Speaker 1: Second date update date.
Speaker 2: You know, in all the years that we've done this segment,
Speaker 2: we've had a few listeners call up saying, I know
Speaker 2: that we only hung out once, but I'm pretty sure
Speaker 2: they're the one.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2: We've had other people say I am ready to marry
Speaker 2: this person right now.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's not a red flag on the phone.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, But rarely do we have people email and
Speaker 2: tell us I want a date even though I'm not
Speaker 2: one hundred percent sure I really want to go out
Speaker 2: with them again.
Speaker 3: Okay, well, I mean even if they don't tell us,
Speaker 3: most of them are thinking.
Speaker 2: That, you know, sure, but it's a little bit confusing
Speaker 2: to me. So we're just going to get the listener
Speaker 2: on the phone who said that to us today. Her
Speaker 2: name is Ari. Welcome to the show. You do realize
Speaker 2: this is second date update and not second date.
Speaker 4: Maybe I don't know.
Speaker 1: We'll see how I feel.
Speaker 5: About the end of the call, right Hi, Yes, I
Speaker 5: do understand.
Speaker 3: Okay, your community, I mean, are we just calling this
Speaker 3: person because they rejected you. Let's be honest for a second.
Speaker 5: No, it's not even like this, like I like this guy.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, tell us a little bit about him. What's
Speaker 1: his name? How'd you meet?
Speaker 5: So his name is Victor. I met him online and
Speaker 5: he really looked so nice. He had a really nice beard.
Speaker 3: I love a good beard. It's just Jeff looking at you.
Speaker 1: Of course she brought it up because I know the
Speaker 1: winks were a little bit aggressive. But that's okay, okay, God, anyway,
Speaker 1: so uncomfortable. Clearly you're not alone? Are so good? Beard
Speaker 1: stuck out to you?
Speaker 5: Yes, yes, it was really nice. So we went on
Speaker 5: three days.
Speaker 3: Three second and there's a fourth date update actually today.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 5: Okay, well listen, the first two they went really will Okay,
Speaker 5: so what you do?
Speaker 3: Just real quick? Are you doing coffee or what?
Speaker 5: So the first day we showed up in max and
Speaker 5: outfits first on purpose? Yeah no, this was like it
Speaker 5: was active.
Speaker 3: That's so. Was it like jeans and a plain T
Speaker 3: shirt or like something crazy?
Speaker 5: It was like white cops, brown bottles and white shoes.
Speaker 3: Chemistry, you're on the same that's what I thought.
Speaker 1: The room thinks this is a good thing. Okay, what
Speaker 1: were you doing for your date?
Speaker 5: Oh? So, like we just went for a drink. Okay,
Speaker 5: it was a really good time. So he's like, look,
Speaker 5: let's go for our second one, right, we diss up
Speaker 5: the fun again. Just drink nothing too heavy.
Speaker 1: Okay, So you basically went on the same date.
Speaker 2: Twice, the same good date twice, just with different outfits. Yeah,
Speaker 2: unless you guys decided to wear the exact same one
Speaker 2: for date number two again because the first one went
Speaker 2: so well, I am going to.
Speaker 1: Find you in the restaurant.
Speaker 5: We were just wearing different clothes.
Speaker 3: On it second okay. Okay, so that one obviously went
Speaker 3: well because there was a third date, right, yeah.
Speaker 5: So we decided it is to go a little more
Speaker 5: upscale for this third date.
Speaker 3: That's the right day.
Speaker 5: We did dinner at this fancy restaurant. It's really nice.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so how to date three go? Once you
Speaker 2: got to this nice restaurant, So like I.
Speaker 5: Had got there first, and in order, you know, to
Speaker 5: get seated, you have to have a credit card on
Speaker 5: foul with the host. So I put my credit card down,
Speaker 5: so we want to lose the table. Okay, you know
Speaker 5: he was running a little late, Okay.
Speaker 1: Nice, Well that's not nice that he's late. That's a
Speaker 1: bad news.
Speaker 3: I mean, it's a third date. Like things happen, right,
Speaker 3: Like maybe Scott caught at.
Speaker 1: Work or something like four hours later, when.
Speaker 5: No, no, it wasn't that late. It was like he
Speaker 5: was about like fifteen to twenty minutes.
Speaker 3: Okay, so you're still feeling good.
Speaker 5: Yeah, everything is fine, and then like the bill comes
Speaker 5: and the weather's like, hey, should I just go ahead
Speaker 5: and run the credit card that's.
Speaker 1: On the file, that's your card?
Speaker 3: Yeah, what happened?
Speaker 5: Well, like he's just looking like stupid.
