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Speaker 1: We're back. I'm Drew McCarry and I'm David Roth and

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Speaker 1: coming in September a new site we have built together

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Speaker 1: called Defecto or Defector, and we're gonna have a new

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Speaker 1: podcast to go with it, this very podcast which has

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Speaker 1: the name The Distraction. It's out right now at available

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Speaker 1: every rustic podcast at such a Spotify, Apple Go listen

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Speaker 1: right now to The Distraction everywhere. It's out right now.

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Speaker 1: Go listen to see I buy. When we first met

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Speaker 1: and I told you what I wanted to do, and

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Speaker 1: you told me what you wanted to do, and we

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Speaker 1: decided to go on this journey together, standing in front

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Speaker 1: of a crowd of people in our hometown applauding us

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Speaker 1: for doing nothing but speaking our truth and realizing that

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Speaker 1: that idea that I had in my mind and seeing

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Speaker 1: it was here. People ride for us and for us,

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Speaker 1: and they are definitely about showing us love and support

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Speaker 1: and like you said, us all for things that we

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Speaker 1: just do naturally. Hey, I'm Cadine and we're the Ellises.

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Speaker 1: You may know us from posting funny videos with our

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Speaker 1: boys and reading each other publicly as a form of therapy. Wait,

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Speaker 1: I'll make you need Derby most days. Wow. Oh, and

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Speaker 1: one more important thing to mention, we're married, Yes, sir,

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Speaker 1: we are. We created this podcast to open dialogue about

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Speaker 1: some of life's most taboo topics, things most folks don't

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Speaker 1: want to talk about through the lens of a millennial

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Speaker 1: married couple. Dead ass is a term that we say

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Speaker 1: every day. Where we say dead ass, we're actually saying facts,

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Speaker 1: the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.

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Speaker 1: We're about to take Phillow's talk to a whole new level.

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Speaker 1: Dead Ask starts now. A few weeks ago, we did

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Speaker 1: an episode of dead Ass in front of a live

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Speaker 1: audience in our hometown, Brooklyn. It was a sold out crowd. Y'all,

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Speaker 1: y'all really came. Let me tell you, it was amazing.

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Speaker 1: Coin I tried to stop her. I was like, I

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Speaker 1: was like, baby pain. I was just about to say

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Speaker 1: we cried, but I wasn't gonna put you out there

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Speaker 1: like that in the very beginning of the show. Today,

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Speaker 1: but Devout and I both I feel like we had

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Speaker 1: several moments of just fighting back tires that entire day.

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Speaker 1: in that space because ever since we've come to the

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Speaker 1: being able to go home and getting the response that

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Speaker 1: we got and got so much love, and we've got

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Speaker 1: a surprise for y'all. For those who couldn't be there,

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Speaker 1: We're not gonna hold that against you, but we're bringing

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Speaker 1: a small piece of the show to you. So this

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Speaker 1: week's episode, the format is a little bit different to

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Speaker 1: just rock with us. It's a little different than what

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Speaker 1: you used to stick along for the ride and enjoy this.

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Speaker 1: As we relived this moment together, it was so bomb

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Speaker 1: dead Ass Brooklyn. Yo, we're home. Yes, yes, up yourself, yourself.

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Speaker 1: I had to come out here with tissue. She cried

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Speaker 1: twice in the back. She cried twice and emotional today. Guys. Yes,

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Speaker 1: we're in Brooklyn. You guys know we've recently moved to

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, thank you. Thanks. So it's important

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Speaker 1: for us to tell you guys a little bit about

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Speaker 1: how we started about Dead Ass Podcasts, about all of

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Speaker 1: our people. It's important that you know everybody that you

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Speaker 1: see here has been with us from the beginning. It

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Speaker 1: was all an idea and all an idea, and you

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Speaker 1: know us big about supporting black business. It's important for

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Speaker 1: you to know that everyone here also gets paid. This

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Speaker 1: isn't favorites. This isn't favorites. So um and the reason

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Speaker 1: for yourselves absolutely. I mean, I'm sure if you follow us,

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Speaker 1: You asked me to do too much. I watched Sisters,

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Speaker 1: about the single men crickets? Whoa Okay, I heard it,

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Speaker 1: a problem. So who we got? Number three? Who we

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Speaker 1: got fave? Okay? Okay, good answer, good answer, good good answer,

422
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Speaker 1: good answer, good answer. I feel like we're on family feud, right,

423
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Speaker 1: it's my family ready? Number two? Jay z Okay, Okay.

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Speaker 1: I got to see what they put it number one.

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Speaker 1: I gotta see if they put it number one. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I see who number one is before I start to overreact,

427
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Speaker 1: Before I start to overreact, I gotta see what they

428
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Speaker 1: put in number one. Get me get a drum roll

429
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Speaker 1: out there, drum roll for number one, y'all, listen, can

430
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:07,760
Speaker 1: we have all three guys get with your girls? Girls

431
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:12,639
Speaker 1: with your guys? All that good? First? First, first and foremost,

432
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:14,680
Speaker 1: first and foremost, can we clap it up for all

433
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 1: the couples. Please do you guys were good sports. You

434
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 1: guys appreciate so much for that. Roll up with the punches,

435
00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:27,920
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like I said on follow script,

436
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:31,919
Speaker 1: so that up just now, none of that is on

437
00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 1: the car. We're gonna start on your side. Baby. Can

438
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:45,280
Speaker 1: we give it up for the daters? Yes, keep on

439
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 1: keeping on dating couple. There we go. We're gonna come

440
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Speaker 1: on my side. Can we give it up for the

441
00:27:52,520 --> 00:28:07,440
Speaker 1: engaged couple? Love it? I love it here? Alright? Alright,

442
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:13,439
Speaker 1: new Kirk Flatbush flap Bush. Can't take Flatbush niggas nowhere.

