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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly, an iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, it's Becca and we are scrubbing in you guys.

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Speaker 2: I have a very very special first guest. You might

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Speaker 2: know her from Ryan seacrest Morning Show, but I know

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Speaker 2: her as one of my best friends. We have Tanya Red.

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Speaker 1: I'm clapping for myself.

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Speaker 3: Tanya. Have you ever listened to my podcast?

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Speaker 1: Of course I have?

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Speaker 2: When which one?

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Speaker 1: Every single one?

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Speaker 2: Every single one? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Which one's your favorite?

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Speaker 1: My favorite was when you had the Good Doctor in No? No,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry. I was like that. That didn't happen.

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Speaker 2: So you're a liar.

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Speaker 1: Well, do you listen to on Earth Ryan Seacrest every morning?

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Speaker 2: No, that's because I'm sleeping. Though.

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Speaker 3: Podcast you can listen to at any point of the day.

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Speaker 1: I have a podcast as well.

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Speaker 2: Oh you're on it? No. Yeah. Anyways, I would like

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Speaker 2: to get into the important things. We are wearing the

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Speaker 2: same sweatshirt.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you actually gave me the sweatshirt and I love

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Speaker 1: it so much.

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Speaker 3: What does it say?

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Speaker 1: It says Meredith Gray is my spirit animal.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, it's so true for both of us.

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Speaker 2: We are living our best life trying to be Meredith.

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Speaker 1: It's a little more true for you though.

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Speaker 3: I know, but they didn't have another one, right.

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Speaker 2: I felt like, have.

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Speaker 1: You guys talked about how much you literally are Meredith Gray.

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Speaker 2: Like emotionally and yeah, it's not something that I should

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Speaker 2: be proud of because she's a little stunted emotionally.

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Speaker 4: I feel, yes, but it's something that you acknowledge and

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Speaker 4: you work through. I feel like it's good that you know,

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Speaker 4: you accept and you know yourself.

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Speaker 2: I haven't really worked through it though, I'm still struggling

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Speaker 2: with these same issues.

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Speaker 4: So I think the fact that you acknowledge it isn't

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Speaker 4: it don't They say, like the acceptance is the first step.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, I'm still going through the first step. Haven't

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Speaker 2: moved on to the second step.

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Speaker 1: But Meredith Gray's goals, she's everything.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I mean in the way that I mostly

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Speaker 2: relate to her is not like her strength I would say, correct,

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Speaker 2: but that's okay. She. I feel like as she's as

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Speaker 2: we've watched her grow, We've seen her work through these things.

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Speaker 2: So I feel like there's potential for you in the future,

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Speaker 2: promise and hope and all that stuff. I mean, are

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Speaker 2: you sitting. This is your seat that you sit in

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Speaker 2: for work. You haven't moved.

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Speaker 3: I haven't been here all morning since like five am.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, how's it feel so good?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: You know seeing you just puts a smile on my

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Speaker 4: face makes me so happy. It's gonna be a good

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Speaker 4: week because Riverdale comes back on Wednesday.

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Speaker 2: I have I just started watching Riverdale. I'm like, I

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Speaker 2: think I'm on episode five or six, and I'm intrigued,

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Speaker 2: but I find it cheesy.

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Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with.

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Speaker 2: Everyone is like. I almost feel like I shouldn't say

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Speaker 2: that out loud, but I just even my sister, who

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Speaker 2: she watched all the way through and now she's watching

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Speaker 2: it with me. When I have it on again, She's like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I remember finishing it and being like that was really cheesy,

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Speaker 2: but she loves it so much she's watching it again

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Speaker 2: with me.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I would watch it again with you. I really yes.

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Speaker 1: Do you not find it?

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Speaker 3: Does it pick up and like episode eight or something?

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Speaker 1: No, they hooked me in the episode two.

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Speaker 2: I was intrigued by the first one, and then I

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm gonna be sure for Halloween that are.

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Speaker 2: You getting a wig or are you dying your hair red?

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Speaker 1: I got the wig from Amazon. It's so gross, I was.

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Speaker 2: Gonna say, and Amazon wig does not sound like quality. No,

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Speaker 2: I mean I love Amazon, but a wig from Amazon. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you wait till you see this, Cheryl Blossom, what what

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be her red hair and then like a

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Speaker 2: gonna maybe you put a headband on or something to

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Speaker 2: For some reason, what I'm envisioning it's like a so

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Speaker 2: bad it is really bad. I'm picturing like a clown

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Speaker 2: Scary Farm this last weekend, which you know, this is

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Speaker 2: my biggest fear. Is just like horrorny everything, you know,

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Speaker 2: like Halloween stuff, haunted houses.

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Speaker 3: I don't like.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and we went and I was thinking, like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I don't have to go into any of the mazes

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Speaker 2: or anything. But people jump at you and they have

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Speaker 4: You and they come up from behind you in your

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Speaker 2: That was following one guy and I was feeling really

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Speaker 2: sombrero one, so I was like, signor, signor and someone

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Speaker 2: one of the other ones behind me comes up and goes,

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Speaker 2: oh that and it was like so close to my

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Speaker 2: ear and he goes, you said, signor, and I was like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I had to.

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Speaker 1: Get out of here.

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Speaker 4: I had a traumatizing experience at a haunted house two

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Speaker 4: years ago, and I've never gone to anything scary ever since.

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Speaker 3: Where'd you go?

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Speaker 4: Bawling my eyes out, like crying hysterically. It was the

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Speaker 4: seventeenth door. It's like a low It's it's in Anaheim,

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Speaker 4: summer far but it's a Cparently, this is one of

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Speaker 4: the scariest, like haunted houses in all of the country,

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Speaker 4: and it is one of the scariest, Like.

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Speaker 2: Where'd you go? I feel like, you don't even like

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 4: They made me, Ryan made me. They failed me going

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Speaker 4: through this. This is like show People's Entertainment HR. It

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Speaker 4: was actually really bad, but they like slap you with

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Speaker 4: like a real dead fish, and that's when I lost

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Speaker 4: it and I started crying and like you're supposed to

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Speaker 4: felt like I had like fish scales in my fingernails,

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Speaker 1: Just it was the worst experience ever.

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Speaker 3: What did they slap you in your hands or like

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Speaker 3: were you holding the fish.

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Speaker 1: And the like you walk by and then they like

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Speaker 3: So why was it in your fingernails?

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Speaker 1: Because I like pushed it away.

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Speaker 4: I can't remember what the safe word was, to be

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Speaker 1: I was like, well, what's the point of this.

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Speaker 2: Well, I feel like this is first of all, so

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Speaker 3: It's like so cruel, and it's.

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Speaker 2: Also so typical that like the thing that freaks you

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Speaker 2: out the most was like a dirty fish slapping you,

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Speaker 2: like rather than like the terrifying, like chainsaws or something.

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Speaker 2: You're all, oh, I'm dirty.

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Speaker 4: Because when something touches you, it's like more jarring than

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Speaker 4: I think, like something around you.

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Speaker 2: No, yeah, I mean I don't like anything within like

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Speaker 4: So it's gonna be a really good Halloween this year

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Speaker 4: because it's around your birthday.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let's talk about my birthday. So I'm going to

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Speaker 2: Nashville with some friends.

