1 00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:06,080 Speaker 1: This morning, fifty thousand people hit the streets of the 2 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 1: five boroughs of New York for the most exciting, the 3 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:12,880 Speaker 1: most thrilling, the most prestigious marathon in the world, the 4 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:16,599 Speaker 1: New York City Marathon, And for the first time in years, 5 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 1: Amy Robot and TJ Holmes were not among the runners, 6 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:28,320 Speaker 1: and it caused more of a difficult morning than we anticipated. 7 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:31,920 Speaker 1: And with that, everybody, welcome to this fomo edition of 8 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:35,400 Speaker 1: Amy and TJ. We joke about it and pomos thrown 9 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: around on social media. I really wasn't okay this morning 10 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 1: to not be running the New York City Marathon, knowing 11 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 1: that it was going on, and it actually, as of 12 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:46,279 Speaker 1: this recording, is still going on. 13 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 2: Oh it's tough. It's very tough. And look, we are 14 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 2: so excited for everyone running that race. 15 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 3: It is magical. 16 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 2: There is no day quite like it in this city 17 00:00:57,880 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 2: for sure, and I would argue around the world this 18 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:04,399 Speaker 2: is such an incredible race, not just because of the 19 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:08,840 Speaker 2: phenomenal trek where it takes you over the bridges and 20 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:11,280 Speaker 2: through all five boroughs, but the people who come out 21 00:01:11,319 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 2: to celebrate one another. It's just a beautiful, cohesive, inclusive, 22 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:19,679 Speaker 2: amazing day that we hope to be a part of 23 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:21,840 Speaker 2: as often as possible, but this year. 24 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:24,840 Speaker 3: It was impossible. 25 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:28,319 Speaker 1: To explaining, and we talked a little bit about why 26 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 1: we're not running. But the city. It's the It's a 27 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 1: rare moment in New York City where the entire city 28 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 1: comes together to route on a diverse group of people, 29 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:47,200 Speaker 1: like it doesn't matter where you're from, what your background is, 30 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 1: or people from all over the world obviously all different backgrounds, 31 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 1: and the entire city it's a million they estimate every year, right, 32 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 1: they come out in the streets at least, yes, that 33 00:01:57,240 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 1: and you know this world. Some neighborhoods you go through 34 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:02,920 Speaker 1: you can barely even run down the street because it's 35 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 1: so packed with people cheering you on. Oh I say 36 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:08,800 Speaker 1: that way. The city gives you a collective hug on 37 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 1: that day like nothing else I've experienced in this city. 38 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 1: I love it. 39 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 2: There are neighborhoods in Brooklyn that I want to move 40 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 2: to because they have the most fun. These neighborhood parties 41 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 2: along their brownstones where you're running and people have their 42 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:28,360 Speaker 2: red solo cups with whatever beverage they want inside and 43 00:02:28,400 --> 00:02:30,840 Speaker 2: they are cheering you on. There's music playing there are 44 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 2: bands on the corner. It is amazing. And I always 45 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:36,640 Speaker 2: thought if I didn't run that, somehow I'd end up 46 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:37,639 Speaker 2: at one of those places. 47 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 3: But I think it's it feels. 48 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 2: It feels very sad to not be running it. And 49 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 2: I'm so just in awe of anyone who takes on 50 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 2: that challenge and runs twenty six point two miles. It 51 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 2: is the toughest thing I've ever done, and yet it's 52 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 2: the most alive I've ever felt. 53 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 1: And that's why on a day like today, when you 54 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 1: know this is going on, Look, it's not like any 55 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:09,079 Speaker 1: other marathon in the world. If something happened and we 56 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:11,080 Speaker 1: signed up and weren't able to make it, yeah, that's 57 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:13,360 Speaker 1: a disappointment. But this is a different This is New 58 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 1: York City. This is our home, this is our hometown, 59 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 1: this is where we have participated for years and years 60 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:20,520 Speaker 1: and again. To be sitting here now and not being 61 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: a part of it, and you're able to say it 62 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 1: like I want to go and root them on and 63 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:30,640 Speaker 1: cheer them on. I don't know if maybe you noticed 64 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 1: this morning, I had a brief moment that I put 65 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 1: on for the local coverage of it before it started 66 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:39,600 Speaker 1: turned off. We have not had them. I always have 67 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 1: the TV's on, all of them, got them going. Did 68 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 1: not have a single bit of coverage that was intentional. Like, 69 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 1: it sucks that bad. I don't want to hear about