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Speaker 1: Welcome to decisions decisions. I don't think you should say

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Speaker 1: decision decisions. It sounded like you was talking to Kirsten.

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Speaker 2: You definitely say to welcome, welcome to the new podcast.

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Speaker 2: You want to say together, decisions decisions.

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Speaker 3: Hey guys, welcome to another episode. Give thanks bitches of

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Speaker 3: decisions decisions.

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Speaker 1: I'm your girl, Mandy Bean.

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna throw my aka's in there today, but

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Speaker 3: I am thankful for knowing how to peg.

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Speaker 1: That's all I'm gonna say.

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Speaker 2: Okay, hey everybody, I'm weazy. We're back for another episode

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Speaker 2: and we have a guest.

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Speaker 3: He they girl things.

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Speaker 1: I'm really excited.

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Speaker 2: You just had a conversation about ginger neutral saying I'm

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Speaker 2: talking about all of those things.

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Speaker 3: And our guest is Ryan Mitchell AKA the Slay go On.

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Speaker 3: And I can't believe finally here one has have been

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Speaker 3: wanting to have him on four three years now.

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Speaker 1: Easily for sure.

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Speaker 4: And I mean on the other pod rest in Peace, that.

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Speaker 5: The other prime I but I'm most definitely happy to

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Speaker 5: be here with you.

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Speaker 2: Not only are you happy all the second time? What

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Speaker 2: this week that he was like, oh gee, and I'm

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Speaker 2: like that means.

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Speaker 3: No, no, it does OG does not mean you can't BEG.

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Speaker 3: If you're you could be starting something in baby here

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Speaker 3: o G. Besides Kysona Beyonce, Kiki Palmer period is good,

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Speaker 3: but she's.

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Speaker 4: A OG is good.

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Speaker 1: She's a OG. Yeah, so is ky sanat o G

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Speaker 1: And yeah, we can't pay.

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Speaker 4: I just wanted to be in the same category as Kay.

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Speaker 1: No no no and streaming.

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Speaker 2: Somebody would probably say he's not. They would probably say academics.

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Speaker 2: But I think that's a different type of stream for

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Speaker 2: kai to have to follow through stream like following watch

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Speaker 2: me twenty four seven, like full on live stream. The

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Speaker 2: only time we ever saw that was porn, but you

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Speaker 2: got to pay for porn, like A don't know if

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Speaker 2: y'all ever seen.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I'm just horning.

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Speaker 4: I just said, who's live stream born before?

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Speaker 2: So they'd be doing these little whorehouses and I don't

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Speaker 2: mean that how it sounds, but basically they'd put cameras

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Speaker 2: in there. You can watch them in the shower, you

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Speaker 2: can watch this, and they would live stream.

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Speaker 1: Like it's just an old school HBO, like after the House.

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Speaker 2: Did it, Okay, they evolved to that the Bunny Ranch

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Speaker 2: did it, and then there were different I think like

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Speaker 2: different umbrellas of like peorn companies.

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Speaker 1: And so they would do with men, they do women.

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Speaker 2: They had a Latina house and it would just be

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Speaker 2: like a week subscription of it.

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Speaker 6: Anyway, let's talk about that.

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Speaker 4: History now.

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Speaker 3: I wanted to just introduce y'all to Bryan in case

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Speaker 3: y'all didn't know, you know, ever seen their content, you know,

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Speaker 3: everything that they be on. So he's one of the

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Speaker 3: voices behind High Key, which is a weekly podcast co

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Speaker 3: hosted with Evy. It is an iHeart podcast. So you

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Speaker 3: not a cousin, but you like a distant cousin. Yes,

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Speaker 3: iHeart too, but black effects.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but I feel like we're like like sisters in

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Speaker 5: a way, you know, just a little like step sisters.

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Speaker 1: Different daddies, period, period period.

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Speaker 3: Also a voice in entertainment pop culture, has been on MTV.

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Speaker 3: We did the MTV Movie Awards, UH together a few

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Speaker 3: years ago. And also which I really love that you're doing.

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Speaker 3: You do a lot of lot of lot of I

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Speaker 3: mean panels conversations with Glad. You serve as a senior

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Speaker 3: consultant for Glass Entertainment and Communities of Color Team where

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Speaker 3: you champion were you champion intersectional queer and trans narratives

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Speaker 3: across film, television and sports.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely who said you to buy listen? Come on? You

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Speaker 1: know my husband, you know what's crazy.

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Speaker 3: I literally had to tell tell my husband, like give

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Speaker 3: me more because I know.

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Speaker 1: Include the glass stuff.

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Speaker 6: I said, I.

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Speaker 1: Give it to me. Hunt And by the way, what

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Speaker 2: I remember when I would see you across my feet.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, you know, when you see someone you're.

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Speaker 1: Like, they need content? Are they an influencer?

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Speaker 2: But then you don't want to see the little st

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Speaker 2: want and say influencer, not the sound.

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Speaker 5: Thank you so much for asking saying that, because it it.

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Speaker 5: I do think I'm one of those people that have

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Speaker 5: so it's really hard to put me in a box.

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Speaker 5: But what people know me for is like my broadcast

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Speaker 5: work and interview So I have like I've interviewed everyone

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Speaker 5: from Kiki Palmer to Lizzo to Billy Porter to everyone

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Speaker 5: curating work. So like the NFL reached out and was like,

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Speaker 4: Yes, the NFL.

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Speaker 1: The NFL literally, I.

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Speaker 3: Mean it's interesting too when you with and we might

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Speaker 6: It was something Sam or Michael Michael. Now he was

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Speaker 3: He was a black queer male that literally when he

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Speaker 3: came out, as as the boyfriend was white, No.

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Speaker 5: Michael Sam also has a white boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: it was really like ignorant around those conversations like as if,

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Speaker 3: Okay, I don't know why not should say straight men?

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Speaker 1: I don't you know.

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Speaker 5: Like I love being told, like historically that I don't

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Speaker 5: I love kind of like it from a cultural pop

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Speaker 4: And so that's my entry point.

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Speaker 5: this is the NFL, but like people don't give a

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Speaker 3: Gonna say, I wish there was like more things around

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Speaker 3: entertainment that leaned into that. I went to a Broadway

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Speaker 3: There was another Broadway show I wanted to go to,

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Speaker 6: People were treating him there.

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Speaker 3: But then it was him being and I saw mad

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Speaker 4: It, I mean, the decision coming on.

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Speaker 1: There's things that are growing.

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Speaker 4: Then we had a beautiful dinner.

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Speaker 5: people like these institutions do DEI work, they're like, oh

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Speaker 2: Please And I don't mean it because I know that

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Speaker 2: it's good for everyone to come out.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I actually would be really terrified for a large player,

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Speaker 2: you're someone that's big and known, you can come out.

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Speaker 2: I feel like if you're in the middle, it may

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Michael Sam, I don't think very long.

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Speaker 5: I mean, but there's maybe he was unfortunately like a

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Speaker 2: And then it'll very from there, right, because what I'm thinking.

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Speaker 2: So I say this to say, my best friend loves

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Speaker 2: the Patriots. He's from Boston, and I'm.

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Speaker 1: Like, white, but oh I love finding out black people

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Speaker 3: Well, we do our when we do our tour stops

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Speaker 3: in Boston, we'd be like, hey, did it No, you were.

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Speaker 2: oh yeah, yeah, meet somebody like I'm like wow.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, we get to this bar and.

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Speaker 2: Because he wants to watch the game, so I'm on

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Speaker 2: the phone and I'm dating this at the time.

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Speaker 1: This is a long time ago. I've you've reformed. Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 1: So he was like, damn is that many gay niggas

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Speaker 1: I'll put all of them. Great, were you sneaking them.

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Speaker 3: No, it was the white person, it was well, it

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Speaker 4: You need a EP.

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Speaker 5: I don't feel like, what was that backup not to

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Speaker 2: If the hell us across the studio is burning right now,

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Speaker 1: I think it's a gift. You don't have to pay taxes.

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Speaker 4: I thought you like, when you want a car on

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Speaker 3: Like you've got to find a way how to do

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Speaker 5: Know, I think and this white man's good.

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Speaker 2: I just know he does a lot of like philanthropic

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Speaker 1: But maybe there's something.

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Speaker 5: He's just also someone that got upset that he wasn't

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Speaker 3: Those he's just you know what's crazy about or even

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Speaker 1: So it's truth. It's truth and.

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Speaker 3: There oh look, oh no you should not see. However, however,

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Speaker 3: truth and.

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Speaker 1: There, let's get it.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna start with truth because that's what people always

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Speaker 1: So pick one or the other. Either truth.

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Speaker 3: What's the most ridiculous reason you've ever got to someone?

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Speaker 3: Or what's your most embarrassing bedroom story that still haunts

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Speaker 3: you today? I want the second, Oh, but I have

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Speaker 1: Okakay, he wore a poncho?

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Speaker 4: Was he Mexican?

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Speaker 1: Noh?

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Speaker 4: And he wore a poncho and like brunch boots.

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Speaker 3: Mexicans were ponchos. That's why we wear it on sekodmayoh like.

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Speaker 1: The like approach, like a ground heavy in the summer.

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Speaker 5: On my birthday party, he came to my birthday party

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Speaker 4: I could not believe it and then had the.

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Speaker 5: Nerve to then like the party was really cute and say,

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Speaker 5: I have a speakeasy in my apartment building and it's

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Speaker 4: And I ended up finding out he asked one of

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Speaker 5: Coke, which I am not I don't give a buck

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Speaker 5: if the girls want to be B two K bum

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Speaker 5: likees on my birthday and brunch boots, I'm done.

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Speaker 4: I couldn't speak to him ever again.

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Speaker 6: Which one was worse the poncho of the brunch boots

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Speaker 5: A combination of the boat. I'm actually getting triggered thinking

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Speaker 1: I'm just going through my head.

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Speaker 3: You just said V two K, and I'm not joking

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Speaker 1: I didn't get it. I thought she just curious, and

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Speaker 5: No, it's it's it's black people reference for coke. We

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Speaker 1: I don't get it.

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Speaker 5: How have I never heard of this do coke with

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Speaker 1: Not Dared.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, it was awful.

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Speaker 1: The Dare is gonna have you in your acting bug?

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, Well, from a from a talkative point,

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Speaker 3: So dear give a fifteen second ted talk titled white

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Speaker 3: Tops of the New Bottoms, or describe your last date

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Speaker 1: A date that so then we're gonna do both.

