WEBVTT - The Karol Markowicz Show: Making the Move to Florida with John Cardillo

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, and welcome back to the Carol Marcowitz Show on iHeartRadio.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you heard of this concept of girl dinner? The

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<v Speaker 1>basic premise that if a woman is eating alone, she's

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<v Speaker 1>having something random, like a bowl of cereal or tortilla

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<v Speaker 1>chips for dinner. I just spent ten days in Michigan

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<v Speaker 1>living alone without my family, and I can tell you

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<v Speaker 1>that the image of the single life drinking martinis in

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<v Speaker 1>ball gowns at nice restaurants, I mean that's not even close.

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<v Speaker 1>I ate really badly alone on a couch. What's interesting

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<v Speaker 1>about this is it's the man who is the stabilizing

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<v Speaker 1>force here.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>We always think of women as being the good societal

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<v Speaker 1>influence on a man, But here's the case of men

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<v Speaker 1>doing it for women. Something about being in a relationship

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<v Speaker 1>causes you to have the real meals for dinner instead

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<v Speaker 1>of like half an apple and a bag of ches.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently the original poster about girl dinners was eating grapes, cornishans,

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<v Speaker 1>bread and cheese, which actually all sounds amazing to me.

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<v Speaker 1>As fast as girl dinner became a trend, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>there was the inevitable backlash. It was racist. Who knows

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<v Speaker 1>why it promoted stereotypes and gender roles. Blah blah. It's

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<v Speaker 1>somehow opposed body positivity because I guess the girls are

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<v Speaker 1>eating enough.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is obviously, men left to their own devices

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<v Speaker 1>probably don't do that great food wise either. I know

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<v Speaker 1>my husband loves to get taco bell with the kids

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<v Speaker 1>when I'm away, because I just wouldn't do that right.

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<v Speaker 1>I've talked a lot about all the positives of being

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship and the way it benefits you in

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<v Speaker 1>so many different ways. The way we eat is a

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<v Speaker 1>part of that. We all understand that girl dinners or

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<v Speaker 1>boy taco bell nights are not.

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<v Speaker 3>Good in the long term.

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<v Speaker 1>And yes, of course, there are plenty of single people

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<v Speaker 1>eating very healthy. I'm not taking anything away from them

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<v Speaker 1>on that. And I'm sure there are some coupled people

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<v Speaker 1>eating popcorn and a cucumber for dinner. But being in

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<v Speaker 1>a couple elevates you. It makes you strive to be better.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not eating your grilled chicken on a fork over

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<v Speaker 1>the sink, and yes, I've done that. None of us

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<v Speaker 1>are perfect, but we're all trying.

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<v Speaker 3>To be better.

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<v Speaker 1>Coming up next and interview with John Cardillo. Join us

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<v Speaker 1>after the break.

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<v Speaker 4>Welcome back to the Carol Markowitz Show on iHeartRadio. My

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<v Speaker 4>guest today is my good friend John Cardillo, conservative commentator

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<v Speaker 4>and former NYPD.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi John, Hey, Carol, good to finally be with you.

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<v Speaker 3>So nice to have you on.

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<v Speaker 4>So a running joke in our group of friends is

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<v Speaker 4>nobody that knows what you do.

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<v Speaker 3>So it was great when I was like, Cas, should

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<v Speaker 3>I introduce you? You're like, you know, conservative commentator, whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a boring private equity guy these days. That's that's it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm you know, and I cause trouble on Twitter. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I love that. I love how you guys bust my

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<v Speaker 2>chops on that. It makes my day every time with you.

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<v Speaker 4>We were at an event one time and we were

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<v Speaker 4>going around the table and everybody was introducing themselves and

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<v Speaker 4>I was sitting next to Dave Rubin and so as

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<v Speaker 4>we're like going around the table and everyone's you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm whatever, and I this is my job. I wrote

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<v Speaker 4>to Ruben like, I can't wait to find out what

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<v Speaker 4>John cardemod remember that, And then when it got to you,

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<v Speaker 4>we still didn't really know.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh do I kept it as cryptic as possible.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, right, you were like you know, Yeah, it was definitely.

