WEBVTT - EP 448: Bump Bump Bump (feat. Ryan Mitchell) 0:00:00.280 --> 0:00:02.760 Welcome to decisions decisions. I don't think you should say 0:00:02.800 --> 0:00:06.040 decision decisions. It sounded like you was talking to Kirsten. 0:00:06.440 --> 0:00:10.719 You definitely say to welcome, welcome to the new podcast. 0:00:10.720 --> 0:00:13.520 You want to say together, decisions decisions. 0:00:13.600 --> 0:00:18.640 Hey guys, welcome to another episode. Give thanks bitches of 0:00:19.079 --> 0:00:20.880 decisions decisions. 0:00:21.000 --> 0:00:22.840 I'm your girl, Mandy Bean. 0:00:22.920 --> 0:00:25.159 I'm not gonna throw my aka's in there today, but 0:00:25.280 --> 0:00:27.920 I am thankful for knowing how to peg. 0:00:28.040 --> 0:00:29.120 That's all I'm gonna say. 0:00:29.160 --> 0:00:33.440 Okay, hey everybody, I'm weazy. We're back for another episode 0:00:33.479 --> 0:00:34.200 and we have a guest. 0:00:34.720 --> 0:00:37.720 He they girl things. 0:00:38.280 --> 0:00:39.120 I'm really excited. 0:00:39.240 --> 0:00:42.239 You just had a conversation about ginger neutral saying I'm 0:00:42.280 --> 0:00:43.519 talking about all of those things. 0:00:44.360 --> 0:00:48.239 And our guest is Ryan Mitchell AKA the Slay go On. 0:00:49.800 --> 0:00:52.320 And I can't believe finally here one has have been 0:00:52.360 --> 0:00:55.960 wanting to have him on four three years now. 0:00:55.840 --> 0:00:56.960 Easily for sure. 0:00:57.000 --> 0:01:01.880 And I mean on the other pod rest in Peace, that. 0:01:02.120 --> 0:01:05.880 The other prime I but I'm most definitely happy to 0:01:05.920 --> 0:01:06.440 be here with you. 0:01:07.840 --> 0:01:11.520 Not only are you happy all the second time? What 0:01:11.600 --> 0:01:13.400 this week that he was like, oh gee, and I'm 0:01:13.400 --> 0:01:14.680 like that means. 0:01:15.080 --> 0:01:18.080 No, no, it does OG does not mean you can't BEG. 0:01:18.240 --> 0:01:22.440 If you're you could be starting something in baby here 0:01:22.600 --> 0:01:28.720 o G. Besides Kysona Beyonce, Kiki Palmer period is good, 0:01:28.720 --> 0:01:29.280 but she's. 0:01:29.080 --> 0:01:30.200 A OG is good. 0:01:30.680 --> 0:01:32.920 She's a OG. Yeah, so is ky sanat o G 0:01:33.080 --> 0:01:36.600 And yeah, we can't pay. 0:01:37.200 --> 0:01:39.320 I just wanted to be in the same category as Kay. 0:01:40.000 --> 0:01:43.200 No no no and streaming. 0:01:44.959 --> 0:01:47.720 Somebody would probably say he's not. They would probably say academics. 0:01:47.720 --> 0:01:49.560 But I think that's a different type of stream for 0:01:49.720 --> 0:01:53.600 kai to have to follow through stream like following watch 0:01:53.680 --> 0:01:55.840 me twenty four seven, like full on live stream. The 0:01:55.880 --> 0:01:58.400 only time we ever saw that was porn, but you 0:01:58.480 --> 0:02:00.280 got to pay for porn, like A don't know if 0:02:00.320 --> 0:02:00.880 y'all ever seen. 0:02:00.920 --> 0:02:01.720 Maybe I'm just horning. 0:02:01.800 --> 0:02:03.480 I just said, who's live stream born before? 0:02:03.600 --> 0:02:05.880 So they'd be doing these little whorehouses and I don't 0:02:05.880 --> 0:02:08.799 mean that how it sounds, but basically they'd put cameras 0:02:08.840 --> 0:02:10.160 in there. You can watch them in the shower, you 0:02:10.160 --> 0:02:12.000 can watch this, and they would live stream. 0:02:11.720 --> 0:02:15.440 Like it's just an old school HBO, like after the House. 0:02:15.200 --> 0:02:17.679 Did it, Okay, they evolved to that the Bunny Ranch 0:02:17.800 --> 0:02:20.520 did it, and then there were different I think like 0:02:20.600 --> 0:02:23.799 different umbrellas of like peorn companies. 