1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:04,280 Speaker 1: Welcome to Dirty Rush The Truth about Sorority Life with 2 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:07,280 Speaker 1: your hosts me Gia, Judice. 3 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:08,520 Speaker 2: Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Kessler. 4 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 3: All right, guys, So we had such success talking about 5 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 3: date parties that we wanted to do a part two. 6 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 3: We got so many people that want to talk about 7 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:27,080 Speaker 3: the themes and the mess and the alcohol and the 8 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 3: boys and the girls of all of it. 9 00:00:28,560 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 2: So now we have Rosie joining us. Rosie, where'd you 10 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:32,919 Speaker 2: go to school? What sorority were you in? 11 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:37,360 Speaker 1: I went to Miami of Ohio in Oxford, Ohio, and 12 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:38,479 Speaker 1: I was at Delta Gamma. 13 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 3: All right, so and I think you know we're talking 14 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 3: about date parties. Yes, yeah, So tell me a little 15 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:49,240 Speaker 3: bit about what was everyone drinking at date parties? Was 16 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:52,159 Speaker 3: it always sort of a was it drunken madness or 17 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 3: were they more contained your own personal experience. 18 00:00:56,240 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 1: They were definitely drunk kind of madness because we weren't 19 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 1: allowed to drink our freshman in software years at date 20 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:07,040 Speaker 1: parties because we were under the age of twenty one. 21 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:11,319 Speaker 1: But everyone would drink anyways, but you were the little 22 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 1: ones were always on watch, so they were usually the 23 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:17,319 Speaker 1: ones that were going the craziest. 24 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 3: Oh so, you say, like the freshmen and sophomores who 25 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:22,319 Speaker 3: couldn't drink are the ones that were probably pre party 26 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:25,199 Speaker 3: or what don't yeah, pregame whatever party, pre. 27 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 1: Game like way too hard, show up, get in trouble, 28 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 1: have to leave. 29 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:31,680 Speaker 4: But it's kind of just like a rite of passage 30 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:32,840 Speaker 4: at Miami. 31 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 1: But we had this one bar called Brick and like 32 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:40,000 Speaker 1: Delta Gamo would rent it out or a fraternity would 33 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 1: rent it out and we would all go and like 34 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 1: drinks were like six dollars, like tequila, soda, vodka sodas 35 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 1: or we had this drink called a trash can and 36 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 1: it was a full red Bull and like six different 37 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 1: li couurs like they literally would be like. 38 00:01:55,480 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 2: I'm gonna throw up. 39 00:01:56,480 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 3: I just just when you're talking about it is making 40 00:01:58,600 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 3: the bio come. 41 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 4: Oh I know, I know. 42 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 1: And I literally when I was there, like we would 43 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 1: like order them like crazy, and when we like graduated, 44 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:09,360 Speaker 1: I'm like, I cannot believe we would drink those like 45 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 1: so gross. 46 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:13,440 Speaker 3: I just I know, like everybody drinks, not everybody, but 47 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 3: young people drink a lot of red bull. 48 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 2: So what does it do? So you get wasted? But 49 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:18,240 Speaker 2: it just keeps you up. 50 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, And it just it keeps you up. 51 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 3: You're like, yeah, adrenaline of it. 52 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 1: I feel like everyone would just like keep ordering them 53 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:29,239 Speaker 1: and then it would just get it would get messy. 54 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:30,240 Speaker 4: I mean by the end of our. 55 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 1: Date parties, they were you would leave and then you 56 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 1: would go bar hopping our to our like schools very 57 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 1: much bars, right, so you could you would go to 58 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:41,960 Speaker 1: like Brick for the main function, and then you would 59 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 1: go to like CJ's or Corner or whatever and continue 60 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 1: to rosie. 