WEBVTT - Conversations About Women's Worth 0:00:01.840 --> 0:00:04.360 Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No 0:00:04.519 --> 0:00:07.480 Sellers podcast with your host Now funk that with your 0:00:07.560 --> 0:00:16.680 low classes, Malone. Okay, I need you to be honest 0:00:16.720 --> 0:00:21.200 this episode. I'm always host, bro not because sometimes you 0:00:21.200 --> 0:00:24.600 mean you have to kind of like like, uh, well, 0:00:24.640 --> 0:00:28.280 I would not say anything derogatory towards my soul mate 0:00:29.040 --> 0:00:32.200 because I don't want you to say anything derogatory about anybody. 0:00:32.960 --> 0:00:36.840 I don't even like to turn derogatory like um, because 0:00:36.880 --> 0:00:39.360 I think it's like chicken shit. It's like, if it's 0:00:39.360 --> 0:00:42.159 the truth, Like, if it's the truth, we should be 0:00:42.240 --> 0:00:45.040 able to express it. Feel me in a in a 0:00:45.159 --> 0:00:49.239 in a um, in a manner that's not meant to 0:00:49.320 --> 0:00:54.040 be you know, shitty. But like if somebody is five 0:00:54.080 --> 0:00:57.720 ft one and you say, hey, you're short, because they 0:00:57.760 --> 0:01:00.480 have a you know, a dislike for the fact of 0:01:00.520 --> 0:01:03.560 them being short, doesn't mean that we shouldn't be able 0:01:03.600 --> 0:01:06.560 to say, hey you sure because they don't like that. 0:01:06.600 --> 0:01:10.240 Does that make sense? Yeah, it makes sense. But I 0:01:10.280 --> 0:01:14.720 do believe in the same token that, um, we are trained, 0:01:14.760 --> 0:01:17.920 we are trained mentally from the time we're kids to 0:01:18.040 --> 0:01:21.000 not hurt people's feelings, right, Sure, I agree with that. 0:01:21.120 --> 0:01:24.760 For shure. So I think sometimes rather than telling people 0:01:24.920 --> 0:01:27.720 the truth, we kind of admit the facts a little 0:01:27.720 --> 0:01:30.000 bit and kind of embellish some certain things a little bit. 0:01:30.040 --> 0:01:32.520 Like you know, you see the girl that me have 0:01:32.600 --> 0:01:35.200 lost a few pounds and she's talking about it, like, hey, 0:01:35.240 --> 0:01:37.120 you lost so much way that she's twirling around. You 0:01:37.120 --> 0:01:39.400 still think you're here, like, damn, you're still fat as fuck. 0:01:40.920 --> 0:01:47.279 Well again, it's like somebody was asking me, They said, 0:01:47.920 --> 0:01:49.800 you know what, you're nice, and I'm like, no, I'm 0:01:49.800 --> 0:01:54.160 not nice, I'm kind. And then somebody told me you're rude. 0:01:54.160 --> 0:01:57.920 I said, no, I'm not rude, I'm cruel. Right, it's 0:01:57.960 --> 0:02:04.320 and they're different, right, and cruel in the sense that, well, 0:02:04.360 --> 0:02:08.000 we're having a verbal exchange. Whenever we're talking, I'll tell 0:02:08.040 --> 0:02:10.799 you what I honestly think, and I'm not telling me 0:02:11.400 --> 0:02:15.560 with intensive of hurting your feelings. But I'm also not 0:02:15.639 --> 0:02:17.640 going to not tell you the truth because it's hurting 0:02:17.639 --> 0:02:20.640 your feelings. What a thing, ge, Ever since i've known you, 0:02:20.720 --> 0:02:25.000 we're going on twenty some years, you've always been brutally honest. Yeah, 0:02:25.080 --> 0:02:26.880 I think that's more the thing. I think you brew honest. 0:02:26.880 --> 0:02:28.519 I remember it. I never will forget one day. I 0:02:28.520 --> 0:02:33.080 always laugh about this Christopher, who's my son. I remember 0:02:33.080 --> 0:02:36.840 one day were driving down Street and cheek Way, Chris. Still, 0:02:36.880 --> 0:02:39.640 that's got signed to the Pittsburgh Stellers. So let's just 0:02:39.639 --> 0:02:41.400 put the extras on it. Let's put the truth on it. 0:02:42.200 --> 0:02:44.800 So we were riding down this when you stayed downtown. 