1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,760 Speaker 1: Peace of the planet. Charlamagnea god here. 2 00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:04,800 Speaker 2: Before we get into today's episode, we've got to celebrate 3 00:00:04,800 --> 00:00:06,360 Speaker 2: the Black Effect Podcast network. 4 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:08,239 Speaker 3: It's turning five years old, man. 5 00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:11,840 Speaker 2: Five years of powerful voices, unforgettable moments in the community 6 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 2: that keeps growing. This is the power of the platform. 7 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:21,640 Speaker 2: Now let's get into it. 8 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:26,160 Speaker 4: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King. 9 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:29,640 Speaker 4: I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your 10 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:32,959 Speaker 4: favorite shows from the Real Housewives in Atlanta, New Jersey 11 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 4: and my own creation, The Love and Marriage Franchise and 12 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:42,440 Speaker 4: Bell Collective. Every episode we recap reality television from the 13 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 4: Real Housewives Franchise to The Bachelor or Selling Sunset, in 14 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 4: addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space or 15 00:00:51,159 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 4: scripted as well. 16 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 1: First thing first, we have to get into the fact that. 17 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 4: I'm gonna say alleged because that's the right thing to do. 18 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 4: So look k Michelle, who is allegedly joining the Real 19 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 4: Housewives of Atlanta. Although we've seen Ca Michelle, you know, 20 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 4: being photographed with the ladies over the weekend, Cam and 21 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 4: Shell's photographed with Juice, Doora Simpion, Bailey, Porsche, Pedra, Angela 22 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:30,039 Speaker 4: Oakley Shamia and Kelly Farrell in addition to this person 23 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 4: a Pinky Cole, again not confirming that their housewives, but 24 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:37,760 Speaker 4: they were filmed together on a private jet. So just 25 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 4: saying that now, Claudia and Dustin, I have to read 26 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:45,399 Speaker 4: to you guys a few tweets that happened over the 27 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 4: weekend and I would love to get your thoughts. So 28 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:54,040 Speaker 4: on September fifth, at four fifty five am, e strand 29 00:01:54,800 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 4: Ca Michelle tweeted, if it takes a group plot, a 30 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 4: rumor or scheme to bring me down when I'm coming 31 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 4: in love, you already lost in the game and lost 32 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 4: in life, all right. At five thirty two am that 33 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:19,960 Speaker 4: same morning, Cay Michelle tweeted, you have to be a 34 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 4: sick person to plot and scheme on someone who is 35 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 4: minding their business. 36 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:28,919 Speaker 1: Claudia in Dustin, it doesn't stop there. 37 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 4: The following after the next day, at twelve forty four pm, 38 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:36,919 Speaker 4: Cay Michelle said, welke. 39 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 1: Up feeling blessed and loved. 40 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 4: I love my family and I love my husband. I 41 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:43,480 Speaker 4: thank them for normalcy. 42 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 3: Did normalcy? 43 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 4: No fart, no dust it It's better. This is my love, 44 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:55,239 Speaker 4: cam Michelle. So that was at twelve forty four, Dustin. 45 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:59,680 Speaker 4: Two minutes later, Camy Shell wrote the fuck I don't 46 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:00,960 Speaker 4: get our budget. 47 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 1: Sometimes I wish I cared more. 48 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:09,320 Speaker 4: Then we saw that allegedly Angela Oakley unfollowed Cay Michelle. 49 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 4: There's a dispute on whether or not Angela Oakley was 50 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 4: even following ca Michelle. However, those are the tweets, Dustin, 51 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 4: What are your thoughts on that? Could Chemis Shell be 52 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:26,400 Speaker 4: talking about The Housewives, a show that allegedly has not 53 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 4: been confirmed that she's on. 54 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, well, we know she's on the damn show, you 55 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:31,839 Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. I know you had to say 56 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 5: that for a legal note, but we know she's on 57 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 5: the show, so she's there second of us. She's bringing 58 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 5: that Camis Shelle shit to the show, which can be 59 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 5: good and bad. The thing about it is it's a joke, 60 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 5: right because it ain't nothing about Cay Michelle normal. She's 61 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 5: a celebrity. She has an incredibly beautiful singing voice. She's 62 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 5: seen success that a lot of people will never see 63 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 5: in their lifetime. She's had experiences that are unique and 64 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 5: specific to being rich. 65 00:03:57,240 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 3: She's got more money than most people. 66 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 5: Have, and she as crazy as a betsy bug or 67 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 5: a bag of doorknob so that she's not normal. So 68 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 5: the whole throwback and toss to normalcy I thought was laughable. 69 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 3: It literally made me laugh out loud. 70 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 5: We know that ky Michelle is not afraid of a 71 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:16,359 Speaker 5: confrontation or a verbal spat with someone, and so we 72 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 5: knew she was going to do that shit on Real 73 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:21,720 Speaker 5: Housewives of Atlanta, and so bring it on. I'm ready 74 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 5: to be entertained. I just hope she aims her nerve 75 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 5: gun at the right person. They're the right people, you 76 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. I don't want to see her 77 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 5: just be raiding somebody that don't deserve it, or being 78 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 5: a wolf. 79 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 3: Amongst those women. 80 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, When it's not necessary, keep 81 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 5: it bottled in, just like you do that, Jack Daniels. 82 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 5: You be on keep it bottled in, you know what 83 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:44,040 Speaker 5: I'm saying, and then do it when it's necessary. 84 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:50,200 Speaker 6: So I'm excited, Claudia, I'm already kind of exhausted from 85 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 6: the tweets. It's a little anti climatic because now if 86 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 6: the action doesn't match, like she may or may not 87 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 6: be talking about housewives, she may be talking about Rashida 88 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:01,160 Speaker 6: who knows because she has you know, she knows a 89 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:03,920 Speaker 6: lot of people. Right, we know what she's talking about. 90 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 6: We're assuming its Housewives, and most likely it probably is. 91 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 6: But like, now that she's put this out there, of 92 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 6: course we're gonna be like, ooh, that's around the time 93 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:16,040 Speaker 6: the cast was spotted in Dallas. Maybe something happened in Dallas, 94 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 6: and if it doesn't live up to the hype, we're 95 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:19,600 Speaker 6: going to be disappointed. So it's like almost better to 96 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:21,919 Speaker 6: like kind of just chill a little bit, you know, 97 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 6: because I'm like, and you know, when you like, Housewives 98 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:27,359 Speaker 6: used to do this all the time, unfathed and bathed 99 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 6: and bathed. That is the biggest indicator that you're bothered 100 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:33,800 Speaker 6: is when you tell people how unbothered you are. When 101 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 6: you tell people I'm pressed, you're pressed. When you tell 102 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 6: people I'm broke, you're broke. Most usually, like you know, 103 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:43,280 Speaker 6: like always, like if you're tweeting at four or five 104 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:45,920 Speaker 6: in the morning about something about you're not being how 105 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 6: unbothered you are, you are one thousand percent bothered. So 106 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:51,480 Speaker 6: you're irritated, you're mad, you go to Twitter and you're 107 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 6: doing a subliminal Trust me, we've all probably done subliminals. 108 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:56,839 Speaker 6: I've been guilty of it myself a lot of times. 109 00:05:56,920 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 6: I leave them in the draft, I write them, and 110 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:00,560 Speaker 6: then I'm just like, Okay, that looks Oh that's going 111 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 6: to cause another problem and delete it. Because Kimashelle, everyone knows, 112 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:06,360 Speaker 6: like you should know, all eyes are on you right 113 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:08,719 Speaker 6: now because we're trying to put the pieces together. 114 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 7: Are you really on it? 115 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 6: We pretty much you know, we we pretty much know, 116 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:15,480 Speaker 6: right but like, all eyes are on you right now. 117 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 6: They're trying to put the pieces together, so we're going 118 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:20,719 Speaker 6: to like hold everything you say up under a magnifying 119 00:06:20,760 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 6: glass and break it down. And I just kind of 120 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:25,040 Speaker 6: feel like less is more right now, Like I'd rather 121 00:06:25,120 --> 00:06:27,560 Speaker 6: her come out the gate and we'd be like pleasantly surprised, 122 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 6: then see all these sweets and be like, oh, she's 123 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 6: getting at them, and then when it comes out if 124 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:33,839 Speaker 6: it's a dad eh or it might not be. 125 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:35,920 Speaker 7: She's very dramatic, she's very entertaining. 126 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 6: So I don't know, but I'm like, all these sweets 127 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 6: ons are already on Twitter and we haven't seen that 128 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:43,360 Speaker 6: when things drop yet. They just started feeling a couple 129 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 6: of weeks ago, like you are, it's already on ten. 130 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:51,160 Speaker 3: Happened what happened now already? 131 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:55,159 Speaker 5: Or is she being emotionally reactive to stuff that doesn't 132 00:06:55,160 --> 00:06:59,679 Speaker 5: really require or or you know, support that sort of response. 133 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:01,600 Speaker 3: I don't know. We'll see, we never know. What came 134 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 3: to show. 135 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:05,280 Speaker 5: She's gonna hit that Jack Yoda, let them ladies put 136 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:07,040 Speaker 5: her country boots on, give us a show. 137 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 3: So I'm ready for it. Let's see, And I'll tell 138 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 3: you this. 139 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 5: I think that if Angela Oakley did unfollow her, that's 140 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 5: gonna be a great match that's gonna be a great 141 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 5: verbal pair of verbal sparring matchup. 142 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 3: And I can't wait. 143 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 5: And Angela gonna get in that pain to handle their business, 144 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:24,200 Speaker 5: So I'm excited. 145 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:27,800 Speaker 6: It's just a lot of people though right it seems 146 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 6: like too many people though. 147 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 4: Well, based on the number from my calculation. So if 148 00:07:34,440 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 4: Ky Michelle and Picky Coole are the two newbies, right 149 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:43,000 Speaker 4: you add Porsche, that's three, Faith makes four, Drew makes five, 150 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 4: Shanmia makes six, Kelly makes subvvant, and Angela Oakley makes eight. 151 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 4: I have never seen in my years working on alant 152 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:53,480 Speaker 4: of housewives, so even being a part of it by 153 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 4: watching the show, eight housewives. 154 00:07:56,120 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 1: So the question does remain, is that too many houses? 155 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:00,480 Speaker 3: Wise? 156 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 1: For one shot? Now I will say this, Oh go. 157 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 5: Ahead, No, it's not. These are women with extraordinary personalities. 158 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 5: I think that it is not going to feel too full. 159 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:15,360 Speaker 5: I think that last season, even with the addition of 160 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:18,120 Speaker 5: Fager coming on later at the end, and you know, 161 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 5: while she may not be my favorite housewife, people love 162 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 5: fasor so she definitely added value to the show. So 163 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 5: and it did not, it still felt like there was 164 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 5: room to grow, Like like Tanya said in season two, 165 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 5: it felt like to grow. So I think that if 166 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 5: there are eight ladies holding those peaches, what a better 167 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:39,080 Speaker 5: way for Real Housewives of Atlanta to regain its position 168 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:42,240 Speaker 5: as the grind dome no pun intended of the Real 169 00:08:42,240 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 5: Housewives shows. Give them ladies eight, give us eight Atlanta housewives. 170 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:49,079 Speaker 5: It's been done on Beverly Hills before, it's been done 171 00:08:49,400 --> 00:08:51,959 Speaker 5: in other cities, like give us eight housewives. Can we 172 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 5: can handle that and then let the chips kind of 173 00:08:54,280 --> 00:08:56,080 Speaker 5: fall where they made later. I think eight is a 174 00:08:56,080 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 5: great number for Atlanta this season. 175 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:06,120 Speaker 6: So you're saying eight is enough, Claudia, Yes, shot with 176 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:11,160 Speaker 6: the old sikop I actually agree with you, Dustin in 177 00:09:11,200 --> 00:09:13,280 Speaker 6: the sense of look, I think when it comes to 178 00:09:13,320 --> 00:09:17,560 Speaker 6: Atlanta Housewives, Atlanta Housewives will always be a very special 179 00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 6: show to the zeitgeist of the real housewives. 180 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 1: And you are right. 181 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:25,800 Speaker 4: Beverly Hills had a women at one point, and that 182 00:09:25,960 --> 00:09:28,560 Speaker 4: was actually a really good season. When it comes to 183 00:09:28,600 --> 00:09:31,320 Speaker 4: these women, I will say this, I am interested in 184 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:35,320 Speaker 4: seeing the full story of all of them, and for me, 185 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:39,080 Speaker 4: you also get a chance to see. Look, if somebody 186 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:43,000 Speaker 4: storyline is weaker than the others, you at least have 187 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:47,840 Speaker 4: room to sort of upgrade some of these women. And 188 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:52,000 Speaker 4: we can see as the audience which housewife is lacking 189 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 4: in the storyline department, and because of that, it will 190 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:59,040 Speaker 4: make reason as to why they're not able to even 191 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:01,040 Speaker 4: be a piece told the next season. 