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Speaker 2: You do Top to the New Bottoms. I have a request, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I want you to say it like it is breaking.

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Speaker 1: News here at four o'clock PM. Okay, okay, okay, I'm

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Speaker 4: In the back? Okay, I will do I will do

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Speaker 4: the true crime one.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: It was.

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Speaker 4: It was on a Wednesday.

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Speaker 5: It was cloudy, and we went to a theater to

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Speaker 5: you've seen It's a great show and broad Way. It

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Speaker 5: was here in La I met a sagittarist, an actual

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Speaker 5: saget terrorist, oh, an actual sagittarist where he loved bomb me.

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Speaker 5: He showed me all of the things that he wanted,

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Speaker 4: He immediately ghosted me and never.

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Speaker 1: Spoke to me again because he didn't let you in

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Speaker 5: I didn't let him upstairs. He wanted to fuck, and

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Speaker 5: I just wasn't feeling I was already we had we

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Speaker 5: we did everything butt fucked?

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Speaker 4: What what besides besides fucking.

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Speaker 6: Which is just kissing, hand jobs.

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Speaker 1: Blow jobs, hanging, yeah, all the things. Because it was new.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, it was like our fourth day.

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Speaker 3: Oh good, but wat y'all got to say everything butt

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Speaker 5: I feel like that's classy, That's like, that's pretty glassy.

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Speaker 5: I'm the girl that you want to be in this

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Speaker 1: Okay, you I don't die.

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Speaker 4: My heart did because he completely just ed Kennedy.

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Speaker 1: He what was Oh he ghosted you? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: He ghosted me like he.

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Speaker 5: Literally Okay, I guess he technically didn't ghost me because

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Speaker 5: we rekindled. We talked earlier this year. I rekindled someone

448
00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:24,359
Speaker 5: who goes to me literally and we talked earlier this

449
00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:28,560
Speaker 5: year and everything was all good. Like we went we

450
00:20:28,760 --> 00:20:30,520
Speaker 5: went on dates really quick, Like our first date was

451
00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:32,840
Speaker 5: to the aquarium, which I love. If you know anything

452
00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:37,639
Speaker 5: about me, like going to not you like fish, And

453
00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:40,040
Speaker 5: it's like it's because like my mom and I would

454
00:20:40,040 --> 00:20:41,840
Speaker 5: go on trips and like when I was younger, we'd

455
00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:43,680
Speaker 5: go to all these aquariums, and I just love aquariums.

456
00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:45,520
Speaker 4: They're so soothing and cute.

457
00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:47,560
Speaker 5: And so we went for our first day and then

458
00:20:47,600 --> 00:20:49,280
Speaker 5: we immediately had a second day, and then I went

459
00:20:49,320 --> 00:20:52,040
Speaker 5: out of town and came back and like we were

460
00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:54,400
Speaker 5: like it was really kind of I guess, moving fast,

461
00:20:54,480 --> 00:20:54,919
Speaker 5: but it was.

462
00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:57,520
Speaker 4: Also like a whirldwind, like he was like a fool

463
00:20:57,560 --> 00:20:58,439
Speaker 4: on love bomber.

464
00:20:58,840 --> 00:21:01,560
Speaker 5: And then he started to get shaky, started to be

465
00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:03,400
Speaker 5: like I don't know if I want to do this anymore.

466
00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:04,760
Speaker 5: And I was just like, Okay, this seems like a

467
00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:07,399
Speaker 5: you issued out of me issue, and I'm gonna let

468
00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:10,440
Speaker 5: you go. And then a couple of months went by

469
00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:12,440
Speaker 5: and then he hit me back up, being like he

470
00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:14,240
Speaker 5: called me, being like, hey, I'm.

471
00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:16,200
Speaker 4: Kind of on your side of town. I just left dinner.

472
00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:18,119
Speaker 4: Do you want to go to like this hookah bar?

473
00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:21,960
Speaker 3: And I was like, okay, I love how he ignored

474
00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:25,720
Speaker 3: the fact that y'all completely dead the things it still

475
00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:28,680
Speaker 3: felt like actually called me back, he's me, No, it's me.

476
00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:31,639
Speaker 1: I will about you dead meat.

477
00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:33,880
Speaker 4: Like that way.

478
00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:35,760
Speaker 1: Oh no, a guy could dead me.

479
00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:38,400
Speaker 3: We could agree to dead each other, and I could

480
00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:40,159
Speaker 3: one day be bored and hit them up and be like, hey,

481
00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:40,720
Speaker 3: what are you doing?

482
00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:41,560
Speaker 4: Crazy work?

483
00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:41,760
Speaker 3: Wait?

484
00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:46,320
Speaker 1: Is that crazy work? I decided it with a friend.

485
00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:49,359
Speaker 2: Sometimes no, I mean no, no, no, if you have

486
00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:54,800
Speaker 2: like we're done, I actually feel so disrespected if no,

487
00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:55,400
Speaker 2: and dead ass.

488
00:21:56,480 --> 00:21:58,840
Speaker 4: But then you still went on the day because we

489
00:21:58,960 --> 00:21:59,359
Speaker 4: are okay.

490
00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:01,560
Speaker 5: So at first, when he first told me like he

491
00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:03,560
Speaker 5: didn't he wasn't like necessarily feeling it.

492
00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:04,800
Speaker 4: I was just like, okay.

493
00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:07,800
Speaker 1: But then I was like, white bitch, I actually really

494
00:22:07,840 --> 00:22:09,680
Speaker 1: want to know what the fuck happened. Oh so you

495
00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:10,760
Speaker 1: went for the answer.

496
00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:12,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, I wanted to know what happened, and.

497
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:15,120
Speaker 6: Then you fucked or then you went on three more

498
00:22:15,200 --> 00:22:15,720
Speaker 6: dates after that.

499
00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:17,879
Speaker 4: Hey, I didn't say I'm a leo. I didn't say

500
00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:18,560
Speaker 4: I was smart.

501
00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:22,359
Speaker 5: I didn't say, you know, there's there's something happens too

502
00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:24,840
Speaker 5: with two fire signs when they get together.

503
00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:26,480
Speaker 4: It's just pure chale.

504
00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:29,120
Speaker 3: But to be fair, it could have worked out again,

505
00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:31,159
Speaker 3: I think that's me to me if you didn't do

506
00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:32,800
Speaker 3: something awful.

507
00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:36,640
Speaker 6: I believe in possible, right person, wrong time.

508
00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:39,800
Speaker 3: So we if we like to connect and it doesn't

509
00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:41,480
Speaker 3: work and we both decided the same working or one

510
00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:43,040
Speaker 3: of us ghosts the other person.

511
00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:44,440
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, there's nothing bad. I don't think that's what

512
00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:44,840
Speaker 1: I'm saying.

513
00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:46,800
Speaker 3: Like if we just both say and the same really

514
00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:48,880
Speaker 3: working well, He had made double back.

515
00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:52,080
Speaker 5: The reason why he ended up getting like ghosting or

516
00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:54,960
Speaker 5: like like cutting it off. He ended up being like

517
00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:59,240
Speaker 5: I he made some like he he built up a

518
00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:02,000
Speaker 5: preconception about me that was not true, like he thought

519
00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:04,160
Speaker 5: I wasn't He He was like, I really want someone

520
00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:06,200
Speaker 5: who is not like religious, but like they have a

521
00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:09,159
Speaker 5: relationship with God. And he just felt like because I

522
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:11,959
Speaker 5: talked a little bit about like my religious trauma as

523
00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:15,359
Speaker 5: most queer people have, he automatically was like, oh, this

524
00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:17,480
Speaker 5: is not someone that has like he thinks I'm an

525
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:19,639
Speaker 5: atheist automatically and I'm was like, I've never said that.

526
00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:22,359
Speaker 5: And then also sexually, he thought I was just like

527
00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:24,760
Speaker 5: wanting to be some submissive girl. And I'm like, first

528
00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:27,000
Speaker 5: of all, just because my voice is like high in

529
00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:29,600
Speaker 5: the octaves does not mean I won't break your back.

530
00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:31,600
Speaker 5: So don't try me curious.

531
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:33,280
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? You know where my brain

532
00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:33,840
Speaker 1: is right now?

533
00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:34,840
Speaker 4: Where is your brain?

534
00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:41,720
Speaker 5: The goal of a man? It's the all deaf period.

535
00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:44,119
Speaker 5: I was gonna say, also, quick change.

536
00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:47,320
Speaker 1: Have y'all are watching on the YouTube? Get ready, We're

537
00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:48,440
Speaker 1: taking it to baby.

538
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:52,320
Speaker 2: I want to take anybody that has ever sucked a

539
00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:55,200
Speaker 2: dick and as one to have the goll to tell

540
00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:56,359
Speaker 2: me I.

541
00:23:56,480 --> 00:24:00,960
Speaker 1: Can't have conflicted feelings about religion, right fucking dare you?

542
00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:04,880
Speaker 3: I Actually I'm a woman with conflictive feelings, like literally,

543
00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:06,879
Speaker 3: but like think.

544
00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:10,480
Speaker 2: About it's one thing if to me, someone wants to

545
00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:13,320
Speaker 2: make that choice and you're real straight just knowing that,

546
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:16,680
Speaker 2: Like we walked through life where knowing that God thinks

547
00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:20,600
Speaker 2: it's wrong, hearing and seeing media all kinds of shit

548
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 2: with people saying gay the way burn them at the.

549
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:26,080
Speaker 5: Stake, and the specific sort of religious life that I lived,

550
00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 5: like I grew up Pentecostal and if anybody knows coaching

551
00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:33,480
Speaker 5: Church of Guy in Christ, it's like long skirts, you

552
00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:34,920
Speaker 5: can't women can't even be in the pool.

553
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:37,080
Speaker 1: It's like the more conservative Christians.

554
00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:39,879
Speaker 5: For I mean like black Amish people literally where I

555
00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:41,200
Speaker 5: got that extreme.

556
00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:43,359
Speaker 1: But I'm like low key, like it's very very.

557
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:46,320
Speaker 4: Conservative, and like it just was I was.

558
00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:48,480
Speaker 5: I remember talking about it, and I was just kind

559
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:50,440
Speaker 5: of like, yeah, I know it will always be a

560
00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:52,440
Speaker 5: part of me, but I have conflictive feelings, and I'm

561
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:54,159
Speaker 5: like that's anything. But my things is the fact that

562
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:56,800
Speaker 5: you have the audacity not like ask a follow up,

563
00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:58,680
Speaker 5: are like you just made like a quick decision.

