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Speaker 1: The second date of day, alexis if you could describe

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Speaker 2: A little bit roasted, like I want him to be

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Speaker 2: mean to me a little bit, you know, like I.

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Speaker 3: Feel a little.

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Speaker 2: That's like a hard thing that comes to your mind.

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Speaker 1: Answer wherever you want to feel belittled as one full

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Speaker 2: I hope I get to go a little tipsy.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, I don't know if I've ever met

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Speaker 4: anyone as scared of emotions as you are.

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Speaker 2: Terrified you should imagine this is.

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Speaker 1: What everybody's perfect guy a little bit different.

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Speaker 5: That's like Michael B. Jordan making fun of it.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes you see two guys because you just have double vision.

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Speaker 1: I bring it up because one of our listeners says

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Speaker 1: she figured out how she wants to feel when she

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Speaker 1: meets her perfect guy, and maybe it even happened to

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Speaker 1: her this last date. I mean, he's not calling her back,

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Speaker 1: but that doesn't matter. She felt that a certain way.

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Speaker 2: That could feel good though, like just a little bit

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Speaker 1: Well, let's talk to Alice and hear about it, Alice,

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Speaker 1: how you doing?

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Speaker 3: I'm good in you guys? How are you?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I'm worried about Alexis, but I think the rest of

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Speaker 5: Would you like because we will?

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Speaker 1: I bring it up because in your email you said

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Speaker 1: you met up with this guy. What does that mean?

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Speaker 6: Well, the deal is is that I've just been meeting

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Speaker 3: My discernment hasn't been the best because.

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Speaker 6: I usually go for guys that wind.

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Speaker 3: Up being wrong for me.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so you're taking a different approach, looking for a

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Speaker 3: Yes. Yeah, So I heard this podcast by.

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Speaker 6: This lady and she said, instead of looking for your firecracker,

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Speaker 2: I've heard this. You're supposed to go for the slow

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Speaker 5: Okay, what does that mean?

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Speaker 6: Okay, So like firecrackers like for me, like I get butterflies,

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Speaker 2: It's so fun.

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Speaker 6: It's scary, but it's like a ride I want to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, it's a dangerous r.

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Speaker 4: Ries.

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Speaker 6: You know, now, a fireplace is actually more it's welcoming,

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Speaker 3: You look forward to that comfort.

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Speaker 2: You're not scared, right, you're not scared.

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Speaker 3: It's not all the bells and whistles.

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Speaker 1: So basically you're not supposed to be looking for the

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Speaker 6: I need to be swiping right on the fireplaces.

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Speaker 2: Right, So is this guy that you went out with

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Speaker 6: He fits the profile where he doesn't necessarily knock my

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Speaker 3: But he does tick off the boxes that I like.

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Speaker 3: And that's what I found.

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Speaker 1: In doesn't knock your socks off, and maybe he would

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Speaker 2: Warm them because he's a fire is.

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Speaker 1: So what's his name?

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Speaker 3: His name is Paul.

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Speaker 5: He's got a fireplace name.

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Speaker 1: What did you and Paul decide to do? What did

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Speaker 4: Go?

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Speaker 6: So what we decided to do was to go out

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Speaker 2: At five thirty? Was that his idea? Or were you

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 6: No, actually he said he had to be home to

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, Okay, even when I was dating, I wouldn't

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, one night to stay up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, come on, Yeah, that's attracted to those firecrackers, that's why.

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Speaker 4: Yes, right, okay, so you were excited about this because

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Speaker 3: Dinner go dinner went really well?

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Speaker 6: I mean, he told me he likes to cook, he

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Speaker 3: And when he said that to me, it's like that.

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Speaker 6: Gave me some really nice, like low key fireplace vibes,

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Speaker 4: Yes, So did you tell him this because you've brought

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Speaker 1: Did you use the term firecracker and fireplace with him?

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Speaker 2: That's what I mean.

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Speaker 6: Honestly, I didn't want to bring up those terms because

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's good.

