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Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure, I think it's important in life.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's equally important to know what you don't want.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes that's how you figure out what you do want.

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Speaker 1: Like Alexis, she does not want labels, even if one

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Speaker 3: Don't put a label on that he's my guy friend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, bothered a couple of children, exactly label on that.

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Speaker 3: That's gross.

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Speaker 1: And one of our listeners knows exactly what she doesn't want,

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Speaker 1: and that's a second date with.

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Speaker 3: The guys she went out with.

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Speaker 2: And why is she calling?

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Speaker 1: She does want answers. She deserves that, so let's talk

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Speaker 1: to her. Jenna, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Everyone.

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Speaker 1: Did he block you and now you got to use

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Speaker 1: us to tell him off?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Much?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I mean, I'm just no, I'm curious.

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Speaker 2: At okay, okay, all right, you're beyond me.

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Speaker 5: I'm beyond mad, and I hate that I am expending.

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Speaker 4: Energy on this, but like it's not okay what happened?

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Speaker 4: And I just need to know, like what the heck?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I think we need some explaining because you sound

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Speaker 1: I feel like I have all the information that I need.

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Speaker 1: But if you want to give us some details, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Cool with that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Like the guy's name, Yeah, what is his name?

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Speaker 4: His name is Peter?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Peter. We hate Peter? Yeah, Peter.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that could have been red flag number one.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, guy Peter in his car, Like, oh yeah, okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: we'll give grace to most other Peters, but this Peter,

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Speaker 1: we're not saying why why do we hate Peter?

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Speaker 5: So we met on a dating app.

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Speaker 4: But I don't usually meet a lot of guys, Like

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Speaker 4: I'll talk to a lot of people just to like

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Speaker 4: to a lot of dates because it'll because you can

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Speaker 4: meet some quality people on there. But that's not what

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Speaker 4: this is about exactly.

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Speaker 3: It's rare.

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Speaker 2: So you thought Peter was quality in the beginning, I'm

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Speaker 5: Right, and he honestly should feel lucky that I said yes.

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Speaker 4: Okay at this point.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but going in, obviously you had a little bit

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Speaker 3: So like what happened.

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Speaker 4: So when I feel like the person who's asking for

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Speaker 4: so that seems fair. I said that to him. He said,

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Speaker 4: he made a reservation. Fine, we decided to meet.

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Speaker 5: There safety first, and we get there.

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Speaker 4: And he checks in with the hostess and they're like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Oh is that when you stopped talking to him?

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Speaker 1: It's usually like five Actually they say that too, That

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Speaker 4: Fun because if he made a reservation, we shouldn't have

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Speaker 2: No, but that's the thing about reservations. I've often had

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Speaker 1: But you're obviously not on the same level as Jenna.

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Speaker 2: So wait, you're you're already getting upset because you're waiting

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Speaker 4: Is that what you're I wasn't sure because he was

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Speaker 1: You want the guy to step up and be like,

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Speaker 1: excuse me, I made the reservation for this time.

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Speaker 4: I wanted him to handle it because you never know

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Speaker 2: Oh good, Oh so you're fifteen minutes into a date

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Speaker 4: Well, I didn't wait the fifteen minutes. Like I spoke

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Speaker 3: He's just cool with whatever.

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Speaker 2: But it sounds like you're already starting to work yourself up,

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Speaker 4: Maybe, Yes, I'm not in a bad mood. And if

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Speaker 4: I was in a bad mood, it wasn't my fault.

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Speaker 3: This is why complaining always pays off.

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Speaker 2: This does feel like something you would do.

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Speaker 3: Just ye, yes, I've come out on top status.

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Speaker 2: So are you in your date? Back on? You're feeling good. Now,

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Speaker 5: Right. Well, I sat down and like I'm having.

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Speaker 4: And I tried to call him. He's not responding. He

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Speaker 5: I mean, I did his job exactly.

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Speaker 1: You put in all the work, and now he's deciding

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Speaker 3: This guy's a jerk.

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Speaker 2: I'm imagining like my husband going out with you on

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Speaker 2: a first date. He would have been so mortified and

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Speaker 3: There's a clear line here.

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Speaker 1: Some people are team Jenna and some people seem to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, here's the thing. Are you really that

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Speaker 3: Hello, and I mean Brook.