564
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:00,960
Speaker 4: I didn't want anybody around in that way.

565
00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:03,320
Speaker 5: So a couple months went by and then we were

566
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:06,080
Speaker 5: talking and then of course reconnected, and.

567
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:10,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, it just I don't know, I feel like he just.

568
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:12,680
Speaker 5: Like he was just a type of person that gets

569
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 5: like wrapped up in the idea of like a relationship,

570
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 5: but wrapped up but you don't want to do the.

571
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:20,800
Speaker 1: Work, but doesn't actually want to do Yeah, like he's

572
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:22,120
Speaker 1: trying to figure his shit out.

573
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:23,800
Speaker 4: And so I said, I will never date another thing.

574
00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:25,600
Speaker 2: I mean a lot of people desire things that they

575
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:27,919
Speaker 2: don't know how to get to right, Like you can

576
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:30,440
Speaker 2: always have the north Star, but not the means to

577
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:32,560
Speaker 2: get there. And I think we see it the most

578
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 2: with like a career, I want to do ra I

579
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:36,080
Speaker 2: want to start a podcast, and they never do it.

580
00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:38,560
Speaker 2: But when it comes to relationships, it's the same thing.

581
00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:41,159
Speaker 2: We always say we're ready for something because we know

582
00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 2: it's desirable companionship, but you gotta be fucking healed.

583
00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 4: And I also don't know if I feel like that. Also,

584
00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:47,760
Speaker 4: that moment also taught me.

585
00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 5: It was like, am I know I am saying I

586
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:52,240
Speaker 5: want to manifest like a relationship and like want to

587
00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:53,560
Speaker 5: like find a partner.

588
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 1: But I also don't.

589
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:57,879
Speaker 4: I don't want to settle for anything.

590
00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:00,760
Speaker 5: I don't want to settle for like someone to not

591
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:03,639
Speaker 5: accept me fully sexually, or someone to not accept me

592
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:05,600
Speaker 5: fully in like the life that I live as like

593
00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:09,119
Speaker 5: a public figure in this world, that this work that

594
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:11,240
Speaker 5: we do, Like I need someone who's going to be

595
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:14,119
Speaker 5: able to handle all of that, and like, I don't know,

596
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:17,160
Speaker 5: it sucks. It felt nice to feel wanted, but also

597
00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 5: I can't just get wrapped.

598
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 1: Up in that.

599
00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:22,080
Speaker 3: We say that about someone, we say that about this podcast,

600
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:25,080
Speaker 3: like you have to be fully accepting of us being

601
00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:28,119
Speaker 3: open about talking about sex or being liberated, and you know,

602
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:32,640
Speaker 3: being the ogs to these types of conversations that you're

603
00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 3: an og.

604
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:36,680
Speaker 2: You know, we got all I have, But can we

605
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:43,200
Speaker 2: call it LG like the phone you want to I

606
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 2: want to be a little gangstter, not an og.

607
00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 6: Okay, Well, we are going to go from the bedroom

608
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:49,399
Speaker 6: to the courtroom.

609
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:50,720
Speaker 1: Order in the court.

610
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:52,760
Speaker 4: Order in the court who gave her this?

611
00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 1: Did you amazon? Jeff faced us? Okay?

612
00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:01,320
Speaker 3: Now for this part of this, shoh, I am going

613
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 3: to read three cases. Okay, you have to decide if

614
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 3: you will stand in defense, which means you will argue

615
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:11,320
Speaker 3: why it's hot, valid and sex positive, or you will

616
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:14,920
Speaker 3: stand in prosecution, where you will argue why this is

617
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:17,320
Speaker 3: a kink, felony and morally unsound.

618
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:20,480
Speaker 5: Oh okay, And I am pretty progressive, so I feel

619
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:21,880
Speaker 5: like I'm gonna be on the defense a lot.

620
00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 1: Now, we'll see, we'll see.

621
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:30,880
Speaker 3: So case number one, they refuse to sleep over after sex. Ever,

622
00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:35,720
Speaker 3: they always have something to do and decide not to

623
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:40,720
Speaker 3: spend the night. Are you defending this act or do

624
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:44,119
Speaker 3: you feel like there's a violation somewhere and why.

625
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 5: Oh, okay, I'm gonna I'm actually going to defend it,

626
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,920
Speaker 5: but you're defending hell yeah, because I like actually having

627
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:52,440
Speaker 5: my own space. I am an only child, and I

628
00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 5: do not want niggas in my room or in my

629
00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:56,919
Speaker 5: space even after you have sex with or Sure, I'm

630
00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:57,960
Speaker 5: so down for you to pack it.

631
00:27:58,000 --> 00:27:58,400
Speaker 4: Up and leave.

632
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:02,480
Speaker 5: Okay, I think having I think having your own space,

633
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:05,080
Speaker 5: especially in the dating phase, like I don't maybe at

634
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:08,199
Speaker 5: some point you can start to sleep over, but.

635
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:10,560
Speaker 4: Like I don't actually need that.

636
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:12,080
Speaker 1: How long did you do that for?

637
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 4: Can I say, like it's six months?

638
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:20,680
Speaker 3: Six months to do I've been having sex for six

639
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:22,480
Speaker 3: months and they can't spend The.

640
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:27,479
Speaker 5: Folks are always hook up Like it's like hookup culture, right,

641
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:30,040
Speaker 5: Like it's like you like, oh wait, so dating.

642
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 1: Phase, say dating, but if you're sleeping for six months? Yeah,

643
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 1: do I need to?

644
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:37,080
Speaker 4: Can I not have? Can I not be like Whoopie

645
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:38,800
Speaker 4: Godberg and be like why is a man here?

646
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 1: Like?

647
00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 4: Can I not?

648
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:46,160
Speaker 1: Like I would I came, yeah, and you can stay?

649
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 5: But also like I just I don't know, I would

650
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:50,280
Speaker 5: have to really get used. I haven't had a man

651
00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 5: sleep over in a minie. If I'm being quite honest,

652
00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 5: like it did.

653
00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:53,720
Speaker 1: It depends.

654
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:56,600
Speaker 3: I did have a guys sleep over earlier this year,

655
00:28:57,320 --> 00:29:01,959
Speaker 3: and bitch, they snored and I was upset. I said, actually,

656
00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:05,520
Speaker 3: I would have been okay if he left, because now

657
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:08,880
Speaker 3: I can barely sleep because what.

658
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:10,480
Speaker 4: Are you okay? What are they staying over for?

659
00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 1: Just for the cuddles? The cuddles? I don't like that

660
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 1: in the morning. You don't like morning sex.

661
00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:16,960
Speaker 4: I do, but also.

662
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:26,160
Speaker 3: Like calling someone in the I mean morning before the wait,

663
00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:28,400
Speaker 3: I mean if I baby, he.

664
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:31,280
Speaker 1: Said, Am I prepared? You ain't gotta ask time for nothing.

665
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:34,720
Speaker 1: Wait a second, but the new Tom kg La we

666
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:37,440
Speaker 1: are here with Ryan Mitchell. Tell us when did this

667
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:38,080
Speaker 1: happen for you?

668
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:40,760
Speaker 3: Oh my god at the sweet age of I can't say.

669
00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:47,480
Speaker 3: And we'll be back with a pat okay case number two? Okay,

670
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:49,960
Speaker 3: all right, On a first.

671
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:55,720
Speaker 6: Date they bring up their kinks immediately. Do you defend

672
00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 6: this action?

673
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:59,800
Speaker 3: And is it sex positive or do you think they're

674
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 3: guilty and this might be morally unsound like they could.

675
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 5: Have Wait, No, you need to know I'm going to

676
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 5: defeat you kinks out the game. I think you need

677
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 5: to know people's kicks. I'd love to actually talk about sex.

678
00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 1: I want to know, like why not? Okay, why not

679
00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:13,800
Speaker 1: hold on?

680
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 5: Because they I mean in the in the first interaction,

681
00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:18,720
Speaker 5: when you're talking to someone, you're automatically seeing if there

682
00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:20,760
Speaker 5: are a top of or bottom on their profile, like

683
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 5: automatically trying to figure out if you are like, are

684
00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 5: we like sisters are about to bump purses?

685
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:28,720
Speaker 4: Or are we like is this like a thing.

686
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:31,960
Speaker 1: But let's just set the scene because is not that

687
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:35,600
Speaker 1: I do always? So you're you're defending Okay, one dream

688
00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:36,880
Speaker 1: comes out, We've ordered apps?

689
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:38,280
Speaker 4: Okay, what's the apps?

690
00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:41,000
Speaker 1: A little for shooto Verada. We're like spreading it on

691
00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:41,560
Speaker 1: top of the.

692
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:44,280
Speaker 2: On the on the bread, okay, and you know what

693
00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 2: I was like a really big kink of like come,

694
00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:50,400
Speaker 2: I just like it all over my face because.

695
00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 1: Over them. You let me do this? Would you guys?

696
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:00,400
Speaker 1: Like dessert?

697
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 2: Actually, we'll have a survey now the survey comes out, okay,

698
00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:05,200
Speaker 2: after after after the mill.

699
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:07,480
Speaker 5: After, Like if we're at dessert and it's been going

700
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 5: well and there's been like some flirtation and like there's

701
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:13,480
Speaker 5: banter and like you know, you're feeling like the sexual chemistry.

702
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:16,600
Speaker 1: Why not the way you defend it?

703
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:17,680
Speaker 4: I think.

704
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 3: Y'all both agree that over appetizers and immediately it is

705
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:23,160
Speaker 3: too early.

706
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 1: Yeah for sure, Okay, for sure, I'm making the comment

707
00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:27,440
Speaker 1: this is the type of girl I am.

708
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:29,240
Speaker 4: Unless I need to know that this guy's a chaser,

709
00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 4: are like just a sex person.

710
00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 3: The only the only dates that I've actually been comfortable

711
00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 3: leaning straight into sex have been the ones that I've

712
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:40,240
Speaker 3: met on like field, like ones that lead with like

713
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:41,040
Speaker 3: whether you're.

714
00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:44,920
Speaker 1: A dom or what's up? Then you mentioned you're off

715
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:46,880
Speaker 1: and bottom, so if you're on Grinder or if you're

716
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:48,080
Speaker 1: on or whatever.

717
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, that was the only two you now of And

718
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 5: I know the one that Sniffy's where you It's just

719
00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 5: that's an app, that's a map, that's like more of

720
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 5: a website.

721
00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:58,000
Speaker 1: Isn't there one like contact Exact?

