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Tap in and grab your tickets now at 17 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 2: Black Effect dot Com Flash Podcasts. 18 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 3: I'm a homegrow that knows a little bit about everything 19 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 3: and everybody. 20 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:53,160 Speaker 1: You know, if you don't lie about that, right, Lauren 21 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 1: came in hot. 22 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 3: All right, guys, Welcome back, Welcome back, Welcome back to 23 00:00:57,160 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 3: the podcast. 24 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 1: Welcome on back. I'm Laura La Rosa. 25 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 3: This is the Latest with Laura La Rosa, and today 26 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 3: we got a couple of things to talk about. So 27 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:11,040 Speaker 3: I started off this podcast with talking to y'all about 28 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 3: how it's just been so crazy for me to be 29 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 3: the news versus the news I'm reaching out to create 30 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:19,759 Speaker 3: and I wasn't. 31 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 1: I didn't feel like. 32 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:25,399 Speaker 3: There was a need to to not address because it's 33 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 3: not it's not a negative situation, but I didn't feel 34 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 3: like there was a need for me to bring the 35 00:01:31,160 --> 00:01:33,959 Speaker 3: interview that I did with Carlos King here on the podcast. 36 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 3: I don't know why I felt like that, though, because 37 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 3: I've been getting When I tell y'all, first of all, 38 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 3: I want to say shout out to Carlos King. Carlos 39 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 3: King reached out to me a while ago and just 40 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 3: was like, you know, I really love what you're doing. 41 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 1: I like how you move in just wanted to say hello. 42 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 3: After I had met him at Angela he was at 43 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 3: Angela Yee's show, and I'm a I'm a fan of 44 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 3: Carlos King's. He was at angelaee show and I just 45 00:01:57,800 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 3: was like, I want to go say hi to him, 46 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 3: So I went and said hey, and then he was like, no, 47 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 3: I'm a fan of yours. 48 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 1: And I was like, child, what a fan of who? 49 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 2: Not? 50 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 3: Carlos King brought Ninny Leaks to Real Housewives of Atlanta. 51 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:12,680 Speaker 3: Oh g caster of Real Housewives of Atlanta, Carlos King, 52 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 3: I'm like fan of who what? But after that he 53 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 3: had reached out to me and was just like, yo, 54 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:21,519 Speaker 3: whatever you need, let me know, and I'm like, oh. 55 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:22,400 Speaker 1: That is so sweet. 56 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 3: So when when he reached out to do the interview, 57 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 3: because I'm not gonna lie to y'all, I was like, 58 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:28,639 Speaker 3: all right, I want to do some interviews to promote 59 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 3: the podcast and you know all those things, but I 60 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:32,360 Speaker 3: don't want to. 61 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 1: Keep rehashing the same conversation. 62 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 3: Everybody's gonna want to talk about the live and the 63 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 3: breakfast club stuff and blah blah blah blah. But I 64 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 3: was like, I mean, I can't not like like, I 65 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 3: can't not do what I gotta do for this show 66 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:48,360 Speaker 3: because of that, And how dare me not want to 67 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 3: do press because hard questions is gonna be asked? So 68 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 3: I had a real talk with myself and I was 69 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 3: like self and myself was like yes, And I was like, girl, 70 00:02:57,840 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 3: go and do what you need to do for that 71 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 3: podcast as to you know, continue to build a brand 72 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 3: because people need to get to know you. 73 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:05,359 Speaker 1: They do. They have to get to know you. 74 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:09,839 Speaker 3: So I was like, as of today, the interview has 75 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 3: been out two days now? 76 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 1: Has it been two days? Old? 77 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 3: Patrick is here y'all and I made him mic up today, 78 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 3: But yeah, it's been you know. 79 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:20,919 Speaker 1: We said what two days? Two days? Two days? 80 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 3: It's been two days since the Carlos King interview released. 