1 00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:04,600 Speaker 1: This generation, and I'm really jealous because I can't do it. 2 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:09,520 Speaker 1: They don't smile in photos. What Calm Down with Aaron 3 00:00:09,560 --> 00:00:11,840 Speaker 1: and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. 4 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:19,640 Speaker 2: All right, boo, it's PREGAMEO. 5 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:23,079 Speaker 1: I mean, can we give a little tease in the 6 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 1: big show that we have coming up? We have a 7 00:00:25,040 --> 00:00:28,440 Speaker 1: special guest from Men's USA Hockey that just drops in 8 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:32,200 Speaker 1: on a rooftop with beer in hand, not even. 9 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 3: Forty eight hours after a gold medal was hanging around 10 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 3: his neck, which it wasn't when we just interviewed him. 11 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 4: Because it is a fish spot. Give a tease. If 12 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 4: you watched the hockey game, or if you saw the meme. 13 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:50,519 Speaker 3: And the beauty that was the individual that said I'm 14 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:53,559 Speaker 3: gonna get fucked up tonight, that's your teas. If you know, 15 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:59,160 Speaker 3: you know, you know, so so fun, Go Usa, Go USA. 16 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 1: I think got Jacke Quick for being our booker, you know, Jackly, 17 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:06,760 Speaker 1: thanks Jack. 18 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:10,680 Speaker 4: Jack's what a gal. I'm so excited though, for we'll talk. 19 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 3: We'll give a little recap of some of our favorite 20 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:17,040 Speaker 3: Olympic stuff. Obviously number one on the list, just because 21 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:23,399 Speaker 3: it was yesterday, Men's hocker after forty six years winning 22 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:24,319 Speaker 3: the US gold medal. 23 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 4: But of course the women. 24 00:01:25,640 --> 00:01:28,759 Speaker 3: There was a bunch of amazing athletes that we will 25 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 3: talk about in the Big Show. But right now, let's 26 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 3: answer some pregame questions, shall we? I love it up day, 27 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 3: la blonde? Do you wear a silk bonnet to bed? 28 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 3: I do not, but Aaron and I both sleep on 29 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 3: at least last check silk pillow to avoid the wrinkles. 30 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely do that. I talk about it in the 31 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 2: Big Show. 32 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 1: There is an ad that keeps coming on my algorithm 33 00:01:55,960 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 1: about oiling the serums. Whereas Chrissy would say, serum, their 34 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:04,360 Speaker 1: heads are very big right now with scalp health. There 35 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 1: is this gorgeous, bodacious blonde with this locks like. 36 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 2: V dal sass and locks. I'm gonna scroll and I'm 37 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:14,079 Speaker 2: going to show you. 38 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 1: Because this oiling, she guarantees that my hair will grow 39 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 1: and look like hers by the summer. And I really 40 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 1: want this, but I'm so we're afraid to do it. 41 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:27,519 Speaker 3: Aaron looks for the bodacious blonde. I will say that 42 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:30,800 Speaker 3: was great a silk bonnet. But when I had I 43 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 3: should have when I had some of the weaves that 44 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 3: I had that were rough and tough because hey, here's 45 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 3: a little psa. If you have a weave that has 46 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 3: a net in the back and it's braided and has 47 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:48,119 Speaker 3: a net that I used to have, don't wash it day. Yeah, 48 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 3: she wasn't available for comment. Also, how about her speaking 49 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 3: of love story? Yea a net that in that scene 50 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 3: erin is she's gotten up to speed on the old 51 00:02:57,560 --> 00:02:59,360 Speaker 3: love story of if you guys. 52 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 4: Haven't been watching, tune in. 53 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:03,400 Speaker 3: But anyways, No, we do not wear silk bonnets, but 54 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 3: if it will help our hair, then we will. 55 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 1: So I'm going to be chouraging my house right now. 56 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 1: What's one more thing to bring in? 57 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 2: You know? 58 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:17,120 Speaker 1: Okay, Anonymous, my husband has been a real sad sack 59 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:20,840 Speaker 1: lately because work sacks. But I'm so tired of hearing 60 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 1: the same complaints every day. Any tips on how I 61 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:27,799 Speaker 1: can be support the supportive wife when I'm overhearing when 62 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 1: I'm overhearing about it all the time. First of all, 63 00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 1: you seem great, a real sad sad sack. 64 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 3: I'm just gonna say, she seems like she's right up 65 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 3: our alley. 