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Speaker 1: I listen to the Black Guy Who Tips podcast because

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Speaker 1: Rob and Karen. Hey, welcome to another episode of the

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Speaker 1: Blackouts podcast. I'm your host, Rod join us always by

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Speaker 1: my co host, and we are live on a Sunday morning,

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Speaker 1: ready to do some podcast and Sunday morning official worst

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Speaker 1: day to be on Twitter, worst time of the week.

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Speaker 2: All to fight, start the last the rest.

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Speaker 3: Of the week.

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Speaker 1: seb What's going on?

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Speaker 4: Girl?

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Speaker 2: Hi?

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Speaker 4: I'm so glad to see in your scarf, Karen, because

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Speaker 4: I was gonna like pull my hair out and do

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Speaker 4: the whole thing.

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Speaker 3: But I have to work out after this. Okay, I'm

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Speaker 3: gonnakeep my scarf. Pun. We check the guns. They're getting backed.

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Speaker 1: Okay, listen, don't put the gun in the back.

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Speaker 3: I want y'all to see what the back is.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, I thought I thought you lived in an

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Speaker 1: area where they had gun laws about that kind of stuff.

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Speaker 1: You can't be just.

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Speaker 5: Pulling out the heat on the on the show Flawbreaker.

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Speaker 3: What can I say?

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Speaker 1: Don't get us kicked off YouTube? Okay, we over here

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Speaker 1: promoting violence. First of all, how you been?

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Speaker 3: I've been good. Generally, I've been good.

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Speaker 4: It's one of those situations where a lot of stuff

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Speaker 4: is happening, but because I'm so fucking healthy, I'm handling

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Speaker 4: it very very well.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so I'm good. I'm good. This is my last

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Speaker 3: day on Twitter, though, I'm done with Tweter.

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Speaker 6: I've been seeing that I've been seeing on Twitter forever,

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Speaker 6: tweeting the countdown.

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Speaker 5: This is it, you know.

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Speaker 1: I always feel like the countdown is a bold move. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I don't I'm afraid to do the countdown.

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Speaker 6: Because I'm not gonna do the countdown. If I ever

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Speaker 6: give it up, then they're gonna be like, what happened?

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Speaker 6: She just never posted anything again?

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Speaker 3: Usually what I do. That's usually what I do. But

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Speaker 3: I want these motherfuckers to know that they drove me

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Speaker 3: to it. Y'all know this. Like usually I'll just be.

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Speaker 4: Like, oh, I'm just not gonna post throughout the accross

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Speaker 4: the same thing. But I want y'all to know that

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Speaker 4: y'all drove me to it, and you're gonna miss out.

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Speaker 4: The on thing is that my birthdays in two weeks

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Speaker 4: and I enjoy the birthday.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, always just year I'm gonna put a cash app

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Speaker 3: up for the first time.

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Speaker 1: I know it doesn't really matter and no one's paying

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Speaker 1: that much attention to anyone on there, but for me,

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Speaker 1: I always feel like I'll do the countdown and then

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Speaker 1: I don't know, six months, a week, I don't know

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Speaker 1: how long passed, and I'll come back and just be like,

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Speaker 1: fucking man, I just need something to scroll through, and

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Speaker 1: then it'll in my mind everyone's like this motherfucker he

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Speaker 1: said he was quitting. Look coming back.

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Speaker 5: I knew you wasn't gonna leave.

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Speaker 1: Like I don't know why I feel that way, But

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Speaker 1: that's that's why I'm afraid of doing the countdown. I

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Speaker 1: think you you've taken long Twitter sabbaticals in the past,

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Speaker 1: so you already know how it feels to be free.

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Speaker 3: What's the impetus?

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Speaker 1: What's the impetus for leaving this time? Is it just

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Speaker 1: the same shit as always?

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Speaker 4: No, this time it was it was back to back

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Speaker 4: things where people purposely either ignored the fact that I

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Speaker 4: about and put their own kind of I don't even

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Speaker 4: make it not what it was. So the first thing was,

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Speaker 4: there's this dress that I posted from Hanifa, and I

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Speaker 4: And there was this yes, and there was this dress

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Speaker 4: like it's not my style and I was like, but

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Speaker 4: What were the non ig model or celebrity joke where

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Speaker 4: this two I'm asking for a friend who shouldn't buy

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Speaker 4: this at her big age, right, talk about yourself talking

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Speaker 4: about myself? Why listen six hundred as the last time

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Speaker 4: I looked six hundred and ninety four quote tweets all

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Speaker 4: calling me a hater, a bitter bitch.

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Speaker 3: My friend should leave me and not be my friend anymore.

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Speaker 3: This is why women can't succeed, or about someone talking.

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Speaker 4: About myself six hundred and ninety four quote tweets as

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Speaker 4: the last time that I look, because I muted it once.

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Speaker 4: I saw that I muted it early once I saw.

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Speaker 3: People were getting the joke.

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Speaker 4: And then somebody else, a friend of mine, was like,

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Speaker 4: And so I went to look, and I was like,

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Speaker 4: what's even funnier is that literally the tweet right underneath

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Speaker 4: it connected was like I'm not I mean, she obvious joke,

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Speaker 4: I think, but no people have decided. And again it's

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Speaker 4: one of those things Astranay on Twitter says us all

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Speaker 4: the time, and I'm always quoting it. People look at

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Speaker 4: going and decide to like respond to the response as

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Speaker 4: opposed to like looking for themselves, looking for themselves to

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Speaker 4: see what it is that the conversation is just That

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Speaker 4: would take work, that would take effort, that would take

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Speaker 4: not wanting to be the most miserable people in the

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Speaker 4: entire world and invite people into their misery. And usually

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Speaker 4: when stuff like that happens, I'm like, oh, correcting it,

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Speaker 3: Leaving it a lungs. It's not that big of a deal.

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Speaker 4: But the amount of vitriol, the amount of like nasty

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Speaker 3: I was like, fuck y'all. That was the first thing.

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Speaker 4: And then the second thing was that TikTok that had

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Speaker 4: and it was this whole thing, and it was two things.

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Speaker 4: People were like saying time blindness is not the thing.

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Speaker 4: You're just being late, and people are like, time blindness

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Speaker 3: And it should be accommodated.

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Speaker 4: And so I came in trying to be sensible, saying

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Speaker 3: It's the symptom of other things.

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Speaker 4: In my case, is the symptom of ADHD and like

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Speaker 4: some bipolar elements. And then what goes along with that

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Speaker 4: for me are audio hallucinations, which is where I just

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Speaker 3: And what helped me was Adderall. Getting on Adderall.

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Speaker 4: Helped get rid of the noise, but it also helped

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Speaker 4: with the time blindness. So that's how I was connecting

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Speaker 4: the two. But I was like, beyond that, this is

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Speaker 4: what I do to help. I have a I'm not

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Speaker 4: have that machine remind me of different things. I'm like,

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Speaker 4: time to get ready so that I'm on time. But

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Speaker 4: gonna be late. Maybe five minutes late, maybe ten minutes late,

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Speaker 4: but I'm gonna be late.

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Speaker 3: But I have all.

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Speaker 4: These systems in place to help me with a thing

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Speaker 4: that I said existed, time blindness, and just like all

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Speaker 4: these like different tips that I that I used to

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Speaker 4: help combat it, because it's ultimately my responsibility to make

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Speaker 4: sure that I take care of it. Chu if you

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Speaker 4: would have thought I said everybody should work at a

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Speaker 3: And even if like.

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Speaker 4: the person. It's toxic work environments. Okay, cool, sure, But

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Speaker 4: it together. Because there's also a level of disassociation that

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Speaker 4: was like, okay, sure, toxic environments whatever, jobs shouldn't expect

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Speaker 3: Just get through the days.

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Speaker 4: And there are some people who are like, oh, this

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Speaker 4: is what I do, or thanks to the helpful tips,

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Speaker 4: but the amount of people who are basically calling me

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Speaker 4: in the nineties mental of how corporations work and aiding

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Speaker 4: in capitalism, and you're a tool of this and that,

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Speaker 4: And I'm saying here, like, what the actual fuck are

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Speaker 3: So those two things back to back. I was like,

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Speaker 4: What got me about the time blindness thing was that

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Speaker 4: people were like, it must be such a privilege to.

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Speaker 3: Be able to.

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Speaker 4: Manage your mental health, and your mental illness must not

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Speaker 4: be that bad if it's easy for you to ment

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Speaker 4: for you to to to manage it. And how about

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Speaker 4: all the other people who have things and they can't

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Speaker 4: they can't manage their own things. And I'm sitting there

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Speaker 4: like nigga, I got a bipolar two disorder, right, Like

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Speaker 4: there are other worst like there's schizophrenia, there's bipolar one.

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Speaker 4: There there are other things that are are above right,

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Speaker 4: they're above me now. But the act is though, bipolar

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Speaker 4: two and living with that is somehow so easy and

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Speaker 4: I'm so privileged that I.

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Speaker 3: Must not understand. And it's from people self diagnos.

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Speaker 1: It's from people that probably follow you know, your work

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Speaker 3: That's the only thing that it can mean. But time

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Speaker 4: But the but the act of disassociation and and losing.

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Speaker 1: There's like a online I don't don't necessarily think people

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Speaker 1: And I think especially I'll play the TikTok, but especially

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Speaker 1: I think that's some people see people crying like this

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Speaker 4: Not?

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Speaker 2: Actually a solution.

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Speaker 1: Here, here's the video.

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Speaker 7: I just wanted to know are their accommodations for all? Right?

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Speaker 7: I just got yelled out for asking a very reasonable question.

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Speaker 7: So I'm flying to go somewhere, and I just wanted

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Speaker 7: this and being on time?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 7: And then the person I was with interrupted and acted

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Speaker 1: Now, I do wonder in this scenario when she says they,

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Speaker 7: Yeah, trying your absolute best to be there. And then

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Speaker 7: they're like, your stupid generation wants to destroy the workplace,

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Speaker 2: Well, you can't change the system, so what are you

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Speaker 4: But but the thing is that that her sentiment is

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Speaker 4: not isolated because the way that people were defending it,

441
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Speaker 4: these are these are old ass people, not old ass

442
00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:59,480
Speaker 4: people people who are older and know better. But here's

443
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Speaker 4: the thing, and it's been a while, not been a while,

444
00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:05,280
Speaker 4: But I didn't I saw the whole thing when I responded,

445
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Speaker 4: I wasn't like paying attention.

446
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Speaker 3: But this is the thing that I don't understand, is

447
00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:12,280
Speaker 3: that we don't live and work.

448
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Speaker 4: We work by ourselves. But in the situation she's referring to,

449
00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:18,920
Speaker 4: most people are referring to. Where it's a company or corporation,

450
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Speaker 4: there's a.

451
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Speaker 3: Chain of command.

452
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Speaker 4: So if you don't do your thing on time, it

453
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Speaker 4: fucks up everybody that comes after you. It fucks up

454
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Speaker 4: the people before you because they had their shit on

455
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Speaker 4: time and now it looks like they're not doing their job.

456
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Speaker 4: So it's not just about accommodating you for not being

457
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Speaker 4: on time or whatever.

458
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Speaker 3: It's like somebody else has to pick up your shift.

459
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Speaker 4: If that's the kind of job that you have, somebody

460
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Speaker 4: else has to stay longer because you can't get there

461
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Speaker 4: on time, or you're not doing anything to make it

462
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Speaker 4: possible for you. To be there on time, so people

463
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Speaker 4: are waiting on you. Yesterday, my sister who's in town,

464
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Speaker 4: she wanted to go to Solid Core, which is pilates

465
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Speaker 4: on Crack, and she said that we have to leave

466
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Speaker 4: by eleven fifteen in order to get there early so

467
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Speaker 4: that I could learn how to do the machines, because

468
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Speaker 4: I've never done it before. I was dressed at nine

469
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Speaker 4: forty five because I know me. I know that if

470
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Speaker 4: I didn't get dressed in time, it would be like

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Speaker 4: eleven thirty. And I'm like scrambling trying to put my

472
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Speaker 4: contacts in, trying to find clothes. I had my clothes

473
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Speaker 4: laid out nine forty five, I was ready to go,

474
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Speaker 4: had my clothes on, waited ten o'clock, ten ten forty five,

475
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Speaker 4: I put my contacts in. Eleven o'clock. I was upstairs

476
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Speaker 4: ready to go because I didn't want her to miss

477
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Speaker 4: her this thing that she loved doing and wanted to

478
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Speaker 4: share with me. How fucked up would it be for

479
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Speaker 4: me to inconvenience her? And I've got time blindness. I

480
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Speaker 4: couldn't see that. I couldn't see the clock or whatever

481
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Speaker 4: the fuck that they think time blindness is like, it's

482
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Speaker 4: just it's just so in a lot of the ways

483
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Speaker 4: that people want want their self diagnosed, a lot of

484
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:12,520
Speaker 4: the times mental illness to be managed is about selfishness

485
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Speaker 4: and wanting people to bend towards them and change their

486
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Speaker 4: lives in order for them not to change anything about them.

487
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Speaker 4: And if that makes me a fucking boomer, it makes me.

488
00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:25,240
Speaker 4: I'm a fucking boomer. It's because it's not about you.

489
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Speaker 4: The world doesn't revolve around you. And here's the thing too,

490
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:34,320
Speaker 4: everybody has a different solution to what their particular issue is.

491
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Speaker 4: So now we've got to accommodate fifty different ways of

492
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Speaker 4: people right handling things a certain way. Like one person

493
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Speaker 4: says there's got time blindness. The other one says that

494
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Speaker 4: they have anxiety so they can't sit in meetings.

495
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Speaker 3: Okay. The other one says that there.

496
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Speaker 4: Are all these different things when there are ways that

497
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Speaker 4: you can work with yourself, the only person you can

498
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Speaker 4: actually change immediately or work towards changing. You don't want

499
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Speaker 4: to do that, right, that's too much. That's everybody's else,

500
00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:08,520
Speaker 4: that's everybody else's fault.

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Speaker 3: I think we're not.

502
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Speaker 1: I think also, like a couple of things. One this

503
00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:16,879
Speaker 1: original thing sounds like, and this happens on the internet

504
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 1: a lot. You took a fight or a disagreement or

505
00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:23,760
Speaker 1: conflict that you had with someone you love and that

506
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 1: cares about you, and there's a whole context to this

507
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:28,679
Speaker 1: person being your mother, right, and you took it to

508
00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 1: a place where you won't get pushed back, where everyone's

509
00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:33,440
Speaker 1: going to be quote unquote on your side, and where

510
00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:37,040
Speaker 1: you can take there you can take everything about them

511
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:39,480
Speaker 1: out of the conversation except what you needed to be.

512
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Speaker 1: That's why you're like they and they said my generation,

513
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Speaker 1: and it's like, oh, you mean your mom, because like

514
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:48,280
Speaker 1: a lot of us have had a disagreement with our

515
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Speaker 1: mom when we were younger. And there's like nuance to

516
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Speaker 1: it where it's like part of that is that your

517
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 1: parent wants the best for you, and your parent is

518
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Speaker 1: telling you if you want a job, you're not going

519
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Speaker 1: to be able to say, You're gonna have to accommodate

520
00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:03,080
Speaker 1: the fact I won't be here on time. I'll show up,

521
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 1: but I feel like it And like they're like, you

522
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:08,480
Speaker 1: can't even like you're just going to have to either

523
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 1: not have a job or you're gonna have to figure

524
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Speaker 1: out a way to accommodate that.

525
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Speaker 5: That's the first thing.

526
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Speaker 1: The second thing too, was that that's what the money's for.

527
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Speaker 1: I think that's the difference between like our gen and

528
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:25,080
Speaker 1: the younger gens coming up. There's still like a level

529
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 1: with Gen X, the last key kids. All this shit

530
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:30,720
Speaker 1: where we're like, you're not, you don't. I'm not required

531
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Speaker 1: to feel good or what you're They have a fulfillment

532
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 1: of what the job needs you to be able to do.

533
00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 1: They're not required, They're not You're not They're not old

534
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 1: anything more than what I promise to do with the

535
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:47,360
Speaker 1: job right, and the job isn't old owing me anything

536
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:50,680
Speaker 1: more than the money that they told me you would get.

537
00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:53,480
Speaker 2: And stopped showing them, and to treat me fairly.

538
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Speaker 5: I like, I don't believe we're a family.

539
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:58,600
Speaker 1: I don't believe that all this new woke shit about

540
00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:02,040
Speaker 1: diversity inclusion. I don't believe about trying to make me

541
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:04,440
Speaker 1: feel a certain way. This is not what a job

542
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:07,600
Speaker 1: is for me. I feel good when I want my friends.

543
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 1: I feel good when I want my family. Those are

544
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 1: the people for feelings, those are people for friendship. This

545
00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 1: shit at nine to five forty hours a week or

546
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 1: whatever that shit is for give me my money, right,

547
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:21,400
Speaker 1: And then the last thing I'll say too is it's

548
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 1: really a shame because like in this case, her inability

549
00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:33,280
Speaker 1: to adjust or unwillingness to adjust is being pitched as like, listen,

550
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:37,520
Speaker 1: because I'm the victim here, right, I'm The way that

551
00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 1: a lot of these people kids see stuff now is

552
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:44,439
Speaker 1: through the dynamics of power of if you're the one

553
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:51,280
Speaker 1: who is the victim or the one who is the

554
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:54,439
Speaker 1: one who is being told to change, you're the person

555
00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 1: that has the most power in the discussion and the content, right,

556
00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:00,359
Speaker 1: not necessarily so you're using the fact you cauught quote

557
00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:02,719
Speaker 1: don't have power anywhere to be like and that's why

558
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:05,000
Speaker 1: I should have the only platform to speak on this

559
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:07,480
Speaker 1: problem here. No one should be able to say anything back.

560
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:10,439
Speaker 1: And if you say something back, guess what they just

561
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:14,119
Speaker 1: doubled down on, Like how I'm too weak to even

562
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 1: have this conversation. You're bullying me. And that's how I

563
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:23,200
Speaker 1: think Bossi's words becomes privileged and you're holding up capitalism.

564
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:27,800
Speaker 1: It becomes that because they can't they won't face you fairly,

565
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:30,919
Speaker 1: they won't fight you, just idea on the ideas. It

566
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:35,399
Speaker 1: has to be all the context of your life, bipolar

567
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 1: dis sort of your own time blindness out of the window,

568
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:41,240
Speaker 1: that that you're now one of them, you're the bad guy.

569
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Speaker 1: And I think that's the most frustrating part, because all

570
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 1: these social medias were pitched as places to have conversations

571
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 1: and ideas and it really hasn't become that. And I mean,

572
00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:57,160
Speaker 1: I obviously know it's not that on the right conservative side,

573
00:28:57,280 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 1: but there's a version of that on our side that

574
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 1: is a about shutting down conversation, shutting.

575
00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:08,480
Speaker 5: Down conflict, nuance, compromise. And I think, you know, I

576
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:09,760
Speaker 5: can see how that would.

577
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 1: Make you tired of being on social in general. Do

578
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:16,720
Speaker 1: you have like a plan or platform to go to

579
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:18,240
Speaker 1: or are you just like I'm trying to get all

580
00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:19,080
Speaker 1: this up out of here.

581
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Speaker 3: I just I don't think that.

582
00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 4: I think that that kind of sentiment and mentality is

583
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:31,080
Speaker 4: going to show up on any platform.

584
00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:33,560
Speaker 3: And I'm not I mean.

585
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:37,800
Speaker 4: Like I've been on Twitter for fourteen fifteen years. I'm

586
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 4: not interested in showing up on thread or sky blue

587
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 4: or blue Sky or spill or whatever these other things are,

588
00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 4: because they're all going to show up there. And I

589
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:52,240
Speaker 4: think that the issue is more that.

590
00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 3: Over the years.

591
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:58,240
Speaker 4: I say social media, but I mean Twitter because Facebook's

592
00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:00,080
Speaker 4: not doing it.

593
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:09,480
Speaker 3: Has cultivated this culture that is built on uh, that's

594
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 3: built on.

595
00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:18,200
Speaker 4: Discovering who is the most victimized and how that person

596
00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 4: can outvictimize the next person. And I know that sounds

597
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:26,280
Speaker 4: like some conservative shit and and I hate the fact.

598
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:30,480
Speaker 3: That I'm agreeing with it. But when there becomes like this, this.

599
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 4: Oppression hierarchy where it's like, these people can't talk because

600
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 4: these people are more oppressed than these people, and the

601
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 4: only people who have the right to actually say something

602
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:45,640
Speaker 4: are these people over over here. And so in order

603
00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:48,040
Speaker 4: for me as a black woman who's supposed to be

604
00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:51,000
Speaker 4: on that hierarchy, and the only way for me to

605
00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 4: get shut down is for me to be called privileged,

606
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 4: and it's for me.

607
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:58,360
Speaker 1: And keep in mind, you're you're a person that has

608
00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 1: it like you You're talking about things you've used to

609
00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 1: try to live in a world with having this time,

610
00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:10,560
Speaker 1: with having timeliness, and people are like you privileged, Like

611
00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 1: that's so wow to me.

612
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:16,120
Speaker 5: The other thing is this too, because I do I

613
00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:16,600
Speaker 5: agree with you.

614
00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:18,600
Speaker 1: I think it's selfishness for the most part for a

615
00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:21,120
Speaker 1: lot of this stuff. And the reason I call it selfishness.

616
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:24,000
Speaker 5: When has any of these people.

617
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 1: Ever allowed for somebody else's time blindness and the things

618
00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 1: that inconvenience them, Like, you've never seen them go on

619
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:34,480
Speaker 1: Twitter mad about door dash being late, but being being

620
00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 1: like but you know what, maybe they suffer from time blindness. No,

621
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:39,680
Speaker 1: they're at door Dash.

622
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 5: What the fuck is my order?

623
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:41,480
Speaker 3: You know?

624
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, anytime they're talking to customer service or some if

625
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:51,360
Speaker 1: there's an interaction with a human being, there's never a

626
00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 1: consideration of what that person could be going through. It's

627
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:56,959
Speaker 1: what I'm going through, and why didn't you know how

628
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,640
Speaker 1: to accommodate whatever it is I'm going through? I should

629
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:03,240
Speaker 1: never have to accommodate anyone else. And I think that

630
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 1: under that undermines the entire crux of this whole like

631
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 1: mushy feeling ship that that they want to have is

632
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 1: that's why it feels like selfishness because it's only mushy

633
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 1: for me. When it's like Kanye West, mental illness is

634
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:20,360
Speaker 1: no excuse, it doesn't matter. Everyone should just get over it.

635
00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:25,520
Speaker 1: You know, when it's Jonah Hill, that's therapy words being weaponized.

636
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 1: But when I'm saying my time blindness, I should get

637
00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 1: a job with no requirements on when to be there.

