Speaker 1: Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No
Speaker 1: Sellers podcast with your host Now funk that with your
Speaker 1: low classes, Malone. Okay, I need you to be honest
Speaker 1: this episode. I'm always host, bro not because sometimes you
Speaker 1: mean you have to kind of like like, uh, well,
Speaker 1: I would not say anything derogatory towards my soul mate
Speaker 1: because I don't want you to say anything derogatory about anybody.
Speaker 1: I don't even like to turn derogatory like um, because
Speaker 1: I think it's like chicken shit. It's like, if it's
Speaker 1: the truth, Like, if it's the truth, we should be
Speaker 1: able to express it. Feel me in a in a
Speaker 1: in a um, in a manner that's not meant to
Speaker 1: be you know, shitty. But like if somebody is five
Speaker 1: ft one and you say, hey, you're short, because they
Speaker 1: have a you know, a dislike for the fact of
Speaker 1: them being short, doesn't mean that we shouldn't be able
Speaker 1: to say, hey you sure because they don't like that.
Speaker 1: Does that make sense? Yeah, it makes sense. But I
Speaker 1: do believe in the same token that, um, we are trained,
Speaker 1: we are trained mentally from the time we're kids to
Speaker 1: not hurt people's feelings, right, Sure, I agree with that.
Speaker 1: For shure. So I think sometimes rather than telling people
Speaker 1: the truth, we kind of admit the facts a little
Speaker 1: bit and kind of embellish some certain things a little bit.
Speaker 1: Like you know, you see the girl that me have
Speaker 1: lost a few pounds and she's talking about it, like, hey,
Speaker 1: you lost so much way that she's twirling around. You
Speaker 1: still think you're here, like, damn, you're still fat as fuck.
Speaker 1: Well again, it's like somebody was asking me, They said,
Speaker 1: you know what, you're nice, and I'm like, no, I'm
Speaker 1: not nice, I'm kind. And then somebody told me you're rude.
Speaker 1: I said, no, I'm not rude, I'm cruel. Right, it's
Speaker 1: and they're different, right, and cruel in the sense that, well,
Speaker 1: we're having a verbal exchange. Whenever we're talking, I'll tell
Speaker 1: you what I honestly think, and I'm not telling me
Speaker 1: with intensive of hurting your feelings. But I'm also not
Speaker 1: going to not tell you the truth because it's hurting
Speaker 1: your feelings. What a thing, ge, Ever since i've known you,
Speaker 1: we're going on twenty some years, you've always been brutally honest. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think that's more the thing. I think you brew honest.
Speaker 1: I remember it. I never will forget one day. I
Speaker 1: always laugh about this Christopher, who's my son. I remember
Speaker 1: one day were driving down Street and cheek Way, Chris. Still,
Speaker 1: that's got signed to the Pittsburgh Stellers. So let's just
Speaker 1: put the extras on it. Let's put the truth on it.
Speaker 1: So we were riding down this when you stayed downtown.
Speaker 1: We was in there listening to your album, right, were
Speaker 1: listening to the Glasshouse of thank And you smell something,
Speaker 1: you get like this? You said, I smell something? Still
Speaker 1: did you presh your teeth this morning? And I'm like,
Speaker 1: I said this, motherfucker just told our breast smell like ship.
Speaker 1: You know you did? And still, did you prush your
Speaker 1: chief this morning? I was, I wouldn't like this, I said, Damn,
Speaker 1: I said, no, it's not me, Bro. You said that though.
Speaker 1: I just asked because I figured, like we brothers for me,
Speaker 1: so why would I not be able? You know, I'm
Speaker 1: just saying I'm asking because I do have too pacing too, bro,
Speaker 1: And I don't mean it negatively, like you know, none
Speaker 1: of us is perfect. But the point I was saying is, um,
Speaker 1: I was listening to uh little Babies, baby mom. It
Speaker 1: was on Instagram and she said something to the equivalent
Speaker 1: of men don't value or appreciate women like they did
Speaker 1: in the eighties or nineties. And I thought that was
Speaker 1: a bit strange, right because I thought to myself, Um,
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, that's that's a thought. And I
Speaker 1: was explaining this to my my people, Nia. I was
Speaker 1: telling my AGirl me. I was like yeah, and she
Speaker 1: was like yeah, well, you know, she was like, do
Speaker 1: you think that me and value women like they did
Speaker 1: in the eighties and nine? And I'm like, what's really
Speaker 1: valuable about modern women? Well? You know what, I always
Speaker 1: laugh when people say that, and yet like that, back
Speaker 1: during that time period, it wasn't shitty things happening. You know,
Speaker 1: it was men cheating on their wives. Back then, men
Speaker 1: were cheap when they watched in the nineteen fifties, when
Speaker 1: America was so called at this purist. I think people
Speaker 1: have always been people, and some people make choices now
Speaker 1: And at the end of the day, what do you
Speaker 1: determine as value? Like somebody says you value somebody like,
Speaker 1: how you can you make the determination? It's like, I
Speaker 1: value my wife. I think appreciation is worth more than
Speaker 1: it's the same thing as value. Why I appreciate my
Speaker 1: wife with a great deal. Yeah, I value a great deal.
Speaker 1: I value my wife, but that doesn't mean that she's
Speaker 1: not gonna do some sh I don't like sometimes and
Speaker 1: not even that right so, no sellings. Gil Peter is
Speaker 1: somewhere in Los Angeles. We gotta do a live podcast
Speaker 1: on Thursday show. He's not here right now, He's gonna
Speaker 1: talk shit. I got my big brother, no settings, resident
Speaker 1: gas and podcasts are extraordinaire and on the verge of
Speaker 1: becoming a millionaire. My big brother still hey, so, and
Speaker 1: I want to say something right now. She know you
Speaker 1: want to talk about people that don't value stuff. You
Speaker 1: have a certain segment of your fan base that seems
Speaker 1: to get irk when I come on as motherfucker because
Speaker 1: I don't I want to tell that particular base of people.
Speaker 1: I get some people that like it. For all you
Speaker 1: people out there that have complaints about me, I'm trying
Speaker 1: to tell you something right now. You know what you do.
Speaker 1: You can fast forward my parts and took you her
Speaker 1: glasses as talking fast. I'm not even gonna go allow
Speaker 1: your punk as to listen to me today. You I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna crazy with my presence, not I got that
Speaker 1: off my chips because I see these little cocky ear again.