0:02:23.639 --> 0:02:25.600 And so they would do with men, they do women. 0:02:25.639 --> 0:02:27.400 They had a Latina house and it would just be 0:02:27.440 --> 0:02:28.799 like a week subscription of it. 0:02:28.880 --> 0:02:29.880 Anyway, let's talk about that. 0:02:32.720 --> 0:02:35.000 History now. 0:02:35.040 --> 0:02:37.959 I wanted to just introduce y'all to Bryan in case 0:02:38.040 --> 0:02:42.360 y'all didn't know, you know, ever seen their content, you know, 0:02:42.480 --> 0:02:46.079 everything that they be on. So he's one of the 0:02:46.200 --> 0:02:49.839 voices behind High Key, which is a weekly podcast co 0:02:49.919 --> 0:02:53.240 hosted with Evy. It is an iHeart podcast. So you 0:02:53.360 --> 0:02:55.880 not a cousin, but you like a distant cousin. Yes, 0:02:56.639 --> 0:02:57.960 iHeart too, but black effects. 0:02:58.000 --> 0:03:00.120 Yeah, but I feel like we're like like sisters in 0:03:00.200 --> 0:03:02.240 a way, you know, just a little like step sisters. 0:03:04.680 --> 0:03:07.400 Different daddies, period, period period. 0:03:08.800 --> 0:03:14.960 Also a voice in entertainment pop culture, has been on MTV. 0:03:15.160 --> 0:03:18.560 We did the MTV Movie Awards, UH together a few 0:03:18.639 --> 0:03:22.520 years ago. And also which I really love that you're doing. 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:25.720 You do a lot of lot of lot of I 0:03:25.760 --> 0:03:31.480 mean panels conversations with Glad. You serve as a senior 0:03:31.480 --> 0:03:35.520 consultant for Glass Entertainment and Communities of Color Team where 0:03:35.560 --> 0:03:40.480 you champion were you champion intersectional queer and trans narratives 0:03:40.520 --> 0:03:43.080 across film, television and sports. 0:03:43.120 --> 0:03:50.640 Absolutely who said you to buy listen? Come on? You 0:03:50.720 --> 0:03:52.600 know my husband, you know what's crazy. 0:03:52.680 --> 0:03:55.400 I literally had to tell tell my husband, like give 0:03:55.440 --> 0:03:56.640 me more because I know. 0:03:56.880 --> 0:03:58.160 Include the glass stuff. 0:03:58.240 --> 0:03:58.920 I said, I. 0:04:00.640 --> 0:04:03.720 Give it to me. Hunt And by the way, what 0:04:03.800 --> 0:04:04.320 you did? 0:04:04.880 --> 0:04:06.520 I remember when I would see you across my feet. 0:04:06.560 --> 0:04:07.960 I'm like, you know, when you see someone you're. 0:04:07.840 --> 0:04:10.600 Like, they need content? Are they an influencer? 0:04:10.600 --> 0:04:12.280 But then you don't want to see the little st 0:04:12.440 --> 0:04:14.280 want and say influencer, not the sound. 0:04:14.400 --> 0:04:18.279 Thank you so much for asking saying that, because it it. 0:04:18.440 --> 0:04:20.200 I do think I'm one of those people that have 0:04:20.320 --> 0:04:22.719 like I'm good at like a lot of different things, 0:04:22.760 --> 0:04:24.520 so it's really hard to put me in a box. 0:04:24.600 --> 0:04:27.880 But what people know me for is like my broadcast 0:04:27.920 --> 0:04:30.320 work and interview So I have like I've interviewed everyone 0:04:30.320 --> 0:04:32.880 from Kiki Palmer to Lizzo to Billy Porter to everyone 0:04:32.920 --> 0:04:36.640 in like a long storied radio career. And then I 0:04:36.839 --> 0:04:39.000 moved on to MTV and did some interviews there and 0:04:39.040 --> 0:04:43.040 then the after show for the VMAs like every every 0:04:43.279 --> 0:04:47.280 about four years. Like I'm a host and journalist at 0:04:47.320 --> 0:04:50.040 like my core. But then I started to veer into 0:04:50.080 --> 0:04:51.919 because of my network, I started to veere into like 0:04:51.960 --> 0:04:54.680 curating work. So like the NFL reached out and was like, 0:04:54.839 --> 0:04:57.599 will you be our like first LGBTQ brand ambassador and 0:04:57.600 --> 0:04:59.880 help us connect with like queer audiences. 