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<v Speaker 1>What's Up. Welcome to the podcast. This is episode sixty

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<v Speaker 1>two Grangersmith Podcast. Thank you for listening and watching, and

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<v Speaker 1>thank you especially to those that have come this long

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<v Speaker 1>journey with me all the way back to episode one

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<v Speaker 1>and following the evolution and the growth of what this

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<v Speaker 1>channel has become and what this podcast has become. It

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<v Speaker 1>started with me in the back of my bus just

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<v Speaker 1>telling stories, and it has evolved into having very different

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<v Speaker 1>style guests, everything from war veterans, injured war veterans to preachers,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, and we've had everything in between. I had

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<v Speaker 1>someone ask me one time, I wish you could go

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<v Speaker 1>back and do the podcast like you used to do

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<v Speaker 1>it when I used to tell stories. And partly why

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<v Speaker 1>I've made a little bit of a transition is because

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<v Speaker 1>now we're filming for YouTube and we're adding we're adding

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<v Speaker 1>new listeners through people that are only on the YouTube format.

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<v Speaker 1>So I know that a lot of you listen to

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<v Speaker 1>the like Apple Music or Spotify or your podcast app.

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<v Speaker 1>I know there's a lot of different apps for podcasts

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<v Speaker 1>and a lot of different ways you're listening, but YouTube

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<v Speaker 1>is now one of them. And when I switched over

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<v Speaker 1>to YouTube and started filming it. I had to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of get away from the the editing that I was

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<v Speaker 1>doing making the stories. So I would sit in the

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<v Speaker 1>back of my bus and I would tell the story

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<v Speaker 1>and then I would stop and I would take like

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of notes, and then I would add a

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<v Speaker 1>little musical transition, and then I would tell another little

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<v Speaker 1>piece of a story and it would stop, and it

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<v Speaker 1>would take me a long time. It was. It was grueling,

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<v Speaker 1>which is back back then, I was releasing like one

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<v Speaker 1>a month, one episode a month, and it was grueling.

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<v Speaker 1>I would start dreading it and I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta go, I gotta do this podcast. It's going

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<v Speaker 1>to take me a couple of hours. And so now

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<v Speaker 1>the way that it is now, I literally turned the

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<v Speaker 1>camera on, I hit my pro tools on my computer,

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<v Speaker 1>I hit record, and whatever I say, it goes on

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast. So there's good and bad. The good news

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<v Speaker 1>is it makes it way easier for me to put

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<v Speaker 1>these out every single Monday. The bad news is I

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<v Speaker 1>can't really dig in and stop and start and edit

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<v Speaker 1>and add music transitions and stop and start and create.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. So good and bad that I think that

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<v Speaker 1>the better side of that story is I get to

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<v Speaker 1>put out a bunch. I get to put out a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of these, and so thank you guys everyone for listening.

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<v Speaker 1>But I have to say, if you're watching this now,

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<v Speaker 1>it's already too late. It's already too late if you're

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<v Speaker 1>watching this now. And what I mean is we're doing

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<v Speaker 1>this truck giveaway, and as I'm filming this, I just

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<v Speaker 1>literally just went and put the truck in the field

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<v Speaker 1>right outside this window at the Eyegee Farm outside of

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<v Speaker 1>my podcast studio, and I just parked it where it's

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<v Speaker 1>going to be for this contest. We have five finalists

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<v Speaker 1>that we're flying in tonight to to Texas. They're from Illinois, Ohio, Wisconsin, Pennsylvania,

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<v Speaker 1>and Utah. They're all coming here. And these are finalists

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<v Speaker 1>from anyone that has purchased something from Yegi dot com

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<v Speaker 1>over the last month. That's how we started the contest.

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<v Speaker 1>And then we took all of those people and gave

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<v Speaker 1>them to a third party company that picks random drawing

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<v Speaker 1>contest for a liven So we paid them. They picked

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<v Speaker 1>five finalists. I called them last week and told each

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<v Speaker 1>finalist that they were the one picked. So then they

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<v Speaker 1>made arrangements. They have a teammate and they're all flying

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<v Speaker 1>here tonight, So as we speak, they are going to

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<v Speaker 1>fly in and in the morning, at nine am, they

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<v Speaker 1>put their hands on the truck and the last person

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<v Speaker 1>at that point to take their hand off the truck

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<v Speaker 1>will win it. And so that'll start Saturday morning when

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<v Speaker 1>you hear this podcast. This Poske podcast comes out on Monday,

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<v Speaker 1>So by the time this comes out, by the time

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<v Speaker 1>you hear this, it's already too late. We probably have

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<v Speaker 1>already decided a winner. If we have not decided a

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<v Speaker 1>winner by the time this podcast airs on Monday morning,

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<v Speaker 1>wherever you are in the world, commuting to work, whatever

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<v Speaker 1>you're doing this morning, listening to this podcast, if we

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<v Speaker 1>haven't decided a winner, then then we're running ragged here

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<v Speaker 1>at the EE Farm. That means that means we're going

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<v Speaker 1>all day Saturday, all day Sunday, all Sunday night in

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<v Speaker 1>the Monday morning. And it might, it might we might

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<v Speaker 1>have two more finalists out there as we speak. But

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<v Speaker 1>you probably know as a listener, So follow me on

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<v Speaker 1>my socials. Every one in my social media platforms, it's

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<v Speaker 1>Granger Smith at Granger Smith or at Earl Dibbles Junior.

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<v Speaker 1>So go to any one of those, and you'll see

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to try to keep up with the real

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<v Speaker 1>time news on what's happening out there in the field

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<v Speaker 1>with their hands on the truck. And I'm so I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so excited about this. I'm so pumped. This might be

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<v Speaker 1>one of the coolest things we've ever done. And literally,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're watching this podcast right now, it might be

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<v Speaker 1>too late to even know what the final result is,

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<v Speaker 1>so I can't say how excited I am pumped about it.

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<v Speaker 1>We're always into something crazy, and you know the thing is,

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<v Speaker 1>if this works out well, which I hope it does,

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<v Speaker 1>mean we're gonna be grilling out, We're gonna be having

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<v Speaker 1>some fun. We're gonna have the band out playing songs.

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<v Speaker 1>If this works out well, we'll do it every year.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the one I'm giving away right now. This

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<v Speaker 1>is my truck I've driven over the last ten years.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a lot of memories in that truck. But maybe

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<v Speaker 1>maybe we'll get another truck and do it again in

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<v Speaker 1>twenty twenty one. Let me know comment below if this

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<v Speaker 1>is something you would like to be a part of

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<v Speaker 1>and have a chance at get your hands on this truck.

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<v Speaker 1>I think one of the cool things things about it

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<v Speaker 1>is just coming here to the farm and being with

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<v Speaker 1>us and hanging out with us, and we get to

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<v Speaker 1>meet you and get to know you a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>and get to know you really well. And you're standing

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<v Speaker 1>out with your hand on the hood anyway, So many

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<v Speaker 1>things happen, and you can keep up with all this

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<v Speaker 1>at at ee dot com, Grandersmith dot com all of

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<v Speaker 1>our social EEU Peril has the social media, so there's

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<v Speaker 1>a ton of ways to keep up with this, including

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<v Speaker 1>this podcast. I will always keep you guys up to

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<v Speaker 1>date on this podcast. And if you need to ask

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<v Speaker 1>me anything, if you want to know anything, if you

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<v Speaker 1>want to know my views on something, I'm always going

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<v Speaker 1>to shoot you straight, and I'm going to tell you

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<v Speaker 1>the good, the good or the bad. I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>tell it to you straight. I'm gonna tell you the

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<v Speaker 1>way I feel. I'm not afraid to tell you exactly

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<v Speaker 1>how I stand. And for those of you that have

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<v Speaker 1>listened to me or watched me long enough, you know

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm not I'm not ashamed to come on here

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<v Speaker 1>and just tell you straight up. It might it might

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<v Speaker 1>hurt my career, it might help my career, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't care I'm just gonna tell you the way it is,

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<v Speaker 1>so ask me anything, and you could do that by

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<v Speaker 1>emailing Granger Smith Podcast at gmail dot com. Grangersmith Podcast

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<v Speaker 1>at gmail dot com. In fact, wherever you are, pull

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<v Speaker 1>over your truck right now, pull over the side of

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<v Speaker 1>the road, whip out your little email and hit me

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<v Speaker 1>up right now. I'm gonna I'm gonna get into these questions.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna start answering them right now. I'm gonna bring

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<v Speaker 1>my brother Parker in here. Welcome to the podcast. Ye

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<v Speaker 1>did chant in d times and long line, fool up

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<v Speaker 1>and down, going back range evagation. I'm gonna get into

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<v Speaker 1>some of these emails. If you want to hear anything

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<v Speaker 1>from me, email Granger Smith Podcast at gmail dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>And a lot of times, that's what this podcast will

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<v Speaker 1>be about. Not every time, but a lot of times.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna get in here and go through these emails

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<v Speaker 1>and I'll read them. I'll try my best to answer. Today.

