1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:05,640 Speaker 1: Let us pray, and Jacob said, swear to me this day, 2 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:09,560 Speaker 1: and he swear unto him, and he sold his birthright 3 00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 1: unto Jacob Genesis twenty five thirty three. Dear Lord, through 4 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:19,079 Speaker 1: the eyes of this text, thank you for opening my 5 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:23,119 Speaker 1: eyes to ways of being that could derail my future. 6 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:28,280 Speaker 1: I declare that I will be mindful, to cherish and 7 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 1: to honor the inheritance you have for me as your child. 8 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:35,960 Speaker 1: I decree that I will not settle and sell myself 9 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 1: short for the things in life that offer temporary pleasure 10 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 1: and relief. Like Esau, help me, Lord to stay mindful 11 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 1: and sober when it comes to the schemes of the enemy. 12 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 1: I will guard my future and my promise with wisdom 13 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 1: and wise counsel. I will not compromise my stance or 14 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:05,039 Speaker 1: my value when opportunity is within reach. Instead, I will 15 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 1: hold fast to that which belongs to me, for I 16 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 1: know that you are my provider, Heavenly Father. Man can 17 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 1: only give what you allow. From this moment on, I 18 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:24,320 Speaker 1: guard what's mine. I stay alert at all times, and 19 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: I wait for my promise to come to pass. In Jesus' name, Amen, 20 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 1: thanks for making prayer a priority in your life to 21 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 1: hear the Bible come to life. Stay tuned for the 22 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:41,920 Speaker 1: Bible in a Year, brought to you by Bible in 23 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 1: a Year dot com. 24 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 2: Esau's Birthright before this story, we learned about Sarah passing 25 00:01:57,360 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 2: away and God's faithfulness to continue his promises through Isaac. 26 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 2: He provided Isaac with a wife, Rebecca, and the two 27 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:09,680 Speaker 2: loved one another deeply. Now we will learn about the 28 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 2: passing of Abraham and Isaac and Rebeccah's sons, Jacob and Esau, 29 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 2: as inspired by the Book of Genesis. 30 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 3: Hello, I'm Pastor Jack Graham with today's episode of the 31 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:27,680 Speaker 3: Bible in a Year podcast. In our previous passage, we 32 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 3: learned of Sarah's passing and Abraham's quest to find a 33 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:34,240 Speaker 3: wife for Isaac, his son, a woman to help him 34 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 3: carry on the family line and fulfill God's prophecy regarding 35 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 3: Abraham's descendants. Today we come to the end of Abraham's life. 36 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 3: Far from being a perfect man, he was full of contradictions, 37 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 3: faith and failings, trust and trepidation. God has been with 38 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:53,639 Speaker 3: him through it all, however, never wavering in his promise. 39 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 3: Now his legacy is established, Abraham is ready to go 40 00:02:57,720 --> 00:03:01,359 Speaker 3: to the heavenly Father is how as he knows his 41 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 3: time is nearing, Abraham continues to lead his family, seeking 42 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 3: to establish for them a future and a fulfillment of 43 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:13,079 Speaker 3: God's plan. You'll hear how two brothers, Isaac and Ishmael, 44 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:16,720 Speaker 3: come together for the sake of honoring their father. We'll 45 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 3: then hear about Isaac and Rebecca and a story that 46 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 3: in many ways echoes that of Isaac's father and mother. 47 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:26,639 Speaker 3: The struggle to bear children, the patient waiting on God 48 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 3: until finally God grants their greatest desire, but not just 49 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 3: one child. God gave them twin boys. And as you 50 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 3: probably have come to expect by now, when brothers are involved, 51 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 3: strife is not far behind. Today's passage is no different. 52 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 3: But listen as the struggles start before Rebecca even gives birth. 