WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The Plan for 23 0:00:00.680 --> 0:00:07.720 From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us with Ryan Seacrest. 0:00:09.760 --> 0:00:14.320 Are you on it? Are you into the motivated different 0:00:14.400 --> 0:00:17.799 rhythm for the new year or have you pushed it? 0:00:17.920 --> 0:00:21.320 Have you kicked the can on your new workout routine 0:00:21.480 --> 0:00:27.960 and your new eating program now? So, uh, I think 0:00:28.080 --> 0:00:32.200 I'm gonna stay pretty solid this week. But I also 0:00:32.240 --> 0:00:34.479 feel like you can blame January, like you can't say 0:00:34.479 --> 0:00:36.600 it's winter. You know, I'm not kidding. I don't know. 0:00:36.640 --> 0:00:38.360 I don't know if I'm gonna be so tough on myself. 0:00:38.360 --> 0:00:40.680 It's would be tough on yourself. It's the beginning you. 0:00:41.720 --> 0:00:43.800 But but Tony, I would not think you'd say be 0:00:43.960 --> 0:00:46.440 tough on yourself, like it's tough on yourself being nice 0:00:46.479 --> 0:00:48.559 to you. I feel like you'd preach for me not 0:00:48.640 --> 0:00:51.040 to stay tough. Yeah, I wish I wouldn't say, didn't 0:00:51.080 --> 0:00:55.200 say tough, but hold yourself accountable and start the year 0:00:55.240 --> 0:00:57.080 off with the bang the way that you you want 0:00:57.120 --> 0:01:02.600 to and feel your best. All right, I will put 0:01:02.640 --> 0:01:07.920 on that mindset today, try and tackle this Tuesday. So 0:01:08.319 --> 0:01:12.840 this morning we have a second date, updating a little bit, 0:01:13.360 --> 0:01:16.360 and she met him through mutual family friends and I 0:01:16.360 --> 0:01:18.160 guess things were going great, but I'm assuming they may 0:01:18.200 --> 0:01:22.679 not be anymore because she's reaching out for a second date. Update. 0:01:22.760 --> 0:01:25.600 So that is on the way Tony way to Harry 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:31.560 Stoutsk for Christmas. Just his love, See doesn't I don't know? 0:01:31.840 --> 0:01:34.160 Like you love and music? You know it's all I need. 0:01:34.560 --> 0:01:39.559 I don't know. Robbie doesn't love it. M hmm, Robbie 0:01:39.560 --> 0:01:42.760 doesn't love it? So Sis, what's going on with your 0:01:42.840 --> 0:01:46.200 key pops um? Just before the holidays, it was like 0:01:46.240 --> 0:01:49.080 one of the last dance classes for the kids before 0:01:49.080 --> 0:01:52.600 they kind of shut down for winter break, and you know, 0:01:52.600 --> 0:01:54.680 we're running around kind of crazy. I was in the 0:01:54.720 --> 0:01:57.160 car taking As at a dance and it was a 0:01:57.240 --> 0:02:00.840 last minute switch where uh we decided that Michael was 0:02:00.880 --> 0:02:03.040 going to take her instead. So I was in the 0:02:03.120 --> 0:02:05.360 driveway and I just jumped out of the car and 0:02:05.400 --> 0:02:08.240 then Michael hopped in the car to take her instead. 0:02:08.560 --> 0:02:10.760 So I grabbed my purse, I jumped out of the car, 0:02:11.040 --> 0:02:15.200 and he drives off to dance class. So about it's 0:02:15.200 --> 0:02:17.880 like seven eight minutes away, so about you know that 0:02:17.919 --> 0:02:20.640 time later, I'm in I'm in the baby room and 0:02:20.639 --> 0:02:23.040 I'm putting Savey down to go to sleep or to 0:02:23.200 --> 0:02:25.680 take a nap, and he calls me and he's like hey, 0:02:25.800 --> 0:02:27.240 He's like, you need to you need to come to 0:02:27.240 --> 0:02:29.000 the dance too, right now. And I hear the car 0:02:29.000 --> 0:02:32.760 alarm going crazy. He drove off, and I had the 0:02:32.880 --> 0:02:35.840 key fob with me in my purse, so I guess 0:02:35.840 --> 0:02:37.920 when he had gotten out of the car to walk 0:02:37.919 --> 0:02:40.640 around and then open the car door to let Asa out, 0:02:41.160 --> 0:02:44.640 the car automatically locked and locked Asa in the car, 0:02:45.120 --> 0:02:47.080 and now she couldn't get out and she was locked 0:02:47.080 --> 0:02:48.919 in the car, and it was like a panic moment, 0:02:49.080 --> 0:02:51.480 and he was trying to basically coach her how to 0:02:51.520 --> 0:02:54.359 like get out of her car seat, unlocked the door, 0:02:54.440 --> 0:02:56.440 and she's four so she can kind of like figure 0:02:56.440 --> 0:02:59.079 it out. By the time I got there, he basically 0:02:59.200 --> 0:03:01.040 was able to get her out and like she was 0:03:01.120 --> 0:03:03.119 able to go in unlock and push the unlocked button. 