722
00:31:58,160 --> 00:31:58,360
Speaker 5: Yes?

723
00:31:58,680 --> 00:31:59,560
Speaker 1: Yes, you know what I mean?

724
00:31:59,640 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 4: Name it?

725
00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:06,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's more. Give me the letter X the Twitter? Yes?

726
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:07,800
Speaker 1: Are you kidding?

727
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:08,920
Speaker 4: Meeting anyone off?

728
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 3: You're not?

729
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 1: Why would I?

730
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:12,240
Speaker 4: That feels like why would you?

731
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:15,480
Speaker 5: Almost feels like meeting someone like the craigsli skilled wait

732
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:17,760
Speaker 5: off of like it feels like the same thing.

733
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:23,160
Speaker 3: You know why I don't because no ship on Twitter

734
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:25,520
Speaker 3: you can literally see them having sex for.

735
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 5: Sure, but I'm not. I guess I'm just looking up

736
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 5: with with I mean, whose I am all for sex work?

737
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:37,240
Speaker 5: Like I want to be very clear, I just I'm

738
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 5: not sliding. I feel like their dms are full enough

739
00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:42,000
Speaker 5: and busier. Well they're they're trying to make money. They

740
00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:44,640
Speaker 5: was like, I don't love of dating, so like I

741
00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:46,080
Speaker 5: don't like, you know, I want them.

742
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 1: To like want I like sex workers? Hold wait wait

743
00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:51,280
Speaker 1: wait where was wet? Because I want to know what

744
00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 1: are the other apps?

745
00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:55,400
Speaker 3: Oh? Okay, I mean hinge is a good one, but

746
00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:57,520
Speaker 3: I feel like everyone I thought it was like gay

747
00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 3: they have gay yeah tweeted?

748
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:01,440
Speaker 1: Are those the only ones? You know?

749
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:03,560
Speaker 4: I guess those are the main gay specific one.

750
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:06,280
Speaker 5: I means like unless you go into like the bear

751
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 5: community like growler browlers, like a bear community focused one

752
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 5: that is like for us, you know period, you know,

753
00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:15,280
Speaker 5: it's the thicker guys and the more the I mean

754
00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:19,440
Speaker 5: it's more so, Yeah, it's more so like white bears.

755
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:21,960
Speaker 5: I feel like there are like black bears and there's

756
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 5: like black folks in that, but I just feel like

757
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:29,600
Speaker 5: like grinder and like and grinder and and like scruff

758
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:37,360
Speaker 5: and growler, like very white, which niggas are on jacked

759
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:41,440
Speaker 5: are I also have heard of some niggas being on

760
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Speaker 5: BE Okay, I've.

761
00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:45,000
Speaker 1: Been on BE Okay, yeah it was.

762
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Speaker 6: I didn't like the they need to work on the

763
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 6: back end of the coding.

764
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:53,440
Speaker 5: I mean no, So I'll tell you it feels exactly

765
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:55,240
Speaker 5: how it's spelled and sounds.

766
00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:56,800
Speaker 1: Okay.

767
00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:59,240
Speaker 3: And I hate to say that because I love too,

768
00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 3: but it's they need to get more coding.

769
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 1: Also, Jack steels that way saying the black app I know,

770
00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:08,040
Speaker 1: and I hate that first, and I will tell you, well,

771
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:12,840
Speaker 1: then I got you.

772
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:14,279
Speaker 5: I know the I mean.

773
00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, not I mean he's hot, Kenya shout

774
00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:27,719
Speaker 3: out to spill. This is not an ad, but that's okay.

775
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:29,360
Speaker 3: I think now we're gonna get to case three so

776
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:32,000
Speaker 3: we can get into some uh gratitude because this is

777
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:33,240
Speaker 3: the Thanksgiving officiode.

778
00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:35,760
Speaker 1: I love so case number three.

779
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 3: They show up for the first hookup with an entire

780
00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:44,520
Speaker 3: double bag of toys, loube and accessories. No discussion before.

781
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 3: Is this is this sex positive hot and ballad? Or

782
00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:53,839
Speaker 3: do you feel like you're doing too much? Don't show

783
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:55,440
Speaker 3: up with a double bag on the first hookup.

784
00:34:57,600 --> 00:35:00,839
Speaker 5: I would prosecute like I had someone on like our

785
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 5: first date try to fist me while we.

786
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:07,400
Speaker 1: Share the story. Curry what No, Yep, I love it.

787
00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:11,319
Speaker 3: No. In sleepover mooting you said, you know, but that's

788
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:14,560
Speaker 3: why I stopped full on because while you're prosecutor, Yeah,

789
00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:16,320
Speaker 3: I would prosecute like that.

790
00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:19,200
Speaker 4: Because it was a really great day. We went to

791
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:19,800
Speaker 4: the museum.

792
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 5: It was really sweet, and then we got like we

793
00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:24,839
Speaker 5: went to get food and then we like cat back

794
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:26,680
Speaker 5: to my place and we were making out doing the things,

795
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:28,200
Speaker 5: and then I found out he had like a fisting

796
00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:30,160
Speaker 5: kink while we were doing that and he was trying

797
00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:32,480
Speaker 5: to like go full on force feet and I was

798
00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 5: just like after like we just ate the food that

799
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 5: I just like, I just don't know.

800
00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:40,680
Speaker 2: Brian, serious question. You saw the duffel bag and thought

801
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:45,759
Speaker 2: this not you didn't think work next day?

802
00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:51,800
Speaker 1: You thought, well, the double there's like yeah, there's like

803
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:56,399
Speaker 1: there's like dildos, like yeah, yeah, and like anybody else.

804
00:35:56,600 --> 00:36:00,200
Speaker 5: No, literally, anybody who brings is bringing a duff back

805
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:09,520
Speaker 5: of sex toys means they are probably very kink's.

806
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:08,839
Speaker 1: That I'm bringing lub and accessories, not my work close

807
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:09,480
Speaker 1: for the next day.

808
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 4: Why bring that stuff when I might have them, so

809
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:12,719
Speaker 4: I'll be.

810
00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:13,239
Speaker 1: Honest with you.

811
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 3: I would actually, And I had this conversation with my

812
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:18,840
Speaker 3: boyfriend because he was we were on FaceTime and he

813
00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:22,759
Speaker 3: was showing me I have multiple boyfriends, so this is

814
00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 3: what many. Oh yeah, I.

815
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:27,800
Speaker 1: Didn't know.

816
00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 6: I'll said you picked, I'll show you all the boy

817
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:31,279
Speaker 6: You're like a poly coole.

818
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:36,240
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm slwly poly. Actually they're together. No, they're not together,

819
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:38,719
Speaker 1: but they know of each other. So like even one

820
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:39,040
Speaker 1: like he.

821
00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:44,800
Speaker 2: Watch Splitsville immediately on watch both of them specifically, like

822
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:47,920
Speaker 2: I'm able to share what I'm with either or and

823
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:50,840
Speaker 2: then one specifically when he knows i'm with one, asks

824
00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:52,800
Speaker 2: for videos of me.

825
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:55,719
Speaker 6: And so both boyfriends are aware of each other. Yes,

826
00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 6: and I'm still.

827
00:36:57,480 --> 00:36:58,359
Speaker 1: Talking to other people.

828
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:01,360
Speaker 3: I love that you No.

829
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:04,719
Speaker 6: No, no, it's like it's like okay, because I had

830
00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 6: my active.

831
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 1: By earlier this year.

832
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:09,680
Speaker 3: He was monogamous, so but he was open, he thought,

833
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:12,440
Speaker 3: and it just didn't work out. And now I'm like

834
00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:14,440
Speaker 3: with two people that are just like, are you all

835
00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:14,719
Speaker 3: of them?

836
00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:15,120
Speaker 1: Am I?

837
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:16,440
Speaker 4: What are you pegging all of them?

838
00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 3: No?

839
00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 1: I have one.

840
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:21,759
Speaker 3: I have heard that back, so so the possible. So

841
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 3: the possible one. The possible one played with each other

842
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:27,080
Speaker 3: years ago.

843
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:29,040
Speaker 1: Mine. This is how much of a whole I am.

844
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:30,840
Speaker 1: I don't be remembering ship, but he remembered it.

845
00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:34,800
Speaker 3: He said that he remembered it was in Dallas and

846
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:37,040
Speaker 3: he was like, yeah, you remember when you put that

847
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 3: butt plug in my ass? And so now he doesn't

848
00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 3: circle back and I was like, damn, I made it out,

849
00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:44,840
Speaker 3: but I forgot about it.

850
00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:46,440
Speaker 6: I was like, damn, I was able to put a

851
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:47,319
Speaker 6: boot plug in your ass.

852
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:50,080
Speaker 1: I totally forgot about it. You know when like someone

853
00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:52,200
Speaker 1: really hurt you and theyvid have forgot, but you felt

854
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:54,800
Speaker 1: the pain. I guess it's like, well, no, it wasn't this,

855
00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:56,799
Speaker 1: it was.

856
00:37:56,880 --> 00:37:59,239
Speaker 3: Like And so now he let me know because we

857
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:02,400
Speaker 3: haven't seeing her played with each other and probably like.

858
00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:06,440
Speaker 6: Four or five years, and he let me know he's

859
00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 6: more advanced.

860
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:07,279
Speaker 3: Now.

861
00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 6: I'm looking forward, but I am upseats. So yeah, to me,

862
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:21,000
Speaker 6: the Duffel bag.

863
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:24,319
Speaker 3: But my boyfriend, back to that story, he was I'm

864
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:26,720
Speaker 3: supposed to be going to see him in the DMV,

865
00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:29,880
Speaker 3: and so he was showing me around his house. He

866
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:32,200
Speaker 3: got a massage table, he got a chair with like

867
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:34,799
Speaker 3: these custom stuff and he has like a bind full

868
00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:38,319
Speaker 3: of toys, and my immediate question was like whom.

869
00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:40,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, well, it's actually exact.

870
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:42,840
Speaker 3: Before I had to ask, He's like, well, I have

871
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 3: the toy cleaner. He has all the things, so he

872
00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:46,440
Speaker 3: cleans them. But I was like, and he was like,

873
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:48,279
Speaker 3: and I use condoms on them when I use them

874
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 3: for me. I'm not in a place because I don't

875
00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:56,239
Speaker 3: I don't trust the cleanliness of anyone else to be

876
00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:58,400
Speaker 3: shoving toys in me that would have winn someone else.