Speaker 1: I don't like steal when he's on there. He does,
Speaker 1: he's an ogre. He doesn't add value to the conversation.
Speaker 1: Oh critical, motherfucker's I don't get a million dollars now.
Speaker 1: Still we'll be having some dope conversations we always have.
Speaker 1: But no, so I was asking her. So I asked me,
Speaker 1: I said, well, what's valuable about a modern day woman?
Speaker 1: And you can tell she got so mad, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: it's just an honest question. And she said, well, what's
Speaker 1: not valuable? She said, you know? Uh. She was like, um, well,
Speaker 1: what's not valuable? I said, well, if we talk about
Speaker 1: modern day women, right, culturally trending is you know, plastic surgery.
Speaker 1: So it makes me feel like, right when you see
Speaker 1: somebody like I know, people who have done surgery on themselves,
Speaker 1: plastic surgeries, bbls knows jahs whatever, right, the whole ordeal
Speaker 1: breast in fact whatever. And I always notice like, you
Speaker 1: have to really not like yourself. And so when I
Speaker 1: was telling her that, she was like, no, you don't
Speaker 1: have to really not like yourself. And I'm like, yes,
Speaker 1: you do like you have to not like yourself. Like, right,
Speaker 1: every human being is insecure about something that they look
Speaker 1: at in the mirror, right, But the separation is the
Speaker 1: people who decide to live with it and embrace it,
Speaker 1: you know, find a way to to understand the beauty
Speaker 1: in the in the difference of that. And I was
Speaker 1: just listening to it, and I always say this to
Speaker 1: my uh. I always say this to my people, to
Speaker 1: my nieces, different people, and I say, man, like, like
Speaker 1: that whole culture right now where like we know who
Speaker 1: people's baby mothers are, not we don't know who people's
Speaker 1: wives are. Like like at one time, we used to
Speaker 1: know who people's wives were, Like, right, I knew who
Speaker 1: people were married to if they were Like I know
Speaker 1: who Cookie is, right, Magic's wife Anita? Right, I knew
Speaker 1: who I need to. Jordan was like, you had to
Speaker 1: be married. I didn't know, you know, Magic Johnson's baby
Speaker 1: moms for me. And we're in a climate today to
Speaker 1: where I am entirely too aware of who other people's
Speaker 1: baby mother are and and it's like I know who
Speaker 1: little baby's baby mother is, right, And I'm like, I
Speaker 1: don't know her for no talent. I don't know her
Speaker 1: because she's a great singer. I don't know her because
Speaker 1: she's a great fashion nista. I know her who she
Speaker 1: is because little baby is a very talented rapper and
Speaker 1: he has a baby with her. And I'm listening to
Speaker 1: her give her opinion on how men value women, and
Speaker 1: I'm thinking to myself because like, not only should I
Speaker 1: not be listening to this person, you know, like everybody
Speaker 1: deserves to be heard, but I shouldn't be listening. But
Speaker 1: then I thought about it, and I'm like, it's obvious
Speaker 1: this young lady gotta bbl. She hadn't even grown up
Speaker 1: to her full one and body, right, and she don't
Speaker 1: realize how that's gonna affect her future going forward. But
Speaker 1: I just started thinking about, like, what's value if you
Speaker 1: don't like immediately? What pulls back is if you don't
Speaker 1: value yourself. Right, So I realized women in the past, now,
Speaker 1: maybe they would have got plastic surgery if it was simpler,
Speaker 1: if it was easier as it is today. Right, it's
Speaker 1: much easier today. It's not easy, but it's much easier today,
Speaker 1: and it's much more affordable. Well, I think women in general, bro,
Speaker 1: women in general, you have to understand their dynamic First
Speaker 1: of all, women spend so much time worried about what
Speaker 1: other people think of them versus what they think about themselves. Right,
Speaker 1: and if you the point is when you said that, right,
Speaker 1: that's gonna cause an uproar, and and it's a truffything.
Speaker 1: Everything about their actions say that's true. But because there
Speaker 1: is no you know, action dictionary to say that this
Speaker 1: means this outside of the certainties. So even them getting
Speaker 1: plastic surgeries and bbls right, don't mean that they are
Speaker 1: unhappy with who they are. Like, it doesn't have to
Speaker 1: me that even though well they're using to get Yeah,
Speaker 1: smart money said, that's what it means getting. You know,
Speaker 1: usually if a woman goes out and gets now, I'm
Speaker 1: not talking about a breast reduction. Sometimes women get breast
Speaker 1: reductions for help from he even though, you know, for help.
Speaker 1: So when I see the girls and they go out
Speaker 1: and get these balloons and planting into their ass, right,
Speaker 1: and they come out and their body they look like ants,
Speaker 1: you can tell that their body phys their physiology doesn't
Speaker 1: permit them. They're not supposed to have that. You know,
Speaker 1: you see a girl she maybe five too, and her
Speaker 1: hips around it like this, and then she got this
Speaker 1: little waste and then you see her boobs and stuff.
Speaker 1: They look like ants, you know what I mean. So
Speaker 1: they don't look right. But but I think, and I
Speaker 1: was explaining this to some of my other people, and
Speaker 1: I was like, the problem with women is and it's
Speaker 1: not women, the problem with human being are It is
Speaker 1: how shallow they see beauty, right, beauty. Beauty is becoming
Speaker 1: I think we talked about it in a conversation about
Speaker 1: beauty standards before, But beauty is becoming this monolithic thing,
Speaker 1: like this is the traditional look of a bad bet
Speaker 1: you for me, this is the traditional look. And I
Speaker 1: was thinking about it, right, like when I was a kid,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, in the eighties, Like right,
Speaker 1: you remember the seventies. The seventies is before me. But
Speaker 1: the seventies, wasn't the baddest woman like Pam Greer, like
Speaker 1: Foxy Brown, the most beautiful woman to y'all right, yeah exactly,
Speaker 1: And I'll tell you what it was. And I was
Speaker 1: a little kid in the seventies, so I don't remember
Speaker 1: a whole lot about the seventies. I do remember, like
Speaker 1: the till the end of the seventies, like when I
Speaker 1: was eight nine years old seventy nine. Um, the thing
Speaker 1: back then, people had a natural beauty. Back then, they
Speaker 1: didn't wear all the makeup they were asked for for
Speaker 1: the most part of it tied the hair back in
Speaker 1: the ponytail, right, But they were profoundly that they were beautiful. Right.
