WEBVTT - Dirty Rush: PARTY GIRL 0:00:01.000 --> 0:00:04.280 Welcome to Dirty Rush The Truth about Sorority Life with 0:00:04.320 --> 0:00:07.280 your hosts me Gia, Judice. 0:00:06.760 --> 0:00:08.520 Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Kessler. 0:00:13.640 --> 0:00:18.200 All right, guys, So we had such success talking about 0:00:18.440 --> 0:00:21.720 date parties that we wanted to do a part two. 0:00:21.800 --> 0:00:24.000 We got so many people that want to talk about 0:00:24.400 --> 0:00:27.080 the themes and the mess and the alcohol and the 0:00:27.080 --> 0:00:28.400 boys and the girls of all of it. 0:00:28.560 --> 0:00:31.400 So now we have Rosie joining us. Rosie, where'd you 0:00:31.440 --> 0:00:32.919 go to school? What sorority were you in? 0:00:33.880 --> 0:00:37.360 I went to Miami of Ohio in Oxford, Ohio, and 0:00:37.440 --> 0:00:38.479 I was at Delta Gamma. 0:00:38.560 --> 0:00:41.080 All right, so and I think you know we're talking 0:00:41.080 --> 0:00:46.000 about date parties. Yes, yeah, So tell me a little 0:00:46.000 --> 0:00:49.240 bit about what was everyone drinking at date parties? Was 0:00:49.280 --> 0:00:52.159 it always sort of a was it drunken madness or 0:00:52.280 --> 0:00:55.680 were they more contained your own personal experience. 0:00:56.240 --> 0:01:01.040 They were definitely drunk kind of madness because we weren't 0:01:01.040 --> 0:01:04.920 allowed to drink our freshman in software years at date 0:01:04.959 --> 0:01:07.040 parties because we were under the age of twenty one. 0:01:07.480 --> 0:01:11.319 But everyone would drink anyways, but you were the little 0:01:11.360 --> 0:01:14.800 ones were always on watch, so they were usually the 0:01:14.800 --> 0:01:17.319 ones that were going the craziest. 0:01:17.520 --> 0:01:19.440 Oh so, you say, like the freshmen and sophomores who 0:01:19.840 --> 0:01:22.319 couldn't drink are the ones that were probably pre party 0:01:22.400 --> 0:01:25.199 or what don't yeah, pregame whatever party, pre. 0:01:25.200 --> 0:01:28.560 Game like way too hard, show up, get in trouble, 0:01:28.880 --> 0:01:29.440 have to leave. 0:01:29.640 --> 0:01:31.680 But it's kind of just like a rite of passage 0:01:31.760 --> 0:01:32.840 at Miami. 0:01:32.880 --> 0:01:36.360 But we had this one bar called Brick and like 0:01:36.520 --> 0:01:40.000 Delta Gamo would rent it out or a fraternity would 0:01:40.000 --> 0:01:42.720 rent it out and we would all go and like 0:01:42.800 --> 0:01:46.600 drinks were like six dollars, like tequila, soda, vodka sodas 0:01:46.720 --> 0:01:49.680 or we had this drink called a trash can and 0:01:49.760 --> 0:01:53.520 it was a full red Bull and like six different 0:01:53.600 --> 0:01:55.240 li couurs like they literally would be like. 0:01:55.480 --> 0:01:56.360 I'm gonna throw up. 0:01:56.480 --> 0:01:58.600 I just just when you're talking about it is making 0:01:58.600 --> 0:01:59.320 the bio come. 0:01:59.360 --> 0:02:01.080 Oh I know, I know. 0:02:01.320 --> 0:02:03.480 And I literally when I was there, like we would 0:02:03.480 --> 0:02:07.120 like order them like crazy, and when we like graduated, 0:02:07.200 --> 0:02:09.360 I'm like, I cannot believe we would drink those like 0:02:09.760 --> 0:02:10.480 so gross. 