0:03:03.720 --> 0:03:06.840 Must have been it's a heart sinking dropping panic moment. 0:03:06.919 --> 0:03:08.680 It was definitely a panic moment. And it was like 0:03:08.680 --> 0:03:11.160 a weirdo moment because he was like this adult man 0:03:11.280 --> 0:03:13.079 trying to get a four year old little girl out 0:03:13.080 --> 0:03:17.560 of a card arms going on, and it's an underground 0:03:17.600 --> 0:03:20.640 parking garage. It was like so loud times I'm calling 0:03:20.639 --> 0:03:24.440 the police on that. It was such a weird moment. 0:03:24.520 --> 0:03:28.160 And so but it's just like the things like technology, 0:03:28.360 --> 0:03:30.880 the fop, the whole fob thing, Like I don't know 0:03:30.919 --> 0:03:33.839 where I've put my fop, Like I can't keep track 0:03:33.919 --> 0:03:37.600 of my my phone, let alone my fob. I know, 0:03:37.760 --> 0:03:39.840 And it's so crazy. You can drive off without and 0:03:39.880 --> 0:03:43.160 doesn't until you park the car. Then you don't realize it. 0:03:43.280 --> 0:03:46.040 Like it's there's part of me that needs to connect 0:03:46.040 --> 0:03:47.840 a little piece of something to the car. So I 0:03:47.880 --> 0:03:50.080 know that it's on and I have it. I know. 0:03:50.320 --> 0:03:52.160 I know we need to go old school and just 0:03:52.200 --> 0:03:54.080 start going back to the key in the car. If 0:03:54.120 --> 0:03:57.000 you have an electric car, you know, sometimes I'm driving 0:03:57.040 --> 0:04:00.120 electric car, I don't even know if it's on that 0:04:00.360 --> 0:04:02.880 I keep pressing it and and my Mom's like it's on. 0:04:03.080 --> 0:04:06.520 I'm like, my mom, your cars too quiet. I don't 0:04:06.560 --> 0:04:09.040 know if it's on needs and needs to shake or vibrator, 0:04:09.080 --> 0:04:13.360 tell me, kick me or something. It's so quiet. That's 0:04:13.360 --> 0:04:16.480 why electric cars beep when you reverse, because they're so silent, 0:04:16.520 --> 0:04:19.960 Otherwise they'd be dangerous. I'm not the best guy to 0:04:20.160 --> 0:04:22.880 be with. When I'm in a rental car car, I 0:04:22.880 --> 0:04:25.359 don't know where that, I don't know where anything is, like, 0:04:25.400 --> 0:04:28.160 I don't know where forward and reverses like in weird 0:04:28.200 --> 0:04:31.360 places these days. And these their buttons and it doesn't 0:04:31.400 --> 0:04:40.159 look like it used to look. Michael's not arrested. Listen, 0:04:40.640 --> 0:04:45.240 nothing like, uh, you know one of those panic stories 0:04:45.279 --> 0:04:47.280 over the holidays. It's just like, you know it's the 0:04:47.279 --> 0:04:54.960 holidays when it's act exactly with Ryan Secrets. Time for 0:04:55.000 --> 0:04:56.920 the morning hack here on kids fam. A cool way 0:04:56.960 --> 0:04:59.479 to break in the new shoes you got for the holidays, 0:05:00.640 --> 0:05:04.640 they say, Fill two plastic bags with water, place them 0:05:04.800 --> 0:05:08.680 in the toe of each shoe. Put the shoes in 0:05:08.720 --> 0:05:12.200 the freezer so the water will freeze and expand to 0:05:12.240 --> 0:05:16.279 stretch out the toe. They'll be cold, but they'll fit perfectly. 