443
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:17,120
Speaker 1: I can't take from nowhere. Was already clapping. They're gonna

444
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:32,879
Speaker 1: niggas need to be disqualified. Oh he's bribing people. We

445
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:39,160
Speaker 1: got all. He's bribing people. He's bribing people. Now, okay,

446
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:46,520
Speaker 1: control your fiances, control, control your stuff. You gotta you

447
00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 1: gott a discount cade, a promo code? What you got?

448
00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:54,200
Speaker 1: I just want to know, please? Alright? Alright? Can we

449
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 1: quiet down? This is a fair competition. Can we give

450
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 1: it up from a married couple? All right? Listen? Yeah,

451
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:18,600
Speaker 1: I think I think we have our winner. I think

452
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:20,920
Speaker 1: we have our winner. And it came down to giving

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Speaker 1: out free ugs, but the married couple I think took

454
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 1: down one oh oh oh man. Guys, So listen that

455
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:45,040
Speaker 1: that show was so much fun. It really was. It

456
00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:47,480
Speaker 1: really was, and you know, it's funny. We we're trying

457
00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:49,440
Speaker 1: to think of a different approach to a live show

458
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:51,280
Speaker 1: because we could have done it the typical style where

459
00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 1: we do karaoke and we do U the story time,

460
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 1: but we really felt like we wanted the show to

461
00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 1: be a little bit more interactive, where the audience can

462
00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:01,480
Speaker 1: kind of be involved, have, you know, have some moments

463
00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 1: to kind of chat with us, make it a little

464
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:05,440
Speaker 1: bit more personal. You know, absolutely, Why do you think

465
00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 1: we wanted to do that, Babe? I know you were

466
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:09,440
Speaker 1: very adamant about having an interactive show. Well, I was

467
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 1: adamant about it because at first we were thinking about

468
00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 1: getting guests, and I was saying to myself, you know,

469
00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:17,920
Speaker 1: for our first live shows, people come for us, they

470
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 1: want to hear our voices, and I feel I felt

471
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:22,480
Speaker 1: like having guests would kind of take away from the

472
00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 1: dead ass experience, right, But then I also felt like,

473
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:28,320
Speaker 1: you know what, when I sit in the audience at things,

474
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:32,200
Speaker 1: the best guests sometimes are in the audience. That is true,

475
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:34,960
Speaker 1: So why don't we just let the guests be our audience.

476
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:37,720
Speaker 1: They get an opportunity to not only just listen to us,

477
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 1: but interact, Like so much of podcasts is listening to people,

478
00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:44,280
Speaker 1: but now I get an opportunity to interact with them

479
00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:47,000
Speaker 1: in real time. It just seems like it made so

480
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:49,239
Speaker 1: much sense and it was just so different. So it's

481
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 1: not virtual anymore. It's not like, Okay, now you have

482
00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 1: to email me for this, or you know, we have

483
00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 1: to wait to reply for that. A lot of times

484
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 1: we can't even it's like humanly impossible to reply to

485
00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:00,480
Speaker 1: comments that we get all the time, or to repost

486
00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:03,120
Speaker 1: every mentioned like it's virtually impossible to do. When you

487
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 1: were right when you said that some of the best

488
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:08,120
Speaker 1: guests are the guests in the audience, because why you,

489
00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 1: each and every one of you made it a point

490
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 1: go online to purchase a ticket, you know, and it's

491
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 1: it's self out there to be able to just do

492
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:20,480
Speaker 1: things leisurely for entertainment to spend money on. So we

493
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 1: appreciate every everyone, each and every one of you who

494
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 1: spent money on the v I P. People who came

495
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 1: in to meet with us, which was a nice experience

496
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:29,440
Speaker 1: as well. We got to hang with some people before

497
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:31,440
Speaker 1: and after the show who purchased the v I P

498
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 1: Level tickets. I mean, you guys made it a point

499
00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:36,640
Speaker 1: to be at the show, and for that reason, we

500
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 1: felt like it was necessary to include you, like why not.

501
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 1: You know, so in the future, we know we may

502
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 1: do something a little bit different. We may keep this format,

503
00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 1: you know, depends on the feedback that we get, or

504
00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:49,120
Speaker 1: there may be that interesting of a guest that we

505
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 1: feel like we want to have on for a segment,

506
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:53,000
Speaker 1: you know, or two in a future show. But for

507
00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 1: the first ones, we felt like, you know what, y'all

508
00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:58,640
Speaker 1: sold out these tickets in like two to three weeks.

509
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 1: I think y'all needed and deserve the most the valent

510
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 1: codein and y'all needed the best dead As experience because

511
00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 1: not for nothing, I don't consider us just a podcast.

512
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:12,760
Speaker 1: This is an experience, like we interact even with our

513
00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:14,920
Speaker 1: producers doing during the show, Like I feel like, you

514
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 1: guys know Kaye Trible. I feel like y'all know everybody

515
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:19,600
Speaker 1: was here because we interact with everyone who's here. So

516
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 1: I just feel like it was just a great experience

517
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 1: to get everyone involved. And I'll just do something different,

518
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:26,560
Speaker 1: you know, off the cuff. Yeah, for sure, And I

519
00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:29,080
Speaker 1: mean we've got a great response so far, so definitely

520
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 1: let us know what you'll think about today's episode where

521
00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 1: you can kind of take the journey with us. So

522
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 1: we're gonna take a quick break and get into some ants.

