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Speaker 1: This is the almost famous podcast with on our radio.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back, everybody, It's the almost famous og podcast. It's

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Speaker 1: Trista back with you today. I'm so so excited because

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Speaker 1: today I get to deep dive with someone you all

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Speaker 1: know and love me too. She's a friend of mine

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Speaker 1: from Gosh. I guess it's probably eleven years ago, since

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Speaker 1: she's well, maybe ten, because she's been married for almost

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Speaker 1: eleven years. Crazy. We first met her on season seventeen

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Speaker 1: of The Bachelor with Sean Lowe, and then again when

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Speaker 1: she was the star of the Bachelorette for season nine.

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Speaker 1: Please welcome Desire Siegfried. All right, beautiful, how are you?

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Speaker 1: How is life? How are the babies.

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Speaker 2: I'm good.

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Speaker 3: I've been so busy, I mean, having the new little guys,

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Speaker 3: like really, I mean has changed our world in the

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Speaker 3: best way. But I'm just I literally I can't believe,

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Speaker 3: like a year has already almost gone by, Like I

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Speaker 3: don't know, I just can't even.

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Speaker 2: I just can't, like for real, he's almost a year old. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: he's almost a year old already. Yeah, it's crazy.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I you know, we considered having more, but

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Speaker 1: because of the way my body handled pregnancies, I was like, yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: we're done, and we got a boy and a girl,

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Speaker 1: so we're good. So how is it? Like I always

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Speaker 1: heard that having a third makes things exponentially harder. How

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it's just he's just so busy, Like

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Speaker 3: I think he's just trying to keep up with his brothers.

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Speaker 3: So it's like, I just I just have never known

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Speaker 3: a busy like he is, like so busy, Like he

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Speaker 3: has the biggest fomo I have ever seen in anyone.

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Speaker 2: Except maybe his dad Chris is got fomo. So yeah,

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Speaker 2: he's got it. It's super cute. Yeah, it's super cute.

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Speaker 3: I mean it is challenging because I'm homeschooling too, so

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Speaker 3: I'm I'm trying.

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Speaker 2: To just navigate, like I'm navigating.

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Speaker 3: The best I can, you know, and he's he's actually

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Speaker 3: a really great baby, so he makes it.

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Speaker 2: He makes it fun. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Good. And the boys are just they just love on him,

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Speaker 1: or the big wrestlers or what are they just.

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Speaker 2: I mean they wrestle each other. But yeah, oh it's

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Speaker 2: so cute. It's so cute. I don't think like anyone

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Speaker 2: can prepare you for just like watching you're older, because

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Speaker 2: we have the age gap.

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Speaker 3: You know, we have six years from Xander to Noah.

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Speaker 2: And it's really fun to see how.

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Speaker 3: The older boys, like, you know, he wakes up from

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Speaker 3: this boy is gonna like not know what it's like

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Speaker 3: to not have people, you know, loving on him at

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's and that's a really good problem to have.

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Speaker 1: I love that. I love that they are just and

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Speaker 1: because they're home and homeschooling, like they truly are there

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Speaker 1: all the time. How is the homeschooling going. Are you

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Speaker 1: enjoying it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I mean to be completely honest, I like in the beginning,

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Speaker 3: I was like, absolutely not, I will never homeschool, Like, oh,

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Speaker 3: I could never because I wasn't a stay at home

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Speaker 3: and so I think in your mind when you're doing

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Speaker 3: But in hindsight, I realize it's only we just say

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Speaker 3: homeschooling has been the biggest blessing I have ever. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: like the blessing I didn't know I needed. So I

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Speaker 1: I love that. I love that. Yeah, I'm definitely one

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it's definitely yeah, there's definitely like you know,

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Speaker 3: there's definitely some challenges that you work through it and

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Speaker 3: then it's just so it's so great. Like I think

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Speaker 3: And I don't know, I think that's been the greatest

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Speaker 3: joy of just being able to see like what motivates them,

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Speaker 1: Oh of course, my gosh, that is a huge blessing.

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Speaker 1: Just more time, I mean, as I think, you know,

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Speaker 3: I know, think that they'll stay they'll stay in it

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Speaker 3: near you do you think that they'll stay in Colorado?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Actually, Max has twenty schools on his list right now.

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Speaker 1: That is just because the only thing he really said

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Speaker 1: Inside. So Ryan and I have just added schools onto

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Speaker 1: So that should be fun. But yeah, it is a

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Speaker 1: crazy journey. Does buckle up your seatbelt because holy cow.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, I have friends who have like, you know,

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Speaker 1: I mean we are, especially with all boys.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like they're already I feel like they're.

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Speaker 2: Sports and oh, in their shoes like they're stinky.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, oh my gosh. Okay, So we are on

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Speaker 1: the OG podcast, so we do have to take it

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Speaker 1: back all the way to the beginning. So can you

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Speaker 1: tell all of our listeners how you got started, Like,

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Speaker 1: did you nominate yourself or did someone else nominate you?