192 00:10:01,080 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 1: But I think having eight is a step in the 193 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:04,679 Speaker 1: right direction. 194 00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:09,680 Speaker 4: I think eight, in my opinion, will afford these women. 195 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:15,160 Speaker 1: The opportunity to step it up. I think I think 196 00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:17,839 Speaker 1: some of them last seasons lacked in. 197 00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:20,680 Speaker 4: The storyline department. 198 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:23,000 Speaker 1: A lot more than others. 199 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 4: Right, so to be able to see more women who 200 00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:31,360 Speaker 4: have more interesting stories, I think I think it's a 201 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 4: great test to do that. 202 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:35,319 Speaker 1: So I agree with you, I think eight is fine. 203 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:37,679 Speaker 4: And when it comes to Michelle, when it comes to 204 00:10:37,760 --> 00:10:40,080 Speaker 4: chem Michelle, I will say this. I will always be 205 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:42,400 Speaker 4: a Kim Michelle stand. The first day I met her 206 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 4: in Love and Hip Hop Atlanta, I knew she was 207 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 4: going to. 208 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:47,200 Speaker 1: Be the big star she is today. 209 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:50,040 Speaker 4: I will say this about Kim Michelle, and this is 210 00:10:50,040 --> 00:10:54,199 Speaker 4: the reason why I'm happy if she is doing the show. Hey, 211 00:10:54,240 --> 00:10:58,960 Speaker 4: legal note, but I'm also happy that she gets a chance. 212 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:01,840 Speaker 4: I'm going to say this and it may not be popular, 213 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:05,480 Speaker 4: and I don't give a shit. I'm sick and tired 214 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 4: of the excuse me. I'm sick and tire of the 215 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 4: archaic waves things used to be done. There was a 216 00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:17,440 Speaker 4: time to where a love and hip hop star would 217 00:11:17,559 --> 00:11:22,560 Speaker 4: never be graced amongst a housewife show, right, And I'm 218 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 4: happy that the sort of invisible band has been lifted 219 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:29,520 Speaker 4: to give someone like Kim Michelle a chance. 220 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:33,040 Speaker 1: Because to me, where you start is not. 221 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:37,360 Speaker 4: Who you are finish line, right, So. 222 00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:40,480 Speaker 1: I dispose of that. 223 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 4: I am somebody who believes that just because you started 224 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:48,320 Speaker 4: off in one way, we all elevate our lives, we 225 00:11:48,440 --> 00:11:49,840 Speaker 4: all grow, And. 226 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 1: I detest and I'm gonna say this too. 227 00:11:54,120 --> 00:11:56,120 Speaker 4: I don't like when people say, oh, my gods, this 228 00:11:56,200 --> 00:11:58,319 Speaker 4: show has become a love and hip hop At the 229 00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 4: end of the day, love and hip hop a force 230 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:01,600 Speaker 4: to be record with. 231 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:03,440 Speaker 1: It still is for autism and purposes. 232 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:08,320 Speaker 4: But I don't want Black people to divide the shows 233 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 4: to where this person fits here and that person fits 234 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 4: over there. 235 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 1: I think as a community, we. 236 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:18,400 Speaker 4: Are all able to fit in multiple places if it 237 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:20,880 Speaker 4: makes sense for us at the time. Now, look, there's 238 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:24,720 Speaker 4: some love and Hip Hop stars who, in my opinion, 239 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:27,360 Speaker 4: don't have what it takes right now to be on 240 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:29,920 Speaker 4: a broo housewife. The stays on where they are in 241 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:32,560 Speaker 4: their lives, So I don't think it's for everybody. But 242 00:12:32,600 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 4: I think cay Michelle, who's newly married, who has proven 243 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:40,720 Speaker 4: that she has graduated from where she is selling out 244 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:47,400 Speaker 4: you multiple venues, having Beyonce knows Carter send her a 245 00:12:47,480 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 4: note congratulating her country's success. I think cam Michelle is 246 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 4: a good example of the fact that where you start 247 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:55,640 Speaker 4: is not where you end up. 248 00:12:55,679 --> 00:12:57,600 Speaker 1: And I'm happy that she is giving a chance to 249 00:12:57,640 --> 00:12:57,960 Speaker 1: prove that. 250 00:12:58,360 --> 00:13:00,679 Speaker 4: And look, I think the tweets, in my opinion, I'm 251 00:13:00,679 --> 00:13:02,720 Speaker 4: gonna move on and have you guys, finish it off. 252 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:07,360 Speaker 4: I am old school, right, and I am from the 253 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 4: school you don't tweet anything and let the show handle it. 254 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:14,320 Speaker 1: What I will say is I'm not mad at came 255 00:13:14,360 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 1: Michelle keeping the show alive. 256 00:13:17,480 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 4: I'm not mad at her for having us be entertained 257 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:22,960 Speaker 4: by it because I would rather be this that what 258 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:25,920 Speaker 4: happened last season that we found out and a lot 259 00:13:25,920 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 4: of crazy things happen. So if it's going to be 260 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:30,680 Speaker 4: a tweet, I'd rather a tweet than a pop out. 261 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:32,880 Speaker 3: So I agree. 262 00:13:32,920 --> 00:13:35,080 Speaker 5: And one more point, one more note I want to 263 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:37,720 Speaker 5: make really quick is that at the end of the day, 264 00:13:37,760 --> 00:13:41,199 Speaker 5: this show, this is a document series about these women's lives, right, 265 00:13:41,679 --> 00:13:45,640 Speaker 5: And when you're looking at someone's life like the evolution 266 00:13:46,040 --> 00:13:49,480 Speaker 5: of I used to do this, but now I'm living 267 00:13:49,559 --> 00:13:51,560 Speaker 5: this way and I can show that I can exist 268 00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 5: in this space. 269 00:13:52,679 --> 00:13:54,360 Speaker 3: That's an evolution that makes sense. 270 00:13:54,800 --> 00:13:57,600 Speaker 5: So while there are new cast members on Love and 271 00:13:57,640 --> 00:14:02,240 Speaker 5: Hip Hop who may not necessarily fit the profile of 272 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:05,560 Speaker 5: what a real housewife typically is, it does make sense 273 00:14:05,600 --> 00:14:07,920 Speaker 5: for someone to exist in the Love and Hip Hop 274 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:11,640 Speaker 5: zeitgeist and then evolve into what we know the real 275 00:14:11,679 --> 00:14:15,240 Speaker 5: housewives world to look like that track makes sense, and 276 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 5: if kay Mischelle can do that successfully, then more power 277 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 5: to her. 278 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 3: I'm not a hater. 279 00:14:19,320 --> 00:14:21,400 Speaker 5: So if that makes if that happens for her and 280 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 5: she's great on the show, then bring it on. Because 281 00:14:23,720 --> 00:14:26,000 Speaker 5: ultimately it's good for her, it's good for the show. 282 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:28,520 Speaker 5: She's a black woman, it's a black show. I want 283 00:14:28,560 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 5: to see both entities be successful and see success in 284 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:33,880 Speaker 5: this realm. So bring it on. 285 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:34,520 Speaker 3: Let's see. 286 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:38,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, and Claudia before you, I'm gonna Claudia to wrap 287 00:14:38,160 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 1: this up. I will say this at Dustin. 288 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:45,480 Speaker 4: I'm not joke king, Okay, I would like to see 289 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 4: I would like to see Jocelyne Hernandez on The Real 290 00:14:48,760 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 4: Housewives in Miami. 291 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 6: Well, m m all right, Like how we're on the 292 00:15:07,440 --> 00:15:08,000 Speaker 6: same page? 293 00:15:09,920 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 1: Are we? 294 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:13,560 Speaker 6: Non verbals? Non verbal? 295 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 1: Not? 296 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:25,560 Speaker 3: Let me say Let me say this. I watch Joscelyn's 297 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:26,720 Speaker 3: Cabaret every week. 298 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:30,160 Speaker 5: I think that Jocelyne is interesting on television and I 299 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:33,800 Speaker 5: wish her success and the spaces that she occupies. I 300 00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:35,920 Speaker 5: will say that I love her show. You know what 301 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:37,760 Speaker 5: I'm saying. She's made me laugh for years. 302 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:39,480 Speaker 6: She's very funny. 303 00:15:39,760 --> 00:15:44,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll say that now that Housewives conversation. That's some 304 00:15:44,080 --> 00:15:46,680 Speaker 5: other ship, you know what I'm saying. But but as 305 00:15:46,680 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 5: far as Jocelyn having a space in. 306 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 6: Here, sure, I love seeing black and brown people work. 307 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:56,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, yeah mm. 308 00:15:56,880 --> 00:16:03,160 Speaker 4: Hmm yeah, okay, yeah here, y'all all right, your back, okay, good, 309 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:03,560 Speaker 4: all right? 310 00:16:05,520 --> 00:16:08,440 Speaker 6: If you want to add asad as Jocelyn, or just 311 00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:09,440 Speaker 6: people in. 312 00:16:09,480 --> 00:16:11,720 Speaker 1: General in general, what we talked about. We got a 313 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:12,640 Speaker 1: move on. 314 00:16:13,520 --> 00:16:15,840 Speaker 6: I'm I'm I'm with it all with the evolution, I 315 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:18,280 Speaker 6: think it's cute. But we'll see how it works. I 316 00:16:18,280 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 6: don't know, We'll see how it works. 317 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:20,600 Speaker 7: I don't know. 318 00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 6: I feel like the show's not the show it used 319 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:26,160 Speaker 6: to be anyways. It's a different show, you know. The 320 00:16:26,160 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 6: Housewives is just not what it used to be. It's 321 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:30,640 Speaker 6: way different way. So it's like it's kind of evolving 322 00:16:30,680 --> 00:16:32,280 Speaker 6: in something else. I almost felt they need to change 323 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:34,320 Speaker 6: the title because last year, what was it like one 324 00:16:34,360 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 6: or two one wives on there? 325 00:16:35,840 --> 00:16:37,080 Speaker 7: It was just not a lot of wives on there. 326 00:16:37,080 --> 00:16:39,240 Speaker 3: Anyways, what do you think the new titles should be? 327 00:16:39,280 --> 00:16:47,800 Speaker 6: Claudia Atlanta Streets Street Atlanta, the Streets of Atlanta, Because 328 00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:49,480 Speaker 6: you got all kind of shit going on, you got 329 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:53,440 Speaker 6: bitter ex husbands. You got people shooting guns and threatening people. 330 00:16:53,560 --> 00:16:55,960 Speaker 6: You've got people that are know man, you got men 331 00:16:56,000 --> 00:16:59,400 Speaker 6: that are trying to get peaches. You got niggas living. Yeah, 332 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:01,400 Speaker 6: I remember the niggas of parents, but now we got 333 00:17:01,480 --> 00:17:05,040 Speaker 6: niggas and basements. You know what I'm saying. It's Pokorea conucopia. 334 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:11,040 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, scenarios, but. 335 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:14,840 Speaker 6: As far as the housewife and husband dynamic that we 336 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:16,919 Speaker 6: don't have that anymore. Like we don't have the wealthy 337 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:20,040 Speaker 6: man husband and the wealthy housewife that is home and 338 00:17:20,080 --> 00:17:21,280 Speaker 6: gets to lunch with their friends. 339 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:22,160 Speaker 7: You don't have that. 340 00:17:22,440 --> 00:17:24,080 Speaker 6: You got girls that got to open up, like you know, 341 00:17:24,119 --> 00:17:26,040 Speaker 6: all these businesses to try to make it happen. X 342 00:17:26,080 --> 00:17:28,919 Speaker 6: husbands that ain't paying no bills. You got people with 343 00:17:29,040 --> 00:17:32,159 Speaker 6: in lavender marriages trying to pretend. And you got you know, 344 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:34,880 Speaker 6: people that just like I don't know, you got men 345 00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:36,680 Speaker 6: trying to get peaches. But you've always had that. 346 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:38,840 Speaker 7: It's not the same. It's not like what it was. 347 00:17:39,119 --> 00:17:39,320 Speaker 3: You know. 348 00:17:39,520 --> 00:17:42,080 Speaker 6: I want to get back, like away from heaps fighting, 349 00:17:42,320 --> 00:17:44,120 Speaker 6: like I wanted to get where it's like a war 350 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:46,200 Speaker 6: of words where it's like you have to really be smart, 351 00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:50,560 Speaker 6: you know, and be clever with your words, because anyone 352 00:17:50,560 --> 00:17:52,879 Speaker 6: could fight. And I think when people say bringing how 353 00:17:53,320 --> 00:17:56,639 Speaker 6: Atlanta Housewives bring it, making it be like loving hey 354 00:17:56,640 --> 00:17:58,920 Speaker 6: about that's what they mean. That's what was separate to 355 00:17:59,640 --> 00:18:02,560 Speaker 6: that shut because people would like they would verbally jousts 356 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:05,680 Speaker 6: and it would never ever, no matter what someone would say, 357 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:09,120 Speaker 6: no one's punching someone. It would just be like, oh, 358 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:11,920 Speaker 6: I see your insult and I raise you another one 359 00:18:11,960 --> 00:18:12,480 Speaker 6: and he'd be. 360 00:18:12,359 --> 00:18:12,960 Speaker 3: Like, oh shit. 361 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:15,159 Speaker 6: And I think it takes more strength to be like that, 362 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:17,440 Speaker 6: and that's more brilliant to me. Then it's easy to 363 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:18,840 Speaker 6: just punch a bitch in a fight in the mouth. 364 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:21,080 Speaker 3: Care Yeah, very easy. I listen. 365 00:18:23,080 --> 00:18:24,880 Speaker 5: I would love to see I Ain't even gonna hold 366 00:18:24,920 --> 00:18:28,439 Speaker 5: you while Yes, there's a profile that exists for what 367 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:31,359 Speaker 5: we know the Real Housewives of Atlanta cast members. To 368 00:18:31,480 --> 00:18:34,119 Speaker 5: be right, I do want to see a show about 369 00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:36,119 Speaker 5: the girls in Atlanta that's getting to the money. You 370 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:38,200 Speaker 5: know what I'm saying, running these niggas. I want to 371 00:18:38,200 --> 00:18:39,960 Speaker 5: see the three zero fours of the four oh four, 372 00:18:40,280 --> 00:18:43,560 Speaker 5: That's what I wanted to I want to I want 373 00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:43,960 Speaker 5: that show. 374 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:45,160 Speaker 3: I don't know where it needs to live. 375 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:49,840 Speaker 5: Carlos, who is dallous and magic. I don't know where 376 00:18:49,840 --> 00:18:51,119 Speaker 5: it needs to live, but I want to see a 377 00:18:51,119 --> 00:18:53,639 Speaker 5: show about to get it. Girls that's out here getting 378 00:18:53,680 --> 00:18:58,000 Speaker 5: to it, hustling by whatever means, looking good, running niggas. 