1 00:00:02,240 --> 00:00:09,639 Speaker 1: Y'all know what time to y'all don't know y'all have 2 00:00:09,960 --> 00:00:15,560 Speaker 1: a suit looking back down giving them more like the 3 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:20,560 Speaker 1: Millian buck bus things and the cubs me true good it, 4 00:00:21,320 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 1: Steve ha listen to the movie. To other stud please 5 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 1: don't join well by join me in doing me home. 6 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 1: You gotta turn you, You got to turn to turn 7 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 1: them out. You got to turn them out. Then turn 8 00:01:46,600 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 1: the water the water go. Come come on your fahuh, 9 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 1: I share will a good morning everybody. You're listening to 10 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:09,519 Speaker 1: the voice, come on dig me now, one and only 11 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay, today is simple. 12 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 1: I got it together. I didn't have to. I gave 13 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:19,840 Speaker 1: a little thought this morning. I actually got up in 14 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 1: um went to the gym, and I make time for 15 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 1: that too. Man. That's but that that's that's, that's that's 16 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 1: kind of what I want to speak with everybody about 17 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 1: today because I want to remind you and if you 18 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 1: haven't heard it, I'm gonna share it with you. I 19 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:41,480 Speaker 1: want to tell you. I want to just talk to 20 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:48,080 Speaker 1: you about effort today, just about effort. You know, it's 21 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 1: it's it's it's a word that people use to describe 22 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:57,040 Speaker 1: sometimes trying. But what I found out about trying is 23 00:02:57,080 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 1: trying is just a noble way of saying you didn't 24 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 1: get it done. I tried when and then everybody go, well, 25 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 1: he tried, that was the best. Well, that's that's not 26 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: exactly true, though, that that's that's not exactly true. You are, 27 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 1: and I want to talk to you about that because 28 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 1: I don't want you to be one of the people 29 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 1: who just tried. See trying, I mean, I gotta tell 30 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:31,080 Speaker 1: you to attempt something, You're gonna have to first try. 31 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 1: But I want you to change your mindset from trying 32 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 1: to getting it done. See, that's a that's a big difference. 33 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 1: When you say I'm gonna get it done and when 34 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 1: somebody says to me, I'm gonna try. Those are two 35 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 1: different people I'm talking to. I'm really more apt to 36 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 1: listen to the person that says to me, I'm gonna 37 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 1: get it done because trying to me, I know what 38 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 1: that means. Man. And oftentimes when you've tried, have you 39 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 1: ever noticed that you've not gotten it done? It's because 40 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 1: when you go in with the mindset of trying, I'm 41 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 1: gonna try, what try does is it allows you to fail. 42 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 1: Trying allows you to fail, because if all you're gonna 43 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 1: do is try, anybody can try. It's the person that 44 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:21,120 Speaker 1: has the mindset that I'm gonna get it done is 45 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 1: the person who changes the complexion of things, who changes 46 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 1: the outcome of thing, who gets a different results. I'm 47 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:33,600 Speaker 1: gonna get it done. It's very different than I'm gonna try. 48 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:37,920 Speaker 1: You know. Look, man, I know this sounds a little harsh, 49 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:42,160 Speaker 1: but you gotta stop feeding yourself these little old wise 50 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:46,479 Speaker 1: sayings that ain't it was a valiant tribe. Hey man, 51 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 1: you talk to anybody that took second place in the 52 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:53,920 Speaker 1: super Bowl and see how they feel about their valiant try. 53 00:04:54,000 --> 00:05:00,479 Speaker 1: The only way to gain God's real blessings is you 54 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 1: have to try something. Steve your backpedalin, now, listen to 55 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 1: me close. You have to put forth an effort to 56 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 1: allow God to put his finger on something to bless 57 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 1: on your behalf. You must start to attempt now insane 58 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:29,360 Speaker 1: getting it done, and I'm gonna try. That's a difference 59 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:33,400 Speaker 1: of two different faiths to me that I'm just talking 60 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 1: about me. Now. You may be different, so I can't 61 00:05:35,680 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 1: I can't say this about you, but I can't say 62 00:05:38,560 --> 00:05:42,520 Speaker 1: this about me. If I say, I'm gonna get it done. 63 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:48,159 Speaker 1: I have a lot of faith in it. I am 64 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 1: going to get it done because I just don't see 65 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:54,600 Speaker 1: failure as an option. A lot of times now, if 66 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:58,200 Speaker 1: somebody says to me, like the Olympic team invited me 67 00:05:58,240 --> 00:06:01,359 Speaker 1: out to curl one day, which is throw these stones 68 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 1: on the ice. If you're not familiar with it's very simple, 69 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:09,320 Speaker 1: and so I said, man, I'd like to give that 70 00:06:09,400 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 1: a try. I went in full well knowing I may 71 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:20,599 Speaker 1: not come away from this little curling lesson as a 72 00:06:20,760 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 1: person who could make the Olympic team. I just wanted 73 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:25,479 Speaker 1: to try it because I thought it looked cool and 74 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 1: I always wanted to get it done well. I failed twice. 75 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:33,359 Speaker 1: I threw a stone completely into the other lane. I 76 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 1: lost that little ice shoe, it shot out under me. 77 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:41,279 Speaker 1: But you know what, I kept trying though. I kept 78 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 1: trying until I got four of them stones in that 79 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:47,920 Speaker 1: circle right where I aim. But now had I give 80 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:52,160 Speaker 1: it up after I failed, After I threw that stone 81 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 1: in the other lane, after I shot my shoe down 82 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:57,280 Speaker 1: all the way to the bottom side, the little ice 83 00:06:57,279 --> 00:07:00,600 Speaker 1: shoe they give you, I never did it, but because 84 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:05,200 Speaker 1: I was trying something got me together a little bit 85 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:07,880 Speaker 1: because of my effort, and it caused me not to 86 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 1: fall the next time, not to throw it in the 87 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 1: other lane, not to shoot my shoot to the back 88 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 1: of the wall. All of a sudden, my trying became 89 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 1: something now had I stayed out there and it wasn't 90 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 1: so cold, and I went back week after week after 91 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 1: week after week. I promise you I could get it done. 92 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 1: I could at least know how to compete in a 93 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 1: game of curling. Might not be the best. I might 94 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 1: not win the championship, but I could have got it 95 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 1: done to the point where I could have competed in 96 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:44,320 Speaker 1: the game of curling. So sometimes if you're scared to 97 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:46,680 Speaker 1: say I'm gonna get it done, just go out there 98 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 1: and get started. You know, learn from every attempt that 99 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 1: you make. See, don't quit writing yourself off as a 100 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 1: failure every time something don't go right. When I failed 101 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 1: on that ice, I could have said, man, can't curl. 102 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:03,120 Speaker 1: But hold up, man, I'm watching four other women out 103 00:08:03,120 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 1: here curl for other dudes. I did curl a little 104 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 1: kids out curling. Hold up, Pardner, you know, man. So 105 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 1: I learned when I threw that stone on the other ice, 106 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 1: when I when I fail, when when my shoe shot off? 107 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 1: I learned from every attempt a little bit more about it. 108 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 1: And then I said to myself, at one point time, man, 109 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get this stone in that circle. I'm gonna 110 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:31,440 Speaker 1: get this stone in this circle. And guess what I 111 00:08:31,560 --> 00:08:34,920 Speaker 1: got it done. Now what you're saying to me, Steve, 112 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:38,560 Speaker 1: I'm saying to you that you gotta get started, that 113 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 1: you gotta put forth an effort. Give God something to bless. 114 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 1: Oh God, bless me, Oh God, bless me. Bless you? What? 115 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:50,560 Speaker 1: Bless you? Why? Bless you? How? Stop basing your results 116 00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:53,960 Speaker 1: on what you're thinking. You gotta think higher. You get 117 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 1: God in your life, man, He allows you to think higher, bigger, 118 00:08:57,520 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 1: better more. I'm sitting up in my debt. I came 119 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:03,520 Speaker 1: up with a plan to get out of debt in 120 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:06,280 Speaker 1: five years. I came up with this plan right. I 121 00:09:06,320 --> 00:09:08,559 Speaker 1: was sitting up and I was tripping on it. Now. 122 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:11,480 Speaker 1: I said, wait a minute, man, hold up, this is 123 00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 1: what I came up with. I said, God created heaven 124 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:21,400 Speaker 1: and earth, all of it, the mountains, the sky, the valleys, 125 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 1: the oceans, trees, the birds, all of this. Man, Mount Everest, 126 00:09:28,600 --> 00:09:32,080 Speaker 1: the Gobi desert, the Indian Ocean, all of it, made 127 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:37,120 Speaker 1: all of it in six days, and then he rested 128 00:09:37,160 --> 00:09:41,199 Speaker 1: on the seven. So why am I taking to God 129 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:45,640 Speaker 1: the five year plan? If he can create heaven and 130 00:09:45,760 --> 00:09:50,160 Speaker 1: earth in six days, why am I walking in there 131 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:53,559 Speaker 1: talking about helped me in five years? How is it 132 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: gonna take God five years to getting me out of debt? 133 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:02,320 Speaker 1: And he made heaven and earth six days? Do the math? Hill, Man, 134 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:06,600 Speaker 1: I ain't that big. You ain't that big. You ain't 135 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 1: in that much trouble. I ain't in that much trouble. See, 136 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 1: God got a way of showing you some things, man, 137 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 1: but it's gonna take some faith, and faith gonna take 138 00:10:15,360 --> 00:10:18,680 Speaker 1: some effort on your part. Man, get out and do something. Man, 139 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 1: you God to bless you a little bit and give 140 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:23,560 Speaker 1: you a little bit more courage. And then all them 141 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:26,080 Speaker 1: attempts you making is gonna and all this So I'll 142 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 1: try you know what that turn into. I'm gonna get 143 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:30,840 Speaker 1: it done. And at the end of the day, that's 144 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 1: what you have to do, because trying to pay your 145 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 1: rent and not paying your rent, it's two different things. 146 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:39,920 Speaker 1: You can try to play or pay your rent, or 147 00:10:39,960 --> 00:10:41,800 Speaker 1: you can get it done. Now how long you think 148 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:44,480 Speaker 1: you're gonna stay in that house trying. You got to 149 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:46,720 Speaker 1: go with the mindset of getting it done. And if 150 00:10:46,760 --> 00:10:49,080 Speaker 1: you can put some stuff out there and give God 151 00:10:49,120 --> 00:10:50,760 Speaker 1: a chance to put his finger on it and bless 152 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 1: it for you the most stuff he can do for you, 153 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 1: quit looking around what everybody else gotten. Gonna get some 154 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:59,800 Speaker 1: of it for yourself. Okay, all right, you're listening Dave 155 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 1: Morning Show, ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, man, I 156 00:11:05,080 --> 00:11:08,760 Speaker 1: have your attention. Please like to welcome to two new affiliates, Dayton, Ohio. 157 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 1: What's the call? Let us in Dayton calling w R 158 00:11:12,520 --> 00:11:24,480 Speaker 1: o U y oh you rude to the que Welcome 159 00:11:24,520 --> 00:11:30,160 Speaker 1: to WRU almighty Dayton o'how oh Patterson High School, home 160 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:32,600 Speaker 1: of the late great Wayne Nalls, and my main man 161 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:35,640 Speaker 1: marvel is Marvin Harden. I would also like to say 162 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:39,319 Speaker 1: good morning to Darrel Bennett over Bennett's Barber's shop, being 163 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:42,719 Speaker 1: cutting Hanson he was in college. Keep it up, man, 164 00:11:42,800 --> 00:11:45,960 Speaker 1: wonder love saying what's up to you? Boy? You? And 165 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 1: then the great status in sim We're in Jackson, Mississippi, Jaytown. 166 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 1: Good morning to everybody calling for real. Good morning, Steve Harvey. 167 00:11:56,640 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 1: What's up? Ain't none, ain't nothing but the put nothing 168 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:08,000 Speaker 1: but at? What's up? Broadcasting live from Vegas. Oh you're 169 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:10,679 Speaker 1: in Vegas. That's why you're so happy. You haven't even 170 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:19,320 Speaker 1: been asleep? Yeah him, No, No, I'm delirious. Yes, difference 171 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:23,240 Speaker 1: between being happy and delivering his sacks, dog and dog 172 00:12:23,440 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 1: Gotta tell me now what you do? What you're doing? 173 00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 1: I'm up, I'm up. Eighteen at eight eighteen? What hunt? 174 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:37,560 Speaker 1: Eighteen thousand? What do you know? I would have left Vegas? Yes? 175 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:41,360 Speaker 1: For what? After eighteen dies were on the plane we 176 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:44,719 Speaker 1: handed on back home? Okay, trying to get this for 177 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 1: these people looking for me? Eighteen at somebody sitting over 178 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:50,120 Speaker 1: here in the studio with his mouth poked out. What's 179 00:12:50,120 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 1: wrong with you? Junior being Vegas and his side kickers here? 180 00:12:54,160 --> 00:13:00,360 Speaker 1: You're the side to Vegas. Yeah, every six I took 181 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:03,680 Speaker 1: Junior to Vegas. He ain't been the same. He came 182 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 1: back from the fight. He was different. Oh yeah, I can't. 183 00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:10,680 Speaker 1: I can't see how he left me when you got 184 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:13,800 Speaker 1: on that you didn't see me. Why didn't you go? Junior? 185 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:17,000 Speaker 1: I had to work. You had had to work. He 186 00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:18,720 Speaker 1: had to work. You had to work and work for 187 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:24,440 Speaker 1: who he had to work, Junior, Just so you feel 188 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:27,880 Speaker 1: that the plane was full man, all the tickets was Yeah, 189 00:13:27,920 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 1: I know that. Yeah, Okay, we're gonna go though. You're 190 00:13:30,920 --> 00:13:33,959 Speaker 1: gonna you owe me like a little kid. Yeah, I 191 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:38,680 Speaker 1: owe you. Yeah, he owed me a trip. Oh I 192 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 1: like that, Junior. Women, I don't never asked for nothing. No, 193 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:45,720 Speaker 1: I took you to Vegas the first time. I owe 194 00:13:45,760 --> 00:13:49,360 Speaker 1: you another one. Yeah. Every time you go, he y, 195 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:54,120 Speaker 1: when I move you just like that, DJ bring it 196 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:59,160 Speaker 1: back now you know that's your Vegas potner, right. No, 197 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:02,800 Speaker 1: you don't wrote a fun ride before? Yeah, don't you 198 00:14:02,840 --> 00:14:05,240 Speaker 1: want to do it again all the time? That's what 199 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:09,199 Speaker 1: this is. Yeah, yeah, I can't believe I see your point. 