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00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 1: This for the record, there it is. Tiger Woods is

524
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:53,440
Speaker 1: one of our most inspiring sports icons. In his story,

525
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:57,920
Speaker 1: it comes with many chapters. I am deeply sorry from

526
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:03,680
Speaker 1: my irresponsible and self behavior, but here it is the

527
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 1: return to glory. This is All American, a new series

528
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 1: from Stitcher hosted by me Jordan Bell. You realize Tiger

529
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:17,600
Speaker 1: Wis doesn't know who he is best in the history

530
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:22,120
Speaker 1: of golf, no question in my mind. And this season,

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Speaker 1: with the help of journalist Albert Chen, we're asking what

532
00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 1: if the story of Tiger Woods that the media has

533
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 1: been telling, what if it's been completely wrong? All American

534
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 1: Tiger is out now. Listen and Stitcher, Apple Podcasts or

535
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:47,320
Speaker 1: your favorite podcast app. All right, so I've told you

536
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 1: all time and time again that my favorite part is

537
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:51,520
Speaker 1: the listener letters, because that's when we get a chance

538
00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:53,960
Speaker 1: to listen to you all, get some questions and we

539
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:57,640
Speaker 1: can give our tunis. And she was even more nosy

540
00:33:57,720 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 1: now because she was seeing people in persons live. I

541
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 1: get to see not even that devout stop. No, no,

542
00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:11,239
Speaker 1: no no. But it was nice too. Well. First of all,

543
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:13,720
Speaker 1: I was worried that we may not have gotten people

544
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 1: coming up in front of an audience. Yeah, or sometimes

545
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:19,320
Speaker 1: people just are more private and they rather just submit

546
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:21,239
Speaker 1: an anonymous letter. But it was great to see people

547
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:22,799
Speaker 1: were really like raising their hands. So I wish we

548
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:24,920
Speaker 1: had more time to do a lot more listener letters.

549
00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:28,239
Speaker 1: And it was good to also hear the audience respond

550
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 1: to people's questions, right, because then you realize how many

551
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:34,080
Speaker 1: people have the same question as you, and then you

552
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:37,640
Speaker 1: stopped feeling right like, damn, that was a dumb question. No,

553
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:41,959
Speaker 1: for sure, has anybody out here written in for listener letter?

554
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:49,080
Speaker 1: No want to ask right now? You have a question?

555
00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:55,359
Speaker 1: Right now? Do you have a question? Yes? You know what?

556
00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:58,200
Speaker 1: Both forget let's have let's come on, come on up

557
00:34:58,239 --> 00:35:01,239
Speaker 1: and ask the question. How about that? Since we're in

558
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 1: real time? Did I just put you I'll put you

559
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:06,640
Speaker 1: on the spot, didn't I? Somebody get her a microphone

560
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:09,399
Speaker 1: is a micro right here? Come on up, girl, walk up,

561
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:18,160
Speaker 1: Come on up, Come on down, Come on down. Girl. Hey, hey,

562
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 1: just say excuse me. All in Brooklyn, if you step

563
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:26,400
Speaker 1: on somebody joined this, it might be a fight. That

564
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:28,480
Speaker 1: was trying to wear tims with his outfit today. I

565
00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:30,920
Speaker 1: told him, y'all would have appreciated that. But you know,

566
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 1: he found these shoes and zarrows. I was like, I

567
00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:35,719
Speaker 1: guess it'll rock. I want to do with my team.

568
00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 1: She wasn't having it, you know, being You're right, I

569
00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:42,239
Speaker 1: do gotta match your swag. You're right. She should have

570
00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 1: worn teams too. I should have. I could have worn

571
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 1: tims to dress. But hey, you know, we'll rock with it,

572
00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:48,520
Speaker 1: all right, since you give us your name and what's

573
00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 1: your question? So my name is Ashley. Okay, Ashley from Brooklyn. Okay,

574
00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:58,320
Speaker 1: So I know I asked so we can everybody to

575
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:01,719
Speaker 1: hear you can't hear me now, Okay. So I know

576
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 1: you guys talked a lot about long distance when you

577
00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 1: first started and the you know, I'm currently in a

578
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:11,040
Speaker 1: long distance relationship going on two years. He's actually in

579
00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 1: l A and I'm here, So I'm currently by coastal,

580
00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:21,080
Speaker 1: very long distance. So I struggle more recently because it's

581
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 1: coming up on, you know, another two years. How to

582
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 1: keep the spark and how to make things interesting and

583
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 1: to not, you know, let the distance come between us

584
00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:34,440
Speaker 1: because eventually there's going to be a move, whether it's

585
00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:36,680
Speaker 1: back to New York or back or to l A.

586
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:39,680
Speaker 1: But in the meantime, just to make sure that there

587
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 1: is you know, if we have a question about long

588
00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 1: distance left, how to keep the spark. It's funny because

589
00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:50,719
Speaker 1: Deval and I maybe because how long have you all

590
00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:56,719
Speaker 1: been dating? Six years? Six years? So no, we've been

591
00:36:56,840 --> 00:37:02,480
Speaker 1: dating for six together in a relation ship for three years, okay,

592
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 1: distance from have three years? Okay, because it's funny being

593
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:06,839
Speaker 1: is though we've been together for so long, it's been

594
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 1: seventeen years together. Distance actually helps us a bit, I

595
00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:14,839
Speaker 1: think too, because we work together a lot. We're here

596
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:17,640
Speaker 1: doing a show together, Um, a lot of our time

597
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 1: is spent together. So for us, the distance actually helps

598
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:24,320
Speaker 1: a bit because it gives us a bit of a spark,

599
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:27,040
Speaker 1: that um feeling of missing each other that I feel

600
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:29,680
Speaker 1: like we're missing sometimes because we're always in each other's face.

