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Speaker 1: The Nikki Glazer Podcast's Nikki. Hello, Happy Wednesday to you guys.

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Speaker 1: How's it going out there? Welcome to the Nicky Glazer Podcast.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for listening. Things are pretty good here in

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Speaker 1: Old St. Louis. Um, not a ton of report. Yesterday

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Speaker 1: was my full day without Marion and it was awesome.

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Speaker 1: I got so much done. I got a lot of

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Speaker 1: responses from people who care for things, um, both animals

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Speaker 1: and people and in their day to day lives, and

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Speaker 1: they felt seen by me saying that I see them

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Speaker 1: and that I think about them. And some even said like,

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Speaker 1: I can't even come to your show because you're coming

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Speaker 1: down the street for me, but I can't even get

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Speaker 1: away because and I get it, you know, I get it,

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Speaker 1: And thank you for doing that and caring for another

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Speaker 1: person and get you outside of yourself. But so much

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Speaker 1: about being able to care for other people is caring

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Speaker 1: for yourself, and that it is good to be selfless.

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Speaker 1: But if you neglect yourself enough, you're gonna have a

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Speaker 1: lot of anger, and um it's gonna be It's gonna

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Speaker 1: affect the people that you are caring for. One of

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Speaker 1: my biggest pet peeves is when people just do everything

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Speaker 1: for other people, Like we'll do anything just to get

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Speaker 1: anyone to Like. It's not even people. I guess it's

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Speaker 1: people pleasing, but it's just like, are just to Um,

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Speaker 1: I can do that for you. I'll do that for like.

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Speaker 1: It's just it's too much. Um. The word no is

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Speaker 1: great UM. And to have boundaries, but I didn't know

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Speaker 1: what those were until a while ago, and I'm still

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Speaker 1: figuring out what they are. UM. Like, you know, I'm

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Speaker 1: reading book Men Prefer Bitches and or I was, you know,

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Speaker 1: I read a third of it and now I'm like done,

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Speaker 1: Let's be honest, that's all I do. Let's read a

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Speaker 1: third of books and feel like I know everything. Um.

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Speaker 1: But I've just uh stopped reaching out to any people

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Speaker 1: that I'm actually interested in, Like no more like no

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Speaker 1: no more, Like, Oh I'm bored, let me just text

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Speaker 1: this person. Oh I'm I'm thinking about them. Oh wait.

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Speaker 1: I waited until I actually had a good reason to

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Speaker 1: text them because I saw this thing that like reminded

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Speaker 1: me of him. I mean, like, you know, all the

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Speaker 1: somersaults we go through to like justify why we need

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Speaker 1: to reach out. I mean, one of my favorite stories

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Speaker 1: ever was with my best friend went on a date

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Speaker 1: with a guy and he the date ended like kiss

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Speaker 1: on the cheek, like mail, let's do this again sometime.

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Speaker 1: Like hell, we can argue that maybe that's a way

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Speaker 1: you end a date that there could be a future there.

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Speaker 1: But if a guy is saying that, and if I'm

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Speaker 1: saying that, it's not likely we're going to go out again.

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Speaker 1: I think at the end of the first date if

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Speaker 1: I say I never say that because I don't lie now.

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Speaker 1: But at the end of the date, if I'm not

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Speaker 1: into a guy and he's like, let's do this again sometime,

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Speaker 1: I might just give in and go, Yeah, it'd be nice,

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Speaker 1: you know what. I'm gonna be honest, like I might

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Speaker 1: lie because it's not a lie because maybe I would,

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Speaker 1: but that's not a good indication of Like it's kind

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Speaker 1: of like saying like, yeah, what if like all my

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Speaker 1: other options like die and there's like some kind of

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Speaker 1: and if things in my life take a turn, you know, um,

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Speaker 1: and it's not doesn't say anything about that person. They're lovely.

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Speaker 1: Isn't it funny that we can reject people ourselves and

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Speaker 1: totally understand the notion of you're great, just not for me.

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Speaker 1: Yet when someone says that to you, it doesn't fucking

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Speaker 1: make sense and you go, okay, I'm great. Well then

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Speaker 1: it must be like I don't even want to know

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Speaker 1: what it is. Most of the time, usually it's that

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Speaker 1: I'm just don't remind you of your mother enough. Um,

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Speaker 1: that's just the way it is. And I'm I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: if that, you know, triggers you or makes you uncomfortable. Um,

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Speaker 1: or maybe I do remind you of your mom too much.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it can be a it can be either or,

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Speaker 1: but generally it's that you need a woman who's going

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Speaker 1: to kind of recreate that dynamic you add as a child.

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Speaker 1: And uh, and I'm not the one for you, or

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Speaker 1: it's like you know, they'll say something like I don't

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Speaker 1: Like it just kind of pours out out of people,

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Speaker 1: and I I just created. I think. I'm not trying

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Speaker 1: This is backfired so many ways. But there's something about

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Speaker 1: I ask in a way that is non judgmental. I

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Speaker 1: sense that. Anyway, I get guys to admit trauma and

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Speaker 1: stuff they've never talked about before, and maybe they've never

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Speaker 1: then you know, it's almost like the drunk thing we're

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Speaker 1: gonna be really sustainable. In its similar way, when guys

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Speaker 1: You know, when you go into a therapy session and

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Speaker 1: It's a kind of drunk state. It's a state that

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Speaker 1: you when you step out of the therapist stores, you're

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Speaker 1: kind of like, WHOA, back to the world where I'm

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Speaker 1: not thinking about my parents constantly or whatever. Um. And

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Speaker 1: I feel like I said that, I think that guys

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Speaker 1: oh my god, that was so humiliating, and they don't

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Speaker 1: want to see me again because they know. I know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I know in one circumstance that this is

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Speaker 1: and I was too clingy all the other things too.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think that was a factor of it.

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Speaker 1: But you know, there I have many suitors right now,

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Speaker 1: and it feels great because I'm casting a wide net.

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Speaker 1: There's there's lots of guys that I could text to

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Speaker 1: get the validation that I see from men to feel like, oh,

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Speaker 1: And so the other day I was tempted to, you know,

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Speaker 1: it was to this guy. And I just was like, no,

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Speaker 1: what do you want from this text? What do you

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Speaker 1: what's the best reply you could get? Are you going

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Speaker 1: to get that? Most likely not. I've literally have never

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Speaker 1: it will probably be something less good, which is only

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Speaker 1: going to make my mood sour. Why don't I just

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Speaker 1: I remember to do it in five minutes. Guess what

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Speaker 1: he had texted me this guy that I hadn't heard from.

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Speaker 1: Um And and I was in the middle, so I

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Speaker 1: midnight mode. Great move, you know, just putting your phone

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Speaker 1: a like, hey, let's do this, like I like to

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Speaker 1: say when I'm communicating with someone who doesn't live in

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Speaker 1: You need to create those spaces so that you can

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Speaker 1: it's just it's I just get disappointed. It's like, why

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Speaker 1: That's okay too, you know. And um, it's so funny

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Speaker 1: I was talking about some guy and he goes, Nikki,

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Speaker 1: I don't even get you could have anyone you want.

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Speaker 1: You literally could have anyone you want. I was like,

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Speaker 1: It's so nice that someone thinks of me that way,

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Speaker 1: and a lot of people do. The truth is you can't.

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Speaker 1: You can't have everyone you want, and especially someone who

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Speaker 1: goes after things that are truly Everyone says, there's no

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Speaker 1: you know. I've gone against the odds from my career

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Speaker 1: and I always want things that seem and I got lucky.

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Speaker 1: Let's be honest, like I just worked hard enough and

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be unlucky in relationships because I've been so

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Speaker 1: impressive in other ways if a guy needs me to

425
00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:09,159
Speaker 1: throw a cool spiral to be impressive, and we're not

426
00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:14,720
Speaker 1: gonna last a spiral for you essentially. Also the guys

427
00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:16,879
Speaker 1: that are like, whoa, she's so good at stand up,

428
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:19,479
Speaker 1: I don't want to fucking even touch I don't like

429
00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:22,119
Speaker 1: those guys. Like I like guys that are like, wow,

430
00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:24,040
Speaker 1: she's really herself and she's so goofy. Like I was

431
00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:26,439
Speaker 1: talking to my friend yesterday about it, like all I

432
00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:31,320
Speaker 1: want is a guy across the room with my husband.

433
00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:33,520
Speaker 1: My ideal husband is going to be someone that I

434
00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:36,760
Speaker 1: can like be the weirdest in front of. And he

435
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:39,640
Speaker 1: just laughs and kind of shakes his head and it's

436
00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:45,800
Speaker 1: like like just as like Nikki is just like that's

437
00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:49,879
Speaker 1: my wife, Like I want to that's my wife to

438
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:53,679
Speaker 1: my she's so fucking annoying. Like, but I think I

439
00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:56,640
Speaker 1: can turn to that. Let's talk to our guests about that.

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00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 1: We have a great guest today who has a new

441
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Speaker 1: special out Live from the Pandemic. It's on Vimeo. You

442
00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:07,320
Speaker 1: can get it for She is a major TV and

443
00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:09,760
Speaker 1: movie star. She has a new movie out that she

444
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:12,080
Speaker 1: is in that you can find on Amazon Prime called

445
00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:16,760
Speaker 1: The Tomorrow War. It starts Chris Pratt. Uh again. I

446
00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:19,280
Speaker 1: mean it's a crazy cast and Noah watched the last

447
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:21,359
Speaker 1: night and she fucking loved it. It also stars our

448
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:28,199
Speaker 1: guest today, the hilarious, the honest, the lovely, the talented,

449
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:32,959
Speaker 1: Marylyn Rice Cub everyone. Maryland. I could just hear you

450
00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:37,080
Speaker 1: and it's just your name. There you are, Hi. I

451
00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:41,240
Speaker 1: love your background. What are you laughing about? You know what?

452
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:47,120
Speaker 1: Give me a second? You love and I don't. Can

453
00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:52,439
Speaker 1: you look? So? What is this? You look adorable? I

454
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:56,199
Speaker 1: love the haircut you have, like a shaggy bang. That

455
00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:59,639
Speaker 1: is a good bang? Was that a new choice? Is

456
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:02,200
Speaker 1: that an I got? This was Grand Cayman Islands. It's

457
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:05,439
Speaker 1: actually growing out. Stop it. That's where you got it?

458
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:09,200
Speaker 1: Because listen, Maryland person, Okay, let me. I don't want

459
00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:11,200
Speaker 1: to just say like, oh, it was for a movie,

460
00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:13,320
Speaker 1: because it was, but I'll give you the backstory, which

461
00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:15,359
Speaker 1: will make it not so lame to say that, No,

462
00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:18,840
Speaker 1: I was doing an independent movie. There. We we connected briefly,

463
00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:21,760
Speaker 1: and I'm so excited about what you were doing there.

464
00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:25,960
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I can't wait. Oh my god. So

465
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:30,119
Speaker 1: I sat down in her chair, and the script was

466
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:33,040
Speaker 1: this woman was supposed to be severe and rich and

467
00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 1: like a murderous matriarch. So it had her in like,

468
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:41,200
Speaker 1: you know how like guys right the description of women

469
00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:44,760
Speaker 1: like she's in a pantsuit with a tight bond. Yes.

470
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 1: And I was already like before I even sat down

471
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Speaker 1: in her chair, I'm like like, I'm just like I'm not,

472
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:53,280
Speaker 1: but in a nice way. You know. I was gonna like,

473
00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:55,639
Speaker 1: let's have a discussion about my hair. Meanwhile, I'm like,

474
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:58,160
Speaker 1: there's no way you're doing a tight bomb. That's all

475
00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:01,200
Speaker 1: they can see is like, yeah, woman, that's not supposed

476
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:04,320
Speaker 1: to a tight, severe butt in a pant suit. It's

477
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:07,239
Speaker 1: kind of yeah and throws a mean spiral. We were

478
00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 1: just talking about pant pant suit. First of all, I'm

479
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:12,360
Speaker 1: gonna be swallowed up and it's the grain Cayman Islands

480
00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:17,160
Speaker 1: and she's a rich person. She's not a bank manager. Yes, yes,

481
00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:25,359
Speaker 1: Why did you go buy me some Gucci and ship? Yeah?

482
00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 1: I'm sorry? How rich? Am I a calf taine? You

483
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:32,359
Speaker 1: know what if we do, if we do give you

484
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:35,359
Speaker 1: this Gucci wardrobe that you want for the character Maryland,

485
00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:38,480
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, we have to move you from the Kimpton

486
00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:42,720
Speaker 1: to the Morritts, which is on the other side of

487
00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:45,600
Speaker 1: the island where everyone from f Boy Island is staying.

488
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:49,719
Speaker 1: And we're going to leave the tag on you and

489
00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:54,679
Speaker 1: can you not soil? You can go to the bathroom

490
00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:58,000
Speaker 1: on the beach, it is natural. So what did you

491
00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:01,119
Speaker 1: so you agreed on this cut, which I mean looks

492
00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:04,360
Speaker 1: you look so shake I love that it's grown out.

493
00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 1: So the story even more. The lady she was like,

494
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:16,399
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not a hair I'm a I'm a stylist,

495
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:20,879
Speaker 1: not a cutter. Yeah. Maybe she was suffering and she

496
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:23,600
Speaker 1: might dress I was like, no, she was a hairdresser. Yeah,

497
00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:26,600
Speaker 1: she's no, she wasn't a cutter anyway. She maybe after

498
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:30,440
Speaker 1: after this conversation, keeps it to herself. She's like, can

499
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:34,560
Speaker 1: we talk about your hair a little bit? Longer. But anyway,

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00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:37,000
Speaker 1: she was like totally on board. Of course, like you know,

501
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:42,000
Speaker 1: ent of hair and makeup, people are like awesome. Yes,

502
00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:44,479
Speaker 1: there's like the three percent that are like the worst,

503
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:48,399
Speaker 1: but you're so right that it's like legit the number.

504
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:51,439
Speaker 1: They're always awesome. But once in a while you're just like,

505
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 1: how did this stink bug last in this business? Because

506
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 1: it's such a like intimate they're like instantly in your space,

507
00:27:58,080 --> 00:27:59,879
Speaker 1: and so by and large those people are going to

508
00:27:59,920 --> 00:28:04,720
Speaker 1: be like the dope chill people. Yeah. Anyway, she I.

509
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 1: We both kept talking about it, and I was like

510
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 1: hyping her up. I was like, just do it cut

511
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:13,160
Speaker 1: my hair, and she did, like even a more severe

512
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 1: you know, the bank's room almost like an Anna Wintour looked.

513
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:19,440
Speaker 1: Talk about severe. That woman. I don't know if she's

514
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:25,200
Speaker 1: ever smiled, I know, very rich. It was sunglasses refused

515
00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 1: to her head. You were in the Grand Cayman. You

516
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 1: were in Grand Cayman for like a month or so

517
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 1: doing shooting a movie. I was there with f Y

518
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 1: Island Andrew, my co host, Andrew Colin was also there

519
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:39,360
Speaker 1: with me. I started getting me and I've only seen

520
00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 1: you on Instagram. It's weird seeing me live through a computer.

521
00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:48,959
Speaker 1: I know, it's so different. We I only people kept

522
00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:50,959
Speaker 1: tweeting me at me being like, are you here for

523
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:53,120
Speaker 1: the same thing Marylyn writes is And I was like,

524
00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:56,000
Speaker 1: she's here. And then I looked and you were staying

525
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 1: at the Kimpton, which I stayed at for two weeks

526
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Speaker 1: after my show wrapped. I just went over there to

527
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:03,280
Speaker 1: enjoy it. It was so nice. You were doing like

528
00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 1: a quarantine video every day of like because you had

529
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:09,000
Speaker 1: to quarantine for two weeks right before you guys were

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00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:11,960
Speaker 1: allowed out into the open. Wasn't that so great once

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00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 1: you were allowed back out, like now we're kind of

532
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 1: living in America like that, like it's kind of free, maskless.

533
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:20,840
Speaker 1: But then it was a real treat. What did you

534
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 1: do first when you got out? It was the best

535
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 1: I had. Right before I was let out of the quarantine,

536
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 1: I had an extra scare which made my release even better.

537
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 1: There was a fire alarm at the Kimpton, and I

538
00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 1: was supposed to get my test back like in like

539
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 1: a matter of moments or oh my god, and you

540
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 1: have to leave and break quarantine for oh my god,

541
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 1: and I got boned. I called the desk I go,

542
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 1: I'm about to get out of quarantine. Should I leave

543
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 1: for this fire alarm? And she goes, yes, leave, And

544
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 1: then everybody got a talking to at that hotel because

545
00:29:56,120 --> 00:30:00,600
Speaker 1: the COVID person called me and she's like, um, actually

546
00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 1: her voice was shaking because she knew she might because

547
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:06,040
Speaker 1: I and then and then I started having a panic attack,

548
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 1: cause I was like, is this what's gonna tell me?

