WEBVTT - Ep 30: Groupie Tales feat Rotimi 0:00:00.240 --> 0:00:02.280 Hi, guys. I want to let you guys know it 0:00:02.360 --> 0:00:08.840 is a fish official official we are. I bet you 0:00:08.920 --> 0:00:11.799 I can't. We are bringing a live show to you 0:00:11.840 --> 0:00:15.240 guys here in New York City, and we finally got 0:00:15.240 --> 0:00:19.480 the tickets motherfucking up, so you guys can now purchase tickets. 0:00:19.520 --> 0:00:23.600 This event will take place Friday, December one, between seven 0:00:23.600 --> 0:00:26.760 and ten at seventy Allen Street, located in the Lower 0:00:26.800 --> 0:00:29.160 East Side, so you guys can come and see me 0:00:29.360 --> 0:00:35.040 and we talk about Oh my god, talk bitch, what 0:00:35.120 --> 0:00:36.879 you gotta say. I'm really excited for you guys to 0:00:36.920 --> 0:00:38.960 be there. Are Our live event is brought to you 0:00:38.960 --> 0:00:41.199 by Cast Sound Lab. 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Summer days still make you one day 0:01:29.040 --> 0:01:32.600 you should have been with me, but never of us, 0:01:32.600 --> 0:01:36.959 say not fun. So we can settle down with him, 0:01:37.040 --> 0:01:40.680 You'll be said. And then Mama, while you wish you 0:01:40.959 --> 0:01:48.800 to Donna go so far, so far, so good. It 0:01:48.920 --> 0:01:58.920 looks like, but tell you walk away. Call me like 0:01:59.000 --> 0:02:00.720 I used to get a little ball. I love a 0:02:00.720 --> 0:02:02.880 little dance hall queen. That would have been one of 0:02:02.920 --> 0:02:06.680 my wine up as well that I can want everybody. 0:02:06.760 --> 0:02:13.120 I mean, you know interview do you still put bitch? Yeah, 0:02:13.800 --> 0:02:15.000 that's why I had to move to New York. I 0:02:15.080 --> 0:02:19.560 sucked down the whole Florida, like the whole Jamaican scene 0:02:19.600 --> 0:02:22.200 just was like it's time for you to go. Oh yeah, 0:02:22.360 --> 0:02:24.680 like once, see what happens is once you start sucking 0:02:24.720 --> 0:02:27.640 island sause you know they got baby mamas. One comes 0:02:27.680 --> 0:02:29.080 for you, then the second, and third, And at one 0:02:29.080 --> 0:02:31.480 point I was scared to go to the mall and 0:02:31.560 --> 0:02:36.200 I was like, okay, well guys, welcome to another episode 0:02:36.280 --> 0:02:38.919 of Horrible decisions And we have a very very very 0:02:39.000 --> 0:02:42.720 very very very very special guest in the building tonight. Um. 0:02:42.960 --> 0:02:46.320 We actually just played his record and it was awesome. 0:02:46.320 --> 0:02:47.840 Do you want to go ahead and introduce They all 0:02:47.880 --> 0:02:50.080 know we've kind of posted your pictures on our social media. 0:02:50.440 --> 0:02:56.160 Let the listeners know sixty Nigerian in the building. Yes, 0:02:56.440 --> 0:02:59.200 So it was your boy road Tommy Man with these 0:02:59.240 --> 0:03:04.880 two fine la These don't make us blush. Don't make 0:03:04.960 --> 0:03:08.160 us blush. So somehow we have you in the studio 0:03:08.280 --> 0:03:10.480 with our two horrible asses and we're gonna see how 0:03:10.520 --> 0:03:14.040 horrible you are if you don't mind. Um. So what 0:03:14.120 --> 0:03:15.880 we like to do when we start off the show 0:03:16.000 --> 0:03:17.840 is we like to do it. Have you ever for 0:03:17.880 --> 0:03:21.880 our guess? Um? Normally this is played like with a 0:03:21.880 --> 0:03:24.320 lot of alcohol and stuff, but we just want to 0:03:24.320 --> 0:03:26.400 know you know what we saw you'd be working out. 0:03:26.400 --> 0:03:29.960 So I ain't got no green juice with this nigga. 