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<v Speaker 1>I have my brother Parker, he's back, been on several episodes.

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<v Speaker 1>He's he's a great, great mediator to my answering. First,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to start out with a couple of shout outs.

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<v Speaker 1>Shout out to Scott Hines. He says, Hey, I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>big fan of your music. I always have been. It's

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<v Speaker 1>my sixteenth birthday on the twenty third, and I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>getting anything, so if you can wish me happy birthday,

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<v Speaker 1>Happy birthday, Scott, Thank you for listening. Bro. Another shout

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<v Speaker 1>out says, Hey, my name is Tucker Bowman. I'm twelve

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<v Speaker 1>years old. I had a question for you. My birthday's

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<v Speaker 1>October sixteenth. I love your music and your podcast, and

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<v Speaker 1>I would love a shout out. One of my favorite

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<v Speaker 1>songs is holler Back Road Song and Tailgatetown. What's up, Tucker,

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<v Speaker 1>Happy birthday? Thank you for listening, Bro. And this last

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<v Speaker 1>one says Hey Granger Smith. I want to thank you

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<v Speaker 1>so much for your songs. Sometimes in bad moods and

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<v Speaker 1>when I listen to your songs, my mood just changes.

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<v Speaker 1>Sent from Corny Webe from Chihuahua, Mexico. Thank you man.

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<v Speaker 1>Appreciate you all you guys. And I'll get to I

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<v Speaker 1>got a lot of those shout outs I gotta get to,

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<v Speaker 1>but I want to get to some questions. Sixteenth birthday.

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<v Speaker 1>You remember what you were doing on your sixteenth birthday?

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that's one that everybody remembers. I actually do.

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<v Speaker 1>I was in Earl's truck, the one that we're restoring,

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<v Speaker 1>and I drove to San Antonio, Texas to watch George

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<v Speaker 1>straight play. Uh. Was that your first time driving on

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<v Speaker 1>your own? You mean like a road trip? Yeah? Was

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<v Speaker 1>that your first truck? Truck? Yeah, my first I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was. I thought it was at White Chevy. That

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<v Speaker 1>was later Chevy. I didn't know that was your first

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<v Speaker 1>truck was Earl's. Yeah. I think mom has pictures somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>of me going to that concert. Did you drive by yourself? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the first time I did, and then I went another

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<v Speaker 1>time with Dad and two buddies. You drove to a

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<v Speaker 1>George Strait concert by yourself at sixteen? Yeah, on your birthday? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>And I also saw him at Texas Stadium that same

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<v Speaker 1>year on sixteen, and I drove to Texas Stadium in Irving,

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<v Speaker 1>Texas and camped out. I say camp out. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really care, but I just got there before the sun

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<v Speaker 1>came up to get tickets a month ahead, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was in his fan club, So I was like seventh

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<v Speaker 1>in line at Texas Stadium because the fan club got

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<v Speaker 1>an early entry early ticket purchase, so I was like

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<v Speaker 1>seventh in line, and so my ticket was second row,

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<v Speaker 1>almost right in the middle. And that's why I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>these concerts by myself, because I I was the only

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<v Speaker 1>one getting those tickets. So I would go buy one ticket.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like sixty five dollars or something crazy like that.

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<v Speaker 1>One ticket, just me and I would show the door.

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<v Speaker 1>The gates would open at noon, and I'll be there

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<v Speaker 1>at the gates. George wouldn't go into like nine pm.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you still how often do you think about that

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<v Speaker 1>at your concerts or do you just think about it?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think about that every time? That still has

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<v Speaker 1>to stay with you? Think about all the think about

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<v Speaker 1>it all the time. Because those days, I was standing

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<v Speaker 1>in front of the stage looking up at all the lights,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was basically the only one in that Like

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<v Speaker 1>everyone that's in the middle of this up close is

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<v Speaker 1>usually a rich person or like a celebrity, and they

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<v Speaker 1>don't show up till it's dark. So here I am,

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<v Speaker 1>this kid, I'm the only one in fifty feet there's

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<v Speaker 1>just empty chairs, those empty fold up chairs everywhere. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>the only one. So when the first band goes on,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just like right, they could just clearly see me

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<v Speaker 1>standing this kid in a cowboy hat, standing all by himself.

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<v Speaker 1>And I remember all the bands that went on. I've

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<v Speaker 1>never actually told them this, and I know them personally

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<v Speaker 1>most of them now, and I haven't. I always forget

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<v Speaker 1>to say, hey man. In nineteen ninety six, I was

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<v Speaker 1>at Texas Stadium in the second row center and then

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<v Speaker 1>at night when George was about to come on, like

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<v Speaker 1>Troy Yateman would walk out and sit in this front

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<v Speaker 1>row seat, jaredry Jones will walk out sit down in

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<v Speaker 1>the front row. All kinds of important people would be

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<v Speaker 1>on the front row. And then one more story. Then

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<v Speaker 1>I got I went to so many of these concerts

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<v Speaker 1>and did this that I would talk to the camera guys.

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<v Speaker 1>There was guys on the ends of the aisles that

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<v Speaker 1>were shooting the camera for the JumboTron, and I said,

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<v Speaker 1>when when could I rush the stage? Because I knew

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<v Speaker 1>that at the end of every George concert, during the

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<v Speaker 1>last song, they would rush the stage, so I would,

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<v Speaker 1>but I wouldn't know when that song was coming. So

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<v Speaker 1>the camera guys they would be the ones. Because I

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<v Speaker 1>could talk to them, I say when could I rush?

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<v Speaker 1>And they say when we start packing our cameras, putting

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<v Speaker 1>our cameras down. That's when you know it's the second

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<v Speaker 1>to the last song. So I would see the camera

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<v Speaker 1>guy because they have to move their cameras for the crowd.

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<v Speaker 1>They'd start wrapping their cables and they'd look over at

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<v Speaker 1>me and kind of give me like a little wink

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<v Speaker 1>like this is the second to last song. So then

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<v Speaker 1>I could get ready and get those two seats in

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<v Speaker 1>front of me, like my two hands on them, getting

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<v Speaker 1>ready to push them. And as soon as that song

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<v Speaker 1>was over, I would push the chairs and run to

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<v Speaker 1>the front and be right at George's feet, and then

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<v Speaker 1>everyone else would rush in. And that always that feeling

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<v Speaker 1>that it girls. It was always girls behind me that

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<v Speaker 1>would just crush me into the stage. So I'd be

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<v Speaker 1>like to the stage and I would like have to

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<v Speaker 1>fight to get my back pushed back a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>to have a little room so I could do this.

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<v Speaker 1>That was my life. Man, That's amazing. Gosh, that is

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<v Speaker 1>I've never heard that story. That is some commitment. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I know anybody man to be front

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<v Speaker 1>row in nineteen ninety six at a George Straight concert.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a story. Several of them. Just buy yourself there,

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<v Speaker 1>just saving it aplene, Texas, San Antonio twice, Dallas twice,

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<v Speaker 1>all in during that same little time period. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think about my fans. I've been there. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>huge I consider that very valuable to me to have

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<v Speaker 1>that experience. Man, I was a sidetrack. Let's get to

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<v Speaker 1>I got a little less of these questions. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what we can get to, but we're gonna try

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<v Speaker 1>to get through them once again. This Grangersmith podcast at

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<v Speaker 1>gmail dot com if you want to give me a

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<v Speaker 1>shout out. This question is from Jacob and Jacob's from Lawrenceburg, Kentucky.

