WEBVTT - “I STOLE HER FAMILY PHOTOS”

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, what's your name? Squire?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh, you can give me a name.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, I'm gonna call you Ethan, Ethan? What's up?

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<v Speaker 1>How can I how can I be on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>with you today?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's still on a crazy past twenty four hours, young.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell me why and.

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<v Speaker 3>How?

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<v Speaker 2>So? I just had an.

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<v Speaker 4>Ex girlfriend from.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a long story.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if you want to take it back

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<v Speaker 2>ten years ago and then, uh, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>you saw my message saying it was wrong for me

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<v Speaker 2>to steal her family pictures out of anchor.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, you mentioned that you you stole your ex

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<v Speaker 1>girlfriend's family photos? Now, well how many did you steal?

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<v Speaker 2>A full album? And whatever was on the wall, just.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you were, was this from her place or like

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<v Speaker 1>her mom's place or what was this?

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<v Speaker 2>This was her place I was, I was living with her,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was just like, Uh, so, I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>if we if we take it back. I guess ten

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<v Speaker 2>years ago we met, I was married, and uh, we

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<v Speaker 2>kind of we were trying to do a little fuck

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<v Speaker 2>buddy situation and it didn't work out. We ended up

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<v Speaker 2>catching feelings and I was still married, so it didn't

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<v Speaker 2>it didn't It wasn't working for her. So we broke off.

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<v Speaker 2>Ten years later, I'm single, I made up my my life,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, started up my own company, and uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I was doing pretty good. So she comes in back

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<v Speaker 2>into my life ten years later, and she pretty much

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<v Speaker 2>after I committed giving up my dogs, my shop. She

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<v Speaker 2>tells me she wasn't ready for relationships, you know. So

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<v Speaker 2>I have her photos and I'm thinking about burning them

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<v Speaker 2>and sending them back to her so she could feel

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<v Speaker 2>the same pain I felt when my.

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<v Speaker 4>Dog got put down.

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<v Speaker 2>So and I was a pretty pretty big story to

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<v Speaker 2>take on right now. That's where I'm.

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<v Speaker 4>At right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm confused on several aspects of this. The first

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<v Speaker 1>one is why did you have to what we'll get there,

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<v Speaker 1>why did you have to kill your dog to be

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship with this woman?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, uh, I was moving back. I was trying to

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<v Speaker 2>move into her state and I couldn't find I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>know this was a high risk killed shelter dog location.

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<v Speaker 6>And uh I was.

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<v Speaker 2>I was on the timeline, let's just say so, me

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<v Speaker 2>not thinking what type of stock shelter I took them too,

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<v Speaker 2>ended up finding out like two or three months later

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<v Speaker 2>that you know, they got put dog.

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<v Speaker 1>So so you get all right, so you so this

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<v Speaker 1>woman comes back into your life. She lives how how

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<v Speaker 1>many states over does she live?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh, we'll stayed over a bit. That is this is

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<v Speaker 2>about you know, over three over it's from I'm in Portland,

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<v Speaker 2>So she's in California, right like la? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? And you gave this dog up to a shelter.

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<v Speaker 1>Why do they do that? Is that a thing? You

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<v Speaker 1>give a dog up for adoption or to a shelter

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<v Speaker 1>and they just they fucking kill it? Is that really happen?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, they gotta they gotta find a house for them.

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<v Speaker 2>They can't find a recoming home. They you know, depending

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<v Speaker 2>on the dog, if it's aggressive or not. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>they they they decide to be there. That yeah, that

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<v Speaker 2>is kind of fun. And these were great dance you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I had them from babies and uh, I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>for at least four years before this woman came back

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<v Speaker 2>into my life.

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<v Speaker 1>How how uh? How? Well? Wait, so it was two dogs.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was two to two great days. Uh, I

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<v Speaker 2>was the owner of three dogs that kept my little

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<v Speaker 2>friend sheep.

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<v Speaker 4>And uh so.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the only my own new buddy at the moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, So you had a friend scheet and two great

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<v Speaker 1>days you gave the two great dance. How old were they?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh?

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<v Speaker 4>There by five six?

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<v Speaker 5>There were just a year apart.

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<v Speaker 1>Damn, that's kind of young to just kill a fucking dog.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, like I said, you know, I actually

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<v Speaker 2>have done more research.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't on a timeline, and I know I was.

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<v Speaker 2>I was committed to this person that I guess didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know. I don't know if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna put that on you, man, I mean is that

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I don't know how that universe works.

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<v Speaker 1>But like there's got to be something better you can

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<v Speaker 1>do with the like the shelter. Wise, it's got like

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<v Speaker 1>if you're got a bunch of people coming to you

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<v Speaker 1>with dogs, there's gotta be something better to do with

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<v Speaker 1>them than kill them.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean yeah, I mean, just were they were there

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<v Speaker 2>for about a month and a half or two before

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<v Speaker 2>I call. I mean because I was I was nervous

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<v Speaker 2>called in to find out they're still there or stick

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<v Speaker 2>out adopted. So once my friend called in and I

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<v Speaker 2>found out that, you know, they put them.

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<v Speaker 1>Down, that's fucked up, man, I'm sorry to hear that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still I'm honestly shocked that that's what they do

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<v Speaker 1>instead of just I mean, I guess I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what else they would do with them. I guess if

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<v Speaker 1>there's no space anybody, there's gotta be something better they

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<v Speaker 1>can do than that. I don't know. Anyway, I'm sorry

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<v Speaker 1>to hear about your dogs. Man. Also, I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>put it on your I'm not gonna put it on

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<v Speaker 1>your girlfriends.

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<v Speaker 2>The no no and I Caulay, it's all, it's all.

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<v Speaker 2>It's tall on me. You know. I decided, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I shouldn't done research, you know, I decided to do

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<v Speaker 2>stuff like that. But you know, I also decided I to, like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, because I also have kids and decide to,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, spend time away from the kids. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you have kids, pig, Yeah, I got kids.

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<v Speaker 1>How many kids?

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<v Speaker 2>I got?

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<v Speaker 5>Three?

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<v Speaker 7>Girls?

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<v Speaker 2>Twelve ten or fourteen twelve and a three year old?

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<v Speaker 1>Solve ten and three?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Or I mean it's it's fourteen twelve and three.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, fourteen twelve and three? Okay? And are they with

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<v Speaker 1>the woman who who you were married with?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I mean they're they're they're taken care of and

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<v Speaker 2>everything that you know, I gave. I gave up you know,

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<v Speaker 2>time and and then I gave up a lot just

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<v Speaker 2>to you know, accommodate to this this person about maybe

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<v Speaker 2>on Sunday she decided to tell me she wasn't ready

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<v Speaker 2>after a year and I don't know how long that

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<v Speaker 2>she was already be in a relationship. So I where

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<v Speaker 2>are your hold on?

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<v Speaker 1>I want to get there, but like, where where are

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<v Speaker 1>your kids are they?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Do they live with uh? With their mom?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? They lived with their moms?

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<v Speaker 1>Or how long? How long have you and your wife

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<v Speaker 1>been divorced?

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<v Speaker 5>Over three years or so?

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<v Speaker 1>How often were you were you seeing? Did you guys

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<v Speaker 1>have a split custody agreement or were they kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like mainly with mom? What's what's your deal with that?

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<v Speaker 2>It was pretty open, you know, it was there, you

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<v Speaker 2>don't we didn't live too far from each other. It

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<v Speaker 2>was I could go pick them up on the weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>I could go pick them up.

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<v Speaker 5>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a very mutual release. M hm.

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<v Speaker 1>So you so you and your ex wife had had

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<v Speaker 1>like a decent co parenting relationship. There's no crazy animosity

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<v Speaker 1>or anything, right.

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<v Speaker 2>No, we know when when she came into alive. No, no,

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<v Speaker 2>everything was all good. She came back in, and of

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<v Speaker 2>course there's some anger because you know, there's the same

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<v Speaker 2>person that came along ten years ago. You know, I

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<v Speaker 2>decided to drop my whole life.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, how hell i'm talking about Uh, I'm talking about

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<v Speaker 1>your ex wife. Like you and your ex wife are

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<v Speaker 1>are cool. I'm not talking about this woman this yet.

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<v Speaker 1>But how old are you?

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, I am too old for this high

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<v Speaker 2>school stuff. So I'm like thirty six.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Okay, So you're living in Portland, you're single,

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<v Speaker 1>hoping to.

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<v Speaker 2>Catch your show too.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's say you're.

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<v Speaker 1>Living in Portland, you're single, you got your three dogs,

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<v Speaker 1>you see your kids fairly regularly.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I do I gotta had a shop? Have

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<v Speaker 2>a had a shop?

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<v Speaker 5>Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay? And then then and then you mentioned that shop.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad you brought that up again. So why why

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<v Speaker 1>did you have to get rid of your shop? Because

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<v Speaker 1>you were moving?

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<v Speaker 2>So I closed it because I wanted to spend now

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<v Speaker 2>more time in California. So uh, I close the shop.