0:05:00.120 --> 0:05:01.080 Yes, the NFL. 0:05:01.240 --> 0:05:02.520 The NFL literally, I. 0:05:07.240 --> 0:05:10.640 Mean it's interesting too when you with and we might 0:05:10.680 --> 0:05:12.880 have talked about when when you got but when you 0:05:12.920 --> 0:05:15.680 got with the NFL, it's interesting because clearly they had 0:05:15.760 --> 0:05:19.120 all the beef around not caring about the BLM movement, 0:05:19.480 --> 0:05:21.680 but it was interesting that they really did want to 0:05:21.720 --> 0:05:26.320 tap into like lgbt Q I a stuff because who 0:05:26.400 --> 0:05:29.280 was the footballer that came out was openly game maybe 0:05:29.279 --> 0:05:30.520 only live to like a season or two. 0:05:30.720 --> 0:05:33.680 It was something Sam or Michael Michael. Now he was 0:05:33.680 --> 0:05:35.000 a black guy, yeah he was. 0:05:35.040 --> 0:05:37.520 He was a black queer male that literally when he 0:05:37.600 --> 0:05:40.839 came out, as as the boyfriend was white, No. 0:05:40.520 --> 0:05:42.799 No, well that's our k Russell. Yeah, but also Michael 0:05:43.040 --> 0:05:44.400 Michael Sam also has a white boyfriend. 0:05:44.640 --> 0:05:45.400 But when he came. 0:05:45.279 --> 0:05:47.479 Out, it was like interesting because for the first time 0:05:47.480 --> 0:05:50.640 it was the conversations about locker room etiquette all and 0:05:50.680 --> 0:05:54.120 it was really like ignorant around those conversations like as if, 0:05:54.240 --> 0:05:57.200 first off, it's a team of sixty men, there are 0:05:57.320 --> 0:06:00.280 definitely more than just one guy, because you get to 0:06:00.320 --> 0:06:01.160 go in the locker room. 0:06:01.400 --> 0:06:03.320 No, I did not, and I don't know if I 0:06:03.360 --> 0:06:05.240 want to. I don't want to be that close to men. 0:06:06.360 --> 0:06:11.680 Okay, I don't know why not should say straight men? 0:06:11.480 --> 0:06:13.360 I don't you know. 0:06:13.560 --> 0:06:14.680 I mean that's the thing. 0:06:14.720 --> 0:06:18.440 Like I love being told, like historically that I don't 0:06:18.480 --> 0:06:21.279 belong in spaces and then being like, bitch, actually, I'm 0:06:21.279 --> 0:06:22.960 going to be in this space. I'm a thrive in 0:06:23.000 --> 0:06:25.400 this space. You can't tell me what to do. And 0:06:25.480 --> 0:06:28.040 that's how I kind of like entered into the world 0:06:28.120 --> 0:06:29.440 of like football. 0:06:29.520 --> 0:06:30.880 I'm not necessarily a fan. 0:06:31.040 --> 0:06:33.600 I love kind of like it from a cultural pop 0:06:33.640 --> 0:06:37.640 culture like perspective, like knowing that you know, the quarterback 0:06:37.720 --> 0:06:40.520 of the Buffalo Bill's like wife is Hailey Steinfeld, the 0:06:40.520 --> 0:06:43.720 girl from like oh really literally, like I'm like I 0:06:43.720 --> 0:06:44.000 can do. 0:06:44.800 --> 0:06:46.320 I like I like documentaries. 0:06:46.360 --> 0:06:49.000 I like watching like people just really be good at 0:06:49.000 --> 0:06:49.640 what they're doing. 0:06:49.640 --> 0:06:50.880 And so that's my entry point. 