53 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 3: This will not be a harmonious relationship, but it is 54 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 3: made even worse by the parents who each choose a favorite. 55 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 3: The seeds are being sown early for a difficult relationship 56 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 3: and a conflict that divides a family. This theme of 57 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:06,200 Speaker 3: close family conflict is one that keeps getting repeated, and 58 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 3: it's one that many of us know all too well 59 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 3: from personal experience. What can we learn from this story 60 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 3: to help us in our own situations with our own families. 61 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:22,480 Speaker 3: Let's listen to today's passage and see. 62 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:23,839 Speaker 2: In the last years of Abraham's life, he was married 63 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 2: to a woman named Katura, a young woman who bore 64 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 2: him six sons. Abraham was blessed in his final years, 65 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 2: getting to see more of God's promises unfold before his eyes. 66 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 2: When he knew the time was near, he gathered gifts 67 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:43,479 Speaker 2: for his wife and sons and commissioned them to the 68 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 2: east to be fruitful and start their own families. Yet 69 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:51,920 Speaker 2: Isaac was to remain in his land with Rebecca. Abraham, 70 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 2: the father of nations and God's chosen inheritor of the Covenant, 71 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 2: departed from the earth at age one hundred seventy five. 72 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:05,279 Speaker 2: His life was filled with riches and woes, peaks and valleys, 73 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:09,599 Speaker 2: faith and failure. His life was a beacon of hope 74 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 2: to all those who follow God, and proof that the 75 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 2: Lord keeps his promises despite our foolishness. After Abraham had passed, 76 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:23,159 Speaker 2: Ishmael returned to his brother Isaac, and the two buried 77 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 2: him together beside Sarah. The God of Abraham looked to 78 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:33,400 Speaker 2: Isaac and became the God of Isaac. The promised covenant 79 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 2: given to Abraham was passed to Isaac, and he would 80 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:40,279 Speaker 2: bless Isaac and his descendants as he did with his father. 81 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 2: Twenty years of marriage had passed for Isaac and Rebeccah. 82 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:49,040 Speaker 2: The two lived in the love of the Lord and 83 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 2: one another, expanding their land and influence. Yet Rebeccah, in 84 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:59,000 Speaker 2: twenty years, was unable to have children. The two found 85 00:05:59,080 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 2: themselves in a similar situation as Abraham and Sarah once did. 86 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:07,040 Speaker 2: Yet they waited on the Lord and trusted in him 87 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:11,599 Speaker 2: to provide. They came before God daily, waiting for him 88 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 2: to move. They knew he would, and he did. When 89 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:22,040 Speaker 2: Isaac and his wife Rebecca had reached twenty years of marriage, 90 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 2: Isaac prayed to God that she would become pregnant because 91 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 2: she was unable to bear children. God blessed Rebecca and 92 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 2: answered Isaac's prayer. That is when Rebecca became pregnant with 93 00:06:34,880 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 2: twin boys. Lord, what is happening to me, she prayed. 94 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:43,680 Speaker 2: The Lord responded, you have the makings of two nations 95 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:47,479 Speaker 2: inside you. Two people groups will come from the children 96 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 2: in your womb. One will be stronger and the older 97 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:55,040 Speaker 2: will serve the younger. As the Lord had promised, Rebecca 98 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:59,599 Speaker 2: became pregnant. A few months into pregnancy, Rebeccah felt a 99 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:03,719 Speaker 2: resting in her womb. Concerned, she asked the Lord what 100 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 2: was happening to her. The Lord prophesied over her and 101 00:07:08,080 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 2: told her that she was having twins. He said, you 102 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 2: have the makings of two nations inside you, two people 103 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:19,160 Speaker 2: groups that will be divided. One shall be stronger than 