0:02:10.960 --> 0:02:13.440 I just I know, like everybody drinks, not everybody, but 0:02:13.960 --> 0:02:15.600 young people drink a lot of red bull. 0:02:15.720 --> 0:02:17.400 So what does it do? So you get wasted? But 0:02:17.440 --> 0:02:18.240 it just keeps you up. 0:02:18.960 --> 0:02:21.000 Yeah, And it just it keeps you up. 0:02:21.120 --> 0:02:24.120 You're like, yeah, adrenaline of it. 0:02:24.160 --> 0:02:26.600 I feel like everyone would just like keep ordering them 0:02:26.639 --> 0:02:29.239 and then it would just get it would get messy. 0:02:29.280 --> 0:02:30.240 I mean by the end of our. 0:02:30.160 --> 0:02:33.040 Date parties, they were you would leave and then you 0:02:33.040 --> 0:02:35.880 would go bar hopping our to our like schools very 0:02:35.960 --> 0:02:39.080 much bars, right, so you could you would go to 0:02:39.160 --> 0:02:41.960 like Brick for the main function, and then you would 0:02:42.000 --> 0:02:46.600 go to like CJ's or Corner or whatever and continue 0:02:46.880 --> 0:02:47.480 to rosie. 0:02:47.520 --> 0:02:48.440 Did you ever get messy? 0:02:49.120 --> 0:02:52.680 Yes, I would, Unfortunately I would get messy. 0:02:53.080 --> 0:02:54.720 Were they always something you look forward to or were 0:02:54.720 --> 0:02:56.400 they ever like was it ever sort of high pressure 0:02:56.440 --> 0:02:57.000 to find a date? 0:02:57.639 --> 0:02:58.200 Honestly? 0:02:58.400 --> 0:03:01.120 So freshman and sophomore year, like I feel like we 0:03:01.160 --> 0:03:03.120 all were like, oh my god, like we need to 0:03:03.360 --> 0:03:06.160 invite boys, like we need to get our dates. And 0:03:06.240 --> 0:03:09.079 it was always like checking like the date doc because 0:03:09.120 --> 0:03:11.360 the girls you would put your name and put your 0:03:11.400 --> 0:03:14.720 date next to it, and it was like ooh ooh, 0:03:14.760 --> 0:03:17.280 like blah blah was bringing him, Like I wonder, like 0:03:17.360 --> 0:03:21.160 if they're a thing whatever? Right software junior year we 0:03:21.240 --> 0:03:24.919 went abroad, So I don't even remember our junior year 0:03:24.960 --> 0:03:28.400 date parties but senior year, like we wouldn't even bring 0:03:28.480 --> 0:03:31.760 dates because our guy friends would just show up anyways. 0:03:31.800 --> 0:03:33.600 So I feel like the pressure. 0:03:33.400 --> 0:03:36.280 Was on to get dates when we were freshmen and 0:03:36.320 --> 0:03:39.680 sophomore years, and then senior year it was like no 0:03:39.720 --> 0:03:40.440 one really cared. 0:03:40.480 --> 0:03:41.560 You would just go anyways. 0:03:41.600 --> 0:03:43.720 And was that more fun or less fun? 0:03:44.080 --> 0:03:46.560 Oh? I thought it was like so much more fun, wow, 0:03:47.000 --> 0:03:49.280 because everyone would already like be there, you walk in, 0:03:49.720 --> 0:03:53.040 see all of like the boy like all the boys 0:03:53.040 --> 0:03:55.400 that you're friends with already or like interested in, Like 0:03:55.720 --> 0:03:58.240 they would just go up anyways, which was so fun. 0:03:58.480 --> 0:04:01.560 So we actually had my daughter on, but she was 0:04:01.600 --> 0:04:03.480 saying that if she would get in trouble with her 0:04:03.480 --> 0:04:06.960 sorty if her date got too messed up, Really do 0:04:07.000 --> 0:04:07.320 you have that? 0:04:07.520 --> 0:04:10.520 No, No, it was only if we. 0:04:10.320 --> 0:04:14.560 Were okay, I won't forget like you like we were 0:04:14.760 --> 0:04:15.760 watched like. 0:04:15.800 --> 0:04:18.760 Hawks by like our standard chairs, right, and we. 0:04:18.680 --> 0:04:21.520 Would literally like get like if we would have like 0:04:21.520 --> 0:04:23.920 a drink in our hand, like she would come up 0:04:23.920 --> 0:04:26.560 and be like absolutely not, like to rip it out 0:04:26.600 --> 0:04:27.160 of our hands. 