Speaker 1: The waiter or Victor, you're dad, Victor. He's confused?
Speaker 3: Is he confused or is he trying not to hear it?
Speaker 5: Like I know he's making it awkward because he's very
Speaker 5: like hesitant and he knows that my card is on file.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's defaulting to you.
Speaker 1: I guess to be like, it's your card. You get
Speaker 1: to make the decision.
Speaker 3: Did you pay for the last two dates? Because then
Speaker 3: I could kind of see it.
Speaker 5: He paid for them. But I mean he's the guy.
Speaker 1: So traditional guys would go, oh, no way, give me
Speaker 1: that bill.
Speaker 3: That's a few days I know, like day like, and
Speaker 3: she's the one that put the credit card down. I
Speaker 3: would think that you're telling me that you're so what happened?
Speaker 5: So? Because things is just so weird and awkward, and
Speaker 5: the waiters just standing there looking at both of us.
Speaker 5: I'm like, well, just go ahead and run my car, okay, okay,
Speaker 5: wants the waiter walked away. He's like, your card is
Speaker 5: already on file, so you know, we should just make
Speaker 5: it less of a headache for the waiter.
Speaker 3: He didn't say thank you, no oh yeah.
Speaker 5: And the bill. The bill was over two hundred dollars.
Speaker 1: Oh place, oh okay, but I'm.
Speaker 5: Like whatever, I'm like, I'm not chipping about it, okay.
Speaker 5: But like after that date, we haven't really been talking
Speaker 5: as much. Like at first, I felt like he's really
Speaker 5: putting a pressure on me and keeping in contact and
Speaker 5: like when when I'm going to see you again type
Speaker 5: of thing. But like since that day, everything slowed down
Speaker 5: a lot, And I really don't know why.
Speaker 3: That's weird because you paid.
Speaker 2: Like it feels like yeah, so going back to the
Speaker 2: beginning of this call, is that why you were saying
Speaker 2: because of the whole bill situation, maybe you're not one
Speaker 2: hundred percent sure you really want to see him again
Speaker 2: for another date.
Speaker 5: Yeah, And if he doesn't want to see me again,
Speaker 5: I feel like he needs to run me my money,
Speaker 5: like he's for half of the date.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, his half?
Speaker 3: Okay? Easy? You can't say that if like I like
Speaker 3: a guy can't come back and say you didn't go,
Speaker 3: and if you're never gonna see him again, what's the
Speaker 3: harmon asking like this dude, asking that you'd be so upset?
Speaker 3: But I would do it because I can't say.
Speaker 1: No, it doesn't have it.
Speaker 2: But if he says yes, then you don't care about
Speaker 2: the bill situation?
Speaker 5: Good, Yes, yes, I don't care, because it's why we'll
Speaker 5: probably go to more fancy.
Speaker 2: All right, Well, we're going to see how this goes
Speaker 2: when we call Victor to get you your second date
Speaker 2: update and maybe half of your money back.
Speaker 1: Right after this second date update.
Speaker 2: We're in the middle of a second date update, and
Speaker 2: if this doesn't go well with Victor, we may need
Speaker 2: to go full Godfather on him.
Speaker 3: I see wait, I haven't seen these movies. Explain from
Speaker 3: the second date up.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna make you you can't refuse.
Speaker 3: That's pretty good, Jeff.
Speaker 1: You paid the nice woman.
Speaker 4: Oh, we can make it real uncomfortable for you.
Speaker 1: A gift card with half of the balance.
Speaker 2: It's actually the worst thing that we could do in
Speaker 2: this situation. Give a half used gift card to somebody.
Speaker 2: It's just disrespectful.
Speaker 3: You have an old Italian foster living inside your body?
Speaker 3: Is actually good.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna we.
Speaker 2: Can't really threaten Ari's date here, but if he says
Speaker 2: he does not want to see her again, Ari wants
Speaker 2: to ask him to pay her back for half of
Speaker 2: the bill from their final date because it was at
Speaker 2: this nice upscale restaurant.
Speaker 1: He kind of stuck her with it. Yeah, so kind
Speaker 1: of awkward.
Speaker 3: Like, don't you think Ari that he thought you wanted
Speaker 3: to pay?
Speaker 5: Absolutely not. He should have never thought that.
Speaker 4: Oh, he showed you disrespect and it's.
Speaker 1: Not old killing.
Speaker 3: Okay, I think you need the music.
Speaker 2: We're gonna call Victor here hopefully we can avoid all
Speaker 2: of that. And he just says, yes, he would love
Speaker 2: to see you again. It's all a big misunderstanding, but
Speaker 2: I'm ann dial his number right now.
