1 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:13,840 Speaker 1: Yes and Lo and Lo. Welcome to the Naughty even 2 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:17,640 Speaker 1: Nice Shamia host Rob Shooter, and it's Tuesday. Our dear 3 00:00:17,680 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 1: friend Delana's off today. She's actually in la I think 4 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 1: she's interviewing Cynthia Rivo from the Wicked movie. I know 5 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 1: they held their private screening for Deleana last week, so 6 00:00:30,680 --> 00:00:32,519 Speaker 1: she saw the movie. She hasn't told me yet if 7 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:34,519 Speaker 1: it's fabulous. I know it is, but she's such a 8 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:37,559 Speaker 1: professional she won't say a word until she is allowed to. 9 00:00:37,640 --> 00:00:41,000 Speaker 1: But Delana got to see Wicked last week and now 10 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:44,839 Speaker 1: she's out in California interviewing Cynthia. I think this is 11 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 1: for Ebony magazine, so fingers crossed. I'll let you know 12 00:00:48,479 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 1: when the story is posted. Okay, let's jump into our show. 13 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 1: What time is it, my friends? It is tea time. 14 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:56,960 Speaker 1: Big story at the top of the show. Phil Donahue, 15 00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 1: the iconic talk show host, has died at eighty eight. 16 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 1: Phil pioneered talk shows. He really did. He revolutionized the 17 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:14,120 Speaker 1: TV business. His family confirmed that he died on Sunday night, 18 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 1: surrounded by loved ones, following a long illness. Now he 19 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:22,760 Speaker 1: knew Phil had been ill for quite some time. We 20 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 1: hadn't seen him in a while, and he enjoyed the spotlight. 21 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:28,840 Speaker 1: He enjoyed the attention. He used to say that all 22 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 1: the time, and so the fact that he disappeared, we 23 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:36,680 Speaker 1: all heard rumors that he wasn't doing so well. Phil 24 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 1: was a man of many, many talents, but best known 25 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 1: for the Phil donn a huge show that brought provocative 26 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 1: issues and audience participation into American that live in your rooms. 27 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 1: Just think about that for a second. Audience participation was 28 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 1: so used to seeing Oprah walk around the audience with 29 00:01:56,560 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 1: a microphone Ricky Lake did. It was so used to 30 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: that happening. That was Phil Donahue. He who was the 31 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 1: first to do that, and also to provocative issues. He 32 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 1: was fearless. He talked about subjects that Americans just did 33 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 1: not talk about, particularly on daytime TV. In fact, before Phil, 34 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 1: daytime TV was soap operas. It was game shows, it 35 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 1: was cooking shows. It was not these real, real, impactful, 36 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 1: important subjects that often we stayed away from. We thought 37 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 1: nobody would want to watch this, We thought it was 38 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: just too much. His shows started in Dayton, Ohio, and 39 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 1: he did tattle subjects like the abuse in the Catholic Church, 40 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 1: the klu Klux Klan, Feminism, day rights before they ever 41 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 1: became mainstream. Once his show was a huge hitic moved 42 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:52,919 Speaker 1: to Chicago for a little bit, and then it moved 43 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 1: to New York City. It was broadcast from the iconic 44 00:02:56,760 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 1: thirty Rockefeller Plaza. In an inter with Nelson Mendella following 45 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 1: Mendela's release from prison in nineteen ninety, he was remembered 46 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:10,920 Speaker 1: as being just fantastic at doing this. It was easy 47 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:13,519 Speaker 1: to put him into a box and say he could 48 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:15,839 Speaker 1: only do one thing, but no. He also too took 49 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 1: his show to the Soviet Union, cementing his reputation as 50 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 1: a television legend. Now. His show ended in nineteen ninety six, 51 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 1: after a remarkable twenty six years. Twenty six and he 52 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 1: earned twenty ms. That's really important. It's really telling here 53 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:36,520 Speaker 1: because a lot of TV shows are a lot of fun, 54 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: but they don't win Emmy Awards. They don't win awards. 