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Speaker 1: Sure, maybe he didn't want to be on the day anymore,

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Speaker 3: Be a man like your husband.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure would have been and ditched before he died

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Speaker 2: I'm just sure, but I'm kidding.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 3: That's all that we need the bus.

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Speaker 1: This guy deserves to answer up for the cowardly move

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Speaker 1: that he did ditching him by not saying anything, Jenna.

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Speaker 3: We're all on board with you despite thank.

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Speaker 4: You guys so much for your support. I appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: We appreciate you, Jenna, and we would love if you

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Speaker 1: left a five star review on our podcast when you're

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Speaker 3: It would really go along with okay perfect.

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Speaker 2: So let's wait till segment two before she actually.

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Speaker 1: No, I wanted wanted to put it now before segment two,

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Speaker 1: because who knows what's gonna happen when we come back.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna call Peter and we'll see what he has

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Speaker 1: In your second date update right after this second date update.

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Speaker 1: The room seems very divided about this call with our

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Speaker 1: Meanwhile, spineless Peter wouldn't say a word, so Jenna had

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Speaker 1: guess what happened? She got results immediately. Oh, I guess

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Speaker 3: And where was Peter?

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Speaker 1: Who knows quivering Pete had dipped out without saying a

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Speaker 3: Those are Brooks words, by the way.

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Speaker 2: I hate when you just quote me like that.

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Speaker 1: Would her actions be warranted if the time length was different?

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Speaker 2: Like that's not what happened.

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Speaker 3: Because you know because you know that I'm right.

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Speaker 2: No, it's not. It's like hypotheticals, and hypotheticals will always

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Speaker 3: Okay, Jenna.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to get them onto your side. I'm doing

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Speaker 1: everything in my power. They still want to be team Peter.

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Speaker 3: For some reason.

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Speaker 2: Brook.

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Speaker 4: I get the vibe that you don't support me, and

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Speaker 4: I've heard on your show that you support women, and honestly,

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Speaker 2: What happens? I just don't know that you should be

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Speaker 3: I think, well, I don't think. I don't think that's it.

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Speaker 1: I don't think she's mystified about why he's not interested.

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Speaker 1: She's just not understanding why he took the approach he

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Speaker 3: He was rude.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I just want to know, like what he was

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Speaker 5: Just leave without saying anything.

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Speaker 1: We don't know what we're going to get. If Peter

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Speaker 1: answers the phone.

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Speaker 2: Right, let's call it. Let's see evaculating.

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Speaker 1: Maybe he will own up to all the mistakes that

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Speaker 1: he made that day.

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Speaker 3: But let's find out.

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Speaker 2: I bet you, I bet Jenna will be very kind

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Speaker 2: and forgiving it.

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Speaker 3: We're not dealing with hypotheticals.

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Speaker 1: Earlier, so let's just take some real action and dial

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Speaker 2: Give you makes sense.

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Speaker 1: The peanut, Let's get some Hello.

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Speaker 3: Wow answered on the first ring. Yikes, this, Peter.

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Speaker 2: Is such a bad way to start a conversation.

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Speaker 3: Peter, is this you?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Who is this? Well?

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Speaker 1: You should know us because we're a very popular radio

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Speaker 1: show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 3: You may have heard of.

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Speaker 2: Us, or Jenna's really ruped off on you.

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Speaker 1: What is happening right now, Well, what's happening is a

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Speaker 1: segment called a second Date Update, where we're trying to

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Speaker 1: help out out one of our listeners, one of our

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Speaker 1: very good friends.

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Speaker 3: That's true.

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Speaker 1: Her name is Jenna, and you went on a date

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Speaker 1: with her recently, you almost went on a date with her.

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Speaker 3: I should say well.

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Speaker 2: You waited five minutes with her in the restaurant lobby just.

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Speaker 3: Ringing a bell.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, that happened.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, right, I'd love just your first impression of Jenna.

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Speaker 6: I mean, she's pretty, she seemed cool on the app

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Speaker 6: and then uh, I even went out of my way

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Speaker 6: to call a buddy and get a reservation at a

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Speaker 6: new restaurant.

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Speaker 1: Oh dude, you yeah, we heard that there were supposedly

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Speaker 1: reservations that were made, but when you arrived to the restaurant,

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Speaker 1: things didn't go that smoothly.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Look, I mean it was swamped.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 7: I mean it's a new place.