0:05:16.320 --> 0:05:18.240 The next morning, stretches it out like as if there 0:05:18.279 --> 0:05:20.960 were something in there and actually fits. Called breaking in 0:05:20.960 --> 0:05:25.279 your shoes until you're like husbands, Soba opens up the 0:05:25.279 --> 0:05:28.039 Freezer's like, why are their boots in the freezer? Boots 0:05:28.080 --> 0:05:33.640 with the corn dogs. What the new year brings to 0:05:33.720 --> 0:05:35.479 you will depend a lot on what you bring to 0:05:35.520 --> 0:05:40.479 the new year. So starting out headlines. Oh gosh, this 0:05:40.600 --> 0:05:43.400 was just so sad watching this last night. Buffalo Bills 0:05:43.400 --> 0:05:46.120 at safety to mar Hamlin was taken off the field 0:05:46.200 --> 0:05:49.719 in an ambulance last night after suffering hey cardiac arrest 0:05:49.760 --> 0:05:53.279 while tackling Cincinnati Bengals wide receiver t Higgins. Now in 0:05:53.320 --> 0:05:57.080 the aftermath of the terrifying event, fans showed their support 0:05:57.320 --> 0:06:00.240 for Hamlin by donating to a toy drive that he 0:06:00.279 --> 0:06:04.040 actually set up back in Kids in Need in his hometown. 0:06:04.279 --> 0:06:08.600 The original goal was at dollars, but by this morning, 0:06:08.640 --> 0:06:10.920 I just as of what like two minutes ago, it 0:06:11.040 --> 0:06:15.640 is already over three point five million. A judge temporarily 0:06:15.680 --> 0:06:20.039 has blocked the state of California for implementing a landmark 0:06:20.200 --> 0:06:24.680 new law aimed at raising wages and improving working conditions 0:06:24.680 --> 0:06:28.640 for fast food workers, and l A County health officials 0:06:28.640 --> 0:06:31.800 are hoping residents will cooperate with a new plan following 0:06:31.839 --> 0:06:34.760 New Year's Eve to avoid a steep spike in COVID 0:06:34.839 --> 0:06:38.080 nineteen cases. LA County Public Health Director Barbara f Rare 0:06:38.240 --> 0:06:42.760 is asking residents to temporarily wear masks indoors, when while 0:06:42.839 --> 0:06:46.720 and around others. Ten days of mask wearing is recommended 0:06:46.800 --> 0:06:51.440 as many returned back to work and school. On air 0:06:52.320 --> 0:06:57.520 with Ryan Seacrest, Matt money Smith is on the line 0:06:57.600 --> 0:07:01.279 right now. I just want to understand, uh what happened 0:07:01.279 --> 0:07:04.640 in that football game and how tomar Hamlin is doing 0:07:04.680 --> 0:07:09.240 because honestly, when we watch anything live, anything live on TV, 0:07:09.320 --> 0:07:13.120 whether it's a sporting event or or frankly anything, there's 0:07:13.200 --> 0:07:18.160 always a chance something unexpected happens which could be entertaining, 0:07:18.720 --> 0:07:22.880 but not this. You know, an injury is it's scary. 0:07:23.120 --> 0:07:27.520 You know, my my heart sinks, uh my my blood flows, 0:07:27.560 --> 0:07:30.000 and when you see an ambulance come out on the 0:07:30.080 --> 0:07:34.080 field during a football game, it is you don't know 0:07:34.120 --> 0:07:36.440 what to say. You know, you're just sitting there silent 0:07:36.560 --> 0:07:39.440 watching all of this go down. So Bill's safety tomar 0:07:39.520 --> 0:07:44.640 Hamlin tackle Banals receiver T Diggins got up then collapsed 0:07:44.680 --> 0:07:46.320 and he probably saw a lot of this if not 0:07:46.440 --> 0:07:50.120 live on the news, But Matt money Smith with us 0:07:50.160 --> 0:07:53.880 now Live, can you just tell us what happened and 0:07:53.920 --> 0:07:59.000 how's he doing? So yeah, Ryan, Um, it's interesting because 0:07:59.120 --> 0:08:00.760 I was watching the game with a friend of mine 0:08:00.800 --> 0:08:06.560 who's a surgeon, and uh yeah, so as it happened, Uh. 0:08:06.640 --> 0:08:10.000 He he knew almost immediately. Uh he said, Oh my gosh, 0:08:10.040 --> 0:08:13.320 I think he's an aship And you know, I obviously 0:08:13.360 --> 0:08:15.560 I'm an idiot sports talk guy, So I said, what 0:08:15.600 --> 0:08:17.840 does that mean? He said, well, you know, the body 0:08:18.000 --> 0:08:20.679 sustains an impact in an area close to the heart 0:08:21.040 --> 0:08:23.320 and it depending on what your heart's rhythm is, it 0:08:23.360 --> 0:08:26.720 cannot get into a ship and cause cardiac arrest. And 0:08:27.160 --> 0:08:31.160 that's what happened. So as