549
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:11,600
Speaker 1: I gotta go two more weeks in quarantine like I started,

550
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:14,400
Speaker 1: but because some kids pulled the alarm or they're doing

551
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 1: some tests. Well, because she was saying I broke it,

552
00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:19,959
Speaker 1: because she's like, did you who did you ride up

553
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:22,120
Speaker 1: in the elevator with? I said the other guy that

554
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:25,320
Speaker 1: I'm on this entire floor. We've both been quarantine and

555
00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:28,520
Speaker 1: she's like, okay, well we're you six ft apart? You

556
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:32,000
Speaker 1: know my god. I was like touch and go. So

557
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 1: that last hour or two was really harrowing. I I

558
00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:38,680
Speaker 1: legit started to panic, even though I could have just

559
00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 1: been like I gotta go home, like there's no way

560
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 1: I can stay in here for another two weeks. But

561
00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:46,040
Speaker 1: for some reason, that was like the little trigger that

562
00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:48,000
Speaker 1: I started to lose it a little bit, and I

563
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 1: was actually texting with Bob Sagett. Yeah, it was also

564
00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 1: hard day down and he's like, just it's okay, and

565
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:56,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, I really am just doing breathing exercises. I

566
00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:59,640
Speaker 1: actually started filming TikTok's to take my mind off of

567
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 1: it because I was like, I gotta get out of here.

568
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 1: And the rest of the quarantine was like lovely perfect anyway,

569
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 1: it was like build up, build up, build up. Everybody

570
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 1: at the front desk knew um by the time I

571
00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:14,000
Speaker 1: came down, and Uh, I went straight to a dinner

572
00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:15,800
Speaker 1: that had already been going on with everybody in the

573
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 1: film for like, you know, it was like the third

574
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:20,240
Speaker 1: hour of the dinner and everybody you know, of course

575
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 1: it's that moment of mask list. So I walked in

576
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:28,520
Speaker 1: and every and there was this big like you got out.

577
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:33,680
Speaker 1: It was amazing. It was I'm so glad you got

578
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 1: out and that to have that happened in the last hour,

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00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:40,240
Speaker 1: I mean, it's so wild because I saw your view

580
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 1: from your hotel room and you're looking out on this resort.

581
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 1: You're looking out on the ocean. Every day You're like, oh,

582
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:47,960
Speaker 1: there's my boat, and you're like zooming in on you

583
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:49,960
Speaker 1: like there's my boyfriend. It would be like this, like

584
00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 1: hot guy walking by, and we had the same kind

585
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 1: of thing where was there was caution tape in front

586
00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 1: of our ocean view, like you can't there's just this

587
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 1: tempting outside. And after a while though, I almost didn't

588
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:05,800
Speaker 1: want to leave, like and I think a lot of

589
00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 1: people are dealing with that right now of the world

590
00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:11,240
Speaker 1: opening up and you just don't. You're not ready to

591
00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 1: go back to social things, and there's just some fear

592
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 1: that you can't even put your finger on of like

593
00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:18,720
Speaker 1: what it is. But there's so much the thing that

594
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 1: you used to hate of staying inside all the time

595
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:24,840
Speaker 1: has now become this like comforting thing. And even in

596
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 1: Grand Cayman when it's like when we get out, I

597
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 1: get to go and be amongst all these new people

598
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:32,000
Speaker 1: and meet new people, which is you know, stressful in

599
00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:34,400
Speaker 1: enve itself, but go out on the beach. I didn't

600
00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 1: want to andrew you. When we got out. You went

601
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:38,320
Speaker 1: to the gym, you went all these things, and I

602
00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 1: was like, I'm just gonna go up and take a

603
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:41,720
Speaker 1: nap in my room, like I needed to really ease

604
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:43,960
Speaker 1: into it. But then once you were at once time

605
00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 1: I was out. That's why I tell people, just force

606
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:50,960
Speaker 1: yourself to go out and you'll realize it's like two

607
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:53,800
Speaker 1: days and then you're good. Yes, you build it up.

608
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:55,760
Speaker 1: Oh my god, what am I gonna do? How am

609
00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:58,000
Speaker 1: I going to talk to someone? And you're a human

610
00:32:58,000 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 1: you can get back on the bike. Like we're not.

611
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:02,720
Speaker 1: We didn't forget that much, you know what I mean,

612
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:08,000
Speaker 1: experienced those like the kernel of like agoraphobia, which I'm

613
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:10,680
Speaker 1: sort of thankful that I know what that feels like,

614
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 1: because it's like, oh okay, because I really all of

615
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:15,720
Speaker 1: our habits over the past year and a half, it's

616
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 1: like I don't need the world anymore. I can Yes, Well,

617
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 1: you also had COVID as an excuse to stay in,

618
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:24,920
Speaker 1: Like COVID was kind of a great excuse to not

619
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:27,560
Speaker 1: do anything, like, oh no, I'd love to do that.

620
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 1: But I got this amazing my parents recently we're telling

621
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:33,440
Speaker 1: me that some people couldn't come to a function that

622
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:37,080
Speaker 1: they were throwing because they were scared of COVID, And

623
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 1: I go, are they unvaccinated? And they were like, And

624
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 1: this was before the delta variant and all these new

625
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:44,280
Speaker 1: things popping up that people can use as excuses to

626
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 1: stay inside and not socialize. Again, people are still using

627
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:51,479
Speaker 1: I'm scared of COVID instead of saying because my parents go, oh,

628
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 1: these people are going because they're scared of COVID, and

629
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:57,720
Speaker 1: I go, honestly, they have social anxiety, which to my parents,

630
00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 1: they don't understand what social anxiety is like that us

631
00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 1: not to be nervous about talking people. When I would

632
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:04,120
Speaker 1: go to the grocery store with my dad as a

633
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:05,800
Speaker 1: kid and he would be like, hey, there's some one

634
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 1: those parents go say, and I'd be like, no, I

635
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 1: don't want to see them. He'd be like, I don't

636
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 1: understand why you wouldn't want to see someone you know

637
00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:13,239
Speaker 1: and talk to someone No, And I go, I don't

638
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:15,520
Speaker 1: understand it either. So they have no concept of it,

639
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 1: and so I told them. I go, the people that

640
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:20,840
Speaker 1: tell you they're scared of COVID that are vaccinated aren't

641
00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:23,480
Speaker 1: scared of COVID. They literally are scared of going to

642
00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 1: a party. And my dad goes, that's they're not scared

643
00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:28,000
Speaker 1: of a party, and I go, yes, Dad, there's a

644
00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 1: thing called social anxiety and everyone has it, and so

645
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:33,080
Speaker 1: many people had it way before the pandemic, and now

646
00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:36,880
Speaker 1: it's even worse, and so I just would like people

647
00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 1: to be honest about it. And instead of making a

648
00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:41,560
Speaker 1: lie up of like I'm scared of getting COVID, just

649
00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 1: say I have social anxiety, Like teach people not even

650
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 1: I hate you, I'm scared. I'm scared of social interaction.

651
00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 1: I mean, if someone sucks, just be like I can't

652
00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 1: make it and get those people out of your life.

653
00:34:57,160 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 1: But sometimes people I want to hang out with them,

654
00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:02,840
Speaker 1: just like I don't because I'm just scared of keeping

655
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:04,879
Speaker 1: the conversation going. I don't even know what I can't

656
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 1: even put my finger on it. Uh, Marylynn, You're special.

657
00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 1: I've watched half of it. Is so funny and so different.

658
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:15,239
Speaker 1: It's on Vimeo now. It's it's called Live from the Pandemic.

659
00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:18,439
Speaker 1: Oh my god, No, I can't wait to watch the rest.

660
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 1: It's called Life from the Pandemic, right yes. And it's

661
00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:26,759
Speaker 1: it's filmed in your garage, I believe, correct alone with

662
00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:29,920
Speaker 1: a uh. And it's just you doing stand up for

663
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:35,319
Speaker 1: about an hour about your life before pandemic and now

664
00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:38,560
Speaker 1: kind of like we ease into what your life was

665
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 1: during pandemic. Right now, I'm just into the material about

666
00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 1: um your divorce and your relationships with which I'm fascinated by.

667
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:51,040
Speaker 1: And it's it's I want to get into it all

668
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:54,720
Speaker 1: in a little bit. And you're dating now too, right, Well,

669
00:35:55,080 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 1: yeah trying? Are you on? I was on Riah for

670
00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:04,440
Speaker 1: a minute. I never got any clicks, any action. Yeah, no,

671
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:08,360
Speaker 1: it's it's it's nearly impossible. These actors talked me to

672
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:11,360
Speaker 1: going on bumble and she actually, I say these actors

673
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:13,319
Speaker 1: because this it was like you know when you meet

674
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:15,560
Speaker 1: people and they're they like love life and they're like

675
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 1: get up like those type of that are a little

676
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 1: bit foreign to me, but I love being around them.

677
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:23,399
Speaker 1: Like this woman I just worked with and the Grand

678
00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:25,760
Speaker 1: Cayman Island. She was like, here's how you take a photo.

679
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:28,959
Speaker 1: And she's stunning but she and she so she knows

680
00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 1: how to do all that stuff, you know, and she

681
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:36,120
Speaker 1: got their profile set up. Put your tips together something right,

682
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 1: It's not all about the tip. Push that fool now.

683
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 1: She's just like, smile, smile at the camera. She would think,

684
00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 1: I know how to do. I mean, don't just tid

685
00:36:56,160 --> 00:37:04,680
Speaker 1: like this? Do you want to date? His wife? A

686
00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:10,440
Speaker 1: comfortable scowl. I'm scared of other people. Anxiety but I

687
00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:13,320
Speaker 1: kept going from Riyah to Bumble because you're like, okay,

688
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:15,759
Speaker 1: Ry is the celebrity one, or it's like the you know,

689
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:19,760
Speaker 1: the the elite one, but you get no fucking matches

690
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:23,799
Speaker 1: on there because you're up against literal escorts. Why would

691
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:26,920
Speaker 1: a guy want a relationship with someone who is a

692
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:28,839
Speaker 1: real person when they can have sex with someone who

693
00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:34,040
Speaker 1: literally is a fucking model. Who who? I mean? It's

694
00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:36,279
Speaker 1: just like you just look at your competition. You go, okay, this,

695
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:39,399
Speaker 1: there's no reason I shouldn't be getting matches. This makes

696
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:41,239
Speaker 1: sense for the kind of guys I'm seeing on here.

697
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:43,160
Speaker 1: Of course they don't want someone like me. So then

698
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:45,799
Speaker 1: you go to Bumble and there's too much riff raff

699
00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 1: there there you start getting set people in your like

700
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:53,400
Speaker 1: for St. Louis Bumble is l a Bumbles probably al right,

701
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:57,719
Speaker 1: but St Louis Bumble, you get about thinking about it.

702
00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:00,319
Speaker 1: I think I need to force myself to do it. Yes,

703
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:02,880
Speaker 1: because that's the people that have done it. Just go

704
00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:05,280
Speaker 1: on a bunch of first dates. That's like, I'm from

705
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 1: a time and a place where I didn't Yeah I

706
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 1: was not. Well, your husband you've met because he just

707
00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:15,440
Speaker 1: came up and gave you his number or ask for

708
00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 1: your number, like he approached you. So it wasn't like

709
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:21,759
Speaker 1: a so you you often meet men who are You're

710
00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:23,320
Speaker 1: not having to like seek it out. You kind of

711
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:25,960
Speaker 1: wait for people to come to you. It was always

712
00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 1: through friends of friends, social circle, some comedians back in

713
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 1: the day. But I was always awkward. I like my

714
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:38,320
Speaker 1: game was like no game. Yes, so I'd be like

715
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:40,279
Speaker 1: like I would just I think I would listen to

716
00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:43,480
Speaker 1: people and I kind of like an easy mark for them,

717
00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 1: you know, And then how do you prefer to would?

718
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 1: Because I have all I don't like dating apps because

719
00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:52,040
Speaker 1: I hate the pretense of we're meaning to see if

720
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:53,960
Speaker 1: we're going to have sex or maybe get married. I

721
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:55,879
Speaker 1: hate that in the air. I want to just start

722
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:57,880
Speaker 1: his friends. So I changed my riot profall to just

723
00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:00,440
Speaker 1: looking for friends because really that's all I them. And

724
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:02,840
Speaker 1: then I will take it from friends to more because

725
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:05,560
Speaker 1: I don't like that corny energy from men of like

726
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:08,840
Speaker 1: this this might be I might have my dick in

727
00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 1: you later, like I know they're always thinking that, but

728
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:14,200
Speaker 1: I really hate and I hate the disappointing men too

729
00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:17,719
Speaker 1: and not being into them, and I feel resentful that

730
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:21,080
Speaker 1: they even think they can prior to meeting with them,

731
00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:23,120
Speaker 1: and so I've just taken that off the table. That's

732
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 1: why I hate dating apps. Well that's interesting because I

733
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 1: have the equal but opposite. I talked to one guy

734
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:31,400
Speaker 1: on Riya on the phone, which was totally reasonable. I

735
00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:33,440
Speaker 1: have never done that again. My stuff and my special

736
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:37,000
Speaker 1: is about weird in person things that I've done very

737
00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:39,200
Speaker 1: very few, only like two or three things. But anyway,

738
00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:41,880
Speaker 1: I talked to this one guy. He was in Silicon Valley.

739
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:45,600
Speaker 1: He talked so much that I was like, like, at first,

740
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:47,160
Speaker 1: I was like, you're too smart for me. And then

741
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:49,560
Speaker 1: I was like, you just are too communicat to like

742
00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:53,719
Speaker 1: I'm a little like, go away from me. Stop talking.

743
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:56,759
Speaker 1: And and then he started saying how he met a

744
00:39:56,760 --> 00:39:58,600
Speaker 1: lot of women. He's like, and I've met a lot

745
00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:03,080
Speaker 1: of friends on here, and I was just a friend

746
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:06,160
Speaker 1: of yours. I don't want to just like have this

747
00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:13,359
Speaker 1: long conversation for for nothing, but yeah, like I have things,

748
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:16,480
Speaker 1: I have issues. I need someone that I can like

749
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:19,120
Speaker 1: vibe with. I don't want you to like you're so

750
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:21,759
Speaker 1: communicative and you're so willing to be a friend and

751
00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:27,240
Speaker 1: like you're cool with women, Like yes, I ate that too, Okay,

752
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 1: that would really have a few issues for me, like

753
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:34,520
Speaker 1: a real guy and like go away a little to

754
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 1: speak to me. I know, but that's the most frustrating thing.

755
00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 1: Like it's like we don't want someone to be totally there,

756
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:43,320
Speaker 1: and we don't want someone to be and I also

757
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:46,240
Speaker 1: and I don't want someone to be not like it's

758
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:49,800
Speaker 1: it really is impossible that anyone ends up with anyone.

759
00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:52,759
Speaker 1: I just don't get when people are in relationships. I go,

760
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:56,600
Speaker 1: how the fun did you both fall into a place

761
00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:59,520
Speaker 1: where you both liked each other the same amount and agree?

762
00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:02,839
Speaker 1: The one boyfriend I've had in my life, I still go,

763
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:06,279
Speaker 1: how did that happen that someone I liked liked me

764
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:09,280
Speaker 1: back in the same way. It's just so fucking rare.

765
00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I just love that you're on the phone

766
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:13,200
Speaker 1: with the guy and he's like he talked too much,

767
00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:16,840
Speaker 1: like like be a strong, silent type on the phone,

768
00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:19,919
Speaker 1: like the whole point of the phone guessing. This guy

769
00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:23,479
Speaker 1: didn't really ask much about it, like was it like

770
00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:27,400
Speaker 1: that or was he interested in you? It was I

771
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:30,320
Speaker 1: think he well, first of all, he said I was funny.

772
00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:35,040
Speaker 1: Oh god, no, Well, it's better than to be a joke.

773
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:37,319
Speaker 1: It's better than the up and down when I when

774
00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 1: I admit I do comedy and they're like you, yeah,

775
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:47,879
Speaker 1: I get it. Yes, that's not like deaf comedy. God, yes,

776
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:51,800
Speaker 1: different types. So he was already thought you were funny

777
00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:54,719
Speaker 1: just upon meeting you. It was like I like that.