66 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 4: Well, oh, I'm not really wanted to give advice. 67 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 2: Why don't you? 68 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 1: Because I feel like this may be my husband writing 69 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 1: in not about work, but just about other things I 70 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 1: pitch about. Okay, here's my suggestion, and take this from 71 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 1: someone who now now loves and respects her partner. 72 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 4: Oh so I will say. 73 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 3: This that in moments that are tough for them, they 74 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 3: will remember how you treated them more than when things 75 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 3: were going right for them. So if he's sad because 76 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 3: of his job, or he's sad about how something's going 77 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:17,480 Speaker 3: on like in his life, he will remember the way 78 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:19,200 Speaker 3: that you talk to him and the way that you 79 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 3: try to help him instead of beating him down because 80 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:25,360 Speaker 3: he already feels like crap. Take this opportunity to even 81 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:27,160 Speaker 3: though you want to be like Jesus bro let's get 82 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:28,920 Speaker 3: it together, because I'm very much that way. 83 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 4: Like, Hey, next play mentality. 84 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:33,600 Speaker 3: If you're sad, let me, you know, pick up, pick 85 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 3: yourself up by your own bootstraps and get going. That said, 86 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:40,159 Speaker 3: he's your husband and you're his teammates. 87 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:40,880 Speaker 4: So think of it like this. 88 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 3: Think of it if your girlfriend was going through a 89 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 3: tough time, would you talk to your girlfriend the same 90 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 3: way that you would talk to your husband, And if 91 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:50,720 Speaker 3: you wouldn't, then that's sort of an indication of like, 92 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 3: why do we talk down to the person that we're 93 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 3: supposed to love the most because we can. 94 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:56,919 Speaker 4: That's not a good habit. 95 00:04:57,120 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 3: So in saying that it's that, think about your giving, 96 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 3: not your husband, but like your girlfriend advice on like, hey, 97 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:06,039 Speaker 3: how to get over having a bad job or a 98 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 3: bad situation and come up with like a list of 99 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,280 Speaker 3: like a pros and cons list of like ways that 100 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 3: like reasons why maybe he doesn't like his job and 101 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 3: reasons why he does, and then maybe it's time for 102 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:18,919 Speaker 3: a job change or sort of be open to a 103 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 3: conversation with him about how you can help him, simply 104 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:25,120 Speaker 3: by starting with how is it that I can help 105 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:29,360 Speaker 3: support you through this difficult work time? Instead of trying 106 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 3: to offer just like a straight solution, ask him if 107 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:34,160 Speaker 3: there's a way that you can help him. And if 108 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 3: he's like, I don't know, I'm just in a bad mood, 109 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 3: I'm just what okay, then maybe surprise him, like does 110 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:40,240 Speaker 3: he like when you make him a certain kind of 111 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 3: food or take him on a date or plan something 112 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 3: for him that. 113 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:45,800 Speaker 4: Would lift his spirits? Did you guys get all that? 114 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 4: I don't know? Yeah? 115 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 3: Just being a supportive partner, yeah is important and I'm 116 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 3: giving myself that advice too. 117 00:05:53,200 --> 00:05:53,599 Speaker 2: Me too. 118 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 4: We've got I need a real bit of patience over here. 119 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 4: I know. We got to work on that. How on 120 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 4: our patients. We're kind of both the same way. 121 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:04,360 Speaker 2: It's been a problem for forty seven years. 