638
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 1: That's that's not me weaponizing my therapy words. I find

639
00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 1: the hypocrisy to be the most off putting party.

640
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Speaker 9: And also, well, just real quickly, the only time that

641
00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:47,080
Speaker 9: they can see and the day is you know, they

642
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:50,560
Speaker 9: that they can see and they can be Uh, it's

643
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:53,920
Speaker 9: not even empathetic because it's not empathy.

644
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 3: I think of person, we see you.

645
00:32:57,040 --> 00:33:03,240
Speaker 4: Uh yeah, I'm like, the only the only time that

646
00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:08,000
Speaker 4: they allow themselves to have what their version of empathy

647
00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 4: is for somebody else is if they can see themselves

648
00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:12,239
Speaker 4: in it.

649
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 3: If they can if.

650
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:18,280
Speaker 4: They can attach themselves to whatever wagon that is, that's

651
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 4: the only time. So it's not like this person a

652
00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 4: doctor can have time blindness because because people are dying

653
00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 4: and they're not being taken seriously and it's because the

654
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Speaker 4: doctor doesn't care enough to be.

655
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Speaker 3: On time in the first place.

656
00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 4: But let that doctor, not even doctors, but just like

657
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 4: it all has to it all comes back to them.

658
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Speaker 4: And oh, going back on the boundaries things the level

659
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:49,600
Speaker 4: of you know, I don't have to don't don't engage

660
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:53,680
Speaker 4: with me on Twitter. That's my boundary. My boundary is

661
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:56,320
Speaker 4: that you don't get to come on my Twitter and

662
00:33:56,640 --> 00:34:01,680
Speaker 4: disagree with me. How's that different than Jonah Hill's misusing

663
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 4: therapy words? Because y'all misuse therapy words.

664
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 3: All up and down the time, all the time.

665
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:11,080
Speaker 4: Somebody, when somebody who's actually been, who actually goes to

666
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 4: a therapist and not just says that they do, tells

667
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:16,319
Speaker 4: you that actually, this is what you need to do. Oh,

668
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:20,480
Speaker 4: going back to me, back to me. So the thing

669
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:26,120
Speaker 4: that bothered me is when people assumed that, oh, so

670
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:28,719
Speaker 4: you're saying just because you do it, everybody else is

671
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:31,799
Speaker 4: capable of doing it. No, I'm saying this is what

672
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:34,040
Speaker 4: helps me do it. I don't care what you do.

673
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:36,319
Speaker 4: I'm saying that if you care about this, if it's

674
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 4: something that's important for you to learn to live with,

675
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:41,680
Speaker 4: these are the tools that I used to I didn't

676
00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:43,720
Speaker 4: say just because I could.

677
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:46,280
Speaker 3: How dare you not be able to use? Dumb bums?

678
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:49,799
Speaker 1: But it's important. The thing is it's important for them

679
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:53,319
Speaker 1: to not be able to do it because in this case,

680
00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 1: once again, it's a community of people who are like

681
00:34:57,360 --> 00:35:01,080
Speaker 1: their form of community is whate was a there's nothing

682
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:04,359
Speaker 1: that can be done. It's the world's fault and we

683
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 1: should just everyone should come accommodate us or else in

684
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:12,560
Speaker 1: this case, and those people will forever be stuck there.

685
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:16,920
Speaker 1: Like if as people leave they get the they're gonna

686
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:19,439
Speaker 1: get the treatment you got, which is who the fuck

687
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 1: you think you are? You better than me because you

688
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:24,920
Speaker 1: figured something out, And I think that's what a lot

689
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:28,480
Speaker 1: of that reaction is to. But Karen, you were gonna

690
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:31,200
Speaker 1: say something, oh, no problem.

691
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 6: When you guys were talking about people being like selfish

692
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 6: with their time blindness. What I've learned too is that

693
00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:44,040
Speaker 6: periodically I'll do some things by myself because I know

694
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:48,239
Speaker 6: I don't want to inconvenience anybody I know, Like if

695
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:51,080
Speaker 6: I love I don't do it often, but I love to,

696
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:53,600
Speaker 6: like shop, shop, like go and just buy really cheap

697
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:57,720
Speaker 6: shit and just shop. I normally go with somebody who's

698
00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 6: gonna be like me enough for owls, track of time

699
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:01,800
Speaker 6: and have a good time.

700
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:03,280
Speaker 1: If I know you're.

701
00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 6: Somebody, you're a TikTok person at that time, we're not

702
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 6: going together.

703
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:07,800
Speaker 1: I meet you there, you know.

704
00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 6: And so those are ways that you can accommodate without

705
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:15,640
Speaker 6: being selfish. But that requires you to do work, and

706
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:18,320
Speaker 6: a lot of times people aren't self aware or don't

707
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:22,319
Speaker 6: care enough about things, and I know and we It

708
00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 6: just make me thinking, Yeah, I know people that have

709
00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:29,960
Speaker 6: time blindness in some ways, they always late to things,

710
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:32,239
Speaker 6: and I just like, I meet you there, like like,

711
00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:34,080
Speaker 6: we're not even gonna go. I don't want to stress

712
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:37,040
Speaker 6: you out. I don't want you stressing me out, you

713
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:39,719
Speaker 6: know what I'm saying, So we'll just meet each other there.

714
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:42,160
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think you know, the time blindness thing is

715
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:44,919
Speaker 1: just a small part of the conversation because it really

716
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 1: could have been anything. I think this is just so

717
00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:50,839
Speaker 1: you're big with just the attitude of like I have this,

718
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:53,960
Speaker 1: why hasn't the world just met me here?

719
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:55,480
Speaker 5: And I think, don't worry.

720
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 1: Especially when you're talking about self diagnosis. You're talking about

721
00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:02,680
Speaker 1: I remember listening to this podcast. I can't remember the

722
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:06,440
Speaker 1: name of it, but they talked about like mental illness

723
00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:11,160
Speaker 1: and TikTok and how so many people were basically mirroring

724
00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:15,440
Speaker 1: through influencers like mental so like an influencer would be

725
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:17,920
Speaker 1: like I discovered this thing and I realized that I

726
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:22,440
Speaker 1: have this rarely thinged condition And they haven't been diagnosed to,

727
00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:25,040
Speaker 1: haven't like talked to, they just read this like reading

728
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:28,880
Speaker 1: the doc WebMD and being like I got cancer or whatever.

729
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 1: But because of how influencing works, that's content. Some other

730
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 1: person stitches to that, some other person uses that to

731
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:41,959
Speaker 1: spark their own thing, and eventually it becomes like there's

732
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:46,160
Speaker 1: so much mental health stuff happening on TikTok, but most

733
00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 1: of us just self diagnosed content creator driven like videos. Yet,

734
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:57,200
Speaker 1: and I mean honestly, like, no offense to our professionals

735
00:37:57,239 --> 00:37:59,080
Speaker 1: that is listening. I wouldn't even trust a professional on

736
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:03,319
Speaker 1: TikTok that because tiktoks about making content. It's not like

737
00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 1: it's like watching TV and being like, damn they selling ads.

738
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:09,320
Speaker 5: Yes, nigga, that's the whole fucking point.

739
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:12,560
Speaker 1: So you know, I think people lose track of it

740
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:16,720
Speaker 1: because you're looking. It gets so personal and it promotes

741
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:19,399
Speaker 1: the parasocial. You know, if someone's got a camera turn

742
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 1: at their face and their crime, there's a pair of

743
00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 1: social there's an emotional thing happening there that I do

744
00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:27,640
Speaker 1: want to make them feel better. Some people feel better

745
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 1: it is by being like, hey, nothing's wrong with you,

746
00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 1: it's something wrong with everyone else.

747
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 5: You're fine.

748
00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:36,279
Speaker 1: Some people think is hey, here's some stuff that I

749
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 1: did that might can help you. But underlying all that

750
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:43,160
Speaker 1: stuff is that while it feels like there's a relationship happening,

751
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 1: it feels like they need help. You're actually just watching content.

752
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:49,400
Speaker 1: And what they're gonna do next is create more content

753
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:51,920
Speaker 1: off of whether you're responding or not. What other people

754
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:54,800
Speaker 1: watching y'all interact, they're gonna do is create content based

755
00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:58,040
Speaker 1: off of your interaction, whether it's a reply, whether it's

756
00:38:58,080 --> 00:39:01,439
Speaker 1: a quote tweet, whether it's so I think I really

757
00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:05,560
Speaker 1: identify with the thing where BOSSI was talking about being

758
00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 1: quot tweeted all those times, because at that point, people

759
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:14,279
Speaker 1: are just creating content. It's not about Bossy anymore. And

760
00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 1: there's something so impersonal about it as these people like

761
00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:23,880
Speaker 1: try to like signal how they're the most emotionally resonant

762
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:29,840
Speaker 1: and the most emotionally present, the way they're just so impersonally.

763
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:30,880
Speaker 5: Using you as a stepping stone.

764
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:34,479
Speaker 1: Those two ideas, to me, can't exist at the same time.

765
00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 1: I feel like it's so fake and it's a huge

766
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:40,680
Speaker 1: turn off. I mute stuff the vast majority of time

767
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:42,200
Speaker 1: when it goes viral just because of that.

768
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:45,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, Yeah, it's either I mute or I just delete.

769
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:48,279
Speaker 4: I deleted the whole time, Like this tweet and I

770
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:51,319
Speaker 4: muted the dress tweet. I might because it was just

771
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:54,719
Speaker 4: too many Yeah. Uh, there were too many people who

772
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:57,359
Speaker 4: were engaging in a thoughtful way and like giving me

773
00:39:57,360 --> 00:39:59,560
Speaker 4: suggestions on how to buy the dress, and plus the

774
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:03,319
Speaker 4: link to the dress, like, you know, God forbid I

775
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 4: get accused of gatekeeping as.

776
00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:08,040
Speaker 3: Opposed to I forgot to I forgot to link the uh.

777
00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:13,360
Speaker 4: I forgot to link the address the website. It's just

778
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:16,160
Speaker 4: it's gotten to a point and this is where I'm like,

779
00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 4: I don't It's gotten to a point where I'm starting

780
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:29,640
Speaker 4: to lose the best parts of myself because my instinct

781
00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:32,400
Speaker 4: is to be like, literally, last night, I was like,

782
00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:35,200
Speaker 4: you fucking idiot, That's not what I meant.

783
00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 3: Do you know I didn't like, that's not how.

784
00:40:36,800 --> 00:40:39,800
Speaker 4: I am like, I'm not I'm not reactionary in that way.

785
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:42,480
Speaker 4: But because it gotten to a point where people were

786
00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:47,240
Speaker 4: being so vicious over a fucking dress, like I could

787
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:51,760
Speaker 4: not believe, not address but a misunderstood.

788
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 3: Joke.

789
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:56,680
Speaker 4: And it's and and there was one where I was like, listen,

790
00:40:57,520 --> 00:41:00,080
Speaker 4: this is not what I meant when I say asking

791
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:02,120
Speaker 4: for a friend, I'm talking about myself.

792
00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:16,960
Speaker 3: I am the friend. This bitchly gonna say Okay.

793
00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:15,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's also like that was the thing for me.

794
00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:18,480
Speaker 1: Like so, I don't know how I moved past all

795
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:21,360
Speaker 1: this stuff. I really don't because it used to bother

796
00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:26,200
Speaker 1: me tremendously, this stuff, and I would sometimes spend hours

797
00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:29,839
Speaker 1: going back. I remember one time I spent like a

798
00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:33,880
Speaker 1: weekend almost just replying to people that were taking something

799
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:35,719
Speaker 1: I said out of context and being like that's not

800
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:38,799
Speaker 1: what I meant. And it wasn't helping because even when

801
00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:43,280
Speaker 1: I even when I explained myself with no animosity thoroughly

802
00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:47,440
Speaker 1: there you would, I would still get responses from people

803
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:51,560
Speaker 1: that didn't want the truth of what I was saying.

804
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:54,879
Speaker 1: They needed the lot that I was an asshole rather

805
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 1: than oh I just didn't understand what you said. And

806
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just remember one day not caring.

807
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 1: I don't even remember like what it was. I had

808
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:07,680
Speaker 1: a friend DM me that was like, oh my god,

809
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:10,760
Speaker 1: they tearing you up in the twote tweets about something

810
00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:14,400
Speaker 1: and and like she DM me like you know, like laughing,

811
00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:17,919
Speaker 1: like it wasn't like picking on but it's like like, man,

812
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 1: like are you okay? Basically like I see you might

813
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 1: you must be going through it, and I said, I

814
00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:25,960
Speaker 1: swear to god, I haven't seen any of it. I

815
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 1: was like, I was like, look, I muted it, and

816
00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 1: I mean, it's there, right to go through it. But

817
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:33,239
Speaker 1: here's the thing I realized, I don't care and I

818
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:36,200
Speaker 1: hate the like I hate that it got there for me.

819
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 1: But there's a certain level of me. Yeah, like I

820
00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:41,880
Speaker 1: just don't care, and I'll be lying to say I

821
00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:45,279
Speaker 1: care and I used to care too much, and so

822
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:48,640
Speaker 1: you know, it's like frod me dog, like unless I

823
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:50,120
Speaker 1: know you or something, there's.

824
00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:53,080
Speaker 5: Some kind of relationship, like who gives a fuck?

825
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 1: I know that it's just content for you at this point,

826
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 1: it's not real. And I think the big thing for

827
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:03,400
Speaker 1: me is my reality as a bigger guy is I

828
00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:07,600
Speaker 1: just don't get that response in life, Like people disagree

829
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 1: with me, people have conflict, but I don't get this

830
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:12,440
Speaker 1: like I'm gonna just disrespect you to your face.

831
00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:15,760
Speaker 5: Ever, it's like like because it's because then.

832
00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:18,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I think, and I think you don't have

833
00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:20,640
Speaker 1: to be a big person for that. That happened in general,

834
00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:23,280
Speaker 1: that doesn't happen in people's lives, Like people.

835
00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:26,880
Speaker 4: Don't talk to me like that I've never been spoken

836
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:30,840
Speaker 4: to like that in my life because A I don't

837
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:33,759
Speaker 4: give that kind of I don't get that kind of

838
00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:36,360
Speaker 4: energy online, and I don't get that kind of energy

839
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:39,080
Speaker 4: in real life, right, But those people who wouldn't say

840
00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:41,640
Speaker 4: it in real life give that energy online, And to me,

841
00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:45,200
Speaker 4: you're not a good person. I don't care what you

842
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:47,600
Speaker 4: think you are or who you think you are offline.

843
00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:48,840
Speaker 1: Who you are online is.

844
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:51,400
Speaker 4: Who you are because because I mean, there was a

845
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:54,360
Speaker 4: time like back in the day when it all first started,

846
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 4: where you know, we could say, oh, people are just

847
00:43:56,640 --> 00:43:58,480
Speaker 4: here for jokes and they think it's like the wild

848
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:02,520
Speaker 4: wild West, and they'll say whatever. But after after almost

849
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 4: two decades of this, this is who you are.

850
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:08,360
Speaker 3: It's not a character, this is not a this is

851
00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:10,640
Speaker 3: not a this is this is who you are.

852
00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:13,279
Speaker 4: But two things I wanted to say, is that the

853
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:15,480
Speaker 4: reason why I'm like, oh, it's time for me to

854
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:18,360
Speaker 4: take another break, because I usually take yearly breaks and

855
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 4: for like ten months at a time, and I'm gone is.

856
00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:23,160
Speaker 3: Because I used to not care.

857
00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:25,880
Speaker 4: I used to mute and then message you Rod and

858
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 4: just laugh about her, or be like these fucking idiots

859
00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:30,399
Speaker 4: and just leave it alone. But the fact that this shit,

860
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:34,480
Speaker 4: like I was affected all day I was leaving voice notes,

861
00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:38,399
Speaker 4: I was like rock and another thing, like the fact

862
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:41,239
Speaker 4: that I cared so much about it this time tells me.

863
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:44,399
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm glad, and I'm glad you're I'm glad you're

864
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:49,360
Speaker 1: aware that. It's just it's so ironic because you're literally

865
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:53,279
Speaker 1: doing the thing that you can do, which is you

866
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:56,839
Speaker 1: can control your actions. You're not on Twitter being like, now,

867
00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 1: why haven't y'all changed all the rules?

868
00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:02,400
Speaker 5: Where is Elon? Yeah, Elon fixed this. Like it's just

869
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:03,239
Speaker 5: like or.

870
00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:06,560
Speaker 1: I can just leave, and I think what I think

871
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:09,880
Speaker 1: the fundamental difference to a lot of us is like

872
00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:13,880
Speaker 1: I see the power and the empowerment and the autonomy

873
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:17,400
Speaker 1: in leaving. I see like I see like adjusting my

874
00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 1: actions is where I find power. I don't find the power,

875
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 1: and like the workplace will become the place of my

876
00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:26,279
Speaker 1: It'll be like my second homes. Like I don't even

877
00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:29,280
Speaker 1: that's not even something I want, it's not something I fathom.

878
00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:33,120
Speaker 1: I but I do find power in finding out like, oh,

879
00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:36,800
Speaker 1: I'm not a hopeless I'm not a hopeless case. Oh okay,

880
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:39,239
Speaker 1: so that was a thing I could do to make

881
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:43,319
Speaker 1: like and it's weird to that. I guess people see

882
00:45:43,320 --> 00:45:46,400
Speaker 1: the world differently, but it's I think what other people

883
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:50,279
Speaker 1: find power is in the community, the camaraderie of there's

884
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:53,560
Speaker 1: six hundred of us sparsely spread across the world on

885
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:56,560
Speaker 1: Twitter saying it should be okay for us to be

886
00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:59,799
Speaker 1: late to work every day, and it's like, oh, you

887
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:03,040
Speaker 1: think that's power empowerment. I think it's empowerment to be

888
00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 1: like I used to be, like the work. I made

889
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:07,239
Speaker 1: some adjustments. Now I'm at work on time every time.

890
00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:11,000
Speaker 1: I don't have to worry about this anymore. That's that's dope,

891
00:46:11,200 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 1: you know, But I think that's me.

892
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:17,440
Speaker 4: I'm proud of myself for being able to work around

893
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:20,840
Speaker 4: the ship that I thought was was the most shameful

894
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:21,800
Speaker 4: thing in the world.

895
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:26,839
Speaker 3: But the minute I, like the day the doctor was like.

896
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:30,480
Speaker 4: Oh, you're not really lazy and unmotivated. It's actually this

897
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:33,920
Speaker 4: this this, I was like, oh, word right, I'm not like,

898
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:36,640
Speaker 4: there are things that I can do to actually get

899
00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:39,759
Speaker 4: things done. And you know, it makes me understand the

900
00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:43,160
Speaker 4: struggle I randomly went through in college when I was

901
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:45,880
Speaker 4: just coasting through high school, Like all this shit started

902
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:47,880
Speaker 4: to make sense. And I felt better about it, and

903
00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:52,959
Speaker 4: I felt more inclined to do things that I hadn't

904
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:55,319
Speaker 4: given myself permission to do before because I thought I

905
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:57,759
Speaker 4: just I'm not I'm not good at X because I

906
00:46:57,800 --> 00:47:00,400
Speaker 4: don't do you know whatever. And now I know, you know,

907
00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:03,759
Speaker 4: tricks and tactics to get you know, to get through it,

908
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:09,960
Speaker 4: and this idea that and I'm seeing it a lot

909
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:12,920
Speaker 4: because a lot of the same people. I used to

910
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:15,160
Speaker 4: think that these people don't go to therapy, and I

911
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:17,840
Speaker 4: think they're going to the therapists who are on Twitter

912
00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:21,640
Speaker 4: or on social media, because what happens is affirmation with

913
00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:23,160
Speaker 4: absolutely no treatment.

914
00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:26,040
Speaker 3: It's just like, you're right, you do have this thing.

915
00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:31,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I do wonder about that because like the uh,

916
00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:33,959
Speaker 1: there's also I don't know, I still think they be lying.

917
00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:35,879
Speaker 5: I'll just say that I think lying.

918
00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 1: I just don't think there's no clinically trained therapists. Not none,

919
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:41,439
Speaker 1: but there can't be a lot of them that are

920
00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:43,920
Speaker 1: like some of the ship I see co sign quote

921
00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:47,800
Speaker 1: unquote body use imaginary therapist. I'm like, bro, that's malpractice,

922
00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:53,160
Speaker 1: Like like if a motherfucker it's like, uh, my parents

923
00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:55,279
Speaker 1: they told me it's okay to slap my mom in

924
00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:55,600
Speaker 1: the face.

925
00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:57,320
Speaker 5: Sometimes I'm like that there's.

926
00:47:57,120 --> 00:48:00,280
Speaker 1: No therapists that should be allowed to say that, No.

927
00:48:01,200 --> 00:48:04,520
Speaker 4: It's okay to go not no contact with the parents

928
00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 4: you live with, right, yeah, and never speak to them again,

929
00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:11,080
Speaker 4: and no plan and they.

930
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:13,920
Speaker 1: Should pay for everything. They should still pay for everything

931
00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:18,720
Speaker 1: and keep your insurance. But it's like it's like, yeah, abuse,

932
00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:21,719
Speaker 1: and you're like, come on, man, what has happened? Like

933
00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:24,680
Speaker 1: that doesn't even make sense. Yeah.

934
00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:27,880
Speaker 3: The other side of that too, is uh.

935
00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:31,080
Speaker 4: I think like a week ago, this woman posted like

936
00:48:31,600 --> 00:48:35,759
Speaker 4: I thought it was funny this tweet about her husband, you.

937
00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:37,759
Speaker 3: Know, because I think she just had a baby, and.

938
00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:40,080
Speaker 4: Her husband was like, I'll take the toddler, just give

939
00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:43,120
Speaker 4: me the shopping list, and she was like he kept

940
00:48:43,160 --> 00:48:44,600
Speaker 4: calling me every ten minutes.

941
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:46,040
Speaker 3: And the point was.

942
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:49,839
Speaker 4: She had written on the list because it was her list,

943
00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:54,080
Speaker 4: She's written it for herself. It was like cheese, trash bags, whatever,

944
00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:56,920
Speaker 4: and he kept calling like what kind of cheese? What

945
00:48:57,400 --> 00:49:01,000
Speaker 4: kind of trash bag, like like like kitchen trash bag whatever.

946
00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:03,440
Speaker 4: And her thing was like my list was so vague

947
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 4: that he had absolutely no idea what he's supposed to get.

948
00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:10,879
Speaker 4: These motherfuckers were like, divorce him. He's incompetence, was it?

949
00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:12,600
Speaker 9: Uh?

950
00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:14,239
Speaker 3: Weaponized in confidence?

951
00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:18,400
Speaker 4: Uh uh, he's gonna beat you one day, like just

952
00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:19,080
Speaker 4: just off.

953
00:49:18,880 --> 00:49:19,720
Speaker 2: The wall house.

