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We could 9 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:33,559 Speaker 1: be reading your letter live on the air, just like 10 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:35,560 Speaker 1: we're going to read this one right here, right now. 11 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:38,479 Speaker 1: Let's go rogue. Buckle up and hold on tight. We 12 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:41,000 Speaker 1: got it for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter. 13 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject we live in a shack, but 14 00:00:44,640 --> 00:00:47,920 Speaker 1: we're not shacking up. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a twenty 15 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:50,239 Speaker 1: eight year old married woman and my husband and I 16 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 1: have been living in a one bedroom, two bas condo 17 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 1: for six years. My husband bought it before he met me, 18 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 1: and he promised to do some upgrades after we paid 19 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 1: off our wedding. The carpet is eleven years old, filthy 20 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 1: and frayed and the bathroom floor is an orange vinyl 21 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:10,120 Speaker 1: tile that is coming up in spots. The kitchen appliances 22 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 1: are old and outdated, and I have begged him to 23 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 1: at least replace though, so I can have a refrigerator 24 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 1: and freezer that keeps our food fresh. We both work 25 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:22,399 Speaker 1: decent jobs and have plenty of disposable income. We don't 26 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:24,960 Speaker 1: have any car notes or credit cards, and we do 27 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:27,959 Speaker 1: not have any children, so we have the money to 28 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 1: make some improvements, but my husband says is not important 29 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:34,320 Speaker 1: to him. And the worst part of all of this 30 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 1: is he works as a construction manager every day. Two 31 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 1: years ago, he bought enough engineered wood flooring to put 32 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 1: all over our condo, but he hasn't done the work. 33 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:48,040 Speaker 1: He said he doesn't feel like doing it on the 34 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 1: weekend since he does it at work daily. I asked 35 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 1: him if we could hire someone to come do the work. 36 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 1: He got offended and said he wasn't paying a man 37 00:01:56,840 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 1: to come fix anything in his house and it's disrespectful 38 00:01:59,880 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 1: for me to suggest that. Instead of him doing the 39 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 1: upgrades to ar condo gradually, he has chosen to convert 40 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 1: our guest bathroom into a studio, and he's always in 41 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:14,800 Speaker 1: the bathroom, making beats in his spare time. If his 42 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 1: mom calls him to come fix something in her house, 43 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 1: he jumps to it. I'm sick of this shack we 44 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:26,560 Speaker 1: live in. Economically, it makes sense to upgrade it. Oh, 45 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 1: sha shack, shack, baby shack. Economically, it makes sense to 46 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 1: upgrade it a bit and stay here for a few 47 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 1: more years. Really, Tommy, really, so would I be wrong 48 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:43,079 Speaker 1: if I hired a contractor against my husband's wishes? Please advise, yes, 49 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:47,079 Speaker 1: this is a shack, and no, you would not be wrong. 50 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:50,080 Speaker 1: May I remind you? Since I have to, May I 51 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:52,679 Speaker 1: remind you that this is your house too. All right? 52 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:55,240 Speaker 1: You have to live there with an eleven year old 53 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 1: fraid and ugly and nasty carpet. You are his wife. 54 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:02,839 Speaker 1: You have to start speaking up for yourself. Okay. When 55 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 1: his mama calls, he runs over there. He's a mama's boy. Okay, 56 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 1: who wants to live in a Nazi house? I mean, 57 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:13,639 Speaker 1: you can't even keep your food fresh because you don't 58 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 1: have a decent refrigerator or freezer. I don't think there's 59 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:20,360 Speaker 1: any excuse for this, especially because you say you have 60 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 1: a lot of disposable income so you can afford it. 61 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 1: Your husband is being unreasonable, he's being disrespectful and just 62 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 1: playing selfish. He converted the extra bathroom