61 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 2: Did you ever get messy? 62 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 4: Yes, I would, Unfortunately I would get messy. 63 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 3: Were they always something you look forward to or were 64 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 3: they ever like was it ever sort of high pressure 65 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 3: to find a date? 66 00:02:57,639 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 4: Honestly? 67 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 1: So freshman and sophomore year, like I feel like we 68 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 1: all were like, oh my god, like we need to 69 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 1: invite boys, like we need to get our dates. And 70 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:09,079 Speaker 1: it was always like checking like the date doc because 71 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:11,360 Speaker 1: the girls you would put your name and put your 72 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 1: date next to it, and it was like ooh ooh, 73 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 1: like blah blah was bringing him, Like I wonder, like 74 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 1: if they're a thing whatever? Right software junior year we 75 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:24,919 Speaker 1: went abroad, So I don't even remember our junior year 76 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 1: date parties but senior year, like we wouldn't even bring 77 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 1: dates because our guy friends would just show up anyways. 78 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 4: So I feel like the pressure. 79 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 1: Was on to get dates when we were freshmen and 80 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 1: sophomore years, and then senior year it was like no 81 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 1: one really cared. 82 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 4: You would just go anyways. 83 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 2: And was that more fun or less fun? 84 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 1: Oh? I thought it was like so much more fun, wow, 85 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 1: because everyone would already like be there, you walk in, 86 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 1: see all of like the boy like all the boys 87 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 1: that you're friends with already or like interested in, Like 88 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 1: they would just go up anyways, which was so fun. 89 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 3: So we actually had my daughter on, but she was 90 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 3: saying that if she would get in trouble with her 91 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 3: sorty if her date got too messed up, Really do 92 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 3: you have that? 93 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 4: No, No, it was only if we. 94 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 1: Were okay, I won't forget like you like we were 95 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 1: watched like. 96 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 4: Hawks by like our standard chairs, right, and we. 97 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 1: Would literally like get like if we would have like 98 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 1: a drink in our hand, like she would come up 99 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 1: and be like absolutely not, like to rip it out 100 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:27,160 Speaker 1: of our hands. 101 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 4: Like we had to be very careful. Freshman software year. 102 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 2: Did they care if you showed up drunk? 103 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, we would have to get called into standards. So 104 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:38,479 Speaker 1: if we were like even if we were at like 105 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:41,720 Speaker 1: a frat party and we were too drunk, I'll never forget. 106 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:44,719 Speaker 1: Like our software year, me and my best friend were 107 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:48,920 Speaker 1: at this this strat party with our guy friends and 108 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 1: we both were like so drunk and we had a 109 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 1: huge like foundation. The next day for Delta Gamma, and 110 00:04:57,600 --> 00:04:59,160 Speaker 1: our standards chair was like. 111 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 4: Go home home right now, like you're embarrassing us. 112 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 1: They were kind of souls. Yeah, they were soles, and 113 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:09,760 Speaker 1: they literally sent us home. We were brought into standards. 114 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 1: The next week we were like suspended for a date 115 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:12,960 Speaker 1: party and we're like. 116 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:14,719 Speaker 2: Okay, what exactly did you do? 117 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 4: We were just like too drunk at the function. 