778
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:57,200
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, we we can skip a couple

779
00:41:57,200 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 1: of steps. Yeah, because people know you, was like, uh,

780
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 1: people have to know you as like a sometimes you know,

781
00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 1: most famously for your role as Chloe on twenty four,

782
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 1: like a dramatic actress. And so when they find out

783
00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:12,359
Speaker 1: you're like this really hilarious stand up that has a

784
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:16,000
Speaker 1: totally different vibe on stage and and can is capable

785
00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:19,399
Speaker 1: of being is one of the funniest people ever. Uh,

786
00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:21,719
Speaker 1: they're they're a little surprised. It's thrown off you. You have,

787
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:23,919
Speaker 1: you contain multitudes, but for someone to see that, because

788
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:26,480
Speaker 1: I often get the same thing of like, I just

789
00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:29,880
Speaker 1: don't people are you know, strangers are often like you're comedian,

790
00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:31,440
Speaker 1: like that kind of thing where it's like, I'm not

791
00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:36,480
Speaker 1: constantly funny, and so when a guy but I'm Nicky Glazer, Okay,

792
00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:38,560
Speaker 1: but when I get what you're saying, thank you when

793
00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:41,400
Speaker 1: a guy's when a guy just knows I'm funny and

794
00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:43,400
Speaker 1: I don't have to tell him what I've done, or

795
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 1: like he just thinks the way I'm he already knows

796
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 1: I'm funny based on not like my roasts or something,

797
00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:53,160
Speaker 1: because the roasts are like this pageant I put on,

798
00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:56,120
Speaker 1: They're not like how I talk in real life. If

799
00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:59,399
Speaker 1: they've that that, that does make me happy, but it's

800
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:01,799
Speaker 1: I don't know the funny thing. I get worried because

801
00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:04,640
Speaker 1: it can be friend zony because guys really like comedy,

802
00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:06,600
Speaker 1: so when they're like, you're really funny, it can be

803
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 1: like I've had I've had guys on Rydy like you're

804
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 1: the goat, and I'm like, okay, no one wants to

805
00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:14,600
Speaker 1: funk a goat, Like I know it means greatest of

806
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:17,319
Speaker 1: all time, But like guys, don't they say that about

807
00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:19,480
Speaker 1: Tom Brady and they don't a lot of them want

808
00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:21,000
Speaker 1: to funk Tom Brady. You don't want to think of

809
00:43:21,040 --> 00:43:26,320
Speaker 1: a go like it's just an ugly Some guys are fans,

810
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:28,239
Speaker 1: but I'm sure you've had that to where they're like

811
00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:31,120
Speaker 1: fans of you and You're like, but I want to

812
00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:33,279
Speaker 1: be sexualized. I don't want you to want to know

813
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:36,920
Speaker 1: about how I got into this role or whatever. Right,

814
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 1: let me ask you this. Do you think you can

815
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:46,799
Speaker 1: date somebody who's not an artist type or in the business. Um? Yes,

816
00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:49,720
Speaker 1: oh yeah, for sure. I mean there's so many funny

817
00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:54,480
Speaker 1: guys and like charming guys like I want, um, like,

818
00:43:54,560 --> 00:44:00,839
Speaker 1: somebody with kind of a more straight type of job. Yeah, yeah, absolutely,

819
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:04,880
Speaker 1: But I tend to like people who are more free

820
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:08,600
Speaker 1: and like creative and artistic. But yeah, I mean I'm

821
00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:10,640
Speaker 1: all over the fucking place. I was attracted to do

822
00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:12,400
Speaker 1: a guy a couple of months ago where I go.

823
00:44:13,040 --> 00:44:14,959
Speaker 1: If you would have, Marilyn, if you would have showed

824
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:16,680
Speaker 1: me his picture on tenderman like or like been like

825
00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:18,319
Speaker 1: I want to set you up with this guy, I

826
00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:20,480
Speaker 1: would have been like, do you hate me? Like? I

827
00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:23,279
Speaker 1: would have been like, I don't. This isn't someone I

828
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 1: would ever date. This doesn't they're too old for me.

829
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:28,160
Speaker 1: They're all these things and and um. But I was

830
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:31,440
Speaker 1: so attracted to himself it still am It didn't make

831
00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:34,799
Speaker 1: sense to me that I was this attracted. It threw

832
00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:40,359
Speaker 1: me like the in person you were yes immediately, And

833
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:43,640
Speaker 1: I was even confused when I saw him. I was like, wait,

834
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:46,640
Speaker 1: why am I feeling a sexual desire for this person

835
00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:50,400
Speaker 1: that objectively like or whatever that work Like, I just

836
00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:54,160
Speaker 1: would never have. I would have never heard. I never thought,

837
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:58,520
Speaker 1: but my body was like, like I couldn't place it.

838
00:44:58,520 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 1: I was like, do I want to make out with

839
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:01,600
Speaker 1: this person? And then I saw them in like a

840
00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:03,279
Speaker 1: different light, and I was like, oh, yeah, I do.

841
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:07,240
Speaker 1: Like I I like was so happy because this person

842
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 1: was the hottest thing I've ever seen, and on paper,

843
00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 1: I would have never really I would have swiped left.

844
00:45:12,680 --> 00:45:14,839
Speaker 1: I really would have. And I hate to say that,

845
00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:19,799
Speaker 1: you know, just uh just in in in in the

846
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:23,319
Speaker 1: real life. Yeah, just like in in a situation where

847
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:25,399
Speaker 1: we were, you know, I had to talk to each

848
00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:27,120
Speaker 1: other and I was like, whoa, there's a vibe here.

849
00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:30,800
Speaker 1: And and it's just to say, now I really understand

850
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:34,120
Speaker 1: when women are like I could be attracted to women,

851
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:37,200
Speaker 1: uh Ferris Wheel, like you know when women are like

852
00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:40,160
Speaker 1: fell in love with like a yeah, like when women

853
00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:42,759
Speaker 1: marry a Bridge. I'm like, I this guy was so

854
00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:45,080
Speaker 1: outside of what I thought I was attracted to. And

855
00:45:45,120 --> 00:45:47,799
Speaker 1: I've never been hornier for anything else in my life,

856
00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:50,359
Speaker 1: So I could be attracted anyone. So now, when when

857
00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:52,759
Speaker 1: Andrew will show me a guy? And I'm like, now,

858
00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:55,560
Speaker 1: I used to go no, now, but now I go,

859
00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:58,200
Speaker 1: I'm not attracted to him, but let me let me

860
00:45:58,200 --> 00:46:00,120
Speaker 1: meet him in person, because that's how I'm going to know,

861
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:04,440
Speaker 1: because there's all bets are off. Now. I was watching

862
00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:08,360
Speaker 1: your special and you were talking about when your husband left,

863
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:11,920
Speaker 1: his toothbrush was gone and he was so quiet. So

864
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:14,400
Speaker 1: you were you were married to a quiet man. It

865
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:17,719
Speaker 1: sounds like right, So when do you want someone a

866
00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:22,880
Speaker 1: little bit more talkative? By yelling? I th it was

867
00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 1: so funny. I mean, we got to get to the news.

868
00:46:26,040 --> 00:46:28,600
Speaker 1: Can we zip through the news? Oh yeah, we'll zip

869
00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:30,600
Speaker 1: through the news. You have to zip through a couple

870
00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 1: of news stories. Here, here it comes. Here's the news. First.

871
00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:40,640
Speaker 1: I hope you're having a great time out there. We are.

872
00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:44,920
Speaker 1: We're having all the swells. Hope you are as well. Uh,

873
00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:47,400
Speaker 1: this is big news here. Okay, I don't know if

874
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:50,360
Speaker 1: you're ready for this. The world's tallest horse, Big Jake,

875
00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:54,960
Speaker 1: dies at on a Wisconsin farm after he grew to

876
00:46:55,120 --> 00:47:01,799
Speaker 1: six ft. We love big thing. Um okay, well all right,

877
00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:05,000
Speaker 1: p J. I mean I don't know what to say

878
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:07,839
Speaker 1: about a big old horse. I'd feel like Noah picked

879
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:11,239
Speaker 1: out this story because she likes horses. Do you have

880
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:13,879
Speaker 1: any do you have any thoughts on Jake Maryland, Like

881
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:16,360
Speaker 1: a big old horse dying twenty years seems like a

882
00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:20,840
Speaker 1: long time for a horse to live. I think it's sweet. Yeah,

883
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:24,360
Speaker 1: looking at this picture reminds me of like Ripley's Believe

884
00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:26,359
Speaker 1: it or not, when you see the tallest man and

885
00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:30,600
Speaker 1: you assume, like this horses world weary. He lived a long,

886
00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:34,560
Speaker 1: large life, you know. Yeah, yeah, I feel like he's

887
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:36,839
Speaker 1: a nice guy. It would be interesting if you're a

888
00:47:36,880 --> 00:47:41,759
Speaker 1: farmer people by accident, yes, tall tall men do that

889
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:46,279
Speaker 1: as well. Well, you know if you owned this horse, right,

890
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:48,600
Speaker 1: you're a farmer and you have the biggest horse on earth,

891
00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 1: and you're like, you just want to keep it between

892
00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 1: you and the horse, Like do you feel like you mean,

893
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:57,040
Speaker 1: is this a sexual relationship? No? No, you have a

894
00:47:57,080 --> 00:47:58,759
Speaker 1: tall horse and you're like, I just want to keep

895
00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:04,280
Speaker 1: his tall horse. I don't want everyone to come to powers, right, Yeah,

896
00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:06,319
Speaker 1: Like I just don't want to deal with like, oh

897
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:08,720
Speaker 1: now I gotta have to have a sign on the

898
00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 1: horse coming up. Yeah, it's a lot of stress. For

899
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:15,520
Speaker 1: a horse to be constantly having photos taken of it

900
00:48:15,600 --> 00:48:18,120
Speaker 1: being interviewed for Guinness Book of World Records. That's your

901
00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:22,160
Speaker 1: whole life. And people are asking questions. Yeah, yeah, Well

902
00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:23,880
Speaker 1: I don't want to beat a dead tall horse. So

903
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:27,760
Speaker 1: let's move to the next story. Alright, world second largest horse.

904
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:37,919
Speaker 1: It's still alive, Sandy. Well, now there's a new let's

905
00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:41,600
Speaker 1: find out what is it? Oh, my god, probably tall

906
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 1: horse to replace God. Maybe Big Jake had kids, you

907
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:51,120
Speaker 1: never know, probably with a little woman who knows. Okay,

908
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:55,160
Speaker 1: here's some money mistakes people make in relationship. Money mistakes

909
00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:58,920
Speaker 1: that people make in relationships. I mean, yeah, I mean

910
00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:02,040
Speaker 1: number one, not talk about finances soon enough when you

911
00:49:02,080 --> 00:49:05,879
Speaker 1: talk about it. First eight, put the bill, I mean

912
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:08,320
Speaker 1: it's that's money, or like not putting the bill, or

913
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:10,120
Speaker 1: like are you going to cover this? Who's going to pay?

914
00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:13,800
Speaker 1: But we're talking about like credit scores, debt estate, which

915
00:49:13,960 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 1: is gold dreams. I mean, nothing drives you up more

916
00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:19,840
Speaker 1: than numbers. Right, But before you get married, I'm guessing

917
00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:23,520
Speaker 1: you have to have that talk. Maryland. You've been married,

918
00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:26,239
Speaker 1: you've been married, you have this talk earlier enough. I mean,

919
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:28,200
Speaker 1: I'm sure this is just bringing up a lot of

920
00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:33,360
Speaker 1: stuff you had. What I loved about your special Maryland

921
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:37,239
Speaker 1: was that you talked about and I'm about um how

922
00:49:37,400 --> 00:49:40,719
Speaker 1: people assume, because of your success, you must be just

923
00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:45,600
Speaker 1: like swimming in dough like Scrooge mcdock, diving into all

924
00:49:45,640 --> 00:49:48,920
Speaker 1: these coins that you made off of your five seasons

925
00:49:49,120 --> 00:49:52,880
Speaker 1: on twenty four as like a beloved character. But by

926
00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:56,160
Speaker 1: the way you were brought on as a character that

927
00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:58,560
Speaker 1: was just like going to be a supporting role and

928
00:49:58,600 --> 00:50:03,160
Speaker 1: then became the the lead role with Kiefer Sutherland through

929
00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:05,319
Speaker 1: because she was so she took that role and made

930
00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:08,560
Speaker 1: it so her own. Like I know that you that's

931
00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:10,400
Speaker 1: all you sometimes feel like that's all you ever hear

932
00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:14,000
Speaker 1: about yourself. But that is truly an incredible feat to

933
00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:17,080
Speaker 1: make something that wasn't intended to be that because you

934
00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:19,120
Speaker 1: brought so much to it. So I just like, I'm

935
00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:21,800
Speaker 1: just I don't mind. It's a huge part of my life.

936
00:50:22,160 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 1: You know, It's just I I don't I'm embracing it now.

937
00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:29,040
Speaker 1: That's the new me. Yes, you show it because that

938
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 1: was because you know what's a bad at it? You know,

939
00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:32,960
Speaker 1: it's a bad look to be like at one time

940
00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 1: about something else. I mean It was such a major

941
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:39,480
Speaker 1: part of my life and it is hard. It has

942
00:50:39,520 --> 00:50:42,000
Speaker 1: been hard to go back to comedy, but but I

943
00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:44,040
Speaker 1: love it. It was it was It was a great

944
00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:45,799
Speaker 1: part of my life. And you know, when I first

945
00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:50,000
Speaker 1: started on that show, people they were really annoyed by

946
00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:52,880
Speaker 1: my character. They didn't like my character. So it was

947
00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:56,680
Speaker 1: a really fun unexpected bills. So they it was just like,

948
00:50:56,719 --> 00:51:01,040
Speaker 1: who's this annoying late woman. She's always rubbing people the

949
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:03,719
Speaker 1: wrong way? Right anyone knew? They go, what's this new?

950
00:51:03,760 --> 00:51:05,520
Speaker 1: I don't want I don't know who this is. And

951
00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:08,680
Speaker 1: then and then I stuck out episodes and they are like,

952
00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:11,520
Speaker 1: let's keep her around. It's so funny that what happened

953
00:51:11,560 --> 00:51:15,600
Speaker 1: was they wrote me helping Jack Bauer, so that gave

954
00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:18,080
Speaker 1: me the extra push where people were like, oh, now

955
00:51:18,120 --> 00:51:21,719
Speaker 1: we love her. And it also inadvertently created this dimension

956
00:51:21,760 --> 00:51:24,400
Speaker 1: to my character where it's like, oh, she's loyal and

957
00:51:24,440 --> 00:51:27,640
Speaker 1: she's this she we didn't think she was all that,

958
00:51:27,840 --> 00:51:30,319
Speaker 1: and then I became all that and now we're best

959
00:51:30,320 --> 00:51:33,160
Speaker 1: friends and a bag of chips. Yes, okay, I get

960
00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:36,759
Speaker 1: I get it, and but it's but I just it's

961
00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:40,080
Speaker 1: just so interesting to me when when the general public goes,

962
00:51:40,600 --> 00:51:43,719
Speaker 1: who is this? I don't even know who this is?

963
00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:45,640
Speaker 1: Like I get that a lot of like who is

964
00:51:45,719 --> 00:51:49,000
Speaker 1: even Nicki Glazer? And it's like you you had to

965
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:51,280
Speaker 1: learn who Tom Hanks was at some point you didn't

966
00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:54,720
Speaker 1: know who Tom Hanks was. Yet people the general public

967
00:51:54,760 --> 00:51:56,759
Speaker 1: always goes, I don't even know who that is? Why

968
00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:59,520
Speaker 1: is she doing? That's like you have to meet new people.

969
00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:05,240
Speaker 1: You want to be introduced to people. But one person

970
00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:07,760
Speaker 1: that's super pumped about seeing me, and then the person

971
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:10,239
Speaker 1: right next to them is like, why should I know you?

972
00:52:10,520 --> 00:52:13,799
Speaker 1: Yea happened to me all the time being next to

973
00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:17,000
Speaker 1: this one all the time. They're like, oh, you're there too.

974
00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:19,520
Speaker 1: I think it happened at the beginning of this interview.

975
00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:23,600
Speaker 1: Now I'm just having fun. No, wait's so, I have

976
00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:27,239
Speaker 1: a question. We were talking about remember Kiefer Sutherland, how

977
00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:30,680
Speaker 1: like he's a bad boy, and like you get convinced

978
00:52:30,719 --> 00:52:34,000
Speaker 1: that these actors are like these tough guys that can

979
00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:36,719
Speaker 1: light a match with their face, you know whatever, Like

980
00:52:37,000 --> 00:52:40,279
Speaker 1: you know, would you have moments with like him, like

981
00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:42,560
Speaker 1: in a trailer where he's like eating like you know,

982
00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:45,600
Speaker 1: like cheese. It's and you're just like this is the

983
00:52:45,680 --> 00:52:49,640
Speaker 1: guy that's like so cool and saves the world? Was it?

984
00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:52,719
Speaker 1: Do you ever like you the actor's shift from like

985
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:56,240
Speaker 1: being the coolest thing ever to be like, can someone

986
00:52:56,280 --> 00:53:00,120
Speaker 1: get me my phone? It's plugged in. There's no are

987
00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:03,600
Speaker 1: like just being like pussies right away, because actors are

988
00:53:03,960 --> 00:53:07,280
Speaker 1: kind of pussies by nature. I mean, there's sensitive babies.

989
00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:11,799
Speaker 1: Was like the guy that was like the man of

990
00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:16,279
Speaker 1: the world, like tell us, tell us things. Yeah, you

991
00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:21,920
Speaker 1: had in your special he would play chess, tough chess,

992
00:53:22,320 --> 00:53:25,680
Speaker 1: and he would have a cheeseburger. That's kind of bad.

993
00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:30,319
Speaker 1: Actually that's pretty exactly now. But you did say something

994
00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:32,640
Speaker 1: in your special where you were like talking about when

995
00:53:32,640 --> 00:53:35,080
Speaker 1: you would sit at your computer as Chloe and you

996
00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:37,640
Speaker 1: would be typing positive affirmations to yourself instead of like

997
00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:39,560
Speaker 1: whatever code you were supposed to be writing, which I

998
00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:42,680
Speaker 1: just love that. And you were even saying like, you know,

999
00:53:42,800 --> 00:53:45,239
Speaker 1: like Keifer is just like really into character right now.