104 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 2: the other, and the older will serve the younger. Rebecca 105 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 2: kept these things close to her heart, for she would 106 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:30,400 Speaker 2: watch them unfold as her children grew older. When Rebecca 107 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 2: came to term and gave birth to her twins, she 108 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 2: was surprised to see the oldest baby was red and 109 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 2: his whole body was covered in hair. She named him Esau. 110 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 2: The second child came out grasping the heel of his 111 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:48,960 Speaker 2: brother Esau. They named him Jacob, which means heel grabber. 112 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 2: Isaac was sixty years old when Esau and Jacob were born, 113 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 2: and the two children grew up together in the promises 114 00:07:56,760 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 2: of God. Esau grew up to be a sa skilled hunter. 115 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 2: He was a man of the field, strong and filled 116 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:07,680 Speaker 2: with dignity. He often left for weeks to find meat 117 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:10,640 Speaker 2: for the family and became skilled in the craft of 118 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 2: hunting and killing. Jacob grew up to be a mild 119 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 2: and quiet man, spending most of his time with his 120 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:21,440 Speaker 2: mother among the tents away from the elements. Esau was 121 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 2: loved by his father because he was a provider and 122 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 2: hunted wild a game, and the first born son, therefore 123 00:08:29,080 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 2: he was the inheritor of Isaac's birthright. Jacob was loved 124 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 2: by his mother. Yet Jacob's mildness was not to be 125 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:41,200 Speaker 2: mistaken for weakness. Jacob was a man of ambition and wit. 126 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:45,559 Speaker 2: His clever tongue and opportunistic attitude would be overlooked by 127 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 2: his father and brother, to both their humiliation. Esau once 128 00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:54,680 Speaker 2: returned from weeks out in the wilderness. He was hunting, traveling, 129 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 2: and running towards the point of exhaustion. Starvation had led 130 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 2: him back home and near the point of death. He 131 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 2: stumbled his way back to camp. Jacob was awaiting his 132 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:10,200 Speaker 2: brother with a fresh pot of stew simmering on the fire. Esau, 133 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:15,080 Speaker 2: gasping out of starvation, groveled towards Jacob, saying, let me 134 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 2: eat some of that red stew, for I am exhausted, Jacob, 135 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:22,720 Speaker 2: with a sly grin that can barely be seen through 136 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:26,599 Speaker 2: the smoke of the fire, said, sell me your birthright. 137 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:32,079 Speaker 2: Confused and exhausted, Esau said, what use is a birthright 138 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:34,960 Speaker 2: to me? If I am about to die? Swear it 139 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 2: to me, Jacob said swiftly. So Esau swore over his 140 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 2: birthright to Jacob and ate of the stew. Jacob prepared ravenously, 141 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:48,200 Speaker 2: devouring the red stew. Esau was the first victim of 142 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:53,120 Speaker 2: Jacob's ambition. He ate and drank, and then went his way. 143 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:58,679 Speaker 2: Ever since, Esau despised his place in life in bitterness 144 00:09:58,720 --> 00:10:02,960 Speaker 2: would be the bond between Esau and Jacob for years after. 145 00:10:06,880 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 3: We opened the story today with Abraham remarrying his wife, 146 00:10:10,320 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 3: giving him more sons. These will not be the men 147 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 3: who will make up the great nation of Israel, but 148 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 3: as sons they would be blessed and fruitful. Before we 149 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:21,320 Speaker 3: move on to their story, I want to point out 150 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:25,559 Speaker 3: something that happens when Abraham dies. Isaac does not bury 151 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:29,200 Speaker 3: his father alone. He is joined by a familiar character 152 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 3: who we last saw wandering in the wilderness with his 153 00:10:32,640 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 3: mother after he mocked a young Isaac in jealousy. Ishmael 154 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:42,720 Speaker 3: returns and, together with Isaac, buried their father. This relationship, 155 00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:46,680 Speaker 3: which was so strained beyond repair, really is at the 156 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:49,440 Speaker 3: very least able to be reconciled for a time to 157 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:53,240 Speaker 3: lay their father to rest. You may be living through 158 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 3: a very difficult situation today, or having experienced one where 159 00:10:57,160 --> 00:11:02,120 Speaker 3: it seems there is no reconciliation possible. But with God, 160 00:11:02,559 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 3: all things are possible. And today we see these two 161 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:08,760 Speaker 3: brothers who you may never have expected to speak again, 162 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 3: coming together to honor their father, Righteous Abraham, a man 163 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:17,160 Speaker 3: who left each with a powerful legacy of faith in God. 164 00:11:18,080 --> 00:11:22,079 Speaker 3: And then there is this Isaac and Rebeccah. Like Abraham 165 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 3: and Sarah, must wait for many years for a child, 166 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 3: but they remain faithful, and after twenty years, Isaac goes 167 00:11:29,480 --> 00:11:32,280 Speaker 3: to God and ask him to give Rebeccah a child, 168 00:11:32,360 --> 00:11:36,560 Speaker 3: and the Lord answers, so she becomes pregnant with twins. 169 00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:41,839 Speaker 3: Earliest obvious that the brothers will be at odds. Even 170 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 3: in the womb they wrestle with one another. They couldn't 171 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:48,480 Speaker 3: be more different. Esau, the oldest, is a powerful hunter, 172 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 3: a man of the land. Jacob is mild and peaceful, 173 00:11:51,600 --> 00:11:55,320 Speaker 3: not made for outdoor living. He is also cunning and 174 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:59,080 Speaker 3: sharp witted. But the real problems arise because of the 175 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:02,360 Speaker 3: attitude of the pair. Listen to what Genesis twenty five 176 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:06,440 Speaker 3: twenty eight says now, Isaac loved Esau because he had 177 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 3: a taste for game, but Rebecca loved Jacob. Sibling rivalries 178 00:12:12,720 --> 00:12:17,760 Speaker 3: are common and maybe even expected, but when parents play favorites, 179 00:12:17,960 --> 00:12:22,240 Speaker 3: the results are disastrous. You shouldn't be surprised to see 180 00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 3: now that Jacob tricks Esau, his brother, to give up 181 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:29,480 Speaker 3: his birthright for a bowl of stew. This birthright would 182 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 3: have given Esau claim to a much larger portion of 183 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 3: his father's estate. This was his right as the firstborn son. 184 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 3: But in his hunger and exhaustion, and in his inattention 185 00:12:40,840 --> 00:12:44,040 Speaker 3: and in his self indulgence, he gave it all away 186 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:46,960 Speaker 3: for something that lasted no more than a day, a 187 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:50,320 Speaker 3: bowl of food. We should be very careful not to 188 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:53,240 Speaker 3: give up the treasures of God for the pleasures of man. 189 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:57,880 Speaker 3: Jacob took advantage of his brother, and his own selfish 190 00:12:57,880 --> 00:13:01,760 Speaker 3: ambition took hold in his heart. This was the first, 191 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:05,319 Speaker 3: but certainly not the last, of his injuries to Isaac. 192 00:13:06,480 --> 00:13:09,319 Speaker 3: As the story goes on, these brothers would just as 193 00:13:09,360 --> 00:13:13,000 Speaker 3: God told Rebecca, being a lifelong struggle with each other. 194 00:13:13,520 --> 00:13:16,640 Speaker 3: It was a struggle with no real winners, and at 195 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:19,560 Speaker 3: the center of this are two parents who chose to 196 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 3: pick a side and choose a child that they love 197 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:25,960 Speaker 3: more than the other. We will continue to see the 198 00:13:26,040 --> 00:13:29,600 Speaker 3: downward spiral of this relationship and the explosive consequence of 199 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:33,960 Speaker 3: Jacob's deceit in our next passage. Dear Lord, thank you 200 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 3: for this story that shows us how we can mend 201 00:13:35,960 --> 00:13:39,840 Speaker 3: relationships as in the case of Isaac and Ishmael. And 202 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:42,160 Speaker 3: thank you for the story of Jacob and Esau because 203 00:13:42,160 --> 00:13:44,720 Speaker 3: it teaches us how we can avoid the danger of 204 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:50,200 Speaker 3: favoritism among parents and the destructive effects of unresolved conflicts 205 00:13:50,200 --> 00:13:53,679 Speaker 3: among siblings. Help us to apply these lessons to our 206 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:59,440 Speaker 3: own lives and relationships. 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