81 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 3: I've gotten so much good feedback from that interview, even 82 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:31,359 Speaker 3: the feedback that wasn't good, I don't even care. 83 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:32,639 Speaker 1: Like I've learned to. 84 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 3: Deal with all of the old aunties who are upset, 85 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 3: the people in the Instagram comments who don't know me 86 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 3: from a candapaign who are upset. I've slowly been learning 87 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 3: to deal with all of that and like blocking it out. 88 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 3: And sometimes I think certain things can be not all 89 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 3: noise is bad noise. I'm gonna just say that. And 90 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 3: Carlos is cool, you know what I mean. Were not 91 00:03:57,080 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 3: the best of friends, but from the interactions we've had, 92 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 3: Carlos has been really sweet to me. 93 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 1: So I wasn't expecting him to like, you know what I. 94 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 3: Mean at all, but in real Carlos King fashion, I 95 00:04:09,360 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 3: knew he was gonna get to the bottom of the 96 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 3: things that he wanted to know. And I felt really 97 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:16,839 Speaker 3: really good about the interview. After I was done, my 98 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:19,719 Speaker 3: anxiety kicked in while waiting for it to release, because 99 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 3: we did it I think like three yeah, maybe like 100 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 3: three days before you guys saw it before it hit. 101 00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 3: And then I got the tag on the collaborative posts 102 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 3: for the real for the video he posted, and I'm like, 103 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 3: dang this with this with the other people on the 104 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 3: other side be feeling like when we do them, when 105 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 3: I'm doing the interviews, when me Breakfast Club, all of 106 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:41,479 Speaker 3: us were doing the interviews and because we don't it's 107 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 3: not like you're allowed to see the interviews before they 108 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 3: go live, Like that is just not a thing that 109 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 3: just doesn't happen. 110 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 1: This is what they be feeling, like, Lauren. 111 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 3: So it was a good lesson for me of like, Okay, 112 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 3: now that you understand how people on the other side 113 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 3: of this feel. Because you're on the other side of it, 114 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 3: people are talking about you. People do want to know 115 00:04:57,279 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 3: certain things, you know what I mean, Like take take 116 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 3: take heed for when you doing those interviews and you 117 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:04,280 Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, Like, I'm still gonna ask 118 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:07,359 Speaker 3: the questions. But I do think that this whole experience 119 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 3: is making me like such a like I'm seeing the 120 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:15,600 Speaker 3: full vision of like my subjects almost because I am 121 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:18,479 Speaker 3: a journalist. I do interview celebrities and talk to people 122 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 3: on trending topics and things that nature, as y'all know, 123 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:22,479 Speaker 3: but I've never been on the other side of it. 124 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 3: I've never been the topic because I've always worked for 125 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 3: platforms like a TMZ, where the brand is the name 126 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:29,359 Speaker 3: that people know, not you. 127 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 1: So yeah, I was nervous, but I think it was 128 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 1: a good interview. Patrick, would you think about it? What 129 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:37,240 Speaker 1: you even think about it? In person? It was good. 130 00:05:37,279 --> 00:05:39,720 Speaker 1: It was really good and it was honest. 