122 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:06,480 Speaker 3: I know. Okay, you know what, it's something that I 123 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 3: it's very much a weakness of mine. So maybe we 124 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 3: can go to patients classes together. Are though there's something 125 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 3: like that. Sophia Swampson eight thirteen. What do you recommend 126 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 3: doing in high school to prepare to work in your 127 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:25,160 Speaker 3: field one day? Oh, Sophia, Hi, Sophia, Well, Sophia start. 128 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:27,479 Speaker 3: I hope that you have a passion for it, and 129 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:29,760 Speaker 3: I hope that you you don't just want to do 130 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:32,200 Speaker 3: this job because you think it looks cool, Number one, 131 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:35,000 Speaker 3: have a real desire to do it, because, as Aaron 132 00:06:35,040 --> 00:06:37,359 Speaker 3: and I have talked about before, there's going to be 133 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:40,279 Speaker 3: plenty of times where it's not glamorous. There's going to 134 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:44,159 Speaker 3: be plenty of lonely months and years where you're just 135 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 3: not able to attend the birthday party or the wedding 136 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 3: or the different thing that is happening in all your 137 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 3: other friend's life because you have an unorthodox job, but 138 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 3: the job is worth it. And Aaron also, I know 139 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 3: she'd agree with me. Our jobs are such a blessing. 140 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:06,120 Speaker 3: We have always wanted to do this and feel privileged 141 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:07,919 Speaker 3: that we have an opportunity to still do it this 142 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:08,599 Speaker 3: many years later. 143 00:07:08,680 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 4: So Number one, start with the passion. 144 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 3: Number two, just take any opportunity that can't Any internship, 145 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:18,560 Speaker 3: even if it's not directly related to television, just anything 146 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 3: that gets you experienced in the field I think is 147 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 3: really important and connections take advantage of them. I cannot 148 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:30,679 Speaker 3: tell you how many times I will give an email 149 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 3: out to my email, I will get my cell phone, 150 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 3: I will give information and people do not follow up 151 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 3: on it, and I'm like, that's fine, but like you 152 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 3: asked for you asked for my information so I could 153 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 3: help you, and I'm here as a resource and you 154 00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:46,560 Speaker 3: don't follow up, or if I do follow up and 155 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 3: then I don't hear from them again, I'm like, okay. 156 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 3: So I just think that it's important that if somebody 157 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 3: reaches out and extends in hand and says, hey, I'm 158 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 3: here to be whatever you need because you're the same way, 159 00:07:57,600 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 3: follow up on that. 160 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:00,440 Speaker 4: Because there's so many times that people don't. 161 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:04,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, agreed, It's funny. I think in high school 162 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 1: I knew I wanted to do this for a living. 163 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 1: I wasn't thinking what could I do for it. I 164 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 1: was still so into dance and all that kind of stuff. 