1 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:23,319 Speaker 1: Podcast starts now. Hello everyone, and welcome to Stradio Lab. 2 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 1: We are coming at you by coastally once again after 3 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 1: our string of hit recordings in New York City. 4 00:00:30,520 --> 00:00:34,879 Speaker 2: We are coming at you by coastally on a beautiful Sunday, 5 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 2: and I am leaving for it, Dahlia tomorrow. I'm going 6 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:46,879 Speaker 2: on a vacation, as is my birthright. You're allowed as 7 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 2: a gay man based in ban I actually have a 8 00:00:54,040 --> 00:01:00,160 Speaker 2: message to the Spin Drift team, and I want to say, 9 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 2: this is disgusting, y'all. What do better? Which one all 10 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:09,319 Speaker 2: spin drift? Not all spin enough? No we have I 11 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 2: can't do it anymore. Either something is a seltzer, or 12 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:15,920 Speaker 2: it is a juice, or it is a mocktail, or 13 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 2: it is a cocktail. This weird. They are being so 14 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:23,040 Speaker 2: toxic in wanting to have it all, and I cannot 15 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 2: do it anymore. 16 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 1: I could not disagree with you more. I think we 17 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 1: need more innovation in the drink space. I think there's 18 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:34,120 Speaker 1: obviously so much space between juice and soda and water, 19 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:37,479 Speaker 1: and they are finding that space and they're exploring it 20 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:40,200 Speaker 1: in a way that is like thank you, I see. 21 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 2: It's so funny to me. I'm like all the obviously 22 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 2: defined things, whether it's a coke, a seltzer, a water 23 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 2: like I would always rather have that than something that 24 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 2: is somewhere in the middle. 25 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 3: Have you had the blue one, the lemon one? 26 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 2: I have not had the lemon one. But once again, 27 00:01:56,960 --> 00:02:00,400 Speaker 2: take a seltzer, take a lemon, squeeze some of it 28 00:02:00,440 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 2: in there. Mix, mix, mix, Maybe we're talking a mint leaf. 29 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 1: Look, not all of us can get back to me 30 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:10,160 Speaker 1: a fresh garden in our damn apartment. 31 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 2: Sign up for sign up for uh farm to people? 32 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:16,080 Speaker 2: What is it called? There is a service so you 33 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 2: can sign up for a few live in New York 34 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:20,120 Speaker 2: City farm to people. I believe it's called get some 35 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 2: fresh herbs, stick them right in the glass, ice lemon, 36 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:28,799 Speaker 2: maybe a little lime, seltzer, put a little straw in there. 37 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 2: It's time to party. 38 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:30,840 Speaker 3: Damn. 39 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:34,680 Speaker 1: They are always innovating with new delivery services over there, 40 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 1: aren't they. 41 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 2: They certainly are. I just yeah, I really, I'm really 42 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:45,120 Speaker 2: sorry if they're an advertiser. And I actually bet you 43 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:47,240 Speaker 2: that the people that work at spin Drift are really cool, 44 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 2: and I bet you I would get along with them 45 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 2: in real life, which is why it so pains me 46 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 2: to be anti spin drift. I think my personality is 47 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 2: very spin drift, how so, because I actually think I 48 00:02:56,760 --> 00:02:58,799 Speaker 2: am someone who can't commit to one thing or the other, 49 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 2: like I am half juice have Seltzer. 50 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 1: So do you think you disliking Spindrift? Is it's pretty 51 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:04,840 Speaker 1: self hate? 52 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's self hate. 53 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 2: I think it might be. I think I think it 54 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 2: might be. I think it might be in the in 55 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:11,240 Speaker 2: the same way that actually sometimes I feel like, uh, 56 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 2: despite the fact that I do think I have strong 57 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:18,839 Speaker 2: personal politics, I'm not always the bravest person in terms 58 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:23,520 Speaker 2: of like getting out there and uh and taking a 59 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:27,119 Speaker 2: strong stand, and sometimes I feel some guilt about that. 60 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 2: I think maybe what I'm responding to in the I 61 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 2: guess uh sort of centrism of the Spindrift project is 62 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:38,440 Speaker 2: that I see a little too much of myself in it, 63 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 2: and I wish I could be more proudly leftist. 64 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 1: Well, I think you saying like the employees at Spindrift 65 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 1: are probably pretty cool was actually really eye opening for me, 66 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 1: because I was like, now, that's a fun career. Like 67 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 1: if you work at Spindrift, you're like you get to 68 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 1: be kind of like at a party, get to be 69 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:02,080 Speaker 1: like I actually work at spin Drifts, Everyone's like, oh fun. 70 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 1: Everyone's sort of like it's not like, you know, if 71 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 1: you work for like Coca Cola, it's sort of like, oh, like, yes, 72 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 1: we all love Coca Cola, but. 73 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:11,840 Speaker 3: It is kind of bad that you're like poisoning. 74 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 2: People, right, No, totally, that's not good. 75 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 3: And then if you were like kind of water, if 76 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 3: you work for like bottled water. 77 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 2: Like Evyon, bad for the environment. 78 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 3: It's bad for the environment. 79 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 1: But if you work for spin Drift, it's like, oh, 80 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 1: good for you. 81 00:04:22,640 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's sort of like working for eight. Well, it's 82 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:27,120 Speaker 2: a little bit like working for a twenty four. 83 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:32,720 Speaker 3: Yes. Absolutely, it's the only ethical soda I know. 84 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:34,920 Speaker 2: I know, And you know what that might be why 85 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 2: it's so disgusting, because actually you need soda to be unethical. 86 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:40,600 Speaker 2: Like the reason that I coc is so delicious it 87 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 2: is because it's killing you from the inside and actually 88 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 2: rotting all your organs. 89 00:04:44,520 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah. 90 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:49,799 Speaker 2: I have a friend who I heard via a third 91 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 2: party at some point was consulting for nuts dot com 92 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 2: and her job was to think of what to put 93 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:58,760 Speaker 2: in the different mix mixed bags. And I said, now 94 00:04:58,839 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 2: that is a dream job. 95 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 3: Well, that's rom comm job yeah, oh. 96 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 2: God, and she like can never get the combination quite right. 97 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:08,880 Speaker 3: Yeah. 98 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,720 Speaker 2: And then she meets a guy and she like, go ahead. 99 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, and he's like, my dad always did this. He 100 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:15,720 Speaker 1: always took fas shoes with. 101 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 2: This and not just that. But they're different enough that 102 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 2: she realizes sometimes you need like a little bit of 103 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 2: dried fruit and a little bit of nut. 104 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:29,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. That's a beautiful little love story anyway. 105 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:31,560 Speaker 2: Sorry, if you work at spin Drift, I'm seeing here 106 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:39,839 Speaker 2: it's non gmo, no sugar added, carbonated water, concord, grape juice, 107 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:40,719 Speaker 2: lemon juice. 108 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 3: And congrats on the canned design, you guys. 109 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 2: Kind of no, you absolutely ate that down and congrats 110 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 2: on the flavors totally in the name. You know, it's 111 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 2: rare that a brand, a new brand, makes an impact. 112 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:58,720 Speaker 2: Spin Drift I like, I love that. I like it. 113 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:00,719 Speaker 2: I like it more than all the pro biotic sodas 114 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 2: that are all named like pop pop, Holly Lollipop, don't 115 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 2: like that, Willy lolligag No, talk to me like an adult. 116 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, And honestly those I hate those. Those are like 117 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 1: just I have soda no. 118 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:18,160 Speaker 2: No, I agree, also, get can someone make a good 119 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:22,400 Speaker 2: ginger ale. Who's listening? Someone make a ginger ale that 120 00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 2: tastes like it's burning my throat because of how ginger 121 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 2: it is. I want it now, and I don't want 122 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:29,279 Speaker 2: too much sugar in it, and I don't want too 123 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:30,000 Speaker 2: much pulp in it. 124 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:33,679 Speaker 3: And what's the and what's the deal? 125 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 1: So when you get like a ginger beer in a can, 126 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 1: why is the can as big as my thumb? 127 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 2: I not even why. By the way, when you're on 128 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:44,040 Speaker 2: a plane and you order a selter and they give 129 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:46,160 Speaker 2: you one tiny seltzer that's the size of one of 130 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:47,719 Speaker 2: those Tonic waters that you have for Gin and. 131 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 3: Tonic, it's insane. 132 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 2: What do you think? I am? Polly Pocket. So this 133 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 2: is a callin show. 134 00:06:57,160 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 3: This is a calin show. 135 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 1: We are ready to take your calls from our beautiful 136 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:03,400 Speaker 1: number three eight five k guys. 137 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, and actually want to just play the first one? 138 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, I hit it? 139 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 4: Hi, Sam and George, This is Alison calling from Vermont 140 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 4: Place that Sam has famously hated on on the podcast, 141 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 4: but differ. Just calling because me and my girlfriend Robin 142 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:22,720 Speaker 4: are big fans of the podcast, but we're very unlikely 143 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 4: fans because we're. 144 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:27,800 Speaker 5: We're both butch lesbians, like you know, Lesbian's not that unlikely, 145 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 5: I guess. But we're a butch. 146 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:33,360 Speaker 4: Lesbian couple and we live out in the sticks and 147 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 4: roll Vermont. 148 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 5: We don't have any social media. We are both big 149 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 5: into like wandering in the woods and playing in the dirt. 150 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 5: So that means that since we're still like huge fans 151 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 5: of Stradia Lab, most of like our like cultural knowledge 152 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:52,080 Speaker 5: these days we actually get from you guys on the podcast, 153 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 5: like we know about things that are happening in like 154 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 5: the cultural world, I guess, like in a city, or 155 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 5: something people are doing in the cities that people are 156 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:05,240 Speaker 5: talking about in the cities because of you guys. 157 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 6: And so I was wondering if there are any other 158 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 6: things that you think we should know about that you 159 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 6: want to shout out for us. So please educate, educate 160 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 6: some rural Vermonters about what needs to be known, what 161 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 6: needs to be known by by the world. 162 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:25,400 Speaker 5: Okay, I love you guys. 163 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:29,320 Speaker 1: Yeah bye, Well an amazing call. I first of all 164 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 1: want to defend myself and say that I don't hate Vermont. 165 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:33,200 Speaker 3: I love Vermont. 166 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:36,680 Speaker 1: I go to the gay swimming hole there and I 167 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 1: celebrate it. It is a bit boring and that it 168 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:43,960 Speaker 1: can be jarring, and you know, you think you want boring, 169 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 1: but then you're out there and you're like, well what 170 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:49,400 Speaker 1: do I do? Literally, and then you're ending up watching 171 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 1: the Idol while you're on vacation in Vermont because you 172 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 1: crave sort of glossy something. 173 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:02,719 Speaker 2: It's funny because I think your reputation is like that 174 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:04,560 Speaker 2: you are more of like the one to go to 175 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 2: a to Vermont swimming hole, but you also are in 176 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:10,839 Speaker 2: fact so much more city than I am, and that 177 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 2: when you're there for over thirty minutes, you are like 178 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:17,560 Speaker 2: literally in tears and you're needing to watch something on HBO. Max. 179 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 3: Well, it's really it's tough because I love the idea, of. 180 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:24,440 Speaker 1: Course of being alone in the woods, but then it's like, 181 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:27,880 Speaker 1: but not, I don't actually want that, like I love them. 182 00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 2: No, of course, of course, I want to say before 183 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:35,840 Speaker 2: we answer this question, like for two rural lesbians to 184 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 2: call in, be so effusively nice and then ask us 185 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:43,200 Speaker 2: to tell them what culture they need to know is 186 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:47,120 Speaker 2: like when I started this job, that was my biggest dream, 187 00:09:47,679 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 2: the idea that like a really kind butsch lesbian is like, 188 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:55,080 Speaker 2: all right, well you know these these are gay guys, 189 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:57,120 Speaker 2: like their role is to teach us about pop culture. 