118 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 2: Okay, you weren't like stripping, you were. 119 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:23,479 Speaker 4: Just like yeah, it was just like a backyard party. No, 120 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:26,719 Speaker 4: it was. They would take it way too seriously. 121 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:29,160 Speaker 1: We'd be like, wait, we're not even talking to you 122 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 1: guys right, like you guys have fun, We're having fun. 123 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:33,599 Speaker 2: Right our right. 124 00:05:34,400 --> 00:05:36,840 Speaker 3: One last question, So I know that a lot of 125 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 3: the day parties are themed, So did you do theme parties? 126 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 3: Like did the sorties do them? 127 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 2: Yes? 128 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:44,880 Speaker 1: It was mostly the girls that would do like the 129 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:47,160 Speaker 1: themed parties that were like super fun. 130 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 2: And any of your any of them, like your favorites. 131 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:53,840 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, wait, so we the guys would have this 132 00:05:53,880 --> 00:05:58,040 Speaker 1: thing called Catalina Wine Festival or wine Mixer, okay, and 133 00:05:58,080 --> 00:06:00,240 Speaker 1: everyone would dress up like they were going to like 134 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 1: the real things. We would all be like cute little dresses. 135 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 1: People were like hats and stuff. And then by that 136 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:09,359 Speaker 1: was like everyone was trying to get because that was 137 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 1: the boys inviting the girls, right. We were fighting for dates, 138 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 1: right we all And it was literally like so much fun. 139 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:19,640 Speaker 1: But like by the end of it, everyone, like the 140 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 1: boys would be like completely covered in red wine, like. 141 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 4: Such a mess. Oh my god, live band. It was fun. 142 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:31,440 Speaker 4: They would be like Y two K or like western All. 143 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 3: Right, well listen, and it doesn't seems like that did 144 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:35,360 Speaker 3: not impede on your good time. 145 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:37,719 Speaker 2: The fact that they were not the only things, which 146 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:38,719 Speaker 2: I'm so glad about. 147 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, it was a bless well. 148 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:42,720 Speaker 2: Thank you so much for joining us. 149 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:47,360 Speaker 3: The fact that hy two K was a theme, like 150 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 3: I lived, why two K? 151 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 2: It is so messed up? 152 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 3: All right, guys, so now we have Christy, So tell 153 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:08,679 Speaker 3: me first, where'd you go to school? 154 00:07:08,680 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 2: What sorority were you in. 155 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 5: I went to school at the University Missouri and I 156 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 5: was a Kappa Alpha Beta. 157 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 3: So I'm thinking you guys probably had day parties. That's 158 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:17,040 Speaker 3: our theme today. 159 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:17,960 Speaker 6: We did. 160 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 4: We did. 161 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:20,640 Speaker 6: We had two every semester. 162 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:21,280 Speaker 2: Okay. 163 00:07:21,400 --> 00:07:23,360 Speaker 3: So yeah, that's so funny because it's so different at 164 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 3: every school We've talked to someone who had them like 165 00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:28,880 Speaker 3: every weekend, and so your sorority through too. Did the 166 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 3: frats have them? 167 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 6: The fraternities had them every once in a while. I 168 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 6: just wasn't one of those people that went to them. 169 00:07:35,760 --> 00:07:36,400 Speaker 4: And I'm going to. 170 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:38,960 Speaker 6: Use the term fraternity parties very loosely. 171 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 5: They usually just kind of decided on a whim that 172 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 5: they're like, Okay, we're gonna we're gonna throw a seventies 173 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 5: party tonight. There are fraternities that did have like their 174 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 5: spring formals, and that obviously was in the spring. Most 175 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 5: of this fraternity formals were out of town, which was 176 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 5: always kind of like the coolest thing to be asked to. 177 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 2: Right, why didn't you Why do you say you didn't 178 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 2: go to a lot of them. 179 00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:05,960 Speaker 6: Because I just that wasn't really my thing. I wasn't 180 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:06,960 Speaker 6: that a cool kid. 181 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I. 182 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 3: Love you now you're my favorite person I interviewed today 183 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:12,239 Speaker 3: and I interviewed my daughter. 