877
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:00,560
Speaker 4: It's like cat owners. You don't want to eat out

878
00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 4: of calendars.

879
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 1: Oh my god, this is Oh you wouldn't eat in

880
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:03,959
Speaker 1: my goddamn house.

881
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:08,200
Speaker 3: Nigga, I got body, you got you had body, no body,

882
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:11,760
Speaker 3: but body body is a black household.

883
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 4: Don't be on the counter.

884
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:16,080
Speaker 1: I feel like when I was over there, came over

885
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:18,360
Speaker 1: niggah never on the counter.

886
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:20,920
Speaker 4: Like, but Bondy is a orange cat.

887
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:27,840
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, okay, my first time going my business. Didn't

888
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:29,799
Speaker 2: feed you because the cat chick.

889
00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:33,759
Speaker 3: We go to his family's house and his mama's there.

890
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:37,879
Speaker 3: This is my first rid his family and I'm like, oh,

891
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:38,120
Speaker 3: and his.

892
00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:39,840
Speaker 1: Mom's Puerto Rican. I'm like, oh, we got to eat that.

893
00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:42,279
Speaker 1: She hyping us up, and right as I'm putting it

894
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:44,240
Speaker 1: in my mouth, I see.

895
00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 6: Huh, it's a little bit of rocks, not a bit

896
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:49,040
Speaker 6: of rocks.

897
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 2: Also, who was good this moat?

898
00:39:57,719 --> 00:40:01,920
Speaker 1: This is well? I everything is. I tell you you

899
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:02,680
Speaker 1: know what I'm gonna do.

900
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:05,839
Speaker 3: I'm I'm just gonna search to get you guys off

901
00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:08,880
Speaker 3: of the PTSD that you have. I will send you

902
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:11,440
Speaker 3: so because I'm a cat owner, a part of my

903
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 3: algorithm is cat videos. And the funniest thing is to

904
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:19,280
Speaker 3: see black cat owners because you just talk to him different,

905
00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 3: you treat them different.

906
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:22,479
Speaker 1: But also black casts, no, get your.

907
00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:25,879
Speaker 3: Motherfucking air the fucking counter because you know you don't

908
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:30,399
Speaker 3: nigga you doing, You're not even allowed in the kitchen side.

909
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:34,239
Speaker 3: So black cat owners are are I will say we

910
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:37,520
Speaker 3: are different, even though yes I'm by rat you Sather

911
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:42,000
Speaker 3: day No, No, this is when I first So when

912
00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:45,160
Speaker 3: I first moved into this house, I went on vacation.

913
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:48,279
Speaker 3: I also didn't bring the feeder because I got rid

914
00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 3: of everything that nigga.

915
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:50,319
Speaker 1: I felt so bad.

916
00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:52,680
Speaker 3: He was out of water, he was out of everything.

917
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:55,040
Speaker 3: So I think I felt so bad. I felt like

918
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:56,560
Speaker 3: a terrible like mother.

919
00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:58,600
Speaker 4: So when I got how long were you out of town?

920
00:40:58,760 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 6: Oh my god, like four days? But and and it

921
00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:03,319
Speaker 6: didn't like it was a new feeder. I didn't set

922
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 6: it right.

923
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:04,640
Speaker 1: I went in there.

924
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:07,520
Speaker 3: The whole water was tipped. He had nothing, and I

925
00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 3: don't know how long he didn't have anything for. So

926
00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god. So I go in

927
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:13,480
Speaker 3: there and I was like, fuck, it's hot, and this

928
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:16,400
Speaker 3: again new house. He's probably looking for goddamn food. So

929
00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 3: it's a touch stove stove, so mind you. My cups

930
00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 3: were knocked over. I really think he was in a

931
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:23,960
Speaker 3: new ray and I felt so bad. So I go

932
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:26,040
Speaker 3: on and I was like, oh ship, but yeah, no,

933
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:29,120
Speaker 3: he hasn't done that since, but this is literally what no.

934
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:31,840
Speaker 4: But also it's a new house.

935
00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:33,880
Speaker 1: This is when I had first moved in there.

936
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:35,240
Speaker 4: He was like also getting adjusted.

937
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 3: You don't notice, nigga, I got two floors. Now you

938
00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 3: saw a small mind. I'm a dog girl. I have

939
00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:42,360
Speaker 3: a small ship to and she's like listen. All I

940
00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:43,840
Speaker 3: know is I was just glad that the house. Did

941
00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:50,319
Speaker 3: my dog coco coca like chocolate. Like I was like, spoke, yeah,

942
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:52,640
Speaker 3: like butter, cocoa, butter. That's why you said coco I'm like,

943
00:41:52,960 --> 00:42:02,319
Speaker 3: you spoke cocoa. That's like okay, Like witch, how else

944
00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:02,880
Speaker 3: do you spoke?

945
00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:03,960
Speaker 1: Okay? Okay.

946
00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:08,600
Speaker 3: Now again, because this is a themed episode, I wanted

947
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:12,360
Speaker 3: to get into period. I'm excited. I'm excited for it.

948
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 1: Girls.

949
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:17,440
Speaker 3: I am a pumpkin bitch, and that's just are you

950
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:20,360
Speaker 3: a pumpkin? I mean, first of potato p gl it

951
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 3: is the same thing, and I'm not gonna have this

952
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:26,440
Speaker 3: every year, potato pine pump they taste the fucking say.

953
00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:27,560
Speaker 1: I actually don't think they do.

954
00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:30,840
Speaker 3: I recently had a plump We're not gonna because squad,

955
00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 3: we're really about.

956
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:35,319
Speaker 1: We're not gonna do well.

957
00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:37,800
Speaker 3: It's probably I'm not an either, but I will have

958
00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:40,640
Speaker 3: a slice. It's around Pumpkin soup was discussed.

959
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:41,680
Speaker 4: Now why would you have that?

960
00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:44,279
Speaker 2: Because I thought butternut squash. When I saw somebody else

961
00:42:44,320 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 2: at the table with it, I was like, let me

962
00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:48,279
Speaker 2: have one of those, and I was like, I love

963
00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:50,920
Speaker 2: pumpkin soup. I love pumpkin spice, I love pumpkin coppo.

964
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:53,080
Speaker 2: They have pumpkin egg nog, so let me tell you,

965
00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:54,200
Speaker 2: I love everything pumpkin.

966
00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:57,320
Speaker 1: Biracial people have a thing that they like, right mineus

967
00:42:57,360 --> 00:42:57,759
Speaker 1: be two K.

968
00:42:59,520 --> 00:42:59,880
Speaker 6: There we go.

969
00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:04,240
Speaker 4: No, I really think y'a by racial.

970
00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:07,960
Speaker 2: I love that you forget forgetting that I don't forget

971
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:10,920
Speaker 2: to say something or Mandy says something that's questionable.

972
00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:14,719
Speaker 6: I realized pumpkin is questionable in the fall it is.

973
00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 1: I black people have cats.

974
00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:19,919
Speaker 5: Well, I know a lot of white people black people,

975
00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:22,080
Speaker 5: they normally have black cats. But I love there's something

976
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:23,160
Speaker 5: special about an orange cats.

977
00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:26,440
Speaker 3: Orange cats are something about Yeah they are special spectral

978
00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:28,399
Speaker 3: this orange cats.

979
00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:35,440
Speaker 4: But yeah, I'm most definitely a sweet mayonnaise usage.

980
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 2: Every loading on mayonnaise on ship or likes it or

981
00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:44,319
Speaker 2: be ranchy type people all the time.

982
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 1: They be like, yo, what is this?

983
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:47,960
Speaker 3: That's the other that's the other thing where I lean

984
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:50,759
Speaker 3: on the other spect do not give me ranch blue cheese.

985
00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:54,439
Speaker 5: I actually think y'all represent the spectrum racial very well.

986
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:58,360
Speaker 5: Like you're like like septum biracial and you're like black

987
00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:02,319
Speaker 5: black black biration So it's like, I totally see. It's

988
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:05,160
Speaker 5: really beautiful to see the range what.

989
00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:09,720
Speaker 2: You have septum by racial. And they all have boho

990
00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:14,919
Speaker 2: braids and stept them I mean all white guys. Steptrant

991
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:17,680
Speaker 2: is my twenties also black with like he got locks

992
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 2: and we're tatty saying, but he did say, yo, if

993
00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:22,759
Speaker 2: go either way, you think they got a nigga, like me,

994
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:23,920
Speaker 2: what do they got?

995
00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:25,080
Speaker 1: White?

996
00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:28,240
Speaker 5: And then like the black versions you dating Zach Fox.

997
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:33,479
Speaker 5: I feel like Zach Fox with data septum biracial would

998
00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:34,239
Speaker 5: for sure.

999
00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:40,400
Speaker 4: I mean he's married Asian. Yes, yes, yes, I mean yeah, yeah.

1000
00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:43,279
Speaker 3: So either black guy the biracial to date who makes

1001
00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:46,520
Speaker 3: all black Steve Lacy, but yeah, white man.

1002
00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:49,959
Speaker 4: Yeah he's a white the white Yeah, it's true.

1003
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:51,080
Speaker 1: You know what's crazy?

1004
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:54,840
Speaker 3: Out with the Obama sisters the other night in l

1005
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:57,719
Speaker 3: a and all like they're always out, like they do

1006
00:44:57,800 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 3: be out.

1007
00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:02,000
Speaker 1: But when I saw them, I was like, that's all

1008
00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:02,479
Speaker 1: I thought.

1009
00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:05,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, Like I think Malaiya likes someone who loves a

1010
00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:09,320
Speaker 5: good cigarette, not like loves a good cigarette or like

1011
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:12,520
Speaker 5: they're putting the stuff in the list, Like I feel

1012
00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:14,279
Speaker 5: like she thinks, like what's the thing?

1013
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 3: They My racial girls that live in New York were

1014
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:19,279
Speaker 3: cigarette gang for sure, Like it just comes with the

1015
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:21,280
Speaker 3: outfit in the attitude cigarettes.

1016
00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:23,800
Speaker 1: Bro, I'm you're a you're a girl. What do you

1017
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:24,600
Speaker 1: think I'm do in Paris?

1018
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:27,520
Speaker 5: Do you think I just talk to people. I mean,

1019
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:30,720
Speaker 5: I just don't understand why there's a cigarette when weed exist.

1020
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:33,240
Speaker 3: I thought millennials gave up like we I thought millennials

1021
00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:34,080
Speaker 3: didn't smoke cigarettes.

1022
00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:38,160
Speaker 1: I don't think probably. Okay, okay, this is the thing.

