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Speaker 1: My stepsister says she's having a baby with my boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: Now she's sending evidence, and I can't believe what I'm seeing.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: Uh, sometimes evidence can be hard to take in, you

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Speaker 2: know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it can be hard to take in. Oh

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Speaker 1: this can be hard to take sitting down. Maybe you

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Speaker 1: gotta have some part of you standing up for it.

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Speaker 3: You gotta warm it up a little bit, you know,

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Speaker 3: you gotta you want it to slide in smoothly.

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Speaker 1: It's so so maybe slide evidence boothly too. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you gotta, you gotta, you gotta make sure this this,

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Speaker 1: this tape is interesting. I mean this this evidence. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: this evidence tape. So I met high twenty five female

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Speaker 1: boyfriend Tim twenty six male, three and a half years ago.

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Speaker 2: Gross.

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Speaker 1: We hit it off and he was great and sweet

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Speaker 1: and we got along perfectly. It was a fairy tale,

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Speaker 1: fairy tale until I introduced him to my family.

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Speaker 2: Yep, that's how it goes, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: It does, it does. Family family fixed it up. My

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Speaker 1: mother had gotten remarried a few months earlier. I like

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Speaker 1: my step and we get along fine. My stepsister, Sarah,

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Speaker 1: who is twenty six female, and I were friendly but

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Speaker 1: not besties by any means. She's kind of an intense

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Speaker 1: party girl, and being in our twenties, we only saw

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Speaker 1: each other at family events, so I introduced Tim to

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Speaker 1: my family, at which point we learn Sarah used to

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Speaker 1: date Tim. Oh party girl, Sarah. Okay, Oh that's kind

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Speaker 1: of weird. That's weird dynamic it is. Yeah, they used

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Speaker 1: to date when he was twenty. Tim said they broke

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Speaker 1: up because she made out with another guy at a

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Speaker 1: nightclub while drunk. Hell yeah, so classy, Sarah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Sarah got upset and started saying I had to break

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Speaker 1: up with him because it was too weird. She called

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Speaker 1: Tim her sloppy seconds and try to get her parents

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Speaker 1: to force us to break up.

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Speaker 2: What is wrong with this woman?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, you.

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Speaker 3: Are the one that broke it off, and now she

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Speaker 3: years later, I think Sarah's Tim sloppy first. Yeah, literally,

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Speaker 3: if we go by what she told us, Yeah, youper

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Speaker 3: sloppy dating him and then made out with somebody else.

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Speaker 1: And he broke up with you. He ended it? I

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Speaker 1: said no, it had been years since they'd been together,

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Speaker 1: and I didn't even know Sarah when she was dating Tim.

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Speaker 1: I got pretty upset because my family jumped on the

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Speaker 1: bandwagon and said we should break up his families. These families,

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Speaker 1: I would have thought the family would have been in

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Speaker 1: a peace corner.

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Speaker 2: See that's the logical response, Sam, that's.

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Speaker 3: What a intelligent that is baffling, literally, like on what

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Speaker 3: grounds that they once dated?

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Speaker 1: Well, I guess we'll see. For the past few years

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Speaker 1: that any family gathering, Sarah would mention how they used

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Speaker 1: to date and act like I stole her boyfriend and

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Speaker 1: has been selling that narrative to family and friends. It

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Speaker 1: became obvious that she was just jealous. Yeah, I liked him,

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Speaker 1: so ignored it and we kept dating. It's not going

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Speaker 1: to stop her. Nope, hope, he's going to keep the one.

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Speaker 1: What she wants to.

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Speaker 2: Do, that's right, claim your man.

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Speaker 1: So now a few years later, Tim and I lived together,

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Speaker 1: and we've been talking about marriage and stuff, and I

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Speaker 1: thought Tim was going to propose because he's not exactly subtle,

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Speaker 1: and we've talked about this for a while. The things

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Speaker 2: That's good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, At which point Sarah, who just moved back in

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Speaker 2: That's good, Sarah.

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Speaker 1: Okay. So it turns out Sarah is four months pregnant. Oh.

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Speaker 1: The father, she said was some deadbeat guy she hooked

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Speaker 1: she wants to keep the baby. Okay, okay. I thought

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Speaker 1: when my stepdad sent me a long text saying how

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Speaker 1: I can't marry Tim because he is the real father

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Speaker 1: of Sarah's baby. Is that true? I would guess what

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Speaker 2: The family was.

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Speaker 1: This is some elaborate prank to make them break up.

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Speaker 3: That would be such a terrible prank, but also something

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Speaker 3: that would happen on Reddit.

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Speaker 1: I was immediately very upset and confronted Tim, who was

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Speaker 1: completely shocked and said Sarah was lying, which honestly, Sarah

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Speaker 1: sounds like ALIAS. It's a good track record. He said,

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Speaker 1: There's no way he cheated on me, and he would

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Speaker 1: gladly have a paternity test to prove it. I'm sure.

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Speaker 1: I asked Sarah for more details about when they slept together,

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Speaker 1: which she says happened a few times. She was shaky

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Speaker 1: and went back and forth into details. Bro, she's just lying.