601
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 1: And also to devalinized struggle with the seeing each other

602
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 1: but not really seeing each other, meaning that we'll pass

603
00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:41,239
Speaker 1: each other, you know, several times during the day, but

604
00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 1: not really taking the chance to absorb the moment and

605
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:47,560
Speaker 1: really just connect um. So that's something that we've been

606
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:50,319
Speaker 1: struggling with for a little bit recently because we've been

607
00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:53,399
Speaker 1: working together so much more. But we've tried to now

608
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 1: make conscious efforts to say, Okay, we need to take

609
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:58,799
Speaker 1: time throughout the day to really just connect and to

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00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:01,720
Speaker 1: be and to exist in that moment because you're always moving,

611
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 1: so that little bit of distance the other day, like

612
00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:06,880
Speaker 1: when I was in a Ruba, Let's hope nobody was

613
00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:10,480
Speaker 1: recording my face times, y'all got FaceTime. You want to

614
00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 1: keep the spark FaceTime each other. That's it, faced on

615
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:16,799
Speaker 1: each other, enjoy each other's company. Whenever you have time,

616
00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 1: and save your money, get on the flight, go see

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00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:20,439
Speaker 1: you man. How often are you able to see each other?

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00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 1: Usually every two months, so I'm back and forth every

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00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:32,399
Speaker 1: two months. It's got that, okay the relationship. Somebody over

620
00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:41,319
Speaker 1: there that this be the problem I have sometimes, Right,

621
00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 1: this young lady over here said, why did I say

622
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,239
Speaker 1: tell him her to get on the flight, Tell him

623
00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:53,359
Speaker 1: to get the flight? One person? Didn't I say they

624
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:58,719
Speaker 1: could get on the flight. Faced on each other. I

625
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:03,080
Speaker 1: just everyone in the tape. We gotta rewind the tape.

626
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:05,280
Speaker 1: The value definitely told her to get on the flight.

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00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:09,759
Speaker 1: So listen, face time him right now, tell him to

628
00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:11,480
Speaker 1: talk to me, and I'll tell him to get on

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00:39:11,520 --> 00:39:13,759
Speaker 1: the flight. So I can make all the women here

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Speaker 1: feel better because he's not here. We can be telling

631
00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:20,320
Speaker 1: you to get on the flight was actually bad advice,

632
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:23,759
Speaker 1: and just a disclaimer for everybody who's saying this is

633
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:26,839
Speaker 1: bad news. He is pursuing his graduate's degree and were

634
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:38,040
Speaker 1: graduating in Julie. That's why I love that I love well.

635
00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:40,840
Speaker 1: Isn't that a turn on in itself? Just knowing that

636
00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:43,280
Speaker 1: he's out there chasing his dreams and making himself happy

637
00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 1: so he can be a whole individual coming back to you, girl.

638
00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:51,120
Speaker 1: When he does, you see l a a clapping up

639
00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:55,880
Speaker 1: for him. But this is the truth for long distance

640
00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:59,799
Speaker 1: relationships though. If you find you, people find time for

641
00:39:59,840 --> 00:40:02,640
Speaker 1: this if that's important for them. If he want to

642
00:40:02,640 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 1: be with you, he's gonna find time to face time you.

643
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:06,759
Speaker 1: When he got free time, he's gonna get on the flight,

644
00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:08,319
Speaker 1: and you're gonna get on the flight. That's just the

645
00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:10,839
Speaker 1: bottom line. If y'all really want to be together. There

646
00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:14,239
Speaker 1: will be no excuses because we found every every way

647
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:16,879
Speaker 1: to be around each other. Sure did. Even times where

648
00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:18,440
Speaker 1: we don't want to be around each other, we'll still

649
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:22,560
Speaker 1: find a way to pop up. Did that be showing up? Surprised?

650
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:24,759
Speaker 1: You didn't show up in the rub? But you don't

651
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:29,759
Speaker 1: know if I was there not? Did you? And I

652
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:33,839
Speaker 1: was all my best behavior? You was? I was watching too.

653
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:39,680
Speaker 1: Next question? Anybody else in the audience have questions? Oh?

654
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:45,040
Speaker 1: You do? You're right? She likes to hear if a

655
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:47,920
Speaker 1: guy has a question before because there's a lot of

656
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 1: women to ask questions and the men don't ask questions.

657
00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:53,960
Speaker 1: Do we have some guys who want to ask the questions? Oh?

658
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:57,239
Speaker 1: Everybody shining the light on him? Shine the light on him?

659
00:40:57,360 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 1: Back there? Who got the question? I turned his back? Naa,

660
00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:10,080
Speaker 1: you gotta come up? You're were you at? Come on upright?

661
00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:14,640
Speaker 1: You want you on deck? You know you? Hi? Hi? Hello,

662
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:18,760
Speaker 1: your name Lisa. I'm from Queens. Hi, Lisa from Queens.

663
00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:25,600
Speaker 1: From Queen Queen's I go hold up again, I'm in Brooklyn.

664
00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:28,279
Speaker 1: So you don't venture off to Queens often, but when

665
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:31,279
Speaker 1: we do, I get it. Okay, good, good, good. All right.

666
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:34,760
Speaker 1: So my boyfriend and I have been dating for five years.