190 00:09:57,240 --> 00:10:00,960 Speaker 2: So come at me and to be there with an 191 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 2: open mind and an open heart, knowing that they their 192 00:10:05,320 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 2: vibe is more going into the woods, and our vibe 193 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:09,560 Speaker 2: is more HBO Max. 194 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 3: Yeah. 195 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 2: So okay, what culture today May twenty five? Like, what 196 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 2: culture do these rural vermontors need to know about? 197 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:24,720 Speaker 1: I think the big one is literally just all summer 198 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 1: Addison Ray. I think that's like the biggest No, that's 199 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:32,199 Speaker 1: the biggest one because I think that's like a nice 200 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 1: She's obviously like has mainstream appeal, but is like not 201 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 1: full mainstream yet, And so I think it's fun to 202 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:41,319 Speaker 1: be on the like for a rural Vermont lesbian, you're 203 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 1: gonna be like, look at what I'm doing. I'm listening 204 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:47,160 Speaker 1: to Addison Ray, and I know that I'm in Yes. 205 00:10:47,679 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 2: I think that you need to be able to recognize 206 00:10:51,520 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 2: Tom Brown on the red carpet. 207 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:55,960 Speaker 3: You have to pronounce the way there, you have to. 208 00:10:55,960 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 2: Pronounce the love correctly, Tom Brown. Listen to me. If 209 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 2: something is very tailored but kind of weird and it's 210 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:07,719 Speaker 2: like basically black nyvy white red. 211 00:11:08,880 --> 00:11:12,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's kind of look for the little stripes. 212 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:14,640 Speaker 2: A little fascistic look for the little stripes. That's gonna 213 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:15,680 Speaker 2: go ahead and be Tom Brown. 214 00:11:17,280 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 3: What else? What other cultures do they need to know? 215 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:24,280 Speaker 2: The Can Film Festival, Yeah, is happening right now. It's 216 00:11:24,280 --> 00:11:25,960 Speaker 2: gonna be over by the time you're listening to this. 217 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:30,040 Speaker 2: You're gonna wanna get your riffs in about Yeah, I 218 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:31,800 Speaker 2: get your effins about. No, here's something you need to 219 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:35,400 Speaker 2: know about standing ovation as I can. They're greatly exaggerated 220 00:11:35,400 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 2: because actually, at these days everything gets a standing ovation. 221 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 2: So you'll hear, oh, this got a seven minute standing ovation. 222 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 2: I can not that impressive means nothing, means nothing, okay. 223 00:11:47,240 --> 00:11:51,240 Speaker 1: Sort of the participation trophies of Can yea actually okay. 224 00:11:51,400 --> 00:11:54,320 Speaker 2: Huge thing you need to know is that culture used 225 00:11:54,320 --> 00:11:57,920 Speaker 2: to be more streamlined and now it's more fractured. So 226 00:11:58,360 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 2: so there's all every everything is niche and there are 227 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:04,400 Speaker 2: niche communities. And that's why Pete Buddha Judge has to 228 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:08,600 Speaker 2: go on like a podcast hosted by a comedian who 229 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:12,360 Speaker 2: does jokes where he like makes fun of different races. 230 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:15,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why Bernie Sanders has to do that as well. 231 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:16,959 Speaker 2: Yes, that's correct. 232 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:20,719 Speaker 3: It's quite sad, is there, I'm like. 233 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 2: Nicole Scherzinger used to be in the Pussycat Dolls, but 234 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:27,160 Speaker 2: now she's Revelatory and Sunset Boulevard, which is not a 235 00:12:27,240 --> 00:12:31,240 Speaker 2: very good musical, but this production is actually kind of refreshing. 236 00:12:31,200 --> 00:12:33,280 Speaker 3: And get ready to feel complex about Lord? 237 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 2: Right, So the thing with Lord. 238 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:39,199 Speaker 1: Okay, because the thing with Lord is that her gender 239 00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:42,120 Speaker 1: is expanding, but she's also tying it to her album 240 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:45,960 Speaker 1: Rollout in a way that's very sort of sometimes feels cynical, 241 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 1: but sometimes you're like, but she like she should be 242 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 1: able to talk about it, but then it's so tied 243 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:52,880 Speaker 1: to the album that you're like, what's is this just 244 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:53,440 Speaker 1: for attention? 245 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:55,520 Speaker 3: What's going on here? Yes? 246 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:58,439 Speaker 2: And we're also in a place where, you know, the 247 00:12:58,559 --> 00:13:03,120 Speaker 2: LGBTQ plus community is scared of putting out the wrong 248 00:13:03,160 --> 00:13:07,840 Speaker 2: messaging because there's danger out there, and so when someone 249 00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:15,560 Speaker 2: like Lord is saying, you know, is off message, everyone's like, Lord, Ella, 250 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:20,320 Speaker 2: not now, and you're not from here, but we're gonna 251 00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:21,240 Speaker 2: need to stand message. 252 00:13:21,320 --> 00:13:22,680 Speaker 3: We're gonna need to stay on message. 253 00:13:23,040 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 1: And you know, people will be mixed about her music, 254 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:29,840 Speaker 1: but I think it's best to take a strong stance 255 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 1: in any direction. Don't be the spin drift either love 256 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:38,840 Speaker 1: or hate. I'm choosing love and Lord please come on 257 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 1: the podcast. 258 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:45,880 Speaker 2: Correct. I would say that, I mean, is there anything 259 00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:47,400 Speaker 2: obvious that we're forgetting? 260 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:56,360 Speaker 1: I don't know, let's move on. Okay, it's I'm like, 261 00:13:56,480 --> 00:13:58,760 Speaker 1: realize it's when we record just the two of us 262 00:13:58,840 --> 00:14:03,479 Speaker 1: on a Sunday zoom. I'm like, I'm like so comfortable, 263 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:06,480 Speaker 1: and I forget. I do forget that. It's this is 264 00:14:06,480 --> 00:14:07,960 Speaker 1: for public consumption. 265 00:14:10,080 --> 00:14:10,560 Speaker 7: Totally. 266 00:14:11,520 --> 00:14:14,600 Speaker 2: Oh another thing, look up Pink Panthers. 267 00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:20,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, you're gonna want to look her up. 268 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:22,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, look up Pink pan threads. 269 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 3: Maybe read the wiki for her, just a little miss Pink. Yeah. 270 00:14:30,920 --> 00:14:34,640 Speaker 2: And also I would base, I would basically watch the 271 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 2: movies of Ariast and form any opinion on them. 272 00:14:38,920 --> 00:14:39,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, now's the time. 273 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 2: Now's the time. 274 00:14:41,520 --> 00:14:44,880 Speaker 3: And I'd say, download okay lou. 275 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:48,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, download Oka l o u is how it's spelled. 276 00:14:48,240 --> 00:14:50,760 Speaker 1: I think you're gonna want to put that up when 277 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:52,560 Speaker 1: it comes to the New year. You're gonna say, and 278 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 1: this was actually my favorite album of the year, And 279 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:57,040 Speaker 1: I think that'll give you some real credibility. 280 00:14:57,240 --> 00:15:00,480 Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. Okay, Oh, you know, before we I want 281 00:15:00,480 --> 00:15:04,920 Speaker 2: to say, we got a ton of calls from lesbians 282 00:15:04,960 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 2: and otherwise queer women, specifically about lesbian culture. I think 283 00:15:09,320 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 2: we don't want to push our luck too much by 284 00:15:11,120 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 2: commenting too much on lesbian culture after we hosted an 285 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:18,200 Speaker 2: entire lesbian lab show. Uh, but I do want to 286 00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:20,880 Speaker 2: very quickly shout out some of the calls we got. 287 00:15:21,000 --> 00:15:27,840 Speaker 2: So let's see. Someone asked, is political lesbianism back? And 288 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:30,840 Speaker 2: by that she defined it as like not sleeping with 289 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:33,800 Speaker 2: men by choice, the sort of like not like I 290 00:15:33,880 --> 00:15:38,320 Speaker 2: was born this way and men are disgusting, but like 291 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:41,320 Speaker 2: I am, I could sleep with men if I wanted to, 292 00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:44,080 Speaker 2: and often do want to, but I'm choosing not to 293 00:15:44,120 --> 00:15:46,880 Speaker 2: do that as a politics. Well, so the question is 294 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 2: is that back? So that was a great question. Oh yeah, 295 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:54,720 Speaker 2: Someone says, like someone asked us someone just went to 296 00:15:54,760 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 2: a new lesbian bar and she said it was just 297 00:15:56,320 --> 00:15:59,240 Speaker 2: completely vibeless and terrible, and she basically wants us to 298 00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:01,800 Speaker 2: talk about like why lesbian bars have no vibe. Again, 299 00:16:01,840 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 2: we are not sorry. I'm being actually poisoned live on air. 300 00:16:07,760 --> 00:16:09,440 Speaker 2: We don't want to comment on that right now. 301 00:16:09,960 --> 00:16:11,280 Speaker 3: I want to comment on that right now, but I 302 00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:12,200 Speaker 3: do have one quick thing. 303 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 1: I saw friend of the pod Casey Jane Ellison this 304 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:18,920 Speaker 1: weekend and there was a we were talking about lesbian 305 00:16:18,920 --> 00:16:25,000 Speaker 1: bars and gay bars, and an interesting theory was pitched, 306 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 1: which is that, like a gay bar is better when 307 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:31,280 Speaker 1: it's owned by a lesbian, and a lesbian bar is better. 308 00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:32,280 Speaker 3: When it's owned by a gay guy. 309 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:34,400 Speaker 2: I would even go. 310 00:16:34,480 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 1: Some distance from the community and like really run it correctly. 311 00:16:38,240 --> 00:16:39,800 Speaker 2: I would frankly go so far as to say a 312 00:16:39,840 --> 00:16:43,200 Speaker 2: gay bar is better when it's owned by a woman 313 00:16:43,240 --> 00:16:47,040 Speaker 2: of any sort, even a straight woman. True, true, And 314 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:49,120 Speaker 2: I will say, you know, Julius is owned by a 315 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 2: straight woman, and she's a straight Greek woman, and so 316 00:16:52,920 --> 00:16:55,080 Speaker 2: make of that way you will. That's the truth. 317 00:16:55,560 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, So shout out to all the lesbian questions. We 318 00:16:57,480 --> 00:17:00,040 Speaker 1: appreciate them, and we will not be commenting further. 319 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:02,680 Speaker 2: But maybe in the future we will. We're not we 320 00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:05,680 Speaker 2: know that our role is to comment on all LGBTQ plus, 321 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:08,800 Speaker 2: of course, but I think we were I think we 322 00:17:08,880 --> 00:17:12,959 Speaker 2: are respectfully not making ourselves arbiters of lesbian culture. 323 00:17:13,359 --> 00:17:17,120 Speaker 3: Yeah at this point, at this point, okay, next. 324 00:17:16,880 --> 00:17:18,800 Speaker 8: Call, Hey, Sat and George. 325 00:17:18,880 --> 00:17:21,040 Speaker 9: I had a question for y'all, how do y'all feel 326 00:17:21,040 --> 00:17:22,080 Speaker 9: about Paris Hilton. 327 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:25,120 Speaker 10: I think that's all the contexts you need. 328 00:17:25,680 --> 00:17:26,000 Speaker 7: Thanks. 329 00:17:26,320 --> 00:17:28,000 Speaker 1: How do we feel about Paris Hilton? Well, I think 330 00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:32,040 Speaker 1: I think we both agree on this one. H it 331 00:17:32,119 --> 00:17:33,080 Speaker 1: was fun for a second. 332 00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:41,000 Speaker 2: I think I say congratulations on all you've done mm hmmm, 333 00:17:41,160 --> 00:17:46,520 Speaker 2: and goodbye for now. Next no, I would say forever. Actually, 334 00:17:47,160 --> 00:17:49,440 Speaker 2: if I may be so bold, I would say thank 335 00:17:49,480 --> 00:17:53,840 Speaker 2: you for everything you've contributed. Have fun living a private 336 00:17:53,920 --> 00:17:55,280 Speaker 2: life from here on out. 337 00:17:55,640 --> 00:17:58,520 Speaker 1: Do you know the like like carbon dating, like a 338 00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:01,159 Speaker 1: like a half life where like how long it is. 339 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:04,359 Speaker 1: It's like there's like half as much carbon I feel 340 00:18:04,359 --> 00:18:08,560 Speaker 1: like Paris Hilton's kind of that, Like like the first 341 00:18:08,560 --> 00:18:10,800 Speaker 1: time around it was like, wow, this is so of 342 00:18:10,840 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 1: the moment. So now she's so ye two Q. And 343 00:18:13,800 --> 00:18:17,919 Speaker 1: then like now the reboot of Paris Hilton, it was 344 00:18:17,960 --> 00:18:21,440 Speaker 1: like it had half as much juice and it was like, yeah, 345 00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:24,000 Speaker 1: it's like almost like it's fun, but it has half 346 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:27,200 Speaker 1: the impact, and it's like it's only going to keep deteriorating. 347 00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:29,160 Speaker 1: Like I do think in ten more years she'll come 348 00:18:29,160 --> 00:18:32,000 Speaker 1: back again and it'll be like a quarter of the original. 349 00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:37,840 Speaker 2: I want to say, part of my current aversion to 350 00:18:37,880 --> 00:18:40,920 Speaker 2: her has to do with the fact that, as listeners 351 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:43,640 Speaker 2: of the Patren know, I had a six month freelance 352 00:18:43,720 --> 00:18:46,439 Speaker 2: job that was in Penn Station, and out of my 353 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:49,159 Speaker 2: window at work I could see this giant billboard for 354 00:18:49,280 --> 00:18:52,560 Speaker 2: Hilton Hotels. They did a campaign with Paris Hilton. I 355 00:18:52,560 --> 00:18:54,159 Speaker 2: don't know if this made it to Los Angeles or 356 00:18:54,200 --> 00:18:56,720 Speaker 2: the state of California, but I did not recognize this 357 00:18:56,800 --> 00:18:59,560 Speaker 2: big campaign featuring Paris Hilton. And now what we have 358 00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:06,920 Speaker 2: here is reclaim. Paris Hilton has been canonized so much 359 00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:09,080 Speaker 2: that she's no longer an embarrassment to the Hilton name 360 00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:11,840 Speaker 2: and like a problem child. She's actually so mainstream pop 361 00:19:11,880 --> 00:19:15,359 Speaker 2: culture that they are reappropriating her as like a positive, 362 00:19:16,520 --> 00:19:19,560 Speaker 2: as a positive spokespirston for the Hilton family. And to that, 363 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:22,200 Speaker 2: I say, you know, please respect me as a consumer, 364 00:19:22,359 --> 00:19:24,840 Speaker 2: like I can't, we can't be. You can't be selling 365 00:19:24,920 --> 00:19:28,040 Speaker 2: back Paris Hilton to me in a Hilton ad and 366 00:19:28,119 --> 00:19:30,240 Speaker 2: expecting me to then want to go and check into 367 00:19:30,280 --> 00:19:31,080 Speaker 2: a Hilton Like. 368 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:37,040 Speaker 1: No, no enough, her doing that album last year, like 369 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:38,600 Speaker 1: it's like, we can't do this anymore. 