55 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 1: Phil was both a lot of fun a lot of 56 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 1: people watched, and it was also quality quality that won 57 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 1: twenty Emmy Awards. He survived by his wife forty four years, 58 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 1: Marlo Thomas, who was by his side recently in twenty 59 00:03:56,560 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 1: twenty four when we saw him for the last time 60 00:03:59,040 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 1: in May when he received the Presidential Medal of Freedom 61 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 1: awarded by President Biden. Was also I should point this out. 62 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 1: I want to point this out. He was also known 63 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:16,360 Speaker 1: for his generosity and commitment to understanding the human experience. 64 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:19,799 Speaker 1: He used to say he didn't need celebrities on his show. 65 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 1: The celebrities were the audience. It was us. We all 66 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 1: have a story and if we tell it in a respectful, 67 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:31,240 Speaker 1: kind way, then that is something we can all enjoy 68 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 1: learn from listen to. He was really, really, I can't 69 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 1: overestimate this a pioneer. So if you don't know who 70 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:40,800 Speaker 1: Phil Donna, who is? And I'm sure there's a lot 71 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:44,280 Speaker 1: of our younger listeners who do not google him, check 72 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 1: him out, because there'd be no Watch What Happens Live, 73 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 1: no Kelly Clarkson, no Ellen, and certainly no oph Oprah 74 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 1: put out a really beautiful statement. Let me read it 75 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:56,840 Speaker 1: to you. Oprah said the following quote. There wouldn't have 76 00:04:57,000 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 1: been an Oprah show without Phil Donna being the first 77 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:06,479 Speaker 1: to prove that daytime talk and women watching should be 78 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:09,720 Speaker 1: taken seriously. So before this, the executives at the networks 79 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 1: they didn't take women watching TV very seriously. They thought 80 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 1: they just wanted cooking shows, or fashion shows or soap opera's. 81 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:20,039 Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no. Phil showed everybody that that was 82 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 1: not true. Oprah concluded by saying, quote, he was a pioneer. 83 00:05:24,839 --> 00:05:28,400 Speaker 1: I'm glad I got to thank him for it. Rest 84 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 1: in peace. She did thank him, She had him on 85 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 1: her show, and she literally said, I'm here because of you, 86 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:39,360 Speaker 1: and we all want to thank you. We all stand 87 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 1: on your shoulders. So if you love daytime TV, if 88 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 1: you love these shows, you can tip your hat today 89 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:49,280 Speaker 1: to Phil Donahue. Let's end with what his wife said, 90 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 1: Marla Thomas. It was a really sweet, poignant post. She 91 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 1: put up an nostalgic picture of the couple from their 92 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 1: younger years. They were together there for forty four years, 93 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:01,839 Speaker 1: riding on her motor side, all the symbol of the 94 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 1: adventurous spirit that the two of them shared. She wrote 95 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:08,159 Speaker 1: the following quote, I'm sure by now you've heard the 96 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 1: very sad news that I lost my sweetheart last night. 