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<v Speaker 1>It says, grad, You're not sure if you'll see this,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just wanted to reach out and let you

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<v Speaker 1>know how much I appreciate all you do. You have

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<v Speaker 1>no idea how much your entertainment enjoy you bring to

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<v Speaker 1>my life. I'm a second year medical student at the

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<v Speaker 1>University of Kentucky. Go CAATs every Monday morning on my

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<v Speaker 1>drive to the hospital, I listen to your podcast, and

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<v Speaker 1>after every exam, I always unwind and relax by catching

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<v Speaker 1>up on the Smiths. I love your music and you're

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<v Speaker 1>an incredible role model for me. Thank you, buddy, uh

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<v Speaker 1>he says. I love when you talk about faith, and

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<v Speaker 1>I love it if you would share a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>more about your journey as a Christian. Did you grow

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<v Speaker 1>up in the church where you saved, et cetera, When

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<v Speaker 1>were you saved, et cetera. I lead worship at my

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<v Speaker 1>church in my hometown, so faith and music are two

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<v Speaker 1>of the most important things in my life. Thanks again,

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<v Speaker 1>and God blessed. Jacob from Lawrenceburg, Kentucky. Thanks for writing

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<v Speaker 1>in man, I'm glad that you read. I read that

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<v Speaker 1>question when Parker's sitting next to me on my brother

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<v Speaker 1>and it always is cool to me to hear somebody

0:16:45.200 --> 0:16:48.600
<v Speaker 1>listens to the podcast every morning on a commute. That's

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<v Speaker 1>like becomes a routine. And I wonder, like, as soon

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<v Speaker 1>as I start reading it, if you're driving in and

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, oh my god, that's my question, Like what

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<v Speaker 1>does that feel like? That's my question, Like you will

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<v Speaker 1>swear off the road. You listen over and over and

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<v Speaker 1>then it's your question. And I have gotten this several times,

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<v Speaker 1>so I think it's a good question. It's a good

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<v Speaker 1>one to talk about. I grew up Methodist. The majority

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<v Speaker 1>of my life was Methodist. We were heavy churchgoers pretty

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<v Speaker 1>much my my most of my life. And then we

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<v Speaker 1>moved to a little town outside of Waco, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>when you were in your prime. And y'all you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>go right when we were in Clifton. Yeah, we went

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<v Speaker 1>a lot more in Clifton than we ever did in Doubt. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you slowed down, like when I left house, you probably. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we almost never went in Dallas, but I'd love that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's Dad loved small town churches and it was a

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<v Speaker 1>little Baptist church and like the pastor, so we went.

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<v Speaker 1>We went a lot there. Yeah, the nut pastor ended

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<v Speaker 1>up burying dead and riv So to dig into that question,

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<v Speaker 1>my mom and dad are were pretty religious. But when

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<v Speaker 1>I say that term religious, that doesn't I don't necessarily

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<v Speaker 1>always mean specific traditions that you like. When I think

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<v Speaker 1>of religion, I think you got to do this at

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<v Speaker 1>three o'clock, and then you got to face this direction

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<v Speaker 1>at four o'clock. Like, It's not that they were. They

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<v Speaker 1>were very, very deep in the Christian faith, and they

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<v Speaker 1>taught us from a young age how to follow Christ,

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<v Speaker 1>to give your life to Christ. And my mom, she says,

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<v Speaker 1>this all the time. She listens to this podcast. So, hey, Mom,

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<v Speaker 1>you listen to this podcast. I know you do. She

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<v Speaker 1>always says that she read the entire New Testament to

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<v Speaker 1>me while I was nursing and when I was a baby.

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<v Speaker 1>So anytime I'm on a podcast and I start talking

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<v Speaker 1>about Jesus, She's like, see, I knew because I read you.

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<v Speaker 1>I read you the New Testament when you were a baby,

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<v Speaker 1>and I knew that that was going to do something

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<v Speaker 1>to your little brain, and maybe it did. What's your

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<v Speaker 1>story growing up, Parker. We're thirteen years apart, so we

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes have a different story growing up. Yeah, I was

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<v Speaker 1>basically like an only child as a kid because Grande

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<v Speaker 1>and I were so far apart. So a lot of you,

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<v Speaker 1>if any of y'all have much older siblings, you kind

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<v Speaker 1>of know what I'm talking about. See, you almost have

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<v Speaker 1>a different childhood a because you were you're the oldest

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<v Speaker 1>and you were their first child, so they're a little

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<v Speaker 1>more strict with you. Then it kind of loosens up

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<v Speaker 1>as as you go. But yeah, I was just going

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<v Speaker 1>to say, we weren't. We were never the like like

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<v Speaker 1>memorize these note cards of Bible verses every Sunday and

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<v Speaker 1>then like you have to have your Bible verses down

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<v Speaker 1>and then we're gonna quiz you. And we're very informal,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was more just Dad was always very open

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<v Speaker 1>with us. It was like, you just accept Christ as

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<v Speaker 1>your savior, admit you're a sinner, and that's what's most important.

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<v Speaker 1>And then beyond that, it's just be a man of

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<v Speaker 1>integrity and have your values in order and know it's

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<v Speaker 1>important in life. Just kind of that was the foundation. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but it wasn't. There was no uh like formal like

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<v Speaker 1>some some families that I knew growing up. Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>got I got confirmed when I was in sixth grade,

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<v Speaker 1>and confirmation, I believe several churches do that I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't exactly know which ones. I know Methodist did

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<v Speaker 1>obviously that's where I was. And so I went through

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<v Speaker 1>Confirmation in sixth grade and was baptized then and Dad

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<v Speaker 1>gave me a necklace that it was a replica of

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<v Speaker 1>what he wore, which was a replica of what his

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<v Speaker 1>dad wore, and he gave it to the US three boys.

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<v Speaker 1>And my uncle has one that he gave to his son.

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<v Speaker 1>You have one, right, m Yeah, So we all got

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<v Speaker 1>it's a little cross necklace. So that was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>part of the Smith family tradition that I'm assuming I'll

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead and pass that on to Lincoln when he's

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<v Speaker 1>in sixth grade. And my memories of church growing up

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<v Speaker 1>was squirming in the pew and being so bored out

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<v Speaker 1>of my mind and Dad squeezing my knee with his

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<v Speaker 1>thumb and his middle finger, just digging his hands into

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<v Speaker 1>my kneecap and just look just looking at me, like

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<v Speaker 1>be quiet. And my dad had these massive hands. They

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<v Speaker 1>are so strong. He could just crush my knee. And

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<v Speaker 1>so I tell Amber like when I when I try

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<v Speaker 1>to discipline Lincoln, I'm like, I just want Lincoln to

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<v Speaker 1>look at me with the fear that I looked at

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<v Speaker 1>my dad sometimes like because it got to the point

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<v Speaker 1>where all you have to do is just look at

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<v Speaker 1>me and go. And I'd be like, yes, sir, yes, sir.

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<v Speaker 1>He had, and he Aggie ring he had like that

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<v Speaker 1>me and you, Parker are both wearing I'm actually not

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<v Speaker 1>my oh you're not, but this is Zaggie ring from

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<v Speaker 1>Texas A and m Dad had one too, and sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>he could pop me in the back of the head

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<v Speaker 1>with this ring. Did he do that to you? No,

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<v Speaker 1>he could pop me in the back of the head

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<v Speaker 1>with that ring, and Amber is always like, I can

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<v Speaker 1>I picture him doing that? But he knew exactly how

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<v Speaker 1>hard to hit me in the back of the head,

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<v Speaker 1>that enough where it didn't crack the skull or make

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<v Speaker 1>a bump, but it was just enough to never want

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<v Speaker 1>to do what I was doing ever again. It hurt

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<v Speaker 1>so bad I could like taste metal in my teeth.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, he never did that to me. They were

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<v Speaker 1>way more strict with you. Why were they so strict

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<v Speaker 1>with me and not with you? They were way older

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<v Speaker 1>with you, I guess because I was I was playing

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<v Speaker 1>more behaved, I guess, so I would love. What about spankings, Parker,

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<v Speaker 1>did you get spanked? No? I don't think I got

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<v Speaker 1>spanked once because Tom actually was a good kid. Tyler

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<v Speaker 1>and I got whooped so bad. It was all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>We'd come in and Dad would come them from work

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<v Speaker 1>and be like, hey, guys, how's it going hi, And

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<v Speaker 1>we'd all just be like holding our toes and our

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<v Speaker 1>shoes real tight, and Mom would say, Chris, well have

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<v Speaker 1>something to say. The boys talking about me and Tyler

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<v Speaker 1>did this and I need you to spank them. And

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<v Speaker 1>Dad would be like, oh man, that's too bad, all right, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>and he'd start taking his belt off. He'd make us

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<v Speaker 1>put our elbows and lean lean like on the couch

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<v Speaker 1>or the bed, and you take his belt off, and

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<v Speaker 1>he said you want you want one really hard one

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<v Speaker 1>or three medium ones? And we would usually say one

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<v Speaker 1>really hard one. He'd say all right, and Tyler would

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<v Speaker 1>always watch first, and Dad would just whoop me with

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<v Speaker 1>that belt, and then Tyler would get real scared because

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<v Speaker 1>then he saw he saw what it looked like from

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<v Speaker 1>the outside, so Tyler would get all squirmy. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even remember the stuff we did, so comment below if this,

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<v Speaker 1>if you had a if you grew up the same,

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<v Speaker 1>if your dad whooped you at all, or if you

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<v Speaker 1>whoop your current kids. I don't know that. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>Jacob for the question. This one this was from Savannah

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<v Speaker 1>that says, Hey, Gradred, love your podcast on YouTube channels

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<v Speaker 1>and of course your music. My daughter's five, she's a

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<v Speaker 1>huge fan of London. She noticed London is quite their

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<v Speaker 1>performer with dancing in gymnastics. My daughter asked me if

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<v Speaker 1>London was going to follow your footsteps in some way,

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<v Speaker 1>and it made me start thinking and I got curious.