Speaker 1: It's like the thing right now is that we're over
Speaker 1: consumed with content, right. Not right. So everybody is looking
Speaker 1: at their Instagram. You'll see a woman that you flicking
Speaker 1: the Instagram. They're looking at other women and they're judging
Speaker 1: themselves based on all these other women. Look who might
Speaker 1: have had She don't know. She's looking at Kim Kardashi
Speaker 1: and Kim Kardashi and used to be other like if
Speaker 1: you saw pictures of bourbon, I'm not ugly. She was ugly.
Speaker 1: She looked like every girl running around Burbank. Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1: She looked like a normal average Burbank girl, Burbank Glendale girl.
Speaker 1: So she got that stuff and she probably you know,
Speaker 1: she has extinctions in her hair, a lot of that.
Speaker 1: It's not her real hair. So they've been through a lot.
Speaker 1: And you got a person at home whose husband might
Speaker 1: be making sixty thousand dollars a year. They may have
Speaker 1: a job, but they're making forty and they look at
Speaker 1: these women that they had million dollars surgeries and thinking like, Okay,
Speaker 1: this is my comparison, this is what I want to be.
Speaker 1: Because they may catch you taking a glimpse of somebody else,
Speaker 1: so now they feeling figure to that person. So therefore
Speaker 1: they want to change your things. But in your mind,
Speaker 1: you're thinking out like you just the way you are
Speaker 1: you but not gonn do ship to yourself? Um yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: but even moving out of that space of you know
Speaker 1: where kind of estimating what they think, because the reality
Speaker 1: is will never get what they really think they you know,
Speaker 1: I mean, they just ain't going They're not gonna be
Speaker 1: forthcoming with that type of information. Well, men are doing
Speaker 1: it too. I promised I wouldn't say anything because my
Speaker 1: homeboy had to sign a you know, nine disclosure agreement.
Speaker 1: But it's a well known basketball player who just went
Speaker 1: and got his second penis in planting. And you gotta
Speaker 1: keep in mind the implants he's getting cost thirty dollars,
Speaker 1: a problem, the procedure he's getting right. So the dude
Speaker 1: tickets pecker, I guess from him having a seven inchs pecker.
Speaker 1: I guess because I don't know about picker, so you know,
Speaker 1: I don't know. This is what I've just been told. Right,
Speaker 1: he had a seven inchs pector at first, he wanted
Speaker 1: a nine inxpeccer, right, So they gave nine inches. The
Speaker 1: doctor told him, he said, this is gonna take a
Speaker 1: while to do it. He didn't recommend it. He recommended
Speaker 1: he only got an inch, but he said, well, you
Speaker 1: know your average size, right now, why do you want
Speaker 1: to get this? We'll like he's going to have a
Speaker 1: bigger penis. Right. Then he came back for another one
Speaker 1: a year later, right, and says he wants to get
Speaker 1: twelve inches. Now, I will say this. He was married
Speaker 1: to one of the Kardashians, so you know they puts
Speaker 1: is probably deepest motherfucking deepest Atlantics, right, And so he's
Speaker 1: judging his performance in his wife game based on this girl,
Speaker 1: and he's feeling like he's not fulfilling her needs. Right,
Speaker 1: but he might be fine to the average that to
Speaker 1: the average other, you know, another female. Right, So he's
Speaker 1: basing his self esteem on what she wants and what
Speaker 1: she said, or he probably just feels that way in
Speaker 1: his mind. He probably feels like a she and holling
Speaker 1: and screening when he knocked down and he's not doing
Speaker 1: his job. But I wouldn't give a damn. Ain't no
Speaker 1: way in the world I'm going. I'm never putting somebody
Speaker 1: cut on my penis, my manhood. That would be tough
Speaker 1: to compromise the feeling. I wouldn't give a damn when
Speaker 1: I would be entirely too much about somebody else, like
Speaker 1: man Like if I got four inches and it requires
Speaker 1: me to feel less for somebody else to feel better,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do it. Well, that's what I'm saying to plus.
Speaker 1: They say with those surgeries you do lose some feeling.
Speaker 1: I would imagine so, because you're taking your natural self
Speaker 1: and getting ship injected into it. And then my thing
Speaker 1: is this. I think when people go out and get
Speaker 1: these surgeries, they don't think about the long term effects.
Speaker 1: Just like this. We are naturally, as human beings, supposed
Speaker 1: to age and die. That's it. I for damn. Shoot,
Speaker 1: don't look like I did when I was twenty five
Speaker 1: years old. I give my wife credit. My wife had
Speaker 1: three of my children. Man, she's always kept a way
Speaker 1: to order. My wife still got a good figure. She's
Speaker 1: not looking all funny. I see some of these women
Speaker 1: walking down the street our age and they look like
Speaker 1: Milton Frostly snowman. You know, they just sagging everywhere. But
Speaker 1: the thing, you know, that's time. It's a progression. My
Speaker 1: gut is hanging up with my bill buckle. Now I
Speaker 1: don't look nowhere near like I did when I was
Speaker 1: in my twenties. That's a progression. I want the woman
Speaker 1: when I went to progress with me. I don't need
Speaker 1: you because my thing is this. These people get these
Speaker 1: plastic surgeries. When they turn sixty seven years old, they
Speaker 1: still have certain features on their face, like their nose
Speaker 1: maybe plastic or whatever. Right, they're looking funny. It's like you,
Speaker 1: we have to use we have to be happy, but
Speaker 1: the God gave us. And if something like you don't
Speaker 1: accept that, man, let me ask you a question. How
Speaker 1: important is beauty? Well, I'm gonna tell you something, man,
Speaker 1: I had this conversation. I've been fortunately married over thirty years. Right,
Speaker 1: I really think you know when you first meet somebody,
Speaker 1: see the young, the vibrant, right, and you're growing together, Right,
Speaker 1: you still see that person. That's the same. If you
Speaker 1: really love that woman, you still see her as that
Speaker 1: same young, vibrant girl. You're always growing together. Right, It's
Speaker 1: like I think I feel my wife is the most
Speaker 1: beautiful woman on the planet. Like I'm sure you do
Speaker 1: yours too, Right, We're supposed to feel that way, and
Speaker 1: if you don't feel that way about your wife, that
Speaker 1: maybe something wrong, you know, But it's that's that's such
Speaker 1: a shallow pretense to just to get with somebody, or
Speaker 1: you don't get me wrong, I want to marry no
Speaker 1: ugly asked woman. But at the same talk, and I'm
Speaker 1: with a woman that's attractive to me. I don't give
Speaker 1: a fucker's don't nobody else like her? This is my
Speaker 1: thing though, right, Um, I think it's a very minute
Speaker 1: word because somebody, right, beauty is kind of from this
Speaker 1: shallow perspective. Not completely, but yes, most of the time
Speaker 1: it's from a shallow perspective. And if you hung on
Speaker 1: that actual simple perspective for me, that beauty fades for sure.
Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying they don't look good,
Speaker 1: but it's different to not have something versus having something.
Speaker 1: Like people probably thought Bentley's is the greatest car in
Speaker 1: the world. To somebody who had it is just a car.
Speaker 1: It's it's all a how somebody else feel about it. Um.
Speaker 1: And that's why it's important that a woman's beauty, you know,
Speaker 1: be be like skin deep. It it's internal, you know,
Speaker 1: I mean, because then like you have to shine from
Speaker 1: the inside out consistently, you know what I mean, because
Speaker 1: everything on the outside, no matter what changes what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So I was just saying that to say that it's
Speaker 1: like you have people who you know and I'm not
Speaker 1: a big fan of of I feel like I love
Speaker 1: with Charlotte Manner and then be talking about mental health.
Speaker 1: But I definitely think it's starting to be a bit,
Speaker 1: you know, a lot, you know what I'm saying. It's
Speaker 1: such a very vast and general concept, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean that it really don't have an end. But
Speaker 1: I appreciate that concept when it comes to this because
Speaker 1: you have so many women trying to, like a girl
Speaker 1: told me, fix something that they feel is broken, right,
Speaker 1: But what's broken is how their their brains sees it.
Speaker 1: Does that make sense? It makes a lot of sense.
Speaker 1: Like you know, I give you a perfect example. Do
Speaker 1: you remember when Biggie first introduced Junior Mafia? Right, sure,
Speaker 1: I thought Kim was a beautiful black woman. I thought
Speaker 1: she was a good looking girl. I think, you know,
Speaker 1: I look at her now, she looks like Madam. You
Speaker 1: remember that puppet Madam No, I'm gonna show you right now.
Speaker 1: Hold on, look him looked like Madam now And and
Speaker 1: it's kind of like you know, I think people, man,
Speaker 1: they look at society, the standard that society sets for
Speaker 1: for beauty, right, and they I think it folks, what
Speaker 1: they here? Bro? Let me ask you a question. Is
Speaker 1: a woman who makes a lot of money more valuable
Speaker 1: than a woman who does it? No? Not necessarily, I
Speaker 1: think in their own mind. See, some people place values
Speaker 1: on the most primitive things. Geeky, I'm just I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: let's let's just focus on women, right with with value
Speaker 1: when it comes to that, right, Like, would you value
Speaker 1: a woman taking care of you? Do you think you
Speaker 1: could value that? Like, let's say if Maria hits a
Speaker 1: lot of if she makes two hundred millions h do
Speaker 1: you would you value her buying the house, buying your car,
Speaker 1: buying you clothes, buying you would you value that even
Speaker 1: though that's been your wife of twenty plus years? Right?
Speaker 1: And she decide she won't take care of me. Now, yeah,
Speaker 1: do you think that would be valuable? Hey? Motherfucking yeah,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't. You know what the thing is. I wouldn't
Speaker 1: be with her just for that. But if she tell
Speaker 1: me I want you to kick back, I'm the bread
Speaker 1: winner now, I wouldn't have no problem with that. What
Speaker 1: time you want done? When you come on? I don't
Speaker 1: believe that now she don't get me wrong. I wouldn't
Speaker 1: stop doing what I do now, don't get twitter she said,
Speaker 1: I don't want you to do what you do anymore?
Speaker 1: Well she if she's making two und a million dollars,
Speaker 1: I would say, you know what this is. I don't
Speaker 1: do what I do just for money is financially rewarding.
Speaker 1: But I do this because I don't want you to
Speaker 1: do nothing. I just want you to wait on me
Speaker 1: handing foot. Uh No, that wouldn't work right us. It's
Speaker 1: something inside of you that that has to go out
Speaker 1: and build right It's it's it's like a wire. So
Speaker 1: women having financial benefits really is not valuable to a
Speaker 1: whole man, you know what I mean? A W H
Speaker 1: O L E like a complete man, you know, as
Speaker 1: complete as you can before you find your woman, right,
Speaker 1: I don't know if that's really value. Like still, I think, like,
Speaker 1: you know, you cook nigger like a like a like
Speaker 1: an old Southern slave lady. You know what I mean,
Speaker 1: you get cracking and and you know you're decent. You know,
Speaker 1: I've seen you clean up behind yourself. You clean decent.
Speaker 1: You know. I just couldn't see you just waiting hand
Speaker 1: and foot. I don't give a damn what Maria guy.
Speaker 1: I just couldn't see that. It's not you that's right there,
Speaker 1: and that's not that's look him, look right now, they'll
Speaker 1: kill gonna fire your ship up. Yeah, she went from
Speaker 1: being you know. And and I'm not giving him a
Speaker 1: hard time, man, I get it, I get it. She
Speaker 1: does kind of favor that I'm not giving. Sure, I'm
Speaker 1: not giving her a hard time man. But but that's how,
Speaker 1: you know, I think she's turned herself into that man.
Speaker 1: And and I just genuinely think. Now I could be wrong,
Speaker 1: but I just cannot believe this is not true. Somewhere
Speaker 1: along the line, growing up, it wasn't enough people telling
Speaker 1: her you're beautiful, And then as she got older, men
Speaker 1: did things to her to make her question how beautiful
Speaker 1: she was. Now that don't mean that's exactly what it is,
Speaker 1: because no ge, what happens he is people have situations
Speaker 1: in their life that mess with their self esteem. It
Speaker 1: all comes down to people's self esteem. Because I'm gonna
Speaker 1: tell you what I see, and that's what I love
Speaker 1: about our people. Man, we got so much flavor. Right,
Speaker 1: you will see a big girl walking down the street
Speaker 1: and going to the club. Right, she dressed to the nines,
Speaker 1: got her nails did, and got her her pumps on.