370 00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:42,800 Speaker 2: No all right? Onto Actually talented women in music with 371 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:43,880 Speaker 2: the next question. 372 00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:49,639 Speaker 10: Hia, Sam George. I have recently become enamored of playing 373 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:52,560 Speaker 10: your little time game with any group of three things. 374 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:54,760 Speaker 10: But I simply think there has to be a better 375 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 10: word than heim lick. Just so, I thought about the 376 00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:02,320 Speaker 10: word geography, which I think is like books about saints, 377 00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:09,680 Speaker 10: so like heimiography, writing about three sisters who say perhaps Anyway, 378 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:14,240 Speaker 10: my question is heimiography or heimlick. I guess, And I 379 00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:17,440 Speaker 10: don't think you've done this before New York, LA, Chicago. 380 00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:21,680 Speaker 10: And then also for my own purposes, the second tier 381 00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:25,920 Speaker 10: of cities that cause lots of discourse Boston, San Francisco, DC. 382 00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:27,439 Speaker 10: Me know what you think? 383 00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:30,040 Speaker 3: Okay, this is amazing, what an amazing question. 384 00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:33,680 Speaker 2: Amazing question. I what do you think about the name 385 00:20:33,720 --> 00:20:37,920 Speaker 2: of the game? I just can't. I haven't got it. 386 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:39,800 Speaker 3: I'm like it rolls off the tongue. 387 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:46,400 Speaker 2: Okay, so we're just taking with heimlick. Yeah, okay, all right, heimlick, 388 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:48,000 Speaker 2: New York, LA, Chicago. 389 00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:55,000 Speaker 1: I almost think I think Danielle is Chicago because she's 390 00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:57,720 Speaker 1: like like of the she's like of the earth, Like 391 00:20:57,800 --> 00:21:00,200 Speaker 1: she's like she's like putting in the work. Yeah, He's 392 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 1: like I'm here, like I'm the backbone. I think Alana 393 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:08,199 Speaker 1: is maybe LA because of being in movies, and you 394 00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:09,560 Speaker 1: think ST is New York. 395 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:13,080 Speaker 2: Yes, why because she's like a West Village girl. 396 00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:14,919 Speaker 3: A little. 397 00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:19,000 Speaker 1: I think ST's got edge. I think ST's like, you know, 398 00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:21,440 Speaker 1: she's She's not afraid to ruffle some feathers. 399 00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:25,240 Speaker 2: I see see. I think my only argument against that 400 00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:28,159 Speaker 2: would be Alana is an IT girl, which to me 401 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:31,800 Speaker 2: reads more in New York than LA. Like Alana to 402 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:35,200 Speaker 2: be amused for Paul Thomas Anderson. I know Paul Thomas 403 00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:38,359 Speaker 2: Anderson is very LA, but but spiritually he feels very 404 00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:40,600 Speaker 2: New York to me, like his vibe feels more in 405 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:45,879 Speaker 2: New York. And I think SD is just so at 406 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:50,400 Speaker 2: home in Silver Lake, floppy hat like well, plus she's blonde. 407 00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:54,680 Speaker 2: Plus she's blonde. We don't have to agree, but I 408 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:57,200 Speaker 2: think that would be my that would be my point. 409 00:21:57,400 --> 00:22:00,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know we're getting I went to that party 410 00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:04,520 Speaker 1: the other night where they were Djinghu and it's I'm like, 411 00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:06,200 Speaker 1: we're one degree away from home. 412 00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:11,160 Speaker 2: At least, or at most. Tell everyone what SD's first song. 413 00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:13,160 Speaker 1: Was when she DJed girls Just Want to Have Fun, 414 00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:16,600 Speaker 1: Classic Classic, It was fun? 415 00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:19,400 Speaker 2: Is choosing that as your first song in your DJ set, 416 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:21,560 Speaker 2: more La or New York. I would say more La. 417 00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:24,840 Speaker 3: It's more La. Yeah, you're right, You're right, and I'm 418 00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:25,480 Speaker 3: gonna agree with you. 419 00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:28,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, all right. I mean, Danielle being Chicago is 420 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:34,800 Speaker 2: obviously shocking, but I can't it's too late at this 421 00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:36,640 Speaker 2: point to change that joints. 422 00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:41,040 Speaker 3: Well, yeah, I don't know. Yeah, but what else could 423 00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:41,280 Speaker 3: she be? 424 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:44,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, let's do Boston, San Francisco, DC. Okay, well, 425 00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:47,879 Speaker 2: this is insane, This is really really challenging. 426 00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:54,359 Speaker 3: I don't know, this is really challenging. Okay, daniel I'm like, 427 00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:55,400 Speaker 3: none of them? Are any of them? 428 00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:56,280 Speaker 2: Danielle is DC? 429 00:22:57,160 --> 00:22:57,480 Speaker 3: Really? 430 00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:00,959 Speaker 2: I think Danielle is DC because she's like, again, she's CEO, 431 00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:04,480 Speaker 2: she is Nancy Pelos, She's the Nancy Pelosi. She's like 432 00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:08,560 Speaker 2: speaker of the house. She's the one that pulls the strings, 433 00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:13,320 Speaker 2: she's the producer. I know they all produce, but hear me. 434 00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:14,840 Speaker 3: Out is SD Boston? 435 00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:23,159 Speaker 2: I think, oh god, you know, I think SD is 436 00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:25,760 Speaker 2: like the coolest girl at BEU. 437 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:27,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, I see that. 438 00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:33,159 Speaker 2: And then I think Alana is Alana just left San 439 00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:35,840 Speaker 2: Francisco for Oakland and lives in like a really cool 440 00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:42,520 Speaker 2: neighborhood and goes to like a really queer friendly hairdresser 441 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:49,719 Speaker 2: that works at meta, but works at meta. Okay, next question. 442 00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:52,280 Speaker 2: All right, this one is a. 443 00:23:52,320 --> 00:24:01,760 Speaker 11: Big Sam and George big fan of the pod. So 444 00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:08,520 Speaker 11: I often think about your theory of Lizzo's path and 445 00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:14,600 Speaker 11: the different like career milestones where celebrities and creators have 446 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:18,800 Speaker 11: the option to make one choice or another, and I 447 00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:23,280 Speaker 11: wanted to see if you guys have any thoughts on 448 00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:26,880 Speaker 11: different crossroads that I feel like a lot of creators 449 00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:31,400 Speaker 11: are running into nowadays, the social media where somebody who 450 00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:37,280 Speaker 11: is beloved by like a group of fans who maybe 451 00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:41,960 Speaker 11: have an identity that's like a little quirky, like a 452 00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:48,800 Speaker 11: little indie, and then as the creator becomes more and 453 00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:54,120 Speaker 11: more famous and commercially mainstream, all of a sudden, everyone 454 00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:59,840 Speaker 11: all at once seems to find them really annoying and egotistical. Okay, 455 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:04,520 Speaker 11: I feel like Tycho y TD hit this point. I 456 00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:09,480 Speaker 11: feel like Lyn Manuel hit this point, not even saying 457 00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:13,760 Speaker 11: that I feel that these people turned cringey, but it 458 00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:18,360 Speaker 11: does seem to be the general view that many have, 459 00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:23,720 Speaker 11: and with the White Litis finale, it sort of looks 460 00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:27,080 Speaker 11: like maybe Mike White is about to hit that point. 461 00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:31,760 Speaker 11: So I was just wondering if this is a theory 462 00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:34,919 Speaker 11: that you guys have any thoughts about, and kind of 463 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:38,440 Speaker 11: what would you call it? Along the same lines as 464 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:41,560 Speaker 11: like Lizzo's path, like is there a term for it? 465 00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:45,119 Speaker 11: And maybe are there others that you can think of 466 00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:52,800 Speaker 11: who have fallen victim to this decision point? Okay, thank 467 00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:56,800 Speaker 11: you for making this thought probably a lot more eloquent 468 00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:57,520 Speaker 11: than I did. 469 00:25:57,920 --> 00:26:00,600 Speaker 3: Bye, guys, love you of all. 470 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:03,760 Speaker 1: Never say that you're not eloquent. You fucking crushed that 471 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:06,879 Speaker 1: you ate that that call was so to die for 472 00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:10,960 Speaker 1: and well thought about. I immediately I think of like 473 00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:17,240 Speaker 1: a Jennifer Lawrence for this type. I think of Anne Hathaway. 474 00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:23,000 Speaker 1: I think I do think our society has a cruel 475 00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:26,480 Speaker 1: way of building people up and then hating them for 476 00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:28,080 Speaker 1: the reason they built them up in the first place. 477 00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:29,560 Speaker 1: And it's like it's not fair. 478 00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:32,199 Speaker 3: Why did you love them? Then? I don't know what 479 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:34,160 Speaker 3: I would call this this phenomenon. 480 00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:39,280 Speaker 2: I think the Jennifer Lawrence thing is really uh apt. Yeah, 481 00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:42,879 Speaker 2: It's like I'm trying to use j Law as a pun, 482 00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:43,960 Speaker 2: like the Jaylaw. 483 00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:46,320 Speaker 3: Oh wow, the Jay law, you. 484 00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:48,880 Speaker 2: Know what I mean, Like it's like, are you being 485 00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:53,480 Speaker 2: cracked down by the J law? What I love that 486 00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:55,920 Speaker 2: one would use for a law like I love. 487 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:59,600 Speaker 1: I'm also thinking of like there's something here's the phrase 488 00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:04,800 Speaker 1: I was thinking, you know, like expired quirk because it's 489 00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:06,760 Speaker 1: like it is fresh. 490 00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:07,760 Speaker 3: And you're like, oh I love this, I love this, 491 00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:09,480 Speaker 3: and then something it goes bad, Like. 492 00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:12,320 Speaker 2: You're right, that's exactly what it is. It's like his 493 00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:13,560 Speaker 2: quirk expired. 494 00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:15,919 Speaker 3: Yeah, so just. 495 00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:21,080 Speaker 2: Hearing this off the top of my head, Zovida Chanel 496 00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:21,920 Speaker 2: of course. 497 00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:22,560 Speaker 3: Of course. 498 00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:27,160 Speaker 2: And I think she then went in a completely different 499 00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,200 Speaker 2: direction because I think at some point she realized the 500 00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:32,560 Speaker 2: quirk expired and was like, right, well then I'm just 501 00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:34,240 Speaker 2: going to be kind of a normal woman. 502 00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:38,760 Speaker 1: Well, and the thing with with this, I do think 503 00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:42,480 Speaker 1: people know that one's quirk has an expiration date nowadays. Yeah, 504 00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:44,800 Speaker 1: but I think it's causing people to not have quirk. 505 00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:48,800 Speaker 1: I think people like Mikey Madison is so like I 506 00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:51,560 Speaker 1: am no personality, like I don't have one. 507 00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:53,760 Speaker 2: Sure, but I don't think that's like a strategic move 508 00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:55,720 Speaker 2: she's doing, and she's like hiding her quirks. I think 509 00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:57,160 Speaker 2: that's simply who she is. 510 00:27:57,359 --> 00:27:58,560 Speaker 3: I think she's hiding her quirk. 511 00:27:58,640 --> 00:27:59,879 Speaker 2: Do you think she's hiding her quirk? 512 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:01,399 Speaker 3: I think she has quirks that she's hiding. 513 00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:05,200 Speaker 2: That is fascinating. That is, you have an optimism that 514 00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:06,920 Speaker 2: I wish I could have. 515 00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:10,159 Speaker 3: You think she's just a plain girl. 516 00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:11,720 Speaker 2: I don't think she's a plain girl. I think she 517 00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:16,360 Speaker 2: is a terrific artist and actress. But I think she isn't. 518 00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:19,840 Speaker 2: I don't think she has like a really strong personality 519 00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:21,560 Speaker 2: because I think she's been acting her whole life, and 520 00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:24,040 Speaker 2: that's her whole life, and that's who she is. I 521 00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:28,000 Speaker 2: don't think she is a Jennifer Lawrence of a Zoe Deschanel, 522 00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:34,239 Speaker 2: A you know, a Charlie XCX. Like I think she 523 00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:41,760 Speaker 2: is just girl actor actor girl, actor girl. I have 524 00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:44,400 Speaker 2: one that I actually think is fascinating, which is fran 525 00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:50,200 Speaker 2: Lee Bowitz. Oh don't you think she It's like she 526 00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:52,280 Speaker 2: flew too close to the sun. Her quirk didn't expire 527 00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:55,040 Speaker 2: for generations, and then I think over the last couple 528 00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:58,440 Speaker 2: of years, a new generation of consumers has come in 529 00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:00,640 Speaker 2: and they're like, that's enough out of you. 530 00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:07,720 Speaker 1: Well, there is something where like the mediums have changed 531 00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:10,640 Speaker 1: so much where it's like everyone is friendly, yes, exactly, 532 00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:13,239 Speaker 1: and it's like, okay, so you're cranky. You're essentially doing 533 00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:15,959 Speaker 1: front facing rants about like Starbucks. 