crazy as it sounds, it's 0:08:31.200 --> 0:08:33.360 one of the best places that something like that could 0:08:33.400 --> 0:08:35.600 have happened is someone you know, I worked with the Chargers, 0:08:35.679 --> 0:08:40.400 So you know, we've got Dr Gazaniga, Dr Petrie, Dr Yen, Dr. King, 0:08:40.520 --> 0:08:43.120 all of those guys are on the sideline and so 0:08:43.200 --> 0:08:46.160 you have two sidelines full of some of the best 0:08:46.200 --> 0:08:49.640 doctors in America that worked with these teams. So they 0:08:49.640 --> 0:08:52.720 were able. You know what my understanding is is and 0:08:52.760 --> 0:08:54.120 you know, and that's one of the things that Andy, 0:08:54.160 --> 0:08:55.760 who I was with, had mentioned. He's like, they're probably 0:08:55.760 --> 0:08:58.160 gonna have to shock them and try to get the 0:08:58.160 --> 0:09:00.360 heart going again, and that's exactly what up. And they 0:09:00.360 --> 0:09:03.240 were doing CPR. They had the ag there and they 0:09:03.280 --> 0:09:05.800 had to shock him. Um, to get the heart going again. 0:09:05.880 --> 0:09:08.520 So it's very encouraging when you read that he did 0:09:08.559 --> 0:09:11.440 have a pulse. Um. I don't know exactly, you know, 0:09:11.480 --> 0:09:13.640 the details because something and that's the problem I think 0:09:13.720 --> 0:09:15.880 with the unfortunately social media and people, Why is this 0:09:16.000 --> 0:09:17.880 taking so long? This is danger. He should be in 0:09:17.880 --> 0:09:20.520 an ambulance and you know there's an injury to the heart. 0:09:20.600 --> 0:09:22.920 So there's a bunch of different approaches that they could 0:09:22.920 --> 0:09:25.000 take to try to ensure that, you know, they saved 0:09:25.000 --> 0:09:26.800 the young man's life. And as far as how he's 0:09:26.840 --> 0:09:30.200 doing right now, um, I think it's still The update 0:09:30.200 --> 0:09:33.240 that they've given is that he's in critical condition. Um. 0:09:33.400 --> 0:09:35.160 And I think that's about all we have and I 0:09:35.200 --> 0:09:37.560 would hate to speculate anything further, but you know, I 0:09:37.559 --> 0:09:39.959 guess the good news is that it appears as though 0:09:40.000 --> 0:09:42.680 he survived it, but he's still fighting for his life. 0:09:43.000 --> 0:09:47.600 So how much of this is related, Well, you know, 0:09:47.760 --> 0:09:50.280 I guess a lot of it because of the impact, right, 0:09:50.559 --> 0:09:53.240 So it's it's it just it looked like such a 0:09:53.360 --> 0:09:57.720 routine play. Um. But again it's just the right spot 0:09:57.800 --> 0:10:00.600 in that exact moment that causes some thing like this 0:10:01.200 --> 0:10:03.120 to happen. I think one thing too, is you know, 0:10:03.160 --> 0:10:05.679 because look, a football is a violent game, you know, 0:10:05.760 --> 0:10:08.880 played by men who are big, strong, fast, right. But 0:10:09.400 --> 0:10:12.440 I think it was said so many times on that broadcast, 0:10:12.880 --> 0:10:15.160 you know, we've never seen anything like this, I know, 0:10:15.520 --> 0:10:18.680 So I think that kind of accentuates how rare of 0:10:18.720 --> 0:10:23.120 an event this was. You know, Um, I don't think Again, 0:10:23.360 --> 0:10:26.640 I hate doing speculation on injuries in medical but I'm 0:10:26.679 --> 0:10:28.600 I don't think this was anything as far as you know, 0:10:28.679 --> 0:10:31.160 genetically related to to mar Hamlet. I think this is 0:10:31.200 --> 0:10:34.120 one of those events where this this exact action happened 0:10:34.120 --> 0:10:35.920 in this exact spot at this exact time, and that 0:10:35.960 --> 0:10:39.000 maybe you know what led to the cardiac arrest. I mean, 0:10:39.280 --> 0:10:41.800 you look at the level of speed and play and 0:10:41.920 --> 0:10:45.720 intensity in in in college and in in pro football, 0:10:46.160 --> 0:10:48.439 and there are scary moments you see a player hit, 0:10:48.559 --> 0:10:51.880 you know, go down on their head and they're