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Speaker 1: Got a house, mind you, mind you? Beccatilly tells me

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Speaker 1: this information five days ago.

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Speaker 3: Okay, it's like a month before my birthday.

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Speaker 1: No, it's not.

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Speaker 4: Your Birthday's in like two and a half weeks, three weeks,

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Speaker 4: but five days ago would have been three weeks.

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Speaker 1: I gave you three weeks notice to go to Nashville.

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Speaker 2: I told you the day after I found out. It's

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Speaker 2: not like I like knew for a while and then

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Speaker 2: So she's staying in town and we're gonna celebrate when

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Speaker 4: And not only committed to this baby shower, I asked

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Speaker 3: So she's now the host of a baby shower, and.

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Speaker 4: I felt like I was like, okay, you know what,

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Speaker 4: So I was like, maybe if I tell them that

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Speaker 1: I went to Becca and I was like, I can't

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Speaker 3: It's okay, we're gonna come back, celebrate.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna get Amy dressed up in scrubs and go

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Speaker 2: as the cast of Grey's Anatomy to dinner.

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Speaker 4: So no, well, now whatever you We're gonna throw something

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Speaker 4: really great for you in La and it's gonna be

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Speaker 3: The only gift I want is Amy dressed up.

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Speaker 5: I won't do it, you have to do it.

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Speaker 6: I will grow costumes. I will not wear theme clothing.

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Speaker 6: I will not wear Christmas sweaters.

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Speaker 2: I will not You said you'd wear Halloween sweater. You

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Speaker 2: can't go back on your word. We're getting a pumpkin.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we'll get you a pumpkin, but whatever you want goes.

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Speaker 4: So whatever you want for your LA party, you.

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Speaker 6: Just why can't we go out on Halloween for your

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Speaker 6: birthday without costume?

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Speaker 1: Because that's weird?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like why, what's the point? What's the point?

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Speaker 4: I think that I feel like it's weird to go

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Speaker 4: out to dinner on Halloween and not dress up me too.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, it's your birthday, so we don't want to

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Speaker 4: like mask your birthday.

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Speaker 2: Oh I don't mind masking my birthday. I'm fine masking

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Speaker 2: my birthday. My birthday is actually the day before, so

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Speaker 2: it's not you know, I'm happy to dress up adults

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we won't.

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Speaker 2: Oh hey, is it y'all's birthday?

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Speaker 3: Interesting? Whatever you want this one from whatever you want to.

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Speaker 4: Not happening, whatever you want, whatever you want, you just

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Speaker 4: let us know.

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Speaker 2: Oh I'm gonna be thinking of some ideas.

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Speaker 1: I feel so so terrible, you know, like broke my

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Speaker 1: heart when I.

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Speaker 3: Told you, well this.

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Speaker 2: I know you're okay. So I text I didn't want

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Speaker 4: You definitely have to send something, and but you have

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Speaker 1: Whatever? Regardless, you wish them all the best and you

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Speaker 4: Put a really nice quote in there about like marriage. No,

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Speaker 6: And you're so sorry violent diarrhea, no one will get

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Speaker 5: You if you write the word diarrhea.

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Speaker 3: I had that yesterday about it.

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Speaker 2: I had to run home from our walk.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to go into detail, but I literally

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Speaker 3: I'm coming in running, I'm running.

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Speaker 3: Do you want to know the worst part about me

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Speaker 2: Why?

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Speaker 3: I was like getting on the road.

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Speaker 3: That's what made me late to get on the road.

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Speaker 4: And so like sometimes I think though, like we are

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Speaker 4: I feel like almost that's why we were brought together

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Speaker 2: Stress.

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Speaker 4: Anya, stress is like a thing in terms of this wedding.

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Speaker 4: I think that you definitely need a you definitely need

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Speaker 3: Okay with a quote, please just find a nice quote.

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Speaker 1: A really good quote.

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Speaker 4: I feel like quotes so of everything though, and the

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Speaker 4: flowers with the verse there's literally.

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Speaker 5: Was a plate of chicken with your name sitting there.

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Speaker 2: And you guys, I will send something that makes up

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Speaker 5: Because somebody had no one to sit next to.

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Speaker 3: Right, but they they may have lucked out, you know.

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Speaker 3: But I can get sloppy at those things.

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Speaker 2: If there's an open bar, those things can really go downhill.

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Speaker 3: So that I may have spared everyone a lot of embarrassment.

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Speaker 2: Becca, Well, yeah, you know what, Black Obecca does not

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Speaker 1: I've only seen her once in our entire friendship.

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Speaker 3: But those are fun times.

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Speaker 1: They are fun times.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, looking back after I get over the pain of

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Speaker 2: the next day, they're fun.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: You know what else is fun? But the fab fit

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Speaker 2: fun box, Oh yeah it is.

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Speaker 3: Do you know what that is? Tell me?

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Speaker 2: But have you ever heard of it?

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Speaker 1: I've heard of it yet, I'm not quite sure what

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Speaker 2: So it's a box that has the latest and beauty

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Speaker 2: and fashion and then fitness and wellness and they send

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Speaker 2: especially fitness and wellness.

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Speaker 1: But like beauty and that's like right, I know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So every box there's full size products. It's only

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Speaker 2: forty nine to ninety nine, but it's a value of

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Speaker 1: More dollars all the stuff in they're combined.

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Speaker 2: Wait, what.

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Speaker 1: That's how much it is, like all the products two

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, so everything in the box is a value

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Speaker 2: Okay, but you get all of it for fifty bucks.

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Speaker 1: Essentially, right, So it's a steal.

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Speaker 3: It's a steal. Okay.

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Speaker 2: So this one is the Editor's box and it has

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Speaker 2: a black fold over clutch from summer in rows cute,

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Speaker 1: Those are my favorite wish Mode. Yeah, you know, I

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Speaker 2: You really do love a good quote and a sentimental necklace.

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Speaker 2: They have a real her lip kit and deep red

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Speaker 2: like you look good in deep red sherl blossom.

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Speaker 1: Oh, this is like my fris right here, babies.

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Speaker 2: And then they have on it. I'm still talking. I'm

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Speaker 2: telling you what they have in there. Keep going. Okay.

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Speaker 2: They have some body wash French lavender. They have Himalayan

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Speaker 2: pea salt kit.

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Speaker 1: That's so good for you.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 2: So the best part of this you get all of

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Speaker 4: That's that really is a steal, you know. Himalayan pink

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Speaker 3: I'm getting this for you for my birthday.

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Speaker 1: Perfect.

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Speaker 2: And the really good part about this is that if

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Speaker 2: you use the code Becca at fatfitfund dot com, you'll

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Speaker 3: Dollars off the editor's box.

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Speaker 2: So even more of a steal if you use my name.

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Speaker 1: Wow, you have I have that power. So you're like

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Speaker 1: a friend with benefits.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, wow, Yeah, I like it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So go to fatfitfund dot com, use promo code

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Speaker 1: Yeah. B E C C A. Don't no k in there,

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Speaker 1: zero K zero ks all right and enjoy.

