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Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if you need

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Speaker 1: advice on relationship, dayton, worked, sex, parent ten and whatever

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Speaker 1: else you're going through. Submit to Strawberry Letter to Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey FM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. Uh,

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Speaker 1: I got it like that. Strawberry Letter subject COVID nineteen

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Speaker 1: calls my husband to confess some people going through some Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, here we go. Dear Stephen Shirley, My husband

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Speaker 1: and I having some real mental issues right now, and

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Speaker 1: I blame it on COVID nineteen. We haven't been stuck

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Speaker 1: together for this long without being able to go to work,

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Speaker 1: or play tennis or go shopping. My husband says, I

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Speaker 1: irritate him all day long, and I'm sick of seeing

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Speaker 1: him sitting up all day watching TV. We had a

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Speaker 1: husban has been left the room, he mumbled that he

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Speaker 1: couldn't wait to get back to his baby. I asked

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Speaker 1: him to repeat it, but he wouldn't. I kept nagging

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Speaker 1: him until he finally admitted that he's been having an

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Speaker 1: affair with a coworker and told me that I know her.

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Speaker 1: He said that he slept with this woman. The night

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Speaker 1: so it's a great set up for both of them.

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Speaker 1: He told me that he wanted to get married. He

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Speaker 1: told me that he wanted to get married and I

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Speaker 1: was a beautiful, career driven woman that bought a lot

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Speaker 1: to the table, so he chose me. He said, he

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Speaker 1: woman that he can't live without. I set that crying,

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Speaker 1: and he told me that he was glad his secret

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Speaker 1: was finally out. I asked if he was planning to

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Speaker 1: So I guess I have to decide if I can

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Speaker 1: if the pandemic hadn't happened. Me and cheat all the

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Speaker 1: time and wives forgiven him. But this, But is this

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Speaker 1: marriage ever the same afterward? Will he ever want me

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Speaker 1: like he wants this other woman? Please help God, God,

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Speaker 1: dog is right. See, let me tell you something. This

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Speaker 1: COVID nineteen got everybody going crazy. You know, you said

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Speaker 1: you and your husband, y'all been getting on each other's

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Speaker 1: nerves since being quarantined together. You've been stuck together. You

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Speaker 1: You can't stand watching him on the couch watch the TV,

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Speaker 1: having an affair with a co worker that you actually know,

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Speaker 1: and he slept with her the night y'all got married.

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Speaker 1: How did that happen the night y'all got married, he

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Speaker 1: slept with her. I don't understand that anyway. He went

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Speaker 1: on to say, this is a great setup because she

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Speaker 1: is married too. Of course you are heartbroken. You cried,

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Speaker 1: and he said he is not going to stop seeing her.

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Speaker 1: And he married you because you were beautiful, career driven.

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Speaker 1: But so he's not gonna stop seeing her. He must

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Speaker 1: love her, he must really love her. He doesn't want

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Speaker 1: So your question is if it wasn't for the pandemic,

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Speaker 1: would you have found out about this affair? Well, now

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Speaker 1: you know, now you know, and you say men cheat

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Speaker 1: all the time and wives forgive them. Your husband has

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Speaker 1: been cheating on you, my dear, since day one, and

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Speaker 1: stay in this marriage? What marriage? What marriage? Your husband

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Speaker 1: just told you that he can't wait to get back

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Speaker 1: pandemic is over. You asked us, will he ever want

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Speaker 1: you the way he wants this other woman? Girl, This

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Speaker 1: man does not deserve you. I know you're heartbroken right now.

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Speaker 1: But one thing this pandemic has taught all of us

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Speaker 1: about life, and life is precious. Is too short fall

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Speaker 1: of this. Now you have to decide on what's important

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Speaker 1: be out, girl, put his but out so fast. I

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Speaker 1: have a virtual divorce. I'll be through with him on zoom.

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Speaker 1: I will be through with him, even cheating since day one. Okay, Steve,

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Speaker 1: it's on you. There's a lot. COVID nineteen caused my

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Speaker 1: that's not what I see in here. Y'all been having

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Speaker 1: You're giving this pandemic too much credit. See, you just

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Speaker 1: what's really something else that's wrong. This ain't COVID nineteen. Look,

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Speaker 1: he you don't got on his nerves, and he didn't

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Speaker 1: got on your nerves. You sitting up there, you irritate

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Speaker 1: You had a big fight and it got ugly, and

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Speaker 1: What did you say? And then when you asked him

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Speaker 1: And when I come back, I got some fun. This

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Speaker 1: letter right here, Part two coming up at twenty three

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Speaker 1: out of the hour. You're listening, all right, we're back. Listen.