954
00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:22,600
Speaker 4: And she was like, that is not what's happening. My

955
00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:26,000
Speaker 4: husband is nothing like whatever. I don't know who y'all

956
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:27,800
Speaker 4: are talking about, but my husband.

957
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:29,000
Speaker 5: It's abuse, okay.

958
00:49:29,040 --> 00:49:32,360
Speaker 1: And here's why it's abused, okay, because he left the

959
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:35,120
Speaker 1: house and you will put your stuff on social media

960
00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:37,600
Speaker 1: and it's always gonna be abused by the end. It's

961
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:38,640
Speaker 1: just like web.

962
00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:40,800
Speaker 5: MD is gonna always beat. It's gonna always be death.

963
00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:43,239
Speaker 1: By the gonna be death. It's like, oh, what's this

964
00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:45,960
Speaker 1: bump on my arm? Death, nigga, that's what it is.

965
00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:46,719
Speaker 2: Gonna die.

966
00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:49,800
Speaker 5: Keep flipping page Morrow, and I think.

967
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:54,600
Speaker 1: Yes, it's like where beautiful cute things go to die,

968
00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:58,400
Speaker 1: because it is like a deceased It is a depressed

969
00:49:58,440 --> 00:50:02,160
Speaker 1: hide mind, like it will eventually find its way to

970
00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:05,000
Speaker 1: the worst thing, Like I remember the lady.

971
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:06,719
Speaker 5: Who's like, I like to sit and drink coffee with

972
00:50:06,760 --> 00:50:07,280
Speaker 5: my husband.

973
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:09,200
Speaker 1: Oh and by the end of the day, it's like,

974
00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:13,279
Speaker 1: you privileged white bitch. You the slaves on your plantation

975
00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:17,640
Speaker 1: are watching you and it's like, what the fuck is happening?

976
00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:23,800
Speaker 4: Or what about the people who have seventeen autistic children

977
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:26,440
Speaker 4: and who don't have the luxury of being able to

978
00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:27,200
Speaker 4: drink coffee?

979
00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:27,520
Speaker 9: Right?

980
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:31,239
Speaker 4: They have they're eighteen, right, I just had a kid

981
00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:34,759
Speaker 4: in the middle of this tweet, Like the fuck it's looking.

982
00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 1: At It's just looking at a table of white people

983
00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:39,080
Speaker 1: and being mad, you know, Like it's just it's like,

984
00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:41,560
Speaker 1: what is what is happening? Where do they make you?

985
00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 1: And it's just that is the place where that shit

986
00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:46,560
Speaker 1: goes to die, Like, yeah, you can't have cute, you

987
00:50:46,600 --> 00:50:47,440
Speaker 1: can't have beautiful.

988
00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:47,839
Speaker 3: No.

989
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:52,000
Speaker 6: And it's also one of those things where, like Roger said,

990
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:57,440
Speaker 6: it is designed to it will eat at you if

991
00:50:57,480 --> 00:51:00,160
Speaker 6: you allow it to. And like by Sis say, if

992
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:03,000
Speaker 6: you are not aware that this is a slow disease,

993
00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:07,239
Speaker 6: it's kind of eating at your soul. Sometimes you'll fuck

994
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:09,880
Speaker 6: around and they're gonna took every part of you.

995
00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:11,080
Speaker 2: You won't even be yourself.

996
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:13,439
Speaker 1: Here's a thing though, here's a thing though. I think

997
00:51:13,520 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 1: we were far enough into the cycle that it's on you,

998
00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:20,360
Speaker 1: Like it's that fucked up.

999
00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:21,920
Speaker 5: It's literally the time blindness thing.

1000
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:25,959
Speaker 1: Now you gotta be anticipating these motherfuckers being a piece

1001
00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:29,040
Speaker 1: of shit because god damn, they find a way. This

1002
00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:33,120
Speaker 1: woman was just like here's a cute cute husband video,

1003
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:36,360
Speaker 1: ha ha ha, and on some other platform people are

1004
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:39,360
Speaker 1: probably loving it. Once it gets out of her purview,

1005
00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:41,200
Speaker 1: it goes viral in the wrong circle.

1006
00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:44,600
Speaker 5: It's you know, this man is beating you and you

1007
00:51:44,640 --> 00:51:45,400
Speaker 5: don't even know it.

1008
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:48,239
Speaker 1: You know, it's divorce him before he gets back, says he,

1009
00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:50,600
Speaker 1: you know, is that kind of shit.

1010
00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:53,719
Speaker 3: He kind of finds a cheese break that he can

1011
00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:54,400
Speaker 3: throw your.

1012
00:51:54,239 --> 00:51:58,960
Speaker 6: Hand right because they're going prime him the papers right now.

1013
00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:03,839
Speaker 1: Because these aren't your real friends. It's a thing that, uh,

1014
00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:06,640
Speaker 1: there's things like we talk about on the podcast because

1015
00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:09,920
Speaker 1: it's just a better space. Like everyone that's a guest,

1016
00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:12,680
Speaker 1: everyone in the chat room, everyone listening for the most part,

1017
00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:14,960
Speaker 1: has a level of trust with us that they at

1018
00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:17,239
Speaker 1: least have good intentions and assume we do as well.

1019
00:52:17,480 --> 00:52:19,640
Speaker 1: And that's like a huge part of this why I

1020
00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:23,440
Speaker 1: like the podcast, honestly, it's why I invited Vassi to day.

1021
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:25,160
Speaker 1: I was like, come here and with some good faith,

1022
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:30,000
Speaker 1: these bad faith niggas they're not go yeah, and and

1023
00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:33,680
Speaker 1: I like having those conversations because of stuff like this,

1024
00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:38,640
Speaker 1: where this one like it bothered me a little bit,

1025
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:40,840
Speaker 1: and it's hard to express it on social media, so

1026
00:52:40,880 --> 00:52:44,080
Speaker 1: I want but here it bothered me seeing Kiky Palmer

1027
00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:45,120
Speaker 1: party on her.

1028
00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:47,880
Speaker 5: Ex or not even X they're supposed to still be together.

1029
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:51,880
Speaker 1: It bothered me to see her party, not because of

1030
00:52:51,920 --> 00:52:56,799
Speaker 1: any level of like allegiance to this nigga or I

1031
00:52:56,840 --> 00:52:58,759
Speaker 1: think he a good person. It's none of that. It

1032
00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:02,000
Speaker 1: has nothing to do with sod A relationship don't really

1033
00:53:02,000 --> 00:53:04,000
Speaker 1: have nothing to do with sides. When you think about,

1034
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:06,799
Speaker 1: you know, trying to keep your family together or whatever

1035
00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:10,319
Speaker 1: the fuck they gotta go through it, to me it signaled, oh,

1036
00:53:10,400 --> 00:53:13,719
Speaker 1: you care more about the people on Twitter watching your

1037
00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:18,120
Speaker 1: life than your life life, or at least that or

1038
00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:21,120
Speaker 1: I shouldn't say you do, but it gives the appearance

1039
00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:25,200
Speaker 1: that like you needed to win for social media and

1040
00:53:25,239 --> 00:53:28,600
Speaker 1: for the people that were rooting for you, and I

1041
00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:31,680
Speaker 1: will always feel a little weird about that because at

1042
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:34,120
Speaker 1: the end of the day, those people don't really care

1043
00:53:34,160 --> 00:53:37,320
Speaker 1: about you. They don't. They're the people that tell somebody

1044
00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:39,359
Speaker 1: get divorced from her husband because of a grocery list

1045
00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:43,240
Speaker 1: because they don't. There's no attachment to that family, that unit,

1046
00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:46,560
Speaker 1: the love between them, whatever that relationship is other than

1047
00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:49,280
Speaker 1: that forty five seconds she shared that she thought was funny.

1048
00:53:49,760 --> 00:53:52,439
Speaker 1: There's no attachment, so to us, throw your whole life

1049
00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:54,279
Speaker 1: in the trash, bitch, we don't actually know you. And

1050
00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:56,160
Speaker 1: if you come back in six months, like guys, I

1051
00:53:56,239 --> 00:53:59,040
Speaker 1: left them and now I'm broken, destitute and I need

1052
00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:00,560
Speaker 1: you all to give it to the go funny, they'd

1053
00:54:00,600 --> 00:54:03,320
Speaker 1: be like ha ha ha, you dummy, you know what

1054
00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:06,800
Speaker 1: I mean. Like, so, there's no real attachment. It's only

1055
00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:09,000
Speaker 1: content to them. And so I think that's why I

1056
00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:12,799
Speaker 1: get a little bit worried about even playing to that

1057
00:54:12,880 --> 00:54:17,840
Speaker 1: as an actual audience, because I'd rather if Keiki was

1058
00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:20,279
Speaker 1: doing that same dance thing, but it was with her

1059
00:54:20,280 --> 00:54:23,440
Speaker 1: best friends. I'd be like, yeah, that makes sense, you know,

1060
00:54:23,480 --> 00:54:26,000
Speaker 1: because those are friends they know more, way more for

1061
00:54:26,080 --> 00:54:26,640
Speaker 1: the Internet.

1062
00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:28,759
Speaker 5: For Twitter, man, don't trust it.

1063
00:54:29,560 --> 00:54:33,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, And Shannon Boudrum had a really good take on

1064
00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:36,680
Speaker 3: Instagram about about uh the Keky.

1065
00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:41,080
Speaker 4: Palmer and her I think his name is Darius, her partner,

1066
00:54:41,480 --> 00:54:43,560
Speaker 4: and it was it was so ballast because it's like,

1067
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:46,640
Speaker 4: this is a woman who just had a baby, and

1068
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:50,800
Speaker 4: when you have a baby. You feel really bad about yourself,

1069
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:53,719
Speaker 4: but she's like really really like feeling great about.

1070
00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:54,600
Speaker 3: Herself, and that's wonderful.

1071
00:54:54,840 --> 00:54:58,360
Speaker 4: But on the same end, you have somebody who, uh,

1072
00:54:59,160 --> 00:55:01,360
Speaker 4: this is not the person they signed up for, you

1073
00:55:01,400 --> 00:55:03,799
Speaker 4: know what I mean. And that's valid too, because it

1074
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:07,279
Speaker 4: now becomes like, Okay, I'm supposed to be supportive of you,

1075
00:55:07,360 --> 00:55:09,120
Speaker 4: and I want to be supportive of you, but I

1076
00:55:09,160 --> 00:55:11,440
Speaker 4: don't understand what this is and I don't understand what's

1077
00:55:11,440 --> 00:55:14,640
Speaker 4: going on, and he handled it wrong. Here's another thing,

1078
00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:20,440
Speaker 4: just all o the place insecurity is not a fatal

1079
00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:23,520
Speaker 4: character flaw that should be punishable by death.

1080
00:55:23,719 --> 00:55:25,400
Speaker 2: No, everybody handy is.

1081
00:55:25,960 --> 00:55:30,680
Speaker 4: A natural response to things that you don't understand and

1082
00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:35,359
Speaker 4: can't process. So to act as though somebody being insecure

1083
00:55:35,760 --> 00:55:37,160
Speaker 4: is enough reason.

1084
00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:38,480
Speaker 3: To like never speak to them.

1085
00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:41,640
Speaker 4: Again or it doesn't make any sense because it's a

1086
00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:45,200
Speaker 4: human emotion. It's what people feel about stuff that they

1087
00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:50,560
Speaker 4: can't process or they just don't understand. And having even

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00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:52,640
Speaker 4: with a Jonah Hill thing, he sounded insecure.

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00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:57,080
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. I was listening to a podcast where they

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00:55:57,120 --> 00:56:01,440
Speaker 1: said and they were like they were making some of

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00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:03,239
Speaker 1: the points I didn't agree with, but the points that

1092
00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:07,080
Speaker 1: they made that I did agree with was once we

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00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:10,600
Speaker 1: started calling everything like abuse, we're just as much abusing

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00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:12,640
Speaker 1: the therapy terms.

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00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:13,560
Speaker 3: As he was trauma.

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00:56:13,840 --> 00:56:16,880
Speaker 1: And the other part of it was what happened to

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00:56:17,080 --> 00:56:21,480
Speaker 1: just assholes. There was a time in life where somebody

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00:56:21,520 --> 00:56:23,919
Speaker 1: could be an asshole, but it didn't rise to any

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00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:28,360
Speaker 1: criminality or like clinical terms. It was like that person

1100
00:56:28,440 --> 00:56:31,640
Speaker 1: just seems like an asshole. The way they handled that

1101
00:56:31,800 --> 00:56:34,520
Speaker 1: wasn't the best or something like that. But instead our

1102
00:56:34,600 --> 00:56:38,239
Speaker 1: rush and I think, you know, I swear on the

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00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:42,440
Speaker 1: conflict is not abuse man Sarah Showman, Like the escalation

1104
00:56:42,560 --> 00:56:45,760
Speaker 1: of harm is such a big part of the Internet

1105
00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:49,120
Speaker 1: and social media, so like you can't just be like

1106
00:56:49,200 --> 00:56:51,000
Speaker 1: I thought this person was a jerk, cause I think

1107
00:56:51,800 --> 00:56:54,759
Speaker 1: there's and it's not even that you can't be like that.

1108
00:56:54,840 --> 00:56:56,560
Speaker 1: If I would have posted something today and be like,

1109
00:56:57,320 --> 00:56:59,360
Speaker 1: YEAHLL went to this place and this person did this

1110
00:56:59,480 --> 00:57:02,239
Speaker 1: and I thought they or a jerk, the internet would

1111
00:57:02,280 --> 00:57:04,080
Speaker 1: take over and by the end be like, no, what

1112
00:57:04,160 --> 00:57:09,160
Speaker 1: that really was was white supremacy or those abused, or

1113
00:57:09,200 --> 00:57:11,799
Speaker 1: that was trauma, Like they wouldn't even let me have

1114
00:57:12,880 --> 00:57:14,640
Speaker 1: he's kind of a jerk. Like it's got to be

1115
00:57:14,840 --> 00:57:17,840
Speaker 1: escalated in order for us to even have the conversation.

1116
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:21,480
Speaker 1: And I think that's definitely a dangerous part of this.

1117
00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:22,640
Speaker 3: It is.

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Speaker 6: And also I think for me, when you were talking

1119
00:57:27,280 --> 00:57:31,360
Speaker 6: about like taking being self aware and taking control over

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Speaker 6: your actions.

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Speaker 2: I've been online and I used to use Twitter a.

1122
00:57:38,360 --> 00:57:42,000
Speaker 5: Lot, and I use.

1123
00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:44,040
Speaker 6: It, but not as much as I used to. I

1124
00:57:44,160 --> 00:57:48,680
Speaker 6: used to share about happiness and shit. I like, I

1125
00:57:48,680 --> 00:57:53,280
Speaker 6: don't do that anymore because I've just learned over time.

1126
00:57:53,560 --> 00:57:56,960
Speaker 6: My joy is my joy and it's one of those

1127
00:57:57,000 --> 00:58:00,800
Speaker 6: things where you can find the places of happiness on line.

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Speaker 6: But I've learned just over the years that particularly the

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00:58:07,080 --> 00:58:09,800
Speaker 6: way Twitter is designed, it is not designed for happiness.

1130
00:58:09,840 --> 00:58:13,720
Speaker 6: It's designed to steal joy. Like like like I go, oh, okay,

1131
00:58:13,920 --> 00:58:19,120
Speaker 6: once I understand oh this whole thing is designed. It's

1132
00:58:19,160 --> 00:58:22,680
Speaker 6: almost the opposite of my personality in real life. And oh,

1133
00:58:22,760 --> 00:58:27,280
Speaker 6: I'm like you in real life. I am not a miserable, mean,

1134
00:58:27,920 --> 00:58:31,760
Speaker 6: bitter person. I don't cut everybody out, I'm not quick

1135
00:58:31,800 --> 00:58:34,520
Speaker 6: to judge. I take people in good faith, you know

1136
00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:36,560
Speaker 6: what I'm saying. I have all these things. When you

1137
00:58:36,600 --> 00:58:38,480
Speaker 6: go on line as something like you have to, it's

1138
00:58:38,560 --> 00:58:41,200
Speaker 6: like a switch clicks and you're like, Okay, you know,

1139
00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:43,400
Speaker 6: I'm going out in the battlefield sometimes you know what.

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Speaker 1: Else though, it's not even that you can't have joy

1141
00:58:45,880 --> 00:58:49,800
Speaker 1: on like whatever these platforms are. It's to scale, right.

1142
00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:54,040
Speaker 1: Once it gets so big, it's like it all goes

1143
00:58:54,080 --> 00:58:57,280
Speaker 1: back to negative. But like I've noticed that, like within

1144
00:58:57,600 --> 00:59:01,360
Speaker 1: an insulated type of environment, like when when it's just

1145
00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:03,439
Speaker 1: like the people you know, seeing the things you say,

1146
00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:05,840
Speaker 1: it's not that bad. Like I think that's why people

1147
00:59:06,600 --> 00:59:08,720
Speaker 1: enjoy it, and I think it's also why there's a

1148
00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:11,840
Speaker 1: huge disconnect between like in this conversation we're having right now,

1149
00:59:12,280 --> 00:59:14,520
Speaker 1: if you're on social media and you've never gone viral,

1150
00:59:14,680 --> 00:59:17,720
Speaker 1: you don't have much of a following, you never had

1151
00:59:17,760 --> 00:59:21,240
Speaker 1: someone like do an ad homine in like dunk on

1152
00:59:21,280 --> 00:59:24,160
Speaker 1: you and people harassed. Yes, Like there's a lot of

1153
00:59:24,160 --> 00:59:26,240
Speaker 1: people listening that can't relate. They don't be on social

1154
00:59:26,240 --> 00:59:28,400
Speaker 1: media like that, and they don't and they haven't had

1155
00:59:28,440 --> 00:59:30,640
Speaker 1: these experiences, so they're probably like, oh, they're probably just

1156
00:59:30,680 --> 00:59:33,400
Speaker 1: over embellishing it or it's not that important. But I

1157
00:59:33,440 --> 00:59:36,480
Speaker 1: think that so, like there's joy to be had there,

1158
00:59:36,480 --> 00:59:39,320
Speaker 1: it's just not the scale. You can't some shit gets

1159
00:59:39,360 --> 00:59:43,160
Speaker 1: out of your reach, and it's just like, goddamn, why

1160
00:59:43,200 --> 00:59:48,040
Speaker 1: why was humanity invented? Why did we doing it?

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Speaker 4: It's I remember, I can't I might have been you, Rod,

1162
00:59:52,480 --> 00:59:56,800
Speaker 4: but somebody saying that there's a time when there's always

1163
00:59:56,840 --> 01:00:00,600
Speaker 4: like the weirdo at school, or like the or girls

1164
01:00:00,600 --> 01:00:02,720
Speaker 4: school who's always mad about something.

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01:00:02,760 --> 01:00:05,600
Speaker 3: Or you know all these random people, the.

1166
01:00:06,080 --> 01:00:08,400
Speaker 4: Lady at work who just always had an attitude, but

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01:00:08,440 --> 01:00:10,840
Speaker 4: it was always that one person, that one guy, that

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01:00:10,920 --> 01:00:12,160
Speaker 4: one boy, that one girl.

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01:00:12,560 --> 01:00:14,960
Speaker 3: And then all those people are on Twitter. Now all

1170
01:00:15,000 --> 01:00:19,040
Speaker 3: the weird people from individual schools and jobs.

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01:00:18,960 --> 01:00:22,880
Speaker 4: Are all on Twitter together, yes, and they're all get

1172
01:00:22,920 --> 01:00:27,920
Speaker 4: they all get to like like congregate in like their

1173
01:00:27,960 --> 01:00:32,240
Speaker 4: own like miserable places, right and uh or in their

1174
01:00:32,240 --> 01:00:34,280
Speaker 4: own miserable spaces that they've created.

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Speaker 3: And then it becomes very loud.

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Speaker 5: Well, but here's what's wild. Here's here's what's wild.

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Speaker 1: BOSSI we can see that when it's not us, right.

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01:00:48,160 --> 01:00:50,560
Speaker 1: So what I mean by that is like when we

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01:00:50,600 --> 01:00:53,520
Speaker 1: talk about in cells, we're like, that's the weird nigga

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Speaker 1: at the school, that.

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01:00:55,240 --> 01:00:56,760
Speaker 5: There's one of them in every school.

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01:00:56,800 --> 01:00:59,560
Speaker 1: But you get on social media and there's fifteen thousand

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01:00:59,600 --> 01:01:01,880
Speaker 1: of them, and they all want to release the Snyder

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01:01:01,920 --> 01:01:04,720
Speaker 1: cut or what you know, they hate Barbie or whatever,

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01:01:04,800 --> 01:01:06,440
Speaker 1: and we all kind of go, yeah, that's because of

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01:01:06,560 --> 01:01:10,600
Speaker 1: the weird loser did. But also that's kind of every group,

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01:01:10,760 --> 01:01:13,520
Speaker 1: even the group you're in, is a bunch of people

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01:01:13,600 --> 01:01:17,160
Speaker 1: that could be isolated or could be alone, or could

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Speaker 1: have these.

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Speaker 5: Thoughts or whatever, and we all like kind of.

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01:01:20,720 --> 01:01:24,120
Speaker 1: Commune online and then it gives the illusion of like,

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01:01:24,520 --> 01:01:26,440
Speaker 1: and that's just how this is the world.

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01:01:26,520 --> 01:01:28,000
Speaker 5: Now, this is what it's really like.

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01:01:28,120 --> 01:01:30,440
Speaker 1: All the time. As soon as you step off line,

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01:01:30,480 --> 01:01:32,400
Speaker 1: you're like, oh wait, Joe Biden's gonna win the election.

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01:01:32,560 --> 01:01:36,120
Speaker 1: I don't know what happened in that mystical place of

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01:01:36,480 --> 01:01:38,680
Speaker 1: social media.

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Speaker 3: And even as.

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Speaker 4: A black woman, man, oh man, does the world hate me?

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Speaker 4: I'll be on Twitter like, oh my god, we are

1201
01:01:46,680 --> 01:01:49,760
Speaker 4: the most hated people in the world. I cannot believe

1202
01:01:49,800 --> 01:01:52,440
Speaker 4: how much people hate us. And I'm not saying it's

1203
01:01:52,440 --> 01:01:54,160
Speaker 4: a bowl of cherry's. I'm not saying it's the best

1204
01:01:54,160 --> 01:01:57,160
Speaker 4: thing in the world. But the disconnect between living in

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01:01:57,200 --> 01:02:01,240
Speaker 4: the world and going outside and having black men, you know,

1206
01:02:01,480 --> 01:02:05,120
Speaker 4: compliment me or have black men do like some you know,

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01:02:05,640 --> 01:02:09,200
Speaker 4: like help me with my shopping car or whatever. Because

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01:02:09,240 --> 01:02:11,160
Speaker 4: they haven't been told that they hate that they hate

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01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:13,360
Speaker 4: black women yet, right, They hasn't gotten got the man

1210
01:02:13,440 --> 01:02:17,960
Speaker 4: filtered into the hood yet, right, they don't know that yet.