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Speaker 2: So now that we've talked about how terrible I am

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Speaker 3: Et cetera. That's true, Yeah, I am.

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Speaker 2: It's something I've acknowledged, just like my emotional stuntedness, like Meredithray.

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Speaker 4: That's a whole other issue that we can talk about

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Speaker 4: in terms of dealing with men.

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Speaker 3: That'll be a whole episode. Okay, that'll be a whole episode.

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Speaker 4: The way we do with men is so opposite and

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Speaker 3: Here's one thing that I don't think you do wrong.

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Speaker 2: In your relationships with men, but you're not opposed to

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Speaker 3: Huh.

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Speaker 4: I'm okay, So this is not first of all, since

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Speaker 1: I have not taken a nude.

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Speaker 4: So this is like put three years ago, probably like

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Speaker 4: three years ago, no longer than that. Because these were

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Speaker 1: So let's just say that they were semi graphic.

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Speaker 4: Okay, But I was in a long distance I was

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Speaker 1: So I had quite a few of these photos. Okay.

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Speaker 1: Little did I.

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Speaker 4: Know that I hit yes to transfer every single photo

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Speaker 4: Plus okay, so probably fifty people on Ryan Seacrest in

452
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Speaker 4: this drop box that had an availability for this dropbox,

453
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Speaker 4: and our engineer at the time was looking through and

454
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Speaker 4: none of the photos had my face in them. Okay,

455
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Speaker 4: So yeah, so he had to ask he had his

456
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Speaker 4: shows Danielle, who was sitting next to him, is this Tanya,

457
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Speaker 4: I had to get verification NUE photos.

458
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Speaker 3: You're like identifying yourself.

459
00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:05,360
Speaker 1: Yes, And so then I like go into full panic mode.

460
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Speaker 1: I'm like, who's seen these? Where are these? Because Ryan

461
00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:09,640
Speaker 1: like what is going on? Am I gonna get fired?

462
00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:11,040
Speaker 4: Like I literally thought I was getting fired because this

463
00:19:11,080 --> 00:19:14,440
Speaker 4: is like three thousand photos into our company drop box.

464
00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:17,520
Speaker 4: We literally had to change from dropbox my whole naked

465
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Speaker 4: body from from my neck down.

466
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Speaker 3: Like nothing on.

467
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Speaker 1: Uh, some these were very different.

468
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Speaker 2: I'm just like that, Like what were you just standing

469
00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:28,880
Speaker 2: there like neck laying.

470
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Speaker 6: Witherspoon's good advice of no fate remember when she did that.

471
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Speaker 4: Yes, but this is what this is what's so crazy

472
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Speaker 4: is like I never once worried about them getting out

473
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Speaker 4: because I was sending them to my boyfriend, who would

474
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Speaker 4: never you know what I mean. Like it's very secure,

475
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Speaker 4: Like you know what I mean, Like I didn't think

476
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Speaker 4: these would ever be posted anywhere. Little did I know

477
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Speaker 4: that just my dumb technology naivete.

478
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Speaker 1: Would cause this to just be everywhere. So since then

479
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Speaker 1: we have not we can't use dropbox anymore. The show

480
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Speaker 1: the whole company can't just.

481
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Speaker 3: Drop literally got.

482
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Speaker 2: Tanya literally got Dropbox band from the company, literally, and.

483
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Speaker 4: It was probably one of the most traumatizing experiences. I

484
00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:14,360
Speaker 4: literally though I was gonna get fired.

485
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Speaker 3: I was. I would have I would have walked out.

486
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Speaker 2: I would have been like, I gotta go, I'm done here.

487
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Speaker 3: Please delete them all and I'll see my way out.

488
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Speaker 4: I know, but now I'm like, uh, I'm I have

489
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Speaker 4: not taken a single one since that happened because I'm

490
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Speaker 4: so traumatized.

491
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Speaker 1: From it.

492
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Speaker 3: I do, you know what's so funny?

493
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Speaker 2: Like I don't know if I ever sent any like

494
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Speaker 2: without I think the I don't know, I have not

495
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Speaker 2: sent any where. I was like, oh my gosh, this

496
00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:43,919
Speaker 2: can't get out. But ever since the social's more like

497
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Speaker 2: are you's.

498
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Speaker 1: More tasteful nudes like with the Bronn panties?

499
00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:51,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, like you know, like I at least have a

500
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Speaker 2: bra or panties on because I have not sent well,

501
00:20:53,600 --> 00:20:55,359
Speaker 2: like even when Robert and I were like, I have

502
00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:58,639
Speaker 2: not done that since the social media world stuff because

503
00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:01,960
Speaker 2: everyone gets their foe was leaked. Like you think you

504
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Speaker 2: trust someone, but what if something bad happens in that relationship?

505
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Speaker 1: I know, but what do you do when you're in

506
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Speaker 1: a long distance relationship?

507
00:21:09,119 --> 00:21:11,640
Speaker 3: You just skype what we've done?

508
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Speaker 6: That?

509
00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:15,160
Speaker 3: Well, I mean it's hard.

510
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Speaker 1: It's hard because I see both sides.

511
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Speaker 4: I see like you know, I mean, yes, I am traumatic,

512
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Speaker 4: so I will never do it again.

513
00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:22,520
Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean I guess if you don't care,

514
00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:24,879
Speaker 2: if you're like whatever, everyone does it. So we're in

515
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Speaker 2: a long distant relationship. If it gets out, it gets out.

516
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Speaker 2: If you have that mentality, But like I would be mortified.

517
00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:32,359
Speaker 1: Oh I was mortified.

518
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Speaker 3: What if you uploaded it to like your uh.

519
00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:38,000
Speaker 4: Your parents no eye cloud or family eye cloud.

520
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Speaker 3: Well, the I call it's bad.

521
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Speaker 2: But like even if people doing it on Snapchat, which

522
00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:44,600
Speaker 2: they think is like safe because it disappears people. I

523
00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:47,959
Speaker 2: know people who have like, instead of accidentally sending it

524
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Speaker 2: or sending it to the person they meant to send

525
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Speaker 2: it to privately, they put it on their story.

526
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Speaker 1: Oh and then it's just there and there people can

527
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Speaker 1: screenshot it.

528
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Speaker 2: Yeah, and as long as if it's up for even

529
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Speaker 2: like two minutes, you've done damage.

530
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Speaker 4: And actually I have heard from guys when guys get

531
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Speaker 4: if you're not in I think it's more so when

532
00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:06,120
Speaker 4: you're not in a relationship with a guy, but they

533
00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:08,160
Speaker 4: show all their friends like they're the glue.

534
00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:10,040
Speaker 1: Look what I just got, And they'll show guys.

535
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Speaker 8: Oh well if we showed all our girlfriends what guys send, Like,

536
00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:20,400
Speaker 8: I think that's more embarrassing personally. Okay, we have some

537
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Speaker 8: callers who have experienced some some situations.

538
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Speaker 3: We have Nicole and Oregon.

539
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Speaker 2: Hey, Nicole, Becca, Hi, how are you hey?

540
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Speaker 6: Good?

541
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Speaker 5: How are you?

542
00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:33,280
Speaker 2: I'm great. We also have Tany here we're talking about

543
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Speaker 2: a very important SUBJECTO nudes. Nudes?

