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Speaker 1: Hello, what's your name? Squire?

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Speaker 2: Uh, you can give me a name.

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Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna call you Ethan, Ethan? What's up?

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Speaker 1: How can I how can I be on the phone

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Speaker 1: with you today?

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Speaker 2: Well, it's still on a crazy past twenty four hours, young.

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Speaker 1: Tell me why and.

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Speaker 3: How?

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Speaker 2: So? I just had an.

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Speaker 4: Ex girlfriend from.

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Speaker 5: It's a long story.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you want to take it back

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Speaker 2: ten years ago and then, uh, I don't know if

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Speaker 2: you saw my message saying it was wrong for me

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Speaker 2: to steal her family pictures out of anchor.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, you mentioned that you you stole your ex

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Speaker 1: girlfriend's family photos? Now, well how many did you steal?

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Speaker 2: A full album? And whatever was on the wall, just.

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Speaker 1: Like you were, was this from her place or like

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Speaker 1: her mom's place or what was this?

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Speaker 2: This was her place I was, I was living with her,

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Speaker 2: and I was just like, Uh, so, I don't know

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Speaker 2: if we if we take it back. I guess ten

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Speaker 2: years ago we met, I was married, and uh, we

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Speaker 2: kind of we were trying to do a little fuck

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Speaker 2: buddy situation and it didn't work out. We ended up

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Speaker 2: catching feelings and I was still married, so it didn't

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Speaker 2: it didn't It wasn't working for her. So we broke off.

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Speaker 2: Ten years later, I'm single, I made up my my life,

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Speaker 2: you know, started up my own company, and uh, you know,

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Speaker 2: I was doing pretty good. So she comes in back

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Speaker 2: into my life ten years later, and she pretty much

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Speaker 2: after I committed giving up my dogs, my shop. She

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Speaker 2: tells me she wasn't ready for relationships, you know. So

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Speaker 2: I have her photos and I'm thinking about burning them

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Speaker 2: and sending them back to her so she could feel

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Speaker 2: the same pain I felt when my.

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Speaker 4: Dog got put down.

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Speaker 2: So and I was a pretty pretty big story to

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Speaker 2: take on right now. That's where I'm.

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Speaker 4: At right now.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm confused on several aspects of this. The first

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Speaker 1: one is why did you have to what we'll get there,

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Speaker 1: why did you have to kill your dog to be

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Speaker 1: in a relationship with this woman?

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Speaker 2: Well, uh, I was moving back. I was trying to

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Speaker 2: move into her state and I couldn't find I didn't

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Speaker 2: know this was a high risk killed shelter dog location.

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Speaker 6: And uh I was.

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Speaker 2: I was on the timeline, let's just say so, me

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Speaker 2: not thinking what type of stock shelter I took them too,

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Speaker 2: ended up finding out like two or three months later

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Speaker 2: that you know, they got put dog.

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Speaker 1: So so you get all right, so you so this

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Speaker 1: woman comes back into your life. She lives how how

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Speaker 1: many states over does she live?

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Speaker 2: Uh, we'll stayed over a bit. That is this is

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Speaker 2: about you know, over three over it's from I'm in Portland,

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Speaker 2: So she's in California, right like la? All right?

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Speaker 1: All right? And you gave this dog up to a shelter.

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Speaker 1: Why do they do that? Is that a thing? You

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Speaker 1: give a dog up for adoption or to a shelter

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Speaker 1: and they just they fucking kill it? Is that really happen?

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Speaker 2: Well, they gotta they gotta find a house for them.

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Speaker 2: They can't find a recoming home. They you know, depending

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Speaker 2: on the dog, if it's aggressive or not. You know,

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Speaker 2: they they they decide to be there. That yeah, that

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Speaker 2: is kind of fun. And these were great dance you know.

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Speaker 2: I had them from babies and uh, I don't know

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Speaker 2: for at least four years before this woman came back

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Speaker 2: into my life.

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Speaker 1: How how uh? How? Well? Wait, so it was two dogs.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was two to two great days. Uh, I

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Speaker 2: was the owner of three dogs that kept my little

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Speaker 2: friend sheep.

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Speaker 4: And uh so.

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Speaker 2: That's the only my own new buddy at the moment.

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Speaker 1: Man, So you had a friend scheet and two great

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Speaker 1: days you gave the two great dance. How old were they?

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Speaker 5: Uh?

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Speaker 4: There by five six?

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Speaker 5: There were just a year apart.

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Speaker 1: Damn, that's kind of young to just kill a fucking dog.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, like I said, you know, I actually

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Speaker 2: have done more research.

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Speaker 4: I didn't.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't on a timeline, and I know I was.

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Speaker 2: I was committed to this person that I guess didn't.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. I don't know if I'm

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know how that universe works.

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Speaker 1: But like there's got to be something better you can

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Speaker 1: do with the like the shelter. Wise, it's got like

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Speaker 1: if you're got a bunch of people coming to you

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Speaker 1: with dogs, there's gotta be something better to do with

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Speaker 1: them than kill them.

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Speaker 2: I mean yeah, I mean, just were they were there

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Speaker 2: for about a month and a half or two before

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Speaker 2: I call. I mean because I was I was nervous

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Speaker 2: called in to find out they're still there or stick

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Speaker 2: out adopted. So once my friend called in and I

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Speaker 2: found out that, you know, they put them.

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Speaker 1: Down, that's fucked up, man, I'm sorry to hear that.

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Speaker 1: I'm still I'm honestly shocked that that's what they do

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Speaker 1: there's no space anybody, there's gotta be something better they

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Speaker 1: can do than that. I don't know. Anyway, I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: to hear about your dogs. Man. Also, I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: put it on your I'm not gonna put it on

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Speaker 2: The no no and I Caulay, it's all, it's all.

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Speaker 2: It's tall on me. You know. I decided, you know,

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Speaker 2: I shouldn't done research, you know, I decided to do

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Speaker 2: stuff like that. But you know, I also decided I to, like,

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Speaker 2: you know, because I also have kids and decide to,

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Speaker 2: you know, spend time away from the kids. And yeah,

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Speaker 2: you have kids, pig, Yeah, I got kids.

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Speaker 1: How many kids?

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Speaker 2: I got?

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Speaker 5: Three?

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Speaker 2: Twelve ten or fourteen twelve and a three year old?

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Speaker 1: Solve ten and three?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Or I mean it's it's fourteen twelve and three.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, fourteen twelve and three? Okay? And are they with

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Speaker 2: Yes, I mean they're they're they're taken care of and

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Speaker 2: everything that you know, I gave. I gave up you know,

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Speaker 2: to you know, accommodate to this this person about maybe

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Speaker 2: on Sunday she decided to tell me she wasn't ready

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Speaker 2: after a year and I don't know how long that

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Speaker 2: she was already be in a relationship. So I where

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Speaker 2: are your hold on?

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Speaker 1: I want to get there, but like, where where are

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Speaker 1: your kids are they?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: Do they live with uh? With their mom?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? They lived with their moms?

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Speaker 1: Or how long? How long have you and your wife

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Speaker 5: Over three years or so?

