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Speaker 1: Hello, my gorgeous angel faces. It is Lala Kent. Welcome

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Speaker 1: to the bonus episode of Give Them a La Podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hello Easton. Okay, I wrote in to the IG for

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Speaker 1: the post for the bonus, and I just said, I

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Speaker 1: want to talk about it. All the holidays are upon us,

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Speaker 1: Christmas is coming. What's stressing you out? What are you

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Speaker 1: listening to? What are you thinking about? And we got

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Speaker 1: a plethora, a plethora of incredible, incredible things to talk about.

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Speaker 1: What is the one thing that stresses you out the most?

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Speaker 1: Easton about the holidays?

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Speaker 2: Honestly nothing?

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Speaker 1: I love that answer.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't really get because we don't do gifts.

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Speaker 3: I think we are this year though, right, but that's

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Speaker 3: still not stress. I'm just gonna get you guys a

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Speaker 3: couple of gifts, but I don't.

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Speaker 2: There's no stress of well are we doing gifts now?

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Speaker 1: Mom wanted to draw names, and I'm like, there's three

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Speaker 1: of us. Mom, let's just get one extra GIF. If

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Speaker 1: you're gonna get one for me, just get one for Easton.

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Speaker 1: Or if I draw your name, like, what's one extra?

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Speaker 3: Yeah you got a big deal but easy, but yeah,

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Speaker 3: no no stress, I think because it's everything's just so

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Speaker 3: easy and planned out, like I know so too. We

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Speaker 3: talked about it on the other jam Packed even though

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Speaker 3: we don't like it, but it I kind of like

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Speaker 3: that OHI is coming up, and then after OHI we

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Speaker 3: go to Palm Spring, so it's like there's I know

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Speaker 3: everything that's gonna happen, so there's no stress. So I

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Speaker 3: guess that's kind of been it. No money stress, yeah,

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Speaker 3: no money's stress for gifts, that's great.

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Speaker 2: The only thing I miss is just some snow.

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Speaker 1: Some snow.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like coming from Hawaii and then getting here it's

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Speaker 3: it's snow.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I agree. It's so funny because when you live

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Speaker 1: that take place and you're like, wow, California sounds so warm.

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Speaker 1: I wish we were spending it there, and then you

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Speaker 1: get here and you're like snow. But that goes back to,

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Speaker 1: like you just we want what we don't have in

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Speaker 1: the moment, and I think that's something that a lot

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Speaker 1: of people, except for my mother, could work on, because

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Speaker 1: she seems to just be comfortable and content at all time.

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Speaker 2: Look at her, you look beautiful.

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Speaker 1: She is just mentally always in Hawaii no, she really is.

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Speaker 1: I don't. I'm not really stressed this yesterday.

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Speaker 2: Can we just talk about one thing?

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Speaker 3: She looks at the both of us, and she goes,

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Speaker 3: I forgot my norse Strom's credit card. Why, she goes,

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Speaker 3: I had Uno cards and I was putting them away

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Speaker 3: with the credit card and I just put it into

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Speaker 2: She goes, whatever, and she just starts hulaying again. And

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Speaker 2: this was yesterday.

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Speaker 4: I remember that I had the credit card in my

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Speaker 4: hand when I was picking up the beach house, and

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Speaker 4: I made a mental note, I better not lose this,

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Speaker 4: and sure enough I stuck it in the Uno box

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Speaker 5: In the cabinet.

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Speaker 2: It'll be there next year.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so I did call and get a new one.

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Speaker 5: I love that for you.

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Speaker 1: I know, you look so comfortable. I find it weird

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Speaker 1: when when you're like set to be on the podcast.

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Speaker 5: It's the visual. I think. When there's no cameras on me.

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Speaker 2: You're comfortable.

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Speaker 5: I'm chill.

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Speaker 2: Should just be a camera on you.

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Speaker 4: I know I'm scarred from eighth grade. We talked about

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Speaker 4: that already, about well, let's.