it. 70 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:50,840 Speaker 1: I don't want to see I don't want to know 71 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 1: who ran. I don't want to see a medal. I 72 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 1: don't want to see your Instagram posts. Right, that's just me. 73 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 1: I'm not mad at anybody else, but I am absolutely 74 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 1: just torn to not be out there this year. 75 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I and I hear you because I feel 76 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:08,200 Speaker 2: the same way. But I do think that there are 77 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 2: lessons to be learned, and listening to your body is 78 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 2: among them, and we are now getting to ages where look, 79 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:19,159 Speaker 2: I am grateful to be as healthy as I am 80 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:21,479 Speaker 2: given all of my challenges throughout the years, but even 81 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 2: knowing people and loving people who have. 82 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:28,840 Speaker 4: Back issues, knee issues, hip issues, issues, period where your body, yes, 83 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:31,599 Speaker 4: starts to break down and running is not a is 84 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 4: not a sport for an older generation of folks Now 85 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:38,359 Speaker 4: every marathon I'm always amazed where I see people in 86 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 4: their seventies, eighties, nineties running marathons. 87 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 3: Slowly but doing it. 88 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 2: Have older runner My dad ran Berlin at sixty eight. 89 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:48,360 Speaker 2: I'm so amazed. And the hope is that we can 90 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 2: get to that and be able to enjoy our bodies 91 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:54,880 Speaker 2: and see what they can do for as long as possible. 92 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:58,920 Speaker 2: But sometimes that means sitting it out a year, and 93 00:04:59,080 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 2: that's what this year has become. 94 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I guess two things kept us out. Illness 95 00:05:07,520 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 1: and injury. Illness for you, injury for me, voluntary for you, 96 00:05:13,240 --> 00:05:18,480 Speaker 1: maybe not voluntary for me. We will get into and explain. 97 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 1: But we hopped on and talking here because it goes 98 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:25,479 Speaker 1: in line with our latest article with Yahoo. It was 99 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 1: just posted, that was just put up and which we'll 100 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 1: say it this, We'll put it this way. This is 101 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 1: what the headline. We didn't know our producer was gonna 102 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 1: write this headline, no writer, but this is the way 103 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:35,400 Speaker 1: she put it. And I quote the new headline in 104 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 1: our latest Yahoo article is this, She's fifty two, he's 105 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 1: forty eight. They train for marathons through rain, shine and injuries. 106 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 1: Now these running freaks ask are we doing this right? 107 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:49,799 Speaker 1: And that's the headline. 108 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 2: Do they have to reiterate the fact that I'm four 109 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 2: years older than you? 110 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 1: Um, you better be glad. This was written after my birthday. 111 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:03,600 Speaker 1: That could have staid, she's fifty two, he's forty seven, So. 112 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 2: There's the bright side. But I'm kidding. I don't mind. 113 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:09,599 Speaker 2: We make jokes about it all the time. 114 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:12,359 Speaker 1: But still to the point, let's talk about that for 115 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:15,400 Speaker 1: a second. Fifty two. How many people out there fifty two? Hey, 116 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:19,640 Speaker 1: start training for a marathon? See if you count, how 117 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 1: many at fifty two are going to even attempt such 118 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:24,600 Speaker 1: a thing. Look running as well, But even to think 119 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 1: that someone at fifty two is physically capable should be applauded. 120 00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:30,919 Speaker 1: And no, it's not a negative thing. You use some 121 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:33,480 Speaker 1: clue who I know you are, but there was some celebrity, 122 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 1: it was a woman. It's not a negative thing. It's 123 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 1: like you should say congratulations that you've made it this 124 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:41,120 Speaker 1: far and you are this healthy. You should never ever 125 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:42,240 Speaker 1: look at your age as a negative. 126 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 2: I look at it that clearly. And look, I ran 127 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 2: my first marathon at the age of forty six. So 128 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 2: I always want to tell women and men of any 129 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:52,919 Speaker 2: age it is never too late. Obviously you have to 130 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:55,559 Speaker 2: listen to your body when you have injuries. But short 131 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:58,920 Speaker 2: of that, we limit ourselves. I think we all do it. 132 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:02,839 Speaker 2: I certainly did I loved running always, had never pushed 133 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 2: myself past a ten k and hadn't done a ten 134 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 2: k in a really long time. And it wasn't until 135 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:10,080 Speaker 2: I had cancer and someone suggested, Hey, would you be 136 00:07:10,080 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 2: willing to run a half marathon? And even then I balked. 