1 00:00:01,560 --> 00:00:04,520 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, This is the question from Steve HARVEYFM 2 00:00:04,559 --> 00:00:07,400 Speaker 1: dot com. This woman says, I'm a fifty eight year 3 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:10,479 Speaker 1: old female and my name is Mattie. I've been with 4 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 1: my significant other for eight years and when we started dating, 5 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 1: he said his love life was complicated and he did 6 00:00:17,560 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 1: not want to rush into a marriage. Over the years, 7 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 1: I teased him about marrying me, and he would tell 8 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 1: me it's too complicated. He's been in the hospital for 9 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 1: a few days with an infection, and his mother and 10 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:32,919 Speaker 1: sister have been at his bedside. I felt like he 11 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 1: didn't need me. Then he said he would love me, 12 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:37,880 Speaker 1: love for me to move in with him when he 13 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 1: gets out of the hospital. Do I move in and 14 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:43,720 Speaker 1: play wifey with him or tell him it's complicated? 15 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:48,200 Speaker 2: Well, you know when you think you about the dad, 16 00:00:49,880 --> 00:00:53,279 Speaker 2: you know you have a lot of I love you, 17 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 2: I want to deal with you. You got to see 18 00:00:56,160 --> 00:01:00,280 Speaker 2: how I feel when you get out the hospital. You 19 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 2: need to You need to find out really what he 20 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 2: in there for. And then you just need real clarity 21 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:10,920 Speaker 2: on it's complicated. Is he still married married? 22 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 3: Yeah? 23 00:01:12,240 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 2: Legally and so forth and so on, and you deserve 24 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:18,520 Speaker 2: the right to know. Stop all this kidding around with 25 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 2: him with all this here mess. Get some fact Google search, 26 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 2: and get busy. You know, he might be the right 27 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,959 Speaker 2: dude for you might be able to uncomplicate his situation, 28 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:33,959 Speaker 2: but you need all the information to be able to 29 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:36,040 Speaker 2: do that. That's all I'm saying. I hope your man 30 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:37,080 Speaker 2: get out the hospital. 31 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 3: Let's tell you what I. 32 00:01:40,120 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 1: Know. 33 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:42,679 Speaker 2: But you're not gonna come over here and stay in 34 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:44,959 Speaker 2: this house if you need Washington all that. That's not 35 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 2: what you're not doing well. I'm not going to be 36 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 2: turning your flipping your Washington heat up rags and going 37 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 2: to cleaning them all this here that you and draws 38 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 2: on it that bad puts it. They just load it 39 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 2: up every two days. I'm find out what this sickness is. 40 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 2: A wife sitting there? What do he need a wife 41 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 2: or a nurse. 42 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:10,800 Speaker 1: It's an infection, she said, it's an infection. She didn't 43 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:11,080 Speaker 1: say what. 44 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:13,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that sounds like Washington. 45 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:17,119 Speaker 2: Find out why while you're staying there long enough where 46 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:18,919 Speaker 2: he go to sleep, and then when you go to sleep, 47 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:20,880 Speaker 2: go down at the foot of that bed and get 48 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 2: that chart. She sell some information. Take pictures of the 49 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:26,639 Speaker 2: chart so you can study it at home. 50 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 1: Terms are electronic now they're digital. 51 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 3: They ain't got no clipboard at the end of the bed. 52 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:36,640 Speaker 3: No more. Well, last time I was in the hospital. 53 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 3: What they they've been together eight years? Eight years? 54 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:47,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, so she would that would he was sick If 55 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 1: they've been dating for eight years right here, that's a 56 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:50,919 Speaker 1: long time. 57 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 2: You don't know nothing, she said. The mom and his 58 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 2: sister down there, she ain't been down there. 59 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 1: I wonder how old he is. She's fifty eight. 60 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:04,919 Speaker 3: No, he got the infection. What he wanted to move in. 61 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 3: He wanted to move in. 62 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 1: So, yeah, he's in the seventies. 63 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:12,919 Speaker 3: He about seven. You know, everybody just flies me. He didn't. 64 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 2: He could be just a regular sixty six and over there, 65 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:21,639 Speaker 2: just over there, just win it. 66 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 3: It got it. Uh, it's got an infection. 67 00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:26,679 Speaker 2: So if you got an infection, that sounded like washing, 68 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 2: because you've gotta keep that area clean, you know, you 69 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 2: gotta well, you know, he probably stepped on the nail 70 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 2: or something, and he didn't get his technical the technical 71 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 2: left respect. He's just everything about talking about taking his 72 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:49,840 Speaker 2: left foot. Yeah, that's how bad the infection is. Because 73 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 2: he stepped on the foot on the wood over with 74 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 2: the right shoe. 75 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, but the right shoe right. 76 00:03:57,200 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 2: Gonna be a bad operation. Then they're gonna have to 77 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 2: go take the right one. So now he ain't got 78 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 2: no feeding, so nice. 79 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 3: I see it going all bad. He just sitting up 80 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 3: in there. 81 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 1: But if he's seventy something like you say, his mother 82 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 1: and his sister have been at his bedside. 83 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:13,920 Speaker 3: How old are they? 84 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 1: Hold? 85 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 3: Are they? Yeah? Hold? Is mama probably. 86 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 1: Ninety sitting by? 87 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 3: Or is she in their sleep? Most of the time 88 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 3: she ain't seen the doctor yet every time they come 89 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 3: in she sleep. Well. 90 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:38,039 Speaker 1: Thank you for clearing all of that up, sir. You're 91 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:40,359 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.