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Speaker 1: It's a fresh show.

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Speaker 2: It's Kiki's court, Okay, all right, they honorable Kiki's here

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Speaker 2: on a different day.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I know we're switching gears.

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Speaker 3: Okay, switch say well look.

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Speaker 2: Because we weren't here on Monday, and the people won

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Speaker 2: Kiki's course, and they're gonna get it, all right, they

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Speaker 2: gotta have it.

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Speaker 1: I already knew how the case on the docket. Take

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Speaker 1: it away.

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Speaker 4: Plenty of cases. All right, let's get into it. This

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Speaker 4: case says hey Keikei. My husband sixty four and I

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Speaker 4: sixty five, have been married for twenty years. We have

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Speaker 4: two daughters, Allison and Jenna. My daughter's recently received an

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Speaker 4: inheritance from their grandfather of close to one million.

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Speaker 3: Dollars each each.

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Speaker 1: What up, people, man?

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Speaker 4: While my husband and I received nothing. So far, in

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Speaker 4: my opinion, they have been responsible with the money. Allison

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Speaker 4: is married and saving a big portion of her money

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Speaker 4: for retirement in her son's education, while my other daughter, Jenna,

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Speaker 4: is a single mom of three. My husband, though, has

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Speaker 4: gotten very upset lately about the help that I'm giving

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Speaker 4: Alison with babysity my grandson.

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Speaker 3: Before after school three days a week.

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Speaker 4: My husband says, I should be getting paid for the

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Speaker 4: food my grandson eats while he's at our house and

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Speaker 4: the time that I spend babysitting him. He wants me

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Speaker 4: to change our charge our daughter and her husband for

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Speaker 4: babysitting our grandson because he's upset that they haven't offered

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Speaker 4: to give us any of her inheritance since he since

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Speaker 4: they know that we are barely making it. He got

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Speaker 4: so aggravated after seeing a coloring book and toys that

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Speaker 4: I bought for our grandson that he said, I'm no

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Speaker 4: longer allowed to babysit them and unless my daughter pays us.

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Speaker 4: So now my daughter has just enrolled my grandson in

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Speaker 4: daycare and I'm missing out on that time.

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Speaker 3: That I used to spend with him. I don't know

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Speaker 1: Hm, Yeah, eight.

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Speaker 2: Three five is the number to call, because you guys

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Speaker 2: are the jury. Kiki, what say you judge?

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Speaker 1: Kiki?

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Speaker 3: Well, what did y'all do to grandpa?

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Speaker 4: Because why did Grandpa leave a million dollars each to

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Speaker 4: his grandchildren and nothing for his actual grandson or daughter

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Speaker 4: like or his actual daughter or son like?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 2: Maybe he figured they were old enough and established enough

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Speaker 2: that they should have their own money. And he's taking

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Speaker 2: care of the next generation, or maybe they cared for

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Speaker 2: him when he was old. You know, who knows. Maybe

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Speaker 2: there's a reason why, or maybe he gave them enough already.

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Speaker 2: We don't know what people was doing, yeah while he

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Speaker 2: was alive. Yeah, sure, that's a very good point.

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Speaker 3: That's a good point.

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Speaker 4: But then to know that your parents are barely making

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Speaker 4: it buy you just got a million dollars, you could.

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Speaker 2: Come on and you're using free daycare. I gotta say

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Speaker 2: that my gut, I think you and I are going

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Speaker 2: to see id eye on this. I think you got

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Speaker 2: to offer to pay these people like something, help them out,

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Speaker 2: you know, because if they if they're barely getting by

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Speaker 2: and you have a lot of money and you're using

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Speaker 2: them for free childcare, right, the least you could do

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Speaker 2: is say, hey, can I toss you something for the

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Speaker 2: toys you're buying for him? Because I have the money

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Speaker 2: exactly and now now they're spending way more to send

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Speaker 1: They could have said, hey, I'll tell you what.

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Speaker 2: I'll give you half what I would what I would

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Speaker 2: give the daycare and everybody wins here. You get quality

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's just so unfortunately the grandfather has like

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Speaker 4: probably heartbroken about this, like what do you mean I

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Speaker 2: And I don't Rachel, good morning, Welcome to the key

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Speaker 2: host court on the French show.

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Speaker 1: How you doing good? How are you very well? What

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Speaker 1: do you think?

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Speaker 6: Okay, So this is a touchy subject.

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Speaker 5: I currently pay my mom to watch my three children.

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Speaker 5: She's retired on a low income single so I do

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Speaker 5: think it should at least be offered, but I don't

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like he's more angry that he didn't get

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Speaker 2: that you know how much it costs for a sandwich

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Speaker 6: Right, it sounds like they have this money, why can't

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Speaker 6: they pay us? But you know daycare. I'm not gonna why,

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Speaker 6: Like daycare is the second mortgage.