1000
00:53:45,280 --> 00:53:47,759
Speaker 1: It's not about you. He's just an intense guy. You

1001
00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:50,279
Speaker 1: you know, there there were probably moments where you're like

1002
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:51,879
Speaker 1: is he mad at me? And you're like, no, he's

1003
00:53:51,960 --> 00:53:55,360
Speaker 1: just like in he's having to do a scene where

1004
00:53:55,400 --> 00:53:58,200
Speaker 1: his daughter's dying or whatever. You know, like maybe that's

1005
00:53:58,239 --> 00:54:00,000
Speaker 1: it and not making it about you, But I'm sure

1006
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:03,120
Speaker 1: there's I'm sure there's. I mean two things about that

1007
00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:06,719
Speaker 1: is Like one, he is very scary. He can be

1008
00:54:06,840 --> 00:54:10,600
Speaker 1: very scary. And you know he also was like a

1009
00:54:10,600 --> 00:54:14,279
Speaker 1: big star since he was little. It's weird because he's approachable,

1010
00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:17,640
Speaker 1: but he's not approachable. And then my personality, I'm like,

1011
00:54:17,880 --> 00:54:20,160
Speaker 1: I don't want to say anything because I don't want to, like,

1012
00:54:20,520 --> 00:54:22,719
Speaker 1: I just want to be here and get by. I

1013
00:54:22,760 --> 00:54:24,440
Speaker 1: don't want to get in trouble. I don't want to

1014
00:54:24,440 --> 00:54:26,960
Speaker 1: do the wrong thing. I'm just gonna like keep my

1015
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:29,319
Speaker 1: distance and hope to keep my job. And I think

1016
00:54:29,360 --> 00:54:32,040
Speaker 1: that's what helped me stay on it for a long time.

1017
00:54:32,280 --> 00:54:35,400
Speaker 1: Wait a second, did it? Because sometimes you see actresses

1018
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:39,200
Speaker 1: that are so demanding and so like such divas or

1019
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:41,560
Speaker 1: actors and they work all the time, and you go,

1020
00:54:41,680 --> 00:54:43,680
Speaker 1: if I acted like that, I would never get a

1021
00:54:43,719 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 1: fucking job ever again. And these people sometimes aren't even

1022
00:54:46,120 --> 00:54:48,840
Speaker 1: that talented, and you go, would I be better off

1023
00:54:48,920 --> 00:54:52,359
Speaker 1: if I just was was not trying to stay out

1024
00:54:52,360 --> 00:54:55,480
Speaker 1: the way and not trying to demands. We got to

1025
00:54:55,480 --> 00:54:57,719
Speaker 1: start making some demand, But you're like that, You're just

1026
00:54:57,760 --> 00:55:00,239
Speaker 1: a nice You're a nice person. I can see you

1027
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:02,719
Speaker 1: are just like happy to have the job, like, let

1028
00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:04,520
Speaker 1: me just do a good job. But there's some people

1029
00:55:04,560 --> 00:55:06,840
Speaker 1: that go into things and are like, you're lucky to

1030
00:55:06,920 --> 00:55:09,880
Speaker 1: have me and I'm gonna do what And I just

1031
00:55:10,000 --> 00:55:13,359
Speaker 1: have that air of shittiness, And I'm sad for them

1032
00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:15,839
Speaker 1: because they must be a really sad person to act

1033
00:55:15,920 --> 00:55:17,400
Speaker 1: that way. But there's something about it that I go,

1034
00:55:17,719 --> 00:55:20,200
Speaker 1: why does that work? Why do these people keep getting work?

1035
00:55:20,200 --> 00:55:21,520
Speaker 1: And I'm sure you've seen it. I don't know. I

1036
00:55:21,520 --> 00:55:23,640
Speaker 1: want to turn over a new lease and be like

1037
00:55:23,680 --> 00:55:29,120
Speaker 1: that you can't. I mean you, but but you better

1038
00:55:29,120 --> 00:55:31,879
Speaker 1: start eating a veggie burger at eight am. You could

1039
00:55:33,760 --> 00:55:35,600
Speaker 1: be that. I mean, I do feel like you are

1040
00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:39,360
Speaker 1: in the special from you. It does have an air

1041
00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:42,520
Speaker 1: of like I know who I am and I know

1042
00:55:42,640 --> 00:55:45,160
Speaker 1: what I'm capable of, and it's very confident. I mean,

1043
00:55:45,160 --> 00:55:47,719
Speaker 1: you're doing stand up in your garage that takes confidence

1044
00:55:48,160 --> 00:55:52,480
Speaker 1: with no audience, that takes a level of confidence and like,

1045
00:55:52,680 --> 00:55:56,120
Speaker 1: I know who I am and this is despite the

1046
00:55:56,719 --> 00:55:59,239
Speaker 1: optics of it, or like despite the details of it

1047
00:55:59,320 --> 00:56:03,640
Speaker 1: of no audio alone in my garage. Uh, it's hilarious

1048
00:56:03,680 --> 00:56:06,480
Speaker 1: and honest and um, so I think you're there, Like

1049
00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:09,200
Speaker 1: I think that's but without the bitchiness of it. So

1050
00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:11,400
Speaker 1: I think you do have that confidence? Did you find

1051
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:16,440
Speaker 1: that uh later in life? Like, because I just relate

1052
00:56:16,480 --> 00:56:19,680
Speaker 1: to you a lot based on the small conversations we've

1053
00:56:19,680 --> 00:56:23,359
Speaker 1: had of just do you have the impostor syndrome I'm

1054
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:26,680
Speaker 1: guessing of like I'm not good enough. I've only gotten

1055
00:56:26,680 --> 00:56:28,719
Speaker 1: things because I'm lucky or I've been in the right

1056
00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:30,640
Speaker 1: place at the right time. I'm nice to certain people,

1057
00:56:30,680 --> 00:56:32,439
Speaker 1: so they just like give me things. I'm not really

1058
00:56:32,480 --> 00:56:34,600
Speaker 1: that talent. Do you have that? And has that shed

1059
00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:38,680
Speaker 1: away for for you at all? Honestly, as you're saying that,

1060
00:56:38,800 --> 00:56:42,200
Speaker 1: I think I have that thing. I keep it under wraps.

1061
00:56:42,239 --> 00:56:45,200
Speaker 1: But if I'm being honest, I think what's propelled me

1062
00:56:45,239 --> 00:56:47,239
Speaker 1: for is it forward? Is it there's a part of

1063
00:56:47,239 --> 00:56:49,520
Speaker 1: me that well, I think I was just desperate for

1064
00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:54,200
Speaker 1: attention and like validation and I only liked acting and

1065
00:56:54,200 --> 00:56:57,200
Speaker 1: stuff like that. But I was gonna say that I

1066
00:56:57,280 --> 00:57:00,759
Speaker 1: have that. What's that psychological thing where you're like you

1067
00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:02,680
Speaker 1: think you're the best and then you think you're a

1068
00:57:02,680 --> 00:57:05,799
Speaker 1: piece of ship. Yeah, you're the biggest piece of ship

1069
00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:08,399
Speaker 1: at the center of the university. Yeah. So I think

1070
00:57:08,440 --> 00:57:14,080
Speaker 1: it's been crawling my way to a middle place of

1071
00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:19,320
Speaker 1: that and then my exterior I act like so nice,

1072
00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:21,440
Speaker 1: you know, to get people to like me, but it's

1073
00:57:21,480 --> 00:57:23,960
Speaker 1: sort of coming to terms with like my inner rage,

1074
00:57:24,000 --> 00:57:27,080
Speaker 1: my inner confidence. And stand up has really helped me

1075
00:57:27,200 --> 00:57:29,680
Speaker 1: a lot with that because you know, I used to

1076
00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:32,200
Speaker 1: be so reactive on stage. First of all, I did

1077
00:57:32,280 --> 00:57:35,280
Speaker 1: only like alt rooms, which was great because I was

1078
00:57:35,320 --> 00:57:37,440
Speaker 1: getting like acting stuff. So I was in l A

1079
00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:39,600
Speaker 1: through the nineties all, so it was that wasn't until

1080
00:57:39,680 --> 00:57:41,919
Speaker 1: years later going on the road or even just like

1081
00:57:42,560 --> 00:57:44,480
Speaker 1: you know, the main or by the improv even I

1082
00:57:44,840 --> 00:57:49,120
Speaker 1: would be so reactive, you know, like my nature. I'm like, oh,

1083
00:57:49,280 --> 00:57:51,880
Speaker 1: what you do today? And it's like this learning curve

1084
00:57:51,960 --> 00:57:55,560
Speaker 1: of like, no, they don't, they're on your time, Like

1085
00:57:55,680 --> 00:57:59,040
Speaker 1: you steer the ship. You don't, like, you don't genuinely

1086
00:57:59,280 --> 00:58:03,480
Speaker 1: let people take the reins you have to be. So

1087
00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:06,640
Speaker 1: that's part of like what I keep coming back to

1088
00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:09,280
Speaker 1: stand Up for is to like become more and more

1089
00:58:09,920 --> 00:58:14,000
Speaker 1: emphatic about where I'm coming from and to discover that

1090
00:58:14,320 --> 00:58:16,080
Speaker 1: and being on stage with a microphone and being like,

1091
00:58:16,120 --> 00:58:18,480
Speaker 1: I deserve to be here and I don't need to

1092
00:58:18,520 --> 00:58:20,440
Speaker 1: include that they're here to see me. I don't need

1093
00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:23,360
Speaker 1: to include them for them to like me, and that

1094
00:58:23,560 --> 00:58:28,640
Speaker 1: I have enough on like reactive to a fault? Would

1095
00:58:28,640 --> 00:58:32,280
Speaker 1: you would you be reactive in a in a playful way,

1096
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:34,600
Speaker 1: like relying on them to kind of steer the show

1097
00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:37,520
Speaker 1: or was it reactive like you're you would get heckled

1098
00:58:37,560 --> 00:58:39,960
Speaker 1: and you would lose it and kind of go off

1099
00:58:40,000 --> 00:58:42,080
Speaker 1: on them in a way, and then it would completely

1100
00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:44,840
Speaker 1: derail everything, Like what do you mean by that second?

1101
00:58:45,000 --> 00:58:48,400
Speaker 1: And I don't do this much anymore, but I typically

1102
00:58:48,400 --> 00:58:51,840
Speaker 1: would if it would derail it, and I would become

1103
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:55,840
Speaker 1: like quieter and more dry, and which is the opposite

1104
00:58:55,880 --> 00:58:59,120
Speaker 1: when when stuff's going down, you just go like call

1105
00:58:59,160 --> 00:59:01,640
Speaker 1: it out and work through it until you get to

1106
00:59:01,640 --> 00:59:04,680
Speaker 1: the next thing. But I also, I am saying in

1107
00:59:04,720 --> 00:59:07,320
Speaker 1: life I think I was. I'm like, I have been

1108
00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:11,880
Speaker 1: like way too reactive that it's like fine, I'm not like, yeah,

1109
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:14,920
Speaker 1: I there's there's so much to explore here. But I

1110
00:59:14,920 --> 00:59:18,000
Speaker 1: do want to say that I watched a Just for

1111
00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:19,800
Speaker 1: Laugh set that you did that was like a TV

1112
00:59:19,920 --> 00:59:22,880
Speaker 1: taping set and she walks out. I did that same show.

1113
00:59:23,040 --> 00:59:26,240
Speaker 1: It was not an easy show. I don't remember. I

1114
00:59:26,360 --> 00:59:29,080
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know if you have the same

1115
00:59:29,160 --> 00:59:31,280
Speaker 1: kind of audience, But for me, that is that the

1116
00:59:31,280 --> 00:59:36,600
Speaker 1: one where was like in the basement, and I'm not sure,

1117
00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:38,840
Speaker 1: I don't remember exactly where the green room was, but

1118
00:59:38,880 --> 00:59:40,240
Speaker 1: it was at just for left and it was a

1119
00:59:40,240 --> 00:59:42,440
Speaker 1: TV taping. It's a really nice looking set and everything,

1120
00:59:42,760 --> 00:59:44,720
Speaker 1: and you did crowd work right out of the gate,

1121
00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:47,440
Speaker 1: and I remember that crowd, and I remember every comedian

1122
00:59:47,480 --> 00:59:49,640
Speaker 1: being like that crowd sucked. And by the way, this

1123
00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:53,800
Speaker 1: crowd was not good for you, Like, you know, right

1124
00:59:53,800 --> 00:59:56,280
Speaker 1: out of the gate, you're hilarious, and I'm like, as

1125
00:59:56,320 --> 00:59:58,600
Speaker 1: a comedian, I can just know when a crowd sucks

1126
00:59:58,640 --> 01:00:02,000
Speaker 1: and it's not the comedian, where as YouTube comments just

1127
01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:04,720
Speaker 1: based on what I've seen of mine, don't understand when

1128
01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:07,480
Speaker 1: a crowd sucks and I'm good or like anything, you know,

1129
01:00:07,520 --> 01:00:10,040
Speaker 1: like it's so much to the crowd. But you went

1130
01:00:10,120 --> 01:00:11,840
Speaker 1: into the crowd. You asked a girl in the front

1131
01:00:11,920 --> 01:00:13,720
Speaker 1: row what's your name? And her name was Lynn, and

1132
01:00:13,720 --> 01:00:16,280
Speaker 1: you go, oh my god, like you're so excited. I go, what,

1133
01:00:16,320 --> 01:00:19,160
Speaker 1: I'm listening to the sega? What her name was it? Lynn?

1134
01:00:19,280 --> 01:00:21,600
Speaker 1: What was Marry Lynn gonna do? And then Marylynn goes,

1135
01:00:21,680 --> 01:00:23,200
Speaker 1: do you ever think of adding mary to the front

1136
01:00:23,200 --> 01:00:25,160
Speaker 1: of it? Like it was so funny? But I go,

1137
01:00:25,240 --> 01:00:27,280
Speaker 1: what if her name was Gail? What would you have said?

1138
01:00:27,320 --> 01:00:33,520
Speaker 1: Like that? To me? Is so ballsy that you could do? Yeah,

1139
01:00:33,920 --> 01:00:36,400
Speaker 1: it's so ballsy that you could go, you could start

1140
01:00:36,400 --> 01:00:39,720
Speaker 1: a set like that. But I think that, um, there's something,

1141
01:00:39,720 --> 01:00:42,960
Speaker 1: there's there's something there that I just don't understand of

1142
01:00:43,080 --> 01:00:45,320
Speaker 1: relying on the audience and wanting to go out to

1143
01:00:45,360 --> 01:00:48,880
Speaker 1: them and be reactive because I want I want to

1144
01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:51,280
Speaker 1: know exactly what I'm gonna do. And I don't talk.

1145
01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:53,160
Speaker 1: I don't talk to the crowd at all. Maryland, I

1146
01:00:53,200 --> 01:00:55,560
Speaker 1: blur my eyes so I can't even see them. I

1147
01:00:55,640 --> 01:00:59,800
Speaker 1: literally have never once gone to the crowd without them

1148
01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:03,520
Speaker 1: calling me first, because I'm so scared of not being

1149
01:01:03,520 --> 01:01:05,880
Speaker 1: able to be funny and yeah, I want to be

1150
01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:08,880
Speaker 1: in control. So it's just it's such a different approach,

1151
01:01:08,920 --> 01:01:10,800
Speaker 1: but we're both trying. We're both trying to get the

1152
01:01:10,840 --> 01:01:13,920
Speaker 1: same thing, I think, which is for people to like us.

1153
01:01:14,360 --> 01:01:17,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I see the way that you like why

1154
01:01:17,680 --> 01:01:21,160
Speaker 1: recently saw you at super Nova and you're very inclusive

1155
01:01:21,200 --> 01:01:25,600
Speaker 1: of the audience. You know, even though I I get

1156
01:01:25,680 --> 01:01:28,320
Speaker 1: what you're saying, but I see that as like you

1157
01:01:28,400 --> 01:01:30,480
Speaker 1: just have stuff that you want to say. So it's

1158
01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:34,720
Speaker 1: like I don't enough time, and you are feminine, you

1159
01:01:34,720 --> 01:01:39,080
Speaker 1: know you don't you you do allow for them because

1160
01:01:39,160 --> 01:01:41,479
Speaker 1: you know when you're connecting with them and you don't

1161
01:01:41,520 --> 01:01:44,880
Speaker 1: have to like I just not so scared they're going

1162
01:01:44,920 --> 01:01:47,640
Speaker 1: to say Gail and not Lenn What if they say

1163
01:01:48,280 --> 01:01:50,600
Speaker 1: what if? On that thing she wouldn't have said, Like

1164
01:01:50,840 --> 01:01:53,160
Speaker 1: you always feel like, okay, I can get like no

1165
01:01:53,200 --> 01:01:55,640
Speaker 1: matter what her name is, I'll be funny Like you do.

1166
01:01:55,680 --> 01:01:58,360
Speaker 1: You have outs for like crowd work where it's like,

1167
01:01:58,400 --> 01:02:00,919
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, that's like my dream right to write

1168
01:02:00,960 --> 01:02:04,120
Speaker 1: down like six outs. I'm always like that's a project

1169
01:02:04,160 --> 01:02:06,320
Speaker 1: I'm gonna know that you're gonna get to later today.

1170
01:02:06,440 --> 01:02:08,960
Speaker 1: It's always on the to do list of like yeah,

1171
01:02:09,000 --> 01:02:11,160
Speaker 1: but I don't know. It was just to me that

1172
01:02:11,280 --> 01:02:14,280
Speaker 1: was incredibly ballsy. But you have a type of ballziness

1173
01:02:14,320 --> 01:02:16,640
Speaker 1: that I just don't have in terms of like you'll

1174
01:02:17,000 --> 01:02:19,440
Speaker 1: you being able to book things so much and be

1175
01:02:19,520 --> 01:02:21,600
Speaker 1: such a great actress and be able to go in

1176
01:02:21,720 --> 01:02:24,800
Speaker 1: auditions and stuff and and clearly nail those because of

1177
01:02:25,080 --> 01:02:28,680
Speaker 1: how successful you've been is a talent that I just

1178
01:02:28,800 --> 01:02:33,120
Speaker 1: cannot seem to It's just not within it. I look

1179
01:02:33,160 --> 01:02:35,080
Speaker 1: at you like a superhero in that way of being

1180
01:02:35,080 --> 01:02:37,160
Speaker 1: able to do that. I think I see where you're

1181
01:02:37,200 --> 01:02:39,200
Speaker 1: going with that, because what I hear you saying is

1182
01:02:39,240 --> 01:02:43,320
Speaker 1: like I lead with my vulnerability and not much else.