0:03:30.480 --> 0:03:32.040 You see them as I know you don't want no 0:03:32.120 --> 0:03:37.960 motherfucking calorie. So I brought you poland spring Fiji is 0:03:38.040 --> 0:03:44.120 very price. Want to get that boss bottle. So the 0:03:44.240 --> 0:03:46.960 first question that I want to ask you is have 0:03:47.160 --> 0:03:53.720 you ever been caught in the act. Yes, yes, actually 0:03:53.720 --> 0:03:57.160 I lost my virginity in was gonna ask was it 0:03:57.240 --> 0:03:59.840 your mom or her nigga? No, it was her older brother. 0:04:00.320 --> 0:04:05.840 Oh did he out naked down the street? Down the 0:04:05.840 --> 0:04:10.280 street where it was? It's kind of crazy, kind of 0:04:10.280 --> 0:04:13.600 messed up. But it was my best friends family union. 0:04:17.560 --> 0:04:20.240 But no, no, no, no, no, no, no, it was his. 0:04:20.400 --> 0:04:23.799 It was a distant cousin. Where was the family reunion 0:04:23.880 --> 0:04:31.800 in Atlanta? How old? How old were you when theft? So? 0:04:31.839 --> 0:04:36.640 How was she? Why is like that? So we've been interviewing, like, 0:04:36.800 --> 0:04:38.800 you know, like just say because it says some hot 0:04:38.800 --> 0:04:41.240 guys recently all of them were fucking older. Checks. I 0:04:41.240 --> 0:04:45.440 don't understand. I don't know. I like young niggas. I 0:04:45.560 --> 0:04:50.560 understand what all the best looking minute have been the 0:04:50.600 --> 0:04:52.599 studio have all lost it to an older woman? What 0:04:52.680 --> 0:04:54.720 isn't that? It's because I'm telling you, I don't know, 0:04:55.120 --> 0:04:58.479 we know you like him, but right, maybe that's what 0:04:58.600 --> 0:05:03.239 it was. Now. It was crazy. I mean I was scared. 0:05:03.320 --> 0:05:05.480 I was terrified. It wasn't something that I was I 0:05:05.520 --> 0:05:07.640 wanted to do. It was just like my boy, My 0:05:07.680 --> 0:05:09.800 boy was like, hey, bro, she bad, just do it. 0:05:09.800 --> 0:05:12.160 I ain't want to like a punk, so I would 0:05:12.200 --> 0:05:13.799 do it. I know what I'm doing a new version. 0:05:13.880 --> 0:05:15.880 Did you have a condom on? Of course? Of course, 0:05:15.960 --> 0:05:17.679 but it took it took a long time to actually 0:05:17.800 --> 0:05:19.000 know how to do it. I was about to say, 0:05:19.000 --> 0:05:20.960 how did you know that? The first time? I didn't, 0:05:21.120 --> 0:05:24.320 I had to run through two or three. Really doesn't it? 0:05:24.520 --> 0:05:26.640 I feel like it's just something. It's like writing right, well, 0:05:26.839 --> 0:05:28.719 were you nervous in the moment? And then you know 0:05:28.800 --> 0:05:31.880 it was kind of like I'm not gonna I don't 0:05:31.880 --> 0:05:33.760 know how to put comdomns on. At that sex party 0:05:33.800 --> 0:05:36.640 I went to sex Sorry, we'll we'll get into but 0:05:36.760 --> 0:05:39.800 nobody could get the comment because they were like worried 0:05:39.800 --> 0:05:43.080 about like everybody looking it was like the performance, like jitters, 0:05:43.200 --> 0:05:50.360 that's probably like a swingers party. I'll get into it. Yeah, 0:05:50.520 --> 0:05:52.560 well actually you might like it's it's really cool okay 0:05:52.640 --> 0:05:55.640 in Brooklyn. Um, she'll probably hand you her address right after. 0:05:56.160 --> 0:05:58.520 You know, even I'm really scared of public sex. I 0:05:58.520 --> 0:06:00.159 just wanted to go to be a boyer. But have 0:06:00.240 --> 0:06:01.480 you ever been to a sex party? Never been to 0:06:01.520 --> 0:06:05.159 sex party? So you just watch everybody just yeah, like, um, 0:06:05.200 --> 0:06:06.920 you go in everybody's like kind of meeting and green. 