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Speaker 4: It's like, it's like, why would I want to be hated?

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01:02:24,000 --> 01:02:25,920
Speaker 4: Why would I want that to be the narrative that

1213
01:02:25,960 --> 01:02:28,280
Speaker 4: I want, not just for myself but for my people?

1214
01:02:28,400 --> 01:02:31,280
Speaker 3: Like why am I so hell bent on.

1215
01:02:31,320 --> 01:02:34,760
Speaker 4: Making sure the world these are people because there's not

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01:02:34,800 --> 01:02:37,560
Speaker 4: isolated Black Twitter is not a gated community, right to

1217
01:02:37,640 --> 01:02:41,760
Speaker 4: let the world know that black men sist, Black men

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01:02:41,880 --> 01:02:45,080
Speaker 4: ain't shit because they hate black women and they're always

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Speaker 4: gonna do da da da da.

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Speaker 3: Because three or four of them online said some ship.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I don't like that. Yeah, I think

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01:02:51,960 --> 01:02:54,320
Speaker 1: that's but like that's the nature of the place is

1223
01:02:54,360 --> 01:02:57,560
Speaker 1: black and white, and its rising the conflict. You know,

1224
01:02:58,520 --> 01:03:02,480
Speaker 1: there's just no there's no there's no compromise, there's no

1225
01:03:03,080 --> 01:03:04,440
Speaker 1: The people that are the it.

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Speaker 2: Used to be like this. Eventually overtime that's what it

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01:03:06,640 --> 01:03:07,200
Speaker 2: turned into.

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Speaker 1: The people that are the opposite of that don't count.

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01:03:10,920 --> 01:03:13,640
Speaker 1: You know. It's it's like because it's for content, I

1230
01:03:13,640 --> 01:03:15,680
Speaker 1: think if you look at it as like world building,

1231
01:03:15,760 --> 01:03:19,440
Speaker 1: like you would like crafting a narrative or something. You know,

1232
01:03:19,480 --> 01:03:21,320
Speaker 1: when you watch like Lord of the Rings or something

1233
01:03:21,400 --> 01:03:23,560
Speaker 1: like those, people come up with worlds and there's rules

1234
01:03:23,560 --> 01:03:26,560
Speaker 1: in the world. Right. The elves do this shit, Dwarves

1235
01:03:26,600 --> 01:03:28,880
Speaker 1: do that shit, and for the most part, they always

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01:03:28,920 --> 01:03:30,760
Speaker 1: do it. And if one doesn't do it, that's who

1237
01:03:30,800 --> 01:03:32,880
Speaker 1: the that's the ones the story is about, because it's, uh,

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01:03:33,000 --> 01:03:35,880
Speaker 1: they're a special snowflake. I think that's what people do

1239
01:03:36,280 --> 01:03:38,880
Speaker 1: online with narratives too, where it's like it's always this

1240
01:03:39,000 --> 01:03:42,960
Speaker 1: way for everyone all the time except me, you know whatever.

1241
01:03:43,080 --> 01:03:45,080
Speaker 1: And I think that's why we end up in those

1242
01:03:45,080 --> 01:03:50,480
Speaker 1: places talking about some other news stuff that's current events,

1243
01:03:50,520 --> 01:03:56,720
Speaker 1: all right. Carly Russell, who is the woman that was

1244
01:03:57,440 --> 01:04:01,880
Speaker 1: People thought I was kidnapped. She said she got out

1245
01:04:02,120 --> 01:04:04,720
Speaker 1: of her car she saw a loose toddler just roaming

1246
01:04:04,760 --> 01:04:07,720
Speaker 1: the side of the road and she was like on

1247
01:04:07,760 --> 01:04:10,800
Speaker 1: the phone. And then at the scene they found like

1248
01:04:10,840 --> 01:04:15,000
Speaker 1: her wig and some stuff and police did you know,

1249
01:04:15,040 --> 01:04:18,120
Speaker 1: and every and rightfully so, everybody online was like, we

1250
01:04:18,120 --> 01:04:21,160
Speaker 1: need to find her. When black women go missing, people

1251
01:04:21,160 --> 01:04:23,120
Speaker 1: don't seem to care and blah, blah blah. And so

1252
01:04:23,200 --> 01:04:26,320
Speaker 1: in this case, the police did care. Everyone cared, and

1253
01:04:26,360 --> 01:04:29,040
Speaker 1: she came home as the search was going very viral

1254
01:04:29,040 --> 01:04:30,720
Speaker 1: and her family was putting out pictures of her with

1255
01:04:30,800 --> 01:04:34,000
Speaker 1: no wig on and shit and and trying to find her,

1256
01:04:34,000 --> 01:04:36,200
Speaker 1: and they're like, this is what she really looked like. Yeah,

1257
01:04:36,360 --> 01:04:40,280
Speaker 1: And so she did come home and a fit every

1258
01:04:40,520 --> 01:04:43,360
Speaker 1: not everyone, but like the whole thing was a fight

1259
01:04:43,440 --> 01:04:44,320
Speaker 1: the whole time.

1260
01:04:44,160 --> 01:04:46,640
Speaker 5: Because people thought the story was sketchy.

1261
01:04:46,720 --> 01:04:49,760
Speaker 1: Some people thought this is about you know, not believing

1262
01:04:49,760 --> 01:04:52,800
Speaker 1: black women, you know, making it more of a macro issue.

1263
01:04:53,000 --> 01:04:55,200
Speaker 1: And so she comes home and there's people that are like,

1264
01:04:55,280 --> 01:04:57,320
Speaker 1: I was praying for her, but this is also sketchy

1265
01:04:57,320 --> 01:05:00,520
Speaker 1: that she just came home and her boyfriend comes out

1266
01:05:00,600 --> 01:05:02,560
Speaker 1: and her mom comes out, and they're like, she was

1267
01:05:02,600 --> 01:05:05,400
Speaker 1: fighting for her life. She was kidnapped the last forty

1268
01:05:05,440 --> 01:05:10,400
Speaker 1: eight hours, just which is right, which I'm assuming she

1269
01:05:10,560 --> 01:05:12,960
Speaker 1: told them that, and they was like, then we riding

1270
01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:16,200
Speaker 1: with that, right, it's my loved one. What I'm gonna say,

1271
01:05:16,400 --> 01:05:20,120
Speaker 1: I doubt it? Like yeah, So, come to find out

1272
01:05:20,160 --> 01:05:23,240
Speaker 1: a couple of days later, the police did a press

1273
01:05:23,280 --> 01:05:28,960
Speaker 1: conference and essentially for lack of of going through every

1274
01:05:29,000 --> 01:05:32,560
Speaker 1: single stroke. It's a hoax. It's a at best, just

1275
01:05:32,640 --> 01:05:37,720
Speaker 1: a huge misleading lie. She said it was like her

1276
01:05:37,760 --> 01:05:42,520
Speaker 1: search history is like the movie Taken and how to

1277
01:05:42,760 --> 01:05:44,880
Speaker 1: like steal from the register at her.

1278
01:05:44,840 --> 01:05:47,880
Speaker 3: Job the maximum age of an amber alert?

1279
01:05:48,280 --> 01:05:50,280
Speaker 5: Right, could you pay for amber alert?

1280
01:05:50,560 --> 01:05:55,520
Speaker 2: Oh? No, you don't pay for those. Yeah, the government

1281
01:05:55,600 --> 01:05:56,080
Speaker 2: does that.

1282
01:05:56,760 --> 01:05:59,920
Speaker 1: And the police have not, at least so far, decided

1283
01:06:00,120 --> 01:06:03,520
Speaker 1: not to charge her with anything, which I think because

1284
01:06:03,560 --> 01:06:05,520
Speaker 1: I had a friend that was like, well, I don't

1285
01:06:05,520 --> 01:06:08,000
Speaker 1: really trust the police anyway. But she also hadn't really

1286
01:06:08,040 --> 01:06:11,040
Speaker 1: looked into any details, and I was like, well, as

1287
01:06:11,040 --> 01:06:14,440
Speaker 1: your friend who did look into the details, the police

1288
01:06:14,560 --> 01:06:16,680
Speaker 1: really did seem to low.

1289
01:06:16,760 --> 01:06:18,560
Speaker 5: Ki would have preferred.

1290
01:06:18,200 --> 01:06:21,360
Speaker 1: That she was just kidnapped, like they were doing that.

1291
01:06:21,400 --> 01:06:24,440
Speaker 1: Pres Con was like, fuck, man, look we not being racist,

1292
01:06:24,560 --> 01:06:26,560
Speaker 1: but it don't look like what she said it was.

1293
01:06:27,200 --> 01:06:29,600
Speaker 1: And we're not even trying like this is the end

1294
01:06:29,640 --> 01:06:32,240
Speaker 1: of it. First, we're not trying to like get her.

1295
01:06:32,680 --> 01:06:35,600
Speaker 1: There are certain search terms they chose not to tell us,

1296
01:06:36,800 --> 01:06:39,720
Speaker 1: which means to me, like there's more incriminating shit that

1297
01:06:39,760 --> 01:06:43,240
Speaker 1: they're like, she's gonna get so fucking roasted. We just

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Speaker 1: keeping these to us. We keep an thesees.

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Speaker 3: If there's a baby on the side of the road.

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Speaker 1: Right right, what will happen? Right? You know? And like

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01:06:55,280 --> 01:06:58,320
Speaker 1: her story had changed a couple of times supposedly. Then

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01:06:58,360 --> 01:07:00,680
Speaker 1: there's a bunch of rumors and stuff that people have

1303
01:07:00,800 --> 01:07:03,480
Speaker 1: that I haven't really seen confirmed. Like there was something

1304
01:07:03,520 --> 01:07:05,400
Speaker 1: like some people got fired for trying to go through

1305
01:07:05,400 --> 01:07:08,520
Speaker 1: her medical records, and I'm like, do we even know

1306
01:07:08,600 --> 01:07:11,320
Speaker 1: that happened or do we know? Someone said that they

1307
01:07:11,400 --> 01:07:14,080
Speaker 1: know that happened, and it turned out as like some

1308
01:07:14,120 --> 01:07:18,120
Speaker 1: hearsay shit, So who knows if that's real. People said,

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01:07:18,480 --> 01:07:20,640
Speaker 1: you know, she was saying she was taking into an

1310
01:07:20,640 --> 01:07:23,400
Speaker 1: eighteen wheeler. I don't know if that's real. People saying

1311
01:07:23,480 --> 01:07:26,640
Speaker 1: she was fucking an underage kid out of state. I

1312
01:07:26,680 --> 01:07:28,800
Speaker 1: don't know that that's real. It's because some of this

1313
01:07:28,800 --> 01:07:32,800
Speaker 1: stuff is like memes and TikTok Joe comedians saying she

1314
01:07:32,960 --> 01:07:36,480
Speaker 1: was fucking somebody for forty eight hours and cheating on

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01:07:36,520 --> 01:07:36,880
Speaker 1: her man.

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I just know that she's back home now,

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01:07:41,880 --> 01:07:45,560
Speaker 5: and like I said, it doesn't look like it really happened.

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01:07:45,640 --> 01:07:49,240
Speaker 1: I saw today she got fired from her SPA job,

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01:07:50,040 --> 01:07:53,080
Speaker 1: which makes sense. I mean, a few Google stealing from

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01:07:53,080 --> 01:07:54,720
Speaker 1: the register. They're not gonna let you do it. They're

1321
01:07:54,720 --> 01:07:58,320
Speaker 1: not gonna wait around, you know, Like I don't know

1322
01:07:58,360 --> 01:08:00,440
Speaker 1: if she's stolen the register or not, but I know

1323
01:08:00,480 --> 01:08:02,560
Speaker 1: they're not feeling to be like, well, don't worry about that.

1324
01:08:02,640 --> 01:08:04,240
Speaker 2: Somebody doing an oddit right now.

1325
01:08:04,400 --> 01:08:07,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's like it was time blindness, y'all discriminating. Nope,

1326
01:08:07,760 --> 01:08:12,160
Speaker 1: that's not how this worked. But yeah, so that that's

1327
01:08:12,200 --> 01:08:14,080
Speaker 1: the that's the latest on that story.

1328
01:08:14,280 --> 01:08:17,320
Speaker 5: And like I said, I think the thing.

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01:08:17,160 --> 01:08:20,200
Speaker 1: That weirded me out, and it's and I'm normally the

1330
01:08:20,200 --> 01:08:22,599
Speaker 1: first person to like flip the switch on dark humor,

1331
01:08:23,040 --> 01:08:25,040
Speaker 1: but it felt weird to me that the people were

1332
01:08:25,080 --> 01:08:27,920
Speaker 1: praying for her and then immediately mad at her and

1333
01:08:27,960 --> 01:08:32,080
Speaker 1: clown to her so fast. It just happened so fast.

1334
01:08:32,160 --> 01:08:33,880
Speaker 1: It made me feel like none of it is real,

1335
01:08:34,000 --> 01:08:37,120
Speaker 1: not not the the like, was the concern not real?

1336
01:08:37,240 --> 01:08:39,720
Speaker 1: Or is the joking not real? Whatever's happening, and it

1337
01:08:39,760 --> 01:08:41,600
Speaker 1: feels so artificial it is.

1338
01:08:41,640 --> 01:08:43,720
Speaker 3: But the other side of that, the other side of

1339
01:08:43,760 --> 01:08:46,559
Speaker 3: that that I think is equally for me, was equally

1340
01:08:46,640 --> 01:08:47,920
Speaker 3: as as strange.

1341
01:08:48,360 --> 01:08:51,919
Speaker 4: Are the people who are still tooth and nail fighting

1342
01:08:52,040 --> 01:08:54,479
Speaker 4: and saying that she was innocent or coming up with

1343
01:08:54,520 --> 01:08:57,960
Speaker 4: all of these like alternatives.

1344
01:08:57,160 --> 01:08:58,840
Speaker 3: That made her not.

1345
01:09:00,400 --> 01:09:03,599
Speaker 4: To make the things that were sad that she wasn't

1346
01:09:04,160 --> 01:09:07,559
Speaker 4: that it wasn't true true, or there's one that I

1347
01:09:07,600 --> 01:09:09,360
Speaker 4: sent you where it was like, it doesn't matter. She

1348
01:09:09,479 --> 01:09:12,000
Speaker 4: was lying, she was counting on the fact that black

1349
01:09:12,040 --> 01:09:16,880
Speaker 4: women are never found or whatever some shit. It's like

1350
01:09:17,479 --> 01:09:19,479
Speaker 4: the people who get the quick turnaround to make the

1351
01:09:19,560 --> 01:09:21,479
Speaker 4: jokes and the people who refuse to believe that it

1352
01:09:21,520 --> 01:09:23,200
Speaker 4: really happened same side.

1353
01:09:23,960 --> 01:09:25,519
Speaker 3: Are different sides of the same coin.

1354
01:09:26,960 --> 01:09:28,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, yes, I agree.

1355
01:09:28,400 --> 01:09:31,280
Speaker 1: I think the extremes from especially the I know what

1356
01:09:31,560 --> 01:09:34,040
Speaker 1: people right away, all those all of it feels weird

1357
01:09:34,040 --> 01:09:37,799
Speaker 1: to me, like couldn't you have kept all that to yourself?

1358
01:09:37,960 --> 01:09:38,920
Speaker 5: It just feels like, oh.

1359
01:09:39,120 --> 01:09:41,080
Speaker 2: Why, it goes back to what you said. It's all

1360
01:09:41,080 --> 01:09:43,360
Speaker 2: about content and so boosting.

1361
01:09:43,400 --> 01:09:48,439
Speaker 6: It was content and once they realized that she was

1362
01:09:48,720 --> 01:09:51,920
Speaker 6: quote not really missing, because that's the thing. As long

1363
01:09:51,960 --> 01:09:54,080
Speaker 6: as she was missing, it was content. When she was found,

1364
01:09:54,080 --> 01:09:57,479
Speaker 6: you know, and ended content. So now you had to take.

1365
01:09:57,320 --> 01:10:00,960
Speaker 10: To the hack to manufacture Yes, I it's like, okay,

1366
01:10:01,360 --> 01:10:04,680
Speaker 10: now I have to get angry because now I was

1367
01:10:04,720 --> 01:10:09,599
Speaker 10: defending you, because now my anger is now conscient and.

1368
01:10:09,520 --> 01:10:12,040
Speaker 3: I can't admit that I whatever. So I got to

1369
01:10:12,040 --> 01:10:12,639
Speaker 3: push through.

1370
01:10:12,880 --> 01:10:15,200
Speaker 1: And I think I think also a lot of people

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01:10:15,240 --> 01:10:18,240
Speaker 1: spent time fighting yep, because we said they just fight

1372
01:10:18,280 --> 01:10:22,240
Speaker 1: about everything, and like like, really, oh, so just admit

1373
01:10:22,320 --> 01:10:26,160
Speaker 1: that you hate black women. Yeah. It was so crazy,

1374
01:10:26,479 --> 01:10:29,479
Speaker 1: like and we've done it so many times before. I

1375
01:10:29,560 --> 01:10:32,320
Speaker 1: was like, y'all doing it again, y'all. And I was like,

1376
01:10:32,400 --> 01:10:35,280
Speaker 1: y'all and at this point, y'all feel like Lucy and

1377
01:10:35,360 --> 01:10:38,519
Speaker 1: Charlie Brown with the football, Like you couldn't see a

1378
01:10:38,600 --> 01:10:41,320
Speaker 1: future where seventy two hours from now, you're like, fuck,

1379
01:10:41,400 --> 01:10:44,240
Speaker 1: she was lying, And I just told everybody they hate

1380
01:10:44,240 --> 01:10:48,080
Speaker 1: black women. If they thought it was weird that she

1381
01:10:48,479 --> 01:10:50,759
Speaker 1: if you thought she was lying, well she was lying

1382
01:10:50,960 --> 01:10:54,360
Speaker 1: and I look foolish. Anyway, here's a meme of her

1383
01:10:54,560 --> 01:10:58,040
Speaker 1: in photoshopping to taken even though I was just praying

1384
01:10:58,080 --> 01:11:00,120
Speaker 1: for her, ha ha.

1385
01:11:00,640 --> 01:11:02,080
Speaker 3: Calling her Carly Smole.

1386
01:11:02,600 --> 01:11:03,000
Speaker 2: Yes.

1387
01:11:03,320 --> 01:11:05,479
Speaker 3: The thing is too is that like I didn't think

1388
01:11:05,479 --> 01:11:06,839
Speaker 3: it was true from the very beginning.

1389
01:11:07,200 --> 01:11:08,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, personally I.

1390
01:11:08,040 --> 01:11:08,880
Speaker 3: Didn't think it was true.

1391
01:11:09,160 --> 01:11:12,360
Speaker 4: So you know what, I did not tweet about it text,

1392
01:11:12,400 --> 01:11:15,720
Speaker 4: I did not put my speculation on the timeline the

1393
01:11:15,720 --> 01:11:16,240
Speaker 4: group tat.

1394
01:11:16,360 --> 01:11:17,320
Speaker 3: As soon as they said that.

1395
01:11:17,280 --> 01:11:19,800
Speaker 4: They that she left her wig, I was like, yeah,

1396
01:11:20,720 --> 01:11:22,479
Speaker 4: they took her when out her wig? What is?

1397
01:11:22,800 --> 01:11:25,080
Speaker 1: I was? Man? I was the whole time I was

1398
01:11:25,120 --> 01:11:28,160
Speaker 1: hoping it wasn't true, because I'm gonna be real, dog.

1399
01:11:28,160 --> 01:11:30,160
Speaker 1: If that ship would have been true, it was over

1400
01:11:30,200 --> 01:11:34,040
Speaker 1: for these loose babies. It was over for y'all niggas

1401
01:11:34,080 --> 01:11:34,519
Speaker 1: out here.

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01:11:35,240 --> 01:11:37,160
Speaker 2: Baby was just about to gain football plenty.

1403
01:11:37,240 --> 01:11:40,519
Speaker 1: I don't get way like a loose baby to me,

1404
01:11:40,920 --> 01:11:44,080
Speaker 1: is such a like universal like, bro, we just do

1405
01:11:44,160 --> 01:11:46,040
Speaker 1: what we do to take care of the babies, like

1406
01:11:46,400 --> 01:11:48,760
Speaker 1: drop everything. If I'm driving down the highway, I'll see

1407
01:11:48,760 --> 01:11:49,600
Speaker 1: a loose baby.

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01:11:49,840 --> 01:11:51,120
Speaker 5: Fuck it, I gotta pull over.

1409
01:11:52,000 --> 01:11:58,040
Speaker 1: But if they fucking trapping us with loose babies, baby, yeah,

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01:11:58,280 --> 01:12:02,599
Speaker 1: good luck luck yeah like baby.

1411
01:12:02,760 --> 01:12:04,960
Speaker 4: And that's another thing that made me question because if

1412
01:12:04,960 --> 01:12:07,559
Speaker 4: that was real, immediately the police would.

1413
01:12:07,400 --> 01:12:09,439
Speaker 3: Have been like, be on the lookout.

1414
01:12:09,080 --> 01:12:13,719
Speaker 4: For this baby baby, then do not do not stop.

1415
01:12:13,960 --> 01:12:16,120
Speaker 4: Call nine one one if you need to pull over,

1416
01:12:16,160 --> 01:12:18,360
Speaker 4: pull over, lock your door, whatever. It would have been

1417
01:12:18,360 --> 01:12:20,120
Speaker 4: a public safety announcement.

