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Speaker 1: It's time to catch a cheater.

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Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show, Kim is on the phone

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Speaker 2: today for to catch a cheater and she thinks that

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Speaker 2: her husband of four years named Jack might be messing around.

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Speaker 2: So let's see if we can help her out. Kim, Hi,

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Speaker 2: what's up? What do you think is going on?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 3: My husband? We've been married for four years, we've been

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Speaker 3: together for seven. We met right out of high school,

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Speaker 3: and I mean I've trusted him with my whole heart.

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Speaker 3: He's really been the only person I've been with. I

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Speaker 3: haven't had a lot of boyfriends or serious relationships up

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Speaker 3: until him, so like he's got my whole heart. I've

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Speaker 3: trusted him completely. We've had a really great relationship, like

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Speaker 3: we do our own things with friends, like on the

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Speaker 3: same night. We're you know, not super cleany or anything like.

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Speaker 3: It's just been a really cool relation. He's hot, he's smart.

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Speaker 3: I love him. I'll always think he's hot, like I

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Speaker 3: just you know, so I really hope he's not. But recently,

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Speaker 3: on the nights when we go out with our friends,

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Speaker 3: he's been coming home later and later, and so that's

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Speaker 3: been sending off like major red flags for me because

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Speaker 3: normally we like, up until this past month, he would

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Speaker 3: of us would stay out like super people late or whatever.

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Speaker 1: And now he's.

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Speaker 3: Coming down like at one am, two am and saying

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Speaker 3: video games. Like I'm like, okay, you know, and he'll

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Speaker 3: offer up like, well, you can call him, you know,

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Speaker 3: you can call my friend and ask it. It's like,

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Speaker 3: I know his friends are going to have his back

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Speaker 3: no matter what, so that doesn't mean anything. And I'm

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Speaker 3: just like giving a you know, I'm not really nagging him,

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Speaker 3: but he's like a little defensive right off the bat

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Speaker 3: around it if I bring up how ladies coming in.

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Speaker 1: So that's the first red flag.

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Speaker 3: So the second kind of major ones is that. So

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Speaker 3: we have a group of friends, a bunch of girls

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Speaker 3: known each other since high school. There's a few that

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Speaker 3: of started hanging around more. This girl, Jazzmine. I have noticed, like,

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Speaker 3: first of all, she complimented Jack a lot, like she

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Speaker 3: thinks he's great, so I know she kind of has

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Speaker 3: a crush on him. And somebody else has told me

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Speaker 3: that she, you know, feels bad because she has a

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Speaker 3: the nights when I am going out with my friends

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Speaker 3: and he's going out with his friends, that Jasmine isn't there,

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Speaker 3: she's not doing girls night with us on the nights

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Speaker 3: that he's doing guys nights with his friends. So that

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Speaker 3: paranoid do you think?

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Speaker 4: I don't know, I feel I might be being paranoid, but

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Speaker 4: I know she's seeing somebody and she won't tell us who,

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Speaker 4: like they're hooking up and stuff like that that she's

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Speaker 4: excited about and kind of uh secretive about, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, and won't really invite them around or like integrate

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Speaker 1: So that has got me also very suspicious.

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Speaker 5: Sure, So when you're going out for your girls' nights

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Speaker 5: and you notice that Jasmine's not there, do you say

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Speaker 5: anything to everybody else, like, oh, where's Jasmine? To kind

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And that that's where I found out that she

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Speaker 3: was dating with somebody. And then one of my friends

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Speaker 3: who knows who, who knows her family and knows her

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Speaker 3: from way back said that she can.

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Speaker 1: Be shady too, because I did confide.

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Speaker 3: That I was feeling a little I don't.

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Speaker 6: Know my sight sensors are going off, and they didn't

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Speaker 6: want to make me, you know, so worse about it,

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Speaker 6: but they did confirm that she can be shady, like

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Speaker 6: she's not above that.

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Speaker 2: Well, you told us what grocery store you guys are

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Speaker 2: rewards card members at. So we'll play a song come Back,

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Speaker 2: rewards card member at random who gets free flowers delivered

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Speaker 2: from our floral department. Will see if he sends those

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, thank you, I appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: Of course, we'll play a song come Back and get

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Speaker 2: your to Catch a Cheater next. Right in the middle

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Speaker 2: of to Catch a Cheater if you're just joining us,

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Speaker 2: Kim is on the phone and Kim thinks that her

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Speaker 2: husband of four years might be cheating. So in a second,

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Speaker 2: we're gonna call him and pretend to be from the

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Speaker 2: grocery store that he's a rewards card member at, and

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Speaker 2: We'll see if he sends those to Kim or to

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Speaker 2: somebody else. But before before we do that, Kim, why

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Speaker 2: don't you remind everybody about your situation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so, my husband four years has been coming home

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Speaker 3: later and nights when he would normally come home at the.

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Speaker 1: Same time I come home when we go out.

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Speaker 3: With our friends separately, there's a new girl in our

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Speaker 3: on those nights, and so I just feel a little

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Speaker 3: suspicious and maybe he's actually with her and lying to

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Speaker 3: me about it and thinking that he's getting away with it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 3: Yes, here we go.

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Speaker 2: He Hi, this is horrible calling from I was looking

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Speaker 2: for a rewards card member named Jack.

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Speaker 1: Hi.

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Speaker 2: Jack, Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing

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Speaker 2: phone call. I'm actually just calling to say congratulations, you're

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Speaker 2: this month's lucky winner.