0:06:51.240 --> 0:06:53.200 But like when it comes to like being a bridge 0:06:53.200 --> 0:06:55.560 between like black and brown queer folks who have never 0:06:55.600 --> 0:06:59.960 really been accepted in this space for sure, like the NFL. Yeah, 0:07:00.000 --> 0:07:02.320 this is the NFL, but like people don't give a 0:07:02.320 --> 0:07:04.920 fuck about that. They need to feel like you're they're 0:07:04.960 --> 0:07:07.200 trusting you to be into this space and it feels safe. 0:07:08.240 --> 0:07:10.040 I wish I was. 0:07:10.000 --> 0:07:12.760 Gonna say, I wish there was like more things around 0:07:12.920 --> 0:07:16.200 entertainment that leaned into that. I went to a Broadway 0:07:16.240 --> 0:07:17.960 show maybe like three years ago, but it was based 0:07:17.960 --> 0:07:21.680 around basements show. The last Broadway show I went to 0:07:22.720 --> 0:07:24.200 was was which M call it? 0:07:24.240 --> 0:07:24.320 Oh? 0:07:24.360 --> 0:07:25.200 Actually wait, I'm lying. 0:07:25.320 --> 0:07:26.920 I was gonna say it was the one with Denzel 0:07:27.080 --> 0:07:29.800 but it was actually the one that had Tank and 0:07:29.840 --> 0:07:33.240 it was based around Alicia Keys when I say so good, 0:07:33.720 --> 0:07:34.680 so good health kitchen. 0:07:34.760 --> 0:07:37.360 Yes, but mind you. 0:07:37.400 --> 0:07:39.160 There was another Broadway show I wanted to go to, 0:07:39.320 --> 0:07:40.840 just wanted to go to because I could see Jesse 0:07:40.880 --> 0:07:43.920 Williams dick and it was so it was based around 0:07:43.960 --> 0:07:47.320 him being a gay baseball player and how. 0:07:47.240 --> 0:07:49.520 People were treating him there. 0:07:50.280 --> 0:07:52.240 But then it was him being and I saw mad 0:07:52.280 --> 0:07:53.920 Dick's but his dick was the biggest. The way the 0:07:53.920 --> 0:07:57.720 water cascaded off of it was great, but the story around. 0:07:57.400 --> 0:07:59.240 It, I mean, the decision coming on. 0:07:59.320 --> 0:08:01.840 This was great. 0:08:02.680 --> 0:08:04.680 It was just really good. And so I wish like 0:08:04.760 --> 0:08:08.520 there could be maybe more things than entertainment around what 0:08:08.640 --> 0:08:12.440 a queer identity looks like in America sport, which is football, 0:08:12.640 --> 0:08:13.400 you know what I mean. 0:08:14.400 --> 0:08:15.560 There's things that are growing. 0:08:15.720 --> 0:08:17.720 Like I was able to come up with a program 0:08:17.760 --> 0:08:20.200 called the Exchange that was like a cultural dinner experience, 0:08:20.320 --> 0:08:22.680 and I partner with the team and we took you know, 0:08:22.800 --> 0:08:25.720 a group of black and queer trans folks to their 0:08:25.720 --> 0:08:26.680 first football game and. 0:08:26.680 --> 0:08:27.920 Then we had a beautiful dinner. 0:08:28.040 --> 0:08:29.680 I love that and like I got to like they 0:08:29.680 --> 0:08:32.480 got to sit down and actually like eat dinner with 0:08:32.600 --> 0:08:34.960 like nfel like sex and talk about the things are 0:08:35.000 --> 0:08:37.240 working on and help kind of be an amplifier for 0:08:37.280 --> 0:08:39.240 all of the work, because a lot of times when 0:08:39.240 --> 0:08:41.800 people like these institutions do DEI work, they're like, oh 0:08:41.880 --> 0:08:43.920 my god, we're leaders, We're doing this, we've been doing 0:08:44.000 --> 0:08:46.000 and it's like, actually, no, these black and brown queer 0:08:46.040 --> 0:08:47.040 folks are actually. 