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<v Speaker 3>I would say CIA, but it's not Cia. It's something

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<v Speaker 3>way beyond that. It's masade, like, let's be real.

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<v Speaker 4>So you're also known in our group of friends as

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<v Speaker 4>like the og Floridian. A lot of us, our crew,

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<v Speaker 4>we moved here in the last you know, two years,

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<v Speaker 4>well Rubin and I last two years. Lisa Booth a

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<v Speaker 4>little bit before that, Josh Hammer, Dave Ree Boy a

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<v Speaker 4>little bit before that. But you have been here, and

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<v Speaker 4>Jordan Shaffille also around that same time. But you've been

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<v Speaker 4>here the longest, and you know your genius.

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<v Speaker 3>How did you know? How did you know to come

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<v Speaker 3>to Florida? What was the draw?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was it was really a combination of things. Right.

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<v Speaker 2>So February twenty third, a few weeks ago, right, was

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<v Speaker 2>my twentieth year in Florida, and I had been in

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<v Speaker 2>Miami in Brickll area for about eleven years and up

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<v Speaker 2>in Fort Lauderdale for about the last nine. I love

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<v Speaker 2>it up here. By the way, I'm on the east

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<v Speaker 2>side as well, which is a lot more red. Everybody

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<v Speaker 2>thinks Broward County so blue, and it is right mathematically,

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<v Speaker 2>But on the east side, when you're east of federal

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<v Speaker 2>it's it's pretty red. I mean, you've got Trump and

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<v Speaker 2>the Santa's flags on pretty much every boat on the

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<v Speaker 2>intra coastal over here. For me, it was a combination

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<v Speaker 2>of things, you know, after leaving the NYPD for the

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<v Speaker 2>private sector, just wanting to leave New York after nine

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<v Speaker 2>to eleven. Candidly right, I left three years after nine

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<v Speaker 2>to eleven, And Florida was a place that I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>only come on vacation when I was a kid. My

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<v Speaker 2>dad was essentially a national sales manager for an industrial

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<v Speaker 2>company and Florida was one of his lucrative territories. And

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<v Speaker 2>I was down here all the time. Is A and

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<v Speaker 2>then some cousins that I was very close to, and

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<v Speaker 2>at and uncle. My aunt uncle at the time had

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<v Speaker 2>worked for Motorola, which had a big presence in South Florida.

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<v Speaker 2>They moved down and so we would come down and

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<v Speaker 2>visit them quite a bit. And I always loved it,

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<v Speaker 2>you know. I always had really good memories, really good

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<v Speaker 2>times in Florida as a kid. So it was a

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<v Speaker 2>place I would vacation and college and then as an adult.

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<v Speaker 2>And for me, it was just a pretty logical choice.

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<v Speaker 2>I was comfortable with it. I knew it. The Brickell

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<v Speaker 2>area of Miami was vertical, right, so a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>high rises. So when we got in New York City,

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<v Speaker 2>it was a really comfortable transition. Yeah, couple of friends

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<v Speaker 2>had made the move and so that was that was

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<v Speaker 2>my reasoning and the catalyst from you move in download interesting.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's funny because we looked at Brickle but I

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<v Speaker 4>found it's just like not that walkable. And I guess

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<v Speaker 4>we have kids, so it wasn't, you know, quite as

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<v Speaker 4>the picture I had in my head.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, the vertical thing, it's true. It really does.

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<v Speaker 4>Remind me of New York and so much of it

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<v Speaker 4>feels very New york Ish. But so it's funny because

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<v Speaker 4>again you pre date the whole mad rush to Florida

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<v Speaker 4>that happens in the last four years. We're really at

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<v Speaker 4>the anniversary basically right now of pandemic lockdowns and it's

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<v Speaker 4>changed a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>How do you feel about that?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, are there pluses and minuses or is it

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<v Speaker 4>one way or another?