165 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:15,880 Speaker 1: We didn't really have a class in my school that 166 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 1: would help prepare. I would say, one of the biggest 167 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 1: things is you never know once you crack the door 168 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 1: in this industry doing what do you recommend in high 169 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 1: school to prepare for work in your field? Okay, and 170 00:08:31,400 --> 00:08:33,680 Speaker 1: making sure they want to be a broadcaster. You never 171 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 1: know when you get an opportunity in this industry what 172 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:38,960 Speaker 1: sport it will be. I mean, mine was hockey, and 173 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 1: all I cared about was college football at the time. 174 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:43,160 Speaker 1: And I remember my dad saying to me, there's more 175 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 1: to life than the Florida Gators. You need to open 176 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:49,400 Speaker 1: a newspaper and start reading about other sports, and then 177 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:51,560 Speaker 1: you know, lo and behold. I got a job with 178 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 1: the Tampa Bay Lightning and I didn't know crap about hockey, 179 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 1: so I had to do a ton of cramming. I 180 00:08:56,400 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 1: would start now with streaming, now with what the internet. 181 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:02,440 Speaker 1: That wasn't the case when I was in high school 182 00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:06,840 Speaker 1: or college start reading. The Athletic is such a great 183 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 1: website to look. 184 00:09:08,160 --> 00:09:09,200 Speaker 2: They have so many. 185 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:14,400 Speaker 1: Great writers, great long form pieces to kind of, you know, 186 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 1: look out with all the sports and then with streaming services. 187 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:19,800 Speaker 2: I mean there's so many different docs that are out. 188 00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:22,720 Speaker 1: The Jerry Jones doc that's out, There's you know, ones 189 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 1: in the NBA. There's like with anything, you know, skiing, 190 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 1: for God's sakes, I would just try to see what, 191 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 1: first of all, what interests you. Maybe is there a 192 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:34,800 Speaker 1: certain sport that interests you? Is there a certain I 193 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:37,720 Speaker 1: don't know side of the camera that interests you. There's 194 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:40,600 Speaker 1: so many resources out there to read and watch. I 195 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 1: would start there. M h. 196 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 4: I could go I could go on and on about this. 197 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 3: One last thing too, I think is really important that 198 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 3: people do that is it's free and nobody one person 199 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:54,840 Speaker 3: told me to do this, and it was like probably 200 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 3: one of the best piece of advices I've ever gotten 201 00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:57,319 Speaker 3: where I can. 202 00:09:57,960 --> 00:09:59,640 Speaker 4: I'd like to think read a teleprompter. 203 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 3: Do you read out loud loud when you're looking at 204 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:07,920 Speaker 3: the newspaper reading the athletic article, don't read it to yourself, 205 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 3: read it out loud because you'll best. 206 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 4: I mean help. 207 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:12,719 Speaker 3: Even sometimes when I'm like reading the questions out loud, 208 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:15,440 Speaker 3: I'm like, geez, can I read. The more you read 209 00:10:15,559 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 3: out loud, the easier it is for you to even. 210 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:21,560 Speaker 4: Speak, to do your stand up, to read off, forget 211 00:10:21,559 --> 00:10:24,319 Speaker 4: a teleprompter, even just speak. The more you do it, 212 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:25,560 Speaker 4: the easier it is. 213 00:10:25,679 --> 00:10:29,200 Speaker 1: So I remember Kirkurbstreet telling me when he had to 214 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:31,960 Speaker 1: host I think a certain show for as many hours 215 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 1: on radio, he said that helped him become very, very 216 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:37,199 Speaker 1: comfortable with speaking on television. 217 00:10:37,760 --> 00:10:39,560 Speaker 2: So that could be another day. 218 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 1: I don't know if there's this station to volunteer at 219 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 1: a student station at your high school. High schools are 220 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:47,280 Speaker 1: so much more advanced in terms of programs that they 221 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:50,200 Speaker 1: offer now, so maybe look into something like that. 222 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 3: That's true, Sophia, did you get all that, by the way, 223 00:10:52,600 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 3: and help, we're here, resources, we are here, Anonymous? 224 00:11:04,800 --> 00:11:05,080 Speaker 4: Is it me? 225 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:05,280 Speaker 1: Meme? 226 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:05,560 Speaker 4: Were you? 227 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:09,160 Speaker 2: It is me, but it's for you if you want 228 00:11:09,160 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 2: to read it. 229 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 4: Anonymous. 