97 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 1: Oh it's so beautiful. I lost my sweetheart. We all 98 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 1: lost our sweetheart, didn't we. He was a remarkable man. 99 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 1: Friends of mine who work in TV say that they 100 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:27,520 Speaker 1: were absolutely gobsmacked by him. Everybody thinks it's Oprah. Oprah's 101 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 1: important and did a fabulous show change TV too. But 102 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 1: he was the pioneer. He was first, and we forget 103 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 1: that sometimes, don't we. It was Phil. Let's remember it today, 104 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 1: and let's remember him too. There's no pole question on 105 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:45,480 Speaker 1: the day. We only do pole questions on our lead story, 106 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 1: and we certainly don't do pole questions when somebody passes. 107 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 1: Rest in peace, Rest in power. Okay, moving along, So 108 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 1: more lows is coming out about Blake Lively. So there's 109 00:06:57,360 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 1: another incident when she snapped at her reporter. I know 110 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: a friend of mine, Chris Rosenar, he's a great reporter. 111 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:07,160 Speaker 1: She snapped at him over a question about her romance. 112 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:10,400 Speaker 1: So she clapped back at a reporter who dared dared 113 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 1: to probe into her rumored relationship with her then boyfriend 114 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 1: Gossip Girl co star Penn Badly. It was a two 115 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 1: thousand and eight interview with New York magazine and Lively 116 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 1: was discussing her role in a film where she kissed 117 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 1: the legendary Alan Arkins. So she said, he's a bit 118 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 1: of an upgrade from Chance and Penn referring to her 119 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 1: two co stars. So she was making fun and joining it. Well, Chris, 120 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 1: he's a brilliant reporter. Chris jumped in and took this 121 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:44,080 Speaker 1: as an opportunity to ask her about her off screen 122 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 1: romances with Penn, and she did not like it. She 123 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 1: was kurt and she replied, quote, I thought this was 124 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 1: New York magazine. I thought you were supposed to be classy. Now, 125 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:01,760 Speaker 1: if Blake wasn't getting a lot of bad press at 126 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:04,120 Speaker 1: the moment, I would say, well, she was just defending 127 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 1: her privacy here. She doesn't want to talk about her privacy. 128 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:09,800 Speaker 1: She did this interview in two thousand and eight, and 129 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 1: at the time nobody cared about this answer. But now, 130 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:16,760 Speaker 1: because there's so many interviews of Blake being let's say, prickly, 131 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 1: a little prickly, that now this is just adding to 132 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 1: the narrative that maybe Blake isn't such a nice person. 133 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 1: There is a devastating, long, long article on vox Vox 134 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 1: about Blake. You should read it, and it talks about 135 00:08:32,360 --> 00:08:35,719 Speaker 1: how someone we thought was a really great person might 136 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 1: be a mean girl. Somebody has used her power to 137 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:42,439 Speaker 1: not necessarily do always the right thing and so now 138 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:46,040 Speaker 1: this debate is really, really loud, and a lot of 139 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 1: people are coming forward. It sort of reminds me of 140 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:54,680 Speaker 1: the Ellen days when the rumors started to circulate about Ellen. 141 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 1: They started as a whisper and then they got louder 142 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 1: and louder and louder. That's same process now is happening 143 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:07,800 Speaker 1: to Blake. Just yesterday on my Instagram page, three producers 144 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 1: from very very big TV shows they DM me and said, 145 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 1: when Blake was on our show, behind the scenes, she 146 00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 1: was not very nice. One said she was awful to 147 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:22,840 Speaker 1: the staff, and then she went out in front of 148 00:09:22,840 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 1: the camera and she was charming. She looked great, she 149 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 1: was funny, but then she came backstage and turned into 150 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:31,440 Speaker 1: someone that wasn't very kind again. So maybe there's a 151 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 1: side of Blake here. It