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<v Speaker 2>Ye know, I wish some people carol at a time

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<v Speaker 2>machine to see what Brickle look like. If you go

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<v Speaker 2>to brickl now, it's a world class city. Right. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>it's new, and it's hot, and it's upscale, and you've

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<v Speaker 2>got every shop you have in Manhattan and Midtown there.

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<v Speaker 2>Right when I got to Brickle in two thousand and four,

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<v Speaker 2>there were maybe three real high rises. The Four Seasons

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<v Speaker 2>Tower that we've all been new right together or separately,

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<v Speaker 2>was up in that. I believe at the time that

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<v Speaker 2>was the tallest building on the East coast of the

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<v Speaker 2>United States outside of New York. It's like eight hundred

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<v Speaker 2>and something feet. So there was that, and there was

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<v Speaker 2>the condo building I lived in and the one I

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<v Speaker 2>was moving into that was being built. Everything else Downtown

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<v Speaker 2>had a couple of tall buildings, but the skyline of

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<v Speaker 2>Miami Downtown Miami was maybe maybe six or seven notable buildings.

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<v Speaker 2>Now there are just dozens, and so they literally built

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<v Speaker 2>a city around me. I mean, one of the reasons

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<v Speaker 2>I left Brickle.

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<v Speaker 3>Was John is here, Let's do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's do it. You know. One of the reasons I

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<v Speaker 2>left was because the traffic got so insane from all

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<v Speaker 2>the construction, and when they started to put up that

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<v Speaker 2>mall in Brickall, it would take me some days, thirty

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<v Speaker 2>forty five minutes just to get the publics at the

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<v Speaker 2>grocery store, its way with traffic. So I was ready.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I had grown up in a city my

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<v Speaker 2>whole life. I grew up in New York City, grew

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<v Speaker 2>up in Queens, than lived in Manhattan. Was now in

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<v Speaker 2>another city, and I was getting more into the old

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<v Speaker 2>Florida kind of sleepy Florida, right, and where I live

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<v Speaker 2>in Fort Lauderdale, now there's a lot, a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>boating and fishing.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think if you as like a cowboy, you're

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<v Speaker 4>like living the text lifestyle in Florida.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Hey, people don't realize. You go to like the

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<v Speaker 2>Baby right fifteen minutes west of here, and there's rodeos.

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<v Speaker 2>It's it's horse country.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, So what about the people like, has the like

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<v Speaker 4>culture of Florida.

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<v Speaker 2>Changed or the Well, yeah, I think it's that neutral, right,

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<v Speaker 2>It depends what you like. When I moved down, if

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<v Speaker 2>you didn't speak Spanish in brickl in Miami really anywhere,

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<v Speaker 2>I still.

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<v Speaker 3>Feel like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, let me tell you it was a lot worse.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean there were days I'd walk into Walgreens where

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<v Speaker 2>there wasn't one English speaking employee.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like my high school Spanish has not served

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<v Speaker 4>me well in Florida at all, Like, I have no

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<v Speaker 4>idea what's going on. It's not like nobody's asking me

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<v Speaker 4>the directions to the library.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was really different. So culturally that was it.

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<v Speaker 2>Now I found Miami to be a lot like New York.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not. It's a little bit transient in many respects,

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<v Speaker 2>and people keep to themselves. So I always tell a story.

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<v Speaker 2>I've told our group and our text chain of story.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, when I lived in Miami, I didn't even

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<v Speaker 2>know my neighbors. When I lived in Brickle, I had

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<v Speaker 2>a nice group of people I do happy hour with,

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<v Speaker 2>but we were like acquaintances more than friends. But I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't really know my neighbors when I moved to Fort

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<v Speaker 2>very hard to believe.

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<v Speaker 3>You are like the world's most social guy.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a social guy, but you'd be surprised, right. So

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<v Speaker 2>I knew the bartenders, and I knew that the Happy Aircraft.