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Speaker 1: How often were you were you seeing? Did you guys

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Speaker 1: have a split custody agreement or were they kind of

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Speaker 1: like mainly with mom? What's what's your deal with that?

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Speaker 2: It was pretty open, you know, it was there, you

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Speaker 2: don't we didn't live too far from each other. It

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Speaker 2: was I could go pick them up on the weekend.

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Speaker 2: I could go pick them up.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 2: It was a very mutual release. M hm.

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Speaker 1: So you so you and your ex wife had had

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Speaker 1: like a decent co parenting relationship. There's no crazy animosity

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Speaker 2: No, we know when when she came into alive. No, no,

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Speaker 2: everything was all good. She came back in, and of

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Speaker 2: course there's some anger because you know, there's the same

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Speaker 2: person that came along ten years ago. You know, I

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Speaker 2: decided to drop my whole life.

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Speaker 1: Well, how hell i'm talking about Uh, I'm talking about

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Speaker 1: your ex wife. Like you and your ex wife are

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Speaker 1: are cool. I'm not talking about this woman this yet.

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Speaker 1: But how old are you?

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Speaker 2: By the way, I am too old for this high

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Speaker 2: school stuff. So I'm like thirty six.

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Speaker 1: All right, Okay, So you're living in Portland, you're single,

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Speaker 1: hoping to.

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Speaker 2: Catch your show too.

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Speaker 4: Let's say you're.

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Speaker 1: Living in Portland, you're single, you got your three dogs,

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Speaker 1: you see your kids fairly regularly.

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Speaker 2: And then I do I gotta had a shop? Have

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Speaker 2: a had a shop?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 1: Okay? And then then and then you mentioned that shop.

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Speaker 1: I'm glad you brought that up again. So why why

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Speaker 1: did you have to get rid of your shop? Because

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Speaker 1: you were moving?

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Speaker 2: So I closed it because I wanted to spend now

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Speaker 2: more time in California. So uh, I close the shop.

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Speaker 2: So I could, you know, move to California to be

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Speaker 2: with this person? And I had to do it otherwise

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Speaker 2: I was flying. Like I said, I was flying back

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Speaker 2: and uh, you know, while I was out, you know,

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Speaker 2: I was focused on my work because I have a

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Speaker 1: When when I saw you, when you say you were

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Speaker 1: a community okay, so you were flying back and forth

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Speaker 1: to see this woman and when you were back in

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Speaker 1: with you, not you guys, not communicating.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but like you know, but when I'm important, you know,

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Speaker 1: And what do you what do you do?

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Speaker 2: I do? I do vehicle wraps, and I I want

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Speaker 2: to mention the name of the shop, okay, but I

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Speaker 2: good career.

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Speaker 3: I had.

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Speaker 2: I got a good, good thing one hundred and six

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Speaker 2: K figure a year for the past. The shop was

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Speaker 2: open for six years before this woman came back into

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Speaker 2: my life.

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Speaker 4: So I was doing I was doing.

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Speaker 8: Good, okay.

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Speaker 1: And so when did you decide to fully move from

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Speaker 1: Portland to California?

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Speaker 2: So that decision took place when uh, where I was renting, Uh,

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Speaker 2: I was renting out. The dogs were a little bit

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Speaker 2: of an issue, but you know, I didn't mind. You know,

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Speaker 2: I ended up renting out a house to have my

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Speaker 2: dogs with me. I had their, I had their their

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Speaker 2: paperwork already, and I could have just rented out of

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Speaker 1: Just just real quick, wit, So when did you decide

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Speaker 1: to move from Portland to California?

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Speaker 2: When the apartment complex where I was living at decided

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Speaker 2: that my dogs were they're big?

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Speaker 1: What today? Just real quick? So it's it is May

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Speaker 1: of twenty twenty four. When did you decide to move

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Speaker 1: from California from Portland to California?

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Speaker 4: About September November of last year.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right? And then when did this one

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Speaker 2: I'm back in Forland. I packed up my little my

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Speaker 1: Did you move in with her and her place in California. Yes, okay,

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Speaker 2: I was away from her, and I had my own bills,

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you were went a lot, you were going.

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Speaker 1: going back and forth. Correct, all right, So now I

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Speaker 7: No, No, I don't want to talk to her, okay,

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Speaker 7: And she she and her little courtesy and reaching back

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Speaker 2: Later, because yeah, this really shook fire my whole life.

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Speaker 1: Mm hm oh yeah, I almost honestly forgot about the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I haven't forgot about that either.

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Speaker 1: You're where are so? I mean this is really fresh.

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Speaker 1: This is I mean Sunday, that's three days ago. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Do you have a place?

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Speaker 2: I have place, yes, Oli, friends are not a place

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Speaker 1: And so she tells you this in person on Sunday

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Speaker 2: I did, I mean, I actually, you know, I was.

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Speaker 2: I did a I did I'm not sacrifice. I moved

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Speaker 5: And so.

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Speaker 2: I was just hoping, you know, to to have the

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Speaker 4: Proof that I was committed.

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Speaker 5: Or something that mm hm, m hm.

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Speaker 1: How you doing Ethan, I'm I'm angry. So, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I mean, look, man, I got a few things. One is,

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Speaker 1: you said you're you're you want to angrily burn.

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Speaker 2: Them, yes, and send them right back at her. You know,

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Speaker 2: she could live with I have to live with my

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Speaker 1: I'm going to try to give it. Would you let

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Speaker 2: Yes, Okay, I've been thinking about this all day.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm going to try to give you a compelling

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Speaker 1: I get it. I get what was behind moving all

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Speaker 1: that's great. And so that's why i've recently, you know,

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Speaker 1: or however long that you've been maneuvering around the pieces

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Speaker 1: And when you burn her family photos out of anger

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Speaker 1: You don't need a whole I mean apologize if you want.

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Speaker 1: You don't need a whole thing, you don't need a

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Speaker 1: fuck this, I'm pissed off. Fuck this. You know, you're

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Speaker 1: What do you think about any of that?

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Speaker 2: From hearing that, you know, I feel at peace and

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Speaker 2: something I should I should do, but.

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Speaker 9: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Like I said, I felt like like I bandoned my kids.

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Speaker 1: You felt like you abandoned your kids.

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Speaker 2: I'm here from going like I could. I could see

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Speaker 1: As I wanted to Ethan, Ethan, Ethan and Ethan. Yeah, okay, dude,

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Speaker 1: there's still time. You have a three year old, at

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Speaker 1: have like you're acting like you've you've burned everything to

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Speaker 1: the fucking ground. Man, there's still time, Like if I

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Speaker 1: if dude, like if I were you, man, like fucking

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna fucking you know, I'm not gonna sit here

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Speaker 1: you know what, I'm gonna cut my fucking losses, look

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Speaker 1: to the future. Hey, I can still rebuild my shop. Hey,

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Speaker 1: I can still be a dad to my kids. Hey,

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Speaker 1: I can still be a good dog, dad to this frendsheet.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 1: And the time that you're spending focusing in in stewing

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, are you there, Ethan?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm still I'm stillious.

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Speaker 1: Does any of this resonate with you?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean I said I I haven't spoken to

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Speaker 1: Why do you feel dumb?

