1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:04,760 Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys 2 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:06,800 Speaker 1: online at Advocates Law dot com. 3 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:09,159 Speaker 2: Ryan is on the phone today for a first day 4 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:12,000 Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Leila. 5 00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see 6 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe 7 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:17,480 Speaker 2: get him a second date. But first, Ryan, how long 8 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 2: has it been since your date? 9 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:21,320 Speaker 3: It's been almost almost a week now. 10 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 1: Have you been trying to hit her up? 11 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:26,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, I've been trying to get a hold of Layla 12 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:29,520 Speaker 3: for a bait. We ended up, like, we ended up 13 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:33,599 Speaker 3: spending a whole day together, and I've just been trying 14 00:00:33,640 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 3: to you know, call and text without being you know, 15 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:40,320 Speaker 3: overwhelming or anything like that, but I just can't seem 16 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 3: to get any sort of response from her. 17 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 2: We'll tell us about the date. 18 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, so the day was great, Like we planned 19 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:48,120 Speaker 3: to meet for lunch, but we ended up spending the 20 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 3: whole day together, which I didn't really expect, like just 21 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 3: like a quick little coffee at this cafe, but it 22 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 3: just like kept I don't know, I'm like, the date 23 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 3: just kept going on and on and on, and so 24 00:00:58,280 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 3: after that we wouldn't like grab a couple of bikes 25 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:03,320 Speaker 3: and went for this ride by the water and stopped 26 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:06,560 Speaker 3: to grab some snacks and you know, are grabbing snacks 27 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 3: and just like chatting and everything. 28 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:09,840 Speaker 2: You know, we're by the water and. 29 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 3: She's just like tell me about herself and her family 30 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:14,320 Speaker 3: and all this stuff. And like I was like, well, 31 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 3: you know, like let's let's keep the conversation going. Let's 32 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:18,639 Speaker 3: go grab some steaks. We'll go back to my place 33 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 3: and just like cook some dinner together. And she's like, well, 34 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 3: forgetting steaks, we should grab some wine. And I don't know, 35 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 3: I'm not much of it, like a Netflix and chill guy. 36 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 3: And so when she came over, she's like, hey, I 37 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 3: see you have UNO. Was like, yeah, do you do 38 00:01:33,280 --> 00:01:36,120 Speaker 3: you play cards? It's just like, of course I played cards. 39 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 3: And it turns out she's like really competitive, and so 40 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 3: we like like we ended up playing UNO and they 41 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 3: just like putting music on the speaker back and forth, 42 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 3: taking turns, and like felt I know this sounds super cheesy, 43 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:48,040 Speaker 3: but it felt like I seen out of the movie 44 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 3: really fun. 45 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, it does sound fun. So I could have gone wrong. 46 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 3: I mean I kind of have a theory I just 47 00:01:55,360 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 3: I don't want it to be true. 48 00:01:57,360 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 2: What is it? 49 00:01:59,080 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 3: Okay? 50 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:01,800 Speaker 1: So when I invited her back to. 51 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 3: My place, like it wasn't actually my place, I was 52 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 3: house sitting for my boss. 53 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 2: Oh okay, you think she knows that? 54 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 3: No, No, she does not know that. There's no way 55 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 3: because I just kind of like played it off. 56 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:16,520 Speaker 1: But like I don't know, like I'm worried. 57 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 3: I don't know. Maybe she saw like the mail or 58 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:22,280 Speaker 3: something with and didn't have my name on it. I 59 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 3: just feel awful, like I wish I had just told her, like, hey, 60 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 3: I'm house sitting. 61 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 2: I don't know why I didn't say that. Ryan is 62 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:29,120 Speaker 2: on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Leila. So 63 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:30,920 Speaker 2: we're about to call her and see if she'll tell 64 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 2: us why and maybe get him a second date. But first, Ryan, 65 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 2: before we do that, why don't you recap your date 66 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:37,640 Speaker 2: real quick? Okay? 67 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, So Leyla and I went out that it was 68 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 3: supposed to be a short day. It turned out into 69 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:47,120 Speaker 3: like a whole day affair. And I invited her back 70 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:49,360 Speaker 3: to my place to cook some dinner. She has just 71 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:52,799 Speaker 3: spending the night, but I was I was house sitting 72 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:54,800 Speaker 3: on my boss's place that wasn't actually. 