131 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:42,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, you kind of can't hide anything when everything's out 132 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:43,839 Speaker 3: there on the internet anyway. 133 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:45,479 Speaker 1: But yeah, I was. I was. 134 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 3: I felt good about it. One of the things though, 135 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:49,920 Speaker 3: that I knew when I saw it when he put 136 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 3: that part where I said I bullied my way into 137 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 3: the breakfast club guest guest post position, I said, Lord, 138 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:59,600 Speaker 3: the just bots are about to beat in my comments, 139 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:03,039 Speaker 3: blowing me up, and if you watch it full context, 140 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:05,560 Speaker 3: you will understand exactly what I meant by what I 141 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:07,600 Speaker 3: mean by that. One of the things that I really 142 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 3: did enjoy about that interview, though, in the reception that 143 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 3: it got, you know, from people, as people are coming 144 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:15,919 Speaker 3: to me and calling me and texting me and dming 145 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 3: me about it. Mad people I don't know, like people 146 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 3: I've never met a day in my life. A lot 147 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:25,679 Speaker 3: of people are like yo. It's just inspiring to see 148 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 3: somebody really build from the ground up and have that 149 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:33,359 Speaker 3: mentality of like, yo, there's going to be integrity in this. 150 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 3: I'm gonna have morals in this, but by any means necessary, 151 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 3: my life depends on it. 152 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:39,479 Speaker 1: And I said that in an interview, But I think 153 00:06:39,480 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 1: that it really. 154 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:42,840 Speaker 3: Inspire people who, like I had so many people hit 155 00:06:42,920 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 3: me up like yo, I want to bet on myself 156 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:46,480 Speaker 3: so bad, and I've been trying to figure out when 157 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 3: and how on all these things, and I watched this 158 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 3: interview and it was the answer. It was what I 159 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:55,479 Speaker 3: needed to hear and see to feel inspired and motivated. 160 00:06:55,839 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 3: And that made me feel really good too, because I 161 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 3: think a lot of times when you and it like y'all, 162 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 3: when I first moved back from LA and I was 163 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 3: trying to figure everything out, and I'm sitting in my 164 00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:08,560 Speaker 3: apartment that I moved into with no steady income. I'm 165 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 3: just taking production gigs as I could get them. 166 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 1: You know. I kind of was like, Man, what am 167 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 1: I gonna do? 168 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 3: Rent ain't stopping because ESPN just let me go as 169 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 3: a writer. 170 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 1: That happened. I moved into an apartment. 171 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:28,680 Speaker 3: I thought I had these, you know, these checks lined up, 172 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:32,760 Speaker 3: and then gigs just started like yeah, we're gonna go 173 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:37,040 Speaker 3: in another direction. I'm like, wait, what, hold on, hold on, wait, 174 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 3: cause I'm gonna pay this rent and the New York 175 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 3: New Jersey rent ain't cheap y'all. But it worked itself out, 176 00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 3: And in those moments, I feel like that's when I really, really, 177 00:07:46,960 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 3: really really had to be like all right, bro, so 178 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 3: you're really trying to do this or what? Because if 179 00:07:53,960 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 3: you're not really trying to do this, you have an 180 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:59,080 Speaker 3: amazing resume, You've worked with amazing companies, You've done not 181 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:01,280 Speaker 3: even just journalism, but I have a degree in marketing. 