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Speaker 1: He's ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the

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Speaker 1: Fred Show. Hey, Asa, good morning, welcome to the program.

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Speaker 1: How are you.

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Speaker 2: I'm okay, how are you doing? Okay?

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Speaker 1: Well, we're doing great, but it's just okay because you

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Speaker 1: met a guy named Justin and you guys went out

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Speaker 1: three times? So how did you meet? And tell us

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Speaker 1: about three dates? And then where things are now?

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Speaker 2: We met on the app, you know, classics sort of

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Speaker 2: twenty twenty fourth.

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Speaker 1: Story love story on the apps.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but it was going really well, like he

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Speaker 2: seemed really into me.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, we had a lot of fun and yeah, the

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Speaker 3: first time we went out for drinks and then we

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Speaker 3: did at dinner, and then we went to each other's

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Speaker 3: houses on the third or we went to his house

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Speaker 3: on the third date, and I just like, I don't

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Speaker 3: know what happens. He just like come weird and then

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Speaker 3: just completely ghosted. So it's really clueless.

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Speaker 1: Because we're getting into that territory. I know this is

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Speaker 1: a debate we've had on the show many times, but

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Speaker 1: I would say three plus dates kind of in there

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Speaker 1: is where a conversation might be helpful because you're kind

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Speaker 1: of I mean, you're not like together but I mean

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Speaker 1: one or two dates. I don't know. Maybe you just

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Speaker 1: kind of fade away if no one's asking questions to

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Speaker 1: one another then but you're kind of in that area

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Speaker 1: where I feel like you're maybe not owed. But an

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Speaker 1: explanation as to why he's fading away would be nice, right, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, three dates is not nothing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so okay, right, well, let's call him right now

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Speaker 1: and try and figure this out. Good luck, Asia, Thank you? Hi?

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Speaker 1: Is this Justin?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yes, hey, Justin? Good morning. My name is Fred. I'm

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Speaker 1: calling from the Fred Show, the Morning radio show. The

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Speaker 1: whole crew is here, and I do have to tell

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Speaker 1: you that we are on the radio right now, and

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Speaker 1: I would need your permission to continue. Is it okay

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Speaker 1: if we chat for just a second.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that's fine.

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Speaker 1: Well, thank you very much. We're calling on behalf of

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Speaker 1: a woman who says that she met you on one

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Speaker 1: of the dating apps you guys went out several times.

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Speaker 1: Her name is Asia. Do you remember Asia? Hopefully?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I do, I do.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what happened with her? Because she called us

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Speaker 1: and was telling us that she had met you, and

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Speaker 1: you guys went on three dates, she said, and I

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Speaker 1: thought things were going really well. She liked you and

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Speaker 1: thought there was chemistry and that you know, it was

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Speaker 1: all headed in the right direction. But you've disappeared lately

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Speaker 1: after the third date, So what's going on?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah.

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Speaker 4: The truth is when I met Asia, I genuinely thought

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Speaker 4: she was smoking hot. We had a great time type

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Speaker 4: of girl, like you know, when I look at her,

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Speaker 4: like my heart's racing. We had a great time. But

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Speaker 4: over the next course, is that just had the times

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Speaker 4: that I saw her. Honestly, her appearance just drastically started changing.

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Speaker 1: I mean, how drastically does someone's appearance change over the

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Speaker 1: course of three days.

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Speaker 4: I'm just I'm telling you. When we first met, she

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Speaker 4: was turvy and voluptuous, and like I said, it was

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Speaker 4: it was hard to look at her about my heart dropping.

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Speaker 4: And after the date, you know, there was there was

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Speaker 4: there was a change, and uh, I don't know. I

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Speaker 4: was I was sort of like, you know, I must

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Speaker 4: be crazy, So I tried again and sure enough, you know, So.

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Speaker 1: What are you suggesting either she had a trainer or

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Speaker 1: ozempic or like a coke habit, or like what are we?

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Speaker 1: What are you? What are you suggesting happen.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, maybe I don't know something like that. I

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Speaker 4: just I just know that the person I met one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Asia ages here, I forgot. I'm very forgetful. I

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Speaker 1: forgot to mention that agent is on the phone. Do

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Speaker 1: just a agent? You know each other? So, Agia, you

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Speaker 1: heard him. He liked you. I guess he liked some

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Speaker 1: curves and he's saying that you don't now, so I mean,

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Speaker 1: does that sound accurate? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I mean no, I have been taking those inmthic and

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Speaker 2: I just have to say that, like, it's really disappointing

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Speaker 2: that you were only to me purely because of the

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Speaker 1: Like that's so Sallas.

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Speaker 3: Purely.

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Speaker 4: I had a good time. I think we had a

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Speaker 4: great conversation and everything, but there's the other element of.

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Speaker 3: Like physical attractives too.

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Speaker 4: I think the personality was amazing, but after the you know,

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Speaker 4: the appearance change, I just you know, I couldn't I

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Speaker 4: couldn't keep doing it.

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Speaker 1: I mean, Asian people do have a right. I hear

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Speaker 1: what you're saying. You want to be liked for more

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Speaker 1: than the way you look, but people also have a

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Speaker 1: right to have preferences and things that they're attracted to.

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Speaker 1: And it sounds like he was attracted to you just

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Speaker 1: the way you were. Now that's not to say that

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Speaker 1: you can't do whatever you want with your own body

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Speaker 1: and whatever makes you feel good. But he liked the

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Speaker 1: curves and he says there's less of them, and you

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Speaker 1: know he can have a preference too, can he.

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Speaker 2: I guess. So I'm disappointing. It feels like I feel

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Speaker 2: like it was just because of the way I look.

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Speaker 2: And so I mean, I feel like I'm dodging a

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Speaker 2: bullet in a way. But it's a bummer.

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Speaker 1: So you feel better as this process for you, as

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Speaker 1: the ozembic is kicking in or whatever and you're losing weight,

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Speaker 1: you you feel better about yourself.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel more confident. I feel better.

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Speaker 3: So I mean, I feel better in my own body

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Speaker 3: than have this guy like me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, and then you're saying, justin that you're not into

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Speaker 1: the skinnier version of her.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I mean I feel like I sound

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Speaker 4: like a dick, but yeah, I'm just I'm just not

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Speaker 4: as interested.

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, strikes again. I mean, you know, like

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Speaker 1: I'm fluffing a ton, and you know, I know somebody

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Speaker 1: justin who's fluffing a five. You have a boat, So yeah,

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Speaker 1: do you have a boat?

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Speaker 3: You?

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Speaker 1: Are you a license captain? Because I can set you

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Speaker 1: up with someone and everyone will be happy here. But look,

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Speaker 1: I am happy for you and whatever you want to

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Speaker 1: do with your life and your body and whatever makes

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Speaker 1: you feel good. And unfortunately it's not gonna work for

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Speaker 1: Justin because he likes something a little bit different, which

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Speaker 1: is also his right, I guess. So hey, look Justin,

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Speaker 1: thank you for your time. Asia. I wish you the

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Speaker 1: best of luck as well.

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Speaker 2: Thank you