does catch up with you, 152 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:36,559 Speaker 1: doesn't it. If you're rude ones, you're rude ones, it's 153 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 1: not good. But if you're rude every time, then it 154 00:09:39,320 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 1: becomes a trend, then it becomes who you are. Then 155 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 1: people start to talk about it. So if the overwhelming 156 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:51,080 Speaker 1: noise of the overwhelming conversation is that I have worked 157 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:53,559 Speaker 1: with Blake on a TV show, I've worked with her here. 158 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 1: I've worked with her there and it was in a 159 00:09:55,480 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 1: very good experience. And you hear that over and over 160 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:02,720 Speaker 1: and over again again, you're gonna start believing it. Okay, 161 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:05,840 Speaker 1: this made me sort of giggle. I like Juliana Hauff. 162 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:08,680 Speaker 1: She was gonna be the next Britney Spears for a moment. 163 00:10:08,720 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 1: Remember when she had a music career, she was making movies. 164 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:13,959 Speaker 1: She exploded from Dancing with the Stars. While she's back 165 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:16,760 Speaker 1: out there now doing more interviews, and I can't get enough. 166 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:22,040 Speaker 1: She's talking about who shouldn't have won Dancing with the Stars. Ooh, 167 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 1: so the professional dancer. She was on Andy Cohen's show 168 00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:28,600 Speaker 1: Watch What Happens and she was asked who should not 169 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:32,840 Speaker 1: have won this legendary show, and she said, it's Bobby Bones, 170 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 1: who won season twenty seven of the beloved dance competition. 171 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:42,240 Speaker 1: And so she said she has to agree Bobby Bones 172 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:46,839 Speaker 1: should not have won. Now, Bobby is a radio personality. 173 00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:49,440 Speaker 1: I met him as a really nice guy. He won 174 00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 1: season twenty seven along with pro dancer Shanna Burgess in 175 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 1: two eighteen. That's the yeah, two thousand and eighteen. Now, 176 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:00,680 Speaker 1: at the time, there was a lot of debate because 177 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:04,440 Speaker 1: he wasn't the most skillful dancer, and he acknowledged that, 178 00:11:04,840 --> 00:11:07,720 Speaker 1: but he also acknowledged the power of his fan base 179 00:11:08,160 --> 00:11:12,360 Speaker 1: and said that is why he ultimately ultimately won. Now, Juliana, 180 00:11:12,400 --> 00:11:15,079 Speaker 1: she's a good person. She also was quick to praise Bones. 181 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:18,040 Speaker 1: So she said he shouldn't have won on his dancing skills, 182 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 1: but for his great fans and his popularity, and they 183 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:24,880 Speaker 1: all voted. That's why he won. Now he should note 184 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:29,960 Speaker 1: as well that after after he won, they changed the 185 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:34,199 Speaker 1: rules of the show. They changed the voting rules after 186 00:11:34,320 --> 00:11:36,560 Speaker 1: Bobby Bones. People on the show call it the Bobby 187 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 1: Bones rule, and so that's a testament to his impact 188 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:44,439 Speaker 1: on the show. Now Bobby has clapped back at Juliana 189 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:47,080 Speaker 1: half He's done it in a funny way, crowning himself 190 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:50,680 Speaker 1: the greatest champion. He shared an Instagram video and he 191 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:54,080 Speaker 1: said I was the worst dancer, he admitted with a grin, 192 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 1: and he said I take pride in that. He said, now, 193 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 1: I tried as hard as anyone in the history of 194 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:05,360 Speaker 1: the show, but I can't dance now and couldn't dance then. 195 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 1: He did make jokes though, saying that we took down 196 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:12,880 Speaker 1: the evil empire of dance of which there's no evil 197 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:15,840 Speaker 1: and there's no empire because it was you and me, 198 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:19,640 Speaker 1: we did it together. And the greatest champion ever, he said, quote, 199 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:23,200 Speaker 1: I didn't say I was the greatest dancer ever, but 200 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:26,920 Speaker 1: the greatest champion ever because I'm a man of the people. 