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Speaker 1: Why don't know what?

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Speaker 2: Oh the flowers? Maybe you haven't heard. Every single month,

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Speaker 2: we choose one rewards card member at random. We gets

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Speaker 2: free flowers delivered from our foreward department. You've won thirty

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Speaker 2: six long stim red roses, a box of candy or chocolate,

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Speaker 2: and a card to be sent to whoever you want.

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Speaker 1: Oh, okay, if you know you want.

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Speaker 2: To send them to, I can take the information over

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Speaker 2: the phone in just a matter of minutes.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, I have someone in mind.

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Speaker 2: We'll start with the first and last name of the

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Speaker 2: person who'd like to send them to.

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Speaker 6: Uh, Jasmine.

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Speaker 2: Okay, got that, Jasmine? And would you like to put

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Speaker 2: anything on a card to Jasmine? You can say.

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Speaker 1: What happened last night?

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Speaker 3: Question mark? I love you?

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Speaker 1: Exclamation point?

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Speaker 2: Got it?

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Speaker 1: It's okay, Well, but what happened last night? You want

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Speaker 1: to know what happened last night?

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Speaker 3: You want to know what My husband broke down and

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Speaker 3: finally told me everything everything.

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Speaker 2: Jack, that's your wife on the phone. This is actually

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Speaker 2: the Jubal Show. It's a radio show. My name is

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Speaker 2: Jubal Hi, I am Nina, Hi, I'm Victoria, And we

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Speaker 2: do a segment called to Catch a Cheater, and I'll just.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so what is going a hot one? What is

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Speaker 3: going on here? Hey?

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Speaker 1: What's going on?

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Speaker 3: What do you think is going on? You're busted, dude,

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Speaker 3: you are busted, and you guys, I am sorry. I

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Speaker 3: lied to you about knowing.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know that she did.

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Speaker 3: She just came clean to me. She told me everything Jack,

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Speaker 3: everything I needed to find out from him, No doubt.

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Speaker 1: That's fair, and you all help me do that and

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Speaker 1: I appreciate it.

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Speaker 3: She told me everything, like every time you have lied

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Speaker 3: to me, every time that you have cheated with her

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Speaker 1: She Oh, Jasmine, your flower girl? Who do you think

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Speaker 3: You know who I'm talking about? Jasmine says?

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Speaker 1: Do you believe everything that?

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Speaker 3: Jasmine says? I believe that you're a p and that

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Speaker 3: you're a liar and a cheater. I believe her does

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Speaker 3: that because you've been telling her. You believe that you

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Speaker 3: were gonna believe? You believe that what? Jasmine says? Crazy Jasmine,

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Speaker 3: I do? I do? You want to know why? Because

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Speaker 3: she came and she told me what was going on.

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Speaker 3: She broke down crying because she realized that you telling

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Speaker 3: me for her is also a lie because you are

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Speaker 3: I do believe her.

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Speaker 5: You did also just send her flowers with and I

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Speaker 3: You just that I love you on there like, oh my,

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Speaker 3: why we want treble you.

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Speaker 1: You only like jokingly say love.

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Speaker 3: You, love you?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. Due to the friend group, you hardly

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Speaker 3: I almost send them the flowers them too.

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Speaker 1: Well, then your.

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Speaker 3: Logic, I might be. According to your logic, I might be.

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Speaker 2: What about Jasmine's logic, the one who came to your

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Speaker 3: Did Mike and Ashley come and say that everything too

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Speaker 3: as well? Well? As a matter of fact, Ashley is here,

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Speaker 3: as are all of my friends, and we've done packed

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Speaker 1: And send it to your mom's house.

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Speaker 3: WHOA, why don't you just move forward and.

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Speaker 1: Get out of my life? Because I am done.

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Speaker 3: You're unnoticed here.

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Speaker 2: Yes, he hung up, He's gone. I'm so sorry. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: just not even.

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Speaker 1: Pretty devastating.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just like who does that? Like just I'm

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Speaker 3: just so surprised at how he Yeah, the lying about it,

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Speaker 3: like not taking any not feeling bad. He doesn't even

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Speaker 5: Well, sorry, well, I'm glad to move on.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, it's definitely going to be some healing involved,

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Speaker 3: but at least I'm not being played. I'll never be

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Speaker 3: played like this again. I gave him way too much trust.

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Speaker 2: Well, you'll find someone to give the right trust too.

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Speaker 3: Well.

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Speaker 5: It sounds like you have a good support system too, Thankfully,

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Speaker 5: I do.

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Speaker 3: I do have good friends except for Jasmine.

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Speaker 6: Nevermind and I are going to ever be.

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Speaker 3: But I do. I do respect that she told me,

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Speaker 3: and I'm glad that she realizes what she was getting

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Speaker 3: involved with and who she was getting involved with. But yeah,

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Speaker 3: I don't think we'll be really close friends ever.

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Speaker 1: My friend group is pretty great.

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Speaker 2: Well that's good, and good luck with everything.

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Speaker 3: Okay, thank you, And again I'm sorry for kind of

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Speaker 3: studying it up weird for you guys as well.

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Speaker 2: You did what you had to do. I'm just glad.

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Speaker 2: I'm just glad you got your answer. And because he

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Speaker 2: obviously would have continue to lie, I make conversation a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he needed to be called out for sure. Good luck.

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Speaker 3: All right, thank you all the double

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Speaker 1: Shows to catch a cheater