200 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:12,679 Speaker 1: You don't see that. Yeah, I understand. Wouldn't like when 201 00:14:12,679 --> 00:14:16,000 Speaker 1: you would it like when you're getting married, you don't 202 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:20,040 Speaker 1: get to ride the fun the day after the birthday. 203 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:24,760 Speaker 1: On the day after birthday? What are you show you 204 00:14:24,800 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 1: want to say you like when you get married? Junior? 205 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 1: What did you ride? I got away? I got carried away? 206 00:14:35,200 --> 00:14:37,400 Speaker 1: Im sorry, Yes you will. At thirty two after the hour, 207 00:14:37,400 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about finances and all that. In thirty 208 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 1: two after maybe marriage that's you. You're listening show. Everybody's 209 00:14:50,280 --> 00:14:52,760 Speaker 1: jams around. Awre you feeling sluggish and way down to 210 00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:55,080 Speaker 1: start the new year off? Well, guess what I am too? 211 00:14:55,400 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 1: And I bet you didn't know. It's probably because of 212 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:00,800 Speaker 1: your digestive system. So I was backing we should do 213 00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:04,200 Speaker 1: something about it. And who doesn't love a challenge? Manamians? 214 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:07,640 Speaker 1: Who's gotta do? Which challenge? That's super easy? Mena mensal 215 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:09,880 Speaker 1: traps and removed the ways that waves you down? So 216 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:13,040 Speaker 1: you're feeling louder and more regular, And who don't want that? 217 00:15:13,400 --> 00:15:16,080 Speaker 1: So give it a try and check it out menamusal 218 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 1: dot com and sign up now? Okay, Steve, So you 219 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:23,640 Speaker 1: know last break you're in Vegas. You've been partying and 220 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:26,080 Speaker 1: gambling all night. What are you there for? Though? Can't 221 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:29,360 Speaker 1: you tell us you haven't meeting the CS conference? What's that? 222 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:33,400 Speaker 1: It's a tech conference out here in Vegas? Uh? You know, 223 00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:38,920 Speaker 1: opportunities are out here, you know, yeah, usting opportunities, chances 224 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:43,520 Speaker 1: to partner with some the next greatest tech firm, you know, 225 00:15:43,720 --> 00:15:46,680 Speaker 1: our opportunity you never know. And I've had some interesting 226 00:15:46,760 --> 00:15:50,320 Speaker 1: meetings out here. Very very blessed and fortunate man I 227 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:55,800 Speaker 1: was one of the speakers yesterday Nice and So I 228 00:15:55,960 --> 00:16:00,840 Speaker 1: was interviewed by gentleman that heads up for the magazine 229 00:16:00,920 --> 00:16:03,520 Speaker 1: on stage in front of them room full of tech people. 230 00:16:03,600 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 1: So it was interesting. Okay, you're hustling, Steve Harvey know 231 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 1: how to fall? So how are you going to make 232 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:15,040 Speaker 1: some money or not? Well, you know, you you partner 233 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 1: with people, you know. I look for partnerships, that's meaningful. 234 00:16:19,040 --> 00:16:23,120 Speaker 1: I look for people who are looking for an equity partner. 235 00:16:23,960 --> 00:16:26,720 Speaker 1: You know that they are sharing their business idea and 236 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:29,880 Speaker 1: maybe they don't have the platform that I have. Maybe 237 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:34,920 Speaker 1: like I'm in sixty six percent of all American homes 238 00:16:35,120 --> 00:16:38,720 Speaker 1: in one shape form or another. We talked it between 239 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:41,720 Speaker 1: seven and nine million people every week on this radio show. 240 00:16:42,680 --> 00:16:46,120 Speaker 1: I got a pretty big, you know, social media platform. 241 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 1: So I'm on radio, TV and social media and I 242 00:16:50,680 --> 00:16:54,320 Speaker 1: could promote from any angle. That's that's pretty that's something 243 00:16:54,400 --> 00:16:59,280 Speaker 1: to offer on top of all that. Yeah, hell, I'm fighting. 244 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:08,000 Speaker 1: It is like ass hell though, yeah famous ass as. Yeah, 245 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:14,920 Speaker 1: that's good. But you know, I don't realize he was 246 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:18,119 Speaker 1: really famous when he stopped traffic in Times Square in 247 00:17:18,200 --> 00:17:21,879 Speaker 1: the middle of the day. What were they doing nobody's 248 00:17:21,920 --> 00:17:26,040 Speaker 1: moving because it's there. Don't stay hark hell no. Yeah. 249 00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:28,879 Speaker 1: They can't believe. Isn't it amazing when you see that. 250 00:17:28,960 --> 00:17:32,640 Speaker 1: I see that because we saw in Paris, we saw 251 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:40,520 Speaker 1: traffic stock Man we we we wh God. But you 252 00:17:40,600 --> 00:17:44,320 Speaker 1: know it's crazy. My kids the same way, calling him 253 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:50,960 Speaker 1: all the time. I want to dad, Yeah, yeah, yeah, 254 00:17:51,480 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 1: da dad, dad Dad? Could you pay us at techen? You? Yeah? 255 00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:02,879 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. I saw an interview with Robert Downey Junior 256 00:18:03,320 --> 00:18:06,360 Speaker 1: and he was talking about no, I take that back, 257 00:18:06,800 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 1: Johnny Depp Sparrel right from Private to the Caribbean. So 258 00:18:10,160 --> 00:18:13,320 Speaker 1: he thinking he's doing big things because he's Jack Sparrow 259 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:16,240 Speaker 1: Pirates of the Caribbean to his son. He invited Robert 260 00:18:16,280 --> 00:18:18,880 Speaker 1: down to Junior over and so for dinner. His kids 261 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:24,000 Speaker 1: was like iron Man coming over here. I'm Jack Sparrow, 262 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:29,119 Speaker 1: the like by iron Man's coming over here. For so 263 00:18:29,280 --> 00:18:32,120 Speaker 1: he was like that, you know your shipping lead. Yeah. 264 00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:38,040 Speaker 1: So that's cool though, Steve, that's really really cool. Yeah yeah. 265 00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:40,119 Speaker 1: And so you know, you just come out here and 266 00:18:40,160 --> 00:18:43,000 Speaker 1: you try to make connections. I've met some really interesting people. 267 00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:47,320 Speaker 1: It's some sharp African Americans out here. Not enough good 268 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:50,720 Speaker 1: by long shot, but black sharp ones out here that 269 00:18:50,800 --> 00:18:53,400 Speaker 1: I met, you know, I mean, I do busy with anybody. 270 00:18:53,440 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 1: I'm just it's good when you see African Americans. Yeah, 271 00:18:57,160 --> 00:18:59,840 Speaker 1: out here in the tech field because that's where every 272 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:02,040 Speaker 1: thing is headed. So you know, so you can make 273 00:19:02,359 --> 00:19:04,320 Speaker 1: there's a pleasure to sit and talk with some of them. 274 00:19:04,440 --> 00:19:07,359 Speaker 1: You know. We had a good time, and I'll do today. 275 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:09,840 Speaker 1: I'll be out here today. I'll leave tonight, but we'll 276 00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:14,160 Speaker 1: walk the floor and you know, try to make some contacts. Man, 277 00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:15,919 Speaker 1: see we can come up. We see if I can, 278 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:19,080 Speaker 1: you know, get that paper hit one over the wall, 279 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:21,159 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Yeah, let me ask you 280 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:22,960 Speaker 1: this a Steve. I was watching the news and I 281 00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:26,240 Speaker 1: saw this report on CNBC, and you know, I was 282 00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:29,480 Speaker 1: talking about how these the government shutdown and how the 283 00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:34,200 Speaker 1: federal workers are in financial limbo. And it brought a 284 00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:37,680 Speaker 1: spotlight this government shutdown of how people are not just 285 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:40,920 Speaker 1: government employees. We live in paycheck to paycheck. Oh yeah, 286 00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:43,320 Speaker 1: you know, and they're saying this was a There was 287 00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:45,920 Speaker 1: a survey and Career Builder that said that ten percent 288 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:49,879 Speaker 1: of Americans with salaries of more than a hundred thousand 289 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:53,280 Speaker 1: dollars as well, live paycheck to paycheck, So what kind 290 00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:55,879 Speaker 1: of it? Yeah, what kind of financial advice can you 291 00:19:55,960 --> 00:19:58,680 Speaker 1: give people? Steve, I'm gonna tell you something, man, It 292 00:19:58,920 --> 00:20:03,159 Speaker 1: really is different not to leave paycheck to paycheck because 293 00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:06,640 Speaker 1: what jobs do is they pay you enough to get 294 00:20:06,720 --> 00:20:10,720 Speaker 1: to the next check. You end up working, and so 295 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:13,560 Speaker 1: you want something to show for your work. You want 296 00:20:13,560 --> 00:20:17,280 Speaker 1: a new car, you know, you want some new furniture. Yet, 297 00:20:17,400 --> 00:20:19,760 Speaker 1: you want your wife to upgrade the kitchen. You know. 298 00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:23,480 Speaker 1: You want a lot of different things in life, and 299 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:26,720 Speaker 1: it costs money. So when you don't have the money, 300 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:31,760 Speaker 1: you extend yourself debt wise. And that's understandable, that's human nature. 301 00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:36,160 Speaker 1: It just takes a couple of emergencies in one year 302 00:20:37,520 --> 00:20:40,959 Speaker 1: to throw off your financial structure. If you've been saving 303 00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:44,879 Speaker 1: fifteen percent and then you have a seventy five percent 304 00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:48,000 Speaker 1: emergency that takes up seventy five percent of your check, well, 305 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:51,639 Speaker 1: how do you recover from that? Especially after after you 306 00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 1: have to go into your money that you keep trying 307 00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:56,399 Speaker 1: to save and all of a sudden you got to 308 00:20:56,440 --> 00:21:00,080 Speaker 1: go into that to get out this emergency. Yeah, it 309 00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:04,760 Speaker 1: becomes quite difficult not to live check to check, and 310 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:09,119 Speaker 1: so the only thing, And I'm just so people can 311 00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:14,679 Speaker 1: stop feeling horrible about themselves once you hit the emergency 312 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:20,800 Speaker 1: stairs twice, we really emergency as well. But you know 313 00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:23,520 Speaker 1: that I want people to stop feeling so bad because 314 00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:26,560 Speaker 1: you live in paycheck to paycheck because a lot of 315 00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:30,680 Speaker 1: people are. Stop feeling bad about that because you check 316 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:35,359 Speaker 1: to check because the majority of the people are. And 317 00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:38,959 Speaker 1: so what you want to do is to get out 318 00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:43,480 Speaker 1: of living paycheck to paycheck. My own solution I've ever 319 00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:47,600 Speaker 1: had is not to cut back. My solution has always 320 00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:52,440 Speaker 1: been make more right. I'm sorry, it's the only way. 321 00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:55,400 Speaker 1: It may not be the most professional advice you can get, 322 00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:58,639 Speaker 1: but my thought is to make more who wants to 323 00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:01,080 Speaker 1: go to work and then try to cut their cablelong 324 00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:04,760 Speaker 1: so they could save money. Wow, turn your damn car 325 00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:07,800 Speaker 1: in so you could save money, not car poo hill. 326 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:12,320 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, thank you for that. Yeah, Hey, everybody, 327 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:15,199 Speaker 1: I'm here. I made it. Hey, Shirley morning. Well you've 328 00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:21,440 Speaker 1: been traffic traffic jam, Okay, traffic jam, couldn't We'll be 329 00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:23,679 Speaker 1: right back. You don't come in here and just close 330 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:28,520 Speaker 1: out breaks like you've been sitting here. We'll be right right. 331 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:34,240 Speaker 1: Run that prank back right after this. You're listening show 332 00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:38,159 Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, guys in 333 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:42,359 Speaker 1: entertainment news Meek Mill? Whoa why is he in this? 334 00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:46,479 Speaker 1: Why is he protesting lace front wigs? He ain't by myself? 335 00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:49,600 Speaker 1: Well he just got that. Nothing long are we not 336 00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:52,680 Speaker 1: having that? Though? You know social media was not having this. 337 00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:57,679 Speaker 1: They weren't back yep, ye ain't nobody had on lace 338 00:22:57,720 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 1: fronting there? Quiet had late but never you tell me 339 00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:03,600 Speaker 1: it is here. Of course he's gonna run that frank back. 340 00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:05,919 Speaker 1: We'll talk about Meek Mill coming up though. Never. All right, 341 00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:13,800 Speaker 1: here we got for a hot brother, brother, let's run next. Hello. Hey, 342 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:17,879 Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Alan. This is Alan Alan. How 343 00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:20,679 Speaker 1: you doing man? My name is Bobby, Bobby Book. Uh 344 00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:22,679 Speaker 1: what what can I do for you? I got your 345 00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:27,119 Speaker 1: number man from the from the hospital. Did you just 346 00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:30,600 Speaker 1: um within the last I guess three four months? Did 347 00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:35,240 Speaker 1: you get a hot transplant? But then a half months ago? Yeah? 348 00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:37,760 Speaker 1: I did? I did three and a half months ago. Okay, 349 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:42,240 Speaker 1: how you been feeling, man? Actually good, I'm actually up 350 00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:43,879 Speaker 1: and around faster than I thought it was gonna be, 351 00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:47,440 Speaker 1: you know, So I'm doing well. Thank you? Are you with? 352 00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:52,840 Speaker 1: Are you. Are you with the hospital? No, no, I'm not. Actually, 353 00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:55,200 Speaker 1: you know, they gave me your number. Man. I hope 354 00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:59,879 Speaker 1: you Kate waity, but you you you actually uh the 355 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:04,639 Speaker 1: heart that you got was from from my brother. Charge 356 00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:08,760 Speaker 1: Oh my god. Really yeah that's my brother, my brother. 357 00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:12,520 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry about your brother. But wow, I gotta 358 00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:15,840 Speaker 1: tell you he saved my life. Man. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 359 00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:19,160 Speaker 1: so so, I you know, I just want to call 360 00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:21,960 Speaker 1: you man. I hope you on mind. You know, no, no, 361 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:24,679 Speaker 1: not at all. It's kind of like a little bit 362 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:27,199 Speaker 1: of my brothers. It's still living, you know what I mean, 363 00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:29,240 Speaker 1: It kind of it kind of feels like my brother's 364 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:32,479 Speaker 1: still living. So that's a good thing. It's a good thing. 