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Speaker 1: It's probably not going to go too well if you

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Speaker 4: Yes, I mean, every guy wants to think of themselves

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Speaker 7: Right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So, okay, he seems to be checking the boxes

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Speaker 3: You know, he said he was looking for long term.

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Speaker 6: You know, he's into health and nature, and that to

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Speaker 2: I feel like that should still be happening.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, you don't want to have that. That's a firecracker.

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Speaker 4: So I'm guessing, like you guys, didn't end the night

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Speaker 6: Well, near the ending of the night, he tells me

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Speaker 3: So I said, okay, and then it's cute, says, oh.

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Speaker 6: Well, I don't know any gotcha?

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Speaker 1: Oh well, hopefully didn't laugh too hard because then you're

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Speaker 1: Was that?

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Speaker 4: The only funny moment is that.

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Speaker 2: It's just so specific.

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Speaker 1: What was there? Like any like hugg or.

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Speaker 6: I'll say we did a nice little hug. I mean

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Speaker 6: It wasn't over the top.

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Speaker 5: It wasn't like a bad experience or one big negative thing.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what's happened? Since the date.

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Speaker 3: Oh this is the thing.

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Speaker 6: Now, I haven't heard back or gotten a call back

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Speaker 2: Guy sounds so, are you just more mad that he's

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Speaker 3: I really would like to see him again. But I'm like,

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 6: What do you possibly have going on outside of what

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Speaker 3: Wow?

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Speaker 1: Okay, I have a cat. Maybe we should dial down

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Speaker 5: Right after this, Okay, hold.

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Speaker 1: On second date update, I got the strangest text message

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Speaker 1: from the Academy of Radio Broadcasters saying, we just hit

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Speaker 2: You know what we're looking for, Jeff, Yeah, And.

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Speaker 1: I'm only gonna say it once more because our listener, Alice,

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Speaker 2: Do, don't chase waterfalls either. We'll just put it in there.

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Speaker 1: We don't need any more analogies thrown. Basically, it's stopped

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Speaker 1: looking for the exciting guy who gives you butterflies, start

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Speaker 1: looking for the safe option.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, set kind of, not really.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're looking for that feeling that's going to make

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Speaker 1: And now that she went down that road, the fireplace

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say it anymore.

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Speaker 2: We can't break our own record.

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Speaker 5: Yes, it's like our wood soggy. It just won't, you know.

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Speaker 1: So, Al, that's how you feel him before we call

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Speaker 6: I'm just hoping to figure out why haven't heard back

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Speaker 2: I like that you will have hope, but not too much.

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Speaker 4: I mean, it's like you're like shifting everything to try

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Speaker 2: But I don't think it will be at the end

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Speaker 3: I hope so yeah, we all do.

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Speaker 1: It's interesting we're going to be calling a boring guy

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Speaker 5: We've got a crackling fireplaces.

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Speaker 1: Hopefully we can squeeze.

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Speaker 5: A little bit of it.

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Speaker 1: But here we go. Hello, Hi, we're looking to speak

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Speaker 1: with Paul.

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Speaker 7: This is Paul.

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Speaker 4: Not that we wanted you to come hot out of

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Speaker 5: Morning.

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Speaker 1: First of all, thank you so much for answering this

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Speaker 1: number that I'm sure you didn't recognize it. Well, strangers,

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. Okay, Okay, nice, Okay, let's keep this

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Speaker 2: Yeah, good old Alice.

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Speaker 1: Huh yeah, Well, we'd like to open it up to

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Speaker 7: Uh, what what is this for?

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Speaker 1: Well, it's a second ate update. Basically, Alice has reached

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Speaker 7: I told her a joke at one point and it

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she told us that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're funny.

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Speaker 5: It was good.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's a compliment. I feel good about that.

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Speaker 4: Why would you not be calling her back? And why

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Speaker 4: wouldn't you be excited right now? Like we're telling you

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Speaker 4: it was a good date.

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Speaker 3: I didn't know.

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Speaker 7: I just didn't know how to feel about it. And

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Speaker 2: You don't even have to date to know that.

