1 00:00:01,480 --> 00:00:05,440 Speaker 1: It's the Best Bits of the Week with Morgan number two. 2 00:00:07,280 --> 00:00:08,080 Speaker 1: What's up? Everybody? 3 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 2: Welcome to the Best Bits. Excited to be hanging out 4 00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 2: with y'all. It is Morgan here and this weekend, I 5 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 2: have Amy on with me. 6 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:17,599 Speaker 1: What's up aby? Hello? Amy's been having a long day. 7 00:00:17,760 --> 00:00:20,160 Speaker 3: I just took a bite of a kind of bar 8 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 3: that I found in the green room. 9 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:25,759 Speaker 2: So yep, I think the green room snacks are really 10 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 2: just made for us. 11 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 3: Yeah. I don't know, maybe it's them, but I probably 12 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:35,400 Speaker 3: about twelve forty five. I had an avocado toast and 13 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 3: then now it's two thirty, so I'm like, okay, I'm 14 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:40,560 Speaker 3: gonna have We are thriving over here. 15 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:41,559 Speaker 1: A lot's going on. 16 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 3: You're soaking wet. 17 00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:43,240 Speaker 2: Yep. 18 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 1: I got drenched in the rain. Bad idea. 19 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:48,279 Speaker 2: I went to go grab some food and walked over 20 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 2: because it's right on the corner, and walked back and 21 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 2: it was storming, so I got drenched. 22 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 1: I look like a drowned rat. Right now. You're cute, 23 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 1: but we got some things to talk about. 24 00:00:57,160 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 2: Coming in at the number seven spot is you you 25 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 2: got secondhand embarrassment from your son at Walgreens, so that 26 00:01:03,360 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 2: of course had to make the list of people made 27 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 2: you made people laugh? 28 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:10,280 Speaker 3: Well, I mean he was laughing at a woman that fell, 29 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 3: which I don't think was very funny. But then later 30 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 3: when I was thinking about the fall, I was like, 31 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 3: it was kind of funny and she wasn't hurt. But 32 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:18,319 Speaker 3: it honestly made me think of the time. And we 33 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:21,840 Speaker 3: didn't revisit this on the show that when I was 34 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 3: a teenager, a young teenager, maybe even twelve, not even 35 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 3: a teen yet, my mom fell in a hole and 36 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 3: I was so embarrassed I just kept walking. 37 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 1: He just left her behind. 38 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:35,320 Speaker 3: SI here on your own, Yeah, and she hurt her ankle. 39 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 3: And to this day it's one of my things I 40 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 3: can't stand about myself, you know, knowing that I I 41 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 3: did that, Yeah, because just whatever was going on in 42 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 3: my brain at that time, I was so consumed with 43 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 3: what people were going to think if I was with 44 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 3: the mom that fell in a hole. So I just 45 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 3: straight up acted like I didn't know her, and I 46 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 3: hate that. So that's what it made me think of 47 00:01:59,040 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 3: as well. 48 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 1: So you've got some trauma associated with falls. 49 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 3: It's like the day, one day one of me bringing 50 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 3: the kids to America. We had just landed in Miami 51 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 3: from Haiti, so technically I'm officially a mom at this point. 52 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:14,519 Speaker 3: I mean I'd been visiting them in Haiti and I 53 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:18,240 Speaker 3: knew they were going to be our kids, and yeah, 54 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:20,519 Speaker 3: Ben and I were bringing them back to the States 55 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 3: and at the Miami report they have I don't know, 56 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:26,560 Speaker 3: I just said Miami that way, probably because my snack. 57 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 3: Miami Airport, the moving. 58 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 1: Like the sall thing. 59 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, and we were getting off of that and 60 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 3: I don't know what the heck happened. Been along twenty 61 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 3: four hours and I tripped and fell down and then 62 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 3: Stashira is coming up behind me and it's all on 63 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 3: video and she steps over me and acts like she 64 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 3: doesn't know me, and it was just kind of funny. 65 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:53,000 Speaker 3: I feel like that was my mom up in heaven 66 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 3: being like, hey back, thank you, Sashira. 67 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 2: That was your karma, very first moment of being a mom, 68 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:00,360 Speaker 2: and you got the karma ready. 69 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 1: I do remember that story in that video. It's really funny. 70 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:05,640 Speaker 1: Like it's not funny, but it is funny. 71 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:08,079 Speaker 3: Yeah, some random stranger was like, oh my gosh, you're okay, 72 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 3: and then she was like, no, you're good. Don't just 73 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 3: step forward this bag. I mean person. 74 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:17,640 Speaker 1: Well, you are not a boomer, but I have a 75 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 1: boomer test to see how much boomer you lean into. Okay, 76 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 1: you ready? So do you use the crying laughing emoji? Yeah? Okay, 77 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 1: me too. 78 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 2: It's okay, Like this is not a judgmental thing. We're 79 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 2: just seeing how boomer we are, ok even though we're millennials. 80 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 2: Do you use the thumbs up emoji? 81 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 1: Yes? I do not use that one. 82 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 2: Do you use like do you just react to text 83 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 2: messages or do you actually send? Oh? 84 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 1: Do you send it to your kids? 85 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 2: No? 86 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 3: They don't really use emojis. 87 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 2: Okay, that's I think that's where it would really matter 88 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 2: for you, is if you're using. 89 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:52,040 Speaker 1: Them with your kids. 90 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 3: If they use emojis, they're not using them with me, 91 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 3: so I don't really use them with them. But it's weird. 92 00:03:57,640 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 3: My kids don't text that much. Steven's doesn't have a phone, 93 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 3: but he has an iPad and he has an account 94 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 3: to where he can text if he needs to, but 95 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 3: he's barely on it. It's like not a thing. And 96 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 3: then Stashira doesn't really text that much at all. I'm 97 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 3: sure if I had a snapchat, she'd snap me more. 98 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 1: But that's the one she's on. 99 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:18,160 Speaker 3: I technically do have one, but I can't freaking log 100 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 3: into it. 101 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 1: I don't know what's happened. 102 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:20,160 Speaker 3: I don't know. 103 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:22,279 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, no, I haven't been on Snapchat for like 104 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 2: four years at least. 105 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 3: Oh well, all the kids are there. 106 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why I'm not. It's so weird. 107 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 3: I'm going to take a picture of and still I 108 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:33,720 Speaker 3: don't for years. I feel, well, she hasn't had it, 109 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 3: maybe a couple of years. But it's just this quick 110 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 3: picture of the forehead and the ceiling. 111 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:43,680 Speaker 1: It's like, hey, yep, it's like, hey, it's definitely where 112 00:04:43,680 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 1: all the kids are at. 113 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 2: And it's also where I've had a lot of experience 114 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 2: with cheaters, so I. 115 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:51,479 Speaker 1: Stay away from that asp on Snapchat. Oh my gosh. 116 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:53,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot of like my exes who cheated, like 117 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 2: they would communicate with those people on Snapchat. 118 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 3: Oh because of the like disappearing. 119 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I don't really prefer Snapchat. And if a 120 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 2: guy has a Snapchat, it is a red flag for me. 121 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 1: So just pro tip if that helps. Do you eat 122 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:13,360 Speaker 1: vanilla bean ice cream? 123 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 2: Uh? 124 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 1: It's not my favorite, but yeah, okay, then no boomer 125 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 1: for you on that one. Do you only listen to 126 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 1: music from your high school years. 127 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 3: Oh, I listen to current Hey we're doing great. 128 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 2: That would be a yes for Lunchbox. As we learned, 129 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 2: he doesn't have any new favorites. Do you actively use Facebook? No, Hey, 130 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 2: you're doing great, this is really good so far. I 131 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 2: use Facebook Marketplace. 132 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:38,919 Speaker 1: I don't think that counts. These are different. It's on Facebook. 133 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:41,280 Speaker 3: I mean I'm occasionally on there, but I don't. It's 134 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 3: not my main. My My main social media's Instagram. But 135 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:47,000 Speaker 3: I'm sure at some point that's gonna be boomer. 136 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 1: Not at some point, but not yet. He still got time. 137 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:55,280 Speaker 1: Do you prefer calling over texting? I like voice texts. 138 00:05:56,120 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 2: I'm not sure where that falls on there, but okay, well, 139 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 2: well we'll lean it to voice texting. 140 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:06,919 Speaker 1: Do you always like to eat at chain restaurants? Mmmm? 141 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 2: Like? Uh? 142 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 3: Is well like fast food or like like Chili's or 143 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 3: Applebee's like chain restaurants like that or Cheddars? 144 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:16,120 Speaker 1: Uh? 145 00:06:16,240 --> 00:06:17,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, he have chains? 146 00:06:17,400 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 2: I think I think both. It's like, if you had 147 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 2: a choice to go out to do you often prefer 148 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:22,800 Speaker 2: to go to chain restaurants? 149 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 3: I mean, I love Chipotle, but I feel like that's fast, 150 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 3: it's a fast food chain in a uf Filet like Peyway, Yeah, 151 00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:32,280 Speaker 3: Jimmy John's so sure. 152 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:34,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, yeah, we like it. I'm with you on that. 153 00:06:34,880 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 2: I actually really prefer chain restaurants sometimes. I love my 154 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:40,280 Speaker 2: local spots, but you know what you're getting with a 155 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:41,400 Speaker 2: chain restaurant. 156 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:46,480 Speaker 1: It's always good. Yeah. So do you enjoy watching TV commercials? Mmm? 157 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 3: No, not as much as I used to you to. Well, 158 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:54,120 Speaker 3: because we were forced to, we didn't really have a choice, 159 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:56,000 Speaker 3: and then now there's so many ways to get around 160 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 3: it that I guess I can appreciate them from time 161 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:01,600 Speaker 3: to time if I learn something new or be like, oh, 162 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:04,360 Speaker 3: what's that product? So yeah, I'm still intrigued by them, 163 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:08,440 Speaker 3: whereas my kids are like what is this and I'm like, well, kids, 164 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:09,359 Speaker 3: it's called a commercial. 165 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 2: Okay, so we're like fifty to fifty on that one. 166 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 2: Do you still pay with checks? 167 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:19,880 Speaker 3: No? Oh okay. I think specifically for people that would 168 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 3: prefer a check, yes, I have check, I have a checkbook, and. 169 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 1: You know how to write a check. Yes, I'm pretty sure. 170 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:28,880 Speaker 2: My like, just people my age are like the last 171 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 2: tier of people that even know how to write a check. 172 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 2: After me, I'm pretty sure, it dies off probably. 173 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 3: Oh that's like venmo. 174 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:39,200 Speaker 1: Do you scroll on your phone with just your index figure? 175 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 2: Oh? 176 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, So we talked about this and I think I do. 177 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 3: I do both my thumb and my index If I'm 178 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 3: being honest, I do both. 179 00:07:49,560 --> 00:07:51,480 Speaker 1: Okay, So you do have some moments there of just 180 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 1: the index finger. 181 00:07:52,520 --> 00:07:54,320 Speaker 3: Right, because the index finger is boomer right. 182 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's really funny. I watch my dad and 183 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 1: he always scrolled with this. 184 00:07:58,080 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 2: It's a whole like going bit house that he's always 185 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 2: scrolling with his index finger. 186 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 1: It's a very common thing. 187 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 2: Uh. Do you ask to speak to a manager over 188 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 2: minor inconveniences? No? So, Karen is another way of saying that. 189 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 2: Do you collect knickknacks? 190 00:08:16,480 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 1: I'm spoons? Do you collect spoons? 191 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:20,520 Speaker 3: Well? My mom collected spoons and then I got some 192 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 3: of her spoons, So now I like to get more spoons. 193 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 1: How do you get more spoons? 194 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 3: Like? 195 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 1: Do you go to like antique stores? 196 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 3: You can? Yeah, if there's a cute spoon somewhere, I am. 197 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 3: They're they're little ones like that you would, you know, 198 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 3: stir your coffee with or pull sugar out with to 199 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 3: sprinkle you know? 200 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:40,200 Speaker 1: So how many do you think you have. Hmm, people give. 201 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:42,959 Speaker 3: Them to me. My sister gave me some that are 202 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 3: very tiny, in fact, so tiny I lose them. I 203 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 3: don't even know where she found those or if they're 204 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:51,640 Speaker 3: for humans, but I like them. I don't know, probably 205 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:53,040 Speaker 3: have thirty. 206 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:55,760 Speaker 1: Okay, i'd say those are some nick knacks. But I 207 00:08:55,800 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 1: like that. 208 00:08:56,240 --> 00:08:58,320 Speaker 2: I like that it got passed down from your mom 209 00:08:58,360 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 2: to you. That's cool. 210 00:08:59,120 --> 00:09:01,600 Speaker 3: But other than that, I don't think I collect knick 211 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:02,960 Speaker 3: next to you. 212 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:06,280 Speaker 1: No, I don't have any knick knacks. I also just am. 213 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:09,280 Speaker 2: My parents like to keep everything, and I've done like 214 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:11,160 Speaker 2: the reverse of that. I've tried to, like not keep 215 00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 2: everything because I don't want to have a lot of 216 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:14,959 Speaker 2: stuff to sort through eventually, you know what I mean. 217 00:09:15,600 --> 00:09:18,200 Speaker 2: So I've tried to avoid that, but I have a 218 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 2: feeling I may fall into it at some point. 