

907
00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:43,640
Speaker 1: Yah yeah yeah, blah blah blah blah blah blah. I'm

908
00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:46,399
Speaker 1: not trying to make you feel weird. You're so hot,

909
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:49,359
Speaker 1: sorry if that's making you feel weird, But god, are

910
00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:51,680
Speaker 1: you fucking gorgeous? But now this is just feeling mean.

911
00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:59,439
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but you're sexual. Yeah, this is that. Yeah,

912
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:03,279
Speaker 1: it was yeah, but it was almost sarcastic. When he

913
00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 1: was like, oh you're so hot, I'm like, okay, well

914
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:07,799
Speaker 1: why is that funny? No? No, no, For the first

915
00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:09,960
Speaker 1: two were real, and then I kept leaning into it.

916
00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:15,600
Speaker 1: How hot you are so No, but you're competing against millions,

917
00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:20,080
Speaker 1: not millions, but you're against two other blue check marks. Okay,

918
00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:23,359
Speaker 1: point checkmarks are a hard thing to sift through when

919
00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:26,439
Speaker 1: you're Matt James sitting at home. Agreed, Agreed, I'm agreed.

920
00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:29,520
Speaker 1: I'm just saying that, you know, and follow up text

921
00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:31,880
Speaker 1: maybe a week later, wouldn't have been bad where you're like,

922
00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:35,440
Speaker 1: no way, no way, it's over, no way, why is

923
00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:37,799
Speaker 1: it over? Tagged him in a story and he could

924
00:46:37,840 --> 00:46:40,640
Speaker 1: have seen that too. I tagged him in a story

925
00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:42,279
Speaker 1: after that, and he could have seen that too, and

926
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:45,880
Speaker 1: there was no attempt. So I'm not I lost no

927
00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:48,560
Speaker 1: um face in doing this, But I just want to

928
00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:50,160
Speaker 1: say I did lose face when I said but he

929
00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:51,799
Speaker 1: didn't read it yet. My friend goes, yes, he did.

930
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:53,719
Speaker 1: He just didn't accept it, and I go, you're right,

931
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:57,279
Speaker 1: you're right, but reading your thing, it did not come

932
00:46:57,280 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 1: off sexual. That's all it. It slid in to open

933
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:03,960
Speaker 1: the conversation between it, to let him know, like, hey,

934
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:06,440
Speaker 1: I see you. You know, maybe next time lead with

935
00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:13,959
Speaker 1: the big old secrets. Oh my god, don't um next time.

936
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 1: I do have secret big tits about and especially two

937
00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:20,239
Speaker 1: days out of the month, they're they're a lot like

938
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:22,040
Speaker 1: I have to like change No, what do you have

939
00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:25,879
Speaker 1: to change? Brass eyes? When you're like about to start

940
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 1: your period or on your period? Do your boobs get

941
00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 1: like they do better? Do they get bigger? Yeah? Like

942
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:36,400
Speaker 1: like fuller and just more sent fer Yes, is that

943
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:39,120
Speaker 1: where the blood goes before it comes out? What do

944
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:42,640
Speaker 1: you mean blood doesn't come out of your oh your nipples?

945
00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:46,440
Speaker 1: Oh it's like no, no, no, you don't know. No

946
00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:52,120
Speaker 1: it doesn't. Well it's science, but it's bad science. Yeah,

947
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:56,879
Speaker 1: speaking of tits, let's get into our final thought back

948
00:47:56,960 --> 00:47:59,400
Speaker 1: to you at the pool yesterday. We're at a pool

949
00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:04,600
Speaker 1: on Paitian and Andrew is is writing for me on

950
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:07,839
Speaker 1: the show, and so you were there after we had

951
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:11,160
Speaker 1: after I had wrapped um, we were just hanging out

952
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:13,799
Speaker 1: because all our friends work on the show, so we're

953
00:48:13,840 --> 00:48:16,440
Speaker 1: still hanging out at work. And you were like wanting