230 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 3: Did Carissa have challenges finding a partner who also didn't 231 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:16,959 Speaker 3: want kids? Anonymous? What a fantastic question. I've never been 232 00:11:16,960 --> 00:11:19,360 Speaker 3: asked this question before, and now that I read it 233 00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:23,840 Speaker 3: out loud, I hadn't thought about that. I think for 234 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:27,040 Speaker 3: me it was a non negotiable. So it would be 235 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:30,440 Speaker 3: something like, for example, if I was Jewish and I 236 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:33,400 Speaker 3: wanted to marry somebody who was Jewish, it wouldn't even 237 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:35,960 Speaker 3: be I couldn't marry someone who's Catholic. Then it was 238 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 3: a non negotiable. If I said to Steve very early 239 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:40,880 Speaker 3: on in the relationship. 240 00:11:41,200 --> 00:11:42,160 Speaker 4: I said do you want kids? 241 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:45,200 Speaker 3: Just and he was like, I don't know, I don't 242 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:46,719 Speaker 3: think so why And I was like, well, why do 243 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:47,280 Speaker 3: you say that? 244 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:49,480 Speaker 4: And then he always has this line that still sticks 245 00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:49,720 Speaker 4: with me. 246 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:52,200 Speaker 3: He goes, I got rich friends and I got poor friends, 247 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:54,040 Speaker 3: and you know what, they all complained about their kids. 248 00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:56,720 Speaker 3: And I started laughing and I was like, oh okay, 249 00:11:57,000 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 3: and he was like, yeah, I always thought i'd have 250 00:11:58,480 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 3: kids one day. He's like, but it's not something that 251 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 3: if I don't have them, I'm not going to be 252 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 3: like upset. So it was discussed very early on. It 253 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:10,400 Speaker 3: was not up for debate, and that's totally fine. And 254 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:13,520 Speaker 3: I probably would have stopped right then and they're hanging 255 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:14,960 Speaker 3: out with Steve if he was like, no, I really 256 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:18,960 Speaker 3: want kids, because that wouldn't have been fair to him, Yeah, 257 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:21,559 Speaker 3: it just was something. So I think depending on your 258 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 3: situation or if I'm not sure if you're just asking 259 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 3: out of curiosity for my life, or if it's something 260 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:30,559 Speaker 3: that you don't want to have kids or you're I 261 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:32,800 Speaker 3: don't know. I don't want to hypothesize based off of 262 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:35,360 Speaker 3: this question, but I think if it's something that you're 263 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:38,640 Speaker 3: thinking about and it's that serious that if you're in 264 00:12:38,679 --> 00:12:41,280 Speaker 3: a relationship or you're even thinking about getting into a relationship, 265 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:44,120 Speaker 3: you definitely need to say that like upfront, to not 266 00:12:44,200 --> 00:12:46,800 Speaker 3: waste your time or waste somebody else's time, because that's 267 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:48,280 Speaker 3: a massive two things. 268 00:12:48,320 --> 00:12:50,559 Speaker 4: And that's again Steve. 269 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:51,920 Speaker 3: Could have walked at any point because I made it 270 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:54,280 Speaker 3: very clear about not getting married and not having kids. 271 00:12:54,280 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 3: Those are two very big decisions that he said he 272 00:12:59,000 --> 00:12:59,480 Speaker 3: was okay with. 273 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:01,320 Speaker 4: So yeah, make sure you just. 274 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:05,439 Speaker 3: Over communicate in the relationship and especially depending on your age, 275 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:06,320 Speaker 3: early and often. 276 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:11,199 Speaker 1: And next, all right, aug Shurm five, what are your 277 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:14,040 Speaker 1: top albums if you could only listen to those for 278 00:13:14,080 --> 00:13:16,600 Speaker 1: the rest of your life. Oh, I got to tell 279 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:18,840 Speaker 1: you because it's got a wide variety of songs on it. 280 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:21,920 Speaker 1: On it the Pretty Woman's soundtrack is fire. 281 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:27,600 Speaker 3: Great good Sam. Oh my god, there's so many on there. 