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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becka Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast Hello everybody,

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Speaker 1: we are scrubbing in.

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Speaker 2: Well, Donia's on an elevator over there.

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Speaker 1: I'll have you know that I actually was going to

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Speaker 1: put on my black Alice sweats this morning, Like I

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Speaker 1: had them like pulled out, ready to go, and I

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Speaker 1: was like, we're in the middle of a heat wave.

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Speaker 1: Yeah we are. I know if I show up in

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Speaker 1: the podcast to the podcast with my black sweat set,

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Speaker 1: it's not gonna be well received. So I changed.

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't have thought twice about it. Really, you've done

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Speaker 3: it before, You've had a puffer on in this heat.

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Speaker 4: Wave, I would have said something, Yeah, Yeah, I.

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Speaker 1: Think the puffer era is over. I think I've retired

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Speaker 1: it forever for the year. For the year. I haven't

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Speaker 1: worn it once this year and I and now that

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Speaker 1: it's ninety degrees, I think.

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Speaker 2: You can let it go for a how Yeah.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna stay in the closet all right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, stay tuned for an update on that.

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Speaker 1: Exclusive.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we are in a heat wave. I love it personally,

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Speaker 3: but it's great. Yeah, it's just you know, but you

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Speaker 3: don't like it.

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Speaker 1: No, Well, the nineties nineties, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 3: But if I had to choose between freezing cold and

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Speaker 3: nineties and sunny, I'm choosing nineties and so.

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Speaker 1: March you would, yeah, March. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I do wish there was a little transition from into spring,

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Speaker 3: spring to summer, but we just jumped straight to summer,

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Speaker 3: which is fine.

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Speaker 2: You know, we're in southern California, which makes me worried.

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Speaker 1: For the summer. A little worried for the summertime. There's

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Speaker 1: no need to worry. Worry is just wasted time. Ain't

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Speaker 1: that the truth it is. I'm really trying to be

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Speaker 1: more like present. Oh that's beautiful. It's the hardest thing

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Speaker 1: I've ever had to do in my life. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I'm doing that with Haley right now too, being present, well,

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Speaker 3: her needing to be present.

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Speaker 1: You're right, Yeah, your present is present? About me is

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Speaker 1: I'm I might be living in the past. Actually, I'm

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Speaker 1: so present. One thing you're not is future thinking.

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Speaker 2: I'm delayed.

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Speaker 1: If anything. Some may I argue was healthy, and I agree.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, my cortisol levels are perfectly potentially low. In fact,

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Speaker 3: today I walked in we had moved the podcast from

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Speaker 3: twelve to twelve fifteen. I walked into the studio empty,

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Speaker 3: just me, first time it's ever happened, and it said

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Speaker 3: twelve six I watched the clock turn to twelve sixteen

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Speaker 3: and I was still alone, and I said, well, I

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Speaker 3: have to bring it up and I documented it, so

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Speaker 3: proof mighty eighty HD didn't stop me today.

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Speaker 1: So you got here at twelve fifteen earlier.

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Speaker 2: I think twelve fourteen is when I arrived.

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Speaker 3: Actually I dropped Phoebe off at the groomer and it

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Speaker 3: was a faster process than I thought. So I got

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Speaker 3: here so early that I pulled off on the side

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Speaker 1: To scroll and scrolled. Whoa, I had a like little

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Speaker 1: scroll sash. Wow. Yeah, I do apologize. Why did you

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Speaker 1: How did you know that I scrolled?

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Speaker 3: That's such a specific choice to make, and I thought

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Speaker 1: Weird because I was early to my acupuncture appointment. I

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Speaker 1: sat in the parking lot and scrolled. That's so funny,

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Speaker 1: because I know they don't take me early. They take

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Speaker 1: me like right on the now. So I was like,

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Speaker 1: I either just sit up there and I can't scroll

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Speaker 1: because it needs to be quiet, yeah, or I sit

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Speaker 1: in my car. Yeah. Okay, okay, So anyways, I yeah,

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Speaker 1: I scrolled yeah Wow. Well, I knew I was gonna

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Speaker 1: had to go to the acupuncture. It was an emergency

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Speaker 1: and so I I knew it was gonna take me

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Speaker 1: I really cut it tight there.

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Speaker 3: So Tanya sends a Texans like can we move the

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Speaker 3: podcast a tool fifteen?

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Speaker 2: I'm like, why say anything?

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Speaker 3: Like that's normal, literally my normal time, and now you're

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Speaker 3: potentially pushing me back into other ten minutes.

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Speaker 1: Because I didn't want to, on the off chance that

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Speaker 2: You know you'd hear about it. It was really a double

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Speaker 1: It felt nasty to not say it, to not ask

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Speaker 1: because I knew I wasn't going to be here at noon.

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Speaker 3: People do that to me, really, they told me, and yeah,

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Speaker 3: they just they don't tell me the right time so

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Speaker 3: that I show up on time.

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Speaker 1: Dang, and that's something I.

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Speaker 3: Need to look inward about. You know, did you watch

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Speaker 3: the Oscars last night?

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Speaker 1: I did not watch the Oscars last night. I mean

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Speaker 1: that's fine.

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Speaker 2: I would say what I saw of it was not that.

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Speaker 1: Newsworthy. I just, for some reason this award season, was

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Speaker 1: not into the movies. Like I think I like the

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Speaker 1: Golden Globes and the Grammys because I'm into like music

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Speaker 1: and television. But movies, I'm realizing, and maybe it's my

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Speaker 1: attention span. Yes, they're all so freaking long. Yeah, like

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Speaker 3: You know what I've noticed is like you can tell

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Speaker 3: an Oscar nom Yeah, and they're unfortunately just a little

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Speaker 3: too over my head or deep or serious or artistic

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Speaker 1: The movie is How to Lose a Guy in Ten

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Speaker 1: Days and he's just not that into you. So what

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Speaker 1: am I doing watching Bogonia? You know what? I was

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Speaker 1: good though, I had to do.

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Speaker 4: But it's very good.

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Speaker 1: Who mind to watch if I have like that kick?

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Speaker 1: You you know, like it's just I think my palette is

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Speaker 1: just a little bit different.

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Speaker 2: Simple simple for these intellects.

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Speaker 1: I'm watching Extract on Netflix. Okay, so let's just call

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Speaker 1: a Space of Faith.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're watching Age of Attraction just so you know

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Speaker 3: where are Uh.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean Haley is a lot more like she

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Speaker 1: she's a cinema cinephile. Cinephile. Yeah, is that someone who

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Speaker 1: like to watch movies?

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Speaker 4: That's yeah, it's not someone who with movies.

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Speaker 1: In case you're winder, Yeah, yeah, it sounds a little provocative.

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Speaker 4: With how did Hayley feel about the winners? I'm curious?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, wait, so wait, you guys like went to watch

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Speaker 1: the Oscars at a party?

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, oh we went to after parties,

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Speaker 3: but we don't.

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Speaker 1: We watched the Oscars at home.

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Speaker 3: Oh oh, but they do have the Elton John view

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Speaker 3: of you party. But w to know, we went to

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Speaker 3: the after party. So we went to the Elton John

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Speaker 3: after party and then we went to the Focus Features

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Speaker 1: So the Oscars were at five pm. You watched cover Oh.

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Speaker 3: I know, we thought they started it five, but we

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Speaker 3: turned it on and it was already going.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you like loosely watched the Oscars and then

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Speaker 1: what time did you leave the.

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Speaker 2: House to go out like eight twenty.

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Speaker 1: You know, Becca's gotten big time. When I had to

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Speaker 1: find out she went to after Oscar parties on Instagram

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Speaker 1: this morning. Yeah, I don't know. I didn't.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know that was something you care about.

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Speaker 1: You didn't even watch the Oscar. I know it's the

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Speaker 1: biggest night in Hollywood. Like, if you're rubbing albums, would

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Speaker 1: do a leap in Callum Turner. We passed each other

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Speaker 3: Well, one thing about Haley and I is we like

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Speaker 3: will plan to go to something and then plan our

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Speaker 3: getting ready process and think that we'll have plenty of

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Speaker 3: never do. It's always absolute chaos trying to get us

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Speaker 3: So we were rushing to get to the Elton John

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Speaker 3: a lipa and Calum.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Calm Turner, who are.

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Speaker 4: You thinking of?

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Speaker 1: So we passed him in the hall.

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Speaker 3: We passed him in the hall, and I was like,

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Speaker 3: oh my god, there's dual because the Elton John after

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Speaker 1: I feel like the Elton John after party is like anything.

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Speaker 2: I get invited to swing, I think, you.

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Speaker 1: Know what I mean, but big swinging, big swinging dicks.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what you think about the Elton John after party.

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Speaker 1: Is that not like it's like like the heavy hitters. Yeah?

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Speaker 2: No, But I guess in my mind, I think anything

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Speaker 2: I get invited.

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Speaker 3: To, I'm like, I expect to see, you know, not

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Speaker 3: like now I'm Haley's plus one, and Haley is a

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Speaker 3: feature film director, she's a cinemaphile, she's a centophile. And

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Speaker 3: then we went to the Focused Features after party and

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Speaker 3: that one was like intimate and like elevated, like sophisticated chic,

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Speaker 1: The Elton John one?

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Speaker 1: I haven't okay, So then you went to the other one,

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Speaker 1: the Focus Features there for how long.

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Speaker 2: Like an hour. We literally were home before midnight. It

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Speaker 2: was amazing.

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Speaker 1: It was perfect. Okay, who was at the Focus Features.

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Speaker 3: And the Stone Gracie Abrams, Paul Mescal, it's like the

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Speaker 3: drink Mescal, Steven Spielberg, Yeah, I know, his sister Nancy.

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Speaker 1: They were like kind of blocked off. I felt like

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Speaker 1: they were like, we don't want anyone know unless I

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Speaker 3: Thought that the people that were working the event were

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Speaker 3: like security. And then there was this one section that

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Speaker 3: we were like, there's a seat, can we go sit

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Speaker 3: in there? And she's like, oh yeah, sure, Like I

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Speaker 3: think we were thinking, oh, are we allowed to sit here?

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Speaker 3: But everyone who was invited to that party.

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Speaker 1: Where so, you know, Steven Spielberg Encounter no shoot opportunity.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well I was like I was gonna say, Jessica

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Speaker 3: Capshaw was on our podcast even I know, I know,

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Speaker 3: next time, next time, and and yeah it was it

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Speaker 3: was like really really cool, and it was so fun

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Speaker 3: because I was obviously Hayley's plus one and so she's

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm not a.

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Speaker 4: Reality show. I really shouldn't.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Orlandria is going to the Vanity Fair

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I would say if I went on a show

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Speaker 3: Yeah, give the people what they want, and I would

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Speaker 1: Excellent, Give me some TikTok dances. Feed me, okay as

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Speaker 3: Really funny happened between Tanya and Haley and I want

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Speaker 1: What happened too quarter back?

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Speaker 4: It was a photo finished. I don't know who got

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Speaker 3: Okay, So when we went to the Bahamas, Tanya and Hailey.

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Speaker 3: Haley was telling you know, Haley and Tanya were chit chatting,

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Speaker 1: That's so nice. I do too. It was a flash

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Speaker 3: Tanya has tried to be my accountability coach so many times,

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Speaker 1: One weekend and you're done?

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Speaker 3: It's feeling like you're blaming me for your you dropping

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Speaker 1: with some encouragement at the end of the day.

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00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:48,440
Speaker 4: You don't have to give away a trade secret here,

441
00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:50,719
Speaker 4: but how often do you do in like scheduled text?

442
00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:52,920
Speaker 4: Zero zero? It's all live in the moment.

443
00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:55,000
Speaker 1: I know you could do schedule text until recently.

444
00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:56,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, you could just myself.

445
00:20:57,320 --> 00:20:59,280
Speaker 1: It's a new feature because I didn't know this until

446
00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:01,879
Speaker 1: like last week. But now that I did, it's not

447
00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:05,480
Speaker 1: every night at a PM.

448
00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:06,960
Speaker 4: Sorry, I had a really rough date, a lot of

449
00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:10,760
Speaker 4: nachos and great job, let's do it again tomorrow.

450
00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:12,679
Speaker 1: Gets some good sleep.

451
00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:17,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, but she's been really good. Yeah, so I wasn't.

452
00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:18,680
Speaker 1: Even mad about it. I was like, chocolate, a strawberry

453
00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:21,000
Speaker 1: is fine, grup, gorgeous.

454
00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:23,760
Speaker 2: Well, she didn't know. She didn't know if you were

455
00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:24,760
Speaker 2: if you were fine.

456
00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:25,800
Speaker 1: With it, that's funny.

457
00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:28,720
Speaker 3: She thought I was madt disappointed.

458
00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:34,280
Speaker 1: So well, now I'm back on and it really feels

459
00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:36,679
Speaker 1: good that Haley appreciates it. I think I thrive in

460
00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:41,240
Speaker 1: it too, because it like I don't know, like encouraging

461
00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:43,960
Speaker 1: somebody else also like encourages you in a way.

462
00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:46,960
Speaker 3: Well, it's like you're holding your own self accountable because

463
00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:50,719
Speaker 3: if you're sending these words and then things, it's like,

464
00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:51,560
Speaker 3: what about me?

465
00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:51,840
Speaker 1: Am?

466
00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:54,399
Speaker 2: I am I being a good example for this person?

467
00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:54,760
Speaker 3: Right?

468
00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:57,560
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, Well do as I say that, not as

469
00:21:57,600 --> 00:21:59,200
Speaker 1: I do. That's what I was gonna text her yesterday

470
00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:01,040
Speaker 1: because I knew I was going for my dipped cone

471
00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:05,840
Speaker 1: ID scheduled it the week before of the dipped code. Yeah,

472
00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:08,520
Speaker 1: so I like projected onto her in the morning and

473
00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:16,560
Speaker 1: I was like, it's gonna be really hot out today maybe. Yeah.

474
00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:20,239
Speaker 3: So that was really funny, but I'm glad. I'm I

475
00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:21,880
Speaker 3: was like, y'all need to figure this out. I can't

476
00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:24,600
Speaker 3: be the middleman here. First of all, when they started,

477
00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:27,600
Speaker 3: Tanya had me in the chat with Haley and was

478
00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:28,600
Speaker 3: like sending the message.

479
00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:31,440
Speaker 2: I'm like, no, no, no, I did not want this.

480
00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:35,600
Speaker 3: I have opted out and this is your thing together

481
00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:37,800
Speaker 3: a lot me remove myself.