0:02:44.919 --> 0:02:46.799 We was in there listening to your album, right, were 0:02:46.800 --> 0:02:50.760 listening to the Glasshouse of thank And you smell something, 0:02:50.760 --> 0:02:53.000 you get like this? You said, I smell something? Still 0:02:53.040 --> 0:02:54.840 did you presh your teeth this morning? And I'm like, 0:02:55.280 --> 0:02:58.880 I said this, motherfucker just told our breast smell like ship. 0:02:58.520 --> 0:03:01.120 You know you did? And still, did you prush your 0:03:01.160 --> 0:03:03.520 chief this morning? I was, I wouldn't like this, I said, Damn, 0:03:04.000 --> 0:03:06.240 I said, no, it's not me, Bro. You said that though. 0:03:07.080 --> 0:03:10.360 I just asked because I figured, like we brothers for me, 0:03:10.400 --> 0:03:13.560 so why would I not be able? You know, I'm 0:03:13.600 --> 0:03:17.800 just saying I'm asking because I do have too pacing too, bro, 0:03:17.919 --> 0:03:20.600 And I don't mean it negatively, like you know, none 0:03:20.600 --> 0:03:25.840 of us is perfect. But the point I was saying is, um, 0:03:25.880 --> 0:03:30.920 I was listening to uh little Babies, baby mom. It 0:03:31.000 --> 0:03:35.800 was on Instagram and she said something to the equivalent 0:03:35.840 --> 0:03:39.280 of men don't value or appreciate women like they did 0:03:39.320 --> 0:03:42.280 in the eighties or nineties. And I thought that was 0:03:42.360 --> 0:03:46.040 a bit strange, right because I thought to myself, Um, 0:03:46.080 --> 0:03:48.760 I was like, damn, that's that's a thought. And I 0:03:48.800 --> 0:03:51.280 was explaining this to my my people, Nia. I was 0:03:51.320 --> 0:03:53.400 telling my AGirl me. I was like yeah, and she 0:03:53.560 --> 0:03:55.960 was like yeah, well, you know, she was like, do 0:03:56.040 --> 0:03:59.160 you think that me and value women like they did 0:03:59.200 --> 0:04:02.600 in the eighties and nine? And I'm like, what's really 0:04:02.720 --> 0:04:08.320 valuable about modern women? Well? You know what, I always 0:04:08.400 --> 0:04:10.760 laugh when people say that, and yet like that, back 0:04:10.840 --> 0:04:15.160 during that time period, it wasn't shitty things happening. You know, 0:04:15.200 --> 0:04:17.120 it was men cheating on their wives. Back then, men 0:04:17.160 --> 0:04:19.160 were cheap when they watched in the nineteen fifties, when 0:04:19.200 --> 0:04:21.640 America was so called at this purist. I think people 0:04:21.640 --> 0:04:25.080 have always been people, and some people make choices now 0:04:25.160 --> 0:04:29.080 And at the end of the day, what do you 0:04:29.200 --> 0:04:32.960 determine as value? Like somebody says you value somebody like, 0:04:32.960 --> 0:04:35.280 how you can you make the determination? It's like, I 0:04:35.480 --> 0:04:38.480 value my wife. I think appreciation is worth more than 0:04:39.000 --> 0:04:41.000 it's the same thing as value. Why I appreciate my 0:04:41.000 --> 0:04:43.520 wife with a great deal. Yeah, I value a great deal. 0:04:43.600 --> 0:04:46.359 I value my wife, but that doesn't mean that she's 0:04:46.400 --> 0:04:48.760 not gonna do some sh I don't like sometimes and 0:04:49.120 --> 0:04:53.520 not even that right so, no sellings. Gil Peter is 0:04:53.600 --> 0:04:57.120 somewhere in Los Angeles. We gotta do a live podcast 0:04:57.320 --> 0:05:00.360 on Thursday show. He's not here right now, He's gonna 0:05:00.360 --> 0:05:06.160 talk shit. I got my big brother, no settings, resident 0:05:06.240 --> 0:05:11.000 gas and podcasts are extraordinaire and on the verge of 0:05:11.080 --> 0:05:14.960 becoming a millionaire. My big brother still hey, so, and 0:05:15.000 --> 0:05:17.719 I want to say something right now. She know you 0:05:17.760 --> 0:05:20.279 want to talk about people that don't value stuff. You 0:05:20.400 --> 0:05:23.480 have a certain segment of your fan base that seems 0:05:23.520 --> 0:05:26.839 to get irk when I come on as motherfucker because 0:05:26.920 --> 0:05:29.880 I don't I want to tell that particular base of people. 