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Speaker 1: Why is the family taking her side? Sarah sucks. The

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Speaker 1: of what Tim and I were doing. She said she

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Speaker 1: I've been working from home, so I can't imagine how

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Speaker 1: lying to get us to break up because she's still jealous.

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Speaker 1: Imagine Sarah just got pregnant to make the breakup.

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Speaker 2: Oh, oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Oh that would be just crazy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that would be one of the more insane things

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Speaker 3: we've actually ever don Now.

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Speaker 1: My family is involved and has been sending me hateful

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Speaker 1: let him be with Sarah.

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Speaker 2: What why? Because she cheated?

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Speaker 1: Because it's like in their minds, in their mind that

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Speaker 1: it's it's his, it's Tim Tim is hooking up with Sarah,

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Speaker 1: and Sarah is holding Tim's baby.

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Speaker 3: But it's like Tim's still cheated on op.

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Speaker 1: At least the family unit would be together, and I.

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Speaker 2: Guess, yeah, logic.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's telling everyone he's in love with her and

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Speaker 1: I'm keeping him from her. She has no proof and

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Speaker 1: he's strictly denied everything go. This lady is crazy. I

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Speaker 1: texted her asking her to proof of any of this

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Speaker 1: it's happening, and she sent me some fake photoshop screenshots

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Speaker 1: name over a friend's number and pretended he was messaging her.

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Speaker 1: I checked, and the friend all but admitted to me

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: I actually don't know what to do now. I believe

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Speaker 1: Tim and we are still together, but this has kind

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Speaker 1: a weird situation. Sarah has poisoned my relationship with our

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Speaker 1: parents and family are taking Sarah's side beyond ridiculous, especially

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Speaker 1: I feel sick to my stomach, and Sarah is now

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Speaker 1: saying she won't give me a paternity test. So where's

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Speaker 1: your freaking proof, Sarah? For now, I've cut everyone off

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Speaker 1: there is an update. Oh but what would you do?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 3: I don't know what to do. You've come to the

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Speaker 2: Just kidding. We have no idea.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I want to know what everyone would do in

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Speaker 1: the comments, so put it in. And if you've been

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Speaker 3: If I was ope one, I would definitely try to

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Speaker 3: do everything in my power too. You gets the paternity test,

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Speaker 3: just because the crazy thing is op. He's just being

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Speaker 3: just like I feel like her like reality field is

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Speaker 3: just so like warped right now, it would be nice

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Speaker 3: to get some concrete evidence that of a DNA test,

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Speaker 3: the baby is not yim.

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Speaker 1: I would also just sit down with the parents and

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Speaker 1: Sarah's not going to be reachable? Like Sarah Sarah, don't

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Speaker 1: I don't understand why you're believing her. She has no evidence,

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Speaker 3: Remember they were still in favor of in the very

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Speaker 1: Oh that was like but I think it's because Sarah

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Speaker 3: Like, hey, look, what if if Sarah is so positive,

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Speaker 3: then she should gladly be willing to take the DNA test, right,

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Speaker 3: DNA test? Because it would disprove of what she's saying. Yeah, exactly,

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, all right, I'm buckling in.

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Speaker 1: I had forgotten about this post because my life has

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Speaker 1: been so hectic. I understand. Op. Yeah, not everyone's first

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Speaker 1: instinct when their life falls as shit used to go

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Speaker 1: and reminded me, so I'm gonna give an update. I

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Speaker 1: spoke to my parents, Tim offered to do a paternity test.

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Speaker 1: We gave them an ultimatum to believe me or have

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Speaker 1: mostly because she was pregnant and had nobody else. The

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Speaker 1: dead beat who knocked up Sarah reached out privately because

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Speaker 1: he had been sure that he fathered Sarah's baby, as

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Speaker 1: they had been hooking up at the time and he

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Speaker 1: was having the pregnancy terminated. Wow, deadbeat reached out to

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Speaker 1: my parents and said he wanted to fully support the

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Speaker 1: child in Sarah, dead beat doesn't sound so dead beat?

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Speaker 2: Does it sound so dead beat? And he could have

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Speaker 1: I know Ah. Turns out he's a plumber let's is

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Speaker 1: not the only thing, with a very good income, and

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Speaker 1: wants to be a dad to his kid, but he

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Speaker 1: doesn't want to be with Sarah at all. Sarah still

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Speaker 1: won't wait to lying about the affair, but after realizing

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Speaker 1: people weren't falling for it, she switched to faking a

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Speaker 1: mental illness to cover for her deception. Sarah is the worst.

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Speaker 1: I do believe this, though she is mentally unwell, just

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Speaker 1: not in the way she tells it. I also figured

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Speaker 1: out what a master manipulator she is. She fed my

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Speaker 1: Tim finally did propose. Hey, but we're planning a long

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Speaker 1: Mike drop. It just wraps in a little bubb feels

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Speaker 3: Like if she was like, Okay, I know I'm going to, like,

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Speaker 1: Four months in farmer Sarah.