379 00:18:58,320 --> 00:18:59,119 Speaker 3: I want to see it. 380 00:18:59,200 --> 00:19:00,480 Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying that it might not be 381 00:19:00,480 --> 00:19:03,080 Speaker 5: the place for them on the Atlanta Housewives, no matter 382 00:19:03,160 --> 00:19:06,040 Speaker 5: how much you love these women Carlos from all walks 383 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:06,520 Speaker 5: of life. 384 00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:08,880 Speaker 3: I think you know. 385 00:19:09,320 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 6: Type chicks, feel like that could be a good Detroit show, Like. 386 00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:15,000 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I want to see that. 387 00:19:15,600 --> 00:19:17,600 Speaker 5: The girls that don't talk. I want to see a 388 00:19:17,640 --> 00:19:21,000 Speaker 5: show with the ones that you convinced to talk. That's 389 00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:21,919 Speaker 5: what I want to see. 390 00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 6: Yes, someone said, oh, well, Claudia, you didn't have a 391 00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:28,080 Speaker 6: husband and housewife. First of all, one last time I 392 00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:30,280 Speaker 6: went on there as a friend, but because my read 393 00:19:30,359 --> 00:19:34,520 Speaker 6: was so goddamn epic and fan favorite that even asked 394 00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:37,000 Speaker 6: me to be a housewife with only about three weeks 395 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:38,520 Speaker 6: left on the clock, so we didn't have time to 396 00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:40,800 Speaker 6: get to my real storyline that I didn't go and 397 00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:42,840 Speaker 6: I was there the front. So if you look at 398 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:44,399 Speaker 6: my story as a friend, I did a lot for 399 00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 6: a friend of the show. But then I got the 400 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:48,040 Speaker 6: extra title. That's what happened. 401 00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:51,520 Speaker 3: What happened anyway, But I was. 402 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:53,919 Speaker 7: Dating someone at the time that. 403 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:59,080 Speaker 1: Baby I had mine, Oh, Claudia. 404 00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:02,520 Speaker 6: But and now they had known and he had a meeting, 405 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:04,560 Speaker 6: right I'm I gonna say, but he had a meeting. 406 00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:12,560 Speaker 6: No please, no, no, no, Oh, I know, Carlos, I know, 407 00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:17,280 Speaker 6: you know what's happening right now. So anyways, bad it 408 00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:19,680 Speaker 6: had been, we would have been fucking running that shit, okay, 409 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:22,399 Speaker 6: But what happened once we had just started dating towards 410 00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:25,360 Speaker 6: the end of Housewives, he had a meeting with production 411 00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:27,640 Speaker 6: one hour on the phone and he said, I love 412 00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:32,280 Speaker 6: it was not Roger Bob, stop it. And he said, Claudia, 413 00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:33,920 Speaker 6: I love to help you out, but I have kids. 414 00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:35,760 Speaker 6: And I was like, yeah, and it's too soon in 415 00:20:35,800 --> 00:20:39,119 Speaker 6: our relationship, and I said, I'd rather have you in 416 00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:43,560 Speaker 6: real life. Thank the Lord, I did not push to 417 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:45,399 Speaker 6: get him on the show because he would have embarrassed 418 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:48,480 Speaker 6: the fuck out of me with his shenanigans. It would 419 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 6: have been great for the show, horrible for me personally. 420 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:54,240 Speaker 6: And I'm so glad I did ja bullet And this 421 00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:57,280 Speaker 6: guy is like, one day it'll come out and you're 422 00:20:57,320 --> 00:21:00,920 Speaker 6: gonna be y'all woll gag, y'all woll gag, y'all woll gag. 423 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:02,000 Speaker 6: But we're not gonna say all. 424 00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:06,000 Speaker 1: I'll say rain drops. He is five. 425 00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:06,960 Speaker 6: I only. 426 00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:12,760 Speaker 1: I mean, think about your roster, and we're gonna listen. 427 00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:15,880 Speaker 4: I will give you this, and I'll give you your tens, 428 00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:17,440 Speaker 4: but I'm gonna give you this too. 429 00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:20,600 Speaker 1: Add this to your accomplishments in life. 430 00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:28,640 Speaker 4: I have the pleasure of being around two of Claudia's 431 00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:32,560 Speaker 4: former dates, right, and I also know about her other 432 00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:35,800 Speaker 4: excess of her friends. I will say this of all 433 00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:38,040 Speaker 4: of my girls that I am friends with, and I 434 00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:39,359 Speaker 4: love all the girls. 435 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:41,280 Speaker 1: I will give Claudia Jordan this. 436 00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:47,480 Speaker 4: Claudia Jordan's roster are all a ten out of a tent. 437 00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:49,679 Speaker 1: MS Mama does not do a nine. 438 00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:53,840 Speaker 4: She don't do a nine plenty five, Claudia doesn't. 439 00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:54,640 Speaker 1: Her tens are ten. 440 00:21:55,400 --> 00:21:58,800 Speaker 5: Answer based on what I know. Claudia don't suck around. 441 00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:01,960 Speaker 5: She don't play. You know she's going to cast the 442 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:02,920 Speaker 5: net and get the fish. 443 00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:04,240 Speaker 3: She won't. I'll put it like that. 444 00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:06,720 Speaker 6: That's why when people be like, oh, you don't have 445 00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:09,080 Speaker 6: I'm like, no, I do. I don't tell y'all see 446 00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:11,879 Speaker 6: y'all have with him, and I also protect it. And 447 00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:14,840 Speaker 6: like the guys that I like are like unicorns, so 448 00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:16,840 Speaker 6: they don't come a diamond dozen like it takes a 449 00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:18,160 Speaker 6: minute to like get them. 450 00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:20,359 Speaker 1: People. 451 00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:23,240 Speaker 7: Let me see, I'll see. 452 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:29,000 Speaker 6: I'll tell y'all if anybody right, yup, y'all mentioned maybe 453 00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:35,280 Speaker 6: one two, y'all mentioned I saw one. 454 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:34,720 Speaker 3: But I'm not gonna say nothing. 455 00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:36,879 Speaker 5: I'm not even at the comments, but I can already 456 00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:39,040 Speaker 5: tell you I know they're going to arrive at. 457 00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:43,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, that's what That's what y'all said. 458 00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:49,520 Speaker 1: That. All I'll do is this, Okay. 459 00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:54,679 Speaker 4: Claudia protect her all the time, claudiaything no, so all 460 00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:57,680 Speaker 4: almost say it is Claudia pulls the tense for sure. 461 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:00,560 Speaker 1: I will say this. 462 00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:02,840 Speaker 4: Quadia, I'm not gonna say much actually had two, but 463 00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:04,879 Speaker 4: she's forgetting about the second one that I've met at 464 00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:05,320 Speaker 4: the club. 465 00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:07,200 Speaker 1: So anyway, if you worry. 466 00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:09,240 Speaker 5: And they'd be cool too, I will say that, as 467 00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 5: Claudia's friend that she has allowed in spaces with you know, 468 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:15,640 Speaker 5: partners that she's been involved with or whatever, that I've 469 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:19,280 Speaker 5: been treated very nicely. I actually have gotten along with 470 00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:22,119 Speaker 5: people to the point where I wish that. You know, 471 00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:24,120 Speaker 5: of course I'm gonna be on Claudia side no matter what. 472 00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:25,879 Speaker 5: Fuck the niggas, you know what I'm saying. But I 473 00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:29,920 Speaker 5: have wanted certain situations to work out because I genuinely 474 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:33,120 Speaker 5: enjoyed the company of you know, the. 475 00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 3: People that she has introduced me to. 476 00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:37,320 Speaker 5: I say that I'm trying to be as vague as possible, Claudia, 477 00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:38,040 Speaker 5: because you know, I. 478 00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:41,639 Speaker 6: Love you for that. I never hooked up with that person. 479 00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:43,760 Speaker 6: We met an event. 480 00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:45,840 Speaker 1: And no, no, no no, I think he wanted you. 481 00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:48,000 Speaker 6: We all will hang it out, but that he was 482 00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:50,280 Speaker 6: like wandering I with all my friends and like right away, 483 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:54,400 Speaker 6: I was like, m but he's very fine. He's very 484 00:23:54,440 --> 00:24:00,400 Speaker 6: popular in Tyler Perry productions. Will say you are, there's 485 00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:07,879 Speaker 6: a lot of them. But I never touched him. We 486 00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:09,480 Speaker 6: never made out, We never kissed, No that. But he 487 00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:11,840 Speaker 6: was at my house with a group of us. We 488 00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:14,000 Speaker 6: all went out that night. Yet that was not club 489 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:24,760 Speaker 6: in Atlanta. It wasn't Christian k y'all, it was not Christian. Okay, names. 490 00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:31,840 Speaker 4: This is reality with the King and I'm Carlos King. 491 00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:36,560 Speaker 4: Let's get back into the show anyway, And. 492 00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:38,800 Speaker 6: Tyler Perry do you have similar tastes like his taste in 493 00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:43,199 Speaker 6: casting and the. 494 00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:43,720 Speaker 1: People that he. 495 00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:45,719 Speaker 6: Is similar. 496 00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:52,120 Speaker 1: What big that I do want to say is Ray draw. 497 00:24:52,280 --> 00:25:00,760 Speaker 4: Somebody wanted me to give y'all a message. Peter Thomas says, Hello, shout. 498 00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:01,560 Speaker 3: Out to my boy Peter. 499 00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:03,639 Speaker 6: Yes he's in right now. 500 00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:05,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. 501 00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:07,440 Speaker 6: Oh man, hi Peter. 502 00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:10,760 Speaker 4: Yes he's he. 503 00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:13,960 Speaker 1: He wanted me to tell you guys hello, he said. 504 00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:17,840 Speaker 4: Okay, I'm only saying this because he gave me permission, 505 00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:19,200 Speaker 4: because I'll know, I'm gonna make sure. 506 00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:19,520 Speaker 3: Okay. 507 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:22,879 Speaker 4: So Peter Thomas wanted me to tell everybody he is 508 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:27,600 Speaker 4: doing well, that he's hanging in there, he's in good spirit. 509 00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:33,200 Speaker 4: He said that this is the part that baby laugh. 510 00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:35,640 Speaker 4: He said, Well, don't Carlo, they know you here. I said, 511 00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:38,680 Speaker 4: oh the God tell me in prison. He said, yes, 512 00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:41,960 Speaker 4: don't do it, don't do it, don't do it. 513 00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:52,720 Speaker 6: Oh yes, love loud was king, Okay, do it. 514 00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:57,760 Speaker 8: So one thing he did say was he mentioned that 515 00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:03,720 Speaker 8: every Saturday day, he said, they are glue in front 516 00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:05,080 Speaker 8: of the television watching Huntsville. 517 00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:08,920 Speaker 4: He said, and in my mind, because I'm a little whatever, 518 00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:12,480 Speaker 4: I said, wait, just to be clear, you're like the 519 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:13,359 Speaker 4: man's prison. 520 00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:15,720 Speaker 1: He was like, yeah, and what do you think I mean? 521 00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:18,960 Speaker 4: I'm like that sure, because I'm like he said, Carlos 522 00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:21,560 Speaker 4: is to the point where if you try to change 523 00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:26,359 Speaker 4: the channel, you're getting beat up. He said, they love Huntsville, 524 00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:29,720 Speaker 4: and he wanted me to tell everybody on Huntsville that 525 00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:33,400 Speaker 4: the prison mates, inmates, they love the show. 526 00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:37,200 Speaker 1: And he wanted me to tell you, Claude, you dusted. 527 00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:40,159 Speaker 1: Hello and the rain drops he says, Hi. 528 00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:41,120 Speaker 3: Is that what he said? 529 00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:41,600 Speaker 6: Just Hello? 530 00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:42,960 Speaker 7: That's it. 531 00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:45,240 Speaker 4: But he wanted me to everybody like he's doing good, 532 00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:48,280 Speaker 4: that he's in he's in good spirits and and he's 533 00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:52,040 Speaker 4: rocking and rolling and and he's not sad depressed. 534 00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:56,359 Speaker 1: He's doing his time and he's he's there to, you know, 535 00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:58,120 Speaker 1: do his thing and get out. 536 00:26:58,480 --> 00:26:59,920 Speaker 3: He got fine. 537 00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:02,359 Speaker 5: Peter will be just fine. Don't you remember when he 538 00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:05,320 Speaker 5: whooped mad ass? Remember Matt that Kenya was Dayton and 539 00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:07,760 Speaker 5: he whooped mad ass at that radio station. It's all 540 00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:10,360 Speaker 5: it's online, you can look it up. Peter be mad 541 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:13,000 Speaker 5: ass in that radio station. Matt really thought he had him. 542 00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:16,040 Speaker 5: Peter is an old school hustler. You know what I'm saying. 543 00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:19,600 Speaker 5: When Peter and Cynthia are together and I was around Peter. 544 00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:21,760 Speaker 5: He was always very nice to me. You know what 545 00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:24,280 Speaker 5: I'm saying. Of course, my loyalty's eyes was Cynthia and 546 00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:26,720 Speaker 5: always will but like he was cool, you know what 547 00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:28,440 Speaker 5: I'm saying. And I think that he'll handle him. So 548 00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:30,600 Speaker 5: I hate to see him in there, you know what 549 00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:32,639 Speaker 5: I'm saying, But he'll pay his debt and handle that. 550 00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:35,399 Speaker 5: So and I'm not worried about him behind them by 551 00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:37,240 Speaker 5: shout out to Peter and shout out to everybody in 552 00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:39,479 Speaker 5: the system, you know what I'm saying, who's paying their 553 00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:44,320 Speaker 5: debt properly, you know, is remorseful about whatever happened to them. 554 00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:47,440 Speaker 5: They're all shout out to my podcast, The friend Zone. 555 00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:50,600 Speaker 5: We got approved on some list of podcasts that people 556 00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:54,719 Speaker 5: can listen to that are incarcerated and whatever prison systems, 557 00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:57,400 Speaker 5: and we get tons and tons of support from people 558 00:27:57,480 --> 00:28:00,600 Speaker 5: that are incarcerated at this time. So that's a that's 559 00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:03,399 Speaker 5: an audience, that's a population. And who better to speak to, 560 00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:06,120 Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying that who better to give 561 00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:08,800 Speaker 5: information and make feel good than people who need it 562 00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:11,640 Speaker 5: at that time. So if y'all nigga's watching us right now, 563 00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:13,919 Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying, that's that's that's handling that. 564 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,080 Speaker 3: And locked up. Shout out to y'all hold your head. 565 00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:20,119 Speaker 6: Yeah, I used to have a connecting prison my one 566 00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:22,560 Speaker 6: of my friends, and they used to like study the 567 00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:24,680 Speaker 6: sports betting every day, and they used to give me 568 00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:26,000 Speaker 6: like ten team parlays. 