0:04:27.200 --> 0:04:30.440 Like we had to be very careful. Freshman software year. 0:04:30.240 --> 0:04:31.640 Did they care if you showed up drunk? 0:04:32.080 --> 0:04:36.880 Yeah, we would have to get called into standards. So 0:04:37.080 --> 0:04:38.479 if we were like even if we were at like 0:04:38.480 --> 0:04:41.720 a frat party and we were too drunk, I'll never forget. 0:04:41.720 --> 0:04:44.719 Like our software year, me and my best friend were 0:04:44.760 --> 0:04:48.920 at this this strat party with our guy friends and 0:04:48.960 --> 0:04:52.440 we both were like so drunk and we had a 0:04:52.560 --> 0:04:57.320 huge like foundation. The next day for Delta Gamma, and 0:04:57.600 --> 0:04:59.160 our standards chair was like. 0:04:59.480 --> 0:05:02.960 Go home home right now, like you're embarrassing us. 0:05:03.320 --> 0:05:07.000 They were kind of souls. Yeah, they were soles, and 0:05:07.160 --> 0:05:09.760 they literally sent us home. We were brought into standards. 0:05:09.800 --> 0:05:12.320 The next week we were like suspended for a date 0:05:12.360 --> 0:05:12.960 party and we're like. 0:05:13.000 --> 0:05:14.719 Okay, what exactly did you do? 0:05:15.400 --> 0:05:17.440 We were just like too drunk at the function. 0:05:17.640 --> 0:05:20.000 Okay, you weren't like stripping, you were. 0:05:19.880 --> 0:05:23.479 Just like yeah, it was just like a backyard party. No, 0:05:23.640 --> 0:05:26.719 it was. They would take it way too seriously. 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:29.160 We'd be like, wait, we're not even talking to you 0:05:29.200 --> 0:05:32.760 guys right, like you guys have fun, We're having fun. 0:05:32.600 --> 0:05:33.599 Right our right. 0:05:34.400 --> 0:05:36.840 One last question, So I know that a lot of 0:05:36.880 --> 0:05:40.000 the day parties are themed, So did you do theme parties? 0:05:40.720 --> 0:05:42.200 Like did the sorties do them? 0:05:42.520 --> 0:05:42.760 Yes? 0:05:42.880 --> 0:05:44.880 It was mostly the girls that would do like the 0:05:44.880 --> 0:05:47.160 themed parties that were like super fun. 0:05:46.960 --> 0:05:49.080 And any of your any of them, like your favorites. 0:05:49.640 --> 0:05:53.840 Oh yeah, wait, so we the guys would have this 0:05:53.880 --> 0:05:58.040 thing called Catalina Wine Festival or wine Mixer, okay, and 0:05:58.080 --> 0:06:00.240 everyone would dress up like they were going to like 0:06:00.320 --> 0:06:03.440 the real things. We would all be like cute little dresses. 0:06:03.520 --> 0:06:06.760 People were like hats and stuff. And then by that 0:06:06.920 --> 0:06:09.359 was like everyone was trying to get because that was 0:06:09.360 --> 0:06:13.120 the boys inviting the girls, right. We were fighting for dates, 0:06:13.240 --> 0:06:17.240 right we all And it was literally like so much fun. 0:06:17.279 --> 0:06:19.640 But like by the end of it, everyone, like the 0:06:19.680 --> 0:06:23.560 boys would be like completely covered in red wine, like. 0:06:23.600 --> 0:06:27.400 Such a mess. Oh my god, live band. It was fun. 0:06:27.720 --> 0:06:31.440 They would be like Y two K or like western All. 0:06:31.480 --> 0:06:33.640 Right, well listen, and it doesn't seems like that did 0:06:33.680 --> 0:06:35.360 not impede on your good time. 0:06:35.600 --> 0:06:37.719 The fact that they were not the only things, which 0:06:37.720 --> 0:06:38.719 I'm so glad about. 