0:06:06.960 --> 0:06:08.320 It's funny because I went with the dude, I'm just 0:06:08.320 --> 0:06:09.800 cool with me and him was like, oh my god, 0:06:09.800 --> 0:06:12.440 look they recruiting nobody here, Like couples were just talking, 0:06:12.560 --> 0:06:16.479 laughing and swap The craziest thing though, mad single chicks 0:06:16.600 --> 0:06:19.200 could not believe it. I thought that was like a myth. No, 0:06:19.360 --> 0:06:21.560 there's so many single women were there, and a lot 0:06:21.600 --> 0:06:24.200 of times they don't let single men go. So if 0:06:24.200 --> 0:06:26.520 you were to go or be interested into going to 0:06:26.720 --> 0:06:29.000 any type of sex party, nine times out of ten 0:06:29.360 --> 0:06:31.640 you have to have he invited me just for that purpose. 0:06:33.760 --> 0:06:35.760 So for women that are interested in it, you don't 0:06:35.800 --> 0:06:38.480 feel like you're being hounded by men. You can't even 0:06:38.520 --> 0:06:41.040 go in the play areas without a woman with you. 0:06:41.080 --> 0:06:42.760 If your date leave, the woman you're with you have 0:06:42.800 --> 0:06:45.520 to leave to Yeah. But yeah, the girls were like 0:06:45.640 --> 0:06:47.880 really attractive. They had a Scythian ride. Do you know 0:06:47.920 --> 0:06:49.920 what that is? No? I guess I watched a lot 0:06:49.920 --> 0:06:53.200 of port. The floor was shaking at one point and 0:06:53.240 --> 0:06:54.640 I'm like, what the fund is this? And it was 0:06:54.720 --> 0:06:56.880 literally looks like like a saddle and you get on it. 0:06:56.880 --> 0:06:58.520 They got surran rabbit. You just sit there with you 0:06:58.560 --> 0:07:00.400 pussy on it. Now. I was they think about it 0:07:00.440 --> 0:07:03.360 because I can't give. I can't fucking front of people. 0:07:03.400 --> 0:07:04.839 But I was like I could do this, and this 0:07:05.000 --> 0:07:07.280 one girl's like gunning it for me and she's like 0:07:07.680 --> 0:07:09.280 can I control it? Like do you want to come 0:07:09.320 --> 0:07:11.280 on it? I was like, um, I don't know. I 0:07:11.280 --> 0:07:12.720 think I need drinks. She's like, okay, we'll let go 0:07:13.480 --> 0:07:16.280 if um, yeah, we'll go where you're here to be fine. 0:07:17.280 --> 0:07:19.720 So the second question we have is have you ever 0:07:19.720 --> 0:07:22.160 regretted sex that you had with someone? Have you ever 0:07:22.160 --> 0:07:24.040 sucked someone? And then was like a lot of foot 0:07:24.080 --> 0:07:27.240 that I suck her? Yeah? Yeah, so men, I mean 0:07:27.280 --> 0:07:30.200 men think that. No, we do. We regret it was 0:07:30.280 --> 0:07:33.440 it was because of what happened after it got to 0:07:34.000 --> 0:07:36.480 two attachs. So I shouldn't have done that? Did? She said? 0:07:36.480 --> 0:07:44.520 I love you? How good you did? You've been fixing building. 0:07:44.800 --> 0:07:46.640 I don't think you understand what that means, you know? 0:07:46.680 --> 0:07:51.520 I so, so what type of sex or are you 0:07:51.600 --> 0:07:53.840 with that word? Like do you kiss? Are you intimate? 0:07:54.000 --> 0:08:02.640 Re you? Like? So, now you got you gotta be 0:08:02.680 --> 0:08:05.920 a bit of the start kissing on you because to 0:08:07.320 --> 0:08:11.200 start king, then we go together, so you can't be kissing. Listen. 0:08:11.200 --> 0:08:14.200 I had to do the dude I'm dating currently, I 0:08:14.240 --> 0:08:16.320 said on this episode, I was crying in this bitch. 0:08:16.520 --> 0:08:18.400 I was sleeping and he started touching my face and 0:08:18.440 --> 0:08:20.280 I woke up and I said, if you do that, 0:08:20.680 --> 0:08:24.200 we gotta be together. Don't touch me in a sensual way. 0:08:24.280 --> 0:08:28.040 Just keep watching family. Guys spoke your weed? Why do you? 0:08:28.040 --> 0:08:29.400 Why don't they guys do that? Let me ask you 0:08:29.400 --> 0:08:32.360 why did they do that when they don't mean it? Hello, 0:08:33.120 --> 0:08:36.760 it's the moment, man. The thing is if you if 0:08:36.800 --> 0:08:40.560 you not, but you're a prideful guy. You want to 0:08:40.600 --> 0:08:43.920 show all at you, but we don't think about the consequences. 