1183
01:02:43,800 --> 01:02:46,840
Speaker 1: And I see you, see I idolize you because of

1184
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:50,240
Speaker 1: you are honed in on your voice and you know,

1185
01:02:50,560 --> 01:02:52,440
Speaker 1: you know who you are and what you have to say.

1186
01:02:53,040 --> 01:02:54,800
Speaker 1: That's what you lead with, and you do it on

1187
01:02:54,880 --> 01:02:58,400
Speaker 1: your terms, whereas I'm like, let me, let me throw

1188
01:02:58,440 --> 01:03:01,160
Speaker 1: all my stuff out there, like my entire heart, and

1189
01:03:01,200 --> 01:03:05,400
Speaker 1: then you just go like, no, right, I want to

1190
01:03:05,440 --> 01:03:08,760
Speaker 1: be more like you, And like I after watching your special,

1191
01:03:08,760 --> 01:03:11,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, I want to take more pauses. I want

1192
01:03:11,480 --> 01:03:14,919
Speaker 1: to feel out like what I'm actually feeling in that moment,

1193
01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:18,000
Speaker 1: because I think you're like genuinely being honest with your

1194
01:03:18,280 --> 01:03:20,960
Speaker 1: feelings in that moment of like you're not trying to

1195
01:03:21,080 --> 01:03:24,120
Speaker 1: make an uh, You're not making a face to get

1196
01:03:24,160 --> 01:03:28,280
Speaker 1: their reaction to be like like an awkward face or

1197
01:03:28,320 --> 01:03:30,960
Speaker 1: like a like sometimes you'll just do a face where

1198
01:03:30,960 --> 01:03:35,240
Speaker 1: you're just like, it's just it's real, it's a real reaction,

1199
01:03:35,320 --> 01:03:38,960
Speaker 1: and you're not scared to leave them with um, just

1200
01:03:39,280 --> 01:03:41,960
Speaker 1: a moment, like a silence. I can't stand silence. And

1201
01:03:42,000 --> 01:03:44,040
Speaker 1: it's just and it's not because I'm like, I have

1202
01:03:44,160 --> 01:03:46,680
Speaker 1: so much to say. It's because I'm fucking terrified that

1203
01:03:46,800 --> 01:03:48,880
Speaker 1: someone will yell out you're ugly and we don't like you,

1204
01:03:49,200 --> 01:03:52,080
Speaker 1: like that's my biggest or like you suck, Like I

1205
01:03:52,120 --> 01:03:54,280
Speaker 1: don't want any opportunity for that, and I just feel

1206
01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:56,600
Speaker 1: like it's so vulnerable to be able to take your time.

1207
01:03:56,880 --> 01:03:59,200
Speaker 1: But also let's not discount the fact that you have

1208
01:03:59,680 --> 01:04:03,720
Speaker 1: in credible jokes and there are so many uh moments

1209
01:04:03,760 --> 01:04:06,360
Speaker 1: in the just the thirty minutes of your special. I

1210
01:04:06,400 --> 01:04:08,720
Speaker 1: watched that, I was just like, oh my god, this

1211
01:04:08,800 --> 01:04:12,960
Speaker 1: is so honest and real. And you know, even when

1212
01:04:12,960 --> 01:04:14,680
Speaker 1: I watched that just for laugh set though, and you're

1213
01:04:14,680 --> 01:04:17,000
Speaker 1: talking about your marriage, I go, this bitch is getting

1214
01:04:17,000 --> 01:04:21,520
Speaker 1: divorced pretty soon here, Like I can always predict when

1215
01:04:21,560 --> 01:04:24,920
Speaker 1: the comedians getting and obviously I had, um, you know,

1216
01:04:25,280 --> 01:04:26,960
Speaker 1: I knew you were divorced by the time I had

1217
01:04:26,960 --> 01:04:29,280
Speaker 1: watched it, so I go. But I do have a

1218
01:04:29,360 --> 01:04:32,200
Speaker 1: spiky sense when a comedian is on stage and their

1219
01:04:32,240 --> 01:04:35,000
Speaker 1: relationship will be over because this bit is too real

1220
01:04:35,120 --> 01:04:40,160
Speaker 1: and too good and too representative of a fractured thing

1221
01:04:40,200 --> 01:04:43,000
Speaker 1: in a relationship that they can't maybe address in their

1222
01:04:43,000 --> 01:04:45,880
Speaker 1: own relationship. That they're taking a stage and that it

1223
01:04:45,880 --> 01:04:48,200
Speaker 1: it has given them such a release to talk about

1224
01:04:48,200 --> 01:04:51,400
Speaker 1: on stage and the excitement behind it and the like

1225
01:04:51,480 --> 01:04:54,000
Speaker 1: the depth that they've uncovered with this this joke is

1226
01:04:54,000 --> 01:04:58,520
Speaker 1: like they're just such a great joke that that's that's

1227
01:04:58,520 --> 01:05:00,880
Speaker 1: how they're dealing with this, and it's definitely not being

1228
01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:04,200
Speaker 1: talked about in the relationship. And I'm guessing this person

1229
01:05:04,240 --> 01:05:07,000
Speaker 1: that they're talking about doesn't even care enough to watch

1230
01:05:07,040 --> 01:05:09,440
Speaker 1: their stuff anymore, so that's why they're getting away with it,

1231
01:05:09,640 --> 01:05:12,120
Speaker 1: which is another example of someone who might be checked

1232
01:05:12,120 --> 01:05:13,800
Speaker 1: out in a relationship is that they don't even care

1233
01:05:13,800 --> 01:05:17,320
Speaker 1: about the persons. So when I watch someone do a

1234
01:05:17,320 --> 01:05:20,520
Speaker 1: bit and it's really like about their relationship in an

1235
01:05:20,520 --> 01:05:22,960
Speaker 1: honest way, which I love because we all need to

1236
01:05:23,000 --> 01:05:26,200
Speaker 1: hear that you talking about your marriage in that bit.

1237
01:05:26,320 --> 01:05:29,560
Speaker 1: I'm sure so many women and men relate and they've

1238
01:05:29,560 --> 01:05:32,520
Speaker 1: never been able to articulate that kind of loneliness or anger,

1239
01:05:32,840 --> 01:05:35,960
Speaker 1: and that's important to have, so I I'm grateful for that.

1240
01:05:36,000 --> 01:05:38,720
Speaker 1: But I I do think it's a it's a and

1241
01:05:38,760 --> 01:05:41,560
Speaker 1: I've even had those bits before where I go, if

1242
01:05:41,600 --> 01:05:44,240
Speaker 1: he sees this, it will be over or if if this,

1243
01:05:44,960 --> 01:05:47,240
Speaker 1: if I really address what's at the heart of this joke,

1244
01:05:47,760 --> 01:05:49,880
Speaker 1: I have to admit to myself that this is dead

1245
01:05:49,920 --> 01:05:53,400
Speaker 1: in the water. It's such a what's that's the rub, right,

1246
01:05:53,400 --> 01:05:56,080
Speaker 1: because that those are the juiciest areas that you want

1247
01:05:56,120 --> 01:05:59,000
Speaker 1: to get into. Yes, that are gonna like come back,

1248
01:06:00,480 --> 01:06:03,600
Speaker 1: I know, And that's where you have to realize, do

1249
01:06:03,720 --> 01:06:08,680
Speaker 1: I respect my relationship more than building this joke? And

1250
01:06:08,720 --> 01:06:13,080
Speaker 1: if you do, you find the balls to address it

1251
01:06:13,080 --> 01:06:16,280
Speaker 1: in your relationship, I think. But sometimes it's just like

1252
01:06:16,360 --> 01:06:18,160
Speaker 1: this ain't gonna get fixed. I need to bring it

1253
01:06:18,200 --> 01:06:20,440
Speaker 1: to stage and work it out. It's just the songwriters

1254
01:06:20,440 --> 01:06:22,080
Speaker 1: do it, but we do it in such a literal

1255
01:06:22,120 --> 01:06:24,920
Speaker 1: way that it's hard to make it nuanced enough that

1256
01:06:25,520 --> 01:06:29,200
Speaker 1: the person that it it's just it's all there. And

1257
01:06:29,200 --> 01:06:30,840
Speaker 1: I've done it before too, But I just love that

1258
01:06:30,840 --> 01:06:34,919
Speaker 1: bit and I loved seeing it. I got married. Um,

1259
01:06:35,360 --> 01:06:39,160
Speaker 1: I didn't more friends then and now I can't wait

1260
01:06:39,200 --> 01:06:43,840
Speaker 1: to talk to you about dating though, uh like, because yeah,

1261
01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:47,760
Speaker 1: you've been out of the game a while. So it's care.

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Speaker 1: We got to get to the last part of our

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01:06:49,800 --> 01:06:51,760
Speaker 1: news segment. Why do I care? This is the celebrity

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Speaker 1: news segment. Why do I care? Why do I care? Alright,

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Speaker 1: big news here, Dolly Parton doesn't wear sweatpants, even daring

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Speaker 1: the pandemic. Okay, she says, I don't wear sweatpants. I

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01:07:07,720 --> 01:07:10,320
Speaker 1: have my own little house clothes, like a little dress

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01:07:10,360 --> 01:07:14,080
Speaker 1: type teddy along teddy. I call them my baby clothes

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01:07:14,160 --> 01:07:16,280
Speaker 1: because they're sold like a baby. But I don't wear

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Speaker 1: sweat clothes. All right, How do we feel about always

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01:07:21,080 --> 01:07:23,960
Speaker 1: feeling like even it seems like she does it for her,

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01:07:24,040 --> 01:07:26,160
Speaker 1: Like if it sounds like she's comfortable, I was gonna say,

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01:07:26,160 --> 01:07:28,560
Speaker 1: it's this bitch always going to be wearing boostiers and

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01:07:29,280 --> 01:07:31,440
Speaker 1: garter belts, and it's like, no, she's just wearing it.

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01:07:31,680 --> 01:07:33,680
Speaker 1: She feels more comfortable and like a loose teddy. I think,

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01:07:33,720 --> 01:07:36,800
Speaker 1: honestly I would too, rather than sweatpants. How do you

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01:07:36,800 --> 01:07:38,920
Speaker 1: feel about sweatpants? Do you rock him? Would you rock

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01:07:38,960 --> 01:07:43,040
Speaker 1: him in public? Loose teddy? I mean I've not. I

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01:07:43,080 --> 01:07:46,120
Speaker 1: don't even know what a teddy is. I wear garter

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01:07:46,240 --> 01:07:52,000
Speaker 1: belts to the groceries. It's a little ninety to the

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01:07:52,120 --> 01:07:58,520
Speaker 1: d m v um no. I mean, you know, I

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01:07:59,200 --> 01:08:01,080
Speaker 1: should be more like Dolly in the sense of like

1283
01:08:01,480 --> 01:08:04,120
Speaker 1: being more feminine in my day to day life. Should

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01:08:04,160 --> 01:08:06,520
Speaker 1: be more like Dolly. You know, I don't want to

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01:08:06,560 --> 01:08:09,200
Speaker 1: see someone with their shoes off on the airplane. I

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01:08:09,200 --> 01:08:13,800
Speaker 1: don't want to see I wish she could lead everybody

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01:08:13,960 --> 01:08:18,479
Speaker 1: into the dressing better. Have you absolutely not? Have you

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01:08:18,560 --> 01:08:21,400
Speaker 1: dressed differently since you started being single again? Like trying

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01:08:21,400 --> 01:08:23,439
Speaker 1: to be more feminine? Put it out there, like I'm

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01:08:23,479 --> 01:08:26,559
Speaker 1: a lady with skin. Talk to me now with a

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01:08:26,600 --> 01:08:30,040
Speaker 1: little with a loose teddy out there. I'm scared because

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01:08:30,040 --> 01:08:34,800
Speaker 1: I'm going in the opposite direction. I'm like, I don't

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01:08:34,840 --> 01:08:36,840
Speaker 1: need it, don't want it, don't want to put myself

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01:08:36,880 --> 01:08:40,320
Speaker 1: out there. Yeah, I'm wearing you know, it's borderline when

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01:08:40,320 --> 01:08:44,920
Speaker 1: I'm starting to wear out to the store. Right. My son,

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01:08:45,040 --> 01:08:48,800
Speaker 1: who could care less about clothes like this dude only

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01:08:48,840 --> 01:08:53,080
Speaker 1: wears sweats and baseball shorts, were at Target. He I'm

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01:08:53,080 --> 01:08:55,800
Speaker 1: actually wearing them because I was wearing the same exact

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01:08:56,000 --> 01:08:59,800
Speaker 1: purple leggings every day. We're at Target, and he goes, hey,

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01:09:00,040 --> 01:09:02,719
Speaker 1: why don't you get these totally out of the blue,

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01:09:02,800 --> 01:09:05,080
Speaker 1: and so I bought these and now I wear these

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01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:08,800
Speaker 1: every day. Oh those are cool. Oh no, girl, those

1303
01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:13,360
Speaker 1: are awesome. Those are a Target. Okay, Marylyn is like

1304
01:09:13,439 --> 01:09:15,400
Speaker 1: humping the air in front of us. She's wearing these.

1305
01:09:15,439 --> 01:09:20,400
Speaker 1: Amazing those us ship. Dude, I'm literally getting those very tropical.

1306
01:09:20,640 --> 01:09:23,360
Speaker 1: First of all, their eye catching, so they're peaking a guy.

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01:09:23,640 --> 01:09:27,000
Speaker 1: If a guy at Starbucks is interested in you, he

1308
01:09:27,080 --> 01:09:28,360
Speaker 1: has a reason to talk to you because they'll be

1309
01:09:28,400 --> 01:09:30,880
Speaker 1: like great leggings because it's like a it's a conversation piece.

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01:09:31,439 --> 01:09:35,640
Speaker 1: So it's actually I appreciate thank you so much for

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01:09:35,680 --> 01:09:37,000
Speaker 1: doing your research on me. I don't know if you'll

1312
01:09:37,040 --> 01:09:38,439
Speaker 1: get to the end of it, but like, there's a

1313
01:09:38,439 --> 01:09:40,240
Speaker 1: part where a guy picks me up in the Laundroy

1314
01:09:40,240 --> 01:09:43,320
Speaker 1: Mat and I it was a hundred degrees and I

1315
01:09:43,360 --> 01:09:46,040
Speaker 1: had no makeup, but I was wearing these and he

1316
01:09:46,120 --> 01:09:49,840
Speaker 1: picked me up. Yeah, I was wearing these. I mean, wait,

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01:09:49,920 --> 01:09:53,599
Speaker 1: how did he pick you up? Pants? For our audio listeners,

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01:09:53,840 --> 01:09:57,679
Speaker 1: which is all we have right now. Um. They are like, uh,

1319
01:09:57,840 --> 01:09:59,960
Speaker 1: they have like a pink green there's like a pink

1320
01:10:00,120 --> 01:10:05,479
Speaker 1: green pattern to them. They're really trendy and it's like ferns, like,

1321
01:10:05,560 --> 01:10:08,520
Speaker 1: you know, like almost Oh my god, you're so flexible,

1322
01:10:09,320 --> 01:10:13,120
Speaker 1: mary Lynn. They're just amazing pants that have just have

1323
01:10:13,240 --> 01:10:16,080
Speaker 1: some kind of like fern like leafy design on them.

1324
01:10:16,080 --> 01:10:17,720
Speaker 1: And I'm definitely going to be wearing them. You'll see

1325
01:10:17,760 --> 01:10:19,920
Speaker 1: them on my Instagram soon. Okay, so this guy the

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01:10:19,960 --> 01:10:22,559
Speaker 1: laundry mat picks you up. You're wearing those sweaty and

1327
01:10:22,600 --> 01:10:25,599
Speaker 1: gross and no makeup and you're the laundry mat too,

1328
01:10:26,360 --> 01:10:28,800
Speaker 1: got it? It must be this. What did he say?

1329
01:10:29,000 --> 01:10:31,000
Speaker 1: I mean, you're ask does look great in those? What

1330
01:10:31,080 --> 01:10:32,559
Speaker 1: did he say to you? How did he pick you up?

1331
01:10:33,320 --> 01:10:35,800
Speaker 1: Can you believe? He goes, He's like hi, and I

1332
01:10:35,840 --> 01:10:38,639
Speaker 1: said hi. And then he pulled around again and he's

1333
01:10:38,680 --> 01:10:42,479
Speaker 1: he just started saying, you know, people don't usually say hi.