laying 0:10:51.920 --> 0:10:55.880 there and it just really it gives you that feeling 0:10:56.200 --> 0:10:58.480 that you know, we I don't know them, but you 0:10:58.600 --> 0:11:01.240 feel as if you do, and you just want the 0:11:01.280 --> 0:11:03.000 best and you want them to make sure they get 0:11:03.000 --> 0:11:07.080 the medical attention. So it was something that we have 0:11:07.240 --> 0:11:10.080 not seen and I don't think did they you know, 0:11:10.120 --> 0:11:13.840 as as that happened, they talked about postponing and then 0:11:14.240 --> 0:11:18.560 how do they make the decision to not continue? Well, 0:11:18.720 --> 0:11:21.520 you know what's interesting, and I don't have the exact details, 0:11:21.559 --> 0:11:22.920 but you know, I worked for the lead for a 0:11:22.920 --> 0:11:25.599 long time at NFL Network, and so I knew the 0:11:25.640 --> 0:11:28.040 face when I saw her, Donna Ponte, and she's been 0:11:28.080 --> 0:11:29.679 in the lead front office for a long time, and 0:11:29.760 --> 0:11:31.880 she was at that game. And and for those that 0:11:31.880 --> 0:11:34.920 that watched, you know quite a bit of that that broadcast. 0:11:35.040 --> 0:11:37.000 She was the woman that was handing the cell phone 0:11:37.000 --> 0:11:40.880 to the two coaches, Sean McDermott and Zach Taylor. Um, 0:11:40.920 --> 0:11:43.880 you know you always hate to obviously, look, I don't 0:11:43.880 --> 0:11:46.040 I don't think I needed to say it and qualify it. 0:11:46.080 --> 0:11:47.920 We obviously only care about the health of the mar 0:11:47.960 --> 0:11:49.640 Hamlet and not the game. But at the same time, 0:11:50.000 --> 0:11:52.480 you know, the question has to be asked because these 0:11:52.520 --> 0:11:54.800 are you know, the teams that are ranked second and 0:11:54.840 --> 0:11:56.640 third in the a f C right now. You know, 0:11:56.720 --> 0:11:59.560 the outcome of this game will change seedings. Uh, the 0:11:59.600 --> 0:12:02.240 outcome this game will will change who gets home games, 0:12:02.240 --> 0:12:03.960 who maybe get to buy in the first round of 0:12:03.960 --> 0:12:07.120 the playoffs. Um, it was. It's why it was build 0:12:07.200 --> 0:12:10.720 going into it as perhaps the biggest game of the year. Um, 0:12:10.760 --> 0:12:13.400 so that's you know, just in terms of logistics and 0:12:13.520 --> 0:12:15.760 scheduling something the league is going to have to figure out. 0:12:16.040 --> 0:12:19.600 And I think, look, I don't want to sound like 0:12:19.640 --> 0:12:22.600 I'm defending the league, but I think for them, they're 0:12:22.640 --> 0:12:25.600 in New York, they're trying to collect information as well. 0:12:25.640 --> 0:12:27.720 I think the people that wanted to see them canceled 0:12:27.760 --> 0:12:32.440 this game immediately. Um, we're probably maybe just they're they're 0:12:32.480 --> 0:12:36.160 just collecting information. Is he okay? Is he stable? What 0:12:36.320 --> 0:12:38.240 kind of condition is he? And is there something you know? 0:12:38.520 --> 0:12:40.560 So I think as they gathered all that, it's why 0:12:40.600 --> 0:12:43.920 it took so long. Look should they have canceled it sooner? Yeah? 0:12:43.960 --> 0:12:46.559 I mean when you look at the players faces and 0:12:46.679 --> 0:12:49.160 the way it affected them emotionally to go out and 0:12:49.200 --> 0:12:51.679 ask them to play a game like you just described why, 0:12:51.720 --> 0:12:53.760 I mean, that is fast, that is violent, that is 0:12:53.800 --> 0:12:57.160 played by these giant men. That's irresponsible there. They are 0:12:57.200 --> 0:12:59.640 not in a mental state to play a game as 0:12:59.720 --> 0:13:03.240 violent and his his National Football League football. So you 0:13:03.280 --> 0:13:05.600 know they I'm happy that that it was canceled. I 0:13:05.600 --> 0:13:08.560 think everybody was my understanding as the Bills flew back 0:13:08.559 --> 0:13:12.160 to Buffalo at midnight. So, you know, trying to get 0:13:12.200 --> 