0:08:43.960 --> 0:08:45.840 After we think about all, we're gonna make this the 0:08:45.840 --> 0:08:48.520 best I guess. So what happened with the girl you regretted? 0:08:48.600 --> 0:08:52.120 Is was it first time? So you gave her a plus? 0:08:52.200 --> 0:08:53.960 But I hasn't approved though, because she was one of 0:08:54.000 --> 0:08:56.200 them like talking. Yeah, so I had to, you know, 0:08:56.600 --> 0:09:02.040 to do it since you've been paymous. Yes? Is that 0:09:02.200 --> 0:09:04.200 do you think that's why? Like the girls is going crazy? 0:09:04.200 --> 0:09:08.360 Have they acted more crazy? Um? Yeah? The lead up 0:09:08.400 --> 0:09:11.079 is more crazy. The actual thing that actually act yourself 0:09:11.120 --> 0:09:14.240 as the same, but like it's more like, oh my god, 0:09:14.280 --> 0:09:16.880 I'll do this, this, this, this. Before it was like oh, 0:09:16.880 --> 0:09:18.320 we're gonna see if we're gonna do that, And now 0:09:18.320 --> 0:09:21.360 it's like forward of a full everything that you want 0:09:21.400 --> 0:09:23.040 to say, you're gonna do, You're gonna do. Dude, I 0:09:23.040 --> 0:09:31.200 want to be famous. It's we're getting there's like can 0:09:31.200 --> 0:09:35.040 I get a picture with two? When we're like come 0:09:35.120 --> 0:09:39.199 on this, I was like, okay, like we people were 0:09:39.240 --> 0:09:43.439 recognizing us by like how much better has the pussy gotten? Incredible? 0:09:43.440 --> 0:09:48.040 Like the caliberible? Yeah, but inc better? Like you haven't 0:09:48.320 --> 0:09:52.040 so many that now it's already cute. So no, I 0:09:52.120 --> 0:09:54.120 always had it. I always had it, but now it's 0:09:54.240 --> 0:09:58.160 like the ones that I dreamed about. I'm you know 0:09:58.160 --> 0:10:07.520 what I'm saying. I ain't talking about girls. You mean 0:10:07.559 --> 0:10:09.360 like let's just say you said girls you were thinking 0:10:09.360 --> 0:10:10.839 about So you mean like the ig models you was 0:10:10.880 --> 0:10:15.400 talking now they want to but yeah, huh okay. So 0:10:15.679 --> 0:10:21.040 speaking of what is your ideal girl? That wasn't even 0:10:21.080 --> 0:10:23.320 on his list, but I wanted, like what you like 0:10:23.480 --> 0:10:27.000 to have sex with? There's the difference what you like it, 0:10:27.000 --> 0:10:28.520 what you like to have sex with No, it's like, 0:10:28.640 --> 0:10:30.200 you gotta be more specific. I don't know if you're 0:10:30.200 --> 0:10:34.920 just talking about sex, you're talking about total like let 0:10:37.520 --> 0:10:40.320 the one that you like to talk Sure, um, just 0:10:40.320 --> 0:10:43.440 got you just gotta be like just nasty free. There's 0:10:43.440 --> 0:10:47.120 no whole bar last. Now we'll get into that a 0:10:47.160 --> 0:10:51.679 whole new album. What is nasty We're gonna talk about them. 0:10:52.000 --> 0:10:58.839 It's like lasty, like tongue in your about I just 0:10:59.040 --> 0:11:05.000 want to know, you know. Okay, sorry camera guys laugh. 0:11:08.080 --> 0:11:13.520 That was good. I hate you. I hate you that. Okay. 0:11:13.920 --> 0:11:16.400 I want to ask one more? Okay, one more because 0:11:16.520 --> 0:11:18.920 it seems to be the theme. Um, would you rather 0:11:19.440 --> 0:11:28.560 lick the booty or suck toes? He's what the second 0:11:28.600 --> 0:11:34.360 person I said that? Yeah? No, actuallyma, you said everybody 0:11:34.360 --> 0:11:37.200 said that. Why are we the only ones that afraid 0:11:37.240 --> 0:11:46.079 of feeing hate feet? Because if I'm if I'm rocking 0:11:46.080 --> 0:11:48.400 with some of my most like that. She has nice feet. 0:11:48.559 --> 0:11:52.080 So if this thing, then sorry you feed I don't. 0:11:52.120 --> 0:11:57.840 I don't like nasty