0:06:39.400 --> 0:06:41.320 Yeah, it was a bless well. 0:06:41.160 --> 0:06:42.720 Thank you so much for joining us. 0:06:43.240 --> 0:06:47.360 The fact that hy two K was a theme, like 0:06:47.480 --> 0:06:49.000 I lived, why two K? 0:06:49.480 --> 0:06:50.640 It is so messed up? 0:07:04.920 --> 0:07:07.240 All right, guys, so now we have Christy, So tell 0:07:07.279 --> 0:07:08.679 me first, where'd you go to school? 0:07:08.680 --> 0:07:09.640 What sorority were you in. 0:07:10.120 --> 0:07:12.200 I went to school at the University Missouri and I 0:07:12.320 --> 0:07:13.760 was a Kappa Alpha Beta. 0:07:13.840 --> 0:07:16.320 So I'm thinking you guys probably had day parties. That's 0:07:16.320 --> 0:07:17.040 our theme today. 0:07:17.480 --> 0:07:17.960 We did. 0:07:18.000 --> 0:07:18.440 We did. 0:07:18.520 --> 0:07:20.640 We had two every semester. 0:07:20.960 --> 0:07:21.280 Okay. 0:07:21.400 --> 0:07:23.360 So yeah, that's so funny because it's so different at 0:07:23.360 --> 0:07:25.520 every school We've talked to someone who had them like 0:07:25.800 --> 0:07:28.880 every weekend, and so your sorority through too. Did the 0:07:28.960 --> 0:07:30.160 frats have them? 0:07:30.560 --> 0:07:33.320 The fraternities had them every once in a while. I 0:07:33.440 --> 0:07:35.520 just wasn't one of those people that went to them. 0:07:35.760 --> 0:07:36.400 And I'm going to. 0:07:36.480 --> 0:07:38.960 Use the term fraternity parties very loosely. 0:07:39.640 --> 0:07:41.880 They usually just kind of decided on a whim that 0:07:41.920 --> 0:07:45.560 they're like, Okay, we're gonna we're gonna throw a seventies 0:07:45.600 --> 0:07:49.280 party tonight. There are fraternities that did have like their 0:07:49.320 --> 0:07:52.960 spring formals, and that obviously was in the spring. Most 0:07:52.960 --> 0:07:55.640 of this fraternity formals were out of town, which was 0:07:55.680 --> 0:07:59.840 always kind of like the coolest thing to be asked to. 0:08:00.080 --> 0:08:02.000 Right, why didn't you Why do you say you didn't 0:08:02.000 --> 0:08:02.840 go to a lot of them. 0:08:03.280 --> 0:08:05.960 Because I just that wasn't really my thing. I wasn't 0:08:05.960 --> 0:08:06.960 that a cool kid. 0:08:07.480 --> 0:08:08.200 Oh my god, I. 0:08:08.120 --> 0:08:11.040 Love you now you're my favorite person I interviewed today 0:08:11.040 --> 0:08:12.239 and I interviewed my daughter. 0:08:12.800 --> 0:08:13.560 That's hilarious. 0:08:13.560 --> 0:08:14.240 Well, that's sweet. 0:08:14.520 --> 0:08:17.320 I also wasn't a big drinker in college, right, And 0:08:17.440 --> 0:08:19.400 I think again, I can only speak on behalf of 0:08:19.400 --> 0:08:21.440 my experience, but the university Misserio was kind. 0:08:21.320 --> 0:08:22.280 Of very clique. 0:08:22.640 --> 0:08:25.360 So like half, like a good portion came from Saint Louis, 0:08:25.480 --> 0:08:28.160 a great a good portion came from Kansas City, and 0:08:28.200 --> 0:08:31.360 a lot came from Chicago area. So there was kind 0:08:31.400 --> 0:08:34.000 of already a lot of cliques in college. I'm from 0:08:34.040 --> 0:08:36.040 out of state. I'm from Fort Worth, Texas, so I 0:08:36.120 --> 0:08:38.120 kind of knew no one going to school. 0:08:38.240 --> 0:08:41.439 So it wasn't one of those places that like, like 0:08:41.720 --> 0:08:44.080 a lot of people already had their kind of established friends. 