954
00:48:16,480 --> 00:48:17,840
Speaker 1: to you had just puked, you wanted to go in

955
00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:20,200
Speaker 1: the pool after he felt better. I told them about

956
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:22,759
Speaker 1: that at the top of the show, and you wanted

957
00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:25,920
Speaker 1: to go in the pool, but you couldn't because they

958
00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:28,919
Speaker 1: were hot guys. It was it just wasn't the time

959
00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:31,040
Speaker 1: to go in the pool. But yes, I even if

960
00:48:31,080 --> 00:48:32,960
Speaker 1: you if you had the body of one of those guys,

961
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:34,840
Speaker 1: would you have gone the pool. I would have. I

962
00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:38,800
Speaker 1: would never be out of a pool. I would be

963
00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:41,160
Speaker 1: a no. The other day, I was I had to

964
00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:43,439
Speaker 1: go in a swimsuit in front of because I wanted

965
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:45,880
Speaker 1: to have some fun in front of girls that looked

966
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:49,239
Speaker 1: like the best in swimsuits that you could possibly look.

967
00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:51,960
Speaker 1: And I mean I had to face that fear. And

968
00:48:52,040 --> 00:48:53,719
Speaker 1: my spray tan was falling off, so it looked like

969
00:48:53,719 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 1: I had vide lego shout out to um some family

970
00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:57,880
Speaker 1: members who have videlago. I felt like I was wrapping

971
00:48:57,920 --> 00:49:00,600
Speaker 1: them because my spray tan literally was patching off. So

972
00:49:00,719 --> 00:49:03,560
Speaker 1: I looked like that model Winnie Harlow that has you know,

973
00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:07,200
Speaker 1: different patches of skin that like it's I didn't, and

974
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:09,879
Speaker 1: I definitely am fatter than those not fat, but I'm

975
00:49:09,920 --> 00:49:12,320
Speaker 1: like have more pudge than those girls. My body is

976
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:14,640
Speaker 1: not toned as those girls. I'm ten years older than

977
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:16,800
Speaker 1: the hot girls. And I was able to be in

978
00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:19,320
Speaker 1: a swimsuit around people who I you know, might be

979
00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:21,680
Speaker 1: judging my body. I took my shirt off, then, I

980
00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:25,160
Speaker 1: mean that was a different Hot guys were not there,

981
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:27,440
Speaker 1: but the hot girls were. Yeah, that doesn't matter. I

982
00:49:27,520 --> 00:49:30,600
Speaker 1: mean i'd be if there are hot guys around and

983
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:33,640
Speaker 1: I'm the only girl that is in a bathing suit,

984
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:36,560
Speaker 1: then they're just guys just like kind of don't care.

985
00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:39,839
Speaker 1: They're not like judging your body that harshly. I feel

986
00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:42,000
Speaker 1: like guys judge other guy, at least when I grew up.

987
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:44,959
Speaker 1: Guys yea, and girls judge other girls. But I'm saying

988
00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:47,239
Speaker 1: there were no guys there to judge your bodies, were

989
00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:49,400
Speaker 1: not giving you credit for taking off. I don't know

990
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:52,400
Speaker 1: how much description I could give, but there were everyone

991
00:49:52,640 --> 00:49:55,560
Speaker 1: was at that at the place. Then it was just

992
00:49:55,719 --> 00:49:57,520
Speaker 1: no one else was in the pool. It was just

993
00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:00,680
Speaker 1: very It would have been a but that being said,

994
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:03,560
Speaker 1: if all things were like there were twenty other guys

995
00:50:03,640 --> 00:50:06,120
Speaker 1: in the pool, I would still feel a little uncomfortable

996
00:50:06,560 --> 00:50:10,439
Speaker 1: about it, because, you know, I just I'm not I'm

997
00:50:10,680 --> 00:50:13,160
Speaker 1: forty years old, I'm not where I want to be