feet. Yeah, it's like kind of 0:11:58.640 --> 0:12:05.040 it's a lot of a work, but I haven't. I 0:12:05.040 --> 0:12:08.560 could feel it already. I've never gotten a phone job. 0:12:08.960 --> 0:12:11.760 We should go to the sex party. Do they give 0:12:12.000 --> 0:12:16.800 jobs a sex party? Somebody get in one and oh yeah, 0:12:16.840 --> 0:12:20.120 no, no no, no, there's a lot you could be. I'm 0:12:20.160 --> 0:12:21.720 gonna be honest with you. A part of me was like, 0:12:21.760 --> 0:12:24.199 I'm totally gonna take pictures in here, like a sneak 0:12:24.200 --> 0:12:27.600 it right. There was like no way I could have No, 0:12:26.440 --> 0:12:29.760 I'm not even that, Like they didn't take my phone. 0:12:29.800 --> 0:12:32.679 Some people had given it, but it would just be 0:12:32.760 --> 0:12:35.320 so noticeable. Well, even even when he has a curse, 0:12:35.400 --> 0:12:37.720 nobody has something in their hand like it's it's a drink, 0:12:37.760 --> 0:12:40.160 like you would see it. Even even at the nude beach. 0:12:40.160 --> 0:12:41.800 I don't know if you've been there, actually is a 0:12:41.880 --> 0:12:49.440 nude beach here, and yeah in Jersey, So you know 0:12:49.480 --> 0:12:52.000 what if you ask that out, because I would be 0:12:52.000 --> 0:12:53.599 fucking I think if I brought a guy. There's just 0:12:53.640 --> 0:12:57.160 so many people that serious at the beach in the day, bitch. 0:12:57.720 --> 0:13:01.480 Why not? Why? However, I will say, Jersey sounds like 0:13:01.520 --> 0:13:08.320 it's a kid if you if you haven't seen anyone sucking. 0:13:08.400 --> 0:13:10.640 But the last time that I did go, I did 0:13:10.679 --> 0:13:13.400 see a girl pretty much like just jacking her man 0:13:13.440 --> 0:13:16.840 off while he laid there. Because everyone is literally nude um. 0:13:16.920 --> 0:13:19.320 But the phone thing is the same way, Like, you know, 0:13:19.360 --> 0:13:21.520 me and Crystal had to hurry up to snap our 0:13:21.559 --> 0:13:24.840 little our pictures covering ship because literally no one has 0:13:24.840 --> 0:13:28.439 a phone. And then who's gonnaures that? Anyway? Who cares? 0:13:28.720 --> 0:13:32.120 There's but it's it's the lifestyle, so you're supposed to 0:13:32.120 --> 0:13:34.160 respect other people because do you know how many pictures 0:13:34.200 --> 0:13:36.200 we took And it's just like there's a dick there, 0:13:36.240 --> 0:13:38.000 there's a dick there, like there was too many dicks 0:13:38.040 --> 0:13:41.520 in the bench where like well haven't no literally like 0:13:41.760 --> 0:13:45.360 and I saw like the smallest dicks ever there. But anyways, 0:13:45.360 --> 0:13:49.320 we're gonna get our next topic. I think I don't 0:13:49.320 --> 0:13:54.520 know my headphone somewhere, Lick, look at you got him thing? 0:13:54.559 --> 0:13:58.720 And now I think he wanted that butterscotch liquor you 0:13:58.920 --> 0:14:02.040 never had. We don't get into this because clearly is 0:14:02.240 --> 0:14:04.839 I like everything nasty, no heart, no bars. Hold what 0:14:06.000 --> 0:14:12.960 you just said probably like missionary with your asshole. Yet 0:14:14.720 --> 0:14:18.000 that's so I wanted to talk about while we're talking 0:14:18.000 --> 0:14:21.360 about butterscotch, not literally butterscotch, but African butterscotch. I wanted 0:14:21.400 --> 0:14:24.440 to talk about African mens um if you don't mine, 0:14:24.560 --> 0:14:27.840 you are from Nigeria, correct. I just went there this summer, 0:14:28.320 --> 0:14:31.440 and um, it was interesting to say the least. First 0:14:31.440 --> 0:14:33.200 of all, I do want to ask you, do people 0:14:33.240 --> 0:14:35.800 ever tell you know you're not Nigerian because you're light skinned. 