1023
00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:39,280
Speaker 4: If you're Blueberry Bake.

1024
00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:41,719
Speaker 1: I don't buy cigarettes. I'm girl that's outside. Oh my god,

1025
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:42,640
Speaker 1: can I get one?

1026
00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:43,040
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1027
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:45,600
Speaker 2: Now, Like what I will say though about cigarette and

1028
00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:49,520
Speaker 2: vape culture, I do think vaping is so weird.

1029
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:51,360
Speaker 1: So I don't understand why people do it.

1030
00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:53,759
Speaker 2: And I understand why teenagers smoke cigarettes back in because

1031
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:55,400
Speaker 2: it actually does look there's an aesthetic.

1032
00:45:56,040 --> 00:45:58,759
Speaker 3: But the vape looks kiddyish to me. Maybe that's one

1033
00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:01,279
Speaker 3: trauma for me. I like how you were mad at

1034
00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:04,279
Speaker 3: the poncho and boots. I would go to guy for

1035
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:06,280
Speaker 3: pulling out a pack of cigarettes and smoking that's happening.

1036
00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:06,800
Speaker 1: I don't want to.

1037
00:46:06,800 --> 00:46:08,839
Speaker 6: I don't want to kiss the guy after they smoke

1038
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:09,880
Speaker 6: cigarette ciarettes.

1039
00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:11,680
Speaker 1: I don't want a leather biker.

1040
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:15,239
Speaker 5: Not for me. It's I don't I don't know if

1041
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:18,360
Speaker 5: I would long term date someone that smokes cigarette, but

1042
00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:19,360
Speaker 5: I would for sure.

1043
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:21,360
Speaker 4: Have a rendezvous with a cigarette smoking.

1044
00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:22,040
Speaker 1: You know, it's crazy.

1045
00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:24,040
Speaker 4: When they say not for about three weeks.

1046
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:25,960
Speaker 3: When they tell you, like when you go into like

1047
00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:28,840
Speaker 3: apartments and stuff like that, like it's non smoking. A

1048
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:31,920
Speaker 3: lot of times it's really for cigarettes because it literally

1049
00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:35,920
Speaker 3: no you go, that's one thing. It changes the color

1050
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:39,280
Speaker 3: of the wall wall, It's like it's disgusting.

1051
00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 1: But why are else are you smoking cigarettes in a house?

1052
00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1053
00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:45,080
Speaker 1: See that's like unt that's why there's.

1054
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:48,480
Speaker 3: As indoor smoking. Ash trays are for indoor smoking. Yeah,

1055
00:46:48,920 --> 00:46:50,520
Speaker 3: and people smoke inside for sure.

1056
00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:55,600
Speaker 1: Yeah. I didn't even think about that. Oh my god, I.

1057
00:46:57,360 --> 00:46:59,480
Speaker 2: Make I feel like someone just told me fish don't

1058
00:46:59,520 --> 00:47:04,080
Speaker 2: drink water? Are they just like it makes so much sense? Yeah,

1059
00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:06,279
Speaker 2: the ass is thin. Door spoke of it.

1060
00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:09,359
Speaker 1: I I mean we did.

1061
00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:11,840
Speaker 4: We've said b two K like three times.

1062
00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:17,359
Speaker 1: Not not if you say the book. I'm very judging

1063
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:18,200
Speaker 1: about cigarettes too.

1064
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:19,800
Speaker 2: Me and my nigga was fucking with this girl and

1065
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:22,440
Speaker 2: he was like her with the pack is crazy, Like

1066
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:24,520
Speaker 2: this miss take breaks me while we smoking with her

1067
00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:24,880
Speaker 2: that night.

1068
00:47:25,080 --> 00:47:29,000
Speaker 1: Oh wow, you should see me judging bt.

1069
00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:31,920
Speaker 2: K people Like, first of all, I'm a monthly party girl, bitch,

1070
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 2: what are you talking about?

1071
00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:33,080
Speaker 1: The nine am?

1072
00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:36,560
Speaker 5: And I just don't like the the I'm never going

1073
00:47:36,600 --> 00:47:37,839
Speaker 5: to do a drug where I feel like I don't

1074
00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:40,000
Speaker 5: have control of my body. And I think the girls

1075
00:47:40,040 --> 00:47:41,800
Speaker 5: that do it did they do the bump bump bumps,

1076
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:44,799
Speaker 5: they get like coke mouth are like like where their

1077
00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:47,120
Speaker 5: their mouths are little slanted. I feel like this about

1078
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:48,360
Speaker 5: and I just can't do that.

1079
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:49,160
Speaker 1: We don't.

1080
00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:52,359
Speaker 2: Weed makes me feel very like I think I get

1081
00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:55,440
Speaker 2: weird in person, and I feel like I get anxious, and.

1082
00:47:55,600 --> 00:48:01,520
Speaker 5: That's scept them by racial I'm diagnosed. I don't think

1083
00:48:01,600 --> 00:48:02,880
Speaker 5: that's I don't know.

1084
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:04,040
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1085
00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:06,799
Speaker 6: That's what I need.

1086
00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:07,640
Speaker 1: That paranoid.

1087
00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:11,480
Speaker 4: I know you and I I just want to say,

1088
00:48:11,520 --> 00:48:12,480
Speaker 4: you have been diagnosed.

1089
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:17,320
Speaker 1: Oh my godness anxiety that comes with being a future

1090
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:19,480
Speaker 1: and stuff. I'm like, totally, no, for sure.

1091
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:22,040
Speaker 4: You would have been great as a guest star on

1092
00:48:22,120 --> 00:48:25,719
Speaker 4: Grown Ish I work.

1093
00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:31,719
Speaker 1: I I'm just clocking right, you know what's crazy? Right

1094
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:32,759
Speaker 1: when I got hired, I.

1095
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:34,080
Speaker 2: Think I said it on this show, I was like,

1096
00:48:34,600 --> 00:48:36,239
Speaker 2: oh my god, they're gonna say, can you chose me?

1097
00:48:36,239 --> 00:48:41,279
Speaker 1: Because I'm probably I don't like but they didn't put

1098
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 1: my phone on. I'm somebody on and go find me.

1099
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:46,040
Speaker 2: Be like that bitch but you know what actually helped,

1100
00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:49,800
Speaker 2: Horrible Decisions is so culturally relevant that black people in

1101
00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:51,400
Speaker 2: the space of podcasting that.

1102
00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:53,000
Speaker 1: They let me go. Thank you everybody.

1103
00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:55,880
Speaker 4: I love that this has been the card for you

1104
00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:58,799
Speaker 4: to be like, this is horrible Decisions. Is my black car.

1105
00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:00,960
Speaker 1: The black heart.

1106
00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:06,160
Speaker 3: I thought I wanted to get into three topics before

1107
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:09,560
Speaker 3: we get out of here, to speak about gratitude and thankfulness,

1108
00:49:09,920 --> 00:49:13,319
Speaker 3: but of course the decisions decisions slash horrible decisions way,

1109
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:16,880
Speaker 3: So we're gonna talk gratitude and dating, gratitude and relationships,

1110
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:17,719
Speaker 3: and gratitude and sex.

1111
00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:21,239
Speaker 6: Okay, okay, okay, but in the in the best way.

1112
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:24,320
Speaker 3: So for gratitude and dating, I would love for you

1113
00:49:24,440 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 3: to share a dating disaster that weirdly you're thankful for

1114
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:30,160
Speaker 3: because it taught you a lesson.

1115
00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:30,920
Speaker 1: Mmm.

1116
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:34,080
Speaker 4: Does that have to be a dating disaster.

1117
00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:36,560
Speaker 1: It could be a relationship. It could be a relationship too.

1118
00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:42,320
Speaker 5: I think I'm most grateful for my first real relationship

1119
00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:46,600
Speaker 5: same because it was I mean it was like fresh

1120
00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:48,840
Speaker 5: out of college and then we moved out here together.

1121
00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:52,319
Speaker 5: Well oh wow, that was like my first like real relationship.

1122
00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:56,160
Speaker 5: And there was infidelity on his side, and like there

1123
00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:58,239
Speaker 5: was just it was just we probably shouldn't have moved

1124
00:49:58,239 --> 00:49:58,680
Speaker 5: here together.

1125
00:49:58,800 --> 00:49:59,759
Speaker 1: It was just like a shit show.

1126
00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:02,799
Speaker 5: But if I'm being quite honest, like I don't want

1127
00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:04,840
Speaker 5: to be cliche, but that shit really taught me what

1128
00:50:05,880 --> 00:50:08,880
Speaker 5: I needed to know about I think I had this

1129
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:10,440
Speaker 5: idea of needing to be a ride or die in

1130
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:13,239
Speaker 5: any case, and his life was literally falling apart, and

1131
00:50:13,320 --> 00:50:15,879
Speaker 5: I felt like I just needed to be like there

1132
00:50:16,120 --> 00:50:18,680
Speaker 5: and like sacrifice a lot of my shit to like

1133
00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:19,560
Speaker 5: be there for him.

1134
00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:22,960
Speaker 4: And especially when when we got out.

1135
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:24,880
Speaker 5: Here and we were all trying to make it and

1136
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:28,960
Speaker 5: he just kind of like lost it and just was

1137
00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 5: cheating up a storm and doing his own.

1138
00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:31,520
Speaker 1: He was doing his big one.

1139
00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:33,719
Speaker 2: What stage in your relationship did you decide to like

1140
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:34,879
Speaker 2: take a leap and move together.

1141
00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:36,560
Speaker 1: How long had you been We had been together for

1142
00:50:37,200 --> 00:50:40,239
Speaker 1: three year, maybe four years? Okay lot? Yeah, yeah, Like

1143
00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:41,400
Speaker 1: we were together for a minute.

1144
00:50:41,560 --> 00:50:44,680
Speaker 5: And even though before we moved out here, I had

1145
00:50:44,680 --> 00:50:47,960
Speaker 5: found out he cheated on me and still did it

1146
00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:49,880
Speaker 5: and still did it. That's why I'm like, I'm so

1147
00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:52,239
Speaker 5: grateful for that relationship because it literally taught me what

1148
00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:54,600
Speaker 5: I will accept, what I want to accept hereious and

1149
00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 5: also it taught me what it actually means when I

1150
00:50:58,239 --> 00:51:01,040
Speaker 5: do end up like connecting with someone and what it

1151
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:03,400
Speaker 5: actually means for them to show like how they like

1152
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:05,360
Speaker 5: me and how they show up for me, because I

1153
00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:07,759
Speaker 5: never really experienced that. I remember being like, I was

1154
00:51:07,760 --> 00:51:09,359
Speaker 5: thinking about this the other day where I was like, oh,

1155
00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:11,359
Speaker 5: I used to like actually say I loved I feel

1156
00:51:11,400 --> 00:51:13,279
Speaker 5: like I was in love with this person, but like,

1157
00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:15,680
Speaker 5: I don't actually know if I was, like, I don't

1158
00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:18,360
Speaker 5: think that was actually a great representation of what love is.