219 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 1: Do you read newspapers No? Do you play raquetball? 220 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 3: No? 221 00:09:26,120 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 2: And the last one. Do you judge the younger generation's 222 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:29,840 Speaker 2: fashion choices? 223 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 1: Sometimes? Yes? 224 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 3: Because I have a sixteen year old daughter and I 225 00:09:34,559 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 3: really struggle with some stuff. 226 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, you've talked about that one time when she had 227 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 2: an outfit and that was a whole situation. 228 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:42,360 Speaker 1: I feel like this is only the beginning. 229 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:46,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, these corse at tops that like, you know what 230 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:50,439 Speaker 3: I'm talking about, and they're maybe I'm just a little 231 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 3: uptight about it and I need to chill, but some 232 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:58,480 Speaker 3: of them are very just. It doesn't seem like a 233 00:09:58,559 --> 00:10:01,600 Speaker 3: fourteen fifteen now she's sixteen year old should be in that. 234 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:04,040 Speaker 3: But then I don't want to be totally lame. But 235 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:07,199 Speaker 3: these cheeky bathing suit bottoms, I don't. 236 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 1: Understand that those are rough. 237 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:10,439 Speaker 3: It's real hard. It's real hard to see a bunch 238 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:12,720 Speaker 3: of teenagers in their cheeky suits. 239 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 1: Are they like full on showing their butt cheeks? 240 00:10:15,360 --> 00:10:16,200 Speaker 3: They're pretty chicky. 241 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:19,600 Speaker 2: I mean, I know, I know, but twenty something people 242 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:23,320 Speaker 2: have been wearing them and they are definitely exposed. But 243 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:25,199 Speaker 2: I'm trying to see if it's the same one. 244 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 3: Well, there's a pair she bought recently with her own money, 245 00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:34,040 Speaker 3: and we were not there that I was like, well, 246 00:10:34,679 --> 00:10:38,320 Speaker 3: you're wearing those at home only, Oh gosh, and bad. 247 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:41,040 Speaker 3: Now she's probably gonna sneak them out to wear. She's 248 00:10:41,040 --> 00:10:42,680 Speaker 3: gonna leave the house in a one piece and be like, 249 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:43,240 Speaker 3: I'll show you. 250 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 1: She'll sneak out and then she'll wear it for a 251 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:46,760 Speaker 1: pool party. 252 00:10:47,040 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, so let me just make sure that all the 253 00:10:49,280 --> 00:10:53,920 Speaker 3: pool parties happen at our house in here. 254 00:10:55,360 --> 00:10:58,080 Speaker 1: Oh wow, that's crazy. That is crazy. 255 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 2: But I do you know, I remember sixteen and being like, oh, 256 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:04,439 Speaker 2: my mom doesn't get it like that. But like, also, 257 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:08,559 Speaker 2: you look back and I at the time when I 258 00:11:08,600 --> 00:11:10,720 Speaker 2: was sixteen, it doesn't feel like I was wearing very 259 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:13,280 Speaker 2: scandalous clothes. But I thought they were scandalous at the time. 260 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:15,960 Speaker 2: So I do wonder if that's gonna happen, or if 261 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:17,520 Speaker 2: we've just gotten to such a point that it's such 262 00:11:17,520 --> 00:11:20,120 Speaker 2: a little little clothing now that there's nothing further to go. 263 00:11:21,080 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 3: I don't know, it's really not that bad. I'm sure 264 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 3: it was cheeky. I'm trying to think of what my 265 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 3: mom would have disapproved of. I just never was really 266 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:33,839 Speaker 3: in with the trends, and so shier is not either. 267 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:35,920 Speaker 3: Except for the cheeky stuff in the corset. It's like 268 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:36,880 Speaker 3: she's very much into that. 269 00:11:37,640 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 1: And the courses are very popular. 270 00:11:39,160 --> 00:11:42,320 Speaker 2: That's a very big like shirt trend right now, Yes, 271 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 2: which is interesting. 272 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:44,600 Speaker 1: Those may to come back. 273 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:47,680 Speaker 3: Which they're like high, they go lower towards the like 274 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 3: at the belly button, but then higher up towards the hips. 275 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:51,439 Speaker 3: So then when you have them all the jeans. 276 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:52,320 Speaker 1: You see like this. 277 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:54,319 Speaker 3: You know, I'm talking about the side of your stomach, 278 00:11:54,360 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 3: but they're actually not very flattering. No, I don't get it. 279 00:11:57,400 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 3: I'm like, this is not even and then it's tight 280 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 3: around the you know. Yep, you know where we're going. 281 00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:04,400 Speaker 3: I do with it, and it's just like it feels weird. 282 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:07,760 Speaker 2: See, hey, this is this is where you have your 283 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 2: little bit of your boomer come out. 284 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 3: I'm okay with being boomer about that. 285 00:12:10,559 --> 00:12:13,199 Speaker 1: I like it honestly though, like on this whole list, 286 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:16,120 Speaker 1: like you really aren't that much boomer. Okay, I think 287 00:12:16,160 --> 00:12:18,200 Speaker 1: you're doing good. All right, I'll tell my kids. 288 00:12:18,320 --> 00:12:20,600 Speaker 2: You're Yeah, this is your credibility you got you took 289 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 2: a test, like Morgan told me, I'm not boomer. 290 00:12:23,440 --> 00:12:24,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. 291 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 2: So we also had lunchboxes JFK Report, which was hilarious, 292 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 2: Like it's such a visual. Yes, I did not learn 293 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:33,559 Speaker 2: a single thing, but man, I was watching wigs fly 294 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:34,720 Speaker 2: all over the place. 295 00:12:34,760 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 1: I could only focus on the wigs. 296 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:38,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, he did great with that. I was very entertained 297 00:12:39,080 --> 00:12:41,040 Speaker 3: and it was funny. 298 00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:42,160 Speaker 1: I was very. 299 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:44,720 Speaker 3: Impressed with each character, He's like, who wha wait, and 300 00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 3: then he would do the wig. I didn't understand the 301 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:49,320 Speaker 3: wigs because I don't even know if they looked like 302 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:51,320 Speaker 3: the people he was talking about, but it did help 303 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:54,200 Speaker 3: me differentiate that he had moved on to a new person. Yes, 304 00:12:54,559 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 3: and I was intrigued, similar to you. I don't know 305 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:00,839 Speaker 3: how much I learned or if I I formed an 306 00:13:00,840 --> 00:13:05,080 Speaker 3: opinion from it, but I'm curious enough to maybe go 307 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:06,920 Speaker 3: do some more research on my own to try to 308 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:07,960 Speaker 3: figure out what I think. 309 00:13:08,040 --> 00:13:09,960 Speaker 2: That's a great way of putting it. It definitely leaned 310 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:12,160 Speaker 2: us into maybe some more of our own research, but 311 00:13:12,320 --> 00:13:14,680 Speaker 2: I really could not stop focus. Like, if you have 312 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 2: a second, go watch the YouTube video of him thrown 313 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:18,960 Speaker 2: on all these wigs because it won't make you laugh. 314 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:21,720 Speaker 2: You'll go into your Freddy Strong. But we're not gonna 315 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:24,200 Speaker 2: talk about JFK. I do want to know Snoop Dogg 316 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:28,040 Speaker 2: revealed that he had a pet cockroach growing up. So 317 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:29,840 Speaker 2: apparently there was a cockroach in the house and they 318 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:31,680 Speaker 2: couldn't kill it, and so it just kind of became 319 00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 2: the pet cockroach and it grew like super huge, like 320 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:37,640 Speaker 2: almost to the size of a foot and that's a 321 00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:41,080 Speaker 2: crazy animal to own. So what is the weirdest animal 322 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:42,960 Speaker 2: you've ever owned in your life? 323 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:45,960 Speaker 3: I had a hamsters. I did have a lizard. I 324 00:13:45,960 --> 00:13:47,959 Speaker 3: had a bird. Trying to think of what I've had. 325 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:49,439 Speaker 3: My brother had a ferret. 326 00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 1: We had a ferret too. 327 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:55,080 Speaker 3: My belly aunt and uncle came to visit once and 328 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:56,839 Speaker 3: they had a wiener dog that was in a wheelchair. 329 00:13:57,000 --> 00:13:59,400 Speaker 1: That was cool. Oh, I did not have his back legs? 330 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:02,800 Speaker 3: Yeah? Are they They didn't really work? Were they were 331 00:14:02,840 --> 00:14:03,320 Speaker 3: pair like? 332 00:14:03,640 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 1: Yeah? So he had used him as the back wheels 333 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:07,200 Speaker 1: were his back legs. Yep. 334 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:10,199 Speaker 3: And I'm trying to think of I'm just weird pets 335 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:10,800 Speaker 3: around my house. 336 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 1: That's a fish. 337 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:16,840 Speaker 3: Anything weird? My hamsters? Probably my little hamsters is that weird. 338 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:19,720 Speaker 2: I mean it's it's more abnormal than a dogg or 339 00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 2: a cat. I think anything that's not dogger a cat 340 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 2: is a little bit abnormal. 341 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 1: But I loved it. I mean I grew up around 342 00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 1: all kinds of animals, like golden Flake. Those were their names. 343 00:14:29,560 --> 00:14:31,320 Speaker 1: They were all flakes. Golden Flake. 344 00:14:31,360 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 3: He was brown with red eyes. No, the white one 345 00:14:35,280 --> 00:14:38,240 Speaker 3: had Snowflake had red eyes and it was a white 346 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:40,680 Speaker 3: he had black eyes. Snowflake was white. 347 00:14:41,520 --> 00:14:41,840 Speaker 1: We did. 348 00:14:41,960 --> 00:14:45,640 Speaker 2: We had a rabbit and a turtle at the same time, 349 00:14:45,960 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 2: which is a very exciting. 350 00:14:47,680 --> 00:14:48,920 Speaker 1: We did race them often. 351 00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:52,080 Speaker 2: But the crazier story about the rabbit is that we 352 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:55,320 Speaker 2: thought he was a he he thought we thought he 353 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:57,640 Speaker 2: was a girl's whole life. His name was Cuddles, and 354 00:14:57,680 --> 00:14:59,560 Speaker 2: he was actually a boy, and we did not know 355 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:01,560 Speaker 2: until he he died of testicular cancer. 356 00:15:03,040 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 3: So who told you it was testicular cancer? The bit 357 00:15:06,720 --> 00:15:09,480 Speaker 3: they said, But so you could not see his wee 358 00:15:09,680 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 3: yeah deal, are they internal? 359 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:14,320 Speaker 1: Yes? Okay, So like we just never even asked because 360 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:16,080 Speaker 1: we just assumed. 361 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 2: That was a girl because we thought we would have 362 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:19,920 Speaker 2: seen it, you know what I mean. And so we 363 00:15:20,040 --> 00:15:22,280 Speaker 2: just never had that conversation. So when he passed away, 364 00:15:22,320 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 2: it was really sad. We're like that poor rabbit. His 365 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 2: whole life was treated like a woman. 366 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:30,240 Speaker 1: He wasn't. Oh, I'm sure he had a great life. 367 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:33,160 Speaker 3: She didn't. You don't know truly how it identified. 368 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:35,760 Speaker 1: That's true, It's fine, but Cuddles had a great live. 369 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:37,920 Speaker 1: And we also did have a ferret too. 370 00:15:38,080 --> 00:15:40,400 Speaker 2: But I think my craziest was when I had I 371 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 2: got a tadpole because I really wanted to watch it 372 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:43,760 Speaker 2: turn into a frog. 373 00:15:44,120 --> 00:15:45,000 Speaker 3: And did it. 374 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:46,440 Speaker 2: It did, But as soon as it turned into a frog, 375 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:47,840 Speaker 2: it jumped away and I never got to see it. 376 00:15:48,320 --> 00:15:50,040 Speaker 2: It like jumped out of its little bowl that I 377 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:52,720 Speaker 2: had for it. It was a really sad day and 378 00:15:52,840 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 2: never saw it again. So as soon as it I 379 00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:57,280 Speaker 2: saw it as a tadpole's whole life and then turned 380 00:15:57,280 --> 00:15:58,960 Speaker 2: into a frog, and he was gone. 381 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:01,360 Speaker 1: Well, that's gonna be a cool process. It would have been. 382 00:16:01,320 --> 00:16:03,120 Speaker 2: Cool process if I got to see him, but he 383 00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:04,520 Speaker 2: jumped away as soon as he could. 384 00:16:04,920 --> 00:16:07,440 Speaker 1: He's like, I'm getting out of here. That's a crazy animal. 385 00:16:07,720 --> 00:16:10,280 Speaker 3: Stevenson had a caterpillar that we were just to turn 386 00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 3: into a butterfly. I don't honestly remember what happened. 387 00:16:14,400 --> 00:16:16,080 Speaker 1: So it did never turn into a butterfly. Well, he 388 00:16:16,080 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 1: had to take it back to school. 389 00:16:17,400 --> 00:16:20,479 Speaker 3: But we you know, we nurtured it as a caterpillar 390 00:16:20,560 --> 00:16:23,200 Speaker 3: so it could be in the right space to make 391 00:16:23,200 --> 00:16:25,720 Speaker 3: its little cocoon and do everything. But then he took 392 00:16:25,720 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 3: it to school, and then I never got an update. 393 00:16:27,720 --> 00:16:31,400 Speaker 3: I'm like, where, But so you're like, hopefully it's well 394 00:16:31,440 --> 00:16:34,040 Speaker 3: ended months ago. So I haven't thought about it until 395 00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 3: this moment, So clearly I wasn't that invested. 396 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:38,480 Speaker 1: We did. My sister had. 397 00:16:38,600 --> 00:16:40,880 Speaker 2: There was like a do you know the monarch butterflies 398 00:16:41,280 --> 00:16:43,840 Speaker 2: that are orange, black and white? M hm, And they 399 00:16:43,880 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 2: were they were like going extinct for a long time. 400 00:16:46,480 --> 00:16:48,600 Speaker 2: And so when my sister was in school, they sent 401 00:16:48,680 --> 00:16:51,440 Speaker 2: her home with a whole whole bunch of caterpillars and 402 00:16:51,480 --> 00:16:55,000 Speaker 2: so she had like a whole group of them and 403 00:16:55,040 --> 00:16:56,320 Speaker 2: she had to take care of them. And then one 404 00:16:56,360 --> 00:16:57,920 Speaker 2: day we got to see them all released and it 405 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 2: was the coolest thing ever. But it's like probably at 406 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:02,720 Speaker 2: least fifteen of them that she had, and then as 407 00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:04,400 Speaker 2: soon as they came out of their coccoons, it was like, okay, 408 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:07,280 Speaker 2: you can release your your butterflies out into the world. 409 00:17:07,840 --> 00:17:08,280 Speaker 1: It was a. 410 00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:13,760 Speaker 3: Wild butterflies are you know a lot of people see 411 00:17:13,760 --> 00:17:17,480 Speaker 3: them as a symbol from like it's significant to them. 412 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:18,320 Speaker 1: For whatever reason. 413 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:21,280 Speaker 3: And so I've started to notice them more and more 414 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 3: and they're so they're beautiful. They're beautiful creatures and it's 415 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:27,720 Speaker 3: so interesting to know that, Yeah they came from like 416 00:17:28,359 --> 00:17:30,119 Speaker 3: I don't really like looking at caterpillars. 417 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:32,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's kind of fuzzy is not my thing. 418 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:34,719 Speaker 3: Some people are fine with snakes and worms and infects. 