365 00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:36,959 Speaker 1: Thank you. Yeah. Yeah, let me ask you this, man. 366 00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:41,600 Speaker 1: I'm just curious because your Caucasian, right yeah. Yeah, I'm like, yeah, 367 00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:45,280 Speaker 1: do you feel any any different having a black man's 368 00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:49,960 Speaker 1: heart in your body? Cutting up? No, I don't feel 369 00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:53,840 Speaker 1: any difference. Uh no, okay. I didn't really think about 370 00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:56,399 Speaker 1: it though, And this this will just make me and 371 00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:58,480 Speaker 1: the rest of the family feel good that we knew 372 00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:02,359 Speaker 1: what he was dedicated to the things that matter. Twin, 373 00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:08,520 Speaker 1: would you feel all right joining the naacp Uh is 374 00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:10,760 Speaker 1: that are there some people are gonna be upset that 375 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:13,920 Speaker 1: I joined? I mean, is that okay? Well, you know, 376 00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:16,480 Speaker 1: I don't know about anybody being upset. Man, It's just 377 00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:18,920 Speaker 1: I know my brother that that's what he was a 378 00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:21,800 Speaker 1: part of. And you know, you you walking around with 379 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:25,720 Speaker 1: his heart. Man, it would just feel different, feel great, 380 00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:27,720 Speaker 1: you know, to have to feel like he would be 381 00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:30,679 Speaker 1: back in there doing what he was doing and fighting 382 00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:34,800 Speaker 1: for for injustice for the black community. Now you are 383 00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:38,159 Speaker 1: Democratic or Republican? Well, you know, I mean honestly that 384 00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:41,920 Speaker 1: I was Republican until Trump, and now I'm just really 385 00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:45,440 Speaker 1: I'm kind of on the sense. I mean that guy's 386 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:48,000 Speaker 1: in the idiot you did vote for Trump. I did not, 387 00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:51,320 Speaker 1: But I am a Republican, okay. So and the reason why, 388 00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:53,560 Speaker 1: you know, because I'm just curious man about it. What 389 00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:55,480 Speaker 1: I what I would hate to see is, you know, 390 00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 1: when twenty twenty come around, you know, you you over 391 00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,520 Speaker 1: there in the voting, but you know, with my brother 392 00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:05,760 Speaker 1: black heart and you and there, you know, voting Republican, uh, 393 00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:08,040 Speaker 1: you know, And and that's something that I know my 394 00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:09,960 Speaker 1: brother wouldn't be doing, you know what I'm saying. So 395 00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:13,159 Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just asking. Well, I mean, I'm not 396 00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:15,680 Speaker 1: happy with Trump, but if someone else in the Republican 397 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:19,200 Speaker 1: Party runs and I agree with them, I'm it's kind 398 00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:21,840 Speaker 1: of like it's my heart. Now. I can't change my 399 00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:24,920 Speaker 1: point of view just because of that. I mean, yeah, 400 00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:28,240 Speaker 1: but but but but what you're not gonna do, though, man, 401 00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:30,920 Speaker 1: is be in there with my brother black heart, and 402 00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:33,560 Speaker 1: you up in there making some decisions that I know 403 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:36,280 Speaker 1: my brother wouldn't do. You see what I'm saying. That's 404 00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:38,480 Speaker 1: a long way off, man, But I can't promise you that. 405 00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:40,919 Speaker 1: I mean, if somebody runs and I like, I mean, 406 00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:43,920 Speaker 1: I'm gonna vote the way I feel my heart and 407 00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:47,600 Speaker 1: my head, tell me the hold one. Don't don't say 408 00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:50,159 Speaker 1: what my heart because that ain't your heart. You know, 409 00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,880 Speaker 1: I stand to my brother. Heard, so you got every 410 00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:55,280 Speaker 1: right to ask me what you think my brother would 411 00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:58,840 Speaker 1: feel in his heart. And I tell you you understand 412 00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:02,160 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I don't ask the way I feel. Man, 413 00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,200 Speaker 1: Let me ask something. Have you have you been like 414 00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:07,080 Speaker 1: craving different kinds of foods that you don't know? E? 415 00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:09,840 Speaker 1: Have you been looking at I don't know? I mean 416 00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:11,880 Speaker 1: girl like greens like my brother ate a lot of greens. 417 00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:13,480 Speaker 1: Did you do you feel like you do woes and 418 00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:18,399 Speaker 1: greens come down? I like greens occasionally. Yeah, okay, have 419 00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:21,440 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, do you like women who have 420 00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:24,479 Speaker 1: big butts? All of women in general? I didn't think 421 00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:27,000 Speaker 1: about specifics. But you know, if they're good looking, they're 422 00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:30,000 Speaker 1: good looking. Well waiting, wait a minute, what kind of 423 00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:32,479 Speaker 1: calls this? Man? I mean you're asking me all these 424 00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:36,159 Speaker 1: random questions. Why what? I don't understand where it was 425 00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:39,440 Speaker 1: coming from. It's coming from my brother's hawt That's where 426 00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:42,720 Speaker 1: it's coming from. You got my brother's black heart inside 427 00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:45,439 Speaker 1: of you. You know. Yeah, I'm asking you. I'm asking 428 00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:48,159 Speaker 1: you to do what my brother would do, not what 429 00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:50,480 Speaker 1: you would do. You want to do it from your heart? 430 00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:52,800 Speaker 1: You then you're doing it from my brother's heart. When 431 00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:54,720 Speaker 1: you first called me about your brother, I was excited. 432 00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:56,760 Speaker 1: Now I'm saying, how much did the hospital give you? 433 00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,399 Speaker 1: Just this number? And you get to call me up? 434 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:03,080 Speaker 1: That's pribbly information. You shouldn't just call me and asking 435 00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:06,240 Speaker 1: all these random questions. Man, I just got a heart 436 00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:08,239 Speaker 1: test plan. Now you're starting to get me worked up. 437 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:10,440 Speaker 1: If I'm not trying to get you worked up. All 438 00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:12,919 Speaker 1: I'm trying to man, Okay, okay, well, let me let 439 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:14,560 Speaker 1: me just come down. All I know is you got 440 00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:17,240 Speaker 1: try hard and inside of you, and I'm trying to 441 00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:19,879 Speaker 1: let you know the kind of person Troy appeals. Okay, 442 00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:22,800 Speaker 1: so let me let me. Has your music change? Are 443 00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:25,600 Speaker 1: you listening to more art and B? Now? I do 444 00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:27,360 Speaker 1: like R and B, but I listened to hard rock. 445 00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:30,280 Speaker 1: Tale that hasn't changed. Because what's in truth hard on 446 00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:33,800 Speaker 1: stage in Troy hard, you understand. So you got to 447 00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:38,640 Speaker 1: hand that's in your heart now. Greens did books in ACP. 448 00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:43,560 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Okay, trying to tell you about Choy. 449 00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:47,560 Speaker 1: What are you crying? Man, I'm trying to tell you 450 00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:51,000 Speaker 1: about Choy. Hey, hey, hey, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. Don't 451 00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:56,120 Speaker 1: I know you miss your brother? Don't damn, I'm sorry. Okay, 452 00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:58,200 Speaker 1: let me let me say this. Let me say, Okay, 453 00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:01,719 Speaker 1: since you got my brother, I think it's the only right. 454 00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:05,600 Speaker 1: And me and you we get together and go to 455 00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:07,719 Speaker 1: go to a jay Z call so together. I think 456 00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:10,800 Speaker 1: that's the only right a jay Z and be honestly, 457 00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:12,680 Speaker 1: because so we go together because that's what me and 458 00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:15,840 Speaker 1: my brother did. We we will go see him perform. Well, 459 00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:18,080 Speaker 1: I mean they are to the best of all time. 460 00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:22,320 Speaker 1: So am I buying both the tickets? Oh yes, Uh, 461 00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:25,440 Speaker 1: you got trouble and you worry about about who's gonna 462 00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:27,480 Speaker 1: pay for some tickets. I didn't know. I thought maybe 463 00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:29,280 Speaker 1: you might want to teat your brother one last time. 464 00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:34,520 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm sorry, man, Yeah, no, no, okay, listen, 465 00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:36,880 Speaker 1: I'm really I'm really sorry. I mean I get upset. 466 00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:39,160 Speaker 1: I didn't mean the yell at. I'm sorry. I'm really sorry. 467 00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:44,360 Speaker 1: Do you do you do you listen to black radio? Sometimes? 468 00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:47,040 Speaker 1: I do listen to black radio. You never listen just 469 00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:50,040 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey more on this show? Boy. Yeah, he's 470 00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:51,520 Speaker 1: one of the best man I had to follow when 471 00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:54,280 Speaker 1: he was on Family Kid. He trade what He's got 472 00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:59,000 Speaker 1: a nephew on the show, and he does trade phone calls. Yeah, 473 00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:05,480 Speaker 1: and that will be me, Alice. This is nephew Tommy baby, 474 00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:12,600 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning show man out. Are you serious? Are 475 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 1: you kidding me? I'm not kidding. Oh my god, dude, 476 00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,880 Speaker 1: you almost gave me a second heart attack. Jesus, Oh 477 00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:23,280 Speaker 1: my god, you've been pranked man by your wife robbing 478 00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:26,680 Speaker 1: and her co worker Bridget Potting. You gotta tell me 479 00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:29,280 Speaker 1: us what is the baddest and I mean the baddest 480 00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:33,600 Speaker 1: radio show in the land. It's your show, baby, Steve Harvey. 481 00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:38,360 Speaker 1: Come on, man, alright, thinking as you coming up. At 482 00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:40,320 Speaker 1: the top of the hour, we're gonna talk about Meek 483 00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:44,880 Speaker 1: Mill and his protest over lace Frontway. Get a real 484 00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:49,200 Speaker 1: cause you're gonna protest something. Social media wasn't having it. 485 00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:53,920 Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening show 486 00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:58,920 Speaker 1: all right? Tomorrow morning, guys, make sure you tune into 487 00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:01,800 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning because Kevin Hart will be our 488 00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:06,760 Speaker 1: very special guest host sorrow. Come cap. Anybody see his interview. 489 00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:09,560 Speaker 1: I saw a little part of it, Good Morning America, 490 00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:12,600 Speaker 1: Good Morning America with Michael Strahan. One thing he said 491 00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:15,080 Speaker 1: that I loved, and he said it repeatedly throughout the interview. 492 00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:17,800 Speaker 1: I'm done with this. I'm moving on. I'm done with it. 493 00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:19,960 Speaker 1: So what do you have to say about this, Kevin? 494 00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:26,360 Speaker 1: I'm saying this. I'm done with What about this? About 495 00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:29,120 Speaker 1: the whole you know, oscar controversy, you know, with the 496 00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:33,040 Speaker 1: gay statements he had made back back back into far 497 00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:40,120 Speaker 1: The man apologized sometime. Yeah, and we recently apologize. Yeah, 498 00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:42,480 Speaker 1: so that's why he said he's done. But he'll be 499 00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:44,560 Speaker 1: with us tomorrow to drop it up. Steve. Yeah, but 500 00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:46,840 Speaker 1: he's not gonna talk about that. I can tell you 501 00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:56,320 Speaker 1: that based on that interview, he's done. We're gonna, he said, 502 00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:59,400 Speaker 1: because it's never enough, all right, So we'll talk about that. 503 00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:02,320 Speaker 1: We'll also talk about Kevin's new movie. It's called The 504 00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:06,160 Speaker 1: Upside with Brian Crancy. That looks good. Yeah, that looks 505 00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:08,880 Speaker 1: really good. So join us tomorrow morning for Kevin Hart 506 00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:12,840 Speaker 1: and in other news, Steve, many women, I know, everybody 507 00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:15,720 Speaker 1: wears a lace front wig from time to time. We 508 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:18,600 Speaker 1: wear weaves, we were we wear whatever we want to wear. Yes, 509 00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:21,040 Speaker 1: I'm get ready to color my hair. You're wearing well, 510 00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:27,880 Speaker 1: thank you. But apparently Meek Mill, who knew? I know you? Yeah, 511 00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:30,240 Speaker 1: you don't. If if they're done right, you don't know. 512 00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:33,040 Speaker 1: I do. That's the thing, Steve, If they're done right, 513 00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:34,880 Speaker 1: you don't. If you don't take it off in front 514 00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:39,400 Speaker 1: of me, I just don't know. I don't. Love you're 515 00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:43,640 Speaker 1: not upset about no problem, But technically it ain't none 516 00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:46,720 Speaker 1: of my exactly as long as you know what I'm say. 517 00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:49,920 Speaker 1: If you're not my woman. I can't comment on what 518 00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:52,400 Speaker 1: you're doing with your head, right, but you're not my woman. 519 00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:55,960 Speaker 1: Miss mill Steve said lace front wigs are whack. I'm 520 00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:59,880 Speaker 1: protesting them, and after being trolled, Meek issued this response, 521 00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:03,200 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I just had a few bad lace experiences 522 00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:06,360 Speaker 1: that traumatized me. He said. You ever get food poison 523 00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:08,440 Speaker 1: from eating something and never want to eat it again? 524 00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:11,520 Speaker 1: He said, that's the same feeling. That is the same feeling. 525 00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:14,160 Speaker 1: He said, I'm off Twitter, I'm still not ready for Okay, 526 00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:19,120 Speaker 1: let me someone explain lace front to me. Okay, lace front, 527 00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:22,240 Speaker 1: how they make them. They put like um hair, weave 528 00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:25,120 Speaker 1: hair or wig hair on top of you know what, 529 00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:32,000 Speaker 1: a piece of like um nylons holes, yeah, different, Yeah, 530 00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:35,200 Speaker 1: and they and it matches your skin colors, so you 531 00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:38,000 Speaker 1: can't tell where the wig begins and your skin ends. 532 00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:41,040 Speaker 1: And they do it really good. They don't really well. Okay, 533 00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:44,840 Speaker 1: but if you can tell, it's probably wearing Meek hair exactly. Yeah, 534 00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:49,120 Speaker 1: that's exactly. Oh like if your starts back up your heads, 535 00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:52,960 Speaker 1: you know, or it's too far down on your forehead 536 00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:57,360 Speaker 1: or you made your point. Yes, I kind of think 537 00:33:57,440 --> 00:34:02,520 Speaker 1: I know where you're going too much baby hair out something. 