184 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:13,560 Speaker 4: That's hilarious. 185 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 6: Well, that's sweet. 186 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 5: I also wasn't a big drinker in college, right, And 187 00:08:17,440 --> 00:08:19,400 Speaker 5: I think again, I can only speak on behalf of 188 00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:21,440 Speaker 5: my experience, but the university Misserio was kind. 189 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 6: Of very clique. 190 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:25,360 Speaker 5: So like half, like a good portion came from Saint Louis, 191 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 5: a great a good portion came from Kansas City, and 192 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 5: a lot came from Chicago area. So there was kind 193 00:08:31,400 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 5: of already a lot of cliques in college. I'm from 194 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 5: out of state. I'm from Fort Worth, Texas, so I 195 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 5: kind of knew no one going to school. 196 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:41,439 Speaker 6: So it wasn't one of those places that like, like 197 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:44,080 Speaker 6: a lot of people already had their kind of established friends. 198 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:48,440 Speaker 3: So did you Russian pledge your freshman year? I did, Yeah, 199 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:50,240 Speaker 3: So it wasn't a situation where you felt like once 200 00:08:50,240 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 3: you were in a sorority, you were set, you had 201 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 3: your best friends, and I think it took some time. 202 00:08:56,520 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 5: Yeah again, I think you eventually made friends. I think 203 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:03,439 Speaker 5: I didn't feel like I've not belonged in the stroorty 204 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:08,960 Speaker 5: until probably end of freshman year, kind of beginning of 205 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 5: sophomore when you at the University Missouri. 206 00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 6: We started to live in the house right sophomore year. 207 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:17,280 Speaker 6: But again I think it's I was a pledge class 208 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 6: of eighty four girls. 209 00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:21,240 Speaker 2: Wow. 210 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 5: And then people obviously start to drop out, figure out 211 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 5: that they can't afford it, or sorties not for them, 212 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 5: or their grades can't hold it. 213 00:09:28,760 --> 00:09:31,439 Speaker 6: Right, they want to transfer school. So I think. 214 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:36,200 Speaker 5: I was in THEATA all four years, so I think 215 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 5: our graduating class was about sixty. So again I think 216 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 5: once you start living in the house and you start 217 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 5: to go to the events. 218 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:45,760 Speaker 2: And you start to feel more part of it. 219 00:09:46,640 --> 00:09:49,480 Speaker 3: And do you remember any date parties in particular that 220 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 3: were super fun or any that were not I know 221 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 3: you didn't they weren't really your thing, but or like 222 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:58,959 Speaker 3: how about or even like what was so typically a 223 00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:02,520 Speaker 3: date party the girls come back, you know, totally was 224 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:04,840 Speaker 3: There's tons of stories they came back, they were faced. 225 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:08,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, oh tons, So you'll think this is funny, and 226 00:10:08,120 --> 00:10:09,720 Speaker 5: my mom sure thinks it's funny. 227 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:11,560 Speaker 6: I didn't go to a lot of the day parties. 