419 00:17:34,760 --> 00:17:36,560 Speaker 3: Tashira wanted to get a snake at one point, and 420 00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:39,879 Speaker 3: I just I didn't want to keep her from a 421 00:17:39,920 --> 00:17:42,800 Speaker 3: pet or something that she really really wanted, but I 422 00:17:42,960 --> 00:17:46,879 Speaker 3: just would be too grossed out the entire time. I 423 00:17:46,920 --> 00:17:50,120 Speaker 3: don't I can't really even look at them, so same 424 00:17:50,160 --> 00:17:52,320 Speaker 3: thing about it with a caterpillar. But then it just 425 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:58,240 Speaker 3: turns into this beautiful butterfly. I know that everybody knows 426 00:17:58,280 --> 00:18:00,880 Speaker 3: that this isn't anything profound that I'm saying other than 427 00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:03,359 Speaker 3: I'm just paying attention to them more. And when you 428 00:18:03,359 --> 00:18:05,800 Speaker 3: stop and look at them, they're like all the details 429 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:07,679 Speaker 3: in their wings and just how pretty they are, and 430 00:18:07,680 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 3: that they were a little warm thingy. 431 00:18:10,920 --> 00:18:13,080 Speaker 2: Yeah. I think it reminds me of all the analogies 432 00:18:13,119 --> 00:18:15,960 Speaker 2: of like, you know, you can it takes you this 433 00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:19,600 Speaker 2: long to grow into this big, beautiful thing, and you're 434 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:21,399 Speaker 2: like a caterpillar until one day you turn into a 435 00:18:21,440 --> 00:18:24,119 Speaker 2: butterfly and you think about that, you're like, that's so crazy. 436 00:18:24,440 --> 00:18:26,560 Speaker 3: Or anytime you're going through different things in life, I mean, 437 00:18:26,600 --> 00:18:29,960 Speaker 3: it could happen you're in your cocoon, different phases of life. 438 00:18:30,040 --> 00:18:32,440 Speaker 3: But you can just think, Okay, I'm in my cocoon, 439 00:18:32,680 --> 00:18:34,280 Speaker 3: I'm going to emerge and I'm going to be. 440 00:18:34,240 --> 00:18:35,320 Speaker 1: A beautiful butterfly. 441 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:37,080 Speaker 3: So I just to get through this. 442 00:18:37,440 --> 00:18:39,480 Speaker 1: Did you ever see the movie A Bugs Life? 443 00:18:40,400 --> 00:18:42,320 Speaker 3: Oh? I'm sure, but it's been a minute. 444 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:46,679 Speaker 2: Every time somebody says, uh does like the line like 445 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:48,119 Speaker 2: I'm a big beautiful butterfly. 446 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:49,159 Speaker 1: That's his line. 447 00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:52,440 Speaker 2: So anytime somebody says that, I immediately think of the 448 00:18:52,760 --> 00:18:54,679 Speaker 2: huge caterpillar that's on A Bug's Life. 449 00:18:54,840 --> 00:18:56,800 Speaker 3: Okay, that came out in nineteen ninety eight, so I'm 450 00:18:56,840 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 3: sure I saw it back then, But now you're making 451 00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:01,000 Speaker 3: me want to watch it again. Oh, your kids would 452 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:02,880 Speaker 3: love it, I know. I wonder if they've seen it. 453 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:05,439 Speaker 1: Okay, I think it's on Disney Plus Perfect. You can 454 00:19:05,480 --> 00:19:05,879 Speaker 1: watch it there. 455 00:19:05,920 --> 00:19:08,199 Speaker 2: But anytime somebody says that and he does this, he 456 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:11,360 Speaker 2: has this whole moment because he's this really huge caterpillar 457 00:19:11,359 --> 00:19:13,280 Speaker 2: and he has these teeny tiny butterfly. 458 00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:15,520 Speaker 1: Wings, but he's like, I'm a big beautiful butterfly and 459 00:19:15,600 --> 00:19:19,480 Speaker 1: then he falls straight up. Reminds me of that scene. 460 00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:22,080 Speaker 1: Anytime butterflies come out too, you should put. 461 00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:24,320 Speaker 3: That in the Bobby Bone Chow cinema hat. 462 00:19:24,520 --> 00:19:28,000 Speaker 1: Oh it's a bucks lie, that's a great one. Mine 463 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:29,560 Speaker 1: style has got chosen, tho, I gotta wait for the 464 00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:30,040 Speaker 1: first round. 465 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 3: I don't think yours has easier now mine has not. 466 00:19:32,760 --> 00:19:34,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, we still got quite a few in there because 467 00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:37,160 Speaker 2: we also had to watch these two nuggets that were 468 00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:40,359 Speaker 2: sitting next to us and put crazy movies in rope 469 00:19:40,359 --> 00:19:40,919 Speaker 2: and the stuff. 470 00:19:41,040 --> 00:19:42,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh those. 471 00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:45,520 Speaker 2: Are some what speaking of like being a kid, what 472 00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:47,440 Speaker 2: posters did you have on your wall as a teenager? 473 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:54,160 Speaker 3: New Kids on the Block, Paula Abduel, Amy Grant. 474 00:19:54,119 --> 00:19:57,119 Speaker 1: Paula Abdul, I was not ready for that one straight up? 475 00:19:57,160 --> 00:19:59,119 Speaker 3: Now tell me? Is it gonna be you and me 476 00:19:59,280 --> 00:20:00,800 Speaker 3: to get the uh uh uh? 477 00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:04,320 Speaker 2: I know she's like a massive pop star, but was 478 00:20:04,320 --> 00:20:05,040 Speaker 2: she huge then? 479 00:20:05,560 --> 00:20:08,080 Speaker 3: Yeah? I used to roller skate in my garage to 480 00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:10,600 Speaker 3: Paula Abdul, me and my sisters our thing. 481 00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:14,199 Speaker 2: That's hilarious. Did you have like routines on the roller skates? 482 00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:15,520 Speaker 1: No, we just go. 483 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:18,160 Speaker 3: I mean our garage wasn't that big, so we were limited, 484 00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 3: but it was smooth because our driveway was one of 485 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:23,439 Speaker 3: those pebble ones. Yeah, so either if we went out 486 00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:26,440 Speaker 3: into the Culd Deest Sac we had more space, but then, 487 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:28,520 Speaker 3: you know, I think we felt safe in our garage 488 00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:31,280 Speaker 3: and plus yeah, that our garage was just the perfect 489 00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:34,439 Speaker 3: environment for the roller skates and. 490 00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:38,000 Speaker 2: You were having a Paula Abdul jam session. That's awesome. 491 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:40,200 Speaker 2: She's the one that was on American Hour, right, she 492 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:42,920 Speaker 2: was one of the judges. Yep, that's how I know her. 493 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:44,480 Speaker 2: I don't think I know her. 494 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:47,920 Speaker 3: You're probably too young for that. Did you have posters? 495 00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:49,280 Speaker 3: Was that a thing when you were Yeah? 496 00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:51,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I you know, I think it was maybe when 497 00:20:51,560 --> 00:20:54,000 Speaker 2: I turned ten, when like the magazines really stopped sending 498 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 2: stuff out. 499 00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:56,399 Speaker 1: But like mine was justin. 500 00:20:56,280 --> 00:20:59,240 Speaker 2: Timberlake, an En Sync, Oh yeah, it was still the 501 00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 2: boy bands. Those are still massive and justin Timberlake was huge. 502 00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:06,760 Speaker 2: But also Jesse McCartney. Mm hm, that was another one I. 503 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:07,560 Speaker 1: Don't think I had. 504 00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:10,159 Speaker 2: I did have a one of Shanaia Twan, but I 505 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:11,679 Speaker 2: don't think I ever hung it, but it came in 506 00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:13,320 Speaker 2: her CD that I bought because that was one of 507 00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:14,480 Speaker 2: the first CDs that I bought. 508 00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:16,439 Speaker 1: Was The Woman in Me though. 509 00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:18,320 Speaker 3: That was the best when you could unfold the paper 510 00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:19,000 Speaker 3: from the CD and it. 511 00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:20,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it was like a whole poster of them, 512 00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:26,159 Speaker 1: like bonus. Yeah, that unlocked a memory I forgot I had. Wow. Okay, 513 00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:27,560 Speaker 1: any others. 514 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:30,399 Speaker 3: You can think of, No, that's it mostly, And New 515 00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 3: Kids on the Block is the one that's like very 516 00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:33,880 Speaker 3: vivid in my mind right now, like I can see 517 00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:34,520 Speaker 3: it on my door. 518 00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:36,919 Speaker 2: If you could sing a any New Kids on the 519 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:37,960 Speaker 2: Block song right now. 520 00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:42,560 Speaker 3: Hanging tough, hanging to think. I know that, I don't know. 521 00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:45,959 Speaker 1: It's not ringing a belt right now. I don't even 522 00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:49,080 Speaker 1: know that I could is is the strings? Is that 523 00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:49,920 Speaker 1: that's insane thing? 524 00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:50,360 Speaker 3: Yeah? 525 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:52,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, that's all we got. 526 00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:58,520 Speaker 2: Okay, No, no music karaoke for us, Please don't go girl, 527 00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 2: step by step? 528 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:02,680 Speaker 1: Is this the something that you were just trying to 529 00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:06,919 Speaker 1: sing to me? Is this a different one? Well, let 530 00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:09,880 Speaker 1: me see. I can't tell the kind of sound similar. 531 00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:13,320 Speaker 3: Amy, No, No, no, those were different. Hang in no, 532 00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:13,840 Speaker 3: they're different. 533 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:14,600 Speaker 1: They are different. 534 00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:18,840 Speaker 2: Okay, New Kids on the Block. All right, Well, you 535 00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:20,600 Speaker 2: guys have a New Kids on the Block. And justin 536 00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:26,840 Speaker 2: Timberlake session after you listen to the best bits, we 537 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:29,640 Speaker 2: had some car drama that happened on the show this 538 00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:32,359 Speaker 2: week and we're just gonna leave that there because it 539 00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:34,800 Speaker 2: was just a whole lot of car things. For whatever reason, 540 00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:36,520 Speaker 2: there was a lot happening with cars. 541 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:38,560 Speaker 1: I know why. I don't know. 542 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:43,160 Speaker 3: Mike was literally not even trying to sell his car 543 00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:45,399 Speaker 3: to either of these guys, but they were wanting to 544 00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:47,119 Speaker 3: buy it. Oh, I know why. The other thing is 545 00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:48,200 Speaker 3: Lunchbox is car. 546 00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:51,639 Speaker 2: Yeah. Him. We got a lot of car situations like 547 00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:53,439 Speaker 2: happening on the show for whatever reason. 548 00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:57,199 Speaker 1: And I may have gotten drenched, but let me tell 549 00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:57,600 Speaker 1: you something. 550 00:22:57,640 --> 00:22:59,360 Speaker 2: As soon as we got to the place to go 551 00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:02,439 Speaker 2: grab a to eat, I realized Lunchbox is on his 552 00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:04,160 Speaker 2: bike and the storm was happening. 553 00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:06,840 Speaker 1: So I know Lunchbox was on his bike in the storm. 554 00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:11,000 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I feel bad. His birthday's next week. 555 00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:14,040 Speaker 3: I was thinking we need to get him some rain gear. 556 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:17,399 Speaker 1: That was where it went. You're like rain gears. So 557 00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:18,600 Speaker 1: he's okay on his bike? 558 00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:20,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, because I mean, I think he likes riding his bike. 559 00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:23,440 Speaker 3: And as long as you're you know, have the right gear, 560 00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:26,879 Speaker 3: you're good. So maybe we get. 561 00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:28,640 Speaker 1: Him some gear that would be hilarious. 562 00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:30,919 Speaker 3: You're not always going to be able to pick him up. 563 00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:35,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, No, And I refuse to anymore. He's criticized 564 00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:36,359 Speaker 1: me too much. 565 00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:39,040 Speaker 2: But I want to chat about Have you seen the 566 00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 2: trend about girl dinners? 567 00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:41,399 Speaker 1: No, what's that? 568 00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:47,320 Speaker 2: So online it's called girl dinner and it's like basically 569 00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:51,520 Speaker 2: girls sharing their lazy or bare minimum dinner. 570 00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:54,320 Speaker 1: Because they were too lazy to cook. So it's like 571 00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:56,240 Speaker 1: their go to when they're like, I am not cooking 572 00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:57,679 Speaker 1: any food, I'm not doing anything, and they call it 573 00:23:57,680 --> 00:23:58,359 Speaker 1: their girl dinner. 574 00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:04,280 Speaker 2: Some are like makeshift srcuterery boards, but they're like individual ones, 575 00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:08,160 Speaker 2: like a lunchable essentially. Oh yeah, you know, or like 576 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:09,680 Speaker 2: some people are like it's ice cream. 577 00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 1: So if you had like a girl dinner, Well, I 578 00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:12,560 Speaker 1: had a. 579 00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:14,280 Speaker 3: Girl dinner this week, I guess now that I know 580 00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:18,439 Speaker 3: the definition. I did Kraft macaroni and cheese, but in 581 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:19,480 Speaker 3: the microwavable cup. 582 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:21,600 Speaker 1: Oh the little one liked to go one hum. 583 00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:27,320 Speaker 3: And then I found some random frozen veggie burger situation 584 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:29,920 Speaker 3: at the bottom of my freezer. Don't even know whose 585 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:31,639 Speaker 3: it was or how it got there, but it was 586 00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:33,040 Speaker 3: just one of those nights where I did not have 587 00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:37,439 Speaker 3: the time or the energy, but I knew I needed 588 00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:39,160 Speaker 3: some food and I wanted some carbs and a little 589 00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:41,680 Speaker 3: bit of protein. And shockingly, this veggie burger had set 590 00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:44,560 Speaker 3: on the box ten grams of protein. So I was like, okay, 591 00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:50,000 Speaker 3: and there was one left, so I got the I 592 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:52,560 Speaker 3: microwaved the macaroni and cheese, and then I microwaved the 593 00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:57,160 Speaker 3: veggie patty. Not recommended. Not a recommended way is the skillet. 594 00:24:57,480 --> 00:25:00,480 Speaker 3: But again I didn't really have time and was starving, 595 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:02,919 Speaker 3: so I did a minute on each side in the 596 00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:05,840 Speaker 3: microwave and that was my day. I sported some ketchup 597 00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:08,119 Speaker 3: on there and that was my girl dinner. 598 00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:11,360 Speaker 1: Yeah. See, now you know what. There's a name for it. 599 00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:13,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, do you have one? I mean that wouldn't mean 600 00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:15,399 Speaker 3: my go to, but that's an example of one I 601 00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:15,960 Speaker 3: had this week. 602 00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:18,879 Speaker 2: I think I'm if I'm bare minimum and there's nothing 603 00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:22,080 Speaker 2: in the house, there's typically always shredded cheese, and I 604 00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:24,680 Speaker 2: love eating shread of cheese by the bag. It's such 605 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:27,600 Speaker 2: a strange like thing, but it makes me feel full. 606 00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:29,080 Speaker 1: It's a protein for me. 607 00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:31,440 Speaker 2: It's a vegetarian and so it at least like does 608 00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:32,520 Speaker 2: that and I will just eat. 609 00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:34,280 Speaker 1: Up stripe, eat shredded cheese. 610 00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:37,040 Speaker 3: You know what I love to eat The cheese is apples. 611 00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:40,560 Speaker 2: Okay, yes, have you ever had a grilled cheese with 612 00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:41,520 Speaker 2: apple slices? 613 00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:42,520 Speaker 3: Yeah? 614 00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:46,640 Speaker 1: Really good. It's like gouda and apples. But also what's 615 00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:47,360 Speaker 1: good with. 616 00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:50,480 Speaker 2: I was gonna I was about to say something that 617 00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:52,960 Speaker 2: I lost grapes. I eat cheese and grapes a lot. 618 00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:54,200 Speaker 1: Do you eat those. 