73 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 2: My place, and you think she might have found that out? 74 00:02:57,800 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 3: I definitely That's all I can think about. 75 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 2: All right, are you ready for us to call her? 76 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:05,120 Speaker 3: Yeah? 77 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:19,079 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Layla. 78 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 2: Please. This is Layla. How are you? This is the 79 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 2: Jubile Show. It's a radio show. Hi, Leila. I'm Nina Hi, 80 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 2: and I'm Victoria. Hi, and my name is. 81 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:33,920 Speaker 1: How are you? 82 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 2: You listened to the show before? 83 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 1: No, I'm so sorry. Did I win something? 84 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:41,200 Speaker 2: Well? I don't know, kind of it kind of depends 85 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 2: on how you see it. I guess we're calling you 86 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 2: today because we do a segment that's called the First 87 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 2: Day follow Up. That's where if you go out on 88 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 2: a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them, 89 00:03:50,320 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 2: that person can email us to get you on the 90 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 2: phone and ask why your ghost Oh that's awesome, And 91 00:03:56,920 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 2: you got an email about you from somebody? Yes? Are 92 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 2: you ghosting anybody? 93 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:06,200 Speaker 1: Oh my god? No, No, I've been ghosted. That's awful. 94 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 1: I would never Okay, I mean I've been out on 95 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 1: like a few dates. 96 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 2: No, I mean, and you haven't ghosted him? 97 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 1: No? I mean literally, I've gone out on like two dates. 98 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:18,360 Speaker 1: There was one really casual, and then this other guy 99 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:20,360 Speaker 1: who I actually kind of dug. 100 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 2: But yeah, okay, Well the email we got about you 101 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:24,479 Speaker 2: came from somebody named Ryan. 102 00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I know Ryan, I'm not Does he think 103 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 1: I'm ghosting him? 104 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 2: Yes, you're not ghosting him? 105 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 3: No? 106 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 1: Well, first of all, date, our date was like three 107 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:41,359 Speaker 1: days ago, and no, my phone died and then I 108 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:43,359 Speaker 1: had brought it to Apple. I actually just got it 109 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:47,280 Speaker 1: back today. Okay, does he really think I'm ghosting him? 110 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:47,719 Speaker 1: Oh my god? 111 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:50,280 Speaker 3: Wait wait wait wait wait, so you're not You're not 112 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:50,919 Speaker 3: ghosting me? 113 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:53,600 Speaker 2: Then? Yeah, Ryan is actually on the phone wants to 114 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 2: talk to you. 115 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:59,279 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Ryan, Hi the Hello? 116 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 5: Hi? 117 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:04,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, Hi, You're not ghosting me? Okay, great? 118 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:09,039 Speaker 1: No, wait, why would you think that I had a 119 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:11,320 Speaker 1: really good time with Okay, we went out just like 120 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 1: a few days ago. I would never First of all, 121 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:16,840 Speaker 1: I would never do that because I've been ghosted. But 122 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:18,560 Speaker 1: why would you think that I would ghost you? I 123 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:19,479 Speaker 1: had a really good. 124 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:19,920 Speaker 2: Time with you. 125 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:22,480 Speaker 3: I'm so happy to hear that. 126 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:24,040 Speaker 2: Like, I had a good time. 127 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 3: Too, I really did. I thought we we connected and 128 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 3: I just I hope, oh god, I just hope I'm 129 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 3: not coming on that like a crazy person, been too strong. 130 00:05:32,760 --> 00:05:34,839 Speaker 3: I just you know, I was worried that I hadn't 131 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 3: heard back from you. It felt like a week. 132 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:44,159 Speaker 1: No, it was three days ago. And my screen age like, no, 133 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 1: I mean, it's f this is weird. But we had 134 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 1: a really good date. That was a great date. 135 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:53,040 Speaker 3: I'm just so relieved that you're not ghosting me. 136 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 1: Then No, I would never no, no, I'm so sorry 137 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 1: my phone died and no. 138 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 3: It's fine. 139 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 5: I just I was so worried because you know, I 140 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 5: was I was actually house sitting for my boss, and 141 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 5: I just really thought that, like I don't know, maybe 142 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:11,479 Speaker 5: you thought that I was just trying to like squat 143 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:15,760 Speaker 5: or or or lie about you know, my my my situation. 