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Speaker 2: It makes sense for a new restaurant. There's like systems

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Speaker 2: that they don't have in place yet sometimes they get behind.

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Speaker 3: Sounds like they don't have their stuff together.

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Speaker 2: That is just friends, that's totally normal for a new

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Speaker 1: The Yeah, I'm sorry to interrupt you there, Peter, keep going.

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Speaker 7: I don't know, guys, it was just pretty awkward because

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Speaker 7: I mean we get there and she finds out there's

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Speaker 7: a fifteen minute wait. I mean, my goodness, pretty much

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Speaker 7: kind of has a temper tantrump. She even said like,

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Speaker 7: do you know who I am?

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Speaker 2: What? She said that? No?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, he starts whipping out her phone, showing her twenty

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Speaker 7: thousand followers she has and everything.

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Speaker 3: Oh, she's an influencer or she just has like twenty.

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Speaker 2: Influence.

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Speaker 3: That's pretty good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, really, just like Brooks sounds a little bit jealous

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Speaker 1: of you, even so.

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Speaker 2: Followed, I am not interested in how many people have,

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Speaker 2: and I think that's such a weird flex.

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Speaker 7: Right. So then it was just so awkward and I

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Speaker 7: just dipped. I was like, get over yourself.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well okay, so is there a reason why you

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Speaker 2: didn't tell her? Like, hey, man, that was too much

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Speaker 2: for me. I'm leaving.

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Speaker 7: I just couldn't be with a girl like that, you know,

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Speaker 7: I'm like, get over yourself. I mean, I left, and

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Speaker 7: I had to as I was going home, I had

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Speaker 7: to like text my buddy like, hey, I'm so sorry, Peter.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, Peter, sorry, Like just so you know,

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Speaker 4: like I've seen mannequins with more initiative than you.

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Speaker 3: What, Yeah, so Peter, you couldn't figure it out. That's

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Speaker 3: Jenna on the other line. She's been listening to this call.

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Speaker 3: Normally we have them wait but.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I don't blame her either. That was kind

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Speaker 1: of a long explanation on your end.

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Speaker 2: It was exactly what we thought had happened.

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Speaker 3: You could have summarized it a little bit quicker, but

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Speaker 3: go ahead, Jenna.

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Speaker 4: I honestly don't appreciate being mischaracterized.

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Speaker 2: I am not.

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Speaker 5: I never said you know who I am? Like who

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Speaker 5: says that anymore?

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Speaker 7: I heard you say it.

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Speaker 2: So what maybe I did?

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Speaker 5: Maybe I did it, But at least we got a table.

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Speaker 4: You had one chance to act like a man, and

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Speaker 4: you went full on NPCC.

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Speaker 2: What does that stand for?

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Speaker 5: Non playable character? Yeah, Brooke, come on, come on, Brook.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like he didn't want to play.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: I didn't. I didn't want to be a part of it, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But there's a level of decorum that usually comes into

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Speaker 1: dates where you tell someone, Hey, I don't know if

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Speaker 1: this is going to work out, or I gotta go

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Speaker 1: just dipping out.

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Speaker 2: What is he supposed to do? He's supposed to say

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Speaker 2: something and then Jenna is going to go nuclear on

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Speaker 2: him and make a scene in the restaurant next and

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Speaker 2: embarrass his buddy even more.

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Speaker 3: I apologize to his buddy.

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Speaker 1: He apologized to the manager, and everybody except for Jenna.

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Speaker 2: Why does she deserve an apology? I guess is my question.

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Speaker 4: Brook. You're supposed to support women's rights and wrong, you know,

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Speaker 4: women can still be a holes.

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Speaker 2: Jenna. I'm sorry, You're right and you're being one right now, Brooke,

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Speaker 2: I don't understand why you're attacking Jenna.

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Speaker 3: She came to us for help.

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Speaker 2: I'm attacking anyone. It's just an al Well, she's kind

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Speaker 2: of being one. But yeah, here's the thing, Like, Jenna,

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Speaker 2: how could anyone calmly talk to you? And in that moment.

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Speaker 4: We're talking about the wrong thing here, Like we need

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Speaker 4: to talk about who gets done and I do. Okay,

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Speaker 4: I got at the table and he did nothing.