619 00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:56,520 Speaker 3: Cheese and grapes? 620 00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:56,840 Speaker 1: Yes? 621 00:25:56,920 --> 00:26:00,399 Speaker 3: I used to do in college cottage cheese and rapes, 622 00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:02,959 Speaker 3: and I think I overdid it because I don't know. 623 00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:05,119 Speaker 1: Now you can't have it. No, I could have it. 624 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:07,760 Speaker 3: Now, I'm just saying then it's probably having it a 625 00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:09,840 Speaker 3: little too much. I remember it causing me some issues. 626 00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:13,080 Speaker 3: So if you do try that combo, you know, don't 627 00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:16,000 Speaker 3: overdo it. But it would be like it's a college 628 00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:18,320 Speaker 3: student only having to go buy two items at the 629 00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:21,080 Speaker 3: grocery store. You could buy a big tuba cottage cheese 630 00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:23,720 Speaker 3: and a big thing of grapes, and then next thing 631 00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:25,520 Speaker 3: you know, you're like, shoot, did I just eat all that? 632 00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:30,000 Speaker 3: And it would make me a little bit sick. But honestly, 633 00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:31,399 Speaker 3: I kind of forgot how good that is. 634 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:34,240 Speaker 2: No, that's a good I have cottage cheese because cottag 635 00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:37,199 Speaker 2: cheese is a big protein for me, so I'm going 636 00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:39,919 Speaker 2: to try the cottage cheese and grapes, but definitely that 637 00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:42,480 Speaker 2: I think though, I just wanted to also bring it 638 00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:45,439 Speaker 2: to your atention because there is there is an association 639 00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:49,000 Speaker 2: with this also happening. Like I love the idea that 640 00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:51,760 Speaker 2: it purely started with, which was just like a lazy 641 00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:55,320 Speaker 2: girl dinner, but there is also an association happening with 642 00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:57,919 Speaker 2: eating disorders where people are just like not eating. So 643 00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:00,440 Speaker 2: I also wanted to like give you that up unity 644 00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:03,439 Speaker 2: to mention that you have a podcast about Outweigh, so 645 00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:04,600 Speaker 2: if well. 646 00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:07,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, Outweigh is a life without disordered eating, outways, everything 647 00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:11,360 Speaker 3: and there's just real personal stories. There's experts that come 648 00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:16,440 Speaker 3: on and share things. It's really a weekly dose of encouragement. 649 00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:18,520 Speaker 3: Now it started as just a small series and now 650 00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:21,399 Speaker 3: it's up every Saturday, and it's a weekly dose of 651 00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:24,240 Speaker 3: encouragement with wherever you are with food and body image issues, 652 00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:26,560 Speaker 3: or if you're struggling in that area, or if you're 653 00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:29,120 Speaker 3: a loved one that has a family member a friend 654 00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:32,000 Speaker 3: that's struggling in that area, you can just feel encouraged 655 00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:35,960 Speaker 3: and know, Okay, we're not alone in this, and maybe 656 00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:37,639 Speaker 3: there's some tips and tools you can pick up just 657 00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:40,600 Speaker 3: to keep in your back pocket to use when you 658 00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:44,479 Speaker 3: need them. Because it's a journey. It's not anything that 659 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:47,399 Speaker 3: you cannot listen to one episode and that and then 660 00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:50,159 Speaker 3: be like, oh, okay, I get it now. There's so 661 00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:53,760 Speaker 3: many moving parts to recovery and what that looks like. 662 00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:58,080 Speaker 3: And just with the Internet, social media, all the different 663 00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:01,440 Speaker 3: ways we can consume and get con like you're inundated 664 00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:05,760 Speaker 3: with yeah, someone either eating showing you every single thing 665 00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:08,879 Speaker 3: they ate that day, when really it doesn't matter because 666 00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:11,400 Speaker 3: they're not you and all of our bodies are so different. 667 00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:13,320 Speaker 3: But then I remember when I was in the throes 668 00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:14,840 Speaker 3: of it, I wanted to know what certain people ate, 669 00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:16,359 Speaker 3: and I'd be like, okay, I need to emulate that, 670 00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:18,919 Speaker 3: and they need to do exactly what they're doing. So 671 00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:20,840 Speaker 3: you're given that content, and then you're given the content 672 00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:24,359 Speaker 3: of like, well I'm skipping and I don't eat this. 673 00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:26,720 Speaker 3: It's like, okay, well that's what they're choosing to do, 674 00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:29,200 Speaker 3: but that I mean, that's not necessarily what you need 675 00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:30,520 Speaker 3: to do for your body, and then we try to 676 00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:32,600 Speaker 3: emulate that or like, oh I wish I could just 677 00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:37,720 Speaker 3: skip meals. So my brain has been my pendulum has 678 00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:42,080 Speaker 3: swung all over the place in over the years. Probably 679 00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:44,719 Speaker 3: might even disorder started when I was a teenager and 680 00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:50,240 Speaker 3: then now thankfully to be in recovery for three years now. 681 00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:53,200 Speaker 3: It was twenty twenty that really and I see it 682 00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:55,240 Speaker 3: in my face, like there's some old video came up 683 00:28:56,960 --> 00:29:02,000 Speaker 3: from twenty nineteen, twenty twenty before I knew. I was like, officially, like, 684 00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:05,320 Speaker 3: I know the moment in which everything started to shift, 685 00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:08,000 Speaker 3: and I was building towards that right for a long time, 686 00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:11,680 Speaker 3: I kind of thought I was in recovery, but I wasn't. 687 00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:16,280 Speaker 3: And I see it now am in my face because 688 00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:18,560 Speaker 3: once you I was so inflamed from the way I 689 00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:21,040 Speaker 3: was treating my body and I didn't but I couldn't 690 00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:23,120 Speaker 3: see it because that's how I was used to seeing myself. 691 00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:27,120 Speaker 3: And then now I look. When the video popped up 692 00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:29,560 Speaker 3: the other day, I was like, oh, that's interesting, like 693 00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:31,080 Speaker 3: that's me, I mean, and I looked at her with 694 00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:33,040 Speaker 3: love and no judgment and by her, I mean me 695 00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:36,280 Speaker 3: back then. But I just was like, wow, that's so 696 00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:39,080 Speaker 3: crazy because I did not see that inflammation in my 697 00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:42,280 Speaker 3: face at that time, but now knowing how, and it 698 00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:44,239 Speaker 3: took a long time for my face to sort of 699 00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:47,760 Speaker 3: settle down, or even how my body was holding out. 700 00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:51,000 Speaker 3: My body was stressed the freak out, yeah, because of 701 00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:54,760 Speaker 3: how I was treating it. And now I treat it 702 00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:56,840 Speaker 3: with a lot more care and compassion. And it's not 703 00:29:57,480 --> 00:30:00,280 Speaker 3: you're inflamed because you're freaking out about something, right, your 704 00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:04,160 Speaker 3: reaction to something. And now that I treat my body 705 00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:08,080 Speaker 3: better and I journal and meditate, maybe even over a 706 00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:11,720 Speaker 3: workout because I don't have to force myself to do something. 707 00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:13,600 Speaker 3: I know that maybe that's going to be the better 708 00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 3: option for me today than forcing myself to go hard 709 00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:19,680 Speaker 3: at some class that I don't even like. But I 710 00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:22,440 Speaker 3: was just taking myself to the edge and then not 711 00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:26,080 Speaker 3: fueling myself properly or getting rid of the food in 712 00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:26,640 Speaker 3: whatever way. 713 00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:26,880 Speaker 1: I mean. 714 00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:29,280 Speaker 3: Purging can be through actual purging or working out for 715 00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:32,440 Speaker 3: two hours, whatever you're doing to eliminate try to get 716 00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:36,120 Speaker 3: rid of whatever you ate, and it's taxing on your body. 717 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:40,520 Speaker 3: So anyway, rambling here, but I bring that part up 718 00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:42,320 Speaker 3: because literally the other day where I saw that video 719 00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:47,880 Speaker 3: and I thought my face looks very different, but it's yeah, 720 00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:51,320 Speaker 3: my body sort of settled into what it was. I 721 00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:54,120 Speaker 3: was no longer trying to control it and force it 722 00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:56,760 Speaker 3: to be whatever I wanted. And I could just see 723 00:30:56,760 --> 00:31:02,080 Speaker 3: the puffiness in my face and that to say, whatever 724 00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:05,320 Speaker 3: you see online, you need to do what is going. 725 00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:06,280 Speaker 1: To be best for you. 726 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:09,000 Speaker 3: Yes, we're just I know that it's hard because you 727 00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:12,440 Speaker 3: see stuff everywhere and you're influenced all the time. 728 00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:13,040 Speaker 1: I get it. 729 00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:15,640 Speaker 3: I even say this was like love no judgment. If 730 00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:18,040 Speaker 3: you're influenced by someone today and you go copy exactly 731 00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:20,240 Speaker 3: what they do, I get it, But like we just 732 00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:24,680 Speaker 3: need to try to not if it's unless you're copying 733 00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:27,360 Speaker 3: someone in a healthy way, like oh I need ideas, 734 00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:29,200 Speaker 3: and sure that looks great, and that looks like an 735 00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:32,040 Speaker 3: adequate way for me to get protein, carbs, fat, whatever 736 00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:33,840 Speaker 3: I need. I'm going to mimic their meal. 737 00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:34,200 Speaker 1: Great. 738 00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:36,680 Speaker 3: But if it's an obsessive thing and your your goal 739 00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:39,800 Speaker 3: is to look like them, That's where I always got 740 00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:41,560 Speaker 3: tripped up because I thought if I do exactly what 741 00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:45,960 Speaker 3: that person does, all everything will just magically happen. It 742 00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:48,120 Speaker 3: just doesn't work that way because we're all built so differently. 743 00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:50,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, And you know it wasn't really until like I 744 00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:52,800 Speaker 2: feel like my late twenties, when I finally had the 745 00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:55,280 Speaker 2: realization that like, not only are we all different, but 746 00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:55,840 Speaker 2: literally we. 747 00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:56,960 Speaker 1: All have different genes. 748 00:31:57,440 --> 00:32:00,880 Speaker 2: Like our bodies are made to look down differently because 749 00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:02,760 Speaker 2: we have different genes. Like it's not even just the 750 00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:05,920 Speaker 2: fact of that's a different person than me, Like scientifically, 751 00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:08,000 Speaker 2: you are not supposed to look the same. 752 00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:10,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, we're just built so differently. I'm not going to 753 00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:14,560 Speaker 3: respond to something the way you do. My muscles are 754 00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:16,880 Speaker 3: going to grow differently. My body's going to do something differently. 755 00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:19,160 Speaker 3: You may be able to eat one thing and your 756 00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:20,600 Speaker 3: body does one thing with it, and I eat it 757 00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:24,600 Speaker 3: and it does another. So yeah, it's just important to 758 00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:27,960 Speaker 3: keep telling yourself that over and over and over until 759 00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:29,719 Speaker 3: until you believe it. 760 00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:30,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. 761 00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:32,880 Speaker 3: I mean there's more work that goes into it than that, 762 00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:34,320 Speaker 3: but I feel like in the beginning that was part 763 00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:36,600 Speaker 3: of rewiring my brain and that's what I had to do. 764 00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:39,320 Speaker 3: And so I just feel for a lot of kids 765 00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:40,920 Speaker 3: these days, there are a lot of people that that's 766 00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:42,880 Speaker 3: what's popping up in their algorithm or that's what they 767 00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:45,320 Speaker 3: see in their feed. Maybe even trying to just reset 768 00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:47,640 Speaker 3: that so that you're not who are you following? Should 769 00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:49,840 Speaker 3: you be following those people? Can you maybe clean out 770 00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:55,600 Speaker 3: your account in some way if you are you know, triggered. 771 00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:58,560 Speaker 3: I feel like triggered is so overused, but I feel 772 00:32:58,560 --> 00:32:59,840 Speaker 3: like it's the best word to sum it up. Like 773 00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:03,560 Speaker 3: if someone is prompting you to a certain behavior that 774 00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:07,360 Speaker 3: you know is not good for you, then you can consider, oh, 775 00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:11,160 Speaker 3: should I bet this person for a little bit, and 776 00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:14,600 Speaker 3: then yeah, outweighs a just a resource. It's a tool 777 00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:16,360 Speaker 3: for people to have in their toolbox along with the 778 00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:19,240 Speaker 3: many other things that they hopefully can do to get 779 00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:21,040 Speaker 3: to a better place. 780 00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:23,920 Speaker 2: Well, you know, I made a post recently because I 781 00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:25,960 Speaker 2: think from the outside looking in the pictures I posted, 782 00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:26,760 Speaker 2: people would have been. 783 00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:28,480 Speaker 1: Like, oh, these are great photos, those are cute. 784 00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:30,680 Speaker 2: But for me, when I looked at those photos, I 785 00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:32,840 Speaker 2: was like, oh, my gosh, I don't have a THI gap, 786 00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:35,160 Speaker 2: I hate my knees, I look terrible and not what. 787 00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:38,880 Speaker 2: I criticized everything about it. And I've wanted to make 788 00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:40,960 Speaker 2: sure when I posted those because I had to post 789 00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:43,520 Speaker 2: them for something that I went to and I was like, 790 00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:47,120 Speaker 2: just because I'm posting these doesn't mean I love them. 791 00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:49,400 Speaker 2: Just because they're out there and they're on the Internet 792 00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:51,360 Speaker 2: and they may look pretty doesn't mean I love them, 793 00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:54,480 Speaker 2: doesn't mean I feel great about them. And this is like, 794 00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:57,080 Speaker 2: it was a reminder not only for myself to be like, hey, 795 00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:59,120 Speaker 2: you're having a lot of self talk that's negative. 