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01:12:24,000 --> 01:12:27,160
Speaker 1: Also, like I saw, I've listened to this podcast this

1419
01:12:27,280 --> 01:12:30,040
Speaker 1: week two parts is Behind the Bastard's one of my

1420
01:12:30,040 --> 01:12:34,639
Speaker 1: favorite podcasts. But behind that Behind the Bastard's had two

1421
01:12:34,680 --> 01:12:38,400
Speaker 1: episodes on kidnapping and why the rise of these kidnapping

1422
01:12:38,880 --> 01:12:42,240
Speaker 1: hoaxes and kidnapping things have happened in the last couple

1423
01:12:42,280 --> 01:12:45,960
Speaker 1: of years. So good, so good, Like they go back

1424
01:12:46,000 --> 01:12:48,840
Speaker 1: to like TikTok and ship, they go all the way

1425
01:12:48,840 --> 01:12:53,160
Speaker 1: back to chain letters like the original, like give me

1426
01:12:53,240 --> 01:12:55,519
Speaker 1: some money, some stuff is happening. They and they break

1427
01:12:55,560 --> 01:12:59,719
Speaker 1: down the psychology and anxiety and like how the hoaxes

1428
01:12:59,760 --> 01:13:03,920
Speaker 1: beoked like quote unquote real, like there was one there's

1429
01:13:04,080 --> 01:13:06,080
Speaker 1: I mean, And I think that was another thing that

1430
01:13:06,120 --> 01:13:09,280
Speaker 1: bothered me. If this would have been a white woman,

1431
01:13:09,840 --> 01:13:12,879
Speaker 1: the people I saw that were like, you must believe

1432
01:13:13,560 --> 01:13:16,360
Speaker 1: all of them to a t would have said we're

1433
01:13:16,360 --> 01:13:18,880
Speaker 1: gonna wait and see, because because what it was, a

1434
01:13:18,920 --> 01:13:23,120
Speaker 1: white woman will be skeptical, like, sure, the Mexicans tried

1435
01:13:23,160 --> 01:13:26,000
Speaker 1: to take your kid at hobby lobby, will see about

1436
01:13:26,040 --> 01:13:28,880
Speaker 1: that with Michelle. But what there's a black woman, it's like,

1437
01:13:28,960 --> 01:13:31,000
Speaker 1: believe her. It all calls. It's like, well some of

1438
01:13:31,040 --> 01:13:31,680
Speaker 1: it done that up.

1439
01:13:31,920 --> 01:13:33,040
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter.

1440
01:13:33,520 --> 01:13:34,320
Speaker 1: It don't matter.

1441
01:13:34,680 --> 01:13:36,600
Speaker 6: And to go back to one of the things you

1442
01:13:36,640 --> 01:13:39,639
Speaker 6: were talking about, Roger, not only is it about everything,

1443
01:13:39,680 --> 01:13:40,760
Speaker 6: it's about context.

1444
01:13:40,960 --> 01:13:43,400
Speaker 2: Everything is about It's an addiction.

1445
01:13:43,960 --> 01:13:49,240
Speaker 6: And once you understand it's addiction, you understand why people

1446
01:13:49,320 --> 01:13:51,719
Speaker 6: do what they do, why they say what they say.

1447
01:13:52,240 --> 01:13:56,839
Speaker 6: Why to you it's stupid, but to them it's a cycle.

1448
01:13:57,040 --> 01:14:01,439
Speaker 6: It's like telling somebody who you see smoking. It's not

1449
01:14:01,600 --> 01:14:03,880
Speaker 6: easy for them to put it down and walk away

1450
01:14:04,560 --> 01:14:08,920
Speaker 6: because it's designed, like cigarettes, to be addicted.

1451
01:14:08,479 --> 01:14:11,120
Speaker 1: Like and I think people get addicted to the dogma

1452
01:14:11,240 --> 01:14:14,640
Speaker 1: of like our even our liberal causes, even our marginalized

1453
01:14:14,680 --> 01:14:17,600
Speaker 1: support for each other, because, like I one of.

1454
01:14:17,600 --> 01:14:20,520
Speaker 5: The things I saw immediately from people.

1455
01:14:20,200 --> 01:14:23,160
Speaker 1: That believed her, or at least promoting that they believed

1456
01:14:23,200 --> 01:14:26,800
Speaker 1: her after everything she's busted it turns out to be

1457
01:14:26,840 --> 01:14:29,640
Speaker 1: a lie. The next thing was like, well, what was

1458
01:14:29,680 --> 01:14:33,680
Speaker 1: she really running from? Okay, see the family must be

1459
01:14:33,800 --> 01:14:35,320
Speaker 1: they must be abusing her.

1460
01:14:35,800 --> 01:14:38,160
Speaker 3: And I'm like, oh, putting.

1461
01:14:38,760 --> 01:14:41,639
Speaker 4: The parents through through all this to have to prove

1462
01:14:41,720 --> 01:14:44,519
Speaker 4: their trauma, yes, you're.

1463
01:14:44,800 --> 01:14:45,720
Speaker 2: No evidence of this.

1464
01:14:46,360 --> 01:14:49,400
Speaker 1: And I was like zo, I was like, in all this,

1465
01:14:49,479 --> 01:14:52,400
Speaker 1: you didn't learn to take a breath and no step

1466
01:14:52,439 --> 01:14:52,800
Speaker 1: did you go?

1467
01:14:52,960 --> 01:14:54,200
Speaker 5: You know what?

1468
01:14:53,560 --> 01:14:53,600
Speaker 9: What?

1469
01:14:53,920 --> 01:14:56,960
Speaker 1: What I would behoove myself to do start taking a

1470
01:14:57,000 --> 01:14:59,800
Speaker 1: breath between coming up with new theories because I don't

1471
01:14:59,840 --> 01:15:01,639
Speaker 1: know what the fuck I'm talking about. I've been wrong

1472
01:15:01,960 --> 01:15:02,719
Speaker 1: the whole time.

1473
01:15:02,880 --> 01:15:05,080
Speaker 2: You know what they did, They opened up their nose

1474
01:15:05,560 --> 01:15:07,720
Speaker 2: another line. It was like, whoa, let's go.

1475
01:15:08,320 --> 01:15:09,639
Speaker 1: What else can I make up?

1476
01:15:09,960 --> 01:15:13,280
Speaker 2: And that's what you get? You get shipped. Don't ain't

1477
01:15:13,320 --> 01:15:15,080
Speaker 2: based in nobody's facts reality.

1478
01:15:15,200 --> 01:15:17,479
Speaker 1: Have y'all heard about the Sassy Trucker?

1479
01:15:18,360 --> 01:15:18,599
Speaker 2: No?

1480
01:15:18,800 --> 01:15:20,559
Speaker 1: Who's a Sassy Trucker? Okay?

1481
01:15:20,880 --> 01:15:21,200
Speaker 3: No.

1482
01:15:21,680 --> 01:15:26,200
Speaker 1: Texas woman Tierra Allen, social media Sassy Trucker is trapped

1483
01:15:26,200 --> 01:15:30,320
Speaker 1: in Dubai after an arrest for shouting oh shit, and

1484
01:15:30,439 --> 01:15:34,400
Speaker 1: she is a black woman. She's a Houston woman. She's

1485
01:15:34,400 --> 01:15:38,960
Speaker 1: trapped in the United Arab Emirates after being briefly detained

1486
01:15:39,000 --> 01:15:41,679
Speaker 1: for shouting in a pub in public during an argument

1487
01:15:42,000 --> 01:15:46,080
Speaker 1: with a Dubai car Dubai car rental company. A London

1488
01:15:46,080 --> 01:15:48,439
Speaker 1: based organization trying to help her get out of the

1489
01:15:48,479 --> 01:15:52,479
Speaker 1: country told CBS the story. Social media influencer Tiera Young

1490
01:15:52,560 --> 01:15:57,000
Speaker 1: Allen twenty nine, known to fans online as the Sassy Trucker,

1491
01:15:57,520 --> 01:16:00,360
Speaker 1: was arrested in May following the conversation with a male

1492
01:16:00,439 --> 01:16:03,559
Speaker 1: employee of a car rental company in Dubai who was

1493
01:16:03,800 --> 01:16:06,439
Speaker 1: trying to intimidate her in the paying thousands of dollars

1494
01:16:06,439 --> 01:16:09,960
Speaker 1: that she didn't owe. So apparently this is like a

1495
01:16:10,000 --> 01:16:15,280
Speaker 1: common scam, which it's so funny. It's the online is

1496
01:16:15,320 --> 01:16:19,680
Speaker 1: so funny because after all that colleague shit, some of

1497
01:16:19,720 --> 01:16:22,120
Speaker 1: the same people now are being like, you don't know

1498
01:16:22,160 --> 01:16:25,240
Speaker 1: the rules of other countries and don't travel. I'm gonna

1499
01:16:25,240 --> 01:16:27,080
Speaker 1: be real with y'all. I don't know.

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01:16:27,360 --> 01:16:30,000
Speaker 5: The u can't shout in the UAE if you're a

1501
01:16:30,000 --> 01:16:30,599
Speaker 5: woman thing.

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01:16:30,640 --> 01:16:33,640
Speaker 1: I didn't know that. That is new to me. I

1503
01:16:33,680 --> 01:16:36,880
Speaker 1: would have been shocked if I found that out, just

1504
01:16:36,920 --> 01:16:39,439
Speaker 1: because it's the kind of thing that doesn't cross my mind,

1505
01:16:39,640 --> 01:16:43,000
Speaker 1: partially because of American privilege, but also that seems like

1506
01:16:43,040 --> 01:16:48,240
Speaker 1: an obscure fucking law. Yeah, Like it's not like when

1507
01:16:48,320 --> 01:16:51,120
Speaker 1: you this isn't even something you see on like TV shows.

1508
01:16:51,120 --> 01:16:53,600
Speaker 1: So it's like, oh, we going to the UAE, and

1509
01:16:53,640 --> 01:16:55,559
Speaker 1: then like sex and the city has like a joke

1510
01:16:55,640 --> 01:16:57,519
Speaker 1: or something about oh she raised a voice, she going

1511
01:16:57,600 --> 01:17:00,280
Speaker 1: to jail. Like it's not even we don't even make

1512
01:17:00,360 --> 01:17:02,120
Speaker 1: fun of it because we don't talk about it, but

1513
01:17:02,640 --> 01:17:06,840
Speaker 1: she should have known. Her passport is being detained by

1514
01:17:08,240 --> 01:17:13,920
Speaker 1: being held by authorities. She was released on bell May sixteenth,

1515
01:17:13,920 --> 01:17:17,880
Speaker 1: but she can't leave the country now. They told her

1516
01:17:17,920 --> 01:17:22,120
Speaker 1: she could pay like five thousand dollars, even though like

1517
01:17:22,360 --> 01:17:24,640
Speaker 1: it's false that they that she owes it.

1518
01:17:24,720 --> 01:17:26,679
Speaker 5: She could pay that money and then they'll let her leave.

1519
01:17:28,880 --> 01:17:34,080
Speaker 4: But yeah, that uh think pretty starting saying she did

1520
01:17:34,200 --> 01:17:35,520
Speaker 4: more than shout, y'all.

1521
01:17:36,040 --> 01:17:36,760
Speaker 1: Well, what does she do?

1522
01:17:36,880 --> 01:17:37,599
Speaker 3: I'm wondering too.

1523
01:17:38,439 --> 01:17:42,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, people be going to Dubai and she's

1524
01:17:42,080 --> 01:17:45,680
Speaker 1: been accused. She was told at the police station that

1525
01:17:45,760 --> 01:17:48,040
Speaker 1: she had been accused of shouting, which under the UAE

1526
01:17:48,160 --> 01:17:51,479
Speaker 1: laws is illegal under offensive behavior, which is an unclear

1527
01:17:51,520 --> 01:17:54,400
Speaker 1: and subjective regulation but warrants up to two years in prison,

1528
01:17:54,479 --> 01:17:59,400
Speaker 1: of fine and deportation. So I haven't seen this thing

1529
01:18:00,400 --> 01:18:06,400
Speaker 1: that she said, So this seems like speculation miss mart

1530
01:18:06,479 --> 01:18:08,760
Speaker 1: is doing. I thought maybe she knew something that we

1531
01:18:08,800 --> 01:18:09,240
Speaker 1: don't know.

1532
01:18:10,479 --> 01:18:12,360
Speaker 3: I never even heard of the story, so I don't know.

1533
01:18:12,840 --> 01:18:18,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, at least in this article, I think that's just

1534
01:18:18,720 --> 01:18:25,280
Speaker 1: her her online moniker for her content. Oh yeah, but yeah,

1535
01:18:26,360 --> 01:18:28,519
Speaker 1: although I guess that'd be funny if they put this

1536
01:18:28,600 --> 01:18:31,120
Speaker 1: hit that is exhibited in the courtroom.

1537
01:18:31,320 --> 01:18:32,360
Speaker 5: It's like, uh, your.

1538
01:18:32,280 --> 01:18:36,519
Speaker 1: Honor, she was definitely shouting. Her instagram is a sassy trucker.

1539
01:18:36,680 --> 01:18:39,599
Speaker 1: So the definition of.

1540
01:18:39,600 --> 01:18:43,880
Speaker 4: Stuff that would happen in Nigeria though not shouting, but

1541
01:18:43,960 --> 01:18:48,160
Speaker 4: just like random you're wearing shorts and the policeman who

1542
01:18:48,560 --> 01:18:51,720
Speaker 4: sees you decides that's against the law, but then you

1543
01:18:51,720 --> 01:18:53,559
Speaker 4: have to pay them to get out, like just some

1544
01:18:53,680 --> 01:18:55,559
Speaker 4: scam to get money library shit.

1545
01:18:55,920 --> 01:18:57,960
Speaker 3: But I don't know if they do that in Dubai because.

1546
01:18:57,720 --> 01:19:02,880
Speaker 4: It's such a it's just worse destination and and it

1547
01:19:03,040 --> 01:19:07,479
Speaker 4: kind of has like its own governance, like around like

1548
01:19:07,520 --> 01:19:10,280
Speaker 4: the countries around that you can't drink alcohol, but you

1549
01:19:10,320 --> 01:19:14,480
Speaker 4: can drink alcohol in Dubai, but like in like private settings,

1550
01:19:14,760 --> 01:19:16,719
Speaker 4: you know what I mean, Like they have like ways

1551
01:19:16,720 --> 01:19:18,000
Speaker 4: to skirt around different laws.

1552
01:19:18,040 --> 01:19:20,000
Speaker 3: So I mean, I'm not saying it happened or didn't happen.

1553
01:19:20,040 --> 01:19:24,599
Speaker 1: I don't know, right Ye. It's also also like I mean,

1554
01:19:24,600 --> 01:19:26,559
Speaker 1: I'm looking, I looked in the article to see there

1555
01:19:26,560 --> 01:19:29,000
Speaker 1: as a car accident. I don't see them mentioning it

1556
01:19:29,040 --> 01:19:31,960
Speaker 1: in this article. But what I found interesting was the

1557
01:19:32,280 --> 01:19:36,840
Speaker 1: it's a common rental extortion scheme, which makes me wonder

1558
01:19:36,920 --> 01:19:40,200
Speaker 1: if you can even believe that, I like, if they are,

1559
01:19:40,520 --> 01:19:44,439
Speaker 1: if they are commonly scamming people for money like this,

1560
01:19:45,720 --> 01:19:48,240
Speaker 1: can we trust that there was an accident or whatever

1561
01:19:48,240 --> 01:19:49,600
Speaker 1: the fuck else that's saying.

1562
01:19:50,880 --> 01:19:51,200
Speaker 2: Over this.

1563
01:19:51,439 --> 01:19:55,120
Speaker 1: So I don't know, it feels kind of weird to

1564
01:19:55,160 --> 01:19:57,439
Speaker 1: say that, but yeah. Allen was not allowed to retrieve

1565
01:19:57,439 --> 01:19:59,960
Speaker 1: her belongings from the rental vehicle, and later noticed that

1566
01:20:00,120 --> 01:20:03,679
Speaker 1: several fraudulent charges were attempted on her credit cards, which

1567
01:20:03,680 --> 01:20:05,800
Speaker 1: were in the back of the vehicle that she returned.

1568
01:20:07,360 --> 01:20:09,799
Speaker 1: The man who worked at the vehicle rental agency initially

1569
01:20:09,800 --> 01:20:13,240
Speaker 1: accused Allen, who initially accused her, left the country for

1570
01:20:13,280 --> 01:20:18,080
Speaker 1: Pakistan after fouling his police report. Reports in Arabic media

1571
01:20:18,160 --> 01:20:20,599
Speaker 1: say the rental agency had offered to drop its case

1572
01:20:20,920 --> 01:20:25,000
Speaker 1: if she paid approximately fifty seven hundred dollars. Sterling said

1573
01:20:25,040 --> 01:20:27,479
Speaker 1: that was evidence of a common scam used by rental

1574
01:20:27,520 --> 01:20:30,719
Speaker 1: agencies in the Arab Immirate. Tierra is the latest American

1575
01:20:30,800 --> 01:20:33,000
Speaker 1: terroristy get caught up in what is a common rental

1576
01:20:33,240 --> 01:20:36,599
Speaker 1: car extortion scheme. Rental car agencies are notorious for opening

1577
01:20:36,600 --> 01:20:39,400
Speaker 1: criminal cases against visitors with the promise to drop the

1578
01:20:39,400 --> 01:20:41,559
Speaker 1: case that they are paid off. The prevalence of blackmail

1579
01:20:41,600 --> 01:20:45,479
Speaker 1: is damaging to the UAES, tourism and investment sectors, and

1580
01:20:45,520 --> 01:20:47,799
Speaker 1: the Dubai government needs to crack down on this abuse

1581
01:20:47,840 --> 01:20:48,479
Speaker 1: of the process.

1582
01:20:48,680 --> 01:20:50,800
Speaker 2: Oh so people are like, don't rip cards. They probably

1583
01:20:50,800 --> 01:20:52,599
Speaker 2: tell people don't wrint no cars you go there.

1584
01:20:52,640 --> 01:20:55,519
Speaker 1: And another Reacon case, three Americans actually paid over twenty

1585
01:20:55,520 --> 01:20:57,840
Speaker 1: thousand dollars to a rental car agency that they did

1586
01:20:57,880 --> 01:20:59,840
Speaker 1: not owe, just so they could get out of the

1587
01:21:00,160 --> 01:21:03,479
Speaker 1: treat The activists and lawyer said, so, I don't know,

1588
01:21:03,520 --> 01:21:06,280
Speaker 1: maybe that person's lying, but if that's the case, I

1589
01:21:06,280 --> 01:21:08,479
Speaker 1: don't know that I take their word for it. And

1590
01:21:08,600 --> 01:21:11,360
Speaker 1: also I think if you fucking like don't know the

1591
01:21:11,479 --> 01:21:13,519
Speaker 1: rule and someone tried to do this shit, I can

1592
01:21:13,560 --> 01:21:16,439
Speaker 1: see like not just any person yelling at someone like this,

1593
01:21:16,600 --> 01:21:19,680
Speaker 1: especially if you're from America where it's not against the

1594
01:21:19,760 --> 01:21:21,800
Speaker 1: law to be like, y'all motherfuckers trying to scam me

1595
01:21:21,880 --> 01:21:23,200
Speaker 1: da da da da. And then next thing you know,

1596
01:21:23,240 --> 01:21:27,040
Speaker 1: they're like, yeah, you're in the arrest for yelling. It's like,

1597
01:21:27,400 --> 01:21:30,759
Speaker 1: what you should be an arrest with stealing my credit card? Noah, nigga,

1598
01:21:30,800 --> 01:21:33,840
Speaker 1: you go to jail. You gotta be real calm about

1599
01:21:33,920 --> 01:21:34,960
Speaker 1: us stealing your shit.

1600
01:21:37,120 --> 01:21:42,559
Speaker 4: Like an American American, don't don't. I was gonna say,

1601
01:21:42,560 --> 01:21:43,800
Speaker 4: don't cotton to things like that.

1602
01:21:44,080 --> 01:21:46,960
Speaker 3: How old am I? But they you know, Americans are

1603
01:21:47,000 --> 01:21:47,639
Speaker 3: in America.

1604
01:21:48,400 --> 01:21:49,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, so she was.

1605
01:21:49,080 --> 01:21:50,920
Speaker 3: Probably was yelling. I mean I would have yelled.

1606
01:21:51,280 --> 01:21:51,519
Speaker 9: Yeah.

1607
01:21:51,720 --> 01:21:54,679
Speaker 1: I think that's the part to me, The part that right,

1608
01:21:54,760 --> 01:21:56,800
Speaker 1: The part to me is the part where people are

1609
01:21:56,840 --> 01:21:59,559
Speaker 1: acting like how you didn't know that was the law?

1610
01:22:00,120 --> 01:22:03,120
Speaker 1: Like over everything else. I'm like, yeah, that's the one

1611
01:22:03,160 --> 01:22:06,439
Speaker 1: part I don't like. Maybe she maybe there's some stuff

1612
01:22:06,520 --> 01:22:09,599
Speaker 1: is missing from this article. I don't know, but nigga,

1613
01:22:09,920 --> 01:22:12,280
Speaker 1: the government is even saying that yelling was the problem,

1614
01:22:12,280 --> 01:22:14,840
Speaker 1: and I'm like, yeah, they would have got me.

1615
01:22:15,120 --> 01:22:17,280
Speaker 5: I didn't know who the fuck knows that?

1616
01:22:18,080 --> 01:22:19,040
Speaker 1: Who knows that?

1617
01:22:19,160 --> 01:22:19,360
Speaker 9: Dog?

1618
01:22:19,439 --> 01:22:22,400
Speaker 1: I've heard like, you can't make out in public, you

1619
01:22:22,439 --> 01:22:24,800
Speaker 1: can't hold hands. That makes more sense to me than

1620
01:22:25,400 --> 01:22:28,080
Speaker 1: a woman raising her voices two years in jail.

1621
01:22:28,200 --> 01:22:30,400
Speaker 5: Possibly, Boy, it's different over there.

1622
01:22:30,520 --> 01:22:33,240
Speaker 1: They don't put that shit on the motherfucking tourist videos

1623
01:22:33,280 --> 01:22:37,320
Speaker 1: they showed her in the World Cup, y'all, yeah, y'all, y'all.

1624
01:22:37,320 --> 01:22:39,439
Speaker 1: A goddamn lines we should know.

1625
01:22:39,520 --> 01:22:42,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, them come through Dubai commercials. You don't say that on.

1626
01:22:42,360 --> 01:22:45,920
Speaker 1: Them, right. All right, let's move on to another thing.

1627
01:22:46,000 --> 01:22:50,240
Speaker 1: All right. Uh, let's go to some fucking with black people.

1628
01:22:50,520 --> 01:22:52,920
Speaker 1: All right, we gotta talk about as black people. We'll

1629
01:22:52,960 --> 01:22:53,800
Speaker 1: be getting fucked with.

1630
01:22:54,439 --> 01:22:54,639
Speaker 2: Uh.

1631
01:22:54,680 --> 01:22:56,960
Speaker 1: And we'd like to play a little game here. That's

1632
01:22:57,000 --> 01:23:01,040
Speaker 1: all about getting fucked with. What's my getting black people music?

1633
01:23:01,479 --> 01:23:02,120
Speaker 10: Uh?

1634
01:23:03,320 --> 01:23:14,679
Speaker 11: Here we go, whoo hoo, just fucking with them people

1635
01:23:14,920 --> 01:23:15,559
Speaker 11: because they.

1636
01:23:18,000 --> 01:23:18,720
Speaker 1: Fucking with.

1637
01:23:23,479 --> 01:23:24,480
Speaker 3: With theop.

1638
01:23:24,800 --> 01:23:31,800
Speaker 11: We just fucking looking blacktoo. Fucking fucking bloo.

1639
01:23:35,439 --> 01:23:40,880
Speaker 3: Ooh, where'd you get that music from?