538 00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:06,920 Speaker 1: If your lace front don't match the hair that showing, 539 00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:11,200 Speaker 1: and if your lace front ain't the only hair that's 540 00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:18,040 Speaker 1: in the front. All right, Steve got let's head on 541 00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:22,680 Speaker 1: over to miss standing news. If your lace front, did 542 00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:26,160 Speaker 1: you hear what I just said? Maybe your lace front 543 00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:29,680 Speaker 1: is a lace nick the next piece of hand you 544 00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:34,000 Speaker 1: see others And as the club gets longer in the 545 00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:39,160 Speaker 1: night mowing mower, your health is being exposed. It's glowed on. 546 00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:42,760 Speaker 1: So that should not be the case. Please introduce miss Anne. 547 00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:49,719 Speaker 1: We only shifted in now meet and seen hot. Miss 548 00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:52,719 Speaker 1: You can't get out of jail and see that. That 549 00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:54,319 Speaker 1: ain't what you want to see when you get out 550 00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:58,360 Speaker 1: of the ladies and gentlemen, miss and Trump. Thank you 551 00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:01,640 Speaker 1: very much everybody, and good morn. Okay, this is answered 552 00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:04,400 Speaker 1: for the news. President Trump held a brief meeting on 553 00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:07,480 Speaker 1: the southern border will issue yesterday, I mean like real 554 00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:10,759 Speaker 1: brief with how Speaker Nancy Pelosi and Senate democratically to 555 00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:13,520 Speaker 1: Charles Schumer. But Vice President Mike Penn says the meeting 556 00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:15,759 Speaker 1: pretty much ended as soon as it began, and that 557 00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:17,759 Speaker 1: it was the fault, he says, of the Democrats the 558 00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:20,600 Speaker 1: President called the question in the meeting. He asked Speaker 559 00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:23,320 Speaker 1: Pelosi that if he opened things up quickly, if he 560 00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:27,200 Speaker 1: reopened the government quickly, would she be willing to agree 561 00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:30,160 Speaker 1: to funding for a wall or a barrier on the 562 00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:34,600 Speaker 1: southern border. And when she said no, the President said goodbye. However, 563 00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:37,200 Speaker 1: how Speaker Nancy Pelosi says her take on the meeting 564 00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:40,400 Speaker 1: a little different what the President is claiming to be. 565 00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:44,120 Speaker 1: The situation at the border is not solved by a wall, 566 00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:47,480 Speaker 1: and we all been for border security. We take our 567 00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:51,520 Speaker 1: oath to protect and defend the American people very seriously. 568 00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:55,520 Speaker 1: This week, federal workers will miss their first paychecks, and 569 00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:57,880 Speaker 1: Santa Charles Schumer is accusing the President of having a 570 00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:00,360 Speaker 1: tempa tantrum. Mister Trump is going to be visiting the 571 00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:02,640 Speaker 1: wall today, by the way, He's going to be in Texas. 572 00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:05,920 Speaker 1: He's also brought the White House lawyer with him. Despite 573 00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:09,000 Speaker 1: President Trump's claim of GOP solidarity on his side, at 574 00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:11,640 Speaker 1: least three center Republicans, by the way, have expressed support 575 00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:15,680 Speaker 1: for reopening the government while talks about border security continue. 576 00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:18,400 Speaker 1: That's what the Democrats want. Some eight hundred thousand federal 577 00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:21,600 Speaker 1: workers are either working for deferred pay or furlough due 578 00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:24,680 Speaker 1: to the partial shutdown, now in its third week. According 579 00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:29,760 Speaker 1: to two Senate Intelligence Committee reports, Russian operatives aggressively targeted 580 00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:33,000 Speaker 1: Black Americans over social media in twenty sixteen and try 581 00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:35,560 Speaker 1: to discourage them from voting so as to help Donald 582 00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:38,640 Speaker 1: Trump get elected. The reports also revealed that since Trump's 583 00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:41,480 Speaker 1: election that Moscow has been using the Internet to inflame 584 00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:44,960 Speaker 1: racial tensions and pushed Trump's social agenda, and that while 585 00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:47,400 Speaker 1: some other ethnic and religious groups where the focus of 586 00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:50,759 Speaker 1: one or two Facebook pages and Instagram accounts, that the 587 00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:56,160 Speaker 1: black community was targeted by dozens. After voters in Wisconsin, 588 00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:58,400 Speaker 1: by the Way, voted in a new governor last November, 589 00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:01,960 Speaker 1: a Democrat named Tony Ebers, Republicans who still dominate that 590 00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:05,160 Speaker 1: state's legislature quickly made moves to cut off the incoming 591 00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:07,800 Speaker 1: governor's political legs, so they passed a bunch of bills 592 00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:11,800 Speaker 1: during a not publicized lame duck session last month, and 593 00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:14,800 Speaker 1: under the new laws, Governor Ebers will not, be, for instance, 594 00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:18,200 Speaker 1: able to modify the state's voter ID law. His control 595 00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:21,720 Speaker 1: over the state's job creation agency will be limited. Another 596 00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:24,319 Speaker 1: measure keeps him from keeping his campaign promise to pull 597 00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:27,520 Speaker 1: Wisconsin out the multi state federal lawsuit designed to get 598 00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:31,160 Speaker 1: rid of Obamacare. Governor ebers says he's considering his options, 599 00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:34,440 Speaker 1: his legal options. According to a new study, about sixty 600 00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:37,279 Speaker 1: five percent of Americans say they're in debt. Twenty five 601 00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:40,240 Speaker 1: percent of them think they'll die that way. However, households 602 00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:42,799 Speaker 1: with incomes they're about fifty thousand dollars get this. They 603 00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:45,200 Speaker 1: feel that they'll be out of debt. The soonest. I 604 00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:48,799 Speaker 1: don't know why, but they do. Finally, it's sleepyheads day. 605 00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:53,160 Speaker 1: Oh don't you wish you could sleep in today? I know, 606 00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:55,239 Speaker 1: I hear you. This is the enterp with the news. 607 00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:58,239 Speaker 1: Back to the Steve Barby Morning Show. You're listening to 608 00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:04,000 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. According to TMZ, you know, man, this 609 00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:07,120 Speaker 1: is our Kelly thing. Uh. Well, in any way, he's 610 00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:09,200 Speaker 1: not going to be charged for allegedly giving a woman 611 00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:14,560 Speaker 1: STD and STD after the cops in Dallas closed their investigation. Wow, 612 00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:19,919 Speaker 1: he's like he's slippery, isn't he? Wow? This is our Kelly. Yeah. 613 00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:24,160 Speaker 1: Dallas PD looked into allegations that R. Kelly gave an 614 00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:28,000 Speaker 1: anonymous young woman an STD after allegedly holding her captive 615 00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:36,680 Speaker 1: as his sex slave in the docu, right, this is 616 00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:40,600 Speaker 1: about giving her the STD. They're working on probably the 617 00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:44,400 Speaker 1: captive captivity part and all that. You know, there's stuff 618 00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:48,759 Speaker 1: going on in um uh Georgia and in Chicago and 619 00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:51,840 Speaker 1: uh in no charges will be brought against our in 620 00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:55,120 Speaker 1: connection to that case. Now. This is also according to TMZ. 621 00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:58,880 Speaker 1: The woman file a police report last year twenty eighteen, 622 00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:02,560 Speaker 1: claiming she'd met in Dallas the year before. She claimed 623 00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:05,759 Speaker 1: he restrained her, applied her with alcohol and drugs, and 624 00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:09,360 Speaker 1: gave her an STD. However, the alleged victim says the 625 00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:11,760 Speaker 1: incident occurred in New York City and she will personally 626 00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:14,840 Speaker 1: fly from Texas to Manhattan in the near future to 627 00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:19,000 Speaker 1: file a police report. Meanwhile, R. Kelly is currently being 628 00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:22,440 Speaker 1: investigated like I just said, in Fulton County District Attorney's 629 00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:25,840 Speaker 1: Office in Georgia and the State Attorney's Office in Chicago 630 00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:28,680 Speaker 1: has made a plea for any witnesses or victims to 631 00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:32,799 Speaker 1: come forward to contact her office at seven seven three 632 00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:36,600 Speaker 1: six seven four six four nine two at seven seventy 633 00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:39,680 Speaker 1: three six seven four six four nine two. So I 634 00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:43,799 Speaker 1: understand what they're saying. She's saying that she met him 635 00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:47,759 Speaker 1: in Dallas, but what went down was in New York, 636 00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:52,080 Speaker 1: and so you see why Dallas didn't Yeah, they didn't 637 00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:54,480 Speaker 1: file the charges. So now she says, well, I will 638 00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:58,520 Speaker 1: go to New York York, I fly up there. Yeah, wow, Steve, Yeah, 639 00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:02,759 Speaker 1: this is I don't I don't know what what all 640 00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:07,600 Speaker 1: that means for him. I'm not you know, this is 641 00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:11,400 Speaker 1: a mess. Well, I mean I'm more of a proponent 642 00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:15,759 Speaker 1: oh him just getting his ass. But he was gonna 643 00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:19,680 Speaker 1: say that, I'm more of a proponent for that, all 644 00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:22,080 Speaker 1: these court cases and stuff. I mean, you know, we 645 00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:28,200 Speaker 1: can't vote nothing like that. I just say, you know, God, yeah, 646 00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:31,840 Speaker 1: you know your paperwork. You gotta sector j tax me 647 00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:36,400 Speaker 1: your money. You know what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, you 648 00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:40,080 Speaker 1: can't colect them too. Daddies, that was only special. Get 649 00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:43,880 Speaker 1: in the room with him, you can't dog. Yeah. The 650 00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:48,040 Speaker 1: greatest lessons have been really handled by ass. But the 651 00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:51,799 Speaker 1: best I've ever seen. Yeah, well, I've seen a lot 652 00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:57,080 Speaker 1: of things. Get cute. There may be something to that, 653 00:40:57,239 --> 00:40:59,399 Speaker 1: because he's been in and out of court for years 654 00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:01,759 Speaker 1: and years and years and nothing's ever happened to him. 655 00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:06,040 Speaker 1: So you know, you guys may have something that man 656 00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:09,600 Speaker 1: something there, you know, and nobody who's there will be acquitted. 657 00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:15,160 Speaker 1: Over coming up at thirty four, after the hours, Steve 658 00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:20,799 Speaker 1: Beyonce stops at Target. Yeah, pictures, Yes, and we'll talk 659 00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:28,760 Speaker 1: about finances right after this. You're listening, all right? Yes, Beyonce, 660 00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:32,040 Speaker 1: the one and only was spotted at a Los Angeles 661 00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:35,359 Speaker 1: area Target. We all shot at Target. Yes, not mad 662 00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:40,040 Speaker 1: at I imagine going down the island sing Beyonce. She 663 00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:42,520 Speaker 1: was not pushing the basket though. She was not doing that. 664 00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:46,280 Speaker 1: Her people were doing that. She was just you know, spotting. 665 00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:54,480 Speaker 1: YEA one fan tweeted a snapshot of her in the 666 00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:58,640 Speaker 1: baby aisle wearing an orange jumpsuit in some white sunglasses. 667 00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:02,640 Speaker 1: They wrote, anyone in Westwood Beyonce? Is that Target right now? 668 00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:07,520 Speaker 1: This is not a drill. This is not a drill. Yes, 669 00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:10,239 Speaker 1: So our question this hour. Would you shop at a 670 00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:13,120 Speaker 1: discount store like Target or Walmart even if you and 671 00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:16,680 Speaker 1: your spouse were worth a billion dollars? Yeah? Yeah? I 672 00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:27,320 Speaker 1: love Target? What I love Walmart? What not? Go to Walmart? Hop? Yeah? Absolutely? Also, 673 00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:29,719 Speaker 1: there is a survey that says we're uncomfortable dealing with 674 00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:34,800 Speaker 1: and talking about our finances. How uncomfortable Thirty two percent 675 00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:38,040 Speaker 1: would rather go down to the DMV than work on 676 00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:44,239 Speaker 1: a financial plan. Yeah. Twenty percent would rather spend an 677 00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:47,440 Speaker 1: hour in jail than come up with a five year 678 00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:52,520 Speaker 1: financial plan. Wow. Yeah, and a year in jail. What 679 00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:55,439 Speaker 1: an hour in jail? I mean five year financial plan. 680 00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:58,640 Speaker 1: Thirty four percent would rather post their most embarrassing photo 681 00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:02,080 Speaker 1: of themselves on social media then post a screenshot of 682 00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:06,399 Speaker 1: their account balances. Where are you and all of this? Steve, Oh, 683 00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:09,560 Speaker 1: we can put helicraft that financial stuff. I ain't going 684 00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:15,920 Speaker 1: to jail before an hour one hope with some money. Well, 685 00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:19,359 Speaker 1: it's something that you avoid. Just don't want to want 686 00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:21,680 Speaker 1: to deal with the budgeting. I don't. I don't like 687 00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:25,040 Speaker 1: the financial meetings I have to have. I don't like them. 688 00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:29,480 Speaker 1: My wife and I don't like, you know, and the 689 00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:32,680 Speaker 1: part I don't like because I yeah, but it's always 690 00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:35,080 Speaker 1: you know, you gotta hire people to watch over things 691 00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:37,359 Speaker 1: for you, because you know, when it's coming in from 692 00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:39,200 Speaker 1: a couple of different angles, you got to have people 693 00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:41,560 Speaker 1: keeping eye on it. And then you got to pay 694 00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:44,640 Speaker 1: these taxes, and you gotta make sure you're getting all 695 00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:47,360 Speaker 1: the write offs that you qualify for, you know, so 696 00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:49,719 Speaker 1: instead of just spending this money. What you do with 697 00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:53,440 Speaker 1: the money you gotta have receivet what was it? You know? 698 00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:55,319 Speaker 1: And all like you've been asking a lot of questions 699 00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:56,640 Speaker 1: I don't want to do because I don't let them 700 00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:59,400 Speaker 1: really ask me nothing about my money. See that's what 701 00:43:59,520 --> 00:44:02,640 Speaker 1: the SA say. Yeah, I really don't ask me what 702 00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:06,960 Speaker 1: I did with it. It's like coming out here to Vegas. 703 00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:10,600 Speaker 1: So I think you're part I withdraw cash to come here. Yeah, 704 00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:15,520 Speaker 1: you must be part of Steve. What they'd rather post 705 00:44:15,600 --> 00:44:18,600 Speaker 1: their most embarrassing picture of themselves in social media than 706 00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:24,760 Speaker 1: post a screenshot of their account balances? I think that's naked. 707 00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:33,120 Speaker 1: You're part of that group. Yeah, I'll be asked naked account? 708 00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:40,400 Speaker 1: What's going to happen? I really you be talking about 709 00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:50,399 Speaker 1: body parts? Look at this, but be disgusted. You don't 710 00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:55,960 Speaker 1: understand the big that's gonna be bad. God shot Steve Harvey? 711 00:44:56,080 --> 00:45:02,359 Speaker 1: Is that Steve all right? Yeah? So you're gonna try 712 00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:07,280 Speaker 1: to say you ain't got it right? Right, that's exactly 713 00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:11,720 Speaker 1: a se What about you, junior? What which which category 714 00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:14,000 Speaker 1: would you be in? You just started making money? I'll 715 00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:21,959 Speaker 1: show you I don't just got this man. You look 716 00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:26,839 Speaker 1: at this man. You want to see me six years ago? God? 717 00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:32,480 Speaker 1: How many bank accounts you got? Both? Look at you? 718 00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:36,279 Speaker 1: Both different bank a path? All right? What nephew, I 719 00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:39,279 Speaker 1: hate to ask you which category would you be in? 720 00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:41,200 Speaker 1: I know you don't want to spend an hour in jail. 721 00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:48,759 Speaker 1: How many break accounts you got? Uh? Yeah? Serious? Eight? 