667
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 1: Right now, we're talking about getting engaged. We're saving for

668
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:42,279
Speaker 1: our wedding. Um, and I grew up in a Jamaican household,

669
00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:51,600
Speaker 1: So any other yacht he's up in here tonight? Can

670
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:54,799
Speaker 1: I get like a horn or something? The Jamaican's up

671
00:41:54,800 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 1: in here? Sorry, yad is link up? All right? Growing

672
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:03,319
Speaker 1: up in a Jamaican household, what that meant was I

673
00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:06,560
Speaker 1: had a lot of responsibilities around deals, like a lot

674
00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:10,560
Speaker 1: of cleaning up after my brother's after my parents. My

675
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:13,880
Speaker 1: parents have six kids, three girls, three boys. But I'm

676
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 1: like the middle. But I'm somewhere in the middle. You

677
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:19,399
Speaker 1: said you wanna catch I have faithan y'all. The girl

678
00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 1: is coming three, he's coming three, Okay. So my question is,

679
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:30,040
Speaker 1: all right, two Jamaicans, yes day late five years. So

680
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:33,799
Speaker 1: when we get married, I'm wondering, how did you guys

681
00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 1: split the chortes when you guys got married? Like, because

682
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:42,520
Speaker 1: I have been doing this for twenty four years and

683
00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:47,719
Speaker 1: I'm tired. I am tired, So who are you doing what?

684
00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:49,200
Speaker 1: I don't even know. I don't even know why that

685
00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:52,040
Speaker 1: it's about to be a fight. I'm not going to

686
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:59,359
Speaker 1: who sent her to start this argument because they don't

687
00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:03,360
Speaker 1: know what it's you is? Okay, go ahead, go ahead.

688
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:10,160
Speaker 1: So that's idea of doing chores. All right, she's gonna

689
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:18,160
Speaker 1: go ahead, go ahead. I should have want my man's

690
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:31,200
Speaker 1: in the bag? You picked her? I only saying go ahead?

691
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:34,239
Speaker 1: So did that? I don't know what the chore is,

692
00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:40,480
Speaker 1: Okay do that's idea of partaking in chores. It's hiring help.

693
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 1: Am I right? Or am I right? So pretty much

694
00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:46,239
Speaker 1: she's just like, well, this is some ship that I'm

695
00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:48,279
Speaker 1: not trying to do, so I just you know what,

696
00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:51,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just get you some help. So do that.

697
00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:57,319
Speaker 1: Rather he rather clock the quality of toilet paper that

698
00:43:57,360 --> 00:43:58,720
Speaker 1: I buy in the house. He'll be like, you always

699
00:43:58,719 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 1: spending morning money when it's spending ass toilet paper up?

700
00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:07,279
Speaker 1: That cuts into his budget for someone to come and

701
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:12,839
Speaker 1: help him. Finished, Please finish, because I'm waiting for my turn.

702
00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:15,919
Speaker 1: Am i? Am I saying that the wrong here? No,

703
00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:20,000
Speaker 1: I'm just waiting for my turn to head. So develop

704
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:23,040
Speaker 1: will rather me buy cheapass toilet paper so that he

705
00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:26,080
Speaker 1: can have a budget to put in for someone to

706
00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:29,239
Speaker 1: help him with his chores. Or he just delegates to

707
00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:31,719
Speaker 1: the kids. Can y'all imagine Cairo and Cash trying to

708
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:40,479
Speaker 1: team together and mop the floor. It's go ahead, go ahead,

709
00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:41,840
Speaker 1: because you did all that. Get ahead. I want to

710
00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:45,400
Speaker 1: hear what you gotta stay now because I'm entertained. I'm entertained.

711
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 1: Go ahead. This is the beef we have with chores, right,

712
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:56,280
Speaker 1: and it starts with this whole idea about men versus women. Okay,

713
00:44:57,120 --> 00:45:00,520
Speaker 1: Codeine in a heartbeat will be like, you're a man,

714
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:04,279
Speaker 1: You're supposed to take out the trash. You're a man,

715
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:08,759
Speaker 1: you're supposed to pump the gas. Codeine hasn't opened the

716
00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 1: door in seventeen years. She would walk to the door

717
00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:21,320
Speaker 1: and go like this, like the oscar that I am.

718
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:27,960
Speaker 1: Clap claps, but asked me who set me that way? Though?

719
00:45:28,080 --> 00:45:33,680
Speaker 1: Hold on, come out without talking. When you were talking,

720
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:39,240
Speaker 1: I wasn't talking. I wasn't talking. Oct Because we have company,

721
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:44,240
Speaker 1: I'll sit, thank you. Ahead. So now I accept those

722
00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 1: things right because as a man, I want to be

723
00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:49,560
Speaker 1: the leader of my house. I'm willing to do all

724
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:52,640
Speaker 1: the things a man is supposed to do. For example,

725
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:55,800
Speaker 1: if I'm made ten dollars, nine of it goes to

726
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 1: my household first, to make sure that my wife and

727
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:05,560
Speaker 1: my kids take care of Yes, and two thousand nineteen.

728
00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:09,160
Speaker 1: She'll accept all of that. But if I say, you're

729
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 1: a woman, you should cook, this ain't nineteen boom. You

730
00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:23,840
Speaker 1: can't have it both ways. You can't expect nineteen fifties chivalry,

731
00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:27,759
Speaker 1: but get two thousand nineteen morals as a man. So

732
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:30,919
Speaker 1: we have a problem. I don't mind. I don't mind. Listen.