1159
00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:20,800
Speaker 5: And I think if I didn't go through that relationship,

1160
00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:21,640
Speaker 5: I would not have known that.

1161
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:22,880
Speaker 1: Ooh, I like that.

1162
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:26,319
Speaker 3: It's funny because in terms of the the L word

1163
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:27,840
Speaker 3: I call it now, Yeah, I treat that shit like

1164
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:28,319
Speaker 3: the R word.

1165
00:51:28,360 --> 00:51:28,960
Speaker 1: I ain't say.

1166
00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:33,880
Speaker 3: Listen, I mean it's a normalize. Yeah, it's twenty twenty five.

1167
00:51:33,880 --> 00:51:34,880
Speaker 3: A lot of people are actually.

1168
00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:35,239
Speaker 4: Saying it's kind of you.

1169
00:51:35,280 --> 00:51:36,080
Speaker 1: No, it's coming back.

1170
00:51:36,160 --> 00:51:38,919
Speaker 4: It's like on South Park and everything real bad.

1171
00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:41,160
Speaker 1: They is saying it up a storm on that thing.

1172
00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:44,279
Speaker 3: But for me, when it comes to the L word,

1173
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:47,200
Speaker 3: I remember loosely saying it in my twenties or being

1174
00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:50,520
Speaker 3: so infatuated with like certain partners. Mind you that I

1175
00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:54,160
Speaker 3: wasn't exclusive with or committed to, but I like genuinely

1176
00:51:54,239 --> 00:51:57,680
Speaker 3: thought I l worded them. And it wasn't until how

1177
00:51:57,760 --> 00:52:02,480
Speaker 3: I felt in my first relationship that I saw different

1178
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:04,600
Speaker 3: parts of me that I could be that I'm now

1179
00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:07,960
Speaker 3: grateful for now, Like I'm grateful that I'm also grateful

1180
00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:09,839
Speaker 3: that I had it at an age that I could

1181
00:52:09,880 --> 00:52:12,759
Speaker 3: dissect because I know so many people can go back

1182
00:52:12,800 --> 00:52:16,440
Speaker 3: to these relationships in middle school, high school, or in

1183
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:20,480
Speaker 3: their early twenties. And for me, where I kind of

1184
00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:23,920
Speaker 3: was upset that it took so long quote unquote for

1185
00:52:24,000 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 3: me to be in a real relationship, I was really

1186
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:28,840
Speaker 3: glad that I was in a space of going to therapy,

1187
00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:32,919
Speaker 3: learning myself, overcoming the trauma of my twenties, and experiencing

1188
00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:38,560
Speaker 3: a love that, although got toxic as the relationship went through.

1189
00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:41,799
Speaker 3: I met you when I was on that roller coaster

1190
00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:45,040
Speaker 3: with him member, and there was just so many things

1191
00:52:45,120 --> 00:52:47,160
Speaker 3: that I'm glad through therapy that I learned to take

1192
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:51,759
Speaker 3: from it that I was grateful for, Like the main

1193
00:52:51,840 --> 00:52:54,400
Speaker 3: thing I think I got a he was all of

1194
00:52:54,440 --> 00:52:58,080
Speaker 3: the things over there, I need you if you were

1195
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:00,560
Speaker 3: like how the fuckers that plod over there he was,

1196
00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:02,360
Speaker 3: and I was like, what is that?

1197
00:53:03,400 --> 00:53:04,560
Speaker 4: I just need you to leave.

1198
00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:07,000
Speaker 3: Well, it wasn't even the Hotep as much as it

1199
00:53:07,200 --> 00:53:10,160
Speaker 3: was like uh and it could be leaning ho tep.

1200
00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:12,600
Speaker 3: So he aligned himself with the thoughts and views of

1201
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:16,759
Speaker 3: Kyrie Irving on some Israelite ship. Yeah, then freemasonship, flat

1202
00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:19,360
Speaker 3: earth ship, all the qualifications of being a whole.

1203
00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:20,080
Speaker 1: So there we go.

1204
00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:22,680
Speaker 4: I think that's like literally hotep one on one is

1205
00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:23,520
Speaker 4: I think.

1206
00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:25,640
Speaker 3: So, I don't know much about It's like a hotel.

1207
00:53:26,239 --> 00:53:27,320
Speaker 3: He didn't eat like Hotep.

1208
00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:31,520
Speaker 5: I mean, you've got a new age one, a modern hotel.

1209
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:32,960
Speaker 5: I love to see them off.

1210
00:53:33,360 --> 00:53:37,320
Speaker 2: Actually, nothing to think about it. Flat earthers, Damn. I

1211
00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:39,600
Speaker 2: don't put them in the hotepe ship. I do, but

1212
00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:41,640
Speaker 2: because so I'm hotel, because.

1213
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:43,319
Speaker 1: I like, are you okay?

1214
00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:43,759
Speaker 4: Well?

1215
00:53:43,960 --> 00:53:44,239
Speaker 1: You know what?

1216
00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:48,879
Speaker 4: Sometimes I just let Mandy say things and just sit

1217
00:53:49,000 --> 00:53:51,800
Speaker 4: with them and just you have to you have to.

1218
00:53:52,080 --> 00:53:54,520
Speaker 1: I just don't. I don't. I don't have to dive anyway.

1219
00:53:55,120 --> 00:53:58,360
Speaker 4: But I'm happy she vocal and she's like living in that.

1220
00:53:58,560 --> 00:54:01,759
Speaker 1: There's no way you've seriously, I can be.

1221
00:54:01,840 --> 00:54:04,680
Speaker 3: Off doing like there's a video now on YouTube. I'm

1222
00:54:04,680 --> 00:54:07,360
Speaker 3: gonna send it to you after set. The seventeen minutes

1223
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:12,600
Speaker 3: of watching it, you're going to like, question, it's not

1224
00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:14,560
Speaker 3: a spear this feareness.

1225
00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:16,000
Speaker 1: You will when.

1226
00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:20,280
Speaker 3: There have been airline travels. I know there's a pilot

1227
00:54:20,400 --> 00:54:22,840
Speaker 3: in here that explains it. So it's a documentary like

1228
00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:26,200
Speaker 3: a short document on YouTube. Is an airplane able to

1229
00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:29,759
Speaker 3: go from LA to Australia, But if New York goes

1230
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:32,040
Speaker 3: that way, it's long so so meeting.

1231
00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:32,480
Speaker 1: At the same point.

1232
00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:36,080
Speaker 3: So no, it's a half dome, it's not a full circle.

1233
00:54:37,160 --> 00:54:38,920
Speaker 1: That's what it is. But you understand that, don't do that.

1234
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:40,279
Speaker 1: I'm gonna show you. I'm going to show you.

1235
00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:42,320
Speaker 3: I'm going to show you that what a grateful for

1236
00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 3: there's flat parks on the art God damn. But they

1237
00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 3: also show us like science has shown us. I'm grateful

1238
00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:52,000
Speaker 3: for YouTube, bitch about that.

1239
00:54:52,600 --> 00:54:54,880
Speaker 4: And I'm grateful for both of them.

1240
00:54:54,920 --> 00:54:55,000
Speaker 5: Now.

1241
00:54:55,040 --> 00:54:58,000
Speaker 2: I understand we think the government lies all the time,

1242
00:54:58,120 --> 00:55:00,399
Speaker 2: but this thing is they make the weather.

1243
00:55:01,480 --> 00:55:05,600
Speaker 3: I told you that, like the Earth Watch Paradise not

1244
00:55:05,680 --> 00:55:10,160
Speaker 3: only paradise. So in Dubai, which I frequented many test

1245
00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:13,640
Speaker 3: you know the Earth is actually taking her there because

1246
00:55:13,680 --> 00:55:15,279
Speaker 3: it's I'm not gonna lie.

1247
00:55:15,360 --> 00:55:19,160
Speaker 1: I can't even like holler bitches over there. I can't

1248
00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:20,560
Speaker 1: even tell a bit she's pretty because.

1249
00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:23,000
Speaker 4: Everyone over hear me. It's like else my septum ring

1250
00:55:23,040 --> 00:55:23,279
Speaker 4: and be.

1251
00:55:23,320 --> 00:55:29,480
Speaker 1: Like when I got my septum, my mom was like,

1252
00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:33,720
Speaker 1: you think gay for years? Why did you get it now? Okay?

1253
00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:36,040
Speaker 6: So gratitude and sex, Okay, I want all of us

1254
00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:36,839
Speaker 6: to get into this one.

1255
00:55:37,320 --> 00:55:39,480
Speaker 4: What are you gratitude for the first one?

1256
00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:40,000
Speaker 1: Did we say?

1257
00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:40,759
Speaker 5: What is it?

1258
00:55:40,920 --> 00:55:41,040
Speaker 1: Oh?

1259
00:55:41,120 --> 00:55:45,719
Speaker 2: I would say, speaking of dating relationship, my first real

1260
00:55:45,800 --> 00:55:49,280
Speaker 2: relationship with a woman. I had always had the idea

1261
00:55:49,360 --> 00:55:51,879
Speaker 2: that romantic love, like the height of it, would only

1262
00:55:51,920 --> 00:55:54,080
Speaker 2: come from men for me, and I always thought there

1263
00:55:54,160 --> 00:55:56,480
Speaker 2: had to be this like ones on top.

1264
00:55:56,280 --> 00:55:56,920
Speaker 1: Ones on the bottom.

1265
00:55:57,000 --> 00:55:59,520
Speaker 2: Not even trying to be pnny here, but like, seriously,

1266
00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:03,680
Speaker 2: there is such thing as finding a romantic love and

1267
00:56:03,719 --> 00:56:06,000
Speaker 2: a deep connection where both pursuits are mutual.

1268
00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:08,160
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, Bobby lifting their legs.

