Speaker 1: It's time to take cash a cheater only on the.
Speaker 2: Jubil show, Time for to Catch a Cheater. And Noah
Speaker 2: is on the phone today. He's been dating his girlfriend
Speaker 2: Evelyn for six months, but now he thinks something might
Speaker 2: be going on. So see if we can help him out.
Speaker 2: Know what's up? Man?
Speaker 3: What's going on with you in Evelyn?
Speaker 4: Hi?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know something.
Speaker 5: I our relationships kind of hit hit a wall if
Speaker 5: you will.
Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 5: Everything was good for the whole six months and there's
Speaker 5: not been a ton of snags, but as of late,
Speaker 5: she's been different. She's going out, she's texting people that
Speaker 5: she won't tell me in the yard, but I can
Speaker 5: tell looking at her phone that it's a guy, you know, like, oh,
Speaker 5: is that just a friend?
Speaker 1: I don't know who that that is.
Speaker 5: She'll go out with a group of friends and like
Speaker 5: I can see, you know, she'll post pictures and she
Speaker 5: and then I'll ask her about like what she did,
Speaker 5: and she won't tell me every when she was out
Speaker 5: with I don't know. Things have gotten quiet in the
Speaker 5: bedroom and I don't know I did something. But yeah,
Speaker 5: it just seems like she's not as committed to doing this.
Speaker 5: I don't know any things just took off, you know, right,
Speaker 5: like kind of like Gray where we met. You know,
Speaker 5: we met this at a bar hanging out, and we
Speaker 5: have the same kind of sense of humor. Everything was
Speaker 5: going pretty well, we'd go out on dates all the time,
Speaker 5: and things are just sort of slowed down.
Speaker 2: I don't know, do you feel like there's really a
Speaker 2: problem or is that part of like the natural progression
Speaker 2: of a relationship.
Speaker 1: I mean, that's what I can't tell. I mean, I
Speaker 1: haven't noticed.
Speaker 5: There hasn't been anything on my end that made me
Speaker 5: feel any differently.
Speaker 1: Or anything that I can think that caused it.
Speaker 5: But there just seems to be like a switch flips
Speaker 5: and all of a sudden it's like, oh, she's going
Speaker 5: out and I'm just I don't know, there's like I'm
Speaker 5: less a part of us than it used to be.
Speaker 2: Why why are you thinking specifically she might be cheating
Speaker 2: though if she couldn't be just kind of like not
Speaker 2: in the not really into it anymore.
Speaker 6: She'll she'll put her phone away a lot when I'm
Speaker 6: like trying to ask her questions about like oh, are
Speaker 6: you going out with friends or like she seems just
Speaker 6: very evasive when I ask about like what she's been
Speaker 6: doing or like who she's going out with.
Speaker 5: You know, I'll try to do stuff to like make
Speaker 5: create a mood or like get her in the mood
Speaker 5: for you know, especially in the you know, in the bedroom,
Speaker 5: like it just there just seems to be less of, like.
Speaker 1: Less into anything I try to do.
Speaker 5: I don't know, it just seems like the things that
Speaker 5: I'm trying to do, she seems not just not into
Speaker 5: in a way that's like I'd be I'd rather be elsewhere,
Speaker 5: or she just seems outside of it.
Speaker 2: That is that is crushing feeling. Yeah, and when someone
Speaker 2: starts to change their phone behavior that is usually kind
Speaker 2: of a red flag something's going on, whether it's cheating
Speaker 2: or not.
Speaker 5: She puts it away really fast, and I'm like, oh, not.
Speaker 1: A little suspicious.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, all right, Well we'll see if we can
Speaker 2: figure it out for you. You already told us what
Speaker 2: grocery store she's a rewards card member at, So we'll
Speaker 2: call pretend to be from the grocery store and tell
Speaker 2: her that she's the lucky winner. Every month, we choose
Speaker 2: one random rewards card member who gets free flowers delivered
Speaker 2: from our full department. We'll see if she sends that
Speaker 2: to you or to someone else. Is there anybody that
Speaker 2: you suspect at all?
Speaker 1: It could be this guy writer. She's always hanging out
Speaker 1: with this guy, right, and I don't really trust this guy.
Speaker 3: Okay, was writer in the picture before you.