722 00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:54,200 Speaker 1: I got eight? All right now? I got em all right, 723 00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:57,320 Speaker 1: A lot. Yeah, I ain't gonna put it up in 724 00:45:57,400 --> 00:45:59,200 Speaker 1: for your back and look at them. All right. Well, 725 00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:03,520 Speaker 1: so you're you're over there with all right, go to 726 00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:07,239 Speaker 1: Steve Harby FM to comment. Nephew, Tommy's prank phone call 727 00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:09,040 Speaker 1: is coming up next. What you got for us, nep 728 00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:12,080 Speaker 1: We'll find out right after this. You're listening to the 729 00:46:12,239 --> 00:46:16,560 Speaker 1: sty show coming up at the top of the hour, 730 00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:19,839 Speaker 1: right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today. 731 00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:27,560 Speaker 1: Subject I thought I found the perfect man right now 732 00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:33,160 Speaker 1: though the Nephews here today, good money. Nephew's right here. 733 00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:40,440 Speaker 1: Truck driver exchange driver exchange. Now call it when you 734 00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:43,600 Speaker 1: call a brother who was a truck driver here in 735 00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:47,120 Speaker 1: the United States, huh, and tell him we've been seeing 736 00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:49,879 Speaker 1: you the South half to drive for six months over there. 737 00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:52,680 Speaker 1: This don't go too well, you play too much this, 738 00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:59,359 Speaker 1: don't go just don't go too wet. Hello. Hello, I'm 739 00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:02,720 Speaker 1: trying to reach fight. Yeah, this is Franklin. Hey, Franklin, 740 00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:04,680 Speaker 1: how you doing? This is Roosevelt giving you a call 741 00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:08,480 Speaker 1: from Human Resources USA? Hey, Hey, what's up Roosevelt? What 742 00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:11,359 Speaker 1: could I do? All right? Man, I'm calling you from 743 00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:15,560 Speaker 1: Human Resources Trains of Partners. Where you been here? You've 744 00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:18,799 Speaker 1: been driving trucks for us for quite some time? Now? 745 00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:21,040 Speaker 1: What do you you? Six? Six, six and a half 746 00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:23,879 Speaker 1: years right now? Man, I'm eight and a half years. 747 00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:27,560 Speaker 1: Two years short, baby, okay, eight and a half you? 748 00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:31,160 Speaker 1: And how you doing? Man? I'm good man, enjoying this 749 00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:33,920 Speaker 1: road life? Man? Is I love working with you guys? Man, 750 00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:37,000 Speaker 1: the benefits is there? I mean I'm supposed to get 751 00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:40,680 Speaker 1: a call from you. I mean, I hope everything. I'm 752 00:47:40,719 --> 00:47:42,839 Speaker 1: sure you're on the road right now. You're probably driving. 753 00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:45,560 Speaker 1: I wanted to give you a call. And is this 754 00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:48,279 Speaker 1: a bad time? Can you talk right now? Yeah? I 755 00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:50,080 Speaker 1: actually pulled ope, But man, I have to get something 756 00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:52,839 Speaker 1: to eat. Man, Okay, okay, so listen, let me tell 757 00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:56,000 Speaker 1: you what's going on here with what GTP. What we're 758 00:47:56,080 --> 00:48:01,719 Speaker 1: doing is we are doing some job change, and uh, 759 00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:06,080 Speaker 1: some of the drivers that we have have been pulled 760 00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:09,319 Speaker 1: out of a pool and some of you guys are 761 00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:13,400 Speaker 1: gonna be actually driving in different places now. So for 762 00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:16,840 Speaker 1: the next six months, within the next thirty days, you're Franklin, 763 00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:20,600 Speaker 1: You're gonna be Um, You're You're gonna be driving trucks 764 00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:24,759 Speaker 1: in South Africa. You're gonna be or for about six 765 00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:32,719 Speaker 1: for about six six months, you're gonna drive in South Africa. Holda, hola, hola. Yeah, listen, 766 00:48:32,760 --> 00:48:35,600 Speaker 1: I ain't got no file in the South Africa. But y'ah, 767 00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:39,920 Speaker 1: rather mind, I'm not going on the South Africa. I 768 00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:41,759 Speaker 1: don't come out a job in the right handside of 769 00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:45,600 Speaker 1: the row. And I love Africans. I love everything about Africa, 770 00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:47,600 Speaker 1: but I'm not going I got a family out here 771 00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:49,680 Speaker 1: in the United States of America and you're trying to 772 00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:51,759 Speaker 1: tell me I got to go to South Africa. Come on, man, 773 00:48:51,800 --> 00:48:54,600 Speaker 1: what type of that you want? It's it's frequently, it's 774 00:48:54,640 --> 00:48:58,000 Speaker 1: part of the job exchange is what it is. Man, Okay, 775 00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:01,080 Speaker 1: you change got going on on? Man, I don't want 776 00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:03,000 Speaker 1: to be part of that job of shame. No, no, 777 00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:05,480 Speaker 1: I'm not going to No damn South Africa. This is 778 00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:08,560 Speaker 1: not happening. This is just listen to the track six 779 00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:11,960 Speaker 1: months and you'll be back in the States. Okay, let 780 00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:15,560 Speaker 1: me say this a national geographic program y'all got going on? Man, 781 00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:18,160 Speaker 1: I don't know what y'all got going on at y'all 782 00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:20,400 Speaker 1: calling me. I'm in the middle of I'm talking like 783 00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:23,200 Speaker 1: trying to eat me a cheeseburger from being on the 784 00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:24,960 Speaker 1: road or one night, and you're talking about sending me 785 00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:28,799 Speaker 1: to South Africa? What type of you on? Man? There's 786 00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:31,440 Speaker 1: some foreign exchange program y'all got going on it. I'm 787 00:49:31,520 --> 00:49:34,160 Speaker 1: not being part of this. You pulled my name out 788 00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:37,279 Speaker 1: of pool like it was a su suitor. Come tell 789 00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:40,440 Speaker 1: me that I'm up to be jobbing in South as 790 00:49:41,080 --> 00:49:43,759 Speaker 1: This must be a joke, you know, No, I don't know. 791 00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:47,320 Speaker 1: Not so good. This is a good thing, though, Franklin, 792 00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:49,160 Speaker 1: I think you're gonna like it. And no, it's not 793 00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:50,440 Speaker 1: a good thing. What do you tell me it's a 794 00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:53,719 Speaker 1: good thing. I got wife and kids, But I'm what 795 00:49:53,880 --> 00:49:56,239 Speaker 1: the fuck are you talking about? South Africa? Do they 796 00:49:56,320 --> 00:49:59,799 Speaker 1: even have roadways out there? I'm not going to FA. 797 00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:02,680 Speaker 1: Are you serious? You're not here. I'm not I'm not 798 00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:05,959 Speaker 1: hearing this correct. Brother, I'm not hearing this correct, mister Roses, 799 00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:11,440 Speaker 1: though I don't salad what okay, I can't playing. Just 800 00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:15,239 Speaker 1: tell me South Africa? Are you serious? Okay, let's let 801 00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:18,000 Speaker 1: planks hear me out here. Man. Let me like I said, 802 00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:21,640 Speaker 1: they pulled names out of a pool, and you and 803 00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:24,160 Speaker 1: about fifteen other guys are gonna be going to different 804 00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:26,600 Speaker 1: parts of the world. What type of pool you pulled 805 00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:28,400 Speaker 1: it in? You better be put me back in the 806 00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:30,960 Speaker 1: shallow part. You're going to the deep end pullers, man, 807 00:50:31,040 --> 00:50:33,520 Speaker 1: get the fun girl. I'm not going to South Africa. 808 00:50:33,760 --> 00:50:37,880 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna Southrica. Don't I'm not taking the malarious shots, 809 00:50:37,880 --> 00:50:39,279 Speaker 1: so I don't even gotta pass. What do you want 810 00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:41,840 Speaker 1: me to go to about that point, well, listen to me, Franklin. 811 00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:43,600 Speaker 1: We're gonna get you all the shots you need within 812 00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:45,960 Speaker 1: the next thirty days, so you'll be shut to go. 813 00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:50,280 Speaker 1: I'm not going to go around go to South Africa 814 00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:52,479 Speaker 1: and trump one. Let me back in the country because 815 00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:55,719 Speaker 1: of y'all off with right now. I'm not going to 816 00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:59,840 Speaker 1: South Africa. It's a job exchange, Franklin. Okay, let me, 817 00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:04,520 Speaker 1: let's type a job. So what so what we're exchange it. 818 00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:07,160 Speaker 1: You're bringing South Africans over here and then you're bringing 819 00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:10,080 Speaker 1: me over it. Y'all leave me. I'm not going my wife, 820 00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:12,960 Speaker 1: it's not going to be happy about this. I'm not 821 00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:17,480 Speaker 1: going my like. Someplace Facebook can tell you this. Your 822 00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:20,480 Speaker 1: salary actually doubles the six months while you're over there. 823 00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:23,160 Speaker 1: Don't try to Don't try to tell me about that 824 00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:26,480 Speaker 1: with South African dollars or American dollars. What is it? 825 00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:32,880 Speaker 1: What is it? Don't try that American dollars, Franklin, Franklin, 826 00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:36,080 Speaker 1: it will be American dollars. I'm not going to know 827 00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:39,200 Speaker 1: South Africa. I am not going that. Of fact, it 828 00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:41,520 Speaker 1: before my last day and the bro y'all could come 829 00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:44,640 Speaker 1: pick up this reglar and a talking like because I'm 830 00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:46,800 Speaker 1: not going to South Africa. I don't care how you 831 00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:53,760 Speaker 1: spell it or you say it. I ain't going. Okay, okay, Franklin. Listen, 832 00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:57,360 Speaker 1: you've been into Country Company eight eight plus years, and 833 00:51:57,680 --> 00:52:00,520 Speaker 1: I just gotta tell you you are obligating. You've been 834 00:52:00,640 --> 00:52:02,680 Speaker 1: chosen out of a pool. All you have to do 835 00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:05,480 Speaker 1: is six months, you're gonna get paid double. Your family's 836 00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:07,640 Speaker 1: gonna be fine. You'll be back. I ain't obligated to 837 00:52:07,719 --> 00:52:11,560 Speaker 1: do but driving truck like I do everything day, I'm 838 00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:14,440 Speaker 1: not going. You can't tell me about being obligated. Let 839 00:52:14,480 --> 00:52:17,400 Speaker 1: me tell you what I'm obligated to do. I'm obligated 840 00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:21,040 Speaker 1: to th truck. I'm forced here and try right through 841 00:52:21,120 --> 00:52:25,240 Speaker 1: your human resources window because I ain't going to South Africa. 842 00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:27,080 Speaker 1: And I keep telling you that I told you that 843 00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:31,760 Speaker 1: since you got on the damn phone, I ain't going nowhere. Okay, 844 00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:35,920 Speaker 1: but but but but let me ask something, Frankly. You've 845 00:52:35,960 --> 00:52:38,080 Speaker 1: been here for what its for eight some years? Man, 846 00:52:38,120 --> 00:52:39,960 Speaker 1: you don't you don't want to continue your job here 847 00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:42,600 Speaker 1: with the company. I don't give a about this job 848 00:52:42,719 --> 00:52:45,000 Speaker 1: right now, trying to send me overseas like you're setting 849 00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:47,080 Speaker 1: me up from them. I ain't going out of fact. 850 00:52:47,160 --> 00:52:49,759 Speaker 1: Let me turn this truck on right now. I'm coming 851 00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:53,600 Speaker 1: down and see you, mister Roses out. Okay, hold on, 852 00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:59,600 Speaker 1: uh do you know Jermaine? Yeah? I know Rivers? But 853 00:52:59,680 --> 00:53:02,320 Speaker 1: what are you gotta do with it? Okay? Let me 854 00:53:02,400 --> 00:53:05,200 Speaker 1: go and don't say this, Franklin. This right here that 855 00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:08,840 Speaker 1: you're talking to is nephew Tommy and your boy. Rivers 856 00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:11,799 Speaker 1: got me the planking phone call you You just got 857 00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:19,480 Speaker 1: pranked by your boy Jermaine Rivers. Oh that moment. Wait 858 00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:22,360 Speaker 1: till I see Rivers. So you ain't no roads to go, 859 00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:24,600 Speaker 1: and I ain't got to go to South Africa. No 860 00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:34,040 Speaker 1: got man, this is nothing. Man, I'm just listening to 861 00:53:34,160 --> 00:53:36,759 Speaker 1: y'alls on the road or Rivers. You want to play 862 00:53:36,880 --> 00:53:39,880 Speaker 1: with us? I want to put some sugar in your trunk, 863 00:53:43,360 --> 00:53:45,520 Speaker 1: all right, Franklin before we live, Man, tell me this. 864 00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:49,560 Speaker 1: What is the baddest radio show in the lands. That 865 00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:57,040 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show? You can't stand, You can't. You 866 00:53:57,080 --> 00:54:02,239 Speaker 1: can't tell black people they gotta leave. Man, you're a 867 00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:06,200 Speaker 1: little more ignorant. One. I wonder one now. I'm trying 868 00:54:06,200 --> 00:54:08,799 Speaker 1: to get started righting the one now I think so? Yeah, 869 00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:11,600 Speaker 1: right yeah, And my first stop is Tampa FLOWD at 870 00:54:11,600 --> 00:54:14,000 Speaker 1: the m Problem. I will be there January twenty four, 871 00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:16,879 Speaker 1: twenty fifth, and twenty six. I will be in Tampa FLOWD. 872 00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:18,680 Speaker 1: I hope the weather is good. You know why. I'm 873 00:54:18,680 --> 00:54:20,600 Speaker 1: gonna play a little golf while I'm down there. I 874 00:54:20,640 --> 00:54:23,440 Speaker 1: ain't played none this year, so let's get to it. 875 00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:27,040 Speaker 1: Tampa's best place for it ain't a whole lot of 876 00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:29,600 Speaker 1: people played none this year, Tommy. I know, really shit, 877 00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:40,640 Speaker 1: I know that you ain't really said January winds ten. Yeah, 878 00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:43,680 Speaker 1: that's a pretty sitting. It is pretty a lot of waters. 879 00:54:43,840 --> 00:54:47,560 Speaker 1: You know what's nice too? What West Palm Beach? Yes, yeah, 880 00:54:47,960 --> 00:54:50,400 Speaker 1: we have so much love there too. Shout out to 881 00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:53,120 Speaker 1: West Palm Beach. Have you right back, We love you 882 00:54:53,360 --> 00:54:56,359 Speaker 1: right back, loyal, loyal. So okay, so that's what your 883 00:54:56,400 --> 00:54:59,759 Speaker 1: tour is looking like. First stop, Okay, well, I go 884 00:54:59,840 --> 00:55:02,840 Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey dot com and find out everything you 885 00:55:02,920 --> 00:55:05,319 Speaker 1: want to know about Tommy's tours and all that coming 886 00:55:05,400 --> 00:55:07,000 Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour. Like I said, 887 00:55:07,440 --> 00:55:10,560 Speaker 1: write about four minutes after today's Strawberry Letter subject I 888 00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:13,239 Speaker 1: found the perfect man. We'll get into it right after this. 889 00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:18,600 Speaker 1: You're listening to show. All right, here we go, time 890 00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:21,719 Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter. If you need advice on relationships, 891 00:55:21,800 --> 00:55:26,240 Speaker 1: on dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, please please submit 892 00:55:26,360 --> 00:55:29,640 Speaker 1: your Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey FM dot com and 893 00:55:29,840 --> 00:55:33,480 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter 894 00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:36,360 Speaker 1: live like we're doing this one. All right, Let's go 895 00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:38,880 Speaker 1: to boggle up. Hold on tight, we got it for you. 896 00:55:39,000 --> 00:55:42,719 Speaker 1: Here it is the Strawberry letter subject, I thought I 897 00:55:42,840 --> 00:55:47,799 Speaker 1: found the perfect man. Is there such a thing? We'll 898 00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:50,440 Speaker 1: find out all right, Dear Saton Shirley. I know I 899 00:55:50,520 --> 00:55:56,280 Speaker 1: am a hardworking, educated, financially secure, good looking, mature woman 900 00:55:56,560 --> 00:55:59,600 Speaker 1: with a lot to offer. But since my divorce, I've 901 00:55:59,640 --> 00:56:02,719 Speaker 1: been having trouble with dating because the men I meet 902 00:56:02,880 --> 00:56:06,800 Speaker 1: say that I have too many prerequisites and they lose interest. 