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Speaker 1: Okay, guys, here are my dates for the High and

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Speaker 1: Mighty Tour. In May the thirtieth of May, I will

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Speaker 1: be in Saratoga Springs, New York, port Chester, New York.

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Speaker 1: I'm coming to Boston at the Wang Theater. I'll be

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Speaker 1: in Portland, Oregon, Seattle, and then Hyannas, Massachusetts, and then

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Speaker 1: two shows in Nantucket. In August, you can find me

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Speaker 1: in Red Bank, New Jersey, Montclair, New Jersey, and Calgary.

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Speaker 1: That's Canada. And September I will be in Santa Barbara,

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Speaker 1: San Diego, New York City, Philly, and New Haven, Connecticut.

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Speaker 1: October is Atlanta, Baltimore, Saginaw, Michigan, Pittsburgh, Toronto, Boise, Idaho,

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Speaker 1: and Spokane. And then in November I'll be in San Francisco.

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Speaker 1: I'm coming to Salt Lake City, Austin, Houston, Dallas, Babies,

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Speaker 1: I'll be there. And then in December, I am closing

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Speaker 1: out my tour in Denver and Vancouver. So get your

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Speaker 1: tickets at Chelseahandler dot com for the High and Mighty Tour.

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Speaker 2: Kelsey. How are you hi, I'm Chelsea.

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Speaker 3: What's your name?

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Speaker 2: My name is Catherine. It's nice to meet you, Catherine,

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Speaker 2: with you nice.

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Speaker 1: It's a beautiful day here in sunny Los Angeles.

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Speaker 2: It absolutely is.

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Speaker 1: I'm safe in my house, my beautiful house.

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Speaker 2: You know what it feels like you actually finally live here.

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Speaker 2: I've had people hours everywhere.

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Speaker 1: I've had people staying here. I had my two of

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Speaker 1: Menika and Megan Gaily. They were staying here all week,

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Speaker 1: so they broke in my guest room. Yah, Minika broke

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Speaker 1: Broke broke it in. And that's a separate issue. But

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Speaker 1: I'm like slowly and the house is beautiful and I'm

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Speaker 2: We've got our candle. Candle's going. I have a whole

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Speaker 1: It's like everything is where I need your favors.

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Speaker 4: I have a citing update from a caller who took

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Speaker 4: within twenty four hours she had taken this advice. So

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Speaker 4: this was Simone who was on our Kevin Kane episode.

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Speaker 2: She had called in because she was like doing.

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Speaker 4: Tarot but oh yeah, yeah yeah, I wasn't charging for it,

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Speaker 1: oh at one o'clock. That's funny that you say that.

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Speaker 2: How fun any particular reason.

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Speaker 1: Or no, they just saw someone inside. Can we give

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Speaker 1: you a tarot card reading? I said sure? I mean,

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Speaker 4: This is a big step for me and something wonderful

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Speaker 4: to celebrate for those of you reading this email. Now

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Speaker 4: you have a special price that is only yours, lower

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Speaker 4: Thanks for teaching me the monetary value of my work.

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Speaker 4: Best regards, Simonet. I'm like, that is a perfect email.

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Speaker 1: Because that girl she was giving out freak chaot card

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Speaker 4: I'm not writing with a specific question, but to thank

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Speaker 4: Ask themselves what would Jesus do? But I'm more of

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Speaker 4: Most recently, I've been feeling stuck in my work life.

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Speaker 4: He was like, you know what, I need a big

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Speaker 1: or like dreams, then move make it. May make a change,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but also write in because we love having people

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Speaker 4: right yes to it. We always need new questions. Okay, Chelsea,

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Speaker 2: So Shane is writing this.

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Speaker 1: Is Shane Gillis from the Roast.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, it absolutely is.

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Speaker 4: Were you excited to see him again, calling him Sean.

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Speaker 1: For so that's racist.

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Speaker 4: All the Shanees and Chunds look like Okay, so Shane

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Speaker 5: Hey.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I know Shane. I follow him on Instagram.