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<v Speaker 1>Have the kids expressed any interest in being musicians or performers?

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<v Speaker 1>How would you feel about that, knowing how hard you

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<v Speaker 1>have to work in the industry, and would you encourage

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<v Speaker 1>them to follow their dream? Thanks so much for all

0:24:47.040 --> 0:24:51.040
<v Speaker 1>you do. My family just loves you. Thank you, Savannah.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a great question, and it kind of ties into

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<v Speaker 1>what we've been talking about with my parents, because first

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<v Speaker 1>of all, I feel like my parents giving me the

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<v Speaker 1>blessing to follow music was one of the greatest gifts

0:25:05.880 --> 0:25:10.720
<v Speaker 1>they could have given me. It's funny because my name,

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<v Speaker 1>which I'm happy that they gave me a name that

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<v Speaker 1>was different enough to stand out in music instead of

0:25:17.680 --> 0:25:21.600
<v Speaker 1>like Bob Smith, that would have got lost, especially in

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<v Speaker 1>the web world, social media world. So I'm thankful for that.

0:25:24.840 --> 0:25:28.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm thankful for that they gave me braces on my teeth,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm thankful that they gave me the blessing to

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<v Speaker 1>chase music. Obviously, there's a lot more more to it

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<v Speaker 1>than that, but I want to address one thing you said,

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<v Speaker 1>how would you feel about it knowing how hard you

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<v Speaker 1>have to work? That's not the problem. How hard you

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<v Speaker 1>have to work. I want my kids to work hard.

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<v Speaker 1>I want them to do something that challenges them that

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<v Speaker 1>they have to work hard at. I always want that,

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<v Speaker 1>but I do You're right in thinking that I do

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<v Speaker 1>worry about my kids becoming musicians, not because of the work,

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<v Speaker 1>but because of the heartbreak involved. Heartbreak coming from things

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<v Speaker 1>you can't control. So it's a business that you could

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<v Speaker 1>work really hard to be very passionate, very diligent, very smart,

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<v Speaker 1>very talented. You could have all those things lined up.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you're not lucky, then your chart, your song

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't end up on the charts for some reason. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you there's a million reasons. If you're not lucky, you

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<v Speaker 1>fail and you get your heart broken. And I just

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<v Speaker 1>can't imagine my kids being judged the way that I've

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<v Speaker 1>been judged. It's fine for me, and maybe even fine

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<v Speaker 1>for Lincoln, but when you start talking about London, I

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<v Speaker 1>worry about that girl getting judged for appearances or for

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<v Speaker 1>whatever that she has no control over, and then her

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<v Speaker 1>having to deal with that. So that's the fine line

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<v Speaker 1>of me. Yes, I want them to follow their dreams.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes I want to give them a blessing, but I

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<v Speaker 1>would sit them down and have a long talk if

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<v Speaker 1>they wanted to go in to music business, just so

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<v Speaker 1>they know how terrible it can be. And there's probably

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of jobs like this. And for instance, we

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<v Speaker 1>have cousins that are farmers in the Panhandle of Texas,

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<v Speaker 1>and I remember each little son that decides to be

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<v Speaker 1>a farmer and follow his dad, there's always a talk

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<v Speaker 1>that the dad, Like I remember when Uncle Doug gave

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<v Speaker 1>this talk to Brad when Brad decided he was going

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<v Speaker 1>to go be a farmer, and Doug had to have

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<v Speaker 1>this long talk with him, like you understand what this means.

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<v Speaker 1>You understand the heartache in farming. You understand you're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to raise a family and depending on whether or depending

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<v Speaker 1>on the market, things you can't control. You could work

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<v Speaker 1>all you want, you work hard as you want, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you're all of a sudden you're at the mercy

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<v Speaker 1>of the price of seed or the price of whatever

0:27:53.480 --> 0:27:58.520
<v Speaker 1>your harvest is. So I don't know, I would love

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<v Speaker 1>to see London just do something and like become a

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<v Speaker 1>veterinarian or a teacher or something like that. Just what

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<v Speaker 1>do you think, Yeah, it's hard. I was thinking while

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<v Speaker 1>you were talking, I was thinking about you know you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get judged and whatever you do, and it takes

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of hard work and whatever you do in life,

0:28:13.520 --> 0:28:17.040
<v Speaker 1>but music in particular, and we talk about this with

0:28:17.080 --> 0:28:19.920
<v Speaker 1>you all the time. It's it's not just it's not

0:28:20.000 --> 0:28:22.920
<v Speaker 1>just your product or your service that's being judged. It's

0:28:22.960 --> 0:28:25.960
<v Speaker 1>your art form. It's it's uh, it's very much a

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<v Speaker 1>part of who you are, and so people people you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you're on the charts with your identity, and so that

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<v Speaker 1>can be kind of taxing on your mental health. So

0:28:34.720 --> 0:28:36.440
<v Speaker 1>I was like, well, yeah, that's a good point. It's

0:28:36.480 --> 0:28:39.200
<v Speaker 1>it's more taxing because it's your it's your identity that's

0:28:39.240 --> 0:28:42.880
<v Speaker 1>being judged as a product rather than rather than being

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<v Speaker 1>a vet or being a teacher. And not to downplay those,

0:28:46.040 --> 0:28:49.520
<v Speaker 1>but music is can be hard on your mental health

0:28:49.520 --> 0:28:53.960
<v Speaker 1>because that's your name up there on the chart. Yeah, yeah, yeah, absolutely,

0:28:54.120 --> 0:28:56.840
<v Speaker 1>good question, Savannah, And I'll probably get that one again

0:28:56.960 --> 0:29:02.280
<v Speaker 1>and we'll see how this plays out. This question is

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<v Speaker 1>It says, Hey, Granger, I'm a big fan of your music,

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<v Speaker 1>your family, and your podcast. Thank you, buddy. I am

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<v Speaker 1>soon to become a father to our boy, Jackson, who

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<v Speaker 1>is due on October ninth, so this sorry, this email

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<v Speaker 1>is a couple months old, so he's already been born.

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<v Speaker 1>I was wondering if you could provide any advice or

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<v Speaker 1>tips on become being a father for the first time.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there anything you learned picked up when you became

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<v Speaker 1>help a new father. I'm not worried about becoming a father,

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<v Speaker 1>but I would love to hear your thoughts on this matter.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much. This is Adam from Pool, England.

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<v Speaker 1>Yee appreciate you, buddy. Congratulations on the birth of your son.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm reading this email late. It's from the archives here,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's a great question. I want to say. I wonder,

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<v Speaker 1>on the ninth or not. It's a great question. First

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<v Speaker 1>of start your preparation on childproofing the house. And then

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<v Speaker 1>when they start crawling, and then you got a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of time before you have to start worrying about

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<v Speaker 1>door knobs and things on shelves when they start pulling

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<v Speaker 1>up and stand so and then then you can keep going.

0:39:08.719 --> 0:39:10.760
<v Speaker 1>The list goes on and on, you can go into

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<v Speaker 1>Then you got time to think about when they're in

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<v Speaker 1>elementary school, you don't you don't have to worry about dating,

0:39:18.520 --> 0:39:20.480
<v Speaker 1>and they're not until they're a teenager. Then when they're

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<v Speaker 1>a teenager, you could start worrying about Each step is

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<v Speaker 1>perfectly timed in my opinion, and and so my first

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<v Speaker 1>piece of advice is be in the moment, be right here,

0:39:34.800 --> 0:39:38.200
<v Speaker 1>don't be caught up in thinking. So right now, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>assuming Adam that your baby boy, I'm assuming October November SI,

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<v Speaker 1>you're three months old, so you're still kind of in

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<v Speaker 1>the infancy stage. So be here, be right here, Enjoy

0:39:49.760 --> 0:39:52.480
<v Speaker 1>every moment. Enjoy those little smiles when you get them,

0:39:52.600 --> 0:39:55.560
<v Speaker 1>Enjoy that eye contact when you get it, Enjoy those

0:39:55.600 --> 0:39:58.319
<v Speaker 1>times when he finally falls asleep after a fussy night,

0:39:59.080 --> 0:40:02.680
<v Speaker 1>and be in that moment. Don't ever think, oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't wait till he starts crawling her. I can't wait

0:40:04.800 --> 0:40:06.880
<v Speaker 1>till he watch his football games with me. You know

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<v Speaker 1>you might not do that in England, but we would

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<v Speaker 1>do that. But if you just hang on and stay

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<v Speaker 1>in that moment, you're not rushing him through this process,

0:40:16.040 --> 0:40:19.240
<v Speaker 1>because I promise it flies by. I mean it flies.