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Speaker 1: Not turn this into a therapy. We're not here to

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Speaker 1: cure your eighth grade traumas. Moving on, just kidding, we

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Speaker 2: You're here, What is your.

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Speaker 1: What's your biggest stressor?

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Speaker 1: Why am I not shocked by that?

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I live in the moment. I don't.

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Speaker 5: I don't look at ahead. Just chilling, that's just chill.

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Speaker 2: Even when it comes to buying Christmas gifts, you don't

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Speaker 5: Getting my daughter already know, want to give my son.

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Speaker 4: I don't have a lot of presents to buy for

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Speaker 4: and I'm so excited to give Ocean her present, talking

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Speaker 1: Well, we both want to state claim on this gift.

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Speaker 1: And then Santa wrote me a letter and he also

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Speaker 4: To you, yep, And I can't wait to reveal it

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Speaker 4: after the holiday. Yeah, it's gonna because it's it's going

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Speaker 1: Yeah it is. We love to think about gifts and

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Speaker 1: go which one's going to be a learning experience as well?

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Speaker 2: Which one is going to keep this room clean?

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Speaker 1: All right? So this person wrote in and said I

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Speaker 1: often think about if this will be my last Christmas

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Speaker 1: with someone and I don't know it. We've spoken about

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Speaker 2: I wish you wouldn't have read that.

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Speaker 5: Sorry you have issues with time?

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Speaker 5: You can totally relate.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I may have to be medicated for

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Speaker 3: You really do. But there was something and it was

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Speaker 3: like if you're it was like my age. I don't

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Speaker 3: know how it knows for you page, but it was like,

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, that's.

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Speaker 5: Down that road.

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Speaker 4: I can't think about it even because I don't have

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Speaker 1: Oh god, stop all right, moving on, moving, moving on.

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Speaker 1: My oldest is thirteen, and for the first year his

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Speaker 1: Christmas list had zero toys. That would be hard. So

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Now I'm stressed.

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Speaker 2: This episode is going to crumble me.

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Speaker 1: No, can I tell you there are like Mom said,

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Speaker 1: Then I'll never want to come back to Hawaii. Oh

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Speaker 1: my gosh, I'll never think about the holiday the same.

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Speaker 1: And then you're in a rabbit.

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Speaker 1: I dig until I can't get on the old bottom.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he's cheering his song lass of Love.

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Speaker 1: He did love a good He never did phronsie bottles.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, later on in life, but he had his box

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Speaker 1: I like how you guys call it phronsie to make.

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Speaker 1: Stress. Money after after paying anxiety, love lights and new

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Speaker 1: and old traditions. And she's listening to in sync Merry

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Speaker 1: Christmas and Happy Holidays on repeat. That is what is up.

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Speaker 1: I think that's one of my most favorite Christmas songs

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Speaker 1: And I love because I love its you his love

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Speaker 1: and everything's okay. Merry Christmas Holidays, yes, girl. Money stresses

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Speaker 1: You could literally do Postmates and like Lisa says, everything

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Speaker 1: keep the lights on. Anyway, don't add the extra part

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Speaker 4: But I don't think they're talking about that. I think

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Speaker 3: Mean we don't get gifts for each other, but for her?

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Speaker 1: Right, save save, save where you can absolutely and put

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Speaker 3: I think I am not stressed because yes, we're doing gifts,

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Speaker 5: Well, can I do you know what? I remember? You

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Speaker 3: I remember that you came out and you went you

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Speaker 1: I just find that as someone who has been through

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Speaker 1: We've talked about this money makes the stress go down

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Speaker 1: I don't have the money to take gifts this year.

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Speaker 1: Can we please not?

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Speaker 3: No one needs anything, and instead of a gifts, bring

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Speaker 5: Ye, but you know what I'd do.

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Speaker 1: Why does that not surprise me?