544
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Speaker 3: Wait, what's your story?

545
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Speaker 7: So I have never accidentally sent out nudes, and I

546
00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:50,000
Speaker 7: could imagine that would be mortifying. But one time in

547
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:54,480
Speaker 7: high school, I was dating this guy and he received

548
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Speaker 7: nuds from his ex and the story was that she

549
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Speaker 7: meant to send it to another guy that had the

550
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Speaker 7: same name as him on accident. But the funny thing

551
00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:09,920
Speaker 7: was is he I'm not going to say his name,

552
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Speaker 7: but he had like a very very unique name. There's

553
00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:18,520
Speaker 7: no way, there's no way. But yeah, that was pretty

554
00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 7: bad and needless to say, we're not together anymore.

555
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Speaker 2: But I do respect a high schooler coming up with

556
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Speaker 2: I meant to send it.

557
00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:31,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, totally like that. That is so what is that?

558
00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:37,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, like I know, yeah, it's pretty bad. I like that.

559
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:39,920
Speaker 3: You Yeah, did you say was it? Did you say?

560
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Speaker 2: He was, like, you can't.

561
00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:45,520
Speaker 3: You can't be mad. It was an accident, so you can't.

562
00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:47,320
Speaker 7: Yeah, you can't be mad about this because it was

563
00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:49,760
Speaker 7: an accident. Like, there's nothing you can do. Just be

564
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Speaker 7: okay with it.

565
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Speaker 5: There, you saved them too, Well.

566
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Speaker 3: That wasn't an accident.

567
00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:59,720
Speaker 7: No, I mean, this is so bad.

568
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:03,760
Speaker 2: Here's my thing about if I'm sending a nude to someone.

569
00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:06,120
Speaker 2: This is just a rational thought.

570
00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:08,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is just a made up scenario.

571
00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:12,560
Speaker 2: I'm going to double check. Yeah, this is totally hypothetical.

572
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:17,600
Speaker 2: I am going to quadruple check who it's going to,

573
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:21,480
Speaker 2: what the photo was, like, make sure there's no one

574
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Speaker 2: else involved.

575
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:24,399
Speaker 1: Well, you can't like murder.

576
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Speaker 6: I have to be calculated.

577
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Speaker 4: Also, I feel like, now with all these like apps

578
00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:33,080
Speaker 4: and stuff like that, who sends nudes just via text sms?

579
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Speaker 1: Anymore? Like, why wouldn't you just send it in Snapchat

580
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:36,720
Speaker 1: or Instagram story? So it goes away?

581
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 7: Well, this is back in the day, so snapchat did

582
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Speaker 7: not exist, so.

583
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Speaker 4: Okay, giving him too much creditical, You're like.

584
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Speaker 2: He could have been sneakier about it, but we didn't

585
00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:53,959
Speaker 2: have that option yet, so you could probably still be together.

586
00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:55,480
Speaker 2: Thank god you don't have.

587
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Speaker 4: I know, that's a whole other issue. Don't get me

588
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:00,359
Speaker 4: started than that.

589
00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:03,680
Speaker 2: All right, So lesson learned here. Don't trust anyone who

590
00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:05,360
Speaker 2: gets nudes from their ex.

591
00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:10,960
Speaker 7: That's true. And don't trust anyone who sends nudes via SMS.

592
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:13,880
Speaker 3: That's the takeaway lesson today.

593
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're not too tested.

594
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 3: All right, Well, thank you for calling in.

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Speaker 1: Good to talk.

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Speaker 7: You have a nice day lady.

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Speaker 2: Thank you too.

598
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Speaker 3: Bye.

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Speaker 4: I mean, geez, oh that's actually so smart though, not

600
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Speaker 4: whoever that girl was that said, oh, I accidentally meant

601
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Speaker 4: to send these to somebody else.

602
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Speaker 1: That's a good move.

603
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Speaker 3: Is that what you would do? Totally high school?

604
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Speaker 1: You are now you now man? My mom is really

605
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Speaker 1: pretty funny. I meant to send that to my mom.

606
00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh I did.

607
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Speaker 4: Oh.

608
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Speaker 3: I used to do that all the time.

609
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Speaker 2: I'd send like this amazing selfie of myself and be

610
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Speaker 2: like I was sending that to my friends, you like

611
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:53,760
Speaker 2: see if they bought my makeup looked good or something.

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00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:57,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, Or like I've sent sent like a photo like

613
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Speaker 4: on was it Instagram message or whatever and been like.

614
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:03,360
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, shoot, I'm meant to send that to Becca.

615
00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:04,919
Speaker 1: It looks so good in that photo.

616
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:08,600
Speaker 2: Huh you've done this recently? Oh yeah, oh mine was.

617
00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:10,560
Speaker 3: Like years ago. This is so embarrassing.

618
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Speaker 1: Not news, just like a bomb photo.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So our producer Amy has a great story about

620
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Speaker 2: sending a news I don't.

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Speaker 6: Know about great, but I'm just going to defend that

622
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:23,919
Speaker 6: person that accidents do happen because and I don't think

623
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Speaker 6: I'm alone in this. I had a weird thing on

624
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Speaker 6: my chest that I wanted my mom to.

625
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:27,960
Speaker 5: Look out.

626
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:33,200
Speaker 3: Chest that mom needed that.

627
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Speaker 6: I took a photo of it, and like Tanya, we

628
00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 6: all work for Ryan Seacrest, so I took a photo

629
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Speaker 6: of it. And weirdly, I can't explain why, but Mom

630
00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:43,720
Speaker 6: and Ryan are right next to each other in my

631
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Speaker 6: address book and I literally was sending it to Ryan accidentally,

632
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:53,879
Speaker 6: and I caught it, you know how like takes a

633
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Speaker 6: second and you can just oh yeah.

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Speaker 4: Literally nothing sounds more painful to me, Like that was

635
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:03,200
Speaker 4: my first one mine got on the drop box.

636
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Speaker 1: I was like, if he sees these, I literally am

637
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 1: just I'm done, Like I can't.

638
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 5: I mean, he's pretty cool. I don't think he really

639
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:10,160
Speaker 5: would have cared.

640
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:12,680
Speaker 2: No, maybe he would have given you some medical advice.

641
00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 4: That looks like, but that's like your boss seeing you naked.

642
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:22,000
Speaker 2: But like you and Ryan are friends, so I think

643
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:25,160
Speaker 2: it would be funny. And Tania, you've done enough embarrassing

644
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:27,720
Speaker 2: things in front of Ryan that now it would have

645
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 2: mattered as much. Maybe back in the day it would

646
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:38,720
Speaker 2: be like more devastating. Yeah, now you'd be like sorry, Ryan, hello, Hello.

647
00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 4: Well, I still think having accidentally sending nudes to somebody is.

648
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:43,920
Speaker 3: Just it's just like your heart.

649
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:45,960
Speaker 2: It's just like sending a text that wasn't meant for

650
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:48,280
Speaker 2: someone in the first like that same feeling, like when

651
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:49,200
Speaker 2: your heart drops.

652
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:50,560
Speaker 1: Have you ever done that?