228 00:10:12,040 --> 00:10:14,080 Speaker 5: I was one of those who that worked check in 229 00:10:14,559 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 5: at the at the event, so like I was, we 230 00:10:18,480 --> 00:10:20,960 Speaker 5: had the table in our basement of our storty house, 231 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:23,120 Speaker 5: and we had to check in their names. Luckily, I 232 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:25,000 Speaker 5: knew who all these people were, but I had no 233 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:27,600 Speaker 5: idea who their dates were, and trying to get their 234 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:30,840 Speaker 5: names out of people like people, I was like, no, 235 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:31,240 Speaker 5: I need. 236 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 6: To see your idea. 237 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:33,680 Speaker 5: I need to make sure you're twenty one people handing 238 00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:34,480 Speaker 5: me these slices of. 239 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:38,439 Speaker 2: Oh my god, you're that girl, Kristie. I love the 240 00:10:38,559 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 2: checking girl. 241 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:42,680 Speaker 5: Like having security call me us, having to get someone 242 00:10:42,679 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 5: who was sober to drive us down to the venue 243 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:47,720 Speaker 5: that we had to like get people back because we 244 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 5: bust people over there, right, we like imagine like a 245 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 5: school bus. 246 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 3: Right, there's one literally behind you as you're talking, Oh 247 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:56,960 Speaker 3: maybe yes, Yeah, that's so funny. 248 00:10:57,120 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 5: We had to like shuttle everyone out, and so if 249 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:01,440 Speaker 5: someone you know, threw up on the bus who were 250 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:03,560 Speaker 5: so drunk they couldn't get off, like I was one 251 00:11:03,559 --> 00:11:04,959 Speaker 5: of those people that had to go get them. 252 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:05,719 Speaker 7: Wow. 253 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:06,960 Speaker 2: I love that. 254 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:09,959 Speaker 3: That's I mean, I'm sure it wasn't as much fun 255 00:11:09,960 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 3: maybe as your sister's were. 256 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:11,959 Speaker 6: Well, honestly it was. 257 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 5: It was so funny and people that always did kind 258 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:17,840 Speaker 5: of the check in as I'm sure you know we 259 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:22,520 Speaker 5: had to have sober sisters, which we all know likely 260 00:11:22,920 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 5: weren't sober, right, but like right, sure, and it was 261 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:28,480 Speaker 5: just funny to see like, up, she's back. 262 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 3: Were there any or any of the girls just notorious 263 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:34,280 Speaker 3: for tons, Yeah. 264 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:36,719 Speaker 5: And I And then sometimes because I was on the 265 00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:38,559 Speaker 5: check and table, I would then get the call on 266 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:42,040 Speaker 5: Sunday morning be like, hey heard you were there, Like 267 00:11:42,120 --> 00:11:44,080 Speaker 5: can you like give us a statement or do you 268 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:45,080 Speaker 5: remember what happened? 269 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:47,040 Speaker 2: Like that's horrible. So you had to kind of rat 270 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:49,120 Speaker 2: out your sisters a hundred percent. 271 00:11:49,440 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 5: I mean I wouldn't be like this girl she did 272 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:54,040 Speaker 5: this right, but I was like, well I was. 273 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 2: There, like she was a little wasted or. 274 00:11:56,880 --> 00:12:00,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, like all these other people were there, happened in 275 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:03,679 Speaker 5: this location like we fortunately did kind of. 276 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:07,040 Speaker 3: Did you ever meet anyone at one of the day parties? 277 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 3: I mean you were so busy checking in one in 278 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 3: any cute boys you're checking in? 279 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:12,240 Speaker 6: Oh, not that I can remember. 280 00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:12,480 Speaker 7: No. 281 00:12:12,679 --> 00:12:14,319 Speaker 6: I mean I remember going to my. 282 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:19,680 Speaker 5: First day party, which was the because it's a theme, 283 00:12:19,679 --> 00:12:21,600 Speaker 5: I'll never forget. And again I went to the school 284 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 5: in the University of Missouri, so middle of nowhere. 285 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:27,839 Speaker 6: The theme was duck calls and overalls. 286 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 2: You elaborate. 287 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:33,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, so like you were essentially dressed in like hunting gear, 288 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:36,959 Speaker 5: Like we wore like cut off jeans and like camo 289 00:12:37,160 --> 00:12:39,920 Speaker 5: print and I love that. But that theme was so 290 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:41,800 Speaker 5: fun because that was kind of the first time all 291 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 5: like the freshman class was together and that was our 292 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:48,720 Speaker 5: first party, like meeting new people again. You were allowed 293 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:51,679 Speaker 5: to bring dates. I didn't, so like most freshmen just 294 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 5: kind of went together, and I thought that was so fun. 295 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 5: I mean, one thing that I do remember about going 296 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:01,000 Speaker 5: to New Nurse Missouri and day parties, as a lot 297 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:04,880 Speaker 5: of people didn't lean into themes a whole lot, and 298 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 5: I think it was just because, like we were in 299 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:08,760 Speaker 5: college and like we. 300 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:09,480 Speaker 6: Had no money. 