482
00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:40,640
Speaker 1: Indeed, it is our thing together. Yes, we'll ride it out.

483
00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:41,720
Speaker 1: We'll ride till dawn.

484
00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:47,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, well until you're unresponsive, which is what happened.

485
00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:51,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna have to pre schedule some text this weekend.

486
00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:53,320
Speaker 1: I'm gonna learn how to do that for the.

487
00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:57,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't be like, oh, yeah, how was your

488
00:22:57,960 --> 00:22:59,160
Speaker 2: one year anniversary?

489
00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:04,200
Speaker 1: Was a marriage? It was good? What y'all do? We're

490
00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:07,399
Speaker 1: really celebrating this weekend. We're going to go to Combo

491
00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:12,720
Speaker 1: for the weekend. And then last weekend we we kind

492
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:15,600
Speaker 1: of celebrate like our family birthday. So we went out

493
00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:18,480
Speaker 1: to dinner with the kids and kind of like had

494
00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:21,960
Speaker 1: like a candle and and all talked about like, yeah,

495
00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:23,879
Speaker 1: I talked about like our favorite moments and memories from

496
00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:27,159
Speaker 1: the wedding and like it's so cute to hear your

497
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:32,360
Speaker 1: step kids like just really enjoy your wedding as much

498
00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:33,960
Speaker 1: as you did, you know what I mean? Like he

499
00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:36,320
Speaker 1: was like my favorite part was getting there and my

500
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:39,800
Speaker 1: worst part was leaving. Like he loved everything about it,

501
00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:43,159
Speaker 1: and like I don't know, I know it was really sweet.

502
00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:47,240
Speaker 1: And so that's kind of what we did. The night

503
00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:49,720
Speaker 1: of our anniversary. He like got me flowers. We both

504
00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:53,280
Speaker 1: did paper as our gift. Huh. So I gave him

505
00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:56,160
Speaker 1: like a little corner of what I'm like the art

506
00:23:56,200 --> 00:24:01,280
Speaker 1: piece that I'm making mission commissioning, which he really loved

507
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:03,159
Speaker 1: and he's gonna like put the that piece up in

508
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:05,320
Speaker 1: his office. And then he said his is taking a

509
00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:07,119
Speaker 1: little bit longer and it wasn't ready either, So I

510
00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:07,919
Speaker 1: don't know what it is.

511
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:11,399
Speaker 3: Y'all both commission the same piece of art for the

512
00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:12,040
Speaker 3: same artist.

513
00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:14,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't actually have no because I obviously told

514
00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:15,879
Speaker 1: him what mine was because it was like, this is

515
00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:18,560
Speaker 1: just like the teaser part of it. But I have

516
00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:21,879
Speaker 1: no idea what he got me. You think he's but

517
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 1: he said it's in the paper realm.

518
00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:26,640
Speaker 3: Well, I messaged him and it was like the day

519
00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:31,560
Speaker 3: before because I've forgotten. I was like, hey, FYI, the

520
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:34,600
Speaker 3: first anniversary is paper, so at the very least you

521
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 3: need to have a nice card.

522
00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:40,600
Speaker 2: And he goes Becca like because he showed it to

523
00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:41,280
Speaker 2: that on it.

524
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:44,280
Speaker 3: He's like, I'm on it, and I was like, okay, Well,

525
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:46,359
Speaker 3: I didn't want to be responsible as something went down

526
00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:48,159
Speaker 3: because I was supposed to say something, so I'm.

527
00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:49,639
Speaker 1: You know, I'm glad you did. Yeah, but you know,

528
00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:51,320
Speaker 1: it's actually really funny. We almost got each other the

529
00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:54,040
Speaker 1: same card. Oh that's cool. So he opened his card

530
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:55,400
Speaker 1: that I got him and he was like, oh my gosh,

531
00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:58,040
Speaker 1: and he went into like little cab cabinet that we

532
00:24:58,080 --> 00:24:59,560
Speaker 1: have like our cards, and he pulled it out and

533
00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:02,240
Speaker 1: he was like, got to He ended up giving me

534
00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:02,840
Speaker 1: the other one.

535
00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 7: Wow.

536
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:08,080
Speaker 1: But yeah, I know, I love the simpatico. Yeah, I

537
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:11,160
Speaker 1: love having a card drawer. We also do that. Yeah,

538
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:13,879
Speaker 1: it's more more for like last minute, like if somebody's

539
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 1: birthday at work and you forget, you know what I mean. Like,

540
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:16,720
Speaker 1: it's it's.

541
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:18,080
Speaker 2: Nice to be able to go through and be like,

542
00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 2: oh I have my cards.

543
00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:21,840
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, instead of last minute always like oh I

544
00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:23,720
Speaker 1: need to get a card for this exactly.

545
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:25,719
Speaker 4: We also have a card drawer and it's is that

546
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:26,680
Speaker 4: just adulthood?

547
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 2: Wow, it's giving adulthood.

548
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:29,800
Speaker 1: I love it.

549
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:30,560
Speaker 4: It's great.

550
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:31,359
Speaker 1: It's nice.

551
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:35,680
Speaker 3: Wait are y'all watching Age of Attraction as well? Yes,

552
00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 3: it is insane. I know Euston's anti personally Robbie.

553
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:46,000
Speaker 1: Robbie is also anti, so I will say that, you.

554
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 2: Guys, it's it's crazy.

555
00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 1: I mean, the show is. It's so bad. But like,

556
00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 1: let's save our synopsis to the end in case anybody's

557
00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:58,359
Speaker 1: not watching. But I have some hot takes. Okay, okay,

558
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:00,960
Speaker 1: we'll get to those later, I guess I get to it,

559
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:02,920
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, if you want to.

560
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:06,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, So if you're not watching, if you're watching Age

561
00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 4: of Attraction, you don't want to be spoiled, turn the

562
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,640
Speaker 4: podcast off right now, stop listening.

563
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:13,960
Speaker 1: I mean, it's not much of a spoiler because I've

564
00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:15,919
Speaker 1: only watched I think the first two or three I have.

565
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 1: I'm not even caught up. Yeah, I mean, I'll just

566
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:20,119
Speaker 1: lay it up for you.

567
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:22,359
Speaker 3: The premise of the show is about age gaps, and

568
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:24,560
Speaker 3: it's people from all different ages from their twenties to

569
00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:26,520
Speaker 3: their sixties, and they're all dating each other.

570
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:28,400
Speaker 2: But the one rule is they're not allowed to ask

571
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:29,560
Speaker 2: how old they are.

572
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:31,920
Speaker 1: So it's kind of calm in my mind.

573
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 3: I'm thinking, oh, these people have they never seen someone

574
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 3: this age?

575
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:38,639
Speaker 1: Like what is the disconnect? I'll say, I think the

576
00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:43,240
Speaker 1: casting department like did a dirty one, because I feel

577
00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 1: like the older people that they put in there look

578
00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:51,919
Speaker 1: super young. I mean, like the guy that's sixty that

579
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:53,680
Speaker 1: I don't know any of their names, So excuse me,

580
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:54,879
Speaker 1: the guy that's sixty.

581
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:57,520
Speaker 3: You're not gonna spoil anything because you're just gonna be

582
00:26:57,560 --> 00:27:00,360
Speaker 3: like the guy or the girl that's six year I.

583
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 1: Only know their ages. I don't know their names at

584
00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:05,960
Speaker 1: this point. But the guy that's sixty does not. He

585
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 1: did not look sixty to me, like I was.

586
00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:10,639
Speaker 2: Shocked, but he did not look forties.

587
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:14,400
Speaker 1: He did not look forties. But thought she thought, yes,

588
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 1: oh yeah.

589
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:18,960
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah yeah, No, he's a good looking guy.

590
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:21,600
Speaker 4: He looks Did they cast any like busted like twenty

591
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:22,560
Speaker 4: four year olds or anything.

592
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 1: No, No, everybody's like, everybody looks great. Everybody's like hot.

593
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:29,720
Speaker 1: But the people that are were the like the older

594
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:33,639
Speaker 1: people to me, in my opinion, looked very young. No,

595
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:35,639
Speaker 1: they like I got all of their in age is wrong.

596
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 3: They're they're all oh I actually was like right on

597
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 3: the money or like one year off on them.

598
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 6: Wow.

599
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:45,119
Speaker 3: Yeah. But they did casting in this sense, did a

600
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:49,040
Speaker 3: great job at making it ambiguous because it's kind of like, okay,

601
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,439
Speaker 3: are they there's a couple of girls where I'm like,

602
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:56,160
Speaker 3: she might be twenty one, libya, I know.

603
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:58,399
Speaker 1: I'm like, the only reason I know she's twenty one

604
00:27:58,520 --> 00:27:59,640
Speaker 1: because she's drinking alcohol.

605
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 3: That's what Hailey, Guys, I go, I think she has

606
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 3: to be twenty one. Yeah yeah, yeah, she's really cute.

607
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 3: But yeah, of course, the men going for these girls.

608
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:14,040
Speaker 3: I'm like, these men know exactly.

609
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:16,400
Speaker 1: What they're doing the shop their faces. They're like, I

610
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:18,840
Speaker 1: had no idea she was twenty two.

611
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 8: I'm like, please, you have a daughter older than her.

612
00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:27,800
Speaker 2: Literally, So yeah, it is like the most chaotic show.

613
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:30,679
Speaker 3: But the way they're editing it, it ends right before

614
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 3: they reveal their ages, so then you're like, well, I

615
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 3: just got to see.

616
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 1: The next next episode.

617
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:37,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, so we're like hate watching it.

618
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 1: So that's what we're like. Robbie was like, I don't

619
00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 1: want to watch it at all, Like you watch it

620
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 1: on your own, like it's all good. It always says

621
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 1: that about it, So I do, like I'll wait to

622
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:49,720
Speaker 1: watch it until it's like my time or you know,

623
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 1: if he wants to go to sleep, and I'll watch it.

624
00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 1: But he's like, how old is she? Howl? Does she

625
00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:56,520
Speaker 1: land up together?

626
00:28:56,680 --> 00:29:00,600
Speaker 3: It's it's a it's it's it's an interesting spearman. And

627
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:03,880
Speaker 3: it also is like, for some reason, the women that

628
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:06,280
Speaker 3: are older that are dating the younger men, I'm like, yeah,

629
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:07,960
Speaker 3: go girl, And in the men, I'm like.

630
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm gonna say that too, Like there's something I'm

631
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 1: so sorry. There's something creepy about a sixty year old

632
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:19,160
Speaker 1: man dating a twenty seven year old girl.

633
00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yes, Like say, I'm gonna stand tinto down

634
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 3: on that guy.

635
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 1: It's just creepy, and like I actually like the guy,

636
00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:31,840
Speaker 1: Like I like this guy from what I've seen, but like, oh,

637
00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 1: you don't like him, you think there's something weird.

638
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:34,640
Speaker 2: Well just keep watching.

639
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:38,120
Speaker 1: Oh shoot yeah, from what I've seen so far, he

640
00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 1: seems great. Huh. But I'm like, it's just it's giving.

641
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:46,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say it. Here's the thing.

642
00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 3: I'm if it works like for people listening, if it

643
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 3: works for you, I think, sure you there's a chance

644
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:55,520
Speaker 3: that you find in connection with someone with an age guy.

645
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 3: But it's like, why are you, as a woman having

646
00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 3: to find a man that much older than you to

647
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 3: connect with emotionally? Like what does that say about him

648
00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 3: that it took him that long to get to a

649
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:10,200
Speaker 3: place where he's connecting with you on an emotional level

650
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:11,640
Speaker 3: while you're twenty years old? Right?

651
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 1: Like I'm like I'm thirty eight, and I don't think

652
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 1: I could connect with a twenty seven year old Like

653
00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 1: it's like, yeah.

654
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:19,320
Speaker 4: Really talk about it. I just I keep thinking about that.

655
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 4: And the other thing is like, culturally, men are in

656
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 4: a position of power by default and women are not.

657
00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:31,200
Speaker 4: And I know that this is a case by case thing,

658
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:33,560
Speaker 4: but I just when I see this, I'm like, how

659
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:37,360
Speaker 4: can that not come into play? Like this, this man

660
00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:39,480
Speaker 4: I better do what he says because he's an older

661
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:42,560
Speaker 4: man and I'm taught to they are leaders.

662
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:43,720
Speaker 1: And respect my elders.

663
00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 4: Yes, And I just get I've never gotten the eck

664
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 4: harder than that situation. I dislike everything about this.

665
00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:51,320
Speaker 5: Yeah.

666
00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:55,040
Speaker 3: Well, I oh, I know a girl that she had

667
00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:57,520
Speaker 3: like her own company really young and sold it and

668
00:30:57,520 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 3: made like a ton of money. It was like a

669
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:01,280
Speaker 3: boss and like was just had her thing going. And

670
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 3: she met this guy who was also like a really

671
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:04,760
Speaker 3: wealthy man. I think he was like a client of

672
00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:06,920
Speaker 3: hers or something. And they're married now and they had

673
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:08,160
Speaker 3: a significant age.

674
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 1: Gap, but like how significant, like.

675
00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 3: Twenty years probably okay significant, Yeah, But for whatever reason,

676
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:19,800
Speaker 3: they're still together. They have a kid together. Like it

677
00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:21,800
Speaker 3: it worked. And I don't know if that was because

678
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 3: she went through something where she was in control, so

679
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 3: she wasn't like she needed right, It wasn't like an

680
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:30,360
Speaker 3: authority thing. I think they just connected and had a

681
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:33,240
Speaker 3: relate and then it developed into a relationship. So I'm

682
00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:35,200
Speaker 3: not saying I don't think it can be there, but

683
00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:40,080
Speaker 3: intentionally dating someone knowing that there's a significant age gap

684
00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:43,560
Speaker 3: from the beginning, I don't know, there's something about it.

685
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 1: I know.

686
00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:46,320
Speaker 8: I also think the state of the world we're in

687
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 8: right now and like just like what we're seeing with

688
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:54,440
Speaker 8: like the men in power, it's like, I don't know,

689
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 8: I don't like it.

690
00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:57,680
Speaker 1: I'm with you, it's like really creeping me out. And

691
00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 1: I like, I have this this debate. I was like,

692
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 1: I don't really want to support this show, like I

693
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 1: don't want to give it, having like a moral dilemma

694
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 1: because I'm like I am like I am into it,

695
00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 1: and on the other hand, I'm like there's something in

696
00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 1: my morality that like I don't want to give it streams,

697
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about it, like and here

698
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 1: we go and here we are doing both, Yeah, giving

699
00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:21,520
Speaker 1: it the most.