137 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:14,400 Speaker 2: Even then I only agreed to do half of the 138 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 2: half marathon. And it wasn't until I started recognizing, Wait, 139 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 2: I'm stronger than I think. My body is capable of 140 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:23,320 Speaker 2: doing things I didn't think it could do, and I 141 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 2: just would. I would challenge anyone listening who thinks they 142 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 2: couldn't or can't, because I was one of those people. 143 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:32,240 Speaker 2: I used to say all the time there's no way 144 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:35,320 Speaker 2: I could ever And the end of that was run 145 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 2: a marathon one hundred percent. 146 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 1: Couldn't or can versus have a desire. That's all the 147 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 1: two different things. I mean, it's a lot just and mentally, 148 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 1: I don't want to run a half marathon. Who wants 149 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 1: to do that? What nut would go through that to 150 00:07:47,200 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 1: run a marathon? And god a marathon. So there's a 151 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 1: certain segment of the population that just this ain't their thing, 152 00:07:54,920 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 1: It wasn't mine, got the bug now, can't let it go. 153 00:07:58,600 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 1: Now I'm in tears because I'm missing a mark. 154 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 2: I think the point being is that yes, agreed and 155 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 2: running like my youngest can hates running, and I get that. 156 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:08,240 Speaker 3: That is the thing for a lot of folks. 157 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 2: But whatever it is that you love that physically challenges you, 158 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:14,119 Speaker 2: take it to the next level. 159 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 3: And I just like, at any. 160 00:08:15,960 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 1: Age, if you're already doing it. 161 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 2: Correct because I just I didn't think I could and 162 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 2: I felt safe and I was like, you know what, 163 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:24,800 Speaker 2: I'm good. And it wasn't until my world got rocked 164 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:29,120 Speaker 2: with my unsafeness, with feeling unhealthy, that I started saying, 165 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:31,440 Speaker 2: wait a minute, what could I can see what my 166 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 2: body failed at. I can see where I went wrong, 167 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 2: I can see where things unraveled. But what if I 168 00:08:37,520 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 2: could put it back together? And what if I could 169 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:42,080 Speaker 2: make myself stronger and better? And honestly, it was in 170 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:45,360 Speaker 2: a challenge to myself to be healthier that I thought, 171 00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:48,280 Speaker 2: let's push my body to see what I'm capable of 172 00:08:48,320 --> 00:08:49,400 Speaker 2: and go past those fears. 173 00:08:49,400 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 3: Because truly, for me, yes, I. 174 00:08:50,960 --> 00:08:53,400 Speaker 2: Love running, but I didn't want to run a marathon, 175 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:56,240 Speaker 2: mostly because I was scared to I was scared to try. 176 00:08:56,640 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 3: I was scared to fail. 177 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 2: And I actually made my self believe that I wasn't 178 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:04,480 Speaker 2: able to run one, that I just wasn't strong enough. 179 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 1: That's fair. I think everybody who runs a marathon, what 180 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 1: mile is it that that thing creeps into your mind 181 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 1: you actually don't think you can finish the damn thing. 182 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:15,440 Speaker 1: It's usually around mile twenty. 183 00:09:15,600 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, well after mile twenty, that's when that's when things 184 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:22,440 Speaker 2: start to get a little hairy, right around twenty. 185 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:25,880 Speaker 1: And that happens for everybody because in most seen but 186 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 1: in most training runs, this is a mental thing as well. 187 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:31,560 Speaker 1: You know you have run twenty miles, usually is your 188 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 1: longest training run. Some people don't even do that. But 189 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:36,440 Speaker 1: once you start getting into those numbers, like I'm doing 190 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:37,640 Speaker 1: something I've never done before. 191 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:41,640 Speaker 3: Carry yes, scary and exciting, it. 192 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 1: Is my first one. I remember mile twenty. I got 193 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 1: re energized because wow, I have never run this long before. 194 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:54,960 Speaker 1: So every step I took after mile twenty was another victory, 195 00:09:55,000 --> 00:09:56,880 Speaker 1: another victory, and that carried me on the first one, 196 00:09:57,080 --> 00:09:58,840 Speaker 1: not the second and third when it was a different situation. 197 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:02,679 Speaker 1: But that really did carry me thinking I've never done 198 00:10:02,679 --> 00:10:05,920 Speaker 1: this before. So to your point, whether you decide to 199 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:08,080 Speaker 1: do that today, or you decide to do it at 200 00:10:08,120 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 1: mile or what it happens to you at mile twenty. 201 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 1: It does happen, this moment hits you that Wow, I 202 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 1: am capable of more than I ever thought I was, 203 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 1: and that is intoxicateble. 