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<v Speaker 2>But when I got to Fort Lauderdale. I moved to

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<v Speaker 2>Fort Lauderdale in July of twenty fifteen, I did Thanksgiving

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<v Speaker 2>dinner with we at a restaurant with a bunch of

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<v Speaker 2>my neighbors that November, like a few months later. So

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<v Speaker 2>it's really it depends where you go. But some of

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<v Speaker 2>the nicest, friendliest people I've ever met in my life

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<v Speaker 2>I've met down here in Florida.

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<v Speaker 4>We're going to take a quick break and be right

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<v Speaker 4>back on the Carol Marcowitch Show.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you miss New York ever?

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<v Speaker 2>You know? No? No, In fact, the last time I

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<v Speaker 2>was thinking about the the other day. The last time

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<v Speaker 2>I was in New York was Buck's engagement party, and

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<v Speaker 2>that was.

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<v Speaker 4>Sex and I we got to mention him in our cha.

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<v Speaker 4>So we moved down in the last two years.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, So Buck Sexton's engagement party was the last

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<v Speaker 2>time I was in New York. With that, I was

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<v Speaker 2>in New York with you guys, or I was in

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<v Speaker 2>New York at all.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, that's what's a while?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, no, I'm sorry. And then I popped, I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>my mistake and wait, no, that was that was twenty two. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and then May of last year I came in for

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<v Speaker 2>a day. My mistake. May of last year, I came

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<v Speaker 2>in for a day for my nephew's high school graduation.

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<v Speaker 3>But you don't miss anything about it.

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<v Speaker 2>No, No, that's why I've been there twice in two

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<v Speaker 2>years and I forgot one of them right exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>So we're recording this a few days after the funeral

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<v Speaker 4>for a fallen police officer in New York. What do

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<v Speaker 4>you think when you see stuff like that or the

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<v Speaker 4>way that everything happened. He was killed by somebody who

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<v Speaker 4>had been released from prison. Many times, this is not

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<v Speaker 4>a political show, but I feel like that is such

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<v Speaker 4>a cultural touch point, especially right now, where people don't

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<v Speaker 4>feel safe, and that's you know, that could be political,

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<v Speaker 4>but it's very much societal. So what do you say,

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<v Speaker 4>what do you think about that? Can New York come back?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, not not at the rate they're going, right, So,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, having been to too many police funerals, having

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<v Speaker 2>responded one of my first month maybe on the job

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<v Speaker 2>to the murder of a copper graduated the academy at

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<v Speaker 2>we Academy with me Sean McDonald. He was shot in

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<v Speaker 2>the head responding to an alarm burglary alarm that turned

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<v Speaker 2>out to be an actual alarm robbery. Another police officer

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<v Speaker 2>shot in our command on the Grand Concourse, shot and killed.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I went to too many funerals and addressed uniform,

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<v Speaker 2>but this one of appeal. Jonathan Dillar now detective first grade.

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<v Speaker 2>Jonathan Dillar. I don't know if your viewers know this,

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<v Speaker 2>but when New York City police officers are killed in

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<v Speaker 2>the line of duty, the custom is at the funeral

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<v Speaker 2>they're then promoted to detective first grade, the highest rank

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<v Speaker 2>of detective, so that their families can receive a better benefit,

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<v Speaker 2>much much higher pension payout for the wife and in

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<v Speaker 2>this case, the young child.

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<v Speaker 4>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know, Carol, even in those situations and every

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<v Speaker 2>depth is tragic. You didn't see the perps. The murderers

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<v Speaker 2>were not arrested twenty one times in release, right. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think you can analyze that issue without being somewhat political.

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<v Speaker 2>And the problem in New York City is this, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'll try to condense it. It's when the District Attorney's office

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<v Speaker 2>won't prosecute, and they've been very clear. The das in

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<v Speaker 2>each borough have been very clear they're going to take

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<v Speaker 2>this radical, far left approach and not prosecute certain crimes.