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<v Speaker 2>So I could, you know, move to California to be

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<v Speaker 2>with this person? And I had to do it otherwise

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<v Speaker 2>I was flying. Like I said, I was flying back

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<v Speaker 2>and forth for a good while, and it became an

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<v Speaker 2>issue that I was flying out, and then it became

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<v Speaker 2>an issue that I wasn't communicating while I was out,

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<v Speaker 2>and uh, you know, while I was out, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I was focused on my work because I have a

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<v Speaker 2>short timeline.

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<v Speaker 1>When when I saw you, when you say you were

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<v Speaker 1>a community okay, so you were flying back and forth

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<v Speaker 1>to see this woman and when you were back in

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<v Speaker 1>Portland there was she said that there was an issue

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<v Speaker 1>with you, not you guys, not communicating.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but like you know, but when I'm important, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>focused on my work, I want to get it done.

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<v Speaker 1>And what do you what do you do?

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<v Speaker 2>I do? I do vehicle wraps, and I I want

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<v Speaker 2>to mention the name of the shop, okay, but I

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<v Speaker 2>do vehicle wraps, and uh, you know, I have a

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<v Speaker 2>good career.

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<v Speaker 3>I had.

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<v Speaker 2>I got a good, good thing one hundred and six

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<v Speaker 2>K figure a year for the past. The shop was

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<v Speaker 2>open for six years before this woman came back into

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<v Speaker 2>my life.

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<v Speaker 4>So I was doing I was doing.

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<v Speaker 8>Good, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And so when did you decide to fully move from

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<v Speaker 1>Portland to California?

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<v Speaker 2>So that decision took place when uh, where I was renting, Uh,

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<v Speaker 2>I was renting out. The dogs were a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>of an issue, but you know, I didn't mind. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>I ended up renting out a house to have my

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<v Speaker 2>dogs with me. I had their, I had their their

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<v Speaker 2>paperwork already, and I could have just rented out of

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<v Speaker 2>house at the yard and you know, hold on.

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<v Speaker 1>Just just real quick, wit, So when did you decide

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<v Speaker 1>to move from Portland to California?

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<v Speaker 2>When the apartment complex where I was living at decided

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<v Speaker 2>that my dogs were they're big?

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<v Speaker 1>What today? Just real quick? So it's it is May

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<v Speaker 1>of twenty twenty four. When did you decide to move

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<v Speaker 1>from California from Portland to California?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh?

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<v Speaker 2>That was.

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<v Speaker 4>About September November of last year.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, all right? And then when did this one

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<v Speaker 1>decide that she did not want a relationship. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get an idea of the today. This Sunday,

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<v Speaker 1>this is so fresh, This is Sunday. Okay, So you're

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<v Speaker 1>are you calling? Are you in California right now?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm back in Forland. I packed up my little my

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<v Speaker 2>little stuff I had left and it took off.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you move in with her and her place in California. Yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you left your place in Portland moved in with

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<v Speaker 1>her and her place in California, she says, she doesn't,

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<v Speaker 1>and you and you're living there for a few months

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<v Speaker 1>quite a time, yes, like almost a year, and then.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, flying back and forth and working and trying to

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<v Speaker 2>like things, you know, because I do. You know, I was.

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<v Speaker 2>I was away from her, and I had my own bills,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know, I had my I had my bills

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<v Speaker 2>I had to take care of. Okay, so the California

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<v Speaker 2>rate was not cutting for me to you know, pay

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<v Speaker 2>that off and and live, so I had to keep

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<v Speaker 2>flying back and forth to make up the difference.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So you were went a lot, you were going.

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<v Speaker 1>You weren't even moved into California. You were just you

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<v Speaker 1>never even really fully moved to California. You were always

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<v Speaker 1>going back and forth. Correct, all right, So now I

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<v Speaker 1>assume you don't talk to this woman anymore.

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<v Speaker 7>No, No, I don't want to talk to her, okay,

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<v Speaker 7>And she she and her little courtesy and reaching back

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<v Speaker 7>out ten years.

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<v Speaker 2>Later, because yeah, this really shook fire my whole life.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hm oh yeah, I almost honestly forgot about the

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<v Speaker 1>family photos thing. Don't let me forget about that because

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to get it to that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I haven't forgot about that either.

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<v Speaker 1>You're where are so? I mean this is really fresh.

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<v Speaker 1>This is I mean Sunday, that's three days ago. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're back in Portland's Are you at your place?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have a place?

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<v Speaker 2>I have place, yes, Oli, friends are not a place

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<v Speaker 2>of room. Everything's all good right now. For now, I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know what's going on.

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<v Speaker 5>M hm.

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<v Speaker 1>And so she tells you this in person on Sunday

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<v Speaker 1>in California, you storm out of her house taking a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of her family photos.

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<v Speaker 2>I did, I mean, I actually, you know, I was.

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to see if she could just you know,

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<v Speaker 2>talk it out. You know. I did a sacrifice or

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<v Speaker 2>I did a I did I'm not sacrifice. I moved

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of pieces to be with you.

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<v Speaker 5>And so.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just hoping, you know, to to have the

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<v Speaker 2>benefit of doubt, to like, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>Proof that I was committed.

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<v Speaker 5>Or something that mm hm, m hm.

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<v Speaker 1>How you doing Ethan, I'm I'm angry. So, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, look, man, I got a few things. One is,

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<v Speaker 1>and you have the family photos right now, right and

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<v Speaker 1>you said you're you're you want to angrily burn.

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<v Speaker 2>Them, yes, and send them right back at her. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>she could live with I have to live with my

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<v Speaker 2>memory is my my dog, so she could live with

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<v Speaker 2>her only only.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to try to give it. Would you let

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<v Speaker 1>me try to give you a compelling reason why to

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<v Speaker 1>not do that?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, Okay, I've been thinking about this all day.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm going to try to give you a compelling

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<v Speaker 1>reason why to not do that, because, look, man, I

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<v Speaker 1>I get it. I get what was behind moving all

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<v Speaker 1>of the pieces. And sometimes people move all of the

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<v Speaker 1>pieces of their life for another person to go move

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<v Speaker 1>somewhere else and it works out and they're happy and

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<v Speaker 1>that's great. And so that's why i've recently, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>not felt like it was the ultimate thing to do

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<v Speaker 1>to not do that. But ultimately I don't think stuff

0:17:25.040 --> 0:17:26.760
<v Speaker 1>like that's a good idea. And here's why you shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>burn the family photos is because for the past year

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<v Speaker 1>or however long that you've been maneuvering around the pieces

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<v Speaker 1>of your life to be with this woman, you have

0:17:46.359 --> 0:17:53.000
<v Speaker 1>let this woman and kind of more importantly, the emotions

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<v Speaker 1>surrounding this woman influence and dictate what you're gonna do

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<v Speaker 1>with your life. And I think for you to like

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<v Speaker 1>heal and get better, you have to let that go immediately.

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<v Speaker 1>And when you burn her family photos out of anger

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<v Speaker 1>and send them back to her out of anger, you

0:18:18.800 --> 0:18:25.400
<v Speaker 1>are continuing to allow this woman and your emotions surrounding

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<v Speaker 1>this woman to direct your life. So if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to stop that immediately, you would just send the photos back.

0:18:37.480 --> 0:18:41.000
<v Speaker 1>You don't need a whole I mean apologize if you want.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't need a whole thing, you don't need a

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<v Speaker 1>whole whatever. Just send them back and start focusing on

0:18:49.000 --> 0:18:51.399
<v Speaker 1>rebuilding your life. Because if you burn them out of

0:18:51.440 --> 0:18:54.400
<v Speaker 1>anger and you're sitting around burning them fucking fuck her,

0:18:54.640 --> 0:18:57.720
<v Speaker 1>fuck this, I'm pissed off. Fuck this. You know, you're

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<v Speaker 1>just diving deeper into the emotional bullshit that got you

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<v Speaker 1>into this thing in the first place. So if you

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<v Speaker 1>really want to let it go and move on with

0:19:09.480 --> 0:19:23.800
<v Speaker 1>your life, I would return the photos, sure, because letting

0:19:24.160 --> 0:19:29.760
<v Speaker 1>your emotions towards this woman guide you is what got

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<v Speaker 1>you here in the first place. So the first step

0:19:31.920 --> 0:19:34.800
<v Speaker 1>of being like I am no longer going to do

0:19:34.840 --> 0:19:39.600
<v Speaker 1>that is saying I'm no longer going to follow the

0:19:39.640 --> 0:19:45.879
<v Speaker 1>anger that i have towards this person by burning this shit,

0:19:46.000 --> 0:19:47.800
<v Speaker 1>and I'm just gonna let it go and move on.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think about any of that?

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<v Speaker 2>From hearing that, you know, I feel at peace and

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<v Speaker 2>something I should I should do, but.

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<v Speaker 9>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I said, I felt like like I bandoned my kids.

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<v Speaker 1>You felt like you abandoned your kids.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm here from going like I could. I could see

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<v Speaker 2>the girls, my girls on the daily basis.