733
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:32,960
Speaker 1: This is how crazy it gets in our house. This

734
00:46:33,040 --> 00:46:36,800
Speaker 1: is the truth I make. I make very good money,

735
00:46:36,960 --> 00:46:41,719
Speaker 1: my wife makes very good money. My bills. Pay all

736
00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:45,239
Speaker 1: the bills first, because as a man, it is my

737
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:48,080
Speaker 1: responsibility to take care of my home. All of the

738
00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:52,439
Speaker 1: women when I say that, say yes. But then when

739
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:55,319
Speaker 1: I say, as my wife, I would like a hot

740
00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:56,959
Speaker 1: meal when I come home, and I like the house

741
00:46:57,000 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 1: to be clean that I pay for, all the women

742
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:22,920
Speaker 1: go why are you so old school? And my response

743
00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:29,240
Speaker 1: to that is go ahead, go ahead, go ahead, think

744
00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:31,839
Speaker 1: Come here, says tell him what that is. Come tell

745
00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:34,080
Speaker 1: him about the choice and what I had to deal with.

746
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:36,960
Speaker 1: You have to have three home boys, three home boys

747
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:48,120
Speaker 1: and gentlemen, and gentlemen, why do you think there's uber

748
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:54,239
Speaker 1: eats now, duh, gentlemen, gentlemen, is set up for us

749
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:58,200
Speaker 1: to fail. Gentlemen, we can't win. You want to know why,

750
00:47:58,360 --> 00:48:02,279
Speaker 1: because at the end of the day, on the smash,

751
00:48:02,360 --> 00:48:04,560
Speaker 1: so you know what I'm gonna do, I'm gonna say,

752
00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:09,080
Speaker 1: you know what, baby, you got it. I'm gonna put

753
00:48:09,080 --> 00:48:13,440
Speaker 1: my shades on and I'm gonna say Divide is in

754
00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 1: the building and I'm gonna take out the trash. It depends.

755
00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:21,360
Speaker 1: It depends on who I'm dealing with on the day. Listen,

756
00:48:21,560 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 1: this is amazing. Let me start playing around. The truth

757
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:31,319
Speaker 1: is there is no single one answer. There isn't. We

758
00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:35,439
Speaker 1: argue about this and debate about this every single day,

759
00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:38,919
Speaker 1: and the bottom line is it depends on who got

760
00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:42,440
Speaker 1: the worst day. The other one gonna do the motherfucking shorts.

761
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:50,759
Speaker 1: Because because when I was filming, she was in Atlanta. No,

762
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 1: she was in New York, flying us from New York

763
00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:57,520
Speaker 1: to l A, moving all the boys and me without

764
00:48:57,560 --> 00:49:00,160
Speaker 1: my help. There was a point where the move has

765
00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:01,880
Speaker 1: got there three days early. She had to hop on

766
00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:04,520
Speaker 1: the flight, get there, help them move the stuff in

767
00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:08,040
Speaker 1: the house, stay there with no beds, then fly back

768
00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:11,280
Speaker 1: to make sure that Jackson and kyro Kaz were safe. Meanwhile,

769
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:17,839
Speaker 1: he was caring in her bedroom. I was filming and sweatpants.

770
00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:22,480
Speaker 1: When I did not give him permission, it was set.

771
00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:25,640
Speaker 1: So the bottom line was when I came back home

772
00:49:25,640 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 1: that day, I knew how stressed she was. There was

773
00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:31,319
Speaker 1: dishes in the sink. I washed the dishes. I come home.

774
00:49:31,800 --> 00:49:36,080
Speaker 1: She tired. Fool gotta be made. I grew. I grew

775
00:49:36,200 --> 00:49:38,160
Speaker 1: like I don't I don't mind. I'm not gonna stand

776
00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:42,319
Speaker 1: over a stove or oven season the meat and I'm

777
00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 1: gonna throw that ship on the grill. The boys gonna

778
00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:47,160
Speaker 1: eat this with some beans, and I'm make some rice.

779
00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:49,799
Speaker 1: And if we don't got no rice, I'm gonna get

780
00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:54,880
Speaker 1: some rice crispies. You're gonna have this serious. That's just

781
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:57,360
Speaker 1: the way it works. The old school way of guys

782
00:49:57,400 --> 00:49:59,759
Speaker 1: having this and girls having this don't work in two

783
00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:03,279
Speaker 1: thous in nineteen and I just proved that because I

784
00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:05,320
Speaker 1: was right in my point, but she was right in

785
00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:08,399
Speaker 1: her point. And when you're both right, that means nobody's wrong.

786
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:11,000
Speaker 1: You've got to find a balance. There you go, you

787
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 1: do what works. Can you believe? We blew through like

788
00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:17,319
Speaker 1: an hour and change already. Did you have a good

789
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:21,439
Speaker 1: time tonight? All right? Last question, real quick, brother, because

790
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:27,280
Speaker 1: had a question? Was he back? Here? Was he here?

791
00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:31,279
Speaker 1: And from East New York? We went to school in

792
00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:39,040
Speaker 1: East New York. So my thing is trade with school,

793
00:50:39,440 --> 00:50:42,880
Speaker 1: trade with the school. All right. So my thing is

794
00:50:42,920 --> 00:50:45,440
Speaker 1: as a man, like when do you know or like,

795
00:50:45,600 --> 00:50:48,600
Speaker 1: do you feel like it's that time to propose? If

796
00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:51,120
Speaker 1: you get in, I guess kind of sort of feelings

797
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:53,160
Speaker 1: of apprehension and the saying, God, do you have a

798
00:50:53,200 --> 00:51:03,040
Speaker 1: girl here? Look up smiling? Is she blushing out? Because

799
00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:04,680
Speaker 1: the real talk, no cap if I had to ring

800
00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:10,080
Speaker 1: me right now, I'm proposed to like that you're low key?