653
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:53,399
Speaker 4: Yeah, where you like say something about somebody but you

654
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 4: send it to that person.

655
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, I can't.

656
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:58,119
Speaker 2: I just know it's happened because I can like feel

657
00:27:58,119 --> 00:27:58,960
Speaker 2: the feeling right now.

658
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Speaker 5: That's like God's punishment for being.

659
00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:03,399
Speaker 2: Mean for yeah, for being a gossip a gossip queen.

660
00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 2: He's like, no, no, no, we talked about this. This

661
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:09,119
Speaker 2: is not allowed. I'm gonna make sure you never do

662
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 2: it again. I've still done it after I've gotten caught though.

663
00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 1: Oh that's so uncomfortable.

664
00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:16,080
Speaker 3: One time I read my friends.

665
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:18,840
Speaker 2: She left her Facebook open and so I read her

666
00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:21,359
Speaker 2: Facebook messages because I felt like there was some drama

667
00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:24,960
Speaker 2: between like our roommate situation, and I found out that

668
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 2: they were like gonna invite me to go do something,

669
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:28,879
Speaker 2: but then.

670
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Speaker 1: One of them till say, I think something. That's so mean.

671
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Speaker 2: I wasn't like at my best during that time, so

672
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Speaker 2: I understand why they wouldn't want me around. But really, yeah,

673
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 2: I was kind of in like a dark place, so

674
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Speaker 2: I was kind of a sad sack.

675
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Speaker 4: But do you know what, I actually like love about

676
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Speaker 4: you a lot, and I think that your listeners would

677
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 4: like to know this. You really are like such a

678
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Speaker 4: great friend.

679
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Speaker 3: Oh really, I don't.

680
00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:55,720
Speaker 2: I always feel like my friends are so much greater

681
00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 2: to me than I am to them.

682
00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 1: I feel no, I really genuinely feel like you.

683
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Speaker 4: Like I don't know how to like put it into words,

684
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 4: but I feel like a like you. Oh, like you

685
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:08,480
Speaker 4: always have your friends back. I'm just gonna talk personally

686
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:10,480
Speaker 4: because it's just easier to say that way, but like,

687
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 4: I feel like you always have my back and I oh,

688
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:14,840
Speaker 4: and I feel like you're like the type of girl

689
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:18,360
Speaker 4: that like you support your girlfriends like do does that

690
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Speaker 4: make sense?

691
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Speaker 3: I like that that's a very high compliment.

692
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:23,760
Speaker 4: And then you also like you know that we're very

693
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:26,000
Speaker 4: opposite and I'm very needy, and I think that you're

694
00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:28,360
Speaker 4: just a really good friend. And I just I want

695
00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 4: all of your listeners to know that you are an.

696
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Speaker 3: You think I adjust to your neediness?

697
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, you like acknowledge that I'm needing. You're like, I

698
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 4: know you're being needy, so I yes, I will hang

699
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:37,040
Speaker 4: out with you tonight.

700
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:42,520
Speaker 3: Come have some Orville red Bocker and.

701
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:44,920
Speaker 1: Best popcorn in America.

702
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Speaker 3: Thank you for saying that.

703
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:49,080
Speaker 2: That was really nice, because I really do sometimes I'm like, wow,

704
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 2: my friends, I don't know how I have the friends

705
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:52,320
Speaker 2: I do because there's so much better to me than

706
00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 2: I am to them. So thank you. I try to

707
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 2: be better, but I still do the wedding stuff and

708
00:29:57,880 --> 00:29:59,200
Speaker 2: you know, I like can't get it together.

709
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 1: I know it's a okay, because you do. You're making progress.

710
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:03,320
Speaker 1: I see it.

711
00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 2: Thank you.

712
00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 3: Okay.

713
00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:08,719
Speaker 2: So one thing that you have been around for was

714
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Speaker 2: my very aggressive agne face that I went through last year.

715
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Speaker 4: I vividly remember this. You tried every lotion, potion and

716
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Speaker 4: trick under the sun.

717
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Speaker 2: It was very dark. Those were dark times for me.

718
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Speaker 2: So I recently was sent in Bioclarity, which is a vegan,

719
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Speaker 2: all natural cult free.

720
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Speaker 1: Yes, that's amazing.

721
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Speaker 2: It's a three step program. It's a cleanser, a treatment,

722
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Speaker 2: and then a restoragel. And the restore gel has flora

723
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Speaker 2: lex in it, which is derived from chlorophyll some plants. Yeah,

724
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Speaker 2: so it's green and it goes on and it like

725
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Speaker 2: it covers the redness of your skin and it feels

726
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Speaker 2: like really soothing and calming.

727
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Speaker 3: So it's my favorite part.

728
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Speaker 4: I love products that are vegan, by the way, because

729
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Speaker 4: I feel like we're so aware of things that we

730
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Speaker 4: put in our bodies that we ingest. Yeah, why aren't

731
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Speaker 4: we using more vegan products on our face and bodies?

732
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Speaker 2: It just feels safer even if you're trying it, when

733
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Speaker 2: you know that it's got good stuff in it.

734
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Speaker 3: Yeah, that feels safe.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

736
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Speaker 3: Yeah, So I just I feel like it's just like calming.

737
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Speaker 3: I really like it. It's good stuff.

738
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Speaker 1: Your face looks great. Thank you, You're welcome.

739
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 3: It's really nice to hear after the trauma went.

740
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Speaker 1: I trust me, I know the trauma. I remember those days.

741
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:18,400
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746
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747
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Speaker 2: and knowing it's risk free.

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00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:35,000
Speaker 4: Negative money back guarantee is always a good thing because

749
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Speaker 4: you know that they're like, you're gonna be so happy

750
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Speaker 4: with my product. We're gonna like give you this as

751
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752
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Speaker 2: Use it exactly. We're confident enough to give you this

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754
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Speaker 2: To get your first month for nine ninety five plus

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Speaker 1: I love that, all right?

760
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Speaker 3: What was an oh man? So we're both single?

761
00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 2: Tanya?

762
00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:12,400
Speaker 1: Yes?

763
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 2: Why are we both single?

764
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:20,200
Speaker 4: The best part is is like our our approach to

765
00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 4: dating could not be more opposite. Like I am very

766
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 4: like aggressive and I like just go in for the kill,

767
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 4: and Becca's very chill, like she's just like hands off,

768
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:32,480
Speaker 4: like make the guy come to you. And yet both

769
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:34,240
Speaker 4: strategies are failing.

770
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:38,959
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, it's true, you really put it all

771
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 2: out there right off the bat. I've really tried to

772
00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:44,800
Speaker 2: like just tell you to ease up a little bit.

773
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:47,720
Speaker 1: I feel like Becca sometimes is like more than like

774
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 1: male figure.

775
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:52,800
Speaker 2: I know, like even with Robert, I felt like that

776
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 2: was kind of the my problem, the problem I didn't

777
00:32:57,320 --> 00:33:00,160
Speaker 2: want to be. But I think that's just I'm like

778
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 2: a dominant.

779
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 1: And this is the problem.