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Speaker 2: I know, why didn't you just buy it for yourself

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Speaker 4: But I got I remember I bought licorice and no

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Speaker 5: That's genius.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you got it? What do you guys?

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Speaker 1: I read that one already. This person is they're listening

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Speaker 1: what the bonus is about. We're talking about everything stressor's

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Speaker 5: Can I tell you something.

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Speaker 4: I think it's horrific because people put things on credit

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Speaker 5: People will never get out of debt.

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Speaker 2: You're buying like one hundred dollars credit card. Yeah, you have.

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Speaker 4: To put stuff on a credit card, don't buy it. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I'm happy you said that, because so people they will

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Speaker 1: Well, I think that I love this so much that

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Speaker 5: Forever to go. No, please look at Christmas lights with

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, Like we got to take the

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 5: Or make Christmas cookies or like just do some fun things.

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Speaker 1: I agree, very early pregnant with my third wondering if

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Speaker 2: That would be though, you have to, that's what you

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Speaker 1: I have chill.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know how you do it, or you

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Speaker 2: But that is a Christmas that you'll forever remember.

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Speaker 1: I know. I'm thinking back when Cheryl announced her pregnancy.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but we lived at thirty six.

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Speaker 1: And she wanted I opened it and she was like,

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Speaker 5: So cool.

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Speaker 1: Oh, this girl is listening to It's a Christmas sleigh

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Speaker 2: Back to the gifts, don't overthink it.

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Speaker 1: No, You're like, I want to make it so special

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Speaker 4: No, I was just gonna say you're you were this,

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Speaker 1: Surand oh sulif.

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Speaker 1: Oh, Lauren loved Lisa loved it too, because it meant

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Speaker 1: Lisa is the most stressful person in the world to

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Speaker 4: I love but you know what I love to know

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Speaker 1: Oh, so now we have to do both. So that

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 4: Speaking of the card, Easton gives me a happy happy Birthday, Mom.

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Speaker 1: I had a feeling.

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Speaker 3: I told her I was her birthday bag.

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Speaker 1: That's what you should have opened the card with, Happy birthday,

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Speaker 5: What he calls me.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, no, but you have a little bit more

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, not four different.

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Speaker 1: I think it's way different. The extra the out of month.

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Speaker 2: That would be fun to open.

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Speaker 1: What a rip roaring gift.

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Speaker 5: Well, like, she's gonna know.

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Speaker 1: But I think it's just so exciting that looking back

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Speaker 5: Oh no, I was excited.

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Speaker 1: their daughter in over a year and she's two thousand

448
00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:50,880
Speaker 1: miles away. That's sad, It's very sad. But these are

449
00:20:50,920 --> 00:20:53,480
Speaker 1: the things that people think about when the holidays approach.

450
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Speaker 2: She's not a mission or just elsewhere does it say?

451
00:20:56,440 --> 00:20:59,880
Speaker 1: It doesn't say, But I just find it to be

452
00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:03,800
Speaker 1: like not everyone is so lucky to have their their

453
00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:07,320
Speaker 1: family in the same place, and not only that, speaking

454
00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:10,119
Speaker 1: and liking the family that's in the same place.

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Speaker 5: That's so true.

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Speaker 4: I mean I when I moved I here, a piece

457
00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:17,840
Speaker 4: of my heart was missing, just because Easton was in Utah,

458
00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:20,080
Speaker 4: so well, they would imagine.

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Speaker 1: There was a Christmas he didn't come out.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and I got to see him.

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00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:24,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was like two years ago.

462
00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:27,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it was. It was. It's when we went

463
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Speaker 1: to Palm Springs and thank god we had that with

464
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Speaker 1: Sheesh and her family because Easton stayed back in Utah.

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Speaker 1: Were you sad during that time?

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Speaker 2: What did you do? Well?

467
00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:38,120
Speaker 5: You had to take care of dogs.

468
00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:39,800
Speaker 2: I know I didn't come out.