796 00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:01,680 Speaker 1: Right now, it's back up, Like you're good. 797 00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:04,000 Speaker 2: You got knees that work and they're awesome, and your 798 00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:08,880 Speaker 2: body moves, you're really strong. But fighting that constantly along 799 00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:12,480 Speaker 2: with somebody who's probably struggling with some type of disordered 800 00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:16,360 Speaker 2: eating is so hard. I can only imagine what that's like. 801 00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:19,719 Speaker 2: That's the body, you know. The image of issues that 802 00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:22,560 Speaker 2: we have are built into us. They're engraved into us 803 00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:24,919 Speaker 2: because of what we've grown up around and what we've 804 00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:28,680 Speaker 2: seen in media and what's been publicized on social media 805 00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:31,840 Speaker 2: and in magazines, and so to add another thing like 806 00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:35,240 Speaker 2: disordered eating onto that, I just I can't even imagine. 807 00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:37,480 Speaker 2: So like, I feel for all of you that have 808 00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:39,839 Speaker 2: experienced that, And that's why I wanted to make sure 809 00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:42,480 Speaker 2: to bring up. This is such a When it got 810 00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:44,359 Speaker 2: created as a trend on TikTok. 811 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:45,719 Speaker 1: It was such a lighthearted, just like this is my 812 00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:46,320 Speaker 1: girl dinner. 813 00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:48,920 Speaker 2: I'm laziest crap and I want to eat this, but 814 00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:51,239 Speaker 2: I also just want people to realize, like this is 815 00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:54,400 Speaker 2: just a trend and it's just meant to be. Like, 816 00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:56,600 Speaker 2: we also get to be lazy. We don't have to 817 00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:57,799 Speaker 2: have perfect meals all the time. 818 00:34:57,800 --> 00:34:58,560 Speaker 1: We got to be human. 819 00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:02,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, but also a reminder that like you also should 820 00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:05,279 Speaker 2: fuel your body with great food and do stuff that 821 00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:07,480 Speaker 2: makes you feel good, not just because you see it 822 00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:08,719 Speaker 2: on the internet and you're like, oh, I can eat 823 00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:10,719 Speaker 2: ice cream for every meal because somebody else is doing it. 824 00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:15,400 Speaker 1: No, it's just a trend. There'll be a new trend tomorrow. Yeah. 825 00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:17,920 Speaker 3: We shouldn't have to and guilty here I've done it. 826 00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:20,200 Speaker 3: But we shouldn't have to ever look to anybody else 827 00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:22,920 Speaker 3: for permission for whatever it is that we want to do. 828 00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:26,040 Speaker 3: And I also know that it's important to recognize too, 829 00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:30,120 Speaker 3: even in this space that like some of the things 830 00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:34,879 Speaker 3: like we've been fed from media growing up. I mean 831 00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:37,160 Speaker 3: when we were little, it was like looking at magazines, 832 00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:39,719 Speaker 3: but now it's just like a billboard, and now it's 833 00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:41,759 Speaker 3: just every it's on your phone. Like every time a 834 00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:44,520 Speaker 3: teenager opens up their phone, bam, they're hit with something. 835 00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:48,560 Speaker 3: So uh, you know, very sensitive to that, but also 836 00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:51,759 Speaker 3: to the fact that we have you and I are 837 00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:58,719 Speaker 3: with thin white privilege, and that's something that I just 838 00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:01,560 Speaker 3: like to acknowledge because it's not lost on me that 839 00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:06,440 Speaker 3: whatever society has said is this like you should go 840 00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:09,480 Speaker 3: for not. Now we're making progress, thankful you see more 841 00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:14,319 Speaker 3: diversity and it's beautiful and inclusive. We have still a 842 00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:17,000 Speaker 3: long way to go, but I can't imagine other people 843 00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:19,239 Speaker 3: that they look through at a magazine, or they pulled 844 00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:21,080 Speaker 3: their phone, or they look at a billboard, and they 845 00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:22,160 Speaker 3: never see anybody that. 846 00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:22,680 Speaker 1: Looks like them. 847 00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:25,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, and I'm so glad that we are 848 00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:28,000 Speaker 2: getting to a point where that's not as common anymore. 849 00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:30,920 Speaker 2: We are finding that place where it's, oh, this person 850 00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:31,200 Speaker 2: is me. 851 00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:35,200 Speaker 3: Did you ever watch that Victoria's Secret documentary? I think 852 00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:38,160 Speaker 3: it's on Hulu Angels and oh gosh, I don't think 853 00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:40,399 Speaker 3: I did. Let me see. 854 00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:42,600 Speaker 2: Victoria's Secret was a hard subject for me, you know, 855 00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:45,920 Speaker 2: because honestly, just like swimsuit shopping, I hate swimsuit shopping. 856 00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:49,120 Speaker 2: It is like I don't like summertime for that reason 857 00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:52,680 Speaker 2: because I don't like being in swimsuits. Like I feel 858 00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:54,879 Speaker 2: very confident about my body a lot of the time, 859 00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:56,719 Speaker 2: but you put me in a swimsuit and I immediately 860 00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:59,400 Speaker 2: like I get knocked down like ten points where I 861 00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:03,400 Speaker 2: just start really going out myself. And so swimsuit season 862 00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:06,600 Speaker 2: is like my nightmare. And I'm saying in just like 863 00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:08,520 Speaker 2: what you mentioned, I'm saying that from a place who 864 00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:11,520 Speaker 2: I am very strong, and I I don't feel like 865 00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:14,680 Speaker 2: I have a lot to be negative about. 866 00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:18,520 Speaker 3: We were born into bodies that were more common as white. 867 00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:21,960 Speaker 3: That's why my fami white privilege, Like you're a blonde 868 00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:25,720 Speaker 3: white girl, think of I think of Stashira, my daughter, 869 00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:28,359 Speaker 3: for example, Like again, she's in a time where we've 870 00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:30,759 Speaker 3: made more progress, but if she was growing up as me, 871 00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:33,880 Speaker 3: she would look around and see white blonde girls everywhere, 872 00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:37,360 Speaker 3: as like society saying this is here's Barbie, this is 873 00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:38,719 Speaker 3: what you speaking of? 874 00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:40,399 Speaker 1: Barbie. That's I mean, that's over. 875 00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:42,880 Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean? Like, So that's it. 876 00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:45,640 Speaker 3: It's just it's just not lost on me. So I 877 00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:51,560 Speaker 3: feel like I just want to acknowledge that. And also 878 00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:55,120 Speaker 3: the name of the documentary is Victoria's Secret Angels and Demons, 879 00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:57,040 Speaker 3: and I highly recommend it. 880 00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:59,400 Speaker 2: Is it about like their whole line well, and it 881 00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:01,280 Speaker 2: also is this reminds me of a song that Jack's 882 00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:01,560 Speaker 2: put out. 883 00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:05,279 Speaker 1: It's called Victoria's Secret. Yeah, that's so good. Victoria's Secret, 884 00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:07,080 Speaker 1: and I'm so thankful for that song. 885 00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:12,160 Speaker 3: So it's about Less Wexner's like the company she was 886 00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:15,440 Speaker 3: like and it was made up by a dude, yep, dude. 887 00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:19,759 Speaker 3: So that's when you watch the documentary, you'll see that 888 00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:24,600 Speaker 3: the heads of that were all men, and they were 889 00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:28,200 Speaker 3: when the first Victoria's Secret catalog was being put out. 890 00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:30,520 Speaker 3: I mean, men were saying, Okay, this is what we 891 00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:34,840 Speaker 3: need to market and ship out to women. So women 892 00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:37,840 Speaker 3: are the ones getting the catalog, supposedly trying to buy this, 893 00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:39,160 Speaker 3: but then they would open it up and be like, 894 00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:41,560 Speaker 3: wait a second, I don't look like this, and it 895 00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:43,040 Speaker 3: was like, well, I guess I better buy this stuff 896 00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:45,160 Speaker 3: because it didn't help me look this way. And then 897 00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:49,320 Speaker 3: it just snowballed. But it's about yeah, all the money 898 00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:53,920 Speaker 3: and power and sexuality in America that was formed a 899 00:38:53,920 --> 00:39:00,560 Speaker 3: lot by Victoria's Secret and then the founder, the Less Dude, 900 00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:04,640 Speaker 3: he's just pretty shady. He was tied to Jeffrey Epstein. 901 00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:07,799 Speaker 1: Oh, super shady. So I don't know. 902 00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:08,560 Speaker 3: It's fascinating. 903 00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:10,919 Speaker 1: So it's on Hulu. It's on Hulu. 904 00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:14,200 Speaker 3: It took a documentary to check out, and you can 905 00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:18,000 Speaker 3: see where Victoria's Secret's doing their best to try to pivot, 906 00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:21,200 Speaker 3: and they have, but they would have even back in 907 00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:23,759 Speaker 3: the day before they were they knew they needed women 908 00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:25,160 Speaker 3: on staff, and women were high up, but then they 909 00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:28,120 Speaker 3: weren't the highest up, right. They had women appear to 910 00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:30,440 Speaker 3: be high up because be like, oh, well, look this 911 00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:34,480 Speaker 3: is our president's up but she still had men above her, 912 00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:37,000 Speaker 3: so they would make it seem as though women were 913 00:39:37,040 --> 00:39:38,040 Speaker 3: calling the shots. 914 00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:42,560 Speaker 1: But of course, yeah, right, of course, Oh my goodness, 915 00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:46,960 Speaker 1: well that makes me to put a pretty bow on this. 916 00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:49,279 Speaker 1: I love this trend because I think it's awesome and 917 00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:51,560 Speaker 1: it encourages people to just like, when you got to eat, 918 00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:53,440 Speaker 1: eat something, find it. What's your girl dinner? 919 00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:57,200 Speaker 2: But just if you need a safe, gentle reminder, go 920 00:39:57,320 --> 00:39:59,720 Speaker 2: listen to Amy's Outweigh podcast. I think it's very helpful 921 00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:04,000 Speaker 2: and very we're resourceful for people. But talking about things 922 00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:07,200 Speaker 2: we should watch, is there anything that you've been watching recently, 923 00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:11,200 Speaker 2: because I've been binging two things, Rain and the Summer 924 00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:13,920 Speaker 2: I Turned Pretty came out and I'm so excited about it. 925 00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:16,640 Speaker 3: Summer I Turned Pretty. I'm already good you are caught out. 926 00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:20,080 Speaker 3: My friend Gracie told me about it and I started it, 927 00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:23,399 Speaker 3: watched all of season one, and then got very sad 928 00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:26,279 Speaker 3: the other day because I realized I watched all that 929 00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:29,520 Speaker 3: is currently available for season two. I thought everything was 930 00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:31,239 Speaker 3: out and I was gonna have a nice binge, but 931 00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:34,480 Speaker 3: it's currently only has three episodes, which I don't know what. 932 00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:39,040 Speaker 1: Data comes out every Thursday. Okay, so there's should be 933 00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:42,439 Speaker 1: a new one today. Yeah, okay. So it's so good, 934 00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:42,920 Speaker 1: isn't it. 935 00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:47,040 Speaker 3: I am very into it. 936 00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:50,520 Speaker 2: It's like a very clean drama, like I love teen dramas. 937 00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:54,120 Speaker 2: Very into it, and I was a little nervous because 938 00:40:54,120 --> 00:40:56,160 Speaker 2: season one I binged so hard and I really loved it, 939 00:40:56,200 --> 00:40:57,799 Speaker 2: and so when season two came out, I was like, oh, gosh, 940 00:40:57,840 --> 00:40:59,000 Speaker 2: am I gonna love this as much. 941 00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:00,479 Speaker 1: But it's still just is good. 942 00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:03,359 Speaker 3: Mike D's wife was saying that the books are really good, 943 00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:05,800 Speaker 3: and I'll see she said she loved the books. I'm like, shoot, 944 00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:07,800 Speaker 3: dang it. I wish I would have read the books 945 00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:10,600 Speaker 3: before I watched the series, because I feel like I 946 00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:11,759 Speaker 3: would have been into those. 947 00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:15,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. I stopped trying to read the books before because 948 00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:17,120 Speaker 1: I almost never made it in time. I always ended 949 00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:18,200 Speaker 1: up watching. 950 00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:20,520 Speaker 2: The movie or show before I ever read the book, 951 00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:24,440 Speaker 2: So I just I believe in knowing that the books 952 00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:27,160 Speaker 2: and stuff are always better, and then I just get 953 00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:28,520 Speaker 2: excited that I watched a really. 954 00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:31,000 Speaker 1: Good movie with more on TV show whatever it may be. 955 00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:32,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like if I had heard about the 956 00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:35,520 Speaker 3: books before, because I mean I literally had never heard 957 00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:38,359 Speaker 3: of the summery term pretty at all, like two weeks ago. 958 00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:42,040 Speaker 1: That's crazy. Ever, it was all over Instagram when first I. 959 00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:43,680 Speaker 3: Was missing it or I wasn't paying attention and I 960 00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:44,879 Speaker 3: didn't know what people were talking about. 961 00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:46,480 Speaker 1: So you didn't know. We didn't know. 962 00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:48,120 Speaker 3: And now I know and I can't. 963 00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:50,280 Speaker 1: So are you now? I see it everywhere? 964 00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:54,000 Speaker 2: Conrad or crap? What's the other guys, Jeremiah Jeremiah. Are 965 00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:57,840 Speaker 2: you team Conrad or team Jeremiah Conrad? Oh, I'm team Jeremiah. 966 00:41:57,880 --> 00:41:58,160 Speaker 3: Really. 967 00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:01,680 Speaker 2: I mean, I think he's very happy with Conrad. But 968 00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:03,480 Speaker 2: I think Conrad's got a lot of problems. 