700
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:25,120
Speaker 3: Listen, if you're listening and you have a successful, healthy

701
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:31,440
Speaker 3: age gap relationship, I want to know how it came

702
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:33,720
Speaker 3: about and how you connect.

703
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:37,480
Speaker 1: And we will give you a platform. Yes, yes, we

704
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:39,800
Speaker 1: will talk to me. Will we will hear you out?

705
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:43,040
Speaker 1: You know what I found interesting? And again, pardon me

706
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:46,560
Speaker 1: that I've only watched the first two episodes. I feel

707
00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:49,000
Speaker 1: like Natalie is speaking a lot more than Nick, so

708
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 1: much more. Why is that maybe the host woman the power?

709
00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 1: Let's give the woman the mic. I love Natalie, so

710
00:32:57,560 --> 00:32:59,840
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, great, but I noticed that too.

711
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 1: I was like, she's talking a lot more than him.

712
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:04,360
Speaker 3: Like did they like cut it and recut all her

713
00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 3: like re? I couldn't tell if they were like re,

714
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:08,800
Speaker 3: Uh what's it called?

715
00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:10,800
Speaker 1: Were you voiceovered? Yeah?

716
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:13,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, because you could hear them talking and it's showing

717
00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:14,840
Speaker 3: the audience.

718
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:16,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh so I don't know.

719
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:22,120
Speaker 3: Interesting but anyways, Yeah, it is uh fascinating, and we

720
00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:23,600
Speaker 3: would love to hear from you if you're in at

721
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 3: least situation that's like good, like that you are pro

722
00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:28,000
Speaker 3: pro age gap.

723
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, we won't to hear about it.

724
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:31,720
Speaker 1: I'd love to hear your Actually, I would. I welcome

725
00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:35,360
Speaker 1: your perspective because I do think that I'm having a

726
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 1: very like viscerally negative, uh feeling about it right now. Yeah,

727
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:42,320
Speaker 1: just from the show.

728
00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:45,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, like something when you get to a certain age,

729
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:47,560
Speaker 4: I think, like over thirty, if there's like a ten

730
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:50,720
Speaker 4: year age gap, like like if your partner's forty and

731
00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:53,480
Speaker 4: your thirty. I feel like, culturally, yeah, it's pretty much.

732
00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:55,000
Speaker 1: The same how I am for eight years.

733
00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:58,000
Speaker 4: I have such a hard time not thinking about is

734
00:33:58,080 --> 00:34:00,840
Speaker 4: doing the math at the earlier part of life, Like god,

735
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:07,040
Speaker 4: when so when Nick was twenty one Natalie was two, two, no.

736
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:08,000
Speaker 2: Three, three?

737
00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:10,839
Speaker 4: Like I that part and I know that they did

738
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:13,080
Speaker 4: not know each other, not like yeah, that should not

739
00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:15,200
Speaker 4: take into yeah, I should not take that into account,

740
00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:16,680
Speaker 4: but I do. I think about that all the time,

741
00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:18,200
Speaker 4: like wow, when she was in high school, he was,

742
00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:21,440
Speaker 4: Oh god, yeah, I just I think about that.

743
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:25,480
Speaker 3: I mean, I think that's probably where the reaction comes from,

744
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:26,920
Speaker 3: because you go to that.

745
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:28,080
Speaker 2: But I agree.

746
00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 3: I think at a certain age you kind of go okay,

747
00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:32,399
Speaker 3: I connect with who I connect with. I think when

748
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:35,640
Speaker 3: you're in this developmental stage, which I still think early

749
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:39,080
Speaker 3: twenties of the twenties is like a learning yourself and

750
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:41,600
Speaker 3: about who you are and what you want. And then

751
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:43,759
Speaker 3: I feel like after, you know, after thirty, you kind

752
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:46,239
Speaker 3: of like have a sense of self, so you're able.

753
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:48,400
Speaker 1: I don't know there is like also correct me if

754
00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:51,799
Speaker 1: I'm wrong here, but my impression from watching them when

755
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:55,400
Speaker 1: they revealed their ages, like every guy when he found

756
00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 1: out the girl was like twenty two or twenty seven,

757
00:34:57,200 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 1: was like the girl, and like the girls were kind

758
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 1: of like, yeah, I think I can work with that,

759
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:09,680
Speaker 1: Like do you know what I mean younger girl? Yeah,

760
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:13,760
Speaker 1: Like they were like I did fall in love with him,

761
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:16,480
Speaker 1: like knowing his soul, so maybe that you know what

762
00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:17,879
Speaker 1: I mean, Like they have it. I feel like they're

763
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:20,640
Speaker 1: having to like talk themselves into it, which is like

764
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:22,120
Speaker 1: sad to me, but also.

765
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:24,439
Speaker 3: You and then the older women are like, oh my god,

766
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:27,319
Speaker 3: like when they hear the age, they're like no, like

767
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:29,040
Speaker 3: they're like, can is this?

768
00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:33,319
Speaker 1: Can I do it? Like Teresa, is she the stylist? No,

769
00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:35,919
Speaker 1: she's the like I think she's fifty four and her

770
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:37,880
Speaker 1: boyfriend or the guy is like Prince Harry, he's like

771
00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:41,359
Speaker 1: twenty seconds. She's a stylist. She's so cute. I love her.

772
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:45,839
Speaker 1: But her reaction was so like, well, well, yes, yeah.

773
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:47,760
Speaker 4: She is fifty four, Yeah.

774
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:50,279
Speaker 1: Thank you, yeah, yes, I agree, like well thought out,

775
00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:52,880
Speaker 1: like the wheels were turning, like.

776
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:56,319
Speaker 3: He's younger than my oldest son, okay, because she thought

777
00:35:56,320 --> 00:35:58,720
Speaker 3: he was older. But she's kind of like it wasn't it.

778
00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:01,520
Speaker 3: It wasn't like a immediate I'm okay with that.

779
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 1: It was like processed. Yeah, we're poorhead didn't even tell

780
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:08,920
Speaker 1: his girl he's got three kids. Yeah, yeah, okay, that's

781
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:10,960
Speaker 1: where I left off. He has two kids, but he

782
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:16,640
Speaker 1: hasn't told her. I'm like, okay, nobody needs to ask

783
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:18,880
Speaker 1: you if you have children. I'm sorry she never asked.

784
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 1: You don't have to ask someone. That's just part of

785
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:24,080
Speaker 1: conversation that comes up when you're getting to know someone.

786
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 1: She said, he said, and he said, I don't want

787
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:29,319
Speaker 1: to have it outside of the marriage. That'd be a

788
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:35,560
Speaker 1: great time to say I've had with my previous marriage. Yeah.

789
00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:39,439
Speaker 1: Like it was so gas lighty. I was just like, yeah,

790
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:40,839
Speaker 1: so yeah, and that's where I'm at.

791
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:42,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, same, that's where we're at too.

792
00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:49,959
Speaker 1: It's tough and and like there's nothing else to watch

793
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:52,799
Speaker 1: right now because we finished the UK Traders and like

794
00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:56,160
Speaker 1: Love Island doesn't start till June. Like I've got nothing

795
00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 1: to like quench my appetite.

796
00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 2: I started Love is Blind UK.

797
00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:05,640
Speaker 1: Wow, that's a path I don't think I can. Oh,

798
00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:11,680
Speaker 1: you have boundaries for that. I can only do Love

799
00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:16,160
Speaker 1: Island both ways global global and Traders global. I can't

800
00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 1: do multiple more than two.

801
00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:20,880
Speaker 3: Well, if your moral dilemma is so strong that you

802
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:23,920
Speaker 3: can't watch Age of Attraction, then maybe you can open

803
00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:26,400
Speaker 3: your open your world to.

804
00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 1: We started extract. Have you heard of it? No?

805
00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:33,720
Speaker 4: Oh wait, it's like they're like stuck in the middle

806
00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:34,320
Speaker 4: of yeah.

807
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 1: Themselves and their families like watching and monitoring them, and

808
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 1: they can like send them supplies and stuff. Yeah, that's

809
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:42,759
Speaker 1: desperate times.

810
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:43,239
Speaker 5: Yeah.

811
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:45,400
Speaker 1: But oh and you know what other show we're watching

812
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:51,960
Speaker 1: is The Dean The Dean Bachelor mansion flip show. Yes,

813
00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:54,480
Speaker 1: although it's once a week and it's one episode a week,

814
00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:55,719
Speaker 1: so I'm like, hello.

815
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 3: Wait, there was something so funny about Dean having immunity

816
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:03,040
Speaker 3: and leading them to that god awful blue ceiling and

817
00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:08,160
Speaker 3: bad idea. The idea could have worked, but the linen,

818
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:09,680
Speaker 3: the linens and everything nothing work.

819
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:12,920
Speaker 1: Yes, I agree, I agree. The linens were a bad joy.

820
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:15,439
Speaker 3: Like He's such a little turn like leading them through

821
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 3: and being like, well if they get if they don't

822
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:18,799
Speaker 3: like it, it's not on me.

823
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:21,480
Speaker 1: I like the idea. I just think the blue they

824
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:23,319
Speaker 1: chose was a little toy story. I feel like it

825
00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 1: could have been like a softer blue.

826
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:27,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, in different linens. It could have been all white

827
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 3: if they wanted to make it more meekly.

828
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:31,440
Speaker 1: Let me be honest. I'm not one to give my

829
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:34,439
Speaker 1: opinion about interior decorating. It's not my forte so I'm

830
00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 1: not here to judge. No, but you know what looks good?

831
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:37,799
Speaker 3: Yes?

832
00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:40,440
Speaker 1: Yes, but I was excited about the Santorini room, like

833
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:41,520
Speaker 1: I thought it was like and the other room I

834
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:44,000
Speaker 1: thought was beautiful. My god, I was like, got robbed

835
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:46,239
Speaker 1: from that wind. To be honest, the girl's room looked

836
00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 1: like a giant cluster. I was like, I would have

837
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:51,200
Speaker 1: anxiety if I lived in this room.

838
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:56,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, some really strong personalities. I was like intimidated watching you.

839
00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:58,920
Speaker 1: I don't enjoy though, what let's.

840
00:38:58,719 --> 00:38:59,759
Speaker 2: Talk about it when we come back.

841
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:24,560
Speaker 3: We're back, yah, scare of me? I want to expected now, okay,

842
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:28,640
Speaker 3: so what what is something you can't say?

843
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 1: Oh? And this is just a food for thought for

844
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:34,680
Speaker 1: my HG TV people that work you know, I love

845
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:39,920
Speaker 1: I love criticizing shows, although I have zero a legs

846
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:42,120
Speaker 1: to stand on when it comes to this stuff. I

847
00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:45,799
Speaker 1: don't like that their peers are the ones judging them, Like,

848
00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:48,919
Speaker 1: who are Tasha and Tyler to tell Dean what's better?

849
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:49,239
Speaker 1: Do you know?

850
00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:51,600
Speaker 2: What I mean is in that industry, but I don't

851
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:52,439
Speaker 2: know indeed.

852
00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:56,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, and so was that other chick I don't know

853
00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:56,560
Speaker 1: her name.

854
00:39:56,680 --> 00:40:00,359
Speaker 2: But wouldn't you want someone who's in the industry to judge.

855
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:03,359
Speaker 1: Not my peers? Like it would be like, let's say

856
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:04,960
Speaker 1: you and I go. You're saying, like you and I

857
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 1: go to on a cooking show, we're on Next Level Chef,

858
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:10,319
Speaker 1: and you're judging my meals. I'd be like, who are

859
00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:12,279
Speaker 1: you to judge my meals? Do you know what I mean?

860
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:15,480
Speaker 4: You think they should have like real contractors there as

861
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:17,360
Speaker 4: opposed to Chip.

862
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:19,240
Speaker 1: And Joe in a game yea, or like the judges

863
00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:21,759
Speaker 1: y or like like they had Christina Hawk Hack. I

864
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:24,440
Speaker 1: don't know how I think it's Hawk come in to

865
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 1: judge one of them like that. I like that, like

866
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:29,240
Speaker 1: bring in like these these like.

867
00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:32,120
Speaker 2: People that are from other like renovation shows.

868
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:34,200
Speaker 1: Yes, Like I don't like that. It's I don't like that.

869
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:38,520
Speaker 1: It's like they're peers because they're saying relationships there. Yeah,

870
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:40,880
Speaker 1: but it doesn't feel equal, and I don't like that.

871
00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:43,960
Speaker 4: We're recapping in on the almost famous podcast The Bend

872
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:47,400
Speaker 4: in Ashley Hye and another iHeartRadio podcast and a complaint

873
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:48,640
Speaker 4: they have is the.

874
00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:51,800
Speaker 1: Contest scrubbing in on other podcasts.

875
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:54,720
Speaker 4: Tanya, non stop. That is all anyone asks me about,

876
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:58,600
Speaker 4: is scrubbing in. I plug it constantly. Anyone out there

877
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:03,360
Speaker 4: who listens to uh, Stars Hollow Style, are you a Charlotte?

878
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:07,960
Speaker 2: I think Stars Hollow Style are all.

879
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 4: Scrubbers, entirely scrubbers listening.

880
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:12,080
Speaker 1: I just want to make sure because you and Mark

881
00:41:12,120 --> 00:41:14,160
Speaker 1: are always plugging these other podcasts.

882
00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:15,920
Speaker 4: You know, Hey, how about this, how about an anti plug?

883
00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:21,120
Speaker 4: Don't download the Ben and Ashley I they're fine, they're fine,

884
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:24,440
Speaker 4: but they don't like the other contestants being able to

885
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:26,960
Speaker 4: eliminate each other like that elimination at the end.

886
00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:29,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh no, that's very survivor vibes.

887
00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:30,640
Speaker 2: I don't like that either.

888
00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:34,720
Speaker 3: I wish that Tasa, Tayshia and Tyler voted or whoever

889
00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:35,880
Speaker 3: the judge was vouting.

890
00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:38,200
Speaker 4: What are the judges doing then? Yeah?

891
00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:40,480
Speaker 2: If not for that, literally, that's what I was trying

892
00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:40,759
Speaker 2: to figure.

893
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 3: I'm like, why are they the judges if they don't

894
00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:44,280
Speaker 3: have a say in who's staying or going?