0:08:44.160 --> 0:08:48.440 So did you Russian pledge your freshman year? I did, Yeah, 0:08:48.520 --> 0:08:50.240 So it wasn't a situation where you felt like once 0:08:50.240 --> 0:08:52.760 you were in a sorority, you were set, you had 0:08:52.760 --> 0:08:56.400 your best friends, and I think it took some time. 0:08:56.520 --> 0:09:00.480 Yeah again, I think you eventually made friends. I think 0:09:00.520 --> 0:09:03.439 I didn't feel like I've not belonged in the stroorty 0:09:03.720 --> 0:09:08.960 until probably end of freshman year, kind of beginning of 0:09:09.040 --> 0:09:11.120 sophomore when you at the University Missouri. 0:09:11.160 --> 0:09:14.000 We started to live in the house right sophomore year. 0:09:14.280 --> 0:09:17.280 But again I think it's I was a pledge class 0:09:17.360 --> 0:09:20.640 of eighty four girls. 0:09:20.920 --> 0:09:21.240 Wow. 0:09:21.760 --> 0:09:25.120 And then people obviously start to drop out, figure out 0:09:25.120 --> 0:09:27.240 that they can't afford it, or sorties not for them, 0:09:27.360 --> 0:09:28.800 or their grades can't hold it. 0:09:28.760 --> 0:09:31.439 Right, they want to transfer school. So I think. 0:09:33.200 --> 0:09:36.200 I was in THEATA all four years, so I think 0:09:36.240 --> 0:09:41.400 our graduating class was about sixty. So again I think 0:09:41.600 --> 0:09:43.400 once you start living in the house and you start 0:09:43.440 --> 0:09:44.640 to go to the events. 0:09:44.280 --> 0:09:45.760 And you start to feel more part of it. 0:09:46.640 --> 0:09:49.480 And do you remember any date parties in particular that 0:09:49.520 --> 0:09:53.800 were super fun or any that were not I know 0:09:53.840 --> 0:09:56.120 you didn't they weren't really your thing, but or like 0:09:56.160 --> 0:09:58.959 how about or even like what was so typically a 0:09:59.080 --> 0:10:02.520 date party the girls come back, you know, totally was 0:10:02.520 --> 0:10:04.840 There's tons of stories they came back, they were faced. 0:10:04.920 --> 0:10:08.080 Yeah, oh tons, So you'll think this is funny, and 0:10:08.120 --> 0:10:09.720 my mom sure thinks it's funny. 0:10:09.800 --> 0:10:11.560 I didn't go to a lot of the day parties. 0:10:12.040 --> 0:10:14.080 I was one of those who that worked check in 0:10:14.559 --> 0:10:18.400 at the at the event, so like I was, we 0:10:18.480 --> 0:10:20.960 had the table in our basement of our storty house, 0:10:20.960 --> 0:10:23.120 and we had to check in their names. Luckily, I 0:10:23.200 --> 0:10:25.000 knew who all these people were, but I had no 0:10:25.080 --> 0:10:27.600 idea who their dates were, and trying to get their 0:10:27.679 --> 0:10:30.840 names out of people like people, I was like, no, 0:10:30.920 --> 0:10:31.240 I need. 0:10:31.160 --> 0:10:31.800 To see your idea. 0:10:31.840 --> 0:10:33.680 I need to make sure you're twenty one people handing 0:10:33.720 --> 0:10:34.480 me these slices of. 0:10:34.480 --> 0:10:38.439 Oh my god, you're that girl, Kristie. I love the 0:10:38.559 --> 0:10:39.640 checking girl. 0:10:39.840 --> 0:10:42.680 Like having security call me us, having to get someone 0:10:42.679 --> 0:10:45.480 who was sober to drive us down to the venue 0:10:45.520 --> 0:10:47.720 that we had to like get people back because we 0:10:48.280 --> 0:10:51.360 bust people over there, right, we like imagine like a 0:10:51.400 --> 0:10:52.480 school bus. 0:10:52.240 --> 0:10:55.040 Right, there's one literally behind you as you're talking, Oh 0:10:55.080 --> 0:10:56.960 maybe yes, Yeah, that's so funny. 