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<v Speaker 2>Bad guys are emboldened, but worse worse for public safety,

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<v Speaker 2>the NYPD stops making arrests because they can't incur the

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<v Speaker 2>overtime the cops will get in trouble. The commanders will

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<v Speaker 2>get in trouble for incurring the overtime when they know

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<v Speaker 2>the DA's office is going to keay the case. This

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<v Speaker 2>is such a public safety crisis at which more people

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<v Speaker 2>were talking about this, but they're not not enough. People

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<v Speaker 2>are talking about the whys. They're talking about the what happened,

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<v Speaker 2>but not why it's happening.

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<v Speaker 4>What would you say is our largest cultural problem or like,

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<v Speaker 4>do you think that this plays into that?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I think it's I think it's you know, there're

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<v Speaker 2>several right. I think we saw this with the antifen

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<v Speaker 2>in Black Lives Matter riots. There's this insanely permissive attitude

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<v Speaker 2>towards crime. It's just permissive when you see videos every

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<v Speaker 2>day people walking into Macy's and Walgreens and Publics and

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<v Speaker 2>every other store out there, no matter where you were

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<v Speaker 2>in the country, just loading up backpacks and garbage bags

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<v Speaker 2>full of merchandise and nobody's stopping them. And then you

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<v Speaker 2>hear the story of the employee that tried to stop them,

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<v Speaker 2>being the wire or the police officer being reprimanded for

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<v Speaker 2>using too much force to put on handcuffs. When you

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<v Speaker 2>start to tell bad guys that what they're doing is

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<v Speaker 2>not going to be punished. They're going to do more

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<v Speaker 2>of it. I mean, this doesn't take the greatest sociologists

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<v Speaker 2>in the history of mankind of figure out right. And

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<v Speaker 2>when you combine that with prosecutors, wo won't prosecute? What

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<v Speaker 2>do they think is going to happen?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you think it's solvable? Is there anything that we

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<v Speaker 3>can do?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean I think the blueprint is there that

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<v Speaker 2>I think. You know, that's a great question, because not

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<v Speaker 2>only is it solvable, you think a guy like me

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<v Speaker 2>that came out of the police Academy was in the

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<v Speaker 2>police Academy under David Dinkins, come out under really Julian

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<v Speaker 2>Rudy Giuliani, Carol, When when we implemented broken windows, when

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<v Speaker 2>we implemented Rudy's policing strategies and Bill Bratton's at the

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<v Speaker 2>time policing strategies, we saw we noticed the difference on

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<v Speaker 2>the street in about two weeks. Really, it wasn't six months.

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<v Speaker 2>You lived in New York, you were up there, yell

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<v Speaker 2>on top of it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I was teens though, Yeah, but.

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<v Speaker 2>We noticed it in weeks. As cops, the bad guys

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<v Speaker 2>weren't as brave anymore. When we drove by, they weren't

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<v Speaker 2>just sitting at the cars. They weren't throwing washing machines.

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<v Speaker 2>True story. I had a washing machine and a refriguer

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<v Speaker 2>and to throw off broof tops at me. They weren't

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<v Speaker 2>doing that because now they knew that were we held accountable.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't realized it was that best used to call it.

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<v Speaker 2>We used to call it airmail.

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<v Speaker 3>It meant that.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't realize you could see the change then. I

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<v Speaker 4>thought it was like a year's long process.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, statistically right, trickle down statistically took about a year.

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<v Speaker 2>But I can tell you having been on patrol at

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<v Speaker 2>four to twelve every night in the South Bronx, the

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<v Speaker 2>busiest times you started to see I'm not saying it

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<v Speaker 2>was a sweeping change right within a couple of weeks,

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<v Speaker 2>those bad guys on the corner, Yeah, they were a

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<v Speaker 2>lot less bold. You started to see it very quickly.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, that's very interesting. I wonder you know.