469
00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:42,159
Speaker 3: I was dating my ex, So I did Christmas with

470
00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:44,280
Speaker 3: her and her family, and then we went and did

471
00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:45,280
Speaker 3: it with Brandon and Cheryl.

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Speaker 2: We saw that's right.

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00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:49,040
Speaker 3: I remember so and you guys went and did that,

474
00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:52,000
Speaker 3: and I thought staying home and doing that, and I

475
00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:53,399
Speaker 3: think I told you and you were like, that's a

476
00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:56,119
Speaker 3: good idea to go and do it with Brandon and Cheryl.

477
00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:58,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I remember.

478
00:21:58,640 --> 00:21:59,560
Speaker 5: You had to take care of dogs.

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Speaker 2: Well, that was the biggest thing is I couldn't find

480
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Speaker 2: anybody to watch them over Christmas.

481
00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:07,000
Speaker 1: So this person has Yeah, I I didn't miss you guys.

482
00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:08,919
Speaker 5: We missed you so much.

483
00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:11,680
Speaker 2: What's crazy is I don't even remember that Christmas because

484
00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:14,639
Speaker 2: I feel like I just like I you put it

485
00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:16,000
Speaker 2: in that. What is the word I'm looking for?

486
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Speaker 1: Suppressed?

487
00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:19,840
Speaker 3: I suppressed that because I didn't I enjoyed the family

488
00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:21,800
Speaker 3: and things, but like I missed you guys, and like

489
00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:23,760
Speaker 3: the little things that waking up to.

490
00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:26,760
Speaker 5: You know, totally just wasn't the same, was not the same.

491
00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:31,680
Speaker 1: This person has a hell of exciting Christmas coming. My

492
00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:34,720
Speaker 1: do date is Christmas Eve, and not knowing what I'm

493
00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:37,159
Speaker 1: going to go into labor has me stressed.

494
00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:39,840
Speaker 2: That's going to be a fun I feel like that

495
00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:40,880
Speaker 2: is so fun.

496
00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:43,919
Speaker 5: I know she's probably stressed, thul if she has other kids, like.

497
00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 3: Stressful, But you have to be put take this one

498
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:50,960
Speaker 3: Christmas out of it and what you have to go

499
00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:53,840
Speaker 3: through and now every Christmas after it's like you have

500
00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 3: a birthday, which you have to separate birthday and Christmas

501
00:22:57,320 --> 00:23:00,720
Speaker 3: and all that. But like my buddy, his birthday is

502
00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:05,440
Speaker 3: the twenty eight Yeah, never has school love snowboarding, so

503
00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:09,960
Speaker 3: like his birthday is a week long, Like celebration, he

504
00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:11,240
Speaker 3: goes snow double gifts.

505
00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:15,400
Speaker 2: Yeah so he if his family does that, Mom, what, Yeah,

506
00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:16,880
Speaker 2: he gets gifts on Christmas.

507
00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:20,000
Speaker 1: Or does it say Merry Christmas and happy birthday son?

508
00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:22,280
Speaker 2: Maybe a couple of years it could have. I don't know,

509
00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:24,840
Speaker 2: but no. He and his mom said that it was

510
00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:27,920
Speaker 2: she loved having him during Christmas.

511
00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:30,720
Speaker 4: But do you remember you had a friend that had

512
00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:33,720
Speaker 4: Christmas Eve birthday and they always.

513
00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:38,400
Speaker 2: Fell my eggs. Yeah, yeah, that was I loved it though.

514
00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:39,520
Speaker 1: I think it's so cute.

515
00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:43,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, we would sell it. Yeah, but so special. I

516
00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:43,920
Speaker 2: hope I did well.