998
00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:17,120
Speaker 1: a body. Wise, I do feel like, what's the worst

999
00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:19,200
Speaker 1: that could happen? Though, Like, I understand your fear because

1000
00:50:19,239 --> 00:50:20,800
Speaker 1: I have it too. If there were other girls, and

1001
00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:24,000
Speaker 1: if there were other girls present and guys that were

1002
00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:26,080
Speaker 1: judging my body, I wouldn't want to get into swim

1003
00:50:26,120 --> 00:50:28,960
Speaker 1: suit either, even though I probably would, But like, what's

1004
00:50:29,120 --> 00:50:32,359
Speaker 1: what's the worst? Let's follow that fear. I just want

1005
00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:34,399
Speaker 1: to follow it for a second. So if let's say

1006
00:50:34,440 --> 00:50:37,080
Speaker 1: everyone's jumping in the pool, everyone has the hottest bodies,

1007
00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:40,279
Speaker 1: There's like twenty guys that have the hottest bodies in

1008
00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:43,680
Speaker 1: the world, and there's twenty girls with the hottest bodies

1009
00:50:43,719 --> 00:50:46,080
Speaker 1: in the world. And then there's you, who everyone gets

1010
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:48,239
Speaker 1: along with and kind of knows and accepts as a

1011
00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:50,960
Speaker 1: part of this team. And it's you there too, and

1012
00:50:51,080 --> 00:50:53,120
Speaker 1: you don't have the hottest body that you want. What's

1013
00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:55,440
Speaker 1: going to happen? Let's let's just like follow that out

1014
00:50:55,480 --> 00:50:59,239
Speaker 1: because maybe the fear is real, but let's just be

1015
00:50:59,360 --> 00:51:03,640
Speaker 1: honest now I'm just having fun. I'm trying to be honest. Okay, fine,

1016
00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:07,560
Speaker 1: I'll be honest. I think nothing, literally, nothing would happen.

1017
00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:11,560
Speaker 1: But what's I would feel more comfortable the next time.

1018
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:13,879
Speaker 1: But what's the fear there? What's the biggest fear though?

1019
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:17,040
Speaker 1: That that that prevents you from taking off your ugly Okay,

1020
00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:18,880
Speaker 1: so they think you're ugly, and then what is going

1021
00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:20,880
Speaker 1: to happen with that? I really want to follow it,

1022
00:51:20,960 --> 00:51:26,640
Speaker 1: just I'm trying to explain it. But you're ugly, So

1023
00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:29,520
Speaker 1: then what happens? Then? I'm then I get it sad

1024
00:51:29,640 --> 00:51:32,319
Speaker 1: and I get the press. Okay, but that you don't

1025
00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:38,000
Speaker 1: But why because I'm not as attractive as them? Because

1026
00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:40,960
Speaker 1: they think you're uglier, because that what they think becomes

1027
00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:43,359
Speaker 1: a fact. And then if you're not as attractive as them,

1028
00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:46,360
Speaker 1: that means what does that mean? That I'm not as

1029
00:51:46,400 --> 00:51:48,600
Speaker 1: good as them? Okay? What do you mean? Not as

1030
00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:51,480
Speaker 1: good as them? That I'm just I don't work as

1031
00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:55,000
Speaker 1: hard as them, for I don't eat it as much protein.

1032
00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:57,279
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't And then women don't like

1033
00:51:57,440 --> 00:51:59,640
Speaker 1: me as much. And then maybe they don't like me

1034
00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:02,279
Speaker 1: as much because they see me as a as non

1035
00:52:02,320 --> 00:52:04,600
Speaker 1: unequal or so if they don't like you as much

1036
00:52:04,640 --> 00:52:06,880
Speaker 1: and the women don't like you as much, what what's

1037
00:52:06,960 --> 00:52:09,880
Speaker 1: the fall out from that? The fallout from that? And

1038
00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:12,279
Speaker 1: I mean really, at the end of the day, nothing,