0:10:57.120 --> 0:10:59.360 We had to like shuttle everyone out, and so if 0:10:59.360 --> 0:11:01.440 someone you know, threw up on the bus who were 0:11:01.480 --> 0:11:03.560 so drunk they couldn't get off, like I was one 0:11:03.559 --> 0:11:04.959 of those people that had to go get them. 0:11:05.160 --> 0:11:05.719 Wow. 0:11:06.240 --> 0:11:06.960 I love that. 0:11:06.960 --> 0:11:09.959 That's I mean, I'm sure it wasn't as much fun 0:11:09.960 --> 0:11:10.920 maybe as your sister's were. 0:11:10.960 --> 0:11:11.959 Well, honestly it was. 0:11:12.080 --> 0:11:16.520 It was so funny and people that always did kind 0:11:16.559 --> 0:11:17.840 of the check in as I'm sure you know we 0:11:17.880 --> 0:11:22.520 had to have sober sisters, which we all know likely 0:11:22.920 --> 0:11:26.040 weren't sober, right, but like right, sure, and it was 0:11:26.080 --> 0:11:28.480 just funny to see like, up, she's back. 0:11:28.640 --> 0:11:31.160 Were there any or any of the girls just notorious 0:11:31.200 --> 0:11:34.280 for tons, Yeah. 0:11:34.200 --> 0:11:36.719 And I And then sometimes because I was on the 0:11:36.800 --> 0:11:38.559 check and table, I would then get the call on 0:11:38.720 --> 0:11:42.040 Sunday morning be like, hey heard you were there, Like 0:11:42.120 --> 0:11:44.080 can you like give us a statement or do you 0:11:44.080 --> 0:11:45.080 remember what happened? 0:11:45.120 --> 0:11:47.040 Like that's horrible. So you had to kind of rat 0:11:47.040 --> 0:11:49.120 out your sisters a hundred percent. 0:11:49.440 --> 0:11:52.360 I mean I wouldn't be like this girl she did 0:11:52.400 --> 0:11:54.040 this right, but I was like, well I was. 0:11:54.000 --> 0:11:56.640 There, like she was a little wasted or. 0:11:56.880 --> 0:12:00.520 Yeah, like all these other people were there, happened in 0:12:00.520 --> 0:12:03.679 this location like we fortunately did kind of. 0:12:04.400 --> 0:12:07.040 Did you ever meet anyone at one of the day parties? 0:12:07.559 --> 0:12:09.000 I mean you were so busy checking in one in 0:12:09.080 --> 0:12:10.360 any cute boys you're checking in? 0:12:10.800 --> 0:12:12.240 Oh, not that I can remember. 0:12:12.440 --> 0:12:12.480 No. 0:12:12.679 --> 0:12:14.319 I mean I remember going to my. 0:12:14.440 --> 0:12:19.680 First day party, which was the because it's a theme, 0:12:19.679 --> 0:12:21.600 I'll never forget. And again I went to the school 0:12:21.640 --> 0:12:23.880 in the University of Missouri, so middle of nowhere. 0:12:24.520 --> 0:12:27.839 The theme was duck calls and overalls. 0:12:28.800 --> 0:12:29.520 You elaborate. 0:12:30.160 --> 0:12:33.840 Yeah, so like you were essentially dressed in like hunting gear, 0:12:33.920 --> 0:12:36.959 Like we wore like cut off jeans and like camo 0:12:37.160 --> 0:12:39.920 print and I love that. But that theme was so 0:12:40.040 --> 0:12:41.800 fun because that was kind of the first time all 0:12:41.960 --> 0:12:45.040 like the freshman class was together and that was our 0:12:45.080 --> 0:12:48.720 first party, like meeting new people again. You were allowed 0:12:48.720 --> 0:12:51.679 to bring dates. I didn't, so like most freshmen just 0:12:51.760 --> 0:12:53.920 kind of went together, and I thought that was so fun. 0:12:53.960 --> 0:12:58.400 I mean, one thing that I do remember about going 0:12:58.440 --> 0:13:01.000 to New Nurse Missouri and day parties, as a lot 0:13:01.040 --> 0:13:04.880 of people didn't lean into themes a whole lot, and 0:13:04.920 --> 0:13:07.600 I think it was just because, like we were in 0:13:07.640 --> 0:13:08.760 college and like we. 0:13:08.679 --> 0:13:09.480 Had no money. 