201 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:31,559 Speaker 1: I am the man that the people selected it did. Now, 202 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:34,560 Speaker 1: remember this, it's not a dance show. It's a popularity show. 203 00:12:34,640 --> 00:12:37,079 Speaker 1: It's a personality show. The people that go on this 204 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:40,800 Speaker 1: show need huge fan basism. Bobby because he's so big 205 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:43,360 Speaker 1: in the country world. He's like the Howard Stern of country. 206 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 1: He got a lot of the country singers, a lot 207 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 1: of those really talented singers carry underwoods, the people who 208 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:52,760 Speaker 1: knew what it was like to be on a competition show. 209 00:12:52,840 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 1: He got them to support him and to rally their 210 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:58,480 Speaker 1: fans too, and that's why he won because people voted 211 00:12:58,480 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 1: fair and square. Then the news But Bobby, I think 212 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:04,960 Speaker 1: I agree with you. Maybe still not the best answer, 213 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 1: but still the best champion. We have a new update 214 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:11,440 Speaker 1: on Ben Affleck. He's very focused at the moment on 215 00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 1: preparing his daughter Violet for college amid all the marital 216 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 1: strain with Jennifer Lopez. They're still together. I'm told they're talking. 217 00:13:18,360 --> 00:13:21,240 Speaker 1: They are talking again. There's reports they'd stop talking. They 218 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:23,839 Speaker 1: are talking. He's involved in her life, she's involved in his. 219 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:25,920 Speaker 1: Still they're just not living together. But they are not 220 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 1: divorced yet and told there are no plans to design 221 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:31,960 Speaker 1: the divorce papers anytime soon. And at the moment, Ben 222 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:34,439 Speaker 1: just turned fifty two. Jen turned up on his birthday. 223 00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 1: She went to his house, so that's a good sign. 224 00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 1: She spent about five hours there. Jennifer Gardner was there too, 225 00:13:39,559 --> 00:13:41,480 Speaker 1: not at the same time. We saw the kids there. 226 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:44,720 Speaker 1: And now his eldest daughter, Violet is off to college. 227 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:48,280 Speaker 1: She's going to Yale University in New Haven, Connecticut, or 228 00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:52,080 Speaker 1: have fancy sources are telling People magazine. Ben is very 229 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 1: focused on getting Violet ready for the move. He also 230 00:13:56,160 --> 00:13:58,120 Speaker 1: added that this is a huge deal for the whole 231 00:13:58,120 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 1: family and they're really excited in sharing this together. Ben 232 00:14:02,320 --> 00:14:06,360 Speaker 1: shares violence along with Sarahina who's fifteen, and Samuel with 233 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:09,600 Speaker 1: his ex wife Jennifer Gardner, and they're juggling all these 234 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:13,760 Speaker 1: responsibilities under a very very public eye. So we're all 235 00:14:13,800 --> 00:14:17,360 Speaker 1: talking about his marriage. But what Ben is focusing on 236 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 1: is his daughter. Quickly before we get a break. This 237 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:22,800 Speaker 1: story broke my heart in the most tragic way and 238 00:14:22,840 --> 00:14:26,440 Speaker 1: then the most beautiful way too. Taylor Swift invited girls 239 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 1: involved in the tragic stabbing to a magical night backstage 240 00:14:32,640 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 1: at her Heiress tour in London. So during her concert 241 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:40,080 Speaker 1: at Wembley Stadium sold out on August fifteenth, the thirty 242 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 1: four year old pop star extended a heartfelt invitation to 243 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 1: two children who were involved in the deadly stabbing and 244 00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:52,400 Speaker 1: a Swift themed yoga class in England. The girls, along 245 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:56,440 Speaker 1: with their family were treated to special backstage experiences and 246 00:14:56,520 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 1: even a photograph with Taylor Swift. One of the mom's 247 00:14:59,760 --> 00:15:02,640 Speaker 1: post how grateful they were to Taylor and her mother 248 00:15:03,040 --> 00:15:08,400 Speaker 1: Andrea for quote making the most magical night possible for us, 249 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:13,480 Speaker 1: A big thank you. Oh it's so beautiful and tragic. 