0:13:14.920 this thing back on schedule. I don't know how they 0:13:14.960 --> 0:13:17.520 do it. Um, you got you know, these two teams 0:13:17.559 --> 0:13:20.360 are to play again on Sunday, the Bengals and the 0:13:20.400 --> 0:13:21.839 Ravens are going to play for the a f C 0:13:22.000 --> 0:13:24.040 North crowd. You know, one team is gonna be on 0:13:24.080 --> 0:13:26.080 the road for the entire playoffs. The other teams canna 0:13:26.040 --> 0:13:29.120 have home games. So like it's it's something they're gonna 0:13:29.160 --> 0:13:31.200 probably figure out in the next six hours, I would 0:13:31.200 --> 0:13:32.840 guess to see if they could get this thing played 0:13:32.920 --> 0:13:36.920 tomorrow or or how they do it. Matt money Smith 0:13:36.920 --> 0:13:41.240 here he so he's currently sedated and listed in critical condition. 0:13:41.840 --> 0:13:45.599 So we we send prayers and and good thoughts to 0:13:45.760 --> 0:13:49.480 whatever you believe in, you know, send those um, send 0:13:49.480 --> 0:13:52.000 those good thoughts, keep us posted. Okay, this is just 0:13:52.080 --> 0:13:55.520 one of those things that you never want to see, UM, 0:13:55.559 --> 0:13:57.800 And it's it's intense. It's intense out there. I I 0:13:58.760 --> 0:14:01.760 kind of when I when I watched pro football, even collegeball, 0:14:01.800 --> 0:14:04.320 I get I get a little on edge because you 0:14:04.440 --> 0:14:06.680 just never know. And those hits when you see some 0:14:06.720 --> 0:14:09.280 of those hits in the semifinal games and you see 0:14:09.280 --> 0:14:12.720 the pro hits. These are brutal and I don't know, 0:14:12.880 --> 0:14:15.080 an he's so young, he's twenty four, you know, you 0:14:15.120 --> 0:14:16.920 just wouldn't think that something like this would happen at 0:14:16.920 --> 0:14:20.800 that age. Well, brother, thanks for coming out with the Ryan. 0:14:20.840 --> 0:14:22.680 I do want to add this, um. You know, the 0:14:23.400 --> 0:14:26.400 football fans are the best fans in the world. You 0:14:26.400 --> 0:14:29.160 guys both know this. UM. One of the one of 0:14:29.160 --> 0:14:30.840 the good things, if there is a good thing that 0:14:30.880 --> 0:14:33.040 could come out of this, is that the mar has 0:14:33.080 --> 0:14:36.920 a foundation. It's called Chasing Ends and uh it raises 0:14:36.960 --> 0:14:41.400 money to provide you know, toys, food, shelter for for 0:14:41.480 --> 0:14:44.160 kids in need. And the goal when you set up 0:14:44.200 --> 0:14:47.520 the go fund me was bucks. Uh this morning it's 0:14:47.520 --> 0:14:51.760 at three and a half million dollars donations. Yeah, so 0:14:51.920 --> 0:14:54.280 for those that you know feel connected in this game 0:14:54.320 --> 0:14:57.160 and want to donate, it's called Chasing Ends. You can 0:14:57.200 --> 0:14:58.960 find it on a go fund Me page and and 0:14:59.000 --> 0:15:01.400 really a great out point of support from the football 0:15:01.400 --> 0:15:05.000 community for for Themorrow. Okay, brother, Well, thanks fat update. 0:15:05.280 --> 0:15:08.200 I really appreciate it. You take good care. Matt money Smith, 0:15:08.600 --> 0:15:11.080 Petro's and money Airs three or seven week days on 0:15:11.280 --> 0:15:15.800 a M five seventy a sports Happy New Year, put thanks, 0:15:15.840 --> 0:15:25.960 Happy New Years. Time for our first second date? Update 0:15:26.040 --> 0:15:28.560 this morning right now. If you're dating, listen to this. 0:15:28.680 --> 0:15:32.040 If you're not, you'll be happy, but listen. So, Kayla, 0:15:32.240 --> 0:15:36.480 you were introduced by your sister who he works with, 0:15:36.800 --> 0:15:38.800 to this guy. You went out a few times, you 0:15:38.880 --> 0:15:41.240 had a good time, you thought he had a good time, 0:15:42.240 --> 0:15:44.160 and then you were texting back and forth and setting 0:15:44.240 --> 0:15:47.080 up another date and then he disappeared. What do you 0:15:47.080 --> 0:15:53.560 mean he disappeared? He just completely