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Speaker 1: For Sean season? Did you know who Sean was? All

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Speaker 2: Sure, Yeah, let's go back into memory lane.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I still felt so ready. It's so funny as you

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Speaker 3: Yeah six, But no, I was just in a time

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Speaker 3: It was like the time of life where I was

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Speaker 3: Looks I mean, this is what's going in my head.

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Speaker 3: I literally was like that looks easy.

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Speaker 3: Because because I had always had guy friends and I

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Speaker 3: So I I think I just sat on it for

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Speaker 3: It was perfect timing because I didn't know when they

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Speaker 3: Gave me the contract, I was just like I read

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Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, that's probably that's probably it.

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Speaker 3: Like I was working NonStop, I didn't have time to

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Speaker 3: Was all just so surreal because I'm like, I'm very

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Speaker 3: just like, what, like, you're going on to writing.

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Speaker 1: About the show, Yeah, totally, to just I can see that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, to just be like, yeah, this is me and

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Speaker 3: and yeah, I just really left it. I honestly left

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Speaker 3: it to my faith. I was like, you know, God,

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Speaker 3: if this is a door that's gonna open, like great,

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Speaker 2: And if it doesn't, like I'm totally fine.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I feel like we have similar stories in that. Obviously,

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Speaker 1: you know the show had been going on before you

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Speaker 2: You were the first. Yeah, because I was.

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Speaker 1: You know, yeah, and then flash forward to God giving

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Speaker 1: Okay, So back to Sean season. Were you and Catherine close?

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Speaker 1: Like you you went and tell what when did he

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Speaker 3: After hometowns, after my big brother, you know, my brother,

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I totally remember. The whole world was like,

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Speaker 1: Do you still talk to him? I mean, are you

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Speaker 2: But that's fine, that's the beauty.

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Speaker 1: Of it's all good. Yeah, it is what it is. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I don't know who they were talking to.

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Speaker 3: And we went from like Airbnb to Airbnb, and and

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Speaker 2: Like every morning I'm like can I go home?

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Speaker 3: Like can I please go home like I mean also

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Speaker 3: That they called me to ask and start talking about

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Speaker 3: And at that point, I don't know, I think I

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't say I was like I never got to

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you get back to life. You get asked

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Speaker 1: back then? Were you like, Eh, this isn't going to

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Speaker 1: had a good chance Because for me, it was like

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Speaker 1: And I've always said, like they're going to find a

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Speaker 2: You know, yeah, Oh, I mean that's that's a good No.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't there. No, I was like, you were no.

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Speaker 2: There wasn't like not to There wasn't a problem of

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I was like, yes, I'm doing

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Speaker 3: And you know, I didn't have roots anywhere, so I

442
00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:05,920
Speaker 3: was open to moving anywhere as long as there was

443
00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:08,600
Speaker 3: like water in the West coast.

444
00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:13,520
Speaker 2: But but yeah, I don't know.

445
00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:16,320
Speaker 3: I was open to it, and so once I decided,

446
00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:19,080
Speaker 3: I was, you know, I was all in. But I

447
00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:22,280
Speaker 3: also didn't want to put too much pressure on meeting

448
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:27,639
Speaker 3: my husband in that group, and so I never would say, like,

449
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:32,119
Speaker 3: my husband's in the group, not until yeah, like you know,

450
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:34,040
Speaker 3: it's the first night. I'm like, I don't know if

451
00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:35,960
Speaker 3: you're my husband, right?

452
00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:40,440
Speaker 1: Yes, that's so funny. Yeah, but you say it like that,

453
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:46,600
Speaker 1: I love it. So I want to know, was when

454
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:53,919
Speaker 1: you saw Chris was it like, ah, I love it

455
00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:59,440
Speaker 1: for sight kind of situation or when did you really

456
00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:01,359
Speaker 1: think he could be my one?

457
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:07,800
Speaker 2: Yeah? He had the best limo entrant and trance.

458
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 1: What was it? Remind me? I can't remember.

459
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:12,680
Speaker 3: He just got to show his personality. He was super

460
00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 3: nervous though, so he was a little shaky. But he

461
00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:18,679
Speaker 3: got down on one knee and then said like and

462
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:19,840
Speaker 3: then he said, do you mind?

463
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 2: What did you say?

464
00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:24,359
Speaker 3: Do you mind if I'd tie my shoe or something?

465
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:26,040
Speaker 3: And then he said, I just wanted to get off

466
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:26,800
Speaker 3: on the right foot.

467
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:32,360
Speaker 1: Like but it was so funny, it's so cute.

468
00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 3: It's so his like quirky personality, and so it was

469
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:40,119
Speaker 3: good because it made me laugh, and you know, I

470
00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:43,960
Speaker 3: was super awkward that like standing there just like with

471
00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:45,240
Speaker 3: guys coming, I'm like, I.