Speaker 1: And you can't tell her she ain't fresh to them
Speaker 1: because she feels good. But for herself, we can get
Speaker 1: and steal this. On an other spectrum, you have this
Speaker 1: woman it's heavy said. They feel like ship right because
Speaker 1: some man don't call her fat, some dude that she
Speaker 1: loves and use it. What happens els It's not that
Speaker 1: women give a damn about just a regular man's opinion
Speaker 1: about them somebody they love and admire or somebody they like.
Speaker 1: They cutting them down due that does something their psyche
Speaker 1: and their self esteem. Yeah, you understand what I mean. Like,
Speaker 1: let's say, if you've got a sister and she heavy said,
Speaker 1: and you always called her fat, that's gonna bother to
Speaker 1: a certain extent that's gonna call you in her life,
Speaker 1: even if she never says anything about it. It's all
Speaker 1: about people's esteem and that's how we we are pretty
Speaker 1: much programmed from the time we've children with certain in
Speaker 1: their traits, right, Like you have some mothers who starved
Speaker 1: their daughters. Or you're getting fat, so don't eat that,
Speaker 1: and the girls ain't fat. It's like, my whole thing
Speaker 1: is this, bro, I've never done that, but none of
Speaker 1: my children. They are who they are meant to be.
Speaker 1: If they're a little on the heavy side, that's what
Speaker 1: it is. Now when it comes to health, I get
Speaker 1: my family still my ask man, you know, Marie, if
Speaker 1: I go into trying to buy ding dongs and cakes
Speaker 1: and ice cream, by the time we get to the
Speaker 1: check out wine, all that ship is gonna she don't
Speaker 1: put that ship somewhere And he's like, no, you're not
Speaker 1: about to happen stroking And I don't mind, wife, But
Speaker 1: that's love the right. It's not that she's telling me
Speaker 1: on YouTube. Fact, Maria got like she I go walk
Speaker 1: three miles every night, and now you know what I
Speaker 1: do what I do with my wife three miles dude. First,
Speaker 1: it was kind of a hit where there was a
Speaker 1: lot of wear and tear on my knees through But
Speaker 1: I actually I'm feeling better now. So before I get
Speaker 1: this surgery, I would have lost some weight and I'd
Speaker 1: be cool, and I'd probably recover faster, you know, just
Speaker 1: because of my wife. But she's not telling me to
Speaker 1: go walk on. You're a fat ass right now. Go
Speaker 1: walk Some people just naturally big, like gee, me and
Speaker 1: you are naturally big people. I know you work out,
Speaker 1: You work out like you're a professional afft that you're
Speaker 1: in boxing, you're doing all this stuff, but you are
Speaker 1: never going to be that skinny dude wearing tight ass jeans,
Speaker 1: the tight ass T shirt, the wait a hundred sixty miles.
Speaker 1: That's just not just to be healthy. That's said, I
Speaker 1: just need to be healthy. That's what we need to do. Dog.
Speaker 1: We need to stop letting people mess with our self esteem.
Speaker 1: Because if a person that's cutting you down like that man,
Speaker 1: they're not they don't really love the ladies. If you're
Speaker 1: out there listening, and if you got a man at home,
Speaker 1: it's always critiquing you and body shaming you and all
Speaker 1: that ship till let motherfucker to eat his own dick
Speaker 1: and walk out the ouse. I agree, the right man
Speaker 1: is gonna work with you. He ain't gonna tell you
Speaker 1: take your fat as the gym. He's gonna be like,
Speaker 1: let's go to the gym, or let's go to the park. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because I'm gonna tell you my mama was said woman. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but my mom was too. But but before we even
Speaker 1: say that, that goes into how men feel about themselves,
Speaker 1: because they really only come and regurgitate how they feel
Speaker 1: about themselves and then place it onto women. That's important
Speaker 1: to know, Like, you know, sometimes women become men's punching bag,
Speaker 1: you know, and sometimes women becomes men punching bag. Like
Speaker 1: right now, you can have women on social media looking
Speaker 1: at this bullshit life that Nigga's baby Mamas is selling them.
Speaker 1: Give mean different but baby Mamas and selling them like
Speaker 1: this this glamorous life, and they're really selling you a
Speaker 1: lie to get your money and to make you feel bad.
Speaker 1: I was talking to a dude yesterday on Clubhouse UM,
Speaker 1: and we were talking about the state of of of
Speaker 1: of of the black ghetto. You know where we're at
Speaker 1: these urban streets, you know, corners, these urban street cultures
Speaker 1: and I was expressing to him, um like yeah, man,
Speaker 1: like our our black elite has to do better, Like
Speaker 1: that's to catch our black elite has to do better.
Speaker 1: And to listen to him explain to me how like,
Speaker 1: oh no they doing you know they they they first
Speaker 1: generation millionaires, you know, leave them alone and we gotta
Speaker 1: do it ourselves. It just made me think we're like
Speaker 1: like we're in the time where we really are worshiping
Speaker 1: like celebrated people as a celebrity, whether it's a dalist Eliens, whatever,
Speaker 1: celebrity I am. I can never allow people to truly
Speaker 1: celebrate me like I will never It's so hard for
Speaker 1: me to reference people as a fanatic of me, fan
Speaker 1: of me right and only because I feel like I
Speaker 1: see myself in every person, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: breathing air source like honestly like yeah, And this is
Speaker 1: one of the things I love about, yeah, is like
Speaker 1: if you're a fan of me, you got to be
Speaker 1: a fan of yourself because I'm inside of all every
Speaker 1: person that listens to my music. So maybe you're not
Speaker 1: a gangbanger, but maybe you read books. Maybe you don't
Speaker 1: read books, maybe you're a gangbanger. Maybe you know one
Speaker 1: of my perspectives of how I live my life. I
Speaker 1: feel like it's in every human that listens to my
Speaker 1: music and that's really where they connect that. But the
Speaker 1: point what was bothering me, like I said, is just
Speaker 1: the value part. And I was thinking to myself, like
Speaker 1: do we really do we really value women from the
Speaker 1: eighties and nineties more? And I think because they prided
Speaker 1: themselves as being kind of how we see women from
Speaker 1: its route right wound like a wound man, like a
Speaker 1: a womb man, a woman right like a nurturer, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So I think women in the
Speaker 1: eighties and nineties, like you know, um, fancy themselves as
Speaker 1: more of nurturers versus the modern woman fancies herself as
Speaker 1: a gatherer, know what I'm saying. And I've heard a
Speaker 1: lot of time to be like, oh, well, you know,
Speaker 1: men ain't getting it like that, so I gotta go
Speaker 1: get it. And it's like, well, I respect that if
Speaker 1: that's you know, your your experience, but there's no value
Speaker 1: to that. I've never met a woman and thought, oh,
Speaker 1: she's making money. I want to hit Like I don't
Speaker 1: see Oprah and be like, oh I want to hit that.