0:13:09.720 --> 0:13:13.240 Yeah, so like you see on TikTok these days of 0:13:13.280 --> 0:13:19.160 people going elaborate costumes, different casts for every every event, 0:13:19.200 --> 0:13:20.680 and I'm like, we just didn't. 0:13:21.160 --> 0:13:22.600 We didn't really do that, you. 0:13:22.559 --> 0:13:25.440 Know why, because the I think because the kids that 0:13:25.520 --> 0:13:28.199 don't have money, they don't give it about putting it 0:13:28.280 --> 0:13:30.839 up on TikTok. Okay, They're just busy doing their thing. 0:13:30.880 --> 0:13:33.440 But you're right, I see I see stuff on TikTok. 0:13:33.520 --> 0:13:40.400 Now I'm amazed at how much money and everything is 0:13:40.600 --> 0:13:44.440 so like the houses are over the top, and you 0:13:44.440 --> 0:13:47.480 know you see like rush and the girls are decked 0:13:48.040 --> 0:13:51.800 and the dances are choreographed and there's there's sets and 0:13:51.920 --> 0:13:53.280 props out and what goes on. 0:13:53.800 --> 0:13:56.760 Yeah, right, I. 0:13:56.960 --> 0:13:59.280 One funny story and I won't name any names, but 0:13:59.360 --> 0:14:03.760 I remember on my initiation night or the night before, 0:14:03.800 --> 0:14:07.120 all like kind of the freshmen, like they put us 0:14:07.200 --> 0:14:09.199 up in like a room so you can kind of 0:14:09.200 --> 0:14:11.040 get to know each other before you get initiated. 0:14:11.080 --> 0:14:13.040 The night and they had all of us. 0:14:12.960 --> 0:14:15.560 Go around and kind of give like your why, like 0:14:15.800 --> 0:14:16.960 why did you join a sorority? 0:14:17.000 --> 0:14:18.080 Like where are you from? Kind of thing. 0:14:18.080 --> 0:14:20.640 And one of the girls was like bursting into tears 0:14:20.680 --> 0:14:23.200 because she's from like a really small town in Missouri 0:14:23.400 --> 0:14:26.720 and to afford her sorority duce, she had to sell 0:14:27.160 --> 0:14:29.600 her cattle that she'd raised. 0:14:29.240 --> 0:14:31.720 Con stop like showing her cattle. 0:14:32.240 --> 0:14:34.320 Balling crunches, like but it's so worth it, like look 0:14:34.320 --> 0:14:37.640 at all the people I've met, like but like my cows, 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:40.360 Like I had to sit like my parents couldn't afford this, 0:14:40.440 --> 0:14:42.200 but like I had, she had to sell her like 0:14:42.320 --> 0:14:45.040 prize winning cats come on a part of this and 0:14:45.080 --> 0:14:46.720 it like broke my heart and I remember it to 0:14:46.760 --> 0:15:00.120 this day. 0:15:02.560 --> 0:15:05.000 Hi, Danielle, So tell us where you went to school. 0:15:05.000 --> 0:15:06.240 Tell us what sorority you were in? 0:15:06.560 --> 0:15:08.880 Okay, So I went to school in Northern California at 0:15:08.960 --> 0:15:12.800 University of the Pacific. It's was super small, like foury 0:15:12.960 --> 0:15:14.760 five hundred people in Northern California. 0:15:15.680 --> 0:15:17.280 Yeah, And what sorority were you in? 0:15:17.480 --> 0:15:18.560 I was at Delta Gamma. 0:15:18.840 --> 0:15:20.040 Do you guys have date parties? 0:15:20.640 --> 0:15:22.120 We had lots of date parties. 0:15:22.160 --> 0:15:22.600 I called them. 0:15:22.760 --> 0:15:25.560 We call them mixers and matches. I guess they call 0:15:25.640 --> 0:15:26.240 them date parties. 0:15:26.280 --> 0:15:27.760 I don't really know if we had a name. They 0:15:27.800 --> 0:15:29.440 were just called parties where we got drunk. 