1039
00:52:12,480 --> 00:52:14,319
Speaker 1: I mean no, no, there is a fallout because these

1040
00:52:14,360 --> 00:52:19,080
Speaker 1: are all you have. Always, can I just talk through

1041
00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:21,520
Speaker 1: mine so we can understand what I'm doing here. So

1042
00:52:21,600 --> 00:52:22,880
Speaker 1: if I get into a pool and I'm not going

1043
00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:25,120
Speaker 1: to take off my shirt because I feel legit fat

1044
00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:27,399
Speaker 1: and pale and disgusting, and there's all these tan, hot

1045
00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:30,839
Speaker 1: models with tight bodies in swimsuits that are cuter than

1046
00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:33,000
Speaker 1: mine and everything like that, and I want to get

1047
00:52:33,040 --> 00:52:34,399
Speaker 1: in the pool. It's a hot day and I'm dying

1048
00:52:34,480 --> 00:52:35,920
Speaker 1: to go in the pool. The reason I don't is

1049
00:52:35,960 --> 00:52:38,279
Speaker 1: because I'm scared that they're going to look at me

1050
00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:42,640
Speaker 1: and go, wow, Nikki Glazer doesn't work out enough, she

1051
00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:44,920
Speaker 1: doesn't eat right. When I get to be her age,

1052
00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:47,239
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be so much hotter. The guys will look

1053
00:52:47,280 --> 00:52:48,799
Speaker 1: at me and say, wow, I'd rather funck that girl,

1054
00:52:48,800 --> 00:52:51,719
Speaker 1: And said Nicki Glazer. Okay, so I'm unfuckable. What does

1055
00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:54,360
Speaker 1: that mean? If I'm unfuckable, that means that no one

1056
00:52:54,440 --> 00:52:56,600
Speaker 1: wants to stick their penis and me. What does it

1057
00:52:56,640 --> 00:52:58,320
Speaker 1: mean if no guys want to stick their penis at me?

1058
00:52:58,560 --> 00:53:01,440
Speaker 1: It means that I might not be able to find

1059
00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:03,920
Speaker 1: someone to spend my life with. What does that mean? Oh,

1060
00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:08,560
Speaker 1: it means that probably I'm unlovable and I'm going to

1061
00:53:08,640 --> 00:53:11,239
Speaker 1: be alone forever. If I'm alone together, what does that mean?

1062
00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:14,320
Speaker 1: What could happen? If I'm alone? I'll be lonely. I

1063
00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:16,440
Speaker 1: won't have anyone to talk to, I won't have anyone

1064
00:53:16,560 --> 00:53:20,400
Speaker 1: to communicate with. I will die alone. I will be um.

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00:53:20,600 --> 00:53:22,759
Speaker 1: I'm undeserving love. So what it comes down to is

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00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:26,000
Speaker 1: feeling like you're undeserving of love is a fear of

1067
00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:29,839
Speaker 1: being unlovable. Give my perspective, but you go. It makes

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00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:34,480
Speaker 1: me depress you, but you try to. I feel like

1069
00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:36,160
Speaker 1: sometimes when you ask me, do you want me to

1070
00:53:36,200 --> 00:53:38,239
Speaker 1: get to wait? What your head is at? And I'm

1071
00:53:38,480 --> 00:53:39,920
Speaker 1: trying to get you there, but you avoid it. You go,

1072
00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:42,160
Speaker 1: I'm just depressed, and it's like, okay, well yeah, but

1073
00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:44,560
Speaker 1: then you getting upset at me. It makes me feel

1074
00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:49,279
Speaker 1: like me being naked in a pool. Okay, let me

1075
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:51,680
Speaker 1: give you because both of you reach a certain point

1076
00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:54,480
Speaker 1: and then one of you like goes in one direction

1077
00:53:54,520 --> 00:53:57,120
Speaker 1: and then the other one goes another. I think Andrew's