301 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, so like you see on TikTok these days of 302 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:19,160 Speaker 5: people going elaborate costumes, different casts for every every event, 303 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:20,680 Speaker 5: and I'm like, we just didn't. 304 00:13:21,160 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 6: We didn't really do that, you. 305 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:25,440 Speaker 3: Know why, because the I think because the kids that 306 00:13:25,520 --> 00:13:28,199 Speaker 3: don't have money, they don't give it about putting it 307 00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:30,839 Speaker 3: up on TikTok. Okay, They're just busy doing their thing. 308 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:33,440 Speaker 3: But you're right, I see I see stuff on TikTok. 309 00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:40,400 Speaker 3: Now I'm amazed at how much money and everything is 310 00:13:40,600 --> 00:13:44,440 Speaker 3: so like the houses are over the top, and you 311 00:13:44,440 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 3: know you see like rush and the girls are decked 312 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:51,800 Speaker 3: and the dances are choreographed and there's there's sets and 313 00:13:51,920 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 3: props out and what goes on. 314 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:56,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, right, I. 315 00:13:56,960 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 5: One funny story and I won't name any names, but 316 00:13:59,360 --> 00:14:03,760 Speaker 5: I remember on my initiation night or the night before, 317 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:07,120 Speaker 5: all like kind of the freshmen, like they put us 318 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:09,199 Speaker 5: up in like a room so you can kind of 319 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:11,040 Speaker 5: get to know each other before you get initiated. 320 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:13,040 Speaker 6: The night and they had all of us. 321 00:14:12,960 --> 00:14:15,560 Speaker 5: Go around and kind of give like your why, like 322 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:16,960 Speaker 5: why did you join a sorority? 323 00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:18,080 Speaker 6: Like where are you from? Kind of thing. 324 00:14:18,080 --> 00:14:20,640 Speaker 5: And one of the girls was like bursting into tears 325 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 5: because she's from like a really small town in Missouri 326 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 5: and to afford her sorority duce, she had to sell 327 00:14:27,160 --> 00:14:29,600 Speaker 5: her cattle that she'd raised. 328 00:14:29,240 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 6: Con stop like showing her cattle. 329 00:14:32,240 --> 00:14:34,320 Speaker 5: Balling crunches, like but it's so worth it, like look 330 00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 5: at all the people I've met, like but like my cows, 331 00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:40,360 Speaker 5: Like I had to sit like my parents couldn't afford this, 332 00:14:40,440 --> 00:14:42,200 Speaker 5: but like I had, she had to sell her like 333 00:14:42,320 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 5: prize winning cats come on a part of this and 334 00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:46,720 Speaker 5: it like broke my heart and I remember it to 335 00:14:46,760 --> 00:15:00,120 Speaker 5: this day. 336 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 3: Hi, Danielle, So tell us where you went to school. 337 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:06,240 Speaker 3: Tell us what sorority you were in? 338 00:15:06,560 --> 00:15:08,880 Speaker 7: Okay, So I went to school in Northern California at 339 00:15:08,960 --> 00:15:12,800 Speaker 7: University of the Pacific. It's was super small, like foury 340 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:14,760 Speaker 7: five hundred people in Northern California. 341 00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:17,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, And what sorority were you in? 342 00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:18,560 Speaker 7: I was at Delta Gamma. 343 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:20,040 Speaker 2: Do you guys have date parties? 344 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 4: We had lots of date parties. 345 00:15:22,160 --> 00:15:22,600 Speaker 2: I called them. 346 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:25,560 Speaker 3: We call them mixers and matches. I guess they call 347 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:26,240 Speaker 3: them date parties. 348 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:27,760 Speaker 7: I don't really know if we had a name. They 349 00:15:27,800 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 7: were just called parties where we got drunk. 