780
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 4: And I feel like Robert knew you well enough, but

781
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 4: it's like almost like when somebody knows you well enough,

782
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:08,760
Speaker 4: they know that you have like boundaries and you want

783
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 4: to like spend a night alone and you want to

784
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:13,280
Speaker 4: like have your alone time, where a lot of I

785
00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 4: feel like a lot of guys are used to girls

786
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 4: being very much wanting to be with them all the time,

787
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 4: so when you come along and you're kind of like, yeah,

788
00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:21,400
Speaker 4: I'm here to do my own thing.

789
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:23,480
Speaker 1: It kind of makes them like self conscious a little bit.

790
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:24,760
Speaker 3: You know, it's terrible.

791
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:27,480
Speaker 2: It's not something that's definitely not something I'm proud of.

792
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 2: Like I'm proud that I'm independent and like do appreciate

793
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:33,000
Speaker 2: my own time, and I'm find being single and like

794
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:35,719
Speaker 2: confident in that way, but I don't like that in

795
00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 2: relationship that I am so like if I see you,

796
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 2: I'll see you.

797
00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 1: Okay. So this is my question for you, Okay, and

798
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go deep.

799
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:45,800
Speaker 2: Oh man, you're bringing it well.

800
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:47,560
Speaker 3: It's been so lighthearted, but.

801
00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:51,560
Speaker 4: I mean, like, okay, so that was something that you

802
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:55,520
Speaker 4: felt like in your past relationship, you didn't want it,

803
00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:57,640
Speaker 4: You just you wanted your own time in your own space.

804
00:33:57,680 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 4: Do you think that there is a guy out there

805
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:01,840
Speaker 4: that might change that about you? Or do you think

806
00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 4: that this is just how you're going to be your

807
00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:03,480
Speaker 4: whole life?

808
00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 2: I mean, I certainly hope. So, like it was bad.

809
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:10,160
Speaker 2: I felt sad for both me and Robert because I

810
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 2: was like, how do we do this st where we're

811
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:14,240
Speaker 2: both happy? Right?

812
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:15,040
Speaker 7: So?

813
00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:16,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I hope.

814
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:19,680
Speaker 2: My mom's like, just wait, a guy will come along

815
00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:22,839
Speaker 2: and he'll change everything. And I'm like, all right, well,

816
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 2: you keep putting.

817
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:24,279
Speaker 3: That out there.

818
00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:26,640
Speaker 4: I know, because I think that sometimes we have this

819
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:29,879
Speaker 4: perception of like what it's supposed to be and when

820
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:32,880
Speaker 4: it's but that's just this like perception of what we

821
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 4: think it's supposed to be.

822
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 1: But if it's not supposed to be.

823
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:39,960
Speaker 2: That, so you're saying, like, like, what if it's not

824
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 2: going to be like Meredith and Derek exactly, that's heartbreaking.

825
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:47,279
Speaker 4: It might not be though, like you might not like

826
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:50,759
Speaker 4: you truly might not want to spend twenty four hours

827
00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:52,480
Speaker 4: of your time with your partners.

828
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:54,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I think I'll end up with someone who

829
00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:56,759
Speaker 2: also doesn't want to spend twenty four hours a day

830
00:34:56,760 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 2: with me and Tanny is like Tanya is like glued

831
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:04,160
Speaker 2: to whoever.

832
00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:07,560
Speaker 1: No, that's not true, but I do.

833
00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:08,040
Speaker 3: I do.

834
00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:11,480
Speaker 4: Like I think the older that we get, the more

835
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 4: we realize, like what we want out of a relationship.

836
00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:13,919
Speaker 1: Yeah.

837
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:14,920
Speaker 3: We talked about this last night.

838
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I mean I almost got literally was almost

839
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 4: married at twenty five and I would have been divorced

840
00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:21,480
Speaker 4: by thirty.

841
00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 3: That was to nudes Mickey.

842
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:28,880
Speaker 1: So yeah, but it's like it's so true.

843
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 4: And I think that like the older that you get,

844
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:32,600
Speaker 4: the more you like realize kind of what you want

845
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:34,600
Speaker 4: and what you don't want. But the thing that is

846
00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:36,640
Speaker 4: bad is like I have done the whole Like I

847
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 4: have a list of like these are my things, and

848
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:39,799
Speaker 4: these are the things that like I pray on and

849
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:41,759
Speaker 4: I meditate on, and I like write them down and

850
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:43,719
Speaker 4: put them under my pillow and like you know all

851
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:44,759
Speaker 4: that stuff and.

852
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:48,399
Speaker 2: Put them on No, please don't tell me, put them

853
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:52,360
Speaker 2: on your bellow. Yeah, like the two fairy she's or

854
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 2: like with the boyfriend fairy.

855
00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:55,280
Speaker 1: No, it's the power.

856
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:57,759
Speaker 4: It's the power of prayer in the universe. You know't

857
00:35:57,800 --> 00:35:59,759
Speaker 4: have you put it out there and it's it'll come.

858
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:02,239
Speaker 4: It's just it's taking a little bit of time.

859
00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:04,279
Speaker 3: It's I'm just saying that under the pillow. Is it

860
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 3: maybe the smartest or that's just necessary?

861
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:07,719
Speaker 4: Do you know?

862
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:08,719
Speaker 1: Do you know what you want?

863
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:12,319
Speaker 2: I mean I thought I know what I want in

864
00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 2: the sense of like basic things. But I also think

865
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:18,280
Speaker 2: someone comes along and there's this chemistry thing and maybe

866
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:20,839
Speaker 2: everything I've written down on paper, they don't have all

867
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:21,840
Speaker 2: of that, but they have.

868
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:25,920
Speaker 3: I don't know that unexplainable thing that you can't.

869
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:26,560
Speaker 2: Put into words.

870
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:30,640
Speaker 4: Oh the thing, that one thing, the Meredith and Derek thing,

871
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:33,359
Speaker 4: the Mere Dare thing, the Mayda thing.

872
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:35,719
Speaker 1: I do think that there is something to that.

873
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:38,279
Speaker 4: But I also think that if you don't have like

874
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:41,000
Speaker 4: the same morals and values, that's when things go right.

875
00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 1: Thing can only take you so far.

876
00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:48,560
Speaker 2: Time out, we have another thing to talk about my

877
00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:52,719
Speaker 2: brain literally you said something, oh oh oh Tany and

878
00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:55,839
Speaker 2: I also do not go out to make these things

879
00:36:55,880 --> 00:37:00,719
Speaker 2: happen for ourselves. We're very like home body. I don't

880
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 2: know she thinks putting it under her pillow, he's gonna

881
00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 2: be delivered to her door. I've like accepted that, Okay,

882
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:10,200
Speaker 2: unless I don't make it happen or go out and

883
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:15,040
Speaker 2: meet people, it's not. I'm gonna because dating is.

884
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:17,360
Speaker 1: The worst, and.

885
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 4: Everybody thinks it's so fun. Don't like all your married

886
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:24,200
Speaker 4: friends saying I wish I was singling and dating is

887
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:24,920
Speaker 4: so fun.

888
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:26,319
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, it's not.

889
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:30,839
Speaker 2: Maybe back before dating apps and maybe it was fun.

890
00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:32,440
Speaker 3: I don't know. It's not fun.