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Speaker 4: this is all very succinct. Hi, Chelsea, it's Shane, your

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Speaker 4: When we finished that break, I had just unexpectedly come

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Speaker 4: All the time. Can I ask you clarifying question, Shane,

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Speaker 4: Did you mean a line of weed that's Chelsea branded

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Speaker 3: No, she was the first time we talked to you

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Speaker 2: Have OA right right right?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So well I guess that's why it's called Dear

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Speaker 1: Chelsea Caproine. So yeah, you should do a thirty day reset.

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Speaker 1: You have an addictive personality. It's okay, I do too.

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Speaker 1: I do that. I do too, So I have to

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Speaker 2: What I mean.

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Speaker 1: But thirty day reset is great because you don't have

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I do want to give up a nicotine for sure.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: That's a bad habit, that's an achy habit.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I need you guys to publicly shame me so I

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Speaker 1: Okay, do you want me to pretend to quit something

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Speaker 1: I quit for thirty days? What's my favorite drug right now? LSD?

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Speaker 1: But that's not that's not fair to the world, because

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Speaker 1: that's good for me to be on. Hold on, let

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Speaker 1: I tried it. I tried it on that boat.

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Speaker 3: That should be easy to quit for thirty days.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, fine, I won't do ketemine for thirty days.

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Speaker 1: We're in solidarity. Do you feel the love chain I do.

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Speaker 1: How's your life.

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Speaker 3: Going right now? It's pretty good.

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Speaker 5: I'm starting to put my life back together. I got

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Speaker 3: Job, Oh nice. So I'm just chilling.

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Speaker 2: How's a new job going.

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Speaker 5: I've only been here for like two months, so I

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Speaker 5: It's shipping in even for company in Berkeley.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, and how are you, Like, how did everything

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Speaker 5: They we're all, we're cool with it, but they still like,

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's okay, that's okay. Just keep reminding them you

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Speaker 1: They'll get it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, Shane, I love you. I love our relationship.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this is my longest relationship.

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Speaker 2: Bringing me too, Me too, okay, my black brother, me too.

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Speaker 3: Well, thank you so much for having me back. Bye bye.

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Speaker 4: I love how they're using the wrong pronouns and he

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Speaker 1: Yeah he was he was transition from a woman, right.

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Speaker 1: I mean he's like, first of all, he's a fucking

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Speaker 2: He's a babe. He's a babe. Yeah, he's very hot.

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Speaker 4: Very If any of you are out there in the

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Speaker 3: So cute.

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Speaker 2: All right, I have a wondering question we can wrap

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Speaker 4: We have a mom who might be overstepping a little bit,

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Speaker 4: but I'll let you take this one, so Brenda says, Hi, Chelsea,

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Speaker 2: Enough about me.

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Speaker 4: My daughter moved to Barcelona several years ago, and she's

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Speaker 4: And I don't think she likes the idea of me

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Speaker 4: soon to be twenty six years old, can you please

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Speaker 1: Brenda twenty six years old is like, not old baby,

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Speaker 1: She's gonna be fine. Mom, And you like, don't meddle

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's just it's it's too much to manage.

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Speaker 3: I'm not doing it.

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Speaker 1: My social media team is doing it because it's so much.

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Speaker 1: But also respect your daughter's wishes. Your daughter will be fine.

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Speaker 1: She's twenty six year old, she'll meet she'll meet people.

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Speaker 1: Don't worry, it happens.

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Speaker 2: It's gotta happen.

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Speaker 4: Like of her own volation, yeah, or online or whatever.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, I feel like that's nice that the guy

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Speaker 2: You know, it's like, oh, my daughter's so sweet and lovely, like.

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Speaker 4: You know, it's just gotta gotta let her do it

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Speaker 4: on our own I think. Yeah, yeah, all right, Brenda.

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Speaker 4: Well that's all for this week.

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Speaker 5: Guys.

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