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Speaker 2: Wow, in them feels was the only thing.

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Speaker 1: But I'm really curious about like everyone's experience with like manipulators,

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Speaker 2: Is pretty universal.

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Speaker 1: It's pretty universal, pretty common. Like we've all experienced people

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Speaker 1: that either by intention or unintentionally are manipulating you or

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Speaker 1: we would love to know your manipulation stories. Yeah, let

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Speaker 1: us know, tell us about the comments. We love you guys,

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Speaker 1: and we'll see him.

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Speaker 2: Today. I fed up by climaxing too hard.

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Speaker 1: Hey, that sounds like a good thing. Man. They'll apologize

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Speaker 2: You know, it's like you've reached the top of the mountain.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes injuries happen.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if you met it so hard you crap yourself,

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Speaker 1: you're winning. W W.

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Speaker 2: So I am a thirty three femal.

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Speaker 3: For the past six months, my siblings and I have

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Speaker 3: been planning for our parents forty years wedding anniversary.

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Speaker 1: Okay, get nice, congrats to love for forty years.

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Speaker 3: Yes, my parents have had a rough time on and

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Speaker 3: not love, maybe maybe just rebuilding, rebuilding. Yeah, yeah, for

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Speaker 3: various reasons. We don't really have any family pictures together after.

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Speaker 1: Plannies because mom and dad are continuously being broken up

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Speaker 2: Don't know where where the other is going to be.

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Speaker 2: What's happen?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't. You can't coredate family photos if dad,

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Speaker 1: there's no family you know, freaking smash in the secretary.

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 3: After planning back and forth, we decided we will take

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Speaker 3: After moving meetings and logistics and all that jazz. May

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Speaker 3: first was the date to do it. April thirtieth. I

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Speaker 3: decided to go out for a few drinks. Now after

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Speaker 1: Congrats, man, no fab do your thing.

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Speaker 3: After a couple of rounds, I ended up going back

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Speaker 2: Uh oh.

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Speaker 3: We ended up doing the nasty and he was really

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Speaker 3: I'm having a good time, which is great.

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Speaker 2: This is good.

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Speaker 1: Guys. Just make sure your ladies are having a good time.

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Speaker 1: That's like, yeah, how you you hear the bag.

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Speaker 2: To cure the bag for before you shop for your

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Speaker 2: own back?

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Speaker 1: If you catch my drift, I actually I have no

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Speaker 3: Sometimes we get lost in the sauce, but we always

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Speaker 1: Baby.

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Speaker 3: He was making sure that I was pleased. Hey hey,

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Speaker 3: he kept teasing me.

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Speaker 1: Though.

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Speaker 2: It ended up with me climaxing the.

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Speaker 3: Hardest I have ever in my entire life. In fact,

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Speaker 3: in fact, I climax so hard I popped a blood vessel.

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Speaker 2: In my eyeball.

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Speaker 3: What wow, Literally that sounds like a good time. She's

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Speaker 1: It's like your eyeball just go completely bloodshot, Like what

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Speaker 3: There's like a big It's almost like someone just put

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Speaker 3: a droplet of like blood in your in the whites

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Speaker 3: of your eyes, like.

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Speaker 2: You can see a big red blotch there?

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Speaker 1: Does it go away?

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Speaker 3: Well, we might find out, see so uh so yesterday

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Speaker 3: I walked up for the family pickictures with my eye

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Speaker 2: The pictures, Oh.

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Speaker 1: I forgot about the pictures? Oh my god?

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Speaker 2: Right, like who would have thought? Who would have thought that?

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Speaker 1: Not?

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Speaker 3: I walked in for the family pictures with my eyes

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Speaker 3: filled with blood for the pictures that were supposed to

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Speaker 3: be a memory we could have is how strong we

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Speaker 3: are together?

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 1: Wow that that is a beautiful sentiment. But unfortunately you

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Speaker 3: Great in theory, I had to make up a story

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Speaker 3: in order for my siblings not to lose it. That's

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Speaker 3: a little I don't know, like I would be like, yo,

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Speaker 3: what happened? But also like your eyes bleeding so I'm

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Speaker 3: not going to press you too much.

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Speaker 1: like let me learn from your mistakes? Yeah, like what

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Speaker 3: And then no, he's like, uh like walking through So

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Speaker 3: I ran to covered.

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Speaker 3: So they made me stand in profile to try and

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Speaker 3: cover up the bloody.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's I mean due the back of my head. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and this is kind of fun. She had some quick

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Speaker 3: be photoshopped, yes, most likely. Still, it doesn't stop my

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Speaker 3: siblings from freaking out. Why abstain for a year? My

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Speaker 3: sex drive was epped up because of anidepressants, and I

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Speaker 3: decided to do a cleanse while it healed. Did you

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Speaker 3: see the guy again? He called me today and we

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Speaker 3: talked about getting to know each other. Very nice and

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Speaker 3: can this really happen? Yes, you can pop blood vessels

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Speaker 1: Wow, learn something new every day.

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Speaker 2: If you really really do