144 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:18,040 Speaker 1: Wait, what do you mean house sitting? 145 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 3: That That wasn't my house, that was my that was 146 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:26,840 Speaker 3: my boss. That was no, no, no, And that was 147 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:28,920 Speaker 3: that's like when when you were asking about the car 148 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:31,039 Speaker 3: and everything, I was just like, oh, yeah, trying to 149 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:32,040 Speaker 3: like change the subject. 150 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 1: That's wait, but Brian's house. Wait hold on a second. 151 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 1: You literally were talking about your couch. You were like, 152 00:06:42,400 --> 00:06:45,719 Speaker 1: I bought this because I went to Tuscany with my sister. 153 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:49,280 Speaker 1: Well and I just was inspired. You literally were talking 154 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 1: about no no, no, no, no, no no no no, no, 155 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 1: I got okay, wait no, like you're messing with me. 156 00:06:56,680 --> 00:06:59,720 Speaker 3: Technically I don't live there, You're right, but what's I 157 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 3: did go to Italy and I got the catch that 158 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:03,920 Speaker 3: I want to have some day. 159 00:07:04,680 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 2: You see that sounds like you're trying to act like 160 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 2: that's your place. 161 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 1: Right Yeah? No, I thought that's but weird. You know, 162 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not trying to lead you on. Like 163 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 1: I'm not trying to lead you on. 164 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:17,120 Speaker 3: It is such a cool place. 165 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 1: I know that's just you blatantly lying, but it's not 166 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 1: a lie. 167 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:28,680 Speaker 3: It's a technicality. Right, but no, but I do right. 168 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:30,400 Speaker 1: Now, literally we're talking about it. 169 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:34,920 Speaker 3: Cow No, I do right, No, that's no Please, I've 170 00:07:34,960 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 3: just never pulled a girl like you before. 171 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 6: It's just like I just like I could tell you 172 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:42,720 Speaker 6: like somebody in wait. 173 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 1: Ryan, No, I'm sorry, No, okay, listen. I had a 174 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 1: really good time with you. I enjoyed our day. I 175 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:54,840 Speaker 1: liked you. It was real you. But now I'm actually 176 00:07:54,880 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 1: not sure that real me, Like literally good by the 177 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 1: water is Ryan, You're not actually listening to me, You 178 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:09,679 Speaker 1: latantly lied about where we were. You would talk about 179 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 1: the couch, the lamp. You even talked about the painting. 180 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:18,960 Speaker 7: Oh my god, No sorry, nope, nope, nope, nope, nope, nope. 181 00:08:19,280 --> 00:08:21,240 Speaker 2: I'll ask you, Leila, would you like to go on 182 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 2: another day with Ryan? We will pay for it. 183 00:08:24,240 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 1: Ryan. Look, I I had I had a good time 184 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:29,320 Speaker 1: with you. I think that you're nice, but clearly you've 185 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:33,960 Speaker 1: got some stuff that you need to work through. But no, no, 186 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 1: thank you. That's some sure, dude. I could never trust you. 187 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 1: You literally were talking about items in a house that 188 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 1: you don't live in. 189 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 6: So what I want because that's what I want to provide, 190 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 6: Like I want to be able to get that and 191 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:48,880 Speaker 6: provide it for you, like and you're not even like 192 00:08:48,880 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 6: gonna give no chance, Ryan, I mean, I don't give up. 193 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:56,079 Speaker 3: No, listen, Ryan giving up. 194 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, that's but I am. 195 00:08:59,120 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 2: I lie. 196 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 1: That's weird. You know you're not. No, please please leaves. 197 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 6: Just like begging, please go just like one more time, 198 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 6: and I. 199 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:14,320 Speaker 7: Just want will make you an even better steak and 200 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 7: we can like alcome, God no, but this is really 201 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:21,920 Speaker 7: I will take you to my apartment. 202 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:25,200 Speaker 1: Ryan. This is fully giving me the X factor. Okay, 203 00:09:25,480 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 1: I gotta go. This is ridiculous, but you're so hot. Okay, 204 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:34,400 Speaker 1: thank you. 205 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:36,040 Speaker 2: Jubile's first date fall