0:40:19.680 --> 0:40:21.920
<v Speaker 1>It seems like when you're in the trenches, it seems

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<v Speaker 1>like it's so long, but in reality you look back

0:40:25.239 --> 0:40:27.399
<v Speaker 1>on it and in time just flies. You're like, where

0:40:27.440 --> 0:40:29.840
<v Speaker 1>did it go? He's already walking. You know, he's already.

0:40:29.840 --> 0:40:35.000
<v Speaker 1>He's already out of diapers. So hang on, be in there.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I want to recommend a book for everyone

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<v Speaker 1>that has a little boy called Wild at Heart. Have

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<v Speaker 1>you read this? Yeah? Right, I want to reread it.

0:40:46.600 --> 0:40:50.359
<v Speaker 1>I would always recommend this book twice. First, if you're

0:40:51.360 --> 0:40:53.200
<v Speaker 1>it's like some of the shout outs I gave these

0:40:53.239 --> 0:40:58.640
<v Speaker 1>guys that were sixteen teenagers, read it as a teenager

0:40:58.719 --> 0:41:03.080
<v Speaker 1>or a young twenty something, and then reread it as

0:41:03.280 --> 0:41:06.880
<v Speaker 1>a father of a baby boy. And it's a great

0:41:06.960 --> 0:41:10.719
<v Speaker 1>book for learning how to raise a boy. It's called

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<v Speaker 1>it's called Wild at Heart. I'm pretty sure that it's

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<v Speaker 1>easy to find and you put you can find a book.

0:41:18.960 --> 0:41:23.759
<v Speaker 1>But there's this moment so good, but you remember the

0:41:24.200 --> 0:41:28.520
<v Speaker 1>climb in the cliff moment that's like such a such

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<v Speaker 1>an awesome moment in the book. But he has these

0:41:31.200 --> 0:41:37.040
<v Speaker 1>two boys and they're out hiking in the woods and

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<v Speaker 1>one of them is like ten and one of them

0:41:40.960 --> 0:41:45.799
<v Speaker 1>is like six, right seven, and the ten year old

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<v Speaker 1>they go up to this little cliff and they climb it,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's an easy little cliff, and the ten year

0:41:52.160 --> 0:41:56.080
<v Speaker 1>old climbs to the top, and the seven year old

0:41:56.160 --> 0:42:00.000
<v Speaker 1>starts climbing and gets stuck halfway up. It's a small,

0:42:00.120 --> 0:42:03.120
<v Speaker 1>a small little cliff. He gets stuck like halfway up,

0:42:03.480 --> 0:42:06.000
<v Speaker 1>and he freezes and he gets really scared and he

0:42:06.040 --> 0:42:11.680
<v Speaker 1>doesn't know what to do, and so he's struggling. He's struggling,

0:42:12.000 --> 0:42:13.920
<v Speaker 1>and then they're all encouraging him. Come on, buddy, you

0:42:13.960 --> 0:42:17.000
<v Speaker 1>got this, you got this, you got it. And so

0:42:18.200 --> 0:42:20.040
<v Speaker 1>he climbs and he starts climbing. They're like, good job,

0:42:20.040 --> 0:42:21.560
<v Speaker 1>you're doing it. You're doing it, puts his hand on

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<v Speaker 1>the top and he pulls himself up the cliff and

0:42:23.239 --> 0:42:24.799
<v Speaker 1>he gets to the top of this little, you know,

0:42:25.400 --> 0:42:28.440
<v Speaker 1>six foot cliff. He gets to the top and everyone's like,

0:42:28.480 --> 0:42:30.399
<v Speaker 1>you did it, buddy, you did it. And the dad goes,

0:42:30.440 --> 0:42:33.120
<v Speaker 1>you are a wild man. You're a wild man. You

0:42:33.200 --> 0:42:36.680
<v Speaker 1>did it, and so, you know, the moment passes, and

0:42:36.719 --> 0:42:39.080
<v Speaker 1>then later on that night they're all sitting around the

0:42:39.080 --> 0:42:45.479
<v Speaker 1>campfire and the little son says, Daddy, was I really

0:42:45.520 --> 0:42:48.279
<v Speaker 1>a wild man out there? And the funny thing in

0:42:48.360 --> 0:42:50.040
<v Speaker 1>the book he says, and here it is. This is

0:42:50.080 --> 0:42:53.080
<v Speaker 1>the moment, like, this is it. This is the moment

0:42:53.360 --> 0:42:57.839
<v Speaker 1>that could change his life as a boy forever, forever.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the moment when he's asking for affirmation of

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<v Speaker 1>him being a man, or at least being on the

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<v Speaker 1>path of what a man is. So he realizes that

0:43:08.920 --> 0:43:10.359
<v Speaker 1>in his head, he goes, this is the moment. How

0:43:10.400 --> 0:43:13.520
<v Speaker 1>do I answer it? Do I say I mean you're

0:43:13.560 --> 0:43:16.360
<v Speaker 1>kind of a sissy? Or do it you say I

0:43:16.400 --> 0:43:19.440
<v Speaker 1>don't know you're getting there, or you got a little scared,

0:43:19.480 --> 0:43:22.440
<v Speaker 1>but you know you did all right, buddy? Or do

0:43:22.480 --> 0:43:27.200
<v Speaker 1>you say, yes, son, you're a wild man. And then

0:43:27.239 --> 0:43:30.640
<v Speaker 1>he goes boom, that's it. That's the affirmation he needs

0:43:31.160 --> 0:43:34.160
<v Speaker 1>to justify his place in this little world of his.

0:43:35.680 --> 0:43:38.560
<v Speaker 1>Just so good man, such a good book. I love

0:43:38.600 --> 0:43:43.520
<v Speaker 1>that thing. Yeah, and you'll meet people. I don't have

0:43:43.600 --> 0:43:47.279
<v Speaker 1>any advice. I don't have any experience in that in

0:43:47.280 --> 0:43:50.560
<v Speaker 1>that realm, but man, you'll meet people to this day

0:43:50.680 --> 0:43:52.840
<v Speaker 1>and we'll talk. Man, that guy didn't get enough validation

0:43:52.880 --> 0:43:55.400
<v Speaker 1>from his dad, probably because you'll see when people are

0:43:55.440 --> 0:43:59.479
<v Speaker 1>overcompensating for that, that father that wasn't there, that didn't

0:43:59.520 --> 0:44:00.920
<v Speaker 1>tell them that they or a man, and so they

0:44:00.920 --> 0:44:04.279
<v Speaker 1>spend their whole life trying to prove it. Yep. And

0:44:04.320 --> 0:44:07.160
<v Speaker 1>it's just it, and it's just builds up into resentment,

0:44:07.840 --> 0:44:10.400
<v Speaker 1>trying to prove that they're a man, trying to finally

0:44:10.440 --> 0:44:12.120
<v Speaker 1>get the world to tell him they're a man, because

0:44:12.120 --> 0:44:16.680
<v Speaker 1>they never got it in that cliff at seven years old. Yeah, yeah, Adam,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for writing buddy. It's a great question, and

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<v Speaker 1>congratulations on your baby boy. This question is from Salisbury,

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<v Speaker 1>North Carolina. From Joshua says, Hey, Grangeer, love your podcast.

0:44:30.400 --> 0:44:33.200
<v Speaker 1>It's a part of my every Monday morning work listenings.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's my question. It's about Christian theology. H oh. What

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<v Speaker 1>Christian theology do you believe? In example, some believe Christ

0:44:43.360 --> 0:44:47.279
<v Speaker 1>is coming with judgment on the world, rapture, tribulations, et cetera.