204 00:10:19,520 --> 00:10:22,400 Speaker 2: I remember being with you on the longest run you 205 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:24,440 Speaker 2: had ever done, which was eight miles and this was 206 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 2: several years ago, and the joy that you had, the 207 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 2: pride that you felt that you did something you didn't 208 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:32,920 Speaker 2: think you either wanted to do or could do. 209 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 3: I don't know what if it was either or both. 210 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:41,040 Speaker 1: Oh it was at the end of eight miles. I 211 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 1: could have run another ten, So to know what I'm 212 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:47,199 Speaker 1: capable of, like, oh, my body can handle this, Oh 213 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:49,600 Speaker 1: my mind can handle Oh it was I was done. 214 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 1: I was hooked. It was over after that. And now 215 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 1: I'm sitting here with you. I am actually in the 216 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 1: middle of at least a minimum two week break from running. 217 00:10:57,840 --> 00:11:01,040 Speaker 1: Shit that I haven't mindful done that in five years. 218 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:04,160 Speaker 1: It's painful, gone on two weeks. I just have not 219 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:06,720 Speaker 1: and I have to for I don't have to, but 220 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:09,200 Speaker 1: for injury reasons. And look some of the questions and 221 00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:11,640 Speaker 1: again you all please check out the article. It's on 222 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 1: Yahoo dot com and the life section. Yes, right now 223 00:11:14,200 --> 00:11:16,160 Speaker 1: and ask game Me and TJ. You can find it 224 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:20,840 Speaker 1: there now. But we got to bounce some of our routine, 225 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:23,000 Speaker 1: some of what we do off of a guy who 226 00:11:23,040 --> 00:11:25,480 Speaker 1: is a big time runner, someone we've run with over 227 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:28,480 Speaker 1: the past several years, Roberto. But we went through several 228 00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:30,520 Speaker 1: things asking him are we doing this right? And we 229 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:32,440 Speaker 1: went through several questions with him. Is it good to 230 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 1: have a friend that you run with? Is it good 231 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:37,559 Speaker 1: to have schedule flexibility, the food, how you fuel and whatnot. 232 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 1: I don't think it's a surprise that people here that 233 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:44,640 Speaker 1: running with someone and having that person. Excuse me, you 234 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 1: always say that being accountable to someone is a big thing. 235 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 1: It's almost a must when you're starting to run. I 236 00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 1: feel it's just it. It keeps you in the game. 237 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:55,199 Speaker 2: Otherwise running is tough enough with like, I would just 238 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:57,920 Speaker 2: say physically and mentally that if you can make an 239 00:11:57,960 --> 00:12:01,000 Speaker 2: excuse you well to void a run. But if you 240 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 2: make a date with a friend or a partner or whomever, 241 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:06,800 Speaker 2: and you are held accountable, you will go and you 242 00:12:06,840 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 2: will show up. 243 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:11,440 Speaker 3: And here's the deal, I guarantee you won't regret it. 244 00:12:13,040 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 1: Never fails. But to the other point about a buddy 245 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 1: as well, that buddy doesn't have to live down the 246 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:20,480 Speaker 1: street in the same town. You can be held accountable 247 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:24,920 Speaker 1: with all the apps now and whatnot. Strava. Hey, you 248 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:26,640 Speaker 1: can see somebody across the country if they did their 249 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:27,880 Speaker 1: run today like they were supposed to me. 250 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:28,680 Speaker 3: It's so funny. 251 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:32,520 Speaker 2: So my oldest has just recently gotten into running, despite 252 00:12:32,600 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 2: years of me trying to get her too, she finally 253 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:36,840 Speaker 2: on her own decided to start. She's been sending me 254 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 2: pictures every day of her runs, but today she was like, hey, mom, 255 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:43,520 Speaker 2: I got really fun kudos from Pop, my dad and 256 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 2: my cousin. And she was excited because when she runs, 257 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:50,920 Speaker 2: she's on the Strava community. Other people, my dad who's 258 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:54,680 Speaker 2: in Georgia and Tatum, who is in California, were cheering 259 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:57,600 Speaker 2: her on and it made her feel excited and happy, 260 00:12:57,640 --> 00:13:00,880 Speaker 2: and it fuels your desire to run because you get 261 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:04,440 Speaker 2: at a boys basically from people who you are in 262 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:07,360 Speaker 2: little running circles with. And so yes, my dad's usually 263 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:09,480 Speaker 2: the first person to give me a it's a kudos 264 00:13:09,920 --> 00:13:12,520 Speaker 2: on Strava, where you get literally. 265 00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:14,840 Speaker 3: A thumbs up it's almost like social media for runners. 266 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:17,360 Speaker 2: Yes, and you basically are just high fiving one another, 267 00:13:17,440 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 2: which I think is so cool. And when I see 268 00:13:20,280 --> 00:13:22,920 Speaker 2: on Strava that my cousin Nick has run, or that 269 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 2: my dad went for a run, or that my cousin tATu, 270 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:28,720 Speaker 2: it motivates me to run. These are all really fun 271 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:31,200 Speaker 2: tools to have a community that you don't have to 272 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:32,280 Speaker 2: live with or nearby. 273 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:34,880 Speaker 1: Yes, it is social media. It's like likes, but these 274 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:36,920 Speaker 1: are for different reasons, and these are ones you actually 275 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:39,320 Speaker 1: want earned. You're getting credit for some you actually did. 276 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:41,840 Speaker 3: Yes, you're on the record. 