0:14:36.800 --> 0:14:40.120 That's something that I experienced a lot out there. Like 0:14:40.400 --> 0:14:45.880 my my friend, she's African and Italian, she's mixed, but 0:14:46.160 --> 0:14:48.240 there were other girls with her, and of course us, 0:14:48.400 --> 0:14:50.360 no one believed we were black or had black in 0:14:50.480 --> 0:14:52.280 us at all because we were still fair skinned. You 0:14:52.360 --> 0:14:55.160 had a whole lot of black and we Actually that's 0:14:55.200 --> 0:14:59.960 all I like in me. But um so I want 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:01.920 us to talk about it because I use this as 0:15:01.960 --> 0:15:06.280 an argument when we kind of talk about monogamy. Um 0:15:06.360 --> 0:15:10.360 And to me, a lot of countries overseas men are 0:15:10.400 --> 0:15:14.440 allowed to have multiple wives. Does that work with girlfriends 0:15:14.440 --> 0:15:16.400 as well? What is the mindset of y'all growing up 0:15:16.440 --> 0:15:20.080 like our men just literally like raised to say, okay, 0:15:20.120 --> 0:15:21.520 you could have as many wise as he want. Like, 0:15:21.560 --> 0:15:23.920 how does that work? Yeah? Well, I'll use my my 0:15:24.000 --> 0:15:27.080 uncle for example, Like he has four wives. So one 0:15:27.200 --> 0:15:31.080 has one is his favorite, one is his takes care 0:15:31.080 --> 0:15:34.200 of the kids, another one works, another one. Just what's 0:15:34.240 --> 0:15:39.160 the favorite dude she has? Like they all live together together. 0:15:39.240 --> 0:15:40.880 He's the one that slays with like sleeps with him, 0:15:40.920 --> 0:15:42.800 like sleeps with him in the bed. So why do 0:15:42.880 --> 0:15:46.520 the other woman choose this role for this society? You know, 0:15:46.720 --> 0:15:49.120 And he's a man of wealth and and and you 0:15:49.120 --> 0:15:52.680 know he's polygamy though I mean it's not like it's abnormal. 0:15:52.960 --> 0:15:55.120 Like think about you've ever watched Big Love on HBO? 0:15:55.720 --> 0:15:57.520 No I haven't. M it was a popular show that 0:15:57.560 --> 0:15:58.800 came out and you know what I'm talking about, but 0:15:58.920 --> 0:16:01.520 it showed polygamy and of bada where it's legal. And 0:16:01.640 --> 0:16:03.120 I mean they all lived in the house together. They 0:16:03.120 --> 0:16:05.240 didn't have all sex together, but it was very clear 0:16:05.280 --> 0:16:07.280 he had favorites on the first wives, things like that 0:16:07.280 --> 0:16:09.280 one that was better with the kids, one that was 0:16:09.440 --> 0:16:11.240 wanted to be the career woman. It was really good. 0:16:11.680 --> 0:16:14.160 So Africans not to be able to take care of him. 0:16:14.240 --> 0:16:16.000 He was. He was able to take care of them 0:16:16.280 --> 0:16:20.080 and you still have love. So two questions. Do Africans 0:16:20.120 --> 0:16:22.080 not believe in cheating or do that? I mean some 0:16:22.280 --> 0:16:27.000 Nigerian tribes for Nigeria, I'm not sure, okay, But like 0:16:27.760 --> 0:16:31.320 it's not do they believe that's cheating? Mean, do they 0:16:31.320 --> 0:16:33.400 believe in cheating at all? Like, if you're able to 0:16:33.400 --> 0:16:36.520 have multiple wives? Well not really. I mean if if 0:16:36.720 --> 0:16:43.080 he won't cheat with other women outside of his wives, okay, 0:16:43.160 --> 0:16:46.640 I mean you got five fusies he would, then it's like, okay, 0:16:46.640 --> 0:16:49.000 what are you doing? But he has the four that 0:16:49.040 --> 0:16:52.640 he that is his mans and that's it. But he 0:16:52.720 --> 0:16:57.200 goes between them four would would you want that? Um? 0:16:57.240 --> 0:16:59.520 Not not in America nor that because because they don't 0:16:59.520 --> 0:17:02.640 accept that, You're like, do you ever like, um, envision 0:17:02.680 --> 0:17:05.960 yourself living in Nigeria later though? Later? But I would. 