0:05:29.920 --> 0:05:32.080 I get some people that like it. For all you 0:05:32.200 --> 0:05:34.960 people out there that have complaints about me, I'm trying 0:05:34.960 --> 0:05:38.880 to tell you something right now. You know what you do. 0:05:38.960 --> 0:05:40.920 You can fast forward my parts and took you her 0:05:40.920 --> 0:05:44.039 glasses as talking fast. I'm not even gonna go allow 0:05:44.080 --> 0:05:45.880 your punk as to listen to me today. You I'm 0:05:45.880 --> 0:05:48.320 not gonna crazy with my presence, not I got that 0:05:48.320 --> 0:05:51.720 off my chips because I see these little cocky ear again. 0:05:52.680 --> 0:05:54.880 I don't like steal when he's on there. He does, 0:05:54.920 --> 0:05:57.920 he's an ogre. He doesn't add value to the conversation. 0:06:00.240 --> 0:06:05.880 Oh critical, motherfucker's I don't get a million dollars now. 0:06:06.040 --> 0:06:08.800 Still we'll be having some dope conversations we always have. 0:06:08.920 --> 0:06:12.039 But no, so I was asking her. So I asked me, 0:06:12.160 --> 0:06:16.719 I said, well, what's valuable about a modern day woman? 0:06:17.040 --> 0:06:20.080 And you can tell she got so mad, and I'm like, 0:06:20.120 --> 0:06:23.560 it's just an honest question. And she said, well, what's 0:06:23.600 --> 0:06:30.440 not valuable? She said, you know? Uh. She was like, um, well, 0:06:30.480 --> 0:06:34.080 what's not valuable? I said, well, if we talk about 0:06:34.160 --> 0:06:40.120 modern day women, right, culturally trending is you know, plastic surgery. 0:06:40.520 --> 0:06:43.240 So it makes me feel like, right when you see 0:06:43.240 --> 0:06:48.160 somebody like I know, people who have done surgery on themselves, 0:06:48.160 --> 0:06:52.680 plastic surgeries, bbls knows jahs whatever, right, the whole ordeal 0:06:52.839 --> 0:07:00.440 breast in fact whatever. And I always notice like, you 0:07:00.520 --> 0:07:03.440 have to really not like yourself. And so when I 0:07:03.480 --> 0:07:05.479 was telling her that, she was like, no, you don't 0:07:05.520 --> 0:07:07.760 have to really not like yourself. And I'm like, yes, 0:07:07.800 --> 0:07:11.920 you do like you have to not like yourself. Like, right, 0:07:12.000 --> 0:07:15.760 every human being is insecure about something that they look 0:07:15.800 --> 0:07:19.080 at in the mirror, right, But the separation is the 0:07:19.200 --> 0:07:21.880 people who decide to live with it and embrace it, 0:07:22.080 --> 0:07:24.680 you know, find a way to to understand the beauty 0:07:24.720 --> 0:07:28.160 in the in the difference of that. And I was 0:07:28.200 --> 0:07:31.000 just listening to it, and I always say this to 0:07:31.080 --> 0:07:34.240 my uh. I always say this to my people, to 0:07:34.320 --> 0:07:40.240 my nieces, different people, and I say, man, like, like 0:07:40.360 --> 0:07:43.680 that whole culture right now where like we know who 0:07:43.680 --> 0:07:46.720 people's baby mothers are, not we don't know who people's 0:07:46.760 --> 0:07:49.080 wives are. Like like at one time, we used to 0:07:49.120 --> 0:07:51.760 know who people's wives were, Like, right, I knew who 0:07:51.760 --> 0:07:53.960 people were married to if they were Like I know 0:07:54.000 --> 0:07:59.280 who Cookie is, right, Magic's wife Anita? Right, I knew 0:07:59.320 --> 0:08:01.320 who I need to. Jordan was like, you had to 0:08:01.360 --> 0:08:06.000 be married. I didn't know, you know, Magic Johnson's baby 0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:08.960 moms for me. And we're in a climate today to 0:08:09.080 --> 0:08:13.760 where I am entirely too aware of who other people's 0:08:14.680 --> 0:08:18.040 baby mother are and and it's like I know who 0:08:18.080 --> 0:08:23.000 little baby's baby mother is, right, And I'm like, I 0:08:23.040 --> 0:08:25.680 don't know her for no talent. I don't know her 0:08:25.680 --> 0:08:28.080 because she's a great singer. I don't know her because 0:08:28.080 --> 0:08:31.400 she's a great fashion nista. I know her who she 0:08:31.600 --> 0:08:36.400 is because little baby is a very talented rapper and 0:08:36.400 --> 0:08:38.560 he has a baby with her. And I'm listening to 0:08:38.600 --> 0:08:42.680 her give her opinion on how men value women, and 0:08:42.720 --> 0:08:46.240 I'm thinking to myself because like, not only should I 0:08:46.320 --> 0:08:50.040 not be listening to this person, you know, like everybody 0:08:50.080 --> 0:08:52.840 deserves to be heard, but I shouldn't be listening. But 0:08:52.920 --> 0:08:56.120 then I thought about it, and I'm like, it's obvious 0:08:56.160 --> 0:08:58.640 this young lady gotta bbl. She hadn't even grown up 0:08:58.640 --> 0:09:01.560 to her full one and body, right, and she don't 0:09:01.559 --> 0:09:04.440 realize how that's gonna affect her future going forward. But 0:09:04.520 --> 0:09:06.760 I just started thinking about, like, what's value if you 0:09:06.800 --> 0:09:10.240 don't like immediately? What pulls back is if you don't 0:09:10.360 --> 0:09:15.520 value yourself. Right, So I realized women in the past, now, 0:09:15.559 --> 0:09:18.480 maybe they would have got plastic surgery if it was simpler, 0:09:18.520 --> 0:09:20.520 if it was easier as it is today. Right, it's 0:09:20.600 --> 0:09:24.000 much easier today. It's not easy, but it's much easier today, 0:09:24.040 --> 0:09:27.240 and it's much more affordable. Well, I think women in general, bro, 0:09:27.800 --> 0:09:30.520 women in general, you have to understand their dynamic First 0:09:30.559 --> 0:09:34.360 of all, women spend so much time worried about what 0:09:34.480 --> 0:09:37.800 other people think of them versus what they think about themselves. Right, 0:09:38.160 --> 0:09:40.440 and if you the point is when you said that, right, 0:09:40.720 --> 0:09:44.800 that's gonna cause an uproar, and and it's a truffything. 0:09:45.000 --> 0:09:50.120 Everything about their actions say that's true. But because there 0:09:50.280 --> 0:09:53.840 is no you know, action dictionary to say that this 0:09:53.960 --> 0:09:57.560 means this outside of the certainties. So even them getting 0:09:57.600 --> 0:10:01.040 plastic surgeries and bbls right, don't mean that they are 0:10:01.160 --> 0:10:04.920 unhappy with who they are. Like, it doesn't have to 0:10:04.960 --> 0:10:08.920 me that even though well they're using to get Yeah, 0:10:09.000 --> 0:10:11.200 smart money said, that's what it means getting. You know, 0:10:11.360 --> 0:10:14.679 usually if a woman goes out and gets now, I'm 0:10:14.720 --> 0:10:17.439 not talking about a breast reduction. Sometimes women get breast 0:10:17.440 --> 0:10:19.840 reductions for help from he even though, you know, for help. 0:10:19.960 --> 0:10:22.600 So when I see the girls and they go out 0:10:22.640 --> 0:10:25.640 and get these balloons and planting into their ass, right, 0:10:25.720 --> 0:10:28.000 and they come out and their body they look like ants, 0:10:29.160 --> 0:10:32.520 you can tell that their body phys their physiology doesn't 0:10:32.520 --> 0:10:34.240 permit them. They're not supposed to have that. You know, 0:10:34.360 --> 0:10:36.800 you see a girl she maybe five too, and her 0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:38.839 hips around it like this, and then she got this 0:10:38.920 --> 0:10:41.319 little waste and then you see her boobs and stuff. 0:10:41.360 --> 0:10:44.160 They look like ants, you know what I mean. So 0:10:46.520 --> 0:10:51.160 they don't look right. But but I think, and I 0:10:51.240 --> 0:10:53.880 was explaining this to some of my other people, and 0:10:53.880 --> 0:10:57.800 I was like, the problem with women is and it's 0:10:57.800 --> 0:11:00.560 not women, the problem with human being are It is 0:11:00.559 --> 0:11:05.280 how shallow they see beauty, right, beauty. Beauty is becoming 0:11:05.800 --> 0:11:07.920 I think we talked about it in a conversation about 0:11:07.960 --> 0:11:11.640 beauty standards before, But beauty is becoming this monolithic thing, 0:11:12.000 --> 0:11:15.800 like this is the traditional look of a bad bet 0:11:15.840 --> 0:11:20.120 you for me, this is the traditional look. And I 0:11:20.160 --> 0:11:22.240 was thinking about it, right, like when I was a kid, 0:11:23.280 --> 0:11:25.040 you know what I mean, in the eighties, Like right, 0:11:25.040 --> 0:11:28.760 you remember the seventies. The seventies is before me. But 0:11:28.880 --> 0:11:31.960 the seventies, wasn't the baddest woman like Pam Greer, like 0:11:32.000 --> 0:11:38.360 Foxy Brown, the most beautiful woman to y'all right, yeah exactly, 0:11:38.440 --> 0:11:40.360 And I'll tell you what it was. And I was 0:11:40.400 --> 0:11:42.400 a little kid in the seventies, so I don't remember 0:11:42.440 --> 0:11:44.600 a whole lot about the seventies. I do remember, like 0:11:44.640 --> 0:11:46.280 the till the end of the seventies, like when I 0:11:46.320 --> 0:11:49.520 was eight nine years old seventy nine. Um, the thing 0:11:49.600 --> 0:11:54.520 back then, people had a natural beauty. Back then, they 0:11:54.520 --> 0:11:57.160 didn't wear all the makeup they were asked for for 0:11:57.200 --> 0:11:58.959 the most part of it tied the hair back in 0:11:59.000 --> 0:12:03.319 the ponytail, right, But they were profoundly that they were beautiful. Right. 0:12:03.840 --> 0:12:06.960 It's like the thing right now is that we're over 0:12:07.040 --> 0:12:10.320 consumed with content, right. Not right. So everybody is looking 0:12:10.320 --> 0:12:12.360 at their Instagram. You'll see a woman that you flicking 0:12:12.400 --> 0:12:15.320 the Instagram. They're looking at other women and they're judging 0:12:15.360 --> 0:12:18.800 themselves based on all these other women. Look who might 0:12:18.840 --> 0:12:21.640 have had She don't know. She's looking at Kim Kardashi 0:12:21.640 --> 0:12:24.320 and Kim Kardashi and used to be other like if 0:12:24.320 --> 0:12:28.120 you saw pictures of bourbon, I'm not ugly. She was ugly. 0:12:28.160 --> 0:12:31.720 She looked like every girl running around Burbank. Yeah, exactly. 0:12:31.760 --> 0:12:36.360 She looked like a normal average Burbank girl, Burbank Glendale girl. 0:12:36.480 --> 0:12:39.000 So she got that stuff and she probably you know, 0:12:39.080 --> 0:12:40.960 she has extinctions in her hair, a lot of that. 0:12:40.960 --> 0:12:43.920 It's not her real hair. So they've been through a lot. 0:12:44.040 --> 0:12:46.320 And you got a person at home whose husband might 0:12:46.320 --> 0:12:48.680 be making sixty thousand dollars a year. They may have 0:12:48.720 --> 0:12:50.880 a job, but they're making forty and they look at 0:12:50.880 --> 0:12:54.280 these women that they had million dollars surgeries and thinking like, Okay, 0:12:54.320 --> 0:12:56.319 this is my comparison, this is what I want to be. 0:12:56.320 --> 0:13:00.000 Because they may catch you taking a glimpse of somebody else, 0:13:00.120 --> 0:13:03.120 so now they feeling figure to that person. So therefore 0:13:03.160 --> 0:13:04.960 they want to change your things. But in your mind, 0:13:04.960 --> 0:13:06.480 you're thinking out like you just the way you are 0:13:06.520 --> 0:13:10.520 you but not gonn do ship to yourself? Um yeah yeah, 0:13:10.559 --> 0:13:14.360 but even moving out of that space of you know 0:13:14.480 --> 0:13:18.000 where kind of estimating what they think, because the reality 0:13:18.120 --> 0:13:20.800 is will never get what they really think they you know, 0:13:20.840 --> 0:13:23.400 I mean, they just ain't going They're not gonna be 0:13:23.440 --> 0:13:26.600 forthcoming with that type of information. Well, men are doing 0:13:26.600 --> 0:13:29.400 it too. I promised I wouldn't say anything because my 0:13:29.480 --> 0:13:32.120 homeboy had to sign a you know, nine disclosure agreement. 0:13:32.160 --> 0:13:34.960 But it's a well known basketball player who just went 0:13:35.080 --> 0:13:38.320 and got his second penis in planting. And you gotta 0:13:38.360 --> 0:13:42.160 keep in mind the implants he's getting cost thirty dollars, 0:13:42.160 --> 0:13:45.240 a problem, the procedure he's getting right. So the dude 0:13:45.440 --> 0:13:48.640 tickets pecker, I guess from him having a seven inchs pecker. 