250 00:15:13,560 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 1: Taylor always does the right thing, and she does it 251 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:18,800 Speaker 1: without any publicity, any attention. If the girls, if their 252 00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 1: moms had not spoken out about this, Taylor wouldn't have 253 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 1: said anything. Doing the right thing when nobody is watching 254 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:28,600 Speaker 1: makes you really the right person. Okay, We're going to 255 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:30,760 Speaker 1: take a quick break and we will be right back. 256 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:35,200 Speaker 1: Welcome back to the naughty but nice on your hipst 257 00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:40,400 Speaker 1: rab shooter. Hey, let's get to the polls. No poll today, 258 00:15:40,480 --> 00:15:42,080 Speaker 1: no new poll, but this is the part of our 259 00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:44,000 Speaker 1: show where we always give you the results of our 260 00:15:44,040 --> 00:15:47,440 Speaker 1: last poll. So yesterday we talked about Meghan Markle reportedly 261 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:51,960 Speaker 1: wanting to attend the convention in Chicago, but she wasn't invited. 262 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:56,640 Speaker 1: Our question was, would Meghan's endorsement of a political party 263 00:15:56,840 --> 00:16:00,240 Speaker 1: a person in politics make a difference. Let's have a look. 264 00:16:00,560 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 1: Twenty percent said yes, So I don't think this is 265 00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:05,320 Speaker 1: a dig at Megan. Here, a lot of people get 266 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:09,320 Speaker 1: really tired of celebrities and politics. I say it's their right. 267 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:12,240 Speaker 1: They're Americans. I'm allowed to talk about politics if I 268 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:14,400 Speaker 1: want to, I choose not to, But if you want to, 269 00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 1: I get it. I have friends who are very vocal 270 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 1: about politics, some who are much more private than me. 271 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:21,840 Speaker 1: But if you're a celebrity and you want to talk 272 00:16:21,840 --> 00:16:24,440 Speaker 1: about this, you have as much right as anybody else. 273 00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:27,560 Speaker 1: But it can turn some some people off. And so 274 00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:30,320 Speaker 1: here the question is not whether it would turn you off, 275 00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:34,520 Speaker 1: but do you even care? No, I don't. I make 276 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:37,040 Speaker 1: my own mind up. I look at the policies, I 277 00:16:37,080 --> 00:16:39,880 Speaker 1: look at what's going to help my my family, my life, 278 00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:42,960 Speaker 1: my friends, the world. What's gonna help my sisters, what's 279 00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:45,400 Speaker 1: going to help people that I need some help? And 280 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:50,400 Speaker 1: so look at the issues, not the people who endorse them. 281 00:16:50,920 --> 00:16:54,240 Speaker 1: I agree with you noughties. There's no poll today, but 282 00:16:54,280 --> 00:16:58,040 Speaker 1: we will be back tomorrow with a new pole. Okay, 283 00:16:58,120 --> 00:17:02,400 Speaker 1: let's do the nicest of the day, and it says 284 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:05,359 Speaker 1: of the days. Megan markle for speaking Spanish during an 285 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:09,359 Speaker 1: empowerment forum in Columbia. So she showed off her impressive 286 00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:13,600 Speaker 1: Spanish speaking skills during a conversation. She was there with 287 00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:16,920 Speaker 1: her husband, Prince Harry, and they were talking about women's empowerment. 288 00:17:17,160 --> 00:17:19,479 Speaker 1: So she stole the show. When she took the stage, 289 00:17:19,480 --> 00:17:22,240 Speaker 1: she removed her ear piece and she started talking directly 290 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:24,439 Speaker 1: to the crowd in Spanish. So Harry and Meghan were 291 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:28,400 Speaker 1: wearing earpieces so everything could be translated into English. However, 292 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:31,280 Speaker 1: Meghan didn't need it. She understood the Spanish and she 293 00:17:31,320 --> 00:17:34,639 Speaker 1: could speak in Spanish. She could reply in Spanish. The 294 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:39,080 Speaker 1: crowd went crazy when she did this. This isn't the 295 00:17:39,119 --> 00:17:42,920 Speaker 1: first time that Meghan has impressed with her Spanish. Earlier 296 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:46,639 Speaker 1: on their Columbia trip, she and Harry engaged with some 297 00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:49,600 Speaker 1: local kindergod and children, and she spoke to the kids 298 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:52,160 Speaker 1: in their native language. Now a lot of people don't 299 00:17:52,200 --> 00:17:55,280 Speaker 1: know this, but Meghan is fluent in Spanish, and this 300 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:58,720 Speaker 1: comes from her time in turning at the US Embassy 301 00:17:58,760 --> 00:18:04,120 Speaker 1: in Buenosarres, Argentina. She also spent some time studying aboard 302 00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:10,040 Speaker 1: in Madrid, Spain, so this explains her fabulous Spanish. It's interesting, 303 00:18:10,160 --> 00:18:12,240 Speaker 1: isn't it. I wish I'd spoken of the language. It's 304 00:18:12,240 --> 00:18:15,160 Speaker 1: my one regret, or one of my regrets. Let's say 305 00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:17,760 Speaker 1: that I'd loved a bit. Maybe I'll take up that beliitz? 