895
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:46,279
Speaker 1: Do though? Because they pick the winning team so those

896
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:48,000
Speaker 1: people are safe, so they kind of do.

897
00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:50,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm just saying, like, at the end of

898
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 3: the day, it's like, why not have the guest judge

899
00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:53,799
Speaker 3: be like, this is who I would vote off?

900
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:57,399
Speaker 1: This is It's very Survivor, which we loved, which I love,

901
00:41:57,560 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 1: so like I'm here for the self eliminating each other.

902
00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:05,400
Speaker 4: It's hurt.

903
00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:09,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I just don't like that the peers are judging,

904
00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:11,439
Speaker 1: like it's really bothering me. It's season one.

905
00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:15,719
Speaker 3: You know, maybe they'll get in a groove and and

906
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:17,960
Speaker 3: maybe that'll be the complaint from other viewers.

907
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:23,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, they'll listen to I would just like non bias judges.

908
00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:25,880
Speaker 4: What do you do for season two? Do you re

909
00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:27,920
Speaker 4: uh you renovate?

910
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 6: Yes?

911
00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that's that place. Hello, I know it's intomb

912
00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:36,840
Speaker 4: now it was in Mexico.

913
00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 3: Uh no, it's in Costa Rican now.

914
00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:43,279
Speaker 4: It's in Costa Rica now. Yes, but before it was

915
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:45,200
Speaker 4: at the same hotel for years.

916
00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:46,879
Speaker 1: It was right next to where you got married.

917
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 4: And yes, yes, I was what.

918
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 1: I think it was to Loom.

919
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 2: I don't know if they ever did it, Tom, but yeah,

920
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:53,920
Speaker 2: they could renovate that.

921
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean what else did you do?

922
00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 1: You're right after the season, like, what else is there?

923
00:42:57,960 --> 00:42:58,880
Speaker 1: But I guess they could.

924
00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 2: Do it, like to flip homes.

925
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:01,759
Speaker 3: Think of just buy a flip home and bring a

926
00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:05,080
Speaker 3: bunch of bachelor people to someone who just bought a

927
00:43:05,120 --> 00:43:06,240
Speaker 3: home and is wanting.

928
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:06,480
Speaker 1: To flip it.

929
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:08,320
Speaker 2: Would die to just be like, here, give.

930
00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:12,800
Speaker 1: It to a show. We're a bachelor contestant. Yes, recognis

931
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:19,160
Speaker 1: renovate my home, risky risky. Yeah, we're enjoying it too.

932
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:22,360
Speaker 1: I just like seeing I love Dean. I just like

933
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:27,600
Speaker 1: to see Dean on my ID to we like text

934
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:29,640
Speaker 1: him while we're watching. We're in like a group chat

935
00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 1: and you know, like Rob and I just kind of

936
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 1: like and I was like, are you do you enjoy

937
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:36,719
Speaker 1: these text or do they bother you? He's like no,

938
00:43:36,840 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 1: I like him, Like, okay, very self aware of these days.

939
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:41,640
Speaker 1: I'm so proud of you. Thank you.

940
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:45,600
Speaker 3: We when we talked to Jessica on our episode last week,

941
00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:48,440
Speaker 3: we hadn't seen the reunion yet, so I just want

942
00:43:48,520 --> 00:43:51,880
Speaker 3: to discuss some of the highlights because okay, this is

943
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:54,280
Speaker 3: all yeah, love his fun.

944
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:58,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, gearing shifts, shifting gears well still reality TV. Yeah,

945
00:43:58,160 --> 00:43:59,480
Speaker 1: that's why I brought it up.

946
00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:05,800
Speaker 3: Okay, this is the tenth season of Love Is Blind, right, Yes,

947
00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:08,440
Speaker 3: why on a reunion show.

948
00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 1: I know what you're gonna say, are we.

949
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 3: Why does it feel like it's season one? Like they're

950
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:18,440
Speaker 3: like just getting started. It's like, why are we panning

951
00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:19,200
Speaker 3: to the audience?

952
00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:19,600
Speaker 1: Wait?

953
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:21,799
Speaker 3: There was so much to disc I get it if

954
00:44:21,840 --> 00:44:24,240
Speaker 3: there wasn't a lot of juiciness going on this season,

955
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:25,279
Speaker 3: but it was like it.

956
00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:28,880
Speaker 1: Was jam packed juice, like they had enough juice to

957
00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:33,279
Speaker 1: discover two hours of footage. Yes, I agree with you.

958
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, I didn't need the Q and A for

959
00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:39,040
Speaker 1: I was like having to like squint my eyes even

960
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:41,880
Speaker 1: like know who these people were, because every time I

961
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:44,760
Speaker 1: watch a season, it's like in my head and then gone,

962
00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:46,200
Speaker 1: Like they're just like gone, And if I want to

963
00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 1: keep up with them, I'll follow them on Instagram like

964
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:50,879
Speaker 1: any normal human like stock them on Instagram. I don't

965
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:54,480
Speaker 1: need you wasting precious airtime on my season ten reunion.

966
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:58,520
Speaker 9: With season five or like, yeah, a gender reveal with

967
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:05,239
Speaker 9: the posture, so it was like not appropriate, Yeah, it

968
00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 9: is so okay.

969
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:10,720
Speaker 3: There there was a dilemma because when we talked to Jessica,

970
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:12,719
Speaker 3: she was like, we're all the girls are close, So

971
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:16,400
Speaker 3: I thought it was gonna be very like girls girls girls,

972
00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:19,480
Speaker 3: and there's clearly a divide, but.

973
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 1: I can't decide who's in the divide.

974
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:25,120
Speaker 3: Well, it's Pre and then Pre who wasn't we never

975
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:29,920
Speaker 3: saw really she didn't have a story. And Ashley Yeah,

976
00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 3: and then Brittany, Jessica, Amber and Emma Oh really okay.

977
00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:39,080
Speaker 1: I felt like Amber was kind of I think Amber

978
00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:42,600
Speaker 1: is floating amongst uh yeah.

979
00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:47,600
Speaker 2: I don't know. Yeah, stands, but I have a few

980
00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:48,239
Speaker 2: things to say.

981
00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:52,040
Speaker 3: When Amber stormed off the stage, I don't know if it.

982
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:54,480
Speaker 1: Was edited to where it felt that abrupt, but I

983
00:45:54,560 --> 00:45:55,280
Speaker 1: was like, whoa.

984
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:57,440
Speaker 3: We went from like zero to a thousand and she

985
00:45:57,560 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 3: was gone, Like okay, sire. Why wasn't anyone questioning Breemore?

986
00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:07,800
Speaker 3: I feel like barely no one was like to question

987
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:11,560
Speaker 3: her her really her conversation with Chris that much. They

988
00:46:11,560 --> 00:46:13,400
Speaker 3: didn't really question her conversation.

989
00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:17,840
Speaker 1: With contrast breaking off Breezy Eazy Breezy.

990
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:20,920
Speaker 3: The after effects have been tough, Like everyone needs to

991
00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:23,400
Speaker 3: remember these people are humans. They did sign up for

992
00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:26,520
Speaker 3: a TV show, But like as someone who's been on

993
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:28,960
Speaker 3: a TV show, you don't realize how much of an

994
00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:31,080
Speaker 3: opinion people are going to have on your decisions or

995
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:33,880
Speaker 3: how it's going to be edited until you do, and

996
00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 3: it's it's a lot, so you know you can be

997
00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:40,280
Speaker 3: question someone's uh choice.

998
00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, And like I honestly had a little bit of

999
00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 1: an issue with the way, like I actually like Nick

1000
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:46,719
Speaker 1: and Vanessa. I like them as hosts, and I think

1001
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:49,760
Speaker 1: they usually do a pretty good job. But this reunion

1002
00:46:49,840 --> 00:46:53,520
Speaker 1: I felt like they were really condemning people in a

1003
00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:54,399
Speaker 1: way that like.

1004
00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:58,120
Speaker 2: I don't know, like you need to get therapy, and

1005
00:46:58,160 --> 00:46:59,840
Speaker 2: it's like I don't know that you're.

1006
00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:04,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it just felt very like look like like

1007
00:47:04,360 --> 00:47:07,000
Speaker 1: you said, everybody is coming in at these people, like

1008
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:10,279
Speaker 1: especially what's his name, Chris, the guy like obviously we

1009
00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:12,560
Speaker 1: all hate him and he said and did horrible things,

1010
00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:16,560
Speaker 1: but like the way that he was treated, the way

1011
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:18,759
Speaker 1: he was spoken to at the reunion to me was

1012
00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:21,759
Speaker 1: just like that's not your place as a host, do

1013
00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:24,160
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? To like condemn and like

1014
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:27,840
Speaker 1: we've all made mistakes. If if we'd filmed all of

1015
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:29,480
Speaker 1: our lives, like I'm sure a lot of us have

1016
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:32,200
Speaker 1: said and done horrible things that we're not even aware of,

1017
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:33,680
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And so it's just like

1018
00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:35,200
Speaker 1: I think the way it was handled, which is like

1019
00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 1: a little bit too like aggressive in that way, which

1020
00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:40,640
Speaker 1: like rubbed me wrong a little bit.

1021
00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:42,960
Speaker 3: Well, you also have to think about people's mental health,

1022
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:45,160
Speaker 3: like these are human beings, and like he's on this

1023
00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:48,560
Speaker 3: not like international stage that people are watching.

1024
00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:50,919
Speaker 1: From all over the world, and it's to edit it.

1025
00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:54,040
Speaker 3: Like that's not a live reunion so anything. Even if

1026
00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:56,200
Speaker 3: they asked him a question, he didn't give them anything.

1027
00:47:56,239 --> 00:47:57,919
Speaker 3: They could have just cut it out and not even

1028
00:47:57,960 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 3: addressed him.

1029
00:47:58,880 --> 00:47:59,040
Speaker 8: You know.

1030
00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:02,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just felt like at a certain point, it's

1031
00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:04,360
Speaker 3: like he did and said some horrible things, and I

1032
00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:07,040
Speaker 3: hope that he's looking inward and reflecting on that after

1033
00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:09,680
Speaker 3: seeing it on TV. But I don't think it's someone's

1034
00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:13,640
Speaker 3: place to criticize or condemn to the point where you go, like,

1035
00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:16,920
Speaker 3: I hope he doesn't harm himself, and that's like a reality.

1036
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:18,200
Speaker 1: Of yeah, Like I honestly think he was like on

1037
00:48:18,280 --> 00:48:20,319
Speaker 1: Beta Blockers, like he did not he looked like he

1038
00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:22,360
Speaker 1: was out to lunch that whole reunion, like he was

1039
00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:24,879
Speaker 1: just like there but like not there.

1040
00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:28,799
Speaker 3: I saw Vic say that that he was like where

1041
00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:31,200
Speaker 3: he's like listen, you know, it's one thing holding people

1042
00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:33,839
Speaker 3: accountable for their actions It's another thing like thinking about

1043
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:36,920
Speaker 3: people's mental health and like what they're going to do,

1044
00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:40,360
Speaker 3: you know, outside of being on this public stage.

1045
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, but.

1046
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:46,879
Speaker 3: I was shocked to see, well Jessica made it seem

1047
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:48,600
Speaker 3: like Amber and Jordan were still together.

1048
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:52,320
Speaker 1: Yes, and I was I was devastated with that.

1049
00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:55,879
Speaker 3: You were like, yes, I was only worried about them,

1050
00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:57,200
Speaker 3: and I'm glad they're still.

1051
00:48:57,000 --> 00:49:01,040
Speaker 1: To King and Queen And now like that, it shattered me.

1052
00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:04,279
Speaker 1: They couldn't be more not together, couldn't be couldn't be

1053
00:49:04,280 --> 00:49:07,839
Speaker 1: further apart, couldn't be further apart. I'm like, on both

1054
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:08,839
Speaker 1: of their sides.

1055
00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:10,040
Speaker 2: They just were not right for each other.

1056
00:49:10,200 --> 00:49:14,200
Speaker 1: Correct. Yeah, And and also like I want to say,

1057
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:16,440
Speaker 1: like she she was like, you don't do that. You

1058
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:18,919
Speaker 1: don't make that promise with somebody that has a kid,

1059
00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:21,480
Speaker 1: as someone who dated somebody that had a kid, Like

1060
00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:25,759
Speaker 1: you really don't know what it's like until you're in it,

1061
00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:28,160
Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? Like, you can't predict,

1062
00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:32,120
Speaker 1: you can't make like a commitment until you Like again,

1063
00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:33,560
Speaker 1: they're on a TV show and they have a limited

1064
00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:36,040
Speaker 1: amount of time, so it's like it's a totally different situation.

1065
00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:39,640
Speaker 1: But like you can't make these promises and until you're

1066
00:49:39,680 --> 00:49:42,400
Speaker 1: in it and you like live life with these kids

1067
00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:44,120
Speaker 1: in this as a family, do you know, Like that's

1068
00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:46,080
Speaker 1: when you really experience it. And so like I was like,

1069
00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 1: she's kind of throwing it in his face that he

1070
00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:51,200
Speaker 1: did something like nasty to her child when I don't

1071
00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:54,600
Speaker 1: think that was his intention at all, not at all. Yeah, yeah,

1072
00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 1: I just think like the two like even said, like

1073
00:49:57,040 --> 00:49:58,480
Speaker 1: the two of them didn't get along, had nothing to

1074
00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:02,359
Speaker 1: do with for having a kid. But yeah, the and

1075
00:50:02,400 --> 00:50:06,480
Speaker 1: then did we not learn anything from the reunion with

1076
00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:11,239
Speaker 1: the basketball hoops? I'm like, why are we watching Devonte

1077
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:16,439
Speaker 1: and oh Alex Alex shoots soccer balls at each other?

1078
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 3: Why are they living together when his pregnant fiance lives

1079
00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:20,360
Speaker 3: in Ohio.

1080
00:50:21,440 --> 00:50:23,399
Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to Why are we watching them

1081
00:50:23,400 --> 00:50:26,279
Speaker 1: for soccer shoot out like on the reunion? And then

1082
00:50:26,320 --> 00:50:30,360
Speaker 1: what's this musical guest Like, oh.

1083
00:50:30,200 --> 00:50:33,040
Speaker 2: My god, it was a minute? What are we doing?

1084
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:36,880
Speaker 2: They they It's there's been too many seasons to excuse it.