472
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:48,280
Speaker 2: Don't know what to say. Do I say? You know

473
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 2: what I mean? I was super awkward a lot of times.

474
00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:54,760
Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean it's.

475
00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:57,639
Speaker 3: Definitely interesting to look back because I'm like, wow, like

476
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:00,040
Speaker 3: not my personality.

477
00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:03,920
Speaker 2: To like why did they choose me? But but.

478
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:07,520
Speaker 1: Of course they we know why they chose you. I

479
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 1: mean for all of the reasons. But I mean, I

480
00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:12,840
Speaker 1: think it's so funny thinking about it because it really

481
00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:16,280
Speaker 1: isn't your like cup of tea, no.

482
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,080
Speaker 3: No, but you know, that's what really helped us stay

483
00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 3: together and like not focused on what would come next,

484
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:26,920
Speaker 3: but actually just going going to to like our back

485
00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:30,320
Speaker 3: to our life and really growing something that wasn't based

486
00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:31,719
Speaker 3: off what we can do next.

487
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:35,080
Speaker 2: And I think that helped.

488
00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:37,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that's how it was for me and

489
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:40,240
Speaker 1: Ryan for sure. I feel like that's one of the secrets.

490
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:44,879
Speaker 1: And it's really interesting because you and I and our

491
00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:48,560
Speaker 1: hobbies and I think Jojo and Jordan were kind of

492
00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 1: the same in that they disappeared and you know, I

493
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:55,679
Speaker 1: feel like they disappeared and went back to their life

494
00:25:55,720 --> 00:26:00,359
Speaker 1: and like startup businesses and whatever. I wonder because the

495
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:02,320
Speaker 1: three of us, I don't know if there's any other

496
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 1: bachelorettes who are still married. Obviously Ashley and Rachel got

497
00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:08,320
Speaker 1: married and then got divorced, so I don't know if

498
00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 1: we're including them. But like, that's really interesting because I

499
00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 1: feel like there's something to that, like not focusing on,

500
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:21,199
Speaker 1: you know, the things that are going on in the

501
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:23,880
Speaker 1: whirlwind and really just focusing on your relationship.

502
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:25,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think so.

503
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:29,160
Speaker 3: I also think what I've noticed too is when both

504
00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 3: parties are interested in fame or which is not a

505
00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:37,840
Speaker 3: bad thing to want from it, but it's but I mean,

506
00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:40,160
Speaker 3: I do see that when both.

507
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:45,639
Speaker 2: Are pursuing that, then you're in competition with each other,

508
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:46,680
Speaker 2: you know.

509
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:50,600
Speaker 3: And it's like because you know, if one's gonna get

510
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:53,480
Speaker 3: mad that the other is getting more attention, And I

511
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 3: don't know, Yep, you would hope.

512
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:58,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right, you were right. But but the fact

513
00:26:58,200 --> 00:26:59,639
Speaker 1: of the matter is that we come off of the

514
00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:02,120
Speaker 1: show and we haven't known each other for that long,

515
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:05,960
Speaker 1: so we don't have like that really strong foundation of

516
00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:09,360
Speaker 1: you know, a friendship or years of knowing each other.

517
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 1: So yeah, I feel like you really got to buckle

518
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:17,160
Speaker 1: down and get to know each other. Oh yeah, okay,

519
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 1: so have you heard because well, I guess first of all,

520
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:23,200
Speaker 1: I should talk about the fact that you just did

521
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:26,119
Speaker 1: like a major social media cleanse, So tell us about

522
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 1: that you were you were off, like are you feeling lighter?

523
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:35,160
Speaker 6: And yeah, so I'm not a huge like browser or anything,

524
00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:39,080
Speaker 6: but it's still like there's still so much poll, right,

525
00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:42,239
Speaker 6: like even just having it on your phone and just

526
00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:44,880
Speaker 6: having and if you are posting, then there's even more

527
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:46,480
Speaker 6: poll because you're like checking.

528
00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 4: And no.

529
00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:51,080
Speaker 3: I just felt led for the summer to take off

530
00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:53,640
Speaker 3: social media, and so I was only gonna do two

531
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 3: months and then it turned into four months because I

532
00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:59,680
Speaker 3: got so good at it, and then I.

533
00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:02,879
Speaker 2: Don't know, yeah, I mean it felt great. Honestly, it

534
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:03,560
Speaker 2: was amazing.

535
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 3: Like Chris would be like, you know, stuff happened in

536
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:08,919
Speaker 3: the world, and you know, I'd.

537
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:11,640
Speaker 2: Be so like what you know, and just live in.

538
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 1: My life, and I'm just gonna live in my life.

539
00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:14,960
Speaker 2: I loved it because.

540
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:17,760
Speaker 3: I yeah, I loved it because you know, I I

541
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:21,639
Speaker 3: am also very empathetic, so like even reading people's like

542
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:25,680
Speaker 3: hard stories, like I would find myself thinking about that

543
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:28,359
Speaker 3: the next day, or like you're and I'm like, why

544
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:31,720
Speaker 3: am I carrying everybody's like stuff when I need to

545
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 3: be focusing on my family, my marriage, myself.