182 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:04,920 Speaker 3: You could go get like, there's a lot you could 183 00:08:04,920 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 3: do this, and I was like, Nope, head down, I'm 184 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 3: gonna do it. That's when I knew, like, oh baby, 185 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 3: me and this whole journalism build the brand of Laura 186 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:15,720 Speaker 3: and La rosa thing. We go together, real road bad. Okay, 187 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 3: because I'm going through the mud about you, period. So 188 00:08:19,800 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 3: make sure you guys go take a look at that 189 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 3: interview and let me know what you guys think. 190 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 1: Again. 191 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:28,240 Speaker 3: Shout out to Carlos, Hey, Mama, I'm not my girl. 192 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 3: Hold on what you say, my mom? 193 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 4: How far you enter that plane? 194 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:35,880 Speaker 3: That thinks I if I wanted to get there in 195 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:37,720 Speaker 3: the car right now, probably like what ten minutes away? 196 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:42,959 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, so it's right up the street. 197 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:44,600 Speaker 4: Don't go near there. 198 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm gonna go home. It's sad though, what 199 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 1: happened right. 200 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:51,480 Speaker 4: Yes, And I'm just I'm glad you're gonna have to 201 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:55,800 Speaker 4: ride no plane. None. Strange things are happening towards the 202 00:08:55,880 --> 00:08:58,760 Speaker 4: ending of the world. God is trying to prove something 203 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:02,440 Speaker 4: time to let full full feel what He's written in 204 00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:05,880 Speaker 4: the Bible. Whatever all this is happening now is written 205 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 4: in the Bible. It just takes a person to explain 206 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:08,720 Speaker 4: it all. 207 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. 208 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:14,680 Speaker 3: Well, no, I'm not I'm not on any planes today, 209 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 3: but I'm recording the podcast. So I gotta I gotta 210 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 3: call you back as soon as I'm done. I know 211 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:23,600 Speaker 3: I was supposed to call you back yesterday. All right, Okay, 212 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:27,679 Speaker 3: all right, alrighty, all right, love you. My mom and 213 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:30,200 Speaker 3: my grandmom are so happy. Number one that I'm closer 214 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:32,880 Speaker 3: to home. Number two, she said, I'm glad you're not 215 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 3: in the air no more. I just told you all 216 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:35,679 Speaker 3: like I have a very sense of resume. I used 217 00:09:35,679 --> 00:09:38,559 Speaker 3: to be a flight attendant for Delta, and it would 218 00:09:38,640 --> 00:09:40,840 Speaker 3: freak my mom and my grandmother out. Whenever they would 219 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 3: hear a plane crash. They would instantly call me, text 220 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:45,520 Speaker 3: me anything they could do. And they still as you 221 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:48,920 Speaker 3: as you guys just saw, they still do it. So again, 222 00:09:49,320 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 3: like me, like the men, the sacrifices I took for this, 223 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:54,839 Speaker 3: we go together real bad and I don't care what 224 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:59,720 Speaker 3: nobody got to say about nothing anywhere at all. Baby, Listen, 225 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 3: w we gonna figure out. We gonna figure this thing out. This, 226 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:06,120 Speaker 3: this is gonna work. Okay, this is gonna be a 227 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 3: Immy nominated show. Okay, mark my words, kinks, bugs and all. 228 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:16,800 Speaker 3: Now let's go on over to the next topic. Uh, 229 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:21,280 Speaker 3: next topic. So Chloe Kardashian. Anytime Chloe decides that she 230 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 3: is going to talk about her love life whatsoever, it 231 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:30,320 Speaker 3: goes insane because we've publicly seen her just just make 232 00:10:30,400 --> 00:10:36,400 Speaker 3: some very like dumb love struck decisions behind Tristan. We 233 00:10:36,520 --> 00:10:39,319 Speaker 3: also have seen her be super supportive and rider die 234 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:41,560 