stop texting me the 0:15:53.560 --> 0:16:01.760 whole thing. What was the last text you sent him? Um? 0:16:01.800 --> 0:16:04.960 I was just asking him. I think we were just 0:16:05.320 --> 0:16:11.080 texting normally about uh, like our days. That was it? Like, 0:16:11.200 --> 0:16:13.840 it wasn't anything like we didn't get an argument or anything, 0:16:14.480 --> 0:16:18.680 just normal. How many days from when you went out 0:16:18.760 --> 0:16:24.680 last when he stopped texting you? How many days between? Um, 0:16:24.720 --> 0:16:29.680 it's been like it was like three days after it 0:16:29.760 --> 0:16:33.800 was over the weekend and then on Monday he stopped 0:16:34.400 --> 0:16:37.080 m And you can't think of anything that might have 0:16:37.240 --> 0:16:41.680 pushed him off. No, I don't understand. I feel like 0:16:42.920 --> 0:16:45.480 you would think that, oh, maybe he's just wasn't back 0:16:45.520 --> 0:16:47.800 into it. He's just you know, letting me down easy 0:16:47.800 --> 0:16:51.840 by not telling me. But I swear we had such 0:16:51.880 --> 0:16:55.080 a good connection. I just don't understand why you would 0:16:55.080 --> 0:16:59.240 go from that to nothing. Yeah, I don't either. I mean, 0:16:59.280 --> 0:17:01.760 can you can you think of anything unless he's he 0:17:02.200 --> 0:17:05.440 wasn't just dating you like he was dating a bunch 0:17:05.480 --> 0:17:07.480 of other people. Are just a few others and now 0:17:07.520 --> 0:17:09.920 he hasn't a stronger connection with somebody else and he 0:17:10.040 --> 0:17:15.320 just ghosting you, which just sucks. But that's where my 0:17:15.359 --> 0:17:17.640 head's going. All right. Listen, guys, were in the middle 0:17:17.680 --> 0:17:20.000 of this second day up date. Let me put Kayla 0:17:20.119 --> 0:17:22.480 up and Ben is on the phone. They got set 0:17:22.560 --> 0:17:26.520 up by her sister. They went out, it went great, 0:17:26.600 --> 0:17:29.440 they texted, and then he disappeared. I mean, it's textbook, 0:17:29.480 --> 0:17:32.520 but why why did he stop texting? Here? So Caleb 0:17:32.560 --> 0:17:36.080 be very quiet. I'm gonna talk to Ben for a second. Okay, Okay, 0:17:37.080 --> 0:17:41.680 Hey Ben, thanks for holding on. How you doing, buddy? Okay? Problem? Great? 0:17:41.720 --> 0:17:46.520 So you met Kayla because you know Kayla's sister. Yes, yeah, 0:17:46.520 --> 0:17:50.280 we worked together. Cool. Now why did Kayla's sister want 0:17:50.280 --> 0:17:53.720 to set you up with Kayla? Um? I think that 0:17:53.960 --> 0:17:55.960 she thought that we would just be a good match 0:17:57.480 --> 0:18:01.160 and were you Yeah, I mean we had a good time. 0:18:01.560 --> 0:18:03.920 Um when we went out. We went out a couple 0:18:03.960 --> 0:18:08.320 of times. What happened at the end of those times, 0:18:08.320 --> 0:18:09.760 like the second time you go out, and what happened 0:18:09.760 --> 0:18:13.080 at the end of that time, Um, I mean what 0:18:13.240 --> 0:18:15.400 we like? We definitely, I mean we kissed. If that's 0:18:15.400 --> 0:18:18.040 what you mean, I don't. I mean, I just mean, 0:18:18.200 --> 0:18:20.120 how did it end? So it ended on a positive note? 0:18:20.160 --> 0:18:23.200 You guys wanted to teach other again? Yeah, it was positive. 0:18:23.240 --> 0:18:25.879 And then we ended up painting out another time after that. 0:18:26.000 --> 0:18:28.040 I was doing prison shopping and just hit her up 0:18:28.080 --> 0:18:31.040 and we had a good time when whenever we hung out. 0:18:32.000 --> 0:18:34.840 That's great. So you guys gonna see each other again? 