546
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:39,560
Speaker 2: And I don't know. It was beautiful.

547
00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:43,240
Speaker 3: I honestly recommend it to anybody because it just created

548
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 3: a new intention and you can have both.

549
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 2: And I think that's the key.

550
00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:53,280
Speaker 3: You don't have to break helps get you started, but

551
00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 3: you can have a healthy relationship with social media. You know,

552
00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 3: you just can't let it boss you around and you know,

553
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 3: control your impulses and control your thoughts and control everything.

554
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 2: Reach ah.

555
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 1: Man, I just wish that I could do it, I know,

556
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 1: because you know, it is my job and so or

557
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:23,040
Speaker 1: one of my jobs, and so I yeah, it's so hard.

558
00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:25,680
Speaker 1: It's so hard because I get caught up in the

559
00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 1: in the scroll. And then also you know, with my

560
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:32,840
Speaker 1: kid being a senior, like I literally just finished this,

561
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 1: like I got nominated to post ten pictures for ten

562
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:39,520
Speaker 1: days or whatever, you know, a senior, and so it

563
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 1: just got me like on my phone all the time

564
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 1: because I'm going down the rabbit hole of looking for

565
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:48,080
Speaker 1: pictures and video and you know all the things. And

566
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:51,360
Speaker 1: with him like graduating soon, like we're going to have

567
00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 1: to like pull up pictures and take pictures all the things. Right, So, yes,

568
00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:59,640
Speaker 1: I have found myself glued to my phone. I really

569
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:00,719
Speaker 1: need to disconnect.

570
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:03,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, the biggest tip that I like, that helped for

571
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 3: me because we we've been doing it for years, so

572
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:09,720
Speaker 3: it's a habit. Like you literally pick up your phone

573
00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 3: and your son goes like right there and you're like,

574
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:16,800
Speaker 3: I didn't even mean to so for me because I am,

575
00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 3: my photos are right next to Instagram, and so when

576
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:23,560
Speaker 3: I felt that impulse, I would go to my photos

577
00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 3: and look at albums from the boys when they were little,

578
00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:31,280
Speaker 3: and oh my gosh, it created like this new gratitude

579
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:34,440
Speaker 3: for my life in the present because I would look

580
00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:36,720
Speaker 3: back and just be so moved, you.

581
00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:40,920
Speaker 2: Know, by like when they were babies, or even just

582
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:42,720
Speaker 2: Chris and I and we look like babies.

583
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my gosh, Like it was so worth it,

584
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 3: right because I spent say, like you're like, I spent

585
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 3: thirty minutes scrolling my family, you know, getting filled with

586
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 3: like newfound gratitude for my life or I could you know,

587
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:04,880
Speaker 3: you know, scroll Instagram and is that what does that do.

588
00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:05,400
Speaker 2: For my brain?

589
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:09,160
Speaker 1: Oh? I don't even want to think about it. I

590
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 1: know Okay, let's get onto a new topic. So okay,

591
00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 1: so since you had the social media like break cleanse whatever,

592
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 1: we were calling it, genius idea, Uh, you might not

593
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:25,960
Speaker 1: know about the next bachelorette. Do you know who the

594
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 1: next bachelorette is?

595
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:27,680
Speaker 2: I did hear?

596
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:28,080
Speaker 3: Yeah?

597
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 2: What's her name?

598
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:32,240
Speaker 1: Taylor Taylor, Taylor, Frankie, Paul frank.

599
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:35,280
Speaker 2: I was gonna say Taylor Paul Frankie, Taylor, Taylor, Frankie Paul.

600
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:41,280
Speaker 1: Yeap. She is from the Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.

601
00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:44,040
Speaker 1: Have you do you know who she is? Have you

602
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 1: watched the show before?

603
00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 3: Yeah?

604
00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:50,600
Speaker 2: I know who she is and the gist I guess of.

605
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 3: What the whole show was about, and like the sex scandal,

606
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:59,480
Speaker 3: and I think she got another divorce, was it?

607
00:31:59,560 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 2: Okay?

608
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 3: Yep?

609
00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 2: I think I have the biography.

610
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:06,560
Speaker 1: Down, got it? So what are your thoughts?

611
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 2: I don't know. I mean, I can see why they need.

612
00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 3: They want someone to revive the show and to create

613
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:15,680
Speaker 3: that buzz.

614
00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:18,680
Speaker 2: So I think that's great. I think that's wonderful. I

615
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:19,600
Speaker 2: think she will bring that.

616
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:24,000
Speaker 3: I don't know her personally, Like I don't watch the show,

617
00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 3: so I don't actually know what kind.

618
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 2: Of drama ensues.

619
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:29,840
Speaker 3: But I will say we did have a friend that

620
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:32,480
Speaker 3: was being pursued to be the Bachelor because they were

621
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 3: also going to revive The Bachelor, and so they were

622
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 3: eyeing people who might have you know, they.