569 00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:29,200 Speaker 3: You told me it's a long time ago. You told 570 00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:30,080 Speaker 3: me that Cardia. 571 00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:32,360 Speaker 6: Yes, shout out to Boo. I think his name is Boo. 572 00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:33,640 Speaker 6: He used to give me some good bets. I think 573 00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:35,720 Speaker 6: I want like five ten team parlays. I would like 574 00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:37,280 Speaker 6: throw a little something on his books, give his mama 575 00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:39,520 Speaker 6: some money. I know, I got a little rapticide. 576 00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:42,160 Speaker 5: Anyways, and they loved you from the Prices right too, 577 00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:44,160 Speaker 5: didn't you have a big audience in there from like 578 00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:45,520 Speaker 5: your time on the Price is Right. 579 00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:48,320 Speaker 6: Because back then the Price was Right was like pouring 580 00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:49,600 Speaker 6: back then for them. They could see girls. 581 00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:56,760 Speaker 1: So wanted to make sure I stayed up before I 582 00:28:56,800 --> 00:28:57,080 Speaker 1: moved on. 583 00:28:57,280 --> 00:29:01,479 Speaker 4: So last hot topic of the evening, speaking of casting, 584 00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:05,880 Speaker 4: The Real Housewives of New Jersey, as you all know, has. 585 00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:10,160 Speaker 1: Been put on palls for almost I think it's going 586 00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:10,960 Speaker 1: on the year. 587 00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:14,800 Speaker 4: For my calculations due to the fact that last season, 588 00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:17,480 Speaker 4: the ladies were not getting along. 589 00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:18,680 Speaker 1: It was destructive. 590 00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:22,520 Speaker 4: Rumors had it in the past week or two that 591 00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:26,960 Speaker 4: has been the talk of the town that they are 592 00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:30,040 Speaker 4: testing new housewives. 593 00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:32,560 Speaker 1: Potential housewives, but. 594 00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:42,640 Speaker 4: The potential housewives are only filming allegedly with Dolores, Melissa Gorga, 595 00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:47,800 Speaker 4: and Margaret Josephs missing in terms of filming. 596 00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:51,280 Speaker 1: Is Teresa? Excuse me? 597 00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:51,520 Speaker 6: So? 598 00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:59,120 Speaker 4: Teresa recently sent her podcast that you know, she felt 599 00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:02,680 Speaker 4: that last year the ladies were trying to out her out. 600 00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:06,240 Speaker 4: I mean I saw out so that she wouldn't come back, 601 00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:10,440 Speaker 4: so that it's been hard. Her guest Christian Gray said that, 602 00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:13,120 Speaker 4: you know, we got to make sure that we're not 603 00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:15,640 Speaker 4: doing this in this scene and we're not talking to 604 00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:18,880 Speaker 4: her in the scene. Is that what happens on these shows? 605 00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:22,760 Speaker 4: He feels like it shouldn't happen. Teresa says she agrees, 606 00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:26,560 Speaker 4: and that's why she feels like Salt Lake City is amazing. 607 00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:30,680 Speaker 1: She's been watching the show and learning a lot from them. 608 00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:33,080 Speaker 1: So Dustin and Claudia. 609 00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:39,520 Speaker 4: Can the Real Housewives of New Jersey survive without Teresa Judas. 610 00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:45,800 Speaker 6: Full disclosure, I don't know who any of the my 611 00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:48,320 Speaker 6: girls are. I really don't. I don't I know who 612 00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:51,240 Speaker 6: Terreitha is. I've never seen one episode, so I have 613 00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:53,680 Speaker 6: to just tap out on this one and let the 614 00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:59,600 Speaker 6: reality show TV historian Dustin I have to. 615 00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:02,440 Speaker 7: I relinquished my time. 616 00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:08,080 Speaker 3: Okay, look, snatches, Kate, let's go. First. 617 00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:11,240 Speaker 5: Of all, Real Housewives of New Jersey is a ghetto 618 00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:13,760 Speaker 5: ass show. I don't care what nobody says. They've been 619 00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:16,920 Speaker 5: ghetto from day one, and that's why a certain audience 620 00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:18,080 Speaker 5: loved that show. 621 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:19,920 Speaker 3: It also appealed to us. It was about. 622 00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:22,560 Speaker 5: Families, it was drama, and they never gave a fuck 623 00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:24,560 Speaker 5: about going to the line with the drama. 624 00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:24,880 Speaker 3: Right. 625 00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:27,120 Speaker 5: It was a refreshing take on a bunch of white 626 00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:28,800 Speaker 5: ladies living in a you know what I'm saying, that 627 00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:29,800 Speaker 5: random neighborhood. 628 00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:31,000 Speaker 3: It was refreshing. 629 00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:34,719 Speaker 5: We were able to identify with certain elements and themes 630 00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:39,280 Speaker 5: this whole Teresa Versus Melissa debate. This can be summed 631 00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:41,920 Speaker 5: up very simply by people who watched the show from 632 00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:45,480 Speaker 5: season one forward. Seasons one and two of the Real 633 00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:49,120 Speaker 5: Housewives of New Jersey. Teresa and her family were interesting. 634 00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:52,680 Speaker 5: We were captivated by them, her and all them daughters 635 00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:55,640 Speaker 5: and just everything going on with them. We didn't even 636 00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:59,360 Speaker 5: know that Teresa had a brother and a sister in law. Okay, 637 00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:03,880 Speaker 5: she never mentioned her family. She never exploited that very 638 00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:07,760 Speaker 5: serious rift that was going on in her family that 639 00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:10,600 Speaker 5: we didn't know anything about it. We found out about 640 00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:14,280 Speaker 5: it because Melissa was willing to introduce that family drama 641 00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,840 Speaker 5: and use it as something to position herself on the 642 00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:21,640 Speaker 5: cast of the show. That's what happened when Teresa, so 643 00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:24,080 Speaker 5: much so that when Teresa came on to season three, 644 00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:27,400 Speaker 5: episode one and she was at the baby's christening her 645 00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:29,880 Speaker 5: nephew or niece's it was one of her nephews, Christenings, 646 00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:31,880 Speaker 5: I think, and they had that big blow up in 647 00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:35,920 Speaker 5: the first episode. Melissa and her sisters was bringing the 648 00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:39,320 Speaker 5: straight up drama and they all introduced and Joe Gorga. 649 00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:43,400 Speaker 5: They introduced that family conflict to the audiences and to 650 00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:44,000 Speaker 5: the world. 651 00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:46,600 Speaker 3: Teresa never did that. Now. 652 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:50,960 Speaker 5: I have my personal take on Teresa and some of 653 00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:53,360 Speaker 5: what she's offered to that show, but take all that 654 00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:55,040 Speaker 5: out when it comes down. 655 00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:57,000 Speaker 3: To Melissa versus Teresa. 656 00:32:57,240 --> 00:32:59,800 Speaker 5: Melissa and Joe are the ones who brought that family 657 00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:03,280 Speaker 5: drama to the forefront and used it as something to 658 00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:05,200 Speaker 5: position themselves on the show. 659 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:06,800 Speaker 3: That's simply what happened. 660 00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:09,320 Speaker 5: You might ain't gotta like Teresa, you ain't gotta agree 661 00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:11,280 Speaker 5: with nothing else going on in her life, But when 662 00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:15,680 Speaker 5: we're talking about Melissa versus Teresa, that is what happened. 663 00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:19,040 Speaker 5: And because of that, I've never really seen the value 664 00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:24,120 Speaker 5: in Melissa on the show beyond her conflict with Teresa 665 00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:27,480 Speaker 5: and them which Teresa never used to be interesting on 666 00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:30,440 Speaker 5: the show. And that's the difference between the two of them. 667 00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:33,360 Speaker 5: Now has it run its course? Is it still absolutely? 668 00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:36,720 Speaker 5: Are the audiences as a whole ready to move on? 669 00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:39,120 Speaker 3: For sure? Okay? 670 00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:43,320 Speaker 5: But what happened is that Melissa and Joe were willing 671 00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:45,920 Speaker 5: to exploit their family drama to be on that show, 672 00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:48,600 Speaker 5: and they introduced all of that shit to the show. 673 00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:50,000 Speaker 3: That's just the facts. 674 00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:52,840 Speaker 5: Now, you can't start a story in the middle, you 675 00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:54,959 Speaker 5: can't start it in the end close to the end. 676 00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:57,760 Speaker 5: Things have happened along the way that Teresa is at 677 00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:00,840 Speaker 5: fault for. She's had multiple opportunity it needs to quell 678 00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:02,320 Speaker 5: that drama and shut it down. 679 00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:02,960 Speaker 3: She has not. 680 00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:08,080 Speaker 5: But if we're talking about what happened, Melissa and Joe 681 00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:11,399 Speaker 5: brought that family drama to the show. Terita never used 682 00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:14,320 Speaker 5: that to be interesting on the show. That's the facts 683 00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:15,480 Speaker 5: we can go on. 684 00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:18,040 Speaker 6: You're so there's such a like we're so lucky to 685 00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:19,800 Speaker 6: have you, like you're such a JOm Like I'm like, 686 00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:22,320 Speaker 6: I'm like, okay, yeah, I need to go back and 687 00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:23,000 Speaker 6: see this because I. 688 00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:26,320 Speaker 7: Don't know this ship, and damn you can just go. 689 00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:28,760 Speaker 6: Like your brain is like an encyclopedia. 690 00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:32,600 Speaker 3: That's what we get along because yours is too, you know, Claudia, 691 00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:33,160 Speaker 3: we can run it. 692 00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:37,400 Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying, Yes, encyclopedia, but you have 693 00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:41,000 Speaker 6: that reality stuff down like you have so much like 694 00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:42,680 Speaker 6: your memory card is not full. 695 00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:44,000 Speaker 3: My little. 696 00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:51,839 Speaker 6: More bandwidth, okay, but you just go when you find 697 00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:55,000 Speaker 6: episode eight season two, remember that. 698 00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:59,680 Speaker 3: Thank you, Like remember that ship because I used to. Really, 699 00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:00,839 Speaker 3: I was caught up in that world. 700 00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:03,920 Speaker 5: When they announced I remember them announcing, you know, it's 701 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:06,440 Speaker 5: old time at the Apollo over here. I remember stuff, 702 00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:09,120 Speaker 5: and so I remember when they announced The Housewives of 703 00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:12,359 Speaker 5: New Jersey. I remember that first trailer. I remember season two, 704 00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:15,239 Speaker 5: the whole hair pulling moment with Jacqueline's daughter, which I 705 00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:17,799 Speaker 5: love the way they said her name Jacqueline. The would 706 00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:21,480 Speaker 5: call her Jacqueline. I love that, but I remember just 707 00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:24,239 Speaker 5: all those were huge moments, and Carlos, that's when you 708 00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:26,400 Speaker 5: were at the helm of you were producing over there, 709 00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:28,440 Speaker 5: when all that stuff was going on in seasons one 710 00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:31,239 Speaker 5: and two, that made everybody fall in love with the 711 00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:34,080 Speaker 5: Real Housewives of New Jersey. That's why it's still here, 712 00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:38,120 Speaker 5: so you know, return the form would be cool. The show, 713 00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:40,840 Speaker 5: Like I said, they ghetto. Danielle Cabral was yelling on 714 00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:44,080 Speaker 5: their last season, you're dirty, You're dirty, yelling at the 715 00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:47,000 Speaker 5: old girl's face, throwing glasses and shit. I remember when 716 00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:49,359 Speaker 5: them ghetto ass twins was on there fighting and them 717 00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:53,440 Speaker 5: firemen costumes and shit. It's been It's been multiple physical, 718 00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:57,680 Speaker 5: multiple physical altercations on Real house They've had. 719 00:35:57,680 --> 00:36:01,000 Speaker 4: More fight than and just so you know, Claudia, the 720 00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:04,320 Speaker 4: Real Housewives Jersey has have more physical altercations than any housewives. 721 00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:04,799 Speaker 1: Of course. 722 00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:10,400 Speaker 6: Let me tell you, Italians and Irish are the what 723 00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:13,200 Speaker 6: word can I use of the whites you already know, Okay, 724 00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:16,800 Speaker 6: they are them. They are them Italians and the Irish 725 00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:18,879 Speaker 6: they are with the ships. They're the most I don't 726 00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:20,840 Speaker 6: want to say, yeah, the most. 727 00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:24,600 Speaker 3: The Real Housewives in New Jersey that's what they get it. 728 00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:26,960 Speaker 1: They get a going, they get a going. So listen, 729 00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:29,320 Speaker 1: Dustin is I don't have anything to say after what 730 00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:31,879 Speaker 1: Dustin just said. I mean, I agree with everything he said. 731 00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:34,400 Speaker 4: The only thing I'm going to offer up as producer 732 00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:39,480 Speaker 4: is this, just because newbies aren't filming with all of 733 00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:44,560 Speaker 4: the potential housewives doesn't mean that that person is out right. 