Speaker 5: He's been friends with her longer, and like, I just
Speaker 5: don't get a good vibe from him when a few
Speaker 5: times that we've all hung out together.
Speaker 3: Is he in a relationship? He is not in a relationship, Okay, Okay, yeah,
Speaker 3: that's all right.
Speaker 2: Well man, well hopefully she's not. But we'll try and
Speaker 2: figure it out for you. Okay, we'll play a song,
Speaker 2: come back and get your to catch a teeter next
Speaker 2: if you're just joining us for a to catch a cheater.
Speaker 2: Noah is on the phone and he thinks that his
Speaker 2: girlfriend of six months might be cheating. So we're about
Speaker 2: to call her and pretend to be from the grocery
Speaker 2: store that she shops at and say that Every month,
Speaker 2: we choose one random Rewards card member who gets free
Speaker 2: flowers delivered from our Florida department, and she will see
Speaker 2: if she sends those to Noah or to somebody else.
Speaker 2: But before we do that, NOA, why don't you catch
Speaker 2: everybody up on your situation.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 5: So we've been going out. Evelyn and I have been
Speaker 5: going up for about six months. Things have been great
Speaker 5: for the most part, and all of a sudden, she's
Speaker 5: been kind of weird with it who she's going out with,
Speaker 5: and being evasive about like answering me and kind of
Speaker 5: not wanting me to see what's on her phone all
Speaker 5: the time. And I just I'm getting a live that
Speaker 5: she's kind of on the way out of this and.
Speaker 3: There is somebody we're suspicious of. Right, what was his
Speaker 3: name again?
Speaker 1: His name's writer?
Speaker 3: All right, man, Well, are you ready for us to
Speaker 3: try to call her?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, let's do it. Hello.
Speaker 2: Hi, this is Gorbyn calling from I was looking for
Speaker 2: our Rewards card member named Evelyn.
Speaker 1: Oh Hi, this is she.
Speaker 2: Hi Evelyn, Please don't hang up. This is not a
Speaker 2: marketing phone call. I'm actually calling to tell you congratulations.
Speaker 2: Here this month's winner.
Speaker 4: Well that's awesome, heany what did I win? Oh?
Speaker 2: Well, every single month we choose one Lucky Rewards Card
Speaker 2: member to say thank you very much for being such
Speaker 2: a loyal customer by giving you free flowers delivered from
Speaker 2: our floral department. You've won thirty six long stem red roses,
Speaker 2: a box of candy or chocolates, and a card to
Speaker 2: be delivered to anybody that you want.
Speaker 1: Ooh okay, well that's awesome.
Speaker 2: Here's how we do it so I can take the
Speaker 2: information over the phone in a matter of minutes.
Speaker 3: If you know who you want to send it to
Speaker 3: right now.
Speaker 4: Well, I tend to just send it to myself, but
Speaker 4: I'm going to send it to my friend Macey.
Speaker 3: Would you like to put anything on a card with that? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Love you girl.
Speaker 5: He it.
Speaker 4: You don't need a man who treats you like that.
Speaker 3: Oh boy, Yeah, I'm so sorry she's going through that.
Speaker 2: Well, Evelyn, it's at this point I'm just gonna let
Speaker 2: you know this is not the grocery store.
Speaker 3: This is actually Jewble. I host a radio show. It's
Speaker 3: called The Jebel Show. Hi, Evelyn, I'm Nina. Also on
Speaker 3: the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 2: Okay, your boyfriend Noah is on the phone.
Speaker 3: Actually. Oh, and we do a segment on the show.
Speaker 3: It's called to catch a Cheaters.
Speaker 2: If you think somebody might be messing around, we see
Speaker 2: if they send flowers to somebody other than their significant other.
Speaker 3: And that's what this is.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, you called the radio. You had a radio station?
Speaker 4: Call me?
Speaker 1: Yeah, what you think I'm cheating on you?
Speaker 4: On you?
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 5: You've not been super upfront with me about like some
Speaker 5: of the people that you are hanging out with. I mean,
Speaker 5: you were gonna send the flowers to me, and you
Speaker 5: know how I feel about her?
Speaker 1: I didn't. That's kind of weird. I don't know. She's
Speaker 1: not the best like influence on you. I think when
Speaker 1: you guys hang out, I don't know.