282 00:13:29,800 --> 00:13:33,400 Speaker 3: King of wishful Thinking, King of wishful thinking. Now that 283 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:36,760 Speaker 3: I'm thinking about, all the ones must. 284 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:41,320 Speaker 4: Have been love. But it's all now. I mean, if 285 00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:43,079 Speaker 4: I could have a fold, it would probably be better. 286 00:13:44,040 --> 00:13:48,559 Speaker 3: Number one Life after Death notorious, big double album, grab Waleed. 287 00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:52,199 Speaker 3: I got a story to tell. The ten Crack Commandments. 288 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:53,559 Speaker 3: I mean, I could go on and on about those. 289 00:13:53,640 --> 00:13:55,440 Speaker 3: The double album. Oh my god, I remember when I 290 00:13:55,480 --> 00:13:58,760 Speaker 3: got that and I was like, there's two CDs in here. 291 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:04,320 Speaker 3: So yeah, Life after Death toris b ig Michael Jackson's 292 00:14:04,320 --> 00:14:09,800 Speaker 3: greatest hits. There's I mean, always that I think. I 293 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:12,679 Speaker 3: mean the Eagles, I could listen to Morgan Wallin. 294 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:16,600 Speaker 1: I could listen to nineteen eighty nine, The Dig, nineteen 295 00:14:16,679 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 1: eighty nine, that's definitely, Oh that's yeah, in no particular order. 296 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 4: Definitely nineteen eighty nine. 297 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 2: When anything with Hans Zimmer, here we go. 298 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:30,560 Speaker 3: Actually, you really turned me on to Hans Zimmer. I 299 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:32,720 Speaker 3: used to make fun of you for it, but yeah, 300 00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:37,480 Speaker 3: he's got some real bangers. Yes, yeah, I mean that's 301 00:14:37,480 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 3: a great question. What else is the holiday? 302 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:41,960 Speaker 1: Great? 303 00:14:42,200 --> 00:14:47,360 Speaker 3: Doesn't that doesn't crack the top five. Okay, let's see. 304 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 3: I mean hell Freeze is over the Eagles. I mean 305 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 3: there's but we're going back to country because country is 306 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:54,360 Speaker 3: my number one genre genre. 307 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:56,000 Speaker 4: Then you could. 308 00:14:57,320 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 1: You could even do the Beatles, like I don't know, 309 00:15:02,080 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 1: this girl's cleaning her glasses, I am, it's so foggy. 310 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:10,960 Speaker 4: That's great though, I love it. I love music. 311 00:15:11,040 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 3: I constantly have There's two things that are always on 312 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:14,880 Speaker 3: in my house. 313 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:19,120 Speaker 1: Music and a candle. I always have a candle. Lin 314 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:22,200 Speaker 1: I always wonder where you're gone with it, your mouth. 315 00:15:22,400 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 3: Or my music and my mouth, and my mouth is 316 00:15:24,680 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 3: always gone. That's why I'm losing my voice because I 317 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 3: won't shut the fuck up. But yeah, I love. 318 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:33,120 Speaker 4: Listening to music. I have it on all the time. 319 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 3: I just it's like it puts me. It's it's a mood. 320 00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 3: It's like and I love this and I like all 321 00:15:38,440 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 3: different kinds of genres. So it's really great. Aaron did 322 00:15:43,400 --> 00:15:46,280 Speaker 3: Ellen from Gordon beersh ever forgive you. 323 00:15:46,840 --> 00:15:49,680 Speaker 1: We haven't been back, but we talked about Ellen the 324 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:53,600 Speaker 1: other day. Actually, my good friend Casey Garland shout out 325 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:57,040 Speaker 1: to Casey Garland finally popped the question. She is adorable 326 00:15:57,080 --> 00:16:01,480 Speaker 1: fiance Tyler, congratulations, she's she's great. 327 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:05,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, great. You know what, I realized this is a 328 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:06,440 Speaker 4: couple of things. 329 00:16:06,880 --> 00:16:10,360 Speaker 1: So these these kids, I don't know how old they are, 330 00:16:10,400 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 1: they're young and adorable and really like cool. We went 331 00:16:15,400 --> 00:16:19,520 Speaker 1: to their post engagement like party and it was really 332 00:16:19,560 --> 00:16:23,360 Speaker 1: well done. And and I bring this out because one 333 00:16:23,400 --> 00:16:26,240 Speaker 1: of the items on the menu was a prickly. 334 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:26,800 Speaker 4: Pair of margarita. 335 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:28,840 Speaker 1: And I looked over at Casey and I'm like, where 336 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:31,440 Speaker 1: were we together that you had a prickly pair of margarita? 337 00:16:31,480 --> 00:16:34,960 Speaker 1: And he goes at the Mexican restaurant when Ellen. 