734 00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:46,320 Speaker 1: And I'll give. 735 00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:50,880 Speaker 4: Claudia an example, because she's here. Claudia filmed with Kenya 736 00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:54,439 Speaker 4: right when she was testing out. Claudia did not film 737 00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:57,200 Speaker 4: with any of the housewives. So just because the new 738 00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:01,960 Speaker 4: the potential housewives are not filming with Teresa does not 739 00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:05,960 Speaker 4: mean Teresa is not coming back. Now, the rumor is 740 00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:09,799 Speaker 4: that if she's not coming back, it's because they're giving 741 00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:13,360 Speaker 4: Teresa her own show with her family, which would be great. 742 00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:15,239 Speaker 1: Too, But I want to offer it up, don't. 743 00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:17,480 Speaker 3: I don't care about her family. I don't want to 744 00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:19,799 Speaker 3: see no damn show with Teresa and Louie and them 745 00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:22,439 Speaker 3: fucking kids. We don't know what Louise. We care about 746 00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:24,160 Speaker 3: Teresa's daughters because we've seen them. 747 00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:27,080 Speaker 5: But they've been writing Donald Trump and doing all kinds 748 00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:29,800 Speaker 5: of shit that we're disinterested in right. So I personally, 749 00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:32,120 Speaker 5: just speaking for myself, I don't give a fuck about 750 00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:34,840 Speaker 5: the show with Teresa and her family. Teresa needs to 751 00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:37,439 Speaker 5: be on the Real Housewives of New Jersey. She needs 752 00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:40,120 Speaker 5: to figure it out when it comes to filming with Melissa, 753 00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:43,840 Speaker 5: because apparently Bravo sees valuing her and she ain't going nowhere. 754 00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:46,480 Speaker 3: And so suck it up. Figure it out, Teresa, that 755 00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:49,800 Speaker 3: whole stalemate, not filming with this one and not filming 756 00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:51,319 Speaker 3: with that one. Don't nobody, none of. 757 00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:53,719 Speaker 5: Y'all add enough value to the show to be able 758 00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:56,120 Speaker 5: to take that sort of stance and have it, you know, 759 00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:58,920 Speaker 5: have some weight and levity. Suck it up, be a 760 00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:01,239 Speaker 5: grown up, learn how to film, even if you have 761 00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:03,239 Speaker 5: to figure it out, so that we can get back 762 00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:05,040 Speaker 5: to what makes all of you interesting. 763 00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:07,719 Speaker 3: We only like Teresa because she was on the Real 764 00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:08,960 Speaker 3: Housewives of New Jersey. 765 00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:12,680 Speaker 5: Outside of that, yes, she's got had cookbook success and 766 00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:14,920 Speaker 5: all the other shit, but that's been a derivative of 767 00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:17,640 Speaker 5: her run on the Real Housewives of New Jersey. She 768 00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:21,160 Speaker 5: owes it to herself to figure out how to if 769 00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:24,560 Speaker 5: this is your show and you started this shit whole court, 770 00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:26,480 Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying, it don't matter who they 771 00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:28,640 Speaker 5: bring on the show. You can deal with it and 772 00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:30,799 Speaker 5: figure it out, even if it's your sister in law 773 00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:35,400 Speaker 5: who you automatic. I've never understood why Teresa allowed herself 774 00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:39,759 Speaker 5: to succumb to Melissa's tactics. You were here first, hold 775 00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:42,640 Speaker 5: your ground and make Melissa uncomfortable on this damn show. 776 00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:44,840 Speaker 3: That's what you should do. So all that, not on 777 00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:46,520 Speaker 3: the film or giving her her own show. 778 00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:48,360 Speaker 5: I don't give a damn about nothing going on in 779 00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:51,160 Speaker 5: that tacky ass house that looks like them tacky ass 780 00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:53,560 Speaker 5: decorations they put in the White House, all that gold 781 00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:56,240 Speaker 5: leaf shit, I don't care about. 782 00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:57,680 Speaker 3: None of that. I want to see her on the 783 00:38:57,800 --> 00:38:59,120 Speaker 3: cast with the other women. 784 00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:02,640 Speaker 6: Everybody thinks they need a spin off or deserve one, 785 00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:07,080 Speaker 6: or that they and not just housewives. I mean, everyone 786 00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:09,120 Speaker 6: thinks I should have a reality show. I should, I should, 787 00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:10,800 Speaker 6: I should spin off, And it's like it takes a 788 00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:12,239 Speaker 6: lot to carry that. 789 00:39:12,840 --> 00:39:16,960 Speaker 1: You know. I'm so we we we shall see, we 790 00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:19,279 Speaker 1: shall see so. But as of now, no announcements have 791 00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:19,799 Speaker 1: been made. 792 00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:22,960 Speaker 4: So with that being said, look, I would love to 793 00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:25,200 Speaker 4: see Teresa back on the show. I think Teresa the 794 00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:27,240 Speaker 4: face of the show. I think I was a producer. 795 00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:31,120 Speaker 4: It's her show, and I think in terms of advertising, 796 00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:35,600 Speaker 4: marketing and all of that, when advertisers and everybody hears 797 00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:38,480 Speaker 4: the real house spots from New Jersey, Like Claudia said, 798 00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:41,560 Speaker 4: Claudia knows not one person on that show besides Teresa 799 00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:44,440 Speaker 4: Judi and that's the reason why she needs to come 800 00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:47,359 Speaker 4: back to the show. So I'll just ended there. Now 801 00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:53,320 Speaker 4: let's get it to Love and Marriage Haunts Bill. So 802 00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:57,640 Speaker 4: this episode was a doozy. There was a lot going 803 00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:00,279 Speaker 4: on Dustin and Claudia. I first want to get into 804 00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:05,760 Speaker 4: what's going on between Destiny and Lance, so to update 805 00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:09,520 Speaker 4: the audience and to update well, don't needs up at YouTube. 806 00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:15,960 Speaker 4: Destiny is single, she was married, she's divorced. She's a 807 00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:20,759 Speaker 4: single mother. Okay, she is in hospital, Alabama that has 808 00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:22,840 Speaker 4: a population of eighty two people. 809 00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:25,480 Speaker 1: So I'm teasing you Forguret to take me seriously. 810 00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:29,920 Speaker 4: So Hustbille as a small town, Destiny is a beautiful 811 00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:30,600 Speaker 4: single woman. 812 00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:36,000 Speaker 1: Lance is the adult son of Neil Fletcher. 813 00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:40,759 Speaker 4: Okay, that's still we're clear now with that being said, 814 00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:44,560 Speaker 4: just for you know, to let everyone know, because I 815 00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:49,280 Speaker 4: think y'all access last time Chris Fletcher is not Lance's 816 00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:55,360 Speaker 4: biological father. Okay, So Mail had Lance in a previous relationship. Okay, 817 00:40:56,440 --> 00:41:03,360 Speaker 4: Destiny dated Lance. Okay, they had a rendezvous. Destney said 818 00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:06,120 Speaker 4: it wasn't intimate. We'll get into that conversation letter that 819 00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:10,160 Speaker 4: she had with Neil. But while Destiny and Lance were 820 00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:14,719 Speaker 4: dating the day we tape the reunion last year. So 821 00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:19,040 Speaker 4: we take last year's reunion Claudia and Dustin in October 822 00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:24,640 Speaker 4: of twenty twenty four. We tape the reunion in Los Angeles. Okay, 823 00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:28,200 Speaker 4: nine times out of ten. The cast obviously likes to 824 00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:32,640 Speaker 4: stay a couple of days after because why not. Apparently 825 00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:38,520 Speaker 4: Lance Lance was there, but he was off camera. Apparently 826 00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:43,479 Speaker 4: the Fletchers left immediately, they left La and Latitia Scott, 827 00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:48,839 Speaker 4: and Nail's voice told Destiny that she heard they had 828 00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:53,280 Speaker 4: to run off because this woman that Lance was dating, 829 00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:56,720 Speaker 4: he got her pregnant and the lady was having the baby. 830 00:41:57,440 --> 00:42:00,520 Speaker 1: Okay, that's happened. 831 00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:06,200 Speaker 4: Allegedly, Destiny found out that Lance had a baby courtesy 832 00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:08,200 Speaker 4: uh Instagram. 833 00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:12,520 Speaker 1: So in this one on one they have the conversation. 834 00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:15,440 Speaker 4: Claudia, want to start with you, as a woman, what 835 00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:19,359 Speaker 4: did you think about the fact that listen, Lance said 836 00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:21,760 Speaker 4: he did not hide his baby from Destiny. 837 00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:24,719 Speaker 1: He was hiding the world from his baby. I'm saying that. 838 00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:31,640 Speaker 7: Okay, but okay, okay, Drake, thank you, thank you, thank you. 839 00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:36,480 Speaker 4: But when it comes to that, do you think as 840 00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:42,320 Speaker 4: a woman that Lance is Lance should have told Destiny. 841 00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:46,040 Speaker 1: Yes, we're dating. Yes it's casual. I'm dating other women. 842 00:42:46,400 --> 00:42:50,120 Speaker 4: However, I did get someone pregnant before nine months later 843 00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:51,960 Speaker 4: seeing the photo on Instagram, of. 844 00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:55,120 Speaker 6: Course, like why are we playing this woman's face like 845 00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:57,960 Speaker 6: like like she didn't have a valid point to feel away? 846 00:42:58,160 --> 00:43:01,120 Speaker 6: Of course I don't. Even if we're actually dating, you 847 00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:03,279 Speaker 6: having a baby, you're getting another woman pregnant is a 848 00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:06,640 Speaker 6: big occurrence in your life. Let's flip the script and 849 00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:09,120 Speaker 6: reverse it real quick. What if she would have just 850 00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:12,360 Speaker 6: got pregnant by someone else while she was casually dating Lands, 851 00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:14,120 Speaker 6: it would be the end of the world. 852 00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:16,280 Speaker 7: She's a horror, she's for the streets. 853 00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:20,360 Speaker 6: Like, let's let's normalize, like, you know, an equal playing 854 00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:22,440 Speaker 6: field here. Of course, that's a big deal. And she 855 00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:25,920 Speaker 6: doesn't have to be his woman official title for him 856 00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:27,960 Speaker 6: to share that with her, just being someone that's in 857 00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:30,560 Speaker 6: his orbit in his life. That's something I want to know. 858 00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:32,279 Speaker 6: I don't want to be with someone that has a 859 00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:36,399 Speaker 6: newborn baby because it always reflects badly on the woman 860 00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:38,680 Speaker 6: that's right after that, Like, you're not letting a family 861 00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:41,520 Speaker 6: be a family. You're interfering, You're in the way. What's 862 00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:46,319 Speaker 6: going on here? And yes, and you know, I take 863 00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:48,480 Speaker 6: issue with like Nell and I love now when she 864 00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:50,080 Speaker 6: was on the show. I think she's adorable. I love 865 00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:52,560 Speaker 6: her personality, but like, these are grown up, these are 866 00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:57,520 Speaker 6: not children. And having smoke for Destiny because she may 867 00:43:57,600 --> 00:44:00,120 Speaker 6: have flirted with someone else. I love the line that 868 00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:02,600 Speaker 6: Destney said, I may have been making googly eyes, but 869 00:44:02,640 --> 00:44:08,479 Speaker 6: he was making babies. I thought that was bars because okay, 870 00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:11,319 Speaker 6: well Britain bars. Okay, you know, not the first one 871 00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:12,160 Speaker 6: a pre write a read. 872 00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:18,840 Speaker 3: But you know, there you go, fam, I'm making babies, 873 00:44:19,080 --> 00:44:22,280 Speaker 3: I'm making an eye. You know she was rapping. 874 00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:25,400 Speaker 7: It's like the double standards is out of control. 875 00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:27,960 Speaker 6: You know. I'm like, if someone has a baby while 876 00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:31,280 Speaker 6: we're dating, guess what. I can date your father, your cousin, 877 00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:33,640 Speaker 6: your brother, can date whoever the fuck I want. And 878 00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:35,600 Speaker 6: you can't really say anything about it because you are 879 00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:37,960 Speaker 6: out here raw dogging other people and made a baby, 880 00:44:38,239 --> 00:44:40,520 Speaker 6: so please stop playing with me and like to make 881 00:44:40,600 --> 00:44:42,319 Speaker 6: her like where the scarlet letter that. 882 00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:43,880 Speaker 7: She's some half of the streets. 883 00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:45,720 Speaker 6: I don't think she knew that that was a relative 884 00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:48,919 Speaker 6: when she saw him and made quote unquote googly eyes. 885 00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:51,080 Speaker 6: I feel like she saw a tall, good looking man, 886 00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:53,399 Speaker 6: which you know, in shape with You don't really see 887 00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:55,320 Speaker 6: that a lot, and everyone does that, Oh, who's that? 888 00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:58,279 Speaker 7: Does she give him? Does she give him? Ask that night? 889 00:44:59,080 --> 00:44:59,600 Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying. 890 00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:01,280 Speaker 7: I don't know. Oh that's my opinion. 891 00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:03,200 Speaker 6: Y'all know these people more than I do. But what 892 00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:05,000 Speaker 6: I'm looking at, I was like, I don't think she 893 00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:07,040 Speaker 6: was in the wrong. And the fact that she even 894 00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:09,480 Speaker 6: gave the respect to Lance and said, I'm letting you 895 00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:12,680 Speaker 6: know that I heard he's interested and if he does 896 00:45:12,840 --> 00:45:14,520 Speaker 6: ask me, I would be open to go on that. 897 00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:19,160 Speaker 7: Why you're out here making children with other people? Think 898 00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:21,799 Speaker 7: she I think she handled it right in my opinion. 899 00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:26,719 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm rolling with Claudia on this one. I'm one 900 00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:29,680 Speaker 5: hundred percent in agreement. I'm over people trying to police 901 00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:33,040 Speaker 5: women's bodies. If Destiny wanted to fuck everybody on that show, 902 00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:35,640 Speaker 5: that she could morally so what she can do what 903 00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:36,320 Speaker 5: she wants to do. 904 00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:38,640 Speaker 3: And I don't think that it's nails ain't none of 905 00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:39,680 Speaker 3: nails damn business. 