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Speaker 2: No? I mean, you know it's I feel better just

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Speaker 1: Mm hmmm mm hm. Dude, I'm telling you, I'll I'll

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Speaker 1: just say everything I just said again. It's like you

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Speaker 1: taking care of your dog. You can still do all

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Speaker 1: all of it really well, now that you're not distracted

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Speaker 4: Yeah okay, well yeah, well definitely.

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Speaker 1: What's going on.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it was just I don't know, I just

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Speaker 4: And come back into my life.

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Speaker 2: You know, why? Why did she question.

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Speaker 4: The love that I had towards.

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Speaker 9: Her while I was moving all these pieces, like there

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Speaker 1: Whatever, dude, I listen, listen. I know, I know that

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Speaker 1: You've got three kids, man, No, no.

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Speaker 2: I I know I got a life. I know you

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Speaker 1: You got my job, and you got your shop, and

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Speaker 2: To make six figures. And I know it's just.

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Speaker 4: It's just the.

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Speaker 2: Research is what's you know bothering most? Because I did

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Speaker 2: tell her that, you know, if we were gonna try

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Speaker 8: Okay, Ethan, Yeah, what's up?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm okay. Let me just I'm definitely

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Speaker 2: gonna take into consderation just mounting them back in and

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Speaker 2: caught mynassis. Okay, Yes, I know, I know I could do.

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Speaker 2: I know I could do whatever I could.

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Speaker 5: I could.

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Speaker 2: I know I could do. I have the resources to do.

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Speaker 2: When you build myself ill, I know that's not the

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Speaker 1: Takes a look. Look, bro, take some time to mourn.

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Speaker 1: It's cool to take some time to mourn. It's totally

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Speaker 2: I was, like I was even to Patrick, like.

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Speaker 1: Dude, dude, just whatever you do, don't don't burn those photos,

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Speaker 1: not because of anything with her, but because it will

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Speaker 1: only deepen your issues. It won't make them better. Thank you, Ethan.

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Speaker 1: Is there anything else that you want to say about

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Speaker 2: H I really think, I think, really think things through

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Speaker 1: The what we'll say, all right, take care of you,

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Speaker 1: and I'll say one more day. If you get anything

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Speaker 1: if it was helpful to you, Okay, rewatch this if

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Speaker 1: go right back to being like fuck this, fuck her,

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Speaker 1: fuck everything. But you just gotta keep reminding yourself that

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Speaker 8: Thank you, take care of them, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Life is crazy. I guess there is something kind of

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Speaker 5: What's up? Man?

475
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:26,760
Speaker 1: What's up? Dude? What's your name?

476
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:27,920
Speaker 5: This is Ian?

477
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Speaker 1: Has your life going, Ian?

478
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 5: It's going great? All right? So this is my first

479
00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:34,800
Speaker 5: stream I've watched. I've been working on YouTube for a

480
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:37,320
Speaker 5: couple of weeks now, So I walked on I like,

481
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:40,160
Speaker 5: got my trich setup and then follow you and then

482
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:41,640
Speaker 5: I saw your stream and so I'm like, fuck it,

483
00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:44,719
Speaker 5: I'll send a text. I feel I feel blessed to

484
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Speaker 5: be the first person.

485
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Speaker 1: You call nice man, nice well. Ian, Yeah, you texted

486
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:54,959
Speaker 1: me and you said that you're a driving instructor, and

487
00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 1: then you wrote after that you said, I guess that's

488
00:31:56,880 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 1: a good conversation, and uh, I'm curious, have you ever

489
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:06,960
Speaker 1: been in a car with somebody that you're instructing on

490
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Speaker 1: how to drive? And uh, they crash into somebody and

491
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Speaker 1: kill them.

492
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Speaker 5: No, No, definitely I don't. I don't think I still

493
00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 5: have a job if that happened.

494
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Speaker 1: Really, I mean, I like, you don't have liability in

495
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 1: that situation.

496
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Speaker 5: Well, I mean I have like a little brake pedal,

497
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 5: so I have I have some modicum of control.

498
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Speaker 1: But if you're in that much, if you're in the

499
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Speaker 1: passenger seat and somebody in the driver's seat runs over

500
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Speaker 1: somebody and kills them, are you legally liable because you

501
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:48,120
Speaker 1: have your own break?

502
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 5: I mean maybe I don't. I'm sure somewhere in the

503
00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:58,800
Speaker 5: world someone has been on a driving lesson and run

504
00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 5: over somebody else, Like I can see that happening for sure.

505
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:04,520
Speaker 1: Are you a good driver.

506
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 5: Personally? I've been. I've been pretty good. Yeah, in the

507
00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 5: past past few months. Yeah, I mean when I was younger, definitely,

508
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 5: I mean younger isn't like a few years ago. Definitely

509
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 5: not the best driver. But yeah, I've chilled out for

510
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:17,600
Speaker 5: sure a little bit.

511
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Speaker 1: Well, now, when you say you weren't the best driver,

512
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:24,960
Speaker 1: what made you not a good driver and what did

513
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 1: you chill out to become a better driver?

514
00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:32,560
Speaker 5: Yeah? I was mainly like a pretty bad speeder when

515
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:34,120
Speaker 5: I was younger, So I was just kind of going

516
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:37,200
Speaker 5: out super late at night and just drive super super

517
00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:38,880
Speaker 5: fucking fast.

518
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:42,200
Speaker 1: M Do you ever get the urge to do that again?

519
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:47,320
Speaker 5: No? Not. I try to keep it under ninety, which

520
00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 5: is still a pretty big number, but under ninety less

521
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 5: then under ninety Yeah.

522
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Speaker 1: What what's the speed limit where you live?

523
00:33:55,680 --> 00:34:00,880
Speaker 5: Oh, like seventy five okay, so in my mind that's

524
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:04,120
Speaker 5: not too much, but yeah it's still fifteen over, which

525
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 5: is kind of a lot. But no, Yeah, usually go

526
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:07,959
Speaker 5: about like, I don't know, seventy five or eighty when

527
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:10,319
Speaker 5: I'm driving around. But there's sometimes I get a little

528
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:11,839
Speaker 5: bit of a little bit of road rage, for sure.

529
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Speaker 1: What you get a little bit of road rage? You say?

530
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:19,320
Speaker 5: Very rarely? Yeah, very rarely. There's some crazy drivers out.

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Speaker 1: Here, really, because I imagine you as like some kind

532
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:25,840
Speaker 1: of zen master of driving where nothing bothers you. But

533
00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:29,200
Speaker 1: what gives your road rage is a people going slow?

534
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 1: Is it people cutting you off? As people entering your

535
00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:38,720
Speaker 1: car and taking No, it's usually people all the stuffing

536
00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:41,520
Speaker 1: out of your seats. What gives it gives you road rage?

537
00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 5: Okay, well, yeah, taking all the stuffing out of my

538
00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:46,920
Speaker 5: seats would probably be the last, or it's already pretty

539
00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:50,280
Speaker 5: uncomfortable in my car. But no, it's it's usually people

540
00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:54,920
Speaker 5: that pass like a little like uncomfortably too close. I

541
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 5: can get you know, some people just don't see me.