517
00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:46,520
Speaker 1: But yeah, of course you're so fun. Your mere presence

518
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:48,920
Speaker 1: is just like the best gifts ever to you. I

519
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 1: mean that for this woman I'm wishing and I will

520
00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:55,280
Speaker 1: second that. Yes, for this woman who is expecting her

521
00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:57,960
Speaker 1: baby and she's due to go in to labor on

522
00:23:58,119 --> 00:24:00,600
Speaker 1: the twenty fourth, I'm wishing her a very happy and

523
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:06,520
Speaker 1: healthy easy am I and easy where she's just laid back,

524
00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 1: humpty dumpty in her ass off just finishes out a

525
00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:14,640
Speaker 1: healthy little babe. Such a fun time. I can't wait

526
00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:21,400
Speaker 1: to have my throat. This one had me cacklin cacklin

527
00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 1: excited to see who drinks too much and starts the

528
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:25,560
Speaker 1: next family fee.

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Speaker 2: Steve Harvey, Why do I love this? By the way, this.

530
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Speaker 1: Should be a movie. I want her Family to be

531
00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:38,840
Speaker 1: a movie because it sounds like every Christmas someone drinks too.

532
00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:42,560
Speaker 5: Much and pops off they get lit.

533
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:46,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, like, maybe I picture it like the drunk aunt

534
00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 1: who's like single and younger Italian man with the martini

535
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:52,359
Speaker 1: in her.

536
00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 3: Hands, griol. Her family is just the Grizwolds. I one

537
00:24:57,640 --> 00:24:59,880
Speaker 3: was gonna drink and there's this house.

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00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:02,879
Speaker 1: Hey, maybe the dad gets a little too saucy on

539
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:07,840
Speaker 1: some eggnot. I don't know. All I know is the

540
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 1: holidays aren't the same without a buzz. So cheers to

541
00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:12,720
Speaker 1: you and we can't wait for you to write in

542
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:15,920
Speaker 1: to tell us what the feud is and why it happened. Yeah,

543
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:18,600
Speaker 1: I want to hear from the perspective. I hope that

544
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:21,840
Speaker 1: there's one person who doesn't drink too much so they remember.

545
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:24,680
Speaker 1: It's kind of like the Janet Caperna when she talks

546
00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:27,320
Speaker 1: about the Valley last season when she was pregnant and

547
00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 1: everyone would get wasted and they'd have to call her

548
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:31,480
Speaker 1: the next day and be like, why are we beefing?

549
00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:34,400
Speaker 1: I don't know what happened. Yeah, so I can't.

550
00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 2: Wait to hear. And it was me, Janet, no hurt.

551
00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:42,560
Speaker 2: Oh it was me.

552
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:45,320
Speaker 1: She's like, so I'm the one who got too drunk

553
00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:47,800
Speaker 1: and this is what I said. And now the family

554
00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 1: is not speaking. I don't know. Someone else's pain is

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00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:55,280
Speaker 1: our happiness and entertainment. So thank you guys for writing in.

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Speaker 1: We are so grateful. So you guys, Mary, Christmas and

557
00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:03,359
Speaker 1: happy holidays.

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00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:05,200
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:07,399
Speaker 1: To the woman who's expecting, I can't wait to hear.

560
00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:09,480
Speaker 1: Please write back in and tell us when the baby

561
00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:13,399
Speaker 1: was due. How the baby's doing, my friend, Yeah, when

562
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 1: the baby is coming? When the baby yeah, thank you,

563
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:18,280
Speaker 1: I said to do when the baby comes. We want

564
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:20,000
Speaker 1: to know the weight, we want to know the length.

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00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 1: We want to know about it all. And Elizabeth, I'm

566
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Speaker 1: looking forward to who fights in your family? Who got

567
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 1: a little too buzz Again? Thank you for listening to

568
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Speaker 1: the Give Them Lalla podcast. We're going to catch you

569
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:32,440
Speaker 1: on Christmas, because wherever you go, we will find you,

570
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Speaker 1: even if it's mother from Christmas.

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Speaker 2: There we go, Bye y'all. Bye,