906 00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:42,400 Speaker 5: I actually, and I'm fresh off of that documentary on 907 00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:46,600 Speaker 5: Netflix's Unknown Number where that mother was sending them crazy 908 00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:49,600 Speaker 5: text to her daughter. So the whole other of like 909 00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:53,960 Speaker 5: over involvement of the mother in the child's very adult business, 910 00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:55,560 Speaker 5: I'm triggered by that. 911 00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:57,480 Speaker 1: In this case, I. 912 00:45:57,560 --> 00:46:00,480 Speaker 5: Definitely thought Nail was overstepping the fuck out of her 913 00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:03,440 Speaker 5: boundaries by even having a conversation about what all these 914 00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:05,360 Speaker 5: grown people are doing with their privates. 915 00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:08,640 Speaker 3: I don't understand it, and then doubling down on the 916 00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:11,239 Speaker 3: fact I know he slept with it. I know, my boy, 917 00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:14,680 Speaker 3: all of that stuff, Like I just I was. 918 00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:17,120 Speaker 5: Like, damn Nell, Like if he's saying they didn't do it, 919 00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:19,880 Speaker 5: Destiny Flyers said in her scene that they did not 920 00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:22,680 Speaker 5: mess around, which they didn't have to say anything at all, 921 00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:25,319 Speaker 5: because it was nobody's business what the fuck they did. 922 00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:27,920 Speaker 3: And even if and I thought it was interesting that 923 00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:28,960 Speaker 3: nobody Nails. 924 00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:32,719 Speaker 5: All of Neil's vitry all was aimed at Destiny for 925 00:46:33,200 --> 00:46:35,759 Speaker 5: allegedly having involvement with these two men who had a 926 00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:40,040 Speaker 5: pre existent relationship as god brothers. But Neil didn't say 927 00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:41,719 Speaker 5: nothing to them, like, well, why y'all trying to fuck 928 00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:43,560 Speaker 5: on the same girl? You know what I'm saying, Like 929 00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:45,640 Speaker 5: that was not called out by her. So I'm one 930 00:46:45,719 --> 00:46:48,360 Speaker 5: hundred percent with Claudia on this. There is an obvious 931 00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:51,719 Speaker 5: double standard, and Destiny was in the right in this case. 932 00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:54,800 Speaker 5: She has four control over her autonomy. She can be 933 00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:57,000 Speaker 5: with whoever the hell she wants to be with. And 934 00:46:57,280 --> 00:46:59,400 Speaker 5: I do not believe for one second to her and 935 00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:03,040 Speaker 5: Lance where any form or semblance of anything serious. I 936 00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:05,359 Speaker 5: think that they were having fun and dating. As far 937 00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:08,600 Speaker 5: as this cast is concerned, Destiny is like the single 938 00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:10,800 Speaker 5: one who can be living that life and going on 939 00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:11,680 Speaker 5: dates and stuff. 940 00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:13,600 Speaker 3: And if that's what she was doing, that's what she 941 00:47:13,800 --> 00:47:14,879 Speaker 3: was doing. You know what I'm saying. 942 00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:17,200 Speaker 5: Yes, she was flirty with this one, flirty with that one, 943 00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:19,720 Speaker 5: but if her and him were not in a serious connection, 944 00:47:20,080 --> 00:47:22,600 Speaker 5: she had every right to do that. And so I 945 00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:26,080 Speaker 5: don't this all the involvement. I don't get led Destiny Rod. 946 00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:27,840 Speaker 5: That's hers to do whatever she want. 947 00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:30,359 Speaker 6: To do it with and some I will never say 948 00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:34,400 Speaker 6: all or many, but there's some black mamas that are 949 00:47:34,600 --> 00:47:36,680 Speaker 6: very involved in their son's lives and almost treat them 950 00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:40,040 Speaker 6: like their man sometimes. And it's weird, right, Like it's 951 00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:42,879 Speaker 6: like when she started naming the names of all these 952 00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:45,840 Speaker 6: other men that alleging like kind of putting bodies on Destiny, 953 00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:47,480 Speaker 6: I thought that was kind of like not cool, Like 954 00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:49,440 Speaker 6: why would you do that? Like it was almost like 955 00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:51,680 Speaker 6: she was like, your son is the one that has 956 00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:54,759 Speaker 6: actual DNA evidence of being with other people, you know, 957 00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:56,320 Speaker 6: like while you're out here like kind of kind of 958 00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:58,400 Speaker 6: low key kind of shaming destiny. Your son is out 959 00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:01,480 Speaker 6: here like what they say, laying it low, spreading it wide. 960 00:48:01,520 --> 00:48:04,279 Speaker 6: I don't know whatever shout out to funky with the 961 00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:07,120 Speaker 6: saying but like you know for a fact that he's 962 00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:09,399 Speaker 6: been with other people, you're like a legend things about 963 00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:10,719 Speaker 6: this girl and it kind of like, you know, and 964 00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:12,680 Speaker 6: luckily Desinely had a good sense of humor about it 965 00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:15,440 Speaker 6: and she didn't seem to go off. But that usually 966 00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:18,040 Speaker 6: that that will put again a scarlet letter around a woman, 967 00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:21,319 Speaker 6: like why is it that she's so wrong for even 968 00:48:21,560 --> 00:48:24,959 Speaker 6: flirting or noticing an attractive man, But we're not having 969 00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:28,320 Speaker 6: the same accountability or smoke for someone that's dating seeing 970 00:48:28,360 --> 00:48:30,480 Speaker 6: this woman but then laid up with another woman and 971 00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:33,000 Speaker 6: got another woman pregnant and created a whole entire life. 972 00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:36,840 Speaker 7: It's like, to me, like, they're not this, They're. 973 00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:39,799 Speaker 3: Not the same thing, and neither I'm sorry, I mean 974 00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:41,200 Speaker 3: to cut you off for him more. 975 00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:43,919 Speaker 6: She's getting more like pushback, and it's like the people 976 00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:46,040 Speaker 6: not like destiny. Is that why they're like judging her 977 00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:48,800 Speaker 6: more harshly. But I think a lot of times mama 978 00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:52,800 Speaker 6: is of a black boys. Some black men be babying 979 00:48:52,840 --> 00:48:55,040 Speaker 6: their sons and they don't like they kind of like 980 00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:57,600 Speaker 6: co sign everything they do and they never really feel 981 00:48:57,640 --> 00:49:00,120 Speaker 6: like they have to have accountability for anything because the 982 00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:02,759 Speaker 6: mama always tells them, No, you're right baby, No, that's 983 00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:04,080 Speaker 6: a fast girl, that's them. 984 00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:06,920 Speaker 7: No sometimes that you sometimes that you. 985 00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:12,279 Speaker 5: I believe that a lot of what Neil was doing 986 00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:16,000 Speaker 5: in this episode was for the sorry y'all that's probably 987 00:49:16,719 --> 00:49:25,600 Speaker 5: in order coming through anyways is gonna happen, but okay, anyways, 988 00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:29,040 Speaker 5: I think that Neil was being performative. A lot of 989 00:49:29,080 --> 00:49:30,960 Speaker 5: that was for the camera based on what like, we 990 00:49:31,120 --> 00:49:34,000 Speaker 5: just had a great conversation with Neil on the show 991 00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:36,120 Speaker 5: A couple of weeks ago, based on what we've seen 992 00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:38,759 Speaker 5: in past seasons from her and the other scenes, she 993 00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:42,320 Speaker 5: was prying and really like tapping into that. 994 00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:44,200 Speaker 3: I think for the show. I think in real life 995 00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:46,240 Speaker 3: she wouldn't be that involved in our son's business. 996 00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:52,040 Speaker 9: And I'll stop you there, not to get too much away, 997 00:49:52,440 --> 00:49:54,960 Speaker 9: not to give too much away, but I will say this, 998 00:49:57,239 --> 00:50:02,400 Speaker 9: Nell is a mama bear, and you'll see more of. 999 00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:05,600 Speaker 4: The interaction she has with her family this season. But 1000 00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:09,160 Speaker 4: when it comes to I'm not talking about her being 1001 00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:11,200 Speaker 4: performed or whatever, but I think when it comes to 1002 00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:15,840 Speaker 4: when it comes to her kids now, is definitely a 1003 00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:17,919 Speaker 4: mama bear for sure. 1004 00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:20,719 Speaker 3: Okay, well, then in that case, Neil, you're wrong. You're 1005 00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:21,359 Speaker 3: wrong as hell. 1006 00:50:21,440 --> 00:50:23,920 Speaker 5: You need to get out of Destiny and the lance business. 1007 00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:26,040 Speaker 5: They don't really have no business for you to be in, 1008 00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:29,480 Speaker 5: especially if they didn't have sex, and even if they did, 1009 00:50:29,560 --> 00:50:32,880 Speaker 5: they're grown adults. All these people are adults and everybody 1010 00:50:32,960 --> 00:50:33,960 Speaker 5: needs to mind their business. 1011 00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:36,680 Speaker 3: So Nail, you're wrong, and that's that, you're wrong as hell. 1012 00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:37,680 Speaker 3: Stay out their business. 1013 00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:40,319 Speaker 6: And it did it did feel like you know, when 1014 00:50:40,360 --> 00:50:42,960 Speaker 6: you maybe you have a slow week with your drama 1015 00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:45,320 Speaker 6: and your own storyline and you kind of have to 1016 00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:48,200 Speaker 6: milk something. When I was looking at like produce her mind, like, 1017 00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:50,160 Speaker 6: I was like, this feels that she's kind of dragging 1018 00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:53,719 Speaker 6: us a little bit. Sd Max says, Italian mom is baby, 1019 00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:56,320 Speaker 6: they're boys too. That is one thousand percent of facts. 1020 00:50:56,680 --> 00:50:57,080 Speaker 4: My mom. 1021 00:50:57,640 --> 00:50:59,680 Speaker 6: My mother is like one of seven and she has 1022 00:50:59,719 --> 00:51:02,279 Speaker 6: one brother. And the way they would baby the brother 1023 00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:05,959 Speaker 6: the boy like everything it is right, nothing is wrong 1024 00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:08,840 Speaker 6: just because he has a penis. Like, honestly, some cultures 1025 00:51:09,320 --> 00:51:12,400 Speaker 6: really just do not like to hold their sons accountable, 1026 00:51:12,400 --> 00:51:14,120 Speaker 6: like they really treat them as the golden child. 1027 00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:18,080 Speaker 7: And I think Italians black folks very much do that. 1028 00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:21,640 Speaker 4: And that's, to me, is the beauty of this conversation, right, 1029 00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:24,640 Speaker 4: because I do think it's funny because as you all know, 1030 00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:26,520 Speaker 4: I'm one of ten kids. 1031 00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:30,839 Speaker 1: I have nice siblings. And one of the topics is, well, 1032 00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:31,879 Speaker 1: let me break it down first. 1033 00:51:31,960 --> 00:51:35,600 Speaker 4: It's seven boys and three girls, right, seven boys and 1034 00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:39,880 Speaker 4: three girls, and my sisters high to Meka, Lakita and Carlita. 1035 00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:47,760 Speaker 1: They watched every Monday. My sisters will always tell my mom. 1036 00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:51,800 Speaker 4: You baby, these boys like you baby, these boys. And 1037 00:51:52,040 --> 00:51:55,040 Speaker 4: it's funny because this is the best part of the conversation. 1038 00:51:56,040 --> 00:52:01,080 Speaker 4: My two of my sisters obviously had children. They have 1039 00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:05,799 Speaker 4: a daughter and a son, and their daughters told them 1040 00:52:06,640 --> 00:52:10,800 Speaker 4: you baby my brother like so I thought it was 1041 00:52:10,920 --> 00:52:13,560 Speaker 4: interesting because it is sort of like, is it this cycle? 1042 00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:16,399 Speaker 4: And that's the reason why when it comes to Nail, 1043 00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:19,440 Speaker 4: Nell is very passionate when it comes to her kids. 1044 00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:24,440 Speaker 1: In general, Lance is her first born and that's her 1045 00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:25,760 Speaker 1: Her first born. 1046 00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:27,719 Speaker 4: Is a is a like you we said, a boy 1047 00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:30,760 Speaker 4: a man, and that's why to me, it is interesting 1048 00:52:30,840 --> 00:52:32,839 Speaker 4: to sort of see the mama bear come out when 1049 00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:35,640 Speaker 4: it comes to it. And that's why rain das from 1050 00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:39,120 Speaker 4: the chat, I do, I do want to talk about 1051 00:52:39,160 --> 00:52:42,680 Speaker 4: this more in detail, not tonight, but just in general 1052 00:52:43,000 --> 00:52:44,720 Speaker 4: as we sort of recap the rest of the season. 1053 00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:47,960 Speaker 1: Do y'all feel like when. 1054 00:52:47,840 --> 00:52:51,600 Speaker 4: It comes to black mothers Italian mothers too, as as 1055 00:52:51,719 --> 00:52:54,319 Speaker 4: you guys outline in the in the chat that they're 1056 00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:58,880 Speaker 4: they're harder on their daughters than they are their boys. 1057 00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:02,799 Speaker 4: Because that is a topic of conversation that my family had. 1058 00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:05,239 Speaker 4: I'm singing on the show and Claudia and Dust and 1059 00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:07,400 Speaker 4: I've raised the good points too when it comes to 1060 00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:09,880 Speaker 4: DestinE that we'll say this when I created a Love 1061 00:53:09,920 --> 00:53:13,000 Speaker 4: and Matter. TUN's bell obviously lives about three couples, but 1062 00:53:13,520 --> 00:53:17,839 Speaker 4: similar to housewives, things change, and unfortunately the divorce rate 1063 00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:21,000 Speaker 4: is that fifty one percent. I believe I always wanted 1064 00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:22,839 Speaker 4: to tell the story of like look, just because your 1065 00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:24,040 Speaker 4: divorce doesn't mean. 1066 00:53:24,200 --> 00:53:25,879 Speaker 1: You your life is over. 1067 00:53:26,520 --> 00:53:30,640 Speaker 4: I will always applaud destiny to tell the story of 1068 00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:36,160 Speaker 4: I'm single, I should be dating and figuring life out. 1069 00:53:36,560 --> 00:53:38,839 Speaker 4: I do think it's unfair, and I agree with Dustin 1070 00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:42,480 Speaker 4: one hundred percent. I do think it's unfair that a 1071 00:53:42,680 --> 00:53:47,680 Speaker 4: woman who is single is not allowed to day around 1072 00:53:47,960 --> 00:53:50,560 Speaker 4: figure things out, and if she wants to sleep around, 1073 00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:52,600 Speaker 4: it's her body, do what she wants to do. As 1074 00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:56,399 Speaker 4: long as is her choice, her body, her choice will 1075 00:53:56,760 --> 00:53:58,640 Speaker 4: This is a big topic the rest of the season. 1076 00:53:59,160 --> 00:54:04,399 Speaker 4: But I will say is I applaud destiny because being 1077 00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:06,719 Speaker 4: a single woman, Claudia, I would love to ask you this. 1078 00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:11,520 Speaker 1: Being a single woman around married women and. 1079 00:54:11,640 --> 00:54:19,320 Speaker 4: Married couples, it is harder because you are seen oftentimes. 1080 00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:21,279 Speaker 1: But again, I want Claudia as a pain on this 1081 00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:22,759 Speaker 1: because I'm not a single woman. 