277 00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:45,320 Speaker 1: So yes, that seems kind of obvious there something. He 278 00:13:45,400 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 1: also got into it with us about schedule flexibility, something 279 00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:51,320 Speaker 1: you're very good about. I'm terrible about. But if you 280 00:13:51,360 --> 00:13:53,720 Speaker 1: are out there, you're running, Yes, you hold yourself accountable, 281 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:56,120 Speaker 1: but give yourself a break if you need, if it's 282 00:13:56,160 --> 00:13:59,200 Speaker 1: an injury one day. We just stick so strictly to 283 00:13:59,280 --> 00:14:04,000 Speaker 1: these schedules that well, I'm terrible about it, you're a 284 00:14:04,040 --> 00:14:04,520 Speaker 1: better round. 285 00:14:04,600 --> 00:14:07,439 Speaker 2: We print out the schedule and then we try to 286 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 2: stick to it for the most part. However, there are 287 00:14:11,240 --> 00:14:13,959 Speaker 2: moments where you have a fun night out or you've 288 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:16,800 Speaker 2: traveled or you just had a shitty night's sleep. 289 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:19,320 Speaker 1: When you, oh, well, schedule says, we're running. 290 00:14:20,480 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 2: I would rather wait a day and be in better form, 291 00:14:24,720 --> 00:14:28,000 Speaker 2: and rather than push myself and be miserable, because you 292 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 2: know what it is. I don't want to hate running, 293 00:14:29,880 --> 00:14:31,440 Speaker 2: and I don't want it to feel obligatory. 294 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 3: I want to enjoy it. And yes, some runs are 295 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:34,480 Speaker 3: more enjoyable than others. 296 00:14:34,560 --> 00:14:36,480 Speaker 2: But if you can just push it a day, it 297 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:38,160 Speaker 2: can make a difference, or push. 298 00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 1: Your night out by a day. How about that. You 299 00:14:40,440 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 1: think about that. It's not making that face. All right, folks, 300 00:14:43,520 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 1: stay with us and we come back. As we talked 301 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 1: about injury and illness. We'll explain exactly what Robot's illness is, 302 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 1: what the solution she's found, and we'll tell you what 303 00:14:52,640 --> 00:14:58,320 Speaker 1: my injury is. Ain't no solution in sight. Also, fomo 304 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:04,280 Speaker 1: is real. Doctors say this can have real impacts on 305 00:15:04,400 --> 00:15:08,520 Speaker 1: your health. We are experiencing it today. Stay here, we'll 306 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:20,360 Speaker 1: tell you just how bad a case we got. All right, 307 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 1: Welcome back everybody, Amy and TJ. We continue here on 308 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:26,760 Speaker 1: a pretty brutal day for a couple of runners who 309 00:15:26,920 --> 00:15:30,440 Speaker 1: have gone. It's been several years now and this is 310 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:33,720 Speaker 1: the first one in a while that we have not 311 00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 1: been in the New York City Marathon, which is continuing 312 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:40,400 Speaker 1: to go as we speak right now. But you had decided, 313 00:15:40,480 --> 00:15:43,800 Speaker 1: how long ago? Was it even a year earlier? This year? 314 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 1: You decided You're gonna sit this one out. 315 00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:46,800 Speaker 3: It was this summer. 316 00:15:47,400 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 2: I had just had so much terrible nausea hit me 317 00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:54,360 Speaker 2: after any run basically that was more than fifteen miles, 318 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:56,920 Speaker 2: and certainly during marathons. 319 00:15:56,680 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 3: And sometimes during even half marathon training. 320 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:03,400 Speaker 2: I got a little so I decided, you know what, 321 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:05,040 Speaker 2: I'm going to give my body a break. My body 322 00:16:05,080 --> 00:16:07,040 Speaker 2: is telling me I have to figure out a solution. 323 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:09,200 Speaker 2: I have to understand why I'm getting so like and 324 00:16:09,240 --> 00:16:12,240 Speaker 2: I'm not just getting nauseated vomiting to the point where 325 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:15,080 Speaker 2: it was affecting our finished times. So it was embarrassing 326 00:16:15,520 --> 00:16:18,080 Speaker 2: and I just felt frustrated by it, and I thought, 327 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:19,840 Speaker 2: you know what, I got to listen to my body. 328 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:20,840 Speaker 3: However, when we did. 329 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:24,880 Speaker 2: The Stockholm half marathon in August August thirty first, I 330 00:16:24,920 --> 00:16:28,840 Speaker 2: felt great the entire time, not one hint of nausea, 331 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:32,400 Speaker 2: and I did think, you know what, maybe I'll run 332 00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:35,400 Speaker 2: New York City because at that point, we were halfway 333 00:16:35,440 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 2: through what would have been our training and a half marathon, 334 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:41,040 Speaker 2: so it timed out perfectly. So I was giving myself 335 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 2: the option to run New York with the training schedule 336 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:46,600 Speaker 2: we were on this summer all. 337 00:16:46,560 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 1: Right, so we were giving ourselves the option. Look, that's 338 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 1: well documented at this point. We've talked about it plenty 339 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:56,120 Speaker 1: of my injuries from last year. Literally, I've had the 340 00:16:56,160 --> 00:16:58,680 Speaker 1: same injury that I got the Chicago Marathon last year. 341 00:16:58,640 --> 00:17:00,840 Speaker 3: And it hasn't really gotten any It's. 342 00:17:01,600 --> 00:17:05,679 Speaker 1: No because I haven't stopped running on it. I've lightened 343 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 1: the load a little bit over the year. But to 344 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 1: your point, after I injured in Chicago, I ran the 345 00:17:09,760 --> 00:17:11,280 Speaker 1: New York City Marathon on it and then went to 346 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:12,760 Speaker 1: a doctor and he told me to stay off of it, 347 00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:14,560 Speaker 1: and then we kept running and then we did. So 348 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:18,040 Speaker 1: I haven't really stopped. So I was planning to do 349 00:17:18,520 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 1: the New York City Marathon, and quite frankly, the only 350 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:25,760 Speaker 1: reason I'm not is because we kind of got crossed 351 00:17:25,800 --> 00:17:27,960 Speaker 1: with our contact over there at New York road Runners. 