623
00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:40,720
Speaker 2: Were going to do a new Bachelor, and.

624
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:44,680
Speaker 3: You know, then they were like they called them back, like, oh, like,

625
00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:47,400
Speaker 3: we're not going to pursue that because did you see

626
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 3: who we have for bachelorette?

627
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:52,240
Speaker 2: And he's like yeah, and then they're like, would you

628
00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:52,800
Speaker 2: like to be on?

629
00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 3: And you know, I think what it comes down to

630
00:32:57,280 --> 00:33:01,360
Speaker 3: is if there's wife material there, yep, because like our

631
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 3: friends like, no, absolutely not.

632
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:06,200
Speaker 2: But you know that's where I'm like, I don't know.

633
00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:08,680
Speaker 3: What kind of pool of guys we're going to see

634
00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:13,040
Speaker 3: and yell, serious they're going to be because of course

635
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:15,280
Speaker 3: they don't want a dater of course.

636
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:20,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's gorgeous, Yeah, and she's funny, and you know

637
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 1: she's if you are drawn to fame at all, she's

638
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:27,720
Speaker 1: famous and you know all of these things. So yeah,

639
00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 1: I'm very interested. Ben and I for almost Famous did

640
00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 1: a podcast when when it was announced, and I have

641
00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 1: the very same like same sentiments like I'm just interested

642
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 1: to see I think it was a good idea to

643
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 1: pull someone from another show who already has a fan base,

644
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:49,120
Speaker 1: who's not from The Bachelor a Bachelorette. But I am

645
00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:51,360
Speaker 1: really interested to see who the guys are going to

646
00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 1: be and and what the support is going to be

647
00:33:55,800 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 1: because a lot of people I feel like, we're like, no,

648
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:04,480
Speaker 1: I'm not going to watch because you know, she's had

649
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:10,280
Speaker 1: she has a history, Like I guess she was accused

650
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:15,839
Speaker 1: of domestic violence. I think she was in jail, and yeah,

651
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,640
Speaker 1: she has She's had a couple, she's had. I think

652
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 1: she has three kids, maybe with maybe two different I

653
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 1: don't know her bio as well as I probably should,

654
00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:28,520
Speaker 1: but regardless, I'm like, she's one of us. Okay, one divorce.

655
00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:34,879
Speaker 1: She's had one divorce, and yeah, I don't know her,

656
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:40,680
Speaker 1: but I feel like everyone deserves love and forgiveness, and

657
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 1: so if she is serious about it and it's going

658
00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 1: to be entertaining, then why not do it? Like I'm

659
00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 1: I'm going to welcome her with open arms to our chick.

660
00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:54,360
Speaker 2: I think it's going to be extremely entertaining.

661
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 3: And I think that's why it is a good choice,

662
00:34:56,680 --> 00:35:00,759
Speaker 3: because if that's you know, it's going to be.

663
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:04,080
Speaker 1: She's unapologetic to who she is, Like she's like, listen,

664
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 1: this is me and this is who I'm going to be.

665
00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:08,480
Speaker 1: And I have a lot of respect for that. Like

666
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 1: I agree, like me or not, this is who I am.

667
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:13,280
Speaker 1: So whatever.

668
00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:16,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I love it. I think that's great. Yeah,

669
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 2: I'll be interested to see the guys.

670
00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:31,880
Speaker 1: I know me too. Okay, So what would you give

671
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 1: her in terms of advice from you know, me and you?

672
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:38,920
Speaker 1: It's funny because I get this question and I'm like,

673
00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 1: our world has changed so much and I don't even

674
00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:45,600
Speaker 1: know if the advice that I would give is applicable

675
00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:50,400
Speaker 1: because it was so long ago. I mean twenty almost

676
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:53,800
Speaker 1: by almost twenty five years ago.

677
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:58,960
Speaker 2: That's incredible. So you guys are awesome. You guys are goals.

678
00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 2: That's a goal. I love it.

679
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:07,360
Speaker 1: Thank you so cute every day. But so I feel

680
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:10,239
Speaker 1: like the advice that I would give is maybe a

681
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:13,719
Speaker 1: little irrelevant. But what would you say something that might

682
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:14,840
Speaker 1: help her in her journey?

683
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 2: Yeah? It is, It is true.

684
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:20,279
Speaker 3: I mean they have to navigate a like we I

685
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 3: did navigate social media when it was like brand new,

686
00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:26,839
Speaker 3: and people were like, I'm so excited to just tell

687
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:28,719
Speaker 3: you everything that they thought about you.

688
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:32,440
Speaker 2: But I feel like, you know, they grew That sounds

689
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:32,880
Speaker 2: so crazy.

690
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 3: They grew up in this world social media.

691
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:39,440
Speaker 2: Oh my god, how old is that?

692
00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:39,759
Speaker 6: I know?