0:44:47.960 --> 0:44:51.680
<v Speaker 1>Other other half, like myself, I believe that Christ's judgment

0:44:51.920 --> 0:44:59.440
<v Speaker 1>was conventional and or excuse me, covenantal and happened during

0:44:59.600 --> 0:45:03.600
<v Speaker 1>eighty seventy during with the destruction of Jerusalem. I'm thirty

0:45:03.640 --> 0:45:06.239
<v Speaker 1>one and have struggled a lot with the end of

0:45:06.280 --> 0:45:09.279
<v Speaker 1>times that was preached at my old church, and I

0:45:09.320 --> 0:45:12.719
<v Speaker 1>wanted answers. So I hit the scriptures and with prayer

0:45:12.760 --> 0:45:14.640
<v Speaker 1>and a lot of reading, I came to believe and

0:45:14.680 --> 0:45:18.720
<v Speaker 1>trust the Reformed doctrine. With this new understanding, I feel

0:45:18.760 --> 0:45:21.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm able to live my life to the fullest and

0:45:21.480 --> 0:45:24.680
<v Speaker 1>be a light in this fallen world compared to being

0:45:24.719 --> 0:45:26.719
<v Speaker 1>on the edge and not knowing what to do and

0:45:26.719 --> 0:45:29.279
<v Speaker 1>what the trust. Now, I take it day by day

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<v Speaker 1>and thank the Lord for another day. So curious where

0:45:31.320 --> 0:45:33.520
<v Speaker 1>you stand, I think it's important for all of us

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<v Speaker 1>Christians to be open minded about this and willing to

0:45:37.080 --> 0:45:39.680
<v Speaker 1>test our traditions and be willing to give a biblical

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<v Speaker 1>answer on why we believe what we believe through God's word.

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<v Speaker 1>No judgment here, I will not change the way I

0:45:46.880 --> 0:45:50.480
<v Speaker 1>think about you. We need to respect others' faith decisions

0:45:50.480 --> 0:45:53.600
<v Speaker 1>and continue to love and trust in Jesus no matter

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<v Speaker 1>what theology we believe in. Thanks Grangeur yee yee man.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a deep one, Joshua, thank you for writing in

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<v Speaker 1>shout out to North Carolina. I want to get I

0:46:04.480 --> 0:46:09.680
<v Speaker 1>want to jump right into this because I have some

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<v Speaker 1>stuff to say. First of all, let me say this

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<v Speaker 1>first and foremost before I say a word about theology

0:46:18.440 --> 0:46:25.520
<v Speaker 1>or my belief in theology. As a Christian, don't let

0:46:27.160 --> 0:46:33.880
<v Speaker 1>deep theological doctrine affect the end result of your belief.

0:46:33.680 --> 0:46:38.120
<v Speaker 1>If you do, bail out on that, on that deep

0:46:38.160 --> 0:46:45.479
<v Speaker 1>thinking and go back to the understood truth. Christ came,

0:46:46.480 --> 0:46:52.799
<v Speaker 1>died for you, forgave you of your sins, was resurrected,

0:46:54.040 --> 0:46:59.320
<v Speaker 1>And if you believe that and you repent and follow him,

0:46:59.719 --> 0:47:01.480
<v Speaker 1>then it doesn't matter what you've done in your life.

0:47:01.880 --> 0:47:04.759
<v Speaker 1>It doesn't matter how bad a sinner you are, we

0:47:04.840 --> 0:47:09.080
<v Speaker 1>all are. If you repent and follow him and trust him,

0:47:10.480 --> 0:47:14.560
<v Speaker 1>then then you'll have eternal life. So don't let that

0:47:15.080 --> 0:47:19.200
<v Speaker 1>ever become hazy, because that is that is the truth.

0:47:20.640 --> 0:47:23.239
<v Speaker 1>As Christians that's our truth. So don't don't ever let

0:47:23.280 --> 0:47:28.160
<v Speaker 1>any kind of weird doctrine get in the way. Now,

0:47:28.480 --> 0:47:33.759
<v Speaker 1>let me dive in. I do not believe in your theology,

0:47:37.239 --> 0:47:40.719
<v Speaker 1>and I believe I'm gonna I'm gonna say a couple

0:47:40.760 --> 0:47:43.520
<v Speaker 1>of things that might offend you, but I really I

0:47:43.560 --> 0:47:47.360
<v Speaker 1>don't want to offend you. I want to I just

0:47:47.440 --> 0:47:49.520
<v Speaker 1>want to kind of put my thoughts together. And this

0:47:49.560 --> 0:47:51.279
<v Speaker 1>is why it's hard on a podcast, because I don't

0:47:51.280 --> 0:47:52.640
<v Speaker 1>get to see your face and we don't get to

0:47:52.680 --> 0:47:55.160
<v Speaker 1>kind of go back and forth. But I'm gonna assume

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of things that might be wrong. I'm assuming

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<v Speaker 1>you've been to some bad churches and heard some bad

0:48:00.320 --> 0:48:03.279
<v Speaker 1>preachers and have been around some bad circles as far

0:48:03.280 --> 0:48:10.479
<v Speaker 1>as theology goes. Because most Christians, most do not believe that.

0:48:11.320 --> 0:48:17.520
<v Speaker 1>Most Christians believe the end of times have not arrived yet.

0:48:17.880 --> 0:48:22.560
<v Speaker 1>And the number one reason is we still have trouble.

0:48:22.760 --> 0:48:28.280
<v Speaker 1>We're still in trouble. When Christ comes, the promised second

0:48:28.280 --> 0:48:33.120
<v Speaker 1>coming of Christ, when he comes is redemption to the world.

0:48:33.360 --> 0:48:37.880
<v Speaker 1>It's bringing Heaven, the new Heaven, to the to earth,

0:48:38.000 --> 0:48:40.719
<v Speaker 1>to make a new Earth for all of us to

0:48:40.840 --> 0:48:43.920
<v Speaker 1>live in peace. And it will be perfect, and it

0:48:43.960 --> 0:48:48.480
<v Speaker 1>will be harmonious, and there will not be tears and

0:48:48.520 --> 0:48:51.759
<v Speaker 1>crying and trouble, and there will not be death and

0:48:51.800 --> 0:48:55.480
<v Speaker 1>coronavirus and wars. There will not When he comes back,

0:48:55.520 --> 0:48:58.080
<v Speaker 1>he will end all that. And John is very clear

0:48:58.480 --> 0:49:03.680
<v Speaker 1>in the Book of Revelation about that, and Jesus is

0:49:03.760 --> 0:49:07.040
<v Speaker 1>very clear that the the idea that that that second

0:49:07.040 --> 0:49:11.719
<v Speaker 1>coming has already happened, and you're referring to Caesar and

0:49:11.760 --> 0:49:15.839
<v Speaker 1>the destruction of the Jews and the Temple in eight

0:49:16.040 --> 0:49:20.440
<v Speaker 1>seventy is not enough because you can't say that that happened.

0:49:20.560 --> 0:49:23.239
<v Speaker 1>And then there was this thing called the Holocaust that

0:49:23.280 --> 0:49:26.759
<v Speaker 1>happened in World War two. You can't imagine the Holocaust

0:49:27.080 --> 0:49:29.880
<v Speaker 1>is something that happened after the second Coming of Christ.

0:49:30.239 --> 0:49:36.160
<v Speaker 1>There's that. That's just a small, a small explanation to why.

0:49:36.520 --> 0:49:41.560
<v Speaker 1>And I would encourage you to to find a new

0:49:41.800 --> 0:49:44.280
<v Speaker 1>find a new group. If if you truly are around

0:49:44.360 --> 0:49:47.960
<v Speaker 1>people that are leading you uh down a down a

0:49:48.040 --> 0:49:54.360
<v Speaker 1>road of despair, that's that is that is a false doctrine.

0:49:56.200 --> 0:49:58.080
<v Speaker 1>And let me go back to your words. You said,

0:49:59.000 --> 0:50:02.480
<v Speaker 1>h I have struggled a lot with the end of times.

0:50:02.520 --> 0:50:04.680
<v Speaker 1>That was preached to my old church, and I wanted

0:50:04.760 --> 0:50:10.880
<v Speaker 1>answers compared to not being on the edge and not

0:50:11.000 --> 0:50:13.880
<v Speaker 1>knowing what to do and what to trust. That's what

0:50:13.920 --> 0:50:16.399
<v Speaker 1>you said, these are your words. I wanted to live

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<v Speaker 1>my life to the fullest compared to being on edge

0:50:21.160 --> 0:50:25.040
<v Speaker 1>and not knowing what to do and what to trust. Well, yeah,

0:50:25.080 --> 0:50:28.040
<v Speaker 1>we all want that, absolutely, You're right. We all want

0:50:28.040 --> 0:50:30.960
<v Speaker 1>to live our life to the fullest and not worry.