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Speaker 1: That's what I mean.

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Speaker 2: So how hard would it be then for you know,

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Speaker 2: I don't know grandpa and grandma to go back to

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Speaker 2: the daughter and say, we have a misunderstanding here, and

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Speaker 2: we know how much you're paying for this daycare, which

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Speaker 2: is very expensive. Can we can you give us a

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Speaker 2: little bit of that, you know, and we'll do it

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Speaker 2: and do a better job. And it would just help

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Speaker 2: us because we don't have a lot of extra money

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Speaker 2: to be taking this side.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and everybody like, hey.

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Speaker 6: Here's here's some snacks for the week, like not even money,

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Speaker 6: like give them the food that the baby or the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good point too.

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Speaker 7: I would never expect.

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Speaker 6: My mom to feed my kids like and then not

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Speaker 6: reimburse her for that. Okay, the groceries are expensive, so

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Speaker 6: if you're not going to pay your parents, so watch

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Speaker 6: your kids run. You have to help out somewhere. We

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Speaker 2: I agree, and if they have a little bit of

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Speaker 2: don't why don't you help a little bit? You don't

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Speaker 2: have to pay them this time is the daycare. But yeah,

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Speaker 2: thank you, have a great day, Thanks too too. Glad

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Speaker 2: you called? Hey Liz, Yeah night, Hey Liz, how you doing.

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Speaker 2: What do you think?

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Speaker 8: So?

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Speaker 7: I at first was on the side of the daughter.

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Speaker 7: I feel like grandparents should kind of help out their

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Speaker 7: children with their grandchildren. Maybe it's just my cultural thing,

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Speaker 7: and my mom helps up with my baby. But once

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Speaker 7: I heard that she is paying for daycare right and

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Speaker 7: instead of saying, you know, mom, you know you have

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Speaker 7: been helping out, Like here's three hundred bucks a week,

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Speaker 7: nothing compared to what you're paying today right now, I

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Speaker 7: think that's a little messed up.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I think so too, because she could again, she

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Speaker 2: maybe could offer half of that to the grandparents and

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Speaker 2: then everybody wins. But again, I think this is a

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Speaker 2: bigger issue. I don't know if there's any amount of

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Speaker 2: he feels that he got left out of two million dollars, right,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean?

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Speaker 5: The grandkids have to suffer in that though, you know

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Speaker 5: what I mean, like because you need that relationship.

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Speaker 1: No, you're right.

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Speaker 2: I think ultimately it's the grandkids that are paying the

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Speaker 2: price for this, right, and they don't have anything.

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Speaker 1: To do with it.

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Speaker 7: And the grammar who's now like she's on that relationship.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I do wonder do we know if there's

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Speaker 2: been any form of conversation about it, Like do we

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Speaker 2: know if maybe the daughter's not familiar with help dire

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Speaker 2: their parents hurt parents' financial situation is, So maybe if

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Speaker 2: there was a conversation about it, like hey, we could

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Speaker 4: And that's what I'm thinking, that there's a lack of

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Speaker 4: doesn't want to have the conversation. But also just me knowing,

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Speaker 4: like my I always know my parents' situation, Like my sister,

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Speaker 4: I care about what her financial status is.

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Speaker 3: I think about her. I want to help her anyway

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Speaker 4: So just to imagine that I got a million dollar

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Speaker 4: are you guys okay, do you need something?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Can I talk to you a little bit about money

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Speaker 2: each month to help with this? Thank you, Liz, have

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Speaker 2: a great day. I mean, you rely on your in

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Speaker 9: Yeah, we paid just like when Ashton before he was

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Speaker 9: even every day before he got older. But we we

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Speaker 9: set up something. We you know, we did.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, we have a conversation with her. It's not

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Speaker 9: I feel like a parent's never gonna ask, right, But.

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Speaker 2: You're talking about diapers, you're talking about food, you're talking

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Speaker 2: about entertainment, you know, and that all adds up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure. It's way cheaper than daycare.

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Speaker 9: And that's why we're very lucky to have family close by. Yeah,

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Speaker 9: we set something up or like, you know, we wanted

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Speaker 9: to pay her more and she was like, no, just

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Speaker 9: pay me this, this is fine. Uh, you know, I

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Speaker 9: got everything else covered. So I mean, the conversation has

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Speaker 9: to be from the parents end. Like I don't feel

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Speaker 9: to be from the daughters.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, I used to go to her parents and offer.