1085
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:40,640
Speaker 1: Like I as an avid TV watcher, I would just

1086
00:50:40,719 --> 00:50:42,759
Speaker 1: like to be a consultant on the I will give

1087
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:45,920
Speaker 1: my advice for free because I do like that they

1088
00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:48,799
Speaker 1: have the old contestants back in the audience. I do

1089
00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:51,920
Speaker 1: feel like it. It makes them probably feel more comfortable

1090
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:56,000
Speaker 1: instead of having like, you know, strangers that they you know, like,

1091
00:50:56,040 --> 00:50:58,839
Speaker 1: they have their peers there and it's not as like intimidating. Maybe,

1092
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:02,200
Speaker 1: so I like having them as guests audience. Do we

1093
00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:07,240
Speaker 1: need an audience though? Oh? I just don't need questions

1094
00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:08,879
Speaker 1: from them or like moments with them.

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00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:09,160
Speaker 5: You know.

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00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:14,399
Speaker 3: But someone someone like posted photos from like them being

1097
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:17,120
Speaker 3: in the green rooms and backstage or whatever, and they're

1098
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:19,920
Speaker 3: like eating pizza and they have like chips and snacks

1099
00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:24,160
Speaker 3: on paper plates, and everyone's like, so you're gonna give

1100
00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:26,560
Speaker 3: them like a black tie event and show for them

1101
00:51:26,600 --> 00:51:28,640
Speaker 3: to get all styled for and you're gonna serve them

1102
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:30,000
Speaker 3: pizza on a paper.

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00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:32,320
Speaker 2: Plate with sodas and chips.

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00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:35,600
Speaker 1: You know what? No, No, they're budgets too big for that,

1105
00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:38,279
Speaker 1: you think, Yeah, take the money that you paid for

1106
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:42,760
Speaker 1: your musical guests and give them some well what should

1107
00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:44,040
Speaker 1: they give them? Filet mignon?

1108
00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:47,480
Speaker 3: Maybe just sit down dinner and like sat the table

1109
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:50,919
Speaker 3: and a chicken, a chicken breast at the very least

1110
00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:54,879
Speaker 3: on some china or so they have.

1111
00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:58,720
Speaker 1: Some good looking plastic silverware. Now we can do better.

1112
00:52:00,719 --> 00:52:04,560
Speaker 1: I set up a tablescape with Amazon plus. D oh

1113
00:52:04,640 --> 00:52:11,200
Speaker 1: me too, stunning, stunning. That is so funny, I have

1114
00:52:11,760 --> 00:52:14,759
Speaker 1: It's funny that. Okay, So peeling back the curtain, feel

1115
00:52:15,080 --> 00:52:17,200
Speaker 1: feel back on how we did the podcast. But we

1116
00:52:17,560 --> 00:52:20,759
Speaker 1: interviewed jess that Tuesday, which is why Becka said we

1117
00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:22,360
Speaker 1: hadn't watched the reunion. They didn't give it to us,

1118
00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:26,239
Speaker 1: but they basically told us, well, we thought, yeah, there

1119
00:52:26,239 --> 00:52:31,520
Speaker 1: are some things that were wrong, however whatever, but uh

1120
00:52:31,520 --> 00:52:35,120
Speaker 1: so we were told that we couldn't air Jessica until today,

1121
00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:39,400
Speaker 1: this is the following Monday, and which is a bummer

1122
00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:41,680
Speaker 1: because I do feel like now that we're talking about it,

1123
00:52:41,680 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, I feel like the reunion was is so

1124
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:44,479
Speaker 1: old at this point.

1125
00:52:44,520 --> 00:52:46,200
Speaker 2: I still see people talking about it, which is why

1126
00:52:46,239 --> 00:52:46,960
Speaker 2: I brought it up.

1127
00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:51,719
Speaker 1: So but I'm so glad because me Tanya, sitting in

1128
00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:54,399
Speaker 1: my bed, I'm scrolling, scrolling, and I'm seeing all these

1129
00:52:54,440 --> 00:52:57,120
Speaker 1: Love is blind people doing podcasts. So I'm like, poke,

1130
00:52:57,200 --> 00:53:00,319
Speaker 1: poke to our producers, Look what's happening. All the people

1131
00:53:00,360 --> 00:53:03,160
Speaker 1: are talking like why are we embargoed until Monday? So

1132
00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:04,960
Speaker 1: then we got to the bottom of it. It was

1133
00:53:05,200 --> 00:53:10,240
Speaker 1: just Jessica and her new boyfriend was the embargo until Monday.

1134
00:53:10,520 --> 00:53:14,760
Speaker 1: But Jessica herself we could unleash. So we unleashed her

1135
00:53:15,360 --> 00:53:17,799
Speaker 1: her episode, her episode last week, and we held on

1136
00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:20,600
Speaker 1: to the embargoed part of the interview, which was her

1137
00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:25,120
Speaker 1: and Harmal Harmle together on the podcast. Yeah, but I

1138
00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:28,880
Speaker 1: felt really like proud of myself for like getting in there.

1139
00:53:28,600 --> 00:53:30,480
Speaker 2: Proud of you because you were relentless.

1140
00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:33,000
Speaker 1: I was like, Tanya's texting the group toad again, what

1141
00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:35,759
Speaker 1: is she sending? And it's like another kept sending that

1142
00:53:36,480 --> 00:53:39,160
Speaker 1: more interviews, this person's on this podcast, this person's on that.

1143
00:53:39,239 --> 00:53:41,120
Speaker 1: I was like, why is ours held till Monday. I

1144
00:53:41,239 --> 00:53:43,680
Speaker 1: just didn't appreciate that we were being held to a

1145
00:53:43,680 --> 00:53:45,680
Speaker 1: different standard than other podcasts.

1146
00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:49,760
Speaker 3: And I agree, Oh, we weren't a bunch of taste

1147
00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:51,520
Speaker 3: back responses so much.

1148
00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:53,560
Speaker 1: I take that. What why?

1149
00:53:53,840 --> 00:53:55,600
Speaker 3: I forgot about the taste back of it all? And

1150
00:53:55,640 --> 00:53:57,960
Speaker 3: I got so many messages. I was like, oh my god,

1151
00:53:57,960 --> 00:54:00,200
Speaker 3: I forgot this is what we said, tory.

1152
00:54:00,560 --> 00:54:05,080
Speaker 1: So many taste back messages so real validated in my theory,

1153
00:54:05,320 --> 00:54:08,439
Speaker 1: well our theory. What was your theory that people listen

1154
00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:10,800
Speaker 1: in twenty minute increments, but they come back to finish

1155
00:54:10,880 --> 00:54:14,240
Speaker 1: the episode. So like us doing shorter episodes, wasn't behooving

1156
00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:17,000
Speaker 1: our listeners longer. Yes, it wasn't behooving anyone because we

1157
00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:18,680
Speaker 1: were like, oh, if they're only listening for twenty minutes,

1158
00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:22,239
Speaker 1: then we're not listening to forty minutes. But no, they're

1159
00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:25,759
Speaker 1: listening in increments of twenty minutes but coming back to

1160
00:54:25,880 --> 00:54:27,120
Speaker 1: finish episode.

1161
00:54:27,640 --> 00:54:30,760
Speaker 3: So we won't be doing twenty minute episodes. Don't worry.

1162
00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:32,200
Speaker 3: They won't be getting shorter.

1163
00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:36,000
Speaker 1: No, and we care getting longer as the days get longer.

1164
00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:39,040
Speaker 3: And the days are getting longer and warmer and warmer.

1165
00:54:39,560 --> 00:54:44,040
Speaker 3: So well, so should we release the harmle the Harmor files.

1166
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:47,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, just harb Yeah yeah, So we're going to tack

1167
00:54:47,719 --> 00:54:51,520
Speaker 1: on our Jessica and Harmal portion of our interview to

1168
00:54:51,600 --> 00:54:55,760
Speaker 1: the end of this episode for your enjoyment. Please listen

1169
00:54:55,800 --> 00:54:58,920
Speaker 1: to it and give us your feedback. Yeah, let us

1170
00:54:58,960 --> 00:54:59,279
Speaker 1: know what.

1171
00:54:59,239 --> 00:55:05,879
Speaker 3: You think about this new couple and we'll be back

1172
00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:12,000
Speaker 3: on Thursday with the dear Boy. Yeah, and something very

1173
00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:13,680
Speaker 3: important is happening this weekend.

1174
00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:16,520
Speaker 4: That's right, The East Awards are this weekend Saturday the

1175
00:55:16,600 --> 00:55:18,759
Speaker 4: twenty first, and if you're not in LA, you can

1176
00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:21,719
Speaker 4: watch it on a stream Eastwards dot com. You can

1177
00:55:21,719 --> 00:55:24,000
Speaker 4: get your tickets. It's a lot of fun. It's got

1178
00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:27,520
Speaker 4: a lot of crazy stuff happening. I have definitely over

1179
00:55:27,560 --> 00:55:30,200
Speaker 4: extended myself with a lot of moving parts. It will

1180
00:55:30,200 --> 00:55:32,080
Speaker 4: be very funny to see how it all crashes down

1181
00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:35,719
Speaker 4: on me. But I wanted to say I put I

1182
00:55:35,760 --> 00:55:39,719
Speaker 4: put taste back in the show. It's hidden. If you

1183
00:55:39,800 --> 00:55:43,200
Speaker 4: watch the Eastwards, there will be Taste Back hidden somewhere.

1184
00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:46,080
Speaker 1: The words are words, not the song.

1185
00:55:46,360 --> 00:55:47,759
Speaker 4: I don't know the rights to that. You kidding me?

1186
00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:53,879
Speaker 4: The words taste back, the words tasteback or in the show,

1187
00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:57,399
Speaker 4: And if you DM me where that you saw it,

1188
00:55:57,440 --> 00:55:59,840
Speaker 4: I'll send you an ecwords hat or something. I don't know.

1189
00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:03,000
Speaker 3: But yeah, you've really up to the east Awards from

1190
00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:05,080
Speaker 3: like significantly this year.

1191
00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:07,400
Speaker 4: Yes, it's it's at the Allegian Theater. If you're in

1192
00:56:07,520 --> 00:56:09,200
Speaker 4: l A and they are as of this recording, there

1193
00:56:09,200 --> 00:56:11,560
Speaker 4: are still tickets available and it's gonna be a lot

1194
00:56:11,560 --> 00:56:14,920
Speaker 4: of fun, you guys. So yeah, I'll see it on

1195
00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:18,640
Speaker 4: the twenty first, Right, you're talking about this on Thursday.

1196
00:56:18,719 --> 00:56:20,760
Speaker 4: We will not mention these awards on Thursday.

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00:56:20,840 --> 00:56:24,760
Speaker 3: No, No, this is your this is your heads upwards.

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00:56:24,880 --> 00:56:26,600
Speaker 2: Yeah and following easton on.

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00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:28,719
Speaker 4: Oh yeah at Eastern follow me.

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00:56:28,960 --> 00:56:30,319
Speaker 6: Come on, I need this.

1201
00:56:31,680 --> 00:56:32,839
Speaker 2: We love y'all so much.

1202
00:56:33,120 --> 00:56:36,480
Speaker 1: Love you don't enjoy Jessica and Harmel.

1203
00:56:36,440 --> 00:57:06,640
Speaker 7: Please enjoy.

1204
00:56:53,600 --> 00:56:54,080
Speaker 1: Everyone.

1205
00:56:54,880 --> 00:57:05,040
Speaker 2: Harmel has joined us. They're very cute. They're smiling and

1206
00:57:05,080 --> 00:57:06,240
Speaker 2: staring at each other.

1207
00:57:08,880 --> 00:57:11,000
Speaker 1: So we got a little bit of the rundown of

1208
00:57:11,120 --> 00:57:15,000
Speaker 1: kind of you were in the pods you left because

1209
00:57:15,040 --> 00:57:17,120
Speaker 1: it was just like overwhelming, which I actually could under

1210
00:57:17,760 --> 00:57:20,600
Speaker 1: I can understand. Yeah, just not even having my phone

1211
00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:22,720
Speaker 1: or a computer for like days on end, Well, huh

1212
00:57:23,480 --> 00:57:25,520
Speaker 1: make me in my head too much? I think, Yeah, I.

1213
00:57:25,480 --> 00:57:26,400
Speaker 6: Know for sure. I think.

1214
00:57:26,840 --> 00:57:29,320
Speaker 5: I think for me, I had like a I was saying,

1215
00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:32,120
Speaker 5: somewhat of a unique mindset going in. I think like

1216
00:57:32,200 --> 00:57:34,800
Speaker 5: coming in, I was very conscious of like whatever I

1217
00:57:34,840 --> 00:57:37,320
Speaker 5: say or do on TV, the Brown people don't get

1218
00:57:37,360 --> 00:57:39,600
Speaker 5: like screen time very much, and so I felt like

1219
00:57:39,600 --> 00:57:41,640
Speaker 5: I was representing like my family and my culture and

1220
00:57:41,640 --> 00:57:43,440
Speaker 5: all these things, and so not that I was like

1221
00:57:43,480 --> 00:57:44,360
Speaker 5: walk on eggshells, but.

1222
00:57:44,360 --> 00:57:47,840
Speaker 6: I was very very aware of whatever.

1223
00:57:47,600 --> 00:57:51,280
Speaker 5: My pursuit is, which was Jess, But like, whatever I

1224
00:57:51,360 --> 00:57:53,800
Speaker 5: decide I want to chase after that, there are more

1225
00:57:53,800 --> 00:57:56,200
Speaker 5: consequences than just me, and so I like I think

1226
00:57:56,200 --> 00:57:59,120
Speaker 5: sometimes people forget that, and I just was very aware

1227
00:57:59,160 --> 00:57:59,880
Speaker 5: of that early on.

1228
00:58:00,120 --> 00:58:01,800
Speaker 1: What's your background, Like where your parents from?

1229
00:58:02,000 --> 00:58:05,000
Speaker 5: So my parents are from Punjab, which is northwest India, Okay,

1230
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:06,640
Speaker 5: So like they moved here as immigrants, and like they

1231
00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:08,440
Speaker 5: just like the amount of sacrifice they had for me

1232
00:58:08,480 --> 00:58:09,960
Speaker 5: and my brother and stuff like that is not something

1233
00:58:10,000 --> 00:58:12,760
Speaker 5: I take for granted in anyway. And so like I

1234
00:58:13,280 --> 00:58:15,640
Speaker 5: like really really care about That's like the cultural thing,

1235
00:58:15,680 --> 00:58:17,360
Speaker 5: the heritage thing, is like very important to me.