1334
01:10:42,880 --> 01:10:48,080
Speaker 1: People aren't usually nice. And I was like, okay, yeah, huh,

1335
01:10:48,640 --> 01:10:52,120
Speaker 1: you caught me in a good mood. And then he

1336
01:10:52,280 --> 01:10:55,760
Speaker 1: said he just came from the grocery store. This was

1337
01:10:55,840 --> 01:10:58,559
Speaker 1: his flex He goes, did you know you can get

1338
01:10:58,560 --> 01:11:01,280
Speaker 1: your d m V tags from a machine at the

1339
01:11:01,280 --> 01:11:04,800
Speaker 1: grocery store. And I was good to know and his

1340
01:11:04,920 --> 01:11:07,759
Speaker 1: car was big and it was clean and he was clean,

1341
01:11:08,720 --> 01:11:11,840
Speaker 1: and and then he's talking to me. I'm like, oh,

1342
01:11:12,080 --> 01:11:14,679
Speaker 1: like is this really happening? And then at one point

1343
01:11:14,680 --> 01:11:16,920
Speaker 1: he said, can you put your mask down so I

1344
01:11:16,920 --> 01:11:22,439
Speaker 1: can see your face? Cute? Is that cute? That? Like? Okay, wait,

1345
01:11:22,640 --> 01:11:26,320
Speaker 1: what happened with this? What happened? I went to have

1346
01:11:26,439 --> 01:11:30,320
Speaker 1: tea with him that night, and then he was the

1347
01:11:30,360 --> 01:11:35,479
Speaker 1: guy that said, tell me a joke, and then we

1348
01:11:35,479 --> 01:11:39,360
Speaker 1: were just like missing. There was no like banter, and

1349
01:11:39,520 --> 01:11:42,880
Speaker 1: I was like stewing because then he wouldn't let the

1350
01:11:42,960 --> 01:11:44,960
Speaker 1: joke thing go and he's like, I'm sorry I offended you.

1351
01:11:45,000 --> 01:11:47,599
Speaker 1: I go, it is not offensive at all. I said,

1352
01:11:47,880 --> 01:11:51,519
Speaker 1: that's just not how it works. That's not how with somebody.

1353
01:11:51,560 --> 01:11:56,400
Speaker 1: And then he wouldn't let it go. Purple leggings. Probably

1354
01:11:56,479 --> 01:11:58,320
Speaker 1: you put it on. I probably put on my Teddy

1355
01:11:58,479 --> 01:12:04,200
Speaker 1: my story partner. Yeah, your DMV uh kiosk at Trader

1356
01:12:04,280 --> 01:12:08,519
Speaker 1: Joe's uh nightie. I think he thought he was going

1357
01:12:08,640 --> 01:12:12,280
Speaker 1: to like boost me up, you know, like go ahead,

1358
01:12:12,400 --> 01:12:14,679
Speaker 1: you can do it, and I'm like, this is a nightmare,

1359
01:12:14,720 --> 01:12:16,920
Speaker 1: so he saw me. It's weird because I have to

1360
01:12:16,960 --> 01:12:19,559
Speaker 1: figure out I want to be like a lady. I

1361
01:12:19,560 --> 01:12:21,760
Speaker 1: want to be taken care of. But it's also like

1362
01:12:22,600 --> 01:12:24,800
Speaker 1: I don't need to be taken I know, you want

1363
01:12:24,840 --> 01:12:27,360
Speaker 1: to yourself and be like you know, that's just not

1364
01:12:27,560 --> 01:12:29,439
Speaker 1: like we just don't answer that question that that tell

1365
01:12:29,439 --> 01:12:30,920
Speaker 1: me a joke. We get asked a lot. It's kind

1366
01:12:30,920 --> 01:12:32,880
Speaker 1: of like a cliche that like you I always handle

1367
01:12:32,920 --> 01:12:35,560
Speaker 1: it like this. I go, I'm obviously not going to

1368
01:12:35,680 --> 01:12:38,000
Speaker 1: do that. That's like, honestly like a comedian's worst nightmare.

1369
01:12:38,040 --> 01:12:39,840
Speaker 1: And it happens a lot. I totally understand. I would

1370
01:12:39,880 --> 01:12:41,680
Speaker 1: have asked me to if I didn't know, but just

1371
01:12:41,720 --> 01:12:43,559
Speaker 1: so you know, like that's not what works. And then

1372
01:12:43,560 --> 01:12:45,880
Speaker 1: if I'm sure you did some version of that, but

1373
01:12:45,920 --> 01:12:48,160
Speaker 1: the fact that they go like I'm really sorry, then

1374
01:12:48,160 --> 01:12:50,400
Speaker 1: they keep going back to it, it's like, no, it's fine,

1375
01:12:50,560 --> 01:12:53,920
Speaker 1: like if he wouldn't drop it and um, and it's

1376
01:12:53,960 --> 01:12:56,479
Speaker 1: not a great sign though that that's what because you

1377
01:12:56,479 --> 01:12:59,160
Speaker 1: know what someone who doesn't know Tom, you joke to

1378
01:12:59,240 --> 01:13:02,439
Speaker 1: comedians is the right thing to say. It's probably not

1379
01:13:02,520 --> 01:13:05,240
Speaker 1: like consuming the same kind of entertainment you are like,

1380
01:13:05,280 --> 01:13:07,360
Speaker 1: you guys don't have a common if he doesn't know

1381
01:13:07,400 --> 01:13:10,000
Speaker 1: how to talk to a comedian and that that wasn't

1382
01:13:10,000 --> 01:13:12,080
Speaker 1: the only thing. But he it's almost like he was

1383
01:13:12,160 --> 01:13:14,240
Speaker 1: missing the mark on stuff we had in common. But

1384
01:13:14,280 --> 01:13:16,640
Speaker 1: then he was going full speed ahead, like let me

1385
01:13:16,680 --> 01:13:20,200
Speaker 1: show you pictures of my kids. No Wine Country, and

1386
01:13:20,240 --> 01:13:22,679
Speaker 1: we could go on trips together, and I'm ready to commit,

1387
01:13:22,760 --> 01:13:25,400
Speaker 1: And I was like, okay, could I could just be

1388
01:13:25,479 --> 01:13:31,640
Speaker 1: any person? You know that? Yes, that's it. When a

1389
01:13:31,680 --> 01:13:34,320
Speaker 1: guy gets to like over the top and was like

1390
01:13:34,840 --> 01:13:37,880
Speaker 1: you should come to can't cou you should go this thing?

1391
01:13:38,080 --> 01:13:40,760
Speaker 1: You go, I haven't proven myself to you enough for

1392
01:13:40,800 --> 01:13:42,559
Speaker 1: you to invite me to these things. You don't even

1393
01:13:42,600 --> 01:13:45,120
Speaker 1: know me, And now I'm offended because I could be

1394
01:13:45,240 --> 01:13:48,559
Speaker 1: anyone And that's that's it. It's like these things that

1395
01:13:48,560 --> 01:13:51,479
Speaker 1: guys do to make you feel special, and like, you go,

1396
01:13:51,680 --> 01:13:54,599
Speaker 1: you haven't asked anything about me really to get to

1397
01:13:54,600 --> 01:13:56,600
Speaker 1: know me. Maybe you're attracted me and would like to

1398
01:13:56,720 --> 01:14:00,320
Speaker 1: have sex to me, understand that, but like you're cless

1399
01:14:00,360 --> 01:14:02,800
Speaker 1: person to invite someone to Wine Country that you just

1400
01:14:03,479 --> 01:14:07,720
Speaker 1: have known for ten minutes, and well, awesome, does he

1401
01:14:07,800 --> 01:14:09,920
Speaker 1: not have it? Does he not have a washer and

1402
01:14:10,000 --> 01:14:14,439
Speaker 1: dryer in his own compartment? That's a bad sign, isn't it.

1403
01:14:14,520 --> 01:14:16,920
Speaker 1: I think he was driving through there, and I don't

1404
01:14:16,920 --> 01:14:20,760
Speaker 1: know why driving You wonder why, I mean I did,

1405
01:14:20,840 --> 01:14:24,599
Speaker 1: but I just I figured you're having Yeah, I thought

1406
01:14:24,600 --> 01:14:30,160
Speaker 1: your house burned down there, Yet you're a state having

1407
01:14:30,160 --> 01:14:35,320
Speaker 1: a leaping burning down. Let's get to our segment with

1408
01:14:35,360 --> 01:14:39,120
Speaker 1: Marylynn Rice cub It is called Burning. This segment was

1409
01:14:40,000 --> 01:14:42,120
Speaker 1: first coined after we had Bob Saggatt on the show,

1410
01:14:42,120 --> 01:14:44,880
Speaker 1: and I decided to keep the same theme music and title.

1411
01:14:44,880 --> 01:14:56,320
Speaker 1: It's called Burning Questions for Bob with mary Lynn Rice Scott. Uh, Marylynn,

1412
01:14:56,360 --> 01:14:59,120
Speaker 1: this is when we get to ask questions that we

1413
01:14:59,439 --> 01:15:02,439
Speaker 1: think may be might not? You not might not always

1414
01:15:02,439 --> 01:15:04,200
Speaker 1: get asked that we want the truth to. You can

1415
01:15:04,240 --> 01:15:06,760
Speaker 1: always just not say what you want to say, But

1416
01:15:06,920 --> 01:15:08,960
Speaker 1: we think this is a good way for people to

1417
01:15:08,960 --> 01:15:10,960
Speaker 1: get to know you in a way they haven't. And um,

1418
01:15:11,680 --> 01:15:15,479
Speaker 1: I'd like to have no one. Because Noah saw your

1419
01:15:15,520 --> 01:15:18,559
Speaker 1: movie The Tomorrow War last night. She loved it. She

1420
01:15:18,600 --> 01:15:20,400
Speaker 1: told me it was probably too scary for me. She

1421
01:15:20,479 --> 01:15:22,960
Speaker 1: told me also that the aliens depicted in the film

1422
01:15:23,160 --> 01:15:26,080
Speaker 1: which are great. She said, this is on Amazon, by

1423
01:15:26,080 --> 01:15:28,599
Speaker 1: the way, The Tomorrow War. She said that the aliens

1424
01:15:28,640 --> 01:15:30,960
Speaker 1: are so cool, but that Andrew might be scared of

1425
01:15:31,000 --> 01:15:33,880
Speaker 1: them because they do resemble a bearded dragon lizard, which

1426
01:15:33,920 --> 01:15:38,559
Speaker 1: Andrew is scared of lizards. Don't love them? Good? Yes?

1427
01:15:38,760 --> 01:15:41,840
Speaker 1: So so no awesome movie. Yeah, tell us first of all,

1428
01:15:41,840 --> 01:15:43,760
Speaker 1: tell us what you thought about the movie, and and

1429
01:15:43,800 --> 01:15:45,960
Speaker 1: tell us why our listeners should watch the movie and

1430
01:15:46,200 --> 01:15:49,479
Speaker 1: who might like this movie based on if you if

1431
01:15:49,520 --> 01:15:54,120
Speaker 1: you like apocalyptic movies. There's a lot of action, great graphics,

1432
01:15:54,160 --> 01:15:56,680
Speaker 1: great acting. It's about a war in the future and

1433
01:15:56,680 --> 01:15:59,559
Speaker 1: they come back to the present time to recruit people

1434
01:15:59,560 --> 01:16:02,599
Speaker 1: to fight in future war. Is that correct? Yes, there's

1435
01:16:02,600 --> 01:16:06,640
Speaker 1: this military that urgently comes from like thirty years in

1436
01:16:06,680 --> 01:16:10,040
Speaker 1: the future and tells people, Hey, there's a war happening

1437
01:16:10,040 --> 01:16:12,280
Speaker 1: in the future. The aliens are winning. We need to

1438
01:16:12,680 --> 01:16:16,880
Speaker 1: draft you to to help us out. And then Maryland's

1439
01:16:16,880 --> 01:16:21,920
Speaker 1: wearing a tight bun and she's what what does she

1440
01:16:22,040 --> 01:16:23,600
Speaker 1: what is she wearing? What? What? What? What do you?

1441
01:16:23,720 --> 01:16:26,880
Speaker 1: What's your role in this? I'm a regular lady that

1442
01:16:26,960 --> 01:16:30,760
Speaker 1: gets recruited. I think, oh cool. I initially I think

1443
01:16:30,800 --> 01:16:33,280
Speaker 1: my character backstory was some kind of scientists, but they

1444
01:16:33,400 --> 01:16:36,840
Speaker 1: ended up like scrapping our backstory. But just you just

1445
01:16:36,880 --> 01:16:40,639
Speaker 1: see like all these regular people and like middle aged people. Yeah,

1446
01:16:40,720 --> 01:16:43,599
Speaker 1: so I'm just like jeans sweatshirt. We just get swooped

1447
01:16:43,600 --> 01:16:47,439
Speaker 1: into the future. When did you shoot this right before

1448
01:16:47,439 --> 01:16:50,280
Speaker 1: the pandemic? Oh my god? So it was that exciting

1449
01:16:50,320 --> 01:16:52,160
Speaker 1: for you though, to know that you had this movie

1450
01:16:52,200 --> 01:16:55,400
Speaker 1: coming out, And like, I always love the time between

1451
01:16:55,400 --> 01:16:57,280
Speaker 1: when you shoot something and when it airs because you

1452
01:16:57,280 --> 01:16:59,800
Speaker 1: go I did it. I feel accomplished that I did

1453
01:16:59,800 --> 01:17:02,360
Speaker 1: a but I'm also not working right now. But I can,

1454
01:17:02,600 --> 01:17:04,840
Speaker 1: but that hasn't been released, so I'm in this like,

1455
01:17:05,920 --> 01:17:08,439
Speaker 1: so I'm always I mean, I'm excited that I had

1456
01:17:08,479 --> 01:17:12,200
Speaker 1: it because I had something, but I'm always like, I

1457
01:17:12,240 --> 01:17:17,920
Speaker 1: need three more jobs. I tell myself, Okay, not that

1458
01:17:18,000 --> 01:17:19,920
Speaker 1: exciting that you have a movie. Like, I don't let

1459
01:17:19,960 --> 01:17:22,880
Speaker 1: myself be excited. Man, we need to hang out more.

1460
01:17:23,000 --> 01:17:26,160
Speaker 1: Already spent that money. We need to talk more to

1461
01:17:26,160 --> 01:17:29,599
Speaker 1: get here. I'm gonna start getting you exsyched about how

1462
01:17:29,720 --> 01:17:31,920
Speaker 1: fucking awesome you are because you need to. Really, you

1463
01:17:31,960 --> 01:17:34,880
Speaker 1: need to enjoy your Yeah, you need the washer dryer.

1464
01:17:34,920 --> 01:17:39,280
Speaker 1: Mama needs coins, mommy, and I think you're right in

1465
01:17:39,320 --> 01:17:44,280
Speaker 1: that there's a there's a higher value, like a spiritual

1466
01:17:44,400 --> 01:17:47,360
Speaker 1: for lack of a better word, place. Yeah, your spirit

1467
01:17:47,400 --> 01:17:49,479
Speaker 1: needs to be in a place where you're like I

1468
01:17:49,520 --> 01:17:53,200
Speaker 1: did this like down because if I stay in the

1469
01:17:53,240 --> 01:17:56,360
Speaker 1: mode of I need, I already spent that money. But

1470
01:17:56,439 --> 01:18:00,800
Speaker 1: you know that's gonna bring me to my question. But no, one,

1471
01:18:00,880 --> 01:18:02,960
Speaker 1: let's get to your question first, which is based upon

1472
01:18:03,840 --> 01:18:09,479
Speaker 1: I believe something Marylyn's work. Okay, so it's based off

1473
01:18:09,520 --> 01:18:14,240
Speaker 1: of the tomorrow war. Um, since the people, like the

1474
01:18:14,280 --> 01:18:17,120
Speaker 1: military people in the future come to the present with

1475
01:18:17,160 --> 01:18:20,840
Speaker 1: an urgent message. I was wondering what was the last

1476
01:18:21,000 --> 01:18:23,320
Speaker 1: urgent message you sent? And you don't have to be

1477
01:18:23,439 --> 01:18:28,840
Speaker 1: very specific formed question, isn't it good? Wow, that's the

1478
01:18:28,960 --> 01:18:33,200
Speaker 1: last urgent message. Can I tweak this to maybe open

1479
01:18:33,280 --> 01:18:35,200
Speaker 1: it up a little bit? Noah, do you mind the

1480
01:18:35,280 --> 01:18:38,280
Speaker 1: question at all? Um? If you had to give an

1481
01:18:38,360 --> 01:18:41,439
Speaker 1: urgent message to people right now, one message? You know,

1482
01:18:41,439 --> 01:18:42,920
Speaker 1: this is kind of like that one question, like if

1483
01:18:42,960 --> 01:18:44,960
Speaker 1: you could put up a billboard with one statement, what

1484
01:18:45,080 --> 01:18:49,120
Speaker 1: is your urgent message for the world right now? Wow?

1485
01:18:49,720 --> 01:18:55,040
Speaker 1: Either or this is heavy. I don't know if I

1486
01:18:55,120 --> 01:18:58,439
Speaker 1: have an urgent message. Okay, what about to yourself? If

1487
01:18:58,520 --> 01:19:01,960
Speaker 1: you were a friend to you and thinking about your

1488
01:19:02,000 --> 01:19:05,400
Speaker 1: day today, what's the urgent message? Like Marylyn, this is

1489
01:19:05,400 --> 01:19:07,679
Speaker 1: what I need to you to know your future self,

1490
01:19:07,680 --> 01:19:11,880
Speaker 1: giving you an urgent message, get out there, get out there,

1491
01:19:12,200 --> 01:19:15,719
Speaker 1: engage with the world. Okay, you only get one chance.