350 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:31,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah. But were there any specifically where you like, 351 00:15:31,920 --> 00:15:32,880 Speaker 2: how to bring a date. 352 00:15:33,040 --> 00:15:34,720 Speaker 7: You or you were invited by a date? So I 353 00:15:34,760 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 7: guess there were date parties you were invited by a date? 354 00:15:36,960 --> 00:15:37,320 Speaker 2: Okay. 355 00:15:37,720 --> 00:15:40,600 Speaker 3: So any themes that you remember, any ones that were 356 00:15:40,680 --> 00:15:42,920 Speaker 3: like particularly fun or particularly. 357 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:47,000 Speaker 7: The number one party that we ever had was actually 358 00:15:47,000 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 7: in Sports Illustrated on a regular basis for several years. 359 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:51,600 Speaker 3: What do you mean it was? 360 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:54,200 Speaker 2: Well, so Sports. 361 00:15:53,920 --> 00:15:57,000 Speaker 7: Illustrated used to have They used to rank the top 362 00:15:57,000 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 7: parties in the country for colleges, which they would never 363 00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:04,240 Speaker 7: do these days. But back in the nineteen forties they 364 00:16:05,520 --> 00:16:09,080 Speaker 7: ranked the parties, so the parties were ranked, and they 365 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:11,400 Speaker 7: were in Sports Illustrated, And we were in the top 366 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:14,720 Speaker 7: ten for three years, probably running a party that at 367 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 7: our school had won the fratorneys. 368 00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 3: Okay, so do tell what made it so special that 369 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:21,920 Speaker 3: it got into Sports Illustrated. Besides, I'm sure that you 370 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:23,000 Speaker 3: all were so beautiful. 371 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:23,520 Speaker 6: Okay. 372 00:16:23,560 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 7: Special is a really great word, but I would call 373 00:16:26,680 --> 00:16:30,280 Speaker 7: it probably not at all okay these days. But the 374 00:16:30,320 --> 00:16:35,560 Speaker 7: party was basically called Fireman's Fling, and you had to go. 375 00:16:35,760 --> 00:16:39,480 Speaker 7: The guys all sat on a firetruck out in front 376 00:16:39,560 --> 00:16:42,720 Speaker 7: of the fraterney and they watched the girls climb out 377 00:16:42,720 --> 00:16:45,880 Speaker 7: of a window on the ladder and their butts were 378 00:16:45,880 --> 00:16:49,600 Speaker 7: in the air with sayings on the back that weren't appropriate. 379 00:16:50,040 --> 00:16:54,160 Speaker 7: And then they guys held up numbers like a gymnastics competition. 380 00:16:54,880 --> 00:16:56,560 Speaker 2: Oh okay, mm hmm. 381 00:16:57,000 --> 00:17:01,360 Speaker 7: And they raided you so one to ten. Obvious you 382 00:17:01,440 --> 00:17:04,720 Speaker 7: want a good number, and your your underwear would say 383 00:17:04,760 --> 00:17:07,560 Speaker 7: things like I'm not sure if I can say what 384 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:09,920 Speaker 7: they say, but they say bad things. 385 00:17:09,720 --> 00:17:10,480 Speaker 2: About your date. 386 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:14,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, I know you have daughters, so I know that, 387 00:17:14,800 --> 00:17:17,120 Speaker 3: like you're because like I have, I have a daughter. 388 00:17:17,160 --> 00:17:18,920 Speaker 3: But she always thinks she's so cool and she's been 389 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 3: through more than I have, and like I've never like right, 390 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:24,720 Speaker 3: like she's like, like, I'm just I've lived under a 391 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:27,440 Speaker 3: rock for fifty seven years, right, And it's so funny. 392 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 3: I hear this story and it reminds me of my 393 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:33,400 Speaker 3: own stories that were just like And also, by the way, ps, 394 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:34,879 Speaker 3: that would not happen today. 395 00:17:35,040 --> 00:17:38,879 Speaker 2: You are right, that would not happen today. So like 396 00:17:39,280 --> 00:17:41,960 Speaker 2: you wrote stuff on your ass, it was about your date, 397 00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:44,440 Speaker 2: about my date, about my ass. 398 00:17:44,520 --> 00:17:46,760 Speaker 7: Basically you'd write about like some. 399 00:17:47,560 --> 00:17:50,240 Speaker 2: Sexual comments, right, okay, go on. 400 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:53,480 Speaker 7: I but said my gets hot for Scott. 401 00:17:54,440 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 3: Oh it's that cute, so super weird, Yeah, prescious, right. 402 00:18:02,040 --> 00:18:04,960 Speaker 7: You know, yeah, you know, so it's weird. 403 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:08,400 Speaker 3: We didn't stay together, but you're staying hot for Scott anymore. 404 00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:10,720 Speaker 7: The party was super integrading, but we were so excited 405 00:18:10,720 --> 00:18:12,080 Speaker 7: because it made sports illustrated. 406 00:18:12,359 --> 00:18:16,240 Speaker 2: Wow, that is exciting, and those were the days my friend. 407 00:18:16,800 --> 00:18:18,479 Speaker 7: And that of mine was huge. 408 00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:21,159 Speaker 3: Listen, honey, I think it was still hot, not that 409 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:23,040 Speaker 3: I've seen it or want to see it, but well 410 00:18:23,440 --> 00:18:26,360 Speaker 3: it's still hot but is better. Listen, but I love 411 00:18:26,400 --> 00:18:28,760 Speaker 3: having you because I love you. Thank you for sharing 412 00:18:28,840 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 3: you too. Okay, all right talker bye right