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Speaker 1: We have part two of today's strawberry. COVID nineteen caused

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Speaker 1: my husband took n fass Go ahead up recap lois. Look, man,

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Speaker 1: And your husband then told you you iritate him all

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Speaker 1: I asked him to repeat it, but he wouldn't. Right down,

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Speaker 1: that's all that's over. I wouldn't repeat it. Don't worry

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Speaker 1: We ain't got nothing to write this letter about. Because

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Speaker 1: there's no way I'm telling you. I kept nagging him

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Speaker 1: can't nag me that much. What did you say? I said,

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Speaker 1: I ain't lazy, right, fix it? Thank you? What did

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Speaker 1: But I think your husband looking for out now, see,

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Speaker 1: because I don't care how much nagging you do. Then

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Speaker 1: a that's a that's that's real big from we having

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Speaker 1: hub what, So Dawn, you're trying to be spiteful? Then

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Speaker 1: because there's no reason for you to hurt a woman

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Speaker 1: He told me that she's married too, So it's a

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Speaker 1: asked if he was planning to stop the affair. He said,

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Speaker 1: Dudel is burying your sister? Are you kidding me? This

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Speaker 1: Dudel is being as vicious with this as he can.

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Speaker 1: He looking for out. I don't want a divorce, and

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Speaker 1: have said none of this right. All this is to

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Speaker 1: And you know how I think I can live without

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Speaker 1: you because I just told you every doggish thing I've

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Speaker 1: I don't want a divorce and neither does he. You're

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Speaker 1: I have to decide if I could deal with this

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Speaker 1: a minute, Wait a minute, wait wait, Like Carlin said,

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Speaker 1: make some decisions. You ain't got no decision just to

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Speaker 1: I wonder if I would have found about the the

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Speaker 1: other woman? What? Get out there? It is this? Help yourself? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: hour you're listening, all right, Uncle, back for part three

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Speaker 1: to Strawberry. Letter COVID nineteen calls my husband tick confess

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Speaker 1: what is this? This woman having a hard time with

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Speaker 1: argument and said, I can't wait to get back to

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Speaker 1: She kept nagging him, and then he had finally admitted

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Speaker 1: me that I know him. He said he slept with

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Speaker 1: She's married, so it's a great set up for both

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Speaker 1: while she's sitting that crime, he glad, he tell her,

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Speaker 1: I'm glad the secret is finally out. What I asked

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Speaker 1: if he was planning to stop the fan, He said,

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Speaker 1: It don't sound like he don't want a divorce. See,

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Speaker 1: men that don't want a divorce say I'm sorry, I'm

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Speaker 1: I would never have repeated, even if somehow my dumb

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Speaker 1: I can't believe you crazy? Yes, sir, did you just

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Speaker 1: is repeat that if I love you and I don't

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Speaker 1: want to hurt you. But he digging a knife in you.

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Speaker 1: He said he can't. He ain't gonna stop seeing her

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Speaker 1: here ain't. And now you're talking about you wondering about

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Speaker 1: if you to find out about the affair of the

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Speaker 1: pandemic hadn't happened. What well, now you know? And I'm

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Speaker 1: wondering if and it's this marriage ever gonna be the same.

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Speaker 1: I guess I have to decide if I could deal

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Speaker 1: with this for the sake of our marriage. Like Carlin said,

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Speaker 1: what what marriage? You keep referring to y'all not in

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Speaker 1: a marriage. This an arrangement, This is not a marriage system.

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Speaker 1: Please help pull yourself off, get yourself together. He already said,

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Speaker 1: you're a beautiful woman, your career driven, you bring a

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Speaker 1: lot of men like man. Don't don't decide, he can decide,

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Speaker 1: love yourself yourself, and don't sit in a house and

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Speaker 1: a relationship that don't listen to me. Judge Lynntola came

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Speaker 1: on my show and gave the best advice I've ever heard.

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Speaker 1: She said. Her grandmother told her, don't let a man

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Speaker 1: have to tell you twice he don't want you whoa

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Speaker 1: what we're talking about his sister? Come on now, pull

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Speaker 1: yourself together, all right? You guys can go and instagram.

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Speaker 1: Donald Trump, the President, wants Obama to do. You're listening

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