0:13:48.720 --> 0:13:50.920 I guess because I don't know about picker, so you know, 0:13:51.000 --> 0:13:53.319 I don't know. This is what I've just been told. Right, 0:13:53.840 --> 0:13:55.760 he had a seven inchs pector at first, he wanted 0:13:55.760 --> 0:13:58.600 a nine inxpeccer, right, So they gave nine inches. The 0:13:58.640 --> 0:14:01.560 doctor told him, he said, this is gonna take a 0:14:01.559 --> 0:14:04.480 while to do it. He didn't recommend it. He recommended 0:14:04.520 --> 0:14:06.120 he only got an inch, but he said, well, you 0:14:06.160 --> 0:14:08.880 know your average size, right now, why do you want 0:14:08.920 --> 0:14:10.920 to get this? We'll like he's going to have a 0:14:10.960 --> 0:14:15.800 bigger penis. Right. Then he came back for another one 0:14:15.800 --> 0:14:17.719 a year later, right, and says he wants to get 0:14:17.720 --> 0:14:21.040 twelve inches. Now, I will say this. He was married 0:14:21.080 --> 0:14:27.760 to one of the Kardashians, so you know they puts 0:14:27.880 --> 0:14:32.600 is probably deepest motherfucking deepest Atlantics, right, And so he's 0:14:32.680 --> 0:14:36.000 judging his performance in his wife game based on this girl, 0:14:36.200 --> 0:14:38.760 and he's feeling like he's not fulfilling her needs. Right, 0:14:39.680 --> 0:14:41.920 but he might be fine to the average that to 0:14:42.200 --> 0:14:45.080 the average other, you know, another female. Right, So he's 0:14:45.080 --> 0:14:47.360 basing his self esteem on what she wants and what 0:14:47.480 --> 0:14:49.360 she said, or he probably just feels that way in 0:14:49.400 --> 0:14:51.640 his mind. He probably feels like a she and holling 0:14:51.680 --> 0:14:53.480 and screening when he knocked down and he's not doing 0:14:53.520 --> 0:14:56.160 his job. But I wouldn't give a damn. Ain't no 0:14:56.200 --> 0:14:57.840 way in the world I'm going. I'm never putting somebody 0:14:57.880 --> 0:15:00.760 cut on my penis, my manhood. That would be tough 0:15:00.800 --> 0:15:03.600 to compromise the feeling. I wouldn't give a damn when 0:15:03.600 --> 0:15:06.680 I would be entirely too much about somebody else, like 0:15:06.840 --> 0:15:11.360 man Like if I got four inches and it requires 0:15:11.360 --> 0:15:13.560 me to feel less for somebody else to feel better, 0:15:13.600 --> 0:15:15.880 I wouldn't do it. Well, that's what I'm saying to plus. 0:15:15.960 --> 0:15:18.160 They say with those surgeries you do lose some feeling. 0:15:18.200 --> 0:15:21.680 I would imagine so, because you're taking your natural self 0:15:21.720 --> 0:15:23.960 and getting ship injected into it. And then my thing 0:15:24.080 --> 0:15:26.600 is this. I think when people go out and get 0:15:26.600 --> 0:15:29.480 these surgeries, they don't think about the long term effects. 0:15:29.520 --> 0:15:32.800 Just like this. We are naturally, as human beings, supposed 0:15:32.840 --> 0:15:35.840 to age and die. That's it. I for damn. Shoot, 0:15:35.840 --> 0:15:37.480 don't look like I did when I was twenty five 0:15:37.560 --> 0:15:39.800 years old. I give my wife credit. My wife had 0:15:39.840 --> 0:15:42.720 three of my children. Man, she's always kept a way 0:15:42.760 --> 0:15:44.880 to order. My wife still got a good figure. She's 0:15:44.920 --> 0:15:46.720 not looking all funny. I see some of these women 0:15:46.760 --> 0:15:48.040 walking down the street our age and they look like 0:15:48.120 --> 0:15:52.880 Milton Frostly snowman. You know, they just sagging everywhere. But 0:15:53.280 --> 0:15:55.680 the thing, you know, that's time. It's a progression. My 0:15:55.760 --> 0:15:57.600 gut is hanging up with my bill buckle. Now I 0:15:57.600 --> 0:15:59.280 don't look nowhere near like I did when I was 0:15:59.280 --> 0:16:02.160 in my twenties. That's a progression. I want the woman 0:16:02.160 --> 0:16:03.880 when I went to progress with me. I don't need 0:16:03.920 --> 0:16:05.920 you because my thing is this. These people get these 0:16:05.920 --> 0:16:09.800 plastic surgeries. When they turn sixty seven years old, they 0:16:09.840 --> 0:16:12.480 still have certain features on their face, like their nose 0:16:12.560 --> 0:16:16.520 maybe plastic or whatever. Right, they're looking funny. It's like you, 0:16:16.640 --> 0:16:18.440 we have to use we have to be happy, but 