534 00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:17,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you're charging for them and you're at the 535 00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:20,760 Speaker 2: ninety second Street why a big hall? 536 00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:23,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, and we're supposed to treat you like you're better 537 00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:23,560 Speaker 3: than like. 538 00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:25,960 Speaker 2: That literally twing. It's like, yeah, how about actually sit 539 00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:27,720 Speaker 2: down and write a book. I know you've had writer's 540 00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:30,480 Speaker 2: block for sixty years, but it's that's sort of what 541 00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:32,560 Speaker 2: it's going to take for me to pay money to 542 00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:33,480 Speaker 2: engage with your work. 543 00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:35,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, that is really interesting. 544 00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:39,479 Speaker 2: Someone that's fascinating, and I wonder what you think of it? 545 00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:43,320 Speaker 2: Like where are we with Charlie? Like how has her 546 00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:44,360 Speaker 2: quirk not expired? 547 00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:47,960 Speaker 3: She this it needs to be examined. 548 00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:49,120 Speaker 2: She's like an evil genius. 549 00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:50,840 Speaker 3: She is so good at it. 550 00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:54,040 Speaker 1: I think I don't think it's expired because she's like 551 00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:58,880 Speaker 1: kind of refusing to be flat, Like she's like she 552 00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:01,520 Speaker 1: could just be like I I'm just cocaine and sunglasses, 553 00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:04,120 Speaker 1: but then like she sometimes will be like actually I'm 554 00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:07,160 Speaker 1: not like I'm this now, and it's like, oh, I 555 00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:11,000 Speaker 1: didn't expect that, Like she she doesn't go two dimensional 556 00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:11,320 Speaker 1: with it. 557 00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:14,000 Speaker 2: No, it's true. And this is actually a larger issue 558 00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:17,880 Speaker 2: with like what the right amount of branding is, because 559 00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:21,120 Speaker 2: when you lead too much into one specific thing, it's 560 00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:22,920 Speaker 2: gonna work for you in the beginning, because that's how 561 00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:27,480 Speaker 2: the algorithm works. It rewards consistency and quantity over quality. 562 00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:30,720 Speaker 2: But it will reach a point where it goes bad fast. 563 00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:32,960 Speaker 2: It's like the experence. It's like how milk expires within 564 00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:35,360 Speaker 2: It's like, it's good, it's good, it's good one morning, 565 00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:41,280 Speaker 2: you wake up, you smell the bottle, not horrible. There 566 00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:44,720 Speaker 2: are I think with some people, there are like mean 567 00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:47,320 Speaker 2: and annoying people on the Internet that want you to 568 00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:51,000 Speaker 2: believe someone's quirk has expired, and just because they're gay 569 00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:53,000 Speaker 2: and confident doesn't mean they're right. 570 00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:55,520 Speaker 3: I think that's really true, and I think. 571 00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:59,280 Speaker 2: That's true with Lord. People really want you to convince 572 00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:03,120 Speaker 2: you that her quirk is expired. Don't let them, don't. 573 00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:06,840 Speaker 2: We are not going back, folks. 574 00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:11,040 Speaker 1: We are here to support Lord through this album cycle. 575 00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:13,280 Speaker 3: Her quirk has not expired. 576 00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:17,440 Speaker 2: I don't care what her gender is. Yeah, we're listening. 577 00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:19,120 Speaker 3: We're listening, we're learning. 578 00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:21,920 Speaker 1: The thing is, people are like, oh, it's put on, Like, 579 00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:24,920 Speaker 1: oh she's And I'm like, this girl has been weird. 580 00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:27,240 Speaker 3: This girl has always been weird. 581 00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:28,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, get into it. 582 00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:31,720 Speaker 3: Like she's not cool. 583 00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:34,640 Speaker 2: Do you think him's quirk expired when they first started 584 00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:37,520 Speaker 2: doing the synchronized dance at the concerts. 585 00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:40,360 Speaker 3: I think that's when it started to expire. 586 00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:43,600 Speaker 1: But I think they've recognized that, and I think they're like, 587 00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:46,239 Speaker 1: that's why they're going so hard right now. I think 588 00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:49,120 Speaker 1: they're really being like, we'll show you we have a 589 00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:51,240 Speaker 1: fresh batch of quirk totally. 590 00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:53,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's all Louis at the time, and it's 591 00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:56,200 Speaker 2: all Louis d AOC's. 592 00:31:55,760 --> 00:32:00,000 Speaker 3: Quirk has expired, honestly, No, I agree. 593 00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:04,680 Speaker 1: Sometimes I see like really really really left internet. That's 594 00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:09,200 Speaker 1: like AOC should kill herself. And I'm like wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, 595 00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:11,600 Speaker 1: what is going on? And then I'm always like this 596 00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:15,960 Speaker 1: is so niche and like, yeah, it seems like a 597 00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:19,200 Speaker 1: lot of anger for no reason sometimes, but maybe I'm uneducated, 598 00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:20,880 Speaker 1: so we'll see. 599 00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:29,120 Speaker 2: I wonder what the path is for Paul Pedro Pascal. 600 00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:31,200 Speaker 3: I'm worried about him. 601 00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:37,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, when a guy starts going sleeveless, we are on quirk. 602 00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:40,760 Speaker 3: Watch Oh, we're sniffing the milk. 603 00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:46,680 Speaker 2: Were the milk. We're saying, okay, maybe one more day. Yeah, 604 00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:48,479 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna put it in my cereal, like I'll 605 00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:49,800 Speaker 2: put it in my coffee, like, oh. 606 00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:51,280 Speaker 3: Splash my coffee of course. 607 00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:52,360 Speaker 2: Yeah. 608 00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:54,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sniffing his milk for sure. 609 00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:58,160 Speaker 2: Because I gotta tell you Andrew Scott when Sleeveless it 610 00:32:58,560 --> 00:32:59,880 Speaker 2: expired fast. 611 00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:03,600 Speaker 1: For Yeah, damn, I'm sort of obsessed with this. 612 00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:05,120 Speaker 3: Yeah. 613 00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:07,480 Speaker 1: By the way, and I'm praying for Pedro. I think 614 00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:09,960 Speaker 1: he is so charming. I think he's so handsome. 615 00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:13,640 Speaker 2: I want to say, you know, I for me, I 616 00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:16,880 Speaker 2: was always like, not resistant, he seems great, but I 617 00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:19,360 Speaker 2: was always like everyone is being a little too coordinated 618 00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:21,200 Speaker 2: in their thirst for this man, like how about we 619 00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:24,360 Speaker 2: all relax. But something switched to me the last week, 620 00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:27,320 Speaker 2: and I am so ferial for him. I don't know 621 00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:29,760 Speaker 2: what it is. I'm like, I'm like, I have. 622 00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:32,160 Speaker 3: To kiss him. Did you watch Game of Thrones? 623 00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:32,680 Speaker 2: Nope? 624 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:36,880 Speaker 1: Because his character in that he is so sexy and 625 00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:40,000 Speaker 1: like it's really incredible and like it's very much like 626 00:33:40,080 --> 00:33:42,040 Speaker 1: he comes on the screen, You're like, who is that? 627 00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:48,840 Speaker 3: Like I'm addicted. So he's the real deal. So I 628 00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:49,320 Speaker 3: love this. 629 00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:52,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, No, this is expired quirk. Sam. You know you 630 00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:56,920 Speaker 2: coined Lizo's pass and you coined expired quirk, and this 631 00:33:57,040 --> 00:34:00,160 Speaker 2: is your Your true talent is coining verbiage. 632 00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:02,240 Speaker 3: I'll take it. 633 00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:08,399 Speaker 2: Okay, next, Q oh, this is this is really good. 634 00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:13,680 Speaker 12: I hate guys want to treat this is exciting. A 635 00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:17,879 Speaker 12: long time listener, our first time caller, Patriista just sus 636 00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:22,480 Speaker 12: we're just taping last week and with try to say hi. Anyways, 637 00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:23,640 Speaker 12: I'm calling because. 638 00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:25,520 Speaker 13: My husband and I have sort of a disagreement on 639 00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:29,480 Speaker 13: something and I'm hoping you guys can help it out. Okay, 640 00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:32,440 Speaker 13: I guess what we're wondering is what is the current 641 00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:37,640 Speaker 13: state of the term f for hag? That is fag 642 00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:41,000 Speaker 13: hag And I'm not going to say it because of, 643 00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:44,879 Speaker 13: you know, the aforementioned uncertainty about whether or not I'm 644 00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:49,200 Speaker 13: allowed to. I know policing language is lame now, but 645 00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:49,960 Speaker 13: I still don't want to. 646 00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:53,719 Speaker 12: Be saying things that I shouldn't be. I basically called 647 00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:56,600 Speaker 12: them on this who you know kind of was but 648 00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:00,880 Speaker 12: was like, you can't say that? What a good excuse 649 00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:02,600 Speaker 12: to get our resolute. 650 00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:03,480 Speaker 13: Gay guys on the horn. 651 00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:07,480 Speaker 12: Now that I'm tokenizing you a little to conret my 652 00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:13,480 Speaker 12: own toxic Anyways, it is what you are informed of, 653 00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:14,439 Speaker 12: what you are allowed to say. 654 00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:16,520 Speaker 13: I guess I will just add that my husband is 655 00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:20,520 Speaker 13: a straight, sispet white man, and I am a you know, 656 00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:24,440 Speaker 13: Sophie Rotten bisexual woman's period married to a. 657 00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:27,719 Speaker 12: Man bars, So make that much you will. 658 00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:28,640 Speaker 5: I love to. 659 00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:30,440 Speaker 12: Invoke sam and say I'm not in a place where 660 00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:32,799 Speaker 12: I want to be critique, but. 661 00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:34,440 Speaker 13: I am leaving this voicemail. 662 00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:38,080 Speaker 12: So I guess maybe I am. Please go easy. I 663 00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:41,359 Speaker 12: love you guys very much. Who do you buy? 664 00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:52,640 Speaker 3: Folks? Her husband's gone woke? What about Reddit? 665 00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:56,120 Speaker 2: Reddit? Am I the asshole post? Like I parentheses F 666 00:35:56,680 --> 00:36:00,440 Speaker 2: twenty seven bisexual bisexual? My husband has gone woke? 667 00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:05,719 Speaker 1: So I think this is such an interesting First of all, 668 00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:07,680 Speaker 1: I'm really interested in this dynamic. I do think this 669 00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:10,600 Speaker 1: is a real It's very funny when like a straight 670 00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:15,880 Speaker 1: cis white whatever man is like, hey, don't like he's like, 671 00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:17,120 Speaker 1: I'm trying to be good, so like. 672 00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:19,719 Speaker 3: Don't do that, like, don't say back haag. But I 673 00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:20,759 Speaker 3: have to disagree. 674 00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:23,760 Speaker 2: I think you're disagreeing with a woke husband. 675 00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:26,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I think I think women. 676 00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:29,120 Speaker 1: I think, first of all, I think fag hag is 677 00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:30,960 Speaker 1: a chic term that needs to come back. 678 00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:36,200 Speaker 3: I think it is like a it's like, yeah, it's 679 00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:37,320 Speaker 3: a time honored tradition. 