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Speaker 1: Ryan's roses. Dear Ryan and Cecity. This is from Paulina

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Speaker 1: and Fullerton. My husband made a comment a few weeks

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Speaker 1: ago that's been bothering me ever since. We were discussing

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Speaker 1: whether or not we would have kids. He said, if

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Speaker 1: I didn't want to, he would have a baby with

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Speaker 1: his friend. I'm concerned these two are closer that I'm

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Speaker 1: comfortable with. So hold on, let me get Paulina. Paulina,

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Speaker 1: thanks for coming on. We just read your email, so

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Speaker 1: as we under stay that your husband was saying, if

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Speaker 1: a baby with a friend of his. Yeah, it's as

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Speaker 1: hurtful as it. Yeah, but does that mean he would

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Speaker 1: leave you for that? Or he would try? And what

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Speaker 1: if I don't understand, would he divorce you? Sure? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean we've had multiple conversations. I know I'm not ready.

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Speaker 1: I'm leaning towards not wanting to have kids at all.

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Speaker 1: And you know, I brought up just like what do

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Speaker 1: And he said, really frankly, he was like, I get

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Speaker 1: divorced and have kids with someone else. So this relationship

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Speaker 1: is based now on having kids or not. In his mind,

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Speaker 1: it feels like it it was like a you know,

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Speaker 1: iron curtain went down or something. It just feels really intense.

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Speaker 1: And I I said to him, I was like, you know,

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Speaker 1: who would you even have kids with? Right? And he

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Speaker 1: said Amanda? I know, and he gave a name. You guys, like,

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Speaker 1: so you think he's already had this conversation that she's

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Speaker 1: a fallback. I mean, the thought has definitely crossed my mind.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, great, this has been You've been thinking about

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Speaker 1: they've been friends since college. And so I just like

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Speaker 1: I felt awful. I was done. I just like walked away.

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Speaker 1: If you looked into this, you've checked his phone or

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Speaker 1: his social media to secret I know, right, Um I did.

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Speaker 1: Um Like they talked on the phone a lot. Apparently

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Speaker 1: I'm confused by all of it, really, so I don't

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Speaker 1: I just don't know. That's why I'm calling you. Guys,

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Speaker 1: how long have you guys been married? Two years? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and everything, like we have a really great relationship. So

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Speaker 1: it just it feels it feels awful. All right, hang

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Speaker 1: on one second, Polina, I can imagine how it feels

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Speaker 1: worth try and get him on the line. Next here,

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Speaker 1: Ryan's roses on one or two point seven kiss a fan.

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Speaker 1: But the fact that he's saying that he's got this

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Speaker 1: with Ryan Seacrest. On Air with Ryan Seacrest, we are

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Speaker 1: about to call Paulina's husband and find out what's going

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Speaker 1: on because she said them with the conversation about kids

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Speaker 1: with Amanda. I'll we'll have to get divorce and I'll

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Speaker 1: go home with Amanda. So awful. It just feels like

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Speaker 1: a conversation you haven't figure out before you got married.

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Speaker 1: Did you guys talk about having kids before you got married? Paulina,

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Speaker 1: we were like here and there. I just knew I

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Speaker 1: a conversation, come back to it, you know, and then

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Speaker 1: it's just it's becoming more and more real, you know,

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Speaker 1: do you know who Amanda is? Yeah? Yeah, they're they're friends.

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Speaker 1: They've known each other since college. Like I see your

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Speaker 1: All Right, we're gonna call and see what we can

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Speaker 1: find out why he's talking about this and saying that

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Speaker 1: If you're not in so just say, Ryan, you my

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Speaker 1: permission to call, and then he's name on FM. Go ahead, Yeah, Ryan,

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Speaker 1: you have my permission to call. Okay, we're gonna do that. Now,

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Speaker 1: Here we go, good luck. Hello. Hi is this Jacob. Hi.

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Speaker 1: My name is Toby. I'm calling from O. C. Flowers.

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Speaker 1: How you doing this morning? I'm I'm doing good. Yeah. Great.