into a studio 63 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 1: to make beats. He's got time to do that. I 64 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 1: just think he should be too happy to make sure 65 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 1: that you're happy. I mean, everyone knows is saying happy wife, 66 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 1: happy life, and it's very very true. When is he 67 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 1: going to appreciate you and treat you like his wife, 68 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 1: the woman he's supposed to love and cherish. Huh? You 69 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 1: do know that you have a voice and you don't 70 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: have to take this from him. You need to sit 71 00:03:57,320 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 1: him down, let him know, I say, do it in 72 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 1: a nice way, but doing it in a strong, very 73 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 1: confident way. Let him know how you feel, what you want. 74 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 1: I just think, and you should know this too, that 75 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 1: marriages work and he cannot be lazy in this. When 76 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 1: you guys talk, hopefully he'll understand and you guys can 77 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 1: get a plan together to fix up the place. If not, 78 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 1: tell him no disrespect, but you refused to live like 79 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 1: this and just start hiring people and to help you 80 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 1: get it done. Mama's boy, Steve, Well mas this letter 81 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:36,479 Speaker 1: right here. Man, it's kind of all over the place. 82 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 1: I feel sorry for this lady, but she's she can 83 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:44,040 Speaker 1: do something about this. Ah. He live in his one 84 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:49,039 Speaker 1: bad room, two bad condo for six years now. Her 85 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:52,279 Speaker 1: husband bought it before he met you, and he promised 86 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 1: you to do some upgrades. That's the key to the letter. 87 00:04:56,240 --> 00:05:00,280 Speaker 1: He promised you that he would do some upgrades after 88 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:02,480 Speaker 1: we paid off the wedding. Now, obviously the wedding is 89 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:06,839 Speaker 1: paid off because y'all been six years, so the wedding 90 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:11,159 Speaker 1: got to be paid off. Competi's eleven years old, filthy fraid. 91 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 1: Bathroom floor's orange vinyl. It's coming up on spots. Kitchen 92 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 1: plianes is an old and updated and I have and 93 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:24,720 Speaker 1: here we go again. Begged him to at least replace those. 94 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 1: Excuse me, did he not promise this? If a man 95 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 1: promised you something, why are you now begging him for 96 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:41,480 Speaker 1: what he promised? Man, damn doc, Do what you say 97 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:45,840 Speaker 1: you're gonna do. That's all this is, man, This is real, 98 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:48,240 Speaker 1: simple man. Just do what you say you're gonna do. 99 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:51,840 Speaker 1: But ladies, but ladies, you keep letting him off the hook. 100 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 1: See the worst part. He's a construction manager. Now, he 101 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:00,720 Speaker 1: bought some wood flooring to put in the house. He 102 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:03,719 Speaker 1: does it, but now let me tell you anything, So hold, 103 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:07,719 Speaker 1: hold before I go do that. Y'all both work decent 104 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:15,360 Speaker 1: jobs and you have plenty of disposable income. What do 105 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:20,159 Speaker 1: you have plenty? So this is ridiculous. Now you don't 106 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 1: have any card notes, credit cards, and you ain't got 107 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:27,360 Speaker 1: no kids. But my husband says it's not important to him. 108 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 1: It may not be important to here, But are you 109 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:34,839 Speaker 1: important to him? See he promised you. You begging him, 110 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:36,600 Speaker 1: and now it ain't important to him. But is it 111 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 1: important to you? Does he value your wishes? And obviously 112 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:43,840 Speaker 1: so far he doesn't. So when we come back, I'm 113 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:46,320 Speaker 1: gonna show you how to flip it. Yeah, we'll have 114 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:48,839 Speaker 1: part two coming up of your response Steve at twenty 115 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:50,840 Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour, we live in a shack 116 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:56,240 Speaker 1: where we're not shocking up. Back after this you're listening show, 117 00:06:57,240 