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Speaker 7: I mean, this is just outrageous. I mean, Jenna, you're

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Speaker 7: a beautiful girl, but get over yourself.

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Speaker 4: Oh I'm just going to take that as an apology

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Speaker 4: that you won't get over me.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, Okay, I like how you just take what

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Speaker 2: you want. You know you got there.

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Speaker 7: I'm trying to see that, Jenna, what you're saying doesn't

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Speaker 7: even make any sense.

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Speaker 4: So I just want an apology.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think that's a fair ass, just one

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Speaker 1: tiny apology for all the trouble that Jenna had to

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Speaker 2: And then in return, will Jenna then apologize to the

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Speaker 2: restaurant manager. The restaurant gave.

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Speaker 3: Her free food and drinks for their own mistakes.

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Speaker 1: They admitted they were wrong fifteen minutes late for her reservation.

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Speaker 2: She didn't even wait fifteen minutes.

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Speaker 4: You know what, I don't even just want an apology

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Speaker 3: From brick two. Okay, all right.

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Speaker 1: Bro, why don't you be a good role model and

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Speaker 1: show Peter how a good apology is done.

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Speaker 2: I don't think it's healthy to apologize for something that

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Speaker 2: you didn't do wrong. I'm not gonna take blame for

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Speaker 2: Jenna's behavior. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you should apologize for the outfit that you chose

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Speaker 1: to wear today, because this is a pain to answer.

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Speaker 2: Isn't like a snuggie Jeff? For that?

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Speaker 3: I am sorry, Okay, sorry for Jenna. I'm going to

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Speaker 1: How's your chance to apologize for ditching out on Jenna

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Speaker 3: Ready? Three to one?

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Speaker 7: And you know when they say you don't have anything

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Speaker 7: nice to say, don't say anything at all. That's why

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Speaker 7: I left and I just got a backbrooke on this.

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Speaker 7: I mean, I can't condone bad behavior like that. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: Yeah all right, Yeah that was a long winded way

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Speaker 3: I could have just said I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: Did not get what she likes.

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Speaker 1: Jenna, I'm so so sorry that you have to go

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Speaker 1: through all of that.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: She didn't want one to start.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I'm a man of action like Jenna is,

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Speaker 1: so I will take action and offer to put you

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Speaker 3: No thanks, Okay, at least I tried. I'm the only

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Speaker 4: So yeah, can you hear that, Peter, I said no

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Speaker 3: Spineless Peter?

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Speaker 2: Once again?

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Speaker 3: My god, looking Jeffrey in the morning. I don't like

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Speaker 3: when calls get ugly like that.

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Speaker 2: We've had a couple lately.

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Speaker 1: I know, yes, yeah, I know, And then I have

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Speaker 1: to be the one who steps up and apologizes for

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Speaker 1: everybody on behalf of the entire show.

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Speaker 2: She didn't understand. You're being sarcastic. No, maybe not actually

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Speaker 2: support her.

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Speaker 1: I think our listeners deserve a little bit of support,

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Speaker 1: even if they're not right Okay, Well.

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Speaker 2: You never tell them that they're not right.

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Speaker 1: That's just going to make them mad at me. Someone

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Speaker 1: needs to stand up for him. But I did take

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Speaker 1: something away from it. Twenty thousand followers can get you

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Speaker 1: free drinks and an appetizer.

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Speaker 2: What we are way more than that. We never get anything.

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Speaker 3: I thought for sure it would be higher, like forty

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Speaker 1: But if it's only twenty I'm gonna start pulling out

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Speaker 1: my phone at acclaim Jeffer, and I'm gonna be.

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Speaker 3: Like, excuse me. Do you know who Brooke Fox is?

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Speaker 3: I work with her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and if you if you don't want to be

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Speaker 1: on her bad side, you will give me some free

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Speaker 1: Hallopenio poppers on the house.

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Speaker 2: You show my Instagram and you get charged more.

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Speaker 3: Oh god, I'm not going to show him that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: You do want to check out our socials, specifically our

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Speaker 1: show one at Broken Jeffrey. You can go send us

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Speaker 1: a DM and we might reach out to that person

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Speaker 1: who's not calling you back.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and go check out our podcast too. They're available online.

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Speaker 1: You can see all of our second dates wherever you

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Speaker 1: get yours at Brook and Jeffrey