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Speaker 1: All right, this is Kenny on Steve Harvey SM. Kenny says,

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Speaker 1: my birthday is coming up, and my girlfriend thinks it

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Speaker 1: would be fun to get a bunch of our friends

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Speaker 1: together to celebrate. It's turning into this big thing now

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Speaker 1: and I'm not sure I'm feeling it anymore. She keeps

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Speaker 1: asking me what I'd like to do, and when I

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Speaker 1: give her my thoughts, her response is that other people

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Speaker 1: might not enjoy that as much as I would. My

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Speaker 1: girlfriend thinks I'm being selfish? Am I tripping? It's my birthday?

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Speaker 1: What's the problem?

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Speaker 2: Well, Kenny asks you what you want to do and

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Speaker 2: you tell us. She can't get mad at the response. Right,

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Speaker 2: whose birthday is it?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 2: It should be stuff he wants to enjoy. And obviously

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Speaker 2: you've invited some people that he would not pick to

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Speaker 2: have over there, because now you don't know if they

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Speaker 2: would enjoy the same thing. Well, they don't need to

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Speaker 2: be there. It's his birthday, man, right. It's like you know,

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Speaker 2: my wife is already talking to me about my next birthday.

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Speaker 2: She says, teen be consists a big one. We're gonna

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Speaker 2: really celebrate because God will and I live. I'll be

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Speaker 2: seventy nice and I do, and we all gonna make

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Speaker 2: a big deal out of it. But she already said,

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Speaker 2: she said, who do you want to invite? I said,

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Speaker 2: just a family. You know, I don't need all that.

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Speaker 2: I'll let y'all know how it is.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because clearly.

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Speaker 2: Y'all y'all heard, I'll say that bigg to go ahead.

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Speaker 2: Shirley wasn't.

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Speaker 1: Next, I'm sorry, I'll let y'all know how it went.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: The next one, see we have time for is Devon

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Speaker 1: on Steve Harvey FM.

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Speaker 3: Devin says, hey, morning crew.

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Speaker 1: About six months ago, my car broke down and it

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Speaker 1: was going to cost about one thousand dollars to get

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Speaker 1: it fixed. Now, I didn't have the money, but a

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Speaker 1: friend stepped in and insisted that he'd be allowed to

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Speaker 1: take care of it to help me out. While I

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Speaker 1: was grateful, I also made it clear that I was

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Speaker 1: asking for help and wouldn't be able to pay him back.

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Speaker 1: He went ahead and took care of it. So now

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Speaker 1: he's telling me he needs the money back and I

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Speaker 1: don't have it. Not to mention, he's talking about me

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Speaker 1: behind my back to our other friends. Here's the question.

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Speaker 1: Am I obligated to pay him? For a financial favor

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Speaker 1: I never asked for.

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Speaker 3: That's never asked for us.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's all.

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Speaker 3: But he did take the money.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Now me personally, I would pay him back. Yeah, you

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Speaker 2: got it, and I'm through with you after that.

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Speaker 3: But he doesn't have it. Yeah, he said he doesn't

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Speaker 3: have it.

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Speaker 2: So what you're telling me is but see I don't.

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Speaker 2: But see so your car would have been permanently broken

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Speaker 2: and you you wouldn't be dry. I would stepped in

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Speaker 2: and yeah, and I would pay him back some kind

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Speaker 2: of way to avoid was happening to him. Now, now,

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Speaker 2: your friend ain't worth a quarter though. He's not a

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Speaker 2: good friend because he wanted everybody to know what he did.

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Speaker 2: You know, man, that's why I don't like favors, because

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Speaker 2: if you're gonna tell me what you did. Okay. I

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Speaker 2: know a partner who gave a friend of mine some

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Speaker 2: shoes because he wasn't listen years ago, years and years ago,

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Speaker 2: gave partly some friends some shoes. We at the club

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Speaker 2: and then he talking to these girls and he go

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Speaker 2: up to him and go, oh, I see you pulling

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Speaker 2: everybody with them shoes on. I gave you. Ah, man,

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Speaker 2: my dude looked so hurt, and the girls was going,

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Speaker 2: he gave you his shoes. That was nice of him

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Speaker 2: to give you shoes. And you can see him start

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Speaker 2: fading away because now I'm talking to a dude that

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Speaker 2: can't buy shoes, and you could see him starting to

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Speaker 2: fade away a little bit. And so you know, we

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Speaker 2: got on him about it. All us splints say, hey, man,

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Speaker 2: you played the dude like that. Blah blah blah. Dog

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Speaker 2: I gave him shoes, y'all ain't giving no shoes. Okay,

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Speaker 2: so you don't have a good friend, And like Tommy say,

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Speaker 2: after that paying back and then be through with it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I wonder why he insisted. I guess

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Speaker 1: so he could have those bragging right, the so called friend.

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Speaker 1: Why he insisted on giving him the money and then

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Speaker 1: the first place, yeah face, yeah.

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Speaker 3: In the first place. Yeah, that's foule for sure.

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Speaker 2: Got a good heart. One day, then the next day.

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Speaker 3: You think, yeah, yeah, yeah, all.

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Speaker 2: Right, I insisted that nobody take some money from me

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Speaker 2: and then tell him I need that right back.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's crazy how he did that. Yeah, all right.

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