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 1: all right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's strawberry. Let 118 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:03,279 Speaker 1: the subject we live in a shack, but we're not 119 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:07,279 Speaker 1: shacking up. You know, this is an interesting letter. This 120 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:09,720 Speaker 1: young woman he's twenty eight, married this man. He had 121 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 1: this house, this card before, and he promised this woman 122 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:16,600 Speaker 1: that after they paid off the wedding that he would 123 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 1: do some renovations. Well he haven't. He hasn't the kitchen 124 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 1: applies at all. And then this woman has been begging him. Well, 125 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:29,119 Speaker 1: now that's crazy, because why do you have to beg 126 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:33,040 Speaker 1: somebody to keep a promise you made? I can promise 127 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:42,080 Speaker 1: you that if I promise Marjorie Harvey something, best to 128 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 1: do it because you will not forget it. Man, I 129 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:52,080 Speaker 1: promised to remind it. S you have, you have his 130 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 1: words to use, but you're not so anyway. Uh, you 131 00:07:57,480 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 1: have plenty of disposable income. You said you don't have 132 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 1: a cardote, you don't have credit cards? What y'all doing 133 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 1: with the money? So now later on in the letter 134 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 1: you say y'all saving for another place. But then you 135 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 1: got to sell that place. You gotta fix it up 136 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 1: to sell it, and you gotta fix it up because 137 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:17,120 Speaker 1: you're live in it. This is stupid. And then when 138 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:19,400 Speaker 1: you want him to make some improvement, your husband says 139 00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 1: it's not important to him, but it is important to you. 140 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 1: Does your husband not value what is important to his wife? 141 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 1: Who have you married? What idiot did you marry? What 142 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 1: did he say to you? And all of a sudden 143 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 1: he ain't doing nothing, he said, there's a way. I 144 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 1: haven't answer. Faith. Worst part of this is he's a 145 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:46,760 Speaker 1: construction manager. Two years ago he bought some engineered wood 146 00:08:46,760 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 1: flowing to put all through the condo, but he ain't 147 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:51,440 Speaker 1: done the work. He said, don't feel like doing it 148 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:56,640 Speaker 1: on the weekends since he does that work all day. 149 00:08:57,120 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 1: I asked him if we could hire someone to come 150 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:03,040 Speaker 1: do the work. He got offended and said he wasn't 151 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 1: paying a man to fix anything in his house, and 152 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:08,960 Speaker 1: it's disrespectful for me to suggest that. Okay, hold on, 153 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 1: First of all, we're dealing with a misplaced male ego. 154 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 1: See if you want to say, can't no man fix 155 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:20,680 Speaker 1: nothing in my house, then you have to fix it. 156 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 1: I got that, that's male ego. I ain't man at 157 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:27,640 Speaker 1: the doe for saying that. But then if k no 158 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 1: man fix nothing in your house but you won't fix it, 159 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:35,720 Speaker 1: you have what I call displaced male ego. You have 160 00:09:35,880 --> 00:09:38,200 Speaker 1: placed it in the wrong place. K no man fix 161 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:42,439 Speaker 1: nothing in my house? That includes you. So now I 162 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:45,320 Speaker 1: ain't no man, me or nobody else fixing nothing in 163 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 1: my house. Dog, you stupid an idiot. And then it's 164 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 1: being disrespectful. You to suggest it, it's being disrespectful that 165 00:09:55,760 --> 00:09:59,160 Speaker 1: he won't do it. See you keep letting him flip 166 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:02,040 Speaker 1: the scrip on. You ain't disrespectful that you suggested. It's 167 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 1: disrespectful that he won't do it. So instead of him 168 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:07,760 Speaker 1: doing the upgrades on condo gradually, he has chosen to 169 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:10,840 Speaker 1: convert our guess bathroom into a studio. That he's always 170 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:13,360 Speaker 1: in the bathroom making beats in his spare time? Is 171 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 1: this his plan to get y'all out to shack? What 172 00:10:16,800 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 1: making bets? Is he doing beats in the bathroom? So 173 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:30,800 Speaker 1: you're married to timberly lady? If his mom calls him 174 00:10:30,800 --> 00:10:32,439 Speaker 1: to come fix something her and how he jumps on 175 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:36,160 Speaker 1: and do it. I'm sick of his shack we live in. Economically, 176 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:38,200 Speaker 1: it makes sense to upgrade it in a bit and 177 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 1: stay here a few more years. So would I be 178 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:43,240 Speaker 1: wrong if I hid a contractor against my husband's wishes? 