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<v Speaker 4>The thing about having a strategy that worked is the

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<v Speaker 4>insanity that you need to be living under to not

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<v Speaker 4>go back to it. It's like, hey, I know you've

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<v Speaker 4>got called in the National Guard into the New York

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<v Speaker 4>City subway.

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<v Speaker 3>But what if what if you did.

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<v Speaker 4>This other thing that totally worked, you know, not that

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<v Speaker 4>long ago, and tried that instead, But no, they go

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<v Speaker 4>for National Guarden.

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<v Speaker 3>That's somehow the better option.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't do anything. Who aren't empowered or allowed to

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<v Speaker 2>do anything. And to your point, that other thing that

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<v Speaker 2>works is the incredibly radically a novel idea of forcing

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<v Speaker 2>the law and prosecuting them. There's no you know, that's

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<v Speaker 2>why all jokes aside. That's why it's so frustrating me

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<v Speaker 2>and Bernie Carrick, the former commissioner, a friend of mine,

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<v Speaker 2>and I talked to countless guys and girls who are

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<v Speaker 2>either still on the job or retired, and you bang

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<v Speaker 2>your head against the wall because you're like, they know

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<v Speaker 2>exactly what they need to do. It doesn't cost a

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<v Speaker 2>penny more than anything they're doing, and they refuse to

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<v Speaker 2>do it right.

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<v Speaker 4>But you know, for us, we get to live in

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<v Speaker 4>Florida and we see action.

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<v Speaker 3>Taken all the time. I didn't even know this was possible.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't know things like this were possible, like the

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<v Speaker 4>recent thing that our you know, Governor DeSantis did where

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<v Speaker 4>there was a lot of conversation around squatters and he

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<v Speaker 4>was like, Okay, well here we go. I'm not going

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<v Speaker 4>to have squatters in the States. It's illegal.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, Like, oh, it's that simple. People could just fix problems.

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<v Speaker 4>I was unaware until this, until now, until I came

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<v Speaker 4>to Florida, I didn't know that people can just fix

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<v Speaker 4>problems and make bad things go away. I didn't realize

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<v Speaker 4>politicians and government officials can actually do that.

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<v Speaker 3>Was it always like that in Florida?

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<v Speaker 2>Or really?

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<v Speaker 3>Is he different?

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<v Speaker 2>No? I think it was because in Florida you don't

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<v Speaker 2>have to the degree that you have it in the

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<v Speaker 2>Blue states. Is even your Democrat voters down here are

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<v Speaker 2>law and order voters? You know? I would always say

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<v Speaker 2>when the Democrats would do defund the police, and they

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<v Speaker 2>would try to act like that would also creep into Florida.

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<v Speaker 2>I it wouldn't, because you take areas in West Broward

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<v Speaker 2>County and these are nice areas and you know, up scale,

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<v Speaker 2>upper middle class, staffluent areas. Yeah, maybe they vote blue,

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<v Speaker 2>but you know what else they vote for. They also

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<v Speaker 2>vote for their hoa dollars to pay for that off

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<v Speaker 2>duty police officer in the marked car to patrol their

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<v Speaker 2>hoa at night. So there's a much different mindset down

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<v Speaker 2>here with regards to law and order. I think it

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<v Speaker 2>also has a bit to do with I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>how much shout a bit to do with the fact

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<v Speaker 2>that this has always been a haven for a tired

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<v Speaker 2>cops from around the country. There's no state income tax

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<v Speaker 2>and all that fun stuff, and so uh, I think culturally,

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<v Speaker 2>what we see in places like New York and Chicago

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<v Speaker 2>and Detroit and Baltimore, you just wouldn't see here, even

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<v Speaker 2>in your blue cities.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, So what do you do on weekends? What's what's

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<v Speaker 4>a John Cardillo weekend?

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<v Speaker 2>Like? Oh, oh, you guys, not right, A clay I

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<v Speaker 2>do know, a lot of clay shooting, a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>regular shooting. I'm so proud that I got you guys

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<v Speaker 2>into guns. I'm one of my greatest accomplishments.