Speaker 3: oh riyder died is right, not the best word for Lamar, 235 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 3: cause he almost did die. But y'all know what I mean. 236 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:48,880 Speaker 3: She sticks by her men regardless of what they're going through, 237 00:10:48,920 --> 00:10:51,440 Speaker 3: what they're putting her through, and what is happening. So 238 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:55,480 Speaker 3: the headline read that Koe that Chloe Kardashian is finally 239 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:58,440 Speaker 3: tired of being a doormat for the men in her life, 240 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 3: including Lamar Odham and Tristan Thompson. And I said, oh baby, 241 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:06,600 Speaker 3: let me read this, because ain't no way my good 242 00:11:06,600 --> 00:11:09,920 Speaker 3: sister's done. She decided to have a whole nother baby 243 00:11:09,960 --> 00:11:12,120 Speaker 3: with Tristan after all of that motor boat in the 244 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:16,559 Speaker 3: Women Jordan Woods, Ain't no way she done now? And 245 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:19,760 Speaker 3: if so, what was the miraculous discovery that she didn't 246 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:24,720 Speaker 3: realize a long time ago. And don't get me wrong, 247 00:11:24,800 --> 00:11:27,560 Speaker 3: like this is not me bashing her. This is me 248 00:11:27,640 --> 00:11:29,680 Speaker 3: being very honest because I've been the dumb girlfriend. 249 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:31,520 Speaker 1: Again. 250 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:33,240 Speaker 3: Back to the Carlos King interview. If you go take 251 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:35,320 Speaker 3: a listen to that Carlos King interview. We talk about 252 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 3: the relationship that I came out of, the ten eleven 253 00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 3: year relationship I came out of. 254 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:40,440 Speaker 1: I've been through a lot. 255 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:44,960 Speaker 3: Okay, babies were had, baby, a baby was had. You know, 256 00:11:45,040 --> 00:11:47,760 Speaker 3: there was cheating, but I cheat back, so you know, 257 00:11:48,440 --> 00:11:50,839 Speaker 3: you know how that go all of that. Like, I've 258 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:54,560 Speaker 3: been through things, and I think it's common for women 259 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:57,439 Speaker 3: to have to You gotta go through it to learn 260 00:11:57,600 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 3: versus being able to walk away when somebody cheats, versus 261 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:02,319 Speaker 3: being able to be like, you know, I'm good when 262 00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:05,439 Speaker 3: you're being mistreated, even if it's not cheating. She was 263 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 3: having a conversation with Kylie and Kendall and they were 264 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 3: talking about the way that she treated Lamar Oldham when 265 00:12:11,480 --> 00:12:14,280 Speaker 3: Lamar Oldham came to pick up some of his stuff 266 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:17,560 Speaker 3: that had been left at one of their houses. And 267 00:12:17,960 --> 00:12:19,880 Speaker 3: if you guys don't know, if you did not see 268 00:12:19,880 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 3: that episode, if you didn't read a recap or anything, 269 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:25,440 Speaker 3: what happened was is when Lamar came over, he was 270 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:27,640 Speaker 3: still kind of on some like, yo, you were the one. 271 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 1: Of the best women in my life. I should have 272 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 1: treated you better. 273 00:12:31,120 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 3: Like if Chloe had said, Okay, come on, I'm gonna 274 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 3: give another chance right then and there, oh baby, Lamar 275 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:39,360 Speaker 3: would have been all down and ford okay. But Chloe 276 00:12:39,400 --> 00:12:41,680 Speaker 3: was heavily not on that the stiff arm was real. 277 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:45,720 Speaker 3: So then they basically say to her. Kendall and Kylie 278 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:48,679 Speaker 3: say to her, look, we understand that you feel how 279 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:51,720 Speaker 3: you feel, but you should learn to forgive. These men 280 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 3: they were talking about Lamar, Oldham and Tristan. They said, 281 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:57,319 Speaker 3: you know, you have kids with Tristan, so you kind 282 00:12:57,320 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 3: of have to y'all have kids together, and you and Lamar, 283 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:01,319 Speaker 3: it's like, hey, what happened. 284 00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:01,720 Speaker 1: Happened? 