1078
00:53:57,200 --> 00:54:02,200
Speaker 1: insecurity lies in his work ethic, and Nikki, your insecurity

1079
00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:04,399
Speaker 1: lies in the unlovable. But what is having a bad

1080
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:07,200
Speaker 1: work ethic mean? What's the fear there? If you have

1081
00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:10,440
Speaker 1: a bad work ethic, what does it lead to? I

1082
00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:13,120
Speaker 1: think for like and again this is like probably like

1083
00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:16,400
Speaker 1: male energy as the provider and all of that. Andrew

1084
00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:19,759
Speaker 1: feels an insecurity in that, which is fine. I think

1085
00:54:19,760 --> 00:54:22,160
Speaker 1: a lot of men go through that. And Nikki, since

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00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:25,040
Speaker 1: you're more like the emotional feminine energy, even though I

1087
00:54:25,080 --> 00:54:28,560
Speaker 1: know sometimes you say you're the masculine energy, You're You're

1088
00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:31,279
Speaker 1: just is rooted more like emotion and love. So I

1089
00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:34,680
Speaker 1: feel like it makes me unlovable emotionally, and my emotions

1090
00:54:34,719 --> 00:54:37,160
Speaker 1: won't be supported by a man if I'm not fuckable.

1091
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:40,040
Speaker 1: And Andrew feels like if he does not fuckable, then

1092
00:54:40,239 --> 00:54:44,520
Speaker 1: he will be deemed as lazy and not um achieving

1093
00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:48,320
Speaker 1: enough and not providing, and therefore will not get the

1094
00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:50,360
Speaker 1: love he deserves from a woman who needs to be

1095
00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:52,920
Speaker 1: provided for. I don't know if if for Andrew boils

1096
00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:56,480
Speaker 1: down to like relationships and finding love. I think for

1097
00:54:56,600 --> 00:55:00,360
Speaker 1: him it's more about achieving financial security. Honestly, it's just

1098
00:55:00,480 --> 00:55:03,080
Speaker 1: like it's growing up where I would be in a

1099
00:55:03,160 --> 00:55:06,680
Speaker 1: locker room and I would feel I would I've been

1100
00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:11,040
Speaker 1: around these kind of people my whole life, and you're

1101
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:13,800
Speaker 1: in the shower and you just don't feel as adequate

1102
00:55:13,920 --> 00:55:16,279
Speaker 1: as like these other guys. You don't and it really

1103
00:55:16,360 --> 00:55:18,560
Speaker 1: like I'm not thinking and there is a little bit

1104
00:55:18,600 --> 00:55:20,040
Speaker 1: about it. That's why I'm playing a game of like,

1105
00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:22,200
Speaker 1: but what does that mean? Like what's the real fear

1106
00:55:22,280 --> 00:55:24,799
Speaker 1: underneath that? Because it's like there's you're not gonna die

1107
00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:27,920
Speaker 1: from someone thinking you look fat. You're not. What I'm saying, though,

1108
00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:30,320
Speaker 1: is like, sometimes my brain doesn't work like you're I

1109
00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 1: feel like your brain because it does work like that,

1110
00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:37,879
Speaker 1: there's an underlining fear that is that you're not talking

1111
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:39,279
Speaker 1: about I'm trying to get you there and I'm not.

1112
00:55:39,800 --> 00:55:41,719
Speaker 1: I'm not skilled at getting you there, so we'll work

1113
00:55:41,760 --> 00:55:44,399
Speaker 1: on it. No, but I feel like sometimes the fear

1114
00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:46,600
Speaker 1: is that a word? I get that, but I'm saying

1115
00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:49,319
Speaker 1: how you how we try to get there? You're like, well,

1116
00:55:49,400 --> 00:55:51,239
Speaker 1: then then and then what is this? And then my

1117
00:55:51,360 --> 00:55:53,439
Speaker 1: brain is still trying to compute it because I don't

1118
00:55:53,480 --> 00:55:56,680
Speaker 1: think like that. I think I think I look ugly

1119
00:55:57,000 --> 00:55:59,920
Speaker 1: compared to this guy. That's it. That's where my brain from.