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Speaker 1: You know, we have a promotion for local residents and

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Speaker 1: before you hang up, it's actually a free dozen red

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Speaker 1: So will take less than five minutes. I would just

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Speaker 1: need the name of the person you want to send

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Speaker 1: them to in a quick note. We're just trying to

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Speaker 1: promote our business. UM, we're new to the area. It's

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Speaker 1: a free dozen red roses either absolutely free. I don't

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Speaker 1: need any credit card, info, cash or anything like that

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I don't I don't want anything. I don't

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Speaker 1: want to be on a mailing list, or you wouldn't

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Speaker 1: promote our our business here in Fulton and where here

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Speaker 1: in um we provide the service for local residents here

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Speaker 1: for delivery. Is there anybody that you would want to

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Speaker 1: lunchtime today. So it's it's free, like no credit cards,

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Speaker 1: no nothing, just like a name and that's it. Yep.

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Speaker 1: We do this about once a month to try to

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Speaker 1: gain some business. UM okay, uh, yeah, let's do it. UM.

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Speaker 1: So you you just send me the flowers or like,

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Speaker 1: do you need you need to address? UM, we can

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Speaker 1: the card. Okay. Uh, yeah, you can send them march

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Speaker 1: to them. Okay, send it to Amanda. Amanda, Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 1: And what would you like to put on the note? Um,

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Speaker 1: just put a put Happy birthday? Uh? I love Jacob,

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Speaker 1: Happy birthday, Love Jacob, Jacob, your voice being broadcast on

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Speaker 1: the radio. We have your wife Paulina on the line.

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Speaker 1: Who is Amanda? Wait? What? What? Whoa what is Amanda?

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Speaker 1: And why are you sending her happy birthday roses? Well,

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Speaker 1: it's just it's it's just it's funny, like a man

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Speaker 1: do that a lot? Like what how often are you

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Speaker 1: we just it's just a fun thing we do, like

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Speaker 1: It's not a big deal. It's now it's a big

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Speaker 1: deal because there's more to it. Paulina said that you

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Speaker 1: how far has this conversation gone, Jacob, No, No, it

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Speaker 1: hasn't gone far at all. Like that's just something like

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Speaker 1: that I've said, it's not ran ahead Ryan's trying. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think what Ryan's trying to say is, are like

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Speaker 1: you cheating, cheating on me with Amanda? No, No, I

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Speaker 1: I've never I would never cheat. But you want to

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Speaker 1: have a baby with her? Like that's like, that's like

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Speaker 1: a hypothetical I've said, off the cusph my god, So

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Speaker 1: you so you'd sleep with her to have a baby,

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Speaker 1: Like just just is that what you're trying, Like you say,

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Speaker 1: have a baby? Not no, not like not like if

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Speaker 1: we were still in a relationship, like if we ever

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Speaker 1: didn't work out, Like then why why are you han't

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Speaker 1: gone as far? In your head? Jacob, think clearly you

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Speaker 1: think this isn't gonna work out if you've gone to

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Speaker 1: this measure to think it through with somebody else. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you should be thinking about your wife all the time.

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Speaker 1: And you said her birthday roses. So Jacob, come on,

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Speaker 1: just tell us what's going on. Nothing's going on. That's

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Speaker 1: something that's a conversation that men and I have been

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Speaker 1: good for instance college, and we've we've said that just

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Speaker 1: as like for fun. Since college. They're like, it's nothing

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Speaker 1: not work out. You're married, I know, and you I'm

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Speaker 1: not seating. I'm not going to do anything like that.

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Speaker 1: You're already doing it. You're talking about it. Yeah, seriously, seriously,

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Speaker 1: it's already an action. It's already happening. Do you how often? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Because here's the thing, there's no text with you on

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Speaker 1: deleting them, So which is it? No, she uses what's

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Speaker 1: app uses what's happen, Paul, this is all problematic. There

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Speaker 1: are red flags everywhere. So we're gonna let you guys go.

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Speaker 1: But I mean, clearly Jacob is not committed to making

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Speaker 1: this work with you. Just send them all these other

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Speaker 1: send flowers to a woman. The woman is Amanda. That's

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Speaker 1: exactly right. That says that speaks of volume. Volume. Just

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Speaker 1: things have not been great between us lately. That doesn't

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Speaker 1: mean you turn the other way. All right, We'll let

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Speaker 1: you guys sort this out together. Thank you very much

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Speaker 1: for reaching out, Paulina. I mean, he's clearly got his

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Speaker 1: foot out of the door, out the door. He's already

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