680 00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:40,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, and we like can't erase it, like there's something 681 00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:43,640 Speaker 1: like it's an important role is to be a fag hag. 682 00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:50,799 Speaker 1: And I think, yeah, I do think the way we like. 683 00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:54,320 Speaker 1: I don't know where we stand on whether well. 684 00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:56,560 Speaker 2: There's two things with back haag or not. There's where 685 00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:58,399 Speaker 2: we stand on, like the concept of a haag haag, 686 00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:01,719 Speaker 2: and there's where we stand on like the PC political 687 00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:05,200 Speaker 2: correctness of the term fag hag. We've talked about the 688 00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:08,200 Speaker 2: concept of fagag before because of course Matthew's theory is 689 00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:11,839 Speaker 2: the fag hag is endangered because gay guys have more 690 00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:15,359 Speaker 2: ways of meeting other gay guys now, so there's they 691 00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:17,719 Speaker 2: have groups of friends that are all gay guys, and 692 00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:21,040 Speaker 2: so there's less quote unquote need not to refer to 693 00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:24,960 Speaker 2: friendship that way, for like a supportive woman who's going 694 00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:26,600 Speaker 2: to take you to your first gay bar, who's going 695 00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:29,440 Speaker 2: to like walk you through that breakup, who's going to 696 00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:32,160 Speaker 2: go on like a friendship with you, because now suddenly 697 00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:36,120 Speaker 2: you're going to han sho you are, you know, dealing 698 00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:38,759 Speaker 2: with your breakup. I actually yeah, yeah, you're dealing with 699 00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:41,120 Speaker 2: your breakup. I actually like fucking you're friends. 700 00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:43,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, I do think. 701 00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:47,560 Speaker 1: But when you meet like a like a certified fag 702 00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:50,919 Speaker 1: hag where you're like, her deal is she loves gay 703 00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:53,480 Speaker 1: guys and she like relates to gay guys in a 704 00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:57,319 Speaker 1: deep way, I'm like, when I meet that person, I'm like, yes, like, 705 00:37:57,440 --> 00:37:59,080 Speaker 1: thank you, thank you for your service. 706 00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:02,360 Speaker 2: I can really agree, and I think. 707 00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:04,279 Speaker 3: I don't know. 708 00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:07,640 Speaker 1: I don't want to sound Republican, of course, but I 709 00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:10,560 Speaker 1: am sort of like like you can say fag gag, 710 00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:13,000 Speaker 1: Like it's like a you can say fagag. 711 00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:15,560 Speaker 2: To be clear, my answer is you can say fag hag, 712 00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:19,600 Speaker 2: and I'm not I don't really care. That's my personal 713 00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:22,359 Speaker 2: I actually am more. This is a conversation that has 714 00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:25,040 Speaker 2: been happening a lot, uh and I'm sure you have 715 00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:28,359 Speaker 2: seen it. The debate over whether or not women saying 716 00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:32,319 Speaker 2: twink is kind of a red flag, like are they 717 00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:36,640 Speaker 2: using the word twink to basically say fag? 718 00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:37,680 Speaker 3: Yeah? 719 00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:40,560 Speaker 2: I actually am way more not offended, but I'm way 720 00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:44,799 Speaker 2: more like bothered by the casual use of the word 721 00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:46,920 Speaker 2: twink when what you really mean is gay guy. Than 722 00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:49,280 Speaker 2: I am by the term fag hag that literally contains 723 00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:49,960 Speaker 2: the slur in it. 724 00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:51,360 Speaker 3: I agree. 725 00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:53,960 Speaker 1: I think twink just to mean any gay guy is 726 00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:56,080 Speaker 1: like literally uneducated. 727 00:38:56,480 --> 00:39:01,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I wanna Okay, One thing I actually want to mention, 728 00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:05,879 Speaker 2: I think there has been a rise in the get 729 00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:08,200 Speaker 2: this the lesbian fag hag? 730 00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:09,920 Speaker 7: M tell me. 731 00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:12,200 Speaker 2: I have seen this a lot in New York recently. 732 00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:14,879 Speaker 2: I've seen this in my friend groups. It'll be gay 733 00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:19,359 Speaker 2: guy friend group. One woman and her vibe is she 734 00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:23,719 Speaker 2: is a proud lesbian, has lesbian friends, like loves the 735 00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:27,399 Speaker 2: queer community, but she is a partier in a way 736 00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:30,279 Speaker 2: her lesbian friends can't keep up with. So she wants 737 00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:33,320 Speaker 2: to go to the rave with the gay guys. Oh 738 00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:37,480 Speaker 2: and I'm observing here. I'm saying, I'm seeing this. Yeah, 739 00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:38,400 Speaker 2: and it's rising. 740 00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:42,120 Speaker 1: Well, I think this is an amazing, groundbreaking new type. 741 00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:44,120 Speaker 2: Does this resonate with you at all? 742 00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:45,320 Speaker 3: This is resonating with you? 743 00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:45,680 Speaker 7: Yeah? 744 00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:50,400 Speaker 2: Like it is. It's like, and it's not. I'm not 745 00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:51,920 Speaker 2: I really don't want to apply that this is some 746 00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:54,040 Speaker 2: sort of self hating lesbian that like only wants to 747 00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:55,440 Speaker 2: hang out with men. It's not that at all. It's 748 00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:57,560 Speaker 2: that she literally just wants to go to the rave. 749 00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:01,320 Speaker 1: Well, it is like gay guys have the market cornered 750 00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:04,719 Speaker 1: on partying, yeah, and in a huge way. And it 751 00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:06,439 Speaker 1: is like I think if you're a lesbian who wants 752 00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:08,680 Speaker 1: to party, that's where you go. 753 00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:13,239 Speaker 2: And it's like it's lesbians who love Lady Gaga, like 754 00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:19,120 Speaker 2: who want to talk about Mayhem? Yeah, and they just 755 00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:21,480 Speaker 2: they sorry, but like they do drugs. 756 00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:22,640 Speaker 3: They want to do drugs. 757 00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:23,480 Speaker 2: They want to do drugs. 758 00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:28,920 Speaker 1: They want to literally do poppers, which I'm maybe it's 759 00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:30,799 Speaker 1: because they're being taken away and you never know what 760 00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:33,279 Speaker 1: you got till it's gone. I'm such a in a 761 00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:38,279 Speaker 1: pro popper space, right, Oh really Yeah, I like think 762 00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:40,919 Speaker 1: it's really funny to have on a dance floor. I'm 763 00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:43,160 Speaker 1: like I'm like charmed by them. 764 00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:44,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, in a different way. 765 00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:46,799 Speaker 1: Somebody when we went to Palm Springs, one of our 766 00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:49,440 Speaker 1: friends had like poppers and he had like a little 767 00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:52,360 Speaker 1: nozzle that like you put on it that so it 768 00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:54,560 Speaker 1: wouldn't spill, and then you could like put put it 769 00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:57,480 Speaker 1: in your nose and it was so fun and we 770 00:40:57,480 --> 00:40:59,319 Speaker 1: were like out of the bar, like doing poppers and. 771 00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:00,920 Speaker 3: Then like we'd like OWD. 772 00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:04,200 Speaker 2: I was like, this is so fun, well and why 773 00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:05,440 Speaker 2: can't women enjoy that? 774 00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:06,640 Speaker 3: And I think they should? 775 00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:09,239 Speaker 2: So I really think that's a big and I and 776 00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:12,080 Speaker 2: I think, I hate to say it, but that actually 777 00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:15,880 Speaker 2: makes straight fag haggs even more endangered because it's like 778 00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:17,759 Speaker 2: suddenly that they have to keep up with lesbians. 779 00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:18,680 Speaker 3: Now they have to be gay. 780 00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:23,160 Speaker 2: These girls have a husband and he's woke, and he's 781 00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:28,360 Speaker 2: woke folks, Well, my husband's. 782 00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:32,440 Speaker 1: Gone, whoa wait, I just very quickly. 783 00:41:32,680 --> 00:41:36,480 Speaker 2: I really I love the phrasing of this call is 784 00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:39,719 Speaker 2: so straight from a straighter lab listener. It's like this 785 00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:44,240 Speaker 2: girl is just like she wants to She like wants 786 00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:47,560 Speaker 2: to both be politically correct but also recognize that. Like 787 00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:49,560 Speaker 2: I know we're all past this, but I used to 788 00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:51,920 Speaker 2: feel like I should say my husband assists head. Uh yep, 789 00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:55,360 Speaker 2: I'm bisexual. Okay, predictable, I know, but that's what I am. Like, 790 00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:59,799 Speaker 2: It's like I recognize her stylist speaking so much because 791 00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:01,080 Speaker 2: it's the exact way I speak. 792 00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:05,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, it is like self awareness, like the limits of 793 00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:06,000 Speaker 1: self awareness, where. 794 00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:10,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's the the woke husband snake eating his own tail. 795 00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:14,359 Speaker 3: I think if he keeps up this whole woke thing, 796 00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:15,640 Speaker 3: he's gonna be suck in his own dick. 797 00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:23,399 Speaker 2: God, bless God, blessed, I think. And I just want 798 00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:25,680 Speaker 2: to say, I celebrate all fag. 799 00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:27,080 Speaker 3: Hags and celebrate all fat eggs. 800 00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:29,680 Speaker 1: And I think, you know when you can say it, 801 00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:31,440 Speaker 1: And I think if you feel in your heart that 802 00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:32,719 Speaker 1: you can say, you can say it. 803 00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:36,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's of course listen, it's coming from a 804 00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:41,160 Speaker 2: place of love. Yes, Okay, we're skipping. Someone called in 805 00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:44,279 Speaker 2: to tell us that they once served ted Dance and 806 00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:46,560 Speaker 2: gaspacho and he really enjoyed it. 807 00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:47,600 Speaker 3: Oh that's nice. 808 00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:51,160 Speaker 2: Someone is asking what my go to smoothie recipe is. 809 00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:53,799 Speaker 2: I gotta tell you not very interesting, just what I 810 00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:58,040 Speaker 2: have in the fridge. Seven. Okay, let's see. 811 00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:04,400 Speaker 10: Hey, you gorgeous guys. Question, Let Mary kill Nathan Fielder, 812 00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:07,720 Speaker 10: Ira Glass and Michael Barbaro. 813 00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:12,680 Speaker 3: Okay, bye, this is an amazing question. 814 00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:17,640 Speaker 1: I want to have sex with Michael Barbaro. 815 00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:19,160 Speaker 2: That is crazy. 816 00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:27,839 Speaker 3: I think I would. 817 00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:31,600 Speaker 1: Unfortunately have to kill Nathan Fielder just because I think 818 00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:35,520 Speaker 1: being married to him would be really difficult, totally, and 819 00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:38,080 Speaker 1: so I guess by default. I'm marrying Ira Glass, which 820 00:43:38,080 --> 00:43:39,880 Speaker 1: sounds like a really nice stable life, and I think 821 00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:40,719 Speaker 1: we'd have a nice home. 822 00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:43,759 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna go ahead and fuck Nathan Fielder Mary 823 00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:45,760 Speaker 2: Ira Glass kill Michael Barbaro. 824 00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:49,440 Speaker 3: Wow, look at us. You don't want to have sex 825 00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:59,840 Speaker 3: with Michael Barbaro. I don't. Here's what else you need 826 00:43:59,880 --> 00:44:00,480 Speaker 3: to know today. 827 00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:04,480 Speaker 2: I actually have really, uh, I really have moved on 828 00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:08,160 Speaker 2: to different white male news podcasters. 829 00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:10,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I don't really listen to The Daily anymore, 830 00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:14,400 Speaker 1: but yeah, there's still something about him. 831 00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:16,719 Speaker 2: Yep. Have you've seen the photo of him on the 832 00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:17,319 Speaker 2: yellow couch? 833 00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:18,200 Speaker 3: Right? Of course? 834 00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:25,000 Speaker 2: I mean that's legendary, legend. Okay, next call hi gay guys. 835 00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:27,640 Speaker 14: This is Juliana. I'm calling with more of an alert 836 00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:32,160 Speaker 14: than a question. But since the prominence of context queen, 837 00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:36,000 Speaker 14: my friend has invented a little extenditure of that, which 838 00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:39,240 Speaker 14: is the context pill. And when someone needs a context 839 00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:43,120 Speaker 14: till they need to be given context, they are willfully 840 00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:46,000 Speaker 14: without context, but they also typically don't want to take 841 00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:48,480 Speaker 14: a context pill. So we'll be like, she needs a 842 00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:51,200 Speaker 14: context till we need to huy the context hill, and 843 00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:53,560 Speaker 14: he says he needs to get her to get contact. 844 00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:59,279 Speaker 14: Love your thoughts on that as a praise and as always. 845 00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:03,879 Speaker 2: Love, Wait, Sam, I do want you because again this 846 00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:06,239 Speaker 2: is your big talent of coining verbiage. I want you 847 00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:08,799 Speaker 2: very quickly to talk about the context Diva and what 848 00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:09,239 Speaker 2: she is. 849 00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:09,920 Speaker 3: Well. 850 00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:12,839 Speaker 1: Context Diva was something from our San Francisco show from 851 00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:17,400 Speaker 1: SF sketch Fest, where we were we were like asking 852 00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:20,400 Speaker 1: for more context, and anytime we would say something and 853 00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:22,839 Speaker 1: trying to clarify the context, we would point to one 854 00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:25,000 Speaker 1: person and be like, you're the context queen, You're the 855 00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:25,920 Speaker 1: context Diva. 856 00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:29,160 Speaker 2: And she started, she like started yelling out context. Remember, Yeah, 857 00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:29,680 Speaker 2: that's it. 858 00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:32,319 Speaker 3: That's it, that's it, and we were like, context Diva, right. 