969 00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:05,600 Speaker 1: Yeah he does. 970 00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:10,600 Speaker 3: There's like some extra content on Amazon you can go to, 971 00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:15,480 Speaker 3: like bonus things that they put up with the actors 972 00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:18,320 Speaker 3: and actresses. I guess we could just say actors. Everybody 973 00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:22,279 Speaker 3: and so the creator they're doing this. They're making like 974 00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:24,239 Speaker 3: muffins because muffins are a thing on the show, you know. 975 00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:28,120 Speaker 3: And it's the guy that plays Conrad, I don't know 976 00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:29,840 Speaker 3: his name in real life, and then the girl that 977 00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:32,839 Speaker 3: plays Belly, and they're there with the creator and they're 978 00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:34,560 Speaker 3: just talking about real life and they're talking about their 979 00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:39,360 Speaker 3: characters and whatnot. But Conrad, whoever is there's something I 980 00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:42,800 Speaker 3: don't know, it's it might be changing everything for me. 981 00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:46,040 Speaker 3: Let me pull it up for you, and he's everything's fine, 982 00:42:46,760 --> 00:42:49,000 Speaker 3: but it's his app I don't know. I don't want 983 00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:50,719 Speaker 3: to same thing. It feels bad. But I just was 984 00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:53,200 Speaker 3: like his whole vibe was very different in real life. 985 00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:55,400 Speaker 3: You know, how he's playing a character obviously, yeah, but 986 00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:58,719 Speaker 3: his real live character might be more I don't know. 987 00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:01,640 Speaker 3: He had on this like crochet sweater and like really 988 00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:05,560 Speaker 3: high waisted, like pleated pants with like a shirt that 989 00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:09,480 Speaker 3: was disheveled, and his personality didn't seem the same as Conrad's. 990 00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:10,759 Speaker 3: So I was like, well, dang it. 991 00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:12,320 Speaker 1: You're like I was team Conrad. 992 00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:14,640 Speaker 3: I was very attracted to, which is weird because you're 993 00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:15,239 Speaker 3: a teenager. 994 00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:18,120 Speaker 1: But I don't think he is. I think he's in 995 00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:18,760 Speaker 1: his twenties. 996 00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:23,800 Speaker 3: Okay, well you like Rain while I look up Conrad 997 00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:25,400 Speaker 3: because I don't know what Rain is. 998 00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:29,440 Speaker 1: So Rain is a royal show. I love anything like royal. 999 00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:32,799 Speaker 1: Where do you watch it? It's on c W c W. 1000 00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:37,399 Speaker 2: Show, of course, and it's like this woman is has 1001 00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:40,359 Speaker 2: been born to be queen and got married off when 1002 00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:44,000 Speaker 2: she was super young, but like didn't get married until 1003 00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:45,840 Speaker 2: she was in her teens, and now it's like this 1004 00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:48,960 Speaker 2: whole drama of her being queen and it's like her Rain. 1005 00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:52,960 Speaker 1: It's so good. It's like old school too Royals, Like 1006 00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:57,000 Speaker 1: the what time it's placed is old school, very like 1007 00:43:57,640 --> 00:44:02,200 Speaker 1: eighteen hundreds, and just the craziness of like there's murders 1008 00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:04,600 Speaker 1: that happen and all of this stuff and she has 1009 00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:07,240 Speaker 1: to make all these decisions and she's like sixteen years old. 1010 00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:09,520 Speaker 1: Then it's wild. It's so good. 1011 00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:14,280 Speaker 2: It's fiction and it's in that still teen kind of area. 1012 00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:16,760 Speaker 2: And it's definitely a CW show, which are just cheesy 1013 00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:19,040 Speaker 2: and I love them. But if you like royal stuff, 1014 00:44:19,080 --> 00:44:19,880 Speaker 2: I think you would like it. 1015 00:44:20,239 --> 00:44:22,399 Speaker 1: Yes, I do, so I will check it out. 1016 00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:24,879 Speaker 2: And I've just been to the first season and there's 1017 00:44:24,920 --> 00:44:27,399 Speaker 2: four seasons, so you could do a long binge with Rain. 1018 00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:31,040 Speaker 3: Well, now I'm on Conrad's Instagram Instagram like his real 1019 00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:32,400 Speaker 3: life one. His name's Christopher. 1020 00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:34,480 Speaker 1: Two seas. 1021 00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:38,120 Speaker 3: You'll just go watch the Muffin Baking extra scene. I'm 1022 00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:39,920 Speaker 3: gonna then you'll know what I'm talking about. 1023 00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:41,040 Speaker 1: Different vibes. 1024 00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:43,840 Speaker 2: It is always a little like, especially after you just 1025 00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:45,920 Speaker 2: finished binge watching something, you're like, oh, you're not the 1026 00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:47,759 Speaker 2: same in person that you are on that character, and 1027 00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:49,080 Speaker 2: I totally like painted you in that. 1028 00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:51,799 Speaker 3: Light right, which obviously you know that they're different, but 1029 00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:52,319 Speaker 3: you just. 1030 00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:54,319 Speaker 1: You just kind of hope that they're like the same 1031 00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:55,279 Speaker 1: in real life, you know. 1032 00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:57,960 Speaker 3: Okay, so he's twenty five, I don't feel as creepy. 1033 00:44:58,080 --> 00:44:59,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I knew. I knew they had to be older. 1034 00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:01,160 Speaker 2: They're never teenagers. 1035 00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:06,160 Speaker 3: But still he's twenty five, so that's not that's I 1036 00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:09,480 Speaker 3: will say. Jeremiah has beautiful eyes. 1037 00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:15,600 Speaker 1: Oh he is so attractive, lips everything great. 1038 00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:19,480 Speaker 3: Now I need to check his age, YU, how is he? 1039 00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:22,600 Speaker 1: I am? I'm like hardcore team Jeremiah though I love him. 1040 00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:24,680 Speaker 3: Why does he not have a thing when I click 1041 00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:27,439 Speaker 3: on him right now? Where his age is let's see 1042 00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:31,600 Speaker 3: Jeremiah laid by Al he's twenty two. 1043 00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:33,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, he does like younger. 1044 00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:35,920 Speaker 3: His name's Gavin. He's very pretty. 1045 00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:39,399 Speaker 1: He's very pretty, like he's just blessed with good jeans. 1046 00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:42,120 Speaker 3: Like, Okay, the Post Show has turned into Amy and 1047 00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:45,040 Speaker 3: Morgan obsessing over twenty year old boys. 1048 00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:46,879 Speaker 2: Okay, but you know what, there's a lot of people 1049 00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:48,760 Speaker 2: that are gonna understand because the summer I turn pretty 1050 00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:49,239 Speaker 2: is so good. 1051 00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:52,200 Speaker 3: It's just hot right now it is, Okay. 1052 00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:54,760 Speaker 1: And I bought a Nintendo Switch. I've been totally geeking 1053 00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:58,279 Speaker 1: out of a plane over on a Nintendo Switch. Okay, yeah, 1054 00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:00,320 Speaker 1: my kids have those. Did you ever have a gamey? 1055 00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:00,759 Speaker 3: M hm? 1056 00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:03,799 Speaker 2: Okay, So there's game Boy games on there now, and 1057 00:46:03,840 --> 00:46:05,719 Speaker 2: like Kirby Tilt and Tumble has been on there, which 1058 00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:07,160 Speaker 2: is a game that I used to play growing up. 1059 00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:10,920 Speaker 2: So I've just been like in my nostalgic era, like 1060 00:46:10,960 --> 00:46:12,680 Speaker 2: basically trying to remake my childhood. 1061 00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:16,640 Speaker 3: I only played Tetris on my game Boy, It's all 1062 00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:20,560 Speaker 3: I remember. And then on my Nintendo I played, you know, 1063 00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:22,560 Speaker 3: Duck Hunt. Mario Kart. 1064 00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:24,719 Speaker 1: Well in the Nintendo schhich has Mario Kart, which is 1065 00:46:24,719 --> 00:46:27,520 Speaker 1: pretty cool. Have you played it on them? I don't 1066 00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:28,320 Speaker 1: play their stuff. 1067 00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:32,080 Speaker 3: I tried to play Fortnite with Stevenson, and I guess 1068 00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:35,239 Speaker 3: it's just doesn't interest me at all. I try to 1069 00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:37,160 Speaker 3: because it's something if he wants to do it with me, 1070 00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:39,640 Speaker 3: and so I really really really try, but then he 1071 00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:41,440 Speaker 3: gets frustrated. He's like, give me the remote, let me 1072 00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:42,600 Speaker 3: help you. This is what you have to do. You 1073 00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:45,040 Speaker 3: have to press this button. And then I'm like, oh, 1074 00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:46,920 Speaker 3: it's fine, buddy, I'll just sit here with you, and 1075 00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:49,440 Speaker 3: I'll like kind of act like I'm pressing buttons. 1076 00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:52,560 Speaker 1: Feel like I'm just here to hang out with you. 1077 00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:54,680 Speaker 2: See, maybe you can get him to play Mario Kart 1078 00:46:54,719 --> 00:46:57,719 Speaker 2: because Mario Kart is about the same on those as 1079 00:46:57,760 --> 00:46:59,960 Speaker 2: it was on all the Game Boy and stuff that 1080 00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:00,640 Speaker 2: used to play. 1081 00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:03,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, is that that's on the switch? Mm hm, because 1082 00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:07,000 Speaker 3: it's not whatever we play Fortnite on is something totally different. 1083 00:47:07,080 --> 00:47:08,560 Speaker 1: Well, and they have Fortnite on switch too. 1084 00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:10,600 Speaker 3: Oh okay, there's just a. 1085 00:47:10,600 --> 00:47:12,600 Speaker 1: Lot of games going on over there too much. 1086 00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:15,279 Speaker 3: I'm glad we Stevenson has been very very busy this 1087 00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:19,080 Speaker 3: summer to where he hasn't played much video game played 1088 00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:23,040 Speaker 3: as much and that's been really cool to see because 1089 00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:27,520 Speaker 3: I kind of thought there was a moment last semester, 1090 00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:29,080 Speaker 3: like in the spring, towards the end of the school year, 1091 00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:30,560 Speaker 3: where things were crazy and I felt like I had 1092 00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:32,840 Speaker 3: kind of thrown in the towel as trying to manage 1093 00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:34,640 Speaker 3: a bunch of different things. I'm like, Okay, fine, go 1094 00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:38,680 Speaker 3: play your video game. And I thought, oh, no, he 1095 00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:41,319 Speaker 3: is this is all he wants to do. And then 1096 00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:45,200 Speaker 3: luckily we got through that and he hasn't really brought 1097 00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:46,719 Speaker 3: it up much, and I'm like, okay. 1098 00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:49,120 Speaker 2: Good who I think it's just breaking the cycle. If 1099 00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:50,760 Speaker 2: you can get it broken, you're good. 1100 00:47:51,400 --> 00:47:52,120 Speaker 1: But it is hard. 1101 00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:54,279 Speaker 2: Like think about when your binge watch a show. I 1102 00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:56,080 Speaker 2: don't know if you get like this, but like if 1103 00:47:56,080 --> 00:47:58,000 Speaker 2: I binge, if I start binge watching, I'm like, that's 1104 00:47:58,040 --> 00:48:00,600 Speaker 2: all I want to do until I finish it, because 1105 00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:02,480 Speaker 2: if I go out, I'm just like thinking about, oh, 1106 00:48:02,520 --> 00:48:04,560 Speaker 2: I want to go back and see what happened. So 1107 00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:06,879 Speaker 2: I feel like that same kind of cycle happens when 1108 00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:09,000 Speaker 2: you if you get really stuck or really love a game, 1109 00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:10,920 Speaker 2: you just kind of get into Okay, well I have 1110 00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:11,319 Speaker 2: to beat it. 1111 00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:11,799 Speaker 1: I want to win. 1112 00:48:11,840 --> 00:48:14,160 Speaker 2: I want to play it and then until like something 1113 00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:16,520 Speaker 2: breaks it enough that you're not like obsessing over the 1114 00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:18,759 Speaker 2: fact that you want to go back. That's the only 1115 00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:21,040 Speaker 2: way you can like break that cycle. So you must 1116 00:48:21,080 --> 00:48:22,080 Speaker 2: have broke it with something. 1117 00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:24,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I think that would be with anything. 1118 00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:26,640 Speaker 3: I feel like I can't really judge him for when 1119 00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:29,680 Speaker 3: who play video game. If I'm watching eight episodes of 1120 00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:31,120 Speaker 3: the Summer, I tern pretty in a row. 1121 00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:33,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's true. It is. 1122 00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:36,440 Speaker 2: Oh man, Well, hey, guys, make sure you go watch 1123 00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:37,920 Speaker 2: the Summer I tern Prenny so you can tell us 1124 00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:40,640 Speaker 2: if your team Conrad or team Jeremiah, because it's very 1125 00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:47,319 Speaker 2: split over here. Jordan Rogers stopped by the studio this 1126 00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:49,239 Speaker 2: week and it was a really cool interview. I was 1127 00:48:49,320 --> 00:48:51,560 Speaker 2: not anticipating what that interview was gonna be like, but 1128 00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:52,120 Speaker 2: it was awesome. 1129 00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:54,520 Speaker 1: He was super great and very talkative. 1130 00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:57,759 Speaker 3: Honestly, I saw it on the calendar. I know who 1131 00:48:57,800 --> 00:48:59,960 Speaker 3: he is, but when I saw it on the calendar, 1132 00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:03,239 Speaker 3: it wasn't registering. So I thought, oh, Jordan Rodgers, there's 1133 00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:06,239 Speaker 3: a new artist coming in. And then when he got here, 1134 00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:08,640 Speaker 3: I was like, Oh, that's who that is. 1135 00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:11,600 Speaker 2: ESPN guy, And he's very easy on the eyes. So 1136 00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:16,400 Speaker 2: we had another pretty man in studio because he's very attractive. 1137 00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:16,680 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1138 00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:17,120 Speaker 2: He. 1139 00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:20,160 Speaker 3: I asked him if he'd ever been told if he 1140 00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:21,719 Speaker 3: looks like Ryan Reynolds, and he was like, no, I 1141 00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:23,160 Speaker 3: haven't gotten that, and I'm like, that's so weird. 1142 00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:25,080 Speaker 2: I did want to agree with you, because as soon 1143 00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:26,399 Speaker 2: as you said that, I was like, oh, he kind 1144 00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:26,759 Speaker 2: of does. 1145 00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:28,759 Speaker 3: I wish he would have agreed with me, because then I. 1146 00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:30,080 Speaker 1: Felt like I was trying to. 1147 00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:32,160 Speaker 2: But I realized because I always turned off my mic 1148 00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:34,720 Speaker 2: during the interviews because I'm taking pictures because that click sound. 1149 00:49:34,960 --> 00:49:36,319 Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, if I say yes, she's 1150 00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:36,960 Speaker 2: not even gonna hear me. 1151 00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:39,839 Speaker 1: Oh God, I'm good. I'm not alone. 1152 00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:41,200 Speaker 2: But I did agree with you. He did have some 1153 00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:43,560 Speaker 2: Ryan Reynolds vibes. I love Ryan Reynolds. 1154 00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:44,400 Speaker 1: He's amazing. 1155 00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:47,800 Speaker 3: Are you Ryan? Team Ryan Gosling or team Ryan Ryan Reynolds. 1156 00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:49,240 Speaker 3: I love him Gostling. 1157 00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:52,080 Speaker 2: But I'm going I by the time this errors, I 1158 00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:54,320 Speaker 2: will have seen the Barbie movie too, But as of 1159 00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:56,600 Speaker 2: right now, off recording, I'm going to see where are 1160 00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:57,440 Speaker 2: you going tonight? 1161 00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:00,759 Speaker 1: Or when are you going tomorrow? Okay, but I think 1162 00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:02,440 Speaker 1: maybe after I see him as kin. 1163 00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:05,120 Speaker 2: I may be back on Ryan Gosling team, okay, because 1164 00:50:05,200 --> 00:50:06,319 Speaker 2: I love all of his marketing that. 1165 00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:09,279 Speaker 1: I've been doing. He's amazing, He's hilarious. 1166 00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:11,080 Speaker 3: What is Ryan Renold? 1167 00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:15,080 Speaker 1: He's Deadpool. Ryan Reynolds is Deadpool. He also. 1168 00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:20,040 Speaker 3: That movie with Sandra Bullock where they're in Canada. 1169 00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:20,400 Speaker 1: The Proposal. 