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<v Speaker 1>As I wanted to Ethan, Ethan, Ethan and Ethan. Yeah, okay, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>there's still time. You have a three year old, at

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<v Speaker 1>a twelve year old and a fourteen year old, and

0:20:51.119 --> 0:20:55.479
<v Speaker 1>you're in Portland and you have the great you still

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<v Speaker 1>have like you're acting like you've you've burned everything to

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<v Speaker 1>the fucking ground. Man, there's still time, Like if I

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<v Speaker 1>if dude, like if I were you, man, like fucking

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<v Speaker 1>send the photos back and go hang out with your

0:21:12.119 --> 0:21:15.199
<v Speaker 1>kids and go be a dad and go be like

0:21:15.280 --> 0:21:19.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna fucking you know, I'm not gonna sit here

0:21:19.160 --> 0:21:21.639
<v Speaker 1>and beat myself up and go fuck this and and

0:21:22.160 --> 0:21:27.040
<v Speaker 1>dwell and go do things out of anger, be like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I'm gonna cut my fucking losses, look

0:21:30.760 --> 0:21:35.400
<v Speaker 1>to the future. Hey, I can still rebuild my shop. Hey,

0:21:36.000 --> 0:21:39.280
<v Speaker 1>I can still be a dad to my kids. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I can still be a good dog, dad to this frendsheet.

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<v Speaker 5>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>And the time that you're spending focusing in in stewing

0:21:47.680 --> 0:21:52.080
<v Speaker 1>in your anger by burning these fucking photos is just

0:21:52.200 --> 0:21:56.080
<v Speaker 1>a distraction from the opportunity that you have to do

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<v Speaker 1>those things.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, are you there, Ethan?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm still I'm stillious.

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<v Speaker 1>Does any of this resonate with you?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I mean I said I I haven't spoken to

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<v Speaker 2>anybody about this, and I feel dumb.

0:22:40.240 --> 0:22:41.520
<v Speaker 1>Why do you feel dumb?

0:22:42.640 --> 0:22:47.199
<v Speaker 2>No? I mean, you know it's I feel better just

0:22:47.280 --> 0:22:51.040
<v Speaker 2>you know, speaking about it and listening to someone else's

0:22:51.040 --> 0:22:55.520
<v Speaker 2>feedback MS in my own thoughts.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hmmm mm hm. Dude, I'm telling you, I'll I'll

0:23:05.840 --> 0:23:10.040
<v Speaker 1>just say everything I just said again. It's like you

0:23:10.119 --> 0:23:14.040
<v Speaker 1>have the opportunity, like everything you're talking about, being a

0:23:14.040 --> 0:23:17.680
<v Speaker 1>better dad to your kids, doing better for your business,

0:23:20.160 --> 0:23:23.320
<v Speaker 1>taking care of your dog. You can still do all

0:23:23.359 --> 0:23:26.159
<v Speaker 1>of it, and you can do all you can do

0:23:26.200 --> 0:23:31.240
<v Speaker 1>all of it really well, now that you're not distracted

0:23:32.840 --> 0:23:38.880
<v Speaker 1>by what's going on in California, And if you want

0:23:38.880 --> 0:23:42.960
<v Speaker 1>to feel better, you would start doing that instead of

0:23:43.000 --> 0:23:47.919
<v Speaker 1>distracting yourself by getting really pissed off and burning this

0:23:48.000 --> 0:23:48.920
<v Speaker 1>woman's photos.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah okay, well yeah, well definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it was just I don't know, I just

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<v Speaker 2>don't understand why after ten years, you know, text me

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<v Speaker 2>from a number was that wasn't even hers.

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<v Speaker 4>And come back into my life.

0:24:36.520 --> 0:24:42.760
<v Speaker 2>You know, why? Why did she question.

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<v Speaker 4>The love that I had towards.

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<v Speaker 9>Her while I was moving all these pieces, like there

0:24:55.760 --> 0:25:01.919
<v Speaker 9>were just too many pieces that that were moved in

0:25:02.040 --> 0:25:05.919
<v Speaker 9>this timeline to just be okay, fuck it.

0:25:06.040 --> 0:25:12.399
<v Speaker 1>Whatever, dude, I listen, listen. I know, I know that

0:25:12.560 --> 0:25:15.280
<v Speaker 1>it's very hard because you've moved around a bunch of

0:25:15.280 --> 0:25:18.440
<v Speaker 1>ship and you have a strong clearly have very strong

0:25:18.520 --> 0:25:24.119
<v Speaker 1>feelings towards this woman. But just bro, whatever you do,

0:25:24.119 --> 0:25:27.679
<v Speaker 1>don't convince yourself that you have no life. You have

0:25:29.119 --> 0:25:31.879
<v Speaker 1>You've got three kids, man, No, no.

0:25:31.800 --> 0:25:34.639
<v Speaker 2>I I know I got a life. I know you

0:25:34.760 --> 0:25:35.320
<v Speaker 2>got a life.

0:25:36.119 --> 0:25:39.320
<v Speaker 1>You got my job, and you got your shop, and

0:25:39.440 --> 0:25:43.120
<v Speaker 1>you got a life.

0:25:40.760 --> 0:25:46.800
<v Speaker 2>To make six figures. And I know it's just.

0:25:52.680 --> 0:25:54.280
<v Speaker 4>It's just the.

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<v Speaker 2>Research is what's you know bothering most? Because I did

0:26:01.119 --> 0:26:03.760
<v Speaker 2>tell her that, you know, if we were gonna try

0:26:03.840 --> 0:26:18.280
<v Speaker 2>this relationship, I didn't want to reset. Yeah, and I

0:26:18.320 --> 0:26:19.560
<v Speaker 2>have to do.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, Ethan, Yeah, what's up?

0:26:37.680 --> 0:26:44.800
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I'm okay. Let me just I'm definitely

0:26:44.840 --> 0:26:47.600
<v Speaker 2>gonna take into consderation just mounting them back in and

0:26:49.280 --> 0:26:54.800
<v Speaker 2>caught mynassis. Okay, Yes, I know, I know I could do.

0:26:55.760 --> 0:26:57.000
<v Speaker 2>I know I could do whatever I could.

0:26:57.040 --> 0:26:57.280
<v Speaker 5>I could.

0:26:57.359 --> 0:26:59.800
<v Speaker 2>I know I could do. I have the resources to do.

0:27:00.680 --> 0:27:04.280
<v Speaker 2>When you build myself ill, I know that's not the

0:27:04.359 --> 0:27:05.600
<v Speaker 2>end of the world.

0:27:05.880 --> 0:27:08.639
<v Speaker 1>Takes a look. Look, bro, take some time to mourn.

0:27:08.760 --> 0:27:12.880
<v Speaker 1>It's cool to take some time to mourn. It's totally

0:27:12.920 --> 0:27:16.119
<v Speaker 1>cool to take some time to mourn, and you should

0:27:16.960 --> 0:27:21.680
<v Speaker 1>and you don't have to rebuild right away. It takes

0:27:21.680 --> 0:27:22.440
<v Speaker 1>some time to morn.

0:27:24.440 --> 0:27:27.600
<v Speaker 2>I was, like I was even to Patrick, like.

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<v Speaker 1>Dude, dude, just whatever you do, don't don't burn those photos,

0:27:36.440 --> 0:27:40.960
<v Speaker 1>not because of anything with her, but because it will

0:27:40.960 --> 0:27:57.679
<v Speaker 1>only deepen your issues. It won't make them better. Thank you, Ethan.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there anything else that you want to say about

0:28:03.960 --> 0:28:06.160
<v Speaker 1>any of this or to the people of the computer.

0:28:08.320 --> 0:28:13.440
<v Speaker 2>H I really think, I think, really think things through

0:28:15.720 --> 0:28:17.680
<v Speaker 2>and I dive in into.

0:28:18.920 --> 0:28:28.480
<v Speaker 1>The what we'll say, all right, take care of you,

0:28:28.600 --> 0:28:30.320
<v Speaker 1>and I'll say one more day. If you get anything

0:28:30.320 --> 0:28:35.760
<v Speaker 1>out of the rewatch this if you can, if it was,

0:28:35.800 --> 0:28:37.840
<v Speaker 1>if it was helpful to you, Okay, rewatch this if

0:28:37.880 --> 0:28:40.920
<v Speaker 1>you can, man, because you're gonna because you also you

0:28:41.000 --> 0:28:44.720
<v Speaker 1>might get like a little tinge of motivation and then

0:28:44.760 --> 0:28:46.959
<v Speaker 1>go right back to being like fuck this, fuck her,

0:28:47.000 --> 0:28:50.280
<v Speaker 1>fuck everything. But you just gotta keep reminding yourself that

0:28:50.280 --> 0:28:53.200
<v Speaker 1>you've got a good life, and you gotta give your

0:28:53.240 --> 0:28:57.440
<v Speaker 1>attention to serving the life that you already have instead

0:28:57.480 --> 0:29:01.880
<v Speaker 1>of mourning this life with this woman, because you've got

0:29:01.880 --> 0:29:04.080
<v Speaker 1>a pretty damn good life already with her without her.

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<v Speaker 8>Thank you, take care of them, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Life is crazy. I guess there is something kind of

0:29:13.720 --> 0:29:17.960
<v Speaker 1>funny about like, like it's it's a picture of her

0:29:18.440 --> 0:29:23.680
<v Speaker 1>at Disneyland on the Splash Mountain ride and it's just

0:29:23.720 --> 0:29:27.760
<v Speaker 1>burning in a fire. Still, don't do it. Don't do it.