Speaker 1: I've never saw Oprah and thought I wanted to hit
Speaker 1: that for me, I don't care what money she got, Like,
Speaker 1: it don't work for me that way. And I then
Speaker 1: you only don't feel like it works for a whole
Speaker 1: man that way. Like you have to look at a woman,
Speaker 1: you know, the most beautiful parts of them, the most
Speaker 1: valuable parts of them is the nurturing part. Nurturing your brain,
Speaker 1: whether it's nurture your children, whether it's nurturing in your
Speaker 1: body with nutrition, whatever it is, nurturing, that's the most
Speaker 1: valuable part. And I think they're again why is irrelevant
Speaker 1: because we have a conversation of why women are being
Speaker 1: like this, but the fact that like they are getting
Speaker 1: further away, right culturally away from nurturing. So you know, brother,
Speaker 1: you and I'm gonna tell you what happened, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: we went through a period in this country to where
Speaker 1: we had grandmothers. We had generations to people at one
Speaker 1: time around people, right, so they kind of kept that
Speaker 1: in order, right, Like you would have the grandmother she
Speaker 1: would teach it her daughter. Hey, when you're sitting down
Speaker 1: on the dress across your legs, right, um, you have
Speaker 1: that mother then spread it down to her daughter. But
Speaker 1: that turned into was the grandmother stay in the house
Speaker 1: with the mom. The dad is gone and they have
Speaker 1: a pity party. So that grandmother she's miserable because the
Speaker 1: man left her for somebody else and left, and she
Speaker 1: has this daughter and these kids that he's raising. She
Speaker 1: can't stay in the sun because he reminded the dude
Speaker 1: that walked out the door on the right. And the
Speaker 1: daughter hears this woman complaining all day about men. So
Speaker 1: now you're raising this bitter person before they even get
Speaker 1: into it. So she has this this thing for men
Speaker 1: kind of coming up. So when she starts dating, she's
Speaker 1: automatically expecting, though this dude is gonna leave. He not shipped.
Speaker 1: So they wonder why they can't keep a man, And
Speaker 1: it's them. It's not their beauty, it's not nothing. It's
Speaker 1: them because they have low self esteem. So what they're doing,
Speaker 1: they're projecting their problems and their issues on on them people.
Speaker 1: And that's what happens for people in society today. People
Speaker 1: like to project their issues on the youth. So if
Speaker 1: they're not feeling good about theirselfs, they gonna do all
Speaker 1: they can to cut you down. It's almost like these
Speaker 1: guys that are on the internet. Now, I swear to gee,
Speaker 1: if I'm not into something, I don't watch it. I
Speaker 1: don't leave a comment, I don't do nothing. I'm not
Speaker 1: pressional like button. I might love your content and I
Speaker 1: may hear it like on it, right, but if I
Speaker 1: don't like it, I'm not gonna going on there every
Speaker 1: day and say, hey, this sucks. The only reason I
Speaker 1: watched this show is blah blah blah blah blah. You
Speaker 1: feel what I'm saying, and it's like it's hated, hated.
Speaker 1: They committed to Hayden and it's like this, and you say, like,
Speaker 1: I had this one dude to send the message every
Speaker 1: day to us, and I finally told him one day,
Speaker 1: and yet here you are once again just left it
Speaker 1: at that. Well, the only reason I watched shows because hey,
Speaker 1: I said, and that's fine. That means I did my
Speaker 1: job by casting in this role. So you get people
Speaker 1: that like to reject, and the worst thing we can
Speaker 1: do as men women whoever is start rejecting that stuff
Speaker 1: back to him because it's an exercise and futility. Right.
Speaker 1: Those people are very work people, have a work mind,
Speaker 1: They have low self esteem, and they have issues that
Speaker 1: they want to blame everybody else for It's kind of
Speaker 1: like um, women can cut men down to two where
Speaker 1: if you've had a homeboy who was just beat down
Speaker 1: all the time, his wife is always comparing to something
Speaker 1: like that, I'll be feeling so bad for him. Man,
Speaker 1: and they have this, And that's what I would tell everybody.
Speaker 1: If you're at home, that's a form of abuse, and
Speaker 1: that's the worst type of abuse. If you're sitting down
Speaker 1: just mentally cutting people out. You gotta people that cut
Speaker 1: the kids down. You've got people that cut their spouses down.
Speaker 1: You've got people that just that's what they are because
Speaker 1: they don't feel good about themselves. That's not an issue
Speaker 1: with me. That's not an issue. If you it's something
Speaker 1: wrong with them, there's something wrong with them. And if
Speaker 1: you're marrying somebody or deciding, you know, to be in
Speaker 1: this committed relationship with a person that you pretty much
Speaker 1: from the sound of the things, you can't stand something
Speaker 1: that's wrong, something that's wrong, because I think when you
Speaker 1: truly love somebody gene you take them for the best
Speaker 1: and worst. If I was to go out and get
Speaker 1: into accident in my eye and I missed wrong and
Speaker 1: looked like deeper. I look like telling listen, my wife
Speaker 1: ain't going nowhere. She loves me for who I am.
Speaker 1: Just like if something happened with her, God forbid, I
Speaker 1: would still be with her. That's my wife. It's way
Speaker 1: more deeper than just skin deep. You know you understand
Speaker 1: what I mean and then like it happen. Do you
Speaker 1: worship the ground that your wife walks on? I wouldn't
Speaker 1: say it's worthship. I feel good about her and I'm
Speaker 1: proud of her. I'm proud to have her for the
Speaker 1: woman that she kills. I wouldn't say worship. I don't
Speaker 1: worship nobody but God, but I love her. Where there
Speaker 1: was somebody was saying that to me. It's like, well,
Speaker 1: do you think men worship women in the eighties and nineties?
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I hope not. I don't think so.