1082 00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:27,560 Speaker 4: But Claudia, do you feel like unfortunately single women get 1083 00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:31,520 Speaker 4: a bad rap for dating around town just because they're 1084 00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:33,719 Speaker 4: around married couples and people look down on it. 1085 00:54:34,560 --> 00:54:36,800 Speaker 6: One thousand percent. You're always seen as a threat. I 1086 00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:40,000 Speaker 6: can't tell you how many friends like you know, I'm 1087 00:54:40,040 --> 00:54:42,040 Speaker 6: a relationship girl. When I'm in a relationship, I love 1088 00:54:42,120 --> 00:54:45,359 Speaker 6: going on like couples trips. I love doing like double days. 1089 00:54:45,400 --> 00:54:47,239 Speaker 6: I love that. I feel like it builds like kind 1090 00:54:47,280 --> 00:54:50,600 Speaker 6: of community and like it's strong hands. It's really good 1091 00:54:50,640 --> 00:54:52,840 Speaker 6: for your couples to be with other couples. But you know, 1092 00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:55,600 Speaker 6: sometimes in between relationships, I'd be the single girl at 1093 00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:58,520 Speaker 6: a wedding or on a trip, and I feel like 1094 00:54:58,640 --> 00:55:01,400 Speaker 6: the men that have these women, they almost want to 1095 00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:03,799 Speaker 6: keep their women away from me, their girlfriends, like I'm 1096 00:55:03,840 --> 00:55:08,120 Speaker 6: gonna somehow encourage them to like creep or I'm gonna 1097 00:55:08,200 --> 00:55:10,080 Speaker 6: have them around all these single men, and it's just 1098 00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:12,120 Speaker 6: like not right, It's just not true. I remember one 1099 00:55:12,200 --> 00:55:15,440 Speaker 6: year on a girl's trip, a Rata, who is Michael 1100 00:55:15,440 --> 00:55:18,719 Speaker 6: Blackson's fiance. Michael Blackson came on the trip with us, right, 1101 00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:21,719 Speaker 6: so he was the one man on a girl's trip 1102 00:55:22,160 --> 00:55:23,520 Speaker 6: and he got to see what it was like and 1103 00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:26,799 Speaker 6: he was actually blown away. And I was like, see 1104 00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:28,960 Speaker 6: I wanted you to see this like we're not these 1105 00:55:29,320 --> 00:55:33,160 Speaker 6: like we're not these threatening mystical beings that just have 1106 00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:36,799 Speaker 6: supply of random extra spare dicks on hand for our 1107 00:55:36,840 --> 00:55:39,160 Speaker 6: friends to just run through. It's not like that. But 1108 00:55:39,440 --> 00:55:41,920 Speaker 6: people tend to think, Oh, that single girl's gonna take 1109 00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:44,160 Speaker 6: you away and she's gonna have you around her single 1110 00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:47,279 Speaker 6: baller friends, and you're gonna leave me for that. You 1111 00:55:47,400 --> 00:55:49,759 Speaker 6: can be single and still be a good girls girl 1112 00:55:49,800 --> 00:55:52,640 Speaker 6: and still be a pro relational friend. I always encourage 1113 00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:55,600 Speaker 6: I'm not with that being a side chick or my 1114 00:55:55,719 --> 00:55:57,560 Speaker 6: friends like cheating on their men. I'm always like, yo, 1115 00:55:57,640 --> 00:55:59,680 Speaker 6: you need to talk to your man and figure it out. Like, 1116 00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:03,480 Speaker 6: don't go to me for an alibi. Let's you're my Bessie, Bessie, 1117 00:56:03,600 --> 00:56:04,560 Speaker 6: I got your back girlfriend. 1118 00:56:04,760 --> 00:56:06,640 Speaker 3: But I'm saying like, I'm gonna call you, and I 1119 00:56:06,680 --> 00:56:08,000 Speaker 3: ain't your girlfriend. I'm gonna call you. 1120 00:56:09,680 --> 00:56:11,560 Speaker 6: I would never try to encourage someone to, like, you know, 1121 00:56:12,000 --> 00:56:14,120 Speaker 6: just be be trifled like that. Matter of fact, I 1122 00:56:14,200 --> 00:56:15,759 Speaker 6: have friends that lie to me about what they're doing 1123 00:56:15,800 --> 00:56:18,040 Speaker 6: because they know I don't play that. So yeah, they 1124 00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:21,000 Speaker 6: definitely look at the single friend as like you're like, 1125 00:56:21,520 --> 00:56:25,239 Speaker 6: you know, you represent temptation and like bringing their girl 1126 00:56:25,360 --> 00:56:27,279 Speaker 6: like or you also can give them the game like girl, 1127 00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:29,279 Speaker 6: there's still other men out there. And I hate that 1128 00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:31,200 Speaker 6: they think that because if you get to know me, 1129 00:56:31,239 --> 00:56:36,160 Speaker 6: you know I'm a very traditional relationship Like I'm traditional roles. 1130 00:56:35,960 --> 00:56:37,960 Speaker 7: Like I like, I don't like all that cheating nonsense. 1131 00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:40,520 Speaker 7: I'm not with that. So, yeah, one thousand was sent. 1132 00:56:40,600 --> 00:56:43,319 Speaker 6: They think that we're like the Scarlet Letter once again, 1133 00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:45,680 Speaker 6: like we're just We're gonna take your girl and make 1134 00:56:45,719 --> 00:56:46,480 Speaker 6: a fuck somebody else. 1135 00:56:46,520 --> 00:56:48,120 Speaker 7: I'm like, no, I'm not doing that. 1136 00:56:49,800 --> 00:56:50,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, No. 1137 00:56:51,080 --> 00:56:54,719 Speaker 4: It's a very interesting topic and again it just explore 1138 00:56:55,239 --> 00:56:57,800 Speaker 4: a few more times this season. 1139 00:56:58,480 --> 00:57:00,640 Speaker 1: But I want to move on to talk about the 1140 00:57:01,239 --> 00:57:02,000 Speaker 1: men meet up. 1141 00:57:02,560 --> 00:57:07,800 Speaker 4: So Maurice decided to get all the guys together so 1142 00:57:08,000 --> 00:57:13,399 Speaker 4: that Martel and Marcel are able to finally address their 1143 00:57:13,520 --> 00:57:17,280 Speaker 4: long standing feud. Claudia, to catch you up on what's 1144 00:57:17,320 --> 00:57:22,360 Speaker 4: been going on since day one, long story, short years 1145 00:57:22,400 --> 00:57:24,919 Speaker 4: ago maybe ten years ago, no, I think he said nine. 1146 00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:25,680 Speaker 4: Nine years ago. 1147 00:57:27,520 --> 00:57:30,640 Speaker 1: Martel and Marcel decided to. 1148 00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:34,240 Speaker 4: Go into business together and have a company named Scote 1149 00:57:34,840 --> 00:57:39,240 Speaker 4: so it's Scott's and Hope Merge as one they called 1150 00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:45,240 Speaker 4: it scope, okay. Martel is alleging that Marceau was on 1151 00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:48,720 Speaker 4: hard times being a manager at the movie theater getting 1152 00:57:48,760 --> 00:57:52,400 Speaker 4: fired for that's what he's saying, and that he was 1153 00:57:53,000 --> 00:57:57,040 Speaker 4: in bad times and that's why Martel decided being in 1154 00:57:57,240 --> 00:58:00,720 Speaker 4: good a good space financially to even have this company. 1155 00:58:01,400 --> 00:58:04,320 Speaker 4: What happened is a few years later they decided to 1156 00:58:04,440 --> 00:58:10,280 Speaker 4: disband the company and Martel decided to give Marcel the 1157 00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:12,280 Speaker 4: name and walked away from it. 1158 00:58:12,480 --> 00:58:12,640 Speaker 3: Right. 1159 00:58:14,840 --> 00:58:18,000 Speaker 4: What has been sort of a top of conversation ever 1160 00:58:18,120 --> 00:58:23,200 Speaker 4: since then is Marcel and Martel being an odds alleged 1161 00:58:23,280 --> 00:58:27,000 Speaker 4: cheating scandals. Martel has alledged to that Marcel has slept 1162 00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:28,640 Speaker 4: in twenty women while he was married. 1163 00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:33,200 Speaker 1: Martel did a YouTube interview. 1164 00:58:32,960 --> 00:58:35,800 Speaker 4: With a woman alleging to be one of Marcel's lady 1165 00:58:36,080 --> 00:58:40,320 Speaker 4: friends that he slept with, and this is how everything 1166 00:58:40,720 --> 00:58:43,920 Speaker 4: started to unravel in it when it came to their friendship. 1167 00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:48,360 Speaker 4: So in this conversation, they really were throwing digs at 1168 00:58:48,440 --> 00:58:48,760 Speaker 4: each other. 1169 00:58:49,200 --> 00:58:50,280 Speaker 1: But Dustin, you have. 1170 00:58:50,320 --> 00:58:53,840 Speaker 4: Been around since season one, watching all of this for 1171 00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:57,400 Speaker 4: the past ten seasons, what do you think is the 1172 00:58:57,640 --> 00:59:01,880 Speaker 4: root of Martel at Marceau's issues. 1173 00:59:02,480 --> 00:59:06,720 Speaker 3: A lack of accountability on Martell's behalf. That's what I think. 1174 00:59:06,840 --> 00:59:11,000 Speaker 5: I think that Martel has been running from taking accountability 1175 00:59:11,040 --> 00:59:13,600 Speaker 5: with the fact that he broke his family up and 1176 00:59:14,080 --> 00:59:17,960 Speaker 5: that had overreaching impacts into their friendship circle, and he 1177 00:59:18,320 --> 00:59:22,360 Speaker 5: is constantly running away from the acceptance and acknowledgment of 1178 00:59:22,480 --> 00:59:25,680 Speaker 5: that fact, and it affects every area of his life 1179 00:59:25,760 --> 00:59:28,720 Speaker 5: that we as viewers have been exposed to. So that's 1180 00:59:28,760 --> 00:59:31,120 Speaker 5: what I think is the root of all that. Again, 1181 00:59:31,360 --> 00:59:33,479 Speaker 5: you can't start a story at the end, in the middle, 1182 00:59:33,560 --> 00:59:35,280 Speaker 5: or at the end. You have to start at the beginning. 1183 00:59:35,360 --> 00:59:38,040 Speaker 5: And the root of their conflict came from Marceaul. 1184 00:59:38,160 --> 00:59:39,040 Speaker 3: Marceul laid it out. 1185 00:59:39,800 --> 00:59:43,240 Speaker 5: He laid it out, He told jokes about something that 1186 00:59:43,400 --> 00:59:47,240 Speaker 5: he thought was fodder amongst the group, lighthearted jokes. Martel 1187 00:59:47,320 --> 00:59:49,919 Speaker 5: took issue with that because Martel was facing a lot 1188 00:59:50,680 --> 00:59:54,440 Speaker 5: of accusations right which belonged in his lap, but he 1189 00:59:54,560 --> 00:59:56,880 Speaker 5: was facing a lot at one time, and he decided 1190 00:59:56,920 --> 00:59:59,440 Speaker 5: to act out towards Marceau in that way. 1191 01:00:00,080 --> 01:00:02,480 Speaker 3: We saw him go way far with that. 1192 01:00:03,320 --> 01:00:07,439 Speaker 5: Accused Latsia of sleeping with other people at some times 1193 01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:09,720 Speaker 5: back in the day, bringing up things from back in 1194 01:00:09,800 --> 01:00:11,600 Speaker 5: the day to try to make them look bad, right, 1195 01:00:12,680 --> 01:00:15,520 Speaker 5: bringing up guys that said they had a sexual relationship 1196 01:00:15,600 --> 01:00:17,160 Speaker 5: with her at a time when she was an adult 1197 01:00:17,320 --> 01:00:19,800 Speaker 5: and single and able to do so. Bringing up the 1198 01:00:19,840 --> 01:00:22,919 Speaker 5: fact that Marceau was managing that movie theater to try 1199 01:00:22,960 --> 01:00:24,640 Speaker 5: to diminish him or look like he was at a 1200 01:00:24,720 --> 01:00:27,720 Speaker 5: low earning job and was seeking some sort of relief 1201 01:00:27,840 --> 01:00:31,120 Speaker 5: and help from Martel in partnership with him on scold. 1202 01:00:31,160 --> 01:00:33,360 Speaker 5: That's why he brought all that up. You bringing those 1203 01:00:33,400 --> 01:00:35,760 Speaker 5: things up to make him look like he needed your 1204 01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:38,000 Speaker 5: help at one point. These are things that have nothing 1205 01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:41,360 Speaker 5: to do with literally the root of your issue. And 1206 01:00:41,520 --> 01:00:45,439 Speaker 5: so all that deflection, all that the accusations he threw. 1207 01:00:45,960 --> 01:00:49,520 Speaker 5: While you can ask questions about the fidelity of Marceaul 1208 01:00:49,680 --> 01:00:53,440 Speaker 5: and Latsia's Latisa Scott, you could ask questions about the 1209 01:00:53,480 --> 01:00:56,760 Speaker 5: fidelity of their marriage, but that don't have shit to 1210 01:00:56,880 --> 01:00:59,800 Speaker 5: do with what Martel did and what he took umbrage 1211 01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:02,840 Speaker 5: with Marcel Scott for in the first place. You ain't 1212 01:01:02,840 --> 01:01:05,560 Speaker 5: gotta like Marceau, You ain't gotta like le Tisa Scott. 1213 01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:08,200 Speaker 5: You ain't gotta like them. You can have you can 1214 01:01:08,320 --> 01:01:11,480 Speaker 5: have very real feelings and opinions about the ways that 1215 01:01:11,520 --> 01:01:14,160 Speaker 5: they have shown up in other relationships amongst the cast. 1216 01:01:14,600 --> 01:01:19,000 Speaker 5: But if we talking about Martel and Marceaul, the fracture 1217 01:01:19,120 --> 01:01:23,120 Speaker 5: of the relationship we were presented with Martella's at fault. 1218 01:01:23,280 --> 01:01:24,160 Speaker 3: That's just what it is. 1219 01:01:25,160 --> 01:01:27,320 Speaker 6: I'm gonna say this about Martella. If I was any 1220 01:01:27,440 --> 01:01:29,840 Speaker 6: of the male cast members on this show, I would 1221 01:01:30,040 --> 01:01:34,200 Speaker 6: never confide or tell him anything ever. Again, He's the 1222 01:01:34,240 --> 01:01:36,120 Speaker 6: type of person that when he's on the hot seat, 1223 01:01:36,480 --> 01:01:38,760 Speaker 6: he's gonna blow the whole thing up and bring everybody 1224 01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:41,640 Speaker 6: down with him. He can't just stand in his truth 1225 01:01:41,680 --> 01:01:43,840 Speaker 6: and his lane and say let's just talk about like 1226 01:01:43,920 --> 01:01:45,400 Speaker 6: they can't, you know, and you have a conversation like 1227 01:01:45,600 --> 01:01:47,480 Speaker 6: about you, you gotta be well, when you did this, 1228 01:01:47,560 --> 01:01:49,120 Speaker 6: when you did that, when you did this, well, fuck it. 1229 01:01:49,200 --> 01:01:51,320 Speaker 6: If I'm going down, everyone's going out. He reminds me 1230 01:01:51,400 --> 01:01:53,720 Speaker 6: of the scene in the movie Why Did I Get 1231 01:01:53,800 --> 01:01:57,680 Speaker 6: Married To with all the dinner table and everyone's like, oh, okay, okay, 1232 01:01:57,760 --> 01:01:59,960 Speaker 6: we're telling secrets. Well, why don't you tell your wife 1233 01:02:00,240 --> 01:02:03,320 Speaker 6: about where you're taking you know, antibiotics. Oh okay, we're 1234 01:02:03,400 --> 01:02:05,360 Speaker 6: doing that, Well, why don't you say that's. 1235 01:02:05,240 --> 01:02:06,920 Speaker 7: What Martella is doing that's his whole thing. 1236 01:02:07,200 --> 01:02:08,640 Speaker 6: And yes, he was in the hot seat for a 1237 01:02:08,680 --> 01:02:11,360 Speaker 6: long time from his own actions, and now he's not 1238 01:02:11,560 --> 01:02:13,200 Speaker 6: so much on the hot seat like he's been in 1239 01:02:13,280 --> 01:02:15,320 Speaker 6: the past. He feeling himself a little bit. So now 1240 01:02:15,360 --> 01:02:17,880 Speaker 6: he's like getting everybody back. But when things were rough 1241 01:02:17,920 --> 01:02:19,720 Speaker 6: for him, that's what it feels like to me. I'm 1242 01:02:19,800 --> 01:02:22,560 Speaker 6: you know, it seems like he's like the way he 1243 01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:25,400 Speaker 6: did that, like I know this guy code right, and 1244 01:02:25,960 --> 01:02:29,360 Speaker 6: you know, you can't trust someone if in good times 1245 01:02:29,440 --> 01:02:31,240 Speaker 6: all the things I tell you now or you know 1246 01:02:31,640 --> 01:02:33,720 Speaker 6: you're gonna just put me on blasts on television like 1247 01:02:33,800 --> 01:02:36,080 Speaker 6: that to use it in a tactic to win a fight. 1248 01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:39,800 Speaker 6: I only would do that if it's someone I never ever, ever, 1249 01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:42,720 Speaker 6: ever ever care to ever be around ever again. 1250 01:02:42,760 --> 01:02:43,280 Speaker 7: I'll be cool with. 1251 01:02:43,600 --> 01:02:45,840 Speaker 6: That's when you burn the whole thing down, Like he's 1252 01:02:45,880 --> 01:02:48,560 Speaker 6: still kind of like one foot on, you know, he's 1253 01:02:48,560 --> 01:02:52,640 Speaker 6: straddling the fence, like you're I don't get how he's 1254 01:02:52,760 --> 01:02:54,760 Speaker 6: like going scorch to earth on everyone like that. 1255 01:02:55,240 --> 01:02:58,120 Speaker 3: To me, my thing is to Claudia, like what the 1256 01:02:58,160 --> 01:02:59,680 Speaker 3: fuck we supposed to do with that? Right? 1257 01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:01,960 Speaker 5: If anything, nigga, you laid up in the room while 1258 01:03:01,960 --> 01:03:03,880 Speaker 5: they was fucking these other women, You was going on 1259 01:03:04,000 --> 01:03:06,360 Speaker 5: trips with it. If what you're saying is true, you 1260 01:03:06,480 --> 01:03:09,400 Speaker 5: are just as complicit, And don't tell me about it 1261 01:03:09,520 --> 01:03:11,640 Speaker 5: now when you was alright with it before your shit 1262 01:03:11,760 --> 01:03:14,200 Speaker 5: hit the fan and before your shit came out. 1263 01:03:14,240 --> 01:03:17,400 Speaker 3: I can't stand people like that. You just as bad. 1264 01:03:17,440 --> 01:03:19,600 Speaker 5: That don't make you look more pious or make you 1265 01:03:19,680 --> 01:03:23,160 Speaker 5: look like you are you have any integrity. You kept 1266 01:03:23,200 --> 01:03:25,520 Speaker 5: the line going as long as it served you, and 1267 01:03:25,640 --> 01:03:28,200 Speaker 5: I can't stand motherfuckers like that. Don't tell me something 1268 01:03:28,280 --> 01:03:31,400 Speaker 5: somebody did to me or how they wronged me, when 1269 01:03:31,520 --> 01:03:34,320 Speaker 5: you were all right with them wronging me allegedly. 1270 01:03:33,960 --> 01:03:35,880 Speaker 6: You know, you laughing about it before. 1271 01:03:36,160 --> 01:03:37,920 Speaker 3: No, no, he does. 1272 01:03:38,160 --> 01:03:40,720 Speaker 6: He does give that. He's crashing out right now, but 1273 01:03:40,800 --> 01:03:44,000 Speaker 6: he's trying to act cool and like I even know 1274 01:03:44,080 --> 01:03:46,160 Speaker 6: the time he answered questions, his voice goes up. That's 1275 01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:48,800 Speaker 6: a sign of man's line. Okay, person, when the register 1276 01:03:48,920 --> 01:03:51,800 Speaker 6: goes up like that, and he's like, he's just interested 1277 01:03:51,840 --> 01:03:54,840 Speaker 6: in trying to humiliate the other man, and that's that's 1278 01:03:54,880 --> 01:03:57,200 Speaker 6: his defense mechanism, and that's I mean, that's very similar 1279 01:03:57,240 --> 01:03:59,840 Speaker 6: to what the housewives do. So at this point, March 1280 01:04:00,160 --> 01:04:02,320 Speaker 6: hopes give him a peach because he's earned it at 1281 01:04:02,360 --> 01:04:05,480 Speaker 6: this point, being a messy up. He's being messy, he 1282 01:04:05,600 --> 01:04:07,800 Speaker 6: being like one of the he's one of the girls 1283 01:04:07,880 --> 01:04:08,200 Speaker 6: right now. 1284 01:04:10,200 --> 01:04:13,960 Speaker 4: So worth I do what to talk about is doing 1285 01:04:14,040 --> 01:04:19,760 Speaker 4: that conversation. Obviously it's it's between the two of them, 1286 01:04:19,960 --> 01:04:23,280 Speaker 4: but there's four different men in the room, and a 1287 01:04:23,360 --> 01:04:25,680 Speaker 4: lot of the men who were there just felt like 1288 01:04:25,840 --> 01:04:29,200 Speaker 4: these two are getting anywhere. One of the things that 1289 01:04:29,480 --> 01:04:33,360 Speaker 4: was talked about is did you guys get a sense 1290 01:04:33,560 --> 01:04:37,360 Speaker 4: of what people are saying? And it's that these are 1291 01:04:37,400 --> 01:04:39,640 Speaker 4: two theories and I want you to to tell me 1292 01:04:39,760 --> 01:04:43,120 Speaker 4: your thoughts on it. Okay, Based on this scene, two 1293 01:04:43,240 --> 01:04:47,680 Speaker 4: theories arose on social media. The first theory is the 1294 01:04:47,880 --> 01:04:52,760 Speaker 4: form of jealousy. Okay, there's people who believe that Martel 1295 01:04:53,120 --> 01:04:58,440 Speaker 4: is jealous of a success that Marceau has accumulated because 1296 01:04:58,720 --> 01:05:01,919 Speaker 4: when he gave him the company, he did not think 1297 01:05:02,160 --> 01:05:05,880 Speaker 4: Marceau would do anything with it, and when he sees 1298 01:05:06,080 --> 01:05:09,080 Speaker 4: Marceau excelling, still. 