1640
01:23:41,040 --> 01:23:44,280
Speaker 1: A fan submitted my man felt five. We had a

1641
01:23:44,360 --> 01:23:47,559
Speaker 1: thing where like we have enough people listening, we have

1642
01:23:47,640 --> 01:23:51,960
Speaker 1: some talented fans, submit your music for our segments. And uh,

1643
01:23:52,240 --> 01:23:54,880
Speaker 1: he submitted something, and a bunch of people submitted something.

1644
01:23:54,960 --> 01:23:56,400
Speaker 1: It's like, it's dope.

1645
01:23:56,280 --> 01:23:57,160
Speaker 2: We got the list.

1646
01:23:58,520 --> 01:24:04,080
Speaker 1: Jason al Dean sticks to his guns on a controversial

1647
01:24:04,160 --> 01:24:06,120
Speaker 1: Try That in a Small Town music video.

1648
01:24:07,479 --> 01:24:09,880
Speaker 5: Jason Aldan is standing his ground.

1649
01:24:10,600 --> 01:24:14,920
Speaker 1: Okay, Page six, I'll see y'all after people slammed his

1650
01:24:15,040 --> 01:24:17,360
Speaker 1: latest music video Try That in a small Town for

1651
01:24:17,479 --> 01:24:22,439
Speaker 1: racist pro lynching connotations. I've seen a lot of stuff suggesting. No,

1652
01:24:22,439 --> 01:24:26,559
Speaker 1: I'm this, suggesting, I'm that, he said while on stage

1653
01:24:26,560 --> 01:24:30,599
Speaker 1: in Cincinnati, Ohio, Friday night, in a video posted to Twitter.

1654
01:24:31,400 --> 01:24:34,719
Speaker 5: Here's the thing. I feel like everybody's tied to their opinion.

1655
01:24:34,800 --> 01:24:37,080
Speaker 1: So you can think something all you want to, it

1656
01:24:37,080 --> 01:24:40,719
Speaker 1: doesn't mean it's true. In the clip, the audience cheered

1657
01:24:40,760 --> 01:24:43,520
Speaker 1: and the country music started to clut. Himselfs a proud American.

1658
01:24:43,960 --> 01:24:46,200
Speaker 1: I love our country. I want to see it restored

1659
01:24:46,240 --> 01:24:48,719
Speaker 1: to what it once was for all this bullshit started

1660
01:24:48,760 --> 01:24:53,800
Speaker 1: happening to us. By bullshit, he means, you know, protests

1661
01:24:53,840 --> 01:24:56,759
Speaker 1: and all that stuff. The crowd then interrupted. In the USA,

1662
01:24:56,920 --> 01:24:59,479
Speaker 1: champ al Dean went on to speak about his feelings

1663
01:24:59,479 --> 01:25:03,880
Speaker 1: towards the back flash over his music video. The music video,

1664
01:25:03,960 --> 01:25:08,799
Speaker 1: released last week, features the Dirt Road Anthem crooner singing

1665
01:25:09,200 --> 01:25:12,599
Speaker 1: in front of the Maury County Courthouse in Columbia, Tennessee,

1666
01:25:13,000 --> 01:25:15,360
Speaker 1: with an American flag draped over the front of the building.

1667
01:25:15,760 --> 01:25:19,200
Speaker 1: There's videos of protesters going up against police and burning

1668
01:25:19,240 --> 01:25:22,519
Speaker 1: American flags that were projected onto the building. As al Dean,

1669
01:25:22,640 --> 01:25:25,680
Speaker 1: forty six, belted out the controversial lyrics, cuts out a

1670
01:25:25,760 --> 01:25:28,080
Speaker 1: cop spinning his face stump on the flag and light

1671
01:25:28,120 --> 01:25:31,160
Speaker 1: it up. Yeah, you think you're tough, Well try that

1672
01:25:31,200 --> 01:25:33,080
Speaker 1: in a small town. See how far you make it

1673
01:25:33,120 --> 01:25:35,640
Speaker 1: down the road, he sang. While al Dean is the

1674
01:25:35,720 --> 01:25:37,800
Speaker 1: voice of the song. The lyrics were originally written by

1675
01:25:37,840 --> 01:25:41,280
Speaker 1: Kelly Lovelace, Kurt Allison, and Neil Thrasher and Tully Kennedy.

1676
01:25:43,200 --> 01:25:45,599
Speaker 1: Fans and critics quickly took to social media to point

1677
01:25:45,600 --> 01:25:50,080
Speaker 1: out a historical reference to the Grammy nomination nominees location choice.

1678
01:25:50,120 --> 01:25:52,840
Speaker 1: The courthouse that he sang in front of was a

1679
01:25:52,880 --> 01:25:55,719
Speaker 1: location where an eighteen year old African American name Henry

1680
01:25:55,760 --> 01:25:59,160
Speaker 1: Chot was lynched in the nineteen twenties. Al Dean initially

1681
01:25:59,200 --> 01:26:02,360
Speaker 1: spoke out against the backlash on Tuesday after CMT pulled

1682
01:26:02,400 --> 01:26:05,559
Speaker 1: his music video from their broadcast channel. In the past

1683
01:26:05,560 --> 01:26:07,519
Speaker 1: twenty four hours, I've been accused of releasing a pro

1684
01:26:07,640 --> 01:26:09,880
Speaker 1: lynching song, a song that has been out since May

1685
01:26:10,360 --> 01:26:13,360
Speaker 1: and was subject to the comparison that I direct quote.

1686
01:26:13,520 --> 01:26:16,800
Speaker 1: Was not too pleased with the nationwide BLM protests, he

1687
01:26:16,880 --> 01:26:20,240
Speaker 1: posted on his Twitter account. Those references are not only meritless,

1688
01:26:20,240 --> 01:26:23,519
Speaker 1: but dangerous. He also defended the lyrics, saying it's not

1689
01:26:23,600 --> 01:26:25,960
Speaker 1: a single lyric in that song that references race or

1690
01:26:26,080 --> 01:26:29,960
Speaker 1: points to it that I won't lie that is true.

1691
01:26:30,120 --> 01:26:32,559
Speaker 1: I read the lyrics because I saw the lyrics trending

1692
01:26:32,680 --> 01:26:36,880
Speaker 1: on Twitter and not the video, and so I was like,

1693
01:26:37,439 --> 01:26:40,800
Speaker 1: why are y'all calling this a lynching video or lynching? Why?

1694
01:26:41,479 --> 01:26:42,880
Speaker 1: I didn't know there was a video, So I said,

1695
01:26:42,880 --> 01:26:46,040
Speaker 1: why is this about lynching? Because I'm reading the lyrics

1696
01:26:46,040 --> 01:26:49,680
Speaker 1: and there's nothing that alludes to it. And that's when

1697
01:26:49,680 --> 01:26:51,760
Speaker 1: people said, oh, you gotta watch the video, the videos

1698
01:26:51,800 --> 01:26:54,160
Speaker 1: in front of the courthouse, this is where somebody's lynching

1699
01:26:54,240 --> 01:26:57,479
Speaker 1: nineteen twenty blah blah blah. And I was like, Okay, sure,

1700
01:26:57,800 --> 01:27:00,280
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say y'all stretching it, but sure. I

1701
01:27:00,400 --> 01:27:03,320
Speaker 1: really just wanted to know the answer because it wasn't

1702
01:27:03,360 --> 01:27:04,520
Speaker 1: in the lyrics.

1703
01:27:05,640 --> 01:27:09,599
Speaker 5: But also, how.

1704
01:27:09,479 --> 01:27:11,720
Speaker 1: Many small towns could you film something in in the

1705
01:27:11,800 --> 01:27:14,599
Speaker 1: South where like somebody ain't been lynch Like it's I

1706
01:27:14,600 --> 01:27:17,040
Speaker 1: feel like there's not a lot of locations you can

1707
01:27:17,040 --> 01:27:19,519
Speaker 1: go to the strip mall probably some lynching happening, you know.

1708
01:27:21,960 --> 01:27:27,280
Speaker 1: But on Thursdays, the view host. The view host used

1709
01:27:27,280 --> 01:27:31,280
Speaker 1: that platform to college questionable lyrics and video out He

1710
01:27:31,320 --> 01:27:33,479
Speaker 1: talks about life in a small town is different, and

1711
01:27:33,520 --> 01:27:37,519
Speaker 1: he chose those images, said, WHOOPI Goldberg. He's got folks

1712
01:27:37,520 --> 01:27:39,800
Speaker 1: from the Black Lives Matter movement and he's talking about

1713
01:27:39,840 --> 01:27:42,040
Speaker 1: people taking care of each other. And I find it

1714
01:27:42,120 --> 01:27:44,080
Speaker 1: so interesting that had never occurred to Jason or the

1715
01:27:44,080 --> 01:27:47,519
Speaker 1: writers that that's what these folks were doing. They were

1716
01:27:47,520 --> 01:27:50,240
Speaker 1: taking care of people in their town because they didn't

1717
01:27:50,320 --> 01:27:51,040
Speaker 1: like what they saw.

1718
01:27:52,320 --> 01:27:54,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, and I saw the video, and.

1719
01:27:54,000 --> 01:28:00,000
Speaker 1: What I think is interesting is it's very craftily. They

1720
01:28:00,479 --> 01:28:05,519
Speaker 1: almost one people that are not black. There's only one

1721
01:28:06,120 --> 01:28:08,559
Speaker 1: like two second clip of a black person doing anything

1722
01:28:08,600 --> 01:28:11,519
Speaker 1: in that video, and I think that's a purposeful choice

1723
01:28:11,560 --> 01:28:15,240
Speaker 1: because the vibe it gives you as one. It's like,

1724
01:28:16,120 --> 01:28:20,120
Speaker 1: we're not with these like protests that's anti police, but

1725
01:28:20,240 --> 01:28:23,360
Speaker 1: we're not gonna say it's the black protest. Here's the

1726
01:28:23,439 --> 01:28:26,360
Speaker 1: white people spitting in the CoP's face. Don't that make

1727
01:28:26,439 --> 01:28:29,519
Speaker 1: your man? It's like like there's a lot of plausible

1728
01:28:29,520 --> 01:28:35,360
Speaker 1: deniability in it, so you're aware of what you're doing. Yeah,

1729
01:28:35,400 --> 01:28:38,880
Speaker 1: but they've been him and his wife. Oh you haven't

1730
01:28:38,880 --> 01:28:41,320
Speaker 1: heard the song. It's honestly, it sounds just like any

1731
01:28:41,360 --> 01:28:46,599
Speaker 1: country song, like that's what's so wild about? Yeah, it's

1732
01:28:46,640 --> 01:28:49,439
Speaker 1: not even a bop, and and it's now it's trending,

1733
01:28:49,720 --> 01:28:51,760
Speaker 1: Like it's like it's now gonna probably be the number

1734
01:28:51,760 --> 01:28:54,040
Speaker 1: one song of the week or whatever it is.

1735
01:28:54,120 --> 01:28:58,080
Speaker 4: It's like that that Morgan, even if it wasn't about lunching,

1736
01:28:58,280 --> 01:29:01,759
Speaker 4: the fact the fact that people will think it's about

1737
01:29:01,800 --> 01:29:02,719
Speaker 4: lunching makes.

1738
01:29:02,520 --> 01:29:04,599
Speaker 3: Them want to like it. You know. But those people

1739
01:29:05,240 --> 01:29:08,160
Speaker 3: just like Morgan Whalen. Is it Morgan.

1740
01:29:07,840 --> 01:29:09,400
Speaker 1: Whalen, Yeah, that's him.

1741
01:29:09,520 --> 01:29:12,799
Speaker 3: You said work that he said Nigga in nineteen twenty

1742
01:29:12,800 --> 01:29:15,280
Speaker 3: four or whatever, and they're like, we love him now

1743
01:29:15,439 --> 01:29:15,960
Speaker 3: number one.

1744
01:29:16,200 --> 01:29:16,400
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1745
01:29:16,439 --> 01:29:19,920
Speaker 3: It's just like these people are so fucking weird.

1746
01:29:21,479 --> 01:29:26,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, and his apparently in September twenty twenty two, The

1747
01:29:26,720 --> 01:29:29,080
Speaker 1: Tonight List Good On You Artists was dropped by his

1748
01:29:29,120 --> 01:29:33,000
Speaker 1: publicity firm of seventeen years after his wife made transphobic

1749
01:29:33,000 --> 01:29:35,840
Speaker 1: comments on Instagram.

1750
01:29:35,880 --> 01:29:36,720
Speaker 5: At the time, she.

1751
01:29:36,760 --> 01:29:39,200
Speaker 1: Thanked her parents for not changing her gender during her

1752
01:29:39,240 --> 01:29:42,479
Speaker 1: tomboy phase as a child in the clip posted that's

1753
01:29:42,600 --> 01:29:43,200
Speaker 1: how it works.

1754
01:29:43,200 --> 01:29:44,720
Speaker 2: That's not how any of that works.

1755
01:29:45,040 --> 01:29:45,320
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1756
01:29:45,680 --> 01:29:48,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, a lot of people grow up being I know,

1757
01:29:49,040 --> 01:29:53,240
Speaker 1: but the people that it's it's the people that are

1758
01:29:53,400 --> 01:30:00,880
Speaker 1: like transphobic? Really do simplify to like if a child

1759
01:30:02,520 --> 01:30:05,680
Speaker 1: has a like if a boy says, mom, I like

1760
01:30:05,720 --> 01:30:09,639
Speaker 1: a barbie, that everyone's chopping the penis off, Like that's

1761
01:30:09,960 --> 01:30:13,720
Speaker 1: that's that's the that's what they're promoting in order to

1762
01:30:13,800 --> 01:30:17,160
Speaker 1: have like a straw man, so that they like. I

1763
01:30:17,240 --> 01:30:20,000
Speaker 1: think it does a disservice to the argument they think

1764
01:30:20,000 --> 01:30:24,120
Speaker 1: they're making, but they they promoted that way so they

1765
01:30:24,120 --> 01:30:27,320
Speaker 1: can be like, Haha, it's funny. But also, isn't it

1766
01:30:27,360 --> 01:30:29,760
Speaker 1: scary what the liberals are doing. They're just making their

1767
01:30:29,880 --> 01:30:33,400
Speaker 1: children be a different gender and there, and the children

1768
01:30:33,439 --> 01:30:36,599
Speaker 1: don't even know when. Obviously, if you do any level

1769
01:30:36,640 --> 01:30:40,760
Speaker 1: of research into the difficulty of it, the process, the

1770
01:30:40,840 --> 01:30:44,799
Speaker 1: parenting around the doctors, it's not it's not that simple.

1771
01:30:45,320 --> 01:30:47,200
Speaker 3: But they need to be canceled.

1772
01:30:48,000 --> 01:30:51,760
Speaker 4: I think that there is, especially when we see on

1773
01:30:51,760 --> 01:30:54,559
Speaker 4: on on Twitter, the people are just talking about there's

1774
01:30:54,600 --> 01:31:01,520
Speaker 4: an element of people who chase clout by refusing to

1775
01:31:01,560 --> 01:31:06,320
Speaker 4: tell their children what what genders are. And then they

1776
01:31:06,320 --> 01:31:09,120
Speaker 4: get on TikTok and they talk about if you give

1777
01:31:09,160 --> 01:31:12,880
Speaker 4: your child a name, you know you're you're you're you're

1778
01:31:12,920 --> 01:31:17,439
Speaker 4: contributing to transphobia. But that's clearly just people cloud chasing.

1779
01:31:17,520 --> 01:31:21,880
Speaker 4: So stuff like that does exist. That person says it does,

1780
01:31:22,240 --> 01:31:23,799
Speaker 4: but I would say.

1781
01:31:23,720 --> 01:31:25,679
Speaker 3: That it slot out doesn't.

1782
01:31:26,040 --> 01:31:27,880
Speaker 4: Doesn't happen like that because there are a lot of

1783
01:31:27,920 --> 01:31:34,960
Speaker 4: people who are using themselves as moral arbitures by doing

1784
01:31:35,000 --> 01:31:38,000
Speaker 4: stuff that there's say people who are like, you know,

1785
01:31:38,320 --> 01:31:40,840
Speaker 4: they have Black Lives Matter like on their house, but

1786
01:31:40,880 --> 01:31:43,400
Speaker 4: they're just white people, you know. Doesn't mean like to me,

1787
01:31:43,880 --> 01:31:45,759
Speaker 4: that kind of happens, but not in the way.

1788
01:31:45,560 --> 01:31:47,720
Speaker 5: That she says, yeah, that's and I'm I'm yeah, I'm

1789
01:31:47,720 --> 01:31:48,120
Speaker 5: trying to.

1790
01:31:48,080 --> 01:31:51,960
Speaker 1: Be specific to like what her thing was, because it's

1791
01:31:52,000 --> 01:31:54,840
Speaker 1: a people are changing their children's gender on a whim

1792
01:31:54,920 --> 01:31:58,240
Speaker 1: and getting surgery and stuff, and like Little Boozy says it,

1793
01:31:58,400 --> 01:32:01,439
Speaker 1: there's like a contingent of concern that just they say

1794
01:32:01,439 --> 01:32:04,679
Speaker 1: a thing that's yeah, they say a thing that's not happening,

1795
01:32:04,720 --> 01:32:06,599
Speaker 1: because I remember I just the only reason I remember

1796
01:32:07,000 --> 01:32:08,599
Speaker 1: this comment is because we covered it on the show

1797
01:32:08,600 --> 01:32:11,639
Speaker 1: a long time ago. They say a thing that's not happening,

1798
01:32:11,680 --> 01:32:14,959
Speaker 1: to escalate it same way that we talked about earlier,

1799
01:32:15,200 --> 01:32:18,400
Speaker 1: except on the conservative side. They escalate the language to

1800
01:32:18,520 --> 01:32:21,080
Speaker 1: like it's an emergency. We want to save these children

1801
01:32:21,080 --> 01:32:24,679
Speaker 1: from their parents. With Randa Santis, we need to literally

1802
01:32:25,160 --> 01:32:29,320
Speaker 1: sick Child Services on the parents of support supportive parents

1803
01:32:29,360 --> 01:32:30,360
Speaker 1: of transgender children.

1804
01:32:30,400 --> 01:32:31,920
Speaker 5: We need to get them out of the house.

1805
01:32:32,320 --> 01:32:35,519
Speaker 1: And it's like, but their people aren't doing surgeries to children.

1806
01:32:35,800 --> 01:32:39,439
Speaker 1: They're not They're literally not doing it. So because this

1807
01:32:39,479 --> 01:32:41,320
Speaker 1: happens also a game theory. One time, we're having a

1808
01:32:41,320 --> 01:32:45,240
Speaker 1: discussion about trans people and like I get the super

1809
01:32:45,280 --> 01:32:48,160
Speaker 1: liberal woke thing, which is like, even if it is happening,

1810
01:32:48,200 --> 01:32:50,559
Speaker 1: it's fine, and I'm like, I hear you, buddy, calm down.

1811
01:32:51,360 --> 01:32:54,439
Speaker 1: What I'm saying is we should have a discussion about

1812
01:32:54,600 --> 01:32:58,559
Speaker 1: whenever this happens. The stuff they're saying isn't happening in

1813
01:32:58,640 --> 01:33:00,680
Speaker 1: the way they're saying it, and it's it's just it's

1814
01:33:00,800 --> 01:33:04,719
Speaker 1: very important because I can see how a reasonable person

1815
01:33:05,560 --> 01:33:08,240
Speaker 1: would feel a way if it was happening that way,

1816
01:33:08,439 --> 01:33:11,680
Speaker 1: right like without them being necessarily even transphobed, just to

1817
01:33:11,760 --> 01:33:14,439
Speaker 1: be like, wow, that is kind of wild to just

1818
01:33:15,240 --> 01:33:17,479
Speaker 1: a kid has a tomboy face and next thing you know,

1819
01:33:17,560 --> 01:33:20,080
Speaker 1: you're taking them to the doctor. It's like, that's that's

1820
01:33:20,120 --> 01:33:21,280
Speaker 1: not what the fuck is happening.

1821
01:33:21,320 --> 01:33:23,720
Speaker 3: So exactly at any point at any rate.

1822
01:33:23,800 --> 01:33:27,560
Speaker 1: Jason Alden came to his wife's defence and got backlashed

1823
01:33:27,560 --> 01:33:33,200
Speaker 1: for that. So yeah, calling it, uh people who allow

1824
01:33:33,240 --> 01:33:36,200
Speaker 1: their trans children to transition one of the worst evils.

1825
01:33:36,760 --> 01:33:38,920
Speaker 1: So I guess he has like a history, and there's

1826
01:33:38,960 --> 01:33:42,240
Speaker 1: a reason people assume that he's probably pretty conservative, because

1827
01:33:42,240 --> 01:33:43,599
Speaker 1: that's a pretty conservative point of view.

1828
01:33:44,000 --> 01:33:44,439
Speaker 2: Makes sense.

1829
01:33:44,600 --> 01:33:48,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, zero to one hundred care.

1830
01:33:51,760 --> 01:33:56,040
Speaker 6: I guess the twenty five because honestly, the song was banging,

1831
01:33:56,479 --> 01:33:57,400
Speaker 6: and I don't care.

1832
01:33:58,000 --> 01:34:00,240
Speaker 1: Okay, So if it was banging like acts than a

1833
01:34:00,320 --> 01:34:01,880
Speaker 1: race racist, you think you just.

1834
01:34:02,320 --> 01:34:04,439
Speaker 6: Go and be a little higher at least if you're

1835
01:34:04,479 --> 01:34:06,000
Speaker 6: gonna be racist, make.

1836
01:34:05,840 --> 01:34:07,160
Speaker 2: A banger and a hook.

1837
01:34:07,560 --> 01:34:08,519
Speaker 1: Okay, all right for.

1838
01:34:08,560 --> 01:34:09,639
Speaker 2: Me to single long too?

1839
01:34:09,760 --> 01:34:10,320
Speaker 5: What about you?

1840
01:34:10,360 --> 01:34:13,400
Speaker 3: BOSSI wait, so let me get the game straight.

1841
01:34:13,479 --> 01:34:16,040
Speaker 4: It's how much you care from on a scale from

1842
01:34:16,080 --> 01:34:17,400
Speaker 4: zero to one hundred.

1843
01:34:17,160 --> 01:34:20,280
Speaker 5: Yep, in a rows of twenty five, Oh.

1844
01:34:20,240 --> 01:34:22,280
Speaker 3: Integral twenty five, Yeah, twenty five.

1845
01:34:22,800 --> 01:34:24,960
Speaker 2: I don't care for me.