1236
00:58:17,880 --> 00:58:19,240
Speaker 6: And so I walked in with that understanding.

1237
00:58:19,280 --> 00:58:20,320
Speaker 5: I was like, I want to be the best version

1238
00:58:20,360 --> 00:58:22,160
Speaker 5: of myself, not to reflect on me, but my parents

1239
00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:24,200
Speaker 5: and like my family and like my culture and stuff

1240
00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:27,400
Speaker 5: and so and so I walked in with that and

1241
00:58:27,720 --> 00:58:30,120
Speaker 5: one part of that was just like making sure I'm

1242
00:58:30,160 --> 00:58:34,120
Speaker 5: doing this for the right reasons. And I actually never

1243
00:58:34,160 --> 00:58:35,720
Speaker 5: wanted to be on the show. Like they reached out

1244
00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:40,000
Speaker 5: and they were very persistent, they were very they were

1245
00:58:40,120 --> 00:58:41,800
Speaker 5: very persistent, and eventually I was like, Okay, let's go

1246
00:58:41,840 --> 00:58:43,840
Speaker 5: ahead and do this thing because I've like, I don't

1247
00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:46,160
Speaker 5: really watch much reality TV, but I've seen like The

1248
00:58:46,200 --> 00:58:49,960
Speaker 5: bacheloun of The Bachelorette, and it bothers me because, like

1249
00:58:50,520 --> 00:58:53,120
Speaker 5: people say, it's like you know, scripted or something, but

1250
00:58:53,200 --> 00:58:56,120
Speaker 5: it's like watching people get their hearts broken and people

1251
00:58:56,160 --> 00:58:58,479
Speaker 5: just like it's like something to consume on TV.

1252
00:58:58,560 --> 00:59:00,440
Speaker 6: It bothers me so much and so I have a

1253
00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:01,160
Speaker 6: hard time watching them.

1254
00:59:01,160 --> 00:59:02,240
Speaker 5: I'm like, I don't know if I can be involved

1255
00:59:02,280 --> 00:59:03,680
Speaker 5: in something like that, but they're like just like watch

1256
00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:05,360
Speaker 5: a season and I watched one of the early I

1257
00:59:05,400 --> 00:59:06,960
Speaker 5: was like, Okay, this is like something maybe we can

1258
00:59:07,040 --> 00:59:08,600
Speaker 5: do in a safe way that people aren't.

1259
00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:09,000
Speaker 6: Gonna get hurt.

1260
00:59:09,400 --> 00:59:11,680
Speaker 5: And so I think like as it went on, it

1261
00:59:11,720 --> 00:59:14,000
Speaker 5: was like so good when I first got in my element,

1262
00:59:14,040 --> 00:59:16,400
Speaker 5: I love talking about this stuff, like it's so great

1263
00:59:16,400 --> 00:59:17,240
Speaker 5: connecting with people.

1264
00:59:17,840 --> 00:59:18,000
Speaker 6: Uh.

1265
00:59:18,040 --> 00:59:19,760
Speaker 5: And then once it got towards the end, it got

1266
00:59:19,800 --> 00:59:23,400
Speaker 5: like very very real and not in a bad way,

1267
00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:24,760
Speaker 5: but in a way where I was like I just

1268
00:59:24,760 --> 00:59:27,560
Speaker 5: started feeling like, man, people are gonna get hurt. Like

1269
00:59:27,800 --> 00:59:29,720
Speaker 5: whether it's like I'm okay with getting hurt, I'm fine,

1270
00:59:29,720 --> 00:59:31,080
Speaker 5: I can deal with that, but to be the cast,

1271
00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:35,080
Speaker 5: like the pain for somebody else and uh so what

1272
00:59:35,240 --> 00:59:38,160
Speaker 5: like just the only reason I was even there, Like

1273
00:59:38,320 --> 00:59:41,000
Speaker 5: I like when we watched into the pods, like I

1274
00:59:41,000 --> 00:59:43,000
Speaker 5: didn't expect to really meet anybody. I expect to connect

1275
00:59:43,000 --> 00:59:45,000
Speaker 5: to people, but like it was just like we the

1276
00:59:45,080 --> 00:59:46,960
Speaker 5: number of things that happened, and I wish we could

1277
00:59:47,000 --> 00:59:48,400
Speaker 5: watch it back because it was like.

1278
00:59:49,800 --> 00:59:50,760
Speaker 6: Lightning moments.

1279
00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:52,520
Speaker 1: Have you asked them for the footage?

1280
00:59:53,240 --> 00:59:53,640
Speaker 6: Not yet.

1281
00:59:53,720 --> 00:59:55,280
Speaker 10: We haven't directly asked, though.

1282
00:59:55,480 --> 00:59:58,400
Speaker 5: We need the public to get involved.

1283
00:59:59,640 --> 01:00:01,680
Speaker 1: I think they should, even if they don't even release

1284
01:00:01,720 --> 01:00:04,440
Speaker 1: it on like on Netflix, they should release it on

1285
01:00:04,480 --> 01:00:08,080
Speaker 1: like their Instagram and stuff so that people can see, Like,

1286
01:00:08,760 --> 01:00:10,560
Speaker 1: we want to see how you guys met, Like the

1287
01:00:10,920 --> 01:00:12,160
Speaker 1: talk about Gusher.

1288
01:00:12,280 --> 01:00:14,880
Speaker 3: I first of all, love what you said about your

1289
01:00:14,920 --> 01:00:16,280
Speaker 3: representation in Brown.

1290
01:00:16,360 --> 01:00:17,920
Speaker 2: That is not something you hear a lot about.

1291
01:00:18,040 --> 01:00:20,120
Speaker 3: Even if it's something that people are processing, it's not

1292
01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:21,040
Speaker 3: something people talk about.

1293
01:00:21,040 --> 01:00:25,400
Speaker 2: So I think that's such an important conversation. I want

1294
01:00:25,440 --> 01:00:25,760
Speaker 2: to know.

1295
01:00:26,800 --> 01:00:31,280
Speaker 3: So y'all met, it was electric of course when you left.

1296
01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:34,840
Speaker 3: I mean, do you think if you hadn't left, would

1297
01:00:34,920 --> 01:00:36,520
Speaker 3: y'all have had that the.

1298
01:00:36,480 --> 01:00:39,560
Speaker 1: Moment of choosing each other and the doors opening?

1299
01:00:39,640 --> 01:00:42,920
Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, Honestly, I think there's a there's a duality

1300
01:00:42,960 --> 01:00:44,800
Speaker 5: to everything is Like, I think sometimes people use these

1301
01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:49,240
Speaker 5: phrases that kind of exempts them from responsibility. So for example,

1302
01:00:49,280 --> 01:00:51,320
Speaker 5: like like the universe has a plan, like God has

1303
01:00:51,320 --> 01:00:54,600
Speaker 5: a plan, a plant like everything, and I believe that

1304
01:00:54,680 --> 01:00:56,960
Speaker 5: to my core, I believe like everything happens for a reason.

1305
01:00:57,400 --> 01:00:59,800
Speaker 5: But sometimes people use this escapism. We're like, oh my God,

1306
01:00:59,840 --> 01:01:02,320
Speaker 5: like everything happens for a reason. And then but you

1307
01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:05,080
Speaker 5: have to meet it, you know, like if like if

1308
01:01:05,080 --> 01:01:07,280
Speaker 5: everything is in front of you on a silver platter

1309
01:01:07,520 --> 01:01:09,640
Speaker 5: and you're afraid because something bad is gonna happen and

1310
01:01:09,680 --> 01:01:12,760
Speaker 5: you don't meet it. Yeah, like people, the good things

1311
01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:14,000
Speaker 5: don't happen if you're just stuck in your house the

1312
01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:14,480
Speaker 5: entire time.

1313
01:01:14,880 --> 01:01:16,520
Speaker 6: So I think there's like a two version of that one.

1314
01:01:16,560 --> 01:01:17,320
Speaker 6: It's like like.

1315
01:01:17,320 --> 01:01:19,440
Speaker 5: Look at where we are right now, and this is

1316
01:01:19,560 --> 01:01:21,480
Speaker 5: amazing and I love it, And then I also look

1317
01:01:21,520 --> 01:01:24,040
Speaker 5: back and I'm like, yeah, do there's some level of

1318
01:01:24,040 --> 01:01:26,720
Speaker 5: responsibility of being like yeah, dude, that if they put

1319
01:01:26,720 --> 01:01:28,360
Speaker 5: everything in front of you, everything was right there, you

1320
01:01:28,400 --> 01:01:30,400
Speaker 5: had the moment you had everything, and you just didn't

1321
01:01:30,440 --> 01:01:31,160
Speaker 5: like do it?

1322
01:01:33,000 --> 01:01:33,439
Speaker 1: Do you guys?

1323
01:01:33,680 --> 01:01:34,880
Speaker 6: What emotional about this stuff? Man?

1324
01:01:36,320 --> 01:01:36,600
Speaker 1: Sign?

1325
01:01:37,600 --> 01:01:38,520
Speaker 6: Oh what do you think my sign is?

1326
01:01:38,560 --> 01:01:42,919
Speaker 3: We talked about this, so Tanya, I act like she's

1327
01:01:42,960 --> 01:01:44,440
Speaker 3: gonna be able to guess everyone's signing.

1328
01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:50,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, go ahead, are you I've heard pisces before. Now

1329
01:01:50,160 --> 01:01:52,120
Speaker 6: I'm the cancer. I've heard cancer before. My mom is

1330
01:01:52,120 --> 01:01:53,080
Speaker 6: a cancer, so probably.

1331
01:01:52,880 --> 01:01:53,360
Speaker 5: A lot of my mom.

1332
01:01:53,600 --> 01:01:55,120
Speaker 1: Scorpio No, not a scorpio.

1333
01:01:55,480 --> 01:01:57,680
Speaker 6: No, keep going, keep going, keep going. This is great.

1334
01:01:57,920 --> 01:01:58,680
Speaker 2: That's Oh my.

1335
01:01:58,520 --> 01:02:01,440
Speaker 1: God, I thought a sign because you're emotional.

1336
01:02:01,600 --> 01:02:05,439
Speaker 6: I am very emotional. Le No, I'm not too.

1337
01:02:06,200 --> 01:02:06,960
Speaker 1: You're not a Gemini.

1338
01:02:07,280 --> 01:02:08,160
Speaker 6: No, I'm not a Gemini.

1339
01:02:09,280 --> 01:02:11,680
Speaker 1: Hilarious sad, sad hilarious.

1340
01:02:11,880 --> 01:02:12,240
Speaker 4: No not.

1341
01:02:12,240 --> 01:02:16,600
Speaker 5: Aquarius's fantastic a libra No, I'm not a libra.

1342
01:02:17,080 --> 01:02:19,160
Speaker 6: Virgo virgo. Wow.

1343
01:02:20,000 --> 01:02:23,000
Speaker 5: Something that makes me feel really good about that is

1344
01:02:23,040 --> 01:02:25,920
Speaker 5: those like things when you fall into a category where

1345
01:02:25,920 --> 01:02:27,120
Speaker 5: it's like, oh, I know what you are.

1346
01:02:27,520 --> 01:02:29,400
Speaker 6: The fact that you came up with like eight different things.

1347
01:02:29,440 --> 01:02:31,280
Speaker 5: I think that's the best part about humans is like

1348
01:02:31,320 --> 01:02:34,200
Speaker 5: it's so the more complex you are, the more parts

1349
01:02:34,240 --> 01:02:35,880
Speaker 5: you have to yourself where it's like, dude, what is

1350
01:02:35,920 --> 01:02:37,720
Speaker 5: this thing that's in front of me? Like I think

1351
01:02:37,720 --> 01:02:39,640
Speaker 5: everybody has that in them and it's just like, I

1352
01:02:39,640 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 5: don't know that makes that made me feel really good

1353
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:44,720
Speaker 5: that you can pin me.

1354
01:02:44,960 --> 01:02:45,760
Speaker 1: Down with the sign.

1355
01:02:47,520 --> 01:02:50,480
Speaker 11: Dang, my senses are also is your your mentality is

1356
01:02:50,520 --> 01:02:53,920
Speaker 11: kind of like, Okay, I I went what was supposed

1357
01:02:53,960 --> 01:02:56,160
Speaker 11: to happen, I was I was supposed to talk to

1358
01:02:56,240 --> 01:02:57,760
Speaker 11: Jess at the very leak, so I was supposed to

1359
01:02:57,800 --> 01:02:59,000
Speaker 11: connect with her on some.

1360
01:02:58,960 --> 01:03:02,400
Speaker 3: Level, but I had her like it was handed to me.

1361
01:03:02,480 --> 01:03:04,240
Speaker 3: But I I walked out.

1362
01:03:04,440 --> 01:03:04,720
Speaker 9: I did.

1363
01:03:05,400 --> 01:03:09,880
Speaker 2: But because things work out how they're supposed.

1364
01:03:09,520 --> 01:03:12,400
Speaker 1: To, we reconnected and here we are.

1365
01:03:12,520 --> 01:03:15,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's kind of the mentality of you had to

1366
01:03:15,360 --> 01:03:17,360
Speaker 3: make one step, which is to go on the show,

1367
01:03:18,280 --> 01:03:20,640
Speaker 3: and that that was the one step that mattered.

1368
01:03:21,240 --> 01:03:24,400
Speaker 1: Do you guys work at the same hospital, don't? Are

1369
01:03:24,400 --> 01:03:24,840
Speaker 1: they close?

1370
01:03:24,920 --> 01:03:26,680
Speaker 6: That would be a problem you.

1371
01:03:26,760 --> 01:03:28,440
Speaker 2: Want to be a problem anatomy.

1372
01:03:29,520 --> 01:03:31,160
Speaker 6: I can talk about it. For me, it would be

1373
01:03:31,160 --> 01:03:32,160
Speaker 6: I would be very distracted.

1374
01:03:33,800 --> 01:03:39,280
Speaker 1: But it's not like are they close by?

1375
01:03:39,600 --> 01:03:40,000
Speaker 6: Not really?

1376
01:03:40,240 --> 01:03:42,960
Speaker 1: No, But you guys have an understanding of like each

1377
01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:45,280
Speaker 1: other's careers and lives that I think most people don't

1378
01:03:45,280 --> 01:03:46,680
Speaker 1: really have if they're not like in it.

1379
01:03:47,000 --> 01:03:49,000
Speaker 10: Yes, it makes it a lot easier.