1269
00:56:08,520 --> 00:56:11,600
Speaker 2: But I don't think that it could happen because I thought, oh,

1270
00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:13,520
Speaker 2: one is going to have to say it first. I

1271
00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:15,560
Speaker 2: was so used to the way men treated me, the

1272
00:56:15,640 --> 00:56:17,600
Speaker 2: waiting game, like, I just thought it would never happen.

1273
00:56:17,680 --> 00:56:18,520
Speaker 1: So now that I saw it.

1274
00:56:18,920 --> 00:56:23,400
Speaker 2: I realized there's a genuinity in queer relationships and in

1275
00:56:23,560 --> 00:56:27,200
Speaker 2: how I saw them, Like I always was confused about

1276
00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:28,239
Speaker 2: how deep it would go for me.

1277
00:56:28,400 --> 00:56:30,200
Speaker 1: Was that heterosexual, hetero romantic?

1278
00:56:30,280 --> 00:56:30,680
Speaker 3: What wasn't?

1279
00:56:31,400 --> 00:56:34,800
Speaker 1: Now it actually made my bonds with men stronger.

1280
00:56:35,280 --> 00:56:39,279
Speaker 5: Interesting, So you you still want to be with Like

1281
00:56:39,360 --> 00:56:41,560
Speaker 5: you're still like you're dating a man right now? Right?

1282
00:56:41,680 --> 00:56:41,839
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1283
00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:43,239
Speaker 4: Oh okay, work, I love that for you.

1284
00:56:43,480 --> 00:56:46,160
Speaker 2: We think women together, but not romantically, not as serious.

1285
00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:48,239
Speaker 2: But sometimes they'll say to me.

1286
00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:49,200
Speaker 4: Like, is he queer?

1287
00:56:49,400 --> 00:56:50,200
Speaker 1: Do you date queer man?

1288
00:56:50,400 --> 00:56:52,560
Speaker 2: No, I date queer man, but he's not queer. But

1289
00:56:52,640 --> 00:56:54,520
Speaker 2: he has said to me pretty often that he thinks

1290
00:56:54,800 --> 00:56:56,640
Speaker 2: I'm mainly gay. He's like, I think you just really

1291
00:56:56,680 --> 00:56:58,600
Speaker 2: want a family. I feel like you're more gay. You

1292
00:56:58,680 --> 00:57:01,239
Speaker 2: do a lot of gay shit that like just does

1293
00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:03,200
Speaker 2: it sometimes out of He's like, the way that you act.

1294
00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:04,719
Speaker 2: He's like, if you're drunk, you don't even look at

1295
00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:09,000
Speaker 2: niggas anymore. You just lose the inhibition and be like boom,

1296
00:57:09,160 --> 00:57:11,160
Speaker 2: hyper focus on women. He's like, and to me, that's

1297
00:57:11,239 --> 00:57:15,040
Speaker 2: like the biggest truth teller, Whereas I'm like, no, maybe

1298
00:57:15,040 --> 00:57:16,920
Speaker 2: I'm just ready. Was he tonight and I wasn't at

1299
00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:17,440
Speaker 2: three pm.

1300
00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:20,400
Speaker 3: I did explain that I actually had to explain that

1301
00:57:20,560 --> 00:57:22,240
Speaker 3: in the in the in our book no holes part

1302
00:57:22,320 --> 00:57:25,840
Speaker 3: get it now, I had to explain that I was

1303
00:57:26,320 --> 00:57:31,280
Speaker 3: bisexual and hetero romantic because I have zero desire whatsoever

1304
00:57:31,800 --> 00:57:34,520
Speaker 3: to date a woman, to be with a woman, like

1305
00:57:34,640 --> 00:57:37,640
Speaker 3: that's my brain literally doesn't see it possibly happening. But

1306
00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:41,720
Speaker 3: I love eating couci and being sexual with a woman.

1307
00:57:42,200 --> 00:57:45,800
Speaker 3: And so what's funny right now is you know I

1308
00:57:45,840 --> 00:57:50,480
Speaker 3: got the two boyfriends my third that it's not it's

1309
00:57:50,520 --> 00:57:53,440
Speaker 3: long distance, so it's really right. I love it, But

1310
00:57:53,600 --> 00:57:57,240
Speaker 3: I would love my third boyfriend. Final I think three.

1311
00:57:58,000 --> 00:57:58,840
Speaker 3: I had four one time.

1312
00:57:58,880 --> 00:57:59,320
Speaker 1: That was a lot.

1313
00:57:59,800 --> 00:58:02,080
Speaker 3: Now meant to an impossible the possible. I would love

1314
00:58:02,240 --> 00:58:05,160
Speaker 3: to be bisexual, Like I'm in an era where especially

1315
00:58:05,280 --> 00:58:08,680
Speaker 3: like being a bisexual woman. I would love to just

1316
00:58:08,800 --> 00:58:12,120
Speaker 3: be with a bisexual man who is confident, comfortable.

1317
00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:13,400
Speaker 6: I've only met like.

1318
00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:17,000
Speaker 3: Two in my whole life, but like, I just would

1319
00:58:17,200 --> 00:58:20,000
Speaker 3: really like to be with someone that I can explore

1320
00:58:20,280 --> 00:58:22,840
Speaker 3: all the things sexually, that we could be open about

1321
00:58:23,040 --> 00:58:24,760
Speaker 3: the things we enjoy about both sexes.

1322
00:58:25,120 --> 00:58:26,720
Speaker 1: Like there's just something that is.

1323
00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:32,720
Speaker 3: So literally literally no holes barred at all, all the holes.

1324
00:58:32,480 --> 00:58:34,680
Speaker 6: For the taking an ear a nose.

1325
00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:36,560
Speaker 1: I want everything, you know what I mean.

1326
00:58:36,760 --> 00:58:39,280
Speaker 4: And so I don't know what you would do with

1327
00:58:39,360 --> 00:58:39,640
Speaker 4: an ear.

1328
00:58:39,880 --> 00:58:42,160
Speaker 3: I don't even blowing and blowing like a blow job,

1329
00:58:42,320 --> 00:58:45,440
Speaker 3: nigga blowing an ear when I tell you the sensation

1330
00:58:45,560 --> 00:58:46,680
Speaker 3: I've had an ear orgularly.

1331
00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:48,280
Speaker 1: I've talked about it on this pot.

1332
00:58:48,280 --> 00:58:49,680
Speaker 4: I mean I have to, but I've used a cute tap.

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Speaker 1: Oh my, you know what I'm not.

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Speaker 3: Now that does know the right My lag has shook

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Speaker 3: a little bit, absolutely.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: So the last one is gratitude in sex. Okay, what

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Speaker 3: is something you used to be embarrassed about that now

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Speaker 3: you're grateful you explored.

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Speaker 1: Ooh maybe it changed you know, your mind.

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Speaker 5: To be quite honest, I actually used to be embarrassed

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Speaker 5: about sex a lot, like all together, like I used to.

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Speaker 5: I think it's because of the way that I grew

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Speaker 5: up and being religious, like I was always like shamed

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Speaker 5: and shunned around like being a sexual being. And I

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Speaker 5: think once I like unlearned all of that, and once

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Speaker 5: I look like leaned into the fact that I know

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Speaker 5: I'm like a fully sexual being that loves to like

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Speaker 5: dick and nut and all things you know, like it's

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Speaker 5: it's it's it's actually really beautiful for me, and it's like, hey,

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Speaker 5: it allows me to carry myself in a way, not

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Speaker 5: saying that I'm still not like working through some of

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Speaker 5: my like I have to feel comfortable with someone. That's

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Speaker 5: there's a lot of trust that comes with that, right,

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Speaker 5: because you I just can't be fully free and open

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Speaker 5: in the ways.

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Speaker 1: That I'm just with anyone.

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Speaker 5: But when I have that trust with someone and it's there,

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Speaker 5: I'm like, oh my god, let's try anything once, except

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Speaker 5: for anything.

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Speaker 4: That has smells.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I agree with that. Yeah, I can't.

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Speaker 5: Smells or things or things that are coming out waiting

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Speaker 5: is well not that's not nut well BV like like

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Speaker 5: uh like like scat play or oh yeah, I don't death,

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Speaker 5: I don't do smegma And yeah, I'm also not a

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Speaker 5: musty girl like.

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Speaker 4: I don't like, I don't like musks me neither not.

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Speaker 1: I need to be clean. I need to feel like

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Speaker 1: the dove cocoa butter. That's why you named yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: my baby is clean. Period. Well, I'm gonna make this

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Speaker 1: really quick.

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Speaker 3: I think for me, when it comes to sex, it

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Speaker 3: would be public sex. So exploring the sex clubs and

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Speaker 3: things that I thought like we didn't like that were

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Speaker 3: completely completely taboo. I love that I'm now in communities

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Speaker 3: and spaces where it's normalized, like yeah, like we're gonna

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Speaker 3: go to the sux club. I think public sex and

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Speaker 3: being able to be a voyeur and exhibitionist has been

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Speaker 3: like the one thing that I was just like, oh,

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Speaker 3: I can't imagine having someone see me do this. Oh

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Speaker 3: now you put on a sheltually, And I'm grateful that

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Speaker 3: I've been able to experience that.

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Speaker 1: But then, well, and mature easy and it's so hard.

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Speaker 1: Mine is basic?

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Speaker 2: Now why because the only thing that keeps coming to

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Speaker 2: my mind about gratitude is just body. So I felt like,

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Speaker 2: now this may sound like some whole shit. The more

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Speaker 2: women I slept with, the more comfortable I was with

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Speaker 2: my own body. And I think it's because not like

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Speaker 2: anything was wrong with their but let's just say I

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Speaker 2: slept with a girl who was skinnier than me, or

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Speaker 2: thicker than me or whatever it was. They just were

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Speaker 2: more confident, and I'm like, damn all this shit. I

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Speaker 2: think I remember one woman I dated dated that was

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Speaker 2: a mom and she had this huge c sections card

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Speaker 2: that I remember thinking she would even talk to me

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Speaker 2: about because that's how big it was.

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Speaker 1: Nope, she was fully naked, having taken my hand.

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Speaker 2: I could literally feel it, and I remember being like, damn,

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Speaker 2: she doesn't give a fuck, Like I really thought if

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Speaker 2: this was me, wouldn't be the same. So I would say,

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Speaker 2: like getting to explore women's bodies, because I'm just not

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Speaker 2: the person that would look at someone and be like, ew.

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Speaker 4: Wait it's so beautiful.

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Speaker 2: Audege but like with body like you know, I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: judge that outfit poncho.

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. That may be the lesson from

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: The cis me see that sexy bodyg good lack bye

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Speaker 1: Off