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<v Speaker 5>What's up? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? Dude? What's your name?

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<v Speaker 5>This is Ian?

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<v Speaker 1>Has your life going, Ian?

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<v Speaker 5>It's going great? All right? So this is my first

0:31:32.040 --> 0:31:34.800
<v Speaker 5>stream I've watched. I've been working on YouTube for a

0:31:34.840 --> 0:31:37.320
<v Speaker 5>couple of weeks now, So I walked on I like,

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<v Speaker 5>got my trich setup and then follow you and then

0:31:40.240 --> 0:31:41.640
<v Speaker 5>I saw your stream and so I'm like, fuck it,

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<v Speaker 5>I'll send a text. I feel I feel blessed to

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<v Speaker 5>be the first person.

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<v Speaker 1>You call nice man, nice well. Ian, Yeah, you texted

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<v Speaker 1>me and you said that you're a driving instructor, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you wrote after that you said, I guess that's

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<v Speaker 1>a good conversation, and uh, I'm curious, have you ever

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<v Speaker 1>been in a car with somebody that you're instructing on

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<v Speaker 1>how to drive? And uh, they crash into somebody and

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<v Speaker 1>kill them.

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<v Speaker 5>No, No, definitely I don't. I don't think I still

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<v Speaker 5>have a job if that happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, I mean, I like, you don't have liability in

0:32:26.960 --> 0:32:27.640
<v Speaker 1>that situation.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I mean I have like a little brake pedal,

0:32:32.200 --> 0:32:34.440
<v Speaker 5>so I have I have some modicum of control.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you're in that much, if you're in the

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<v Speaker 1>passenger seat and somebody in the driver's seat runs over

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<v Speaker 1>somebody and kills them, are you legally liable because you

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<v Speaker 1>have your own break?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean maybe I don't. I'm sure somewhere in the

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<v Speaker 5>world someone has been on a driving lesson and run

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<v Speaker 5>over somebody else, Like I can see that happening for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you a good driver.

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<v Speaker 5>Personally? I've been. I've been pretty good. Yeah, in the

0:33:08.880 --> 0:33:11.760
<v Speaker 5>past past few months. Yeah, I mean when I was younger, definitely,

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<v Speaker 5>I mean younger isn't like a few years ago. Definitely

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<v Speaker 5>not the best driver. But yeah, I've chilled out for

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<v Speaker 5>sure a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, now, when you say you weren't the best driver,

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<v Speaker 1>what made you not a good driver and what did

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<v Speaker 1>you chill out to become a better driver?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? I was mainly like a pretty bad speeder when

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<v Speaker 5>I was younger, So I was just kind of going

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<v Speaker 5>out super late at night and just drive super super

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<v Speaker 5>fucking fast.

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<v Speaker 1>M Do you ever get the urge to do that again?

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<v Speaker 5>No? Not. I try to keep it under ninety, which

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<v Speaker 5>is still a pretty big number, but under ninety less

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<v Speaker 5>then under ninety Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>What what's the speed limit where you live?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, like seventy five okay, so in my mind that's

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<v Speaker 5>not too much, but yeah it's still fifteen over, which

0:34:04.160 --> 0:34:06.040
<v Speaker 5>is kind of a lot. But no, Yeah, usually go

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<v Speaker 5>about like, I don't know, seventy five or eighty when

0:34:08.000 --> 0:34:10.319
<v Speaker 5>I'm driving around. But there's sometimes I get a little

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<v Speaker 5>bit of a little bit of road rage, for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>What you get a little bit of road rage? You say?

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<v Speaker 5>Very rarely? Yeah, very rarely. There's some crazy drivers out.

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<v Speaker 1>Here, really, because I imagine you as like some kind

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<v Speaker 1>of zen master of driving where nothing bothers you. But

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<v Speaker 1>what gives your road rage is a people going slow?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it people cutting you off? As people entering your

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<v Speaker 1>car and taking No, it's usually people all the stuffing

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<v Speaker 1>out of your seats. What gives it gives you road rage?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, well, yeah, taking all the stuffing out of my

0:34:44.080 --> 0:34:46.920
<v Speaker 5>seats would probably be the last, or it's already pretty

0:34:47.000 --> 0:34:50.280
<v Speaker 5>uncomfortable in my car. But no, it's it's usually people

0:34:50.280 --> 0:34:54.920
<v Speaker 5>that pass like a little like uncomfortably too close. I

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<v Speaker 5>can get you know, some people just don't see me.

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<v Speaker 5>But sometimes it's like, okay, like I see you in

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<v Speaker 5>my rear view. You're coming up at like one hundred

0:35:01.239 --> 0:35:02.799
<v Speaker 5>and ten or whatever. I'm going like speed to it,

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<v Speaker 5>and then you decide to do some super close shit

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<v Speaker 5>and I'm like, I don't want to hit anybody for

0:35:07.680 --> 0:35:10.640
<v Speaker 5>that makes me mad. I know it shouldn't, but it does.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, I got a question for you. Yeah, what's your

0:35:16.080 --> 0:35:17.120
<v Speaker 1>take on walking?

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<v Speaker 5>My take on walking? It's not too bad, man, it's

0:35:21.360 --> 0:35:24.640
<v Speaker 5>not too bad. I mean, given a good pair of

0:35:24.640 --> 0:35:28.680
<v Speaker 5>shoes and you know, not terribly hot weather, yeah I

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<v Speaker 5>could walk.

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<v Speaker 1>What was your dream when you were a child?

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<v Speaker 5>My dream, like the like dream goal in life.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Oh I always wanted to be a pilot.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah you all right? Look I mean like of an airplane.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah yeah, like a plane, an airplane.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah okay, I mean you did pretty good if that

0:35:58.719 --> 0:36:03.640
<v Speaker 1>was your goal. Yeah yeah, I mean because you're not

0:36:03.680 --> 0:36:06.000
<v Speaker 1>I mean you're a no, I mean you are a pilot,

0:36:06.160 --> 0:36:09.160
<v Speaker 1>but just of a car, which I guess is not

0:36:09.360 --> 0:36:12.480
<v Speaker 1>that special because most a lot of people, they give

0:36:12.520 --> 0:36:17.359
<v Speaker 1>a driver's license a lot more freely than plane licenses, which,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, I don't think that they should. I

0:36:18.920 --> 0:36:20.520
<v Speaker 1>think it should be just as hard to get a

0:36:20.600 --> 0:36:23.319
<v Speaker 1>driver's license as it is to get a plane one,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's safer to fly on a plane than be

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<v Speaker 1>in a car.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's totally true. Yeah, it's a lot more. I

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<v Speaker 5>mean in some places that it's a little bit harder.

0:36:39.000 --> 0:36:41.480
<v Speaker 5>I've watched videos, like in Germany they have to do

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<v Speaker 5>some thing. It's like hours. It's like crazy amount of

0:36:44.200 --> 0:36:46.879
<v Speaker 5>hours of like studying and taking all these tests. But right,

0:36:47.160 --> 0:36:49.880
<v Speaker 5>that's true. It's incredibly easy to get a license.

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<v Speaker 1>Dude. You can be sixteen and high and they'll let

0:36:54.000 --> 0:36:55.720
<v Speaker 1>you drive a car. It's pretty wild.

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<v Speaker 5>Nobody's gonna say anything. Nobody stops you. And that's the thing.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I do just like multiple hours of talking to

0:37:04.080 --> 0:37:06.680
<v Speaker 5>students and they're all about like sixteen or whatever. I

0:37:06.760 --> 0:37:08.440
<v Speaker 5>just I talked to them about like random shit. It's

0:37:08.480 --> 0:37:10.359
<v Speaker 5>for a unique position, so I guess it just talks

0:37:10.400 --> 0:37:12.640
<v Speaker 5>them and it sounds like for some reason, yeah, a

0:37:12.640 --> 0:37:15.560
<v Speaker 5>lot of people do like smoking at that age.

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<v Speaker 1>But they're all high. They're all Every sixteen year old

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<v Speaker 1>that you are teaching how to drive is high while

0:37:22.360 --> 0:37:26.799
<v Speaker 1>you're teaching them, because you learn when you're like in

0:37:26.880 --> 0:37:32.120
<v Speaker 1>high school, every like weed person, you learn. Okay, look look, look,

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<v Speaker 1>driving stones is a d uy. It's a d ui.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, you can't argue with it. It is undeniably

0:37:42.440 --> 0:37:47.120
<v Speaker 1>a d ui. But some at some point, like I

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<v Speaker 1>like if you have an older sibling or like some

0:37:50.760 --> 0:37:54.560
<v Speaker 1>some other kid tells you that you can drive high

0:37:54.640 --> 0:37:56.080
<v Speaker 1>and it's not that big of a deal and you

0:37:56.200 --> 0:38:02.000
<v Speaker 1>believe them forever and you driver. And also because like

0:38:02.120 --> 0:38:05.000
<v Speaker 1>driving around in a car, they call it a blunt ride.