859 00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:34,520 Speaker 2: She always knew the context for something, and. 860 00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:36,920 Speaker 3: She being a public notary. 861 00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:40,719 Speaker 2: Yes, that's exactly right. So she was the context Diva. 862 00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:42,279 Speaker 2: Then we got into this whole thing about how like 863 00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:46,120 Speaker 2: there should be a democratically elected context Diva, Like it 864 00:45:46,120 --> 00:45:49,279 Speaker 2: should be a cabinet position. It's someone whose job it 865 00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:53,680 Speaker 2: is when context is lacking to pipe up and give context. 866 00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:58,959 Speaker 1: Absolutely, and I love the idea of a context pill. 867 00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:03,440 Speaker 1: I really like that is so funny and I very 868 00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:07,920 Speaker 1: much understand how how bitter. A context pill can taste 869 00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:11,000 Speaker 1: like put it in peanut butter for me, because when 870 00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:14,319 Speaker 1: I don't know context and it actually like undermines what 871 00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:16,000 Speaker 1: I'm saying, that's gonna hurt a bit. 872 00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:20,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I actually think there's another issue in our society, 873 00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:23,840 Speaker 2: which is that often we're actually over prescribed context pills. 874 00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:27,920 Speaker 2: And that happens when someone it's like your friend who's 875 00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:31,200 Speaker 2: too woke, you know what I mean. It's like me saying, oh, 876 00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:34,319 Speaker 2: I'm entering the house and then someone being like, you know, 877 00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:35,640 Speaker 2: some people can't enter. 878 00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:40,040 Speaker 1: Oh my god, you're being so correct right now. That's 879 00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:40,760 Speaker 1: so smart. 880 00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:43,680 Speaker 2: And it's like to say that sometimes we're overprescribed the 881 00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:46,719 Speaker 2: context pill. Doesn't mean we're against the context pill. It 882 00:46:46,880 --> 00:46:50,120 Speaker 2: means there is like a time and a place for it. 883 00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:51,400 Speaker 3: It means talk to your doctor. 884 00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:53,799 Speaker 2: It means talk to your doctor to find out if 885 00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:55,040 Speaker 2: the context pill is right for you. 886 00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:57,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, because you might be on too high of a dosage. 887 00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:01,520 Speaker 2: And it does get to a point where, if you're 888 00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:03,960 Speaker 2: on too high of a dosage, you become paralyzed because 889 00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:06,040 Speaker 2: all you can see is context and not the thing 890 00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:09,240 Speaker 2: at hand. You cannot you literally can't see the forest. 891 00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:12,439 Speaker 1: For the trees literally, and honey, it gets so hard 892 00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:12,839 Speaker 1: to come. 893 00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:22,000 Speaker 2: No, the context I really love. I really love the 894 00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:24,160 Speaker 2: idea of the context pill. And I'm actually smelling merch. 895 00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:28,360 Speaker 1: This episode is really making you be like, damn, we 896 00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:30,520 Speaker 1: do have a lot of phrases. I know, we are 897 00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:32,440 Speaker 1: one of those podcasts that comes up with a lot 898 00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:33,480 Speaker 1: of phrases. 899 00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:34,920 Speaker 2: And they're endlessly generative. 900 00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:38,720 Speaker 1: Well, they actually are really helpful frameworks to see the world. 901 00:47:39,640 --> 00:47:46,120 Speaker 2: Well, are again our main job is creating frameworks, of course, 902 00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:49,360 Speaker 2: that is those are our roots. It is creating theoretical 903 00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:53,680 Speaker 2: frameworks that you can apply to anything in your life. 904 00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:56,000 Speaker 3: If we aren't creating frameworks, we're dead. 905 00:47:56,440 --> 00:48:05,200 Speaker 2: Literally, So take that context pill. Okay, let's see. Okay, 906 00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:08,359 Speaker 2: our minions gey straight? And is HBO Max changing its 907 00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:09,640 Speaker 2: name gear straight? Quickly? 908 00:48:09,680 --> 00:48:15,319 Speaker 1: Go Minions, I'm gonna say gay, and HBO Max I'm 909 00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:18,640 Speaker 1: gonna say that's very I think it's straight. 910 00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:21,160 Speaker 2: Actually, really, you think Hbox changing his name back and 911 00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:21,680 Speaker 2: forth is straight? 912 00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:25,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, because I think it's like sort of not being 913 00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:30,200 Speaker 1: able to commit. It's being like like, oh I I'm 914 00:48:30,239 --> 00:48:33,399 Speaker 1: gonna be crazy, Like it's it's very Demi Levado being 915 00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:36,400 Speaker 1: like I'm they them and then meaning actually, never mind. 916 00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:38,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, if HBO Max was actually queer, it would change 917 00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:43,560 Speaker 2: its name to Esmeralda and everyone would respect that. Okay, 918 00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:47,320 Speaker 2: next question, Hi, George and Sam. 919 00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:53,120 Speaker 15: I was curious, what percentage of guests that you have 920 00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:54,600 Speaker 15: on have y'all slept with? 921 00:48:56,600 --> 00:48:59,279 Speaker 2: And let me say something about this context Eva. You 922 00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:05,720 Speaker 2: know she's saying fag hag and she should and she should. 923 00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:13,160 Speaker 1: I'm okay, this is an amazing, amazing question, and it's 924 00:49:13,200 --> 00:49:15,200 Speaker 1: so juicy that I just was like, well, we at 925 00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:17,960 Speaker 1: least have to play it. I'm now scrolling through the 926 00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:19,520 Speaker 1: list of our guests just to see. 927 00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:22,520 Speaker 2: I believe my count is I don't know percentage, but 928 00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:28,000 Speaker 2: I believe my count is three. Really, and I'm I'm 929 00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:31,799 Speaker 2: using sleep with pretty liberally. I would say anything that 930 00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:33,480 Speaker 2: I would describe as like a hookup. 931 00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:37,280 Speaker 3: Okay, let me see. I'm scrolling. I'm scrolling. I'm scrolling. 932 00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:41,960 Speaker 3: I have one, so let's start there. That's good. 933 00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:45,600 Speaker 1: As I'm scrolling, I'm trying to think who your three are. Okay, 934 00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:48,480 Speaker 1: I'm scrolling, I'm scrolling, scrolling. What if I only have one? 935 00:49:49,320 --> 00:49:50,600 Speaker 1: How pitiful little loser? 936 00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:52,440 Speaker 2: I'm texting you my three. 937 00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:55,320 Speaker 3: Okay, Well, and I'm. 938 00:49:55,120 --> 00:49:57,560 Speaker 2: Counting that second one is a stretched account. But you 939 00:49:57,600 --> 00:49:58,600 Speaker 2: can also count that one. 940 00:49:58,719 --> 00:49:59,799 Speaker 3: I've traded news with one. 941 00:50:01,000 --> 00:50:04,840 Speaker 2: Oh, if we're going, we're going to We're gonna have 942 00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:07,200 Speaker 2: to We're gonna have to take a different context bill. 943 00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:12,680 Speaker 3: Okay, I literally think mine is just one still scrolling? 944 00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:14,040 Speaker 2: Is it the one we share? 945 00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:16,439 Speaker 1: No, so I guess that's two. But we didn't really 946 00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:17,879 Speaker 1: hook up. I feel we made out. 947 00:50:18,480 --> 00:50:20,800 Speaker 2: That will say. Oh, that's why I'm saying it's a 948 00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:21,840 Speaker 2: stretch to count that one. 949 00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:23,359 Speaker 3: Okay, then in that case, then. 950 00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:25,839 Speaker 2: You have two and I have three. We're using we're 951 00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:28,080 Speaker 2: using the queer definition. We're making out counts. 952 00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:34,080 Speaker 1: We're making out counts. Okay, just double triple checking because 953 00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:36,879 Speaker 1: honesty is so important. We have a lot of people 954 00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:38,960 Speaker 1: i'd like to hook up with. Oh wait, nope, that 955 00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:40,640 Speaker 1: one counts. So now I'm at three. 956 00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:46,480 Speaker 2: Wait, send them to me. All right, let's actually think 957 00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:47,200 Speaker 2: we have to move on. 958 00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:51,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, but fukay three, we both have three. 959 00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:53,040 Speaker 2: We both have three. That's really amazing. 960 00:50:53,600 --> 00:50:54,520 Speaker 3: That's really awesome. 961 00:50:54,960 --> 00:50:57,960 Speaker 2: And only one overlap, and only one overlap, and that 962 00:50:58,040 --> 00:50:59,920 Speaker 2: overlap is the least sexual. 963 00:51:00,400 --> 00:51:02,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the one that's a stretch for both of us. 964 00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:03,480 Speaker 2: It's a stretch for both of us. 965 00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:07,840 Speaker 9: Okay, Hi Sama and George, This Danny and Peter. A 966 00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:11,760 Speaker 9: question that we have is, in the year eight hundred, 967 00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:15,839 Speaker 9: what would your role be in the village. A couple 968 00:51:15,920 --> 00:51:18,080 Speaker 9: of the answers that we've had before is taste tester 969 00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:21,120 Speaker 9: for the king. Our friend has Celiac's disease and is 970 00:51:21,160 --> 00:51:23,800 Speaker 9: constantly shooting his pants, so everybody thinks he's poisoning. 971 00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:25,680 Speaker 7: We've also had poop Catcher. 972 00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:29,920 Speaker 3: Both poop related. I'm picking up on a theme. I 973 00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:30,400 Speaker 3: don't know. 974 00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:34,960 Speaker 1: I mean, ideally I would be sort of a prince. Yeah, 975 00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:38,919 Speaker 1: and I would be unemployed for the for the most part. 976 00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:41,279 Speaker 1: I'd have a wife, but I would of course hook 977 00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:44,200 Speaker 1: up with my the man who addressed me every morning. 978 00:51:44,440 --> 00:51:47,520 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, And that's pretty much my deal. 979 00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:49,480 Speaker 2: So you're why you want to be a prince. 980 00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:52,920 Speaker 3: I think I'm prince, Okay, because I'm either prince or I'm. 981 00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:57,520 Speaker 1: Dead, Like, I don't have the the chutzpah to you know, 982 00:51:58,080 --> 00:51:59,920 Speaker 1: drive in this type of environment. 983 00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:04,759 Speaker 2: I believe ultimately I would be you know, I would 984 00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:09,160 Speaker 2: be a columnist. I think that I would be trying 985 00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:13,239 Speaker 2: to put together like a zine, you know, on papyrus 986 00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:16,600 Speaker 2: or raw or stones or whatever was available. And I 987 00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:19,560 Speaker 2: think I would not be good enough at not making 988 00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:22,880 Speaker 2: the right enemy or at not making the wrong enemies. 989 00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:24,920 Speaker 2: And I think I'd be like really successful for two 990 00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:27,399 Speaker 2: years and then I would get murdered, Like I would 991 00:52:27,400 --> 00:52:29,400 Speaker 2: get executed basically in the town square. 992 00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:32,160 Speaker 1: Well, that would be fun. I would definitely show up 993 00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:32,480 Speaker 1: to that. 994 00:52:33,040 --> 00:52:33,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. 995 00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:36,120 Speaker 2: I would also be like really obsessed with being upwardly mobile, 996 00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:38,480 Speaker 2: but it's like that's not possible in these times. I 997 00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:40,799 Speaker 2: would think I'd be the first one to live the 998 00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:47,520 Speaker 2: American dream in the year eight hundred. Okay, next question. 999 00:52:48,120 --> 00:52:49,920 Speaker 3: This is a groundbreaking episode. 1000 00:52:49,880 --> 00:52:53,239 Speaker 11: Hi, Divas. I was wondering if you've been to the 1001 00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:57,480 Speaker 11: news gay bar Playhouse, and if you have. 1002 00:52:57,520 --> 00:53:04,880 Speaker 2: A review, say Trudi bye, So you haven't, I have not. 1003 00:53:05,040 --> 00:53:05,960 Speaker 3: This is a new gay bar. 1004 00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:08,400 Speaker 2: I honestly didn't realize it was new. I mean I 1005 00:53:08,760 --> 00:53:11,920 Speaker 2: went like two years ago. Am I crazy? Hold on, 1006 00:53:12,239 --> 00:53:15,319 Speaker 2: I'm looking this up. I'm looking this up Playhouse, New 1007 00:53:15,440 --> 00:53:19,080 Speaker 2: York City. Well, regardless of whether it's you or not, 1008 00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:22,040 Speaker 2: I have been once with Josh Sharp and I had 1009 00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:24,879 Speaker 2: the time of my damn life. Our dear friend Izzy 1010 00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:29,360 Speaker 2: Uncutt was performing. She absolutely ate down. It was like 1011 00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:32,799 Speaker 2: the perfect level of crowded. It's a cute space. I 1012 00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:36,600 Speaker 2: thought the crowd was fun. Ultimately, it's not like where 1013 00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:39,520 Speaker 2: I want to go every Friday night. I would say 1014 00:53:39,520 --> 00:53:42,440 Speaker 2: it exists in this midway point between, Like on the 1015 00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:47,120 Speaker 2: one end you have something like Julius, which is so 1016 00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:51,840 Speaker 2: vintage and cool that it's like it will never be lame. 1017 00:53:52,480 --> 00:53:53,719 Speaker 2: And then on the other end you have like a 1018 00:53:53,760 --> 00:53:58,759 Speaker 2: Marie Crisis, which is so a musical theater and old 1019 00:53:58,800 --> 00:54:03,480 Speaker 2: queen and piano that it's like camp. Yeah, Playhouse is 1020 00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:05,440 Speaker 2: like in the middle, so it kind of could go 1021 00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:07,080 Speaker 2: either way. Does that make sense? 1022 00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:08,280 Speaker 3: That makes sense. 