1120
00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:02,200
Speaker 1: But it doesn't have to end there, and there's gentle

1121
00:56:02,239 --> 00:56:04,160
Speaker 1: ways of getting you there. I wasn't gentle enough. But

1122
00:56:04,239 --> 00:56:07,760
Speaker 1: I'm saying it's not about that. It never is about

1123
00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:10,239
Speaker 1: Oh it made me feel fat. First of all, no

1124
00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:12,880
Speaker 1: one can make you feel away you. Being fat does

1125
00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:15,799
Speaker 1: not say anything about who who you? Really? What does

1126
00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:18,520
Speaker 1: it say about you besides the physical part? And I

1127
00:56:18,640 --> 00:56:20,640
Speaker 1: like to examine that because I stopped there a lot

1128
00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:22,920
Speaker 1: of times that like, I'm just fat, I'm lazy, And

1129
00:56:23,000 --> 00:56:25,080
Speaker 1: it's not that. What does that mean to you? Why

1130
00:56:25,200 --> 00:56:26,759
Speaker 1: do you not want to be fat and lazy? What

1131
00:56:26,880 --> 00:56:32,120
Speaker 1: does that mean? Fundamentally? What fear does that? Um? Re uh?

1132
00:56:32,480 --> 00:56:35,560
Speaker 1: What's the word like? Reinforce in you? And That's what

1133
00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:37,200
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get out, because it's not about not

1134
00:56:37,280 --> 00:56:39,280
Speaker 1: taking your shirt off at the pool, it's about something deeper.

1135
00:56:42,160 --> 00:56:44,440
Speaker 1: I think it's hard for people to talk about that

1136
00:56:44,680 --> 00:56:50,200
Speaker 1: who don't do therapy with psychologist because it's it's really

1137
00:56:50,239 --> 00:56:52,200
Speaker 1: hard to talk about yourself. It is a skill that

1138
00:56:52,280 --> 00:56:56,240
Speaker 1: you learn, and you know not to admonish anyone who's

1139
00:56:56,640 --> 00:56:59,320
Speaker 1: not in therapy, but it is like that is a

1140
00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:01,800
Speaker 1: part of the helpful part of therapy. You're able to

1141
00:57:01,840 --> 00:57:04,719
Speaker 1: sell therapy to figure out when thing to kick you

1142
00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:07,800
Speaker 1: off or make you mad or make you upset. You

1143
00:57:08,120 --> 00:57:10,000
Speaker 1: get to examine them and find out what it's really

1144
00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:13,680
Speaker 1: about instead of this, like my phone broke, it's you're

1145
00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:16,560
Speaker 1: not throat punching a wall because your phone broke. It's

1146
00:57:16,560 --> 00:57:20,720
Speaker 1: because your dad didn't love you enough. And and people

1147
00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:22,280
Speaker 1: are like, well, why do I need to learn that

1148
00:57:22,400 --> 00:57:25,240
Speaker 1: my dad's dead? I can't repair that? Yes you can, yes,

1149
00:57:25,480 --> 00:57:27,480
Speaker 1: but I think going back to that, I don't think.

1150
00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:30,880
Speaker 1: I think when I said because I grew up with people,

1151
00:57:30,960 --> 00:57:35,120
Speaker 1: it's the same ship like that is thinking through it, yeah,

1152
00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:38,480
Speaker 1: and understanding you can keep going because I know, but

1153
00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:41,680
Speaker 1: can I finish? It's understanding my history and how it

1154
00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:44,280
Speaker 1: affected me back then, and that's why it's probably still

1155
00:57:44,640 --> 00:57:47,560
Speaker 1: within my core now. And I do think I am