0:17:06.119 --> 0:17:08.360 I would be living with my wife here from here, 0:17:08.480 --> 0:17:11.480 you know what I mean. I don't have that. I'll 0:17:11.560 --> 0:17:15.840 take my I would take my family that I built 0:17:15.960 --> 0:17:18.440 here or wherever whoever, my wife will be and I 0:17:18.440 --> 0:17:23.119 will live in Nigeria with the ideology of Americans really 0:17:23.200 --> 0:17:25.159 do now? I wouldn't do that, really, I can't. I 0:17:25.160 --> 0:17:27.560 don't want to balance four wives. I can't do that. 0:17:27.760 --> 0:17:29.119 I'll be honest with you. I'd be up for it. 0:17:29.520 --> 0:17:33.600 You'd be up to balance for for like four people, 0:17:33.640 --> 0:17:37.199 depending on you. And then I'm saying not me as 0:17:37.240 --> 0:17:39.719 a woman like I would want for for boyfriends, but 0:17:40.560 --> 0:17:42.840 I could be into polygamy. You could be into something 0:17:42.880 --> 0:17:48.160 where you're one of the four wives. Really yeah, being 0:17:48.200 --> 0:17:52.560 the main number three, right, I don't know ifbout number three, 0:17:52.600 --> 0:17:54.040 But like if I was with someone for a few 0:17:54.119 --> 0:17:55.520 years and let's say we had a few kids, and 0:17:55.560 --> 0:17:57.440 you know me, so I work in corporate America, as 0:17:57.440 --> 0:18:00.000 do she, and as much as I love my independence 0:18:00.000 --> 0:18:02.520 and making money, if I wanted to really keep going 0:18:02.560 --> 0:18:04.720 and have more children, I wouldn't mind him getting another wife. 0:18:04.920 --> 0:18:06.879 Now here's the thing, because I don't think this is 0:18:07.040 --> 0:18:10.159 but I'm also a non monogamous person, right, But so 0:18:10.200 --> 0:18:12.520 you would want to be open? Are these wives able 0:18:12.560 --> 0:18:14.760 to get other dick outside or no? No, no, no no, no, 0:18:14.840 --> 0:18:16.399 I'm not saying that i'd want to be open. I'm 0:18:16.440 --> 0:18:17.879 saying that if he wanted to have another wife and 0:18:17.920 --> 0:18:21.080 not someone else to help around the house. Yes, especially 0:18:21.160 --> 0:18:23.760 like the sisterhood of what it can be like just 0:18:23.880 --> 0:18:26.400 thinking of like history class and what I've learned from polygamy. 0:18:26.480 --> 0:18:31.399 It's not always this like abusive as situation. I can 0:18:31.480 --> 0:18:33.720 do it. Let me tell you something I would I'm 0:18:33.760 --> 0:18:35.800 a very emotional person and you know that I would 0:18:35.880 --> 0:18:37.920 want to share a lot of my marriage with him, 0:18:37.920 --> 0:18:40.080 maybe in the beginning or whatever, and then I'd be 0:18:40.160 --> 0:18:44.000 absolutely open to that him courting somebody else. Whatever. Yeah, 0:18:44.400 --> 0:18:46.960 I don't think. I don't really believe that there's one person. 0:18:47.359 --> 0:18:48.760 I believe that you could be in love with many 0:18:48.760 --> 0:18:50.560 people at the same time. I do too, But I 0:18:50.560 --> 0:18:53.440 don't like how it's limited to where a man could 0:18:53.480 --> 0:18:56.040 sit here and love for different women. But as a woman, 0:18:56.280 --> 0:18:58.800 you can't love anyone but that one man can. I 0:18:59.000 --> 0:19:02.600 her too, alright, So so they're each other the wives. 