338 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:38,480 Speaker 2: Found us, and I was like, oh, yeah, yeah. 339 00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:41,720 Speaker 4: Anyways, okay, those dos just have to be clean. Put 340 00:16:41,720 --> 00:16:41,960 Speaker 4: the back. 341 00:16:42,440 --> 00:16:47,280 Speaker 1: They're still cleaning these classes. Okay, sorry, but this generation. 342 00:16:47,800 --> 00:16:50,840 Speaker 1: And I'm really jealous because I can't do it. They 343 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:56,680 Speaker 1: don't smile in photos. Their photos are no come on, yes, 344 00:16:56,960 --> 00:17:00,440 Speaker 1: it's a thing. And I started look looking at it, 345 00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 1: going huh they look really hot versus me, and every 346 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:04,320 Speaker 1: photo it's. 347 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:09,640 Speaker 3: Like, no, you have a ship. I'm gonna I'm gonna 348 00:17:09,640 --> 00:17:11,320 Speaker 3: stop it. And everybody's there in your tracks. You can 349 00:17:11,359 --> 00:17:13,400 Speaker 3: go back to cleaning your glasses for a second while 350 00:17:13,440 --> 00:17:17,320 Speaker 3: I have the floor, you have the Julia Roberts mega 351 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:19,560 Speaker 3: watt smile. You know, we've talked about this. I've talked 352 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:21,800 Speaker 3: about wanting to get veneers because I want my smile 353 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:24,080 Speaker 3: to be bigger in pictures, because when I stand next 354 00:17:24,119 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 3: to you, it is like she's a dental ad and look. 355 00:17:26,640 --> 00:17:28,240 Speaker 4: I like my teeth. I think I have great. I 356 00:17:28,280 --> 00:17:30,840 Speaker 4: love your teak. I just wish they were a little bigger. 357 00:17:31,320 --> 00:17:34,600 Speaker 3: I'm not getting veneers. I've been okay, what's all relaxed, Chrissa. 358 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 3: One thing at a time. It's just I get it. 359 00:17:37,080 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna get that. But you have the most 360 00:17:39,080 --> 00:17:41,879 Speaker 3: gorgeous smile. It would look silly if you didn't smile 361 00:17:41,960 --> 00:17:43,439 Speaker 3: in a picture. I don't know what the kids are 362 00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:45,440 Speaker 3: doing these days. I don't think kids are doing. 363 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:48,119 Speaker 1: It and they are looking great. It's like, you know 364 00:17:48,200 --> 00:17:50,080 Speaker 1: what it is. It was like the Kim and Kanye 365 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:50,760 Speaker 1: look where they. 366 00:17:51,720 --> 00:17:53,720 Speaker 3: Well, I think it's gonna look silly in years when 367 00:17:53,720 --> 00:17:55,240 Speaker 3: they look back at their photos and they're gonna be like, 368 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:56,359 Speaker 3: what were we pissed off? 369 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:56,560 Speaker 4: Hey? 370 00:17:56,600 --> 00:18:02,240 Speaker 3: Speaking of photos, Steve who's stuck at home with the roofers, 371 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:05,359 Speaker 3: Look what he just sent me. I can't handle this picture. 372 00:18:05,440 --> 00:18:08,280 Speaker 3: Look at Mazie and Willis holding a pause. 373 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:12,680 Speaker 4: Knock it, cuty. Look at Willis's face. He's so happy 374 00:18:12,680 --> 00:18:13,520 Speaker 4: to have a shitter. 375 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:17,919 Speaker 3: He is, he is so happy to have a sister 376 00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:20,159 Speaker 3: because he was really missing Daisy. 377 00:18:20,240 --> 00:18:22,480 Speaker 4: I really miss Daisy. I miss her every single day. 378 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:25,080 Speaker 3: But I just think it's unfair that Willis has spent 379 00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:28,119 Speaker 3: his whole life having a partner, a little partner, and 380 00:18:28,160 --> 00:18:29,240 Speaker 3: now he's got a friend again. 381 00:18:29,440 --> 00:18:33,640 Speaker 4: Macy's face is so funny anyways, But yeah, I'll drop 382 00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:34,439 Speaker 4: it this one. 383 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:38,560 Speaker 1: Well, I will tell you the face and the photo 384 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:41,480 Speaker 1: that is like the number one image right now in 385 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:42,880 Speaker 1: the United States of America. 386 00:18:43,080 --> 00:18:44,280 Speaker 2: Is that little Jack. 387 00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:47,760 Speaker 1: Hughes and his smile, all twenty four years old, of 388 00:18:47,840 --> 00:18:50,720 Speaker 1: himself with that American flag draped around him. 389 00:18:50,760 --> 00:18:52,480 Speaker 2: We talk a lot about that coming up in the 390 00:18:52,520 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 2: Big Show, and. 391 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:58,399 Speaker 1: It has we have very special guest, a gold medalist. 392 00:18:58,560 --> 00:19:00,399 Speaker 3: Say who it is, aronf It's. 393 00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:01,719 Speaker 4: In Trocheck What a dream? 394 00:19:02,040 --> 00:19:03,520 Speaker 2: Joins us from a rooftop. 395 00:19:04,080 --> 00:19:09,280 Speaker 3: Goddamn Usa, Usa, USA, Join us. 396 00:19:09,520 --> 00:19:14,199 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, calm down with Erin and Carissa is a 397 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:15,760 Speaker 1: production of iHeartRadio. 398 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:20,280 Speaker 3: For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, 399 00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:25,560 Speaker 3: or wherever you get your podcasts.