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Speaker 7: I never heard of that. I thought it was sounded

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Speaker 2: It's going to be a relief to her. So you

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Speaker 3: Hi, Poul, how are you?

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Speaker 7: I I'm good.

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Speaker 1: You could hear the smile.

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Speaker 3: That it's good to hear your voice, Paul. I was

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Speaker 7: I'm sorry. I guess I was just kind of unsure.

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Speaker 7: I don't really know if you wanted to go out

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Speaker 1: Well, I think the axe throwing idea really scared him

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Speaker 6: Day, you know, like we could there was always other

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Speaker 7: I tend to be a bleeder.

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Speaker 1: Alice likes you, right, Alice, you can even tell him

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Speaker 6: Well, I really had a great time with you when

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Speaker 3: I think the conversation was pretty good.

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Speaker 6: I don't know if maybe you might have been a

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Speaker 4: Your confidence has to be through the roof right now, right, Paul?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, good, all right, okay, up for.

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Speaker 2: That and he knocked it down all right.

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Speaker 1: I mean I think that you guys should give it

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, we could do that. You could come see my.

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Speaker 1: Collection collection what collection?

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Speaker 5: The collection?

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Speaker 7: Oh? I collect antique gynecological chairs.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what did you say gynocologically with the

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Speaker 7: Yeah, but like they're from the eighteen hundreds.

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Speaker 1: You collect those.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, they're really kind of fascinating. Actually, you know why?

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Speaker 2: Why are they fascinating? Paul?

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Speaker 2: I say, not a great period in women's.

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Speaker 1: It was the experimental thing is they're trying to figure

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Speaker 6: They did not know.

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Speaker 4: That's a little How are you feeling about that?

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Speaker 3: That's a that's a little bit odd.

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Speaker 1: Well, I think maybe the question we need to ask

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Speaker 1: is do you feel like you have butterflies right now? Alice?

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Speaker 1: No, Well, that's a good sign for you. That's the

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Speaker 1: to send you two out on a other date. Paul

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Speaker 1: will pay for this date if you're willing to meet

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Speaker 7: Yeah, that sounds great, Okay.

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Speaker 1: Yes from Paul, Alice, you're still up for it. You

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Speaker 4: I'll see maybe you can see pictures of his collection

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Speaker 2: If there's a third day.

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Speaker 6: Yes, I think that's what I would need to have

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Speaker 6: a visual of the collection of the dynacological chair.

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Speaker 2: Let's not say that.

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Speaker 1: Take some photos of your collection and text them over

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Speaker 1: and then we'll send you guys out again on a date.

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Speaker 7: Okay, I'll send a link to my website.

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Speaker 1: Website.

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Speaker 7: I'm kind of excited, Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: I mean, the old firecracker fireplace thing needs to come

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Speaker 1: with an asterisk now, right, because the quote safe, quiet,

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Speaker 2: Are you saying might burn your house down?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that that's what it is. I think

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Speaker 5: I think it's more of a bonfire situation.

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Speaker 1: Maybe not good. Well, you did get them a second

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Speaker 5: Maybe we found out some stuff.

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Speaker 4: Okay, if she says it's bad, though, if she goes,

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Speaker 4: we need to do a safety check afterwards, just to

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Speaker 1: He's a history buff. He's not actually doing any examinations

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Speaker 1: with that stuff. He's a collector of old goods.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the one that walks down at dark Alley at

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Speaker 4: two am and says nothing bad is gonna happen.

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Speaker 5: Ladies, Why are you running? I'm a collector of old goods.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to go to his house and see

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Speaker 1: all the guy in coological chairs. I bet they're cool. Oh,

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Speaker 1: let's wrap myself into what you do that, Jeffa.

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Speaker 5: Maybe check it out for her first.

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Speaker 1: I will what the lengths I'm willing to go through

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Speaker 1: for our listeners, so you.

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Speaker 2: Will put your foot up in stirrups.

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Speaker 1: I will keep that in mind when you email us

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