0:38:05.719 --> 0:38:10.880
<v Speaker 1>Driving around in a car getting high at sixteen dangerous

0:38:10.920 --> 0:38:13.839
<v Speaker 1>thing to do. But also, I mean, the most fun

0:38:13.880 --> 0:38:16.600
<v Speaker 1>that you'll ever have in your entire life until you

0:38:16.600 --> 0:38:19.640
<v Speaker 1>get a DUI and your life sucks from then on.

0:38:19.840 --> 0:38:23.640
<v Speaker 1>But every kid that you're teaching how to drive is

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<v Speaker 1>incredibly stoned.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I believe it. In some cases, I would

0:38:30.239 --> 0:38:32.960
<v Speaker 5>definitely definitely believe it. Well, the thing that's crazy, too,

0:38:33.080 --> 0:38:35.320
<v Speaker 5>is there's no like compared to like alcohol, there's no

0:38:35.440 --> 0:38:39.800
<v Speaker 5>like roadside, real like furious test that tells you know

0:38:39.920 --> 0:38:42.600
<v Speaker 5>yes or no if you're high. It's just you know

0:38:42.800 --> 0:38:44.319
<v Speaker 5>if your eyes are red. I guess I don't know.

0:38:44.360 --> 0:38:47.799
<v Speaker 5>I've never never run into that problem, but I could

0:38:47.800 --> 0:38:50.160
<v Speaker 5>definitely see that being the case every student being high.

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<v Speaker 5>And that's only slightly concerning because nobody's crashed yet, so

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<v Speaker 5>I guess they're doing a good job at it.

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<v Speaker 1>Some people say that they're better drivers when they're high,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't believe them at all. I mean, people

0:39:02.840 --> 0:39:05.879
<v Speaker 1>have said that about being drunk too, and I don't

0:39:05.880 --> 0:39:08.279
<v Speaker 1>believe them. Do you get high? Do you smoke weed?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I've kind of chilled. Maybe like once a month.

0:39:12.960 --> 0:39:15.520
<v Speaker 5>I definitely used to be daily user, but maybe like

0:39:15.560 --> 0:39:17.520
<v Speaker 5>once a month now. Yeah, when you.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you driving high? Were remember when you were saying

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<v Speaker 1>you were speeding when you're going ninety when you're going

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<v Speaker 1>ninety five? Are you stone dead of your gord?

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<v Speaker 5>Not recently, but as far as the past goes, maybe

0:39:31.440 --> 0:39:33.040
<v Speaker 5>maybe not. I'll play the fifth on that one.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Does that disqualify you from being a driver driving instructor?

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<v Speaker 1>If you've ever gotten high?

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<v Speaker 5>They never asked me about that. I mean, I would

0:39:43.560 --> 0:39:45.799
<v Speaker 5>assume they probably prown upon you being high while you're

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<v Speaker 5>teaching people how to drive.

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<v Speaker 1>But probably never said they do they drug test you

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<v Speaker 1>for that?

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<v Speaker 5>No, I mean they pulled my driving record and that

0:39:54.160 --> 0:39:57.040
<v Speaker 5>was pretty much the extent of like any background check.

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<v Speaker 1>What there should be like a driving school that you

0:40:02.000 --> 0:40:08.399
<v Speaker 1>go to to learn how to drive drunk, Like they

0:40:08.440 --> 0:40:11.120
<v Speaker 1>teach you how to do it so and and it

0:40:11.160 --> 0:40:13.880
<v Speaker 1>should and it's just like it should still be illegal

0:40:14.560 --> 0:40:18.279
<v Speaker 1>and you still shouldn't do it, but there's it's kind

0:40:18.280 --> 0:40:21.840
<v Speaker 1>of like how you know how there's like like safe

0:40:21.880 --> 0:40:23.959
<v Speaker 1>injection spots, the kind of thing where it's like people

0:40:23.960 --> 0:40:27.200
<v Speaker 1>are gonna do it anyway, so let's you know, kind

0:40:27.200 --> 0:40:31.240
<v Speaker 1>of prep them for it. Like let's do a drunk

0:40:31.360 --> 0:40:36.560
<v Speaker 1>driving school where you can drive drunk, which you shouldn't

0:40:36.600 --> 0:40:40.560
<v Speaker 1>do and should definitely be illegal, but if you're gonna

0:40:40.560 --> 0:40:42.520
<v Speaker 1>do it, here's the here's how to do it.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess, yeah, like here's why you did not do it,

0:40:46.360 --> 0:40:50.400
<v Speaker 5>because I guess everybody gets to crash while they're drunk

0:40:50.480 --> 0:40:52.520
<v Speaker 5>once and then say, well I went to drunk prep school,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not going to do it again.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what if there there should actually be like you're

0:40:59.880 --> 0:41:02.560
<v Speaker 1>not allowed to get drunk and ride bumper cars or

0:41:02.600 --> 0:41:04.719
<v Speaker 1>go karts or something, but they should really just like

0:41:04.880 --> 0:41:09.760
<v Speaker 1>idiot proof maybe like a dome or an arena or something,

0:41:09.800 --> 0:41:13.440
<v Speaker 1>and like make some really really fuzzy cars, put like

0:41:13.480 --> 0:41:16.360
<v Speaker 1>a bunch of padding on them and shit, and be like,

0:41:16.400 --> 0:41:18.960
<v Speaker 1>all right, in this one instance, you can get drunk

0:41:19.400 --> 0:41:23.160
<v Speaker 1>and drive and this controlled environment for all of a sudden.

0:41:23.160 --> 0:41:26.080
<v Speaker 1>I think that would like curb drunk driving. We like

0:41:26.120 --> 0:41:29.640
<v Speaker 1>a purge of drunk driving. But it was like one dough.

0:41:29.719 --> 0:41:33.719
<v Speaker 1>It was like a big dome complex where everything is

0:41:34.400 --> 0:41:37.520
<v Speaker 1>padded and pillows and I don't know if pillows are

0:41:37.520 --> 0:41:38.920
<v Speaker 1>going to stop a car crash, but you know what.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm saying, Yeah, yeah, yeah, kind of like how they

0:41:41.920 --> 0:41:45.040
<v Speaker 5>do like the drag race, Like the cops will shipped

0:41:45.160 --> 0:41:48.000
<v Speaker 5>like drag races and it's like racing racing cop type deal.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't, I don't know have you ever heard of that?

0:41:54.800 --> 0:41:56.239
<v Speaker 1>I do know, I don't know if that had anything

0:41:56.280 --> 0:41:57.759
<v Speaker 1>to do with what I was talking about, But also

0:41:57.800 --> 0:41:59.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't know what I was talking about

0:41:59.760 --> 0:42:01.000
<v Speaker 1>even really made any sense.

0:42:01.040 --> 0:42:05.080
<v Speaker 5>So that's okay, It totally dood Yeah, yeah.

0:42:04.640 --> 0:42:06.759
<v Speaker 1>What's your do you would you ever do a drag race?

0:42:06.800 --> 0:42:08.600
<v Speaker 1>Are you fast? Do you think you could do well

0:42:08.600 --> 0:42:12.640
<v Speaker 1>in a drag race? Me?

0:42:13.080 --> 0:42:14.919
<v Speaker 5>Well, it depends on the car, I guess, because it's

0:42:14.920 --> 0:42:16.879
<v Speaker 5>just kind of like something throng and go. I've done

0:42:16.920 --> 0:42:20.200
<v Speaker 5>some a couple of races that like were not necessarily racist,

0:42:20.239 --> 0:42:22.359
<v Speaker 5>but some like track days for sure, going around track,

0:42:22.360 --> 0:42:23.560
<v Speaker 5>but I haven't done any drag racing.

0:42:23.640 --> 0:42:29.319
<v Speaker 1>No, do you think you'd be good if if you

0:42:29.360 --> 0:42:30.680
<v Speaker 1>were to do drag racing?

0:42:33.040 --> 0:42:33.279
<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

0:42:33.320 --> 0:42:35.000
<v Speaker 5>I don't know if my car would be good. I

0:42:35.000 --> 0:42:37.200
<v Speaker 5>don't think. I don't think you would like that very much,

0:42:37.200 --> 0:42:38.680
<v Speaker 5>but yeah, I could definitely try it.

0:42:38.760 --> 0:42:39.120
<v Speaker 2>Sure.

0:42:40.160 --> 0:42:42.200
<v Speaker 1>One of my I actually might have talked about this

0:42:42.239 --> 0:42:44.440
<v Speaker 1>on the podcast before, but one of my favorite Onion

0:42:44.560 --> 0:42:50.880
<v Speaker 1>articles is driving Instructor has own gas pedal in case

0:42:50.920 --> 0:42:52.280
<v Speaker 1>student a total pussy.

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<v Speaker 5>No, there are definitely some times I wish I had

0:42:56.960 --> 0:42:59.359
<v Speaker 5>like bluetooth gas total because you know, we'll like make

0:42:59.400 --> 0:43:01.440
<v Speaker 5>a turn or something and I'm like, Okay, there's a

0:43:01.440 --> 0:43:04.600
<v Speaker 5>car coming in like forty five and returning going like ten,

0:43:05.080 --> 0:43:06.400
<v Speaker 5>Like we need to kind of pick that up a

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<v Speaker 5>little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I could.