Speaker 4: That's why I sometimes I don't tell you who I'm
Speaker 4: hanging out with. You don't seem to like my friends.
Speaker 1: I just wish you could talk to me. I don't know.
Speaker 5: I just you know, I just want what's best for you.
Speaker 5: And like when you don't talk to me about stuff
Speaker 5: and makes me kind of like question stuff I don't know.
Speaker 5: And like, also, you know, you'll be on your phone
Speaker 5: a lot and I'll ask you, like, oh, who you're
Speaker 5: talking to or like what's who you hang.
Speaker 1: And she'll you'll put your phone away really cool fast.
Speaker 5: And I'm I just even acting kind of weird when
Speaker 5: I talk about your friends and like not giving me
Speaker 5: like all the information.
Speaker 1: So are you cheating on Oh No, I'm not cheating
Speaker 1: on you at all.
Speaker 4: I just I've been hanging out with my friend lately
Speaker 4: who's been going through a lot, and I know that
Speaker 4: you don't like her, and I feel like there's it
Speaker 4: just seems to upset you or get anxious when I
Speaker 4: hang out with her and or when I hang out
Speaker 4: with certain people. So I just kind of I don't know.
Speaker 4: I don't want to stop hanging out with them, they're
Speaker 4: my friends, but I guess I just thought if I don't,
Speaker 4: if I like keep it from you, then I just
Speaker 4: want to upset you and I can kind of keep
Speaker 4: those things separate. It just seems like, well, it's upsetting.
Speaker 1: You, So I don't really know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I just kind of feel like you.
Speaker 4: Don't trust me, and obviously you don't. I mean, obviously
Speaker 4: you don't trust me to the point where you're trying
Speaker 4: to get people to find out if I'm cheating and
Speaker 4: that I'm not. It's a little bit like it's a
Speaker 4: lot for me to it's kind of overwhelming for me.
Speaker 5: Well that's why that's why I try, you know, sometimes,
Speaker 5: you know, or just in bed together, I'll try to
Speaker 5: start something or I'll try to, you know, do stuff
Speaker 5: to show you that I'm still in this and I'm
Speaker 5: trying to.
Speaker 1: Bring some you know, a different food or you know.
Speaker 5: Create a moment, and you just like kind of aren't
Speaker 5: receptive to some of the stuff I do.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 4: I guess the insecurities that I've seen from you, it
Speaker 4: kind of is a turn off for me, and it's
Speaker 4: kind of I guess made me of this. And I
Speaker 4: like you and everything, it's just the constant worrying about
Speaker 4: me going out with my friends, and it's just not
Speaker 4: a turn on for me that you don't really seem
Speaker 4: to have confidence in us or yourself.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I can see that now. Honestly, I might have
Speaker 5: overreacted in this moment. It feels like I'm doing too
Speaker 5: much and I kind of see that. So this this
Speaker 5: is a lot to put.
Speaker 1: On you and I. I guess I could have just
Speaker 1: been more openly communicative.
Speaker 4: Instead of maybe I know, you know, we're we're not
Speaker 4: getting married and we aren't like you know, and that's.
Speaker 1: Like toxic dark hole.
Speaker 4: But maybe we should get counseling.
Speaker 3: Other if you you.
Speaker 1: Know, be for that.
Speaker 5: Well, I guess I can take the ring I got you.
Speaker 5: I guess I could take back to the ring and
Speaker 5: use that towards therapy.
Speaker 1: I was just it was a joke. You know, I'm
Speaker 1: bad with jokes. I'm just.
Speaker 5: Yeah, But yeah, I do think that's a good idea.
Speaker 5: I think we should do that, because you know, I do.
Speaker 5: I want to stay with you and I don't want
Speaker 5: to mess this up, So I think that would be
Speaker 5: really a good idea.
Speaker 4: I want to do with you too, and I don't
Speaker 4: want to mess it up.
Speaker 2: Well, sweet hey, at least no way. You know, she's
Speaker 2: not cheating and not down for that. And I think
Speaker 2: it's great if you guys go counting together. You don't
Speaker 2: have to be having like big problems to start counting
Speaker 2: just together. I think it's great. I think everybody should
Speaker 2: help the conversation. And also maybe Noah can hang out
Speaker 2: with you sometimes, Evelyn.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the Jubile shows to catch a cheater