903 00:56:07,440 --> 00:56:09,640 Speaker 1: My goal was to meet a man aged fifty five 904 00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:12,920 Speaker 1: to sixty five, but instead I finally met a man 905 00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:16,520 Speaker 1: that is seventy five years old. Oh it is five 906 00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:21,200 Speaker 1: years older than yesterday. Okay, he's retired and he's everything 907 00:56:21,280 --> 00:56:24,200 Speaker 1: that I looked for in a man. He's a sharp dresser, 908 00:56:24,520 --> 00:56:29,040 Speaker 1: good looking, financially stable, and he has good morals. In 909 00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:31,759 Speaker 1: the beginning, he wanted to come over every night and 910 00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:34,839 Speaker 1: get busy, but I still have to go to work, 911 00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:36,640 Speaker 1: so I had to cut him back to two to 912 00:56:36,719 --> 00:56:42,359 Speaker 1: three nights per week and Saturday. RE enjoy going out 913 00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:47,080 Speaker 1: together and we've even had a nice vacation together. There's 914 00:56:47,200 --> 00:56:50,960 Speaker 1: just one problem. He refuses to go to church with me. 915 00:56:51,440 --> 00:56:53,520 Speaker 1: This past Sunday he got mad at me and told 916 00:56:53,560 --> 00:56:56,600 Speaker 1: me to stop nagging him about church. I could easily 917 00:56:56,719 --> 00:56:58,640 Speaker 1: fall in love with this man, and we talk about 918 00:56:58,640 --> 00:57:01,800 Speaker 1: our future and getting married, but the church issue upsets me. 919 00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:04,359 Speaker 1: When we talk about marriage, I told him I could 920 00:57:04,400 --> 00:57:06,719 Speaker 1: never say yes if he does not say yes to 921 00:57:06,800 --> 00:57:09,400 Speaker 1: going to church. He told me that he will eventually 922 00:57:09,480 --> 00:57:11,680 Speaker 1: just show up one Sunday, but it will be on 923 00:57:11,840 --> 00:57:15,720 Speaker 1: his own terms, not because of my nagging. What advice 924 00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:18,280 Speaker 1: do you have for me? My sister says I'm acting 925 00:57:18,400 --> 00:57:21,440 Speaker 1: crazy and I should marry this man. She does not 926 00:57:21,600 --> 00:57:23,720 Speaker 1: think it's a big deal. By the way, he does 927 00:57:24,200 --> 00:57:27,360 Speaker 1: meet all of my other prerequisites. So what are your thoughts. 928 00:57:27,600 --> 00:57:29,760 Speaker 1: Your thoughts are that I My thoughts are that I 929 00:57:29,840 --> 00:57:34,640 Speaker 1: agree wholeheartedly with your sister. You can't nag him. Nobody 930 00:57:34,720 --> 00:57:37,240 Speaker 1: wants to be nagged. You don't want to be nagged. 931 00:57:39,400 --> 00:57:41,360 Speaker 1: He says he's going to show up to church on 932 00:57:41,480 --> 00:57:44,240 Speaker 1: his own terms. Let him do that, Okay, let him 933 00:57:44,240 --> 00:57:46,640 Speaker 1: do it in his own terms. He may, you know, 934 00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:50,000 Speaker 1: not like your church for some reason, or you know, 935 00:57:50,160 --> 00:57:52,040 Speaker 1: maybe it takes him a minute to get in the 936 00:57:52,480 --> 00:57:55,480 Speaker 1: spirit or whatever. Give him time. I mean, you guys 937 00:57:55,520 --> 00:57:58,920 Speaker 1: haven't even been together that long for you to be 938 00:57:59,040 --> 00:58:01,840 Speaker 1: making these kinds of demands. On him, and probably if 939 00:58:01,880 --> 00:58:04,520 Speaker 1: you'd let it go, he would show up to church 940 00:58:04,640 --> 00:58:08,200 Speaker 1: with you one day. Come on, now, I don't think 941 00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:10,720 Speaker 1: this is such a major issue that you have to 942 00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:13,240 Speaker 1: nag him and nag him and nag him about it. 943 00:58:13,480 --> 00:58:17,120 Speaker 1: This man is seventy five years old. You're a mature woman. 944 00:58:17,200 --> 00:58:21,520 Speaker 1: You didn't say your age. But anyway, so far it's 945 00:58:21,560 --> 00:58:24,120 Speaker 1: working out nicely. I mean, he's a good dresser, he's 946 00:58:24,120 --> 00:58:27,760 Speaker 1: good looking, financially stable. You said in your letter, he 947 00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:32,880 Speaker 1: has good morals. Okay, he has good morals. So I 948 00:58:33,040 --> 00:58:35,400 Speaker 1: think you're putting pressure on this man. I think just 949 00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:38,840 Speaker 1: smooth it out, weight a little bit, but definitely stop 950 00:58:38,960 --> 00:58:41,480 Speaker 1: nagging him or guess what, you're gonna lose him. I'm 951 00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:46,840 Speaker 1: gonna tell you nobody likes to be nagged. Steve Shirley 952 00:58:47,120 --> 00:58:51,560 Speaker 1: one thousand percent correct. I agree with her sister too. 953 00:58:51,760 --> 00:58:56,080 Speaker 1: What is this len about? Hell, both of y'all old, 954 00:58:58,120 --> 00:59:02,000 Speaker 1: both for y'all old, and the man. Now, you didn't 955 00:59:02,040 --> 00:59:04,000 Speaker 1: want to say your man, but you come talking about 956 00:59:04,000 --> 00:59:06,360 Speaker 1: you want a man between fifty five and sixty five. 957 00:59:06,560 --> 00:59:09,920 Speaker 1: Well he's seventy five, yeah, but he still looks he 958 00:59:10,000 --> 00:59:14,600 Speaker 1: don't want to go to church. He don't want to 959 00:59:14,720 --> 00:59:18,680 Speaker 1: go to church. He is sharp dresser, he looked good. 960 00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:21,800 Speaker 1: He treats you right. He checks off all the blockses 961 00:59:22,040 --> 00:59:25,840 Speaker 1: and blocks in every category. And you talking about they 962 00:59:25,960 --> 00:59:30,240 Speaker 1: talking about marriage. You can't say, he can't say. You 963 00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:33,520 Speaker 1: can't say yes to him unless he say yes till you, 964 00:59:34,400 --> 00:59:36,320 Speaker 1: till you going to church, to him going to church 965 00:59:36,400 --> 00:59:38,840 Speaker 1: with you. I have news for you. The reason I'm 966 00:59:38,880 --> 00:59:40,600 Speaker 1: talking like this is called a bit up all night 967 00:59:42,440 --> 00:59:45,640 Speaker 1: trying to put myself mine is a little congested. I 968 00:59:45,720 --> 00:59:49,480 Speaker 1: have to apologize again. Don't go there. I mind his 969 00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:52,720 Speaker 1: body frontic gambling the truth. Okay's Gary, say, what do 970 00:59:52,800 --> 00:59:58,200 Speaker 1: you mean you've been up all night doing what acting? 971 00:59:58,360 --> 01:00:01,000 Speaker 1: Christ see Schrley. You wasn't here. I'm in Las Vegas 972 01:00:01,280 --> 01:00:07,120 Speaker 1: at the convention. Oh okay, okay. Then she was late, 973 01:00:07,200 --> 01:00:09,080 Speaker 1: so you didn't know that. He'd have been here on 974 01:00:09,200 --> 01:00:12,400 Speaker 1: town and you'd have known what's going on. Okay, I'm here, 975 01:00:12,480 --> 01:00:16,800 Speaker 1: now go here. That's what you mean, you've been up 976 01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:20,840 Speaker 1: all night? Exactly what I mean? I'm in here catching hell. 977 01:00:22,240 --> 01:00:24,000 Speaker 1: I should have been in the being with my old 978 01:00:26,520 --> 01:00:30,200 Speaker 1: seventy five. I don't know what the hell man, I 979 01:00:30,240 --> 01:00:32,080 Speaker 1: don't know what I was thinking about. But I can't 980 01:00:32,160 --> 01:00:37,080 Speaker 1: do this no more. I'm hurting sitting up in here. 981 01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:39,880 Speaker 1: Let's get back to the letter. He said, if he 982 01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:44,200 Speaker 1: don't want to go to church, you nagging him to 983 01:00:44,280 --> 01:00:49,040 Speaker 1: go to church. Now, I have personal experience with this. 984 01:00:50,320 --> 01:00:55,120 Speaker 1: My father didn't go to church much. He didn't. This 985 01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:59,520 Speaker 1: is true. My mother and father were married for sixty 986 01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:09,720 Speaker 1: folk years, wow, six time. I remember. My father would 987 01:01:09,760 --> 01:01:15,080 Speaker 1: go twice a year, sometimes on Easter and sometimes Christmas 988 01:01:15,320 --> 01:01:19,040 Speaker 1: or Mother's Day. My dad would go a couple of 989 01:01:19,080 --> 01:01:21,360 Speaker 1: times a year. He went a little bit more later on, 990 01:01:22,280 --> 01:01:24,840 Speaker 1: but my dad was never much of a church gore. 991 01:01:26,040 --> 01:01:28,000 Speaker 1: My dad was wanting to find this man I ever 992 01:01:28,160 --> 01:01:32,360 Speaker 1: knew because he liked this man, saying, you say he's 993 01:01:32,520 --> 01:01:37,520 Speaker 1: very moral. My father was a righteous man. He was 994 01:01:37,720 --> 01:01:41,720 Speaker 1: righteous man. This dude, he was just a good dude. 995 01:01:42,760 --> 01:01:45,080 Speaker 1: Now you're gonna pass up on this man, like your 996 01:01:45,120 --> 01:01:50,480 Speaker 1: sisters say, you being crazy? First of all, how are 997 01:01:50,480 --> 01:01:52,919 Speaker 1: you gonna when you're gonna find another one of these 998 01:01:55,440 --> 01:02:00,439 Speaker 1: shop dressing We're all meaning seventy five year old men 999 01:02:01,320 --> 01:02:06,160 Speaker 1: that ain't got nobody, They not everywhere. How you found 1000 01:02:06,240 --> 01:02:08,560 Speaker 1: this one is beyond me? Or how he found you 1001 01:02:08,760 --> 01:02:11,480 Speaker 1: is beyond me. I do not know, but I'll tell 1002 01:02:11,520 --> 01:02:17,440 Speaker 1: you what though, you better stay with this man. If 1003 01:02:17,520 --> 01:02:20,640 Speaker 1: I was you. Now when we come back, I'm gonna 1004 01:02:20,680 --> 01:02:24,760 Speaker 1: take a different approach to why I think he don't 1005 01:02:24,800 --> 01:02:29,960 Speaker 1: want to go to church. All right, all right, we'll 1006 01:02:30,040 --> 01:02:40,800 Speaker 1: let burn two if thieves respond coming out on chill, 1007 01:02:44,600 --> 01:02:51,280 Speaker 1: who are your past? Yeah? So yeah. The subject of 1008 01:02:51,360 --> 01:02:56,920 Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter today, I thought sales sermons on tape 1009 01:02:57,080 --> 01:03:02,200 Speaker 1: after services heard. I thought I thought I found the 1010 01:03:02,240 --> 01:03:05,000 Speaker 1: perfect man. Part two of Steve's response coming up at 1011 01:03:05,000 --> 01:03:09,480 Speaker 1: twenty three after the hour. Right after this, you're listening 1012 01:03:09,760 --> 01:03:13,680 Speaker 1: to Steve Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve, let's 1013 01:03:13,720 --> 01:03:17,080 Speaker 1: recap today's Strawberry Letter. Subject I thought I found the 1014 01:03:17,160 --> 01:03:23,400 Speaker 1: perfect man. Hello, this letter is simple. What I told you. 1015 01:03:23,480 --> 01:03:28,360 Speaker 1: I'm tired. Now listen to me, mad what you did? 1016 01:03:30,040 --> 01:03:35,040 Speaker 1: I'm on a delay. Come on, damn it, I'm on 1017 01:03:35,200 --> 01:03:40,360 Speaker 1: a delay. Not my system. Your stuff is working fine? 1018 01:03:40,560 --> 01:03:45,720 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm on Steve Harvey gosh, mentally on a delay. 1019 01:03:46,640 --> 01:03:49,360 Speaker 1: You was just sleep strayed up all night long. But 1020 01:03:49,520 --> 01:03:56,120 Speaker 1: like I'm farting, It hurts, don't it hurt? Remember when 1021 01:03:56,160 --> 01:03:58,880 Speaker 1: you were to sleep on the air that time. I 1022 01:03:59,000 --> 01:04:04,959 Speaker 1: can't do it. When you fell a sleeping the owned 1023 01:04:04,960 --> 01:04:08,000 Speaker 1: while we was on the half. Yeah, when his shoes off, 1024 01:04:08,560 --> 01:04:10,680 Speaker 1: one shoe on. But wait, did you hear him? SA, 1025 01:04:11,000 --> 01:04:20,480 Speaker 1: that was some good sleep, Mike. I had them head 1026 01:04:20,520 --> 01:04:23,080 Speaker 1: sets on. They were so damn loud, I said, straight up. 1027 01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:25,480 Speaker 1: I looked at him to white men. I didn't even 1028 01:04:25,600 --> 01:04:28,520 Speaker 1: know where they came from, but I yelled. I was 1029 01:04:28,600 --> 01:04:37,720 Speaker 1: like Steve were he was doing an interview. He was 1030 01:04:37,800 --> 01:04:40,400 Speaker 1: doing an interview with some of our clients. Oh, dad 1031 01:04:40,520 --> 01:04:44,920 Speaker 1: saw me counting cards at the Steve coming back to 1032 01:04:45,000 --> 01:04:47,760 Speaker 1: the letter though seventy five years old, this simple, this 1033 01:04:47,920 --> 01:04:50,800 Speaker 1: lady Dayton, this man, he said everything, and she's ever 1034 01:04:50,880 --> 01:04:54,320 Speaker 1: wanted man seventy five shot dropping still sleeping within all 1035 01:04:54,400 --> 01:04:57,240 Speaker 1: this hill, get busy whenever you want to. But he 1036 01:04:57,320 --> 01:05:01,880 Speaker 1: don't want to go church with It's just that what's 1037 01:05:01,920 --> 01:05:04,920 Speaker 1: wrong with the church. Though, now we're gonna get into that. 1038 01:05:06,240 --> 01:05:08,360 Speaker 1: My father didn't go to church much either, So that 1039 01:05:08,480 --> 01:05:10,960 Speaker 1: don't make you a bad person. You could be very 1040 01:05:11,080 --> 01:05:14,840 Speaker 1: righteous person not be an attendee of church. But now 1041 01:05:14,960 --> 01:05:17,600 Speaker 1: you're saying you've talked about marriage with him, but if 1042 01:05:17,640 --> 01:05:20,040 Speaker 1: he can't say yes to going to church, you can't 1043 01:05:20,080 --> 01:05:24,520 Speaker 1: say yes to getting married. Well, he keeps he's pretty 1044 01:05:24,560 --> 01:05:28,760 Speaker 1: adamant that you nagging him about this church. Maybe he 1045 01:05:28,840 --> 01:05:36,160 Speaker 1: don't won't go to your church? Yes? Fine? Now, first question? 1046 01:05:36,480 --> 01:05:42,840 Speaker 1: Does your church sail the sermon on CD or audio 1047 01:05:44,040 --> 01:05:49,360 Speaker 1: after service? A lot of churches? Has he heard a 1048 01:05:52,920 --> 01:05:57,840 Speaker 1: see everybody? Pastor k't preach? This is true? See what 1049 01:05:58,000 --> 01:06:00,160 Speaker 1: I Maybe he don't want to sit up there out 1050 01:06:00,200 --> 01:06:07,760 Speaker 1: of that dry sermon? What type of church you? Is it? Methodists? 1051 01:06:09,520 --> 01:06:14,120 Speaker 1: That don't matter? Do it that? No? I'm just asking 1052 01:06:14,160 --> 01:06:17,840 Speaker 1: a question because it's if it's Methodist, ain't no drums? 1053 01:06:18,880 --> 01:06:24,920 Speaker 1: He didn't tabourines? All good tars? She's an okay? Well, 1054 01:06:24,960 --> 01:06:29,360 Speaker 1: whatever it is. Maybe your pastor is dry. Unless here's 1055 01:06:29,400 --> 01:06:34,680 Speaker 1: another thing. Maybe what's the name of yok dry head? Oh? 1056 01:06:34,760 --> 01:06:39,800 Speaker 1: Maybe your pastors dry? Now here's the next question. What's 1057 01:06:39,840 --> 01:06:42,520 Speaker 1: the name of your choir? What do you mean? What 1058 01:06:42,600 --> 01:06:45,360 Speaker 1: do you mean if it's got one of them names 1059 01:06:45,480 --> 01:06:49,400 Speaker 1: that mean they don't sound like the gospel? Song birds? 1060 01:06:53,840 --> 01:06:59,000 Speaker 1: Don't nobody, They don't never sound good. What's your old 1061 01:06:59,120 --> 01:07:11,720 Speaker 1: crows up there? The song birds? They got crazy raw? 1062 01:07:12,920 --> 01:07:22,880 Speaker 1: Ye not with you? Don't nobody want to sit through that? Now, 1063 01:07:23,760 --> 01:07:28,720 Speaker 1: don't nobody don't know. I just wanted to see how 1064 01:07:28,720 --> 01:07:32,960 Speaker 1: I can phrase this and call and let me say, yeah, careful. 1065 01:07:34,920 --> 01:07:38,080 Speaker 1: I don't think your pastor and your choir is up 1066 01:07:38,120 --> 01:07:41,600 Speaker 1: to part. That's all I have to say. And I 1067 01:07:41,800 --> 01:07:45,720 Speaker 1: think that that's just been demoralizing for them to have 1068 01:07:45,920 --> 01:07:51,160 Speaker 1: to sit through the services that you're doing. Next question, 1069 01:07:51,680 --> 01:07:56,680 Speaker 1: it's your churchill stole front next to a liquor store. See, 1070 01:07:56,880 --> 01:07:59,840 Speaker 1: maybe he's a form of alcoholic. He can't go down 1071 01:08:00,040 --> 01:08:03,360 Speaker 1: that next to that licor Stoke and sit down and 1072 01:08:03,600 --> 01:08:09,280 Speaker 1: try to make it. Maybe it's a zoning zoning issue 1073 01:08:09,440 --> 01:08:13,600 Speaker 1: with the church and the in those zonn in issues 1074 01:08:13,640 --> 01:08:19,160 Speaker 1: in the hood this licor Stoke check cashing players church 1075 01:08:20,000 --> 01:08:28,799 Speaker 1: Deycilly and the motail motail or dey kill check cashing 1076 01:08:28,920 --> 01:08:37,000 Speaker 1: place or churches oh yeah chicken yeah then, or somebody 1077 01:08:37,160 --> 01:08:45,080 Speaker 1: selling chickens. This answer to this is all over the 1078 01:08:45,200 --> 01:08:49,080 Speaker 1: place because I've been up all the night. Kind of 1079 01:08:49,200 --> 01:08:53,760 Speaker 1: apologize for this response to the strawberry Little Steve Rob 1080 01:08:57,920 --> 01:09:04,880 Speaker 1: gotta do you boo now he was crazy today Tomorrow 1081 01:09:05,520 --> 01:09:08,400 Speaker 1: I got to be at work. I gotta do three 1082 01:09:08,439 --> 01:09:12,599 Speaker 1: shows man talk shows. Okay, so so at some point 1083 01:09:12,680 --> 01:09:15,000 Speaker 1: you need to get some sleep, is what you're saying. 1084 01:09:18,439 --> 01:09:21,560 Speaker 1: Excuse me, Shirley, Steve, what is the advice to the 1085 01:09:21,640 --> 01:09:23,519 Speaker 1: lady that wrote the letter? I'm trying to get it 1086 01:09:23,560 --> 01:09:26,479 Speaker 1: out of him. Yeah, her chas go to the chicken 1087 01:09:26,560 --> 01:09:34,880 Speaker 1: house and he just knock coming. Stop nagging him. What 1088 01:09:35,000 --> 01:09:37,560 Speaker 1: to tell her? He ain't going down. He's got to 1089 01:09:37,560 --> 01:09:40,080 Speaker 1: stop nagging him though. That's a good point she's got to. 1090 01:09:41,080 --> 01:09:44,640 Speaker 1: I would say, don't wear about it because man, let 1091 01:09:44,680 --> 01:09:47,840 Speaker 1: me tell you something, it's hard to find good man 1092 01:09:48,800 --> 01:09:50,840 Speaker 1: and he's a good man. He righteous. He just don't 1093 01:09:50,840 --> 01:09:53,360 Speaker 1: go to church much. Now he may eventually like my 1094 01:09:53,520 --> 01:09:56,519 Speaker 1: father due my father ended up going to church quite often. 1095 01:09:57,160 --> 01:10:00,960 Speaker 1: But you know she didn't do it on it. Yeah, yeah, 1096 01:10:01,400 --> 01:10:05,160 Speaker 1: that's true. All right, Well, thank you, Steve. Uh email 1097 01:10:05,280 --> 01:10:08,040 Speaker 1: us your Instagram as your thoughts on today's Strawberry letter 1098 01:10:08,280 --> 01:10:12,600 Speaker 1: at Steve Harvey FM. Is your shoes off right? Nursing? No? 1099 01:10:12,720 --> 01:10:16,080 Speaker 1: I got them on all right? Coming up in ten minutes, guys, 1100 01:10:16,160 --> 01:10:20,920 Speaker 1: that girl Cheryl from the Talk is gonna be here. 1101 01:10:21,280 --> 01:10:25,760 Speaker 1: You're listening to show. Coming up at the top of 1102 01:10:25,840 --> 01:10:28,880 Speaker 1: the hour, guys, Carla's Reality Update is back for the 1103 01:10:29,000 --> 01:10:31,880 Speaker 1: new year. Yeah, yeah, right, that's right. But right now, 1104 01:10:32,479 --> 01:10:35,519 Speaker 1: please Steve introduced our girl from The Talk, the One 1105 01:10:35,600 --> 01:10:42,479 Speaker 1: and Only shew the Pearl un That's right, baby, and 1106 01:10:42,560 --> 01:10:48,200 Speaker 1: I shall miss my Steve Harvey Morning Show family. Happy 1107 01:10:48,280 --> 01:10:52,040 Speaker 1: New Year, Happy New Year. And um, I know it's 1108 01:10:52,120 --> 01:10:56,080 Speaker 1: today after, but happy Founder's Day. Jasy Brown my brother 1109 01:10:56,200 --> 01:10:58,519 Speaker 1: of five Beta Sigma, so I have to say that. 1110 01:10:58,920 --> 01:11:00,920 Speaker 1: And we're coming up to the founders Day of Zata 1111 01:11:01,000 --> 01:11:03,880 Speaker 1: five Beta, So happy birthday, heavy founders day to all 1112 01:11:03,960 --> 01:11:07,920 Speaker 1: my my son. You know it, you know it. Listen, man, 1113 01:11:08,360 --> 01:11:11,880 Speaker 1: they got him, they got him, They got little Sure. 1114 01:11:12,160 --> 01:11:16,000 Speaker 1: First of all, Pelosi ain't no Joe. But no she's not. 1115 01:11:16,240 --> 01:11:19,240 Speaker 1: I love she ain't cracking, no smile. She came back 1116 01:11:19,280 --> 01:11:22,479 Speaker 1: with a vengeance. Held to the n to the double. No, no, no, 1117 01:11:23,120 --> 01:11:28,240 Speaker 1: you ain't getting no money for this. What did you say, Junior? 1118 01:11:28,439 --> 01:11:32,240 Speaker 1: Who do you say they was? You? Who you said 1119 01:11:32,280 --> 01:11:37,120 Speaker 1: it was? Ok? You said they? That's Joe Friday. That's Joe. 1120 01:11:37,560 --> 01:11:39,880 Speaker 1: That's drag that right there. That's what's the other dude 1121 01:11:39,920 --> 01:11:43,519 Speaker 1: that was with Joe Friday. The other dude Morgan, Harry Morgan. 1122 01:11:43,680 --> 01:11:46,160 Speaker 1: That went to play on mash That's that's Joe Friday 1123 01:11:46,240 --> 01:11:52,200 Speaker 1: right now. Oh listen, man, what I should have did 1124 01:11:52,280 --> 01:11:56,679 Speaker 1: my mother to call me and my mother old school 1125 01:11:56,800 --> 01:11:59,240 Speaker 1: shows right there, but they listen to me. They ain't 1126 01:11:59,280 --> 01:12:02,639 Speaker 1: giving him no rhythm. President Trump should have did everything 1127 01:12:02,760 --> 01:12:04,800 Speaker 1: he had to do when he had control of the 1128 01:12:04,920 --> 01:12:07,760 Speaker 1: House and the Senate. They ain't giving him no love. 1129 01:12:07,920 --> 01:12:10,599 Speaker 1: And that new dude that they got in the ball 1130 01:12:10,920 --> 01:12:14,240 Speaker 1: that they about to put into the Justice apology, Oh 1131 01:12:14,320 --> 01:12:17,720 Speaker 1: he hadn't already said, I'm cool with Muller. Whatever he 1132 01:12:17,880 --> 01:12:20,479 Speaker 1: trying to do, I'm trying to hear it. So this 1133 01:12:20,640 --> 01:12:23,479 Speaker 1: ain't gonna go the way he think. The Agent Orange 1134 01:12:23,640 --> 01:12:27,240 Speaker 1: is out the building, Commander and cheat old ain't happening 1135 01:12:27,360 --> 01:12:30,240 Speaker 1: no more if it's done, baby. And I'm a Republican. 