1156
00:57:47,680 --> 00:57:51,560
Speaker 1: better about that and caring about that and more confident

1157
00:57:51,600 --> 00:57:54,440
Speaker 1: in myself. With you, you don't get defense of All

1158
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:56,480
Speaker 1: I'm saying is that even when you were a child,

1159
00:57:56,600 --> 00:57:59,800
Speaker 1: and that fear started. It wasn't about that then, it

1160
00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:02,320
Speaker 1: wasn't about that. So whether or not these are things

1161
00:58:02,400 --> 00:58:05,959
Speaker 1: repeating throughout your life that are the same circumstance, even

1162
00:58:06,040 --> 00:58:08,600
Speaker 1: when it started, that circumstance of feeling and secure with

1163
00:58:08,680 --> 00:58:10,400
Speaker 1: your shirt off in front of the guys in the

1164
00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:14,840
Speaker 1: locker room, that that fear of feeling worthless in front

1165
00:58:14,880 --> 00:58:18,439
Speaker 1: of those guys comes from someone where else. And once

1166
00:58:18,520 --> 00:58:20,880
Speaker 1: you remedy that, which is very difficult to do and

1167
00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:23,960
Speaker 1: I'm not able to do it with other guys, it

1168
00:58:24,000 --> 00:58:25,640
Speaker 1: could have been that. It could have been gone all

1169
00:58:25,640 --> 00:58:28,560
Speaker 1: the way back to that, even you being born, being

1170
00:58:29,400 --> 00:58:38,040
Speaker 1: in the hospital in the little babies babies were just

1171
00:58:38,160 --> 00:58:40,240
Speaker 1: so comparing yourself to other babies and they were so

1172
00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:45,400
Speaker 1: thin because they were premature. They made you feel so fat.

1173
00:58:45,440 --> 00:58:47,840
Speaker 1: All right, guys, we've been through a lot today. Right

1174
00:58:47,920 --> 00:58:50,560
Speaker 1: into the show, only positive things. Please, If you want

1175
00:58:50,600 --> 00:58:52,720
Speaker 1: to write something negative to the show, just I would

1176
00:58:52,760 --> 00:58:54,760
Speaker 1: ask you just to stop listening to the show instead.

1177
00:58:55,120 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 1: That would be better, because I really negative comments. I

1178
00:58:58,600 --> 00:59:00,320
Speaker 1: don't I don't even want to have them. An more

1179
00:59:00,400 --> 00:59:03,560
Speaker 1: about art that I'm like examining, like things that I hate.

1180
00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:05,520
Speaker 1: We watched a movie last night that I absolutely hated

1181
00:59:05,560 --> 00:59:07,040
Speaker 1: and I'm not even going to talk about it because

1182
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:09,960
Speaker 1: what I can do is just not watch it, and

1183
00:59:10,040 --> 00:59:11,640
Speaker 1: that I tried to do that, but Andrew kept wanting

1184
00:59:11,640 --> 00:59:12,960
Speaker 1: to watch it. We'll talk about it tomorrow on the

1185
00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:14,360
Speaker 1: show and then I will shoot talk to you. Don't

1186
00:59:14,360 --> 00:59:18,400
Speaker 1: have a negative comment about me watching it, all right, guys,

1187
00:59:18,440 --> 00:59:20,400
Speaker 1: we'll talk to you tomorrow. Thanks for listening to the show.

1188
00:59:20,560 --> 00:59:24,000
Speaker 1: As always, Subscribe, rate and review word at the end

1189
00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:26,000
Speaker 1: here and we'll come up with that phrase soon and

1190
00:59:26,120 --> 00:59:27,439
Speaker 1: we'll come up with a thing to call you guys.

1191
00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:29,000
Speaker 1: Thank you for all your submissions on that. We'll keep

1192
00:59:29,040 --> 00:59:31,360
Speaker 1: taking them. The Nikki Lazer Podcast at gmail dot com.

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Speaker 1: See you then,