693
00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 1: But oh I know right well, you look amazing by

694
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:46,799
Speaker 1: the way, Oh you're sissy, You look amazing. You have

695
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:47,640
Speaker 1: not changed a bit.

696
00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:51,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I honestly it's hard to say.

697
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:54,440
Speaker 3: It's so hard to say, because I would say, you know,

698
00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:57,400
Speaker 3: put your like, put your relationship first.

699
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 2: Like, But for saying like advice for the show, because.

700
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 1: No advice for her like in her journey on Bachelorette.

701
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:08,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think she's got it because she's been on

702
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:12,280
Speaker 3: reality TV. I don't think she needs advice on being

703
00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:15,279
Speaker 3: on the show. I think she's gonna kill it and

704
00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:19,279
Speaker 3: be awesome to watch. In terms of relationship though, yeah,

705
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:22,040
Speaker 3: I think that if she's really.

706
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:24,839
Speaker 2: Serious about the guy, to truly focus on that.

707
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:29,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, agreed, Yeah, great advice. Do you talk to any

708
00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:33,200
Speaker 1: of the guys from your season obviously besides your husband?

709
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:35,959
Speaker 3: Yeah, we used to stay in touch with quite a few,

710
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:39,799
Speaker 3: but you know, life everyone started having kids and you know,

711
00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 3: life happened. But yeah, we I mean we stayed Chris

712
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:45,719
Speaker 3: stayed in touch with like the four that he kind

713
00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 3: of hung out with.

714
00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:49,840
Speaker 1: But yeah, now we no, not really.

715
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:52,680
Speaker 3: No, not unless people came up to Seattle when we

716
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 3: were in Seattle, then maybe we would see them.

717
00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:58,800
Speaker 1: Okay, And Chris never watched the show? Is that still true?

718
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 2: He was the show, He just didn't he watched the show.

719
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:05,440
Speaker 1: Oh I thought he never watched it.

720
00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 2: No, he watched it. Yeah, he watched the show. I

721
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:09,399
Speaker 2: would watch ahead of.

722
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 3: Time, and sometimes I'd be like I would just warn him,

723
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:15,399
Speaker 3: you know, like, oh, got it, maybe you shouldn't watch

724
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:19,080
Speaker 3: this episode or like watch it knowing him He watched

725
00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:23,360
Speaker 3: it regardless, but I would just say, like, you know,

726
00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:25,960
Speaker 3: this might be one you could sit out.

727
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:26,600
Speaker 2: Got it.

728
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,480
Speaker 1: Maybe that's what I'm getting wrong is maybe there was

729
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 1: an episode that he didn't watch.

730
00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:32,520
Speaker 2: Probably yeadly.

731
00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:37,520
Speaker 1: Okay, So will you or have you shown the boys

732
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 1: any of the show And do they understand that that's

733
00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:41,839
Speaker 1: where you met?

734
00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:45,280
Speaker 2: No, so not yet. And so this is it's funny

735
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:46,239
Speaker 2: because this is like.

736
00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:50,520
Speaker 3: We're on the cusp of that where Yeah, I actually

737
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:53,759
Speaker 3: just told Chris like the other week, like I think

738
00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:55,960
Speaker 3: it's time, like we really need to, you know, sit

739
00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:58,359
Speaker 3: down with them and talk to them, because I mean

740
00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:00,439
Speaker 3: but you know what, because we live in a world

741
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:04,239
Speaker 3: of social media and podcast and Chris's work is very

742
00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:06,600
Speaker 3: like sales, so he puts himself out there.

743
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:08,799
Speaker 2: I don't think they understand that.

744
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:11,520
Speaker 3: They know that people might come up to us, but

745
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:14,880
Speaker 3: you know, mom has a podcast or had a podcast.

746
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:16,879
Speaker 2: And dad does this, so it doesn't.

747
00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:19,600
Speaker 3: Ring a bell that like, oh, it might be something bigger,

748
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:20,920
Speaker 3: so we'll see.

749
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:22,520
Speaker 2: I don't know, We're gonna have.

750
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 1: To kind of see I might be in the works.

751
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:29,840
Speaker 1: Do they know, like I assume that when you're traveling,

752
00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:32,000
Speaker 1: because I feel like when we're traveling that way, you

753
00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:34,920
Speaker 1: get asked the most to have pictures taken. Do they

754
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:39,080
Speaker 1: have they started to sense like, well, that's weird. Why

755
00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 1: would that person who we've never met before or want

756
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:42,800
Speaker 1: a picture of my mom and dad?

757
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 3: I know. I think my my oldest has always been

758
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 3: so inquisitive and like observing, so he always would just

759
00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:54,440
Speaker 3: be like looking at them. But again I don't think

760
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:57,040
Speaker 3: he I think because of their world of YouTube and

761
00:39:57,080 --> 00:40:00,359
Speaker 3: their world of podcasts, like I think they I just

762
00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:02,600
Speaker 3: don't think anything's.