1023 00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:11,960 Speaker 2: It's not like cool enough to be cool, but it's 1024 00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:17,239 Speaker 2: not uh like embarrassing enough to be reclaimed. 1025 00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:19,399 Speaker 3: Would you say it's Philly? 1026 00:54:19,480 --> 00:54:20,960 Speaker 2: It is Philly? 1027 00:54:21,080 --> 00:54:22,760 Speaker 3: Okay, Playhouse is Philly. 1028 00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:25,160 Speaker 2: But I again, I had a really great time there 1029 00:54:25,239 --> 00:54:27,719 Speaker 2: and I and I would go back, and in fact, 1030 00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:28,799 Speaker 2: I now want to go back. 1031 00:54:31,480 --> 00:54:33,560 Speaker 3: I went to the most Philly restaurant this morning. 1032 00:54:33,719 --> 00:54:35,280 Speaker 2: Oh my god, what was it? 1033 00:54:34,880 --> 00:54:35,600 Speaker 7: It was? 1034 00:54:35,719 --> 00:54:39,279 Speaker 1: It's called like La mill or something, but it was 1035 00:54:39,320 --> 00:54:42,160 Speaker 1: like the deck core was like where did you find this? 1036 00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:44,480 Speaker 1: Like it was like a weird like I was in 1037 00:54:44,520 --> 00:54:46,720 Speaker 1: the mall or like a bank lobby or something. 1038 00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:48,880 Speaker 2: Well, there's like no time for this, but you know, 1039 00:54:48,960 --> 00:54:49,920 Speaker 2: I just got back from Denver. 1040 00:54:50,560 --> 00:54:52,400 Speaker 3: Oh wow, we. 1041 00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:54,960 Speaker 2: Actually need to discuss this. Maybe we'll discuss on patron 1042 00:54:55,040 --> 00:54:59,840 Speaker 2: but so fans might remember our second episode ever, that 1043 00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:03,440 Speaker 2: topic was Denver. Max's topic was Denver his straight topic. 1044 00:55:03,680 --> 00:55:06,359 Speaker 2: Obviously at that time we would never actually talk about 1045 00:55:06,400 --> 00:55:08,759 Speaker 2: the straight topic. So if you go back, you're not 1046 00:55:08,800 --> 00:55:10,800 Speaker 2: going to find any insights about the city of Denver. 1047 00:55:11,320 --> 00:55:14,320 Speaker 2: But as a straight topic, it was so perfectly chosen 1048 00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:17,920 Speaker 2: because it really is the most heterosexual city I've ever 1049 00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:21,440 Speaker 2: been to. Wow, it is like everything you think of 1050 00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:26,759 Speaker 2: as kind of twenty tens gentrification chic, like the beer hall, 1051 00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:31,120 Speaker 2: the converted warehouse, the coffee shop that is a refurbished 1052 00:55:31,160 --> 00:55:36,720 Speaker 2: storage unit, you know what I mean. Like the giant 1053 00:55:36,840 --> 00:55:39,760 Speaker 2: market hall that has a bunch of different food courts 1054 00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:43,560 Speaker 2: in it. Like that is the entire city. It's crazy. 1055 00:55:43,800 --> 00:55:46,040 Speaker 1: Sometimes in a place like that it can be a 1056 00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:48,280 Speaker 1: little bit erotic because you're like, this is so straight. 1057 00:55:48,280 --> 00:55:50,680 Speaker 1: There must be like a CD underground, Like people are 1058 00:55:50,840 --> 00:55:54,319 Speaker 1: like hooking up total fly? Did you feel any like 1059 00:55:54,480 --> 00:55:57,200 Speaker 1: CD Undertone? Did you pop on the Sniffies or something? 1060 00:55:57,719 --> 00:56:00,759 Speaker 2: I should have? I mean I didn't because there was 1061 00:56:00,840 --> 00:56:02,920 Speaker 2: literally no way it would have. I was there with 1062 00:56:02,960 --> 00:56:05,120 Speaker 2: two friends and we were there for like forty eight hours, 1063 00:56:05,160 --> 00:56:07,120 Speaker 2: and like sure, sure I was not going to hook up, 1064 00:56:07,160 --> 00:56:10,720 Speaker 2: and so I didn't. I I will say my feelings 1065 00:56:10,719 --> 00:56:13,840 Speaker 2: about the city aside. I loved the people, Like everyone 1066 00:56:14,239 --> 00:56:17,400 Speaker 2: you it was this weird thing where everything seemed so bland, 1067 00:56:17,800 --> 00:56:20,560 Speaker 2: but then the food was great, the people were nice, 1068 00:56:20,600 --> 00:56:22,799 Speaker 2: Like it wasn't like other cities which I won't name, 1069 00:56:22,920 --> 00:56:25,120 Speaker 2: where you're like, oh my god, like get me out 1070 00:56:25,120 --> 00:56:27,560 Speaker 2: of here. Why is nothing working? Like why can't I 1071 00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:29,640 Speaker 2: go to a coffee shop and get a croissant? Like 1072 00:56:29,960 --> 00:56:32,960 Speaker 2: everywhere we went like it was good because again it's 1073 00:56:33,040 --> 00:56:36,839 Speaker 2: like it's this gentrification vibe, like it's like getting new 1074 00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:40,439 Speaker 2: blood to the area, getting the coffee shops, getting the 1075 00:56:40,719 --> 00:56:45,200 Speaker 2: concert venues. Like it was good where it needed to be. 1076 00:56:45,280 --> 00:56:46,440 Speaker 2: But then you couldn't take a walk. 1077 00:56:47,960 --> 00:56:48,640 Speaker 3: That's interesting. 1078 00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:54,720 Speaker 2: Yeah anyway, don't whatever, don't get mad at me. Okay, 1079 00:56:55,480 --> 00:56:58,799 Speaker 2: all right, well here's here's one. Here's here's one. 1080 00:56:58,960 --> 00:57:01,080 Speaker 3: Oh, and here's one for Heyday guys. 1081 00:57:01,680 --> 00:57:04,000 Speaker 8: Wanted to call in and see what you guys think 1082 00:57:04,160 --> 00:57:10,040 Speaker 8: about bald guys, Bald gay guys in particular. I recently 1083 00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:12,360 Speaker 8: gave in and shaved. 1084 00:57:12,120 --> 00:57:13,440 Speaker 7: My head and. 1085 00:57:14,960 --> 00:57:17,920 Speaker 8: I am having a hard time addressing to it. But 1086 00:57:17,960 --> 00:57:21,320 Speaker 8: I think it looks good overall. So just when you 1087 00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:26,120 Speaker 8: think about twenty nine year old gay men who are bald, 1088 00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:29,480 Speaker 8: do people respect me? I think it looks good, but 1089 00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:33,120 Speaker 8: I want to know what you think, especially George as 1090 00:57:33,160 --> 00:57:36,440 Speaker 8: somebody with great hair that goes for the buzz cut 1091 00:57:37,480 --> 00:57:39,560 Speaker 8: and why love you guys? 1092 00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:41,080 Speaker 2: What do you think? 1093 00:57:42,880 --> 00:57:47,960 Speaker 1: I think bald is very hot. I think it's complex, 1094 00:57:48,040 --> 00:57:51,840 Speaker 1: of course, because it's like losing one's hair is always 1095 00:57:51,880 --> 00:57:54,560 Speaker 1: like jarring because you're like, but like when you meet 1096 00:57:54,560 --> 00:57:57,480 Speaker 1: someone who is bald, you like don't know them from 1097 00:57:57,520 --> 00:58:00,280 Speaker 1: having hair, and so you're like, you look great, like, 1098 00:58:00,320 --> 00:58:03,040 Speaker 1: but I see the losing can be traumatic and weird. 1099 00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:06,880 Speaker 2: It's like one of those things like height that it's like, 1100 00:58:07,160 --> 00:58:12,360 Speaker 2: no matter where we are in acceptance, it's going to 1101 00:58:12,400 --> 00:58:14,240 Speaker 2: be an internalized stigma. 1102 00:58:14,440 --> 00:58:18,160 Speaker 1: It's also because of like drugs and stuff that are 1103 00:58:18,160 --> 00:58:20,480 Speaker 1: now like make it possible to have it be a 1104 00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:23,680 Speaker 1: little more optional. It is like it's we're in an 1105 00:58:23,720 --> 00:58:26,800 Speaker 1: interesting place with it where it's like do you like fight, 1106 00:58:27,080 --> 00:58:29,680 Speaker 1: do you fight like hell and be like I'm going 1107 00:58:29,720 --> 00:58:31,280 Speaker 1: to keep my hair out all costs or are you 1108 00:58:31,360 --> 00:58:34,160 Speaker 1: like like it is sort of like I'm I'm going 1109 00:58:34,200 --> 00:58:36,200 Speaker 1: to be a bald guy. Like there's something of like 1110 00:58:36,240 --> 00:58:37,360 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do that now. 1111 00:58:38,040 --> 00:58:40,600 Speaker 3: That is it's interesting. 1112 00:58:41,240 --> 00:58:43,240 Speaker 1: I like they're almost like bald guys are almost like 1113 00:58:43,280 --> 00:58:45,520 Speaker 1: going extinct in a way. Like you watch shows from 1114 00:58:45,560 --> 00:58:48,400 Speaker 1: like the nineties and you're like, like main characters are bald, 1115 00:58:48,560 --> 00:58:50,640 Speaker 1: whereas like now if you watch a show there, they 1116 00:58:50,640 --> 00:58:52,160 Speaker 1: ain't having a bald guy on TV. 1117 00:58:53,080 --> 00:58:56,160 Speaker 2: Well, and I think it's as you said, it's actually 1118 00:58:56,640 --> 00:58:59,120 Speaker 2: this is related to spin drift. I think you I 1119 00:58:59,120 --> 00:59:01,160 Speaker 2: think you can have a fully bald man on TV, 1120 00:59:01,240 --> 00:59:02,959 Speaker 2: and you can have a fully not bald man on TV. 1121 00:59:03,440 --> 00:59:05,000 Speaker 2: What you don't get anywhere that you got in the 1122 00:59:05,040 --> 00:59:09,920 Speaker 2: seventies and eighties is a balding man like just fully 1123 00:59:09,960 --> 00:59:12,720 Speaker 2: you know, again someone who like has less hair on 1124 00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:16,080 Speaker 2: top because he is in the process of balding. Yeah, 1125 00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:18,680 Speaker 2: that at some point was it was decided that that 1126 00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:19,680 Speaker 2: was not allowed to be on. 1127 00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:23,240 Speaker 3: Screen, Yeah, it's annoying. I also, I find a bald 1128 00:59:23,240 --> 00:59:24,640 Speaker 3: spot to be very hot. 1129 00:59:27,080 --> 00:59:31,280 Speaker 2: It's like so masculine to me, totally, totally, it's very masculine. Yeah, 1130 00:59:31,280 --> 00:59:35,280 Speaker 2: it's funny because people think of balding like the stigma 1131 00:59:35,360 --> 00:59:37,440 Speaker 2: is that it's somehow emasculating, when in fact it is 1132 00:59:37,440 --> 00:59:38,960 Speaker 2: the most masculine thing you can have. 1133 00:59:39,440 --> 00:59:42,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's very sexy. 1134 00:59:42,920 --> 00:59:45,600 Speaker 2: You know, one of my big crushes, Corey Stole, is bald. 1135 00:59:46,080 --> 00:59:49,920 Speaker 2: Oh that's true, I will say on a personal level, 1136 00:59:51,280 --> 00:59:54,040 Speaker 2: because I grew up with a bald dad. My dad 1137 00:59:54,080 --> 00:59:57,200 Speaker 2: has been fully bald since he was like twenty five, 1138 00:59:57,480 --> 01:00:02,080 Speaker 2: like legitimately, like I haven't even seen like maybe he 1139 01:00:02,160 --> 01:00:04,720 Speaker 2: was balding in his early twenties, but like as far 1140 01:00:04,760 --> 01:00:09,280 Speaker 2: back as photos go, especially photos with me being alive, 1141 01:00:09,520 --> 01:00:13,000 Speaker 2: he is fully bald. And so it is difficult not 1142 01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:16,440 Speaker 2: to associate boldness with my dad, which then makes it 1143 01:00:16,560 --> 01:00:21,640 Speaker 2: challenging on a sexual attraction level. Sure, I mean that's interesting, 1144 01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:24,440 Speaker 2: and it's like like I'm like, what is that the 1145 01:00:24,480 --> 01:00:25,240 Speaker 2: equivalent for you? 1146 01:00:25,280 --> 01:00:27,920 Speaker 1: I don't know, You're like the opposite of Freud, Like 1147 01:00:28,040 --> 01:00:30,080 Speaker 1: I know, literally you should like kind of find it 1148 01:00:30,120 --> 01:00:30,560 Speaker 1: more hot. 1149 01:00:30,760 --> 01:00:33,600 Speaker 2: I know it's and I guess I go back and forth. 1150 01:00:33,680 --> 01:00:35,240 Speaker 2: It's not like I don't it's not like I don't 1151 01:00:35,240 --> 01:00:37,240 Speaker 2: find it hot, but I but there is just something. 1152 01:00:37,400 --> 01:00:39,600 Speaker 2: And it was also always such a joke, like he 1153 01:00:39,680 --> 01:00:41,720 Speaker 2: was always so self deprecating about it was always like 1154 01:00:41,880 --> 01:00:44,240 Speaker 2: a thing that he was bald. It was like, you know, 1155 01:00:44,280 --> 01:00:46,040 Speaker 2: he'd go to the you know, because he has hair 1156 01:00:46,080 --> 01:00:47,120 Speaker 2: like in the back of his head. He would like 1157 01:00:47,160 --> 01:00:48,720 Speaker 2: go get a haircut and be like, I need a haircut, 1158 01:00:48,720 --> 01:00:51,120 Speaker 2: and my mom would be like, do you like where 1159 01:00:51,840 --> 01:00:54,120 Speaker 2: like show show me where they're gonna cut their you know. 1160 01:00:54,360 --> 01:00:58,400 Speaker 2: It was such a such an ongoing joke. It's like 1161 01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:00,600 Speaker 2: if like you have like a fat and all the 1162 01:01:00,680 --> 01:01:02,320 Speaker 2: jokes are about how he's fat or something. 1163 01:01:02,680 --> 01:01:08,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think it's a It is. 1164 01:01:08,120 --> 01:01:10,480 Speaker 3: One of the it's a tough one. Yeah. 1165 01:01:10,560 --> 01:01:14,000 Speaker 2: But to answer this listener's question, like, no one is 1166 01:01:14,040 --> 01:01:16,560 Speaker 2: thinking no, there's no one that's being like, oh god, 1167 01:01:16,600 --> 01:01:17,120 Speaker 2: he's bald. 1168 01:01:17,560 --> 01:01:19,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, what weld is in? 1169 01:01:19,840 --> 01:01:21,520 Speaker 1: Do you want to talk about your hair journey with 1170 01:01:21,760 --> 01:01:24,400 Speaker 1: since he oh, yes, the buzz cut. 1171 01:01:25,120 --> 01:01:30,640 Speaker 2: So, first of all, I actually do have great hair objectively, 1172 01:01:31,160 --> 01:01:34,760 Speaker 2: but because it is so unwieldy and thick. It's sort 1173 01:01:34,800 --> 01:01:37,560 Speaker 2: of like it looks like politician hair when it grows out, 1174 01:01:37,560 --> 01:01:40,280 Speaker 2: like I look like Rob Lagoyevitch. Like it's just very 1175 01:01:40,360 --> 01:01:44,680 Speaker 2: like thick. It like grows out in all directions. And 1176 01:01:44,760 --> 01:01:46,640 Speaker 2: I've just never been good at taking care of it 1177 01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:50,720 Speaker 2: or knowing what product you use, or knowing like where 1178 01:01:50,760 --> 01:01:53,280 Speaker 2: to go to get a good haircut. And I actually 1179 01:01:53,280 --> 01:01:54,880 Speaker 2: think I look fine with a buzzed head, Like I 1180 01:01:54,960 --> 01:01:58,160 Speaker 2: genuinely like how I look, and so it just is easier, 1181 01:01:58,240 --> 01:02:00,720 Speaker 2: it's cheaper and like I don't have to think about it, 1182 01:02:00,760 --> 01:02:04,040 Speaker 2: and that's sort of my But then occasionally, honestly, I 1183 01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:05,960 Speaker 2: was thinking about this when I was looking at recent 1184 01:02:05,960 --> 01:02:09,640 Speaker 2: photos of Pedro Bescal, who I do think has potentially 1185 01:02:10,280 --> 01:02:13,680 Speaker 2: opted to not be bald. But I was like, damn, 1186 01:02:13,680 --> 01:02:15,600 Speaker 2: he has some great hair, Like maybe I should grow 1187 01:02:15,600 --> 01:02:17,680 Speaker 2: my hair out and have like a nice little. 1188 01:02:18,480 --> 01:02:20,680 Speaker 3: Poof If anyone could figure it out, it's you. 1189 01:02:21,120 --> 01:02:29,440 Speaker 2: Oh stop, But anyway, that's my journey. Yeah, okay, let's 1190 01:02:29,480 --> 01:02:30,880 Speaker 2: do a last call. 1191 01:02:35,600 --> 01:02:41,160 Speaker 7: And was what is from Alaska? 1192 01:02:42,160 --> 01:02:45,280 Speaker 15: I was actually dead for this weekend, and I saw 1193 01:02:45,360 --> 01:02:48,440 Speaker 15: George that you were here too, And my brother went 1194 01:02:48,600 --> 01:02:52,040 Speaker 15: the same rock show, and I was having heared to you, but. 1195 01:02:52,000 --> 01:02:52,360 Speaker 7: He did not. 1196 01:02:53,000 --> 01:02:57,280 Speaker 15: My question is like, what's to do with taking shirt 1197 01:02:57,360 --> 01:03:01,200 Speaker 15: off in the clubs like the gay bar, the gig club? 1198 01:03:01,320 --> 01:03:03,360 Speaker 7: Right, Like, what is that? 1199 01:03:04,960 --> 01:03:09,280 Speaker 15: It's last Friday. I was at xbar and. 1200 01:03:11,040 --> 01:03:12,920 Speaker 7: It seems there was a group of. 1201 01:03:12,840 --> 01:03:15,240 Speaker 15: Guys being kind of rowdy with their shirts off, and 1202 01:03:15,280 --> 01:03:17,920 Speaker 15: I was kind of watching them, like they are straight 1203 01:03:19,680 --> 01:03:22,320 Speaker 15: guys will take their shirts off because their outfits are 1204 01:03:22,360 --> 01:03:24,320 Speaker 15: just too immaculate, Like what's going on there? 1205 01:03:25,040 --> 01:03:26,960 Speaker 7: All right? Thank you guys, love you. 1206 01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:30,040 Speaker 2: So this is like a really confusing call. 1207 01:03:30,280 --> 01:03:32,280 Speaker 3: I have to say, I'm mostly confused. 1208 01:03:32,680 --> 01:03:34,120 Speaker 2: I think we can answer it. 1209 01:03:34,240 --> 01:03:36,160 Speaker 3: I think we're gonna take We're gonna make our own questions. 1210 01:03:36,200 --> 01:03:38,000 Speaker 2: We're going to make our own question. I also think 1211 01:03:38,040 --> 01:03:41,880 Speaker 2: I maybe can't hear part of what he's saying at 1212 01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:44,200 Speaker 2: the end, because I'm like I was right there with him. 1213 01:03:44,240 --> 01:03:46,200 Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, we're answering a question about why gay 1214 01:03:46,240 --> 01:03:48,680 Speaker 2: guys take their shirts off at the bars. But then 1215 01:03:48,720 --> 01:03:50,800 Speaker 2: he was like, I was at acbar and straight guys 1216 01:03:50,800 --> 01:03:52,200 Speaker 2: took their shirts off at the bar. 1217 01:03:52,360 --> 01:03:53,680 Speaker 3: Did he say he's at acbar? 1218 01:03:53,920 --> 01:03:54,560 Speaker 2: I thought he did. 1219 01:03:54,560 --> 01:03:56,080 Speaker 3: Hold on, but he's from Alaska. 1220 01:03:56,520 --> 01:03:58,760 Speaker 15: Friday, I was at xbar and. 1221 01:04:00,120 --> 01:04:03,960 Speaker 2: Oh sorry, I was at X bar. He is censoring 1222 01:04:04,040 --> 01:04:05,880 Speaker 2: the name of the bar. He was not at acturate. 1223 01:04:05,960 --> 01:04:07,600 Speaker 3: Got it, got it? Got it? 1224 01:04:07,720 --> 01:04:11,280 Speaker 2: So all right, Sam, Actually I would like you to 1225 01:04:11,320 --> 01:04:11,680 Speaker 2: take this. 1226 01:04:13,200 --> 01:04:15,960 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna discuss vaguely what it means to take 1227 01:04:16,000 --> 01:04:16,880 Speaker 1: your shirt off at a bar. 1228 01:04:17,000 --> 01:04:17,640 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1229 01:04:17,760 --> 01:04:20,320 Speaker 1: So I have a really complex relationship with it because 1230 01:04:20,360 --> 01:04:25,160 Speaker 1: I actually find it fun and such a like like 1231 01:04:25,280 --> 01:04:29,120 Speaker 1: gay tradition to be like we're all shirtless dancing. 