1492
01:19:16,880 --> 01:19:19,360
Speaker 1: Stop hiding. What does that mean? Okay? So are you

1493
01:19:19,400 --> 01:19:24,600
Speaker 1: gone on one message? I don't have the message. I

1494
01:19:24,640 --> 01:19:28,200
Speaker 1: wish I did, no meaning like when you're texting this

1495
01:19:28,400 --> 01:19:32,519
Speaker 1: is it? Is it all in one paragraph? Right? Coming

1496
01:19:32,520 --> 01:19:36,519
Speaker 1: in a statement? It would be don't panic, don't panic?

1497
01:19:36,680 --> 01:19:40,679
Speaker 1: Got it? I like that? Okay, that's the urgent message.

1498
01:19:41,080 --> 01:19:45,799
Speaker 1: I like that the urgent message has it's it's almost uh,

1499
01:19:45,840 --> 01:19:48,799
Speaker 1: it goes against itself because the urgency is don't panic.

1500
01:19:49,400 --> 01:19:51,160
Speaker 1: Like you never get an urgent message like those don't

1501
01:19:51,160 --> 01:19:55,400
Speaker 1: panic the world. Her urgent message is that this is

1502
01:19:55,400 --> 01:19:58,719
Speaker 1: an urgent and there's nothing to worry about. Never mind,

1503
01:20:00,160 --> 01:20:05,120
Speaker 1: Really the question doesn't exist anymore. I think we've great question, um,

1504
01:20:05,280 --> 01:20:08,439
Speaker 1: great answer that actually negated the question itself. Loved it

1505
01:20:08,720 --> 01:20:12,000
Speaker 1: my question? May I oppose it? Of course? Bitch? What

1506
01:20:12,120 --> 01:20:14,479
Speaker 1: did you spend your money on? I want to know

1507
01:20:14,680 --> 01:20:16,320
Speaker 1: when you said to your special you go, I spent

1508
01:20:16,439 --> 01:20:18,960
Speaker 1: the money. I want to know looking back on what

1509
01:20:19,000 --> 01:20:22,120
Speaker 1: you said, you don't just say exactly, what's one purchase

1510
01:20:22,400 --> 01:20:26,599
Speaker 1: that you deeply regret in your past? And it can

1511
01:20:26,640 --> 01:20:29,640
Speaker 1: be at any time, honestly, But what's a purchase that

1512
01:20:29,720 --> 01:20:32,879
Speaker 1: you go that was dumb? Because I've got some recently

1513
01:20:33,000 --> 01:20:35,400
Speaker 1: and I just want to feel less stupid about my

1514
01:20:35,400 --> 01:20:41,080
Speaker 1: own dumb spending. I I think I did everything wrong,

1515
01:20:41,160 --> 01:20:43,360
Speaker 1: just because it's not like I thought, oh, I'm always

1516
01:20:43,360 --> 01:20:46,519
Speaker 1: going to be on TV. But I did think it's

1517
01:20:46,520 --> 01:20:49,719
Speaker 1: only going to grow from here, which is so not true.

1518
01:20:50,080 --> 01:20:53,680
Speaker 1: It was like I should have saved every scrap. So

1519
01:20:53,960 --> 01:20:57,280
Speaker 1: I two things that are the same thing. One, I

1520
01:20:57,360 --> 01:21:01,080
Speaker 1: bought property to rent out in New Orleans right before

1521
01:21:01,200 --> 01:21:04,679
Speaker 1: her Kane Katrina, with the urging of a woman who

1522
01:21:04,800 --> 01:21:06,880
Speaker 1: was like, you're going to make money off these properties

1523
01:21:06,880 --> 01:21:11,080
Speaker 1: and they're historical and they're gonna be rentals, and that's smart.

1524
01:21:11,680 --> 01:21:14,639
Speaker 1: What you did was it is smart in the grand scheme.

1525
01:21:16,520 --> 01:21:19,800
Speaker 1: But then I also bought a huge house. But I

1526
01:21:19,840 --> 01:21:22,040
Speaker 1: don't regret it because I'm kind of glad I had

1527
01:21:22,080 --> 01:21:25,120
Speaker 1: the experience of what it feels like to have a

1528
01:21:25,240 --> 01:21:27,240
Speaker 1: huge house. Now I don't need to have that anymore.

1529
01:21:27,280 --> 01:21:30,679
Speaker 1: But it was in Woodland Hills, California. It's six thousand

1530
01:21:30,760 --> 01:21:33,920
Speaker 1: square foot house with a slitewater pool, a back house,

1531
01:21:34,080 --> 01:21:38,519
Speaker 1: a tennis court. Oh my god, you know, a wine thing,

1532
01:21:38,720 --> 01:21:43,120
Speaker 1: a bread warmer, now, did you? It was so fun?

1533
01:21:43,360 --> 01:21:45,599
Speaker 1: It was It doesn't sound like I was just like money,

1534
01:21:45,640 --> 01:21:48,040
Speaker 1: like money, right, and you look back and you go,

1535
01:21:48,240 --> 01:21:51,680
Speaker 1: that wasn't worth it because the way you talk about it.

1536
01:21:51,720 --> 01:21:53,240
Speaker 1: I saw your face light up in a way that

1537
01:21:53,280 --> 01:21:56,080
Speaker 1: was like, maybe maybe you did enjoy that enough. It

1538
01:21:56,240 --> 01:22:00,800
Speaker 1: was what year did you buy this house too? Thousands?

1539
01:22:03,280 --> 01:22:05,639
Speaker 1: Let's see, my son was born in two thousand and eight,

1540
01:22:05,680 --> 01:22:07,600
Speaker 1: so it must have been two thousand and five, so

1541
01:22:07,760 --> 01:22:10,559
Speaker 1: they're in the peak of real estate. Oh. I bought

1542
01:22:10,560 --> 01:22:15,280
Speaker 1: it at the high and close on it to get

1543
01:22:15,280 --> 01:22:18,760
Speaker 1: out of it. Yeah. My financial people were like, you

1544
01:22:18,800 --> 01:22:22,200
Speaker 1: need to not pay your bills in order to get

1545
01:22:22,240 --> 01:22:24,360
Speaker 1: the bank to pay attention to this too, so that

1546
01:22:24,400 --> 01:22:26,720
Speaker 1: it will go happen. The same thing happened to me.

1547
01:22:26,760 --> 01:22:29,880
Speaker 1: I had a short sell a condo which wasn't that expensive.

1548
01:22:30,080 --> 01:22:31,600
Speaker 1: That's how much of a loser I was. That's a

1549
01:22:31,640 --> 01:22:34,320
Speaker 1: weird feeling though, when you're just like, I'm not paying

1550
01:22:34,320 --> 01:22:37,080
Speaker 1: my bills on purpose so that they we explain it

1551
01:22:37,080 --> 01:22:38,880
Speaker 1: to me, don't pay your bills so that they are

1552
01:22:39,400 --> 01:22:41,920
Speaker 1: distracted by that. It needs to default, No, it needs

1553
01:22:41,960 --> 01:22:46,840
Speaker 1: to default in order for it to move into because

1554
01:22:46,920 --> 01:22:49,200
Speaker 1: you know, I was being advised, you can't afford this.

1555
01:22:49,280 --> 01:22:52,840
Speaker 1: It's not the Also, it's inflated, so there's no way

1556
01:22:52,880 --> 01:22:56,360
Speaker 1: for you to recoup you my god. So in order

1557
01:22:56,439 --> 01:22:59,360
Speaker 1: to get it so that the bank will, you know,

1558
01:22:59,479 --> 01:23:07,640
Speaker 1: do the sail or whatever you should, you should rent this,

1559
01:23:07,760 --> 01:23:09,720
Speaker 1: like I did. Have the lady who sold it to me,

1560
01:23:09,760 --> 01:23:11,640
Speaker 1: she goes, let's stage it and you can rent it.

1561
01:23:11,640 --> 01:23:15,040
Speaker 1: But my gut, I was like, no one's gonna rent

1562
01:23:15,120 --> 01:23:17,479
Speaker 1: this for the thousands of dollars you know what I mean.

1563
01:23:17,520 --> 01:23:19,479
Speaker 1: It was like a huge house for that, and I

1564
01:23:19,520 --> 01:23:22,519
Speaker 1: was like, I don't I'm not willing to take that risk,

1565
01:23:22,880 --> 01:23:25,280
Speaker 1: which thank god I didn't because I would have to

1566
01:23:25,360 --> 01:23:29,880
Speaker 1: have like a certain amount of money and I have

1567
01:23:30,040 --> 01:23:32,120
Speaker 1: not had that money since I was on that show.

1568
01:23:32,120 --> 01:23:35,800
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Well, um, thank you for sharing that,

1569
01:23:35,880 --> 01:23:40,920
Speaker 1: because it's true to like you just think when you're

1570
01:23:40,920 --> 01:23:43,519
Speaker 1: having a windfall of shows and things seem to be

1571
01:23:43,560 --> 01:23:45,240
Speaker 1: just great and you have so much like I'm in

1572
01:23:45,240 --> 01:23:46,920
Speaker 1: that right now where it's like I've never had this

1573
01:23:47,040 --> 01:23:50,280
Speaker 1: much and things only seem to be looking up. And

1574
01:23:50,760 --> 01:23:52,200
Speaker 1: you know, but I could be canceled tomorrow when I

1575
01:23:52,200 --> 01:23:56,920
Speaker 1: could all go away, or I could. You know, things

1576
01:23:57,080 --> 01:24:00,599
Speaker 1: happen where it can go away, it can alway go away.

1577
01:24:00,640 --> 01:24:03,440
Speaker 1: And I do save, and I plan outside of yourself,

1578
01:24:03,680 --> 01:24:05,360
Speaker 1: and I do have people that look at my money

1579
01:24:05,400 --> 01:24:07,479
Speaker 1: that aren't me, that go, Okay, this is okay for

1580
01:24:07,520 --> 01:24:10,080
Speaker 1: you to do, this isn't But I don't. I don't

1581
01:24:10,120 --> 01:24:11,560
Speaker 1: know why I trust them. I trust them because I

1582
01:24:11,560 --> 01:24:14,920
Speaker 1: don't trust myself, and there they seem nice, but I

1583
01:24:14,920 --> 01:24:18,200
Speaker 1: don't know what I'm doing. I can't stop buying Taylor

1584
01:24:18,320 --> 01:24:22,559
Speaker 1: Swift collectible merchandise or like collectible for you. I can't

1585
01:24:22,560 --> 01:24:25,280
Speaker 1: talking As you were talking, you're probably in a sweet

1586
01:24:25,280 --> 01:24:28,519
Speaker 1: spot in your life where you are doing the right

1587
01:24:28,560 --> 01:24:31,200
Speaker 1: things and you should have a little fun buying every

1588
01:24:31,240 --> 01:24:33,439
Speaker 1: single Taylor Swift thing that you want to buy at

1589
01:24:33,479 --> 01:24:36,320
Speaker 1: all time. Here's the thing. If you bought Taylor Swift,

1590
01:24:37,280 --> 01:24:39,759
Speaker 1: I am don't worry about if you bought our old house,

1591
01:24:39,880 --> 01:24:41,519
Speaker 1: I'd be worried, you know what I mean, like that

1592
01:24:41,680 --> 01:24:46,600
Speaker 1: at least eventually that we share together because we're in

1593
01:24:46,640 --> 01:24:51,559
Speaker 1: a probably gave for her, Like this is Taylor Swift's house,

1594
01:24:51,560 --> 01:24:53,439
Speaker 1: and like, well she was here one night. Well she

1595
01:24:53,520 --> 01:24:56,760
Speaker 1: looked she drove past. I mean, honestly, Mary, like a

1596
01:24:56,800 --> 01:24:59,439
Speaker 1: guitar that was I got. I bought a guitar on

1597
01:24:59,560 --> 01:25:02,720
Speaker 1: a bay that was signed by her? Right did you

1598
01:25:02,720 --> 01:25:05,760
Speaker 1: feel when you got it? You know? Because she didn't

1599
01:25:05,760 --> 01:25:07,799
Speaker 1: sign the guitar, She never touched the guitar. The guitar

1600
01:25:08,240 --> 01:25:13,799
Speaker 1: has a uh, it has a sticker on it of

1601
01:25:14,240 --> 01:25:20,800
Speaker 1: her signature that she signed own the same signature on

1602
01:25:20,920 --> 01:25:24,479
Speaker 1: the same CD case that I got for free. So

1603
01:25:24,600 --> 01:25:27,280
Speaker 1: I have I have. I have about five or six

1604
01:25:27,360 --> 01:25:30,000
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift signatures that fans have given to me because

1605
01:25:30,040 --> 01:25:31,920
Speaker 1: she does a lot of stuff, signs a lot of stuff.

1606
01:25:32,120 --> 01:25:33,759
Speaker 1: So this is just stuck to a guitar. The guitar

1607
01:25:33,800 --> 01:25:35,519
Speaker 1: is beautiful. It's a pink guitar. But she I wanted

1608
01:25:35,560 --> 01:25:37,560
Speaker 1: a guitar that she had held and like signed and

1609
01:25:37,840 --> 01:25:41,719
Speaker 1: didn't even play, but just like held. Um. So it's

1610
01:25:41,760 --> 01:25:44,040
Speaker 1: just a sticker. But I have a new bit. So

1611
01:25:44,080 --> 01:25:46,879
Speaker 1: I have so many tailor Swift autographs, and I implore

1612
01:25:46,960 --> 01:25:49,400
Speaker 1: my friends to give me more because they're really available

1613
01:25:49,400 --> 01:25:50,600
Speaker 1: for cheap. And if you ever want to give me

1614
01:25:50,640 --> 01:25:53,439
Speaker 1: a good gift, I got a room by this weekend.

1615
01:25:53,439 --> 01:25:55,600
Speaker 1: And my the joke I was gonna do was I

1616
01:25:55,680 --> 01:25:59,599
Speaker 1: was gonna put one of the signatures on the room.

1617
01:25:59,680 --> 01:26:01,960
Speaker 1: But to be like, I got a new Taylor Swift

1618
01:26:02,000 --> 01:26:06,040
Speaker 1: signed really because you could just put these things anything. Um,

1619
01:26:06,080 --> 01:26:07,400
Speaker 1: but I don't care. And now I'm gonna be a

1620
01:26:07,439 --> 01:26:10,519
Speaker 1: little bit more discerning of eBay purchases. Uh, and now

1621
01:26:10,560 --> 01:26:12,599
Speaker 1: it's a Now it's funny to me. Now someone goes,

1622
01:26:12,720 --> 01:26:14,479
Speaker 1: oh my god, Taylor Swifts on that guitar, I'll go

1623
01:26:14,720 --> 01:26:16,800
Speaker 1: hold on a second. No, she did it. I just

1624
01:26:16,840 --> 01:26:18,840
Speaker 1: didn't read the fine print in this eBay thing. The

1625
01:26:18,880 --> 01:26:21,639
Speaker 1: beauty of it, though, is that you learned that lesson

1626
01:26:22,080 --> 01:26:24,560
Speaker 1: for three grant, like you can learn that lesson with

1627
01:26:24,920 --> 01:26:27,080
Speaker 1: six thousand square foot house with me, I bought like

1628
01:26:27,120 --> 01:26:29,840
Speaker 1: an eighty thousand dollar car, Like you can learn it

1629
01:26:29,920 --> 01:26:32,320
Speaker 1: by spending a lot more money. So just take that in.

1630
01:26:32,720 --> 01:26:35,599
Speaker 1: I can afford this mistake. And it wasn't a mistake

1631
01:26:35,600 --> 01:26:38,559
Speaker 1: because it's now hilarious. The story of a sticker being

1632
01:26:38,560 --> 01:26:40,400
Speaker 1: on a guitar. Spent three thousand dollars for then the

1633
01:26:40,400 --> 01:26:45,120
Speaker 1: guitar itself is probably worth two hundred um at most

1634
01:26:45,120 --> 01:26:47,479
Speaker 1: our house. Did you even play tennis? However? Yeah? Did

1635
01:26:47,520 --> 01:26:50,240
Speaker 1: you play tennis? Did you go in? I started taking

1636
01:26:50,240 --> 01:26:54,400
Speaker 1: tennis people and other people play out there. We had

1637
01:26:54,439 --> 01:26:57,320
Speaker 1: a really fun party that was like a bracket and

1638
01:26:57,400 --> 01:27:04,400
Speaker 1: everybody was in as two million loss. I'm just guessing

1639
01:27:04,439 --> 01:27:07,680
Speaker 1: that's right. Moving into final thought on the show, we

1640
01:27:07,760 --> 01:27:10,400
Speaker 1: got to close things up. Andrew, will you um, will

1641
01:27:10,479 --> 01:27:14,000
Speaker 1: you pose your final burning question for Bob Marylyn Bob

1642
01:27:14,040 --> 01:27:23,000
Speaker 1: Marylynn Lynn Mary? I think, Gail, don't you wish your

1643
01:27:23,080 --> 01:27:25,200
Speaker 1: name was mary Lynn? Yeah? There you go. That is

1644
01:27:25,240 --> 01:27:29,040
Speaker 1: a good save. Okay. That that that's why you're That's

1645
01:27:29,040 --> 01:27:31,799
Speaker 1: why you go through every single person in the audience

1646
01:27:32,080 --> 01:27:37,320
Speaker 1: like what's your name until you finally get Billy all right,

1647
01:27:37,400 --> 01:27:41,320
Speaker 1: well all right, get out. Yeah that's my time. Thank

1648
01:27:41,400 --> 01:27:46,639
Speaker 1: you a new face. Uh so, um, I was thinking

1649
01:27:46,880 --> 01:27:49,560
Speaker 1: that you did this alien movie. Do you believe in aliens?

