WEBVTT - Complete the set 

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Good Morning, This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Today's tip is to give some structure to your leisure

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<v Speaker 1>time by seeking out the complete set of an experience.

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<v Speaker 1>If you've done a lot of something, why not aim

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<v Speaker 1>to do all of it. You'll probably have a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of fun along the way. So I guess is that

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<v Speaker 1>some people are already more oriented toward having the complete

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<v Speaker 1>set of anything. If many years ago you collected a

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<v Speaker 1>commemorative quarter from every state, or saved up your lawnmowing

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<v Speaker 1>or babysitting money for a boxed set of all the

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<v Speaker 1>CDs from your favorite band, then you already see the

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<v Speaker 1>appeal of what I'm talking about. The idea is to

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<v Speaker 1>look for something that you've done a fair amount of

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<v Speaker 1>or would like to do a fair amount of, and

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<v Speaker 1>then check off the rest of the list. So, for instance,

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<v Speaker 1>if you look at a map of the United States

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<v Speaker 1>and notice that you've visited thirty three of these states,

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<v Speaker 1>you might be inspired to build a stop in North

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<v Speaker 1>Dakota onto your next road trip itinerary. In doing so,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll consider options that you probably wouldn't have otherwise, or

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<v Speaker 1>you might start planning an Alaska vacation. Maybe not the

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<v Speaker 1>first place people think of, but a stunning destination once

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<v Speaker 1>you start looking into it. Over a few years, you

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<v Speaker 1>could get all the remaining states. If you like to cook,

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<v Speaker 1>it's fun to just try new recipes, but you could

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<v Speaker 1>also do so with some purpose and cook your way

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<v Speaker 1>through a cookbook like in that book turned movie Julie

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<v Speaker 1>and Julia. You'll build new skills, learn about new ingredients,

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<v Speaker 1>and feel some real satisfaction as you get to the end.

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<v Speaker 1>You could read every book by a given author, watch

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<v Speaker 1>every movie by a given director, or listen to every

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<v Speaker 1>piece by a given composer. You could visit all the

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<v Speaker 1>Thai restaurants or wine bars or dog parks in your town,

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<v Speaker 1>or try out all the weekend exercise classes on the

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<v Speaker 1>schedule at your gym. Now some when you pursue, all

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<v Speaker 1>will be duds, and some won't be as appealing as others.

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<v Speaker 1>I really love reading Virginia Wolf, but there is a

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<v Speaker 1>reason that teachers a sign to the lighthouse more often

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<v Speaker 1>than say night and day. Still, reading the Voyage Out

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<v Speaker 1>can shed some light on her style that then lets

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<v Speaker 1>you approach to the lighthouse with new eyes. Seeking out

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<v Speaker 1>the complete set can nudge you to spend more time

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<v Speaker 1>on your chosen leisure activity as you pursue your goal,

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<v Speaker 1>And just as important, you don't have to spend as

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<v Speaker 1>much time racking your brain trying to figure out what

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<v Speaker 1>to read next, listen to next, cook next, or where

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<v Speaker 1>to travel next. Aiming for a complete set, it lets

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<v Speaker 1>you spend less time wondering and more time just doing so.

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<v Speaker 1>If you are intrigued at the idea of pursuing a

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<v Speaker 1>complete set, think about what might be appealing to you.

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<v Speaker 1>There are lots of ways you could really run with this.

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<v Speaker 1>You could make a New Year's resolution to complete your

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<v Speaker 1>chosen set. You could rally a group of friends to

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<v Speaker 1>experience the complete set with you every month. You could

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<v Speaker 1>discuss another collection of Mary Oliver's poetry, or play on

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<v Speaker 1>a different public golf course in your area, or watch

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<v Speaker 1>one more Spike Lee movie on your own couches while

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<v Speaker 1>sharing your commentary via group text messages. And I'd like

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<v Speaker 1>to point out you might want to document your completion

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<v Speaker 1>of the set, maybe on a blog, because it could

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<v Speaker 1>become a book or a movie with Meryl Street, And

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't that be cool In the meantime, this is Laura.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for listening and here's to making most of our time. Hey, everybody,

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