Speaker 1: Here we go, Hello, Hey, is this Victor?
Speaker 6: Here's a Victor. How you doing?
Speaker 2: Oh you're so you're so polite.
Speaker 1: Really good.
Speaker 3: I'm good to you.
Speaker 1: Asking what about you, Alexis.
Speaker 3: I don't think he cares.
Speaker 2: Sorry to confuse you, but you're on a radio show
Speaker 2: right now.
Speaker 1: Okay, for what you said, good question.
Speaker 2: How do you feel about us setting you up on
Speaker 2: a hot date with a sexy woman that you've already
Speaker 2: been out with multiple times?
Speaker 3: Why don'd your voice get deeper and.
Speaker 1: Deeper than because I wanted to sound entice?
Speaker 6: All right, I'm mentioned telling more.
Speaker 2: Because there is a woman who has gone through us
Speaker 2: to reach you, and her name is Ari.
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, I remember are here?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I hope.
Speaker 3: So you guys went on three dates together.
Speaker 6: Yeah, we want a couple of days together. We had
Speaker 6: a good time.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: We're trying to help Ari feel this out and get
Speaker 2: a vibe of where your relationship with her is at.
Speaker 1: Not that it's a relationship, but just she.
Speaker 2: Wants to see more of you and it hasn't happened,
Speaker 2: and she's not sure why.
Speaker 3: It feels like the momentum has stopped.
Speaker 6: A little bit. Yeah about for my options. I mean,
Speaker 6: I'm new to the city, so I wanted to, you know,
Speaker 6: date a little bits. I want seeing who's in the city.
Speaker 3: But she's still she's still in the fold.
Speaker 2: Okay, and of course you're not going to tell her that, like, hey, sorry,
Speaker 2: IM not hating you up.
Speaker 1: I'm going on a lot of dates.
Speaker 6: Yeah, of course, of course not.
Speaker 1: You're allowed to do. How many women are in the
Speaker 1: are in your fold?
Speaker 5: I'm been on maybe other dates probably that's not too bad.
Speaker 3: Okay, that seems normal.
Speaker 2: So you're not completely cutting her out, it's just you're
Speaker 2: also opening yourself up to other possibilities.
Speaker 6: Yeah. Well, I said it was for my options in
Speaker 6: the city.
Speaker 1: You're well, I mean it gives a little bit of clarity.
Speaker 3: It doesn't feel great, yeah, specific because what we do
Speaker 3: have to deliver it. I mean, this is the awkward part.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Victor.
Speaker 2: The part that you might not know about this is
Speaker 2: that Ari is actually already on this phone call, listening,
Speaker 2: waiting to talk to you.
Speaker 6: You need this phone call right now.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, that's what I meant when I said this call. Okay,
Speaker 1: so yeah, i'll assess. I think you're okay. Well, let's
Speaker 1: ask Ari are you there?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm here. Hey, Victory, are you doing it? Oh?
Speaker 5: I'm doing great. But yeah, like I heard everything that
Speaker 5: you said.
Speaker 6: Yeah, So, like I said, we went on a couple
Speaker 6: of days, had a great time. I'm still new to
Speaker 6: the city so much more my options seen was out
Speaker 6: there again.
Speaker 5: Yeah, like you already said that, you keep saying it
Speaker 5: over and over nervous or something.
Speaker 6: I'm not nervous at all.
Speaker 5: No, Okay, well you should be. You should be nervous
Speaker 5: because I'm not with none of that. Like I'm not
Speaker 5: part of your starting lineup, buddy. I don't know what
Speaker 5: you think you got going on here, but like we've
Speaker 5: been on three days, so you should have like some
Speaker 5: type of idea, like whether you want to take this
Speaker 5: further or not. I don't care about you being new
Speaker 5: to a city. Like I'm not one of your little flings.
Speaker 5: I don't move like that.
Speaker 2: I mean, how many dates does it take for you,
Speaker 2: Victor to decide whether or not? Like it's the real
Speaker 2: deal with somebody.
Speaker 6: I don't have to answer that. I mean it takes
Speaker 6: the amount of time it takes me to still a
Speaker 6: person out.
Speaker 2: So she just feels like she's waiting forever.
Speaker 3: I don't know about forever. I think she's just saying
Speaker 3: three days. You need to know.
Speaker 5: Coming the names of the girls you've been Damn, I.
Speaker 6: Might know that.
Speaker 3: Never do names.
Speaker 1: Maybe just addresses or something.
Speaker 6: What.
Speaker 3: Welcome to our city.
Speaker 1: We're really nice here.
Speaker 3: I promise the dating scene is totally cool.
Speaker 1: Victor.