542
00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 5: But sometimes it's like, okay, like I see you in

543
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:01,200
Speaker 5: my rear view. You're coming up at like one hundred

544
00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:02,799
Speaker 5: and ten or whatever. I'm going like speed to it,

545
00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:05,759
Speaker 5: and then you decide to do some super close shit

546
00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:07,560
Speaker 5: and I'm like, I don't want to hit anybody for

547
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:10,640
Speaker 5: that makes me mad. I know it shouldn't, but it does.

548
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:16,040
Speaker 1: Hey, I got a question for you. Yeah, what's your

549
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 1: take on walking?

550
00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:21,319
Speaker 5: My take on walking? It's not too bad, man, it's

551
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 5: not too bad. I mean, given a good pair of

552
00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:28,680
Speaker 5: shoes and you know, not terribly hot weather, yeah I

553
00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:29,160
Speaker 5: could walk.

554
00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:37,840
Speaker 1: What was your dream when you were a child?

555
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:43,359
Speaker 5: My dream, like the like dream goal in life.

556
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:43,840
Speaker 1: Yeah?

557
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:47,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, Oh I always wanted to be a pilot.

558
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:53,600
Speaker 1: Yeah you all right? Look I mean like of an airplane.

559
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:55,240
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, like a plane, an airplane.

560
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:58,600
Speaker 1: Yeah okay, I mean you did pretty good if that

561
00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 1: was your goal. Yeah yeah, I mean because you're not

562
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 1: I mean you're a no, I mean you are a pilot,

563
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:09,160
Speaker 1: but just of a car, which I guess is not

564
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:12,480
Speaker 1: that special because most a lot of people, they give

565
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:17,359
Speaker 1: a driver's license a lot more freely than plane licenses, which,

566
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:18,880
Speaker 1: by the way, I don't think that they should. I

567
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 1: think it should be just as hard to get a

568
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 1: driver's license as it is to get a plane one,

569
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Speaker 1: because it's safer to fly on a plane than be

570
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Speaker 1: in a car.

571
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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's totally true. Yeah, it's a lot more. I

572
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 5: mean in some places that it's a little bit harder.

573
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Speaker 5: I've watched videos, like in Germany they have to do

574
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Speaker 5: some thing. It's like hours. It's like crazy amount of

575
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Speaker 5: hours of like studying and taking all these tests. But right,

576
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:49,880
Speaker 5: that's true. It's incredibly easy to get a license.

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Speaker 1: Dude. You can be sixteen and high and they'll let

578
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Speaker 1: you drive a car. It's pretty wild.

579
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Speaker 5: Nobody's gonna say anything. Nobody stops you. And that's the thing.

580
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Speaker 5: Like I do just like multiple hours of talking to

581
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:06,680
Speaker 5: students and they're all about like sixteen or whatever. I

582
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:08,440
Speaker 5: just I talked to them about like random shit. It's

583
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:10,359
Speaker 5: for a unique position, so I guess it just talks

584
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 5: them and it sounds like for some reason, yeah, a

585
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 5: lot of people do like smoking at that age.

586
00:37:15,200 --> 00:37:18,719
Speaker 1: But they're all high. They're all Every sixteen year old

587
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:22,320
Speaker 1: that you are teaching how to drive is high while

588
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:26,799
Speaker 1: you're teaching them, because you learn when you're like in

589
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 1: high school, every like weed person, you learn. Okay, look look, look,

590
00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:37,879
Speaker 1: driving stones is a d uy. It's a d ui.

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00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:41,759
Speaker 1: All right, you can't argue with it. It is undeniably

592
00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:47,120
Speaker 1: a d ui. But some at some point, like I

593
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:50,759
Speaker 1: like if you have an older sibling or like some

594
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 1: some other kid tells you that you can drive high

595
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 1: and it's not that big of a deal and you

596
00:37:56,200 --> 00:38:02,000
Speaker 1: believe them forever and you driver. And also because like

597
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 1: driving around in a car, they call it a blunt ride.

598
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:10,880
Speaker 1: Driving around in a car getting high at sixteen dangerous

599
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:13,839
Speaker 1: thing to do. But also, I mean, the most fun

600
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 1: that you'll ever have in your entire life until you

601
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 1: get a DUI and your life sucks from then on.

602
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 1: But every kid that you're teaching how to drive is

603
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 1: incredibly stoned.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I believe it. In some cases, I would

605
00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 5: definitely definitely believe it. Well, the thing that's crazy, too,

606
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:35,320
Speaker 5: is there's no like compared to like alcohol, there's no

607
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:39,800
Speaker 5: like roadside, real like furious test that tells you know

608
00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 5: yes or no if you're high. It's just you know

609
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:44,319
Speaker 5: if your eyes are red. I guess I don't know.

610
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:47,799
Speaker 5: I've never never run into that problem, but I could

611
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,160
Speaker 5: definitely see that being the case every student being high.

612
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:54,400
Speaker 5: And that's only slightly concerning because nobody's crashed yet, so

613
00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:55,839
Speaker 5: I guess they're doing a good job at it.

614
00:38:57,000 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 1: Some people say that they're better drivers when they're high,

615
00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:02,840
Speaker 1: but I don't believe them at all. I mean, people

616
00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:05,879
Speaker 1: have said that about being drunk too, and I don't

617
00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:08,279
Speaker 1: believe them. Do you get high? Do you smoke weed?

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Speaker 5: I mean I've kind of chilled. Maybe like once a month.

619
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 5: I definitely used to be daily user, but maybe like

620
00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 5: once a month now. Yeah, when you.

621
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Speaker 1: Were you driving high? Were remember when you were saying

622
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:22,480
Speaker 1: you were speeding when you're going ninety when you're going

623
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 1: ninety five? Are you stone dead of your gord?

624
00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:31,400
Speaker 5: Not recently, but as far as the past goes, maybe

625
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:33,040
Speaker 5: maybe not. I'll play the fifth on that one.

626
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:37,920
Speaker 1: Okay, Does that disqualify you from being a driver driving instructor?

627
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:41,040
Speaker 1: If you've ever gotten high?

628
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Speaker 5: They never asked me about that. I mean, I would

629
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Speaker 5: assume they probably prown upon you being high while you're

630
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Speaker 5: teaching people how to drive.

631
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Speaker 1: But probably never said they do they drug test you

632
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:49,920
Speaker 1: for that?

633
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 5: No, I mean they pulled my driving record and that

634
00:39:54,160 --> 00:39:57,040
Speaker 5: was pretty much the extent of like any background check.

635
00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:01,880
Speaker 1: What there should be like a driving school that you

636
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:08,399
Speaker 1: go to to learn how to drive drunk, Like they

637
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 1: teach you how to do it so and and it

638
00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:13,880
Speaker 1: should and it's just like it should still be illegal

639
00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:18,279
Speaker 1: and you still shouldn't do it, but there's it's kind

640
00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:21,840
Speaker 1: of like how you know how there's like like safe

641
00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:23,959
Speaker 1: injection spots, the kind of thing where it's like people

642
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 1: are gonna do it anyway, so let's you know, kind

643
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:31,240
Speaker 1: of prep them for it. Like let's do a drunk

644
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 1: driving school where you can drive drunk, which you shouldn't

645
00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 1: do and should definitely be illegal, but if you're gonna

646
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:42,520
Speaker 1: do it, here's the here's how to do it.