1846
01:34:25,560 --> 01:34:29,559
Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna give it a fifty. And the

1847
01:34:29,640 --> 01:34:32,600
Speaker 1: reason I'm gonna give it a fifty is because he

1848
01:34:32,640 --> 01:34:34,719
Speaker 1: didn't even write this shit, but the people who wrote

1849
01:34:34,760 --> 01:34:38,600
Speaker 1: it and did the video. This is some pretty good racism,

1850
01:34:38,920 --> 01:34:42,160
Speaker 1: Like this is that, Like you took the time and

1851
01:34:42,240 --> 01:34:45,040
Speaker 1: thought about it. Because I watched that video and the

1852
01:34:45,080 --> 01:34:49,799
Speaker 1: way they constructed it, you honestly can't call it racist

1853
01:34:49,880 --> 01:34:53,679
Speaker 1: for real, you just know it. Like as a black

1854
01:34:53,720 --> 01:34:57,080
Speaker 1: person watching the video, I'm like, this shit do feel lynchy?

1855
01:34:58,080 --> 01:35:00,519
Speaker 2: But it feel lynchy?

1856
01:35:00,600 --> 01:35:05,000
Speaker 1: What can I truly say that this man wrote a

1857
01:35:05,120 --> 01:35:08,439
Speaker 1: racist song in a racist video. I can't truly say it.

1858
01:35:08,640 --> 01:35:11,479
Speaker 1: The idea of if you spit on a cop, fuck

1859
01:35:11,520 --> 01:35:15,920
Speaker 1: you is not something like it's not necessarily racial, Like

1860
01:35:16,000 --> 01:35:18,120
Speaker 1: it's not like black people just fitting on cops left

1861
01:35:18,120 --> 01:35:18,400
Speaker 1: and right.

1862
01:35:18,439 --> 01:35:21,120
Speaker 5: We just minded our fucking business. Like I don't know

1863
01:35:21,160 --> 01:35:22,200
Speaker 5: that was something to it.

1864
01:35:22,280 --> 01:35:25,160
Speaker 1: But it's some good racist They did a good job, man,

1865
01:35:25,720 --> 01:35:26,040
Speaker 1: they did.

1866
01:35:26,200 --> 01:35:27,479
Speaker 2: I agree, they did a good job.

1867
01:35:27,520 --> 01:35:30,320
Speaker 6: And the thing is the way they sliced this, the

1868
01:35:30,360 --> 01:35:34,160
Speaker 6: way they sliced and cut they had white people doing

1869
01:35:34,200 --> 01:35:34,599
Speaker 6: this shit.

1870
01:35:34,720 --> 01:35:36,240
Speaker 2: Did they say that black people do?

1871
01:35:36,880 --> 01:35:39,320
Speaker 6: Yeah, it was that because a lot of black people go,

1872
01:35:39,720 --> 01:35:41,240
Speaker 6: we wouldn't do a lot of that shit because we

1873
01:35:41,320 --> 01:35:43,200
Speaker 6: understand they would beat us with us and take us

1874
01:35:43,200 --> 01:35:43,559
Speaker 6: to jail.

1875
01:35:43,600 --> 01:35:46,720
Speaker 1: If we sat in a room like a writer's room

1876
01:35:47,160 --> 01:35:49,519
Speaker 1: and we were brainstorming how to make a video that

1877
01:35:49,840 --> 01:35:54,760
Speaker 1: says fuck black people without saying fuck black people, like

1878
01:35:54,960 --> 01:35:56,679
Speaker 1: there could be no evidence trace.

1879
01:35:56,520 --> 01:35:58,600
Speaker 5: Back to us believe in that.

1880
01:35:58,600 --> 01:35:59,719
Speaker 1: That's the video they made.

1881
01:36:00,000 --> 01:36:02,760
Speaker 5: It's good, Like they don't show nobody getting lynched.

1882
01:36:02,760 --> 01:36:05,240
Speaker 1: It's just we're just in front of the courthouse singing

1883
01:36:05,240 --> 01:36:08,960
Speaker 1: our song and here's a videos and protesters burning the flag.

1884
01:36:09,040 --> 01:36:10,759
Speaker 1: We don't like that, and they're white people.

1885
01:36:10,960 --> 01:36:13,760
Speaker 4: Well, he did say the thing where he was like,

1886
01:36:14,640 --> 01:36:16,600
Speaker 4: they can't, they can't keep doing this to us or

1887
01:36:16,640 --> 01:36:19,080
Speaker 4: something like that at his concert and then he had

1888
01:36:19,120 --> 01:36:19,679
Speaker 4: a heat stroke.

1889
01:36:20,640 --> 01:36:22,559
Speaker 1: That was my favorite thing. I felt like, I felt

1890
01:36:22,600 --> 01:36:26,439
Speaker 1: like the Sealy music theme song from Color Purple start

1891
01:36:26,479 --> 01:36:30,840
Speaker 1: playing and right by me sucked the one where she

1892
01:36:30,920 --> 01:36:33,360
Speaker 1: was shaving mister. I felt like that music was playing

1893
01:36:34,120 --> 01:36:37,599
Speaker 1: and just all the moisture came out of his fucking music,

1894
01:36:37,840 --> 01:36:40,559
Speaker 1: out of his all the moisture came out of his

1895
01:36:40,560 --> 01:36:44,599
Speaker 1: skinny leg jeans, and just the ancestors laid him down

1896
01:36:44,600 --> 01:36:49,200
Speaker 1: and said, taking nap boo boo, that's enough, that's enough today. Okay.

1897
01:36:49,360 --> 01:36:51,320
Speaker 6: He was the one I heard out they're performing when

1898
01:36:51,320 --> 01:36:52,680
Speaker 6: they was shooting in Vegas.

1899
01:36:53,240 --> 01:36:54,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the other thing they.

1900
01:36:54,720 --> 01:36:57,080
Speaker 2: Had that man shooting in Vegas, this whole thing, it

1901
01:36:57,120 --> 01:37:04,160
Speaker 2: was him, Yes, it was Foreman. Yes at your concert.

1902
01:37:05,160 --> 01:37:07,360
Speaker 1: Why don't you ask the mass shoes to try that.

1903
01:37:08,960 --> 01:37:12,719
Speaker 4: I only know two country people I know, Luke Colmbs

1904
01:37:12,760 --> 01:37:13,960
Speaker 4: I think that's his name, Okay.

1905
01:37:14,360 --> 01:37:17,760
Speaker 3: And Jason Aldean. I just know his name and I

1906
01:37:17,760 --> 01:37:18,920
Speaker 3: didn't know why I knew it.

1907
01:37:19,720 --> 01:37:20,120
Speaker 2: Wow.

1908
01:37:20,680 --> 01:37:22,000
Speaker 1: And you know wal.

1909
01:37:22,320 --> 01:37:28,360
Speaker 4: Country people I know back in that country. Miranda Lambert

1910
01:37:28,479 --> 01:37:32,479
Speaker 4: is that Yeah, I know her, Blake Shelton back in

1911
01:37:32,520 --> 01:37:33,200
Speaker 4: the day.

1912
01:37:33,439 --> 01:37:35,360
Speaker 3: Back in the day, I knew a lot of them.

1913
01:37:35,400 --> 01:37:36,840
Speaker 3: Like these current country people, I.

1914
01:37:36,800 --> 01:37:37,559
Speaker 2: Don't know them.

1915
01:37:37,720 --> 01:37:41,120
Speaker 1: Okay. I know who did the song with a little Naza.

1916
01:37:41,280 --> 01:37:45,280
Speaker 1: Is that Garth Brooks Old School or Billy Right Sires

1917
01:37:45,680 --> 01:37:46,720
Speaker 1: Syrus Billy Right?

1918
01:37:46,760 --> 01:37:47,439
Speaker 3: Sorry Cyrus?

1919
01:37:47,680 --> 01:37:48,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, he Owes.

1920
01:37:48,280 --> 01:37:50,840
Speaker 4: School to Garth Brooks is from. Is from still Waters,

1921
01:37:50,840 --> 01:37:52,280
Speaker 4: same place I'm from in Oklahoma.

1922
01:37:52,560 --> 01:37:54,639
Speaker 1: Shout out Deep.

1923
01:37:54,560 --> 01:37:57,400
Speaker 3: Chris Kynes, the deep cut Chris Kanes.

1924
01:37:58,040 --> 01:38:03,000
Speaker 1: All right, we'll do one more, uh Real Boston Richie

1925
01:38:04,479 --> 01:38:08,280
Speaker 1: uh Films send a blitz video in Florida A and

1926
01:38:08,400 --> 01:38:12,080
Speaker 1: M's locker room without proper approval from the school. The

1927
01:38:12,160 --> 01:38:17,519
Speaker 1: coach has now suspended all football activities. Real Boston Richie

1928
01:38:17,840 --> 01:38:23,400
Speaker 1: is a rapper. Huh, yes he was not guess the race,

1929
01:38:23,439 --> 01:38:26,679
Speaker 1: but yes he's black, although that's a valid question because

1930
01:38:26,760 --> 01:38:28,920
Speaker 1: who puts Boston in their name as a black person.

1931
01:38:29,040 --> 01:38:29,519
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1932
01:38:30,160 --> 01:38:35,919
Speaker 1: I'm as black. His house of pain in him so he.

1933
01:38:35,960 --> 01:38:38,880
Speaker 5: Uh, he shot a video in famu's.

1934
01:38:38,439 --> 01:38:42,200
Speaker 1: Locker room without proper approval. The school's coach, Willie Simmons

1935
01:38:42,240 --> 01:38:45,280
Speaker 1: caught win of the video and on Friday announced that

1936
01:38:45,360 --> 01:38:47,200
Speaker 1: he's shutting down football activities.

1937
01:38:48,520 --> 01:38:51,680
Speaker 5: Here is the video if y'all would like to.

1938
01:38:51,640 --> 01:38:57,240
Speaker 1: See some of it, uh, to see what was was

1939
01:38:57,280 --> 01:39:03,200
Speaker 1: actually happening in there. Uh, we gonna go and send

1940
01:39:03,200 --> 01:39:05,920
Speaker 1: a blitz fucking on light la homes every day. Gotta

1941
01:39:05,920 --> 01:39:08,760
Speaker 1: bring no bitcha tiny of going home that hold on

1942
01:39:08,840 --> 01:39:11,360
Speaker 1: speak on shit, but you win a quiets on quitnes

1943
01:39:11,439 --> 01:39:12,000
Speaker 1: wife of bitch.

1944
01:39:12,040 --> 01:39:12,760
Speaker 2: I'm bouy my mes.

1945
01:39:12,800 --> 01:39:15,040
Speaker 1: My wish wife was gone, say she gonna take what

1946
01:39:15,040 --> 01:39:17,880
Speaker 1: the son that did. Now he actually is like the

1947
01:39:17,920 --> 01:39:20,680
Speaker 1: football players are in there with him. They have on

1948
01:39:20,960 --> 01:39:22,599
Speaker 1: the gear for the school.

1949
01:39:23,520 --> 01:39:26,400
Speaker 6: He even is wearing the gear for the school university.

1950
01:39:26,600 --> 01:39:33,160
Speaker 6: Is like you can't yeah, yeah, like I am in

1951
01:39:33,280 --> 01:39:34,400
Speaker 6: agreement with the coach.

1952
01:39:35,000 --> 01:39:38,720
Speaker 2: You can't put on ipel your finalea and have this

1953
01:39:38,920 --> 01:39:40,400
Speaker 2: music playing without.

1954
01:39:40,120 --> 01:39:41,560
Speaker 1: Consent of the university.

1955
01:39:41,600 --> 01:39:42,760
Speaker 2: You just can't do that.

1956
01:39:43,160 --> 01:39:45,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, the only person I support wearing football paths and

1957
01:39:46,000 --> 01:39:49,280
Speaker 1: rapping is Andre three thousand when he was dating Rikabad. Okay,

1958
01:39:49,840 --> 01:39:53,000
Speaker 1: everybody else, put on some regular clothes. What are y'all doing.

1959
01:39:54,680 --> 01:39:58,719
Speaker 3: Before we get in? Like I hate rap right now?

1960
01:39:59,200 --> 01:40:02,680
Speaker 3: It all sound like that, like all of it.

1961
01:40:02,760 --> 01:40:07,200
Speaker 4: I heard something yesterday because somebody said something young Tracy Morgan,

1962
01:40:07,240 --> 01:40:08,840
Speaker 4: that's what I call it, because they like Tracy Morgan

1963
01:40:09,040 --> 01:40:09,720
Speaker 4: and they're playing it.

1964
01:40:09,720 --> 01:40:11,719
Speaker 3: I was just like, it sounds all that just sounds

1965
01:40:11,800 --> 01:40:12,840
Speaker 3: like like that.

1966
01:40:13,080 --> 01:40:16,639
Speaker 1: So here, here's rhythm to it. Here's what I'll say. Okay,

1967
01:40:17,880 --> 01:40:21,439
Speaker 1: that's why the girls are winning right now. Like people

1968
01:40:21,520 --> 01:40:24,240
Speaker 1: keep saying like all the women are running hip hop,

1969
01:40:24,360 --> 01:40:26,080
Speaker 1: and it's like, you know why you feel that way

1970
01:40:26,600 --> 01:40:30,680
Speaker 1: because they're not doing auto tune. They're not doing all

1971
01:40:30,720 --> 01:40:33,400
Speaker 1: the guys are doing this shit like it's just like

1972
01:40:33,520 --> 01:40:37,559
Speaker 1: Roddy Rich and fifty seven sounded like ass niggas name

1973
01:40:37,680 --> 01:40:40,599
Speaker 1: baby name, various stages of baby, you know what I mean,

1974
01:40:40,800 --> 01:40:45,559
Speaker 1: Just little baby, big baby, dub baby baby, right, nine

1975
01:40:45,640 --> 01:40:49,559
Speaker 1: month old baby, Yeah, loose baby.

1976
01:40:50,320 --> 01:40:55,720
Speaker 6: And then every maybe that's who she met on the street, right,

1977
01:40:55,760 --> 01:40:58,360
Speaker 6: And then every fucking song is is that shit is

1978
01:40:58,400 --> 01:41:00,040
Speaker 6: the heavy bass and it's.

1979
01:40:59,880 --> 01:41:03,360
Speaker 1: The kind of mumbling, kind of auto tune, kind of.

1980
01:41:03,320 --> 01:41:08,040
Speaker 6: The offbeat because it sounds like beat, little offbeat, but

1981
01:41:08,040 --> 01:41:10,120
Speaker 6: but it's just yeah, it's.

1982
01:41:10,120 --> 01:41:13,920
Speaker 1: Like chaotic, right. I listen to a lot of rap,

1983
01:41:14,000 --> 01:41:17,679
Speaker 1: and it's this is why like Drake still the number

1984
01:41:17,680 --> 01:41:20,240
Speaker 1: one dude rapper right now, is because Drake don't do this.

1985
01:41:20,920 --> 01:41:23,879
Speaker 1: And as much as they accused Drake of riding trends

1986
01:41:23,920 --> 01:41:26,000
Speaker 1: and perpetrating and all that, and I'm not saying it wrong,

1987
01:41:26,560 --> 01:41:29,280
Speaker 1: the one thing he never did is stepped.

1988
01:41:29,000 --> 01:41:31,880
Speaker 5: Down to mumbling and this books and auto.

1989
01:41:31,960 --> 01:41:33,519
Speaker 1: To him, he'd just be like, no, I'm gonna keep

1990
01:41:33,520 --> 01:41:35,200
Speaker 1: pronouncing all my words, because.

1991
01:41:34,960 --> 01:41:38,080
Speaker 3: That's what's even if he if he has like.

1992
01:41:38,040 --> 01:41:41,519
Speaker 4: The essence of it, yeah, he's still it doesn't he's

1993
01:41:41,520 --> 01:41:45,880
Speaker 4: still vocal and and he's enunciating. Yeah if the music

1994
01:41:45,960 --> 01:41:47,360
Speaker 4: is doing chaos in the back.

1995
01:41:47,280 --> 01:41:49,120
Speaker 1: Because I don't like it, Yeah, I don't like this.

1996
01:41:49,240 --> 01:41:51,519
Speaker 1: I don't And as much as I love rapp and

1997
01:41:51,800 --> 01:41:53,040
Speaker 1: I fuck with the new rappers.

1998
01:41:53,600 --> 01:41:54,679
Speaker 5: I don't like this ship.

1999
01:41:55,360 --> 01:41:58,040
Speaker 1: It's never to me, it's never gonna it just feel lazy.

2000
01:41:58,080 --> 01:41:59,639
Speaker 5: It just feels like you didn't want to make.

2001
01:41:59,479 --> 01:42:04,680
Speaker 1: A song, you know what I mean, especially especially when

2002
01:42:04,760 --> 01:42:07,120
Speaker 1: so many of them rhyme the same word where they

2003
01:42:07,200 --> 01:42:08,760
Speaker 1: be like like it'll be like.

2004
01:42:11,000 --> 01:42:13,120
Speaker 5: I don't know, like I'll be going to your house.

2005
01:42:13,160 --> 01:42:15,160
Speaker 1: That's why I take your bitch going to the house

2006
01:42:15,200 --> 01:42:17,960
Speaker 1: of nunc riding now with your bitch, I'm like, bro,

2007
01:42:18,120 --> 01:42:23,639
Speaker 1: you those are the same word. That's nothing clever about

2008
01:42:23,640 --> 01:42:27,439
Speaker 1: what you just did. Dude, God anyway, Well, the coach

2009
01:42:27,439 --> 01:42:29,160
Speaker 1: put out the statement. Earlier today, I was brought to

2010
01:42:29,200 --> 01:42:30,920
Speaker 1: my attention that a rap video was shot by a

2011
01:42:30,960 --> 01:42:34,559
Speaker 1: prominent rapper in the football locker room of Gallimore Power

2012
01:42:34,600 --> 01:42:38,479
Speaker 1: Field House without proper authorization. The video contained graphic language

2013
01:42:38,479 --> 01:42:40,799
Speaker 1: that is not consistent with Florida A and L's core values,

2014
01:42:40,880 --> 01:42:44,080
Speaker 1: principles and beliefs, and an internal investigation is underway to

2015
01:42:44,120 --> 01:42:46,839
Speaker 1: determine who authorized the use of not only the athletic

2016
01:42:46,920 --> 01:42:50,400
Speaker 1: facility of Galimore Power, but also license apparel that potentially

2017
01:42:50,479 --> 01:42:54,120
Speaker 1: violates the universit's branding and licensing agreements. Although I'm a

2018
01:42:54,160 --> 01:42:56,439
Speaker 1: proud proponent of free speech and support all forms of

2019
01:42:56,520 --> 01:42:59,720
Speaker 1: musical expression. This football team, as ambassadors of Florida A

2020
01:42:59,760 --> 01:43:02,960
Speaker 1: and M University, has a responsibility to protect the university's image.

2021
01:43:03,080 --> 01:43:05,639
Speaker 1: As a result of this unfortunate situation, has had football

2022
01:43:05,680 --> 01:43:09,639
Speaker 1: coach I'm effectively suspended all football related activities until further notice.

2023
01:43:09,680 --> 01:43:11,519
Speaker 1: It is a privilege to wear the orange and green,

2024
01:43:11,800 --> 01:43:14,040
Speaker 1: and as a football program, our young men have failed

2025
01:43:14,040 --> 01:43:16,240
Speaker 1: to live up to the standard set before us. They

2026
01:43:16,280 --> 01:43:19,160
Speaker 1: will all learn from this mishap. Damn, they're gonna be

2027
01:43:19,240 --> 01:43:22,040
Speaker 1: running and we will continue to work hard every day

2028
01:43:22,040 --> 01:43:24,840
Speaker 1: to become the best version of ourselves and continue to

2029
01:43:24,880 --> 01:43:27,040
Speaker 1: make Ratler Nation proud. Willie R.

2030
01:43:27,160 --> 01:43:29,160
Speaker 5: Simmons had football coach Florida A and M.

2031
01:43:29,600 --> 01:43:32,240
Speaker 1: Now, what I think is interesting is some of the

2032
01:43:32,320 --> 01:43:40,519
Speaker 1: responses to this were see respectability politics said that like,

2033
01:43:41,120 --> 01:43:43,479
Speaker 1: so they can't, so they can't ramp. I mean, it's

2034
01:43:43,520 --> 01:43:47,240
Speaker 1: just some kids, and hey man, this is Florida.

2035
01:43:48,120 --> 01:43:50,520
Speaker 5: This is an HBCU in Florida.

2036
01:43:51,520 --> 01:43:54,800
Speaker 1: Home of Randa sentis, home of once cad Give me

2037
01:43:54,800 --> 01:43:59,560
Speaker 1: one say, home of slavery was good for y'all, Randa Santis.

2038
01:44:00,160 --> 01:44:03,120
Speaker 1: They don't have room to fuck around down there. They

2039
01:44:03,240 --> 01:44:05,880
Speaker 1: really don't like. This is the kind of shit the

2040
01:44:05,960 --> 01:44:09,080
Speaker 1: right wing motherfuckers will use as a frenzy to be like,

2041
01:44:09,120 --> 01:44:11,400
Speaker 1: and that's why we should defund their schools and shit,

2042
01:44:12,360 --> 01:44:16,120
Speaker 1: and a school that's already underfunded. So if your argument

2043
01:44:16,200 --> 01:44:19,919
Speaker 1: is like, I'm so pro black, this is what blackness is.

2044
01:44:19,640 --> 01:44:23,200
Speaker 1: This bullshit that happen is locker room this to re

2045
01:44:23,320 --> 01:44:26,960
Speaker 1: examine what you think the box of blackness has to

2046
01:44:27,000 --> 01:44:28,160
Speaker 1: be in order to.

2047
01:44:28,120 --> 01:44:29,040
Speaker 3: Be once again.

2048
01:44:29,680 --> 01:44:33,000
Speaker 4: The people who talk like that and make those statements

2049
01:44:33,360 --> 01:44:36,799
Speaker 4: have only been black since two thousand and nine.

2050
01:44:37,840 --> 01:44:39,880
Speaker 3: Right, it's always the new ones.

2051
01:44:39,920 --> 01:44:42,639
Speaker 4: It's always I just got here black people, the black

2052
01:44:42,680 --> 01:44:46,800
Speaker 4: sins fergusons who have these like wild ass statements. And

2053
01:44:46,800 --> 01:44:49,559
Speaker 4: then the people who would never do that because you know,

2054
01:44:49,600 --> 01:44:52,160
Speaker 4: you're not supposed to do that, but somehow people who

2055
01:44:52,200 --> 01:44:54,719
Speaker 4: do do that and are upset. People who are upset

2056
01:44:54,720 --> 01:44:59,400
Speaker 4: that somebody did that our respectability right bullshit?

2057
01:44:59,560 --> 01:45:03,360
Speaker 3: Okay, Can I just say something. I have a question,

2058
01:45:04,520 --> 01:45:05,760
Speaker 3: Was Sam you the.

2059
01:45:05,680 --> 01:45:08,760
Speaker 4: Same school where they had that porno orgy?

2060
01:45:09,040 --> 01:45:09,880
Speaker 3: Is that same you too?