0:08:48.280 --> 0:08:50.680 Please And I don't mean it because I know that 0:08:50.760 --> 0:08:52.120 it's good for everyone to come out. 0:08:52.240 --> 0:08:53.080 Yeah. 0:08:53.440 --> 0:08:56.400 I actually would be really terrified for a large player, 0:08:56.800 --> 0:08:58.959 not someone that's a myth sorry, like a mid player, 0:08:59.000 --> 0:09:01.440 not a large player er do anything they want. Yeah, 0:09:01.640 --> 0:09:04.559 you're someone that's big and known, you can come out. 0:09:04.760 --> 0:09:06.960 I feel like if you're in the middle, it may 0:09:07.040 --> 0:09:08.439 actually stop you from opportunity. 0:09:08.440 --> 0:09:10.400 Oh yeah, Michael Sam, I don't think very long. 0:09:10.520 --> 0:09:12.920 I mean, but there's maybe he was unfortunately like a 0:09:12.960 --> 0:09:17.760 pioneer and sample, but it's no since I feel like it's. 0:09:17.679 --> 0:09:21.439 And then it'll very from there, right, because what I'm thinking. 0:09:21.920 --> 0:09:24.800 So I say this to say, my best friend loves 0:09:24.840 --> 0:09:27.160 the Patriots. He's from Boston, and I'm. 0:09:27.040 --> 0:09:29.960 Like, white, but oh I love finding out black people 0:09:29.960 --> 0:09:32.040 are in Boston. Oh I love it. 0:09:32.520 --> 0:09:35.440 Well, we do our when we do our tour stops 0:09:35.440 --> 0:09:37.880 in Boston, we'd be like, hey, did it No, you were. 0:09:37.800 --> 0:09:43.880 Here Caribbean like Haitians really a lot of Haitians like 0:09:44.920 --> 0:09:47.760 oh yeah, yeah, meet somebody like I'm like wow. 0:09:48.880 --> 0:09:52.360 Anyway, we get to this bar and. 0:09:52.160 --> 0:09:54.400 Because he wants to watch the game, so I'm on 0:09:54.440 --> 0:09:57.319 the phone and I'm dating this at the time. 0:09:57.480 --> 0:10:01.840 This is a long time ago. I've you've reformed. Yeah, okay. 0:10:01.920 --> 0:10:04.760 So he was like, damn is that many gay niggas 0:10:04.800 --> 0:10:05.560 watching football? 0:10:06.200 --> 0:10:11.640 And so I'm laughing because I'm like yes, there are 0:10:11.679 --> 0:10:14.280 men men like sports. I just thought they was like, 0:10:14.360 --> 0:10:15.880 you know what you'd be saying, then you go to kickball? 0:10:15.920 --> 0:10:17.800 They like play sports, you know what I'm saying, like 0:10:17.840 --> 0:10:20.080 be around each other? Shit, do niggas really in there 0:10:20.120 --> 0:10:25.559 like watching? And So what it made me realize, as 0:10:25.640 --> 0:10:28.679 ignorant as it is, ignorance is it we just don't 0:10:28.720 --> 0:10:32.560 associate queer people ever being in our space. So that's 0:10:32.600 --> 0:10:35.120 why you never know, like if they are gay and 0:10:35.160 --> 0:10:37.280 they want to watch around whatever heat bar he's at, 0:10:37.360 --> 0:10:38.920 they ain't gonna tell you. They're not gonna feel it, 0:10:38.920 --> 0:10:40.640 They're not gonna be comfortable, they're not gonna be out. 0:10:41.160 --> 0:10:44.760 And so what I learned from that whole moment was, oh, 0:10:44.800 --> 0:10:47.520 my god, imagine how many gay players are there? 0:10:47.600 --> 0:10:49.120 And oh, for sure they shit. 0:10:49.360 --> 0:10:51.600 And my thing is, even if there are gay players 0:10:51.640 --> 0:10:54.520 in the league, which I think statistically there probably are, 0:10:55.000 --> 0:10:57.200 my thing is, who gives a fuck? They probably you're 0:10:57.240 --> 0:11:00.280 probably the last piece of like type that they're even 0:11:00.280 --> 0:11:01.520 attracted to you in that locker room. 0:11:01.720 --> 0:11:02.719 If they don't give up up. 0:11:02.880 --> 0:11:05.800 It's crazy because when we think of like queer leagues, 0:11:06.160 --> 0:11:07.640 of course my mind goes straight to w n B 0:11:07.720 --> 0:11:10.360 a and now they just want to keep throwing fucking 0:11:10.360 --> 0:11:14.000 green dill doos everywhere. But are really you did you 0:11:14.120 --> 0:11:16.920 not this happened months ago, you see there were nine 0:11:17.000 --> 0:11:19.840 green dill dos. This was when the playoffs was happening. 