306 00:18:17,920 --> 00:18:20,080 Speaker 1: Is that what it's called? That thing you do online? 307 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:23,840 Speaker 1: I'll let you know. Okay, let's do our naughtiest the day, naughty, naughty, naughty. 308 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:28,440 Speaker 1: Prince William does not want Harry at his coronation, so 309 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:32,000 Speaker 1: sources talking to the Sunday Times, that's a very respectable 310 00:18:32,119 --> 00:18:36,159 Speaker 1: newspaper in London, saying that Harry and William are in 311 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:40,080 Speaker 1: a really bad place. And now William has decided that 312 00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:43,400 Speaker 1: he does not want his brother there to see him crowned. 313 00:18:43,880 --> 00:18:48,560 Speaker 1: So when Charles passes, he's seventy five years old. This ceremony, 314 00:18:48,600 --> 00:18:51,240 Speaker 1: the coronation is going to look very, very different. The 315 00:18:51,320 --> 00:18:54,480 Speaker 1: most noticeable difference is that Harry will not be there. 316 00:18:54,840 --> 00:18:59,160 Speaker 1: The report highlighted these two have not spoken in two years. 317 00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:02,920 Speaker 1: Two years. Not only is he estranged from his brother, 318 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:06,480 Speaker 1: he is also now estranged from King Charles, who ascended 319 00:19:06,520 --> 00:19:10,600 Speaker 1: the throne after Queen Elizabeth died in twenty twenty two. 320 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:14,080 Speaker 1: So as to say the following quote, the problem for 321 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:16,520 Speaker 1: the king and other members of the family is they 322 00:19:16,560 --> 00:19:18,840 Speaker 1: worry that if they have a chat with Harry, it 323 00:19:18,840 --> 00:19:22,720 Speaker 1: will appear in his book Volume two spare volume two. 324 00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:28,360 Speaker 1: How could you regain the trust? I don't think Harry 325 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:31,840 Speaker 1: ever can Oh. Hey, let's end with the moment of Rob. 326 00:19:31,880 --> 00:19:33,200 Speaker 1: We got a Robbie Gota. Robi, you got to Robie 327 00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:34,760 Speaker 1: Gota Rob to day, we have a quote from Mega 328 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:37,160 Speaker 1: Markle that really stopped me in my tracks. I love 329 00:19:37,200 --> 00:19:40,560 Speaker 1: this quote. We just need to be kinder to ourselves. 330 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:45,080 Speaker 1: If we treat ourselves the way we treated our best friend, 331 00:19:45,800 --> 00:19:49,520 Speaker 1: can you imagine how much better off we would be? 332 00:19:50,480 --> 00:19:53,360 Speaker 1: I talk to myself in a way that I would 333 00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:56,800 Speaker 1: never speak to somebody I love. We've all been guilty 334 00:19:56,880 --> 00:20:00,159 Speaker 1: of this. My rule is if I wouldn't say it 335 00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:05,280 Speaker 1: to somebody I loved, then I won't say it to myself. Hey, 336 00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:08,200 Speaker 1: that is it for today, noughties. Thank you so much 337 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:11,840 Speaker 1: for listening to the Naughty but Nice with Robin Nortiz Show. 338 00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:14,240 Speaker 1: You were the co host today. Don't you miss mister 339 00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:16,560 Speaker 1: I love her. She's one of my best friends. I 340 00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:18,560 Speaker 1: love her. I miss her. I hope you're having a 341 00:20:18,600 --> 00:20:20,800 Speaker 1: marvelous time in La. I know you are listening, and 342 00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:22,720 Speaker 1: I can't wait for you to come back and we 343 00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:25,159 Speaker 1: can get a drink. Don't forget to subscribe on the 344 00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:27,800 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio app or Apple podcast or wherever you listen. Leave 345 00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:29,840 Speaker 1: us a review if you can. They really do help. 346 00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:33,760 Speaker 1: And remember altogether. Now, if you're going to be naughty, 347 00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:37,320 Speaker 1: you've got to be a jass. Take care of everybody. 348 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:41,159 Speaker 1: It's not even nice with rom