801
00:51:10,280 --> 00:51:12,240
Speaker 1: I was like, it would be really dope if somebody

802
00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:14,920
Speaker 1: proposed that our show, because you know, I'll be the

803
00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:19,440
Speaker 1: flammer girl jump in all that. Because as far that's

804
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:21,120
Speaker 1: how how as far as choices goes like, I've made

805
00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:25,040
Speaker 1: my choice like it is what it is. Yeah, So

806
00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:28,040
Speaker 1: as as I like I don't want to, I guess

807
00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:30,000
Speaker 1: to give up that pressure like that that pressure like

808
00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:32,400
Speaker 1: it's not pressure, bro, it's not pressure. This is the

809
00:51:32,440 --> 00:51:36,480
Speaker 1: bottom line. People ask me all the time, what what

810
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:39,560
Speaker 1: prayer did couldin say to make you want to be monogamous.

811
00:51:39,800 --> 00:51:42,840
Speaker 1: They say it all the time. The ship sounds crazy,

812
00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:46,840
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna be honest, it wasn't a prayer that

813
00:51:46,920 --> 00:51:49,360
Speaker 1: coulde made. I made a choice to want to be

814
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:52,360
Speaker 1: monogamous for myself, and then I chose to share my

815
00:51:52,440 --> 00:51:56,359
Speaker 1: monogamy with codeine. If you ever in your life, make

816
00:51:56,400 --> 00:51:58,920
Speaker 1: a decision to do something for somebody else, every time

817
00:51:58,960 --> 00:52:00,799
Speaker 1: they feel short of what you want to need, your

818
00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:03,719
Speaker 1: feeling need to go do something else. So for me,

819
00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:06,080
Speaker 1: it's easy to be monogamous because I want to be

820
00:52:06,160 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 1: monogamous for myself. For me, monogamy work for me because

821
00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:10,719
Speaker 1: it made me a better person. I'm able to do

822
00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:12,279
Speaker 1: the things that I can do out here in the

823
00:52:12,320 --> 00:52:14,800
Speaker 1: world because my focus is on one person, one family,

824
00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:17,600
Speaker 1: one life. You know what I'm saying, So there's no

825
00:52:17,680 --> 00:52:20,120
Speaker 1: distraction that can come to deter me from that. It

826
00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:22,720
Speaker 1: doesn't matter how many times we have sex, don't have sex,

827
00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:25,280
Speaker 1: have sex, we like, don't have It doesn't matter because

828
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:27,560
Speaker 1: monogamy for me is gonna make me be a better man.

829
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:30,480
Speaker 1: If you found that in yourself, then you know what

830
00:52:30,520 --> 00:52:37,160
Speaker 1: you gotta do. You see what I'm saying. Period, I

831
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:41,200
Speaker 1: love it. I love it. If you picked out a

832
00:52:41,320 --> 00:52:45,440
Speaker 1: ring style that you liked already it don't it just

833
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:48,680
Speaker 1: to put it on your bad drop on your phone,

834
00:52:49,719 --> 00:52:52,600
Speaker 1: change the wall paper on your laptop. She did that

835
00:52:52,640 --> 00:53:01,640
Speaker 1: to me. She believe in the universe. Putting out subliminal messages,

836
00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:05,920
Speaker 1: you know, and you'll get the drift. I am mad

837
00:53:05,920 --> 00:53:07,319
Speaker 1: at it. You know what you want to get, you

838
00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:10,239
Speaker 1: what you want to give ship. I love you, I

839
00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:13,240
Speaker 1: love you. You just gotta drop it, all right, maybe

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Speaker 1: for the road. We love you guys so much. Our

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00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:25,319
Speaker 1: live show. If a couple comes out, couples come out,

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00:53:25,719 --> 00:53:29,680
Speaker 1: can either be a great night of like for play

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Speaker 1: almost like yeah, I'm going to sit next to my

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Speaker 1: baby and We're gonna stroke each other and we listen

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Speaker 1: to the show. Or can insight arguments after for discussions.

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Speaker 1: I should say, I'm hoping it's thesis for the women

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Speaker 1: has always arguments. Don't even don't even don't even be like,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to argue. I'm like, I'm just discussing,

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Speaker 1: right what you mean? Don't do that we you did

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Speaker 1: that last night, but don't make it a man and

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00:53:52,760 --> 00:53:54,920
Speaker 1: woman things you did that. You did that last night.

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Speaker 1: You're a woman, I'll take responsibility for what I did. Why,

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Speaker 1: you know, there's some men out there. We're just like,

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00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:02,040
Speaker 1: we'll see what development or what you said. You just

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00:54:02,080 --> 00:54:09,880
Speaker 1: never know listening after what you say. I hope everybody

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Speaker 1: went home. I had amazing sex that night. That's great,

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Speaker 1: that's great. You're really looking out you just what's your

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00:54:16,840 --> 00:54:20,680
Speaker 1: moment of truth, babe? Well, this is my moment of truth.

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00:54:20,719 --> 00:54:25,000
Speaker 1: Going through this entire process taught me a couple of things, right.

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Speaker 1: The first thing it showed me was that we as

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00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:33,440
Speaker 1: people have to learn how to flow in the universe. Right.