Speaker 5: You're not saying anything, what are the girl's names?
Speaker 6: I don't need to tell you that information. That's my information.
Speaker 6: Like I said, I'm exploring with in the city. I
Speaker 6: had a great time with you.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 5: I feel like that's a BS excuse. I feel like
Speaker 5: that's a BS excuses because.
Speaker 3: He can't something. Do you think that he's just trying
Speaker 3: to cover like maybe he just doesn't like you that
Speaker 3: much or something. I don't mean it in a mean way, yeah.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Or maybe he just wanted a free meal that
Speaker 5: night because I paid.
Speaker 3: Remember I knew here we go, So.
Speaker 5: You don't want to, like you don't really care to
Speaker 5: like going on the date or whatever. I'm fine with that.
Speaker 5: You need to go ahead and pay me up half
Speaker 5: after that dinner. So you need to go ahead and
Speaker 5: like vemo me half of that bill I have to
Speaker 5: receive if you need me this textual picture of it,
Speaker 5: and you could split it down the middle and send
Speaker 5: me your half.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 6: I can say the same thing to you. I paid
Speaker 6: for the drinks for the first two days, so why
Speaker 6: don't you send me that money back to drink.
Speaker 5: Drinking funny drink and a whole steak meal adpatiser. You
Speaker 5: had a four punch.
Speaker 6: You had four lemon drops from the first day.
Speaker 1: And that's a classic drink.
Speaker 3: I appreciate that she's doing all the work for us.
Speaker 1: The sugar on the rim too. Do you see the
Speaker 1: point here?
Speaker 2: It's okay if you're asking, but not okay if he's asking.
Speaker 5: Oh no, it's definitely okay if I'm asking. He's a man,
Speaker 5: A real man wouldn't even let me pay you to
Speaker 5: pull out your credit card. Let's start there.
Speaker 6: I mean, the reason why you put your credit card
Speaker 6: is because I got to wait. Struct will try to
Speaker 6: get in there. But at the same time, I mean,
Speaker 6: I thought you were paying for dinner because I paid
Speaker 6: for the drinks on the first two.
Speaker 1: Days, it seemed like.
Speaker 3: But you didn't even say thank you. Afterwards.
Speaker 6: I'm sure I said thank you after words. We had
Speaker 6: a little, you know, situation in the parking lot. Afterwards,
Speaker 6: I gave her a Nicett kiss, said thank you, and
Speaker 6: kept the movie.
Speaker 1: The kiss is a thank you, isn't it.
Speaker 5: No God, running me my money back would be a
Speaker 5: thank you.
Speaker 3: I do believe she's gonna drop its pretty.
Speaker 2: She's pretty sure she wants the money back. So do
Speaker 2: you want to give your Venmo out right now. No, no,
Speaker 2: I'm not getting a veno your shirt.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, I guess you do really well.
Speaker 5: Guess what this Yearney isn't that big. I'll see you around, buddy.
Speaker 1: Godfather, we need you make enough. Was unprepared all of god.
Speaker 3: This is sounded like stroke.
Speaker 1: We got.
Speaker 4: We got all the bread sticks that you can put
Speaker 4: in your mouth if you're willing to go out, are
Speaker 4: the one more time?
Speaker 1: And that that we on our on our time?
Speaker 3: You want to go out again?
Speaker 6: A but I'm never paying you that money bag?
Speaker 5: Oh god, Okay, that's fine, that's cool. I'm not going
Speaker 5: to But hey, lady Victor, don't date.
Speaker 4: Him, because if you do, we're gonna have to break
Speaker 4: some kneecaps.
Speaker 3: Jeff find him.
Speaker 2: Maybe we'll see you too. On Small Claims Court on
Speaker 2: Judge Judy, all right, good lie rook Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: You know, we never did get the names of those
Speaker 2: other women that he's dating. And now I'm really curious
Speaker 2: you are.
Speaker 3: I don't think it matters.
Speaker 1: I think it does. Text in seven eight five nine two.
Speaker 2: If you are currently dating Victor, we want to meet
Speaker 2: you and set you up for another second date.
Speaker 1: Update and first and the last name.
Speaker 5: Please.
Speaker 3: I feel like with Victor's list, this is just going
Speaker 3: to be Victor's update updates.
Speaker 6: I do.
Speaker 2: I want to call him again, do all Victor updates
Speaker 2: all next week and he's like you guys again.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay, he ends up single at the end is
Speaker 3: how I predict you.
Speaker 2: But it's fun for us to make sure you go
Speaker 2: to Brook and Jeffrey wherever you get your podcast. You
Speaker 2: can find all of our second dates there, and of
Speaker 2: course thanks for listening
Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.