1380
01:03:49,160 --> 01:03:50,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to know.

1381
01:03:50,880 --> 01:03:54,200
Speaker 3: Did you watch the scene heard around the world that

1382
01:03:54,240 --> 01:03:59,120
Speaker 3: we all gathered around Jessica and collectively united on something.

1383
01:03:58,840 --> 01:04:00,600
Speaker 6: Finally, Yeah, which is great.

1384
01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:02,360
Speaker 1: Did you did you watch it?

1385
01:04:02,520 --> 01:04:02,760
Speaker 6: I did?

1386
01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:05,400
Speaker 5: I definitely, I definitely watched that. Yeah, not too First

1387
01:04:05,400 --> 01:04:08,040
Speaker 5: of all, was it hard to watch?

1388
01:04:08,400 --> 01:04:12,680
Speaker 6: It was? Uh? Yes, And there's so many layers to things,

1389
01:04:12,800 --> 01:04:12,960
Speaker 6: you know.

1390
01:04:13,040 --> 01:04:16,080
Speaker 5: I think that's the thing where will people watch people

1391
01:04:16,120 --> 01:04:18,960
Speaker 5: on TV and it's just very quick to reduce something

1392
01:04:18,960 --> 01:04:21,680
Speaker 5: to your initial reaction like oh, this is how people should.

1393
01:04:21,440 --> 01:04:23,400
Speaker 6: Feel about it, and there's like so much complexity to it.

1394
01:04:23,920 --> 01:04:26,960
Speaker 5: I think the one thing I felt the most was

1395
01:04:27,040 --> 01:04:29,080
Speaker 5: just like I was very proud of her, Like it

1396
01:04:29,120 --> 01:04:32,160
Speaker 5: was just like, dude, to be able to handle that

1397
01:04:32,280 --> 01:04:37,240
Speaker 5: in that way they was talking about like like oh

1398
01:04:37,240 --> 01:04:38,880
Speaker 5: my god, everyone knows gets their flowers, but like what

1399
01:04:38,960 --> 01:04:41,280
Speaker 5: cemeteries is it built on? And it's like how much

1400
01:04:41,280 --> 01:04:42,640
Speaker 5: have you had to go through to be able to

1401
01:04:42,680 --> 01:04:45,360
Speaker 5: handle that in that moment? And it's like those layers

1402
01:04:45,960 --> 01:04:48,400
Speaker 5: that like no one sees. It's like I was like

1403
01:04:48,520 --> 01:04:49,200
Speaker 5: very proud of her.

1404
01:04:49,320 --> 01:04:50,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was.

1405
01:04:50,640 --> 01:04:54,000
Speaker 3: It was truly amazing, Like we were just we were

1406
01:04:54,000 --> 01:05:00,600
Speaker 3: talking about it earlier that like her The way she

1407
01:05:01,000 --> 01:05:05,640
Speaker 3: didn't even give him something to work to react to

1408
01:05:06,080 --> 01:05:07,960
Speaker 3: was the most powerful.

1409
01:05:08,040 --> 01:05:09,520
Speaker 2: I was like, that's someone.

1410
01:05:09,200 --> 01:05:11,439
Speaker 3: Who knows their worth. Like that's what I took away

1411
01:05:11,440 --> 01:05:13,480
Speaker 3: from it. I was like, Jessica knows who she is.

1412
01:05:13,520 --> 01:05:17,920
Speaker 3: She didn't need him to say say anything that was

1413
01:05:17,960 --> 01:05:19,440
Speaker 3: complimentary or try to go back.

1414
01:05:19,480 --> 01:05:22,040
Speaker 2: She was like, I don't need to hear anything else

1415
01:05:22,040 --> 01:05:22,680
Speaker 2: from you.

1416
01:05:22,680 --> 01:05:26,160
Speaker 3: You've said enough. And that was like very impactful. I

1417
01:05:26,200 --> 01:05:28,520
Speaker 3: hope that people watching were able to be like, Wow,

1418
01:05:28,840 --> 01:05:31,120
Speaker 3: that is how I hope to react to someone who

1419
01:05:31,200 --> 01:05:33,600
Speaker 3: ever treats me that way, if I'm ever in that situation.

1420
01:05:34,000 --> 01:05:35,520
Speaker 1: It was amazing you get over there. Yeah.

1421
01:05:37,240 --> 01:05:39,120
Speaker 5: I just want to say for people that don't react

1422
01:05:39,120 --> 01:05:41,840
Speaker 5: like that, you know, like it's like some grace, you know,

1423
01:05:41,880 --> 01:05:46,440
Speaker 5: it's like, I, how can you like that? We just

1424
01:05:46,440 --> 01:05:48,800
Speaker 5: watched like the APEX version of that thing, where it's like,

1425
01:05:48,800 --> 01:05:51,560
Speaker 5: how do you have like self respect? How do you

1426
01:05:51,640 --> 01:05:53,160
Speaker 5: know your worth? How do you do it in real

1427
01:05:53,200 --> 01:05:55,640
Speaker 5: time when someone's coming at you. That's a very different

1428
01:05:55,640 --> 01:05:58,120
Speaker 5: situation than like on a quiet Sunday when you're like, yeh, dude,

1429
01:05:58,120 --> 01:05:59,200
Speaker 5: you're doing your mantras, you're.

1430
01:05:59,080 --> 01:06:02,280
Speaker 1: Talking about I just have to like I've been obviously

1431
01:06:02,520 --> 01:06:04,320
Speaker 1: not in front of cameras and like not in front

1432
01:06:04,360 --> 01:06:06,440
Speaker 1: of any of this stuff, not from a man like

1433
01:06:06,520 --> 01:06:10,360
Speaker 1: I have been called like Chubby this uh Plaine Jane

1434
01:06:10,600 --> 01:06:13,360
Speaker 1: Ugly like all, like from somebody that like and my

1435
01:06:13,840 --> 01:06:15,480
Speaker 1: I did not react the way that you did. I

1436
01:06:15,520 --> 01:06:19,520
Speaker 1: was just like so furious and so it's like to

1437
01:06:19,600 --> 01:06:21,360
Speaker 1: be able to handle it the way that you did,

1438
01:06:21,480 --> 01:06:24,360
Speaker 1: like really actually inspired me to just kind of like

1439
01:06:26,960 --> 01:06:29,720
Speaker 1: be like Gray Rock. Yeah, Gray Rock, I've never heard

1440
01:06:29,760 --> 01:06:32,440
Speaker 1: of that, but like yeah, it was really like it

1441
01:06:32,520 --> 01:06:34,040
Speaker 1: was something that you should be really proud of.

1442
01:06:34,240 --> 01:06:35,880
Speaker 10: They just don't deserve any bit of you.

1443
01:06:36,280 --> 01:06:41,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, they don't. Yeah. So you what was the first date,

1444
01:06:41,800 --> 01:06:44,200
Speaker 1: like when y'all reconnected, what was the first date, because.

1445
01:06:49,480 --> 01:06:50,480
Speaker 10: I've been talking like.

1446
01:06:50,720 --> 01:06:54,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Well the first day was like we

1447
01:06:54,520 --> 01:06:56,640
Speaker 5: we ended up so we ended up going to like

1448
01:06:56,880 --> 01:06:58,680
Speaker 5: a wine first of all, trying to pin her down

1449
01:06:58,720 --> 01:07:00,000
Speaker 5: to be like, hey, can we just hang out?

1450
01:07:00,120 --> 01:07:00,320
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1451
01:07:00,320 --> 01:07:04,280
Speaker 3: We heard my god, we hear little confusion on where

1452
01:07:04,280 --> 01:07:05,880
Speaker 3: the romance and friendship.

1453
01:07:07,560 --> 01:07:13,840
Speaker 6: Well that's fair, that's fairs, And I hit out my

1454
01:07:13,880 --> 01:07:14,400
Speaker 6: bros like that.

1455
01:07:16,000 --> 01:07:17,040
Speaker 10: I realized that later.

1456
01:07:18,000 --> 01:07:19,800
Speaker 5: So the first like that we finally Like it was

1457
01:07:19,800 --> 01:07:22,920
Speaker 5: actually funny because like I was if I want, if

1458
01:07:22,920 --> 01:07:25,160
Speaker 5: I want something or if I need, like it's like

1459
01:07:25,320 --> 01:07:28,280
Speaker 5: I'm very persistent with it, like very persistent with it

1460
01:07:28,400 --> 01:07:31,760
Speaker 5: until it's very natural, like until something changes, like okay,

1461
01:07:31,760 --> 01:07:33,240
Speaker 5: like take a hit because I think another thing is

1462
01:07:33,280 --> 01:07:35,800
Speaker 5: like I'm not trying to tell people like guys are like,

1463
01:07:35,800 --> 01:07:36,600
Speaker 5: oh my god, keep.

1464
01:07:36,480 --> 01:07:37,240
Speaker 6: Like try and keep trying.

1465
01:07:37,240 --> 01:07:38,920
Speaker 5: It's dude, take a hint sometimes, but it's like if

1466
01:07:38,960 --> 01:07:41,240
Speaker 5: something's really important, like also, don't go the other way.

1467
01:07:41,480 --> 01:07:43,120
Speaker 5: I think there's a thing about like good guys and

1468
01:07:43,400 --> 01:07:45,040
Speaker 5: bad guys to put that in air quotes, but it's

1469
01:07:45,080 --> 01:07:47,760
Speaker 5: like I think good guys need to be more persistent

1470
01:07:47,800 --> 01:07:49,760
Speaker 5: and do more good things. They need to show up

1471
01:07:49,760 --> 01:07:52,680
Speaker 5: in spaces that they're like nervous about doing because they're like, oh,

1472
01:07:52,680 --> 01:07:54,600
Speaker 5: maybe I'm being too much maybe on whatever. And then

1473
01:07:54,600 --> 01:07:55,720
Speaker 5: all of a sudden, it's like all the bad guys

1474
01:07:55,760 --> 01:07:58,080
Speaker 5: are doing the opposite where there's like really percent it's like,

1475
01:07:58,120 --> 01:08:01,160
Speaker 5: dude to chill. And so I remember the first time

1476
01:08:01,160 --> 01:08:02,880
Speaker 5: we finally like hung out. It was at a wine

1477
01:08:02,920 --> 01:08:05,120
Speaker 5: bar and it was after I think it was after

1478
01:08:05,160 --> 01:08:07,600
Speaker 5: work for you. I don't eve remember, but I was like, hey, listen,

1479
01:08:07,600 --> 01:08:09,240
Speaker 5: don't evenet dressed up, just like we're sweats. Can we

1480
01:08:09,320 --> 01:08:10,880
Speaker 5: just like hang out And she's like, yeah, let's do that.

1481
01:08:10,920 --> 01:08:12,240
Speaker 5: And so we ended up going to the wine bar

1482
01:08:12,440 --> 01:08:13,960
Speaker 5: and we spent the first couple of hours she was

1483
01:08:14,000 --> 01:08:16,400
Speaker 5: like talking just catching up on all the like life stuff.

1484
01:08:16,439 --> 01:08:17,880
Speaker 5: She's like, oh, like this was happening with Lyric and

1485
01:08:17,880 --> 01:08:19,479
Speaker 5: that's whatever. I like talking about advice stuff, and the

1486
01:08:19,479 --> 01:08:20,880
Speaker 5: whole time like I don't want to talk about this,

1487
01:08:21,760 --> 01:08:23,559
Speaker 5: like I need see you to know like what I'm

1488
01:08:23,600 --> 01:08:26,600
Speaker 5: here for, like very like I need you to know

1489
01:08:26,640 --> 01:08:29,040
Speaker 5: what this is. This is not like hey, let's hang

1490
01:08:29,080 --> 01:08:31,200
Speaker 5: out thing. Yeah, And so at some point it just

1491
01:08:31,280 --> 01:08:32,800
Speaker 5: kind of flipped. I was like, hey, by the way,

1492
01:08:32,920 --> 01:08:35,760
Speaker 5: I really really like you. And I showed her like

1493
01:08:35,800 --> 01:08:41,160
Speaker 5: a I had this text that I hadn't sent where

1494
01:08:41,160 --> 01:08:42,960
Speaker 5: I was like, hey, Jessica Barry, I would really really

1495
01:08:43,000 --> 01:08:46,080
Speaker 5: really like take you on a date, and I just

1496
01:08:46,080 --> 01:08:48,760
Speaker 5: like didn't send it and I was like holding on

1497
01:08:48,800 --> 01:08:50,559
Speaker 5: to it for a while, and then we finally had

1498
01:08:50,600 --> 01:08:52,559
Speaker 5: the had the date and I was like, here, I'm

1499
01:08:52,600 --> 01:08:54,719
Speaker 5: just gonna put all of my cards in the middle

1500
01:08:54,720 --> 01:08:56,599
Speaker 5: of the table, like here all the eggs in my basket.

1501
01:08:56,600 --> 01:08:58,160
Speaker 5: He says, say how I operate. It's like I don't

1502
01:08:58,200 --> 01:08:59,760
Speaker 5: half step. It's like, dude, if I'm doing something, I'm

1503
01:08:59,760 --> 01:09:02,240
Speaker 5: doing Yeah. And so I remember I said that, and

1504
01:09:02,280 --> 01:09:02,960
Speaker 5: she like, I think you.

1505
01:09:02,920 --> 01:09:05,519
Speaker 6: Had like a panic attack. And basically I think you

1506
01:09:05,560 --> 01:09:07,080
Speaker 6: had a panic attack. She was like, oh, man, like

1507
01:09:07,120 --> 01:09:08,439
Speaker 6: I don't I'm not ready for this. I don't want

1508
01:09:08,439 --> 01:09:11,160
Speaker 6: to She just straight up said, no, this is that

1509
01:09:11,240 --> 01:09:12,439
Speaker 6: the wine bar. This is the wine bar.

1510
01:09:12,520 --> 01:09:14,519
Speaker 5: She's like, I'm not ready, which which again talking about

1511
01:09:14,560 --> 01:09:16,200
Speaker 5: like just respecting people in the space. It was like,

1512
01:09:16,680 --> 01:09:17,960
Speaker 5: first of all, I was like, you know, leading up

1513
01:09:17,960 --> 01:09:20,120
Speaker 5: into this, like we hadn't even started, like the and

1514
01:09:20,200 --> 01:09:23,000
Speaker 5: like like her life was crazy, all things are happening.