Speaker 1: G I think it was a time, Like I said,
Speaker 1: I think our before all this technology we have, I
Speaker 1: think it's kind of made us dumbrous human beings. We
Speaker 1: became way more you know, we you know, get started
Speaker 1: and advance far. Smartphones were getting down. Yeah, because you
Speaker 1: know what I had to teach my kids and I
Speaker 1: make sure they know I told all my kids how
Speaker 1: to read the map because my thing is this, Like
Speaker 1: I told him, I myself, these satellites go out one day,
Speaker 1: you'll not even go to get know how to get
Speaker 1: out of state. Man, I always laughing. Ship. My dad
Speaker 1: taught me how to read the Times. Guy. You should
Speaker 1: don't because at one time, you know my former life,
Speaker 1: I was a salesman, right, So when I got my
Speaker 1: first sales job, Dog, they used to give you a
Speaker 1: big briefcase in the time, Scott, you have to find
Speaker 1: yourself around l A. So if I had to know
Speaker 1: my route in events, so you memorize, you're wrote by heart. Right.
Speaker 1: So I had a certain amount of stories. I had
Speaker 1: stores in south central Inglewood Hall, knowing certain parts of downtown, right,
Speaker 1: So I would go to all these different liquor stories. Man,
Speaker 1: and I had to learn how to use the time
Speaker 1: was guy, because it wasn't no even that was just
Speaker 1: maybe sixteen seventeen years ago. It wasn't a hitting the
Speaker 1: you know we had cell phones then, but it wasn't
Speaker 1: a hitting your thing and find the math to go somewhere.
Speaker 1: The best you can get to that dog is going
Speaker 1: onto the one program. I forget it you were going
Speaker 1: this one website and put the address in and it
Speaker 1: would give you turn by turn directions. I think that
Speaker 1: was the precursor to what we have now. Right, but
Speaker 1: we have to learn certain stuff. If anything, technology has
Speaker 1: made us intellectually lazy. Sure, And I think that's what
Speaker 1: it is. Me and head head feels like people are
Speaker 1: incapable of learning. And I just feel like people are
Speaker 1: too lazy to learn. Oh that's laziness. Because I'm gonna
Speaker 1: tell you this, Like I remember jazzone was telling me
Speaker 1: one day. She was crying, that's my daughter. You know,
Speaker 1: since my daughter this is when she was probably six
Speaker 1: sheet now she's going to elementary school. She wanted the phone.
Speaker 1: Of course she wanted the phone because her brother asked
Speaker 1: what the thing she wanted? One Christopher had him a
Speaker 1: little boot smoke at the time, Right, you know, I
Speaker 1: got jazzing one of them phones to where she can
Speaker 1: just call me and her mom and had two buttons
Speaker 1: on there. My number was programmed the number one, her
Speaker 1: mom was programmed the number two. You know, she was
Speaker 1: so upset, she she was like traumatized. She cried, Dad,
Speaker 1: this phone is ugly. How can the phone be ugly?
Speaker 1: The phone is a two. Yeah, and these kids, you
Speaker 1: if you asked the AVX person that they to put
Speaker 1: their cell phone down for they would lose their mind.
Speaker 1: There was a time she we only had a house phone.
Speaker 1: Sure somebody wanted to catch you. You know, you you
Speaker 1: you you're old enough to remember that error, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know the house phones all through the nineties and
Speaker 1: cell phones. I remember only so many people had break phones.
Speaker 1: My mom had a car phone in her car, and
Speaker 1: then in the late eighties the early nineties she had
Speaker 1: a car phone. But yeah, like pretty much house phones
Speaker 1: the whole time till like the mid nineties. Mhmm, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know what man. And it's like I remember, you
Speaker 1: know mom, Mom, Like I told you my mom, you know,
Speaker 1: she's lost weight since then. But my mom was a
Speaker 1: heavy set woman, right. My mom was always a good cook.
Speaker 1: My mom was like one of those real down home
Speaker 1: southern Midwestern moms. You know. She made sure we had food.
Speaker 1: It might not have been necessarily we weren't exactly eating um,
Speaker 1: you know, steak and you know uh, you know, shrimplet
Speaker 1: lobster and wag you beef. No, it might have been
Speaker 1: the type of a pot of beans with a tender
Speaker 1: corn bread of you know, buttermelk corn bread. And I
Speaker 1: think I told you the other day, I got so
Speaker 1: tired of eating that stuff, man, But now I miss
Speaker 1: it and she you know, I eat at the best
Speaker 1: steak houses I've had, you know, the best food in
Speaker 1: the world, right, but nothing still compared to that part
Speaker 1: of beans with the neck bones in it, bro and
Speaker 1: that part of corn bread right that Tennis coubree right
Speaker 1: because it was cooked with love, and that was what
Speaker 1: my mom could afford the time. And I look back
Speaker 1: on it, not my mom. And you know, my mom
Speaker 1: and my stepdad did a great job. We ate every night.
Speaker 1: We pretty it's got most of the things we wanted
Speaker 1: Christmas time, you know, I was excited we would get atari.
Speaker 1: You know, I had the collegual vision, always had the
Speaker 1: video games. They did the best that they could. And
Speaker 1: I think now, man, that our kids, I think, and
Speaker 1: I was talking to my wife about this one day.
Speaker 1: I think we do our children at disservice by trying
Speaker 1: to and I almost think it's loving them too much
Speaker 1: for trying to by love and display affection with or
Speaker 1: I gave you this, I gave you money. Your kids
Speaker 1: don't give a shit about that they carry about attension,
Speaker 1: getting attension right, Because what we're doing is we're raising
Speaker 1: a bunch of a bunch of people who are very condescending,
Speaker 1: a bunch of people who have these expectations that they
Speaker 1: just go get something just because they're here. Just because
Speaker 1: you're breathing there, don't mean you deserve something. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: understand what I mean. So I think we became we
Speaker 1: become very TRIVIALUS society. We've become to where that's what
Speaker 1: the divorce raiders to have. People marry people for the
Speaker 1: wrong reasons. They meet a girl or i'll make this
Speaker 1: bad bro, while met this nigger that got this going on.
Speaker 1: But they meet these people and before they know what,
Speaker 1: they're married because they married him for the wrong reasons.
Speaker 1: And you're not supposed to spend your marriage's time for
Speaker 1: getting to know somebody. Of course, there's gonna be a
Speaker 1: period of discovery the world when you marry somebody. I
Speaker 1: don't care unless you live with him for a few years. Bro,
Speaker 1: when you've just been dating somebody, you decided to move
Speaker 1: in with him and get married, you're going to find
Speaker 1: things out about that person that you may not have necessarily. No.