0:16:18.560 --> 0:16:20.840 the God gave us. And if something like you don't 0:16:20.840 --> 0:16:27.160 accept that, man, let me ask you a question. How 0:16:27.200 --> 0:16:31.560 important is beauty? Well, I'm gonna tell you something, man, 0:16:32.080 --> 0:16:35.520 I had this conversation. I've been fortunately married over thirty years. Right, 0:16:37.240 --> 0:16:39.640 I really think you know when you first meet somebody, 0:16:39.720 --> 0:16:43.440 see the young, the vibrant, right, and you're growing together, Right, 0:16:43.800 --> 0:16:45.880 you still see that person. That's the same. If you 0:16:45.920 --> 0:16:47.960 really love that woman, you still see her as that 0:16:48.080 --> 0:16:51.760 same young, vibrant girl. You're always growing together. Right, It's 0:16:51.840 --> 0:16:53.880 like I think I feel my wife is the most 0:16:53.920 --> 0:16:56.040 beautiful woman on the planet. Like I'm sure you do 0:16:56.120 --> 0:16:58.720 yours too, Right, We're supposed to feel that way, and 0:16:58.760 --> 0:17:00.440 if you don't feel that way about your wife, that 0:17:00.600 --> 0:17:03.920 maybe something wrong, you know, But it's that's that's such 0:17:03.960 --> 0:17:06.720 a shallow pretense to just to get with somebody, or 0:17:06.840 --> 0:17:08.520 you don't get me wrong, I want to marry no 0:17:08.640 --> 0:17:11.480 ugly asked woman. But at the same talk, and I'm 0:17:11.520 --> 0:17:14.440 with a woman that's attractive to me. I don't give 0:17:14.440 --> 0:17:17.040 a fucker's don't nobody else like her? This is my 0:17:17.160 --> 0:17:23.119 thing though, right, Um, I think it's a very minute 0:17:23.160 --> 0:17:27.600 word because somebody, right, beauty is kind of from this 0:17:27.720 --> 0:17:33.640 shallow perspective. Not completely, but yes, most of the time 0:17:33.640 --> 0:17:37.040 it's from a shallow perspective. And if you hung on 0:17:37.240 --> 0:17:43.440 that actual simple perspective for me, that beauty fades for sure. 0:17:44.520 --> 0:17:46.920 Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying they don't look good, 0:17:47.000 --> 0:17:51.439 but it's different to not have something versus having something. 0:17:51.840 --> 0:17:55.119 Like people probably thought Bentley's is the greatest car in 0:17:55.119 --> 0:17:58.320 the world. To somebody who had it is just a car. 0:17:58.520 --> 0:18:02.080 It's it's all a how somebody else feel about it. Um. 0:18:02.520 --> 0:18:06.320 And that's why it's important that a woman's beauty, you know, 0:18:06.440 --> 0:18:10.320 be be like skin deep. It it's internal, you know, 0:18:10.359 --> 0:18:13.440 I mean, because then like you have to shine from 0:18:13.480 --> 0:18:16.040 the inside out consistently, you know what I mean, because 0:18:16.200 --> 0:18:20.080 everything on the outside, no matter what changes what I'm saying. 0:18:20.160 --> 0:18:23.080 So I was just saying that to say that it's 0:18:23.119 --> 0:18:27.720 like you have people who you know and I'm not 0:18:27.800 --> 0:18:31.400 a big fan of of I feel like I love 0:18:31.440 --> 0:18:33.640 with Charlotte Manner and then be talking about mental health. 0:18:33.680 --> 0:18:35.560 But I definitely think it's starting to be a bit, 0:18:36.280 --> 0:18:38.000 you know, a lot, you know what I'm saying. It's 0:18:38.040 --> 0:18:41.240 such a very vast and general concept, you know what 0:18:41.280 --> 0:18:43.639 I mean that it really don't have an end. But 0:18:44.560 --> 0:18:47.760 I appreciate that concept when it comes to this because 0:18:47.760 --> 0:18:50.840 you have so many women trying to, like a girl 0:18:50.880 --> 0:18:55.600 told me, fix something that they feel is broken, right, 0:18:55.600 --> 0:18:59.440 But what's broken is how their their brains sees it. 0:18:59.520 --> 0:19:01.960 Does that make sense? It makes a lot of sense. 