647
00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:46,319
Speaker 5: I guess, yeah, like here's why you did not do it,

648
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:50,400
Speaker 5: because I guess everybody gets to crash while they're drunk

649
00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:52,520
Speaker 5: once and then say, well I went to drunk prep school,

650
00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:53,399
Speaker 5: I'm not going to do it again.

651
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:59,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, what if there there should actually be like you're

652
00:40:59,880 --> 00:41:02,560
Speaker 1: not allowed to get drunk and ride bumper cars or

653
00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:04,719
Speaker 1: go karts or something, but they should really just like

654
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:09,760
Speaker 1: idiot proof maybe like a dome or an arena or something,

655
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 1: and like make some really really fuzzy cars, put like

656
00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:16,360
Speaker 1: a bunch of padding on them and shit, and be like,

657
00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:18,960
Speaker 1: all right, in this one instance, you can get drunk

658
00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:23,160
Speaker 1: and drive and this controlled environment for all of a sudden.

659
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:26,080
Speaker 1: I think that would like curb drunk driving. We like

660
00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:29,640
Speaker 1: a purge of drunk driving. But it was like one dough.

661
00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:33,719
Speaker 1: It was like a big dome complex where everything is

662
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:37,520
Speaker 1: padded and pillows and I don't know if pillows are

663
00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:38,920
Speaker 1: going to stop a car crash, but you know what.

664
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:41,880
Speaker 5: I'm saying, Yeah, yeah, yeah, kind of like how they

665
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:45,040
Speaker 5: do like the drag race, Like the cops will shipped

666
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:48,000
Speaker 5: like drag races and it's like racing racing cop type deal.

667
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:54,279
Speaker 5: I don't, I don't know have you ever heard of that?

668
00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:56,239
Speaker 1: I do know, I don't know if that had anything

669
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:57,759
Speaker 1: to do with what I was talking about, But also

670
00:41:57,800 --> 00:41:59,719
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know what I was talking about

671
00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:01,000
Speaker 1: even really made any sense.

672
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:05,080
Speaker 5: So that's okay, It totally dood Yeah, yeah.

673
00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:06,759
Speaker 1: What's your do you would you ever do a drag race?

674
00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:08,600
Speaker 1: Are you fast? Do you think you could do well

675
00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 1: in a drag race? Me?

676
00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:14,919
Speaker 5: Well, it depends on the car, I guess, because it's

677
00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:16,879
Speaker 5: just kind of like something throng and go. I've done

678
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:20,200
Speaker 5: some a couple of races that like were not necessarily racist,

679
00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:22,359
Speaker 5: but some like track days for sure, going around track,

680
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:23,560
Speaker 5: but I haven't done any drag racing.

681
00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:29,319
Speaker 1: No, do you think you'd be good if if you

682
00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:30,680
Speaker 1: were to do drag racing?

683
00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:33,279
Speaker 4: Yeah?

684
00:42:33,320 --> 00:42:35,000
Speaker 5: I don't know if my car would be good. I

685
00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 5: don't think. I don't think you would like that very much,

686
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:38,680
Speaker 5: but yeah, I could definitely try it.

687
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 2: Sure.

688
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 1: One of my I actually might have talked about this

689
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:44,440
Speaker 1: on the podcast before, but one of my favorite Onion

690
00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:50,880
Speaker 1: articles is driving Instructor has own gas pedal in case

691
00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:52,280
Speaker 1: student a total pussy.

692
00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:56,919
Speaker 5: No, there are definitely some times I wish I had

693
00:42:56,960 --> 00:42:59,359
Speaker 5: like bluetooth gas total because you know, we'll like make

694
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:01,440
Speaker 5: a turn or something and I'm like, Okay, there's a

695
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:04,600
Speaker 5: car coming in like forty five and returning going like ten,

696
00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:06,400
Speaker 5: Like we need to kind of pick that up a

697
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:06,799
Speaker 5: little bit.

698
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:08,640
Speaker 1: So yeah, I could.

699
00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:10,160
Speaker 5: Totally see it being a thing. I wish it was

700
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:11,720
Speaker 5: a thing, but only it was a pre pedal.

701
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:17,480
Speaker 1: That's actually a good. That's a good. Driving instructor reacts

702
00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:21,000
Speaker 1: to the Onion article. Take like that's a good because

703
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:23,400
Speaker 1: it seems like just a joke at the first, But

704
00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:27,680
Speaker 1: you're right, Actually a second gas pedal would be good

705
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:30,239
Speaker 1: because sometimes it is it's dangerous to go slow.

706
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:33,600
Speaker 5: Or like you know, sometimes we got on the interstate too,

707
00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:36,040
Speaker 5: it's like, okay, we need to be going a little

708
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:38,040
Speaker 5: bit more than like thirty here you have to speed

709
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:39,920
Speaker 5: them at seventy five, right, yeah, so to give a

710
00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:42,200
Speaker 5: little bit more good things moving along.

711
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:46,400
Speaker 1: So, is anything horribly wrong with your life that you

712
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:47,600
Speaker 1: want to talk about before we go?

713
00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:53,160
Speaker 5: Ooh, horribly wrong with my No? I mean muddy's tight

714
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:56,120
Speaker 5: for sure. I mean being a driving instructor is fun,

715
00:43:56,239 --> 00:44:01,520
Speaker 5: but it's not incredibly the most high paying job out there.

716
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:06,160
Speaker 5: Somebody's tying a little bit, but not necessarily anything horribly wrong.

717
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:08,360
Speaker 1: I don't think it can probably makes some extra money

718
00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:12,360
Speaker 1: selling weed to the kids.

719
00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:18,080
Speaker 5: I probably could there, definitely, I've met some that that

720
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:23,440
Speaker 5: probably could happen. I don't know anything I could get with. Yeah, No,

721
00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:24,759
Speaker 5: I don't think I could get wait with it, but

722
00:44:24,800 --> 00:44:28,040
Speaker 5: definitely I'm sure again it's not outside the ramapossible.

723
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:29,359
Speaker 1: Why you think you think? You think one of them

724
00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:30,120
Speaker 1: would narc on you.

725
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:36,240
Speaker 5: I don't know how i'd get away, like in broad daylight,

726
00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:38,440
Speaker 5: like to pull back up to the driving school and

727
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 5: just like what were you doing out there for? Like

728
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:43,319
Speaker 5: either ten minutes? Oh, no big deal, you know, just

729
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:46,719
Speaker 5: just talking. I guess it wouldn't be too hard to

730
00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:49,160
Speaker 5: get with. I don't know if I have the I

731
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:52,799
Speaker 5: have the I don't know. I feel I'm not too

732
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:53,879
Speaker 5: good at doing shit like that.

733
00:44:56,200 --> 00:44:57,080
Speaker 1: What's your name again?

734
00:44:58,440 --> 00:44:59,560
Speaker 5: Ian Ian?

735
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:00,759
Speaker 1: Is there anything else you want to say to the

736
00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:02,000
Speaker 1: people the computer before we go?

737
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:08,040
Speaker 5: M would I to say, for buddy, it's dangerous, but no,

738
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:09,200
Speaker 5: thanks for taking my came man.