1136 01:12:30,360 --> 01:12:34,160 Speaker 1: And when Republicans start bailing on each other, it's over, baby. 1137 01:12:34,320 --> 01:12:37,720 Speaker 1: And they're bailing on each other. They bailing. So what 1138 01:12:37,800 --> 01:12:41,479 Speaker 1: are you saying, Ryl, What's what's going on? Well, I'm 1139 01:12:41,479 --> 01:12:43,599 Speaker 1: gonna tell you what I think gonna happen. I think 1140 01:12:43,680 --> 01:12:46,439 Speaker 1: they building the legal case. See how they got Richard 1141 01:12:46,520 --> 01:12:49,439 Speaker 1: Nixon to resign with the Watergate. He went to the 1142 01:12:49,560 --> 01:12:51,560 Speaker 1: Senate and they said, we don't have the vote to 1143 01:12:51,680 --> 01:12:55,439 Speaker 1: save you from this impeachment, so he resigned. I believe 1144 01:12:55,880 --> 01:12:59,559 Speaker 1: Trump's is going to resign to save his family because 1145 01:12:59,600 --> 01:13:01,799 Speaker 1: all of this. I'm going to jail, all his friends 1146 01:13:01,880 --> 01:13:04,160 Speaker 1: going to jail, and he gonna go to jail. You 1147 01:13:04,280 --> 01:13:07,320 Speaker 1: think he's going to resign, Cheryl, Yeah, girl, he gonna 1148 01:13:07,720 --> 01:13:12,920 Speaker 1: quar Donald True gonna resign in twenty nineteen. Do you 1149 01:13:13,040 --> 01:13:16,360 Speaker 1: know why Muller is not talking? And he looked just 1150 01:13:16,600 --> 01:13:22,240 Speaker 1: like the boy off Law and Order Jny looked like 1151 01:13:22,360 --> 01:13:25,280 Speaker 1: the talk with that white man name. He looked just 1152 01:13:25,600 --> 01:13:31,240 Speaker 1: like him. It's over, it's done. Yeah, I thought he 1153 01:13:31,280 --> 01:13:35,160 Speaker 1: was still alive. No, no, yeah, he's still like way 1154 01:13:36,920 --> 01:13:38,519 Speaker 1: let me tell old the dude that used to be 1155 01:13:38,640 --> 01:13:41,360 Speaker 1: the song and dance man that was in guys and towns, 1156 01:13:41,720 --> 01:13:47,240 Speaker 1: he's the one going down baby, but way man, hold on, 1157 01:13:47,720 --> 01:13:51,639 Speaker 1: hold on, I got questions. What kind of lace front 1158 01:13:51,760 --> 01:13:56,479 Speaker 1: are we wearing? Now? Listen, y'all know I got the 1159 01:13:56,560 --> 01:13:59,200 Speaker 1: shiny boss spot in the front. So I need to 1160 01:13:59,320 --> 01:14:05,400 Speaker 1: know how was Usher usher? And he he got his 1161 01:14:05,520 --> 01:14:08,240 Speaker 1: head done too. Let me tell you, I need to 1162 01:14:08,360 --> 01:14:10,479 Speaker 1: know what they using? Is they? What are they using 1163 01:14:10,520 --> 01:14:16,240 Speaker 1: cremin nature. Yeah, so for eight what are they are? 1164 01:14:16,240 --> 01:14:21,720 Speaker 1: They're using afrocheen. The head is thick and beautiful when 1165 01:14:21,800 --> 01:14:26,160 Speaker 1: they walk bringing back Pimppet, Pippet, Pimpet Fried Die late 1166 01:14:26,400 --> 01:14:28,880 Speaker 1: to the side. I need to know what they use. 1167 01:14:29,000 --> 01:14:33,280 Speaker 1: You don't have to be balls. Well, well, I don't 1168 01:14:33,320 --> 01:14:37,439 Speaker 1: have no choice nothing. No, I have nothing to hang on. No, 1169 01:14:37,640 --> 01:14:39,360 Speaker 1: you got to have something to hang on in the 1170 01:14:39,479 --> 01:14:42,560 Speaker 1: front because when you I don't sweat, but I do 1171 01:14:42,720 --> 01:14:48,519 Speaker 1: get the vapors and that brings so you don't hold 1172 01:14:48,600 --> 01:14:51,920 Speaker 1: it down enough, so it lay down, then it rolled up. 1173 01:14:52,200 --> 01:14:55,120 Speaker 1: So now I need to know what usher is using. 1174 01:14:55,200 --> 01:14:59,280 Speaker 1: Flush your hands. Cute and young job. You see this yao? 1175 01:14:59,479 --> 01:15:02,960 Speaker 1: When he first Yeah, I like now Nick Cannon, Nick 1176 01:15:03,040 --> 01:15:05,840 Speaker 1: Canna was on ourselves he cut his hair off. Yeah, 1177 01:15:05,880 --> 01:15:09,120 Speaker 1: but I like that. I like that that curl that 1178 01:15:09,240 --> 01:15:11,880 Speaker 1: that was hanging down, you know, like he was off 1179 01:15:11,960 --> 01:15:16,120 Speaker 1: Cottage Grove. He looked like one of the dudes that 1180 01:15:16,280 --> 01:15:20,360 Speaker 1: be hanging out at the Guyfather. You know how to 1181 01:15:20,439 --> 01:15:24,719 Speaker 1: go back to Chicago. Listen to me, Steve Harvey. Yeah, 1182 01:15:25,160 --> 01:15:29,160 Speaker 1: the Filipino girl wanted to miss Universe. Yeah, all the 1183 01:15:29,240 --> 01:15:32,679 Speaker 1: Filipino every Filipino. I know. So I thought the girl 1184 01:15:32,760 --> 01:15:35,960 Speaker 1: from South Africa was going yeah, yeah, yeah, Yeah, she 1185 01:15:36,680 --> 01:15:40,519 Speaker 1: did a thing. She was fabulous, but she fumbled at 1186 01:15:40,520 --> 01:15:43,400 Speaker 1: the head at the end. Yeah, her question. She fumbled 1187 01:15:43,439 --> 01:15:46,640 Speaker 1: it and I think that cost her. That's what they 1188 01:15:46,680 --> 01:15:50,200 Speaker 1: could have easily given it to Miss Venezuela. Though she 1189 01:15:50,400 --> 01:15:53,679 Speaker 1: was gorgeous. Yeah she was. She looked good. Yes, you know, Steve, 1190 01:15:53,760 --> 01:15:56,080 Speaker 1: you don't brought it back. I tell you the Steve, 1191 01:15:56,160 --> 01:15:59,679 Speaker 1: I told you we was not watching Miss Universe. Last 1192 01:15:59,720 --> 01:16:02,320 Speaker 1: time we watched was in the mid seventy when that 1193 01:16:02,360 --> 01:16:05,639 Speaker 1: black girl won from Trinidad Tobago, that dodskinned black girl. 1194 01:16:05,880 --> 01:16:09,760 Speaker 1: They commencing on she won, And now we watch every 1195 01:16:09,880 --> 01:16:12,400 Speaker 1: year because Steve, you make the show. You you make 1196 01:16:12,479 --> 01:16:14,639 Speaker 1: the show. I mean, the women are beautiful, but we're 1197 01:16:14,680 --> 01:16:19,240 Speaker 1: really watching for you. No, no, yeah, I'll be watching 1198 01:16:19,280 --> 01:16:24,519 Speaker 1: to see the outfit. No, the jacket. I was getting 1199 01:16:24,560 --> 01:16:28,360 Speaker 1: ready to say that jacket, that black Velvets shirts, that 1200 01:16:28,520 --> 01:16:31,080 Speaker 1: bling on it. What I say, sir, about to say 1201 01:16:31,160 --> 01:16:34,519 Speaker 1: something about it. That was a nice job. Listen to me, Steve. 1202 01:16:34,960 --> 01:16:38,640 Speaker 1: I need I need a thirty five wide but for 1203 01:16:38,760 --> 01:16:42,280 Speaker 1: the day time, I mean I need a forty two 1204 01:16:42,360 --> 01:16:45,439 Speaker 1: wide Steves like getting getting them buttons around my stomach. 1205 01:16:45,520 --> 01:16:50,360 Speaker 1: That was a cold jacket, white cold. That was cold 1206 01:16:50,400 --> 01:16:54,840 Speaker 1: blooded jacket. Yeah, I need a forty two wide right 1207 01:16:54,880 --> 01:16:56,360 Speaker 1: in the middle of the world. I hope they do 1208 01:16:56,479 --> 01:16:59,200 Speaker 1: it in the South Africannection. Oh, I'm gonna go to that. 1209 01:17:00,479 --> 01:17:04,120 Speaker 1: WHOA to the mother law change? All right, Cheryl, We 1210 01:17:04,280 --> 01:17:07,799 Speaker 1: thank you, we love you. Were you happy pre birthday? 1211 01:17:07,880 --> 01:17:09,840 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Don't act like I don't know when your 1212 01:17:09,880 --> 01:17:14,320 Speaker 1: birthday is to get there, because I know you had 1213 01:17:14,400 --> 01:17:17,760 Speaker 1: good meat at your birthday. Body all right. Coming up 1214 01:17:17,800 --> 01:17:22,080 Speaker 1: to the top of the hour, Kyla's Reality Update right 1215 01:17:22,160 --> 01:17:29,920 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening, all right, Cheryl. We had to 1216 01:17:29,960 --> 01:17:31,800 Speaker 1: bring you back in because you talked about a lot 1217 01:17:31,840 --> 01:17:36,559 Speaker 1: of stuff, but you did not hit Chicago Homie. R Kelly, Oh, 1218 01:17:36,800 --> 01:17:38,880 Speaker 1: let me chase. I'm Shunley Scrawberries. I was trying to 1219 01:17:38,920 --> 01:17:41,800 Speaker 1: restrain myself, but I have a personal story I want 1220 01:17:41,840 --> 01:17:45,120 Speaker 1: to hit. Yeah, I was talking to R. Kelly in 1221 01:17:45,280 --> 01:17:49,360 Speaker 1: the latest bathroom of the Copper Box. Shuny Strawberry, don't 1222 01:17:49,400 --> 01:17:52,240 Speaker 1: look at me, craz in the Copper Box. That's right 1223 01:17:52,560 --> 01:17:54,920 Speaker 1: right off on the Wild Wilde undress and I knew 1224 01:17:55,000 --> 01:17:56,640 Speaker 1: he was a tripped in. I was singing with a 1225 01:17:56,720 --> 01:18:01,720 Speaker 1: band called Platinum Touch. Tommy Touch, Yeah, that's the name 1226 01:18:01,760 --> 01:18:06,160 Speaker 1: of the band. Juniors, was Platinum Touch. You were thinking 1227 01:18:07,080 --> 01:18:09,640 Speaker 1: with the band for real, Steve, And I was singing, Uh, 1228 01:18:09,800 --> 01:18:11,599 Speaker 1: what's the song You're gonna make me love somebody else? 1229 01:18:11,640 --> 01:18:14,360 Speaker 1: But that's the Jones girls. If you keep on treating 1230 01:18:14,400 --> 01:18:16,599 Speaker 1: me the way you do. Yea, I sang my song, 1231 01:18:17,040 --> 01:18:19,040 Speaker 1: you know, and after I, you know, kept drinking that 1232 01:18:19,120 --> 01:18:21,120 Speaker 1: crown row. I had to go to the bathroom. So 1233 01:18:21,240 --> 01:18:25,720 Speaker 1: I went to the bathroom. Was Ara Kelly, Yes, And 1234 01:18:25,840 --> 01:18:27,880 Speaker 1: I knew he was strange then, because you know they 1235 01:18:27,960 --> 01:18:31,200 Speaker 1: have peppermint, they have deodorant they have. I said, what 1236 01:18:31,479 --> 01:18:35,160 Speaker 1: is You're gonna catch me? Caller? Catch me Reddy? Ready? 1237 01:18:35,240 --> 01:18:40,960 Speaker 1: And what is your black ass doing? Okay? Now people say, well, 1238 01:18:41,040 --> 01:18:44,080 Speaker 1: why is his music going up? Because people have a 1239 01:18:44,240 --> 01:18:47,400 Speaker 1: more of a curiosity. Now, Agnition was the cut, but 1240 01:18:47,560 --> 01:18:50,160 Speaker 1: we all knew something wrong with this negro when he 1241 01:18:50,360 --> 01:18:53,640 Speaker 1: made seemed like he ready and twelve play because that 1242 01:18:53,800 --> 01:18:55,800 Speaker 1: ignorant right now, let him tell you what they need 1243 01:18:55,880 --> 01:18:58,639 Speaker 1: to do, not listen. He got away with it because 1244 01:18:58,800 --> 01:19:01,240 Speaker 1: I think Now this is my personal opinion. They paid 1245 01:19:01,320 --> 01:19:03,840 Speaker 1: off everybody so that they wouldn't do what they need 1246 01:19:03,920 --> 01:19:06,600 Speaker 1: to do. That's what I believe, and I believe this 1247 01:19:06,720 --> 01:19:09,479 Speaker 1: is a colt. I'm telling the truth. Listen, it's common 1248 01:19:09,680 --> 01:19:12,280 Speaker 1: is right that the community we let the girls down. 1249 01:19:12,800 --> 01:19:16,080 Speaker 1: Immunity let the girl down. I love John Legend. Now 1250 01:19:16,160 --> 01:19:19,400 Speaker 1: he might sing soft and lovable, but he hard as 1251 01:19:19,439 --> 01:19:22,040 Speaker 1: a mug. Because John Legends say, I'd have had no 1252 01:19:22,560 --> 01:19:25,680 Speaker 1: compulsion to pull back on him. I wasn't supporting that. 1253 01:19:26,000 --> 01:19:29,040 Speaker 1: So you're gonna do the crime and the time deca 1254 01:19:29,200 --> 01:19:32,280 Speaker 1: gonna Yeah, that's that's I know. I just think that 1255 01:19:32,479 --> 01:19:38,000 Speaker 1: he is, you know, I think for me, just being honest, 1256 01:19:38,640 --> 01:19:44,120 Speaker 1: I was completely stunned watching this thing as me when 1257 01:19:44,200 --> 01:19:47,400 Speaker 1: people go I knew, I knew. Well, if you knew 1258 01:19:47,560 --> 01:19:51,120 Speaker 1: that and your aunts didn't do nothing, it's something wrong 1259 01:19:51,240 --> 01:19:53,920 Speaker 1: with you. You just like the people that worked for him. 1260 01:19:54,160 --> 01:19:56,560 Speaker 1: Sitting up there in black shadow and all that, I 1261 01:19:56,720 --> 01:19:58,920 Speaker 1: used to see him come here with don why don't 1262 01:19:58,920 --> 01:20:02,840 Speaker 1: you do nothing? I can honestly say I had no 1263 01:20:03,200 --> 01:20:06,600 Speaker 1: idea it was of this magnitude. Had I known this, 1264 01:20:07,600 --> 01:20:10,439 Speaker 1: I promise you I would have done something because I'm 1265 01:20:10,520 --> 01:20:13,320 Speaker 1: that type of dude. Man, Well, I don't care who 1266 01:20:13,439 --> 01:20:15,760 Speaker 1: you are. No, I don't care who you are, how 1267 01:20:16,000 --> 01:20:19,240 Speaker 1: who we are? That's right, But that is no way, 1268 01:20:19,840 --> 01:20:22,680 Speaker 1: and I feel like common and I feel like so 1269 01:20:22,880 --> 01:20:27,639 Speaker 1: many black men feel today. We feel like we let 1270 01:20:27,880 --> 01:20:31,880 Speaker 1: so many women down. And a black man, I take 1271 01:20:31,960 --> 01:20:36,240 Speaker 1: responsible responsibility for that, even though I didn't know how, 1272 01:20:36,479 --> 01:20:43,240 Speaker 1: didn't we know? But see what would? But what I'm 1273 01:20:43,240 --> 01:20:45,920 Speaker 1: gonna tell you, honest to God, true, when you go 1274 01:20:46,120 --> 01:20:50,280 Speaker 1: to people and they being brainwashed and they got Stockholm syndrome, 1275 01:20:50,520 --> 01:20:52,759 Speaker 1: even if you say you don't need to be about 1276 01:20:52,800 --> 01:20:55,759 Speaker 1: this life so odd that you will let this happen, 1277 01:20:56,040 --> 01:21:02,519 Speaker 1: and then people denying that it ever happened the family na, no, no, no, 1278 01:21:02,560 --> 01:21:06,400 Speaker 1: no no, because now we provide the out because we're 1279 01:21:06,479 --> 01:21:09,880 Speaker 1: saying that you know you, you knew and you was 1280 01:21:10,040 --> 01:21:15,679 Speaker 1: grown and family members. No, I'm saying that this dude 1281 01:21:15,840 --> 01:21:19,880 Speaker 1: right here, for what he did, his ass deserves to 1282 01:21:19,960 --> 01:21:24,519 Speaker 1: ask whipping for brainwashing them, Yes, making them feel some 1283 01:21:24,720 --> 01:21:28,880 Speaker 1: kind of way for destroying their selfis for taking advantage 1284 01:21:28,880 --> 01:21:33,679 Speaker 1: of for using them pokass mentality on all these sisters. 1285 01:21:33,960 --> 01:21:38,679 Speaker 1: That's what I'm baby, didn't even see his ass. Listen. 1286 01:21:38,840 --> 01:21:41,080 Speaker 1: I didn't even see him doing it to him like that, 1287 01:21:41,360 --> 01:21:43,080 Speaker 1: and I wish I had him because I would have 1288 01:21:43,120 --> 01:21:45,800 Speaker 1: done something. Now, what would you have done, Steve? All 1289 01:21:45,880 --> 01:21:48,360 Speaker 1: I can tell you is it wouldn't have been illegal. Well, 1290 01:21:48,439 --> 01:21:50,360 Speaker 1: let me tell you something. I think that it got 1291 01:21:50,479 --> 01:21:53,040 Speaker 1: to go further than this. You got to cut I 1292 01:21:53,120 --> 01:21:55,679 Speaker 1: believe I can fly out of space jam. You gotta 1293 01:21:55,920 --> 01:21:59,320 Speaker 1: lose the contract at RCA. See, people don't take this serious. 1294 01:21:59,360 --> 01:22:02,120 Speaker 1: Un tell you if them in the pocket, then the pot. 1295 01:22:02,120 --> 01:22:03,920 Speaker 1: You gotta hit him in the pocket. But I'm gonna 1296 01:22:03,920 --> 01:22:06,040 Speaker 1: tell you something from the things that I knew and 1297 01:22:06,160 --> 01:22:08,479 Speaker 1: the things that I saw, and when I would say, 1298 01:22:08,520 --> 01:22:10,400 Speaker 1: you know what that that girl looked kind of young? 1299 01:22:10,720 --> 01:22:12,439 Speaker 1: What is that? What is what is that going on? 1300 01:22:12,680 --> 01:22:15,720 Speaker 1: If people don't listen to you, all you're doing is 1301 01:22:15,800 --> 01:22:18,320 Speaker 1: talking to somebody with syl Get up out of here, 1302 01:22:18,360 --> 01:22:21,639 Speaker 1: I will, okay, But that's that's a child and then 1303 01:22:21,760 --> 01:22:24,479 Speaker 1: the family members. I'm not giving him a pass. I'm 1304 01:22:24,520 --> 01:22:27,080 Speaker 1: just saying we as a culture need to stop doing 1305 01:22:27,120 --> 01:22:29,240 Speaker 1: it to ourselves. You need to stop wanting to be 1306 01:22:29,360 --> 01:22:35,280 Speaker 1: famous so bad that you bring your child's child over that, 1307 01:22:35,600 --> 01:22:38,519 Speaker 1: or you don't want to admit that it even happened, 1308 01:22:38,800 --> 01:22:40,960 Speaker 1: knowing good damn well, you had a marriage license that 1309 01:22:41,080 --> 01:22:43,599 Speaker 1: you had to acknowledge. But you would say, oh, make 1310 01:22:43,680 --> 01:22:47,160 Speaker 1: my child famous, let my child go backstage. Me and 1311 01:22:47,360 --> 01:22:50,960 Speaker 1: Leslie Jones telling R Kelly jokes back then, trying to 1312 01:22:51,040 --> 01:22:54,880 Speaker 1: get it out. But all I can say is using 1313 01:22:55,120 --> 01:23:00,280 Speaker 1: your kids as your day meal tick. That's it's right. 1314 01:23:00,680 --> 01:23:03,200 Speaker 1: That gave them a chance to grow up and develop 1315 01:23:03,520 --> 01:23:07,000 Speaker 1: where they can make smarter decisions. That's right. Most child 1316 01:23:07,200 --> 01:23:10,519 Speaker 1: stars in this business, Shirley. You notice, for fast, most 1317 01:23:10,680 --> 01:23:14,960 Speaker 1: child stars, when that little cute period that little characters go, 1318 01:23:15,760 --> 01:23:19,680 Speaker 1: they have a dismal life because they've been coddled and 1319 01:23:19,840 --> 01:23:22,400 Speaker 1: they don't know the realities of life, so they've never 1320 01:23:22,600 --> 01:23:25,760 Speaker 1: been given the real shot of life. Then they grow up, 1321 01:23:25,800 --> 01:23:28,240 Speaker 1: they ain't cute them all, But when you're farting, they 1322 01:23:28,280 --> 01:23:31,759 Speaker 1: don't mean the damn thing. See Emmanuel Lewis took himself 1323 01:23:31,840 --> 01:23:34,720 Speaker 1: and went to college. In school, Emmanuel Lewis went on 1324 01:23:34,880 --> 01:23:39,040 Speaker 1: with his life. The average child star does not pick 1325 01:23:39,160 --> 01:23:42,280 Speaker 1: up the pieces. Well. And when we take our children 1326 01:23:42,560 --> 01:23:45,439 Speaker 1: and push them into the business, because that's their ticket. 1327 01:23:45,520 --> 01:23:48,280 Speaker 1: They want to be famous and rich. Caused the parrot. 1328 01:23:49,600 --> 01:23:53,879 Speaker 1: The parents won't that too, sending a pout. She's seventeen 1329 01:23:54,040 --> 01:23:56,080 Speaker 1: talking about if y'all don't let me, I'm gonna just 1330 01:23:56,240 --> 01:23:58,200 Speaker 1: do this. Well, i'll tell you what. You're gonna do 1331 01:23:58,280 --> 01:24:00,280 Speaker 1: it with the skin off your ass? How about there? 1332 01:24:00,600 --> 01:24:03,240 Speaker 1: You know, and you can't even talk about, you know 1333 01:24:03,479 --> 01:24:06,960 Speaker 1: what we would normally do. You can't talk about corporate punishment. Now, 1334 01:24:07,280 --> 01:24:10,760 Speaker 1: you can't talk about who has a responsibility for an 1335 01:24:10,840 --> 01:24:13,479 Speaker 1: underaged child because that's how he started. They may have 1336 01:24:13,600 --> 01:24:16,519 Speaker 1: been grown women by the time this story came out, 1337 01:24:17,160 --> 01:24:19,400 Speaker 1: you know, and people knew what was going on, and 1338 01:24:19,560 --> 01:24:22,639 Speaker 1: people worked with him. But why aren't people talking All 1339 01:24:22,680 --> 01:24:24,800 Speaker 1: the people that worked with him that wouldn't didn't want 1340 01:24:24,840 --> 01:24:27,840 Speaker 1: to talk about it on camera. I'm gonna say this, 1341 01:24:28,000 --> 01:24:30,439 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna end with this because they were black 1342 01:24:31,120 --> 01:24:34,599 Speaker 1: and it was a different socio economic background. Look how 1343 01:24:34,720 --> 01:24:39,880 Speaker 1: long this was allowed. Let's let's be real. Yeah, let's 1344 01:24:39,920 --> 01:24:42,880 Speaker 1: be real. We need to stop killing each other. We 1345 01:24:43,040 --> 01:24:45,680 Speaker 1: need to start having respect for each other, and we 1346 01:24:45,800 --> 01:24:48,840 Speaker 1: need to look out for each other. That jail house 1347 01:24:48,920 --> 01:24:53,000 Speaker 1: justice is no joke. No Jo, You're right, Thank you 1348 01:24:53,080 --> 01:24:57,000 Speaker 1: so much. We appreciate that so much. Wow, that kind 1349 01:24:57,000 --> 01:25:00,840 Speaker 1: of put it all into perspective. Yeah, switch gears. Here 1350 01:25:01,120 --> 01:25:04,680 Speaker 1: Carla standing by with the first reality update for the 1351 01:25:04,840 --> 01:25:07,439 Speaker 1: year for the one nine. All right, oh yeah, we're 1352 01:25:07,479 --> 01:25:11,200 Speaker 1: coming back with Carla's reality update. Right after this. You're 1353 01:25:11,280 --> 01:25:16,000 Speaker 1: listening to Steven show. Our girl, Carla is here with 1354 01:25:16,120 --> 01:25:20,439 Speaker 1: our first reality update of the year of the one nine. Carla, 1355 01:25:20,479 --> 01:25:22,880 Speaker 1: what you got girl? Get ready to get ready? Get ready? 1356 01:25:22,960 --> 01:25:29,240 Speaker 1: Get ready? It is Reality Update twenty nineteen. I introduced her. Shirley, 1357 01:25:29,439 --> 01:25:32,960 Speaker 1: you don't do that. Okay, Oh but you you're coming 1358 01:25:33,040 --> 01:25:35,200 Speaker 1: here late. Now, you're coming here late. You don't even 1359 01:25:35,200 --> 01:25:43,040 Speaker 1: know who you intro now this okay, many stupid Thank you, Shirley, 1360 01:25:43,200 --> 01:25:46,080 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. And wait a minute, Steve, you here 1361 01:25:46,120 --> 01:25:49,040 Speaker 1: for it? What'd you say? Oh? You know this is 1362 01:25:49,080 --> 01:25:51,880 Speaker 1: what I'm here for. All right, let's go with I'm 1363 01:25:51,880 --> 01:25:57,200 Speaker 1: an expert in reality okay for real? You created reality radio? Remember, yes, 1364 01:25:58,880 --> 01:26:01,080 Speaker 1: who I mean? Is I mean? All right? I am? 1365 01:26:01,200 --> 01:26:05,920 Speaker 1: I don't know Real Housewives of Atlanta Kinda that's kind 1366 01:26:05,920 --> 01:26:09,800 Speaker 1: of slow. I'm just struggling a little bit with the show. 1367 01:26:10,120 --> 01:26:12,960 Speaker 1: But here we go again. Candy and Porsche. They're beefing 1368 01:26:13,320 --> 01:26:17,639 Speaker 1: Porsche was invited to Todd's birthday party. Candy and Todd. 1369 01:26:18,760 --> 01:26:21,639 Speaker 1: She threw her birthday party for her husband. Porsche came 1370 01:26:21,680 --> 01:26:25,240 Speaker 1: to the birthday party. Porsche's current baby daddy, her current 1371 01:26:25,280 --> 01:26:29,120 Speaker 1: baby daddy, his ex girlfriend was there. The ex girlfriend 1372 01:26:29,320 --> 01:26:31,800 Speaker 1: was all talking to him and they were a little 1373 01:26:31,840 --> 01:26:35,200 Speaker 1: too closed. Porsche was like, what's going on? What's happening? 