179 00:10:43,280 --> 00:10:44,960 Speaker 1: Please about it before you do that. I have some 180 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:50,920 Speaker 1: suggestive foray. First of all, let me give you something 181 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 1: advice that I tell young people at work for me too. 182 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:57,439 Speaker 1: I got two places you do not cut back on 183 00:10:58,920 --> 00:11:02,160 Speaker 1: You do not cut back on what you eat because 184 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 1: that stuff enters your body, and you become what you eat. 185 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:09,320 Speaker 1: So don't ever cut back on what you eat. Now, 186 00:11:09,320 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 1: if you pour and you don't have enough to understand, 187 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 1: but if you have, like this letter, disposable income and 188 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:17,760 Speaker 1: you have enough money to decide what you want to eat, 189 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 1: I'm not talking about really poor people has just gotta 190 00:11:20,840 --> 00:11:23,320 Speaker 1: buy what they can afford. If you have a choice, 191 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:25,680 Speaker 1: do not cut back on what you eat. The second 192 00:11:25,679 --> 00:11:27,680 Speaker 1: thing you don't cut back on is where you live 193 00:11:29,200 --> 00:11:31,680 Speaker 1: your body. You gotta carry this body around, so you 194 00:11:31,720 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 1: gotta be conscious of what you eat and where you stay. 195 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 1: You'll spend more time in your house than you will anywhere. 196 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:40,160 Speaker 1: Why would you cut back on your house? What you're 197 00:11:40,160 --> 00:11:42,080 Speaker 1: going to work for? If you can't come into a 198 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:48,000 Speaker 1: nice place and rest, y'all can't even have company. Ain't 199 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 1: nobody over here here in the other bathroom doing be 200 00:11:50,920 --> 00:11:54,520 Speaker 1: twist to people going to the bathroom? Why is this 201 00:11:54,720 --> 00:12:03,480 Speaker 1: turntable on time? And its tarlet? You? I can't because 202 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:16,840 Speaker 1: you got a track set up here. Now listen to me, man, 203 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 1: what is we doing in here? Not listen to me? 204 00:12:20,280 --> 00:12:23,120 Speaker 1: You have two things you can do to get this done. 205 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:28,240 Speaker 1: You should just say simply, I'm not living like this anymore. 206 00:12:29,880 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 1: I am not living like this anymore. I am embarrassed 207 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:38,160 Speaker 1: of where we live. I can't have company. I don't 208 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:42,400 Speaker 1: like where we live. It's given me the creeps. And 209 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:45,000 Speaker 1: I can't perform in this bed. No more like this 210 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:48,720 Speaker 1: because it's just not what I want. I just can't. 211 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:51,840 Speaker 1: I just can't. I don't get turned on with where 212 00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:57,760 Speaker 1: we live. And here's the big problem. And this is 213 00:12:57,800 --> 00:12:59,960 Speaker 1: why I want you to say it. But you probably 214 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:03,920 Speaker 1: must see he promised you he would do this. If 215 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:06,760 Speaker 1: Marjorie says to me, but you promise, what she never 216 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 1: has to say, because if I promise, I have to 217 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:11,439 Speaker 1: do it. But if if if you go to him 218 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:17,040 Speaker 1: and go but you promised, and then cry, oh, but 219 00:13:17,240 --> 00:13:20,720 Speaker 1: you promise, And then when you try to hold you 220 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:25,760 Speaker 1: and comfort you, all you keep saying is but you promise. 221 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:31,640 Speaker 1: They ain't a man living that can let his woman 222 00:13:31,800 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 1: keep saying to him, but you promise you And he 223 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:41,520 Speaker 1: don't do that. Men, we can't stand that. Baby. I'm 224 00:13:41,520 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: gonna do it. Baby, fix to flow now, all right? 225 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:54,719 Speaker 1: Going to the phones eight seven seven to falla at us. 226 00:13:56,280 --> 00:13:58,679 Speaker 1: You're listening