739
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:12,560
Speaker 1: Appreciate the podcast, of course, take carry and good luck,

740
00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:19,200
Speaker 1: be so good night. I need I need a Gecko

741
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:23,880
Speaker 1: instructor who has his own hang up the phone button,

742
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 1: just in case if things get a little too crazy.

743
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:30,920
Speaker 1: You know, ian Ian seems like a cool guy. I

744
00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:33,719
Speaker 1: bet I hope he finds a better way to make

745
00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 1: money than selling weed to teenagers. Although I mean, when

746
00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:43,080
Speaker 1: I was a teenager, the other teenagers that were selling

747
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:46,080
Speaker 1: teenage me weed. They made a lot of money. They

748
00:45:46,080 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 1: made more money than I think a lot of people

749
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:54,040
Speaker 1: make as adults. So, you know, I guess it is

750
00:45:54,080 --> 00:46:00,759
Speaker 1: a viable career option. Hello, Hello there, what's up. What's

751
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:01,200
Speaker 1: your name?

752
00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:05,920
Speaker 3: My name's Amber, There is Amber.

753
00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:08,359
Speaker 1: How can I what's up? Man? What do you want

754
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:10,640
Speaker 1: to talk about today on the Gecko Show?

755
00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 3: Well, I recently lost my virginity and it was like

756
00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:20,439
Speaker 3: it kind of suck.

757
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:23,879
Speaker 1: Interesting like both of us.

758
00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:27,799
Speaker 3: But I mean, I don't know how old are you?

759
00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:31,120
Speaker 3: Twenty four?

760
00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:34,320
Speaker 1: Twenty four? And so you just were is this was

761
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:36,880
Speaker 1: this like a it was this like a waiting for

762
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:37,960
Speaker 1: marriage thing?

763
00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:38,560
Speaker 6: Was it?

764
00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:38,759
Speaker 2: Uh?

765
00:46:39,040 --> 00:46:40,680
Speaker 1: You know, the timing never happens thing?

766
00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:40,880
Speaker 8: What?

767
00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 1: Uh? You know, what was the deal?

768
00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:47,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was like it was a waiting for marriage thing.

769
00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:56,239
Speaker 1: And are you are you religious? Yeah?

770
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:57,360
Speaker 3: We both are.

771
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 1: And you said it sucked, So I guess, I mean,

772
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:04,640
Speaker 1: I guess of course it's gonna yeah, I mean, it's

773
00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:07,040
Speaker 1: definitely gonna suck. I guess, well, no, I'm not gonna

774
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:09,759
Speaker 1: say it's definitely gonna suck, because I guess you have

775
00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:13,319
Speaker 1: the pro of the fact that the person you're doing

776
00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:16,000
Speaker 1: it with is somebody who you've you know, made this,

777
00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:19,719
Speaker 1: you know, big commitment to and so there's some like

778
00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:25,920
Speaker 1: comfort in that. But you know, they also probably don't

779
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:28,440
Speaker 1: know how to eat pussy very well because they've never

780
00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:35,520
Speaker 1: done it before. So yeah, we'll tell me. Why did it?

781
00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:36,200
Speaker 1: Why did it suck?

782
00:47:38,239 --> 00:47:39,799
Speaker 5: It hurts like.

783
00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 3: It's it's like it's uncomfortable, like I've never I don't know,

784
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:51,279
Speaker 3: I had something like that big down there, and it's

785
00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:55,000
Speaker 3: hard to like relax too, Like, I don't know, you

786
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:55,759
Speaker 3: stressed out?

787
00:47:55,840 --> 00:48:02,839
Speaker 1: And did it live up to your expectations at all?

788
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:08,440
Speaker 3: I mean kind of yeah, Like I wasn't really expecting

789
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:11,960
Speaker 3: it to be good, you know, just because it was

790
00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:15,320
Speaker 3: our first time and I mean the rest know what

791
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 3: the fuck we're doing, you know, So I wasn't like

792
00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:23,640
Speaker 3: really I wasn't really disappointed, Like I think, it was

793
00:48:23,680 --> 00:48:25,200
Speaker 3: still like a good time and it was like a

794
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:28,280
Speaker 3: good experience that we both had and it's just something

795
00:48:28,280 --> 00:48:30,920
Speaker 3: that we'll keep working on together and I look forward

796
00:48:30,960 --> 00:48:31,239
Speaker 3: to that.

797
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:31,520
Speaker 2: You know.

798
00:48:32,239 --> 00:48:34,760
Speaker 1: That's very nice. How was it for him? Was he stoked?

799
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:37,560
Speaker 2: Yeah?

800
00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:41,839
Speaker 3: I mean we were both stoked. We're both like really

801
00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 3: nervous though, like we both kind of struggled. So, I

802
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:45,720
Speaker 3: mean we're kind of on like the same boat.

803
00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:49,000
Speaker 1: You know, how long have you guys been dating for?

804
00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:56,719
Speaker 3: Think two or three years now? I think two years?

805
00:48:57,000 --> 00:49:00,640
Speaker 1: And what was it about him that uh made you

806
00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:05,080
Speaker 1: want him to be the first and only person to

807
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:08,080
Speaker 1: ever touch touch a penis of?

808
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:16,400
Speaker 3: He's just so sweet and caring and he's someone that

809
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:19,560
Speaker 3: I can be vulnerable around, you know, like I don't

810
00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:23,680
Speaker 3: need to feel uncomfortable around him, Like I don't know,

811
00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:26,200
Speaker 3: I just feel really comfortable being vulnerable around him. And

812
00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:28,960
Speaker 3: he's so patient and so kind, and he loves me

813
00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:31,680
Speaker 3: so much and I love him a lot too, and

814
00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:35,680
Speaker 3: he just gets me like we're both just I don't know,

815
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:37,920
Speaker 3: we just fit each other well, you know, you know

816
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:39,600
Speaker 3: what I mean, Like you just get along with someone

817
00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:43,640
Speaker 3: really well, that's nice.

818
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:46,720
Speaker 1: That's nice, you know. I get I've never been a big,

819
00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:53,880
Speaker 1: uh like religious person, and I think, well, anytime I

820
00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:56,759
Speaker 1: talk to somebody who's religious, are like, uh, you know,

821
00:49:56,920 --> 00:49:59,759
Speaker 1: like what you just said, there does seem to be

822
00:49:59,800 --> 00:50:06,000
Speaker 1: this lowering of anxiety. There's something what's the app lowering

823
00:50:06,040 --> 00:50:08,600
Speaker 1: of anxiety? Fucking there does seem to be this this

824
00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:14,680
Speaker 1: calmness too. I'm gonna follow these rules, and uh, when

825
00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:17,239
Speaker 1: I get lost in life, I have these rules that

826
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:19,600
Speaker 1: I can go back to, you know what I mean.

827
00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:23,400
Speaker 1: Like that sounds like it gives you less sure, you know,

828
00:50:23,480 --> 00:50:24,800
Speaker 1: being on hinge or whatever.