352 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:30,879 Speaker 1: We didn't get entry because we didn't get a response 353 00:17:30,920 --> 00:17:33,200 Speaker 1: in time. And that's just the truth of the matter, 354 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:35,119 Speaker 1: is that we were going back and forth. It was 355 00:17:35,119 --> 00:17:36,680 Speaker 1: someone that were taking care of us for years. Stewart, 356 00:17:36,720 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 1: we love you, but always got us entry to the 357 00:17:40,119 --> 00:17:42,840 Speaker 1: point we didn't have to send a note. He was like, Yo, 358 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:44,159 Speaker 1: marathon's coming up. 359 00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:48,160 Speaker 2: If Stuart Lieberman hadn't heard from us, he was sending 360 00:17:48,359 --> 00:17:51,159 Speaker 2: like multiple emails a week saying, hey, are you guys 361 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:53,399 Speaker 2: even thinking about running in New York? And from the 362 00:17:53,440 --> 00:17:56,040 Speaker 2: half marathon to the marathon to all of the races 363 00:17:56,119 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 2: he was really really good at even if we were 364 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 2: dragging our our feet a little bit, kind of motivating 365 00:18:01,960 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 2: us to sugg yeh. 366 00:18:03,240 --> 00:18:06,000 Speaker 1: So he was. He's been great for years. Love him. 367 00:18:06,119 --> 00:18:07,720 Speaker 2: Here's the reason why I ran the first one in 368 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:10,119 Speaker 2: twenty nineteen. If Stuart had not kind of pushed a 369 00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:12,359 Speaker 2: little bit and said, hey, Amy, I think you can 370 00:18:12,400 --> 00:18:14,679 Speaker 2: do this, I would not have run my first marathon. 371 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:16,800 Speaker 2: So I have to give him full credit for even 372 00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 2: getting into that first marathon. 373 00:18:19,320 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 3: He kind of he nudged me. 374 00:18:20,920 --> 00:18:23,200 Speaker 1: So you can tell already, folks, the way we are talking, 375 00:18:23,359 --> 00:18:26,640 Speaker 1: we have a sweet spot and a hard for Stuart. 376 00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:29,119 Speaker 1: Stuart Leeberman has been great, but he unfortunately left New 377 00:18:29,160 --> 00:18:31,000 Speaker 1: York road Runners doing his own thing. With this what 378 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:35,200 Speaker 1: was it called the Roat Race. It's really cool, cool, yes, 379 00:18:35,640 --> 00:18:37,560 Speaker 1: but he's out of there and we just don't have 380 00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:40,600 Speaker 1: right now the same relationship so far with the pr folks. 381 00:18:40,720 --> 00:18:43,919 Speaker 1: That's our fault, now, whoever's fault. It is not blaming anybody. 382 00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:45,600 Speaker 1: I'm not getting onto New York road runners. We do 383 00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:48,359 Speaker 1: not deserve and expect you have to have a spot 384 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:50,800 Speaker 1: for us. But quite frankly, something fell through the cracks 385 00:18:50,800 --> 00:18:54,200 Speaker 1: this year, all right, So because it fell through the cracks, 386 00:18:54,640 --> 00:18:58,679 Speaker 1: I'm not running. Had it not, I would have run on. 387 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 3: I think he would have. I would have and I 388 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:03,040 Speaker 3: was pure. I was absolutely. 389 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 2: Planning to cheer you on, and I knew that it 390 00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:09,359 Speaker 2: was going to be difficult not to be running, but 391 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:12,560 Speaker 2: to also be able to watch you do your thing. 392 00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:14,959 Speaker 2: I was like, that's a win win. So now that 393 00:19:15,280 --> 00:19:19,639 Speaker 2: you're not running and I'm not running, it's a tough day. Sucks, 394 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:21,200 Speaker 2: it's a really tough day. 395 00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:26,679 Speaker 1: It's and again it's not pour us anything. It's a 396 00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:28,280 Speaker 1: it's a race, it's a run, it's whatever, but it 397 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:31,359 Speaker 1: is something we are that passionate about that. I didn't 398 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:33,440 Speaker 1: even think today, Robes, you wanted to go out let's 399 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:35,280 Speaker 1: go support runners and do these things and be a 400 00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:38,240 Speaker 1: part of this. And no, I didn't want to. I 401 00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:40,840 Speaker 1: pushed back, having turned the TV on at all. Don't 402 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:43,240 Speaker 1: want to see any of it. And a friend of 403 00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:47,840 Speaker 1: ours who told me he wasn't running actually told me 404 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:49,399 Speaker 1: I need to take a break, need to get out 405 00:19:49,400 --> 00:19:54,040 Speaker 1: of it. Found out from this dude that he last 406 00:19:54,040 --> 00:19:55,880 Speaker 1: second decides he's going to run it. So even that 407 00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:57,000 Speaker 1: that made me feel worse. 408 00:19:57,359 --> 00:19:59,600 Speaker 2: That was because I was like, maybe we can hang 409 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:01,639 Speaker 2: out with him him and we could cheer on the 410 00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:03,320 Speaker 2: runners we're normally running with. 411 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 3: But then to find out he's running too, now it's like. 412 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:08,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, he kind of screwed. He kind of made it worse. 