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<v Speaker 4>You really, you were such an inspiration getting us armed.

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<v Speaker 3>You you played a giant role in that.

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<v Speaker 4>You introduced us to your guy who's you know now

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<v Speaker 4>our guy? Yeah, Manny at Palm Beach Tacticals. We haven't

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<v Speaker 4>we haven't come to the polo with you yet. That's

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<v Speaker 4>that's something that's what.

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<v Speaker 2>I do on Sunday. You know what's so crazy? Everybody

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<v Speaker 2>whenever I say that, I get beat up. Oh it's

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<v Speaker 2>so pretentious. Take your horself somewhat. If I put up

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<v Speaker 2>a picture of a polo match on Twitter, right now,

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<v Speaker 2>take your horse golf somewhere else, horse scof you weren't

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<v Speaker 2>a regular guy. I'm like, I just I have horses.

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<v Speaker 2>I like to go to watch the horses. You know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>horse golf, So I do a lot of that. Or

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<v Speaker 2>I go to the beach club and you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>have a couple of kasotas. But that's the cool thing

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<v Speaker 2>about Florida, right There's so much to do and the scene.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, you you could be in my neighborhood, go

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<v Speaker 2>out and fish, and within fifteen minutes you're in horse country.

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<v Speaker 2>Within an hour you've got some of the best out

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<v Speaker 2>there shooting ranges in America. It's just it's such a

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<v Speaker 2>cool place to live. If you're into anything like that

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<v Speaker 2>and doing stuff outdoors on the weekend, do.

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<v Speaker 3>You feel like you've made it?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I mean, you know, I felt like I was

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<v Speaker 2>a Floridian after five years, after fifteen, I knew I

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<v Speaker 2>was never leaving. I was like hard for life to

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<v Speaker 2>get a little better than this.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, right, But as a like have you made it?

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<v Speaker 2>Like? Is that?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that all that it takes to have a happy

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<v Speaker 3>flow already in life?

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<v Speaker 2>I think you find none of us know what you do.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean that that's got to be a goal.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I think you find the stuff. Look, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I did media for a long time. I still love it.

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<v Speaker 2>I do heads like this a few times a week

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<v Speaker 2>and and stay abreast of the industry. But I was

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<v Speaker 2>fortunate in that I had an expertise in the firearms space,

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<v Speaker 2>tactical gear space. An opportunity presented itself to start pushing

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<v Speaker 2>those products out in large scale, and I grabbed it

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<v Speaker 2>and it turned out to be a very good decision.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I mean, I can't really think of anything

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<v Speaker 2>I would change about my life right now. So I

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<v Speaker 2>guess I equate have you made it with more being

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<v Speaker 2>happy about where you are than how many how many zeros?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean? Yeah, I mean, I look, you always want

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<v Speaker 2>more business, right, everybody wants to do always do better.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't if I wake up in the morning

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<v Speaker 2>and say uh and and regret anything, I'm pretty energy.

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<v Speaker 3>I love it.

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<v Speaker 4>And here with your best tip for my listeners on

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<v Speaker 4>how they can live a John Cardillo life and improve their.

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<v Speaker 2>Lives start by moving to Florida. And all kidding aside.

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<v Speaker 2>Somebody once said to me, and it was the greatest

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<v Speaker 2>piece of advice I've ever gotten. You can't steal second

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<v Speaker 2>with your foot on first. And there really is no

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<v Speaker 2>conventional path when something I'm a big believer in the

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<v Speaker 2>sixth sense, and I've gut feeling, Carol, and when something too,

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<v Speaker 2>when something starts to feel wrong and something else starts

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<v Speaker 2>to feel right, explore it and if it starts to

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<v Speaker 2>feel really right, pursuit love it.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you so much for coming on, John, love talking

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<v Speaker 4>to you. I have to come to Horset Golf sometime.

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely, talk to you soon.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much for joining us on the Carol

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