829
00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:30,480
Speaker 3: No, I like completely feel that. Like I wasn't really

830
00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:34,960
Speaker 3: religious until like I don't know, like two or three

831
00:50:35,120 --> 00:50:38,799
Speaker 3: or no, like four years ago, and like I was

832
00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:42,759
Speaker 3: kind of feral, Like I don't know, it was it

833
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:46,279
Speaker 3: was kind of hard, like living through life thinking like

834
00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:50,440
Speaker 3: there's no purpose, like we're all gonna die, Like I

835
00:50:50,480 --> 00:50:52,560
Speaker 3: don't you know what I mean, Like I can just

836
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:56,040
Speaker 3: do whatever I want, whatever makes me feel good in

837
00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:58,920
Speaker 3: the moment. And I just kind of I don't know,

838
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:01,759
Speaker 3: like I would get like drunk every weekend and it

839
00:51:01,840 --> 00:51:05,240
Speaker 3: was it like sucked, Like I thought I was happy,

840
00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:07,600
Speaker 3: and like it just wasn't for me. Like not saying that.

841
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:10,399
Speaker 3: You know, if you enjoy those things, like there's nothing

842
00:51:10,440 --> 00:51:12,840
Speaker 3: wrong with it, but like for me, it's just I

843
00:51:12,840 --> 00:51:16,399
Speaker 3: don't know, I just felt really lonely and all that.

844
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:21,160
Speaker 1: You know, And what was your come to Jesus' moments?

845
00:51:21,160 --> 00:51:24,160
Speaker 1: What was it that transition to you from being quote

846
00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:26,560
Speaker 1: feral into being a woman of God?

847
00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:34,680
Speaker 3: I honestly met like a really really nice group of

848
00:51:34,719 --> 00:51:40,480
Speaker 3: people that I don't know. They were just so welcoming

849
00:51:40,600 --> 00:51:43,080
Speaker 3: and loving, and I felt like I could be like

850
00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:46,360
Speaker 3: honest with these new friends and I didn't feel judged,

851
00:51:46,440 --> 00:51:49,080
Speaker 3: Like I just felt like like they just listened to

852
00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:54,719
Speaker 3: me and you know, and they like in the nice

853
00:51:54,719 --> 00:51:57,200
Speaker 3: thing was too, is like I wasn't like pressured at all,

854
00:51:57,320 --> 00:51:59,680
Speaker 3: Like it was just kind of I made these friends

855
00:51:59,680 --> 00:52:03,799
Speaker 3: that have to be like really religious, and you know,

856
00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:06,360
Speaker 3: they just they were just so kind and loving, and

857
00:52:06,400 --> 00:52:08,400
Speaker 3: I was like, oh my gosh, like how are you

858
00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:11,520
Speaker 3: like that? Like I hate everyone, like you know what

859
00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:11,879
Speaker 3: I mean?

860
00:52:15,800 --> 00:52:20,120
Speaker 1: And was it an easy transition to start believing from nothing,

861
00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:22,960
Speaker 1: because I mean it sounds like you weren't were you

862
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 1: Were you particularly religious growing up?

863
00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:34,239
Speaker 3: I mean my family was, but it wasn't like it

864
00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:37,320
Speaker 3: kind of felt like there was a lot of rules,

865
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:39,440
Speaker 3: but like there wasn't any reason for them, Like it

866
00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:42,319
Speaker 3: just kind of felt like you need to behave or

867
00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:45,439
Speaker 3: you're going to hell. So that obviously like very much

868
00:52:45,520 --> 00:52:47,000
Speaker 3: turned me away. It was just kind of like, well,

869
00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:50,799
Speaker 3: like what the fuck, like you know what I mean. Like,

870
00:52:51,239 --> 00:52:53,560
Speaker 3: so it got that kind of gave me like a

871
00:52:53,600 --> 00:52:55,719
Speaker 3: bad taste in my mouth, and I was just like,

872
00:52:57,600 --> 00:53:01,279
Speaker 3: this sucks. So I kind of like I did grow

873
00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:04,480
Speaker 3: up in like a pretty religious household, but and it

874
00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:06,600
Speaker 3: turned me away. And then you know, I met those

875
00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:08,120
Speaker 3: people and I was like, oh wait, you guys are

876
00:53:08,120 --> 00:53:10,120
Speaker 3: like actually nice and like not crazy.

877
00:53:11,040 --> 00:53:13,200
Speaker 1: That's interesting because a lot of the times people they

878
00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:16,040
Speaker 1: grow up in a religious household and then they meet

879
00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:18,520
Speaker 1: a group of other young people their age and they're like,

880
00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:20,880
Speaker 1: how are you guys staying so cool? And most of

881
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:24,360
Speaker 1: the time they're like, well, we do whippets every moment

882
00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:27,839
Speaker 1: of every day. But you happen to meet people who

883
00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:30,200
Speaker 1: are like, no, we like Jesus, and so that's good.

884
00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:33,640
Speaker 1: Is it Jesus? Or is it? Are you Buddhist? What's up?

885
00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:36,920
Speaker 1: Does Buddha make people wait to have sex? What are you?

886
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:39,840
Speaker 3: It's a Christian?

887
00:53:43,480 --> 00:53:44,920
Speaker 1: Do what you ever do whippets?

888
00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:50,719
Speaker 3: No? I never have. The most I've ever done is

889
00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:54,640
Speaker 3: like weed, and that's not even that intense. And I

890
00:53:54,680 --> 00:53:56,840
Speaker 3: have like a really bad experience with it, like a

891
00:53:56,840 --> 00:53:58,480
Speaker 3: couple of months ago, so I'm like, I don't even

892
00:53:58,520 --> 00:53:59,240
Speaker 3: touch it anymore.

893
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:02,520
Speaker 1: A couple of months ago. Wait, so when did you

894
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:06,759
Speaker 1: start when was it? Like, Okay, I'm not uh is

895
00:54:06,840 --> 00:54:09,040
Speaker 1: we as God against weed? Can you smoke weed? As

896
00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:09,520
Speaker 1: a Christian?

897
00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:16,840
Speaker 3: I mean, I think you can enjoy things like within reason.

898
00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:19,280
Speaker 3: Like I feel like, you know, like you can enjoy

899
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:25,160
Speaker 3: alcohol to like, you know, not to like like so

900
00:54:25,280 --> 00:54:27,120
Speaker 3: much that you're getting like drunk every night. Like, I

901
00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:29,960
Speaker 3: think you can like enjoy enjoy those things, And I

902
00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:31,839
Speaker 3: would like say the same thing for weed. I don't

903
00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:34,080
Speaker 3: really see a big difference between the two, you know,

904
00:54:34,880 --> 00:54:38,600
Speaker 3: mm hm m hm. How do you do you think

905
00:54:38,600 --> 00:54:43,320
Speaker 3: as long as you know, ahead, sorry.

906
00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:47,960
Speaker 1: No, no, I'm awkward as fuck. Go ahead, No, me too.

907
00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:52,360
Speaker 3: I'm like so scared right now. I mean, I don't know.

908
00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:53,959
Speaker 3: I feel like as long as you're like not doing

909
00:54:53,960 --> 00:54:56,320
Speaker 3: those things to like the point that it's like ruining

910
00:54:56,360 --> 00:55:00,000
Speaker 3: your life, you know. But I guess you know everyone

911
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 3: it's different and have different polances. It's obviously not the

912
00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:03,440
Speaker 3: same for everyone.