0:11:20.120 --> 0:11:22.080 I thought they didn't know they did it like three 0:11:22.160 --> 0:11:26.400 or four times. And then recently in uh NFL preseason 0:11:27.000 --> 0:11:29.000 they threw a green dil doo onto a field. 0:11:29.040 --> 0:11:33.559 Again. Yeah, that is a very SMIs. Let me ask, 0:11:34.000 --> 0:11:34.440 don't know why. 0:11:34.480 --> 0:11:39.760 It is very spect No, they've been trying to keep 0:11:39.840 --> 0:11:41.560 up with Yeah, I get. 0:11:41.480 --> 0:11:41.800 I mean. 0:11:43.200 --> 0:11:45.120 Why green and they were like, all right, let's just 0:11:45.200 --> 0:11:45.720 keep doing this. 0:11:46.000 --> 0:11:49.960 I don't know how they're just even like as no, no, no, no, 0:11:49.960 --> 0:11:53.040 because it was it happened, so so the person that 0:11:53.120 --> 0:11:56.080 did it in Atlanta at the Atlanta Dream Game, I 0:11:56.120 --> 0:11:57.720 think actually got like arrested. 0:11:57.960 --> 0:12:00.000 But it started, like, I don't know, maybe in Phoenix. 0:12:00.040 --> 0:12:02.120 Explain how you can bring that in. I thought they 0:12:02.120 --> 0:12:02.640 have security. 0:12:02.960 --> 0:12:06.520 If it's not mental, it's true, it's it's okay. 0:12:06.600 --> 0:12:11.839 But you got a lot of things in My friends 0:12:11.920 --> 0:12:14.199 be like they we ain't fancy dollars with drinks. 0:12:14.240 --> 0:12:20.160 I'll put all of them. Great, were you sneaking them. 0:12:21.000 --> 0:12:23.680 By the way, hold on, not even just green lime green. 0:12:24.600 --> 0:12:27.080 It happened and look none of these colors. So for 0:12:27.160 --> 0:12:30.360 the NFL, it happened during a preseason game between the 0:12:30.480 --> 0:12:33.240 Vikings and the Titans. Neon green as well, thrown on 0:12:33.280 --> 0:12:37.120 the field. I don't know why they're throwing lime green, 0:12:37.120 --> 0:12:39.120 Dell does, but yeah, there there you got people. 0:12:39.320 --> 0:12:40.200 Has happened over the summer. 0:12:40.240 --> 0:12:43.000 It was they are they're really you know what this is, 0:12:43.480 --> 0:12:46.600 purchase that's your content, guy, let's do shock value prank. 0:12:46.840 --> 0:12:48.960 Yeah, and it's like gives me the ing, like who 0:12:48.960 --> 0:12:52.520 sent you, mister beast? Like, now, who sent you? He 0:12:52.640 --> 0:12:53.560 said that was a good one. 0:12:53.800 --> 0:12:55.640 I know he's he's questionable for a lot. 0:12:55.520 --> 0:12:59.400 Of I question anyone him, question anyone who will put 0:12:59.559 --> 0:13:03.240 people I went in a burning building, building and and 0:13:03.280 --> 0:13:05.320 then I'll give you a whole bunch of money, like 0:13:05.400 --> 0:13:08.360 literally just doing squid games all over again. No, it's 0:13:08.360 --> 0:13:10.800 literally that because someone even said he could die just 0:13:10.840 --> 0:13:13.280 from the smoke in a lace like why scaping. 0:13:13.480 --> 0:13:17.920 So it plays into the fact that people are another 0:13:18.000 --> 0:13:22.280 squad games for like. 0:13:20.520 --> 0:13:22.120 No, it was the white person, it was well, it 0:13:22.160 --> 0:13:24.319 was white. There was a white person escaping. 0:13:24.600 --> 0:13:29.400 Actually squig games category and we could watch them. 0:13:29.559 --> 0:13:30.240 You need a EP. 0:13:32.559 --> 0:13:35.520 I mean it's weird because I mean I'm just saying 0:13:35.520 --> 0:13:36.559 white people be poor too. 0:13:36.679 --> 0:13:38.280 But I agree with you. I think that's the sentiment. 