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00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:36,000
Speaker 1: We had a plan. We had a plan for the podcast,

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00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:38,360
Speaker 1: We had a whole script. We knew exactly what was

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Speaker 1: going to do. Everything was broken down by time and slots.

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Speaker 1: And then because there were not many single men, we

866
00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 1: had to chuck the whole thing and figure it out. Right,

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Speaker 1: So I learned. And it's an old parable by Bruce

868
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Speaker 1: Lee that says people need to learn to be like water.

869
00:54:51,680 --> 00:54:54,920
Speaker 1: Water can flow, right, but water can also crash. So

870
00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:56,640
Speaker 1: you can be strong like water and crash, but you

871
00:54:56,680 --> 00:54:59,240
Speaker 1: can also flow and you can turn into different things.

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00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:01,239
Speaker 1: And when I think about what you and I did

873
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Speaker 1: during the podcast, the live podcast and having to adjust

874
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:09,160
Speaker 1: on the fly in front of a live audience and

875
00:55:09,160 --> 00:55:12,160
Speaker 1: able to make it be seamless and not have anyone

876
00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:16,480
Speaker 1: in the audience realized that we jumped off script. Showed

877
00:55:16,560 --> 00:55:21,319
Speaker 1: me that that is a microcosm of our marriage. It

878
00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:24,440
Speaker 1: is think about it. Think about marriage, right. You go

879
00:55:24,520 --> 00:55:28,520
Speaker 1: through things in the daytime and there's ebbs and flows,

880
00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:31,799
Speaker 1: there's highs and lows, and you still got to walk

881
00:55:31,800 --> 00:55:33,200
Speaker 1: out in the universe and you have to put up

882
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:35,319
Speaker 1: a unified front to let people know that you're still

883
00:55:35,360 --> 00:55:38,319
Speaker 1: doing good. For sure, as a married couple, we do

884
00:55:38,400 --> 00:55:43,600
Speaker 1: that every single day. But to actually see it happen

885
00:55:44,680 --> 00:55:47,239
Speaker 1: in the course of a production and do it. We

886
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:52,160
Speaker 1: had no que cards. I just jump off do one thing, boom,

887
00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:53,840
Speaker 1: you jump off, do another thing, and we just go

888
00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:56,759
Speaker 1: back and forth everyone. That was just a great show.

889
00:55:57,160 --> 00:55:59,560
Speaker 1: That that just shows me why we work so well

890
00:55:59,600 --> 00:56:02,000
Speaker 1: as a matter a couple, because we're good partners. Yes,

891
00:56:02,160 --> 00:56:09,080
Speaker 1: we're really really partners. Were like lovers. We're friends, partners, friends,

892
00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:13,200
Speaker 1: business partners. Sure do best friends, I say best friends,

893
00:56:13,320 --> 00:56:17,480
Speaker 1: best parents for I think it works. So that was

894
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Speaker 1: so good, Babe, Thank you, Who would you come up

895
00:56:19,320 --> 00:56:23,920
Speaker 1: with that? I think it's just years of me off

896
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Speaker 1: on you. I knew you were going to take credit

897
00:56:25,840 --> 00:56:28,360
Speaker 1: for it, So let me go back to this what happens.

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Speaker 1: What I learned is that your wife going to take

899
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Speaker 1: credit for everything you do. Don't start a start. That's

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Speaker 1: the truth. No, it was sure, great thing. Well, what's

901
00:56:39,520 --> 00:56:41,759
Speaker 1: what's your moment of truth? You're going to ask me

902
00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:44,600
Speaker 1: what my moment? I kind of have to But my

903
00:56:44,640 --> 00:56:48,560
Speaker 1: moment of truth is insane because and I knew it

904
00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:51,040
Speaker 1: was my moment of truth because I got so emotional

905
00:56:51,080 --> 00:56:54,240
Speaker 1: in that moment. But for me, there was a physical

906
00:56:54,320 --> 00:56:58,200
Speaker 1: moment of truth, and that was us standing on that

907
00:56:58,280 --> 00:57:02,360
Speaker 1: stage at the end of the Brooklyn Show and feeling

908
00:57:02,400 --> 00:57:05,160
Speaker 1: all of the energy and all of the emotions and

909
00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:08,640
Speaker 1: the positive vibes from the entire audience. That was a

910
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:10,560
Speaker 1: moment of truth for me. That let me know that

911
00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:13,680
Speaker 1: we're on the right track, that what we're doing right

912
00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:18,800
Speaker 1: now is helping so many people, so many individuals, so

913
00:57:18,920 --> 00:57:23,040
Speaker 1: many couples, whether they're married or trying to find their way. Um,

914
00:57:23,080 --> 00:57:26,480
Speaker 1: but we're just helping people by being truthful and sharing,

915
00:57:26,920 --> 00:57:30,080
Speaker 1: you know, our stories, being able to just bring on

916
00:57:30,200 --> 00:57:32,640
Speaker 1: guests who are experts in their fields, because we never

917
00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:35,520
Speaker 1: professed to be experts in any field. We're only experts

918
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Speaker 1: at our relationship. And at times I feel like I

919
00:57:37,400 --> 00:57:41,200
Speaker 1: don't even know you, all right, So that's a rap.

920
00:57:41,400 --> 00:57:45,120
Speaker 1: Season two is coming to an end. Actually the last

921
00:57:45,120 --> 00:57:47,720
Speaker 1: show is next week and then we'll be going on

922
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Speaker 1: a little bit of a hiatus like we get after

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Speaker 1: season one. Y'all. Yes, but we still want to hear

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Speaker 1: holding the kids, dropping the dropping That might be actually

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