913
00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:09,280
Speaker 1: You know. Howd you meet your husband?

914
00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:13,160
Speaker 3: We met at a bonfire?

915
00:55:16,360 --> 00:55:18,719
Speaker 1: That's cool. Well, what was the first thing he said

916
00:55:18,719 --> 00:55:21,800
Speaker 1: to him?

917
00:55:22,239 --> 00:55:24,880
Speaker 3: I don't even remember. He was honestly, like such a dork.

918
00:55:25,120 --> 00:55:30,239
Speaker 3: It's kind of cringey. What don't I don't remember, I

919
00:55:30,320 --> 00:55:30,560
Speaker 3: just know.

920
00:55:31,600 --> 00:55:34,480
Speaker 1: Was this like a Was this like a Christian bonfire,

921
00:55:34,680 --> 00:55:38,200
Speaker 1: like at Christian meetup group or something?

922
00:55:40,280 --> 00:55:43,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was like a Christian community on our campus.

923
00:55:45,160 --> 00:55:49,520
Speaker 1: That's cool. I'm Jewish and we we don't have the

924
00:55:49,600 --> 00:55:52,879
Speaker 1: last time we had a big bonfire was actually when

925
00:55:52,920 --> 00:55:55,160
Speaker 1: we killed Jesus, so we got to do another one.

926
00:55:55,160 --> 00:56:00,440
Speaker 1: We're due for another bonfire. What's there? I don't think

927
00:56:00,440 --> 00:56:04,640
Speaker 1: there was a fire. There might have been if I

928
00:56:04,680 --> 00:56:06,719
Speaker 1: assumed there was a fire when I imagined a scene

929
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:11,600
Speaker 1: in my head, there was a fire. But anyway, that's

930
00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:13,440
Speaker 1: cool man, And sorry you guys. You guys gonna have

931
00:56:13,440 --> 00:56:14,920
Speaker 1: a kid.

932
00:56:17,120 --> 00:56:20,560
Speaker 3: Maybe someday. I don't want it.

933
00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:30,400
Speaker 1: Right now though, Well, Amber, uh, I guess i'll do.

934
00:56:30,520 --> 00:56:32,239
Speaker 1: I have any more questions for you? Where's the guy?

935
00:56:32,239 --> 00:56:32,920
Speaker 1: Where is he at?

936
00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:38,080
Speaker 3: He's like he's not home right now.

937
00:56:39,040 --> 00:56:39,839
Speaker 1: Does he have a job?

938
00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:43,680
Speaker 2: Yeah?

939
00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:44,600
Speaker 1: What's he do?

940
00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:51,560
Speaker 3: He works like in a manufacturing warehouse?

941
00:56:53,120 --> 00:56:56,359
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. What do you do too?

942
00:56:56,440 --> 00:57:01,279
Speaker 3: Crazy? I worked as a obstitute teacher right now?

943
00:57:02,239 --> 00:57:02,799
Speaker 1: Okay?

944
00:57:04,600 --> 00:57:05,520
Speaker 5: Yeah?

945
00:57:06,040 --> 00:57:07,680
Speaker 1: Do you ever get into fights with kids?

946
00:57:11,280 --> 00:57:13,160
Speaker 3: No, but sometimes it's tempting.

947
00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:19,040
Speaker 1: Well, Amber, I'm gonna let you go. Thank you for

948
00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:22,480
Speaker 1: talking to me about stuff. Is there anything else you

949
00:57:22,480 --> 00:57:24,680
Speaker 1: want to say to the people the computer before we go,

950
00:57:24,960 --> 00:57:25,720
Speaker 1: or about any of this?

951
00:57:28,880 --> 00:57:31,680
Speaker 3: No, but thanks for calling and thanks for listening to me.

952
00:57:31,800 --> 00:57:34,560
Speaker 3: I hope you all have a good day and enjoy

953
00:57:34,600 --> 00:57:35,080
Speaker 3: your life.

954
00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:41,160
Speaker 1: You too, Amber, And I'm sorry again about about killing Jesus.

955
00:57:41,760 --> 00:57:42,920
Speaker 5: It's okay, I forgive you.

956
00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:45,320
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, we got it. We did it. We got

957
00:57:45,320 --> 00:57:47,320
Speaker 1: the forgiveness, all right, take care, Amber.

958
00:57:47,120 --> 00:57:50,160
Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you, have a good day.

959
00:57:52,120 --> 00:57:54,520
Speaker 1: It's funny and actually it's kind of like this, I

960
00:57:54,520 --> 00:57:58,520
Speaker 1: guess in Christian camps, but like in Jewish like when

961
00:57:58,560 --> 00:58:01,200
Speaker 1: I was growing up. Okay, I think from what I

962
00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:05,040
Speaker 1: understand is when you grow up like super Christian, they

963
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:09,439
Speaker 1: teach you about like abstinence and stay, you know, wait

964
00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:12,400
Speaker 1: until marriage and all that stuff. And from my experience

965
00:58:12,440 --> 00:58:15,520
Speaker 1: in Judaism, it's really been the opposite. They really do

966
00:58:15,600 --> 00:58:17,520
Speaker 1: the opposite. What they do is they have this there's

967
00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 1: this thing goes called BBYO. It's like the Benet Breath

968
00:58:22,600 --> 00:58:27,640
Speaker 1: Youth Organization some shit like that. And Jewish people do

969
00:58:27,680 --> 00:58:31,439
Speaker 1: the opposite where they're like, you guys should start having

970
00:58:31,440 --> 00:58:34,360
Speaker 1: sex right now so we can make more Jewish people.

971
00:58:34,400 --> 00:58:36,960
Speaker 1: They basically take all the Jewish. I think I've talked

972
00:58:37,000 --> 00:58:39,840
Speaker 1: about this on this fucking podcast before, but like they

973
00:58:39,840 --> 00:58:42,640
Speaker 1: basically just take all the Jewish kids and put them

974
00:58:42,680 --> 00:58:45,600
Speaker 1: on a dance floor and so they all start grinding

975
00:58:45,640 --> 00:58:48,560
Speaker 1: on each other. And that's that's kind of what the

976
00:58:48,640 --> 00:58:51,080
Speaker 1: messaging is, is like, don't wait, just have sex right

977
00:58:51,120 --> 00:58:54,840
Speaker 1: I have a baby right now, and that puts you

978
00:58:54,880 --> 00:58:58,440
Speaker 1: into wedlock so that you can make more Jewish people.

979
00:58:58,520 --> 00:59:02,400
Speaker 1: That's for how I understand it. I think I don't know.

980
00:59:03,520 --> 00:59:06,560
Speaker 1: I'm not qualified to literally talk about anything there.

981
00:59:06,680 --> 00:59:10,600
Speaker 5: Repet goes on the line taking your phone calls every night.

982
00:59:10,920 --> 00:59:12,840
Speaker 2: The rep Can goes to on his eye.

983
00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:15,919
Speaker 1: He's teaching him a loud live your life, but he's

984
00:59:16,000 --> 00:59:17,680
Speaker 1: not ready an expert