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<v Speaker 5>Totally see it being a thing. I wish it was

0:43:10.200 --> 0:43:11.720
<v Speaker 5>a thing, but only it was a pre pedal.

0:43:12.440 --> 0:43:17.480
<v Speaker 1>That's actually a good. That's a good. Driving instructor reacts

0:43:17.560 --> 0:43:21.000
<v Speaker 1>to the Onion article. Take like that's a good because

0:43:21.560 --> 0:43:23.400
<v Speaker 1>it seems like just a joke at the first, But

0:43:23.719 --> 0:43:27.680
<v Speaker 1>you're right, Actually a second gas pedal would be good

0:43:27.680 --> 0:43:30.239
<v Speaker 1>because sometimes it is it's dangerous to go slow.

0:43:31.560 --> 0:43:33.600
<v Speaker 5>Or like you know, sometimes we got on the interstate too,

0:43:33.600 --> 0:43:36.040
<v Speaker 5>it's like, okay, we need to be going a little

0:43:36.080 --> 0:43:38.040
<v Speaker 5>bit more than like thirty here you have to speed

0:43:38.040 --> 0:43:39.920
<v Speaker 5>them at seventy five, right, yeah, so to give a

0:43:39.960 --> 0:43:42.200
<v Speaker 5>little bit more good things moving along.

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<v Speaker 1>So, is anything horribly wrong with your life that you

0:43:46.440 --> 0:43:47.600
<v Speaker 1>want to talk about before we go?

0:43:49.360 --> 0:43:53.160
<v Speaker 5>Ooh, horribly wrong with my No? I mean muddy's tight

0:43:53.360 --> 0:43:56.120
<v Speaker 5>for sure. I mean being a driving instructor is fun,

0:43:56.239 --> 0:44:01.520
<v Speaker 5>but it's not incredibly the most high paying job out there.

0:44:01.560 --> 0:44:06.160
<v Speaker 5>Somebody's tying a little bit, but not necessarily anything horribly wrong.

0:44:06.520 --> 0:44:08.360
<v Speaker 1>I don't think it can probably makes some extra money

0:44:08.400 --> 0:44:12.360
<v Speaker 1>selling weed to the kids.

0:44:14.200 --> 0:44:18.080
<v Speaker 5>I probably could there, definitely, I've met some that that

0:44:18.120 --> 0:44:23.440
<v Speaker 5>probably could happen. I don't know anything I could get with. Yeah, No,

0:44:23.440 --> 0:44:24.759
<v Speaker 5>I don't think I could get wait with it, but

0:44:24.800 --> 0:44:28.040
<v Speaker 5>definitely I'm sure again it's not outside the ramapossible.

0:44:28.080 --> 0:44:29.359
<v Speaker 1>Why you think you think? You think one of them

0:44:29.360 --> 0:44:30.120
<v Speaker 1>would narc on you.

0:44:34.040 --> 0:44:36.240
<v Speaker 5>I don't know how i'd get away, like in broad daylight,

0:44:36.320 --> 0:44:38.440
<v Speaker 5>like to pull back up to the driving school and

0:44:38.560 --> 0:44:41.200
<v Speaker 5>just like what were you doing out there for? Like

0:44:41.320 --> 0:44:43.319
<v Speaker 5>either ten minutes? Oh, no big deal, you know, just

0:44:43.680 --> 0:44:46.719
<v Speaker 5>just talking. I guess it wouldn't be too hard to

0:44:46.760 --> 0:44:49.160
<v Speaker 5>get with. I don't know if I have the I

0:44:49.280 --> 0:44:52.799
<v Speaker 5>have the I don't know. I feel I'm not too

0:44:52.840 --> 0:44:53.879
<v Speaker 5>good at doing shit like that.

0:44:56.200 --> 0:44:57.080
<v Speaker 1>What's your name again?

0:44:58.440 --> 0:44:59.560
<v Speaker 5>Ian Ian?

0:44:59.640 --> 0:45:00.759
<v Speaker 1>Is there anything else you want to say to the

0:45:00.760 --> 0:45:02.000
<v Speaker 1>people the computer before we go?

0:45:04.440 --> 0:45:08.040
<v Speaker 5>M would I to say, for buddy, it's dangerous, but no,

0:45:08.160 --> 0:45:09.200
<v Speaker 5>thanks for taking my came man.

0:45:09.239 --> 0:45:12.560
<v Speaker 1>Appreciate the podcast, of course, take carry and good luck,

0:45:13.719 --> 0:45:19.200
<v Speaker 1>be so good night. I need I need a Gecko

0:45:19.320 --> 0:45:23.880
<v Speaker 1>instructor who has his own hang up the phone button,

0:45:24.200 --> 0:45:26.200
<v Speaker 1>just in case if things get a little too crazy.

0:45:28.760 --> 0:45:30.920
<v Speaker 1>You know, ian Ian seems like a cool guy. I

0:45:30.960 --> 0:45:33.719
<v Speaker 1>bet I hope he finds a better way to make

0:45:35.320 --> 0:45:39.520
<v Speaker 1>money than selling weed to teenagers. Although I mean, when

0:45:39.520 --> 0:45:43.080
<v Speaker 1>I was a teenager, the other teenagers that were selling

0:45:43.080 --> 0:45:46.080
<v Speaker 1>teenage me weed. They made a lot of money. They

0:45:46.080 --> 0:45:49.040
<v Speaker 1>made more money than I think a lot of people

0:45:49.040 --> 0:45:54.040
<v Speaker 1>make as adults. So, you know, I guess it is

0:45:54.080 --> 0:46:00.759
<v Speaker 1>a viable career option. Hello, Hello there, what's up. What's

0:46:00.800 --> 0:46:01.200
<v Speaker 1>your name?

0:46:01.920 --> 0:46:05.920
<v Speaker 3>My name's Amber, There is Amber.

0:46:06.080 --> 0:46:08.359
<v Speaker 1>How can I what's up? Man? What do you want

0:46:08.360 --> 0:46:10.640
<v Speaker 1>to talk about today on the Gecko Show?

0:46:13.880 --> 0:46:18.120
<v Speaker 3>Well, I recently lost my virginity and it was like

0:46:19.719 --> 0:46:20.439
<v Speaker 3>it kind of suck.

0:46:22.120 --> 0:46:23.879
<v Speaker 1>Interesting like both of us.

0:46:24.040 --> 0:46:27.799
<v Speaker 3>But I mean, I don't know how old are you?

0:46:30.520 --> 0:46:31.120
<v Speaker 3>Twenty four?

0:46:32.080 --> 0:46:34.320
<v Speaker 1>Twenty four? And so you just were is this was

0:46:34.360 --> 0:46:36.880
<v Speaker 1>this like a it was this like a waiting for

0:46:37.000 --> 0:46:37.960
<v Speaker 1>marriage thing?

0:46:38.320 --> 0:46:38.560
<v Speaker 6>Was it?

0:46:38.640 --> 0:46:38.759
<v Speaker 2>Uh?

0:46:39.040 --> 0:46:40.680
<v Speaker 1>You know, the timing never happens thing?

0:46:40.800 --> 0:46:40.880
<v Speaker 8>What?

0:46:41.239 --> 0:46:43.640
<v Speaker 1>Uh? You know, what was the deal?

0:46:44.120 --> 0:46:47.480
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was like it was a waiting for marriage thing.

0:46:50.680 --> 0:46:56.239
<v Speaker 1>And are you are you religious? Yeah?

0:46:56.440 --> 0:46:57.360
<v Speaker 3>We both are.

0:47:00.080 --> 0:47:02.600
<v Speaker 1>And you said it sucked, So I guess, I mean,

0:47:02.640 --> 0:47:04.640
<v Speaker 1>I guess of course it's gonna yeah, I mean, it's

0:47:04.640 --> 0:47:07.040
<v Speaker 1>definitely gonna suck. I guess, well, no, I'm not gonna

0:47:07.040 --> 0:47:09.759
<v Speaker 1>say it's definitely gonna suck, because I guess you have

0:47:09.960 --> 0:47:13.319
<v Speaker 1>the pro of the fact that the person you're doing

0:47:13.360 --> 0:47:16.000
<v Speaker 1>it with is somebody who you've you know, made this,

0:47:16.120 --> 0:47:19.719
<v Speaker 1>you know, big commitment to and so there's some like

0:47:19.960 --> 0:47:25.920
<v Speaker 1>comfort in that. But you know, they also probably don't

0:47:26.040 --> 0:47:28.440
<v Speaker 1>know how to eat pussy very well because they've never

0:47:28.440 --> 0:47:35.520
<v Speaker 1>done it before. So yeah, we'll tell me. Why did it?

0:47:35.560 --> 0:47:36.200
<v Speaker 1>Why did it suck?

0:47:38.239 --> 0:47:39.799
<v Speaker 5>It hurts like.