891
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:33,560
Speaker 1: It's not fun.

892
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:36,480
Speaker 4: If I could relive, Like sometimes I wish I had

893
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 4: a GoPro on my head for some of the care

894
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:43,560
Speaker 4: been everything because it's so excruciating, Like who wants to

895
00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:43,960
Speaker 4: do that?

896
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:47,160
Speaker 2: Not me? Will you tell your story about the guy

897
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:48,719
Speaker 2: that picked you up and then dropped you off?

898
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:55,840
Speaker 1: That was traumatizing as well, because like we.

899
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 3: Were gonna, we're okay right now, right.

900
00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:01,439
Speaker 4: You've I've moved past it, but it's still like it's

901
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:04,440
Speaker 4: still like a big scar because okay, so here's what happened.

902
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:07,040
Speaker 4: So I'll give you the cliff notes version. Meet this

903
00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 4: guy on a dating website. We talked, talk, talk talk.

904
00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:13,560
Speaker 4: We decide we're gonna go grab a drink together. So

905
00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 4: I find out through just my own like investigation, because

906
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:19,120
Speaker 4: that's a whole nother topic. We google and we research.

907
00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, we google stock.

908
00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 4: We're investigation, so we investigate. I find out that he

909
00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:26,880
Speaker 4: is my roommate's best friend's cousin. So I'm thinking, great,

910
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,759
Speaker 4: I know this guy's not a serial killer, and like,

911
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:31,319
Speaker 4: you know, I have people that vouch for him that

912
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:32,919
Speaker 4: he's like a normal human.

913
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:33,879
Speaker 1: So I'm like, this is so great.

914
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:35,839
Speaker 4: But they told me they said, don't tell him you

915
00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:37,920
Speaker 4: know us, which I thought was weird. But I was

916
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:41,080
Speaker 4: like whatever, so I didn't say anything. So he picks

917
00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:43,560
Speaker 4: me up to go grab a drink. I get in

918
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:45,719
Speaker 4: the car and he's like, thank you so much.

919
00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:46,240
Speaker 1: It was a Wednesday.

920
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:47,480
Speaker 4: We were supposed to go out on Friday, and he's like,

921
00:38:47,480 --> 00:38:50,000
Speaker 4: I'm actually going down to a wedding this weekend in Laguna.

922
00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:53,080
Speaker 4: And I was like, I go, oh yes, he went,

923
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:56,400
Speaker 4: I go, this is I go. My roommate's in a

924
00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 4: wedding in Laguna, even though they told me not to.

925
00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:00,560
Speaker 4: I was like, this is a great easy way into it.

926
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:03,600
Speaker 4: And he literally stops the car and he like looks

927
00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:06,040
Speaker 4: at me and he goes, who's your roommate? So I

928
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:08,520
Speaker 4: say Rachel Grossman and he literally looks at me and

929
00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:11,279
Speaker 4: he says, I can't I can't take you on this date.

930
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:14,680
Speaker 4: And literally we're like three blocks from my apartment, turns

931
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:18,319
Speaker 4: the car around and I'm sitting here going did you

932
00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:20,319
Speaker 4: guys used to date? Did you hook up? Like you know,

933
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 4: I'm asking all these questions and he's like not giving

934
00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:25,439
Speaker 4: me any answer. So I'm like, literally like what the heck?

935
00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 4: He literally drops me off on the curb by drives off.

936
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:31,440
Speaker 4: I start bawling. I call Amy. I go up to

937
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 4: her and I'm like, did he just like this is

938
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:35,840
Speaker 4: where your mind goes? Your mind just goes. Did he

939
00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:38,239
Speaker 4: take one look at me and think I don't want

940
00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:40,360
Speaker 4: to take her out on a date? Like that's like,

941
00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:43,000
Speaker 4: you know, as a woman, that's like where your mind

942
00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:43,319
Speaker 4: just goes.

943
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:45,600
Speaker 1: It just goes to the worst place possible scenario.

944
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:46,000
Speaker 2: Right.

945
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:54,200
Speaker 1: Turns out he's just a freak. He's just a total freak.

946
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 4: And apparently the family all found out and they like

947
00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:58,640
Speaker 4: all were like, you're such a jerk, Like they were

948
00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:01,000
Speaker 4: like they really basically told HI, like that was not cool.

949
00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:03,640
Speaker 4: But he likes to keep his dating life separate from

950
00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:05,279
Speaker 4: his family, and I was just too close to home

951
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 4: or something that is sketch, but like it was really

952
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:11,239
Speaker 4: traumatizing and I literally don't think I've gone on a

953
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:15,040
Speaker 4: date from a dating website since because it was that traumatizing.

954
00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't blame me.

955
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:20,760
Speaker 1: Five minute date.

956
00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:24,600
Speaker 2: I feel, Yeah, I mean, I'm that is such a

957
00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:26,400
Speaker 2: I don't know what I would do. I think I

958
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:30,160
Speaker 2: would just, you know, my personality be like whatever. Be.

959
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:32,680
Speaker 2: I would get out and be like all right, thank god,

960
00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:35,160
Speaker 2: I don't have to have small talk conversation a whole night.

961
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 1: And it's easier when it's like not you.

962
00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:39,520
Speaker 4: I feel like when it's happening to you, which is

963
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:40,960
Speaker 4: kind of like are you kidding me?

964
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 5: Yeah?

965
00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:43,400
Speaker 1: Have you ever had a date like that? Well, that's

966
00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:44,560
Speaker 1: really rare, but like.

967
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:47,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean most of my date, like embarrassing moments

968
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:49,279
Speaker 2: happened on national television.

969
00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:51,920
Speaker 1: So which one was the most embarrassing?

970
00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:56,720
Speaker 2: Probably when I got well the Probably when Ben dumped

971
00:40:56,760 --> 00:41:02,560
Speaker 2: me that was the most embarrassing. The date that episode,

972
00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:05,120
Speaker 2: the date when he chose like it was a three

973
00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:07,440
Speaker 2: on one and he chose Amanda and like me and

974
00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:09,920
Speaker 2: Kayla were left like sitting. I got left in a

975
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:12,719
Speaker 2: barn twice when I was on the show I Hate No,

976
00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna bar. Yeah, but we were just left

977
00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:19,279
Speaker 2: there and they just held the I could feel the

978
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:21,480
Speaker 2: cameras just being held on us, waiting for us to

979
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:25,600
Speaker 2: react after they left. It was so awkward, And that's

980
00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:26,240
Speaker 2: when I cried.

981
00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:27,680
Speaker 1: Do you think that if.

982
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:30,359
Speaker 4: You weren't on TV, like, if there wasn't a camera

983
00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:32,680
Speaker 4: on your face, would you be that emotionally upset?

984
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:35,120
Speaker 2: I would just be upset with myself for going on

985
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:39,680
Speaker 2: a three on one date on my own. Mostly that

986
00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:42,000
Speaker 2: would be the more like disheartening part.

987
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:45,400
Speaker 4: But I mean, you know what's interesting. I would like

988
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:46,680
Speaker 4: to ask you, and I don't think I've ever asked

989
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:49,520
Speaker 4: you this. Going on a date in real life like

990
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 4: I R versus going on a date the Bachelor.