1299 01:05:08,920 --> 01:05:12,040 Speaker 1: Being married, having the family, having the job. 1300 01:05:12,800 --> 01:05:15,280 Speaker 4: There are people on social media who feels like the 1301 01:05:15,480 --> 01:05:18,720 Speaker 4: basis of that scene that we saw was because they 1302 01:05:18,800 --> 01:05:23,880 Speaker 4: felt like Martel is shocked that Marceau has made something 1303 01:05:24,120 --> 01:05:25,760 Speaker 4: out of the company that he gave them. 1304 01:05:26,240 --> 01:05:30,000 Speaker 6: I would say that, and like, listen, I'm not saying 1305 01:05:30,040 --> 01:05:31,960 Speaker 6: the other guys are innocent. They very well may have 1306 01:05:32,040 --> 01:05:34,560 Speaker 6: all done stuff right, and Marteau probably has some real 1307 01:05:34,640 --> 01:05:36,280 Speaker 6: tea on them, because that's what happens when you're in 1308 01:05:36,320 --> 01:05:39,360 Speaker 6: a friend circle. You guys do dirt together, right, But 1309 01:05:39,640 --> 01:05:41,440 Speaker 6: he didn't have the same The other guys didn't have 1310 01:05:41,520 --> 01:05:44,960 Speaker 6: the same consequences as Martel did. Martel has been on blast. 1311 01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:47,000 Speaker 6: We all know him to be the cheat of the narcissist, 1312 01:05:47,200 --> 01:05:49,920 Speaker 6: so he's probably like, damn we always getting grinme me, 1313 01:05:49,960 --> 01:05:51,160 Speaker 6: Why am I the only one getting single? 1314 01:05:51,200 --> 01:05:52,200 Speaker 7: Though, So he's paying. 1315 01:05:52,040 --> 01:05:55,080 Speaker 1: Them back Like that was just and not to cut 1316 01:05:55,120 --> 01:05:57,480 Speaker 1: you off, just to talk about it. That was theory 1317 01:05:57,560 --> 01:05:58,640 Speaker 1: number two how people felt. 1318 01:05:58,960 --> 01:06:01,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, so he wants like it's like we rob the 1319 01:06:01,920 --> 01:06:04,600 Speaker 6: three of us go rob a bank together, right, and Carlos, 1320 01:06:04,720 --> 01:06:06,480 Speaker 6: you're the only one that really gets caught. But we 1321 01:06:06,600 --> 01:06:09,560 Speaker 6: all did it together, kind of like Phaedra and Angelo, 1322 01:06:09,600 --> 01:06:12,240 Speaker 6: sant and Apollo, but really like all of them didn't 1323 01:06:12,280 --> 01:06:15,560 Speaker 6: really get the same punishment, you know, so you would 1324 01:06:15,560 --> 01:06:17,440 Speaker 6: feel a way if you're the one that actually served 1325 01:06:17,480 --> 01:06:20,080 Speaker 6: the time and the other people didn't, you'd be like, nah, man, 1326 01:06:20,400 --> 01:06:21,240 Speaker 6: y'all guilty too. 1327 01:06:21,600 --> 01:06:23,520 Speaker 7: And I hate that no one's seeing it. And I 1328 01:06:23,600 --> 01:06:24,840 Speaker 7: think that's what he's feeling. 1329 01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:28,480 Speaker 6: If I had to like psychoanalyze with my limited you know, well, 1330 01:06:28,520 --> 01:06:30,960 Speaker 6: with my college education, I think that's what it is. 1331 01:06:31,240 --> 01:06:34,240 Speaker 6: He hates that the public doesn't see the other guys 1332 01:06:34,280 --> 01:06:36,800 Speaker 6: like they see him, That's what I think. And I 1333 01:06:36,880 --> 01:06:39,680 Speaker 6: think he wants them to get more dirt on them too. 1334 01:06:39,960 --> 01:06:43,400 Speaker 3: He almost feels like, I agree. I agree with Claudia 1335 01:06:43,440 --> 01:06:44,200 Speaker 3: one hundred percent. 1336 01:06:44,400 --> 01:06:49,200 Speaker 5: And listen, anybody would feel burdened right by the responsibility 1337 01:06:49,240 --> 01:06:52,080 Speaker 5: of carrying that title, right when people know the dirt 1338 01:06:52,120 --> 01:06:54,040 Speaker 5: you've done and know something that you're not proud of. 1339 01:06:54,240 --> 01:06:55,040 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. 1340 01:06:55,680 --> 01:06:58,160 Speaker 5: We saw his marriage implo, we know why, and a 1341 01:06:58,240 --> 01:07:01,920 Speaker 5: lot of people have strong opinions. Audience is very passionate. 1342 01:07:02,040 --> 01:07:04,920 Speaker 5: The opinions get passionate. They take it very, very far 1343 01:07:05,040 --> 01:07:08,120 Speaker 5: beyond the television screen. And so I'm sure that Martel 1344 01:07:08,280 --> 01:07:11,400 Speaker 5: faced a lot of you know, hard shit about what 1345 01:07:11,480 --> 01:07:17,960 Speaker 5: he did. But to me, if you're a person who 1346 01:07:18,200 --> 01:07:22,000 Speaker 5: is facing your truth or whatever. If this other person 1347 01:07:22,120 --> 01:07:24,680 Speaker 5: is not involved in what you had going on, it's 1348 01:07:24,800 --> 01:07:26,520 Speaker 5: very immature to me to say, well, well, but. 1349 01:07:26,560 --> 01:07:27,360 Speaker 3: Look at what he did. 1350 01:07:28,080 --> 01:07:29,840 Speaker 5: Look at what he did with her that I knew 1351 01:07:29,840 --> 01:07:31,680 Speaker 5: and didn't tell nobody because he did that with them, 1352 01:07:31,800 --> 01:07:35,920 Speaker 5: so be mad at them too. That's immaturity personified. And 1353 01:07:36,080 --> 01:07:39,360 Speaker 5: so I don't care about the accusations that he sends 1354 01:07:39,400 --> 01:07:42,800 Speaker 5: their way. Latissa Scott and Marceaul can work that out 1355 01:07:42,840 --> 01:07:45,800 Speaker 5: on their own time and whatever. They seem to have 1356 01:07:45,880 --> 01:07:47,920 Speaker 5: it figured out according to whatever, feel how you want 1357 01:07:47,920 --> 01:07:50,120 Speaker 5: to feel about their marriage. But to me, it's lame 1358 01:07:50,160 --> 01:07:53,400 Speaker 5: as hell to be dragging other people's stuff that doesn't 1359 01:07:53,400 --> 01:07:57,080 Speaker 5: have anything to do with your situation into the forefront 1360 01:07:57,280 --> 01:08:00,440 Speaker 5: when you simply don't want to face accountability, tired of 1361 01:08:00,520 --> 01:08:03,480 Speaker 5: people telling you you're a bad person, which anybody would be, 1362 01:08:03,800 --> 01:08:06,600 Speaker 5: but that doesn't give you license then to go try 1363 01:08:06,680 --> 01:08:08,920 Speaker 5: to bring other people in there, bullshit that has nothing 1364 01:08:08,960 --> 01:08:10,680 Speaker 5: to do with what you have going on, what you're 1365 01:08:10,760 --> 01:08:14,280 Speaker 5: being held to the fire for, so to speak, into 1366 01:08:14,360 --> 01:08:16,760 Speaker 5: the fold. It's just an immature take at the end 1367 01:08:16,760 --> 01:08:18,320 Speaker 5: of the day, and that's why it doesn't make It 1368 01:08:18,400 --> 01:08:21,320 Speaker 5: doesn't win him any points. To say, Okay, well they 1369 01:08:21,400 --> 01:08:23,240 Speaker 5: was cheating with him too, so and I knew about it, 1370 01:08:23,320 --> 01:08:25,240 Speaker 5: so now you know what I'm saying, Like, So what, 1371 01:08:25,520 --> 01:08:27,400 Speaker 5: my nigga, you just you look even worse. 1372 01:08:27,960 --> 01:08:30,800 Speaker 3: Like you look even worse in that situation. So That's 1373 01:08:30,840 --> 01:08:31,640 Speaker 3: where I'm at with it. 1374 01:08:32,120 --> 01:08:34,840 Speaker 6: Carlos, as your producer with your producer hat on, well 1375 01:08:34,920 --> 01:08:41,080 Speaker 6: execut producer, show creator, do you think that if Martel 1376 01:08:41,160 --> 01:08:45,160 Speaker 6: would just like stand on it right, regardless of what 1377 01:08:45,840 --> 01:08:47,920 Speaker 6: the other what the smoke the other guys are or 1378 01:08:48,080 --> 01:08:50,760 Speaker 6: are not getting, if he would have earlier on in 1379 01:08:50,880 --> 01:08:54,200 Speaker 6: his career said I messed up. I'm going to take 1380 01:08:54,240 --> 01:08:56,400 Speaker 6: accountability for what I did and be a change man. 1381 01:08:56,800 --> 01:08:58,760 Speaker 6: I think he would go from being the least the 1382 01:08:58,880 --> 01:09:01,800 Speaker 6: most hated to the most love. He's an attractive man, 1383 01:09:02,160 --> 01:09:05,120 Speaker 6: he is charismatic, he's fun to look at, but like 1384 01:09:05,200 --> 01:09:07,000 Speaker 6: I think that's the thing that holds him back is 1385 01:09:07,040 --> 01:09:09,360 Speaker 6: that he refuses and then he goes petty. I think 1386 01:09:09,400 --> 01:09:12,040 Speaker 6: it would make him look like a grown man. Do 1387 01:09:12,080 --> 01:09:14,720 Speaker 6: you think he's capable of doing that? Well? 1388 01:09:14,760 --> 01:09:17,719 Speaker 1: I think this, I think based on the earlier season. 1389 01:09:17,840 --> 01:09:20,200 Speaker 4: Dustin you, I would love to hear your thoughts too, 1390 01:09:20,240 --> 01:09:25,200 Speaker 4: because you watch it since then, the infidelity that happened 1391 01:09:25,200 --> 01:09:28,040 Speaker 4: in their marriage was discussed episode one. 1392 01:09:28,200 --> 01:09:29,840 Speaker 1: I've Seenzon one, Claudia. 1393 01:09:29,560 --> 01:09:32,960 Speaker 4: It was it was out the gate, and by episode 1394 01:09:33,640 --> 01:09:38,280 Speaker 4: three is when he revealed to his boys at the 1395 01:09:38,400 --> 01:09:41,839 Speaker 4: time it was Mark Tello Marie that he did Steposts 1396 01:09:41,880 --> 01:09:44,960 Speaker 4: out of his marriage. So it wasn't anything that wasn't 1397 01:09:46,920 --> 01:09:51,280 Speaker 4: kept a secret like like like it was since episode one. 1398 01:09:51,560 --> 01:09:54,920 Speaker 4: It was out there that they had, you know, the 1399 01:09:55,160 --> 01:09:59,240 Speaker 4: infidelity happened. I think what's happening is it's been this 1400 01:09:59,479 --> 01:10:07,200 Speaker 4: sort of accusations flying right from everybody involved. And what 1401 01:10:07,400 --> 01:10:10,040 Speaker 4: people don't understand, and that's why they'll always ask me 1402 01:10:10,160 --> 01:10:14,320 Speaker 4: questions and I always tell them those three couples were 1403 01:10:14,479 --> 01:10:19,240 Speaker 4: friends for six years before I even stepped in the picture. 1404 01:10:19,720 --> 01:10:23,680 Speaker 4: They have a history of friendship, and Clauda is its 1405 01:10:23,720 --> 01:10:27,639 Speaker 4: equivalent to if I came in and you and any 1406 01:10:28,080 --> 01:10:30,760 Speaker 4: have an issue and then all of a sudden people 1407 01:10:30,800 --> 01:10:33,240 Speaker 4: are like, well, Carlos is about that. I'm like, they've 1408 01:10:33,280 --> 01:10:36,799 Speaker 4: been friends for decades. Yeah, we would have to spend 1409 01:10:38,040 --> 01:10:40,680 Speaker 4: thirty years telling that story. And one thing that I 1410 01:10:40,720 --> 01:10:43,080 Speaker 4: will say, and I've even said this on the air 1411 01:10:43,160 --> 01:10:48,000 Speaker 4: at the reunion and I stand on this till this day. 1412 01:10:48,680 --> 01:10:52,080 Speaker 1: I think all of them know way more about each 1413 01:10:52,120 --> 01:10:55,800 Speaker 1: other than they have sat on the show. And I 1414 01:10:55,880 --> 01:10:57,960 Speaker 1: know that I know that may sound weird to a 1415 01:10:58,040 --> 01:10:58,639 Speaker 1: lot of people. 1416 01:10:59,520 --> 01:11:04,880 Speaker 4: I I strongly believe in my heart of hearts that yes, 1417 01:11:05,200 --> 01:11:07,000 Speaker 4: thing's got messy, a lot of a lot of stuff. 1418 01:11:07,000 --> 01:11:08,920 Speaker 1: I've been said that it's abhor it. 1419 01:11:09,920 --> 01:11:12,479 Speaker 4: I still believe there's a lot of stuff that have 1420 01:11:12,680 --> 01:11:16,600 Speaker 4: yet to be said, because I do feel like, in 1421 01:11:16,880 --> 01:11:21,920 Speaker 4: some strange way I get an audience, there is still 1422 01:11:22,160 --> 01:11:23,559 Speaker 4: this fine line of. 1423 01:11:23,640 --> 01:11:26,120 Speaker 1: What not to cross. If that makes no sense, right, 1424 01:11:27,800 --> 01:11:31,240 Speaker 1: I don't know, you keep the line has been crossed. 1425 01:11:32,240 --> 01:11:34,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, if we're sitting here, I'm with my 1426 01:11:34,760 --> 01:11:38,880 Speaker 3: wife and you say that it took me, I'm not 1427 01:11:38,960 --> 01:11:39,240 Speaker 3: gonna go. 1428 01:11:39,520 --> 01:11:41,240 Speaker 5: We're not gonna get too deep in the minutia of 1429 01:11:41,320 --> 01:11:43,840 Speaker 5: all this. Yeah, but yes, I do believe a line 1430 01:11:43,880 --> 01:11:45,840 Speaker 5: has been crossed at this point. I think that that's 1431 01:11:45,880 --> 01:11:49,479 Speaker 5: why Marceau's take was so final on it. Marceaul was like, 1432 01:11:49,520 --> 01:11:52,080 Speaker 5: I don't need no apology, I don't need nothing from you. 1433 01:11:52,160 --> 01:11:55,360 Speaker 5: I'm not interested in resolved. You just stay in your space. 1434 01:11:55,560 --> 01:11:58,240 Speaker 5: I stay in mind. He wasn't interested in because he 1435 01:11:58,320 --> 01:12:00,920 Speaker 5: said that he felt like Tell was going to repeat 1436 01:12:00,920 --> 01:12:03,639 Speaker 5: the behavior, and based on what we've seen, he has now. Listen, 1437 01:12:03,720 --> 01:12:06,719 Speaker 5: Martell is not the first person that made a mistake 1438 01:12:06,920 --> 01:12:09,519 Speaker 5: and stepped out of their marriage or repeated a mistake 1439 01:12:09,560 --> 01:12:10,040 Speaker 5: and did that. 1440 01:12:10,560 --> 01:12:14,400 Speaker 3: But after that, we've seen him literally be nasty. 1441 01:12:14,720 --> 01:12:18,440 Speaker 5: We've seen him go low, We've seen him run from accountability, 1442 01:12:18,800 --> 01:12:21,920 Speaker 5: and all of these things that compile ill two us 1443 01:12:22,000 --> 01:12:23,799 Speaker 5: not having a trust with him as an audience. 1444 01:12:23,800 --> 01:12:24,320 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. 1445 01:12:24,320 --> 01:12:27,519 Speaker 5: When we watched the show, Martell had opportunity after opportunity 1446 01:12:27,560 --> 01:12:30,479 Speaker 5: and continues to have opportunity because he hasn't done it yet. Right, 1447 01:12:30,800 --> 01:12:33,400 Speaker 5: He continues to have an opportunity to kind of reroute 1448 01:12:33,760 --> 01:12:36,599 Speaker 5: and change his approach to everything that we've been exposed 1449 01:12:36,600 --> 01:12:38,400 Speaker 5: to about his very personal. 1450 01:12:38,080 --> 01:12:40,200 Speaker 3: Business, right, but he won't do that. 1451 01:12:40,439 --> 01:12:44,879 Speaker 5: Instead, he chooses to find something else slatious to introduce, 1452 01:12:45,000 --> 01:12:48,320 Speaker 5: or find something else to try to expose, or he's 1453 01:12:48,479 --> 01:12:50,280 Speaker 5: pointing at everybody but himself. 1454 01:12:51,040 --> 01:12:53,120 Speaker 3: And that's what we're getting on the screen. 1455 01:12:53,240 --> 01:12:55,040 Speaker 5: And that's why I think it's hard for some people, 1456 01:12:55,120 --> 01:12:57,080 Speaker 5: because I'm sure he got people that connect with him 1457 01:12:57,120 --> 01:12:59,240 Speaker 5: and want to see him win, like we all do. 1458 01:12:59,520 --> 01:13:01,639 Speaker 5: I don't want to see nothing bad happen to Martell, 1459 01:13:01,960 --> 01:13:04,040 Speaker 5: but he don't want to see nothing good happen to 1460 01:13:04,160 --> 01:13:06,240 Speaker 5: himself based on what the fuck we're seeing on the show. 1461 01:13:06,640 --> 01:13:11,439 Speaker 5: And that's where the challenge comes in. So I think, yes, Claudia, 1462 01:13:11,520 --> 01:13:13,960 Speaker 5: to your point earlier. I think if he had stood 1463 01:13:14,040 --> 01:13:16,200 Speaker 5: in it and been like, I made a mistake and 1464 01:13:16,320 --> 01:13:19,600 Speaker 5: I feel bad about that, but motherfucker you're wrong for this, 1465 01:13:19,720 --> 01:13:21,599 Speaker 5: Da da da, I think people would have a totally 1466 01:13:21,680 --> 01:13:26,160 Speaker 5: different reception from him. It's all this stuff, and then 1467 01:13:26,240 --> 01:13:28,599 Speaker 5: we're exposed to stuff that goes on outside of the show, 1468 01:13:28,680 --> 01:13:31,080 Speaker 5: and all this shit. It's hard to kind of see 1469 01:13:31,160 --> 01:13:34,160 Speaker 5: him as a person who is even seeking that sort 1470 01:13:34,200 --> 01:13:37,080 Speaker 5: of redemption for his image or for what people think 1471 01:13:37,120 --> 01:13:39,360 Speaker 5: about his character. We don't even know if he wants it. 1472 01:13:40,000 --> 01:13:41,680 Speaker 6: M M. I don't think he does. I think he's 1473 01:13:42,840 --> 01:13:44,040 Speaker 6: you know, you know, when you have an argument with 1474 01:13:44,120 --> 01:13:46,080 Speaker 6: someone or you have an issue with like someone you're dating, 1475 01:13:46,240 --> 01:13:47,519 Speaker 6: our friend, and you're like, you know, I have to 1476 01:13:47,560 --> 01:13:50,240 Speaker 6: tell you something about something that you said that bothers me, 1477 01:13:50,560 --> 01:13:53,000 Speaker 6: and you want them to hear you and receive it. 1478 01:13:53,360 --> 01:13:56,680 Speaker 6: Process it and then you know, and instead of them 1479 01:13:56,760 --> 01:13:58,240 Speaker 6: listening to you as soon as you're done talking to go, 1480 01:13:58,479 --> 01:13:59,960 Speaker 6: but you did this to me, and you're like, wait, wait, 1481 01:14:00,360 --> 01:14:02,519 Speaker 6: let's let's start with what you did first, and then 1482 01:14:02,560 --> 01:14:04,840 Speaker 6: we'll get to that. And you never get any result 1483 01:14:04,880 --> 01:14:07,040 Speaker 6: with those kinds of contents. Because I'm not saying that 1484 01:14:07,200 --> 01:14:09,280 Speaker 6: that everybody else is innocent. I'm not saying that Martell 1485 01:14:09,360 --> 01:14:11,360 Speaker 6: is the only bad guy here, the only one that. 1486 01:14:11,920 --> 01:14:14,600 Speaker 6: I'm not saying that, but the way his approach to 1487 01:14:14,720 --> 01:14:17,719 Speaker 6: it makes it hard to empathize for him or sympathize 1488 01:14:17,720 --> 01:14:20,719 Speaker 6: sympathize for him when and now we're not talking about 1489 01:14:20,720 --> 01:14:23,360 Speaker 6: what Marceau may have done because we're just stuck on 1490 01:14:23,439 --> 01:14:28,040 Speaker 6: what Martell did because of how he responds. It's like, yeah, 1491 01:14:28,439 --> 01:14:30,720 Speaker 6: because the co Saw comment was kind of that was 1492 01:14:30,800 --> 01:14:32,160 Speaker 6: kind of a little sague, wasn't it. 1493 01:14:32,240 --> 01:14:34,679 Speaker 7: The co saw side the side thing he said he wanted. 1494 01:14:34,479 --> 01:14:36,240 Speaker 5: To he went and he said it too. He said 1495 01:14:36,280 --> 01:14:39,160 Speaker 5: it in the scene. I'm saying, it's a rattle this cage. 1496 01:14:39,560 --> 01:14:41,080 Speaker 5: He said it, you know what I'm saying. I think 1497 01:14:41,160 --> 01:14:45,200 Speaker 5: that's the difference you see when Marcel does when Marcel, 1498 01:14:45,280 --> 01:14:47,800 Speaker 5: when Martel does and says things he says, He just 1499 01:14:47,880 --> 01:14:49,559 Speaker 5: says them and tries to divert the attention. 1500 01:14:49,600 --> 01:14:51,360 Speaker 3: At least. Marceau is like, yeah, I'm saying it to 1501 01:14:51,400 --> 01:14:51,960 Speaker 3: funk with him. 1502 01:14:52,240 --> 01:14:52,720 Speaker 6: Mm hmm. 1503 01:14:53,960 --> 01:14:54,320 Speaker 3: I don't know. 1504 01:14:54,479 --> 01:14:55,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, like I said no. 1505 01:14:56,040 --> 01:14:58,560 Speaker 4: And that's the thing, and that's the reason why you know, 1506 01:14:58,600 --> 01:15:02,000 Speaker 4: when you watch the scene isn't going anywhere because it 1507 01:15:02,280 --> 01:15:07,400 Speaker 4: was digs after digs, and when your intention is to 1508 01:15:07,760 --> 01:15:11,479 Speaker 4: just throw out the worst dig to one up each other, 1509 01:15:12,040 --> 01:15:13,800 Speaker 4: it's hard to listen to each other. 1510 01:15:14,280 --> 01:15:17,120 Speaker 1: And that's why next week they are going to. 1511 01:15:17,280 --> 01:15:23,320 Speaker 4: Have a one on one sit down without anybody to 1512 01:15:23,479 --> 01:15:26,799 Speaker 4: really see if they're able to come to an agreement 1513 01:15:27,560 --> 01:15:32,839 Speaker 4: of how to move forward in all of this, because 1514 01:15:33,360 --> 01:15:35,639 Speaker 4: it did get to a point where they just weren't 1515 01:15:35,640 --> 01:15:39,280 Speaker 4: hearing each other and and and that goes to show 1516 01:15:39,320 --> 01:15:43,240 Speaker 4: you that is because look, they're hurt, and it's it's 1517 01:15:43,360 --> 01:15:44,559 Speaker 4: it's it's it's evident. 1518 01:15:45,600 --> 01:15:46,960 Speaker 1: We'll see what happens next week. 1519 01:15:50,120 --> 01:15:54,599 Speaker 4: Reality with the King is executive produced by me Carlos King, 1520 01:15:55,040 --> 01:15:59,080 Speaker 4: produced by Lizzie Nimitz, and a partnership with The Lack 1521 01:15:59,320 --> 01:16:02,759 Speaker 4: Effect Network. 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