0:47:41.760 --> 0:47:45.440
<v Speaker 3>It's it's like it's uncomfortable, like I've never I don't know,

0:47:45.480 --> 0:47:51.279
<v Speaker 3>I had something like that big down there, and it's

0:47:51.280 --> 0:47:55.000
<v Speaker 3>hard to like relax too, Like, I don't know, you

0:47:55.080 --> 0:47:55.759
<v Speaker 3>stressed out?

0:47:55.840 --> 0:48:02.839
<v Speaker 1>And did it live up to your expectations at all?

0:48:05.760 --> 0:48:08.440
<v Speaker 3>I mean kind of yeah, Like I wasn't really expecting

0:48:08.480 --> 0:48:11.960
<v Speaker 3>it to be good, you know, just because it was

0:48:12.080 --> 0:48:15.320
<v Speaker 3>our first time and I mean the rest know what

0:48:15.360 --> 0:48:20.040
<v Speaker 3>the fuck we're doing, you know, So I wasn't like

0:48:20.080 --> 0:48:23.640
<v Speaker 3>really I wasn't really disappointed, Like I think, it was

0:48:23.680 --> 0:48:25.200
<v Speaker 3>still like a good time and it was like a

0:48:25.200 --> 0:48:28.280
<v Speaker 3>good experience that we both had and it's just something

0:48:28.280 --> 0:48:30.920
<v Speaker 3>that we'll keep working on together and I look forward

0:48:30.960 --> 0:48:31.239
<v Speaker 3>to that.

0:48:31.320 --> 0:48:31.520
<v Speaker 2>You know.

0:48:32.239 --> 0:48:34.760
<v Speaker 1>That's very nice. How was it for him? Was he stoked?

0:48:37.360 --> 0:48:37.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:48:37.600 --> 0:48:41.839
<v Speaker 3>I mean we were both stoked. We're both like really

0:48:41.840 --> 0:48:44.080
<v Speaker 3>nervous though, like we both kind of struggled. So, I

0:48:44.120 --> 0:48:45.720
<v Speaker 3>mean we're kind of on like the same boat.

0:48:45.800 --> 0:48:49.000
<v Speaker 1>You know, how long have you guys been dating for?

0:48:52.680 --> 0:48:56.719
<v Speaker 3>Think two or three years now? I think two years?

0:48:57.000 --> 0:49:00.640
<v Speaker 1>And what was it about him that uh made you

0:49:00.680 --> 0:49:05.080
<v Speaker 1>want him to be the first and only person to

0:49:05.200 --> 0:49:08.080
<v Speaker 1>ever touch touch a penis of?

0:49:12.320 --> 0:49:16.400
<v Speaker 3>He's just so sweet and caring and he's someone that

0:49:16.440 --> 0:49:19.560
<v Speaker 3>I can be vulnerable around, you know, like I don't

0:49:19.600 --> 0:49:23.680
<v Speaker 3>need to feel uncomfortable around him, Like I don't know,

0:49:23.800 --> 0:49:26.200
<v Speaker 3>I just feel really comfortable being vulnerable around him. And

0:49:26.200 --> 0:49:28.960
<v Speaker 3>he's so patient and so kind, and he loves me

0:49:29.000 --> 0:49:31.680
<v Speaker 3>so much and I love him a lot too, and

0:49:31.719 --> 0:49:35.680
<v Speaker 3>he just gets me like we're both just I don't know,

0:49:35.719 --> 0:49:37.920
<v Speaker 3>we just fit each other well, you know, you know

0:49:37.960 --> 0:49:39.600
<v Speaker 3>what I mean, Like you just get along with someone

0:49:39.640 --> 0:49:43.640
<v Speaker 3>really well, that's nice.

0:49:44.000 --> 0:49:46.720
<v Speaker 1>That's nice, you know. I get I've never been a big,

0:49:46.840 --> 0:49:53.880
<v Speaker 1>uh like religious person, and I think, well, anytime I

0:49:53.920 --> 0:49:56.759
<v Speaker 1>talk to somebody who's religious, are like, uh, you know,

0:49:56.920 --> 0:49:59.759
<v Speaker 1>like what you just said, there does seem to be

0:49:59.800 --> 0:50:06.000
<v Speaker 1>this lowering of anxiety. There's something what's the app lowering

0:50:06.040 --> 0:50:08.600
<v Speaker 1>of anxiety? Fucking there does seem to be this this

0:50:08.800 --> 0:50:14.680
<v Speaker 1>calmness too. I'm gonna follow these rules, and uh, when

0:50:14.719 --> 0:50:17.239
<v Speaker 1>I get lost in life, I have these rules that

0:50:17.280 --> 0:50:19.600
<v Speaker 1>I can go back to, you know what I mean.

0:50:20.080 --> 0:50:23.400
<v Speaker 1>Like that sounds like it gives you less sure, you know,

0:50:23.480 --> 0:50:24.800
<v Speaker 1>being on hinge or whatever.

0:50:27.280 --> 0:50:30.480
<v Speaker 3>No, I like completely feel that. Like I wasn't really

0:50:31.640 --> 0:50:34.960
<v Speaker 3>religious until like I don't know, like two or three

0:50:35.120 --> 0:50:38.799
<v Speaker 3>or no, like four years ago, and like I was

0:50:38.880 --> 0:50:42.759
<v Speaker 3>kind of feral, Like I don't know, it was it

0:50:42.840 --> 0:50:46.279
<v Speaker 3>was kind of hard, like living through life thinking like

0:50:47.000 --> 0:50:50.440
<v Speaker 3>there's no purpose, like we're all gonna die, Like I

0:50:50.480 --> 0:50:52.560
<v Speaker 3>don't you know what I mean, Like I can just

0:50:52.600 --> 0:50:56.040
<v Speaker 3>do whatever I want, whatever makes me feel good in

0:50:56.080 --> 0:50:58.920
<v Speaker 3>the moment. And I just kind of I don't know,

0:50:59.000 --> 0:51:01.759
<v Speaker 3>like I would get like drunk every weekend and it

0:51:01.840 --> 0:51:05.240
<v Speaker 3>was it like sucked, Like I thought I was happy,

0:51:05.239 --> 0:51:07.600
<v Speaker 3>and like it just wasn't for me. Like not saying that.

0:51:08.239 --> 0:51:10.399
<v Speaker 3>You know, if you enjoy those things, like there's nothing

0:51:10.440 --> 0:51:12.840
<v Speaker 3>wrong with it, but like for me, it's just I

0:51:12.840 --> 0:51:16.399
<v Speaker 3>don't know, I just felt really lonely and all that.

0:51:16.480 --> 0:51:21.160
<v Speaker 1>You know, And what was your come to Jesus' moments?

0:51:21.160 --> 0:51:24.160
<v Speaker 1>What was it that transition to you from being quote

0:51:24.200 --> 0:51:26.560
<v Speaker 1>feral into being a woman of God?

0:51:30.719 --> 0:51:34.680
<v Speaker 3>I honestly met like a really really nice group of

0:51:34.719 --> 0:51:40.480
<v Speaker 3>people that I don't know. They were just so welcoming

0:51:40.600 --> 0:51:43.080
<v Speaker 3>and loving, and I felt like I could be like

0:51:43.120 --> 0:51:46.360
<v Speaker 3>honest with these new friends and I didn't feel judged,

0:51:46.440 --> 0:51:49.080
<v Speaker 3>Like I just felt like like they just listened to

0:51:49.120 --> 0:51:54.719
<v Speaker 3>me and you know, and they like in the nice

0:51:54.719 --> 0:51:57.200
<v Speaker 3>thing was too, is like I wasn't like pressured at all,

0:51:57.320 --> 0:51:59.680
<v Speaker 3>Like it was just kind of I made these friends

0:51:59.680 --> 0:52:03.799
<v Speaker 3>that have to be like really religious, and you know,

0:52:03.920 --> 0:52:06.360
<v Speaker 3>they just they were just so kind and loving, and

0:52:06.400 --> 0:52:08.400
<v Speaker 3>I was like, oh my gosh, like how are you

0:52:08.520 --> 0:52:11.520
<v Speaker 3>like that? Like I hate everyone, like you know what

0:52:11.560 --> 0:52:11.879
<v Speaker 3>I mean?

0:52:15.800 --> 0:52:20.120
<v Speaker 1>And was it an easy transition to start believing from nothing,

0:52:20.640 --> 0:52:22.960
<v Speaker 1>because I mean it sounds like you weren't were you

0:52:23.040 --> 0:52:25.239
<v Speaker 1>Were you particularly religious growing up?

0:52:29.360 --> 0:52:34.239
<v Speaker 3>I mean my family was, but it wasn't like it

0:52:34.320 --> 0:52:37.320
<v Speaker 3>kind of felt like there was a lot of rules,

0:52:37.320 --> 0:52:39.440
<v Speaker 3>but like there wasn't any reason for them, Like it

0:52:39.560 --> 0:52:42.319
<v Speaker 3>just kind of felt like you need to behave or

0:52:42.320 --> 0:52:45.439
<v Speaker 3>you're going to hell. So that obviously like very much

0:52:45.520 --> 0:52:47.000
<v Speaker 3>turned me away. It was just kind of like, well,

0:52:47.120 --> 0:52:50.799
<v Speaker 3>like what the fuck, like you know what I mean. Like,

0:52:51.239 --> 0:52:53.560
<v Speaker 3>so it got that kind of gave me like a

0:52:53.600 --> 0:52:55.719
<v Speaker 3>bad taste in my mouth, and I was just like,

0:52:57.600 --> 0:53:01.279
<v Speaker 3>this sucks. So I kind of like I did grow

0:53:01.360 --> 0:53:04.480
<v Speaker 3>up in like a pretty religious household, but and it

0:53:04.600 --> 0:53:06.600
<v Speaker 3>turned me away. And then you know, I met those

0:53:06.640 --> 0:53:08.120
<v Speaker 3>people and I was like, oh wait, you guys are

0:53:08.120 --> 0:53:10.120
<v Speaker 3>like actually nice and like not crazy.