0:19:02.040 --> 0:19:05.359 Like you know, I give you a perfect example. Do 0:19:05.400 --> 0:19:09.480 you remember when Biggie first introduced Junior Mafia? Right, sure, 0:19:10.400 --> 0:19:12.680 I thought Kim was a beautiful black woman. I thought 0:19:12.720 --> 0:19:14.639 she was a good looking girl. I think, you know, 0:19:14.680 --> 0:19:16.840 I look at her now, she looks like Madam. You 0:19:16.840 --> 0:19:20.560 remember that puppet Madam No, I'm gonna show you right now. 0:19:20.560 --> 0:19:23.439 Hold on, look him looked like Madam now And and 0:19:23.480 --> 0:19:28.720 it's kind of like you know, I think people, man, 0:19:28.840 --> 0:19:33.320 they look at society, the standard that society sets for 0:19:34.320 --> 0:19:37.800 for beauty, right, and they I think it folks, what 0:19:37.880 --> 0:19:41.040 they here? Bro? Let me ask you a question. Is 0:19:41.080 --> 0:19:44.639 a woman who makes a lot of money more valuable 0:19:44.680 --> 0:19:48.720 than a woman who does it? No? Not necessarily, I 0:19:48.760 --> 0:19:52.200 think in their own mind. See, some people place values 0:19:52.200 --> 0:19:55.520 on the most primitive things. Geeky, I'm just I'm just saying, 0:19:55.560 --> 0:19:58.159 let's let's just focus on women, right with with value 0:19:58.160 --> 0:20:00.840 when it comes to that, right, Like, would you value 0:20:01.000 --> 0:20:02.720 a woman taking care of you? Do you think you 0:20:02.760 --> 0:20:06.320 could value that? Like, let's say if Maria hits a 0:20:06.400 --> 0:20:10.520 lot of if she makes two hundred millions h do 0:20:10.640 --> 0:20:14.480 you would you value her buying the house, buying your car, 0:20:14.640 --> 0:20:18.480 buying you clothes, buying you would you value that even 0:20:18.480 --> 0:20:20.840 though that's been your wife of twenty plus years? Right? 0:20:21.000 --> 0:20:23.320 And she decide she won't take care of me. Now, yeah, 0:20:23.320 --> 0:20:27.240 do you think that would be valuable? Hey? Motherfucking yeah, 0:20:27.280 --> 0:20:29.199 I wouldn't. You know what the thing is. I wouldn't 0:20:29.200 --> 0:20:30.520 be with her just for that. But if she tell 0:20:30.600 --> 0:20:32.120 me I want you to kick back, I'm the bread 0:20:32.160 --> 0:20:34.040 winner now, I wouldn't have no problem with that. What 0:20:34.080 --> 0:20:36.200 time you want done? When you come on? I don't 0:20:36.200 --> 0:20:39.760 believe that now she don't get me wrong. I wouldn't 0:20:39.800 --> 0:20:42.720 stop doing what I do now, don't get twitter she said, 0:20:42.760 --> 0:20:44.480 I don't want you to do what you do anymore? 0:20:44.920 --> 0:20:46.800 Well she if she's making two und a million dollars, 0:20:46.840 --> 0:20:49.240 I would say, you know what this is. I don't 0:20:49.280 --> 0:20:52.000 do what I do just for money is financially rewarding. 0:20:52.040 --> 0:20:53.680 But I do this because I don't want you to 0:20:53.720 --> 0:20:55.200 do nothing. I just want you to wait on me 0:20:55.280 --> 0:21:00.400 handing foot. Uh No, that wouldn't work right us. It's 0:21:00.440 --> 0:21:03.800 something inside of you that that has to go out 0:21:03.840 --> 0:21:06.680 and build right It's it's it's like a wire. So 0:21:07.640 --> 0:21:14.159 women having financial benefits really is not valuable to a 0:21:14.320 --> 0:21:16.520 whole man, you know what I mean? A W H 0:21:16.640 --> 0:21:19.600 O L E like a complete man, you know, as 0:21:19.600 --> 0:21:22.600 complete as you can before you find your woman, right, 0:21:22.920 --> 0:21:26.439 I don't know if that's really value. Like still, I think, like, 0:21:26.760 --> 0:21:28.679 you know, you cook nigger like a like a like 0:21:28.720 --> 0:21:30.600 an old Southern slave lady. You know what I mean, 0:21:30.600 --> 0:21:34.359 you get cracking and and you know you're decent. You know, 0:21:34.480 --> 0:21:36.720 I've seen you clean up behind yourself. You clean decent. 0:21:36.840 --> 0:21:39.600 You know. I just couldn't see you just waiting hand 0:21:39.640 --> 0:21:42.200 and foot. I don't give a damn what Maria guy. 0:21:42.240 --> 0:21:47.720 I just couldn't see that. It's not you that's right there, 0:21:49.160 --> 0:21:52.520 and that's not that's look him, look right now, they'll 0:21:52.560 --> 0:21:55.480