0:19:04.000 --> 0:19:07.000 Let me ask you that though, because in polygamy generally 0:19:07.119 --> 0:19:11.359 they don't like cross So from what you've known, maybe 0:19:11.480 --> 0:19:14.280 not your uncle, but like other people, have they all 0:19:14.320 --> 0:19:19.480 shared sex together or what? Huh? Okay? Because you know, 0:19:19.600 --> 0:19:23.080 I've wanted a boyfriend and a girlfriend, husband and a wife. 0:19:23.160 --> 0:19:27.440 I've wanted like a boyfriend girlfriend I had that? How 0:19:27.480 --> 0:19:30.880 was that? How was that? It was? She started getting 0:19:30.960 --> 0:19:34.000 jealous of the girl. So you had two girlfriends, which 0:19:34.000 --> 0:19:35.760 one the new girl the old girl. This is like 0:19:35.800 --> 0:19:38.760 maybe four years ago. So the new girl the old 0:19:38.800 --> 0:19:40.639 girl got jealous of the new girls. Did you did 0:19:40.640 --> 0:19:42.960 you meet here together? No? She picked it when we 0:19:43.000 --> 0:19:44.600 met her at the club and she picked and she 0:19:44.640 --> 0:19:47.160 was like, oh yeah, she's definitely a girl. And then 0:19:47.520 --> 0:19:49.920 I started kicking it with the new one. Ah, that's 0:19:49.920 --> 0:19:55.560 where you sucked up. No, no no, no, but that's by yourself. 0:19:56.000 --> 0:19:58.480 I mean, but what do you mean that's not a 0:19:58.560 --> 0:20:01.080 boyfriend and girlfriend? Then, bro, they we're not supposed to 0:20:01.119 --> 0:20:05.040 be together. Dude, how do you share a relationship? That's 0:20:05.080 --> 0:20:08.520 exactly what we tried. We tried, I'll take you out. 0:20:08.520 --> 0:20:10.640 Then what do you mean you said that's what I want? 0:20:10.640 --> 0:20:12.080 And what are you talking about? You? I would't want 0:20:12.160 --> 0:20:16.160 like all of us together, like if how I mean, girl, 0:20:16.200 --> 0:20:20.240 you're busy, so I don't. I don't want him just 0:20:20.280 --> 0:20:24.280 spending time with another bitch. Then that's just threesome. Well 0:20:24.280 --> 0:20:25.840 that's why I said, I'm not into the open. I 0:20:25.880 --> 0:20:27.600 would want to want to tell you don't want a boyfriend. 0:20:27.600 --> 0:20:31.400 I want to do the swinging life. I'm down with us. 0:20:32.440 --> 0:20:34.400 I don't need you having feelings for a whole another 0:20:34.400 --> 0:20:40.200 bitch like you want to you what see, I'm okay. 0:20:40.880 --> 0:20:44.600 When I was dating right, hate out. You're using all 0:20:44.600 --> 0:20:48.560 these names because when we were all together and I 0:20:48.600 --> 0:20:51.320 went away, Remember what they were doing, sending me ship 0:20:51.359 --> 0:20:53.520 while they read dinner we miss you, blah blah blah. 0:20:53.520 --> 0:20:55.439 I hung out with her, hung out with him, like 0:20:55.760 --> 0:20:58.679 not everybody can hang out all the time, but I 0:20:58.680 --> 0:21:00.840 still felt the love. They're never I never got jealous 0:21:00.840 --> 0:21:02.760 with those two, oddly enough, and I think that just 0:21:02.800 --> 0:21:05.560 showed that they were the right ones. But I can 0:21:05.720 --> 0:21:09.520 understand if later, you know what I'm saying, maybe we 0:21:09.560 --> 0:21:11.720 met in a girl another way. I don't know, but 0:21:11.800 --> 0:21:14.560 it did work with them. There's people out there. He 0:21:15.920 --> 0:21:18.080 ended up moving, so we had to stop. It was 0:21:18.119 --> 0:21:20.160 for a few months. It was great. I mean, her 0:21:20.160 --> 0:21:22.040 and I actually went on bumble and tender trying to 0:21:22.040 --> 0:21:26.040 find another guy. I met another guy that ended terribly 0:21:26.320 --> 0:21:28.359 because he didn't want it. He's like, you know what, 0:21:28.800 --> 0:21:30.879 the threesome was great, but I realized, I don't know 0:21:30.880 --> 0:21:33.360 if I can handle this all the time. He said, 0:21:33.359 --> 0:21:36.639 I yeah, I swear to god, he said, yeah, it 0:21:36.760 --> 0:21:39.159 was great. I was so pissed. He's just like, I 0:21:39.160 --> 0:21:40.400 don't know if I could do this in my day 0:21:40.400 --> 0:21:42.360 to day every day, having the threesome all the time. 0:21:43.600 --> 0:21:45.480 But see, I wanted to ask you that because you 0:21:45.600 --> 0:21:47.600 do it with men that you find and you have 0:21:47.680 --> 0:21:51.359