0:13:38.440 --> 0:13:41.160 You know, there's a lot of people that'll do a 0:13:41.320 --> 0:13:43.840 lot of things, really anything for money. And so you're 0:13:43.920 --> 0:13:46.080 dangling and I think the burning house one was for 0:13:46.120 --> 0:13:46.920 like five hundred thousand. 0:13:46.960 --> 0:13:49.320 That's I like, it don't even really be that much money. 0:13:49.400 --> 0:13:51.120 No, wait, five hundred thousand isn't a lot. 0:13:51.160 --> 0:13:53.040 I don't feel like, what was that backup not to 0:13:53.160 --> 0:13:56.160 be like potentially get like burned. Oh I'm not gonna 0:13:56.760 --> 0:13:59.520 like that, Dad from this is us absolutely not right. 0:13:59.600 --> 0:14:01.760 If the hell us across the studio is burning right now, 0:14:01.800 --> 0:14:03.360 I want us all to go and get that money 0:14:03.360 --> 0:14:08.000 and splitting five of us in a row one, two, three, 0:14:08.040 --> 0:14:11.199 four five we out after Well, I guess it's a taxi. 0:14:13.280 --> 0:14:15.040 I think it's a gift. You don't have to pay taxes. 0:14:15.080 --> 0:14:16.480 I thought you like, when you want a car on 0:14:16.480 --> 0:14:17.520 a game show, you have to. 0:14:17.440 --> 0:14:19.360 Like you've got to find a way how to do 0:14:19.400 --> 0:14:22.720 it is charity like because like you don't have to. 0:14:22.840 --> 0:14:24.080 It is charity or something, you. 0:14:24.040 --> 0:14:27.120 Know, I think and this white man's good. 0:14:28.760 --> 0:14:31.160 I just know he does a lot of like philanthropic 0:14:31.200 --> 0:14:35.080 sh about like giving go like like consistently giving away million. 0:14:35.680 --> 0:14:36.600 But maybe there's something. 0:14:36.640 --> 0:14:38.680 He's just also someone that got upset that he wasn't 0:14:38.720 --> 0:14:41.840 high enough on that little like Rolling Stone influential list. 0:14:41.920 --> 0:14:42.520 It's also one of. 0:14:42.480 --> 0:14:44.960 Those he's just you know what's crazy about or even 0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:47.960 say that it reminds me of like, uh, like Frank 0:14:48.040 --> 0:14:50.680 Lucas and all the mobsters and drug dealers and kingpins 0:14:50.720 --> 0:14:53.960 also gave about turkeys during the goddamn holidays, you know. 0:14:53.840 --> 0:14:57.720 What I mean. It's a yes and yes and all right, 0:14:58.000 --> 0:14:58.720 I like a yes. 0:14:58.840 --> 0:15:07.240 And by the way, we are gonna start with a 0:15:07.240 --> 0:15:10.040 little icebreaker. Okay, let's you better be ready. 0:15:10.080 --> 0:15:12.800 So it's truth. It's truth and. 0:15:12.760 --> 0:15:18.480 There oh look, oh no you should not see. However, however, 0:15:18.600 --> 0:15:22.760 I realized, like, because I'm thankful for this relationship and. 0:15:22.720 --> 0:15:25.640 I knew you weren't you were like, and I am giving. 0:15:25.440 --> 0:15:28.960 You an or there's two truths and two theres so 0:15:29.080 --> 0:15:33.520 you can pick one or here, okay, but you only 0:15:33.560 --> 0:15:35.320 have to choose one, so one is a little bit 0:15:35.360 --> 0:15:36.960 more crazy than the other. So I want to see 0:15:36.960 --> 0:15:38.640 how crazy you want to get, right, let's do it the 0:15:38.760 --> 0:15:39.200 truth and. 0:15:39.160 --> 0:15:39.760 There, let's get it. 0:15:39.800 --> 0:15:41.840 We're gonna start with truth because that's what people always 0:15:41.840 --> 0:15:42.640 want to do anyway. 