0:18:36.280 --> 0:18:39.560 That I am not sure about though. Why is that? 0:18:41.280 --> 0:18:45.080 Like I said, I worked with Kayla's sister, and uh, 0:18:45.600 --> 0:18:47.720 every time I go into the office after our dates, 0:18:47.760 --> 0:18:51.760 I realized that she knew all the details of of 0:18:51.800 --> 0:18:56.800 our dates and going out together. Um, which was okay first, 0:18:58.440 --> 0:19:02.400 So you felt uncomfortable your colleague would know about your 0:19:02.840 --> 0:19:06.960 intimacies exactly. It's I think it's already like I'm a 0:19:07.000 --> 0:19:09.399 private person. So early on, I think it's already a 0:19:09.440 --> 0:19:13.239 little weird. But um, yeah, yeah, I just, I just 0:19:13.359 --> 0:19:17.000 I just don't want to be sort of held under 0:19:17.000 --> 0:19:20.560 a microscope, you know. Yeah, I understand that. I agree 0:19:20.600 --> 0:19:25.080 with you, actually, Ben. So here's the thing. Kayla's on 0:19:25.080 --> 0:19:27.680 the line right now. Kayla, I'm gonna bring you into this, 0:19:27.840 --> 0:19:31.520 and Ben, she has been listening. She was concerned that 0:19:31.600 --> 0:19:34.400 you disappeared. She couldn't figure out why because she thought 0:19:34.400 --> 0:19:37.439 you guys had a good time. Now, Kayla, you're hearing this, 0:19:37.600 --> 0:19:42.760 what's your reaction. Yeah, I mean I think that it's 0:19:42.840 --> 0:19:47.920 kind of kind of weird reason to stop talking to me. 0:19:47.960 --> 0:19:49.679 I feel like we have such a great connection, and 0:19:50.520 --> 0:19:52.119 I don't know, I think it's pretty normal. That's tell 0:19:52.200 --> 0:19:56.000 your sister about your dating life. She's my best friend, right. 0:19:56.040 --> 0:19:58.280 But the thing is that then, I'm sorry, Ben, you 0:19:58.440 --> 0:20:00.920 defend yourself. I don't have to. No. I just think 0:20:00.960 --> 0:20:02.520 I think that's fair. I think that it's good that 0:20:02.560 --> 0:20:04.440 you have a good close relationship or there. But like 0:20:04.440 --> 0:20:07.160 like I said, I'm just I'm just a private person personally, 0:20:07.160 --> 0:20:10.320 and I don't want my coworkers knowing intimate details like 0:20:10.400 --> 0:20:12.199 she knew we kissed and that you thought I was 0:20:12.200 --> 0:20:17.600 a good kisser, And I think that's how weird. What 0:20:17.640 --> 0:20:19.159 would she What did she say to you? Ben? Like, 0:20:19.200 --> 0:20:24.480 what did the sister say? She She wasn't saying anything 0:20:24.480 --> 0:20:26.480 that's really bad, but she was basically giving a play 0:20:26.520 --> 0:20:29.600 by play of everything that happened and she was accurate. 0:20:30.320 --> 0:20:37.880 Oh man, well you've got good reviews, bro, I mean, yeah, yeah, 0:20:38.359 --> 0:20:40.440 all right, Well Ben, what do you want to do here? 0:20:40.800 --> 0:20:43.399 But like she's excited, I think this is like salvageable. 0:20:45.080 --> 0:20:47.960 Maybe Kyla stopped telling your sister about everything, right. We 0:20:48.000 --> 0:20:52.240 don't need to give all the details, Kayla. I mean, 0:20:52.280 --> 0:20:54.560 I don't want to change my relationship with my sister 0:20:54.760 --> 0:20:57.359 for a guy. I really like being open with her 0:20:57.359 --> 0:21:00.600 about what's going on in my life. I think that's 0:21:00.640 --> 0:21:03.880 totally fair and you absolutely should not have to um. 0:21:03.960 --> 0:21:05.760 But for that, I think you need the guy who's 0:21:05.760 --> 0:21:10.200 okay with that, and and that's not me. Unfortunately. I'm happy. 0:21:10.800 --> 0:21:14.480 I'm happy. I'm happy. This is not gonna work out. 0:21:14.480 --> 0:21:16.600 Maybe the sister just needs to not blab her mouth 0:21:16.640 --> 0:21:19.640 at work. I'll tell you why. I'll tell you why. 0:21:19.640 --> 0:21:23.840 I'm happy no matter what happens here. Is going to 0:21:23.960 --> 0:21:25.600 end badly at some point, because I don't think you 0:21:25.640 --> 0:21:27.560 guys are gonna be together forever. If you got together 0:21:27.640 --> 0:21:30.280 and at some point there's gonna be a bad ending here, 0:21:30.440 --> 0:21:33.359 and then then you work with the Kyala's sister and 0:21:33.400 --> 0:21:35.440 that's gonna be like double and comfortable. So I'm very 0:21:35.440 --> 0:21:38.360 happy that we got to this place. You know, good 0:21:38.400 --> 0:21:40.600