0:50:31.080 --> 0:50:36.440
<v Speaker 1>And Christ asks us to follow him so that we

0:50:36.520 --> 0:50:40.200
<v Speaker 1>may have peace in Him, so that we will not worry,

0:50:40.239 --> 0:50:43.839
<v Speaker 1>and we don't worry about tomorrow because today has enough

0:50:43.840 --> 0:50:46.520
<v Speaker 1>trouble of its own, and we're not to worry about

0:50:46.520 --> 0:50:48.880
<v Speaker 1>the end of times. We're not even supposed to worry

0:50:49.200 --> 0:50:50.879
<v Speaker 1>or not know what to do. We know what to do.

0:50:51.920 --> 0:50:56.360
<v Speaker 1>It's very simple. We follow him, we repent, we try

0:50:56.560 --> 0:51:01.399
<v Speaker 1>to live a life and reflection of Him, and through

0:51:01.880 --> 0:51:06.799
<v Speaker 1>our renewed spirit, we have new guidance. We have new

0:51:06.840 --> 0:51:09.640
<v Speaker 1>ears to hear, new eyes to see. We're led by

0:51:10.600 --> 0:51:14.080
<v Speaker 1>a stronger conscience, we have a stronger discernment over good

0:51:14.160 --> 0:51:15.880
<v Speaker 1>and bad. We're still going to sin, We're still going

0:51:15.920 --> 0:51:18.920
<v Speaker 1>to mess up. That's because we're humans. We're still going

0:51:19.000 --> 0:51:22.319
<v Speaker 1>to and every sin is the same. There's no good

0:51:22.400 --> 0:51:26.040
<v Speaker 1>or bad way. It's it's all bad. And so we

0:51:26.160 --> 0:51:30.080
<v Speaker 1>do our best to be reborn every day, every morning,

0:51:32.040 --> 0:51:37.040
<v Speaker 1>and and through that we become a lied in the world.

0:51:37.120 --> 0:51:42.319
<v Speaker 1>We try to live a world of communion where we

0:51:42.360 --> 0:51:46.759
<v Speaker 1>treat our neighbor as we would ourselves, and we do

0:51:46.840 --> 0:51:49.279
<v Speaker 1>that every day, and then we don't worry. We don't

0:51:49.719 --> 0:51:52.200
<v Speaker 1>we don't not know what to do. We know exactly

0:51:52.239 --> 0:51:54.839
<v Speaker 1>what to do because it's right there. So I would

0:51:54.920 --> 0:52:00.919
<v Speaker 1>tell you to go and instead of reading doctrine from

0:52:00.960 --> 0:52:05.560
<v Speaker 1>other people are hearing things, including this podcast. Don't even

0:52:05.560 --> 0:52:08.480
<v Speaker 1>take my word for it. Just go straight to Matthew

0:52:08.760 --> 0:52:12.040
<v Speaker 1>chapter one. Start there. It's the beginning of the New Testament.

0:52:12.480 --> 0:52:18.919
<v Speaker 1>Start right there and read it. And it's a pick

0:52:18.920 --> 0:52:23.480
<v Speaker 1>a translation that's easy, like the NIV or the ESV.

0:52:23.719 --> 0:52:28.160
<v Speaker 1>It's very simple English translations. And hit the ground run

0:52:28.160 --> 0:52:33.400
<v Speaker 1>and don't worry about other outside sources. Ask God to

0:52:33.440 --> 0:52:36.000
<v Speaker 1>make that clear to you. And I believe that you'll

0:52:36.040 --> 0:52:39.520
<v Speaker 1>see that we're still waiting for the second coming of Christ,

0:52:39.680 --> 0:52:42.279
<v Speaker 1>because if he had already come, we would know it.

0:52:42.360 --> 0:52:47.279
<v Speaker 1>There wouldn't be this suffering. Parker you got anything nine

0:52:47.880 --> 0:52:54.000
<v Speaker 1>I've been yipping. I agree with you. Right back in, Joshua,

0:52:54.160 --> 0:52:56.839
<v Speaker 1>right back into this podcast once you hear this. First

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<v Speaker 1>of all, I want to make sure you hear it,

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<v Speaker 1>but right back in, because I think it's very important.

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<v Speaker 1>You said, you said we need to at the end,

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<v Speaker 1>you said we need to respect other faith decisions. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I agree, we need to continue to love and trust

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<v Speaker 1>in Jesus no matter what theology. Yes, I agree. But

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<v Speaker 1>here's where I disagree. It's important for us Christians to

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<v Speaker 1>be open minded about this. Well, that's where I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to disagree, because I believe the New Testament and the

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<v Speaker 1>Old Testament. The Old Testament's part of this whole story too,

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<v Speaker 1>is very very one minded. It's not very open. It's

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<v Speaker 1>very there's one thing happening here. There's one story. And

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<v Speaker 1>for those of you that don't know anything about what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying the Old Testament, I could sum it up

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<v Speaker 1>in this We're not good enough. That's from Genesis all

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<v Speaker 1>the way to Malachi. We're not good enough. I heard

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<v Speaker 1>the Duck dynasty guys talking about this. The New Testament.

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<v Speaker 1>You can sum it up like this. Matthew through John

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus is here and then acts through revelation Jesus is

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<v Speaker 1>coming back. That sums it up and I would encourage you,

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<v Speaker 1>got you to jump in your Joshua and then write

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<v Speaker 1>me back, writ me back. Let's keep this discussion going.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, I'm gonna pass this one to you. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know what it says. I feel like I'm

0:54:36.320 --> 0:54:38.839
<v Speaker 1>talking too much. It is your podcast. I think this

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<v Speaker 1>is my podcast or something. This is from Mary joe

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Granger. I'm new to the EE Nation and in

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<v Speaker 1>the last few months due to my son. I'm new

0:54:50.960 --> 0:54:52.799
<v Speaker 1>to the EE Nation in just the last few months

0:54:52.880 --> 0:54:54.960
<v Speaker 1>due to my son Jason and his family. I love

0:54:55.040 --> 0:54:58.000
<v Speaker 1>the podcast, the YouTube, and was even lucky enough to

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<v Speaker 1>score some items in your fall lunch. My question is

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<v Speaker 1>where did ye come from? Love everything that you and

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<v Speaker 1>Amber do and love that it is family based. Good

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<v Speaker 1>luck on your new home, and can't wait to hear

0:55:07.400 --> 0:55:09.759
<v Speaker 1>your new songs. I'm currently catching up on the older

0:55:09.760 --> 0:55:13.600
<v Speaker 1>songs but love them so far. Live in Hager City, Wisconsin.

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<v Speaker 1>Can't wait for you to tour closer to hear maybe Minneapolis.

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<v Speaker 1>Please marry joe Ah you could answer that one. Thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>Mary joe Yee came from a man named Earl Divilis

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<v Speaker 1>Junior back in what twenty eleven, twenty eleven, Granger was

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<v Speaker 1>growing his brand and we were getting creative. I should

0:55:40.239 --> 0:55:42.600
<v Speaker 1>say you were getting creative, and I was looking at

0:55:42.640 --> 0:55:46.040
<v Speaker 1>your hat, says Established twenty eleven. Oh yeah, check my hat.

0:55:46.800 --> 0:55:48.640
<v Speaker 1>I guess I could have made the hat. I should

0:55:48.680 --> 0:55:52.400
<v Speaker 1>know that. Yeah. So, you know, the music industry is

0:55:52.480 --> 0:55:56.719
<v Speaker 1>very difficult to get into, and we I'd like to

0:55:56.719 --> 0:55:58.960
<v Speaker 1>think we were pretty creative, and so we came up

0:55:59.000 --> 0:56:01.319
<v Speaker 1>with a lot of skit and like so I like

0:56:01.360 --> 0:56:04.640
<v Speaker 1>to call it like Saturday Night Live type videos where

0:56:04.719 --> 0:56:06.439
<v Speaker 1>we would just have We came up with this idea

0:56:06.440 --> 0:56:07.959
<v Speaker 1>to just do a video of the week, just because

0:56:07.960 --> 0:56:12.320
<v Speaker 1>we always were just goofy brothers and we liked comedy

0:56:12.400 --> 0:56:15.640
<v Speaker 1>and just being dumb, and we made some videos that

0:56:15.680 --> 0:56:17.439
<v Speaker 1>we thought were funny. We didn't know if anybody else

0:56:17.480 --> 0:56:20.960
<v Speaker 1>was gonna think it was funny, and Earl was just

0:56:21.000 --> 0:56:24.239
<v Speaker 1>one of our many characters that have been lost in

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<v Speaker 1>translation over the years. We had an old house in

0:56:27.640 --> 0:56:30.440
<v Speaker 1>our family's ranch in Texas, and we came up with

0:56:30.480 --> 0:56:32.520
<v Speaker 1>the idea. We said, you know, wouldn't it be funny

0:56:32.520 --> 0:56:35.480
<v Speaker 1>if someone lived in that house, in this old abandoned farmhouse.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, if somebody did, what would they talk like,

0:56:40.480 --> 0:56:42.880
<v Speaker 1>what would their name be, what would they be dressed like?