763
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:06,520
Speaker 1: Weird totally, and they don't need to right now. That's

764
00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:08,759
Speaker 1: totally fine. I just didn't know if they were kind

765
00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:11,279
Speaker 1: of clued into it yet or have asked you. No,

766
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:13,960
Speaker 1: they why is that person taking a picture?

767
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 2: Yeah?

768
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:17,839
Speaker 3: Quite honestly, I'm really surprised that they haven't heard from

769
00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:18,440
Speaker 3: someone else.

770
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:21,640
Speaker 1: But you know, well, that's what I was wondering, because

771
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:25,440
Speaker 1: I feel like they're getting old enough to have friends

772
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:28,920
Speaker 1: who are like, hey, my mom was just saying this,

773
00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:33,759
Speaker 1: or we saw you on my computer or whatever, you

774
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 1: know whatever, Yeah, whatever it is. Yeah, I really it's coming.

775
00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:38,240
Speaker 1: I think it's coming.

776
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:43,200
Speaker 3: I think we're gonna sit down with them soon so

777
00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:45,919
Speaker 3: that they know so it's not like an awkward thing.

778
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:52,399
Speaker 1: But yeah, wait, you're famous. People know who you are.

779
00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:56,319
Speaker 1: And I hate using the word famous, but yeah, but

780
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 1: people know who you are. Like that's great.

781
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:02,399
Speaker 3: I know I'm at the because it's been thirteen years now,

782
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:04,399
Speaker 3: so yeah, I'm at the place.

783
00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 2: Of like did we go to school together? How do

784
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:10,800
Speaker 2: I know you? I know you from somewhere.

785
00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:13,520
Speaker 1: That is always my go to.

786
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:18,200
Speaker 3: I would love to take a poll on like when

787
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 3: someone says that, do they do they prefer if I

788
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:25,560
Speaker 3: just tell them like, oh, well did you watch the Bachelorette?

789
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:28,600
Speaker 2: Or would they prefer I.

790
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:31,120
Speaker 3: Didn't say anything and then it's just as it's the

791
00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:33,640
Speaker 3: same awkwardness, Like I don't know, maybe I guess could

792
00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:34,240
Speaker 3: do a plan.

793
00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:37,200
Speaker 1: Now, because I do kind of half and half. Like

794
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:39,239
Speaker 1: there are times when I'm like, I'm just going to

795
00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:41,440
Speaker 1: say it because it seems like they're going to be

796
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:44,719
Speaker 1: annoyed if they can't figure it out, and then I'm

797
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:48,960
Speaker 1: like other times I'm like, oh, really I look familiar. Well, okay, great,

798
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:51,440
Speaker 1: yeah I must look like one of your friends or something.

799
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:55,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll be like I have a very familiar face exactly.

800
00:41:55,680 --> 00:42:00,040
Speaker 1: I have said that so often. Yes, so true, I

801
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:02,360
Speaker 1: did have someone since you were off of social media,

802
00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:05,400
Speaker 1: maybe wouldn't have seen this and not that like with

803
00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:08,600
Speaker 1: the algorithm rory them and everything. We've been following each

804
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:11,320
Speaker 1: other for hours, but I still don't see everyone's stuff.

805
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:15,400
Speaker 1: But I was talking about how I was playing pickupball

806
00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:17,880
Speaker 1: the other day and a ball came onto my court

807
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:20,279
Speaker 1: with this lady came over to get her ball and

808
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:23,839
Speaker 1: she was like, oh my gosh, you're the bachelorette. And

809
00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:27,520
Speaker 1: I was like, oh hi, how are you, and she goes,

810
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 1: I am so old. I watched your show and I

811
00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:33,360
Speaker 1: was like, wait a second.

812
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:39,840
Speaker 2: You're like you're not okay.

813
00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:45,400
Speaker 1: Literally, I was like, whoa, Okay. I mean, I know

814
00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:50,239
Speaker 1: you're not intending to insult me, but or call me old.

815
00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:53,200
Speaker 1: That's not the intention. She was super sweet, but I

816
00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:56,200
Speaker 1: was kind of like, well, like, I don't want to

817
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:59,520
Speaker 1: be called old. It's the same thing. I'm sure you've

818
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:03,040
Speaker 1: gotten this before where people are like, oh, you look

819
00:43:03,120 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 1: so much better than you did on television or whatever.

820
00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:08,759
Speaker 3: To say that I was I was just gonna say that,

821
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:10,400
Speaker 3: I was gonna say in the beginning.

822
00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:13,600
Speaker 2: In the beginning, right off the show, they'd be like, oh,

823
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:14,360
Speaker 2: you're I.

824
00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:16,400
Speaker 3: Don't I don't know if they said so much prettier

825
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:20,880
Speaker 3: than like or but or they said even prettier.

826
00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:23,400
Speaker 2: But I still was like, well.