1232 01:04:29,240 --> 01:04:29,880 Speaker 3: That is so. 1233 01:04:30,200 --> 01:04:35,680 Speaker 1: Fun and throwback. But then it does get into like 1234 01:04:35,760 --> 01:04:38,920 Speaker 1: toxic territory very quickly, where then you're like seeing all 1235 01:04:38,920 --> 01:04:40,800 Speaker 1: these bodies and all the bodies are like the same, 1236 01:04:41,280 --> 01:04:44,440 Speaker 1: and you're like, wait, now I feel gross, Like now 1237 01:04:44,480 --> 01:04:45,600 Speaker 1: I feel the competition. 1238 01:04:45,680 --> 01:04:47,720 Speaker 3: Now I feel the like self. 1239 01:04:47,480 --> 01:04:49,640 Speaker 1: Consciousness and like in a way where I'm like it's 1240 01:04:49,640 --> 01:04:53,160 Speaker 1: supposed to feel like wow, like bodies on bodies on bodies, 1241 01:04:53,200 --> 01:04:57,240 Speaker 1: and said, it's like it like almost gets like militaristic 1242 01:04:57,320 --> 01:05:01,360 Speaker 1: and like unsexy. So I I personally am like very 1243 01:05:01,480 --> 01:05:05,360 Speaker 1: torn on whether or not to take my shirt off 1244 01:05:05,360 --> 01:05:08,720 Speaker 1: at a bar. I think, like, so there's this party, 1245 01:05:09,000 --> 01:05:11,680 Speaker 1: the summer party, here in La called Bears and Space, 1246 01:05:11,720 --> 01:05:14,920 Speaker 1: which is so to die for, And it happens like 1247 01:05:15,160 --> 01:05:17,840 Speaker 1: once a month in the summer at in the Acbar 1248 01:05:17,960 --> 01:05:22,280 Speaker 1: parking lot, and that's a really fun like everyone takes 1249 01:05:22,320 --> 01:05:24,760 Speaker 1: their shirts off because it's hot out and it's like 1250 01:05:24,800 --> 01:05:28,120 Speaker 1: a summer daytime party and it's like but it's all 1251 01:05:28,160 --> 01:05:30,400 Speaker 1: different types of bodies and it's not like. 1252 01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:32,960 Speaker 3: A circuit party. 1253 01:05:33,000 --> 01:05:36,200 Speaker 1: It's just sort of like mingling with that loud music 1254 01:05:36,240 --> 01:05:40,680 Speaker 1: with your shirt off, and it's like fun, and so 1255 01:05:40,760 --> 01:05:43,360 Speaker 1: that one feels like more ethical, but then the other one, 1256 01:05:43,680 --> 01:05:46,360 Speaker 1: Like I've been at parties where it's like like I 1257 01:05:46,360 --> 01:05:47,520 Speaker 1: had my shirt off and then I saw the other 1258 01:05:47,520 --> 01:05:48,800 Speaker 1: types of people that had their shirt off and they 1259 01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:51,000 Speaker 1: had those muscle muscle bodies, and I was like, wait, 1260 01:05:51,040 --> 01:05:53,640 Speaker 1: I hate this. I don't want to be associated with them. 1261 01:05:54,040 --> 01:05:55,240 Speaker 1: I don't know that's how I feel. 1262 01:05:55,880 --> 01:06:00,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like it's sort of it's almost if you 1263 01:06:00,120 --> 01:06:03,040 Speaker 2: zoom out a little bit, it's almost like you can 1264 01:06:03,080 --> 01:06:05,760 Speaker 2: appreciate it as just like an encapsulation of the gay 1265 01:06:05,760 --> 01:06:09,560 Speaker 2: guy experience where you're like this push and pull between 1266 01:06:09,720 --> 01:06:16,920 Speaker 2: feeling liberated and feeling completely insecure and marginalized is like 1267 01:06:17,240 --> 01:06:19,200 Speaker 2: that is just the day to day experience of being 1268 01:06:19,240 --> 01:06:25,240 Speaker 2: in community with gay men, and I think oftentimes people 1269 01:06:25,320 --> 01:06:28,720 Speaker 2: focus on only one of those elements. It's like either 1270 01:06:28,960 --> 01:06:31,880 Speaker 2: the story is that you persevered and you self actualized, 1271 01:06:32,000 --> 01:06:34,720 Speaker 2: or the story is like, oh God, poor me, I'm 1272 01:06:34,760 --> 01:06:37,360 Speaker 2: not the thing that I'm supposed to be, and so 1273 01:06:37,400 --> 01:06:41,760 Speaker 2: I don't fit into this community. And I unfortunately think 1274 01:06:42,600 --> 01:06:48,360 Speaker 2: anywhere you are and no matter what you're like different 1275 01:06:48,360 --> 01:06:51,280 Speaker 2: subidentity is it just is part of the experience of 1276 01:06:51,320 --> 01:06:55,640 Speaker 2: being gay to feel both, because the thing you realize 1277 01:06:56,720 --> 01:06:59,120 Speaker 2: as you meet these muscle guys is they are the 1278 01:06:59,120 --> 01:07:02,360 Speaker 2: most insecure of all and that's yeah, not all of them, 1279 01:07:02,360 --> 01:07:05,000 Speaker 2: but many of them. That is why in fact they 1280 01:07:05,000 --> 01:07:09,960 Speaker 2: are so like they work so hard, and they plan 1281 01:07:10,120 --> 01:07:13,400 Speaker 2: often their entire life around looking a certain way. 1282 01:07:14,480 --> 01:07:17,200 Speaker 3: You know what, I will say, I always have fun at. 1283 01:07:19,640 --> 01:07:22,560 Speaker 1: I would say an underwear party. I actually find sort 1284 01:07:22,560 --> 01:07:25,000 Speaker 1: of the proper level of silly. I find that an 1285 01:07:25,080 --> 01:07:29,160 Speaker 1: underwear party has like more humility than a shirtless party, 1286 01:07:29,440 --> 01:07:32,520 Speaker 1: whereas like shirtless is sort of like you're just like, 1287 01:07:32,560 --> 01:07:35,600 Speaker 1: look at my muscles sometimes, and then underwear party is 1288 01:07:35,640 --> 01:07:37,240 Speaker 1: more like this is kind of embarrassing. 1289 01:07:37,280 --> 01:07:38,680 Speaker 3: Like we're all in our underwear like this. 1290 01:07:39,200 --> 01:07:45,240 Speaker 2: I disagree. Really yeah, I think underwear underwear stresses me 1291 01:07:45,280 --> 01:07:48,760 Speaker 2: out more. I don't like I really don't honestly don't 1292 01:07:48,800 --> 01:07:51,000 Speaker 2: like wearing a drop strap, and like there's just something 1293 01:07:51,040 --> 01:07:55,000 Speaker 2: I would much rather. And also, if you're the only 1294 01:07:55,040 --> 01:07:57,480 Speaker 2: one not in his underwear and underwear party, you stick 1295 01:07:57,480 --> 01:07:58,880 Speaker 2: out way more than if you're the only one in 1296 01:07:58,920 --> 01:08:01,440 Speaker 2: like a T shirt at a shirtless party. And I'm 1297 01:08:01,480 --> 01:08:02,880 Speaker 2: sort of like, if I go into a shirtless party, 1298 01:08:02,880 --> 01:08:05,360 Speaker 2: depending on how good I feel, depending on how what 1299 01:08:05,360 --> 01:08:07,560 Speaker 2: my mood is, maybe I can take my shirt off, 1300 01:08:07,600 --> 01:08:08,960 Speaker 2: maybe I can keep it on. Maybe I can like 1301 01:08:09,360 --> 01:08:11,320 Speaker 2: sort of have like a little fanny pack over my 1302 01:08:11,760 --> 01:08:15,360 Speaker 2: over my torso and then be halfway through, halfway there. 1303 01:08:15,640 --> 01:08:18,000 Speaker 2: But like, there is something I feel trapped in an 1304 01:08:18,080 --> 01:08:18,839 Speaker 2: underwear party. 1305 01:08:19,080 --> 01:08:22,600 Speaker 3: Interesting, I feel so settled in. 1306 01:08:26,520 --> 01:08:28,559 Speaker 1: There's something where I'm like, we're all, we have to 1307 01:08:28,600 --> 01:08:33,600 Speaker 1: we're all it's like mutually just it's mutual destruction. Is 1308 01:08:33,640 --> 01:08:35,960 Speaker 1: that that thing where you're like we're all the same 1309 01:08:36,160 --> 01:08:38,200 Speaker 1: level of like embarrassed right now? 1310 01:08:38,240 --> 01:08:41,280 Speaker 2: I guess I see, I see what you're saying. But 1311 01:08:41,400 --> 01:08:43,719 Speaker 2: I think if everyone agreed that that would be the vibe, 1312 01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:45,479 Speaker 2: then I would like it. But then you see people 1313 01:08:45,479 --> 01:08:48,960 Speaker 2: that have like laser eyes and they're like so jeed 1314 01:08:49,080 --> 01:08:52,599 Speaker 2: out and like looking for something specific, and you're like, 1315 01:08:52,640 --> 01:08:55,479 Speaker 2: oh no, why can't why are you not being fun? 1316 01:08:56,160 --> 01:08:59,520 Speaker 1: Yeah that's a good points. 1317 01:08:59,600 --> 01:09:03,360 Speaker 2: Maybe, Yeah, it's interesting. I want to just briefly touch 1318 01:09:03,360 --> 01:09:05,400 Speaker 2: on the idea that straight guys take their shirts off 1319 01:09:05,400 --> 01:09:09,120 Speaker 2: and gay guys don't, because I understand I think I 1320 01:09:09,200 --> 01:09:11,360 Speaker 2: understand the vibe this person is going for, which is 1321 01:09:11,400 --> 01:09:15,360 Speaker 2: like almost like a tailgate adjacent, like guy that's like 1322 01:09:15,560 --> 01:09:17,840 Speaker 2: come on and then like rips his shirt off, like 1323 01:09:17,880 --> 01:09:23,200 Speaker 2: that kind of thing. But my answer to that would 1324 01:09:23,200 --> 01:09:25,080 Speaker 2: just be I promise you gay guys are taking their 1325 01:09:25,080 --> 01:09:26,000 Speaker 2: shirts off as well. 1326 01:09:26,080 --> 01:09:28,439 Speaker 1: They're gonna go ahead and be taking their shirts off. Yeah, 1327 01:09:28,520 --> 01:09:30,719 Speaker 1: I will say when I was in college, my straight 1328 01:09:30,720 --> 01:09:33,800 Speaker 1: guy friend group, we would famous we would take our 1329 01:09:33,840 --> 01:09:36,720 Speaker 1: shirts off all the time at parties because we thought 1330 01:09:36,760 --> 01:09:37,800 Speaker 1: it was funny. 1331 01:09:39,640 --> 01:09:43,799 Speaker 3: And it was kind of crazy. In retrospect, it was weird. 1332 01:09:44,560 --> 01:09:46,320 Speaker 2: Wow, this is making me excited for summer. 1333 01:09:46,880 --> 01:09:49,519 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, summer. Oh my god. 1334 01:09:49,560 --> 01:09:52,519 Speaker 1: I had a pool day and it was to die for. 1335 01:09:52,640 --> 01:09:53,719 Speaker 1: I got that summer feeling. 1336 01:09:54,400 --> 01:09:55,880 Speaker 2: Did you have a pool day at your pool or 1337 01:09:55,880 --> 01:09:58,479 Speaker 2: someone else. Yeah, damn. And you know I had people 1338 01:09:58,520 --> 01:10:01,600 Speaker 2: over for your vision. Both had things. I was like. 1339 01:10:03,000 --> 01:10:05,000 Speaker 2: I was like, actually, someone was like, you guys talk 1340 01:10:05,000 --> 01:10:06,599 Speaker 2: about your vision. I was like, damn, next year, maybe 1341 01:10:06,600 --> 01:10:08,400 Speaker 2: I'll make Sam watch and then we can talk. 1342 01:10:08,640 --> 01:10:10,040 Speaker 3: I'm ready. I'm ready to watch. 1343 01:10:11,200 --> 01:10:13,880 Speaker 2: But uh no, I when you were talking to me 1344 01:10:14,400 --> 01:10:16,240 Speaker 2: last week about how you're gonna have people over at 1345 01:10:16,280 --> 01:10:19,760 Speaker 2: your pool, I was so jealous. What did you did? 1346 01:10:19,800 --> 01:10:22,480 Speaker 2: You end up doing gay guys, mixed. 1347 01:10:22,360 --> 01:10:28,320 Speaker 3: Co workers, very very small list of gay. 1348 01:10:28,200 --> 01:10:30,640 Speaker 2: Coworkers okay, interesting. 1349 01:10:30,720 --> 01:10:34,840 Speaker 1: And and then like random gay guys. 1350 01:10:36,040 --> 01:10:37,240 Speaker 2: Okay, so gay guys. 1351 01:10:37,600 --> 01:10:39,920 Speaker 1: But but I didn't go like I didn't go very 1352 01:10:39,920 --> 01:10:41,879 Speaker 1: wide with it, like and I didn't go like comedy 1353 01:10:41,920 --> 01:10:48,080 Speaker 1: with it. I went like just like gay guys totally. 1354 01:10:50,360 --> 01:10:52,560 Speaker 1: But it was it was it was really fun. 1355 01:10:52,520 --> 01:10:55,320 Speaker 2: And actually I did that. So when I had people 1356 01:10:55,320 --> 01:10:59,040 Speaker 2: are for your vision, Josh was the only comedian, and wow, 1357 01:10:59,360 --> 01:11:01,280 Speaker 2: if you can believe them. 1358 01:11:01,120 --> 01:11:04,880 Speaker 3: I mean, I love comedians. Let's start there. 1359 01:11:05,000 --> 01:11:05,759 Speaker 2: Let's start there. 1360 01:11:06,360 --> 01:11:12,680 Speaker 1: But it is the way they socialize is like frantic 1361 01:11:13,000 --> 01:11:15,120 Speaker 1: and like all the wrong instincts. 1362 01:11:15,360 --> 01:11:19,480 Speaker 2: Like also, it makes me not be at my best sometimes. 1363 01:11:19,080 --> 01:11:23,400 Speaker 1: Too, I completely join in. I'm like yeah, like I'm 1364 01:11:24,840 --> 01:11:25,640 Speaker 1: Comedians love to. 1365 01:11:25,640 --> 01:11:26,720 Speaker 3: Gather where they're not supposed to. 1366 01:11:27,200 --> 01:11:30,000 Speaker 1: They love to like just be in like the doorway 1367 01:11:30,200 --> 01:11:33,080 Speaker 1: of the entrance, and it's like, no, come have be 1368 01:11:33,200 --> 01:11:33,680 Speaker 1: part of this. 1369 01:11:34,040 --> 01:11:36,679 Speaker 3: You're part of this. It's so crazy. 1370 01:11:36,840 --> 01:11:39,080 Speaker 2: They're always they always have to be in the core. 1371 01:11:39,280 --> 01:11:41,160 Speaker 2: They always have to be in the minority. They have 1372 01:11:41,200 --> 01:11:45,760 Speaker 2: to be in a corner observing. Yeah, and they are 1373 01:11:45,800 --> 01:11:51,320 Speaker 2: never actually part of the space that they're in. They 1374 01:11:51,320 --> 01:11:52,519 Speaker 2: are always friendly bowits. 1375 01:11:52,800 --> 01:11:55,320 Speaker 3: They are literally the kids at an adult party at 1376 01:11:55,320 --> 01:11:55,920 Speaker 3: all times. 1377 01:11:56,000 --> 01:11:58,360 Speaker 1: One hundred have to give them their own table. They 1378 01:11:58,400 --> 01:12:01,080 Speaker 1: need their own room, like sometimes they need like their 1379 01:12:01,080 --> 01:12:01,880 Speaker 1: own drink station. 1380 01:12:03,320 --> 01:12:05,200 Speaker 3: It is like, it's embarrassing. 1381 01:12:05,600 --> 01:12:09,720 Speaker 2: It's embarrassing, and of course it's also beautiful because it 1382 01:12:09,880 --> 01:12:11,960 Speaker 2: we you know, it gives you an excuse to be 1383 01:12:12,040 --> 01:12:12,960 Speaker 2: a child forever. 1384 01:12:13,320 --> 01:12:13,840 Speaker 3: That's true. 1385 01:12:14,160 --> 01:12:17,280 Speaker 1: I mean, never forget your Christmas party where we all live. 1386 01:12:17,360 --> 01:12:20,679 Speaker 2: That literally a whole room that was just the comedians 1387 01:12:20,720 --> 01:12:23,080 Speaker 2: and everyone else was just it at a normal holiday party. 1388 01:12:25,479 --> 01:12:26,639 Speaker 3: That was so funny. 1389 01:12:27,720 --> 01:12:29,280 Speaker 2: Arguably also happened at my wedding. 1390 01:12:29,840 --> 01:12:31,960 Speaker 3: That's true. That is true. 1391 01:12:33,120 --> 01:12:34,400 Speaker 1: And they have a way of making you feel like 1392 01:12:34,439 --> 01:12:36,479 Speaker 1: you're missing out, Like when I was like, you know, 1393 01:12:36,600 --> 01:12:38,680 Speaker 1: talking to your parents out of. 1394 01:12:38,600 --> 01:12:39,200 Speaker 3: The corner of my eye. 1395 01:12:39,200 --> 01:12:40,680 Speaker 1: See all the comedian's not gonna go oh my by 1396 01:12:40,680 --> 01:12:43,800 Speaker 1: they're having so much fun. I'm a fucking loser over here. 1397 01:12:43,880 --> 01:12:44,559 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 1398 01:12:48,080 --> 01:12:49,559 Speaker 2: Wow this episode was amazing. 1399 01:12:49,960 --> 01:12:52,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, start to finish, I think I'm gonna be thinking 1400 01:12:52,560 --> 01:12:56,719 Speaker 1: about expired quirk a lot expire quirk a context pill, 1401 01:12:57,280 --> 01:12:59,400 Speaker 1: context Pill, Denver. 1402 01:12:59,640 --> 01:13:04,240 Speaker 2: Denver, Which time sister is Boston, San Francisco or DC. 1403 01:13:06,280 --> 01:13:08,560 Speaker 2: A rural lesbian calling us to ask her what she 1404 01:13:08,600 --> 01:13:09,679 Speaker 2: should know about culture? 1405 01:13:11,360 --> 01:13:12,040 Speaker 3: That's awesome. 1406 01:13:13,120 --> 01:13:15,800 Speaker 2: I mean the fag hag discussion. I'm like, this is 1407 01:13:15,840 --> 01:13:17,719 Speaker 2: one of our best calling shows in forever. 1408 01:13:18,240 --> 01:13:20,680 Speaker 1: And reminder, you can always call in at three eight 1409 01:13:20,760 --> 01:13:23,439 Speaker 1: five gay guys and leave a voicemail and we're gonna 1410 01:13:23,479 --> 01:13:25,439 Speaker 1: do these intermittently. 1411 01:13:24,880 --> 01:13:26,519 Speaker 2: So and we yes, and we do them on the 1412 01:13:26,520 --> 01:13:29,720 Speaker 2: Patreon even more frequently. So you can always join that 1413 01:13:29,760 --> 01:13:32,160 Speaker 2: by going to patreon dot com slash stradio lab. 1414 01:13:33,200 --> 01:13:39,040 Speaker 1: And I just want to say thanks for listening, and. 1415 01:13:39,040 --> 01:13:42,840 Speaker 2: I want to agree. I want to agree with Sam 1416 01:13:42,840 --> 01:13:45,880 Speaker 2: in his gratitude for your listenership. 1417 01:13:47,200 --> 01:13:50,360 Speaker 1: And uh, I feel like we I keep going to 1418 01:13:50,360 --> 01:13:54,360 Speaker 1: be like, like, I have this urge to say so something, yeah, 1419 01:13:54,520 --> 01:13:56,000 Speaker 1: be like and check us out. 1420 01:13:57,560 --> 01:14:00,200 Speaker 3: It's like, well, we don't actually have anything to announce. 1421 01:14:00,080 --> 01:14:03,600 Speaker 2: Yeah yet, but we will, but we will. And I 1422 01:14:03,680 --> 01:14:05,559 Speaker 2: just want to say, have a great summer. 1423 01:14:05,960 --> 01:14:10,400 Speaker 3: Seriously, you guys, it's here. It's pretty much here. And George, 1424 01:14:10,400 --> 01:14:12,120 Speaker 3: have an amazing time in Italy. 1425 01:14:12,439 --> 01:14:15,760 Speaker 2: Thank you, and hope that your flight's an amazing time. 1426 01:14:15,880 --> 01:14:16,679 Speaker 2: Cleaning your room. 1427 01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:18,880 Speaker 7: My room. 1428 01:14:19,040 --> 01:14:23,000 Speaker 3: My room is the dirtiest it's ever been. It's crazy. 1429 01:14:23,400 --> 01:14:24,280 Speaker 3: Oh that's gonna. 1430 01:14:24,080 --> 01:14:26,879 Speaker 2: Hurt when we go on tour. I'm giving you a deadline. 1431 01:14:26,880 --> 01:14:29,599 Speaker 2: You gotta have tsa pre check before we leave for tour. 1432 01:14:30,120 --> 01:14:30,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, I gotta figure that. 1433 01:14:30,960 --> 01:14:31,040 Speaker 7: Well. 1434 01:14:31,080 --> 01:14:32,519 Speaker 1: I about to be unemployed, so I'll have a lot 1435 01:14:32,520 --> 01:14:33,400 Speaker 1: of time to figure it out. 1436 01:14:34,439 --> 01:14:37,639 Speaker 2: I literally procrastinated on it for a full ten years 1437 01:14:37,640 --> 01:14:40,639 Speaker 2: of my life. Got global entry, which includes pre check. 1438 01:14:40,720 --> 01:14:42,679 Speaker 2: I just traveled to Denver use it for the first 1439 01:14:42,720 --> 01:14:47,360 Speaker 2: time to not feel like cattle, to just like it's 1440 01:14:47,400 --> 01:14:50,960 Speaker 2: like I'm costplaying nineteen ninety seven pre nine to eleven 1441 01:14:51,040 --> 01:14:52,000 Speaker 2: airport experience. 1442 01:14:52,280 --> 01:14:55,280 Speaker 3: That's amazing. I can't imagine what that's like it's nuts. 1443 01:14:55,600 --> 01:14:57,400 Speaker 1: Even at JFK, I feel like there's no way to 1444 01:14:57,439 --> 01:14:58,479 Speaker 1: not feel like cattle there. 1445 01:14:58,760 --> 01:15:01,240 Speaker 2: I mean, listen, you're all kind of feeling like cattle, 1446 01:15:01,240 --> 01:15:03,360 Speaker 2: but you're definitely feeling like upper middle class cattle. 1447 01:15:03,479 --> 01:15:05,679 Speaker 3: Hey, I'll take it. 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