413 00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:11,920 Speaker 1: Left the longest voice memo ever talking about his day. 414 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:14,000 Speaker 3: I'm like you, yeah, this is the last thing I 415 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:14,679 Speaker 3: want to hear right now. 416 00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:17,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, so our friendship is over. But what we're saying 417 00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:20,080 Speaker 1: is it was. And so FOMO, you say this all 418 00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:21,639 Speaker 1: the time, and this is more so a thing for you, 419 00:20:21,720 --> 00:20:24,240 Speaker 1: it's not a thing for me. Sometimes people going out 420 00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:26,719 Speaker 1: places you just have FOMO, They're going to Maurice crisis. 421 00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:29,679 Speaker 3: You got to have all the time, Okay, it always 422 00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:30,280 Speaker 3: have it. 423 00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:34,000 Speaker 1: Is a real thing that therapist doctors do talk about it. 424 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 1: I was pulling some notes from the Cleveland Clinic their 425 00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:39,520 Speaker 1: website and they had a whole article on fomo basically, 426 00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:43,280 Speaker 1: and I had you define it for mess You're. 427 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:44,960 Speaker 3: A missing out. But I just think that. 428 00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:49,840 Speaker 2: It's about belonging and about like, if you have something 429 00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:53,560 Speaker 2: you're passionate about or people who you love hanging out with, 430 00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:57,040 Speaker 2: to know that they're all enjoying it and you're not, 431 00:20:57,720 --> 00:21:00,239 Speaker 2: there's like this feeling of emptiness there. 432 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:03,399 Speaker 1: You get there, it is, you absolutely nailed how they 433 00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:07,360 Speaker 1: it is anxiety. They call it anxiety that an exciting 434 00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:11,040 Speaker 1: or interesting event may currently be happening elsewhere, often aroused 435 00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:16,359 Speaker 1: by posts scene on social media. FOMO. Another definition refers 436 00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:18,840 Speaker 1: to the feeling or perception that other people are having fun, 437 00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 1: experiencing new things, or living a better life than you, 438 00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:23,320 Speaker 1: And right now, fifty thousand people are doing that on 439 00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:26,600 Speaker 1: the streets of New York and that sucks. Now. Doctors 440 00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:30,960 Speaker 1: say this does like heart palpitations, body aches, pains, headaches, 441 00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:35,800 Speaker 1: all the things. Associate it with real anxiety. So this 442 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:38,760 Speaker 1: is a real thing. How do you help people out 443 00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:41,680 Speaker 1: of that? Like they help people out of any other anxiety. Yes, 444 00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:45,520 Speaker 1: some medication, but also some practices. Don't be jealous, be grateful, 445 00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:48,720 Speaker 1: Be grateful of the life you have, Take stock of 446 00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:51,360 Speaker 1: where you are and what you're doing, and be grateful 447 00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:53,359 Speaker 1: that somebody else, maybe somebody you know, is having a 448 00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:55,200 Speaker 1: good experience. And also the other thing. And this was 449 00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:58,679 Speaker 1: the one for me. Rhobes, identify your triggers. If it 450 00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:01,480 Speaker 1: triggers you to see that in hanging out with that 451 00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:04,720 Speaker 1: ex friend of yours, stop getting on social media and 452 00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:08,200 Speaker 1: looking at their things. So my trigger today was seeing 453 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:10,760 Speaker 1: anybody in a pair of shoes and a damn metal 454 00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:12,880 Speaker 1: and a bibs on their chest. 455 00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:17,040 Speaker 2: It's funny because knowing that we weren't running this year, 456 00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:18,880 Speaker 2: like I didn't know you weren't runn until the end, 457 00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:23,680 Speaker 2: and I was actually holding on to my mental situation 458 00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:24,720 Speaker 2: by knowing that I could. 459 00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:25,159 Speaker 3: Cheer you on. 460 00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:27,320 Speaker 2: So I was like, that'll be fine, Like to watch 461 00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:30,040 Speaker 2: him do it will be like it'll make it better 462 00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:33,080 Speaker 2: for me. To know that you weren't doing it made 463 00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:36,560 Speaker 2: it so much sadder to me. But then like even 464 00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:38,840 Speaker 2: seeing all the marathons leading up to the New York 465 00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:41,159 Speaker 2: City Marathon that people I know and believe me. We 466 00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:43,679 Speaker 2: run in a running circle, so we know all of 467 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:46,760 Speaker 2: the usual folks who love to run. Even seeing their 468 00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:51,560 Speaker 2: marathon like finish lines or times or whatever leading up 469 00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:54,040 Speaker 2: to it was actually gutting to me too, because I 470 00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:58,560 Speaker 2: knew we didn't have one, but or like one that 471 00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:00,880 Speaker 2: we were already signed up for. The point being is 472 00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:07,119 Speaker 2: to learn to appreciate, yes, health and just we're putting 473 00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:10,080 Speaker 2: health first right so that we can run later and longer, 474 00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:13,520 Speaker 2: and that can be a lesson for other things in life. 475 00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:16,520 Speaker 2: You can't always have things when you want it, how 476 00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:19,679 Speaker 2: you want it, but you can appreciate what you do have, 477 00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:22,640 Speaker 2: appreciate other people enjoying it, and know that you can 478 00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:24,360 Speaker 2: make plans in the future. 