1650
01:27:51,840 --> 01:27:53,960
Speaker 1: Because it's a hot topic right now, and it is

1651
01:27:53,960 --> 01:27:56,559
Speaker 1: a hot topic. I did some press and it's hilarious.

1652
01:27:56,640 --> 01:27:59,479
Speaker 1: Everybody was tying in like good timing because we just

1653
01:27:59,520 --> 01:28:01,679
Speaker 1: found out aliens are real. I was like, I hope

1654
01:28:01,920 --> 01:28:04,439
Speaker 1: that the real aliens are a lot nicer than the

1655
01:28:04,439 --> 01:28:08,559
Speaker 1: one in this movie that are monsters? Do make you

1656
01:28:08,600 --> 01:28:11,920
Speaker 1: more afraid of aliens? And and do you believe in them? Okay?

1657
01:28:12,080 --> 01:28:14,960
Speaker 1: I am kind of like the general public. The fact

1658
01:28:14,960 --> 01:28:18,320
Speaker 1: that that's come out, I'm just like, but now that

1659
01:28:18,360 --> 01:28:22,240
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about it, this is embarrassing. But I probably

1660
01:28:22,320 --> 01:28:27,240
Speaker 1: believe in like angels more than I believe in in aliens. Um,

1661
01:28:27,520 --> 01:28:31,280
Speaker 1: talk to me about that, do you I recently have

1662
01:28:31,760 --> 01:28:34,200
Speaker 1: I have recently adopted angels into my life as well,

1663
01:28:34,200 --> 01:28:36,759
Speaker 1: not angels, but like you know, just I have recently

1664
01:28:36,800 --> 01:28:39,200
Speaker 1: believe in God or whatever that version is for me,

1665
01:28:39,320 --> 01:28:42,000
Speaker 1: like a higher power. Yeah, it's really helped me. Thank you.

1666
01:28:42,040 --> 01:28:46,040
Speaker 1: I found God during the pandemic, and it's it's honestly true.

1667
01:28:46,439 --> 01:28:51,720
Speaker 1: It's true. I started a picture of God and she

1668
01:28:51,040 --> 01:28:54,679
Speaker 1: never we just need to yeah, like, yeah, I swiped

1669
01:28:54,760 --> 01:28:57,120
Speaker 1: right on God and I never thought I would, but

1670
01:28:57,160 --> 01:28:59,640
Speaker 1: it's true. I was I was raised atheists. I was

1671
01:28:59,720 --> 01:29:01,479
Speaker 1: raised to think anyone who believes in God or a

1672
01:29:01,520 --> 01:29:04,200
Speaker 1: spiritual or talked about angels watching over you is just

1673
01:29:04,280 --> 01:29:08,840
Speaker 1: an idiot, is not intelligent enough to know that that's

1674
01:29:08,840 --> 01:29:11,840
Speaker 1: all fake and that we were you know, it's it's

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01:29:12,000 --> 01:29:14,679
Speaker 1: it's just it's science. We're all here because of science,

1676
01:29:14,720 --> 01:29:16,760
Speaker 1: not because of some higher power. And I don't even

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01:29:16,800 --> 01:29:18,400
Speaker 1: know what it looks like for me, but the idea

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01:29:18,400 --> 01:29:20,200
Speaker 1: of angels, I would have rolled my eyes a year

1679
01:29:20,240 --> 01:29:21,680
Speaker 1: ago when you said that. I would have kind of

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01:29:21,720 --> 01:29:23,320
Speaker 1: moved on to something else. But I do want to

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01:29:23,320 --> 01:29:25,840
Speaker 1: know what you mean by that, and um, how you

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01:29:25,880 --> 01:29:29,000
Speaker 1: interact with those are and yeah, what does that mean

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01:29:29,040 --> 01:29:32,760
Speaker 1: to you? I don't really but Okay, I had a

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01:29:32,800 --> 01:29:34,760
Speaker 1: friend who I had a friend that I worked with

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01:29:34,800 --> 01:29:36,439
Speaker 1: a lot. You were like I was in the movie

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01:29:36,479 --> 01:29:40,120
Speaker 1: Angels in the Outfield and that movie Actually no, she

1687
01:29:40,160 --> 01:29:43,200
Speaker 1: would did personal organizing, but she said her spirits would

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01:29:43,240 --> 01:29:45,000
Speaker 1: talk to her and tell her what you needed to

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01:29:45,040 --> 01:29:48,160
Speaker 1: get rid of to be like more spiritually in tune,

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01:29:48,200 --> 01:29:50,200
Speaker 1: and her angels would talk to her and I would

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01:29:50,200 --> 01:29:53,680
Speaker 1: be like, tell me more. And I definitely like to,

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01:29:55,040 --> 01:29:58,800
Speaker 1: you know, tap into like a more positive energy, and

1693
01:29:59,160 --> 01:30:04,120
Speaker 1: I think it's well to personify that energy. And also

1694
01:30:04,240 --> 01:30:06,840
Speaker 1: I did a show for atheists at Flappers in the

1695
01:30:07,000 --> 01:30:08,720
Speaker 1: Hu Room, and I thought this is gonna be the

1696
01:30:08,720 --> 01:30:11,280
Speaker 1: best show ever because they're really smart and they're discerning,

1697
01:30:11,360 --> 01:30:12,760
Speaker 1: and you know what, they were a bunch of a

1698
01:30:12,880 --> 01:30:16,360
Speaker 1: holes atheists. It was the worst audience. I love that

1699
01:30:16,400 --> 01:30:19,760
Speaker 1: you say that. Yeah, And I love anything that's like um,

1700
01:30:19,840 --> 01:30:24,000
Speaker 1: the afterlife or people connecting with this this energy of

1701
01:30:24,080 --> 01:30:27,200
Speaker 1: love that like scoops them up, Like I'm all for that.

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01:30:27,280 --> 01:30:30,040
Speaker 1: Like I believe in like groups of people that are

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01:30:30,120 --> 01:30:33,280
Speaker 1: together with that energy that can like move things and

1704
01:30:33,320 --> 01:30:38,560
Speaker 1: shift things. I agree, And I just believe that attraction

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01:30:38,600 --> 01:30:40,200
Speaker 1: that I was talking about that you can't see on

1706
01:30:40,240 --> 01:30:42,000
Speaker 1: a phone screen of someone showing you a picture of

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01:30:42,040 --> 01:30:46,479
Speaker 1: someone that that palpable, like honestly it's energy because you

1708
01:30:46,479 --> 01:30:48,920
Speaker 1: can't there's no way to like you can't physically see it.

1709
01:30:49,240 --> 01:30:52,280
Speaker 1: The attraction I feel to some people either friends wise

1710
01:30:52,360 --> 01:30:55,520
Speaker 1: or like just want this person closer to me. You can't.

1711
01:30:55,560 --> 01:30:59,400
Speaker 1: There's no there's nothing it is other than something that

1712
01:30:59,439 --> 01:31:01,640
Speaker 1: you can't scribe. So there has to be like a

1713
01:31:01,720 --> 01:31:05,800
Speaker 1: soul and energy. And I also, I look, I just

1714
01:31:05,960 --> 01:31:09,759
Speaker 1: know that I don't know, and I think not knowing

1715
01:31:09,920 --> 01:31:14,240
Speaker 1: is god like being like they're oftentimes for me that

1716
01:31:14,400 --> 01:31:17,479
Speaker 1: I now that I have a God or whatever I

1717
01:31:17,560 --> 01:31:19,760
Speaker 1: call it, which is truly I literally don't even know.

1718
01:31:19,960 --> 01:31:23,080
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to be like um obtuse I don't

1719
01:31:23,080 --> 01:31:24,880
Speaker 1: even know what that means for me. But before I

1720
01:31:24,880 --> 01:31:26,360
Speaker 1: went on Bill Maher, which is the thing I was

1721
01:31:26,560 --> 01:31:30,559
Speaker 1: very nervous about, it was it was really good because

1722
01:31:30,640 --> 01:31:33,759
Speaker 1: if I'm in the wings at the Bill Maher show,

1723
01:31:34,000 --> 01:31:39,360
Speaker 1: one of the most you know, outspoken atheists, anti religion guys. Ever,

1724
01:31:39,720 --> 01:31:41,400
Speaker 1: I'm back in the wings, I'm about to go on.

1725
01:31:41,439 --> 01:31:44,360
Speaker 1: I'm the first segment. He's in the monologue, and I remembered, like,

1726
01:31:44,400 --> 01:31:46,680
Speaker 1: oh my god, I forgot to invite God with me

1727
01:31:46,800 --> 01:31:48,960
Speaker 1: on this. Like I that's my new thing is like

1728
01:31:49,000 --> 01:31:51,120
Speaker 1: when I'm doing something I'm nervous about, I'm like, I

1729
01:31:51,160 --> 01:31:53,080
Speaker 1: just like touch my heart or like my shoulder, and

1730
01:31:53,120 --> 01:31:55,320
Speaker 1: I go, I just like kind of look up because

1731
01:31:55,560 --> 01:31:57,920
Speaker 1: wherever it isn't just go like, hey, will you like

1732
01:31:58,560 --> 01:32:01,840
Speaker 1: just make sure that I'm okay? And that means that

1733
01:32:01,880 --> 01:32:04,120
Speaker 1: doesn't mean will you give me what I want here?

1734
01:32:04,120 --> 01:32:05,880
Speaker 1: Will you make me be funny? Will you make me

1735
01:32:06,360 --> 01:32:09,000
Speaker 1: um kill and make him laugh? And like me, it's

1736
01:32:09,040 --> 01:32:11,400
Speaker 1: that no matter what happens out there, good or bad,

1737
01:32:11,640 --> 01:32:13,760
Speaker 1: will you make me okay with the outcome? Will you

1738
01:32:13,800 --> 01:32:16,800
Speaker 1: make sure that that's what's supposed to happen. So then

1739
01:32:16,840 --> 01:32:19,120
Speaker 1: when I go out there and I possibly bomb, I

1740
01:32:19,160 --> 01:32:22,080
Speaker 1: can go. God was with me that was supposed to happen.

1741
01:32:22,120 --> 01:32:25,160
Speaker 1: I invited him in. He's only there, he she it

1742
01:32:25,200 --> 01:32:27,760
Speaker 1: is only there to make to make sure my life

1743
01:32:27,800 --> 01:32:29,719
Speaker 1: is the best possible. Like even when my dog Maryan

1744
01:32:29,720 --> 01:32:32,040
Speaker 1: almost died last weekend, I was like, I asked God,

1745
01:32:32,080 --> 01:32:34,519
Speaker 1: I go. I didn't ask for God to save Marian.

1746
01:32:34,600 --> 01:32:37,280
Speaker 1: I didn't ask God to make Maryan be okay. I

1747
01:32:37,320 --> 01:32:40,799
Speaker 1: asked for God to make what's supposed to happen happen,

1748
01:32:41,120 --> 01:32:43,200
Speaker 1: the thing that is going to lead to the most good,

1749
01:32:43,880 --> 01:32:46,200
Speaker 1: Make that happen. And if Marian would have died, I

1750
01:32:46,240 --> 01:32:48,719
Speaker 1: would have truly been at peace with Like, that's what's

1751
01:32:48,720 --> 01:32:56,639
Speaker 1: supposed to happen. There's no free will anymore. Kind Um, yeah,

1752
01:32:56,640 --> 01:32:58,280
Speaker 1: well there is no free will, but that's kind of

1753
01:32:58,320 --> 01:33:00,439
Speaker 1: it too. It's like, what's supposed to happen is to happen.

1754
01:33:00,520 --> 01:33:04,240
Speaker 1: And um, I do though, think that you can control

1755
01:33:04,360 --> 01:33:09,000
Speaker 1: outcomes by inviting that in, and you can actually change

1756
01:33:09,040 --> 01:33:14,000
Speaker 1: the way you will behave unintentionally subconsciously by just kind

1757
01:33:14,000 --> 01:33:17,120
Speaker 1: of inviting that thing in and not doing everything alone.

1758
01:33:17,200 --> 01:33:20,120
Speaker 1: We do. I do everything alone. So just even if

1759
01:33:20,160 --> 01:33:23,439
Speaker 1: it's complete bullshit and it's not real, me thinking I'm

1760
01:33:23,439 --> 01:33:25,519
Speaker 1: going out into Bill Maher and that there's some spirit

1761
01:33:25,560 --> 01:33:28,400
Speaker 1: watching over me making sure that everything's okay gives me

1762
01:33:28,479 --> 01:33:32,600
Speaker 1: a sense of confidence and relaxation that actually makes me

1763
01:33:32,680 --> 01:33:35,800
Speaker 1: do the best job possible. So that's my answer to

1764
01:33:35,840 --> 01:33:41,439
Speaker 1: your Bretain question for Maryland. I think that's yeah, yeah, yeah,

1765
01:33:41,560 --> 01:33:44,360
Speaker 1: I think we both believe in aliens and their angels.

1766
01:33:44,400 --> 01:33:47,640
Speaker 1: Are we all of us here right now? Why why

1767
01:33:47,640 --> 01:33:49,360
Speaker 1: don't you go to New York City? Like, why are

1768
01:33:49,360 --> 01:33:52,320
Speaker 1: you going to the Midwest? Why don't you go somewhere

1769
01:33:52,320 --> 01:33:54,639
Speaker 1: where you could be seen? And no, they don't want

1770
01:33:54,640 --> 01:33:58,519
Speaker 1: to be seen, that's the thing, And you can't even

1771
01:33:58,560 --> 01:34:05,080
Speaker 1: finish that thought. No, they're like, and see a Canegie Hall.

1772
01:34:06,040 --> 01:34:10,479
Speaker 1: They want to go to the men. I'm just saying anywhere.

1773
01:34:11,360 --> 01:34:15,160
Speaker 1: They want to see Joey, the tallest horse you can anymore.

1774
01:34:15,280 --> 01:34:18,439
Speaker 1: We gotta Oh yeah, Jake, well Joey is now the tallest.

1775
01:34:18,840 --> 01:34:21,200
Speaker 1: We gotta go, Marylynn. I could talk to you all day.

1776
01:34:21,320 --> 01:34:23,519
Speaker 1: I really want to stay in touch. And I just

1777
01:34:23,560 --> 01:34:27,360
Speaker 1: texted you um an urgent message from you so that

1778
01:34:27,439 --> 01:34:31,400
Speaker 1: you have it to use throughout your day. But but seriously,

1779
01:34:31,439 --> 01:34:33,519
Speaker 1: stay in touch with me and let's talk more because

1780
01:34:34,040 --> 01:34:36,040
Speaker 1: we have we have so much in common. And I

1781
01:34:36,080 --> 01:34:38,080
Speaker 1: just I loved your special. I am going to finish

1782
01:34:38,120 --> 01:34:40,679
Speaker 1: it when I When I say that, usually I sometimes

1783
01:34:40,760 --> 01:34:43,320
Speaker 1: don't get around to it. But I really really loved

1784
01:34:43,320 --> 01:34:45,840
Speaker 1: your special. You can get it now on Venmo. It's

1785
01:34:45,920 --> 01:34:49,879
Speaker 1: it's really cheap. Just google Maryland right scub uh special.

1786
01:34:50,240 --> 01:34:53,639
Speaker 1: But it's called Live during the Pandemic. It's from her garage.

1787
01:34:53,680 --> 01:34:56,000
Speaker 1: It's very honest. It's just it has a great, like

1788
01:34:56,680 --> 01:35:00,240
Speaker 1: uh musical score underneath it. It's just like great to

1789
01:35:00,400 --> 01:35:03,080
Speaker 1: listen to while you're cleaning up the kitchen or just

1790
01:35:03,120 --> 01:35:07,240
Speaker 1: like put it on and just laugh and it's just

1791
01:35:07,320 --> 01:35:09,800
Speaker 1: vulnerable and great. And I am really proud of you

1792
01:35:09,840 --> 01:35:11,840
Speaker 1: for putting it out there, because it's it's not easy

1793
01:35:11,880 --> 01:35:13,479
Speaker 1: to do something like that out of your garage and

1794
01:35:13,520 --> 01:35:14,960
Speaker 1: be like, you know what, people deserve to hear me

1795
01:35:15,000 --> 01:35:17,920
Speaker 1: talking in my garage, but but they really do. It's great,

1796
01:35:18,080 --> 01:35:21,240
Speaker 1: It really is great. Thank you, Nikki, Thank you for

1797
01:35:21,280 --> 01:35:23,599
Speaker 1: having me and check out that I love you too,

1798
01:35:23,640 --> 01:35:25,439
Speaker 1: and check out The Tomorrow War if you're into those

1799
01:35:25,479 --> 01:35:28,160
Speaker 1: kind of movies, because Noah is and she fucking loved it,

1800
01:35:28,240 --> 01:35:31,680
Speaker 1: and uh, I'm really proud of you. Keep killing it.

1801
01:35:31,800 --> 01:35:33,320
Speaker 1: Thank you for being so honest, and thank you for

1802
01:35:33,360 --> 01:35:39,200
Speaker 1: being on the show today, Marilyn. Yeah, we'll talk soon. Guys,

1803
01:35:39,439 --> 01:35:41,720
Speaker 1: we'll see you tomorrow on the show. Don't and