1515
01:09:23,040 --> 01:09:25,559
Speaker 5: So being able to take a step back and be like, yes,

1516
01:09:25,600 --> 01:09:28,080
Speaker 5: I respect that. And so she wanted to be friends

1517
01:09:28,160 --> 01:09:30,840
Speaker 5: for a while, and so I said, okay, let's be friends.

1518
01:09:30,880 --> 01:09:33,840
Speaker 5: But I also don't text my friends forty times a day, right,

1519
01:09:34,240 --> 01:09:36,679
Speaker 5: And so I'm a very emotional person, Like this means

1520
01:09:36,680 --> 01:09:38,120
Speaker 5: a lot to me, Like I'm not talking.

1521
01:09:37,960 --> 01:09:38,600
Speaker 6: To girls like this.

1522
01:09:38,680 --> 01:09:41,479
Speaker 5: I don't do that, and you're the person that I'm like,

1523
01:09:41,960 --> 01:09:43,559
Speaker 5: I don't have side stuff going on.

1524
01:09:43,640 --> 01:09:44,559
Speaker 6: I'm like, you're just it.

1525
01:09:44,720 --> 01:09:47,080
Speaker 5: And so we kept running into that problem where I

1526
01:09:47,080 --> 01:09:48,479
Speaker 5: was like we would text, we would text, and then

1527
01:09:48,520 --> 01:09:51,400
Speaker 5: I would be like, hey, I'm every text I send

1528
01:09:51,439 --> 01:09:52,040
Speaker 5: you mean something.

1529
01:09:52,040 --> 01:09:53,679
Speaker 6: It's not. I'm not being friends with you. I can't

1530
01:09:53,720 --> 01:09:55,040
Speaker 6: do it. I feel like I'm living a lie. I

1531
01:09:55,080 --> 01:09:55,519
Speaker 6: can't lie.

1532
01:09:56,080 --> 01:09:58,519
Speaker 5: And so eventually came to a point I'm like, I

1533
01:09:58,520 --> 01:10:00,439
Speaker 5: don't think I can do the friends thing again. And

1534
01:10:00,479 --> 01:10:03,759
Speaker 5: I respect your space and I'm going to like really

1535
01:10:03,800 --> 01:10:05,519
Speaker 5: mean that, like you take care of yourself, you do

1536
01:10:05,600 --> 01:10:07,680
Speaker 5: your thing, but I can't be a friend to you.

1537
01:10:09,080 --> 01:10:11,560
Speaker 6: It's just a lie. And so I think it was

1538
01:10:11,600 --> 01:10:14,160
Speaker 6: what we went through like a mini moment.

1539
01:10:14,280 --> 01:10:17,400
Speaker 12: I was like, okay, fine, and then like twelve hours later,

1540
01:10:17,439 --> 01:10:20,519
Speaker 12: I was like wait wait. I was like, no, I

1541
01:10:20,560 --> 01:10:24,160
Speaker 12: need I need you.

1542
01:10:22,040 --> 01:10:22,360
Speaker 1: Oh.

1543
01:10:23,720 --> 01:10:27,040
Speaker 12: Miss, I miss your text texting a couple of the

1544
01:10:27,080 --> 01:10:28,679
Speaker 12: other girls, and I was like, why do I feel

1545
01:10:28,680 --> 01:10:30,720
Speaker 12: like I just like went through a breakup and we

1546
01:10:30,800 --> 01:10:34,120
Speaker 12: didn't even like we weren't even actually like dating yet,

1547
01:10:34,880 --> 01:10:36,800
Speaker 12: and I just like spiraled all night.

1548
01:10:36,960 --> 01:10:40,559
Speaker 10: And then finally I was like, so if I wanted

1549
01:10:40,560 --> 01:10:43,519
Speaker 10: to be brave, what would that look like that's what

1550
01:10:43,560 --> 01:10:44,040
Speaker 10: you said.

1551
01:10:47,160 --> 01:10:50,160
Speaker 6: Yeah, you just I don't know.

1552
01:10:50,160 --> 01:10:52,720
Speaker 5: Everyone's trying to like do something and get somewhere, and

1553
01:10:52,720 --> 01:10:54,439
Speaker 5: I think it's just trying to create spaces where it

1554
01:10:54,439 --> 01:10:56,519
Speaker 5: can happen, Like just trying to create safe spaces where

1555
01:10:56,520 --> 01:10:57,439
Speaker 5: like good things can happen.

1556
01:10:57,520 --> 01:10:58,600
Speaker 6: And so that was my thing.

1557
01:10:58,680 --> 01:11:00,400
Speaker 5: It was just hey, what is that? What does that

1558
01:11:00,479 --> 01:11:03,120
Speaker 5: look like? Because I want a version of this, but

1559
01:11:03,200 --> 01:11:04,840
Speaker 5: like really what I wanted just was best for you.

1560
01:11:05,000 --> 01:11:08,160
Speaker 5: And so like creating a space where you allow it

1561
01:11:08,200 --> 01:11:10,000
Speaker 5: to flow, where it's like, you know what, if it

1562
01:11:10,040 --> 01:11:11,920
Speaker 5: works out and we're doing awesome, Awesome, if I can

1563
01:11:11,920 --> 01:11:13,280
Speaker 5: be your friend and that's the best way I can

1564
01:11:13,320 --> 01:11:15,000
Speaker 5: do it, awesome. But if you need to be over

1565
01:11:15,000 --> 01:11:17,320
Speaker 5: there and that's the best thing for you, then like

1566
01:11:17,360 --> 01:11:19,280
Speaker 5: that's how it works. But just creating a safe space

1567
01:11:19,320 --> 01:11:22,240
Speaker 5: where it's like the pressure of expectation and whatever. I

1568
01:11:22,280 --> 01:11:23,800
Speaker 5: just don't want to I don't like putting people in

1569
01:11:23,840 --> 01:11:25,519
Speaker 5: space where they feel like they have to do something.

1570
01:11:25,920 --> 01:11:27,080
Speaker 5: So like you to take care of yourself and like

1571
01:11:27,120 --> 01:11:28,960
Speaker 5: I care about you enough to like allow that to happen.

1572
01:11:29,040 --> 01:11:30,280
Speaker 5: And this is how it worked out.

1573
01:11:30,640 --> 01:11:32,599
Speaker 3: What was your favorite song on each other's playlist when

1574
01:11:32,920 --> 01:11:33,720
Speaker 3: the silent disc go.

1575
01:11:34,080 --> 01:11:37,599
Speaker 12: Well, first of all, I don't really remember. We listened

1576
01:11:37,600 --> 01:11:43,960
Speaker 12: to very different music. Also, we had two playlists. One

1577
01:11:44,000 --> 01:11:47,360
Speaker 12: were one was five songs that mean love to you

1578
01:11:47,960 --> 01:11:50,840
Speaker 12: and five songs that like explain who you are?

1579
01:11:51,320 --> 01:11:51,759
Speaker 1: Okay?

1580
01:11:51,840 --> 01:11:54,000
Speaker 12: And I wasn't about to make him listen to my

1581
01:11:54,080 --> 01:11:56,840
Speaker 12: love songs after I thought he was like, baby gonna

1582
01:11:56,840 --> 01:11:58,800
Speaker 12: break up. So I was like, let's just listen to

1583
01:11:58,840 --> 01:11:59,559
Speaker 12: our fun songs.

1584
01:11:59,600 --> 01:12:00,240
Speaker 1: That'd be fun.

1585
01:12:00,320 --> 01:12:00,559
Speaker 6: Huh?

1586
01:12:03,439 --> 01:12:05,520
Speaker 1: What was it like? What was your fun playlist?

1587
01:12:06,320 --> 01:12:10,559
Speaker 12: Mine was like Taylor Swift, Alicia Keys Ahead, I can

1588
01:12:10,600 --> 01:12:13,599
Speaker 12: do It with a broken Heart, gir on Fire.

1589
01:12:14,200 --> 01:12:14,840
Speaker 6: You remember all these?

1590
01:12:17,160 --> 01:12:24,599
Speaker 1: And I understand the Broadway song? Very different, Okay, go ahead.

1591
01:12:24,600 --> 01:12:25,360
Speaker 1: What's your other one?

1592
01:12:25,479 --> 01:12:27,599
Speaker 2: Well, it's it's the last question of the podcast?

1593
01:12:28,560 --> 01:12:30,479
Speaker 1: What what does the future hold for them? No?

1594
01:12:31,640 --> 01:12:34,400
Speaker 6: Oh gosh, what's the question.

1595
01:12:35,160 --> 01:12:41,320
Speaker 2: It's love blind. I'm gonna ask you, my bad.

1596
01:12:43,160 --> 01:12:45,080
Speaker 1: I just want to know, like what the future holds

1597
01:12:45,120 --> 01:12:45,320
Speaker 1: for you?

1598
01:12:45,360 --> 01:12:45,639
Speaker 3: Guys?

1599
01:12:46,120 --> 01:12:49,720
Speaker 6: Do you think love is fine?

1600
01:12:51,080 --> 01:12:51,439
Speaker 10: I don't.

1601
01:12:51,560 --> 01:12:59,040
Speaker 12: I still don't really know. I got to see him, but.

1602
01:12:59,120 --> 01:13:02,719
Speaker 3: You you you had feelings before you see Yeah, yeah,

1603
01:13:02,840 --> 01:13:05,439
Speaker 3: very much, so, very much so it definitely would not

1604
01:13:05,920 --> 01:13:06,719
Speaker 3: I've battered.

1605
01:13:08,960 --> 01:13:10,760
Speaker 10: He just happens to be really freaking.

1606
01:13:12,960 --> 01:13:15,080
Speaker 1: As the future hold free any Like, I mean it's

1607
01:13:15,120 --> 01:13:17,760
Speaker 1: been a couple of months, but like I feel like.

1608
01:13:18,080 --> 01:13:20,479
Speaker 10: Especially we were actually just talking about this on the

1609
01:13:20,479 --> 01:13:20,960
Speaker 10: way here.

1610
01:13:21,560 --> 01:13:24,000
Speaker 12: I'm such a planner and such a like what's next?

1611
01:13:24,040 --> 01:13:24,439
Speaker 10: What is this?

1612
01:13:24,479 --> 01:13:24,880
Speaker 1: What is this?

1613
01:13:25,000 --> 01:13:29,040
Speaker 12: And we're kind of in a space where we're just

1614
01:13:29,280 --> 01:13:32,360
Speaker 12: who knows what happens next, And so I'm trying my

1615
01:13:32,400 --> 01:13:34,519
Speaker 12: best to kind of like lean into that and actually

1616
01:13:34,680 --> 01:13:36,679
Speaker 12: go with the flow for ones in my life and

1617
01:13:37,479 --> 01:13:39,280
Speaker 12: just actually enjoy the moment that we're in.

1618
01:13:39,640 --> 01:13:40,960
Speaker 6: Yeah, I think plans.

1619
01:13:40,960 --> 01:13:43,080
Speaker 5: It's like plans are really good, but you just miss

1620
01:13:43,120 --> 01:13:45,479
Speaker 5: these like a little moment for example, like this, you

1621
01:13:45,479 --> 01:13:47,760
Speaker 5: guys do this all the time. There's the first time

1622
01:13:47,760 --> 01:13:50,240
Speaker 5: we're doing this, Like this is this is just cool

1623
01:13:50,280 --> 01:13:53,200
Speaker 5: to hang out with you very very nice, and then

1624
01:13:53,200 --> 01:13:55,320
Speaker 5: we get to do it together. And like we were

1625
01:13:55,320 --> 01:13:56,840
Speaker 5: at the airport and you're gonna think it's silly, but

1626
01:13:56,840 --> 01:13:58,800
Speaker 5: we were at the airport and we're like walking and

1627
01:13:58,800 --> 01:14:00,840
Speaker 5: we had to cross this crossway and like the you know,

1628
01:14:00,880 --> 01:14:03,640
Speaker 5: like the walking sign like stopped, and she's like, oh

1629
01:14:03,680 --> 01:14:04,960
Speaker 5: my god, we have to get across the street and

1630
01:14:04,960 --> 01:14:06,200
Speaker 5: I was like, I don't know, dud, did we have

1631
01:14:06,280 --> 01:14:07,640
Speaker 5: to do that? And we just kind of stood there

1632
01:14:07,640 --> 01:14:09,040
Speaker 5: for a while, like looked at each other and it

1633
01:14:09,080 --> 01:14:13,439
Speaker 5: was just like this little moment, if you have plans,

1634
01:14:13,479 --> 01:14:13,840
Speaker 5: you just.

1635
01:14:13,800 --> 01:14:14,679
Speaker 6: Like miss those things.

1636
01:14:14,840 --> 01:14:16,799
Speaker 1: Who yeah, so I'm.

1637
01:14:16,680 --> 01:14:17,080
Speaker 6: Just doing that.

1638
01:14:17,160 --> 01:14:19,479
Speaker 5: She's like, there's so much life happening right now with this,

1639
01:14:19,560 --> 01:14:22,800
Speaker 5: and it's just like like good things if you just

1640
01:14:22,880 --> 01:14:25,200
Speaker 5: like just stay in the moment and you're like very present,

1641
01:14:25,400 --> 01:14:26,920
Speaker 5: like good things have to happen.

1642
01:14:26,960 --> 01:14:27,639
Speaker 6: So we're just there.

1643
01:14:28,200 --> 01:14:30,400
Speaker 1: So you guys, stay in the moment. We will keep

1644
01:14:30,479 --> 01:14:36,439
Speaker 1: leading the charge on getting Netflix to I'm going to

1645
01:14:36,520 --> 01:14:38,960
Speaker 1: take that on. Thank you so much for your time.

1646
01:14:39,000 --> 01:14:40,160
Speaker 1: You really really appreciate it.

1647
01:14:40,280 --> 01:14:40,479
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1648
01:14:40,960 --> 01:14:45,320
Speaker 1: I think we are all just so hurting you seriously.

1649
01:14:45,400 --> 01:14:50,720
Speaker 3: It's like you watching watching your journey and seeing where

1650
01:14:50,760 --> 01:14:54,719
Speaker 3: you are now is like the most like satisfying ending.

1651
01:14:54,880 --> 01:14:58,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, for this chapter. So we're very happy for you

1652
01:14:58,240 --> 01:15:02,360
Speaker 1: and both of you together, and hm, we can't wait

1653
01:15:02,360 --> 01:15:03,080
Speaker 1: for next season.

1654
01:15:05,720 --> 01:15:10,519
Speaker 6: Bye bye.