0:53:11.040 --> 0:53:13.200
<v Speaker 1>That's interesting because a lot of the times people they

0:53:13.200 --> 0:53:16.040
<v Speaker 1>grow up in a religious household and then they meet

0:53:16.040 --> 0:53:18.520
<v Speaker 1>a group of other young people their age and they're like,

0:53:18.560 --> 0:53:20.880
<v Speaker 1>how are you guys staying so cool? And most of

0:53:20.920 --> 0:53:24.360
<v Speaker 1>the time they're like, well, we do whippets every moment

0:53:24.440 --> 0:53:27.839
<v Speaker 1>of every day. But you happen to meet people who

0:53:27.880 --> 0:53:30.200
<v Speaker 1>are like, no, we like Jesus, and so that's good.

0:53:30.719 --> 0:53:33.640
<v Speaker 1>Is it Jesus? Or is it? Are you Buddhist? What's up?

0:53:34.080 --> 0:53:36.920
<v Speaker 1>Does Buddha make people wait to have sex? What are you?

0:53:37.760 --> 0:53:39.840
<v Speaker 3>It's a Christian?

0:53:43.480 --> 0:53:44.920
<v Speaker 1>Do what you ever do whippets?

0:53:47.440 --> 0:53:50.719
<v Speaker 3>No? I never have. The most I've ever done is

0:53:50.800 --> 0:53:54.640
<v Speaker 3>like weed, and that's not even that intense. And I

0:53:54.680 --> 0:53:56.840
<v Speaker 3>have like a really bad experience with it, like a

0:53:56.840 --> 0:53:58.480
<v Speaker 3>couple of months ago, so I'm like, I don't even

0:53:58.520 --> 0:53:59.240
<v Speaker 3>touch it anymore.

0:54:00.880 --> 0:54:02.520
<v Speaker 1>A couple of months ago. Wait, so when did you

0:54:02.640 --> 0:54:06.759
<v Speaker 1>start when was it? Like, Okay, I'm not uh is

0:54:06.840 --> 0:54:09.040
<v Speaker 1>we as God against weed? Can you smoke weed? As

0:54:09.040 --> 0:54:09.520
<v Speaker 1>a Christian?

0:54:12.800 --> 0:54:16.840
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I think you can enjoy things like within reason.

0:54:16.960 --> 0:54:19.280
<v Speaker 3>Like I feel like, you know, like you can enjoy

0:54:19.360 --> 0:54:25.160
<v Speaker 3>alcohol to like, you know, not to like like so

0:54:25.280 --> 0:54:27.120
<v Speaker 3>much that you're getting like drunk every night. Like, I

0:54:27.120 --> 0:54:29.960
<v Speaker 3>think you can like enjoy enjoy those things, And I

0:54:29.960 --> 0:54:31.839
<v Speaker 3>would like say the same thing for weed. I don't

0:54:31.840 --> 0:54:34.080
<v Speaker 3>really see a big difference between the two, you know,

0:54:34.880 --> 0:54:38.600
<v Speaker 3>mm hm m hm. How do you do you think

0:54:38.600 --> 0:54:43.320
<v Speaker 3>as long as you know, ahead, sorry.

0:54:44.000 --> 0:54:47.960
<v Speaker 1>No, no, I'm awkward as fuck. Go ahead, No, me too.

0:54:48.000 --> 0:54:52.360
<v Speaker 3>I'm like so scared right now. I mean, I don't know.

0:54:52.400 --> 0:54:53.959
<v Speaker 3>I feel like as long as you're like not doing

0:54:53.960 --> 0:54:56.320
<v Speaker 3>those things to like the point that it's like ruining

0:54:56.360 --> 0:55:00.000
<v Speaker 3>your life, you know. But I guess you know everyone

0:55:00.040 --> 0:55:02.640
<v Speaker 3>it's different and have different polances. It's obviously not the

0:55:02.640 --> 0:55:03.440
<v Speaker 3>same for everyone.

0:55:03.480 --> 0:55:09.280
<v Speaker 1>You know. Howd you meet your husband?

0:55:12.080 --> 0:55:13.160
<v Speaker 3>We met at a bonfire?

0:55:16.360 --> 0:55:18.719
<v Speaker 1>That's cool. Well, what was the first thing he said

0:55:18.719 --> 0:55:21.800
<v Speaker 1>to him?

0:55:22.239 --> 0:55:24.880
<v Speaker 3>I don't even remember. He was honestly, like such a dork.

0:55:25.120 --> 0:55:30.239
<v Speaker 3>It's kind of cringey. What don't I don't remember, I

0:55:30.320 --> 0:55:30.560
<v Speaker 3>just know.

0:55:31.600 --> 0:55:34.480
<v Speaker 1>Was this like a Was this like a Christian bonfire,

0:55:34.680 --> 0:55:38.200
<v Speaker 1>like at Christian meetup group or something?

0:55:40.280 --> 0:55:43.400
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was like a Christian community on our campus.

0:55:45.160 --> 0:55:49.520
<v Speaker 1>That's cool. I'm Jewish and we we don't have the

0:55:49.600 --> 0:55:52.879
<v Speaker 1>last time we had a big bonfire was actually when

0:55:52.920 --> 0:55:55.160
<v Speaker 1>we killed Jesus, so we got to do another one.

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<v Speaker 1>We're due for another bonfire. What's there? I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>there was a fire. There might have been if I

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<v Speaker 1>assumed there was a fire when I imagined a scene

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<v Speaker 1>in my head, there was a fire. But anyway, that's

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<v Speaker 1>cool man, And sorry you guys. You guys gonna have

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<v Speaker 1>a kid.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe someday. I don't want it.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now though, Well, Amber, uh, I guess i'll do.

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<v Speaker 1>I have any more questions for you? Where's the guy?

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<v Speaker 1>Where is he at?

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<v Speaker 3>He's like he's not home right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Does he have a job?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>What's he do?

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<v Speaker 3>He works like in a manufacturing warehouse?

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm. What do you do too?

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<v Speaker 3>Crazy? I worked as a obstitute teacher right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you ever get into fights with kids?

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<v Speaker 3>No, but sometimes it's tempting.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, Amber, I'm gonna let you go. Thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>talking to me about stuff. Is there anything else you

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<v Speaker 1>want to say to the people the computer before we go,

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<v Speaker 1>or about any of this?

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<v Speaker 3>No, but thanks for calling and thanks for listening to me.

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<v Speaker 3>I hope you all have a good day and enjoy

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<v Speaker 3>your life.

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<v Speaker 1>You too, Amber, And I'm sorry again about about killing Jesus.

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<v Speaker 5>It's okay, I forgive you.

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<v Speaker 1>Hell yeah, we got it. We did it. We got

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<v Speaker 1>the forgiveness, all right, take care, Amber.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, thank you, have a good day.

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<v Speaker 1>It's funny and actually it's kind of like this, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess in Christian camps, but like in Jewish like when

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<v Speaker 1>I was growing up. Okay, I think from what I

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<v Speaker 1>understand is when you grow up like super Christian, they

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<v Speaker 1>teach you about like abstinence and stay, you know, wait

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<v Speaker 1>until marriage and all that stuff. And from my experience

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<v Speaker 1>in Judaism, it's really been the opposite. They really do

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<v Speaker 1>the opposite. What they do is they have this there's

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<v Speaker 1>this thing goes called BBYO. It's like the Benet Breath

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<v Speaker 1>Youth Organization some shit like that. And Jewish people do

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<v Speaker 1>the opposite where they're like, you guys should start having

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<v Speaker 1>sex right now so we can make more Jewish people.

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<v Speaker 1>They basically take all the Jewish. I think I've talked

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<v Speaker 1>about this on this fucking podcast before, but like they

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<v Speaker 1>basically just take all the Jewish kids and put them

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<v Speaker 1>on a dance floor and so they all start grinding

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<v Speaker 1>on each other. And that's that's kind of what the

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<v Speaker 1>messaging is, is like, don't wait, just have sex right

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<v Speaker 1>I have a baby right now, and that puts you

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<v Speaker 1>into wedlock so that you can make more Jewish people.

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<v Speaker 1>That's for how I understand it. I think I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not qualified to literally talk about anything there.

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<v Speaker 5>Repet goes on the line taking your phone calls every night.

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<v Speaker 2>The rep Can goes to on his eye.

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<v Speaker 1>He's teaching him a loud live your life, but he's

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<v Speaker 1>not ready an expert