0:15:43.040 --> 0:15:47.200 So pick one or the other. Either truth. 0:15:47.320 --> 0:15:50.640 What's the most ridiculous reason you've ever got to someone? 0:15:51.040 --> 0:15:54.840 Or what's your most embarrassing bedroom story that still haunts 0:15:54.880 --> 0:15:58.160 you today? I want the second, Oh, but I have 0:15:58.200 --> 0:15:59.240 an answer for the first one. 0:15:59.320 --> 0:16:02.160 Okakay, he wore a poncho? 0:16:04.720 --> 0:16:05.360 Was he Mexican? 0:16:05.600 --> 0:16:06.200 Noh? 0:16:06.720 --> 0:16:09.640 And he wore a poncho and like brunch boots. 0:16:09.720 --> 0:16:12.440 Mexicans were ponchos. That's why we wear it on sekodmayoh like. 0:16:12.400 --> 0:16:16.960 The like approach, like a ground heavy in the summer. 0:16:17.200 --> 0:16:19.440 On my birthday party, he came to my birthday party 0:16:19.760 --> 0:16:22.040 and a poncho in brunch boots. 0:16:23.400 --> 0:16:26.600 I could not believe it and then had the. 0:16:26.720 --> 0:16:30.160 Nerve to then like the party was really cute and say, 0:16:30.200 --> 0:16:32.280 I have a speakeasy in my apartment building and it's 0:16:32.320 --> 0:16:33.520 like it's like a really cute space. 0:16:33.960 --> 0:16:36.200 And I ended up finding out he asked one of 0:16:36.240 --> 0:16:36.760 my friends for. 0:16:36.880 --> 0:16:39.240 Coke, which I am not I don't give a buck 0:16:39.320 --> 0:16:40.800 if the girls want to be B two K bum 0:16:40.880 --> 0:16:44.480 bum bump, but I do not care in a poncho 0:16:44.880 --> 0:16:50.160 likees on my birthday and brunch boots, I'm done. 0:16:50.240 --> 0:16:51.560 I couldn't speak to him ever again. 0:16:51.600 --> 0:16:53.440 Which one was worse the poncho of the brunch boots 0:16:54.120 --> 0:16:54.840 because it was. 0:16:54.800 --> 0:16:57.680 A combination of the boat. I'm actually getting triggered thinking 0:16:57.720 --> 0:16:58.240 about him now. 0:16:58.560 --> 0:16:59.800 I'm just going through my head. 0:17:00.280 --> 0:17:04.600 You just said V two K, and I'm not joking 0:17:04.640 --> 0:17:07.919 with you. A few months ago, someone was like, oh, 0:17:08.000 --> 0:17:10.199 come on love V two girl, and we were at 0:17:10.240 --> 0:17:11.000 an aftees. 0:17:12.160 --> 0:17:16.240 I didn't get it. I thought she just curious, and 0:17:16.359 --> 0:17:19.680 I only did I only did heavy. But I thought 0:17:19.760 --> 0:17:22.920 she literally was saying it because like, it's. 0:17:23.000 --> 0:17:28.200 No, it's it's it's black people reference for coke. We 0:17:28.280 --> 0:17:29.399 were at a black house party. 0:17:29.440 --> 0:17:29.920 I don't get it. 0:17:30.520 --> 0:17:32.000 How have I never heard of this do coke with 0:17:32.040 --> 0:17:35.840 white people? I V two K is the perfect, It's 0:17:35.880 --> 0:17:40.399 like literally perfect. Yeah, oh yeah yeah, But that's the 0:17:40.440 --> 0:17:42.399 reason why I go. I'm not actually mad at that. 0:17:42.760 --> 0:17:43.280 Not Dared. 0:17:43.359 --> 0:17:44.880 Oh my god, it was awful. 0:17:45.160 --> 0:17:48.440 The Dare is gonna have you in your acting bug? 0:17:48.680 --> 0:17:52.320 Okay, all right, Well, from a from a talkative point, 0:17:52.720 --> 0:17:57.280 So dear give a fifteen second ted talk titled white 0:17:57.320 --> 0:18:01.680 Tops of the New Bottoms, or describe your last date 0:18:01.800 --> 0:18:03.439 like it's a true crime documentary. 0:18:05.000 --> 0:18:08.359 Oh this is great. Listen. 0:18:08.520 --> 0:18:14.439 Okay, all right, okay, I'll do Top of the New 0:18:14.480 --> 0:18:15.639 but I kind of want to do that one. But 0:18:15.720 --> 0:18:17.040