1170 00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:24,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's done some rom comms. He's also a Free Guy. 1171 00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:25,879 Speaker 2: Did you ever watch Free Guy? 1172 00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:29,560 Speaker 1: That's a great movie and your kids would probably like 1173 00:50:29,560 --> 00:50:30,520 Speaker 1: that on a superhero. 1174 00:50:30,840 --> 00:50:33,399 Speaker 2: It's not superhero, but it's like it's VR. So he's 1175 00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:35,600 Speaker 2: a video game character. He's like an Avatar in a 1176 00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:38,200 Speaker 2: video game, and he's like the only one that's like 1177 00:50:38,320 --> 00:50:39,160 Speaker 2: AI and real. 1178 00:50:39,440 --> 00:50:42,640 Speaker 3: Don't even get me started on Avatar, actual Avatar. 1179 00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:45,160 Speaker 1: The new Did you watch it? Stevenson? 1180 00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:50,719 Speaker 3: And I did ish the newest one? I don't even 1181 00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:53,960 Speaker 3: know he had it on. Did you not like it? 1182 00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:56,520 Speaker 3: It's not my thing? I didn't. I did not enjoy 1183 00:50:56,560 --> 00:51:00,880 Speaker 3: the original Avatar either. I got into this one more. 1184 00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:02,960 Speaker 3: But it's just very long. 1185 00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:05,799 Speaker 1: Yeah it was. I mean it's like a nearly three 1186 00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:06,600 Speaker 1: hours long. 1187 00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:08,759 Speaker 3: You but you would have we could have tied that 1188 00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:11,000 Speaker 3: up faster, wrapped it up a little bit more. 1189 00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:13,000 Speaker 2: But it makes sense that you don't like it because 1190 00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:15,040 Speaker 2: you didn't like the first one. You already went in 1191 00:51:15,160 --> 00:51:16,680 Speaker 2: not having good avatar vibes. 1192 00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:18,359 Speaker 3: But if I had to pick, I would pick the 1193 00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:20,640 Speaker 3: first one. No, the second one. You did like this, Okay, 1194 00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:23,040 Speaker 3: I'm not saying it. I'm not gonna watch it again. 1195 00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:25,680 Speaker 3: I don't think I would have watched it unless you 1196 00:51:25,719 --> 00:51:28,600 Speaker 3: know he wanted to. But it was fine. 1197 00:51:28,719 --> 00:51:29,960 Speaker 1: I just feel like it could have been faster. 1198 00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:33,000 Speaker 2: Well, because you have Disney. Free Guy is on Disney, 1199 00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:35,839 Speaker 2: and it's a great movie. Like I think you did 1200 00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:38,120 Speaker 2: you ever watch Ready Player one? That's my favorite movies. 1201 00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:41,920 Speaker 2: It's in that similar vein. It's that type of like 1202 00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:47,360 Speaker 2: uh v R reality and then there's like real world 1203 00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:49,400 Speaker 2: that exists outside of it and they're kind of balancing 1204 00:51:49,440 --> 00:51:52,040 Speaker 2: back and forth. Okay, so it's good and the kids 1205 00:51:52,080 --> 00:51:55,200 Speaker 2: can watch it. It's not anything crazy. I mean, make 1206 00:51:55,239 --> 00:51:57,120 Speaker 2: sure on the ratio, but I'm pretty positive it's good. 1207 00:51:57,800 --> 00:51:59,640 Speaker 2: Nothing flagged when I was watching it. 1208 00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:02,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, No, it's fine, Stevenson. I just have to more 1209 00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:05,080 Speaker 3: so worry if there's gonna be something that's gonna be scary. 1210 00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:10,279 Speaker 3: Other things, I don't mind certain ratings. If I know 1211 00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:11,719 Speaker 3: the content, I know I'm going to be watching it 1212 00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:14,040 Speaker 3: with them because I feel like it's an opportunity to 1213 00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:15,840 Speaker 3: then have conversations about stuff. 1214 00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:18,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, at least you guys are putting out in the open. Yeah, 1215 00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:19,239 Speaker 1: I would. 1216 00:52:19,320 --> 00:52:22,600 Speaker 3: I don't want to shelter them from certain things when 1217 00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:26,560 Speaker 3: it could be the perfect way for us to now 1218 00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:28,680 Speaker 3: talk about something that would have been awkward just to 1219 00:52:28,719 --> 00:52:31,439 Speaker 3: bring up. But when it's in a movie, then you can. 1220 00:52:31,400 --> 00:52:32,000 Speaker 1: Talk about it. 1221 00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:34,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's an easy way to bring it up. 1222 00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:35,440 Speaker 2: It's not just like random. 1223 00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:40,960 Speaker 3: There's I have I draw the line on certain things, 1224 00:52:40,960 --> 00:52:42,440 Speaker 3: but you know what I mean, Yeah, I. 1225 00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:46,440 Speaker 2: Know and this, Yeah, there's nothing. I'm even like playing 1226 00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:47,279 Speaker 2: the movie back in my head. 1227 00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:48,920 Speaker 1: You're good. Okay, So that's a good one. 1228 00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:51,799 Speaker 2: But I wanted to ask you about so and I'll 1229 00:52:51,840 --> 00:52:53,720 Speaker 2: let you think about it. I'll tell you what happened 1230 00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:56,600 Speaker 2: a piece of advice that is like stuck out to 1231 00:52:56,680 --> 00:52:59,640 Speaker 2: you that somebody gave you. And the reason this I'm 1232 00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:01,799 Speaker 2: bringing the is because I went to the retirement home 1233 00:53:01,840 --> 00:53:05,320 Speaker 2: with Remy, she's a therapy dog, and we were talking 1234 00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:09,239 Speaker 2: to one of the ladies there and as soon as 1235 00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:11,680 Speaker 2: I walked in. She she's seen us a bunch of times, 1236 00:53:12,040 --> 00:53:15,160 Speaker 2: and she was like, are you married? And I was 1237 00:53:15,239 --> 00:53:17,399 Speaker 2: like no, and I was like fully prepared. I was like, Okay, 1238 00:53:17,480 --> 00:53:19,960 Speaker 2: here we go. She's gonna tell me get married right 1239 00:53:19,960 --> 00:53:23,920 Speaker 2: now and do all these things, and she goes, well, good. 1240 00:53:24,280 --> 00:53:27,360 Speaker 2: Her piece of advice to me was don't get married. 1241 00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:29,400 Speaker 2: I wish I would have just stuck with my dogs. 1242 00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:31,440 Speaker 2: She goes, maybe I wouldn't have ended up in a 1243 00:53:31,520 --> 00:53:34,200 Speaker 2: place like this because I lost my mind trying to 1244 00:53:34,200 --> 00:53:35,000 Speaker 2: talk sense into that. 1245 00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:35,920 Speaker 1: Man. 1246 00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:40,440 Speaker 2: Oh no, I think most of her was joking, but 1247 00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:42,520 Speaker 2: it like stuck out in my brain because I like 1248 00:53:42,600 --> 00:53:44,840 Speaker 2: giggled and she kind of giggled after, which made me 1249 00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:46,520 Speaker 2: think she was kind of joking. But she's like no, 1250 00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:49,600 Speaker 2: but seriercely like, don't rush on getting married. I know 1251 00:53:49,600 --> 00:53:51,600 Speaker 2: a lot of people probably tell you too. And it 1252 00:53:51,680 --> 00:53:54,640 Speaker 2: was a really cute moment. And that piece of advice 1253 00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:56,840 Speaker 2: is gonna stick with me forever because she just was 1254 00:53:56,920 --> 00:54:01,040 Speaker 2: so like the retirement home is such a cool experience 1255 00:54:01,080 --> 00:54:03,520 Speaker 2: for me because it just you see just such a 1256 00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:06,799 Speaker 2: different life happening, and for a lot of people, like 1257 00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:10,200 Speaker 2: towards the end of theirs and the way that they 1258 00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:12,319 Speaker 2: see life, the way that they experience things, the way 1259 00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:15,640 Speaker 2: they interact with people is just so different. And she 1260 00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:18,480 Speaker 2: was so joyful and so happy, and she was just like, nah, 1261 00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:20,000 Speaker 2: I want to make sure like you go out and 1262 00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:22,520 Speaker 2: live your life because everybody's probably telling you to get married. 1263 00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:24,760 Speaker 1: Don't. And it was really cool. 1264 00:54:25,239 --> 00:54:27,560 Speaker 3: I mean, I wish I could have had more conversations 1265 00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:31,520 Speaker 3: with a lot of the people that were at the 1266 00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:36,000 Speaker 3: retirement home assisted living. That's where my dad was for 1267 00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:39,399 Speaker 3: a little bit, and I would look around and be like, gosh, 1268 00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:41,400 Speaker 3: it was right before COVID, so then I couldn't I 1269 00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:43,680 Speaker 3: feel like I probably would have had more conversations with people, 1270 00:54:43,719 --> 00:54:47,319 Speaker 3: But then COVID happened and we weren't allowed to go in. 1271 00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:49,719 Speaker 3: But for the time that I was allowed to go in, 1272 00:54:49,760 --> 00:54:51,960 Speaker 3: I just remember thinking, I wonder what kind of lives 1273 00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:54,400 Speaker 3: these people have led and what interesting stories they have, 1274 00:54:54,560 --> 00:54:57,279 Speaker 3: And I pictured us hanging out there and sitting around 1275 00:54:57,320 --> 00:54:58,640 Speaker 3: and getting to it because my dad would get to 1276 00:54:58,719 --> 00:55:01,560 Speaker 3: know everybody, and I think had he had more time, 1277 00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:04,759 Speaker 3: he would have. And then I feel like I was 1278 00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:08,480 Speaker 3: robbed of that experience because it's cool that you get 1279 00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:11,640 Speaker 3: to go to places like that because of Remy and 1280 00:55:11,800 --> 00:55:14,520 Speaker 3: y'all's volunteer work. So oh yeah, and soak it up. 1281 00:55:14,719 --> 00:55:16,080 Speaker 1: It's such a cool experience. 1282 00:55:16,080 --> 00:55:18,680 Speaker 2: Again, it's just showing you just a different life that 1283 00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:21,759 Speaker 2: I'm not exposed to every day. And you know, I'd 1284 00:55:21,760 --> 00:55:23,600 Speaker 2: love to be around my grandparents every single day if 1285 00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:26,200 Speaker 2: I could, but they're back home and so getting to 1286 00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:28,719 Speaker 2: be around these now, and they shared just the craziest 1287 00:55:28,719 --> 00:55:32,000 Speaker 2: little nuggets of wisdom and the way they talk about things, 1288 00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:34,520 Speaker 2: and like one of the ladies is really awesome, and 1289 00:55:34,560 --> 00:55:35,640 Speaker 2: she she was. 1290 00:55:35,640 --> 00:55:39,719 Speaker 1: In Germany and her family dealt with the Holocaust. 1291 00:55:39,920 --> 00:55:42,840 Speaker 2: Like the stories that they do remember and that do 1292 00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:45,080 Speaker 2: come back when like Remy walks in the room and 1293 00:55:45,120 --> 00:55:48,279 Speaker 2: she reminds them of something, they're just incredible. And it 1294 00:55:48,320 --> 00:55:51,120 Speaker 2: also just like serves as a reminder to make sure 1295 00:55:51,160 --> 00:55:53,920 Speaker 2: you're also like saying hi to your whether they be 1296 00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:57,480 Speaker 2: your parents or grandparents, because like it flies by so fast, 1297 00:55:57,560 --> 00:56:00,920 Speaker 2: and especially those for who are sitting in retirement homes 1298 00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:02,879 Speaker 2: all the time, Like I feel for them because they're 1299 00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:04,480 Speaker 2: just sitting there and all they want to do is 1300 00:56:04,480 --> 00:56:08,920 Speaker 2: have people interactions and say hi and not be forgotten about. 1301 00:56:09,520 --> 00:56:12,600 Speaker 2: And so going in there is such a rewarding experience, 1302 00:56:12,600 --> 00:56:15,080 Speaker 2: and I just feel so lucky that even in those moments, 1303 00:56:15,120 --> 00:56:17,360 Speaker 2: they still give me these little, teeny tiny nuggets that 1304 00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:18,000 Speaker 2: make me smile. 1305 00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:19,240 Speaker 1: It's so cool. 1306 00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:22,640 Speaker 3: A recent piece of wisdom that I saw, and it 1307 00:56:22,680 --> 00:56:24,880 Speaker 3: was an advice that was given directly to me, but 1308 00:56:26,239 --> 00:56:28,440 Speaker 3: it's from Wayne Dyer and it's if you change the 1309 00:56:28,440 --> 00:56:32,680 Speaker 3: way you look at things, the things you look at change. 1310 00:56:32,840 --> 00:56:33,480 Speaker 1: Oh wow. 1311 00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:37,440 Speaker 3: And it stuck with me because I think sometimes we 1312 00:56:37,520 --> 00:56:40,080 Speaker 3: keep looking at something the same way because that's just 1313 00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:42,560 Speaker 3: how we've always looked at it, so why would we 1314 00:56:43,280 --> 00:56:46,280 Speaker 3: change it? But then we're trying to find a different 1315 00:56:46,680 --> 00:56:50,000 Speaker 3: outcome or we want something to be different. But you 1316 00:56:50,520 --> 00:56:55,440 Speaker 3: have to shift away you're looking at things, and then 1317 00:56:55,719 --> 00:56:57,800 Speaker 3: the things you're looking at will change. I mean. It's 1318 00:56:57,880 --> 00:56:59,680 Speaker 3: so simple yet so. 1319 00:56:59,719 --> 00:57:02,799 Speaker 2: Deep, very impactful when you really like listen to it 1320 00:57:02,840 --> 00:57:04,759 Speaker 2: and so with and you're like, oh, yeah, wow, I 1321 00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:07,360 Speaker 2: really do need to like kind of shift. It's shifting 1322 00:57:07,400 --> 00:57:09,880 Speaker 2: your mindset to a different way of looking at things. 1323 00:57:10,080 --> 00:57:12,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, and there's tons of like even just 1324 00:57:12,400 --> 00:57:14,279 Speaker 3: when it comes to our brain too. I think just 1325 00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:18,320 Speaker 3: knowing just how powerful it is and mouldable it is, 1326 00:57:18,400 --> 00:57:21,000 Speaker 3: and we can rewire it and change it. We sometimes 1327 00:57:21,080 --> 00:57:23,400 Speaker 3: just think we have to be well, this is just 1328 00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:25,640 Speaker 3: how it is, or we're stuck this way, and it's like, no, 1329 00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:32,040 Speaker 3: there's so many ways that we can work to rewire it. 1330 00:57:32,040 --> 00:57:34,080 Speaker 3: I mean, we were talking about the eating disorder stuff later. 1331 00:57:34,160 --> 00:57:40,120 Speaker 3: I mean, part of my recovery was a huge part 1332 00:57:40,160 --> 00:57:43,640 Speaker 3: was rewiring my brain. And I had to change the 1333 00:57:43,640 --> 00:57:45,440 Speaker 3: way I was looking at it, like I thought, well, 1334 00:57:45,440 --> 00:57:47,360 Speaker 3: I've already done the tox therapy and that's not helping. 1335 00:57:47,400 --> 00:57:48,920 Speaker 3: But that's because I was going to therapists that were 1336 00:57:48,960 --> 00:57:51,840 Speaker 3: literally trying to see what happened in my life that 1337 00:57:51,920 --> 00:57:54,840 Speaker 3: was making me do this. And while yes there were 1338 00:57:54,840 --> 00:57:59,200 Speaker 3: circumstances that contributed to it, I had sort of trained 1339 00:57:59,240 --> 00:58:02,520 Speaker 3: my brain to be that way since I was a child, 1340 00:58:03,160 --> 00:58:06,960 Speaker 3: and so I was a lot of times coming from 1341 00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:10,720 Speaker 3: the animal part of my brain that wasn't doing rational 1342 00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:14,120 Speaker 3: thinking for me. But then when I learned to train 1343 00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:16,560 Speaker 3: my brain to be like, oh, I'm not gonna let 1344 00:58:16,560 --> 00:58:17,960 Speaker 3: that part of my brain work today, I'm gonna go 1345 00:58:17,960 --> 00:58:21,120 Speaker 3: to this part of my brain. Then now my brain 1346 00:58:21,400 --> 00:58:23,800 Speaker 3: goes there a lot faster, or I can recognize it 1347 00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:27,480 Speaker 3: and I have awareness and so that could be regarding 1348 00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:28,720 Speaker 3: anything in your life. 1349 00:58:29,480 --> 00:58:31,640 Speaker 1: Well, and I'll put it this way. So I did. 1350 00:58:32,480 --> 00:58:35,600 Speaker 2: Hopefully someday when the podcast I put it out comes together. 1351 00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:38,600 Speaker 2: But I did an interview with a neuroscientist who was 1352 00:58:39,360 --> 00:58:42,240 Speaker 2: just incredible in so many ways. But the whole reason 1353 00:58:42,280 --> 00:58:43,800 Speaker 2: I ever found her is because when I was going 1354 00:58:43,800 --> 00:58:46,240 Speaker 2: through a breakup, she had made a post and that 1355 00:58:46,320 --> 00:58:48,560 Speaker 2: post said, Hey, if you're going through a breakup. 1356 00:58:48,280 --> 00:58:49,680 Speaker 1: This is like the tip that you need. 1357 00:58:50,120 --> 00:58:53,720 Speaker 2: And she's like, anytime you think about that person, I 1358 00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:56,040 Speaker 2: want you to do something. Take a drink of water, 1359 00:58:57,400 --> 00:58:59,960 Speaker 2: do a jumping jack, run up and down the stairs. 1360 00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:03,360 Speaker 2: She's like, whatever it may be, choose something, and anytime 1361 00:59:03,400 --> 00:59:06,439 Speaker 2: that person's name comes into your mouth or your head, 1362 00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:07,840 Speaker 2: do that. 1363 00:59:08,560 --> 00:59:10,040 Speaker 1: And so I did. I saw that. I was like, 1364 00:59:10,200 --> 00:59:12,120 Speaker 1: I'm gonna try this. I'm gonna see what it's about. 1365 00:59:12,560 --> 00:59:17,400 Speaker 2: In days, I stopped thinking about him because anytime I 1366 00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:20,880 Speaker 2: literally rewired my brain to anytime that name came to mind, 1367 00:59:21,160 --> 00:59:23,440 Speaker 2: I'd reach and I'd grab a drink of water instead 1368 00:59:23,480 --> 00:59:24,560 Speaker 2: of thinking about them. 1369 00:59:24,960 --> 00:59:26,600 Speaker 1: What it does was rewiring my brain. 1370 00:59:26,800 --> 00:59:28,600 Speaker 3: Or you're in public and you just do a jumping jacket. 1371 00:59:28,680 --> 00:59:31,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, that too, well, you know, whatever your thing is. 1372 00:59:31,160 --> 00:59:33,280 Speaker 2: For me, I needed to drink more water. No, I 1373 00:59:33,320 --> 00:59:37,240 Speaker 2: get it, but she was like, literally, the reason why 1374 00:59:37,240 --> 00:59:39,720 Speaker 2: that works is because what happens is when we've created 1375 00:59:39,760 --> 00:59:41,320 Speaker 2: a habit, when we've created something. 