1374 01:26:35,720 --> 01:26:39,559 Speaker 1: Kids on the cheek? Long story short, Candy's crew kind 1375 01:26:39,600 --> 01:26:44,120 Speaker 1: of threw Porsche out the party, and Porsche was upset. 1376 01:26:44,640 --> 01:26:47,479 Speaker 1: She texts Candy about it, and Candy was like, I 1377 01:26:47,640 --> 01:26:49,439 Speaker 1: get back with you. I'm gonna see what's going on. 1378 01:26:49,560 --> 01:26:52,599 Speaker 1: Blah blah blah blah. So Candy didn't really see what happened, 1379 01:26:52,640 --> 01:26:55,720 Speaker 1: but her crew updated her and told her what went 1380 01:26:55,840 --> 01:26:58,479 Speaker 1: down at the party. I'm gonna tell you about that, 1381 01:26:58,600 --> 01:27:01,040 Speaker 1: but first I want to tell you about Cynthia and 1382 01:27:01,280 --> 01:27:06,400 Speaker 1: Mike Hill because you introduced them, right, Mike and Cynthia Bailey. 1383 01:27:06,520 --> 01:27:10,599 Speaker 1: Mike Hill, Yeah, so he came into town and uh, 1384 01:27:11,200 --> 01:27:13,400 Speaker 1: you know, they're dating long distance and they've been dating 1385 01:27:13,439 --> 01:27:16,240 Speaker 1: for a while. And Nini and Greg though they're still 1386 01:27:16,320 --> 01:27:21,400 Speaker 1: friends with Cynthia's ex Peter Peter, Yes, Papa s yeah, 1387 01:27:22,240 --> 01:27:26,639 Speaker 1: Peter got yeah. So Peter came by the house and they're, 1388 01:27:27,160 --> 01:27:30,000 Speaker 1: you know, Nini and Gregg right now on team Peter. 1389 01:27:30,479 --> 01:27:34,000 Speaker 1: So it's awkward. Yeah, it's awkward, right right, right, right right. 1390 01:27:34,240 --> 01:27:36,559 Speaker 1: So she was wondering what's he gonna pop the question. 1391 01:27:37,240 --> 01:27:40,040 Speaker 1: He did ask her to be his lady. So it 1392 01:27:40,200 --> 01:27:42,760 Speaker 1: was like, they're exclusive now, so when you go with me? 1393 01:27:42,880 --> 01:27:45,920 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. So she was like wamp. 1394 01:27:46,880 --> 01:27:50,040 Speaker 1: So they're really exclusive now. So you know, Cynthia's happy. 1395 01:27:50,360 --> 01:27:53,759 Speaker 1: Leading up to that, they had this Habachi grill party, 1396 01:27:54,000 --> 01:27:56,760 Speaker 1: Eva and all them through the party. So here comes 1397 01:27:56,840 --> 01:28:00,439 Speaker 1: Candy and Porscha. Oh right, So they have to really 1398 01:28:00,520 --> 01:28:04,200 Speaker 1: talk since Porsche got thrown out the birthday party. So 1399 01:28:04,280 --> 01:28:05,840 Speaker 1: that's why I had to lead back out to that. 1400 01:28:06,200 --> 01:28:10,880 Speaker 1: Porsche told Nannie and Cynthia that she was pregnant, that 1401 01:28:11,000 --> 01:28:15,160 Speaker 1: she's expecting, so but Candy doesn't know this. So yeah, 1402 01:28:15,320 --> 01:28:18,320 Speaker 1: they're at the party and they're talking and they're at 1403 01:28:18,360 --> 01:28:21,280 Speaker 1: the one of the other new cast members there at 1404 01:28:21,320 --> 01:28:22,840 Speaker 1: her house. I can't think her name right now. I 1405 01:28:22,880 --> 01:28:25,439 Speaker 1: think it's tunt Tanya, but anyway, they're at her house 1406 01:28:25,920 --> 01:28:30,120 Speaker 1: and so it just got heated and it Candy, you know, 1407 01:28:30,280 --> 01:28:32,720 Speaker 1: just real quickly, Candy and Porsche they're beef and they're 1408 01:28:32,800 --> 01:28:34,880 Speaker 1: arguing with each other and so, and I agree with 1409 01:28:34,960 --> 01:28:38,320 Speaker 1: what Cynthia was saying. Candy doesn't know that Porsche's pregnant. 1410 01:28:38,640 --> 01:28:41,600 Speaker 1: But Porsche, you know you pregnant. So calm all that 1411 01:28:41,800 --> 01:28:45,640 Speaker 1: down and all that yelling and should do though? What 1412 01:28:45,760 --> 01:28:47,680 Speaker 1: did they? What did she do? They said that she 1413 01:28:47,840 --> 01:28:50,240 Speaker 1: was causing drama, But Portione was like, her point to 1414 01:28:50,360 --> 01:28:53,200 Speaker 1: Candy was you're my friend, so you should have followed 1415 01:28:53,280 --> 01:28:56,280 Speaker 1: up and said what happened? You know what happened? Why 1416 01:28:56,320 --> 01:28:58,360 Speaker 1: did you get thrown out the party? And so Porsche 1417 01:28:58,439 --> 01:29:01,599 Speaker 1: felt like Candy wasn't her friend, and Candy was like whatever, 1418 01:29:02,080 --> 01:29:04,000 Speaker 1: you know, it just got ugly. But anyway, we gotta 1419 01:29:04,040 --> 01:29:06,080 Speaker 1: go hit me up at lips by Carlo. We can 1420 01:29:06,120 --> 01:29:11,160 Speaker 1: talk more about it. You're listening to show all right? 1421 01:29:11,200 --> 01:29:14,040 Speaker 1: Tomorrow morning, guys, make sure you tune into the Steve 1422 01:29:14,120 --> 01:29:17,519 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show because Kevin Hart. Kevin Hart will be 1423 01:29:17,600 --> 01:29:21,799 Speaker 1: our very special guest host tomorrow. Come on cap anybody 1424 01:29:21,880 --> 01:29:24,240 Speaker 1: see his interview. I saw a little part of it. 1425 01:29:24,760 --> 01:29:28,280 Speaker 1: Good Morning America, Good Morning America with Michael Strahand with 1426 01:29:28,400 --> 01:29:30,800 Speaker 1: Michael Strahan. One thing he said that I loved, and 1427 01:29:30,840 --> 01:29:33,640 Speaker 1: he said it repeatedly throughout the interview. I'm done with it. 1428 01:29:33,840 --> 01:29:36,280 Speaker 1: I'm done with this. I'm moving on. I'm done with it. 1429 01:29:36,520 --> 01:29:38,479 Speaker 1: So what do you have to say about this, Kevin? 1430 01:29:39,280 --> 01:29:44,960 Speaker 1: I'm say this, I'm done with What about this? About 1431 01:29:45,000 --> 01:29:47,760 Speaker 1: the whole you know, Oscar controversy, you know, with the 1432 01:29:48,720 --> 01:29:51,920 Speaker 1: the gay statements he had made back back back in 1433 01:29:52,000 --> 01:30:00,160 Speaker 1: The man apologized sometime yea, and recently apologized, Yes, that's 1434 01:30:00,160 --> 01:30:02,479 Speaker 1: why you said. He's done. But he'll be with us 1435 01:30:02,520 --> 01:30:04,680 Speaker 1: tomorrow to drop it up. Steve. Yeah, but he's all 1436 01:30:04,720 --> 01:30:10,719 Speaker 1: gonna talk about that. I can tell you that based 1437 01:30:10,760 --> 01:30:16,160 Speaker 1: on that interview, he's done. We're gonna have fun, he said, 1438 01:30:16,200 --> 01:30:19,240 Speaker 1: because it's never enough, he said, it's never ever enough. 1439 01:30:19,960 --> 01:30:22,519 Speaker 1: All right, So we'll talk about that. We'll also talk 1440 01:30:22,560 --> 01:30:26,240 Speaker 1: about Kevin's new movie. It's called The Upside with Brian Crans. 1441 01:30:26,640 --> 01:30:30,080 Speaker 1: That looks good. Yeah, that looks really good. So join 1442 01:30:30,200 --> 01:30:33,080 Speaker 1: us tomorrow morning for Kevin Hart and in other news 1443 01:30:33,200 --> 01:30:37,840 Speaker 1: Steve Um entertainment news. Many women. I know everybody wears 1444 01:30:37,880 --> 01:30:40,800 Speaker 1: a lace front wig from time to time. Yeah, I'm 1445 01:30:40,840 --> 01:30:43,880 Speaker 1: gay to color my hair, you'll wearing well, you're wearing well, 1446 01:30:44,240 --> 01:30:47,880 Speaker 1: thank you. I mean, you know, but apparently Meek Mill, 1447 01:30:48,200 --> 01:30:53,160 Speaker 1: who knew? I know you? Yeah, you don't. If if 1448 01:30:53,200 --> 01:30:56,719 Speaker 1: they're done right, you don't know. That's the thing, Steve. 1449 01:30:56,800 --> 01:30:58,760 Speaker 1: If they're done right, you don't. If you don't take 1450 01:30:58,800 --> 01:31:00,280 Speaker 1: it off in front of me, I just don't know. 1451 01:31:00,560 --> 01:31:07,719 Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm not upset about problem, but technically 1452 01:31:07,760 --> 01:31:11,040 Speaker 1: it ain't none exactly as long as you know what 1453 01:31:11,080 --> 01:31:15,439 Speaker 1: I'm saying. If you're not my woman, right, I can't 1454 01:31:15,479 --> 01:31:17,560 Speaker 1: comment on what you're doing with your hair, right. But 1455 01:31:17,640 --> 01:31:20,840 Speaker 1: he's not my woman, miss Mill. Steve said lace front 1456 01:31:20,880 --> 01:31:24,559 Speaker 1: wigs are whack. I'm protesting them. Uh, and after being 1457 01:31:24,640 --> 01:31:27,640 Speaker 1: trolled me issued this response, I'm sorry. I just had 1458 01:31:27,640 --> 01:31:33,519 Speaker 1: a few bad lace experiences that traumatized me. He said, 1459 01:31:33,560 --> 01:31:35,920 Speaker 1: you ever get food poisoning from eating something and never 1460 01:31:36,000 --> 01:31:38,599 Speaker 1: want to eat it again? He said, that's the same feeling. 1461 01:31:39,040 --> 01:31:40,960 Speaker 1: That it's the same feeling. He said, I'm off Twitter. 1462 01:31:41,240 --> 01:31:44,240 Speaker 1: I'm still not ready for Okay, let me someone explain 1463 01:31:44,520 --> 01:31:49,280 Speaker 1: lace front to me. Okay, lace front, how they make them? 1464 01:31:49,320 --> 01:31:52,400 Speaker 1: They put like um hair, weave hair or wig hair 1465 01:31:52,840 --> 01:31:54,920 Speaker 1: on top of you know, what a piece of like 1466 01:31:55,240 --> 01:32:02,040 Speaker 1: um nylons holes, yeah, different, Yeah, and they and it 1467 01:32:02,400 --> 01:32:05,360 Speaker 1: matches your skin colors, so you can't tell where the 1468 01:32:05,439 --> 01:32:08,560 Speaker 1: wig begins and your skin ends. And they do it 1469 01:32:08,600 --> 01:32:10,680 Speaker 1: really good. They do it really well. Okay, but if 1470 01:32:10,760 --> 01:32:14,160 Speaker 1: you can tell, it's probably where meek head exactly. Yeah, 1471 01:32:14,320 --> 01:32:18,400 Speaker 1: that's exactly. Oh like if your starts back up your head, 1472 01:32:19,120 --> 01:32:22,400 Speaker 1: you know, or it's too far down on your forehead, 1473 01:32:22,520 --> 01:32:26,840 Speaker 1: or you made your point. Yes, I kind of think 1474 01:32:26,920 --> 01:32:32,080 Speaker 1: I know where he's going. Too much baby hair something 1475 01:32:32,640 --> 01:32:37,320 Speaker 1: he don't if your lace front don't match the hand 1476 01:32:37,479 --> 01:32:42,120 Speaker 1: that showing, if your lace front ain't that only had 1477 01:32:42,280 --> 01:32:48,400 Speaker 1: this in the front. All right, Steve coming up our 1478 01:32:48,479 --> 01:32:51,800 Speaker 1: last break of the day, and Steve's closing remarks right 1479 01:32:51,840 --> 01:32:59,280 Speaker 1: after this at forty nine, after you're listening out the gate. Steve, 1480 01:32:59,360 --> 01:33:02,840 Speaker 1: you were so powerful with your first closing remark for us, 1481 01:33:03,040 --> 01:33:07,360 Speaker 1: and it's Monday, it's past Monday, and it's trending now 1482 01:33:07,600 --> 01:33:10,400 Speaker 1: and people are just into it and we thought it'd 1483 01:33:10,400 --> 01:33:12,720 Speaker 1: be good. You know, if you do that again, I mean, well, 1484 01:33:12,760 --> 01:33:15,400 Speaker 1: we're gonna play it now. Oh God, we want it 1485 01:33:15,439 --> 01:33:17,640 Speaker 1: again because I want to hear it, because you know, 1486 01:33:17,880 --> 01:33:20,400 Speaker 1: I don't write closing remarks down. I just do them 1487 01:33:20,840 --> 01:33:22,880 Speaker 1: from the heart, top of my head and my heart 1488 01:33:23,240 --> 01:33:26,240 Speaker 1: because I like for people to listen to me as 1489 01:33:26,320 --> 01:33:28,280 Speaker 1: i'm thinking. You know, I don't want people. I don't 1490 01:33:28,320 --> 01:33:31,240 Speaker 1: want to be scripted with people. So this is a 1491 01:33:31,439 --> 01:33:33,800 Speaker 1: this is a redo of what I did. I hope 1492 01:33:33,840 --> 01:33:39,479 Speaker 1: you enjoyed. You'll have a great weekend case thinking about it. 1493 01:33:41,120 --> 01:33:44,439 Speaker 1: And as always, as we set out on these new years, 1494 01:33:44,560 --> 01:33:48,160 Speaker 1: people have a tendency to make resolutions. I don't. I 1495 01:33:48,240 --> 01:33:52,320 Speaker 1: don't make resolutions for the new year because as soon 1496 01:33:52,400 --> 01:33:54,960 Speaker 1: as I think of what I want to do to 1497 01:33:55,080 --> 01:33:58,960 Speaker 1: improve myself, I don't wait to start improving at the 1498 01:33:59,040 --> 01:34:02,640 Speaker 1: beginning of the year. I start on Christmas Eve, Thanksgiving. 1499 01:34:02,680 --> 01:34:06,120 Speaker 1: I started August twenty second. It don't matter when the 1500 01:34:06,280 --> 01:34:09,599 Speaker 1: moment I think. So I used to do resolutions by 1501 01:34:09,640 --> 01:34:12,439 Speaker 1: don't do them anymore because life is too short to 1502 01:34:12,560 --> 01:34:15,519 Speaker 1: wait till the start of the year to begin. But 1503 01:34:15,680 --> 01:34:18,080 Speaker 1: how about if we look at it this way. Since 1504 01:34:18,240 --> 01:34:24,400 Speaker 1: God has afforded you this incredible opportunity called life, and 1505 01:34:24,600 --> 01:34:29,080 Speaker 1: we are all here, and even against all the odds, 1506 01:34:29,240 --> 01:34:33,479 Speaker 1: we somehow made it to twenty nineteen. I want to 1507 01:34:33,520 --> 01:34:37,680 Speaker 1: say this to you. You have a say soul in 1508 01:34:37,880 --> 01:34:42,040 Speaker 1: how your year ago. You have a say soul in 1509 01:34:42,240 --> 01:34:45,800 Speaker 1: how your year ago. You do not have to sit 1510 01:34:45,960 --> 01:34:52,320 Speaker 1: here and just played by ear. You have choices, You 1511 01:34:52,520 --> 01:34:58,560 Speaker 1: have decisions. You have the right to view it positively 1512 01:34:59,040 --> 01:35:02,960 Speaker 1: or negatively. You have the right to view your glass 1513 01:35:03,040 --> 01:35:07,360 Speaker 1: as have full or have empty. You have the right 1514 01:35:08,120 --> 01:35:14,880 Speaker 1: to accept righteousness or evil. You have the choice. That's 1515 01:35:14,960 --> 01:35:18,839 Speaker 1: the beauty about being a human. God. When he created 1516 01:35:18,920 --> 01:35:23,679 Speaker 1: us as creatures, as creators. As he created us as creatures, 1517 01:35:24,200 --> 01:35:27,880 Speaker 1: he gave us, as the human creature, the only one 1518 01:35:28,160 --> 01:35:31,280 Speaker 1: that has the power of choice in all areas of life. 1519 01:35:32,280 --> 01:35:35,679 Speaker 1: We can choose when we mate, where we live, how 1520 01:35:35,800 --> 01:35:39,479 Speaker 1: we live, who we mate with, where we stay, what 1521 01:35:39,760 --> 01:35:42,479 Speaker 1: we wear, how we dress, the climate we live in. 1522 01:35:43,240 --> 01:35:47,400 Speaker 1: Look polar. Bears have to live in polar regions. Penguins 1523 01:35:47,479 --> 01:35:49,679 Speaker 1: have to live. Fish have to live in the ocean. 1524 01:35:50,200 --> 01:35:53,360 Speaker 1: It's the way it is. Bears got to be in woods. 1525 01:35:53,800 --> 01:35:57,160 Speaker 1: That's how to. We can go live on the desert, 1526 01:35:57,280 --> 01:36:00,280 Speaker 1: we can live on the mountaintop. We get choices. Two 1527 01:36:01,000 --> 01:36:05,960 Speaker 1: nineteen is your year to make better choices. If you 1528 01:36:06,080 --> 01:36:09,080 Speaker 1: weren't happy with the way two eighteen went for you. 1529 01:36:09,800 --> 01:36:13,960 Speaker 1: You have a decision to me, you can change your 1530 01:36:14,080 --> 01:36:17,960 Speaker 1: thought process, and by changing your thought process, you can 1531 01:36:18,080 --> 01:36:21,759 Speaker 1: change outcome. Now listen to this. You can't do anything 1532 01:36:21,880 --> 01:36:25,760 Speaker 1: about everything that happens to you, as nothing you can 1533 01:36:25,800 --> 01:36:29,320 Speaker 1: do about what's going to happen to you, But you 1534 01:36:29,400 --> 01:36:33,920 Speaker 1: can do something about every single thing that happens to you. 1535 01:36:34,640 --> 01:36:38,560 Speaker 1: You can have the attitude so when it happens to you, 1536 01:36:39,200 --> 01:36:42,719 Speaker 1: it does not destroy you. You've got to stop letting 1537 01:36:42,840 --> 01:36:46,240 Speaker 1: mishaps that come along in your life wipe you out 1538 01:36:46,520 --> 01:36:49,240 Speaker 1: and cause you to paul so long that you no 1539 01:36:49,439 --> 01:36:53,240 Speaker 1: longer in perpetual forward motion and you wind up stuck 1540 01:36:53,320 --> 01:36:59,000 Speaker 1: on stupid. You have a choice to accept everything as 1541 01:36:59,040 --> 01:37:01,160 Speaker 1: a child of God, to say, you know what, He 1542 01:37:01,360 --> 01:37:04,880 Speaker 1: probably got something better for me. For example, they're gonna 1543 01:37:04,880 --> 01:37:07,400 Speaker 1: close the door on me in two thousand nineteen. You 1544 01:37:07,479 --> 01:37:10,240 Speaker 1: think I'm tripping about that. They're already told me they 1545 01:37:10,320 --> 01:37:12,839 Speaker 1: probably gonna close this door me in two thousand nineteen. 1546 01:37:13,240 --> 01:37:16,360 Speaker 1: All that means for me is God has another door 1547 01:37:16,439 --> 01:37:19,120 Speaker 1: for me to open, for me to walk through. He 1548 01:37:19,240 --> 01:37:23,000 Speaker 1: gonna open another door. These people that make these decisions 1549 01:37:23,000 --> 01:37:26,040 Speaker 1: at these networks and stuff they don't control my life. 1550 01:37:26,800 --> 01:37:29,600 Speaker 1: They controlled that little piece of section over there. I 1551 01:37:29,760 --> 01:37:33,240 Speaker 1: got the rest of it. I'm God in charging me. 1552 01:37:34,439 --> 01:37:37,479 Speaker 1: So every door that closes for you in two nineteen, 1553 01:37:37,640 --> 01:37:40,640 Speaker 1: if you understand that, that allows for an opportunity for 1554 01:37:40,760 --> 01:37:43,559 Speaker 1: another door to open. Maybe I need someone to rest. 1555 01:37:44,080 --> 01:37:46,720 Speaker 1: Maybe I'll be working too hall. Maybe this is his 1556 01:37:46,840 --> 01:37:49,120 Speaker 1: way of saying, Hey, Pardner, you're gonna slow down. I'm 1557 01:37:49,120 --> 01:37:51,439 Speaker 1: gonna help you slow down. I ain't fin the fall. 1558 01:37:51,479 --> 01:37:53,080 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna have to sell nothing, I ain't gonna 1559 01:37:53,120 --> 01:37:57,720 Speaker 1: lose nothing. But I've learned to accept God's will and 1560 01:37:58,000 --> 01:38:01,360 Speaker 1: understand that everything that happened to me happens to me 1561 01:38:01,520 --> 01:38:04,439 Speaker 1: for my good and my betterment, because the God I 1562 01:38:04,600 --> 01:38:07,400 Speaker 1: serve didn't bring me this far to leave me. You 1563 01:38:07,600 --> 01:38:10,360 Speaker 1: tell me, why would God lift you to the height 1564 01:38:10,439 --> 01:38:12,880 Speaker 1: that he got you too just to see you fall? 1565 01:38:13,360 --> 01:38:17,840 Speaker 1: That's not the God be served, That's not God. Don't 1566 01:38:17,920 --> 01:38:22,400 Speaker 1: let nobody deceive you. That ain't God. When something happens 1567 01:38:22,479 --> 01:38:27,040 Speaker 1: in your life, it's an opportunity, man. That's all twenty 1568 01:38:27,400 --> 01:38:31,160 Speaker 1: nineteen is. It's gonna be a series of opportunities. When 1569 01:38:31,240 --> 01:38:34,560 Speaker 1: they tell you no, it's going to create another opportunity. 1570 01:38:35,120 --> 01:38:37,519 Speaker 1: If they tell you your counsel, it's going to create 1571 01:38:37,600 --> 01:38:42,439 Speaker 1: another opportunity. If they tell you, well, we don't think so. 1572 01:38:43,000 --> 01:38:46,639 Speaker 1: It's because they don't know. You think I care about 1573 01:38:46,720 --> 01:38:49,880 Speaker 1: somebody telling me how they feel about me, or show 1574 01:38:49,960 --> 01:38:53,040 Speaker 1: our God they didn't think they made me? Then people 1575 01:38:53,080 --> 01:38:55,320 Speaker 1: didn't make me. Man. That just give me the opportunity 1576 01:38:55,360 --> 01:38:57,719 Speaker 1: to go do something else. I ain't gonna sit around 1577 01:38:57,800 --> 01:38:59,479 Speaker 1: me wonder trip about what you're gonna do with me. 1578 01:39:00,720 --> 01:39:04,400 Speaker 1: I know how to forge and pray and earn and 1579 01:39:04,600 --> 01:39:09,320 Speaker 1: work for other opportunities. This ain't the only country. I'm global. 1580 01:39:09,960 --> 01:39:14,000 Speaker 1: The God I serve is in a nationale. See that's 1581 01:39:14,040 --> 01:39:17,880 Speaker 1: what I know. Don't let two thousand nineteen get by 1582 01:39:18,000 --> 01:39:21,560 Speaker 1: you without understand that you have a say soul and 1583 01:39:21,760 --> 01:39:24,720 Speaker 1: just how it go. So come on, man, get your 1584 01:39:24,760 --> 01:39:29,040 Speaker 1: attitude right, keep talking to God, pray, ask for guidance 1585 01:39:29,160 --> 01:39:31,680 Speaker 1: and assistance, and see if God don't show you the way. 1586 01:39:31,920 --> 01:39:34,320 Speaker 1: That's how you get through two thy nineteen. That's how 1587 01:39:34,360 --> 01:39:39,519 Speaker 1: we got through eighteen. Thought you wasn't gonna make you better? 1588 01:39:39,640 --> 01:39:45,640 Speaker 1: I got to go, y'all have a nice weekend for all. 1589 01:39:45,720 --> 01:39:49,400 Speaker 1: Steve every contests, no purchase necessary, void where prohibited. Participants 1590 01:39:49,479 --> 01:39:52,360 Speaker 1: must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1591 01:39:52,479 --> 01:39:56,280 Speaker 1: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey 1592 01:39:56,439 --> 01:40:00,439 Speaker 1: FM dot com. You're listening Steve Harvey more Ning Show