0:56:43.760 --> 0:56:47.640
<v Speaker 1>And Tyler had a Tyler played football at at Rice

0:56:47.760 --> 0:56:49.319
<v Speaker 1>University in Texas. He said, I used to have an

0:56:49.320 --> 0:56:51.680
<v Speaker 1>old teammate with the last name Dibbles. That'd be pretty funny.

0:56:51.680 --> 0:56:53.839
<v Speaker 1>Earl's pretty redneck. And then if he's a redneck name

0:56:53.880 --> 0:56:58.719
<v Speaker 1>Earl Dibbles, you mean you got to add junior. And

0:56:58.719 --> 0:57:01.400
<v Speaker 1>and Earl was just we created the monologue for Earl's day.

0:57:01.400 --> 0:57:03.920
<v Speaker 1>Earl said what he did all day and then he

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<v Speaker 1>had the shotgun over his head and Tyler told you

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<v Speaker 1>to yell eeee and you were there too, Yep. Yeah,

0:57:10.239 --> 0:57:13.799
<v Speaker 1>it was meet you and Tyler on an unbelievably hot

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<v Speaker 1>day in Texas. Was in I believe it was in June,

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<v Speaker 1>because we put that video out in July. No, it's

0:57:19.360 --> 0:57:21.480
<v Speaker 1>probably July. We probably just I probably put it out

0:57:21.520 --> 0:57:24.160
<v Speaker 1>like the next day, knowing me back then, I probably

0:57:24.160 --> 0:57:27.920
<v Speaker 1>shot it edited it for yeah, if not that night. Yeah,

0:57:27.960 --> 0:57:33.000
<v Speaker 1>So it was we didn't think that Eeee saying it

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<v Speaker 1>in that video was going to matter at all, and

0:57:36.800 --> 0:57:39.360
<v Speaker 1>it did and the chain of events, you know it.

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<v Speaker 1>Let I think I did a podcast said that said

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<v Speaker 1>how five thousand dollars saved my career, And that's what

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<v Speaker 1>this is. That's what this story is, because we paid

0:57:48.080 --> 0:57:50.840
<v Speaker 1>five thousand dollars to get EU trademarked, and that was

0:57:51.440 --> 0:57:55.440
<v Speaker 1>every penny we had, and it was could have been

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<v Speaker 1>the stupidest thing I ever did, was pay five thousand

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<v Speaker 1>dollars for these two words to make sure no one

0:58:00.800 --> 0:58:05.720
<v Speaker 1>else trademarked them. But we did, and I've said this before,

0:58:05.800 --> 0:58:09.000
<v Speaker 1>but we didn't do it to just monopolize that phrase.

0:58:09.080 --> 0:58:12.160
<v Speaker 1>We did it so that no one else would monopolize

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<v Speaker 1>it and not allow us to say it or put

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<v Speaker 1>it on the shirts anymore. So what's crazy because we

0:58:18.280 --> 0:58:20.200
<v Speaker 1>were right there in that same time. Do you remember

0:58:20.240 --> 0:58:25.080
<v Speaker 1>the country boy controversy? So this was crazy now that

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<v Speaker 1>you're like CEO of YE Apparel. Early on our very

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<v Speaker 1>first EE Apparel shirt, really that wasn't Granger Smith was

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<v Speaker 1>it said I'm a country boy and on the back

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<v Speaker 1>it said I got a tough schedule and it said

0:58:43.800 --> 0:58:46.840
<v Speaker 1>one I wake up, two put a good did bend

0:58:47.000 --> 0:58:50.200
<v Speaker 1>three cracker. It was like a long list, fix a tree,

0:58:50.800 --> 0:58:53.960
<v Speaker 1>whittle a good stick, and we put it out and

0:58:54.320 --> 0:58:57.360
<v Speaker 1>we had a black one for the guys and a

0:58:57.400 --> 0:58:59.960
<v Speaker 1>pink one for the girls. And we got to see

0:59:01.040 --> 0:59:04.920
<v Speaker 1>cease and desist letter from this company that said we

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<v Speaker 1>own the phrase country boy and you can no longer

0:59:08.720 --> 0:59:10.800
<v Speaker 1>put that on your shirt. And we were like what

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<v Speaker 1>it was crazy, no way, Like I thought it was

0:59:13.240 --> 0:59:17.360
<v Speaker 1>a joke, like you own country boy. And so I

0:59:17.400 --> 0:59:20.200
<v Speaker 1>was like, well, what does Luke Bryan do you know?

0:59:20.760 --> 0:59:23.200
<v Speaker 1>Because they they owned country Boy and Country Girls. I

0:59:23.240 --> 0:59:24.720
<v Speaker 1>was like, well, what does Luke Brian do country girl?

0:59:24.760 --> 0:59:27.360
<v Speaker 1>Shake it from me? And I looked up on his website.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure enough, he doesn't have anything it says country girls.

0:59:29.600 --> 0:59:32.200
<v Speaker 1>Shake it from me. Because sure enough, this was a

0:59:32.280 --> 0:59:36.440
<v Speaker 1>legit company that don't even sell apparel. They just own that,

0:59:37.080 --> 0:59:39.400
<v Speaker 1>so you have to buy it from them the rights

0:59:39.440 --> 0:59:43.800
<v Speaker 1>to it. So we changed it. So now that shirt

0:59:44.360 --> 0:59:46.200
<v Speaker 1>that used to say I'm a country boy, we changed

0:59:46.200 --> 0:59:48.280
<v Speaker 1>it too. I got a tough schedule and on the

0:59:48.320 --> 0:59:50.760
<v Speaker 1>back it says I wake up. We had to literally

0:59:50.800 --> 0:59:53.720
<v Speaker 1>take it off. So that was right around the time

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<v Speaker 1>we were like, man, we got we got to trademark

0:59:55.760 --> 1:00:01.240
<v Speaker 1>this name because some guy across country is gonna trademark

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<v Speaker 1>it and then tell us we can't never use we

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<v Speaker 1>can never use it in a shirt. And that would

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<v Speaker 1>have That's why five thousand dollars changed my whole career.

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<v Speaker 1>Would have would have been what would we be wearing

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<v Speaker 1>right now? I wouldn't be here? Yeah, what would we do?

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you Mary Joe. Does it say where she's from? Yes, Wisconsin?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah she's from Hagar City or Hager City. However you

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<v Speaker 1>say that Wisconsin. And I can't wait for you to

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<v Speaker 1>tour in Minneapolis Saint Paul again. Yeah, we can't wait

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<v Speaker 1>to come back. You are crazy out there. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna make that the last question. I know that

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<v Speaker 1>some people and you could comment below how long are

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<v Speaker 1>these getting? Like? Sometimes I could just talk and talk

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<v Speaker 1>and then I realized there's There have been some people

1:00:48.040 --> 1:00:50.120
<v Speaker 1>that have emailed and said I could only listen. I can,

1:00:50.280 --> 1:00:53.240
<v Speaker 1>my brain can only take twenty minutes, and then I daydream.

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<v Speaker 1>Now turn it off? So what ended here? Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>guys as always, and thank you part for helping me

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<v Speaker 1>be a sidekick. I'm still thinking about that Joshua question too, man,

1:01:05.200 --> 1:01:11.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm still thinking like that really threw me off. If

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<v Speaker 1>you think Christ has already came, what's the point. I mean,

1:01:16.280 --> 1:01:18.640
<v Speaker 1>that is a that is our hope. Like that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean. I wake up in the morning and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>the mission is still on, Like it is still a go.

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<v Speaker 1>There's still time on the clock. Do you know, Like

1:01:27.720 --> 1:01:30.680
<v Speaker 1>we haven't the game's not over. We still have the

1:01:30.720 --> 1:01:33.640
<v Speaker 1>ball and we still have time on the clock. We

1:01:33.720 --> 1:01:37.440
<v Speaker 1>got a good quarterback, Like, let's go game on, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>wake up and I'm like, we got this. But if

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<v Speaker 1>you already think he came two thousand years ago and

1:01:44.360 --> 1:01:49.280
<v Speaker 1>we're still in suffering, that that is depressing and that's

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<v Speaker 1>not what the Bible says. It does not say that.

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<v Speaker 1>So Joshua email back, let's hear what you got to say.

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<v Speaker 1>Appreciate you guys, Thanks Barton, thanks for joining me on

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