1376 00:59:41,680 --> 00:59:43,640 Speaker 1: She's like, you have mowed down that path. 1377 00:59:43,720 --> 00:59:45,600 Speaker 2: You've created that path, and you keep going down it 1378 00:59:45,640 --> 00:59:47,840 Speaker 2: because you've created the habit. The only way to start 1379 00:59:47,880 --> 00:59:51,320 Speaker 2: doing something new is to create a new mode down path, 1380 00:59:51,400 --> 00:59:54,160 Speaker 2: so you have the ability to go down it when 1381 00:59:54,200 --> 00:59:57,120 Speaker 2: given the choice. If you never create it, you're never 1382 00:59:57,160 --> 01:00:00,560 Speaker 2: gonna have the option of that path. And so in 1383 01:00:00,680 --> 01:00:03,040 Speaker 2: doing what I was doing to get over that breakup, 1384 01:00:04,360 --> 01:00:06,560 Speaker 2: me drinking the water was creating a new path. 1385 01:00:07,040 --> 01:00:09,880 Speaker 3: You know what I picture is when I mean because yeah, 1386 01:00:09,880 --> 01:00:11,600 Speaker 3: I've had to do a lot of that too. And 1387 01:00:12,520 --> 01:00:15,400 Speaker 3: I think of the episode and Friends where they've got 1388 01:00:15,400 --> 01:00:18,480 Speaker 3: the couch and they're like, pivot, pivot, Like, what you're 1389 01:00:18,480 --> 01:00:23,760 Speaker 3: really doing is you're subconsciously now you're gonna start pivoting. 1390 01:00:23,800 --> 01:00:25,400 Speaker 3: You don't even have to think about it, Like the 1391 01:00:25,440 --> 01:00:27,760 Speaker 3: pivots happened for you. It's like, oh, just with that way. 1392 01:00:27,680 --> 01:00:28,479 Speaker 1: Pivot yep. 1393 01:00:28,720 --> 01:00:31,280 Speaker 3: And you're it's like, oh, well, this is fascinating, and 1394 01:00:31,320 --> 01:00:33,440 Speaker 3: then it gets then you're intriguing and you're like, wow, 1395 01:00:33,480 --> 01:00:36,080 Speaker 3: this really works. That's what honestly, right now I'm trying 1396 01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:39,000 Speaker 3: to do with my hair pulling because it had gotten 1397 01:00:39,160 --> 01:00:43,720 Speaker 3: so bad. You know, it has comes and goes, and 1398 01:00:43,760 --> 01:00:45,480 Speaker 3: for whatever reason, it's just been so bad, and so 1399 01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:48,120 Speaker 3: now I just I will say it out loud too 1400 01:00:48,200 --> 01:00:51,720 Speaker 3: if I stop, Like, if I realize what you're doing, 1401 01:00:51,680 --> 01:00:53,720 Speaker 3: it just like stop and I tell my brain stop. 1402 01:00:53,760 --> 01:00:57,960 Speaker 3: I'm literally sending a message to my brain to stop, 1403 01:00:58,520 --> 01:01:00,760 Speaker 3: and it's gotten less and less. Unless I don't know. 1404 01:01:01,080 --> 01:01:02,680 Speaker 3: You sit across from me, ish, so I don't know 1405 01:01:02,720 --> 01:01:06,080 Speaker 3: if you've noticed that I'm doing it less than I was. 1406 01:01:06,120 --> 01:01:08,160 Speaker 3: But you're also very dialed into your computer and work, 1407 01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:11,240 Speaker 3: so I'm not even saying you're paying attention to my pulling, 1408 01:01:11,320 --> 01:01:13,560 Speaker 3: But I mean my kids are noticing it. I even 1409 01:01:13,600 --> 01:01:17,200 Speaker 3: have them say mom, stop, and then I'm like, oh, yeah, stop. 1410 01:01:17,880 --> 01:01:19,520 Speaker 3: You don't have to say it out loud. You can 1411 01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:21,800 Speaker 3: say it internally too, in case you're in public. But 1412 01:01:21,880 --> 01:01:24,160 Speaker 3: if and maybe yours isn't here pulling, it's something else, 1413 01:01:24,280 --> 01:01:27,600 Speaker 3: or it could be a thought, you know. Just redirecting 1414 01:01:27,640 --> 01:01:30,040 Speaker 3: can also just be telling your brain to stop. 1415 01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:32,880 Speaker 1: It's so crazy the things that your brain. 1416 01:01:32,680 --> 01:01:35,280 Speaker 3: Is capable of differing and over and over, and then 1417 01:01:35,280 --> 01:01:37,840 Speaker 3: eventually your brain will be like, Okay, I get it, 1418 01:01:38,080 --> 01:01:38,880 Speaker 3: I got the message. 1419 01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:39,400 Speaker 1: I'll stop. 1420 01:01:39,520 --> 01:01:40,840 Speaker 2: But yeah, And the only reason you're doing it in 1421 01:01:40,880 --> 01:01:43,080 Speaker 2: the first place is because you did it yourself multiple 1422 01:01:43,080 --> 01:01:45,520 Speaker 2: times to create that pattern, right, and you are the 1423 01:01:45,520 --> 01:01:46,480 Speaker 2: only one that can stop it. 1424 01:01:46,840 --> 01:01:48,160 Speaker 1: The brain is magical. 1425 01:01:48,240 --> 01:01:50,240 Speaker 3: It's like you can impact it. I feel like sometimes 1426 01:01:50,280 --> 01:01:53,080 Speaker 3: it's so easy for us to accept that negative things 1427 01:01:53,080 --> 01:01:55,440 Speaker 3: can impact our brain, and we're like, oh, well that 1428 01:01:55,480 --> 01:01:57,800 Speaker 3: makes sense because you experience that, so that's what's happening. 1429 01:01:57,960 --> 01:01:59,080 Speaker 1: But then sometimes. 1430 01:01:59,640 --> 01:02:03,640 Speaker 3: I I tend to lean in the direction that it's 1431 01:02:04,040 --> 01:02:08,439 Speaker 3: difficult to accept that we can positively impact our brain. Yeah, 1432 01:02:09,560 --> 01:02:12,680 Speaker 3: because sometimes it seems like woo woo or oh gosh, 1433 01:02:12,600 --> 01:02:14,080 Speaker 3: where you going to try to do that? 1434 01:02:14,080 --> 01:02:14,760 Speaker 1: It's not possible. 1435 01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:18,560 Speaker 3: It's like, well, just how this was your brain was 1436 01:02:18,600 --> 01:02:22,560 Speaker 3: negatively effective by this, Like well why can't it go reverse? 1437 01:02:22,560 --> 01:02:26,200 Speaker 3: Why can't it go the other direction? And so thinking 1438 01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:28,200 Speaker 3: about it that way too has helped me because I 1439 01:02:28,240 --> 01:02:31,160 Speaker 3: was definitely someone that believed that way, Like I would 1440 01:02:31,200 --> 01:02:33,240 Speaker 3: buy into all the stuff that would be negative, and 1441 01:02:33,280 --> 01:02:34,920 Speaker 3: I'd be like, well, of course that can happen in 1442 01:02:34,960 --> 01:02:37,680 Speaker 3: your brain. And then when it came to being able 1443 01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:43,480 Speaker 3: to change it through different ways of thinking and little 1444 01:02:43,560 --> 01:02:47,480 Speaker 3: right actions, little this and that, mowing down that pathway, 1445 01:02:48,120 --> 01:02:52,320 Speaker 3: it's like, oh, well, gosh, if I believe that disease 1446 01:02:52,400 --> 01:02:54,960 Speaker 3: and stress and inflammation can come on by stress and 1447 01:02:55,040 --> 01:02:58,600 Speaker 3: negative things, then why wouldn't I think by joy and 1448 01:02:58,680 --> 01:03:02,040 Speaker 3: laughter and positivity and whatnot that my body could heal 1449 01:03:02,280 --> 01:03:05,840 Speaker 3: itself in a way. Yeah, and I'm not saying I'm 1450 01:03:05,880 --> 01:03:07,920 Speaker 3: into modern medicine, don't get me wrong, people, but do 1451 01:03:07,920 --> 01:03:10,360 Speaker 3: you know what I mean? Like, we're we're easy, Like. 1452 01:03:10,600 --> 01:03:13,800 Speaker 2: It's much easier to focus on negative than it is 1453 01:03:13,840 --> 01:03:15,320 Speaker 2: to realize the positive and. 1454 01:03:15,280 --> 01:03:17,240 Speaker 3: Believe, Like, oh, I get it. That's why you're run 1455 01:03:17,280 --> 01:03:19,760 Speaker 3: down because you've been stressed and you're sick now because 1456 01:03:19,800 --> 01:03:23,440 Speaker 3: of X y Z. It makes sense. And then it's like, well, 1457 01:03:23,480 --> 01:03:26,160 Speaker 3: then why can't you convince your brain to go the 1458 01:03:26,200 --> 01:03:30,960 Speaker 3: other way and then be better and not run down 1459 01:03:31,000 --> 01:03:35,320 Speaker 3: and feeling really good and like not sick from certain things. 1460 01:03:35,280 --> 01:03:38,080 Speaker 2: You had reminded me of something of doing, like some 1461 01:03:40,160 --> 01:03:42,320 Speaker 2: you had talked about your journaling and your meditation in 1462 01:03:42,360 --> 01:03:44,880 Speaker 2: the morning, and it had There was a girl that 1463 01:03:44,920 --> 01:03:47,360 Speaker 2: I had been following, and she recently had started posting 1464 01:03:47,920 --> 01:03:51,840 Speaker 2: affirmations every morning on her story and when I would 1465 01:03:51,840 --> 01:03:54,960 Speaker 2: get up, because it almost notoriously was on there before, 1466 01:03:54,960 --> 01:03:56,800 Speaker 2: I would go into work and I would read them 1467 01:03:56,800 --> 01:03:58,919 Speaker 2: out loud in the car and I was like, I'm 1468 01:03:58,960 --> 01:04:01,360 Speaker 2: having my Amy moment. Like I know, everybody gives you 1469 01:04:01,400 --> 01:04:03,360 Speaker 2: like a hard time and they're like, you know, what 1470 01:04:03,720 --> 01:04:05,160 Speaker 2: did we do that one time? It was like this 1471 01:04:05,200 --> 01:04:08,080 Speaker 2: is Amy or we had our Amy moments or whatever. 1472 01:04:08,840 --> 01:04:11,080 Speaker 2: That was my positive Amy moment. I was like, this 1473 01:04:11,160 --> 01:04:13,000 Speaker 2: is something Amy would do, and it's making me feel 1474 01:04:13,080 --> 01:04:14,520 Speaker 2: really good to say these things out loud. 1475 01:04:15,320 --> 01:04:17,880 Speaker 1: Thank you. So just know there's more positive Amy moments. 1476 01:04:18,000 --> 01:04:21,360 Speaker 3: And I'm I'm not of the mindset of like, oh, 1477 01:04:21,560 --> 01:04:24,040 Speaker 3: you know, if you're just saying something positive to yourself 1478 01:04:24,080 --> 01:04:27,800 Speaker 3: that suddenly everything's going to be better. It's just that 1479 01:04:28,400 --> 01:04:32,440 Speaker 3: the more you say it, the more likely you are 1480 01:04:32,520 --> 01:04:36,400 Speaker 3: to eventually believe that and have that emotional connection to it, 1481 01:04:37,440 --> 01:04:38,400 Speaker 3: and then that's where. 1482 01:04:38,200 --> 01:04:39,040 Speaker 1: It gets really cool. 1483 01:04:39,120 --> 01:04:41,160 Speaker 3: But it does take effort, and it does take time, 1484 01:04:41,600 --> 01:04:44,640 Speaker 3: and some of it might be you lined yourself for 1485 01:04:44,720 --> 01:04:49,160 Speaker 3: a little bit. And that's not in a toxic way. 1486 01:04:49,600 --> 01:04:51,320 Speaker 1: No, it's still you can still. 1487 01:04:51,120 --> 01:04:54,920 Speaker 3: Recognize if something is off or bad or whatnot. 1488 01:04:55,160 --> 01:04:56,920 Speaker 1: That is not the case. 1489 01:04:56,960 --> 01:04:58,920 Speaker 3: I think sometimes people just get thrown by affirmations and 1490 01:04:58,920 --> 01:05:01,440 Speaker 3: they're like, whatever those are, because I'm just gonna sit 1491 01:05:01,480 --> 01:05:03,880 Speaker 3: here and be like I'm worthy, I'm worthy, I'm worthy, 1492 01:05:03,880 --> 01:05:08,480 Speaker 3: and then whatever. But I'm in con in with that. 1493 01:05:08,760 --> 01:05:11,800 Speaker 3: I'm working on things that help me feel more worthy, 1494 01:05:11,960 --> 01:05:14,360 Speaker 3: and then I'm also saying that to myself every day, 1495 01:05:14,400 --> 01:05:17,280 Speaker 3: so then eventually we do get there and feel a 1496 01:05:17,360 --> 01:05:21,080 Speaker 3: higher self worth and have a better self image. 1497 01:05:22,000 --> 01:05:24,160 Speaker 1: Well, when you're making you want to find consistency. I 1498 01:05:24,200 --> 01:05:25,720 Speaker 1: can read because they're not you know. 1499 01:05:25,840 --> 01:05:27,560 Speaker 2: I think a lot of people just think they're just 1500 01:05:27,640 --> 01:05:30,520 Speaker 2: like the I am worthy or and that's it. 1501 01:05:30,760 --> 01:05:32,000 Speaker 1: There's so much more to them. 1502 01:05:32,000 --> 01:05:36,200 Speaker 2: And the ones that she writes is so like it's 1503 01:05:36,240 --> 01:05:38,960 Speaker 2: it's much more than that. So it's like here I 1504 01:05:39,200 --> 01:05:42,200 Speaker 2: found him and her name's Xana Keithley. But she's like, 1505 01:05:42,200 --> 01:05:43,880 Speaker 2: I trust the pull of my heart to lead me 1506 01:05:43,880 --> 01:05:46,560 Speaker 2: in the right direction. I can do anything I set 1507 01:05:46,600 --> 01:05:50,200 Speaker 2: my mind too. I am wildly capable of achieving great things. 1508 01:05:50,200 --> 01:05:52,280 Speaker 2: So it's more than these like I. 1509 01:05:52,280 --> 01:05:54,880 Speaker 3: Say I'm capable, I'm capable of yeah all the time. 1510 01:05:55,160 --> 01:05:57,080 Speaker 1: But like that works for you, and I think you 1511 01:05:57,120 --> 01:05:58,120 Speaker 1: should totally do it. 1512 01:05:58,600 --> 01:06:00,439 Speaker 2: But like if you're like okay, that does don't work 1513 01:06:00,440 --> 01:06:02,760 Speaker 2: for me, I'm like, okay, Well, affirmations look like a 1514 01:06:02,840 --> 01:06:03,640 Speaker 2: lot of different things. 1515 01:06:03,640 --> 01:06:05,880 Speaker 1: They're not just the I am great. 1516 01:06:06,840 --> 01:06:09,120 Speaker 2: We also think of The Help, that very famous movie 1517 01:06:09,200 --> 01:06:12,720 Speaker 2: where she's like she's helping that little girl to understand 1518 01:06:12,760 --> 01:06:13,280 Speaker 2: her worth. 1519 01:06:13,360 --> 01:06:16,320 Speaker 3: He was kind was it is important? 1520 01:06:16,560 --> 01:06:17,920 Speaker 1: Yes? Which I love. 1521 01:06:19,200 --> 01:06:21,840 Speaker 3: Another one and I've talked about this on the show too. 1522 01:06:21,880 --> 01:06:25,880 Speaker 3: It's just forgiving myself more. And that's sort of a 1523 01:06:25,920 --> 01:06:28,880 Speaker 3: little affirmation to myself if something happens. Instead of getting 1524 01:06:28,880 --> 01:06:30,480 Speaker 3: mad at myself or being like, well this is good, 1525 01:06:30,480 --> 01:06:35,120 Speaker 3: it's like, oh, I forgive myself for that, and I 1526 01:06:35,160 --> 01:06:39,800 Speaker 3: am totally capable of doing it different next time. Right, So, 1527 01:06:40,080 --> 01:06:44,560 Speaker 3: or I'm going to work on reacting to that differently. 1528 01:06:44,600 --> 01:06:46,560 Speaker 3: I'm going to work on It's not you're not shaming 1529 01:06:46,600 --> 01:06:48,680 Speaker 3: yourself or you don't feel any but but. 1530 01:06:48,640 --> 01:06:49,880 Speaker 1: You're recognizing something. 1531 01:06:50,040 --> 01:06:51,840 Speaker 3: Right. But that's often what we can do. What do 1532 01:06:51,880 --> 01:06:54,960 Speaker 3: we do when we mess up? We or this is 1533 01:06:55,000 --> 01:06:57,320 Speaker 3: what I would do. I mean, I would talk down 1534 01:06:57,360 --> 01:06:59,240 Speaker 3: to myself, I would think about it, would loop in 1535 01:06:59,280 --> 01:07:01,760 Speaker 3: my head all day. I would give way too much 1536 01:07:01,880 --> 01:07:04,520 Speaker 3: energy to it when nobody else was even really probably 1537 01:07:04,520 --> 01:07:08,040 Speaker 3: thinking about it, just my brain was stuck on it. 1538 01:07:08,680 --> 01:07:11,240 Speaker 3: And then it just would build and build and build 1539 01:07:11,240 --> 01:07:13,560 Speaker 3: and become more negative and more and then the more 1540 01:07:13,560 --> 01:07:15,920 Speaker 3: I would replay it, the more I would remember it worse, 1541 01:07:16,640 --> 01:07:18,760 Speaker 3: and then it would get worse and worse and worse. 1542 01:07:19,160 --> 01:07:23,000 Speaker 3: So now if you acknowledge it, release it, tell yourself 1543 01:07:23,160 --> 01:07:25,760 Speaker 3: and do better next time, Boom, you're more likely to 1544 01:07:25,800 --> 01:07:26,919 Speaker 3: actually do better next time. 1545 01:07:27,360 --> 01:07:27,920 Speaker 1: Exactly. 1546 01:07:28,320 --> 01:07:31,040 Speaker 2: See, we're we're helping them rewire their brains and with 1547 01:07:31,320 --> 01:07:33,200 Speaker 2: what their personal affirmations can look like. 1548 01:07:33,760 --> 01:07:35,600 Speaker 1: We did it. I had other things, and I will 1549 01:07:35,600 --> 01:07:36,000 Speaker 1: tell y'all. 1550 01:07:36,040 --> 01:07:38,320 Speaker 2: Coming in at the number two spot, Bobby made a 1551 01:07:38,360 --> 01:07:40,920 Speaker 2: statement about the whole Miranda Lambert situation. If you've been 1552 01:07:40,960 --> 01:07:42,760 Speaker 2: on the internet in last few days, you've seen what 1553 01:07:42,760 --> 01:07:45,480 Speaker 2: happened at a Miranda Lambert concert. Bobby made a statement, 1554 01:07:45,560 --> 01:07:47,520 Speaker 2: talked about it a little bit, and of course we 1555 01:07:47,560 --> 01:07:50,120 Speaker 2: had Chris Stapleton on the show, who was always an 1556 01:07:50,160 --> 01:07:53,320 Speaker 2: awesome interview. He's just hilarious. He has great stories, and 1557 01:07:53,920 --> 01:07:55,680 Speaker 2: that's all for us. But I just I wanted to 1558 01:07:55,760 --> 01:07:57,360 Speaker 2: keep talking about what we were talking about because I 1559 01:07:57,400 --> 01:07:59,439 Speaker 2: thought it was awesome, so I didn't go into those 1560 01:07:59,440 --> 01:08:00,000 Speaker 2: two things. 1561 01:08:00,880 --> 01:08:03,760 Speaker 1: But yeah, that's all for us. Thanks for everyone dive 1562 01:08:03,840 --> 01:08:04,240 Speaker 1: in with me. 1563 01:08:04,720 --> 01:08:07,040 Speaker 3: I hope everyone is a great weekend. Thanks for having me. 1564 01:08:08,080 --> 01:08:10,400 Speaker 3: For anyone that's seeing the Barbie movie, I hope it's good. 1565 01:08:10,880 --> 01:08:14,200 Speaker 2: I really have too, but sh up, it has been 1566 01:08:14,280 --> 01:08:16,479 Speaker 2: everywhere on social media, so better be good. 1567 01:08:16,760 --> 01:08:18,719 Speaker 3: I know when I'm taking the kids and going with friends. 1568 01:08:18,720 --> 01:08:21,679 Speaker 3: I have a friend in town this weekend. Her kids 1569 01:08:21,680 --> 01:08:22,160 Speaker 3: are gonna go. 1570 01:08:22,280 --> 01:08:24,000 Speaker 1: Are you gonna dress up like Barbie? Are gonna be 1571 01:08:24,000 --> 01:08:26,479 Speaker 1: wearing pink? I don't know yet. Should I I feel 1572 01:08:26,479 --> 01:08:26,960 Speaker 1: like I should. 1573 01:08:27,000 --> 01:08:29,960 Speaker 2: I just feel like I have to because that's also 1574 01:08:30,000 --> 01:08:32,080 Speaker 2: what all the marketing has been, is everybody's in pink. 1575 01:08:32,680 --> 01:08:35,519 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll see what the kids end up wanting to 1576 01:08:35,600 --> 01:08:37,760 Speaker 3: do or my friends like when we go, I don't know. 1577 01:08:37,840 --> 01:08:39,360 Speaker 3: We were trying to find we were looking up like 1578 01:08:39,400 --> 01:08:44,760 Speaker 3: seats available, there's so many taken. They're like, shoot, we 1579 01:08:44,800 --> 01:08:47,760 Speaker 3: can't find we need like because my friend that's in 1580 01:08:47,760 --> 01:08:49,360 Speaker 3: town and my other friends that's going with her kids, Like, 1581 01:08:49,400 --> 01:08:50,800 Speaker 3: we need like ten seats. 1582 01:08:51,360 --> 01:08:52,640 Speaker 1: So you may have to split up, might have to 1583 01:08:52,640 --> 01:08:53,080 Speaker 1: sit later. 1584 01:08:53,800 --> 01:08:55,479 Speaker 3: And so she was like fine with me because two 1585 01:08:55,520 --> 01:08:57,519 Speaker 3: of her friends are going in their teenagers. Well do 1586 01:08:57,600 --> 01:08:59,000 Speaker 3: we need to go to a different theater at a 1587 01:08:59,040 --> 01:09:01,599 Speaker 3: different time? And I'm like no, because I'm not driving 1588 01:09:01,640 --> 01:09:03,519 Speaker 3: you all around down because yes, she's sixteen now and 1589 01:09:03,520 --> 01:09:05,120 Speaker 3: can drive, but she's not driving on her own, and 1590 01:09:05,160 --> 01:09:08,120 Speaker 3: I need her to actually drive with an adult so 1591 01:09:08,160 --> 01:09:10,240 Speaker 3: she can actually carry more of the kids in her car, 1592 01:09:10,280 --> 01:09:13,200 Speaker 3: because we need I need the drivers, but she just 1593 01:09:13,240 --> 01:09:16,320 Speaker 3: has to have an adult with her. Yeah, Like, no, nope, 1594 01:09:16,320 --> 01:09:18,839 Speaker 3: you're going with us. We're all seeing Barbie as a family. 1595 01:09:19,479 --> 01:09:21,040 Speaker 1: She was really trying to get out of that. It 1596 01:09:21,160 --> 01:09:23,320 Speaker 1: was like, how can I do this? Well, I hope 1597 01:09:23,360 --> 01:09:24,519 Speaker 1: it's good for all of our sake. 1598 01:09:24,600 --> 01:09:26,599 Speaker 2: I bet it will be. I'm just gonna work. That's 1599 01:09:26,640 --> 01:09:28,400 Speaker 2: something we're gonna put out into the universe. It's gonna 1600 01:09:28,400 --> 01:09:29,000 Speaker 2: be a great movie. 1601 01:09:29,280 --> 01:09:30,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe it's not. 1602 01:09:30,200 --> 01:09:32,200 Speaker 3: I'm just gonna tell myself that's great. Yeah, that was 1603 01:09:32,240 --> 01:09:33,880 Speaker 3: so great until I believe it. 1604 01:09:33,920 --> 01:09:36,360 Speaker 1: Well, tell the people where they can find you and 1605 01:09:36,479 --> 01:09:36,960 Speaker 1: listen to you. 1606 01:09:37,080 --> 01:09:40,960 Speaker 3: Amy at Radio Amy on Instagram socials, Radio me dot 1607 01:09:40,960 --> 01:09:44,240 Speaker 3: com for other things and four Things with Amy Brown 1608 01:09:44,360 --> 01:09:45,880 Speaker 3: podcast Awesome. 1609 01:09:45,600 --> 01:09:47,720 Speaker 2: Well, and I am web girl Morgan on All the 1610 01:09:47,720 --> 01:09:49,559 Speaker 2: Things and right here on Best Bits. 1611 01:09:49,600 --> 01:09:51,640 Speaker 1: Make sure you check out Part two, which is Just 1612 01:09:51,720 --> 01:09:52,680 Speaker 1: the Bits if. 1613 01:09:52,680 --> 01:09:54,080 Speaker 2: You want to catch up on the show if you 1614 01:09:54,120 --> 01:09:56,560 Speaker 2: missed anything, And there's lots of content up at Bobbybones 1615 01:09:56,560 --> 01:09:59,920 Speaker 2: dot com and on our socials at Bobbybone Show. All right, y'all, 1616 01:10:00,040 --> 01:10:02,200 Speaker 2: we are piecing out. It's time for a Barbie movie 1617 01:10:02,320 --> 01:10:03,839 Speaker 2: and a good weekend. 1618 01:10:04,280 --> 01:10:07,839 Speaker 1: Bye bye the Bobby Bone Ship, Bobby Bones