Speaker 1: You may come home to your wife one day in
Speaker 1: her hair may be looking like mine, and you're like,
Speaker 1: damn whatever that long has man hair or not, that's
Speaker 1: when she is. You may be even telling to your
Speaker 1: husband and one day you come out the shower in
Speaker 1: his head it's like mine. He balled right, Because people,
Speaker 1: we've made so many advances in society, but yet most
Speaker 1: of those advances are real. Just asking that almost stupid,
Speaker 1: like they g didn't have a male hair pieces went
Speaker 1: from a male hairpiece out towhere. If I wanted to
Speaker 1: get a faith, right, I could do that now. See
Speaker 1: if I wanted to come in you'll see me tomorrow, lone.
Speaker 1: You see me now with my big black ball here right,
Speaker 1: and you saw me next week and I have a
Speaker 1: hairline down here and add this, and you could look real.
Speaker 1: You would look at me like something wrong with me?
Speaker 1: Will you? Friday? So you know? Yeah, yeah, we are
Speaker 1: afraid of being who we are supposed to be God
Speaker 1: and tender less to be. I'm not gonna go get
Speaker 1: no pet and plants. I'm not putting here in my head.
Speaker 1: If it's not good a few where I am, then Sayonora,
Speaker 1: let me ask you a better question. I'm ask you
Speaker 1: the last two questions that we're gonna wrap it up
Speaker 1: because I don't want to drag this out. Um, what
Speaker 1: do you think you appreciate about Maria? Like, straight up,
Speaker 1: don't don't brown nose. I'm gonna be real. Just let
Speaker 1: me tell you what it means. First, it's recognized the
Speaker 1: full worth of so outside of her being a wife, right,
Speaker 1: a quality wife? What about her? Do you recognize the
Speaker 1: full worth of where you like? Damn, this right here
Speaker 1: is unbelievable. Her sense of family and I'm talking about
Speaker 1: this woman loves her family. I'm talking about me and
Speaker 1: her children. Like to where she would fight a beer,
Speaker 1: she would fight a bear for her family. You feel
Speaker 1: what I mean? I've had times g to where I
Speaker 1: wasn't doing the best all and my wife held me down.
Speaker 1: She didn't make me feel like ship doing it, you
Speaker 1: know as she did that? Right, I feel like my
Speaker 1: wife has my back unconditionally. That's her biggest attribute right there,
Speaker 1: is her love her family is her family. Okay, now
Speaker 1: what about so that's actually a dope ass answer. That's
Speaker 1: a super valuable thing. Okay, what about what do you respect?
Speaker 1: And now respect in the Nigga way, like how we
Speaker 1: talked when we said respect, because respect in our community
Speaker 1: and our culture is usually rooted in fear. I mean,
Speaker 1: but where is the most like the thing you admire
Speaker 1: the quality? So so you you you appreciate the full
Speaker 1: worth of her coind the full worth of how she
Speaker 1: sees family. But what is the ability or the quality
Speaker 1: that you have a deep admiration for um the fact
Speaker 1: that she doesn't deal with everything and emotions on an
Speaker 1: emotional level, and that's rare in a woment. My my
Speaker 1: wife strictly deals with situations about lodging, don't what do you? So?
Speaker 1: Respect is like like you regard this and approval like
Speaker 1: you approve this, like like you're like, yeah, that is
Speaker 1: it right? That approval? And she's truthful. You know my
Speaker 1: kids sometimes that I'm to meet one, Oh my mom
Speaker 1: is something mean? No, she's not mean. She's gonna take
Speaker 1: the truth if she cares. If she don't give a
Speaker 1: damn about because she's not gonna she do carry on,
Speaker 1: do what you do, that's on you, right, But if
Speaker 1: she cares for you, she's gonna be honest. Do you
Speaker 1: think do you think some women lie to their significant
Speaker 1: other in the the family. Oh yeah, way too much all
Speaker 1: the time, I think, because again we're going back to
Speaker 1: where people want to keep up appearances. That's why you
Speaker 1: have the family. What you said when you first started
Speaker 1: this conversation, it's um, they are entirely too concerned about
Speaker 1: everybody else's opinion. It's literally, we used to have the
Speaker 1: same back and death to always have here. My parents
Speaker 1: say they're trying to keep up with the Jones. Is right.
Speaker 1: You have people in this country g that are living
Speaker 1: in places like that they can't afford right literally to
Speaker 1: where they may be making pretty good money. You may
Speaker 1: have a husband that's making a hundred thousand dollars a year, right.
Speaker 1: You may have a wife that doesn't work or whatever
Speaker 1: whatever reason. He wants her to stay at home, or
Speaker 1: he wants her to beat this housewife. But really they
Speaker 1: can't afford it. They could afford it if he decided, well,
Speaker 1: maybe maybe I can't afford the living um in the valley, right,
Speaker 1: maybe I can't afford to living this part of town. Right,
Speaker 1: Maybe if I wouldn't have got to create over here,
Speaker 1: it would be better off. Right, But no, he's making
Speaker 1: a hundred thousand dollars a year. But he's spending a
Speaker 1: hundred and seventy thousand dollars a year to maintain a
Speaker 1: lie from driving a carter he can't really afford to
Speaker 1: live in the house that he can't afford, to sending
Speaker 1: his children to a school that he can't afford. All
Speaker 1: to appear to his peers, who may have that money
Speaker 1: or may have that, you know, be able to finance
Speaker 1: that lifestyle they're living. He's trying to keep up with
Speaker 1: them in order to be acceptable to them. But at
Speaker 1: least that's what he thinks in his mind. Is to
Speaker 1: him being honest and saying, you know what, man, I
Speaker 1: should have bought that crib um, I shouldn't have bought
Speaker 1: that creab cos of code. Maybe should have moved to
Speaker 1: Surreals of Lakewood. You follow what I'm saying, But do
Speaker 1: you think asked for his period? I think women. I
Speaker 1: think men do things for their for women, not they do.
Speaker 1: You know it's all optics, bro, but it's not from
Speaker 1: a pure place. Right. If I if I go on,
Speaker 1: Tom decided to buy a new house, get right, I'm
Speaker 1: going to get a house that's good for me and
Speaker 1: my family. Now, if you like it, and you come
Speaker 1: over and see this is myself, that's cool. But if
Speaker 1: you come over and see it, man, I don't like this.
Speaker 1: Met I'm must respect your opinion, but at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, I'm not gonna care because this world live.
Speaker 1: You ain't gonna sleep over here. Good looking out for
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