0:15:29.640 --> 0:15:31.880 Yeah, yeah, yeah. But were there any specifically where you like, 0:15:31.920 --> 0:15:32.880 how to bring a date. 0:15:33.040 --> 0:15:34.720 You or you were invited by a date? So I 0:15:34.760 --> 0:15:36.640 guess there were date parties you were invited by a date? 0:15:36.960 --> 0:15:37.320 Okay. 0:15:37.720 --> 0:15:40.600 So any themes that you remember, any ones that were 0:15:40.680 --> 0:15:42.920 like particularly fun or particularly. 0:15:43.080 --> 0:15:47.000 The number one party that we ever had was actually 0:15:47.000 --> 0:15:50.000 in Sports Illustrated on a regular basis for several years. 0:15:50.000 --> 0:15:51.600 What do you mean it was? 0:15:52.640 --> 0:15:54.200 Well, so Sports. 0:15:53.920 --> 0:15:57.000 Illustrated used to have They used to rank the top 0:15:57.000 --> 0:16:00.000 parties in the country for colleges, which they would never 0:16:00.200 --> 0:16:04.240 do these days. But back in the nineteen forties they 0:16:05.520 --> 0:16:09.080 ranked the parties, so the parties were ranked, and they 0:16:09.080 --> 0:16:11.400 were in Sports Illustrated, And we were in the top 0:16:11.480 --> 0:16:14.720 ten for three years, probably running a party that at 0:16:14.720 --> 0:16:16.400 our school had won the fratorneys. 0:16:16.560 --> 0:16:19.800 Okay, so do tell what made it so special that 0:16:19.840 --> 0:16:21.920 it got into Sports Illustrated. Besides, I'm sure that you 0:16:21.960 --> 0:16:23.000 all were so beautiful. 0:16:23.240 --> 0:16:23.520 Okay. 0:16:23.560 --> 0:16:26.600 Special is a really great word, but I would call 0:16:26.680 --> 0:16:30.280 it probably not at all okay these days. But the 0:16:30.320 --> 0:16:35.560 party was basically called Fireman's Fling, and you had to go. 0:16:35.760 --> 0:16:39.480 The guys all sat on a firetruck out in front 0:16:39.560 --> 0:16:42.720 of the fraterney and they watched the girls climb out 0:16:42.720 --> 0:16:45.880 of a window on the ladder and their butts were 0:16:45.880 --> 0:16:49.600 in the air with sayings on the back that weren't appropriate. 0:16:50.040 --> 0:16:54.160 And then they guys held up numbers like a gymnastics competition. 0:16:54.880 --> 0:16:56.560 Oh okay, mm hmm. 0:16:57.000 --> 0:17:01.360 And they raided you so one to ten. Obvious you 0:17:01.440 --> 0:17:04.720 want a good number, and your your underwear would say 0:17:04.760 --> 0:17:07.560 things like I'm not sure if I can say what 0:17:08.040 --> 0:17:09.920 they say, but they say bad things. 0:17:09.720 --> 0:17:10.480 About your date. 0:17:10.840 --> 0:17:14.639 Yeah, I know you have daughters, so I know that, 0:17:14.800 --> 0:17:17.120 like you're because like I have, I have a daughter. 0:17:17.160 --> 0:17:18.920 But she always thinks she's so cool and she's been 0:17:18.920 --> 0:17:21.760 through more than I have, and like I've never like right, 0:17:21.880 --> 0:17:24.720 like she's like, like, I'm just I've lived under a 0:17:24.800 --> 0:17:27.440 rock for fifty seven years, right, And it's so funny. 0:17:27.440 --> 0:17:29.280 I hear this story and it reminds me of my 0:17:29.320 --> 0:17:33.400 own stories that were just like And also, by the way, ps, 0:17:33.560 --> 0:17:34.879 that would not happen today. 0:17:35.040 --> 0:17:38.879 You are right, that would not happen today. So like 0:17:39.280 --> 0:17:41.960 you wrote stuff on your ass, it was about your date, 0:17:42.520 --> 0:17:44.440 about my date, about my ass. 0:17:44.520 --> 0:17:46.760 Basically you'd write about like some. 0:17:47.560 --> 0:17:50.240 Sexual comments, right, okay, go on. 0:17:50.400 --> 0:17:53.480 I but said my gets hot for Scott. 0:17:54.440 --> 0:18:01.760