285 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:04,160 Speaker 3: You got to move on and forgive for yourself, because 286 00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:06,000 Speaker 3: it was obvious that she was still a little, you know, 287 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:09,440 Speaker 3: bothered and upset just by Lamar's presence. But I just 288 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:12,360 Speaker 3: think when you allow for something to happen for so long, 289 00:13:12,920 --> 00:13:15,760 Speaker 3: and you you basically teach a person how to treat you, 290 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 3: and you teach them how to treat you wrong, or 291 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:21,440 Speaker 3: allow for that to happen, I don't really think you 292 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:22,400 Speaker 3: can be mad at them. 293 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 1: For real. I think the anger is very misdirected. 294 00:13:25,559 --> 00:13:29,240 Speaker 3: Where where's the self accountability and these men and the 295 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:30,800 Speaker 3: things that they have, you know what I mean, she's 296 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:33,040 Speaker 3: encountered with them. And I'm not talking about Lamar's addiction 297 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:35,680 Speaker 3: because I think addiction, in my opinion, I'm always going 298 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:38,760 Speaker 3: to say that addiction is something that you can't control 299 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:40,920 Speaker 3: and the things that you do while you're addicted to 300 00:13:40,960 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 3: these things. You know, a lot of times it's not you, 301 00:13:43,440 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 3: it's the addiction. And that doesn't make excuses for things, 302 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:49,240 Speaker 3: you know what I mean. But I think that's just 303 00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:52,920 Speaker 3: a different conversation than like a Tristan. But obviously there 304 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:54,800 Speaker 3: are some addictions over there on Tristan side too. It 305 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:57,280 Speaker 3: just doesn't have anything to do with, you know, drugs 306 00:13:57,320 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 3: that you got to put anywhere. It's drugs that you 307 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:02,840 Speaker 3: got to stick a penis into that don't belong to Chloe, 308 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:05,839 Speaker 3: and that that's the tea. But I think that there 309 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:07,840 Speaker 3: should be some self accountability here, and I think that's 310 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:11,959 Speaker 3: always what's missing with Chloe. It's like, at what point 311 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:14,520 Speaker 3: do you be like, yeah, I set myself up for that, 312 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:17,719 Speaker 3: and she's realizing it now, but it's like why and 313 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:20,000 Speaker 3: I think that honestly too, that there's levels to like, 314 00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:24,320 Speaker 3: you know, hurtful dark breakups and relationships like. 315 00:14:24,560 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 1: Removing yourself from it. There's definitely levels to that. 316 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 3: I remember for myself when I was going through the 317 00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:31,520 Speaker 3: motions of like, Okay, I know I want to leave 318 00:14:31,560 --> 00:14:35,320 Speaker 3: my relationship, but I know because I've allowed certain things 319 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:37,440 Speaker 3: or I've been not okay with certain things, Like I 320 00:14:37,480 --> 00:14:38,640 Speaker 3: wasn't allowing things right in. 321 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:39,360 Speaker 1: My face, I was. 322 00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:43,160 Speaker 3: I was effing stuff up like I wish somebody like 323 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 3: it was like a d no. But there were things 324 00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 3: that were happening that I would be like, okay, thing, 325 00:14:51,080 --> 00:14:53,640 Speaker 3: you know, he's apologizing, moving forward, and then they would 326 00:14:53,640 --> 00:14:56,640 Speaker 3: happen again. It wasn't until probably like the ladder of 327 00:14:56,640 --> 00:14:58,840 Speaker 3: the relationship, so probably like the last three years of 328 00:14:58,880 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 3: the relationship that I even felt secure and comfortable where 329 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:05,480 Speaker 3: I was like, no, things have really changed now and 330 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:08,480 Speaker 3: we're fine. But by that point I was in such 331 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:11,000 Speaker 3: a deep phase of resentment and I was just trying 332 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:13,320 Speaker 3: to like not be there, and I was I just 333 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 3: wasn't happy. 334 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 1: But I tried to push through. I tried to push through. 