991
00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:55,040
Speaker 1: Is it different?

992
00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:58,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, like very different, but you're still talking getting to

993
00:41:58,920 --> 00:41:59,360
Speaker 4: know somebody.

994
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:02,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you you talk about like you get into

995
00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 2: the deep, you know, topics that you would wait a

996
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:08,200
Speaker 2: few dates for in real life. Okay, so just sped

997
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:12,720
Speaker 2: up and there's just like a camera and producers lingering.

998
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:15,560
Speaker 3: But weirdly you get used.

999
00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:17,400
Speaker 1: To that, right, that's what everybody says.

1000
00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:20,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know, And it's like, you know, I

1001
00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of people have no problem,

1002
00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:24,240
Speaker 2: Like you don't mind kissing on the first day. Yeah,

1003
00:42:24,440 --> 00:42:25,239
Speaker 2: like you're fine with that.

1004
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm fine with that, even though everybody tells me

1005
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:27,920
Speaker 1: not to.

1006
00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:31,200
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't really think. I don't personally don't

1007
00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:34,000
Speaker 2: think it's like a make or break deal. And maybe

1008
00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:36,600
Speaker 2: I'm wrong. I don't really do it just because I'm like, eh,

1009
00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 2: if I get if I drink enough, I'll do it

1010
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:43,759
Speaker 2: with a total stranger. However, if I go on a

1011
00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:45,520
Speaker 2: date with someone, I.

1012
00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 3: Normally wait to wait a second date.

1013
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:51,440
Speaker 2: But there's rarely a second date with someone like quickly

1014
00:42:51,520 --> 00:42:56,520
Speaker 2: nix those Is that what you kiss on the first

1015
00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:59,399
Speaker 2: day because you're like, am I probablyizing I'm not gonna

1016
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:01,359
Speaker 2: see them, I'm not.

1017
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:02,920
Speaker 1: Gonna see you again, So let's just do this.

1018
00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 5: See what it's like.

1019
00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:07,839
Speaker 1: If you like.

1020
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:11,719
Speaker 4: Sometimes I think back and I'm like the and God

1021
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:14,719
Speaker 4: bless them. Everybody's great, the great guys, but just not

1022
00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:16,719
Speaker 4: for me. And it's like, I think about these guys

1023
00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:18,920
Speaker 4: that I've gone out with and just how terrible they are.

1024
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:22,200
Speaker 4: I think that my husband, my future husband, is gonna

1025
00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:26,320
Speaker 4: be so incredible and amazing because I have had to endure.

1026
00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:28,160
Speaker 1: Wipe the road to get to this.

1027
00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:29,719
Speaker 3: I will say you've endured a lot.

1028
00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:34,800
Speaker 2: However, you've made some very interesting decisions, such as mister

1029
00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:39,920
Speaker 2: Wilsher comes to mind, Like you met him, so you're trying.

1030
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:40,399
Speaker 1: To just be open.

1031
00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:42,040
Speaker 4: I'm just trying to be open to the universe. You

1032
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:44,600
Speaker 4: don't know how it's gonna come or when it's gonna come.

1033
00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:45,880
Speaker 4: You just have to be open to it.

1034
00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:49,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a weird one. You like, went over

1035
00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:51,160
Speaker 2: to his house on the first date. I'm like, you

1036
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:53,480
Speaker 2: don't even he's like way older. You don't know if

1037
00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:56,240
Speaker 2: he's like a serial killer, et cetera.

1038
00:43:56,640 --> 00:43:57,680
Speaker 1: That one was questionable.

1039
00:43:57,680 --> 00:43:59,680
Speaker 4: But I did share my location with a bunch of

1040
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:03,640
Speaker 4: my friends before I left on the date, so everybody

1041
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:05,719
Speaker 4: knew where I was and what time I was there.

1042
00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:07,480
Speaker 3: The best was when we ran into him.

1043
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:11,800
Speaker 4: Oh this stuff does not happen, Like it just doesn't.

1044
00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 4: Like you can't make this stuff up.

1045
00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:14,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, we ran it.

1046
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:16,640
Speaker 2: She I had heard all these stories about him, and

1047
00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, we got to move on from this guy.

1048
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:20,319
Speaker 2: He's such a like jerk and loser, and like.

1049
00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:22,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, he here he had done something super sketchy to me,

1050
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:25,080
Speaker 4: and then I was supposed to go on a date

1051
00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:27,360
Speaker 4: with him, Like this was a Saturday. I think it

1052
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:28,799
Speaker 4: was a Saturday night. I was supposed to meet up

1053
00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:30,840
Speaker 4: with him at seven pm. Becca and I are having

1054
00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:32,439
Speaker 4: breakfast or lunch somewhere.

1055
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:33,759
Speaker 3: Was lunch after the polo fan.

1056
00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:36,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, so we're having lunch and like a complete opposite

1057
00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:38,759
Speaker 4: side of town that he lives in, and who do

1058
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:41,279
Speaker 4: we see just walk right past our bench holding hands

1059
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:43,440
Speaker 4: with another girl, mister Wolshre.

1060
00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:46,080
Speaker 2: And I was like, I knew who he was, but

1061
00:44:46,160 --> 00:44:47,759
Speaker 2: because I had never met him, but I knew who

1062
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:51,239
Speaker 2: he was just and it was the most awkward.

1063
00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:53,440
Speaker 3: Comfortable hey, calar I've ever ever.

1064
00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 2: I was like sweating just watching him, like and I

1065
00:44:57,239 --> 00:45:00,319
Speaker 2: loved it too, because Becca really was like amazing, an

1066
00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:02,799
Speaker 2: amazing friend there, because she just like kept talking because

1067
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:03,880
Speaker 2: I literally couldn't even.

1068
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:05,680
Speaker 4: Get more of it because I was so uncomfortable because

1069
00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:06,880
Speaker 4: I was like, I'm literally supposed to go on a

1070
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:08,640
Speaker 4: date with you in three hours.

1071
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 3: I don't think you went on that date?

1072
00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 1: Right, No, I don't wind to go on the date.

1073
00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:15,880
Speaker 2: Well, we could go on for days.

1074
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:18,080
Speaker 1: We have so many stories, so many stories.

1075
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:19,080
Speaker 3: Oh this was so fun.

1076
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:20,840
Speaker 1: I wish, okay hold.

1077
00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:25,880
Speaker 4: Next time, because I feel like you have had some

1078
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:27,319
Speaker 4: pretty interesting days as well.

1079
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:30,600
Speaker 2: Oh, we'll keep that for next week for sure. Thank

1080
00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:31,839
Speaker 2: you for coming, it was so fun.

1081
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:32,560
Speaker 1: Well, thank you for.

1082
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:34,040
Speaker 2: Having me in the living room.

1083
00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:37,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, I love you, Tanya.

1084
00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:38,160
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1085
00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:39,440
Speaker 3: Do you want to call Time of Death?

1086
00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:42,359
Speaker 1: You're gonna let me called Time of Death.

1087
00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:48,440
Speaker 4: You're a special guest, Yes, Time of Death, twelve nineteen

1088
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Speaker 4: pm