479 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:27,399 Speaker 1: It never seems like it when you're going through it, 480 00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:32,240 Speaker 1: but things work out and more often than not for 481 00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:36,640 Speaker 1: the best. So this was forced upon us this year, 482 00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:40,840 Speaker 1: and I'm already excited about the possibilities for next year. So, yes, 483 00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:44,280 Speaker 1: it sucks to not be out there. It's not the 484 00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:46,359 Speaker 1: end of the world, but it means a lot to us, 485 00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:47,760 Speaker 1: and this day means a lot to this city, and 486 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 1: it sucks not to be a part of it today. 487 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:53,119 Speaker 1: But yes, we are rooting on every body out there 488 00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:54,480 Speaker 1: because we know what it takes to be out there. 489 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:57,160 Speaker 3: Oh and because this is the day that you celebrate. 490 00:23:57,600 --> 00:24:02,280 Speaker 2: This is the day that you actually get to recognize 491 00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:04,639 Speaker 2: how strong you are, and all the training runs that 492 00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:06,639 Speaker 2: lead up to it. That's the work, right, that's and 493 00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:08,360 Speaker 2: so we know what it takes to be out there 494 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:12,160 Speaker 2: today running those five burrows. The amount of blood, sweat 495 00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:15,760 Speaker 2: and tears folks have put in to get to this day. 496 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:18,280 Speaker 2: A lot of people are running their first marathon ever, 497 00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:20,400 Speaker 2: and I'm so excited for them because that is the 498 00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:24,600 Speaker 2: most amazing day ever when you run your first marathon. 499 00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:27,520 Speaker 2: But for anyone listening out there, it doesn't have to 500 00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:29,520 Speaker 2: be running. But if you are a runner, like run 501 00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:32,639 Speaker 2: your first five k, run your first ten k, sign 502 00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:35,720 Speaker 2: up right now. In fact, I have tabs open right 503 00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:39,480 Speaker 2: now for a couple half marathons and even the London 504 00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:42,959 Speaker 2: Marathon twenty twenty six, like looking like wanting to see, Okay, 505 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:47,280 Speaker 2: what can I put down and sign up for, so 506 00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:50,600 Speaker 2: that there is real excitement about building towards the future. 507 00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:53,479 Speaker 2: But one thing, First of all, I know it's not 508 00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:55,600 Speaker 2: what you wanted, but I'm actually so grateful you're not 509 00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:58,520 Speaker 2: running today because I hope that it means that you 510 00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:01,680 Speaker 2: can actually enjoy your your runs and not be in pain. 511 00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:04,080 Speaker 2: You've been in pain for a year, and I've watched 512 00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:07,120 Speaker 2: you be in pain for a year. So I'm actually 513 00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:10,960 Speaker 2: really excited that you're giving yourself a break. And I 514 00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:15,720 Speaker 2: know it's really hard, but it's going to pay tenfold, 515 00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:16,919 Speaker 2: one hundredfold. 516 00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:19,520 Speaker 3: And I was also going to say this, I was surprised. 517 00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:21,840 Speaker 3: I don't know if you were that. 518 00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:26,520 Speaker 2: Roberto said, most people who have running buddies, it's not 519 00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:27,240 Speaker 2: their partner. 520 00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:30,840 Speaker 3: Were you surprised by that? 521 00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:41,560 Speaker 1: Not really? Quite? Frankly, we're not like the others. I'll 522 00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:44,840 Speaker 1: be honest with you there. I am. You and I 523 00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:47,359 Speaker 1: trained together. We run together. I am a faster runner. 524 00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:51,680 Speaker 1: I have to slow down incredibly to stay with you 525 00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:55,119 Speaker 1: in a training run or a race. I would have 526 00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:58,720 Speaker 1: prs out the wazoo. But it's important to me that 527 00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:00,920 Speaker 1: we stay together. We do this together. We went through 528 00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:03,800 Speaker 1: this training together, and we're gonna cross the finish line together. 529 00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:07,240 Speaker 1: So no, I am that's probably freakistion. People think that's odd, 530 00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:11,919 Speaker 1: and that's okay. If you tell me that our relationship 531 00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:15,920 Speaker 1: isn't going like others and with that, folks, we always 532 00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:19,320 Speaker 1: appreciate you hanging with us. We're fine, We're gonna make 533 00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:22,160 Speaker 1: it through the day, okay, but just want to hop 534 00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:25,160 Speaker 1: off until everybody have a great day, find you some inspiration, 535 00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:27,840 Speaker 1: push yourself a little bit, and by all means continue 536 00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:34,240 Speaker 1: to don't call runners freaks. They are very, very special 537 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:38,679 Speaker 1: and different people and with that we always appreciate you 538 00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:40,520 Speaker 1: spend as some time with us side DJ Holmes, the 539 00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:43,400 Speaker 1: behalf of my dear running partner, and your robot will 540 00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:43,760 Speaker 1: compie