335 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:18,760 Speaker 1: I tried to push. 336 00:15:18,560 --> 00:15:20,360 Speaker 3: Through, but I had to do that for myself, And 337 00:15:20,360 --> 00:15:22,520 Speaker 3: that's what I'm saying by Chloe of like, it's like 338 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 3: why now, Like I. 339 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 1: Don't believe that Chloe has actually done that. 340 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:29,720 Speaker 3: For herself yet what I just talked about happening with myself, 341 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 3: I don't believe she's done that. And the reason why 342 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:34,240 Speaker 3: I don't believe that she's done that is because she 343 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:36,760 Speaker 3: just had a baby with Tristan. 344 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:39,320 Speaker 1: I believe her son. How old is her son Patrick two? 345 00:15:39,960 --> 00:15:42,640 Speaker 1: Born twenty two, so he's. 346 00:15:42,520 --> 00:15:45,680 Speaker 3: Turning three or he is just turned through turning three 347 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:48,520 Speaker 3: in July. Yes, so that was just two years ago. 348 00:15:48,560 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 3: And that's a lot of time. Don't get me wrong, 349 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:52,680 Speaker 3: That is a lot of time. So maybe you know 350 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:55,680 Speaker 3: what I'm saying. And I know in these episodes she's 351 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:57,960 Speaker 3: showing different things and they're doing different things, and they 352 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 3: were living in separate houses at one point and all stuff. 353 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:03,320 Speaker 1: But I just don't know she's completely really done the work. 354 00:16:03,440 --> 00:16:04,920 Speaker 3: So a lot of times when she jumps out the 355 00:16:04,920 --> 00:16:07,080 Speaker 3: window and makes these statements, it's like, girl, do you just. 356 00:16:07,080 --> 00:16:12,200 Speaker 1: Want a tension or something? Because dull, Like, yes, no 357 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 1: one should use you as a doormat. Duh. The episode 358 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:17,480 Speaker 1: where she was talking to Lamar. 359 00:16:17,680 --> 00:16:21,120 Speaker 3: Was almost like she was mad at Lamar because he 360 00:16:21,440 --> 00:16:23,280 Speaker 3: just came out of it and realized, Yo, you were 361 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:25,720 Speaker 3: such a good woman to me because she fought for him. 362 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 1: She fought literally for his life. She alleged that like. 363 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 3: His dad wanted to pull the plug, and she fought 364 00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:32,400 Speaker 3: back against that and all this stuff. But it's like 365 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:35,440 Speaker 3: he's done. It took him some time to come around. 366 00:16:36,200 --> 00:16:40,160 Speaker 3: You can't be upset that you stayed there during like, 367 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 3: after all of this, you decided to stay around and 368 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:45,800 Speaker 3: do whatever you were doing while you weren't receiving the 369 00:16:45,880 --> 00:16:47,120 Speaker 3: moment that you're getting right now. 370 00:16:48,120 --> 00:16:49,040 Speaker 1: Same thing with Tristan. 371 00:16:50,000 --> 00:16:51,960 Speaker 3: So I'm just I mean, I would say, I'm interested 372 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 3: to see if you know what happens, what backpedaling happens 373 00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:59,640 Speaker 3: after this revelation of her not wanting to be anybody's 374 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:03,280 Speaker 3: doormat again, and if she is even really single, because 375 00:17:03,320 --> 00:17:05,359 Speaker 3: you just never know. With Chloe, I don't think my 376 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:06,680 Speaker 3: girl's done with Tristan. 377 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:07,240 Speaker 1: Number one. 378 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:10,160 Speaker 3: I don't think she's done being a welcome to my apartment, 379 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:11,959 Speaker 3: welcome to my home, Welcome to my mansion. 380 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:14,840 Speaker 1: Doormat number two and number. 381 00:17:14,640 --> 00:17:19,879 Speaker 3: Three, I wouldn't be surprised if she literally, if she 382 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 3: did move on, if she ended up back in the 383 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:24,119 Speaker 3: same situation, because again, I don't think that she's just 384 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:26,840 Speaker 3: in a place where she's ready to take accountability for 385 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:32,400 Speaker 3: allowing certain things, and that means she's gonna allow it again. Yeah, whoo, 386 00:17:33,320 --> 00:17:43,640 Speaker 3: that story must tricker me m y'all men, be really mening. Okay, ah, y'all, 387 00:17:43,720 --> 00:17:47,480 Speaker 3: this has been the latest with Laura le Rosa. As always, 388 00:17:47,880 --> 00:17:50,160 Speaker 3: I'm the homegirl that knows a little bit about everybody 389 00:17:50,600 --> 00:17:53,160 Speaker 3: and everything, and at the end of the day, y'all 390 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:56,040 Speaker 3: could be anywhere with anyone talking about these things. But 391 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:58,920 Speaker 3: y'all are right here with me, so y'all know I 392 00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:02,320 Speaker 3: appreciate you, guys. I'll see you guys in my next episode.