2061
01:45:10,080 --> 01:45:11,400
Speaker 2: I don't know, does.

2062
01:45:11,280 --> 01:45:12,760
Speaker 3: Anybody know what I'm talking about? Please say?

2063
01:45:12,800 --> 01:45:15,280
Speaker 2: You know said they had a band hazen thing. I

2064
01:45:15,280 --> 01:45:16,719
Speaker 2: don't know if that's related.

2065
01:45:18,840 --> 01:45:22,639
Speaker 1: Somebody say, I know, I do know what you're talking about.

2066
01:45:23,760 --> 01:45:27,240
Speaker 1: It was like a couple of years back, right like or.

2067
01:45:27,760 --> 01:45:30,120
Speaker 3: It was like it was it was a proper porno.

2068
01:45:30,600 --> 01:45:34,639
Speaker 5: Yeah, like they had like yeah, if you if you, if.

2069
01:45:34,520 --> 01:45:37,240
Speaker 1: You put it in Google, watch fam you orgy. Yes,

2070
01:45:38,280 --> 01:45:40,240
Speaker 1: yeah it was them, It was them.

2071
01:45:40,479 --> 01:45:42,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, they were like we shut ship down. Fuck this,

2072
01:45:43,240 --> 01:45:43,719
Speaker 2: Like I.

2073
01:45:43,640 --> 01:45:45,679
Speaker 1: Don't want to shout out to one of the shout

2074
01:45:45,680 --> 01:45:49,679
Speaker 1: out to one of the things saying uh uh one

2075
01:45:49,680 --> 01:45:53,599
Speaker 1: of the descriptions saying ebony for college university, Like.

2076
01:45:56,760 --> 01:45:58,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's how you find us in the in

2077
01:45:58,880 --> 01:46:01,000
Speaker 2: the pawn term ebony.

2078
01:46:02,920 --> 01:46:07,519
Speaker 1: Porn porn is so weird in that it is the

2079
01:46:07,520 --> 01:46:10,000
Speaker 1: only place I've ever heard someone refer to black people

2080
01:46:10,000 --> 01:46:10,519
Speaker 1: as ebony.

2081
01:46:10,960 --> 01:46:12,479
Speaker 2: That's the only way you don't get a good search.

2082
01:46:12,600 --> 01:46:14,600
Speaker 1: They don't even use ebony for black people in the

2083
01:46:14,600 --> 01:46:17,360
Speaker 1: Ebony magazine.

2084
01:46:17,760 --> 01:46:19,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, because anyway you put black ain't no telling what

2085
01:46:19,960 --> 01:46:21,760
Speaker 6: you're gonna get. So you better say ebony zero to

2086
01:46:21,800 --> 01:46:22,320
Speaker 6: one hundred.

2087
01:46:22,880 --> 01:46:27,439
Speaker 1: Care to me, this gets.

2088
01:46:27,160 --> 01:46:32,479
Speaker 6: A zero because I feel, well, no, no, put I take

2089
01:46:32,520 --> 01:46:32,880
Speaker 6: this back.

2090
01:46:33,600 --> 01:46:35,320
Speaker 2: It gets it gets two scores.

2091
01:46:35,720 --> 01:46:41,360
Speaker 6: The university gets a zero because that makes sense. Nobody

2092
01:46:41,400 --> 01:46:43,920
Speaker 6: would allow you to wear they're paying frona for any

2093
01:46:44,040 --> 01:46:46,559
Speaker 6: university without they rent, without they.

2094
01:46:46,560 --> 01:46:47,439
Speaker 1: You know, consent.

2095
01:46:48,320 --> 01:46:51,080
Speaker 6: Because when you push it like this, people gonna say, hey,

2096
01:46:51,080 --> 01:46:54,719
Speaker 6: did your university say okay, this is and you gotta

2097
01:46:54,760 --> 01:46:57,679
Speaker 6: be like fuck no, and then consequences got.

2098
01:46:57,520 --> 01:47:02,400
Speaker 1: To happen, and then it is a.

2099
01:47:01,920 --> 01:47:06,360
Speaker 6: One hundred for the students because y'all have y'all are

2100
01:47:06,400 --> 01:47:09,040
Speaker 6: old enough. Y'all ain't cottage now, y'all have y'all are

2101
01:47:09,120 --> 01:47:10,960
Speaker 6: some of y'all all other ages. When you've lived through

2102
01:47:11,040 --> 01:47:14,000
Speaker 6: the internet, you should have known this was going to

2103
01:47:14,160 --> 01:47:17,360
Speaker 6: get back to somebody at some period of time. I

2104
01:47:17,400 --> 01:47:21,360
Speaker 6: guarantee you, y'all, y'all, y'all use on campus equipment.

2105
01:47:21,720 --> 01:47:23,280
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure y'all broke some.

2106
01:47:23,360 --> 01:47:28,680
Speaker 6: Laws, some some regulations, yes, but somebody thought they could

2107
01:47:28,680 --> 01:47:29,479
Speaker 6: get away with this ship.

2108
01:47:29,560 --> 01:47:32,200
Speaker 1: This ship blew up because somebody's.

2109
01:47:31,760 --> 01:47:32,679
Speaker 2: Gonna put it online.

2110
01:47:32,760 --> 01:47:34,639
Speaker 1: Well, it was gonna blow up. It's a rapper who's

2111
01:47:34,720 --> 01:47:37,840
Speaker 1: popular online already, right, it was gonna This feels like

2112
01:47:37,880 --> 01:47:40,479
Speaker 1: short sighted kid shit and like, oh, we'll get in trouble.

2113
01:47:40,479 --> 01:47:42,519
Speaker 1: But it won't be that bad. They probably didn't see

2114
01:47:42,560 --> 01:47:43,640
Speaker 1: the coach acting like this.

2115
01:47:44,280 --> 01:47:47,519
Speaker 5: Uh so you gave it a zero and one hundred,

2116
01:47:47,720 --> 01:47:48,519
Speaker 5: all right, what about you?

2117
01:47:48,560 --> 01:47:51,599
Speaker 3: BOSSI hold on, I just need to verify something.

2118
01:47:51,760 --> 01:47:55,240
Speaker 4: Carrie Williams in the chat says the black lady that

2119
01:47:55,280 --> 01:47:58,519
Speaker 4: did the next they naked picks in front of the statue.

2120
01:47:58,040 --> 01:47:59,080
Speaker 3: That was FAM you too.

2121
01:47:59,200 --> 01:48:01,160
Speaker 1: Yeah that's FAM you as well. But you weren't wrong

2122
01:48:01,200 --> 01:48:03,679
Speaker 1: about that. Yeah, but you weren't wrong about the orgy.

2123
01:48:03,720 --> 01:48:05,200
Speaker 1: I think he was trying to say, no, it's not

2124
01:48:05,280 --> 01:48:08,200
Speaker 1: the orgy, it's this woman. It's it's like it's both niggas.

2125
01:48:07,880 --> 01:48:08,720
Speaker 3: But it's both of these.

2126
01:48:09,120 --> 01:48:11,400
Speaker 4: Yes, so somes going on with FAM you, right. I

2127
01:48:11,400 --> 01:48:14,880
Speaker 4: don't know what it is that these kids are like

2128
01:48:15,080 --> 01:48:20,360
Speaker 4: wilding like this. So I'm gonna give it same zero

2129
01:48:20,400 --> 01:48:23,160
Speaker 4: for the coach. No, no, no, no, no, one hundred

2130
01:48:23,240 --> 01:48:25,840
Speaker 4: for the school because some some going on over there. Okay,

2131
01:48:26,000 --> 01:48:28,680
Speaker 4: folks just just be doing I don't know what it is.

2132
01:48:28,800 --> 01:48:30,280
Speaker 2: Let me that's trying to correct it.

2133
01:48:31,400 --> 01:48:34,840
Speaker 4: But like the school has cultivated a culture. I don't know, right,

2134
01:48:34,920 --> 01:48:37,479
Speaker 4: but it's it's weird that all that stuff happens at

2135
01:48:37,520 --> 01:48:38,000
Speaker 4: FAM you.

2136
01:48:38,080 --> 01:48:38,759
Speaker 3: Of all places.

2137
01:48:38,760 --> 01:48:39,559
Speaker 5: I'm playing Florida.

2138
01:48:39,880 --> 01:48:41,840
Speaker 3: I'll give it a seventy five. I'll give you seventy five.

2139
01:48:41,880 --> 01:48:43,240
Speaker 1: It feel very Floridian to me.

2140
01:48:43,400 --> 01:48:45,040
Speaker 5: I'm gonna go with the seventy five as well.

2141
01:48:46,240 --> 01:48:49,840
Speaker 1: I like, when I saw the video, I immediately thought,

2142
01:48:50,120 --> 01:48:52,479
Speaker 1: did this like because I didn't see the coaches response first.

2143
01:48:52,520 --> 01:48:55,599
Speaker 1: I saw the video first, and I immediately thought, why

2144
01:48:55,640 --> 01:48:58,720
Speaker 1: the fuck did y'all do that? That's very wild? And

2145
01:48:58,720 --> 01:49:02,120
Speaker 1: then it was like, oh, no staff was involved in Like, oh, okay,

2146
01:49:02,280 --> 01:49:04,360
Speaker 1: well the kids did it, and yes, they have to

2147
01:49:04,400 --> 01:49:08,240
Speaker 1: be tied a lesson because you know, Ronder saying is

2148
01:49:08,280 --> 01:49:10,280
Speaker 1: definitely gonna be using this ship when he stripped all

2149
01:49:10,280 --> 01:49:17,400
Speaker 1: of y'all accreditation next year. All right, look, we've had

2150
01:49:17,400 --> 01:49:21,200
Speaker 1: a great time, all right. Yes, you're always a great guest.

2151
01:49:21,240 --> 01:49:24,200
Speaker 1: You're always welcome to come here anytime.

2152
01:49:24,760 --> 01:49:26,200
Speaker 2: You are such a great guest.

2153
01:49:26,240 --> 01:49:30,760
Speaker 6: We was talking on the Feedback show yesterday and we

2154
01:49:30,800 --> 01:49:34,720
Speaker 6: was talking about people having like friends are kind of

2155
01:49:34,720 --> 01:49:37,599
Speaker 6: like the opposite sex, and like talking about the Kiki

2156
01:49:37,680 --> 01:49:38,599
Speaker 6: Palmer type of thing.

2157
01:49:39,280 --> 01:49:41,080
Speaker 2: And I don't know if I ever told you this,

2158
01:49:41,479 --> 01:49:42,400
Speaker 2: but I.

2159
01:49:42,120 --> 01:49:47,360
Speaker 6: Really really love and appreciate the relationship that you and

2160
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Speaker 6: Roger have and I'm very grateful and thank you.

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Speaker 3: That's my boy, that's my brother.

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01:49:52,240 --> 01:49:55,800
Speaker 6: I'm very grateful and thankful for you for y'all relationship,

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01:49:55,840 --> 01:49:58,760
Speaker 6: Like it means a lot to me because a lot

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01:49:58,760 --> 01:50:01,240
Speaker 6: of times I'm like, oh ah, like I asked kind

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Speaker 6: of how she do, like I will, I won't say nothing,

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01:50:03,720 --> 01:50:04,400
Speaker 6: but I'm like.

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Speaker 2: Okay, how's she doing?

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Speaker 1: So we do talk about you?

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01:50:08,200 --> 01:50:10,080
Speaker 3: But but but now I appreciate that.

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01:50:10,439 --> 01:50:12,800
Speaker 2: Just know that it means the world to me.

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01:50:13,080 --> 01:50:17,040
Speaker 4: I have I have married friends that because I know

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01:50:18,920 --> 01:50:22,000
Speaker 4: how their wives are, I don't speak to them. I

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01:50:22,040 --> 01:50:25,000
Speaker 4: don't like it's ten o'clock, I'm not I'm not gonna,

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01:50:25,280 --> 01:50:27,200
Speaker 4: you know, because I just don't want them to go

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01:50:27,240 --> 01:50:29,679
Speaker 4: through anything and you know, just all that stuff, it'd

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01:50:29,680 --> 01:50:30,439
Speaker 4: be three in the morning.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, rot, I don't care.

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01:50:33,800 --> 01:50:36,400
Speaker 4: I'm so because I know, yeah, because I know that

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01:50:36,640 --> 01:50:38,920
Speaker 4: you know what's up, Like, it's not it's not anything.

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Speaker 5: It's so funny.

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01:50:39,840 --> 01:50:43,120
Speaker 1: I remember one time because Karen was being will be

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01:50:43,160 --> 01:50:45,000
Speaker 1: in the background with me and BOSSI dude, this too

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01:50:45,120 --> 01:50:48,479
Speaker 1: much and everybody she's her laugh is like a co

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01:50:48,640 --> 01:50:52,880
Speaker 1: star on the show. And uh, I remember someone left

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01:50:52,920 --> 01:50:56,080
Speaker 1: us feedback one time to me and BOSSI not to

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01:50:56,439 --> 01:50:59,000
Speaker 1: me and Karen, I don't think, but it was like,

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01:50:59,080 --> 01:51:01,840
Speaker 1: but it was so version of like, I don't know

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01:51:01,880 --> 01:51:04,120
Speaker 1: how Karen can let y'all just do this show? And

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01:51:04,200 --> 01:51:06,400
Speaker 1: I was like, niggas a pocket?

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01:51:06,439 --> 01:51:07,200
Speaker 2: What's wrong with you?

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01:51:08,080 --> 01:51:13,479
Speaker 1: Like maybe right to me everywhere? Like what maybe take

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01:51:13,520 --> 01:51:17,759
Speaker 1: it like this? Feel like some insecurities are hopping out exactly,

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01:51:17,880 --> 01:51:19,000
Speaker 1: Let's check what ourselves.

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01:51:19,680 --> 01:51:21,720
Speaker 3: Who's your partner doing a podcast?

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01:51:21,800 --> 01:51:24,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's check what ourselves. Let's check in on me.

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01:51:24,880 --> 01:51:27,400
Speaker 6: They was like, because basically they said I would have

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01:51:27,439 --> 01:51:29,439
Speaker 6: an issue with this. I have an issue with it.

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01:51:29,520 --> 01:51:33,240
Speaker 6: You should do but no, I don't. I really do

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Speaker 6: love it.

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01:51:34,439 --> 01:51:36,599
Speaker 1: And keep in mind they didn't say that about the

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01:51:36,600 --> 01:51:39,240
Speaker 1: podcast I do with Justin about sports. They're never writing

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01:51:39,240 --> 01:51:41,720
Speaker 1: in like I don't know how parents just take that.

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01:51:41,800 --> 01:51:44,479
Speaker 5: I'm like, I don't know where friends, nothing's happening.

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01:51:44,600 --> 01:51:50,600
Speaker 1: Calm down. But I always appreciate you, and you know,

2205
01:51:50,800 --> 01:51:53,240
Speaker 1: the space is always available for you, whether you're promoting

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01:51:53,240 --> 01:51:55,240
Speaker 1: some or you just want to come kick it in

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01:51:55,320 --> 01:51:58,040
Speaker 1: a place where people aren't gonna take you. At the

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01:51:58,080 --> 01:52:01,439
Speaker 1: fucking worst, bad faith in interpretation of everything comes out

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01:52:01,479 --> 01:52:02,040
Speaker 1: your mouth and.

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Speaker 6: One day and one day I got to see you,

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01:52:04,600 --> 01:52:07,000
Speaker 6: because I like Roger has met you in person, but

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01:52:07,080 --> 01:52:07,880
Speaker 6: I have not met you.

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01:52:08,040 --> 01:52:09,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, me writings, we had dinner.

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01:52:11,360 --> 01:52:12,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I got to see Ray.

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01:52:12,720 --> 01:52:12,880
Speaker 3: Right.

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01:52:14,360 --> 01:52:17,680
Speaker 4: It's how we're gonna make this happen. We figure uh,

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01:52:18,920 --> 01:52:20,840
Speaker 4: I try to get to Charlotte and do a live

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01:52:20,880 --> 01:52:22,080
Speaker 4: show and let me be the guests.

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01:52:22,160 --> 01:52:22,720
Speaker 3: I'll be there.

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01:52:23,000 --> 01:52:25,640
Speaker 1: Well, we do have a live show coming up September

2221
01:52:25,800 --> 01:52:31,280
Speaker 1: like seven, nice September ninth. It's on a Saturday. So

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01:52:32,680 --> 01:52:35,000
Speaker 1: all right, let's talk about it. All right, I'll text you.

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01:52:35,320 --> 01:52:37,960
Speaker 1: We'll figure it out. I'd love to do that, all right, everybody.

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01:52:38,400 --> 01:52:41,559
Speaker 1: That is it for today's show. Bossy telling people where

2225
01:52:41,560 --> 01:52:43,960
Speaker 1: to find you. I mean, won't go to Twitter anymore.

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01:52:44,000 --> 01:52:49,400
Speaker 1: I guess now Audible, Audible, wherever you get.

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01:52:50,320 --> 01:52:53,559
Speaker 3: Yeah, my book Home really feels like that is on Audible.

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01:52:53,600 --> 01:52:57,960
Speaker 4: It's it's not getting great reviews because people, but if

2229
01:52:58,000 --> 01:52:59,960
Speaker 4: you could, you know, if you have audible, just going

2230
01:53:00,000 --> 01:53:02,320
Speaker 4: and just give it four stars. At least just give

2231
01:53:02,320 --> 01:53:04,200
Speaker 4: it four. It has three point stars.

2232
01:53:04,200 --> 01:53:06,160
Speaker 3: Blah blah. The thing is people be like.

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01:53:06,400 --> 01:53:09,519
Speaker 4: Oh, I didn't know that it was gonna be so

2234
01:53:10,120 --> 01:53:14,200
Speaker 4: depressing I'm like, nigga, the book is about being depressed

2235
01:53:14,200 --> 01:53:16,760
Speaker 4: in Nigeria. Like, I don't know what y'all want from me,

2236
01:53:17,240 --> 01:53:20,679
Speaker 4: my next my next audible book, because I'm really really

2237
01:53:21,040 --> 01:53:23,320
Speaker 4: proud of this next one that it's not about that

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01:53:23,400 --> 01:53:26,479
Speaker 4: at all. It's about some other stuff. It's I'm calling

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01:53:26,520 --> 01:53:27,479
Speaker 4: it a ram Trump.

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Speaker 3: Oh I like that, isn't that clever? It's a ram Trump.

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01:53:31,479 --> 01:53:33,880
Speaker 4: So it's like it's it's it's about a relationship and

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01:53:33,880 --> 01:53:34,759
Speaker 4: and all that stuff.

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01:53:36,040 --> 01:53:42,639
Speaker 3: But yeah, it's the joy and laugh.

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01:53:43,040 --> 01:53:46,240
Speaker 1: Is Trump also gonna be funny?

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01:53:46,439 --> 01:53:47,960
Speaker 5: Is that also a part of it?

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01:53:48,760 --> 01:53:49,320
Speaker 3: No?

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01:53:49,439 --> 01:53:50,719
Speaker 1: Okay, So it's a romance.

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01:53:50,960 --> 01:53:52,200
Speaker 3: It's gonna be okay.

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01:53:52,200 --> 01:53:53,759
Speaker 4: So I'm not gonna say it's not gonna be funny

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01:53:53,760 --> 01:53:58,479
Speaker 4: because I'm I'm funny. So like funny like shows up

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01:53:58,560 --> 01:54:02,479
Speaker 4: in it. But it's not like it's about like the autopsy.

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01:54:01,960 --> 01:54:02,559
Speaker 3: Of a relationship.

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01:54:02,680 --> 01:54:04,120
Speaker 4: Let me tell you about it. It's about like the

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01:54:04,160 --> 01:54:07,360
Speaker 4: autopsy of a relationship. And it's based on a true story.

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01:54:07,600 --> 01:54:09,479
Speaker 4: So it's these two people who broke up and had

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01:54:09,520 --> 01:54:13,080
Speaker 4: like a terrible breakup, like a traumatic breakup, and ten

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01:54:13,160 --> 01:54:17,360
Speaker 4: years later they've come together to have the conversation about

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01:54:17,360 --> 01:54:20,320
Speaker 4: what happened. How they feel now, like a bunch of

2259
01:54:20,360 --> 01:54:25,160
Speaker 4: like misconceptions, like somebody lied, and both people believe the

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01:54:25,200 --> 01:54:25,599
Speaker 4: lie and.

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01:54:25,560 --> 01:54:26,040
Speaker 3: They didn't know.

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01:54:26,240 --> 01:54:28,000
Speaker 4: I told you about this, I told you about the

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01:54:28,800 --> 01:54:31,400
Speaker 4: I told you about the lie that somebody told that

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01:54:31,479 --> 01:54:33,800
Speaker 4: for ten years I washold. Yeah, so it's about that

2265
01:54:33,880 --> 01:54:36,520
Speaker 4: and like trying to figure out, you know, how to

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01:54:37,520 --> 01:54:40,680
Speaker 4: not rewrite the past, but re understand the past based

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01:54:40,680 --> 01:54:42,600
Speaker 4: on the fact that a lot of it was built

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01:54:42,600 --> 01:54:45,960
Speaker 4: on this lie. So yeah, so it's just it's and

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01:54:46,000 --> 01:54:48,760
Speaker 4: it's done. It's the first time I'm not going to narrate.

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01:54:48,800 --> 01:54:51,240
Speaker 4: It's going to be two actors because it's two point

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01:54:51,240 --> 01:54:53,520
Speaker 4: of views, two narrators, his point of view and her

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01:54:53,560 --> 01:54:58,080
Speaker 4: point of view. And I'm just I'm really excited about it.

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01:54:58,160 --> 01:55:02,160
Speaker 4: It's it's probably one of the I haven't been looking

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01:55:02,240 --> 01:55:06,800
Speaker 4: forward to writing or putting together a writing project like

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01:55:06,840 --> 01:55:08,320
Speaker 4: this in a very very long time.

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01:55:09,360 --> 01:55:09,800
Speaker 5: I love that.

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01:55:10,480 --> 01:55:15,000
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, definitely be on the lookout everybody, and make

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01:55:15,000 --> 01:55:17,480
Speaker 1: sure you go leave those five stars. I'll say, not

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01:55:17,560 --> 01:55:20,920
Speaker 1: even for five stars for her audible review as well.

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01:55:21,320 --> 01:55:24,440
Speaker 1: We'll be back, probably not tomorrow if you're gonna take

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01:55:24,480 --> 01:55:28,920
Speaker 1: tomorrow off, but we'll be back definitely Wednesday for sure,

2282
01:55:29,680 --> 01:55:32,480
Speaker 1: where we'll hatch a Lawell and Gast on the show

2283
01:55:33,720 --> 01:55:35,200
Speaker 1: from the War Report podcast.

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Speaker 5: So until then, I love you, I love you to