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Speaker 9: Right, It's not like like my dad would never be like, hey,

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Speaker 9: here's your bill. You're right, I need, I need. I'm

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Speaker 9: gonna watch a kid. I need like two hundred dollars

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Speaker 9: a week. But it's never gonna.

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Speaker 3: Happen like that.

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Speaker 4: But there are people that definitely take advantage of their parents,

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Speaker 4: Like you know, there's people that I see that just

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Speaker 4: drop their kids off with the parents and go live

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Speaker 4: their life and don't even have the courtesy to call

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Speaker 4: and make sure the kid ate today. You know, it's

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Speaker 4: if people really abuse grandparents sometimes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, hey Chloe, oh my gracious, Oh my goodness, gracious,

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Speaker 2: what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Is it okay?

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Speaker 8: I love I am. I didn't think you were.

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Speaker 2: Going to pick up Well, Chloe knew is you? I

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Speaker 2: had to pick up it was you, Chloe, I mean,

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Speaker 2: how could I not?

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Speaker 8: Oh? You guys are awesome. I love you guys.

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Speaker 2: Well, thank you so much. What do you think about

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Speaker 2: the case here? Keiki's courted Just to recap quickly, then

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Speaker 2: we got to go. But two million bucks from an

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Speaker 2: inheritance that skip parents went to grandkid or I guess

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Speaker 2: went to kids. Yeah, and the kids are going to

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Speaker 2: the grandparents for childcare, and Grandpa is like, this is

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Speaker 2: this is too much. We're spending too much on these grandkids.

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Speaker 2: They have a lot of money. Why aren't they giving

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Speaker 2: watch the kids anymore because we're not getting any help

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Speaker 1: What do you think?

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Speaker 8: I feel like Grandpa needs to stand his lane. I

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Speaker 8: have a new nephew and the time is so precious

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Speaker 8: with having little ones, and I get it, like nowadays

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Speaker 8: money is a struggle and all the things, but to

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Speaker 8: have that quality time and Grandma doesn't seem like she

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Speaker 8: has an issue with it, I'd be like my mom.

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Speaker 8: She is she loves being a grandma. And if you

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Speaker 8: were to tell her that she can't watch my nephew,

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Speaker 8: oh my god, you want to lose her? Should lose

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Speaker 8: your mind?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I feel like I get it.

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Speaker 8: Money's tight and like someone else said before, to offer

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Speaker 8: to say, hey, we could you know, bring snacks or

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Speaker 8: offer some type of money, but no, I think I

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Speaker 8: think just like grandma watched the kids.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's a I think it's a basic

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Speaker 2: conversation that could be had and everybody could win. But again,

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Speaker 2: I think the issue is much bigger. I think Grandpa's

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Speaker 2: pissed that he's not rich. I don't think there's anything

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Speaker 2: to do with you know, lunchables or yeah, you know,

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Speaker 2: bigger thing. But you're right, he's gonna miss out on

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Speaker 2: his grandkids and grandma's paying the price.

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Speaker 1: What's that.

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Speaker 8: Whether it's his dad or his father in law. It's

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Speaker 8: his father in law. I mean, he really has no

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Speaker 8: saying it.

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Speaker 5: If it's his.

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Speaker 8: Dad, I mean he has some deep down I feel like.

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Speaker 3: Trauma he needs to go to therapy talk about.

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Speaker 8: And he's kind of take it out on the kids.

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Speaker 2: And like skipping generations in wills and stuff is not uncommon.

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Speaker 2: You know, people will help the further generation because it's like, well,

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Speaker 2: my kids don't need it because they grew up with me.

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Speaker 1: So like I hooked him up already, you know, So

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Speaker 1: I say.

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Speaker 7: This, God forbid.

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Speaker 8: I mean when my parents passed away, I would say,

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Speaker 8: like they would skip me and my brother and they

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Speaker 8: would give it to the my nephew.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna say, I've got terrible news from my sister.

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Speaker 2: She's not gonna want to read my will when something

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Speaker 2: happens to me.

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Speaker 1: Polly is rich, and this is what I'm saying.

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Speaker 9: Also, like the grandpa's doing it wrong because he should

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Speaker 9: get really close with his grandson because that money's gonna

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Speaker 9: come to.

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Speaker 1: The grandson and it'll be like full sarget. And by

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Speaker 1: the way, Chloe, thank you so much for Colin. We

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Speaker 1: got to run. Have a good day.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Chloe, love you bye. No, that's and look

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Speaker 2: at Rufeo. Look at rufee over here. He's figured it out.

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Speaker 2: Don't be a grandpa. To be a grandpa, be a

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Speaker 2: grandpa because you might get paid.

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