827
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:27,880
Speaker 1: That's rude because I'm the same person whether I'm on

828
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:30,480
Speaker 1: I'm on television or in real life. Like, I'm the

829
00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:34,840
Speaker 1: same person. So you're literally criticizing me, yeah, while giving

830
00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:36,239
Speaker 1: me a compliment at the same time.

831
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:38,040
Speaker 2: That's so funny, I don't.

832
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:41,160
Speaker 1: I mean, people have great intentions, and I feel like

833
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 1: I if I was meeting someone that I not looked

834
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:48,560
Speaker 1: up to is not the right word, but that I

835
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:50,839
Speaker 1: watched in my living room and felt like I knew them,

836
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:53,399
Speaker 1: then I would definitely feel flustered. So I don't hold

837
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:56,479
Speaker 1: it against them, but I am like, yeah, it makes

838
00:43:56,560 --> 00:43:59,839
Speaker 1: me think more about what I say to people.

839
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 2: Right, I agree with that Ross Yeah.

840
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:06,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So what are you going to do for

841
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:08,800
Speaker 1: Noah's birthday? Any plans?

842
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:10,560
Speaker 2: No plans.

843
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 3: I wanted to just keep a small family a smash cake,

844
00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:18,640
Speaker 3: and then the boys are like, we need balloons and

845
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:22,280
Speaker 3: friends over and can we have like a bounce house?

846
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 2: And like, oh my gosh, that's like that's your birthday.

847
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:32,960
Speaker 1: That's a birthday, yes, right, remember it? He's one. Yeah,

848
00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:36,440
Speaker 1: that's cute. Okay, last thing before I let you go,

849
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:38,960
Speaker 1: please tell us about your book.

850
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:42,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, well I wrote I wrote too.

851
00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:45,600
Speaker 3: So the first one was okay, tell us about both

852
00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:49,400
Speaker 3: on twenty two I don't even know when, and that

853
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:51,279
Speaker 3: was Road to Roses And so that's more of a

854
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:54,719
Speaker 3: biography of like how I got in the show my

855
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:58,040
Speaker 3: feelings towards that. Actually I feel like it like walks

856
00:44:58,040 --> 00:45:01,560
Speaker 3: through my whole entire dating history, which is quite interesting,

857
00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:04,359
Speaker 3: I guess. But it's funny because that was what four

858
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:06,879
Speaker 3: years ago I wrote it, and I'm like, so much

859
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:09,120
Speaker 3: has already changed in like what you would you know,

860
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:14,440
Speaker 3: put out there, But yeah, it's my journey to motherhood

861
00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:18,440
Speaker 3: and so that's much more personal about me. And then

862
00:45:18,640 --> 00:45:22,240
Speaker 3: what I wrote Faith Unlocked, which is to help people

863
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:26,240
Speaker 3: walk through their faith journey. Yeah, whether they're just getting

864
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:30,080
Speaker 3: started or seasoned believer, just to get closer to amazing.

865
00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:30,520
Speaker 2: Yeah.

866
00:45:30,600 --> 00:45:32,040
Speaker 1: Does it come with like a workbook?

867
00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 2: I have a.

868
00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:35,640
Speaker 3: Workbook that you can download on my website to go

869
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:39,000
Speaker 3: with it. So it's actually like, yeah, I love it.

870
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:41,719
Speaker 3: I really love like the inner healing of stuff. So

871
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:46,359
Speaker 3: it's like really healing heart wounds, brokenness, you know, all

872
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:46,920
Speaker 3: that stuff.

873
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:48,360
Speaker 2: So that's great.

874
00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:53,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, that's exciting. And are you designing it

875
00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:54,719
Speaker 1: all anymore? No?

876
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:58,400
Speaker 3: I laid that down to do homeschool and so it

877
00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:03,160
Speaker 3: was perfect timing though I was ready by that point, and.

878
00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:07,000
Speaker 2: So yeah, it's so crazy. Eventually, I think, you know, later.

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Speaker 3: In life, I still plan to design or have a

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Speaker 3: have a little like bridal boutique.

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Speaker 2: I think I would love that.

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Speaker 1: Oh totally. I mean, girl, I with my kids almost gone,

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Speaker 1: it's like you question what you're gonna do after they're

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Speaker 1: after they're gone, And that's definitely something that I'm thinking

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Speaker 1: about so gosh, if you have that in your back

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Speaker 1: pocket and you've already done it, that'd be perfect.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so that'll be exciting when that time comes.

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Speaker 1: It's amazing.

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Speaker 2: In like twenty years, exactly.

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Speaker 1: Almost twenty years, it'll go by like that. Don't blink, Okay.

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Speaker 1: It is always so much fun in catching up and

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Speaker 1: you see your beautiful face. Give Chris a hug for me,

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Speaker 1: and hopefully I'll get to see you sometime soon.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, hopefully someone will get married or something. Give us

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Speaker 3: a reason, right, is the reason I'll.

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Speaker 2: Get together again. That would be so great.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for coming on the almost famous o G

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Speaker 1: Podcast